1 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 1: What's up? 2 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:20,320 Speaker 2: Y'all? 3 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:21,600 Speaker 1: Is your girl lexp? 4 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 3: And is your girl Dre and the call. 5 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 4: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine. 6 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 3: Where a drunk mind speaks sober. 7 00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 4: We gotta guess today, We gotta guess today. I'm excited 8 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,600 Speaker 4: because you know, y'all know I'm an auntie, so I 9 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 4: love to be put on. 10 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: So you know what, the. 11 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 4: Kids and everybody listening to. So y'all give it up. 12 00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 4: But Pad, thank you for pulling. 13 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 2: Up for it, you guys, thank you guys for having 14 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: me excited. 15 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 5: I'm very excited. I like getting interviewed about women. I 16 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 5: don't like when niggas ask me. I don't like a 17 00:00:56,920 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 5: nigga ask me ten thousand questions. I like having a 18 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 5: conversation with with Okay when they getting messed already. 19 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 4: You know, because you know, we got you having a 20 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 4: little drinking. So you live in Atlanta now, But where 21 00:01:13,600 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 4: are you from? 22 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 2: Originally from alabamam Mobile. Oh so your good trybile. 23 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 5: I stayed in California for like eight years though, really yeah, 24 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 5: Segramento like northern California? 25 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: Okay, did you like it? 26 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? I liked it for for a long time. Then 27 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 2: I got tired of it. Yeah, I felt like it 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:31,960 Speaker 2: was time to go back towards home type ship. 29 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: Yea, the West Coast just so different from I. 30 00:01:35,440 --> 00:01:37,839 Speaker 2: Learned a lot, I thought though, Yeah, I learned a lot. 31 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: So do you like living in Atlanta? 32 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's time for me to go to You ready 33 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 2: to live somewhere? It's time to go, man. 34 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 3: So where are you thinking about getting lost in the 35 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 3: sauce out here? 36 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,560 Speaker 2: Huh? I ain't getting lost in this ship. 37 00:01:50,040 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 5: When I had got in trouble, I'm like, oh yeah, 38 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 5: I feel like one of the police knows Nigga's time 39 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 5: to get the. 40 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 4: Beause they're not gonna start fucking with. 41 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 2: You your name and ship. It's time ago. I want 42 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:04,160 Speaker 2: to go. I want to go to like New Yorker. 43 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 4: New York, Yes, super strict. 44 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 5: You know I ain't going after that. I'm a chain man, 45 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,640 Speaker 5: I ain't. I ain't going. 46 00:02:13,440 --> 00:02:14,519 Speaker 2: After that, like the funk out. 47 00:02:14,560 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 5: That's really why I want to go after because they're 48 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 5: most streak. I know, I ain't gonna run into a 49 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 5: lot of people. And people don't like go to New 50 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 5: York and want to move down in state. People come 51 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:26,119 Speaker 5: to Atlanta. I want to move here and stay mix. 52 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 3: It's hell. 53 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 6: It's so easy to get like distracted out here. I 54 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,919 Speaker 6: definitely see in New York you ain't gonna want to 55 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 6: stay there. 56 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: Too long. 57 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: Sometimes. Cool. 58 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: Have you been rapping? 59 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 2: I've been rapping. I made my first song at twelve. 60 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 2: I wrote my first rabbit like eight. 61 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: What you was writing about years old? 62 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 3: You remember your first. 63 00:02:52,440 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 1: Up Hi go. 64 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 5: Nigga on Paris better than the everage committed like a 65 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 5: marriage the nigga. I'm gonna say if it's Tournato went 66 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 5: on Rep. 67 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 2: Solidary. It was eight all my life, that's my first repd. 68 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: Okay, So what did you realize? Like, Okay, I'm good 69 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,400 Speaker 1: at this. I need to take it seriously. 70 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:21,480 Speaker 2: Oh when I had more to California. 71 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 5: When I had more to California and Ship, I was 72 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 5: always telling people are gonna be a rapper and it's 73 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 5: and I was like nine. 74 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: But when I moved to California, I wrapped at school 75 00:03:28,520 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: one time. Everybody everybody like gathered around me and she 76 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 2: was like he the new Bootsie. 77 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 4: Was like. 78 00:03:37,680 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like yeah, I can do that. Ship. My 79 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 2: mam boyfriend had a uh had a uh at a studio. 80 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 4: Okay, So talk about because you're about to drop your 81 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 4: sophomore album. 82 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:50,240 Speaker 1: Lapel y Oh. 83 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 2: I dropped them on December Field. 84 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: Okay, how is that going? 85 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 2: Like? It's going cool? Yeah, it's going cool. I feel 86 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: like it's gonna be better though, I don't never want 87 00:03:58,520 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 2: to get comfortable. 88 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,680 Speaker 4: Right, So how do you feel about like your sophomore 89 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 4: album compared to like your first album, Like. 90 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 5: Oh, I ain't gonna lot first, I ain't really understand 91 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 5: like the like what the difference towards was mixtape and 92 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 5: the l I feel like with this album, I kind 93 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 5: of like learned the difference, like the pricess and ship. 94 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 5: Like with a mixtape, I just going down rapp, but 95 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 5: like with the LBM, I'm like trying to make real 96 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:23,800 Speaker 5: songs and ship. 97 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:24,360 Speaker 7: Like you know what I mean. 98 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 3: So what's your favorite song on the album? 99 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 5: Is the World where kevinc Gates is called two Rons? Okay, 100 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,159 Speaker 5: Kevin is one of my favorite refers. 101 00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 4: Man, I wasn't working with you because I feel like 102 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,200 Speaker 4: a lot of like I know Kevi, not know him, 103 00:04:40,240 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 4: but I listened to his music for a long so 104 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 4: you feel like you know him. But I've seen how 105 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 4: his image has changed a lot, because you know, he's 106 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,160 Speaker 4: a lot more i'll say holistic. 107 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: Now he's into you know, a lot. 108 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: Of spiritual yeah stuff now. 109 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 4: So I think it's crazy because when he was first 110 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,799 Speaker 4: introduced on the scene, he was very like street nigga, 111 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:00,960 Speaker 4: hard at fun, don't fuck with nobody, don't touch him 112 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 4: if you. 113 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: Interview with me, and like. 114 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 4: To see his image change. But I feel like now 115 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:08,920 Speaker 4: people kind of be kind of playing on his top 116 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,120 Speaker 4: a little bit, like you know what I'm saying. So, 117 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 4: how was it working with him? 118 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 8: Now? 119 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: Ain't gone? It was, Uh, it was a good experience 120 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: for real, for real, like it was always. It's like 121 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 2: watching football all your life and and having like a 122 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: player that you admired. You feel I'm saying, like, oh yeah, bro, 123 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,039 Speaker 2: that nigga fast as fuck you running the ball all 124 00:05:29,080 --> 00:05:33,279 Speaker 2: you feel it was like being in a game with them. Okay, 125 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. 126 00:05:33,880 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 5: It's like you watching football all your life and then 127 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 5: you finally get in the game one of your favorite players. 128 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 2: It was like that type of ship. 129 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: That's why I used to want to play with Reggie Bush. 130 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 2: He was fine in today. 131 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 6: He was That's what interesting fakes about you that we 132 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 6: found out you play golf? 133 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: Oh YEAHL started playing my mom's boyfriend. I'm like that. Yeah, 134 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 2: I was like twelve and then like, yeah, he was 135 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 2: going through the golf courses. And I used to be 136 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: bored at the house, Like I used to get in 137 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 2: trouble a school, so my mama would't let me go outside. 138 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 2: So like that was the only place I can go 139 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 2: with him to the go. 140 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: Are you good though? 141 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 2: Ye? 142 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: Wrong, Okay, top golf and stuff. 143 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 4: He'd be at the real golf course. But I'm saying, 144 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 4: you don't ever take a little broad the top golf 145 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:22,600 Speaker 4: people like, yeah, I have afore, but they give you. 146 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,119 Speaker 5: I feel like I got too invested in golf because 147 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 5: they they give you the weekends, golf clubs and shp. 148 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 5: Like you feel you know what I'm saying. I feel 149 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 5: like I know too much about this hit and that. 150 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 5: So like when I go to Top Golf, it's like, man, 151 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 5: they got me fucked up. 152 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring my own. Yeah. 153 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 4: Way, you know where you go to Top Golf and 154 00:06:40,400 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 4: it's like everybody golf, and it kind of sudden they 155 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,080 Speaker 4: got that one person. 156 00:06:42,920 --> 00:06:44,120 Speaker 1: That go and he that's him. 157 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 3: I feel like it's such a technical sport. 158 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 5: It's very hard it's technical show, but it's the only 159 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 5: sport you can play when you old. 160 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 1: That's true, that is true. I don't know me. 161 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 4: That's a good way to look, Caddy, So what's the 162 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 4: last time you play golf? 163 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna even lie. I just I just want 164 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: a tournament, and that was my last time I want 165 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 2: a tournament. 166 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 5: They try to say I cheated because I had some 167 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 5: pro niggas on my team, but that's neither here nor there. 168 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 2: Still one's still one. 169 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 4: Okay, talk about your name la Paris where that's how 170 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 4: I said it the first time. Don't look I'm a 171 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 4: little traveled now. I'd have been to let a few times. 172 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 4: I've been to Paris. 173 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:33,920 Speaker 2: It was a little time somebody tried to kill my dreams. 174 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:34,920 Speaker 2: Like it's not that it's. 175 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: Okay. I'll say this about traveling. 176 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 4: I don't tell people where to go when they like 177 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 4: when people ask me, oh, where should I go? And 178 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 4: I'm my own because as soon as you go somewhere 179 00:07:45,720 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 4: you don't like it, you're gonna blame it on me. 180 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,320 Speaker 6: Like that about the experience, I feel like everybody do 181 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 6: different things when they and whatever you into, the next 182 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 6: person might not be into. 183 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:56,920 Speaker 3: So they might have a great time. 184 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 4: I love because people were saying how Bezel wasn't all 185 00:07:59,400 --> 00:07:59,680 Speaker 4: that was. 186 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 2: The parents got water because I need I need water, Bro, 187 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,080 Speaker 2: I need like some ocean or something like the beach 188 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 2: and stuff. 189 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:10,720 Speaker 1: Well, I'm a little older than you, so I didn't 190 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: know if that was slang or something. That's why I 191 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: was looking here. 192 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 2: No water water. 193 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: He got that water, my boy, I don't know water. 194 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 6: I don't know they have beaches and stuff that they 195 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 6: have beaches, but they have like yeah, but that's like 196 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 6: in that's more like n That's what I was gonna say, 197 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 6: like they have beaches and stuff in friends, but night, Yeah, 198 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:37,360 Speaker 6: I think. 199 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 2: It's more like it's water, bro, I need you need? 200 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:40,440 Speaker 1: You go to a besa. 201 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 4: You like it? You like a viza abiza Abza's inane. 202 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:50,040 Speaker 6: It's you were really nice. 203 00:08:50,080 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: It's really nice. And they got a lot of water 204 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 3: a diesel. 205 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 2: It's like surrounded by water. My type of ain't got 206 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:58,360 Speaker 2: my type of ship. I love it. 207 00:08:58,679 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: So where did that name come from? 208 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:02,199 Speaker 2: My mom and them? I don't know my grandma name is. 209 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 2: She probably would loaded. I don't know. 210 00:09:04,600 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 1: So it's not you know, like story behind. 211 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,719 Speaker 5: It, man, I had heard so many, so many like 212 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,080 Speaker 5: different stories, and my mama like she like it means 213 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 5: the last child because I ain't having no more. 214 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, I googled my name. 215 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,599 Speaker 5: I mean it was like I'll be seeing like it 216 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 5: has different I don't know man that I just stopped 217 00:09:24,280 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 5: giving about it for real. 218 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:26,559 Speaker 1: Yeah, I get it. 219 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,480 Speaker 6: I get I love when people have like unique names 220 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,880 Speaker 6: than nobody else. I met, nobody else I met. 221 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 2: I met a couple of girl name Parish. 222 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:37,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, I meant I met a girl name love parents, 223 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 5: but she spelled it different, like with a I spent 224 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:42,040 Speaker 5: with a apostrophe right. 225 00:09:42,720 --> 00:09:44,439 Speaker 1: One time I knew some girls that strip Their name 226 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 1: was Paris in London. 227 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 2: The want them bitches real names. I don't but plan 228 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 2: that's what it was. 229 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:53,240 Speaker 4: Though. 230 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 3: It was what you said you would have what's your 231 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 3: name would have been? 232 00:09:57,240 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: Yes, that would have been my U that one I did. 233 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 3: I can't remember what it was. 234 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 2: Because he got. 235 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 4: Was for real, because I know somebody gonna say in 236 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:10,559 Speaker 4: the comments because I told this story on what is 237 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,720 Speaker 4: he Okay, The truth is I was London. 238 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 1: My friend was Paris. 239 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 2: No, I apologize I'm talking about. 240 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 1: It wasn't name real name. 241 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 3: I was asking because in my mind like that a. 242 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,480 Speaker 1: Mother like you know that way. 243 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:34,599 Speaker 2: Blowing my cover so so she repairs and okay, I 244 00:10:35,960 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 2: I was young. 245 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:41,079 Speaker 1: I was just trying to, you know, work for much. 246 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 2: I want to name like my I got a little boy. 247 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 2: He pairs junr. But like if I have a little girl, 248 00:10:45,880 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 2: I want to name her like it. 249 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: Around the world like that Germany like that. 250 00:10:58,360 --> 00:10:58,600 Speaker 2: Talking. 251 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:03,640 Speaker 1: So are you and your mom close? Okay? 252 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 2: Good? 253 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: I like men that are close to their mom. 254 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm the youngest though, so I always been a mama. 255 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: Okay, you're a mama's boy. So how do you feel 256 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:11,079 Speaker 1: like that affects your dating? 257 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? Kind of because I be I'll be rolling up 258 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 2: with my girl like arms and ship like like how 259 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 2: you do my mama. 260 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: But you expect though, like because sometimes that gets hard. 261 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 2: Oh you mean like speaking more for to treat me 262 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 2: like my mama. 263 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 5: No, I don't never look for I don't never look 264 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 5: for another person and a new person, okay, like that 265 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 5: go to like like when I'm dealing with a girl, 266 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 5: I'll be like, hey, okay, don't take at what other 267 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 5: niggas did to you on me, Like I don't with 268 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:42,839 Speaker 5: your daddy or a boyfriend at your head, so I 269 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 5: don't take it that on me. Like so I never 270 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 5: looked for my mama and a woman like you feel 271 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 5: my mama a whole different. 272 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,800 Speaker 4: Like let's get the child, cause I feel like dating 273 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 4: a man that has a good relation with ship with 274 00:11:52,960 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 4: his mom. You can always tell the difference between a 275 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 4: man who has like mom issues and a man who doesn't. 276 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 3: So would you date somebody? 277 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 2: Did y'all ain't. I ain't gonna tell my ship driver. 278 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,439 Speaker 6: I would have told you, but we might have a 279 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 6: little some It's nice, I swear it's really nice. 280 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 2: Yeah it was craky. Look I my and it felt 281 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 2: a look. 282 00:12:21,800 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: That ice keeping it real? 283 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 4: I see you. 284 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 5: I need to stop smiling, but you stop smiling, you said, 285 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 5: I love smiling like being. 286 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 4: Hey, you know, I'm not gonna lie, surprise I never 287 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 4: because you know what, I'm not gonna lie. We haven't 288 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 4: had a lot of like male rappers on the show 289 00:12:41,480 --> 00:12:43,959 Speaker 4: just because sometimes I don't know what type of energy 290 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 4: they be on because I don't. 291 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 2: Know like me, you know, a lot of niggas ain't 292 00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 2: comfortable around with me, right, I know. 293 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,199 Speaker 1: That's why we just like we'd be like, oh no, 294 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 1: but you have been a pleasant surprise. 295 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:55,280 Speaker 3: Since you he was gonna be shot. 296 00:12:58,120 --> 00:12:58,959 Speaker 2: My nose swingting this? 297 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 4: Okay, So talk about your career outside of music, Like, 298 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 4: what else do you want to do? 299 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: Like, what are your goals? 300 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 2: I want? I want to act. I want to act. 301 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:19,559 Speaker 2: Uh the real estate estate going. 302 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 1: Wrong with real estate? 303 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 2: Ain't going wrong with Yeah, it's like to give him 304 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 2: for real? What else? 305 00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: What kind of actor do you want to do? 306 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 5: I feel like I kind of stereotyped myself by getting 307 00:13:30,400 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 5: permanent diamond. 308 00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: Those are permanent. 309 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like I kind of like, so if 310 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 5: you take them out, you ain't going Yeah, I got 311 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,760 Speaker 5: they only shaved three. 312 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 2: Of my teeth. 313 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 1: Oh, so you can technically just off and get like 314 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: if you. 315 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 2: Wanted to get my teeth white and ship, wait, you get. 316 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:50,360 Speaker 1: Your teeth whitened. 317 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 2: He can take them off and didn't get my real. 318 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 4: Whitey okay, so you can take them off. 319 00:13:57,880 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 3: But they see me on right? 320 00:13:59,280 --> 00:14:01,880 Speaker 2: Yes? No A covered dope boy. 321 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't look. You don't be knowing now my hand, 322 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: my bas clock in and go to work. 323 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:09,719 Speaker 4: I love you. 324 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:11,959 Speaker 1: That's old. I am you. 325 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 2: Women don't get old. You're probably like twenty eight twenty nine. 326 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 1: I'm forty three years old. 327 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 2: Ken what she said she forty three four? 328 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:28,640 Speaker 1: Really I'm thirty four. I'm thirty four. 329 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:32,760 Speaker 2: I say what I say, Yo, mama, if you forty three, I. 330 00:14:32,800 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 4: Got no, No, I'm really thirty four. But honestly, like, 331 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 4: I just don't be I don't be knowing what be 332 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 4: going on. I'm not a soul too, Like, I just 333 00:14:42,320 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 4: really don't I don't be knowing what's going on. I'm 334 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 4: really a homebody that stays home. I can to myself. 335 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 2: I don't be outside everything on the internet though, you 336 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 2: can be at home, but you know what, you. 337 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 3: Can ask my friend out on Google. 338 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: I don't even be on the internet like that. I 339 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: get on social media. 340 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 4: I talk to my friends, send them some funny little 341 00:14:58,160 --> 00:14:59,520 Speaker 4: memes or something, and I get. 342 00:14:59,440 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: Right back off. 343 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 2: Hell y'all. 344 00:15:04,280 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: Like a year, ten yr anniversaries? Next year? Oh wow, 345 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take you on a trip. Where we going? 346 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 2: What? 347 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: What's up? 348 00:15:20,680 --> 00:15:20,840 Speaker 2: Y'all? 349 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,920 Speaker 4: Is your girl lexp? 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That's rocket money dot com slash poor minds. 376 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 4: Rocket money dot com slash poor minds. Okay, talk about 377 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 4: because how old are you? You're twenty six and you 378 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 4: have an eight year old son. So you had your 379 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,040 Speaker 4: son pretty early? How was that becoming a young father? 380 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 9: Uh? 381 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 2: It was scary, bro, Yeah, it was scared as well 382 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 2: because then before, like I had a. 383 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 5: Career and I was in jail when my baby was 384 00:16:58,880 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 5: born and shit, So when I came home, everybody looking 385 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 5: at me like what you're going through then? Like, yeah, 386 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 5: it was I ain't gonna like it was a lot 387 00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 5: of pressure forel But I ended up making the Heaven 388 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 5: type ship. But it was life changing, and I feel 389 00:17:11,359 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 5: like like I wouldn't I wouldn't have boken down and 390 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:16,480 Speaker 5: just and just went as hard as I went. You 391 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 5: feel me only things that I wanted in life if 392 00:17:18,520 --> 00:17:19,119 Speaker 5: it wasn't for my. 393 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 1: Son type sh how's your relationship with your baby mama? 394 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 2: Oh good? She ended up having another baby and shit 395 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 2: with another with another nice gentleman. 396 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 6: You know, I like when people say stuff like that 397 00:17:32,920 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 6: because I think people just always assume that, like people 398 00:17:35,840 --> 00:17:38,159 Speaker 6: break up and they can't have an amicable relationship with 399 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 6: a baby, baby baby. 400 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:44,040 Speaker 4: I feel like the only time now I realize, as 401 00:17:44,080 --> 00:17:45,840 Speaker 4: I get older, I can date a man with the 402 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 4: kids if his baby mama is either dead in jail 403 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 4: or she. 404 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,560 Speaker 1: Got another baby in jail. Yeah, like I need that 405 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 1: whole gone. 406 00:17:53,960 --> 00:17:57,000 Speaker 4: But if she's still here and free, she needs to 407 00:17:57,040 --> 00:18:02,040 Speaker 4: have a baby by another man, that means she's moving Yeah, okay, 408 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 4: well she wet to worry about that baby. 409 00:18:08,800 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 3: She just moved on for a little bit. 410 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 2: Yes, she just got bring. 411 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 1: We're gonna snitch on this. 412 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 2: Look at you. 413 00:18:23,000 --> 00:18:25,480 Speaker 3: I does have a leam, like I have a one baby, Mamaimi. 414 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,280 Speaker 2: Y'all ain't drinking, y'all, little drink drinking. 415 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 1: Okay, speaking of our drink, what are we drinking? He 416 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: read He's so good. 417 00:18:34,960 --> 00:18:39,679 Speaker 7: Okay, So for our guests, we have lipeasy pineapple. Okay, 418 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 7: so his has some reposito tequila in it. It has 419 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 7: some pineapple juice, a little bit of simple syrup, some 420 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 7: triple sec and for the girls, they have the mocktails 421 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:52,440 Speaker 7: because we're doing dry January. So theirs has some coconut water, 422 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 7: pineapple lime juice, and a little bit of jalapeno agave 423 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 7: just to give them a little spice. Everybody's has some 424 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 7: pineapple fronts, these little pretty green leaves of pineapple slice. 425 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 7: And then for the girls, they have some sprinkled coconut 426 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:07,160 Speaker 7: flix on top. 427 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:08,160 Speaker 3: So that's. 428 00:19:12,640 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 4: I know, everybody, so as you so, y'all know. This 429 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:34,320 Speaker 4: episode is brought to y'all by LS Cream Liquur. Y'all 430 00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 4: make sure y'all go to y'all's local liquor store. Your 431 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 4: bars are requested. It is super good, y'all. We are 432 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 4: still in the winter season, so you can add this 433 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 4: to your coffee. You can have it straight. Get up 434 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 4: a little bit. 435 00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 6: How have you won't We said you can make some 436 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 6: little boozy desserts, you know, make you some little brownies. 437 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 3: Ask some little in there. 438 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: Real good. 439 00:19:53,800 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 4: So let me ask you this before we get into 440 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 4: the topics. You've been in Atlanta for three years. You 441 00:19:57,400 --> 00:19:59,760 Speaker 4: said I was dating in Atlanta. 442 00:19:59,800 --> 00:20:06,040 Speaker 2: B I'm a hope it's romantic, for this is no 443 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 2: city you're a lover boy. This is no city for 444 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:10,480 Speaker 2: a nigga, what mine? 445 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 3: Okay, this surprising that you're a lover boy. 446 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 2: That ain't surprising being trying to do us. It is 447 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:21,679 Speaker 2: answer some queers. 448 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:27,040 Speaker 5: I'm explaining quer well, I'm explaining myself, like now I 449 00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 5: can say a queers because they I don't hear. 450 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 2: Motherfucker say. 451 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 5: It's about a lot of quers like, oh y'all be 452 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 5: They say we don't take ships serious, but no we 453 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:36,639 Speaker 5: we were very emotional, but we don't show it. So 454 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:39,440 Speaker 5: we we are like levet ship off and sheldn't be like, 455 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 5: so they'll think we don't take sis. 456 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 2: I'm mad. I'm heart brother, you just don't wear your emotions. 457 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:56,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, real talk like I don't know so you're a 458 00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 1: single right now? 459 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,040 Speaker 2: No, I gotta look, I gotta love. I gotta. 460 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,480 Speaker 1: How you found. 461 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 2: Somebody like I'm still looking. 462 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 9: It's like, no, not like that. 463 00:21:09,440 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 2: She's gonna have to respect that. 464 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 5: I'm growing there, man, But look, it ain't like I'm okay, 465 00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 5: I'm fuking her, but I'm still like, oh yeah, I 466 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 5: like it. 467 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 2: It's all some ship. Like it's some ship like I 468 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 2: found I picked the wrong like lying that being there 469 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 2: to find somebody who don't love me for me. So 470 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,399 Speaker 2: it's like it takes it takes a little time, you 471 00:21:36,480 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 2: an't it ain't know like we just get together and 472 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 2: then I think, oh yeah, marriage, you know it take 473 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 2: a little time. As soon as you sunk up, I'm 474 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:49,399 Speaker 2: right at that's street what it's a football coach. I 475 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 2: know that's what you're saying. 476 00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: You feel like the woman that right now, that's not 477 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: the one? What you mean? 478 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:58,720 Speaker 2: Streak? Hold on? What's the what's the what's the whole on? 479 00:21:58,840 --> 00:21:59,840 Speaker 2: Hold on? What strict do you? 480 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 6: When I think a streakt I just think somebody that 481 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 6: he's trying to like restrict you, like what you're wearing, 482 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:09,560 Speaker 6: ship here, what you're wearing, where you going? Always gotta 483 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 6: where about everything you're doing. 484 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:16,399 Speaker 2: See. My type of streak is like like so he 485 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: like stick of hugs? 486 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:21,159 Speaker 1: You don't want to. 487 00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 3: Me that's the rest. 488 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 4: Shouldn't be Like when I'm dealing with a man, I 489 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:33,120 Speaker 4: am very like I'm strict with like I don't don't hey, Hey, 490 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:33,520 Speaker 4: what's up? 491 00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: Hoe? What's something? 492 00:22:34,600 --> 00:22:34,919 Speaker 2: Nigga? 493 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: Good bro? 494 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 4: Because you know what you know what it is about women, 495 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 4: especially us being in this position too. As soon as 496 00:22:44,000 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 4: you give a nigga a hug and say, hey, how 497 00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:46,919 Speaker 4: you doing to change Instagram? Oh? 498 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:48,480 Speaker 1: Ye want with me? 499 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 2: Bro? She was only at homeboy, Like, the worst. 500 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,680 Speaker 4: Thing for me is because if you make me look bad, 501 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 4: it makes my man look bad. And now I'm be 502 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 4: pig because I do not like I like for my men. 503 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:04,320 Speaker 4: I want when like me and my man walking in 504 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,040 Speaker 4: the room, they be like, damn, I could get up 505 00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 4: like ship, that's what it mean. Like that's how the 506 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 4: energy like I like to give off. 507 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,640 Speaker 5: That all women thought like that because I ain't gonna 508 00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:17,720 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna lie. I feeling like some girls be 509 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:19,399 Speaker 5: thinking like I don't want to like throw off the 510 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 5: energy in the room. So I don't want to be 511 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 5: booge and ship nah be fucking bullge. You don't need 512 00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 5: to worry about like what you got going like. You 513 00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,480 Speaker 5: ain't even got to worry about the energy in the room. 514 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 4: I agree, because that's my job, right And I mean 515 00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,640 Speaker 4: there's a way to be nice, Yeah, speak and still 516 00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 4: be respectful. 517 00:23:36,320 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 6: You will speak, would not be all in somebody's face. 518 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 6: I feel like, like you said, it's just a respect thing. 519 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 6: If you have a man, you shouldn't be you. 520 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,239 Speaker 2: Should feel right here in your heart, like, well, want 521 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 2: to face. 522 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: I'm like a maman when I'm with a man, I'm 523 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: like a mommy and my me. 524 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 6: And for some people, I just feel like it's just 525 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 6: a personality thing too, like some people just still in general, 526 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:58,320 Speaker 6: Like I feel like I'm already kind of like that. 527 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 6: So I'm just not gonna be up any his faces 528 00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 6: regardless because it's just not even my personality. 529 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 2: Like me, I ain't gonna lie. 530 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 5: I got initially like bubbly personality, but I shut the 531 00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 5: ship off. I feel like a motherfucker trying to make 532 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 5: my whole little stupid, like because some. 533 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 2: Girls be doing that on purpose, Like he over there 534 00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 2: with her, Like I was at the Script club with 535 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 2: a girl that I really liked, seem at the time, 536 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 2: and then a scripple that I used to be hitting 537 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:27,679 Speaker 2: on and ship right on, like breaking up, breaking up, but. 538 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 5: I stopped sucking with her though, right so he woke up. 539 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 5: She see me with the girls, so she woke up 540 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:36,920 Speaker 5: like me, uh takes you, but she's still a loud 541 00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,080 Speaker 5: as hear, so the girl can so I peep peep, 542 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 5: I ain't gonna I got a mean poker phrase. 543 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:50,359 Speaker 2: He was looking at me, yeah, like it was like 544 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:51,800 Speaker 2: one of them like who the. 545 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: Fuck is m mmmm? 546 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 3: I know how she feels stupid. 547 00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:01,399 Speaker 2: And start a conversation with the girl. But that's how 548 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,879 Speaker 2: you're supposed too stupid. Is that when we was at 549 00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:04,959 Speaker 2: when we was at uh. 550 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: But I feel like a lot of women. 551 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,399 Speaker 4: Sitation like that to embarrassed. I'll be like, all right, 552 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 4: by I know I wouldn't even because this is the thing, 553 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:22,879 Speaker 4: when you're in a relationship, the only way outsiders are 554 00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 4: gonna respect you or your partner is how much you 555 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 4: allow that to happen. So a lot of times when 556 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,040 Speaker 4: girls be like all this whole being disrespectful, she being 557 00:25:31,080 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 4: disrespect No, your nigga is allowing that. 558 00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:36,960 Speaker 1: He is allowing that period. Or if you feel like 559 00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 1: a nigga. 560 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 4: Is playing in your face and like man, he's trying 561 00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:40,920 Speaker 4: to that's because. 562 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:43,360 Speaker 1: Your woman is allowing that. I'd be damn. 563 00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 4: Can't nobody ever, I always said, can't nobody ever walk 564 00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:48,480 Speaker 4: up to my nigga and stay ship anybody that I'm dating, 565 00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,840 Speaker 4: because when I'm with you, I am with you. Ain't 566 00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 4: no text messages finn be pulled, Ain't no Instagram dms, 567 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:55,080 Speaker 4: I don't I don't do that. 568 00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 6: Because we always say cheating is technically doing anything that 569 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,119 Speaker 6: you can't tell your partner. Hello, sow Dick goes to 570 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:03,959 Speaker 6: like text messages and d ms, and she too. 571 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 2: If you got to hide and you treating, that's what 572 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:09,800 Speaker 2: I gotta. I got a couple of I got a 573 00:26:09,840 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 2: couple of damn ship I wouldn't tell the motherfucker about. 574 00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,960 Speaker 4: You've been sliding them sometimes, like when you're one hundred, 575 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,679 Speaker 4: are you like a damn slider that you. 576 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 2: Actually but I would rather I would really meet the 577 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:24,919 Speaker 2: mother fucking person. Though. Okay, you know you got my cologne. 578 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 1: That's wrong. 579 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 6: Do you actually say something or do you like just 580 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 6: seeing a little amouji or something little mo? 581 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:33,040 Speaker 2: I don't be knowing what to say. 582 00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:39,119 Speaker 1: What about you be sitting there? Oh, I know that's right, 583 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: but that's already got all you really need. 584 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 4: I feel like, I mean, it comes with the territory 585 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,040 Speaker 4: of what you do for a living, so you don't 586 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:47,800 Speaker 4: have to say nothing. 587 00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 1: You could. 588 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 4: Really all you really have to do is like a 589 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 4: girl picture and she gonna. 590 00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 3: Be like, probably come like some of yours. 591 00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,720 Speaker 5: Responding, Bait, I don't like like a picture because a 592 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 5: motherfucker see her picture? 593 00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 2: On this floor page and see you as. 594 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, you know it's crazy, A really like 595 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 4: a list rapper had liked Drea's pictures one time and 596 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 4: I had a dude screenshot her picture. 597 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: Was like, oh, I didn't know Dreya knew. It was 598 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 1: such a space. It was the weirdest ship ever. 599 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,200 Speaker 3: I was like, so weird, y'all. 600 00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 6: Remember when Instagram used to actually have their page where 601 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 6: it used to show you what people used to like, Miss. 602 00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 2: D of this. 603 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:31,199 Speaker 4: Whatever people was doing all day on instagrams. I love missing, 604 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 4: I love miss I don't care what I am. I 605 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 4: lived for drama as long as it's not mine. 606 00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: I seen you before. That's right, get into this. 607 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,280 Speaker 6: First time we even got into the first topic. 608 00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:59,360 Speaker 4: I don't care here, Okay, So I wanted to talk 609 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 4: about this because this kind of goes into what we're 610 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 4: talking about right now. 611 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:07,080 Speaker 1: So can you regain trust for a person that you lost? 612 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:10,040 Speaker 1: Trust you? People can change and grow. 613 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 2: I think people can change and grow, but I'm not 614 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 2: going to trust you again once you leave. 615 00:28:15,119 --> 00:28:18,840 Speaker 5: You ain't getting that right. You shouldn't moved your seat. 616 00:28:18,920 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 5: Now you moved your feet, now you lose your seat. 617 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:32,680 Speaker 6: I think there is I think it's kind of stumble 618 00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 6: when people say that, though, like, once you don't trust somebody, 619 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 6: you could trust them again. I don't think you're ever 620 00:28:38,400 --> 00:28:40,520 Speaker 6: gonna really trust a person again. I think you're gonna 621 00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:43,440 Speaker 6: you can try, you can try, but like, depending on 622 00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:45,640 Speaker 6: what they did, that offense is gonna always still be 623 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:47,920 Speaker 6: in the back of your mind no matter what. 624 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,640 Speaker 2: Keep seeing the trigger you and you're gonna think about. 625 00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 4: This it Like, let me tell y'all some real ship 626 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,960 Speaker 4: right now, because I used to think that if you 627 00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 4: lose trust with somebody that they can prove himself to 628 00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 4: you been changing it. But let me tell you why 629 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 4: that's cap and that's completely false. And I'm gonna tell 630 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 4: you from my point of view of me being the 631 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 4: person that was untrustworthy. So I was dealing with this 632 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:17,400 Speaker 4: person and he had did some like fucked up ship 633 00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 4: to me right and I decided to do some fun 634 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:22,280 Speaker 4: up ship back to him. 635 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 2: But mine was I don't know about what he did 636 00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,080 Speaker 2: what I basically, I went. 637 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 4: To Paris and I told him I was with my 638 00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:34,800 Speaker 4: mom out there, and I was, yeah, yeah. 639 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:37,080 Speaker 1: I was a whole flight kick back in first class? 640 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:43,080 Speaker 1: Did I get a refill? He was very sick. 641 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 4: But I'll say this, from that point on, you know, 642 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:48,959 Speaker 4: we got back together and we dealt with each other 643 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 4: for a very long time. But as I, like I said, 644 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 4: as I grow and I learned and I look back 645 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:58,440 Speaker 4: on our relationship, I never stopped doing ship because I 646 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:00,240 Speaker 4: always felt like he was doing sh I had to 647 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,800 Speaker 4: get one up on him, you know what I'm saying. 648 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,000 Speaker 1: We had a very toxic relationship. 649 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:06,440 Speaker 4: But it was like he was like, I don't trust you, 650 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 4: and I'd be like, why, I haven't done anything, And 651 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, bitch, you ain't done nothing in like 652 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,440 Speaker 4: six months. But you know, once you do something, you 653 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 4: finna do something again. Because it was like that trust 654 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 4: for him was broken. 655 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:20,000 Speaker 1: No no, no, no no no no no no. Not 656 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 1: all girls like that. 657 00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:23,239 Speaker 3: I'm just saying I agree with what she's saying as 658 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:23,720 Speaker 3: far as. 659 00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 1: Like what she did. 660 00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:29,240 Speaker 4: What like once I kind of made him my number 661 00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:32,560 Speaker 4: two because essentially when I went to Paris, like I 662 00:30:32,640 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 4: stopped talking to him. When I got back from Paris 663 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 4: and I got in a relationship with that guy. So 664 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 4: at that point, like I started sucking with somebody else. 665 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 4: And once I made him my number two, I would 666 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 4: always try to have him as my number one, but 667 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,520 Speaker 4: like I would, I don't want to say get distracted. 668 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,360 Speaker 4: But it was easy for me to linger off from 669 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,880 Speaker 4: him because I had done it before. So it was 670 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,320 Speaker 4: easy for me to be like, oh, let me go 671 00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 4: off and do something else because I had did it before, 672 00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 4: and I knew he was gonna forgive. 673 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 2: Me if you cheat. If you cheat, yeah, that's the truth. 674 00:30:59,440 --> 00:31:01,920 Speaker 1: I used to believe that people can change. 675 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 2: That's girls. 676 00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 4: I feel like once you break that trust in that 677 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 4: bond and I have tried I have, there's. 678 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 1: No way you can get it back. You can't. 679 00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 6: Here's no white Like I said, no matter how hard 680 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 6: a person tried to get over whatever it is that 681 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,440 Speaker 6: you did to them, it's still gonna always be in 682 00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 6: the back of their mind. That's why people that's why 683 00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,200 Speaker 6: they're saying it's true. Ignorance is least what. 684 00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:25,360 Speaker 1: You don't know. You don't know. 685 00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,160 Speaker 3: When you know about some sheet, it's gonna always be 686 00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 3: in your heads. 687 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:35,120 Speaker 2: I tell you, or I would want to know. 688 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 6: To be honest, especially if it was like some ship 689 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 6: where he did and she like one time or something 690 00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 6: and he didn't do it again, like just keep this 691 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 6: shoe to yourself. Don't tell me about it because now 692 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 6: once because once I know about it, you are cheater 693 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:50,760 Speaker 6: to me. I don't give a funk if you did 694 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:56,800 Speaker 6: that she wants and she stayed with you, But did 695 00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 6: she trusts you or what? 696 00:31:57,760 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 2: She always wonder where you was at and what she 697 00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 2: was She told me, like I respect the fact that 698 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 2: you ken't it real with me, so like I know, 699 00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 2: like like she basically put it like she she know 700 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,880 Speaker 2: like if I over and do anything, I'm gonna tell 701 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:15,920 Speaker 2: one up on her. 702 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:17,880 Speaker 6: But at the end of the day, but you don't 703 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 6: feel like she after that she was kind of like 704 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,840 Speaker 6: not trusted as much as she was. 705 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:23,360 Speaker 2: I feel like she's cheated. 706 00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 3: You think she cheated. 707 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:27,840 Speaker 2: I feel like dah damn, I mean happening. 708 00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 4: But I'm telling you, I think a lot of times men, Look, 709 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:33,200 Speaker 4: I may be stitching on the ladies right now, but 710 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 4: I think a lot of times men underestimate women too. 711 00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,240 Speaker 4: They be thinking a lot of times we'd be so 712 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 4: heartbroken and we'd be like when y'all, y'all, y'all. I mean, 713 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 4: we've had to learn to be though. We literally had 714 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 4: to learn to because it's like, what am I supposed 715 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 4: to do just be in the house sitting here crying 716 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:49,280 Speaker 4: while you out having a ball. 717 00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,520 Speaker 1: No, I'm finna go out have a ball to see 718 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:52,320 Speaker 1: my philosophy. 719 00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 3: I just feel like, just break up with the person, like. 720 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 1: If you're like not in a relationship. 721 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 4: I mean, like if you're dealing with somebody and they're 722 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:01,840 Speaker 4: like when I'm dealing with you, I'm damn sure not 723 00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,000 Speaker 4: about to talk to you no more because you don't 724 00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 4: disrespect me and we're not even together, like even sticking around. 725 00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: Y'all believe in being faithful during the talking stay No, 726 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: I know exactly. 727 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:18,320 Speaker 3: That's my fast that is talking stage. 728 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 6: You mean, like as far as faithful, like if I'm 729 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,080 Speaker 6: sleeping with one person, I'm not going to be sleeping 730 00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:23,680 Speaker 6: with other people. 731 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 3: But that's just a personal preference. But as far as like. 732 00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, always though, sometimes you just be talking to people 733 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:39,560 Speaker 6: like y'all just be kicking, okay, somebody that you want 734 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 6: on dates week, I don't know, I just bee day. 735 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 2: Of course the other people on phone we're going on dates. 736 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 3: I can date other people unless you ask me to 737 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 3: be your girl. 738 00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: I agree, But I'm talking about somebody. 739 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 2: Like y. 740 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm talking about. 741 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 4: Somebody that you're actually having sex with. If I'm only 742 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 4: having sex with you, you only need to be having 743 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,200 Speaker 4: sex with for sure. 744 00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:07,440 Speaker 1: That's fair. 745 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with that. Yeah, but you said faithful. 746 00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:14,200 Speaker 6: When I think of faithful, I feel I'm thinking of 747 00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 6: not talking to nobody. 748 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,919 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm feel I feel flirt. 749 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, if we're talking now, you're the only one I'm 750 00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:26,920 Speaker 4: having sex. 751 00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:28,080 Speaker 1: But I'm definitely. 752 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:34,359 Speaker 2: I know the club Yeah yeah, club and ship. 753 00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:36,440 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you really feeling me like that? 754 00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 3: Make me your girl? 755 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,200 Speaker 2: Write that letter? Yeah? 756 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:49,760 Speaker 4: Okay, So let us know how y'all feel in the comments. 757 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 4: Do you think somebody can regain trust? 758 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 1: So you think is dead? 759 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:53,480 Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead with the second. 760 00:34:55,680 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 6: But the second topic I kind of wanted to talk about, 761 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 6: like because I had seen a post on Twitter or whatever. 762 00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:03,200 Speaker 1: You having a good time. 763 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 6: No friends, So basically y' also, I've seen the tweet 764 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 6: and it basically was just saying that like these days, 765 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 6: modern women use men as props to compete with each 766 00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 6: other or to compete with other women. The friends just 767 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 6: basically like we only dating niggas to try to compete 768 00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 6: with our homegirls, to like talk about who can get 769 00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:35,439 Speaker 6: what from the nigga? Who has the better nigga based 770 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 6: off of what he do for you in X, Y 771 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:40,919 Speaker 6: and Z, not off of like genuine characteristics and genuine entries. 772 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:41,399 Speaker 1: No more. 773 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,280 Speaker 2: Damn, that's what's going on you, honestly. 774 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:46,680 Speaker 3: But I want to know y'all perspectives. 775 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:47,880 Speaker 1: I think that it's true. 776 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 2: I feel like it's a possibility too. That's fucked up. 777 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 5: I don't know because I ain't no woman, but I 778 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,759 Speaker 5: feel like that's a possibility because I'd be seeing a 779 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 5: lot of like you, a good. 780 00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:00,320 Speaker 2: Person, but a lame man nigga. 781 00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,120 Speaker 1: Know this, you right? 782 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,439 Speaker 2: His conversation name cool. 783 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:05,640 Speaker 1: He's not like a dirty macker. 784 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:06,760 Speaker 2: No, I ain't. 785 00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 5: No, No, I'm saying I'm just saying this in my head. 786 00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:11,080 Speaker 5: I'm not I'm not saying this to her. I'm saying 787 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:11,799 Speaker 5: this in my head. 788 00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 2: But it's like that. 789 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 1: Wayne, he's ugly. Caroline is fucked up. 790 00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 4: Right, But no, I do feel like we live in 791 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 4: a society obviously, where you know, if a man loves 792 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 4: you and he's getting you things, of course we all 793 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:29,880 Speaker 4: want to brag, you know, like show it off whatever. 794 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:33,000 Speaker 4: But I think it's a difference between you really genuinely 795 00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 4: loving a man and he's doing this nice gesture for 796 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,680 Speaker 4: you and your love. He's loving you out loud. You 797 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 4: loving him out loud. You're showing your friends and your 798 00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 4: family because you're happy. It's because he's loving you in 799 00:36:43,040 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 4: the way you wanted to be loved. But let's keep 800 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,480 Speaker 4: it real. All of a sudden, everybody's love language is 801 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:48,320 Speaker 4: receiving gifts. 802 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,759 Speaker 2: That's not what you really care about. 803 00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:51,239 Speaker 4: You just care. 804 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,400 Speaker 1: You don't even know exactly. Bitch, whole time, you need 805 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,800 Speaker 1: words of affirmations. You got bags and shoes, and you depressed. 806 00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:01,720 Speaker 6: Them cause the nigga ain't you need acts of service. 807 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 6: You stressed out because you got so much shit on 808 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:04,000 Speaker 6: your plate. 809 00:37:04,120 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 3: You need you white. 810 00:37:07,520 --> 00:37:09,879 Speaker 1: Sack because the nigga ain't said I hated her thirty days. 811 00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 1: That's true, But I'm telling you because that's when it 812 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,759 Speaker 1: gets a little fucked up because you're looking at her. 813 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 1: Her love language really is unfulfilled. Because you're looking at her. 814 00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: You don't even realize her man is loving her the 815 00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,000 Speaker 1: way she wants to be loved. 816 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:28,800 Speaker 6: But I say that all the time, I've said that 817 00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 6: before on the show. I think these days people don't 818 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 6: even be wanting she no more, just because they want it. 819 00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:36,240 Speaker 6: They just want it because they see everybody else heavy. 820 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 6: It's not even something that you always was like, ooh, 821 00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,400 Speaker 6: I really wanted these real bad You just see all 822 00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:42,480 Speaker 6: of these other people getting the sheet and you like, well, 823 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 6: if they got it. 824 00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 3: I deserve it too. 825 00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,360 Speaker 6: Because of social media, everybody looking at everybody's life. But 826 00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,839 Speaker 6: people don't be realizing. People don't post the bad part. 827 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,840 Speaker 6: All they posting is the gifts and she and the troops. 828 00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,320 Speaker 4: Do you feel pressure because you know you make money 829 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:58,960 Speaker 4: and who you are, like when you're dating the girl 830 00:37:59,080 --> 00:37:59,960 Speaker 4: to like spend that much? 831 00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, what was the best gift you bought a girl? 832 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,280 Speaker 2: It's good? Probably like a person, Yeah, right, like a person. 833 00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:09,520 Speaker 4: What kind of person we're talking? We're talking like a 834 00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 4: Chanelle or like a Louis. I like a Michael Cord. 835 00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:13,760 Speaker 2: No, it was a Louis. 836 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 4: They're not wrong with a little Michael. Course, I'm saying 837 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:16,640 Speaker 4: there's just less. 838 00:38:16,680 --> 00:38:20,959 Speaker 2: It's something wrong with that. M kir'st got some good person. 839 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:22,839 Speaker 1: Now you know he has a more luxury line. Now 840 00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,480 Speaker 1: you see what? Yeah, you know what she was trying 841 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: to do. 842 00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 2: And it's your friend. There's your friend twenty fifteen Mama. 843 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:33,880 Speaker 1: Now he remember that here. 844 00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,800 Speaker 4: You know what she was doing. Okay, so you got it, 845 00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:40,440 Speaker 4: so okay, But but do you feel pressure like when 846 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,040 Speaker 4: girls like you know, do you feel like girls trying 847 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:44,359 Speaker 4: to mama? 848 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 5: If I feel pressure, like damn, I'm gonna leave her 849 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 5: alone because like why you're getting the m J out. 850 00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like the motherfuckers. 851 00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:51,480 Speaker 6: You know. 852 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 2: Of course you feel my nigga having his way, so 853 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 2: of course, like you know, I want you to look 854 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 2: like me like you feel. I want you to live 855 00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:57,480 Speaker 2: like me. 856 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:58,879 Speaker 5: I want you to know what I'm saying. You gotta 857 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,320 Speaker 5: feel like me, like if I feel pressure to do it? 858 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 5: Oh no, that's ain't right. Yeah, it's something wrong with it. 859 00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:04,960 Speaker 1: Off the riff. 860 00:39:05,080 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 6: I feel like people just gonna be having no they'll 861 00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:11,719 Speaker 6: be having like no game because even with that, like 862 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:13,279 Speaker 6: I've been seeing so much stuff like I don't know, 863 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 6: if y'all seen those episodes of this Showtess on YouTube, 864 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:18,440 Speaker 6: would the reference be going on there? 865 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 2: Girl? 866 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all don't be having no. 867 00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:29,239 Speaker 4: There looking so thirsty and south cringe so bad. Yay 868 00:39:30,520 --> 00:39:32,399 Speaker 4: was bad too, because remember he pulled off the money. 869 00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:33,239 Speaker 1: That's why I brought that. 870 00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,600 Speaker 6: Up because it's like, even if you want money. Even 871 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 6: if that's why you're there and that's what you want. 872 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,560 Speaker 4: You want to mask it a little bit. He ran 873 00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 4: from the back of the line howls to be having 874 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,279 Speaker 4: no shame these days. 875 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,840 Speaker 2: All the old I mean all these A lot of 876 00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 2: these women have grew up to be wholes Yeah, just 877 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 2: to keep it up. 878 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:56,399 Speaker 3: But could you respect it more? 879 00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:56,680 Speaker 2: Thout? 880 00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 3: Like, which one would you respect more? 881 00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:58,800 Speaker 1: Though? Do you respect? 882 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:02,799 Speaker 2: I respect? I'm on keeping a real regarding you if 883 00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 2: you want money and keep a real. 884 00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 4: But let me play that was advocate and I'm gonna 885 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,600 Speaker 4: be real. The reason why a lot of these women 886 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:08,560 Speaker 4: are like this is because what. 887 00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:14,879 Speaker 1: With their money. Right off the top, niggas. 888 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,399 Speaker 4: Are buying a girl ship just so she can brag 889 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,240 Speaker 4: about it, so that'll make him look like that nigga 890 00:40:18,280 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 4: so he can attract more. 891 00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,120 Speaker 1: So this is really the product of what men have done. 892 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 1: If we want to really keep it one honey, I. 893 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 2: Wouldn't say men did it now I'm telling you they did. 894 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:30,879 Speaker 2: I wouldn't say we did. 895 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 6: With the money all the time, then what do you 896 00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:36,600 Speaker 6: expect a woman to expect from the situation. 897 00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:39,160 Speaker 5: That's real though I'm not saying that's wrong because a 898 00:40:39,200 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 5: lot of niggas be leading with their money, but it's 899 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,360 Speaker 5: a lot of niggas like myself who lead with careers 900 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:45,360 Speaker 5: much good conversation. 901 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:46,440 Speaker 2: You know, I'm handsome. 902 00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 4: I think we have to realize though society was created, 903 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,880 Speaker 4: this is a society that man created of like the 904 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 4: man being the worker and the provider. Women, we weren't 905 00:40:56,600 --> 00:40:58,640 Speaker 4: even able to go and have open a bank account 906 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 4: of seventy you know what I'm saying. So it's like, 907 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 4: this is a system that y'all created for us to 908 00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:04,879 Speaker 4: depend on y'all. 909 00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 1: So now it's like when women want to really really 910 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:08,960 Speaker 1: do that. Oh, now it's a problem. 911 00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:10,760 Speaker 2: I feel like women. I feel like women been depending 912 00:41:10,800 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 2: on me and. 913 00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:16,000 Speaker 1: I think more so it's less kids like that. 914 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:20,759 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's been like that since the beginning of time. 915 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:22,279 Speaker 1: But that's that's what I'm saying. 916 00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:25,319 Speaker 4: This is a structure that man has created, So y'all 917 00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 4: can't be mad at us for Hey, we're just going 918 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:28,640 Speaker 4: along with what y'all created. 919 00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:29,479 Speaker 2: You want to know how I feel. 920 00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:32,720 Speaker 5: I feel like it's been like this since the beginning 921 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,520 Speaker 5: of time, right, I feel like women take take care 922 00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:37,800 Speaker 5: of the kids, stay home, and a man for show provide. 923 00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 2: But I feel like them women back then came with 924 00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 2: they didn't have a fifty thousand body count. They didn't 925 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 2: they didn't go to the club. Look, they didn't go 926 00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:49,719 Speaker 2: to the club every night. We were just talking about this. 927 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,160 Speaker 2: They didn't go to the club every night. They didn't 928 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:54,640 Speaker 2: smoke and drink and pop perks like you do. 929 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,319 Speaker 1: Feel no real talk. 930 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 2: So it's like, it's like, how could I be the 931 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:05,600 Speaker 2: man that I'm supposed to be with a woman like this? 932 00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 5: So it's like that's the thing you feel. So it's 933 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,680 Speaker 5: like a nigga, I don't know. I don't want to 934 00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:12,759 Speaker 5: make it up man versus woman thin because I love women. 935 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,959 Speaker 5: But that's how I'm just the devil's advocate and point 936 00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:19,600 Speaker 5: to those valid points. 937 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:20,000 Speaker 2: That you just made. 938 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 4: But you know what, I'm not gonna lie to y'all. 939 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 4: I think the dating pull for me. Like I always 940 00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:25,040 Speaker 4: say this, I have a wonderful time dating. 941 00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: I really do. But that's because I. 942 00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:28,439 Speaker 2: Changed you like flirting and ship. 943 00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? 944 00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,160 Speaker 4: When I'm single, Yeah, but when i'm like not like 945 00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,960 Speaker 4: when I'm with my nigga, I don't I'm very much 946 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:44,799 Speaker 4: I'm saying, yeah, very upsets but like if you meet 947 00:42:44,840 --> 00:42:47,400 Speaker 4: any nigga that came on poor be like Lexie is 948 00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:53,480 Speaker 4: like that, Yes I'm not, but I will say I 949 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:58,279 Speaker 4: just feel like I changed my environment of where I 950 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 4: was hanging out at, what I was giving my energy to. 951 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 4: I changed the type of man I was dating because 952 00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:04,520 Speaker 4: I knew the type of man I kept dating, I 953 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,200 Speaker 4: wasn't gonna get the results I wanted. So I feel 954 00:43:07,239 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 4: like if you sometimes you do have to change your type, 955 00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:12,000 Speaker 4: Like you know what I'm saying. Like, I'm not trying 956 00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:13,920 Speaker 4: to be around somebody. I don't want to date a 957 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:15,359 Speaker 4: man who likes to be in the club every night. 958 00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,600 Speaker 4: So it's like, if you want a woman who I'm 959 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:18,840 Speaker 4: not saying you what I'm saying, If you want a 960 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,160 Speaker 4: woman who's not in the club every night, and you. 961 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 1: Need to get your ass about that club, you. 962 00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying, Because you're not gonna find. 963 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,880 Speaker 4: The woman that you're looking for in the club or 964 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 4: on Instagram. 965 00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:29,560 Speaker 3: You might you might find out. 966 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:30,840 Speaker 1: You know, Instagram is different. 967 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,919 Speaker 4: You can find all walks of woman. You gotta change 968 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:38,359 Speaker 4: your algorithms. Stop liking the big booty hosts. I don't 969 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,160 Speaker 4: want to see exactly what you be like only fans page. 970 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: That's when it's gonna look like we ain't gonna see 971 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:45,080 Speaker 1: nothing but ass it. 972 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:47,960 Speaker 3: What is it exactly? 973 00:43:51,880 --> 00:44:01,040 Speaker 6: It's the first picture for me, pasy. I mean, you're right, 974 00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:03,399 Speaker 6: but that's why that's why you be fining the house. 975 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,399 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna lie. I don't take nothing. I'm gonna 976 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,200 Speaker 2: keep it a hundred. I don't take nothing. That d 977 00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:09,319 Speaker 2: M series on my mom. 978 00:44:09,480 --> 00:44:10,880 Speaker 5: If we meet in person. That's why I say I 979 00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 5: would rather meet a motherfucking person and we meet in person, 980 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:15,280 Speaker 5: then like, and you gonna. 981 00:44:15,040 --> 00:44:15,680 Speaker 2: Take this serious? 982 00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:17,239 Speaker 5: Like I just I just always just walking out the 983 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,360 Speaker 5: club and it was a girl in the line beautiful Haitian, 984 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 5: and then I stopped and talk to ards ship. 985 00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:25,560 Speaker 2: I felt like the world stopped, like a movie. 986 00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,000 Speaker 1: You all love it more. 987 00:44:27,160 --> 00:44:29,680 Speaker 2: I'm trying you. I'm hoping little. I believe in like 988 00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:32,480 Speaker 2: the movie, like when you meet a motherfucking lord type. 989 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:33,799 Speaker 2: You don't know. Maybe I watch too many. 990 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,440 Speaker 4: You need to be in a good That's why you 991 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:36,919 Speaker 4: don't need to put yourself in the box. You could 992 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:38,280 Speaker 4: be in a good romance cameras. 993 00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Oh yeah, it's like I like 994 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 2: that type of connection. It was like it felt like 995 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:44,920 Speaker 2: the world stopped. 996 00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 5: But on Instagram it was like orange her, hey, oh 997 00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,959 Speaker 5: you fine or whatever fucking ship we I don't feel 998 00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 5: no energy off this ship. Like I don't even like 999 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:54,520 Speaker 5: taxing because I don't feel no energy. 1000 00:44:54,520 --> 00:44:55,279 Speaker 2: I'd rather like face. 1001 00:44:55,960 --> 00:44:58,839 Speaker 3: I'm like, messages can always be misconstrued. 1002 00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. You might think I'm on about m U. 1003 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm not. 1004 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,360 Speaker 2: I'm not prince. I beat my meat right next to you, 1005 00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:11,760 Speaker 2: go to sleep. On my life, I will beat somebody. 1006 00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,600 Speaker 2: Please vous for me, somebody, somebody, I beat my meat 1007 00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 2: next to you and go to sleep. Oh my mom, 1008 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:23,120 Speaker 2: I'm not prince. Anybody here, No, no, no, I'm looking 1009 00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,759 Speaker 2: at the camp. Im somebody please. 1010 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:31,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1011 00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 3: I feel like and let me know if y'all feel 1012 00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:34,239 Speaker 3: this way. 1013 00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:35,000 Speaker 1: So I just need to like. 1014 00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 6: Dating is a little fucked up too, just because every like, 1015 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,520 Speaker 6: women want to be very, very independent these days, and 1016 00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:44,520 Speaker 6: that has made dating too because he right, as far 1017 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:49,120 Speaker 6: as like our grandparents and moms and great grandmothers and 1018 00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:51,600 Speaker 6: stuff like, they was okay with depending on me, and 1019 00:45:51,680 --> 00:45:53,879 Speaker 6: these days women are like, I'm gonna get my own, 1020 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,240 Speaker 6: I'm gonna do and nothing is wrong with that because 1021 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 6: it's cool to be independent too. But I definitely think 1022 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,640 Speaker 6: that that has changed, like the dynamic of relationships. 1023 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:07,160 Speaker 4: But I also think those men back saying they could 1024 00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:10,239 Speaker 4: be dependent on everything has changed, so you know, like, 1025 00:46:11,320 --> 00:46:11,520 Speaker 4: but you. 1026 00:46:11,520 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 3: Don't feel like it's no dependable me. 1027 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 1: No, every time I'm in a row, I depend I'll 1028 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,399 Speaker 1: be dependent on my man. Yeah, I mean the type 1029 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,840 Speaker 1: of one I call my man after everything. 1030 00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:24,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I need I prefer to have a nigga OCUPI yeah. 1031 00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:27,959 Speaker 4: But I will say, you know when i'm you gotta 1032 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:29,440 Speaker 4: But I know at the end of the day, if 1033 00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:32,360 Speaker 4: something happens and we break up, I got myself, you 1034 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, Like, I'm an independent. 1035 00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:36,719 Speaker 1: Depending like this is my thing. 1036 00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:41,440 Speaker 2: This is my thing, right, Okay, everything cool with like, 1037 00:46:41,600 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 2: you know, depending on the nigga and ship. But say 1038 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:46,879 Speaker 2: we married, we had kids and ship. You at the house, 1039 00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 2: You're taking care of the kids, and good for bid 1040 00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,920 Speaker 2: I die, it's gonna do well. 1041 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,799 Speaker 4: Hopefully you have it set up to where she's taken. 1042 00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:56,840 Speaker 1: Care of. 1043 00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,840 Speaker 2: The life and ship. What you're gonna do live my 1044 00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 2: life and shit, I. 1045 00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:04,040 Speaker 1: Mean hopefully, but. 1046 00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,360 Speaker 2: Already had that in the worst though you feel like, 1047 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,640 Speaker 2: why I'm alive? So if anything of a heaven is 1048 00:47:13,680 --> 00:47:16,200 Speaker 2: still like residual income and she not just life. 1049 00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:17,839 Speaker 1: Well yeah, that's what I'm saying. 1050 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,640 Speaker 4: But I'm also saying like, when you're in a relationship, 1051 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,719 Speaker 4: you also it's a partnership. 1052 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:24,000 Speaker 1: We're teaching each other things. 1053 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 4: That should always know because I mean, that's what happened 1054 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,440 Speaker 4: essentially to my mom when I was little my dad 1055 00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 4: passed away. She had I mean, she had to really 1056 00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:33,160 Speaker 4: pack up her stuff and move and figure it out. 1057 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,200 Speaker 4: But she was able to because of the skills that 1058 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:39,440 Speaker 4: he tre and what she was prepared. That's what a 1059 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:42,440 Speaker 4: partnership is like you I know for a fact, like 1060 00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,360 Speaker 4: even with mothers, you know, we're the caregivers for children. 1061 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:47,000 Speaker 4: But I'm gonna have a child for a man, if 1062 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:50,560 Speaker 4: something happens to me, I know my baby daddy is 1063 00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,560 Speaker 4: gonna be able to have one hundred percent custody of 1064 00:47:52,640 --> 00:47:54,799 Speaker 4: this child and take care of my child if I'm 1065 00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,920 Speaker 4: not around. So I think it's like whoever you partner 1066 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,399 Speaker 4: up with, it needs to be somebody who knows how 1067 00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 4: to live and survives. 1068 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: That Like I need, I want somebody that wants me, 1069 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:08,879 Speaker 1: don't need. We're choosing to be here. 1070 00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:10,920 Speaker 4: We're not here because we have to be We're here 1071 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 4: because we're choosing to be with each problem. 1072 00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:17,040 Speaker 2: I feel like depending is needing. Yeah, that that run 1073 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:18,160 Speaker 2: together or is that different? 1074 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:21,920 Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, that's what that's technically the definition of 1075 00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 6: to be independent, you need a person. 1076 00:48:24,480 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, but I guess when I say like, I depend 1077 00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:29,960 Speaker 4: on my man, it'd be for like I'm joking honestly, 1078 00:48:30,000 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 4: because I don't need him for anything. 1079 00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:36,439 Speaker 1: But a man wants to feel wanted. He wants. Yeah. 1080 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 4: If I'm like, if he want to handle something, I 1081 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,279 Speaker 4: let him handle it. I'm not like I got it. 1082 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:41,360 Speaker 4: I know I don't got it. 1083 00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:41,719 Speaker 1: Babe. 1084 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 2: What you need? 1085 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: You need me to do this? 1086 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:42,920 Speaker 2: Yes? 1087 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,080 Speaker 1: I actually I do. I really don't need you to. 1088 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,160 Speaker 4: But if you offer it, you my man and you want, 1089 00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:48,719 Speaker 4: I'm gonna let you take care of me and be 1090 00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 4: a man. You gotta let a man, and I feel 1091 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 4: like that's. 1092 00:48:50,440 --> 00:48:51,919 Speaker 3: What men want to do anyway. 1093 00:48:55,280 --> 00:49:01,560 Speaker 2: Time. It might be this little pee of the joint 1094 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:01,960 Speaker 2: she gave. 1095 00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,400 Speaker 1: Are you a man that you can be that the 1096 00:49:06,560 --> 00:49:07,600 Speaker 1: girls can depend on you? 1097 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:11,360 Speaker 2: Yeah? What so my girl? Yeah, my grid not the 1098 00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:12,160 Speaker 2: girls my. 1099 00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:14,879 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that's fair enough. That's fair enough. 1100 00:49:14,920 --> 00:49:17,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like That's what I was just saying. 1101 00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:19,160 Speaker 4: Do you feel like your man is like somebody you 1102 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:20,799 Speaker 4: can for sure? 1103 00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:21,799 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1104 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all been together, you have you have yeah, Blake 1105 00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:31,479 Speaker 2: little I love love love that kills the Blake, little Black. 1106 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 2: They ain't been drinking that. We love black Lie Blake 1107 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 2: a little though, chills the Blake little. 1108 00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:43,800 Speaker 1: You know, the sliding your dn the poor crew loves that. 1109 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:45,800 Speaker 2: That why I had to get what what happened to 1110 00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,239 Speaker 2: the man? Y'all got? My ship dropped all the whole. 1111 00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,120 Speaker 2: I mean, man, I don't mean like that girl. I 1112 00:49:54,120 --> 00:49:57,879 Speaker 2: ain't gonna. I don't mean like that might look though. 1113 00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,400 Speaker 5: They don't look ship like, thank you. It's all some 1114 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:03,480 Speaker 5: ship like. Yeah, I just say that ship is like 1115 00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:04,319 Speaker 5: a slang word. 1116 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:04,960 Speaker 2: We do. 1117 00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: We from here. 1118 00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:10,279 Speaker 2: They call my nigga nigga, nigga. I'm a man just 1119 00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:10,520 Speaker 2: like you. 1120 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:11,319 Speaker 1: That's right. 1121 00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,080 Speaker 2: You can't call me no nigga. You can call me 1122 00:50:13,080 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 2: a nigga, can call you a beach. Okay, y'all got 1123 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:20,120 Speaker 2: the right one. 1124 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:20,319 Speaker 9: That they. 1125 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:36,120 Speaker 1: So Chris Brown. Y'all know, it's like what's it called 1126 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:37,239 Speaker 1: fashion season? Whatever? 1127 00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 4: They at some Fast Fashion Week and Chris Brown and Cuevo, 1128 00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:44,799 Speaker 4: we're sitting next to each other now, mind you, Chris 1129 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 4: Brown and Cuovo have always had beef with each other 1130 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:50,600 Speaker 4: because Cuevo was allegedly dating Cruch at one point, right, 1131 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 4: and y'all know that was his girl, y'all member, When 1132 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,399 Speaker 4: Chris Brown made he screamed her name of the song 1133 00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:56,840 Speaker 4: I remember, you. 1134 00:50:56,920 --> 00:50:58,920 Speaker 1: Know that Couchie was good. I would love a nigga 1135 00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:01,919 Speaker 1: screamed my name in the A song bitch. That song 1136 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:03,360 Speaker 1: didn't even warn him to. 1137 00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:08,520 Speaker 4: Scream her name like that, Okay, but anyway, he screamed 1138 00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,040 Speaker 4: that name just like Corruachi and he ran and he 1139 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,680 Speaker 4: can't remember that time he ran up on her real 1140 00:51:13,880 --> 00:51:16,720 Speaker 4: love and the POPULAROSITI got that picture. 1141 00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:19,640 Speaker 1: He was like, I love a nigga that's staying on business. 1142 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:20,799 Speaker 1: But anyways, but. 1143 00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:22,839 Speaker 3: Not when you don't want him, And I'm you don't 1144 00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:23,359 Speaker 3: want him. 1145 00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:24,880 Speaker 4: It's not it's not cute when you don't want him 1146 00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:26,920 Speaker 4: no more. And I will say this, I applaud Cruje 1147 00:51:26,960 --> 00:51:29,520 Speaker 4: because I actually seen an interview with her that she 1148 00:51:29,600 --> 00:51:31,320 Speaker 4: had did a while back, and she was this is 1149 00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:33,200 Speaker 4: like one of the last times she talked about the 1150 00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:35,360 Speaker 4: whole Chris Brown situation, and she was like, you know, 1151 00:51:35,800 --> 00:51:37,960 Speaker 4: once I really everything was in black and white for me. 1152 00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:39,960 Speaker 4: In my face, she was like, I was done, like 1153 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,000 Speaker 4: she really when she left him. That's why he was 1154 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 4: acting like that because she cut off access to him 1155 00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 4: because everybody was laughing at her that time that Chris 1156 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 4: was like, oh, I'll be right back. I remember he 1157 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,840 Speaker 4: was courtside with Rihanna and everybody was laughing at her. 1158 00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:55,080 Speaker 4: But she legitimately did not know, like she really had 1159 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:57,360 Speaker 4: no idea what was going on. It was like everything 1160 00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 4: and that a short span of time kind of like 1161 00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,520 Speaker 4: happened really quick, she was saying. But she was like, 1162 00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 4: once everything was in black and white for me, it 1163 00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,320 Speaker 4: was very easy for me to walk away. Because you 1164 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:08,960 Speaker 4: gotta remember Chris's first baby Mama and Caruch, they knew 1165 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:09,399 Speaker 4: each other. 1166 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:10,560 Speaker 1: They were like cool. 1167 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,239 Speaker 4: They were so they weren't best friends, but she's like, 1168 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,840 Speaker 4: we were cool enough because she felt the need to 1169 00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:18,960 Speaker 4: call me and be like, hey, it wasn't supposed to 1170 00:52:19,000 --> 00:52:19,759 Speaker 4: be like this, and she was. 1171 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:21,560 Speaker 1: You could tell her face. She was like, bitch, you 1172 00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:23,479 Speaker 1: know what the fuck you was doing that. She ain't 1173 00:52:23,520 --> 00:52:24,000 Speaker 1: say that, but. 1174 00:52:24,040 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 4: I know that's what she was thinking. But either way 1175 00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 4: it goes. I do commend Caruch for that because she 1176 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,360 Speaker 4: didn't know what she was gonna go to next. You know, 1177 00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,280 Speaker 4: she wasn't this famous girl, she wasn't Rihanna, she didn't 1178 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:34,920 Speaker 4: have the baby. 1179 00:52:35,000 --> 00:52:36,680 Speaker 1: So the fact that she cut. 1180 00:52:36,560 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 4: Him off and valued herself and really created a career 1181 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:43,200 Speaker 4: for herself, I commend her because that gon'na be happening. 1182 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:43,600 Speaker 1: For a lot of the girls. 1183 00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:45,120 Speaker 4: A lot of girls will leave a nigga like a 1184 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:48,000 Speaker 4: Chris Brown and we'll never hear from them again. Yeah, 1185 00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:50,560 Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying. But anyways, back to the 1186 00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 4: story at hand. He was sitting by Quebo and everybody's like, oh, 1187 00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,400 Speaker 4: they must have squashed the beef. This nigga gonna post. 1188 00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,160 Speaker 4: You know, you can't choose who you sit by. It 1189 00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,880 Speaker 4: still fucked these people or whatever. He didn't say Kwavo's name, 1190 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,520 Speaker 4: but obviously we knew we were talking about that. 1191 00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,320 Speaker 1: And this is my scene with Chris Brown. 1192 00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:09,880 Speaker 4: This is why it's so hard to forgive Chris Brown 1193 00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,640 Speaker 4: for all the things he's done. He just don't He's 1194 00:53:12,680 --> 00:53:16,560 Speaker 4: just is so angry. It's like, at the end of 1195 00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:20,400 Speaker 4: the day, sometimes life happens and I'm not saying we 1196 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:21,920 Speaker 4: got to be the best of friends, but what was 1197 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,040 Speaker 4: the point of doing that. I feel like when we 1198 00:53:25,160 --> 00:53:27,760 Speaker 4: see so many people that we have lost due to violence, 1199 00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,280 Speaker 4: especially these black men in the industry, we've lost the violence, 1200 00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:34,080 Speaker 4: and you still doing some shit to make somebody react. 1201 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,640 Speaker 1: You don't know how Kuevo people gonna react to that post. 1202 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,160 Speaker 4: And I'm not saying nothing's gonna happen to him. I'm 1203 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:41,840 Speaker 4: just saying, why do we always have this negative energy. 1204 00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 4: I'm not saying that y'all got to be best friends, 1205 00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,359 Speaker 4: but hey, let's just sit next to each other, because 1206 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:47,879 Speaker 4: this is the way they assigned us and go about 1207 00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:50,759 Speaker 4: our day. And it's like, Chris is what I think. 1208 00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:52,520 Speaker 4: He's my age, so I think he's thirty four to 1209 00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:54,440 Speaker 4: thirty five. You are a thirty five year old man 1210 00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,840 Speaker 4: with three kids. Yeah, and you still playing these internet 1211 00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:01,400 Speaker 4: internet games. You always online react to somebody, And I 1212 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:04,000 Speaker 4: feel like it's just a level of maturity that you 1213 00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:06,760 Speaker 4: just cannot teach some people. Because the fact that Quabo 1214 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:10,279 Speaker 4: didn't respond or say anything, it said a lot about 1215 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:11,120 Speaker 4: his character too. 1216 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:14,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, because it's not no point to respond 1217 00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,280 Speaker 6: because a lot of the time beef be one sidey, 1218 00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,440 Speaker 6: that'd be that's the tea too. A lot of the 1219 00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 6: time niggas be mad or a girl will be mad 1220 00:54:22,160 --> 00:54:24,319 Speaker 6: at you, and that's the only person that's mad. 1221 00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,480 Speaker 3: You ain't really tripping. So I feel like it's not 1222 00:54:26,600 --> 00:54:28,080 Speaker 3: no point to respond. 1223 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:32,440 Speaker 6: Because clearly in that situation, it's giving Chris Brown, he's 1224 00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:33,360 Speaker 6: the one that is to beeft. 1225 00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 1: He's still bothered because like, do you still love Crouch? 1226 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:37,320 Speaker 1: Like you probably do? 1227 00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 3: I feel like every I think people really do be 1228 00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:42,560 Speaker 3: having that person that got away, you know, but. 1229 00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:49,319 Speaker 6: Now it's time to get into the big bowl bow. 1230 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:59,399 Speaker 1: So is the sex? Yeah? Okay, so y'all. 1231 00:54:59,560 --> 00:55:01,440 Speaker 4: Usually the show we do a lyric break down, but 1232 00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,000 Speaker 4: we're not doing a lyric right down saying, but I 1233 00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:04,560 Speaker 4: do have a lyric I want to talk about, and 1234 00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,239 Speaker 4: I want to break it down with you because you 1235 00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,400 Speaker 4: have a physical feature that this man talks about. 1236 00:55:10,120 --> 00:55:13,320 Speaker 1: So Lil Wayne has a song. It was released a 1237 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:14,160 Speaker 1: long long time ago. 1238 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,040 Speaker 4: I'm showing my age now, but in the song he says, 1239 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:22,120 Speaker 4: five ft six, nice size dick, long ass hair you 1240 00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:23,160 Speaker 4: can pull my ship. 1241 00:55:24,120 --> 00:55:26,560 Speaker 1: Made me wonder like do niggas with hair like their 1242 00:55:26,640 --> 00:55:27,280 Speaker 1: hair pulled. 1243 00:55:28,600 --> 00:55:30,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, I ain't gonna lie. I fuck, I ain't gonna lie. 1244 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:31,880 Speaker 1: Like hair. 1245 00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:38,440 Speaker 5: Not pulled, Christ and ship like a look when I'm 1246 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:41,879 Speaker 5: getting my hair did like when she beat like washing 1247 00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:45,919 Speaker 5: my hair like this, I'm fucking bro. 1248 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:52,120 Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, I wanna get married, but not cool like 1249 00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,720 Speaker 2: god damn not pulling. 1250 00:55:55,800 --> 00:55:58,960 Speaker 1: Imagine what he said, pull, not. 1251 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 2: Pull christ and like grab and ship. 1252 00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,920 Speaker 1: Okay, you be rubbing in your man hair. 1253 00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:09,560 Speaker 4: When you'll be like this, they hear like they hair 1254 00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:11,640 Speaker 4: rubs on and their hair rubbed. 1255 00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 1: You know, there's your crown. 1256 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:15,360 Speaker 2: Brotherish is sensitive. You know this was the last spot 1257 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,920 Speaker 2: to close up after you was born. You know, babies 1258 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:19,920 Speaker 2: had a soft spot. So when you when you rub 1259 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:21,759 Speaker 2: a nigga head and don't getting you'll a game. When 1260 00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:22,160 Speaker 2: you rub a. 1261 00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,800 Speaker 1: Nigga head and ship get a real vulnume. 1262 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:27,359 Speaker 2: That's when you asked me, like you got you got 1263 00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:31,400 Speaker 2: for this? You got already. 1264 00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:32,600 Speaker 3: I already know the trick. 1265 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:33,719 Speaker 1: I already know the trick. 1266 00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:36,440 Speaker 4: But now I feel like even just people in general, 1267 00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 4: like even me, I like to get my hair rubbed on. 1268 00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:40,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, my hair rubbed. 1269 00:56:40,480 --> 00:56:41,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's a human thing. 1270 00:56:42,040 --> 00:56:44,480 Speaker 4: Really Yeah, but you know what Sometimes I think there's 1271 00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:48,320 Speaker 4: things in the bedroom that people consider feminine, but like, 1272 00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:49,319 Speaker 4: I don't consider a. 1273 00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 5: Lot of it should be feeling niggas be. I ain't 1274 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:54,279 Speaker 5: gonna lot of niggas be. Niggas be scratching their fence games. 1275 00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:58,640 Speaker 4: If a man like you just said you don't like 1276 00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 4: it pulled, but you like it? If a man like 1277 00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,960 Speaker 4: his hair pulled, is that stride on the fence bro? 1278 00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 2: Like? Yeah, but I feel like me The reason why 1279 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:11,000 Speaker 2: I don't like it because like, man, bro, without my hair, Bro, 1280 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,879 Speaker 2: you got a good hairline? No, no, but this rate, 1281 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,680 Speaker 2: he'll like, I need this ship him. 1282 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,520 Speaker 5: So if you pull one of these, I'm real smoke 1283 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,600 Speaker 5: Like I'm laying in your bushes by d Dre. 1284 00:57:24,760 --> 00:57:25,840 Speaker 2: I'm gonna keep it with you. 1285 00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:28,400 Speaker 3: Bushes. 1286 00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:30,320 Speaker 1: Have you ever pulled a man's hair? 1287 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? Did he like it? 1288 00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:35,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? He had dreads or he had like I mean. 1289 00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 3: I feel like that's the only way you could pull it. Okay, 1290 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:42,840 Speaker 3: but who the hell I be doing that? 1291 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:46,360 Speaker 2: How you deal with this? 1292 00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:54,200 Speaker 3: I know I asked myself, what kind of hair did you? 1293 00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:55,760 Speaker 1: Okay? 1294 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:58,000 Speaker 6: But yeah, I feel like he likes you. But that 1295 00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,960 Speaker 6: would have been crazy. Want of them hold have slipped. 1296 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:03,040 Speaker 1: What if you thought it was fake it wasn't even 1297 00:58:03,040 --> 00:58:03,680 Speaker 1: his real hair. 1298 00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:06,960 Speaker 2: Because that be happening to niggas, like he had a 1299 00:58:07,040 --> 00:58:11,400 Speaker 2: lot of niggas behead of fake health. But that being 1300 00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:13,120 Speaker 2: a thing because we talked about this on the show, 1301 00:58:13,120 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 2: because remember Making the Day Mystical used to wear box Bury. No, no, 1302 00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:29,760 Speaker 2: don't get like he had that. Wasn't that nigga real 1303 00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:36,000 Speaker 2: heal brom No, definitely he had Mike, you know, you 1304 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 2: know Michael just had. At least. 1305 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:39,840 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey did too. 1306 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:44,560 Speaker 4: They said Steve Harvey had a big what's the fucking 1307 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:44,840 Speaker 4: to me? 1308 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,480 Speaker 1: It's a making wigs for a woman, a meg, it's 1309 00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:54,960 Speaker 1: for making now he had the ball, That's what I 1310 00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:55,320 Speaker 1: was saying. 1311 00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,840 Speaker 4: You know, you can see the ends were burnt. You 1312 00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,400 Speaker 4: know that back in the day that used to have 1313 00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:02,360 Speaker 4: to burn the ends of. 1314 00:59:03,120 --> 00:59:05,680 Speaker 2: Used to do that, right, My sister used to do that. 1315 00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 1: He's still be hindest start at the time because they 1316 00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:10,400 Speaker 1: didn't have. 1317 00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:15,040 Speaker 5: Make I ain't never think about it because I was 1318 00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:16,440 Speaker 5: a little bold when I've seen it and she's like, 1319 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:18,320 Speaker 5: and I ain't never go back at this age and 1320 00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,360 Speaker 5: look at it, like, boy that she just sucked me up. 1321 00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:22,080 Speaker 1: He got his hair. He used to be like. 1322 00:59:24,240 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 3: A lot of a lot of niggas used to wear 1323 00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:27,760 Speaker 3: thank care back of the day. 1324 00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:30,000 Speaker 1: And they they still be wearing. You see. 1325 00:59:30,080 --> 00:59:31,880 Speaker 5: No, I don't really see a problem with this because 1326 00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:34,000 Speaker 5: sneaking and if I cut my hair, I'm not even 1327 00:59:34,040 --> 00:59:35,000 Speaker 5: putting this back in my head. 1328 00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:37,360 Speaker 2: She got to grow again, or it's not. 1329 00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:40,040 Speaker 6: People maybe it just won't grow. That's why they just 1330 00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,120 Speaker 6: like look it. I'm gonna get some stanes. 1331 00:59:42,440 --> 00:59:44,480 Speaker 4: About people going to Turkey to get that hair. Treance 1332 00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:45,400 Speaker 4: plants at. 1333 00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:47,400 Speaker 1: Least that show. I mean that show hair though I 1334 00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:48,080 Speaker 1: think it's fine. 1335 00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 3: I don't take nothing wrong with that. 1336 00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:53,080 Speaker 2: I no, no enough who you're talking about. You know what. 1337 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:55,040 Speaker 1: I had a man that I used to day a 1338 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: long time ago. 1339 00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:57,360 Speaker 4: I was trying to convince him to go get one 1340 00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,720 Speaker 4: because he had Beijing and it would get everywhere I 1341 01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 4: think I got. 1342 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 5: I don't know if nigga put Beijing on ship right, 1343 01:00:03,840 --> 01:00:06,000 Speaker 5: but the nigga put extra paint on today. 1344 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:11,080 Speaker 4: He said, no, it don't look like Beijing. I would 1345 01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:13,240 Speaker 4: have guessed that you even had it on. I just thought, 1346 01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:16,120 Speaker 4: you know a friend, you know, the girl. 1347 01:00:17,720 --> 01:00:20,880 Speaker 1: That's Beijing. When we see I know a little Beijing. 1348 01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:24,760 Speaker 3: It's like that niggas be spraying in the hell when 1349 01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:25,520 Speaker 3: I ain't got no heal. 1350 01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,560 Speaker 4: Oh my god, it's crazy because I ran into that 1351 01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,440 Speaker 4: guy when I went to and he finally went bald. 1352 01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:33,600 Speaker 4: I was like, thank god, what you mean he finally 1353 01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:36,120 Speaker 4: went like he finally gave up the Beijing and. 1354 01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:38,840 Speaker 3: Said it was all over the pillow. 1355 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,200 Speaker 1: It was everywhere. I thought. It was my makeup. I'm like, 1356 01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:44,360 Speaker 1: oh my god, and we in this nice dance. My 1357 01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:47,920 Speaker 1: eyeliner keep coming out. It was your face and you 1358 01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:52,120 Speaker 1: know what it was y'all. Every morning he would wake 1359 01:00:52,200 --> 01:00:53,240 Speaker 1: up and he would be going. I was like, he 1360 01:00:53,360 --> 01:00:55,120 Speaker 1: is so sweet giving me the room to myself so 1361 01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:58,680 Speaker 1: I could clean up. Don't I know he was? I 1362 01:00:58,840 --> 01:00:59,440 Speaker 1: know he was. 1363 01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:00,880 Speaker 3: That's crazy. 1364 01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,440 Speaker 1: It's fun nice man, though. 1365 01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:06,200 Speaker 4: I wish I could have. 1366 01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:09,680 Speaker 2: I feel that was like. 1367 01:01:11,640 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 3: A little miss I love mass I love the boys. 1368 01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:19,479 Speaker 4: Have been fighting for two weeks straight, wet having people 1369 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:22,760 Speaker 4: in Massy, Let's bring the mess bag. Things have been 1370 01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:25,760 Speaker 4: out of order since Wendy Williams has been gone. She 1371 01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,439 Speaker 4: said she yea, so she's like why. 1372 01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,560 Speaker 3: She was like, I think she like going through some 1373 01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:33,760 Speaker 3: mental but she has like. 1374 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,640 Speaker 1: What you're gonna get a pop? 1375 01:01:38,880 --> 01:01:42,080 Speaker 2: I just laughed, all right, I just ain't even chuckle? 1376 01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:44,400 Speaker 2: Was the definition? 1377 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,200 Speaker 4: I like mess I feel like everybody should stay messy. 1378 01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:52,000 Speaker 4: I think that if we all spoke our truth, life 1379 01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:52,560 Speaker 4: would be easy. 1380 01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:55,160 Speaker 2: If everybody kept that real life would. 1381 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:58,040 Speaker 1: Be as like now that we got all that ship 1382 01:01:58,160 --> 01:02:00,960 Speaker 1: out on the table, now what like we can't know we. 1383 01:02:01,040 --> 01:02:02,640 Speaker 2: Can do what you want to kill me? I want 1384 01:02:02,640 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 2: to kill you. 1385 01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:04,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 1386 01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:05,880 Speaker 6: But see that's not about to say I feel like 1387 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,320 Speaker 6: she would be getting real violent niggas was just keeping. 1388 01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:10,400 Speaker 2: But there'll be a lot of fun niggas that's not 1389 01:02:10,520 --> 01:02:11,200 Speaker 2: alive no more. 1390 01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:13,920 Speaker 1: A lot of people would be exposed. 1391 01:02:14,280 --> 01:02:16,520 Speaker 2: You know, we would know the truth about type type 1392 01:02:16,520 --> 01:02:18,280 Speaker 2: sh type sh. Yeah, you know. 1393 01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 4: Support and not because a lot of fun niggas get supported. 1394 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:23,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. I ain't mean like actually kill a motherfucker. 1395 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:26,360 Speaker 1: I mean like you did, like yeah, yeah, I know, 1396 01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:28,400 Speaker 1: ANTI didn't know what you meant, so you got to. 1397 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:31,080 Speaker 2: Be real at ainty though, No, don't be. 1398 01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:37,800 Speaker 1: So beautiful never there. I am. I'm literally an auntie. 1399 01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:41,480 Speaker 1: If I like, I don't have any kids, can't I 1400 01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:42,120 Speaker 1: can't argue with it. 1401 01:02:42,320 --> 01:02:45,760 Speaker 4: If I get pregnant right now, it's considered a geriatric pregnancy. 1402 01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:50,080 Speaker 3: It said thirty five. I'll be thirty five August. 1403 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,520 Speaker 4: What's the geriactor like, basically, you old to have a baby, 1404 01:02:53,840 --> 01:02:55,240 Speaker 4: Like I'm old to have a baby. 1405 01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,440 Speaker 2: You're the princess. So what's what's the average age to 1406 01:02:58,560 --> 01:02:59,640 Speaker 2: have a baby. 1407 01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 3: Before thirty five? 1408 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:00,920 Speaker 1: That's with. 1409 01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:06,560 Speaker 2: The you know, thirty five, you have like more like complications, that's. 1410 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:13,080 Speaker 4: But you don't have complications, Like yeah, it just depends 1411 01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:13,760 Speaker 4: everybody's body. 1412 01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:15,520 Speaker 1: I don't have no kids. 1413 01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 2: You're pushing it. 1414 01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:17,920 Speaker 1: I'm pushing it. 1415 01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:18,200 Speaker 2: Huh. 1416 01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:21,440 Speaker 4: I did say I'm going to have a baby. I'm 1417 01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:24,160 Speaker 4: gonna get pregnant probably next year, twenty five. Like, if 1418 01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:25,960 Speaker 4: I do get pregnant, it's gonna be next year. But 1419 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:27,600 Speaker 4: if I don't get pregnant next year, I'm just not 1420 01:03:27,680 --> 01:03:28,080 Speaker 4: having kids. 1421 01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:29,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I'm having the kid. 1422 01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:30,720 Speaker 3: You don't think so I'm. 1423 01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 2: Scared to have a grill in this world we live in. 1424 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:33,840 Speaker 3: That makes sense. I am too. 1425 01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:35,840 Speaker 1: I'm not if I have a kid. I want a 1426 01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:36,400 Speaker 1: little mini me. 1427 01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:37,160 Speaker 3: I want to bully. 1428 01:03:37,480 --> 01:03:39,960 Speaker 6: I always seething, but I mean, but at this point, though, 1429 01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:41,960 Speaker 6: I'm not gonna lie like cause I'm thirty two. So 1430 01:03:42,600 --> 01:03:44,959 Speaker 6: if I have a kid, I just will be happy 1431 01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 6: as long as they're healthy. 1432 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,840 Speaker 2: Real, Yeah, that's why I'm try to help them. 1433 01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:53,040 Speaker 4: Okay, So pulling hair, you don't pulled hair. I've never 1434 01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,680 Speaker 4: I've never getting hair. I've never pulled hair. Have you 1435 01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:56,920 Speaker 4: ever dated somebody with hair? 1436 01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:57,200 Speaker 1: I don't. 1437 01:03:57,200 --> 01:03:59,680 Speaker 3: I've never known you today. Anybody that had like talking 1438 01:03:59,680 --> 01:03:59,960 Speaker 3: about that. 1439 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:02,240 Speaker 2: Niggas don't. 1440 01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:09,840 Speaker 1: A few bodies, but I like I usually that niggas 1441 01:04:09,840 --> 01:04:23,520 Speaker 1: with fades. I like a very no, but I'm usually 1442 01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:24,440 Speaker 1: like a fake girl. 1443 01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:26,600 Speaker 4: I like a you know, I love a little beard 1444 01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,800 Speaker 4: or like a little you know, mustache, little flavor saber. 1445 01:04:30,480 --> 01:04:32,000 Speaker 3: So do you be tugging on the beard? 1446 01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:32,720 Speaker 2: No? 1447 01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:34,560 Speaker 4: No, I don't talk on the beer. But I'm I'm 1448 01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:37,800 Speaker 4: a face caressor. Yeah, you know a little thing that 1449 01:04:37,880 --> 01:04:38,800 Speaker 4: niggas got under here. 1450 01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:44,880 Speaker 2: You like Mexicans, you know, I've never I've never. 1451 01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:45,440 Speaker 9: Had a Mexican. 1452 01:04:46,600 --> 01:04:51,480 Speaker 2: No, that's a misgans. Cool people though, Michigan's cool people though. 1453 01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:55,800 Speaker 2: Mama actually. 1454 01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:01,080 Speaker 1: Be cutting up. 1455 01:05:05,920 --> 01:05:06,960 Speaker 2: People up. 1456 01:05:09,840 --> 01:05:11,000 Speaker 1: Okay, now we're gonna move on. 1457 01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:21,240 Speaker 3: So now it's times into the bout. Okay, So what 1458 01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:22,080 Speaker 3: you've been listening to. 1459 01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:24,880 Speaker 4: What's your song that you've been jamming all week that 1460 01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:26,160 Speaker 4: you cannot get enough of? 1461 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:28,160 Speaker 1: Like this is something that you jam all the time. 1462 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:39,320 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get out. Okay, I'm gonna figured out this week. 1463 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:43,040 Speaker 2: I've been listening to Oh, Sam Tompkins, Bro, Time Will Fly? 1464 01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:43,800 Speaker 1: Who's that? 1465 01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:44,960 Speaker 4: Uh? 1466 01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:47,000 Speaker 2: It's a Caucasian dude from like the. 1467 01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:47,919 Speaker 1: U k Is Okay? 1468 01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:48,280 Speaker 2: Is it? Like? 1469 01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:49,440 Speaker 1: It's rapper R and B. 1470 01:05:50,720 --> 01:05:55,400 Speaker 2: It's like a native music look at Time Will Fly? 1471 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:57,080 Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna have to look it up. 1472 01:05:57,160 --> 01:05:58,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna have to listen to that dre what 1473 01:05:58,640 --> 01:05:59,240 Speaker 1: you've been listening to? 1474 01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:03,480 Speaker 6: So I feel like I had Mariah's The Scientists on 1475 01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:07,400 Speaker 6: my bot for like the last episode too, but we 1476 01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:08,920 Speaker 6: have never talked about these songs. 1477 01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:10,080 Speaker 3: The Dizdor song. 1478 01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:15,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she ate that up. 1479 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:17,520 Speaker 4: You know what? You know what I love about this 1480 01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:20,040 Speaker 4: is because people be talking about her like, oh, stop rapping, 1481 01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:21,960 Speaker 4: be pretty, and she's still making me like that's her 1482 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:22,960 Speaker 4: say song. 1483 01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:25,680 Speaker 3: People used to be trying to play actually a really 1484 01:06:25,720 --> 01:06:26,680 Speaker 3: good and kisch song. 1485 01:06:26,920 --> 01:06:27,360 Speaker 2: I like it. 1486 01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:29,000 Speaker 4: I like that for her because they like the other 1487 01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,320 Speaker 4: song she had with Marida Scientists. Now she got another one, 1488 01:06:31,360 --> 01:06:33,479 Speaker 4: and that's why I like, that's why her stout letting 1489 01:06:33,520 --> 01:06:35,960 Speaker 4: people tell you what you can and cannot do. But 1490 01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,440 Speaker 4: she's still, you know, she making good music like she 1491 01:06:38,960 --> 01:06:39,720 Speaker 4: she's getting better. 1492 01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:40,200 Speaker 2: So it's. 1493 01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:47,320 Speaker 1: He liked a little chocolate. Dude. 1494 01:06:48,000 --> 01:06:50,439 Speaker 2: I know, I know. I love women. I love women. 1495 01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:57,440 Speaker 1: I know a couple of rid to discriminate. Okay, let 1496 01:06:57,480 --> 01:06:57,960 Speaker 1: me ask you this. 1497 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:00,960 Speaker 4: If somebody here has never heard your music before and 1498 01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:02,760 Speaker 4: they didn't getting introduced to you for the first time, 1499 01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:05,720 Speaker 4: name like three songs that you feel like that would 1500 01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:07,280 Speaker 4: have him rocking with you of yours. 1501 01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,800 Speaker 5: Oh, if you're a girl, I tell you listen to. 1502 01:07:11,840 --> 01:07:13,880 Speaker 5: If you're a dude, I tell you listen to like 1503 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:14,640 Speaker 5: big Homes. 1504 01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:17,760 Speaker 1: So okay, so y'all make sure y'all look that up now. 1505 01:07:18,440 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 4: Would y'all know? I love me a good I love 1506 01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:26,160 Speaker 4: Lucky Day. It's so crazy because one time I was 1507 01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:28,920 Speaker 4: behind him in the airport when I was in Houston. 1508 01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:32,480 Speaker 4: And you know how some people I know this happens 1509 01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 4: to y'all a lot, Like people don't know who you are, 1510 01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:35,880 Speaker 4: but they feel like you. Somebody like what you do 1511 01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:38,080 Speaker 4: type you know what I'm saying, And it was so 1512 01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:39,800 Speaker 4: funny because he was in front of me and the 1513 01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:41,760 Speaker 4: guy we were going through TSA and the guy was like, 1514 01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:42,680 Speaker 4: what do you do? 1515 01:07:43,080 --> 01:07:44,120 Speaker 1: I know you do something. 1516 01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:46,480 Speaker 4: And I didn't see him because he had on like 1517 01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:47,560 Speaker 4: a big hoodie. 1518 01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:49,360 Speaker 1: And he had all these clothes on. But I heard 1519 01:07:49,400 --> 01:07:51,080 Speaker 1: his voice. I was like, that sounds like Lucky Day. 1520 01:07:51,160 --> 01:07:51,280 Speaker 2: Like that. 1521 01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:53,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, he was like, I don't do nothing. He was like, 1522 01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:54,280 Speaker 1: I don't do anything. 1523 01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:56,040 Speaker 4: And it was like when he turned around to put 1524 01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 4: his bag and I was like, I saw it was 1525 01:07:57,480 --> 01:07:59,720 Speaker 4: him and he was just like real cool, real chill. 1526 01:07:59,760 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm a big fan of Lucky Day. 1527 01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:04,000 Speaker 4: But he has a song that just came out called 1528 01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 4: That's You, and one thing about it his pen game 1529 01:08:06,920 --> 01:08:08,200 Speaker 4: is just it is real. 1530 01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:12,040 Speaker 1: It is real deep. I feel like he I do. 1531 01:08:12,840 --> 01:08:15,280 Speaker 1: I'm a little real big Why you say that? 1532 01:08:15,360 --> 01:08:15,520 Speaker 2: Why? 1533 01:08:16,160 --> 01:08:16,320 Speaker 1: Why? 1534 01:08:20,760 --> 01:08:20,920 Speaker 8: Oh? 1535 01:08:22,200 --> 01:08:23,080 Speaker 1: You know what it is though? 1536 01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:24,479 Speaker 4: This is your first time on the show, so you 1537 01:08:24,520 --> 01:08:27,200 Speaker 4: don't know. I get deep into my R and B song. 1538 01:08:27,240 --> 01:08:31,000 Speaker 4: That's when I'm explaining them. I'm not being a Lucky 1539 01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:33,559 Speaker 4: Day because I've never met Lucky Day in my life. 1540 01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,920 Speaker 4: First of all, So if Lucky, if Lucky Lady is 1541 01:08:37,040 --> 01:08:40,920 Speaker 4: watching this, no no, I didn't meet him. 1542 01:08:41,000 --> 01:08:41,720 Speaker 1: He was in front of me. 1543 01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:44,200 Speaker 2: I ain't trying to get nobody in trouble. How y'all going, 1544 01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:48,360 Speaker 2: You'll see you, babe. 1545 01:08:48,400 --> 01:08:49,439 Speaker 1: I don't know that man. 1546 01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:53,599 Speaker 4: Forgive me dump, but I feel like his pen game 1547 01:08:53,880 --> 01:08:56,640 Speaker 4: like he is like really, but I always do this 1548 01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:58,760 Speaker 4: about my R and B songs, like I love people 1549 01:08:58,800 --> 01:09:01,320 Speaker 4: that can really write a good I feel like the 1550 01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,200 Speaker 4: way he writes his music. He doesn't experience everything that 1551 01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:06,360 Speaker 4: everybody been through. You know how somebody you just feel like, 1552 01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:09,800 Speaker 4: oh yeah, so that's my bop of the week. That's 1553 01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:11,920 Speaker 4: you by Lucky Day. Shout out to Lucky Day. I 1554 01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:15,960 Speaker 4: look at them, I see, don't be messy peasy, You're 1555 01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:16,679 Speaker 4: gonna get a pop. 1556 01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:19,280 Speaker 2: That's what I do know. 1557 01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:20,479 Speaker 1: That's why I did my nephew. 1558 01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:29,080 Speaker 2: You really think you ain't like church? I do. 1559 01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:31,519 Speaker 1: I'll be popping people when they be bad, you cutting up. 1560 01:09:31,560 --> 01:09:34,599 Speaker 2: I just get a pinch of church though they twist 1561 01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:35,000 Speaker 2: that bitch. 1562 01:09:36,880 --> 01:09:37,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, was you a bad? 1563 01:09:38,280 --> 01:09:41,160 Speaker 2: I was a sneaky bad. I ain't never getting caught just. 1564 01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:44,320 Speaker 1: Why I was. I was bad out loud. You can't 1565 01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:45,360 Speaker 1: control me. 1566 01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:47,839 Speaker 2: I cannot be contained. 1567 01:09:48,040 --> 01:09:49,799 Speaker 3: I used to be sneaky sneaky. 1568 01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:54,559 Speaker 1: I'm outside with it. You about to see this badness. Okay, 1569 01:09:54,640 --> 01:09:54,960 Speaker 1: go ahead. 1570 01:09:54,960 --> 01:09:56,920 Speaker 6: Item of the week Gas South of my item of 1571 01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:59,920 Speaker 6: the week this week, y'all, it's gonna be amused beauty. 1572 01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:02,599 Speaker 3: Of course, y'all know about my website. Go to Music 1573 01:10:02,600 --> 01:10:04,200 Speaker 3: Beauty Collection dot com. 1574 01:10:04,880 --> 01:10:08,479 Speaker 6: Get your lip glosses, your lip liners, your Matt Liquid lipsticks, 1575 01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:10,840 Speaker 6: and I have new products coming out so and today 1576 01:10:10,920 --> 01:10:11,439 Speaker 6: will Lipblus. 1577 01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:12,200 Speaker 3: We'll have on today. 1578 01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:15,160 Speaker 6: Oh, I have on the chestnutliner, and I have on 1579 01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:19,479 Speaker 6: my lust slip glus, and I have on glaze on top. 1580 01:10:19,560 --> 01:10:20,439 Speaker 1: That is the best combo. 1581 01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 4: It is right, that chestnut, that LUs and that glaze 1582 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:26,719 Speaker 4: combo gonna kill it everything. 1583 01:10:27,000 --> 01:10:29,080 Speaker 6: Can I put a little east Giving on earlier because 1584 01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:30,400 Speaker 6: that's why I got like a little gleter on my 1585 01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:31,080 Speaker 6: lips a little bit. 1586 01:10:31,120 --> 01:10:31,320 Speaker 2: BM. 1587 01:10:31,920 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 3: Make sure y'all get y'all liip BLUs. 1588 01:10:33,200 --> 01:10:34,280 Speaker 2: I like that. I like that. 1589 01:10:34,400 --> 01:10:36,719 Speaker 4: Okay, So now we're gonna get into our favorite segment 1590 01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:38,800 Speaker 4: of the show. Make sure if you want your question 1591 01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:42,479 Speaker 4: answer on the show, you email us at ask poor 1592 01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:45,360 Speaker 4: Minds at gmail dot com. 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But y'all, 1602 01:11:09,720 --> 01:11:14,599 Speaker 6: yall period, y'all, we are about to revamp our whole Patreon. 1603 01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,800 Speaker 6: We got so much new shit coming soon for y'all, 1604 01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,800 Speaker 6: Like we about to be doing challenges, were about to 1605 01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,640 Speaker 6: be doing blogs, were really about to be dropping a 1606 01:11:22,720 --> 01:11:25,679 Speaker 6: lot of exclusive content for y'all. So if one episode 1607 01:11:25,680 --> 01:11:27,680 Speaker 6: a week is not enough, y'all about to get some 1608 01:11:27,760 --> 01:11:28,920 Speaker 6: more content on patremon. 1609 01:11:29,200 --> 01:11:32,240 Speaker 4: Yes, y'all be saying, oh thanks, episodes longer, I mean 1610 01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:34,559 Speaker 4: twice a week. Well, this is your opportunity to see 1611 01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:35,280 Speaker 4: us twice a week. 1612 01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:37,599 Speaker 1: And also you kinda get you're gonna get a look 1613 01:11:37,640 --> 01:11:38,360 Speaker 1: into our lives. 1614 01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:41,680 Speaker 4: No one's on a personal levels, So make sure y'all 1615 01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:45,360 Speaker 4: sign up at patreon dot com backslash poor mind sign 1616 01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:48,559 Speaker 4: up today. There's different tiers so if you want audio only, 1617 01:11:48,640 --> 01:11:51,360 Speaker 4: you can just listen. If you on video and audio, 1618 01:11:51,479 --> 01:11:53,320 Speaker 4: we have that too. And also we have a top 1619 01:11:53,439 --> 01:11:57,320 Speaker 4: talk tier where you get exclusive access to merch shows, 1620 01:11:57,680 --> 01:12:01,160 Speaker 4: all that good stuff. So gonna Patreon dot com, backslash 1621 01:12:01,320 --> 01:12:04,000 Speaker 4: more minds. Is Finn up today? Really? 1622 01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:05,320 Speaker 3: Okay? 1623 01:12:05,479 --> 01:12:09,519 Speaker 6: So yes, let's get into question number one. Hey, y'all, 1624 01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,000 Speaker 6: I'm a new listener and I love y'all to the tea. 1625 01:12:12,200 --> 01:12:14,519 Speaker 6: Y'all be cracking me up at work all the time. 1626 01:12:14,640 --> 01:12:16,840 Speaker 6: Speaking of work, I work at a makeup store and 1627 01:12:16,880 --> 01:12:18,960 Speaker 6: I'm debating if I should quit my part time job 1628 01:12:19,040 --> 01:12:22,000 Speaker 6: or not. The energy there gives pure white girl vibes. 1629 01:12:22,280 --> 01:12:25,200 Speaker 6: Everyone trying to feed in entitle which is something that 1630 01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:28,080 Speaker 6: I hate. I had depression senior year due to going 1631 01:12:28,120 --> 01:12:30,479 Speaker 6: to school with the damn near all whites. I just 1632 01:12:30,560 --> 01:12:32,519 Speaker 6: don't feel like like I belong there. 1633 01:12:32,960 --> 01:12:33,400 Speaker 1: Mind you. 1634 01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:35,800 Speaker 6: I am nineteen, still living with my mom, and I'm 1635 01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:39,280 Speaker 6: currently in cosmetology school and plan on moving to ATLS 1636 01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:42,640 Speaker 6: to become a hairstylist model and continue my education at 1637 01:12:42,680 --> 01:12:45,840 Speaker 6: a HBCU to major in business. I currently have a 1638 01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:47,960 Speaker 6: hair business that isn't doing as well as I would 1639 01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:50,439 Speaker 6: like you to but I try to improve my business 1640 01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:50,960 Speaker 6: every day. 1641 01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:52,280 Speaker 3: I say all of these to. 1642 01:12:52,280 --> 01:12:54,320 Speaker 6: Say, I have a lot going for myself, and I 1643 01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:56,040 Speaker 6: know my hard work will pay off to the point 1644 01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:57,160 Speaker 6: where I could work for myself. 1645 01:12:57,240 --> 01:12:59,160 Speaker 3: Any tips or advice. 1646 01:13:00,040 --> 01:13:03,200 Speaker 2: You work and keep traveling, that's good advice. 1647 01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:06,280 Speaker 4: Well, you're a business owner, so she has She said 1648 01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:08,200 Speaker 4: she had a hairline that's not doing that. 1649 01:13:08,320 --> 01:13:09,280 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I just. 1650 01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:11,120 Speaker 3: Feel like you just have to stay consistent with things. 1651 01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:14,560 Speaker 6: But honestly, these days too, you have to really like 1652 01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:16,519 Speaker 6: you have to try to send your stuff out to people. 1653 01:13:16,560 --> 01:13:17,840 Speaker 6: You have to try to get it in the hands 1654 01:13:17,880 --> 01:13:20,599 Speaker 6: of different people. You have to put ad money behind 1655 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,720 Speaker 6: your business. You know, nobody is gonna believe in your 1656 01:13:23,760 --> 01:13:25,080 Speaker 6: business if you don't believe in me. 1657 01:13:25,280 --> 01:13:25,960 Speaker 3: And that's a fact. 1658 01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:28,120 Speaker 6: So at the end of the day, you just gonna 1659 01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:29,960 Speaker 6: have to like put some more money and stuff behind it. 1660 01:13:30,040 --> 01:13:32,960 Speaker 6: But if you don't have necessarily have the money, you 1661 01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:34,960 Speaker 6: can always just try to girls send it to people 1662 01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,320 Speaker 6: and you'll be surprised if it's a good quality product. 1663 01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:39,280 Speaker 3: A lot of the time, if people like it, they'll 1664 01:13:39,320 --> 01:13:39,919 Speaker 3: just post. 1665 01:13:39,720 --> 01:13:40,120 Speaker 2: You for free. 1666 01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:42,640 Speaker 6: And so I would just try to start sending my 1667 01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:44,960 Speaker 6: stuff out to like different influencers and stuff. Hell, you 1668 01:13:45,000 --> 01:13:47,519 Speaker 6: could send me in lick some stuff and we'll talk 1669 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:48,519 Speaker 6: about it on poor mind. 1670 01:13:49,439 --> 01:13:50,240 Speaker 3: Have a good quality. 1671 01:13:50,640 --> 01:13:53,240 Speaker 6: So yeah, just stay consistent. I know, I hate saying 1672 01:13:53,280 --> 01:13:55,240 Speaker 6: it all the time because I feel like that's so cliche. 1673 01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:58,519 Speaker 1: Goodist with something. You see what we mean? 1674 01:13:58,840 --> 01:14:01,479 Speaker 4: You get on the other side, you get why people 1675 01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:02,880 Speaker 4: say that, because I used to get so mad when 1676 01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:04,560 Speaker 4: I would ask people how do I get in this 1677 01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:05,320 Speaker 4: podcasting game? 1678 01:14:05,360 --> 01:14:05,720 Speaker 2: What do I do? 1679 01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:08,439 Speaker 1: And they're like, oh, be consistent. I'm like, what the fuck? 1680 01:14:08,520 --> 01:14:09,120 Speaker 1: Tell me what to do? 1681 01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:09,479 Speaker 2: For real? 1682 01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:12,640 Speaker 1: Once I was consistent, I was like, oh, you know 1683 01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:13,160 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. 1684 01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:14,880 Speaker 2: You learn over time. 1685 01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:17,519 Speaker 1: This ain't no blueprint to this shit. 1686 01:14:17,640 --> 01:14:17,800 Speaker 9: You know. 1687 01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:22,200 Speaker 4: Okay, question number soon, Hey, ladies, I'll try to make 1688 01:14:22,280 --> 01:14:24,439 Speaker 4: it breathe. I'm a thirty eight year old single woman 1689 01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:27,599 Speaker 4: recently divorced. I'll be thirty nine in March. I feel 1690 01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:30,599 Speaker 4: like my biological time is ticking and I want a baby. 1691 01:14:30,960 --> 01:14:33,040 Speaker 4: I wanted That's crazy. We was just talking about that. 1692 01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:35,160 Speaker 4: I wanted a family. But after my divorce, in this 1693 01:14:35,320 --> 01:14:38,320 Speaker 4: daity market, I decay about these new men. So do 1694 01:14:38,439 --> 01:14:41,160 Speaker 4: you understand my dilemma? I have a career, and I'm 1695 01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:43,680 Speaker 4: financially secure. I own my own home and I make 1696 01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:45,800 Speaker 4: over eighty K a year, so I think I can 1697 01:14:45,880 --> 01:14:48,920 Speaker 4: afford a baby. Anyway, my question is what do I do. 1698 01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:52,000 Speaker 4: Do I just give up on wanting a child, or 1699 01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:54,760 Speaker 4: do I date men telling them, hey, I want a 1700 01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,200 Speaker 4: baby even though I'm scared I'll run a man off. 1701 01:14:57,320 --> 01:14:58,040 Speaker 1: What do y'all think? 1702 01:14:58,439 --> 01:15:00,880 Speaker 4: Also, going to a sperm base as a black woman 1703 01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,880 Speaker 4: sounds I d K crazy to me. Anyway, help me 1704 01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:08,960 Speaker 4: please sidebar lex you my first lesbian crush loo l love. 1705 01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:10,080 Speaker 1: Y'all goes down? 1706 01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:13,840 Speaker 2: Uns you gonna give, Buddha you won't give. 1707 01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:22,519 Speaker 1: So this is how I feel. 1708 01:15:22,840 --> 01:15:26,720 Speaker 4: Honestly, I always say that you can scare men off 1709 01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:30,760 Speaker 4: by like telling well, listen, I think it's not about 1710 01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:33,559 Speaker 4: what you say, is how you say it. So Honestly, 1711 01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:36,560 Speaker 4: when I go on first dates, I let my intentions 1712 01:15:36,600 --> 01:15:40,760 Speaker 4: be known. But I'm like, you know, hey, I'm not 1713 01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:42,840 Speaker 4: looking for like a sneaky league. I'm not looking for 1714 01:15:43,000 --> 01:15:45,920 Speaker 4: friends with benefits. I am looking for a relationship to 1715 01:15:46,120 --> 01:15:49,760 Speaker 4: build with somebody. So you know, eventually we're gonna have 1716 01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:51,360 Speaker 4: a conversation. Oh, well, do you want kids? 1717 01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:51,639 Speaker 1: Yes? 1718 01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:55,240 Speaker 4: I want kids, So let that naturally happen in the conversation. 1719 01:15:55,360 --> 01:15:57,439 Speaker 4: But don't be like, yeah, I'm looking for a man 1720 01:15:57,479 --> 01:15:59,760 Speaker 4: who want kids. I'm trying to get married tomorrow. So 1721 01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:01,760 Speaker 4: I think it's about how you say it. You can 1722 01:16:01,920 --> 01:16:04,320 Speaker 4: let somebody know what your intentions are without sounding and 1723 01:16:04,360 --> 01:16:04,800 Speaker 4: then it's. 1724 01:16:04,680 --> 01:16:08,280 Speaker 5: Gonna come up naturally. Yeah, yeah, don't say I want to. 1725 01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,240 Speaker 5: I don't come in like yeah from a man that's 1726 01:16:11,240 --> 01:16:11,879 Speaker 5: gonna scap. 1727 01:16:11,720 --> 01:16:12,959 Speaker 1: Me out right exactly. 1728 01:16:13,720 --> 01:16:15,400 Speaker 3: But I do feel like, you know, because what did 1729 01:16:15,400 --> 01:16:16,559 Speaker 3: she said? She said she thirty eight. 1730 01:16:16,720 --> 01:16:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, she'll be thirty nine in March. 1731 01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:20,080 Speaker 6: I do feel like though, when you get to a 1732 01:16:20,200 --> 01:16:23,000 Speaker 6: certain age, like you don't got time to be playing. 1733 01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,760 Speaker 6: She definitely just needs especially with her saying she want 1734 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:28,200 Speaker 6: to have a kid, like yeah, she needs to let 1735 01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:30,080 Speaker 6: people know off the real because the niggas who is 1736 01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:32,599 Speaker 6: not the ones for her or them out the same 1737 01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:33,960 Speaker 6: thing you weed the niggas. 1738 01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:37,400 Speaker 2: But if you if you okay, I ain't gonna say 1739 01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:40,960 Speaker 2: older woman, she she she more mature. Yeah, so like 1740 01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,240 Speaker 2: if you if you tell the motherfucker. 1741 01:16:42,880 --> 01:16:44,880 Speaker 5: Like, oh, yeah, I'm this age and I ain't got 1742 01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:47,440 Speaker 5: no kids yet, they should automatically a man should automatically 1743 01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:49,920 Speaker 5: think like, oh, yeah, it's time for she won't like 1744 01:16:50,000 --> 01:16:53,040 Speaker 5: she bro like so that's already come up in a 1745 01:16:53,080 --> 01:16:54,959 Speaker 5: nigga head, like, oh yeah, she wants some kids. 1746 01:16:54,800 --> 01:16:56,240 Speaker 1: Right, I mean some women. 1747 01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:58,160 Speaker 4: I know a lot of my friends my age, they 1748 01:16:58,200 --> 01:17:00,439 Speaker 4: don't want kids, like straight up don't want But that's 1749 01:17:00,439 --> 01:17:06,280 Speaker 4: gonna like you want exactly. But I feel like there's 1750 01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:07,960 Speaker 4: options for things that you can do. Like we had 1751 01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:11,000 Speaker 4: a friend who froze her eggs. She froze her eggs 1752 01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:13,040 Speaker 4: so she can make sure. Yeah, I mean because they're still. 1753 01:17:14,160 --> 01:17:15,120 Speaker 1: You have some procedure. 1754 01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:16,880 Speaker 6: It's a procedure that you got through, like you have 1755 01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:19,000 Speaker 6: to inject yourself for like injections and stuff, and it 1756 01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:21,519 Speaker 6: make the eggs be bigger and then you have a 1757 01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:23,639 Speaker 6: surgery and basically Harvey Stoning. 1758 01:17:25,320 --> 01:17:26,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like I think you should. 1759 01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:28,479 Speaker 4: I don't think it's that bad for you yet to 1760 01:17:28,520 --> 01:17:30,280 Speaker 4: where you need to run to a sperm bank or 1761 01:17:30,320 --> 01:17:32,519 Speaker 4: something like that so soon. But I do feel like 1762 01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:34,400 Speaker 4: if you want to still try the dating thing and 1763 01:17:34,840 --> 01:17:36,200 Speaker 4: just be honest, I'm straightforward when I. 1764 01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:37,360 Speaker 3: Just be intentional. 1765 01:17:37,479 --> 01:17:42,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I'm very intentional. That's so good luck. 1766 01:17:41,960 --> 01:17:46,040 Speaker 4: Girls, good little all right, O and B let hell 1767 01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:48,200 Speaker 4: are you let us know what we can find you? 1768 01:17:48,400 --> 01:17:49,799 Speaker 1: What you got coming up? Your album? 1769 01:17:49,920 --> 01:17:50,080 Speaker 2: Drop? 1770 01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:52,600 Speaker 1: Congratulations on that what you got coming up with you? 1771 01:17:52,800 --> 01:17:57,519 Speaker 2: All that good stuff you can find me breathing. 1772 01:17:58,280 --> 01:17:59,240 Speaker 4: I know that's right. 1773 01:18:00,800 --> 01:18:05,160 Speaker 2: M B underscore p E easy okay, okay, that type 1774 01:18:05,200 --> 01:18:08,240 Speaker 2: of ship. I don't be cutting up. I'm bad about you. 1775 01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:09,160 Speaker 1: Gotta get a hot. 1776 01:18:13,520 --> 01:18:13,800 Speaker 4: Today. 1777 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:17,080 Speaker 2: This is fun. 1778 01:18:17,520 --> 01:18:19,200 Speaker 1: So that's what I'm saying. What else you got coming up? 1779 01:18:19,280 --> 01:18:19,320 Speaker 9: Like? 1780 01:18:19,360 --> 01:18:19,840 Speaker 1: What you working? 1781 01:18:20,080 --> 01:18:22,840 Speaker 2: I find the other tape ain't okay? 1782 01:18:23,000 --> 01:18:24,160 Speaker 1: So you're working on another tape? 1783 01:18:24,520 --> 01:18:28,000 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm back all right now he gonna be listening. 1784 01:18:28,120 --> 01:18:29,559 Speaker 1: You better not be cursing too bad. 1785 01:18:30,600 --> 01:18:32,400 Speaker 5: He gonna be to you might want you might not 1786 01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:36,559 Speaker 5: want to listen to be up, and I'm talking about 1787 01:18:36,560 --> 01:18:37,120 Speaker 5: beating business. 1788 01:18:37,160 --> 01:18:51,120 Speaker 2: Puts up? Oh yeah, hey, oh my my new home 1789 01:18:51,200 --> 01:18:51,680 Speaker 2: girl though for. 1790 01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:03,840 Speaker 1: All right, got eything you want to plug in? 1791 01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:07,839 Speaker 3: The ad now just makes you gotta subscribe and thanks 1792 01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:08,559 Speaker 3: for watching. 1793 01:19:08,800 --> 01:19:16,160 Speaker 1: Let's say next week Bye the Melanians. 1794 01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:22,000 Speaker 4: It's undeniable that we should be together. 1795 01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:29,920 Speaker 1: It's unbelievable. So I used to say that I fall 1796 01:19:30,160 --> 01:19:35,680 Speaker 1: now the basis I need to know if you just 1797 01:19:35,840 --> 01:19:39,280 Speaker 1: have I feel deleted. 1798 01:19:39,439 --> 01:19:47,640 Speaker 8: Show you know that I'm free if all things and 1799 01:19:47,840 --> 01:19:57,240 Speaker 8: times time? Yeah, wan like your dream come true to 1800 01:19:58,479 --> 01:19:59,200 Speaker 8: just want to be. 1801 01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:06,920 Speaker 1: Three got its pay. Tuesday they showed the one for 1802 01:20:07,280 --> 01:20:12,280 Speaker 1: Me fall repeats the one two three five. 1803 01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:14,760 Speaker 2: I'm making father love with me. 1804 01:20:15,520 --> 01:20:19,920 Speaker 4: If ever I believe my work is done. 1805 01:20:20,880 --> 01:20:25,920 Speaker 1: Then I saw back and one hold on Yeah hey. 1806 01:20:26,560 --> 01:20:32,959 Speaker 4: Ye the way they work themselves out. 1807 01:20:34,960 --> 01:20:40,599 Speaker 1: And all emotional once you know what it's all about. 1808 01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:49,880 Speaker 9: Bad, unliable for us to be a part. Never one 1809 01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:53,160 Speaker 9: made refer. 1810 01:20:55,600 --> 01:21:00,120 Speaker 1: Because you know you got the kids to a. 1811 01:21:06,560 --> 01:21:17,439 Speaker 2: True Yeah, getting playing Susie bit joy One for me 1812 01:21:19,160 --> 01:21:23,800 Speaker 2: good piece, there's one two three bah make your fall 1813 01:21:23,920 --> 01:21:29,559 Speaker 2: a little weird piece? Is that. 1814 01:21:31,600 --> 01:21:31,840 Speaker 1: All? 1815 01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:32,599 Speaker 4: Bag? 1816 01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:37,160 Speaker 1: And what do they talking? Night? I see the come 1817 01:21:37,640 --> 01:21:38,200 Speaker 1: me up. 1818 01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:44,599 Speaker 4: I feel like a little child who lies. 1819 01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:46,240 Speaker 2: Just be good. 1820 01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:51,120 Speaker 3: You came in bringing no life into this. 1821 01:21:51,439 --> 01:21:53,599 Speaker 1: Lonely heart of mine. 1822 01:21:55,320 --> 01:22:11,400 Speaker 10: You throw out the life line just then in Consid's 1823 01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:13,200 Speaker 10: all they we like? 1824 01:22:13,439 --> 01:22:16,880 Speaker 3: Do you mean we said be