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Speaker 1: are you hey, I'm great, how are you?

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Speaker 2: Thanks so much for taking my call.

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Speaker 1: You know what, You're welcome and we're trying to help

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Speaker 1: you out here with this guy Steven. How did you

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Speaker 3: So I met Stephen on the app and we did, like,

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Speaker 4: We exchanged faw numbers.

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Speaker 3: We did a little light texting before he asked me

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Speaker 3: to dinner, which was really nice. He met and like

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Speaker 4: Which I don't feel which I don't know, I just

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Speaker 4: So I was really excited. I just I thought he

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Speaker 4: and I have no idea what happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not even sure what's going on, but I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's the thing. Ideah, who knows, but let

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Speaker 1: And in this case, this guy has has ghosted you

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know what's going on? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I really like him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well, let me play one song. We'll come back.

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Speaker 1: We'll see, we can get Stephen on the phone and

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Speaker 1: we'll ask these questions for you, Deanna, and hopefully you

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Speaker 1: that we pay for. Sound good? Yeah, great thing. You've

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Speaker 1: we'll do it. It's the frend Show commercial free by

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Speaker 1: from the Hall of Fame. This guy was a master impressionist,

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Speaker 1: not even from the Hall of Fame. From the vault

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Speaker 1: Fred's version tomorrow morning. Hey Deanna, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Stephen. You guys, you met on one of

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Speaker 5: Awesome glue.

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Stephen.

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Speaker 1: Hey Stephen, good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 5: Yeah? So yeah we met online, met on the apps,

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Speaker 5: The restaurant that went to, we're to seeing next to

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Speaker 5: It was. It was kind of nice, but still not

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Speaker 1: Forgot to mention the Deanna is here. I'm so forgetful.

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Speaker 2: These kids are running around and they're crying and being crazy,

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Speaker 2: Say something, then perhaps the kid will get it. Oh,

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Speaker 6: How about you just mind your business? Okay, you don't

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Speaker 6: So you don't know what these parents are going through.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Look, we've all been We've all been in

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Speaker 1: But you know, sometimes we can't control that. And if

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Speaker 1: can pay for it if you want. No, No, I

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Speaker 5: All right, Hey, no, it's my hesitation. All right.

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Speaker 1: Well, Deanna, I don't know what to say, but he

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well that's fine. I don't either anymore.

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Speaker 1: work out shocking, but guys, I wish you both the

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Speaker 1: good luck.

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Speaker 5: Oh, thank you. A good thing