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Speaker 2: Come come on your.

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Speaker 8: Uh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You are listening

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Speaker 8: to the voice? Oh, come on dig me now, one

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Speaker 8: and only Steve Harvey Man got a radio show, borl

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Speaker 8: borl boy. I can't even tell you man. I've been

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Speaker 8: doing some thinking and and one of the things that

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Speaker 8: I wanted to mention today to you as one of

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Speaker 8: the principles of success, being grateful at all times is

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Speaker 8: difficult to do. Being grateful at all times is very

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Speaker 8: difficult to do. I find that to be true with myself.

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Speaker 8: Now there are others that might be able to do it,

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Speaker 8: but just from talking and listening and living and learning,

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Speaker 8: being grateful at all times is difficult to do. But

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Speaker 8: it's not necessary because it's such an act of faith

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Speaker 8: in knowing that no matter what's going on, it's going

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Speaker 8: to be alright, And it's hard to see that when

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Speaker 8: things are not going in your favor, when things have

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Speaker 8: turned so dramatically the other way, and it seems as

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Speaker 8: though you're the only one in the situation where you're

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Speaker 8: involved with other people, or someone got an accusation against

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Speaker 8: you falsely, or somebody trying to do something to you unjustifiably,

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Speaker 8: whatever the case may be. When it's happening to you,

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Speaker 8: it does appear to you that, oh, my goodness, man,

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Speaker 8: this is horribly one sided.

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Speaker 2: So it is difficult.

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Speaker 8: It's hard to do to be grateful at all times,

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Speaker 8: but it's so necessary.

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Speaker 2: And I just want to point out a couple of

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Speaker 8: First of all, the difficulty in being grateful in hard

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Speaker 8: times is that number one, the present circumstances. Oftentimes it's

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Speaker 8: just so pressing and so overwhelming that a lot of

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Speaker 8: you don't It's hard to be grateful. It's hard to

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Speaker 8: be grateful in pain, and I know it is but

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Speaker 8: here is the trick for me. This is what I've

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Speaker 8: had to learn how to do, and I guess it

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Speaker 8: takes practice to get here. It's not nothing you just

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Speaker 8: small increments to really get it. What I've always had

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Speaker 8: to say to myself and what I've learned to say

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Speaker 8: to myself is this is happening to me because God

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Speaker 8: it's some form of tests that I have to pass

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Speaker 8: in order to graduate to the next grade, and that

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Speaker 8: This is happening to me because there's something I need

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Speaker 8: to purge my life, of my body, of my spirit,

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Speaker 8: of something's purging in me. And when you purge something,

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Speaker 8: it's it's painful. You know, It's like a person getting

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Speaker 8: every documentary I've ever watched it it's an agonizing process

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Speaker 8: to go cold turkey, to withdraw, to pull away after

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Speaker 8: that this process is tough when you're going through some pain,

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Speaker 8: But when you're purging your system, when you when when

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Speaker 8: that moment right in there, in realizing that that's what's happening,

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Speaker 8: that's where you find the gratitude.

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Speaker 2: That's where I found the gratitude. I hope I'm.

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Speaker 8: Explaining this correctly. I'm gonna keep trying until I get it.

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Speaker 8: But that's where you find the gratitude. The second part

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Speaker 2: Is that.

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Speaker 8: God has never left me in all the things I've done,

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Speaker 8: a bad person. You know, good people do bad things

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Speaker 8: all the time. I just happened to have come to

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Speaker 8: the realization that unknowingly and not and not with malice

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Speaker 8: cause and effect would be on the other person. So

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Speaker 8: in doing some of these things, I've created situations for myself.

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Speaker 8: But God, through his grace and mercy, has allowed me

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Speaker 8: to even get beyond that. So when I'm saying that God,

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Speaker 8: God has never left me in spite of myself, He's

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Speaker 8: it too. See that no matter what you're going through,

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Speaker 8: you've got to understand that God has always gotten you

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Speaker 8: but guess what, you can't do wrong and not pay

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Speaker 8: for that. Now that that's not how this works. That's

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Speaker 8: never going to be the case. But the great thing

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Speaker 8: about God is he fires warning shots at us all

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Speaker 8: the time. He gives us an opportunity to stop. You know,

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Speaker 8: He don't fully punish us right away every time we

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Speaker 2: Now does it?

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Speaker 8: You know eventually you're going to get caught doing whatever

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Speaker 8: it is you're doing. You do understand that, don't you.

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Speaker 8: But the first time, that close call, that was a

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Speaker 8: warning shot for you to stop. Look, I know you're

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Speaker 8: not perfect. I know we all sinners down here, so

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Speaker 8: I know you're gonna make mistakes. One time, I know

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Speaker 8: you was looking at her when you wasn't supposed to.

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Speaker 8: I know you said something to him when you wasn't

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Speaker 8: I tell you what I'm gonna do. I'm a fire

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Speaker 8: warning shot, and maybe you'll slow your roll this time.

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Speaker 2: But we keep on though. See see, see that's what happens.

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Speaker 8: Keep on and then the next thing, you know, we

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Speaker 8: get caught. Now, Oh Lord, have mercy, I won't out

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Speaker 8: Well see, you done dug this hole pretty deep, and

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Speaker 8: he gonna get you out. But it's some things that's

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Speaker 8: got to go down now because you didn't pay attention

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Speaker 8: to the warning shot. See, had you stopped the first time,

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Speaker 8: but because we don't stop, and we go again.

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Speaker 2: But God always forgives, He always allows us to get

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Speaker 2: back up again. He always gives us a mercy, He

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Speaker 2: always gives us his grace. He always does that.

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Speaker 9: You're listening morning, ladies, gentlemen, boys and girls. Rabbit hunters,

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Speaker 9: squirrel chasers, bird feeders, giraffe watching, zoo attendees, Disney lifetime

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Speaker 9: membership people, reporters, influencer of any kind, sick people here, check, teachers, yay.

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Speaker 2: Wastewadish men, control, truck.

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Speaker 8: Drivers, ober, whoever.

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Speaker 2: You are to need some uplift this morning. We are

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Speaker 2: here for you. We are here for you.

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Speaker 8: And now for those of you that are over eighty

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Speaker 8: years old, here's a little something for you.

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm climbing up on the rough side.

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Speaker 10: All the mountainy day.

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Speaker 2: I'm cloud high man up.

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Speaker 8: Really, Lord, that's a little something for everybody this morning.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Sevevolvet Morning Show.

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Speaker 11: Everybody, get your attitude together, get your gratitude together, get

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Speaker 11: your altitude together. But it starts with gratitude that affects

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Speaker 11: your attitude, that has direct correlation with your altitude.

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Speaker 2: That's what we do in this show stars some very

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Speaker 2: capable people.

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Speaker 8: Shirley Strawberry calling from real Mouth to the South Mississippi,

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Speaker 8: Monica kill Space. They call it Junior and the legend

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Speaker 8: that is Nephew Tommy Junior. Yes, what today's great tale?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Uncle, let me ask you something? Could it be? Now?

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Speaker 2: You know you give your st you be hard on yourself.

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Speaker 2: Do you give yourself enough critic I know a lot

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Speaker 12: Yeah, you know, that's the thing I'm thinking about because

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Speaker 12: I thought about where I'm at today and my birthday

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Speaker 8: I think I should be doing something more. Well, the

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Speaker 8: problem with us is we are always in chase mode

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Speaker 8: and we're not enough in gratitude mode. And I'm guilty

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Speaker 8: of the same thing because I'm extremely hard on myself,

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Speaker 8: and people around me have to tell me all the time,

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Speaker 8: you trip it, you need to slow down, you need

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Speaker 8: to enjoy your life a little bit more because of

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Speaker 8: the work you put in and you've done. But that

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Speaker 8: comes from not enough gratitude. And I'm very guilty of

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Speaker 8: this myself to you because see, we're so busy in

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Speaker 8: the chase game that we fail to realize how much

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Speaker 2: See, you've been chasing, but you also been catching.

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Speaker 8: And when you fail to realize how much you've caught,

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Speaker 8: your focus is on the chase, and then you lose

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Speaker 8: the gratitude of what you've caught. So you as your

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Speaker 8: where I want to be, But can you not also

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 12: Shirts, well, amen, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: You need to go somewhere and sit down. Man, shut up.

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Speaker 8: More, because I all you gotta do is think back

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Speaker 8: when it wasn't going this well? All right, All more

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Speaker 8: gratitude affect your attitude, which is new direct correlation with

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Speaker 8: your altitude. See y'all right, come back from Morning Steve

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Speaker 8: haf mort Show. Right after I got Hirley, don't even

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Speaker 2: A couple of prank phone call.

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Speaker 13: Oh god, you're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, it is time now for the nephew to

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Speaker 1: run that prank back. What you got for us today?

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Speaker 7: Nast jobell spirit, take your time, cat dog, let's go.

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Speaker 5: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach us to Alicia All right,

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Speaker 5: all right, all right. You may not know my boy,

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Speaker 5: but I'm sure you probably know me if you saw me.

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Speaker 5: But I'm I'm brother Greg.

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Speaker 14: At the church. Okay, how you doing.

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Speaker 5: I'm good, I'm good. I'm sorry to disturb your evening.

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Speaker 5: I wanted to reach out to you the uh, you know,

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Speaker 5: the workers at the church.

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Speaker 14: We had a meeting.

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Speaker 5: Uh, a lot of the deacon's and the sisters at

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Speaker 5: the church the have come to uh had a meeting,

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Speaker 6: That's my baby sister.

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Speaker 5: Okay, all right, well now we got a bit of

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Speaker 14: What the.

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Speaker 5: You know what they have agreed upon. I'm just basically

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Speaker 15: Okay, brother Greg, Right, yeah, Brother Greg Grig agree.

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Speaker 7: Uh huh.

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Speaker 5: Your wife is in the choir, right, uh yeah?

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Speaker 14: Yeah.

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Speaker 16: Like then okay, okay, I know, I think I know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, okay, all right, Well like I said, Sister Alicia,

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Speaker 5: and your your sister Melanie, and they're saying she's having

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Speaker 5: and had an affair with having an affair with pastor not. I'm,

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Speaker 15: Okay, So why are y'all calling me about something Melany

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Speaker 5: Like, like I said, the officials had a meeting, and

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Speaker 16: And what they don't wait, wait, wait a minute, now,

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Speaker 1: Now come on, and.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm gonna hear you out.

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Speaker 14: Now you just hear me out.

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Speaker 5: Now. They're saying that this is a Jezebel spirit and

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Speaker 15: Okay, First of all, where are you delivering a message

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Speaker 14: If you have a problem with my sister.

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Speaker 5: Seems like you will be calling my sister.

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Speaker 14: Now we shoe step for people.

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Speaker 5: So why are you calling me about my sister about

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Speaker 16: And now you say, y'all don't want me in the church.

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Speaker 5: Is that what you're saying.

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Speaker 14: For the entire family?

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Speaker 5: So if you got some brothers, sisters, auntie, they won't

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Speaker 16: Wait, wait, wait a minute. Now, you just like I said, now,

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Speaker 14: Calling somebody a Jezebel.

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Speaker 15: What you can't do is call somebody and accuse somebody

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Speaker 17: Talk about somebody a Jezebel and a Jezebel.

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Speaker 14: Now you're being ruth sir.

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Speaker 5: It's a jezabel spirit, is what they were saying.

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Speaker 14: Okay, that's got to be the most asonine, foolish.

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Speaker 3: And that's I have ever heard in my life.

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Speaker 16: Who done that?

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Speaker 8: Who are you to call me?

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Speaker 16: Don't ask me no like that?

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Speaker 12: You call me all like some hoosh who they.

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Speaker 14: Got a Jezabel?

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Speaker 12: Sir?

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Speaker 3: That's how I call somebody.

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Speaker 5: Kids, Come you got a bad mad kid?

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Speaker 2: Does your mama a Jezebel?

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Speaker 5: Still, don't wait, wait a minute, I just did your mama?

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Speaker 14: Does your red lipstick where white? Out of Jezebel's speir,

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Speaker 14: I'm asking you who your ass?

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Speaker 2: That's what's gonna happen.

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Speaker 18: You gonna mess around and.

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Speaker 15: Get your ass whip and get drug through the damn pool,

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Speaker 5: Well, as of right now, the family can't come to

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Speaker 5: the church.

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Speaker 15: You think we want to be around a church that

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Speaker 15: got people cons up asking me, I show, damn.

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Speaker 14: Do I have a Jezabel?

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Speaker 5: But you never answered the question do you have what?

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Speaker 3: I might have?

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Speaker 16: A ring hab fear?

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Speaker 14: Now you know she was a good in the Bible.

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Speaker 18: Now I've remember this day.

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Speaker 8: In church for the last eight year.

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Speaker 14: I don't say plenty of time to this damn church.

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Speaker 3: And if attack the problem with me, do tell fact

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Speaker 3: have a problem with me?

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Speaker 14: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Uh huh.

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Speaker 14: Let me say this.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be before you.

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Speaker 12: Said another damn work.

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Speaker 5: You need to apologize and thinking like you got some

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Speaker 5: just okay, can I say this?

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Speaker 16: Go ahead?

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Speaker 14: Go ahead, I apologize.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I apologize because this is nephew Tommy from the

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Speaker 5: Steve Hallby Morning Show, and you just got pranked by

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Speaker 5: your sister Melanie.

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Speaker 18: I'm gonna kick you'll ass that.

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Speaker 3: Was Melanie ass the dad.

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Speaker 5: I don't know who the lady is in the choir

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Speaker 5: with the red listick of one day. I have no

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Speaker 5: earthly idea, all right, No josephel Spirits, none of that.

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Speaker 12: We all right, maybe maybe your rain half, like I said,

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Speaker 12: because you don't even more than one Bible, she did

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Speaker 12: good work.

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Speaker 14: For the kingdom, because you know I work for the kingdom, I.

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Speaker 5: Said, I have been. I've been a long time now. Wait,

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Speaker 5: oh god, I love church people, I love church peak. Hey,

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Speaker 5: let me ask yourself. What is the baddest radio show

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Speaker 5: with delay? Good morning show?

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Speaker 6: Come on, say what I think? She said, Yeah, yeah, alone.

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Speaker 2: I have been wanting a lone time, long time.

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Speaker 1: Everybody has a past.

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Speaker 15: You know your mama e participant.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: As we do ask the c l O.

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Speaker 15: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show, it is time to

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Speaker 15: ask the c l O Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 5: Steve.

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Speaker 15: This one is from Dana in the bron Dana says,

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Speaker 15: I'm forty two and I just let my mother move

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Speaker 15: in with me, and it's already a problem. She drinks

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Speaker 15: a lot and has had men come by my house

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Speaker 15: all hours of the night to drink with her. One

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Speaker 15: of her visitors was coming out of my guest bathroom

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Speaker 15: the other day and I was still in my nightgown.

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Speaker 15: The guy propositioned me, and I was furious. I told

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Speaker 15: my mother she is not allowed to have men in

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Speaker 15: my home anymore. She said, I can't tell her what

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Speaker 15: to do? Well, how do I respectfully get my mother

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Speaker 15: in line while she's in my home?

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Speaker 2: See? How well you know?

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Speaker 8: See you can't tell her what to do in life,

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Speaker 8: but you can have rules in your house and respect

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Speaker 8: goes both ways.

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Speaker 2: You're old enough. Now, how does she.

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Speaker 13: Say forty two forty two?

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Speaker 2: Who's forty two?

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Speaker 1: The daughter? The daughter's forty forty two and she just

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Speaker 1: let her mom move in.

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Speaker 8: Well, her mama got to go by the rules or else, Mama,

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Speaker 8: where you want to stay? But these men coming to

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Speaker 8: me properly, proposition to me and my own house, that's unacceptable.

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Speaker 2: I can't be in my home and be uncomfortable.

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Speaker 8: You can go out with me and just go meet

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Speaker 8: them at the tavern, because that's what they're out in tavern?

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Speaker 15: Do cavern?

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Speaker 18: At the tavern? Yeah, put a stop to that where

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Speaker 18: tavern always have some niceties.

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Speaker 15: Well, you can tell she's a nice woman because she

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Speaker 15: wants to know how to do it respectfully.

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Speaker 2: While you have to established rules. Yeah, and she can.

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Speaker 8: You can't tell her what to do, but you can

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Speaker 8: you can decide what happens in your house. You can't

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Speaker 8: tell her not to see me, but you can't see

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Speaker 8: them in here though.

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Speaker 2: That's right, right, period? Right, Steve?

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Speaker 15: All right, Uh, you're gonna love this name out of Charlotte.

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Speaker 15: Cold Facts, Henry Cold Facts, straight out of Cleveland, Come on.

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Speaker 1: Here, facts said.

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Speaker 15: My girlfriend and I had a weekend getaway in neighboring city,

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Speaker 15: and my girlfriend made all of the plan.

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Speaker 1: She booked a hotel.

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Speaker 15: When we checked in, the girl at the front desk

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Speaker 15: said welcome back and offered my girlfriend and I a

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Speaker 15: discounted massage because of her loyalty.

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Speaker 1: Point. I'm looking sideways at her all weekend. After that?

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Speaker 15: Do I question her about being a regular at this

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Speaker 15: hotel or do you think it will come out eventually?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Well no, dog, when you meet people, people have histories,

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Speaker 8: that's right. Ain't no need of you dig it up

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Speaker 8: the history? So she been to the hotel before Welcome Back.

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Speaker 8: Maybe she liked the massages down there. Yeah, she could

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Speaker 8: have went down there on girls' weekends. Ain't nothing to say.

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Speaker 8: She was down there with some dudes. So, dog, what

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Speaker 8: you tripping for?

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Speaker 1: Cold facts?

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Speaker 7: Now?

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Speaker 2: You know he wants the facts?

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Speaker 8: Now, These is the cold facts. Everybody had a life

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Speaker 8: fold before they met you, and like you had on too. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: so don't blow a good thing trying to dig up dirt,

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Speaker 8: because whatever you dig up, it ain't really dirt.

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Speaker 2: She didn't know you.

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Speaker 1: I like how you think.

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Speaker 8: No, man, you can't blame nobody for nothing that that

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Speaker 8: didn't have nothing.

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Speaker 1: To do with you, right right right?

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Speaker 2: That wouldn't bother you all weekend, wouldn't.

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Speaker 14: Yeah?

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Speaker 18: Hell yeah, Okay, I like.

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Speaker 1: Are you being a hypocrite right now?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I might have to be sitting in the.

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Speaker 1: Car, That's all it is. She's just like, yeah, I.

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Speaker 8: Mean that's probably all it is, you know. I don't

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Speaker 8: mean look still and crazy?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 15: Moving on a mirror in East Saint Louis says I'm dating.

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a man. This is crazy right here. This

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Speaker 1: one too.

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Speaker 15: I'm dating a man that is married and his wife

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Speaker 15: is a lunatic. She's been knowing about us for a while,

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Speaker 15: so I'm shocked she still cares. I think she needs

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Speaker 15: to take all of her anger out on her husband

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Speaker 15: because he seeks me out, not the other way around.

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Speaker 15: I've had to get a restraining order on her, and

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Speaker 15: I had to put cameras on the front of my

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Speaker 15: to slash my tires once.

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Speaker 1: I've asked her nicely not to bother me.

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Speaker 15: Would I be wrong to beat her ass one good time?

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Speaker 8: I'm surprised she ain't beat your ass one good time. Plus,

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Speaker 8: you the one in the room you're sleeping with this

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Speaker 8: woman's husband you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: He the one that seeks me out. He ain't got

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Speaker 2: to look.

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Speaker 3: Too hall right.

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Speaker 2: You're right, you're responding.

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Speaker 14: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: He seeks me out. You know well? Or well you

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Speaker 2: know you can put a stop to.

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Speaker 8: That, right, he seeks you out becauseless you're wanting to

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Speaker 8: be sought after.

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Speaker 2: Now a woman know about.

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Speaker 8: Y'allsh she might be trying to fight for her husband,

453
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Speaker 8: and yeah, she was one trying to sit your tied.

454
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Speaker 2: That ain't all. Should I beat her for?

455
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Speaker 8: What do you know that the prison time you could

456
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Speaker 8: do for that you sleeping with a woman's husband, and

457
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Speaker 8: now you won't do something to her because she over

458
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Speaker 8: there to get her husband.

459
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Speaker 2: That ain't how that's gonna work in the court of law.

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Speaker 14: What a what?

461
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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, has she asked you leave her husband?

462
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Speaker 1: Loan nicely?

463
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Speaker 2: How to get baby? You asked me nicely? Right?

464
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Speaker 1: All right?

465
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Speaker 15: This is from Johnson and Omaha. Johnson says, my kids

466
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Speaker 15: and I moved to a different city after I divorced

467
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Speaker 15: their mom. I got full custody and I moved so

468
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Speaker 15: I would that I would have my family support raising them.

469
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Speaker 1: My toxic ex wife.

470
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Speaker 15: Has decided to move closer to us, and I don't

471
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Speaker 15: think she's fit enough to have visitation with our children.

472
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Speaker 15: I don't want to say what's wrong with her, but

473
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Speaker 15: she has some bad habits and our children are all

474
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Speaker 15: under ten years old. I can't stop her from moving closer,

475
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Speaker 15: but I can. But can I stop her from seeing

476
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Speaker 15: them at all? Will this impact my kids later?

477
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Speaker 8: I don't know because I'm not aware of the problem,

478
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 8: but I do know that in a divorce, they rarely

479
00:27:20,080 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 8: take a child away from a mother unless she's unfit.

480
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 8: They don't normally do that. Women got DIBs on them kids, man,

481
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 8: and so I don't know what she did that caused

482
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Speaker 8: the court to allow you to have full custody of them.

483
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 8: But if they did that, you can get some You

484
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:43,639
Speaker 8: don't deny them visitation, but you can get supervised visitations.

485
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Speaker 2: That's for show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, Celo, brilliant as usual.

487
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Speaker 13: You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 15: All right, Steve Jay, and you guys are here to

489
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Speaker 15: tell us things that vegans will be saying that the

490
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Speaker 15: fourth of July is coming up.

491
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Speaker 8: So and this is gonna be interesting because three of

492
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Speaker 8: my kids is vegan.

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Speaker 15: Oh okay, so you'll probably hear a lot of this stuff.

494
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Speaker 17: Then, huh do y'all remember when there was never a vegan,

495
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Speaker 17: never new one.

496
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Speaker 6: Yeah, new one.

497
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

498
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Speaker 1: Remember vegetarians, but never straight vegan vegetarians.

499
00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:27,440
Speaker 6: Everybody ate me.

500
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Speaker 17: These are things vegans and vegetarians will be saying at

501
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 17: the fourth of July. Steve, Steve, Steve was talking about it,

502
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Speaker 17: if you knew what the chickens was eating, you wouldn't

503
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Speaker 17: eat chicken.

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know what the damn chicken.

505
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Speaker 9: Is and so I'm just gonna just doing this chicken.

506
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Speaker 8: No, I don't know what they eat, but I know what.

507
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Speaker 8: I'm gonna beat the chicken.

508
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 6: You know so, So you're just gonna eat meat in

509
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Speaker 6: front of me?

510
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 8: Huh, girl, I eat meat in front of you, behind you,

511
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 8: under you, on top of you. I'm talking to my kids.

512
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:13,959
Speaker 8: I was eating meat when I was paying on them.

513
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 8: Damn college tuitions. Your ass ain't gotta pay.

514
00:29:16,960 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: Loans on.

515
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Speaker 6: It's one is that meat?

516
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Speaker 8: I smelled it, Damn show is it ain't going I

517
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 8: can tell you that don't have a smell. Yeah, you

518
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 8: have a grilled to tomato. There is no small You

519
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 8: know why because it don't be long on the damn grill.

520
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 6: You know how long? Meat standing your system A long time.

521
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Speaker 2: And that's why I want it. That's what I put

522
00:29:58,560 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: it in there for.

523
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Speaker 5: One.

524
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Speaker 6: If that's got meat in it, then I can't eat it.

525
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:09,520
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, well what you're gonna eat there? Because everything

526
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,040
Speaker 8: got me in it.

527
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Speaker 2: Greens got meat in it. I got meat in the

528
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 2: damn mac and cheese.

529
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Speaker 7: This year.

530
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Speaker 2: It's meat next to all that damn bread we got.

531
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Speaker 2: We got eat grill meat and the meat meat.

532
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Speaker 8: I got a mouse standing over there in the middle

533
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Speaker 8: of that grass case I run out of.

534
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Speaker 1: Stupid.

535
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Speaker 6: I know, I know you heard. Listen, Steve, who gave

536
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:43,680
Speaker 6: the baby meat?

537
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Speaker 17: Oh yeah, I gave the baby meat.

538
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 2: Who you think gave the baby meat? Look how happy

539
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Speaker 2: the baby look.

540
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Speaker 8: Going over there and taking the meat from the baby.

541
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Speaker 8: Watch the babies start crying. My grandson a slim gill,

542
00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:05,320
Speaker 8: my daughter had a heart attack. He had started crying.

543
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 8: Came right back in that office. I gave him a

544
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Speaker 8: number one.

545
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Speaker 6: I told you I was a vegan, But you got

546
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 6: meat over here?

547
00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 8: Sisly siously, yeah yeah, And it is the fourth of

548
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 8: July in it.

549
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 2: And me ask your question, any of your.

550
00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 8: Vegan friends barbecuing, because it ain't nothing to barbecue?

551
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 2: Why ain't you over there?

552
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 8: Damn?

553
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 6: Why over here?

554
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 5: Lie?

555
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 2: You're trying to smell meat?

556
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 15: Means are sad there?

557
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 17: I said, yeah, very sad. I got another one.

558
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 6: Can we tell these vegan hot dogs?

559
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 2: Not on this grill? On the grill? We put meat

560
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 2: on this grill.

561
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 5: I know.

562
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 8: I bought the kids easy break up and two years

563
00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:11,040
Speaker 8: ago for Christmas, somebody go in the basement and get that.

564
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,760
Speaker 2: And there ain't hot dogs. No, damn boy like this.

565
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Speaker 6: This is the one you ever seen that video. What

566
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Speaker 6: the health?

567
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah, I saw it, Yes, I saw it.

568
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Speaker 2: I was chickens and cows in that video on this grill.

569
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Speaker 6: I was watching it eating meat. Yeah, I saw it.

570
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 6: Exactly what's gonna happen, That's exactly what.

571
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the one that always killed me though. But they

572
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Speaker 1: wanted the greens. But oh you put meat in there

573
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Speaker 1: with the green.

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Speaker 15: Oh no, I can't eat those greens.

575
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Speaker 13: Eat around them.

576
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 2: Who will flee?

577
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Speaker 15: They don't want to meet anywhere near their food.

578
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Speaker 12: I just asked a vegan, just want simple questions.

579
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Speaker 3: What don't you miss, fool? Don't you miss being?

580
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Speaker 15: You miss that? I mean, I'm not mad at their lifestyle,

581
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 15: you know, but a couple of.

582
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Speaker 1: Messed with yeah, don't talk, don't yeah, don't.

583
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Speaker 6: Yeah, and noting where the cooking meat at. That's what you.

584
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Speaker 1: Bring a lunch box.

585
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Speaker 12: I'm just bringing your meal in the container and sit

586
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Speaker 12: over in the con You're gonna be.

587
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 3: This gruntled, but you hear.

588
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: So how much meat are you guys planning to eat?

589
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 16: This?

590
00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 2: Fourth man.

591
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 12: Slab labs bringing my own forking knife.

592
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 2: You got to worry about me.

593
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 6: I stopped again. But I missed chicken so much.

594
00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 1: I really do you're currently a vegan?

595
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Speaker 17: Stopped, Missie, I see it because the chicken is everywhere.

596
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is and and everything. You're right, you don't

597
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: want no pope eyes, Jake.

598
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:12,359
Speaker 2: I do.

599
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Speaker 6: That's what I'm saying. I'm having.

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Speaker 2: I don't understand a fat vegetarian.

601
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Speaker 17: That's oh, I know one, Janet Brown.

602
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 7: I'm not talking about you, jay I, I'm talking about

603
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 7: I just don't know fat vegetarian.

604
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 15: All right, listen, we gotta get out of here. You're

605
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 15: listening morning show. It's time now for a round. And

606
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 15: would you rather would you rather propose in front of

607
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 15: a crowd or would you rather proposed privately?

608
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: Junior said, be privately?

609
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 2: See yeah, I go with She say no in fun

610
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: of the people?

611
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 12: Yeah, gotta fight everybody.

612
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 2: Oh that wait, rain back in my pocket.

613
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 8: All you.

614
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:07,520
Speaker 10: Know.

615
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,120
Speaker 8: I got to get up off my knee and turn around,

616
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 8: figure out where it's the hold in the crowd.

617
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 5: I can run.

618
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 2: I got through them and wash my face.

619
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Speaker 6: And then the crowd is like collectively.

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Speaker 3: Somebody in the crowd damn Steve.

621
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody hit me on the back like they did Rudy.

622
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 2: I probably.

623
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Speaker 5: All right.

624
00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:44,200
Speaker 15: Would you rather use a dating app or would you

625
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,480
Speaker 15: rather go old school and go on a blind day?

626
00:35:48,160 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 5: Yeah?

627
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, because people down there profile pictures.

628
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 3: You ain't who I'd rather just go see it for

629
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:53,520
Speaker 3: myself and then.

630
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Speaker 15: And have someone do an emergency call. If you don't

631
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Speaker 15: like the way they look.

632
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 2: I can walk out the black.

633
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 8: I've actually been on the blind date so bad that

634
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 8: I acted as if I was.

635
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 6: I didn't you do that? You could see and then you.

636
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,239
Speaker 8: Wan Soon as she walked up to the table, I

637
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 8: got him, slapped her chill leg off, and you guys.

638
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 2: Tapped my way right out the day. That didn't happen, thinking.

639
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:36,839
Speaker 3: Soon you saw up she slapped damn as soon as

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Speaker 3: she sat down.

641
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 2: I stood there slapping leg off the start, tapping my

642
00:36:41,920 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: hands right off the table. Egg wasn't long enough. I

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00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 2: had to be over. I said, come, look, praise what

644
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: are you doing?

645
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:53,439
Speaker 5: Huh?

646
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:58,560
Speaker 12: Are you on the way out?

647
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: You didn't touch nothing?

648
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,360
Speaker 12: And on the way because you can see what you

649
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 12: was doing, I kept looking for my dog.

650
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Speaker 1: I don't.

651
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: Crazy, all right, but you alright, don't.

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00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 15: Would you rather compete in the Summer Olympics or would

653
00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 15: you rather compete in a winter Olympic sport?

654
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:35,200
Speaker 2: What the winter sports.

655
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: Ice skating. So I guess that's summer for the both

656
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:50,880
Speaker 1: of you. All right, thank you.

657
00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 15: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

658
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Speaker 15: after this.

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Speaker 13: You're listening hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 15: All right, guys, it is till I'm Steve for comedy Roulette.

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Speaker 1: You ready, Jay, explain it again.

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00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 6: Let me break this down.

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Speaker 17: We have new listeners who don't have any idea what

664
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Speaker 17: we're doing comedy.

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Speaker 6: Very simple.

666
00:38:10,400 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 17: Give us five subjects five anything you want.

667
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 6: Put them on the wheel, spun the wheel?

668
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:17,520
Speaker 2: What else?

669
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Speaker 6: Stop?

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00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 17: Yes, fun Spun it around as in to be spun around,

671
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 17: as in spin. That's totally different, right there, Spun it around, wit. Stop,

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Speaker 17: We'll do the damn thing.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, all right.

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Speaker 15: Number one Things you say to yourself when you're mad

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Speaker 15: at someone like that.

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Speaker 1: Number two, you know it's time to go to the store.

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Speaker 13: When dot Dot did.

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Speaker 15: Number three stuff you don't like to watch, but you

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00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 15: watch it anyway to keep them happy.

680
00:38:50,000 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 19: We all know about that whatever number or number four.

681
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: You know she's not coming back.

682
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:08,800
Speaker 15: When okay, number five, people who never chip in.

683
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 2: Come home.

684
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,960
Speaker 6: Let's go cat, let's spend jesus.

685
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 1: Wow, it came on. Number one Things you say to

686
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: yourself when you're mad at someone.

687
00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:36,720
Speaker 15: You yourself when you're mad at someone.

688
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:37,000
Speaker 6: Oh can heis?

689
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 17: Somethings you say to yourself when you mad at somebody,

690
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:42,879
Speaker 17: I'm gonna let it go this.

691
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:47,839
Speaker 6: Time, but the next damn time, Oh, it's gonna be hell.

692
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:48,600
Speaker 13: It's gonna be hell.

693
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 6: It's gonna be hell.

694
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 12: This is one I always say to myself when I'm

695
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 12: mad at other people.

696
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 3: I'm trying not to go jail. I'm not doing my best.

697
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: You say, I'm doing my best right now. I'm trying

698
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,320
Speaker 3: not to go to jake. You're really mad. No, no,

699
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:08,560
Speaker 3: you're mad court dates everything.

700
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 2: You know what, you know what? That's all right.

701
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 7: Drink that water that I put up in that drink

702
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,919
Speaker 7: that drink that something.

703
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 15: All right.

704
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 1: Things you say to yourself when you're mad at someone, Steve.

705
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:31,440
Speaker 2: Better go ahead over, you, better go ahead on now.

706
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:38,279
Speaker 2: This is that's all that is gotta go ahead on.

707
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 17: Then you say to yourself when you're mad at somebody, Lord,

708
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 17: please work with me, Jesus, please.

709
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:54,359
Speaker 6: Please, father, Father, take me down so I don't kill us.

710
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,959
Speaker 12: That's why I always say that I'm always mad about

711
00:40:59,920 --> 00:41:02,839
Speaker 12: it was just something you said before, just about it that's

712
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 12: why your ass broke.

713
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 1: Now that's where you ask broke.

714
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:13,320
Speaker 15: Writing that hurts, Junior, that.

715
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:17,120
Speaker 3: That hurts that you say it to yourself, you know what.

716
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 7: That's that's that's why I got another woman from That's

717
00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,320
Speaker 7: right again, I ain't got filtered.

718
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 2: This is tough you say to yourself mad, which your stupid?

719
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:38,719
Speaker 5: Just like I.

720
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 15: Heard you say that it was too your jobs and it.

721
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 5: Was line now.

722
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 20: Yeah, oh my god, I thought my mom was.

723
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 6: Talking to me.

724
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 7: Up.

725
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 2: Uh.

726
00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 17: Things you say to people when you mad at him?

727
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 17: G ahead and die.

728
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 1: Go get about hill?

729
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 6: All right, come on take us home?

730
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: No, no, no, you okay, let's tell you this.

731
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 12: It says lot my family. I'm calling crime stopping. They

732
00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 12: a't gonna get a tip today.

733
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, show glad that ain't baby.

734
00:42:44,760 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 1: You tell me it's the Dame song call coming up

735
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening.

736
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:55,320
Speaker 15: Morning show coming up at the top of the hour.

737
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 15: Right about four minutes afterwards, my Strawberry letter for today,

738
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,839
Speaker 15: and the subject is it's ex wife wants to sleep over.

739
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: Oh it's not what you think. It's not what you think.

740
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:07,200
Speaker 13: Can get your mind out of the gutter.

741
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:10,360
Speaker 15: We'll get into it in just a little bit because

742
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 15: right now the nephew is here with today's frank phone call.

743
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 13: What you got for his nep.

744
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 2: This one It's called triple cat.

745
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:21,200
Speaker 7: If three people pass and they can you know, the

746
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,640
Speaker 7: family might not have enough money for all them cats

747
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:27,960
Speaker 7: just one cat trip people one can't.

748
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,719
Speaker 13: The concept this work.

749
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 16: Thanks the money mortuary. This is Calvin.

750
00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 14: Help you.

751
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 2: Uh hey, how you doing? How you Calvin? How you doing?

752
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 7: My name is Brandon Man, Brandon Giles. H. I'm calling.

753
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 7: We've got somebody that has passed actually three people I

754
00:43:57,200 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 7: passed away. I thank you for that, man. It was

755
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:05,240
Speaker 7: kind of expected. H. So you know, it wasn't something

756
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 7: that caught us off guard. But you know, but all

757
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 7: in all, you know, we're still grieving about losing our

758
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 7: loved ones. But uh, but I wanted to give you

759
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 7: all a call. We're trying to pick a particular funeral

760
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 7: home on who we want.

761
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 2: To uh take care of the services. Yes, yes, sir, yes.

762
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 16: Sir, okay, I can definitely help you with that, and uh,

763
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,839
Speaker 16: once again, I just want to, you know, just let

764
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 16: you know that we can pretty much do the whole game,

765
00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 16: that we can make sure that your need to take

766
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 16: them from you know, from from now on, We're here

767
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 16: for you. Wanting to get that out. Uh what is

768
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 16: your mean?

769
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 2: Uh?

770
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 16: You said three people.

771
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 7: Sir, Yes, yes, yes, okay, I wanted to bring attention

772
00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:51,799
Speaker 7: to you.

773
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 2: Do you guys customize caskets?

774
00:44:54,920 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 16: Yes, we do, gold plating, engraving. Uh even hap new

775
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,840
Speaker 16: thing where we can put the picture of the person

776
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 16: on the outside like a semi gloss coding a couple

777
00:45:07,040 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 16: of hours.

778
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,239
Speaker 7: Yeah, don't. I don't need that on no goal or

779
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,719
Speaker 7: nothing like that. Listen, listen, what I want to do.

780
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 7: Is it any way that you could maybe uh customize

781
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 7: a casket that can accommodate three people?

782
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:22,759
Speaker 14: Uh?

783
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 16: Yes, like we can we can customize each individual casket

784
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 16: for each individual.

785
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 2: No, no, no, Calvin, I ain't want to ask.

786
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 7: What I'm saying is if I want to, like like

787
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 7: I said, like I said, I could they was all close.

788
00:45:38,600 --> 00:45:40,919
Speaker 7: You know, I don't have a problem with all three

789
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,520
Speaker 7: of them being in the same casket.

790
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 14: I get you.

791
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:49,399
Speaker 16: Uh, you know, to my knowledge is as far as

792
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 16: I've been in this business, I've never Uh I'm not

793
00:45:53,719 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 16: really sure we can actually do that.

794
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 7: I mean what I mean, but what's the problem if

795
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,440
Speaker 7: we can get them all in there and well.

796
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 16: Sir, I mean I think that's a I don't even

797
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 16: think if for one, it's legal in this state or

798
00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:12,720
Speaker 16: any state. Uh, three people in one casket and ethics wise,

799
00:46:12,719 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 16: I uh, that's not really something that can I say

800
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:19,439
Speaker 16: that we actually, you know.

801
00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 7: But if you customizing a casket, Calvin, then you ought

802
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 7: to be able to put as many people in there,

803
00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 7: if you make it deep enough and wide enough, ought

804
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,120
Speaker 7: to be get three people in there?

805
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:29,439
Speaker 2: Right.

806
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 16: Well, the customization is is the outer side of the

807
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:39,320
Speaker 16: casket and maybe you know some people even put TV

808
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 16: screens on the inside or some of their their their

809
00:46:42,040 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 16: loved ones, uh, memorable mementos. Uh, we customize it for that,

810
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 16: you know, color wise.

811
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 7: Uh so what about when when is a person real big?

812
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:53,480
Speaker 1: Uh?

813
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:55,800
Speaker 7: You know, a heavyset person. You know, you got to

814
00:46:55,840 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 7: have a casket that can accommodate the right. Yes, But okay,

815
00:46:59,840 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 7: so you want to be able to put you want

816
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:04,240
Speaker 7: to be able to put three people in one casket

817
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:07,439
Speaker 7: if they can fit, if you put two one way

818
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 7: and one other the other way, and you ought.

819
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,160
Speaker 2: To be to have all three of them in there

820
00:47:11,200 --> 00:47:11,800
Speaker 2: at one time?

821
00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 16: Is there anybody else around you and your family that

822
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 16: can help talk uh with me about this.

823
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,319
Speaker 2: I'm talking right now.

824
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 7: I'm trying to get I'm trying to accommodate my clubs

825
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 7: and get them straight. And I'm asking you can we

826
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 7: get them in a casket, that one casket that can

827
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 7: accommodate three people if you put two pillows on money

828
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:35,879
Speaker 7: in one. That's not something we're really Uh, that ain't

829
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 7: something you used to doing, cabin But I'm calling you

830
00:47:39,239 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 7: telling you that's the way I want this customize.

831
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:41,879
Speaker 10: Man.

832
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 16: A brother, Look, brother, brother, just just chill out with customers,

833
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:45,839
Speaker 16: all right.

834
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 2: So we're trying to get three people are Yeah, I.

835
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 16: Have a standard plan. It'll be a low end standard

836
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 16: plan for three individual caskets.

837
00:47:57,000 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 7: We ain't got we don't have enough money for three

838
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,759
Speaker 7: individual caskets. I keep telling you that we got room

839
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 7: for one casket. We just need to big enough. Man,

840
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,839
Speaker 7: you could get everybody in there and close the door.

841
00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 16: I'm not good. I'm not I don't want to go

842
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 16: back and forth with you, sir. I know this is

843
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 16: a time and you.

844
00:48:15,600 --> 00:48:17,880
Speaker 7: Ain't gotta go back and forth with me. Buildings that

845
00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 7: I need, I can bury my family.

846
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 16: I don't really know what to tell you, sir, But

847
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 16: I'm just really trying to help.

848
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 14: I'm trying to.

849
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 7: Don't you tell me you're gonna get three people in

850
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,120
Speaker 7: the casket looking good that.

851
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 14: We cannot do that.

852
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 2: You out of that.

853
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:32,239
Speaker 14: Man.

854
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 2: I'm the one going through bereathing.

855
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 16: I understand that, but you are, you're you use the

856
00:48:37,719 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 16: foul language.

857
00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 7: We can't do it, brother, you hear me, No, no, no,

858
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,400
Speaker 7: hold on, my cousin them said they wanted.

859
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 14: To use no, sir. No, okay, look.

860
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 7: Im, look man, man, y'all gonna bury these three people

861
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 7: and you gonna put all three of them in the

862
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:58,840
Speaker 7: same damn casking man.

863
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 2: On one way on one end and one on the other.

864
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 5: One.

865
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 16: Man, sir, if you're a drinker, just stop.

866
00:49:05,840 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 7: I ain't nobody. Let me tell you something, man, let

867
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:09,359
Speaker 7: me say this to you. What your name?

868
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:09,880
Speaker 2: Calvin?

869
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 14: Right, yes, yes it is, sir.

870
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so Calvi Calvin. Let me say this to you.

871
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:18,200
Speaker 7: Either y'all gonna bury my cousins the way I want it,

872
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 7: or Calvin, you gonna get your who you talking to?

873
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 2: That's what's gonna now.

874
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 14: Now, no, now, that's it right there, sir.

875
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:27,879
Speaker 16: I've been trying to be as professional as I can

876
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 16: this whole conversation is as crazy as it is.

877
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 14: But now I ain't nothing crazy. No, no, no, no.

878
00:49:33,320 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 2: You told you I want you to bear my cousin.

879
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:35,839
Speaker 14: Come on down here.

880
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 16: I got some places to put your body and your

881
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:39,040
Speaker 16: cousin's body.

882
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:39,640
Speaker 14: How about that?

883
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:41,960
Speaker 7: Huh are you talking about?

884
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 5: Yeah?

885
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:43,759
Speaker 14: Because you you.

886
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 7: Know you don't sound too damn confident. You don't sound

887
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:48,960
Speaker 7: too confident, Calvin.

888
00:49:49,120 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 14: I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna tell you right.

889
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,919
Speaker 16: Now, this ain't the place and I'm not the one

890
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 16: you will be in the ground messing with us.

891
00:49:57,560 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 14: Matter fact. If you come here, I'm you up. How

892
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 14: about that?

893
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 7: Okay, Calvin, Okay, Calvin, let me tell you something, Calvin,

894
00:50:05,280 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 7: me and Tommy gonna be down there today.

895
00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 2: Then I'm bringing Tommy with me.

896
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 14: Who is Tommy? Huh?

897
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 7: This's a nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Baby,

898
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 7: you just got Frank Calvin.

899
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 14: Yo, y'all had me bring the whip.

900
00:50:23,040 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 16: Tell y'all, I just want to know who up to.

901
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 2: This reginal that works the Yes, I'm a whip reggie.

902
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 14: You bet watch what you drink? You bet watch with you.

903
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:38,000
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905
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906
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907
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908
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909
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913
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Speaker 7: some money.

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916
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917
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921
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Speaker 7: kipt to the new Saint Louis Here I come. Tickets

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Speaker 7: out on the river Walk along with the beautiful Dann King.

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Speaker 7: I will be in the building with my brother Sweet Loop,

926
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Speaker 7: Sweet Loop, Sweet Loops on the river Walk in Tampa Florida.

927
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Speaker 15: All right, listen, we gotta get to this Strawberry letter.

928
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Speaker 15: Thank you guys.

929
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Speaker 1: Coming up.

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Speaker 15: Strawberry Letter, subject his ex wife wants to sleep over.

931
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Speaker 15: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening Steve

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Speaker 15: Harvey Morning Show Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen.

933
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 15: If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

934
00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 15: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM

935
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Speaker 15: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter.

936
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,720
Speaker 1: We could be reading your letter on the air live,

937
00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:29,919
Speaker 1: just like we're going to read this one right here,

938
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 1: right now. Did you hear that?

939
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Speaker 2: Buggle up, Buckle up, and hold on tight. We got

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Speaker 2: it here. It is Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 13: Oh please, don't even try it.

942
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:44,400
Speaker 15: Subject his ex wife wants to sleep over. Dear Stephen Shirley,

943
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 15: I've been married for two years. When I met my

944
00:52:46,760 --> 00:52:50,319
Speaker 15: husband four years ago, he had just gotten divorced and

945
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Speaker 15: he was in a bitter custody battle with his ex wife.

946
00:52:53,960 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 15: His daughter is very sweet and she loved her dad,

947
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,840
Speaker 15: but the ex wife is dead set on her not

948
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:03,279
Speaker 15: having a relationship with her dad. When we met, he

949
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 15: had to limit communication with his ex because she told everybody.

950
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 15: He kept calling her to work things out, and he

951
00:53:10,120 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 15: wanted his family back. I never gave it any of

952
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:16,600
Speaker 15: my attention, but it really bothered him. Now he only

953
00:53:16,640 --> 00:53:20,439
Speaker 15: communicates with her by texting, so she can't lie on him.

954
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Speaker 15: They have joint custody and he pays her child support.

955
00:53:24,200 --> 00:53:27,240
Speaker 15: She didn't like the amount of child support the judge

956
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Speaker 15: ordered him to pay, so he pays a little more

957
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:34,600
Speaker 15: every month. Nothing he's done makes her happy thus far. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 15: we haven't had his daughter sleep over at our house

959
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Speaker 15: in two years. I thought maybe if I befriended his

960
00:53:41,080 --> 00:53:43,880
Speaker 15: ex that would help things out, but she told me

961
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Speaker 15: not to ever call her phone again.

962
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 1: A few months after that, she texted me.

963
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,239
Speaker 15: To say her behavior was uncalled for and we could

964
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:56,480
Speaker 15: be cordial, But that didn't last long. She continued to

965
00:53:56,520 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 15: deny visitation to my husband. We want to take his daughter,

966
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 15: who's twelve years old now, to South Carolina with us

967
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Speaker 15: for spring break. His ex wife said his daughter can't

968
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Speaker 15: go on a trip with us unless she goes too.

969
00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: Same thing with weekend visits at our house.

970
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Speaker 15: If the daughter sleeps over, the ex wife has to

971
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 15: come too. I don't want this woman sleeping in my house.

972
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 15: My husband said it may be the only way for

973
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Speaker 15: him to enjoy time with his child. He is ready

974
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Speaker 15: to seek full custody. What would you do in this situation? WHOA,

975
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 15: I don't know, but I think you know that's a

976
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 15: good place to start. To go ahead and seek full custody,

977
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Speaker 15: go back to the court.

978
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Speaker 1: I think your husband is in.

979
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Speaker 15: A horrible position because you know, despite all the craziness

980
00:54:43,400 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 15: from his ex wife, he wants to see his baby.

981
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Speaker 15: Bottom line, he doesn't have many options because of this

982
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Speaker 15: ugly acting woman. She's evil, she's out of line, and

983
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Speaker 15: she's obviously a miserable, very bitter person, and she's abusing

984
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,359
Speaker 15: her power and using her daughter, putting her daughter right

985
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Speaker 15: in the middle, using her as a pond, and that's

986
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Speaker 15: just wrong to do children like that. But on the

987
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Speaker 15: other hand, you, I think, are an angel. I mean,

988
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Speaker 15: you've been over backwards to be accommodating to this woman,

989
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 15: and that says you have love for your husband and

990
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 15: for his daughter, your stepdaughter. Your husband is the very

991
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 15: opposite of a deadbeat dad, doesn't fit that stereotype at all.

992
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,320
Speaker 1: He pays more child support than the court ordered.

993
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,160
Speaker 15: You can't get a lot of dads to pay even

994
00:55:29,200 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 15: the child's even anything, let alone more so, that's good

995
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Speaker 15: a father who wants to be a major part of

996
00:55:36,000 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 15: her life. The thing is, your daughter really is old

997
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 15: enough to choose for herself what parents she wants to

998
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Speaker 15: be with. She just can't because she's a minor. And

999
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,799
Speaker 15: I feel sorry in that regard, because divorce is so

1000
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:51,959
Speaker 15: hard on children. I don't even understand why this woman

1001
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Speaker 15: wants to stay in the house. Hmm.

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Speaker 1: Could it be that she still wants your husband? I

1003
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Speaker 1: would say the answer to that is yes.

1004
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:00,600
Speaker 15: Does she want to make your life as a living

1005
00:56:00,640 --> 00:56:03,760
Speaker 15: hell because she's so miserable and unhappy?

1006
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: I think that would be a yes too.

1007
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,080
Speaker 15: But you know, you got to think about what's best

1008
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Speaker 15: for the child and right now until he goes to court,

1009
00:56:12,400 --> 00:56:14,879
Speaker 15: you know, I don't know. Could you guys get two

1010
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 15: hotel rooms? Can you afford that? And uh, you know,

1011
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Speaker 15: let the wife stand one and with the child and

1012
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Speaker 15: you and the husband stand.

1013
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: The other one. At least she won't be in your house.

1014
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Speaker 1: I don't know.

1015
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Speaker 15: Maybe this will work out until he can get to

1016
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Speaker 15: the court and fix it.

1017
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Speaker 1: At least he can see his baby. Steve, I don't

1018
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Speaker 1: really know.

1019
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:38,200
Speaker 2: What to say?

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Speaker 8: This a letter kind of stupid to me. I wouldn't

1021
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 8: even rote in by just him. Well you met your

1022
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 8: husband four years ago. The subject his ex wife wants

1023
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 8: to sleep over? Sleepover where?

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00:56:49,960 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 6: Whoa?

1025
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 2: Whoa?

1026
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:54,280
Speaker 8: So this lady's writing his letter and she's talking about

1027
00:56:54,320 --> 00:57:02,120
Speaker 8: her husband's ex wants to sleep over at their house. Yeah,

1028
00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 8: he got divorced. Bitter custody battle. Daughter sweet loves her dad.

1029
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 8: Ex wife don't want them to have no relationship.

1030
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Speaker 2: They met.

1031
00:57:11,680 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 8: They had limited communication with his act because she told everybody.

1032
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:16,919
Speaker 8: He kept calling at work trying to work stuff out

1033
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 8: because he wanted his family back.

1034
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 2: She ain't paid no attention. So now he on the

1035
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Speaker 2: community by Texas so she can't lowd. He paid child support,

1036
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Speaker 2: she don't like the amount he paid. More don't nothing

1037
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 2: make her happy? Now?

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00:57:29,920 --> 00:57:32,520
Speaker 8: They ain't had his daughter sleep at their house in

1039
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Speaker 8: two years. The reason I'm reading his letter again, it's

1040
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 8: because I want you to see how some people use

1041
00:57:42,200 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 8: children as ponds to get back at the other party

1042
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 8: for whatever reason. We don't know why they divorced, but

1043
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 8: obviously whether it was her fault, but it takes two

1044
00:57:56,600 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 8: people to get a divorce. Somebody two people. Look, somebody

1045
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:04,640
Speaker 8: may initiate it wrong, but when you get a divorce,

1046
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 8: two people did something that wasn't cool way you handle

1047
00:58:08,560 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 8: it or something.

1048
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 2: So it takes two people to get a divorce.

1049
00:58:13,480 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 8: So you thought that you should be freeing this crazy

1050
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:24,000
Speaker 8: helpful He's a woman, she tried that don't care what

1051
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:28,360
Speaker 8: her baby think. But you think you gonna get her

1052
00:58:28,680 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 8: to start making sense to you. She don't care nothing

1053
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:36,120
Speaker 8: about you because she don't care nothing about her child.

1054
00:58:37,360 --> 00:58:40,760
Speaker 8: When you use a child as a pawn in the relationship,

1055
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:44,320
Speaker 8: the damage that you think you're doing to the other party,

1056
00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:48,800
Speaker 8: whatever you're doing to the other party, multiply that by ten,

1057
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:50,600
Speaker 8: because that's what's happening with the child.

1058
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:52,960
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, hold that thought.

1059
00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:55,400
Speaker 15: Okay, we're gonna have part two of your response coming

1060
00:58:55,480 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 15: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

1061
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 15: Letters subject his x Y wants to sleep over. We'll

1062
00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,160
Speaker 15: get back into it right after this.

1063
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 13: You're listening hard morning show.

1064
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 15: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters

1065
00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 15: subject his ex wife.

1066
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:14,280
Speaker 1: Wants to sleep over?

1067
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 2: What now? Who do that for? Who?

1068
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 8: First of all, let's be real about this anybody gonna

1069
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 8: let you. The ex wife state, this is this woman's house.

1070
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 8: Ain't no woman letting your letting not her husband's ex

1071
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:35,720
Speaker 8: wife sleep over because she demands it. Yeah, it would

1072
00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:40,440
Speaker 8: be different if some extreenuating circumstances they house burned down

1073
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:42,880
Speaker 8: and they needed a place to stay for a couple

1074
00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 8: of days.

1075
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 2: Got that, But she won't let the baby come over.

1076
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:47,600
Speaker 2: They'all's house in for.

1077
00:59:47,720 --> 00:59:50,560
Speaker 1: Two years and spend the night, and.

1078
00:59:50,480 --> 00:59:53,240
Speaker 2: Spend the night. The daughter loves her daddy.

1079
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 8: You try to befend, You try to befriend this crazy

1080
00:59:57,120 --> 01:00:00,840
Speaker 8: woman that don't care nothing about her daughter. So now

1081
01:00:01,400 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 8: she said they want to take the daughter, who's twelve

1082
01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:08,360
Speaker 8: years old, to South Carolina with him for spring break.

1083
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,120
Speaker 8: His wife said his daughter can't go on the trip

1084
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 8: with us unless she go too. We're not offinna pay

1085
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:18,560
Speaker 8: for you to come nowhere on spring break. Right, His

1086
01:00:18,720 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 8: ex wife said his daughter can't go on the trip

1087
01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 8: with us unless she goes to same thing that we

1088
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 8: can visit our house if the daughter sleeps over, the

1089
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:29,680
Speaker 8: ex wife has to come too. I don't want this

1090
01:00:29,720 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 8: woman sleeping in my house. My husband said. It may

1091
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:33,760
Speaker 8: be the only way for him to enjoy time with

1092
01:00:33,840 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 8: his child. He's ready to seek full custody. What do

1093
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:41,960
Speaker 8: you think of this situation? First of all, sir, you're

1094
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,520
Speaker 8: gonna have to find I know you want to see

1095
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:49,640
Speaker 8: your daughter, but that ex wife demanded to sleep over

1096
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:50,120
Speaker 8: the house.

1097
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 2: There's no reason that that should be the case.

1098
01:00:54,280 --> 01:00:58,680
Speaker 8: You've got to get a lawyer and get unsupervised visits,

1099
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 8: and you've got to get weak in rights to your daughter. Now,

1100
01:01:03,720 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 8: I don't know if they gonna give you full custody,

1101
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:08,439
Speaker 8: because for a court to take a child away from

1102
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:12,400
Speaker 8: a mother, you have to be an unfit mom. Crazy

1103
01:01:12,480 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 8: don't count as unfit because she's not abusing the daughter.

1104
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 8: She just abusing the man, which in turn abusing the daughter.

1105
01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,000
Speaker 8: Ain't no court fit to do that. But let me

1106
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 8: tell you why you really can't have this hell at

1107
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:26,840
Speaker 8: your house.

1108
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 2: Come on, let's just go over a couple of things.

1109
01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 2: Let's just start with number one, sleep over your house.

1110
01:01:35,240 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 8: Wake up this crazy to hell for standing over you

1111
01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 8: with a butcher knife.

1112
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 3: That's just for start.

1113
01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:42,280
Speaker 16: Ye.

1114
01:01:42,600 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 8: Now you walking all in the kitchen, her crazy ass

1115
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:46,480
Speaker 8: in there making sandwiches.

1116
01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 3: This ain't your house.

1117
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 8: You can't be in it doing this in here she

1118
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 8: down steat and bought a load of clothes over She

1119
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Speaker 8: downstairs washing the load of clothes. Your damn laundry mat.

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Speaker 8: Don't let this healler in your house. Knocking on the

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01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 8: bathroom door. You in there in the bathroom, She knocking

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01:02:05,760 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 8: on the door. What's taking here so long?

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Speaker 6: Her help? I need to get in there in your house.

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01:02:14,240 --> 01:02:16,640
Speaker 2: You and there, she rearranging furniture. I don't like the

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01:02:16,720 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 2: sofa over here. I want it over here.

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01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:25,200
Speaker 8: Oh sitting up in here, snatching remote out your hand,

1127
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 8: making everybody watch forty eight hours.

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Speaker 2: Don't let this crazy help fit in your house. No, no,

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01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 2: you go downstairs. She walking around with her bronz panties on,

1130
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:45,720
Speaker 2: talking about what you want? What you want? That walking

1131
01:02:45,720 --> 01:02:46,920
Speaker 2: around the house, harmy?

1132
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:48,440
Speaker 8: What's she.

1133
01:02:54,400 --> 01:03:03,320
Speaker 2: Gotta feel? You gotta feely?

1134
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:15,960
Speaker 21: Uh, gotta feely. Somebody's tried to sneak my friend.

1135
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 2: Here, you know.

1136
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 5: Like that?

1137
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 8: No, that's just crazy health in your house, being here

1138
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 8: lighting candles and.

1139
01:03:31,240 --> 01:03:35,560
Speaker 2: Stuff and little say in room, they all kind of stuff.

1140
01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 8: Go in that kitchen, she and that got two chicken

1141
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,280
Speaker 8: feet in there with a bird beak.

1142
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: Oh lord, yeah, crazy, yeah. I feel badly for the

1143
01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: stupid man.

1144
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 8: But he has to go to court though and work

1145
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 8: out something and get visitation and week ends. Gotta have

1146
01:03:58,360 --> 01:03:59,640
Speaker 8: week ends with your child.

1147
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:02,480
Speaker 1: They already have joint custody though.

1148
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:06,240
Speaker 8: I mean, but see if she you can enforce the

1149
01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 8: joint custody. She can't make the rules of the joint

1150
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,400
Speaker 8: custody because her father hasn't been ruled unfit.

1151
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 2: So he has to have week ends.

1152
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 8: He's paying child custody, I mean child support. He should

1153
01:04:22,320 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 8: have rights and a weekend with his daughter every other weekend.

1154
01:04:27,200 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 1: He's without the mama.

1155
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 15: I have a question, So is it perhaps maybe spring

1156
01:04:32,640 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 15: break is her week and she doesn't want to give

1157
01:04:35,400 --> 01:04:37,520
Speaker 15: that week up, and that's why she's demanding to go.

1158
01:04:38,040 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 8: No, this is not only the spring break. The girl

1159
01:04:42,000 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 8: ain't been to the house in two years, so this

1160
01:04:45,760 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 8: is way beyond the spring break. She won't even let

1161
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,240
Speaker 8: the daughter come to the house to see the man, right,

1162
01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:56,720
Speaker 8: because she being funky because she bid her Yes.

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01:04:56,560 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 15: Sir, and I can't stand when they use the children

1164
01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:03,840
Speaker 15: as ponds, right, I'm in the middle child, Yeah, you're

1165
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 15: hurting this child. She wants to see her dad, and

1166
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 15: the dad wants to spend time with her, all right,

1167
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 15: thank you all right. Post your comments on Today's Strawberry

1168
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 15: Letter Steve Harvey f M on Instagram and Facebook. Check

1169
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:24,800
Speaker 15: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Please you're listening.

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01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:27,640
Speaker 13: Morning show all right?

1171
01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:30,560
Speaker 15: Time for comedy break? Right here, Junior is here with

1172
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 15: things I've never seen?

1173
01:05:32,200 --> 01:05:33,040
Speaker 13: What is this, Junior?

1174
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 12: Yeah, you know, Tommy, this is a lot of things

1175
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 12: that you have never seen in your life.

1176
01:05:37,800 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 3: I mean it's some things.

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01:05:39,520 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 12: Like I know you own everybody you probably have, But

1178
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:44,080
Speaker 12: it's some things I know I ain't never see. Like,

1179
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 12: for instance, I've never seen a shade tree mechanic with

1180
01:05:47,960 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 12: a car.

1181
01:05:48,280 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 2: That is running in perfect condition.

1182
01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 12: You ain't never seen. He gonna tell me everything wrong

1183
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 12: with my call, but with his back, no missing, all

1184
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 12: is all running out the call for him and his hair.

1185
01:06:02,520 --> 01:06:04,680
Speaker 12: But he gonna tell me I need a new transmitter.

1186
01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:07,960
Speaker 12: What I've never seen it? I just ain't never seen it.

1187
01:06:08,240 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 3: He's another thing I ain't never seen.

1188
01:06:11,000 --> 01:06:13,280
Speaker 12: I ain't never seen people in the South eat a

1189
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 12: meal without rice. If it's chicken at rice, beans and rice,

1190
01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:20,439
Speaker 12: why is rice over every plate?

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01:06:21,520 --> 01:06:21,640
Speaker 16: Right?

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01:06:23,680 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 10: Just right?

1193
01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 12: You know who I've never met. I've never met this person.

1194
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 12: I've never met a well rested African mirror. I've never

1195
01:06:30,440 --> 01:06:33,800
Speaker 12: met one. I ain't dog.

1196
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 3: I ain't never seen a well rested African American in.

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01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 16: This like that.

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01:06:39,080 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 3: How you doing?

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Speaker 5: Man? Oh man?

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01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:43,120
Speaker 12: Job getting on my nerves? Wife, talking crazy to my kids.

1201
01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 12: Won't live man, I'm tired. I'm just tied.

1202
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:48,240
Speaker 3: You ain't never seen that.

1203
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:52,520
Speaker 12: I've never seen a big person eat a meal without

1204
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:53,440
Speaker 12: a dia befage.

1205
01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:54,479
Speaker 3: I ain't never seen.

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01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 12: I love baby, yeah, hamn hock, you know, But then

1207
01:07:03,240 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 12: a dying coke on the side, As if that's gonna

1208
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:09,880
Speaker 12: change something I have never seen.

1209
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:13,600
Speaker 2: I don't I know, I ain't gonna do it. I

1210
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 2: ain't gonna get none of that.

1211
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 12: No, come on, look, I'm not black funeral what there

1212
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 12: is no clowning going on?

1213
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, not one, not one. You ain't never seeing that.

1214
01:07:26,800 --> 01:07:29,360
Speaker 12: Somebody gonna get cussed out in front of the castle

1215
01:07:30,280 --> 01:07:37,200
Speaker 12: every time. These just things we've never seen. We ain't

1216
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:41,440
Speaker 12: never seen these things, Liz. I've never seen Christmas, Valentine's

1217
01:07:41,440 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 12: and Halloween decoration being put up in the drug store.

1218
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 12: You just show up one day and they all hang it.

1219
01:07:48,880 --> 01:07:49,480
Speaker 1: That's true.

1220
01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,520
Speaker 3: You ain't never seen who hanging something. We don't know

1221
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 3: who that is.

1222
01:07:56,640 --> 01:07:58,919
Speaker 2: I ain't never seen a white person still a bike

1223
01:07:58,960 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 2: out of black.

1224
01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 7: Neighborhoo, because they already are.

1225
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:09,320
Speaker 2: I've been around the whole time, still waiting on that.

1226
01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: All right, thank you guys. You're listening.

1227
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:14,440
Speaker 13: Morning show.

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01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,880
Speaker 15: So I want to know what you'll be putting on

1229
01:08:18,920 --> 01:08:21,719
Speaker 15: the grilled Steve and Tommy and Junior.

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01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:22,080
Speaker 6: I don't.

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01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if you could, but I.

1232
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:24,800
Speaker 3: Know you'll be eating.

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01:08:25,160 --> 01:08:28,640
Speaker 15: Yeah. In case you know, I need to stop buy

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01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:29,360
Speaker 15: and get a plate.

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01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:36,840
Speaker 8: I don't do that. You have fall I don't have

1236
01:08:37,240 --> 01:08:38,240
Speaker 8: all off wax paper.

1237
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:40,920
Speaker 1: You have the pickout containers.

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01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:42,280
Speaker 8: We don't have anything.

1239
01:08:42,600 --> 01:08:44,800
Speaker 2: We don't have none of that. So what are you

1240
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:45,160
Speaker 2: going to be?

1241
01:08:47,120 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 8: We don't have people that do that. We don't know

1242
01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 8: people that come over beg.

1243
01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:55,160
Speaker 2: Me do that?

1244
01:08:56,360 --> 01:09:03,479
Speaker 9: What you're cooking ribs burgers, meat, meat, anything that is meat.

1245
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:08,640
Speaker 2: I don't do fish on the grill. Don't ask me

1246
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 2: for no fish.

1247
01:09:10,080 --> 01:09:13,120
Speaker 1: You wouldn't grill a nice salmon steak put it.

1248
01:09:13,000 --> 01:09:23,840
Speaker 9: On the What I do.

1249
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 7: All meats, baby smoke, regular rells, babybacks in them baby bags.

1250
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 8: Now tell me that's what Junior's asking for that. I

1251
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 8: can't do it because Junior's not. It has not convinced

1252
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:44,960
Speaker 8: me that he is a true barbecue ologist.

1253
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,240
Speaker 2: And I'm scared that he don't miss.

1254
01:09:47,360 --> 01:09:51,120
Speaker 8: Sprinkle in my rub on ham sandwiches and putting it

1255
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 8: on top of potato salad. Like I'm not finna do

1256
01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:59,320
Speaker 8: this with juniors, you know, like it's some sprinkle or

1257
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:02,639
Speaker 8: something like that, Like it's Larry's Like you're just putting

1258
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:05,400
Speaker 8: it on everything, all on your French fries. We're not

1259
01:10:05,479 --> 01:10:07,200
Speaker 8: finn to do that. And I'm putting a little bit on

1260
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:09,640
Speaker 8: the baked beans. You're not finna do that to my

1261
01:10:09,840 --> 01:10:15,520
Speaker 8: damn rub hopping it off with everything. Yeah, oh, sprinkling

1262
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:17,519
Speaker 8: on top of stuff, It ain't got I put a

1263
01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:22,920
Speaker 8: little bit on my slow What take my rib and

1264
01:10:22,960 --> 01:10:25,880
Speaker 8: put it on nothing? So it's all meat of fair

1265
01:10:27,320 --> 01:10:30,799
Speaker 8: Now that will be sides, ye talk about the sides.

1266
01:10:31,040 --> 01:10:37,200
Speaker 8: The sides will be baked beans, corn slow corn on

1267
01:10:37,240 --> 01:10:43,400
Speaker 8: the cob that the corn goes on the grill, but

1268
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:45,559
Speaker 8: it goes on the grill in the husk.

1269
01:10:46,479 --> 01:10:48,519
Speaker 7: Well, why can't you do a fish on a plank

1270
01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:49,679
Speaker 7: if you could do the corn.

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01:10:50,920 --> 01:10:57,000
Speaker 2: I just told you I don't do fish. Now, I

1272
01:10:57,040 --> 01:10:58,080
Speaker 2: have two sons.

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01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:03,960
Speaker 8: That's Uh, pescateer that only eat fish.

1274
01:11:04,640 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: Steve, take a day off from it.

1275
01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna try this chicken.

1276
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:13,640
Speaker 15: My girlfriend says she no longer eats land animals.

1277
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:14,839
Speaker 1: Will not be invited.

1278
01:11:15,560 --> 01:11:17,320
Speaker 2: Oh she can come, but I don't know what she's

1279
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:21,640
Speaker 2: gonna do. She gonna eat because what is you we're

1280
01:11:21,680 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 2: gonna eat? Add animals? It's some meat and them beans.

1281
01:11:26,240 --> 01:11:27,360
Speaker 2: I don't know what she's gonna eat.

1282
01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 8: I don't know what she's gonna do. I don't eat

1283
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:34,000
Speaker 8: land animals. What what you're gonna eat? Add animals?

1284
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:35,640
Speaker 2: You know I ain't got no fu.

1285
01:11:36,320 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 1: You didn't say potato salad? You cooking potato salad?

1286
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:39,280
Speaker 12: Uh?

1287
01:11:39,520 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 8: No, I kind of gave up on potato salad years

1288
01:11:42,800 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 8: ago because a lot of people don't know how to

1289
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:47,559
Speaker 8: make potato salad. I don't really know how to make it.

1290
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 8: Marjorie make a good potato salad. But yeah, yeah, Marjorie, Mama, Lord,

1291
01:11:54,080 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 8: Marjorie really is outstanding cook. Marjorie's outstanding. She thinks she

1292
01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:00,000
Speaker 8: a better grilled personally. But I don't want to hurt it.

1293
01:12:00,120 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 8: But she's gonna get cussed out if she say that

1294
01:12:01,880 --> 01:12:09,439
Speaker 8: in front of somebody else again. That's what if she

1295
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:11,360
Speaker 8: talking about she can barbecue just as good as me.

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01:12:11,520 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 8: She's gonna mess around and get a little self cussed out.

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01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:15,320
Speaker 12: If that's what we're working on.

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01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:17,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm trying not to because I know that's what

1299
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:21,800
Speaker 8: that's gonna cost me. But sheep borderline getting cussed out.

1300
01:12:22,040 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 8: If you tell one more person she can grill as

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01:12:24,640 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 8: good as me, because.

1302
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 2: That's a damn lie.

1303
01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 5: In here.

1304
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 2: A little Scott shrimp on skiers who do that.

1305
01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:37,680
Speaker 6: That's what I hear.

1306
01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:43,360
Speaker 7: A barbecue battle coming on a vegetables.

1307
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:49,519
Speaker 15: It all right, coming up, coming up in twenty minutes

1308
01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:50,120
Speaker 15: after the hour.

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01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:52,400
Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

1310
01:12:52,400 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 1: after this.

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01:12:53,360 --> 01:12:56,080
Speaker 13: You're listening Harby Morning Show.

1312
01:12:58,320 --> 01:13:01,479
Speaker 15: If your favorite part of vacation is getting on the plane,

1313
01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 15: you're in luck, all right. Engineers right now are working

1314
01:13:05,560 --> 01:13:09,280
Speaker 15: on what they call a flying hotel that will allow you.

1315
01:13:09,240 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 1: To spend your whole vacation mid air.

1316
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 13: Now, have you heard of this, Steeth?

1317
01:13:13,160 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 15: Have you heard of anything like this?

1318
01:13:15,479 --> 01:13:15,559
Speaker 16: Dy?

1319
01:13:16,080 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 2: Go ahead?

1320
01:13:17,640 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 1: See I knew all right.

1321
01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:23,760
Speaker 15: A detailed mockup shows a massive, multi level plane that

1322
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:27,120
Speaker 15: could hold over five thousand people and stay in the

1323
01:13:27,160 --> 01:13:29,040
Speaker 15: air for days weeks, or.

1324
01:13:29,000 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 13: Even years at a time.

1325
01:13:31,120 --> 01:13:33,799
Speaker 1: The proposed is called a sky cruise.

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01:13:33,840 --> 01:13:37,760
Speaker 15: It hopes to have luxuries like several swimming pools, restaurants,

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01:13:37,800 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 15: and a shopping mall. It will be a nuclear powered plane,

1328
01:13:42,160 --> 01:13:44,559
Speaker 15: so it won't need pilots, and it will be run

1329
01:13:44,720 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 15: entirely by computers.

1330
01:13:46,520 --> 01:13:49,599
Speaker 13: So my question to you is, would you do this?

1331
01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:52,320
Speaker 15: Would you like to be thirty thousand dollars, thirty thousand

1332
01:13:52,360 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 15: miles in the air, four or five for about a week,

1333
01:13:56,600 --> 01:13:59,120
Speaker 15: feet thirty thousand feet in the air for about a week,

1334
01:13:59,479 --> 01:14:02,680
Speaker 15: and you say they already have it, Steve, that's gonna.

1335
01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:05,519
Speaker 8: Be hard on an airplane. I don't know how they're

1336
01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:08,840
Speaker 8: gonna pull that off because the cabin pressure is not

1337
01:14:09,000 --> 01:14:12,679
Speaker 8: really good for you for that long. For those long flights,

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Speaker 8: you do a lot of swelling and cabin pressure like that.

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Speaker 8: Now you're where your compression socks get to swim and cool.

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Speaker 2: They already had get off.

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Speaker 8: You let it already hard to get on and off

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Speaker 8: you get we you're gonna have to cut them off.

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Speaker 8: I'm not gonna no half outand damn people though, all.

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Speaker 15: Right, we'll have more of the Steve Hardy Morning Show

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Speaker 15: coming up at thirty three minutes after we'll play around it.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather right after this?

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Speaker 13: You're listening hard morning show?

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Speaker 15: It is time now for a round, And would you

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Speaker 15: rather would you rather propose in front of a crowd

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Speaker 15: or would you rather proposed privately?

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Speaker 1: Junior said, be privately?

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Speaker 2: See yeah, I go with be to She say no

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Speaker 2: the people I'm gonna get.

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Speaker 8: I gotta fight everybody that's want somebody just rain back

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Speaker 8: in my pocket and all this.

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Speaker 2: I gotta get.

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Speaker 8: I gotta get up off my knees, turned around, figure

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Speaker 8: out which whereas to hold in the crowd I can.

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Speaker 8: I gotta get room and wash my face all this man.

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Speaker 6: And then the crowd.

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Speaker 13: It's like collected.

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Speaker 2: Somebody hit the crowd. Somebody hit me on the back

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Speaker 2: like they did Rudy. I probably hang that dog.

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Speaker 16: All right.

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Speaker 15: Would you rather use a dating app or would you

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Speaker 15: rather go old school and go on a blind date?

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Speaker 14: Yeah? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Because people down their profile. You who you? I'd rather

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Speaker 2: just go see it for myself than.

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Speaker 15: You and have the one do an emergency call if

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Speaker 15: you don't like the way they look.

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Speaker 3: I can walk out the blind date.

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Speaker 8: I've actually been on the blind date so bad that

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Speaker 8: I acted as if I was blind?

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Speaker 1: How did you do that?

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Speaker 2: You could see it? Then you wasn't.

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Speaker 8: And then soon as she walked up to the table,

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Speaker 8: I got him, snapped the chair leg off.

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Speaker 2: And guy tapping my.

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Speaker 8: Way right out that day and walking.

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Speaker 2: That didn't happen.

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Speaker 3: As soon as you saw snapping, said damn.

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Speaker 8: Soon as she sat down, I stood nim snapped the

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Speaker 8: leg off. I start tapping my ass right out. It

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Speaker 8: wasn't table, egg wasn't long enough. I had to beard

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Speaker 8: over come little phrase.

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Speaker 2: What is he doing? Huh?

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Speaker 3: Are you on the way out?

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Speaker 12: You didn't touch nothing on the way because you can

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Speaker 12: see what you was doing.

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Speaker 2: This fight. I kept looking for my dog.

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Speaker 15: I don't crazy, all right?

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Speaker 1: Would you right right?

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Speaker 3: Don't?

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Speaker 15: Would you rather compete in the summer Olympics or would

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Speaker 15: you rather compete in a Winter Olympics sport?

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Speaker 2: What the hell I'm gonna do in the winter sports?

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Speaker 15: Ice skaming tingly like lose.

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 1: So I guess that's summer for the both of you.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you?

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Speaker 15: Coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 15: have our last breakup the day. And Steve Harvey are

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Speaker 15: fearless leader, the one and only.

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Speaker 1: Will close out the show right after this. You're listening.

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Speaker 15: Morning show, all right, see take us home with some

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Speaker 15: closing please.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, I wanted to address men today and

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Speaker 8: just pay a compliment to men. I'm I'm talking to

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Speaker 8: men who who take the time out to be dads.

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Speaker 8: If you're a father, that's one thing. If you're dad,

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Speaker 8: that's a whole another thing. You know, any anybody can

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Speaker 8: father a child. You can commit an act of love

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Speaker 8: or act of lust and become a father, But it

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Speaker 8: takes another dude to become a dad. And I just

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Speaker 8: wanted to take some time out to recognize the dads

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Speaker 8: out there. You know, moms get a lot of the credit,

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Speaker 8: and as they should. I mean, being a mother is

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Speaker 8: something special. I think we all would agree to the

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Speaker 8: fact that a woman can have a child and give

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Speaker 8: birth to a human being. I mean that puts them

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Speaker 8: in a class of their own. We can't even begin

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Speaker 8: to compete or compare who we are and what we do,

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Speaker 8: but we.

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Speaker 2: Are valuable all the same.

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Speaker 8: And there are men out there who have taken the responsibility,

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Speaker 8: after they've become fathers, to become dads. And this tribute

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Speaker 8: is just to you, just to say thank you for

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Speaker 8: being dads, for taking the time to honor your commitment.

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Speaker 8: Understand that it don't always work out with the mother.

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Speaker 8: I do understand that, but it has got to work

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Speaker 8: out for the children. I'm so happy for the men

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Speaker 8: who fight the rule are the problems of the relationship

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Speaker 8: to still maintain a relationship with the child.

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Speaker 2: That's so critically important, it really, really is.

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Speaker 8: I thank god for men who take the responsibility of

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Speaker 8: other fathers' children who have not, cannot or wont, for

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Speaker 8: whatever the reason is, take up the banner of being

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Speaker 8: a dad. There are a lot of men who have

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Speaker 8: stepped in and become dads and father figures for children

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Speaker 8: all around and because simply because their actual biological father

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Speaker 8: just ain't up to the task, for whatever the reason is.

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Speaker 8: But this ain't slamming nobody. I'm just saying thank you

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Speaker 8: for the dads who are dads. It has been an

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Speaker 8: honor to be a father and a dad. And I

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Speaker 8: want every man out there that's being a dad, that's

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Speaker 8: seeing about their kids in school, that's sending them text

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Speaker 8: that's checking on them, that's taking them to the park,

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Speaker 8: that's walking with them, that's holding their little girl's hand,

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Speaker 8: that's putting their arm around their son and offering them

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Speaker 8: leadership and guidance.

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Speaker 2: That's going through all the things to.

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Speaker 8: Help provide the necessary tools for this young person to

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Speaker 8: grow up and feel the security of a man.

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Speaker 2: It has been an honor for me to be a father.

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Speaker 8: Yesterday my daughters were born, Brandy and Carley, and they

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Speaker 8: grew me up quite a bit. They were twenty I

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Speaker 8: was twenty five years old when they were born. I

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Speaker 8: wasn't really equipped for the job fully, but they grew

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Speaker 8: me up. And ever since then, I have tried to

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Speaker 8: uphold my end of the bargain. I fall in short

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Speaker 8: sometimes I guess along the way, but at the end

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Speaker 8: of it, I always tried to make good on my

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Speaker 8: promise to them. I always tried to be the best

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Speaker 8: I could for them. And you know, everybody makes mistakes

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Speaker 8: in life. And once again, this ain't a slam on nobody.

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Speaker 8: I'm just taking out the time to say to the

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Speaker 8: dads out there, thank y'all for being dads. For putting

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Speaker 8: it down. It is an honor to be a father.

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Speaker 8: It's a beautiful thing to see a man with his

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Speaker 8: child playing with the baby walking, They little girl holding

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Speaker 8: her walking these boys teaching them, throwing the ball with them.

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Speaker 8: You ain't got to have money to be a great dad.

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Speaker 8: Matter of fact, you don't have to have money at all.

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Speaker 8: You got to have love, you got to have some time,

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Speaker 8: and you got to have heart for it. And it's

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Speaker 8: a lot of men out there that's got the heart

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Speaker 8: for it. And I'm appreciative of that because oftentimes men

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Speaker 8: get a bad rap, but of good men out there.

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Speaker 8: It's a lot of good men that found a way

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Speaker 8: to take care of their children.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of.

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Speaker 8: Good men out there that have found a way to

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Speaker 8: take care of other men's children that ain't stepped up

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Speaker 8: to the plate. Like I said, for whatever the reason.

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Speaker 8: But this ain't really about them. This is about the

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Speaker 8: men who have given themselves unselfishly to children so that

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Speaker 8: they can say that's my daddy, that's my dad.

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Speaker 2: I mean, that's got to be a.

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Speaker 8: Reassuring feeling for a child and say I'm going and

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Speaker 8: tell my daddy.

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Speaker 2: Not that it's gonna get you in.

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Speaker 8: Trouble, it's just I got somebody that I think is

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Speaker 8: big and strong. And there's a lot of men out

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Speaker 8: there that's being their kids hero that maybe your kid

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Speaker 8: think you better than Superman or Batman, and that's what

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Speaker 8: it's all about.

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Speaker 2: Man. You just want somebody to feel that way about you.

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Speaker 8: So, hats off to all the men out there that's

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Speaker 8: been being dads, that's been given it up. That's taking

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Speaker 8: care of your families, that's putting it in, that's providing

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01:24:05,160 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 8: a place to stay, cars, protection, security, love, guidance, discipline.

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Speaker 8: That's what fatherhood is about. That's what being a dad

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Speaker 8: is about. My hats off to all of y'all.

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Speaker 1: Happy Father's Day. Yeah, Father's days.

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Speaker 13: Every day he had.

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Speaker 1: Drop the mic, Steve.

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Speaker 6: That was great, paying for the mics and he can drop.

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