1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:01,040 Speaker 1: Order. 2 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 2: She's a fresh show. It's Kiki's court rise. The honorable 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: Kikilik is here. 4 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 3: Take it away, judge, all right, let's get in this courtroom. 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 3: The gabble has been hit. It says, hey, Kiki. 6 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 4: My name is Amber. 7 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 3: And two weeks ago, my brother and sister in law 8 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,600 Speaker 3: drove to town and stayed in my guest room as 9 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 3: we prepared to celebrate my mom's birthday. I was super 10 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: excited to spend time with my sister in law, who's 11 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 3: seven months pregnant with my first nephew. 12 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 4: I laid out snacks for them. 13 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 3: I prepared my guest room with new robes and que slippers, 14 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 3: hoping to make their stay as comfortable as possible. The 15 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:40,000 Speaker 3: first night went amazing. However, all hail broke loose on 16 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 3: the second night when we were having a movie night 17 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:44,800 Speaker 3: with my kids, and my sister in law decided to 18 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: DoorDash her own snacks that were full of peanuts, completely 19 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:53,640 Speaker 3: disregarding my son's severe peanut allergy. The moment I saw 20 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 3: the snacks, I freaked out and asked her to throw 21 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 3: them away. She refused and said, I'm an adult, I 22 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: know how to eat without leaving crumbs. 23 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:04,319 Speaker 4: Your son will be fine. So I sent my. 24 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,479 Speaker 3: Kids to their rooms and I immediately started cleaning to 25 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 3: help protect my son. Exposing him to peanuts can't literally 26 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 3: kill him, Kiki. The next morning, I woke up to 27 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 3: a text from my brother saying that I really hurt 28 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,520 Speaker 3: his wife's feelings and that they will be staying in 29 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:20,759 Speaker 3: a hotel for the rest of the trip. Okay, bye, 30 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 3: good My mom's party was super awkward. We haven't spoken since, 31 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 3: and my nephew is due soon. Should I reach out 32 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: and apologize. My brother is my only sibling and I 33 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 3: don't want to miss out on this important time in 34 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:33,479 Speaker 3: his life. 35 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 5: Judge, Kiki, what say you? 36 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 4: Girl said? 37 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 3: Hell no for me, Amber, Amber, I love you, girl, 38 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,840 Speaker 3: and I you know not. I love my brothers. Okay, 39 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 3: but your wife literally just try to kill my kid. Okay, 40 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 3: you have tried to kill my kid for your pregnancy cravings. 41 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,520 Speaker 4: You wanted some peanuts. I bought slippers and robes. 42 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 3: I'm trying to make this comfortable for you, and you 43 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 3: have the nerve to door dash your own snacks to 44 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 3: my house. I tell you that can kill my kid, 45 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 3: and you're still eating it. 46 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:04,440 Speaker 4: I didn't even know. 47 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 5: You're in my house. 48 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 4: You're in my house. 49 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:10,399 Speaker 2: Kid lives here, Yes, like we have to be mindful 50 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 2: of this is his dwelling, this is like his universe 51 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: right here. We have to be considerate of what is 52 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 2: good and bad for his house. 53 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 3: And you're pregnant with your own son, so you shouldn't. 54 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 3: I mean, when you have a kid. I don't know 55 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 3: what it's like, but I'm assuming when you have a kid, 56 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 3: like that's your top priority and you're putting my kid 57 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: in danger. I'm telling you that you're his aunt, and 58 00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 3: you can't. You can't just sacrifice the peanuts this one time. 59 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:36,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want to, if you want to eat 60 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 2: all the peanuts you want all over the place and 61 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 2: go stay in a hotel, right, But if you're in 62 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 2: my house, I don't think that's It's not like that's 63 00:02:43,200 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: not too much to ask. I don't think to respect 64 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: the health needs of the people in the home that 65 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 2: you're staying in as a guest. I don't think that's 66 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: too much to ask at all. 67 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 3: And I feel like I know a lot of people 68 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: who don't take the peanut allergy thing as serious as 69 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: it really is. Like back in the day when it 70 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,239 Speaker 3: used to give you peanuts on planes, and you'd be 71 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: sitting next to somebody and you know, please don't eat that. 72 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 4: Don't open that. My kid is allergic. 73 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 3: You don't know how severe that can that allergy really 74 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 3: is until you almost kill somebody. 75 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 4: We you know. 76 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 3: Shout out to Bella, who had a little incident with 77 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 3: her boyfriend, Kayla's sister when she kissed him after eating peanuts. 78 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 4: Almost took that man out. Yea, and she even brushed 79 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,960 Speaker 4: her teeth and it still got him. It's very serious. 80 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 3: And I know I've never been pregnant, Barbley. Can you 81 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,119 Speaker 3: speak to pregnancy crazies? Are there this strong where it's 82 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 3: like you have a whole breakdown? 83 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,800 Speaker 4: They are strong by someone else's health is stronger to me. 84 00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:35,560 Speaker 5: Have all the breakdowns you want? 85 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh I have because I wanted to make Doctor Pepper. 86 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 4: But like I want, didn't. 87 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 5: Mean you specifically. 88 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 2: I mean you could go ahead, break down in my house, 89 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 2: like go out, I don't know, go eat the peanuts 90 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: at the peanuts store or something. 91 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 5: I don't know. 92 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: Go in the car, yeah, go outside, I don't know. 93 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 2: Like this is our house. We have nowhere else to go. 94 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: This is where we live. We got to keep it 95 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 2: clean and free of all this peanut oil and dust 96 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: and whatever else. Because we're having a kid. You can 97 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 2: wait a day or two or however long it is. 98 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 2: If you're staying in somebody else's house to do whatever. Yeah, 99 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 2: I feel like even going to get a hotel was rude. 100 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but I mean that's the alternative. I guess 101 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: if you insist on living this way and then go 102 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:16,120 Speaker 2: get the hood. I mean it's passive aggressive. Yeah eight 103 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:18,799 Speaker 2: five five five three five. You guys are the jury 104 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 2: in Kiky's court? 105 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 6: What say you? 106 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 5: Yeah? 107 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 2: No, this isn't This is like a no. She doesn't 108 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 2: owe anybody an apology. I suppose she could call and say, hey, 109 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 2: can we straighten this out? But I mean, I don't 110 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 2: know what the I don't know what she has to 111 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:32,719 Speaker 2: feel bad about. She's standing up for her child. 112 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:35,040 Speaker 4: Right, he's standing up for his wife. 113 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 7: But it's like, but sometimes don't okay, don't talk about 114 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 7: that for a minute, Like sometimes your spouse is wrong 115 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 7: on that here, or your kid is wrong or whatever, 116 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 7: and like I understand that you you want to stick together, 117 00:04:48,200 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 7: but like how far down are you willing to go? 118 00:04:51,120 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 5: Right? That's your sister, bro and your nephew. 119 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 8: You know what I'm saying, you should be sticking up 120 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 8: for your nephew, not your your wife on this. 121 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 2: Like this is justified. This is not this is not 122 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 2: a necessary drama. This is not you know whatever, This 123 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 2: isn't nippicky stuff. This is like basic humanity. 124 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,679 Speaker 3: And then how far did I feel bad for Amber? 125 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,280 Speaker 3: Because like, she wants to meet her first nephew. You 126 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying, she wants to be a part 127 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 3: of that process. And now it's like they're not speaking 128 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,119 Speaker 3: to me. So and I know that I'm not wrong, 129 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:20,280 Speaker 3: but you. 130 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 8: Play the long game. You've apologized, and is it Amber right? Yes, 131 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:27,599 Speaker 8: he apologizes. She meets whatever the baby and then finds 132 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 8: out later in life that he's allergic to something, and 133 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 8: then you're allergic to whatever. 134 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 5: Oh, let me just bring it all. 135 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:40,799 Speaker 9: Over the house. 136 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 10: There's no more than that. I'll just wait to make 137 00:05:48,360 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 10: sure you close down. You know these are children, No, 138 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 10: I don't. I don't think this someone has anything to apologize. 139 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,680 Speaker 10: It's her house. She's allowed to apply, you know, reasonable 140 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,159 Speaker 10: rules for her house where she lives with her kid. 141 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 10: And if you're a guest, then guess what you get 142 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:14,720 Speaker 10: to subscribe to some of that because I'm a guest. 143 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:16,000 Speaker 5: I don't live here. It's not my house. 144 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 3: When you say at someone's house, is it rude to 145 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 3: door dash at their house? Like if they've already they 146 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 3: have snacks there, they cook dinner, you know? 147 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: Is it rude too. 148 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 4: That the sister law is just not reading the room 149 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 4: like I've. 150 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 5: Never done that. 151 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: Now, if you wanted to do that, I think then 152 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:34,440 Speaker 2: you go through the house and be like, hey, I'm 153 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 2: I'm really, I'm pregnant. I want to eat this. Anybody 154 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 2: want anything, I'm going to do this, and then everyone 155 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 2: can have an opportunity. But if someone says no peanuts 156 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 2: in the house because bad for the kid, they know 157 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:46,359 Speaker 2: how to. 158 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 4: Get the EpiPens out, like this is bad and it's 159 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:49,679 Speaker 4: scary with children. 160 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,040 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, you don't get to stand on business on 161 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 2: this one. I think that the apology needs to come 162 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: from the guest, from the sister. That's that's who the 163 00:06:59,040 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 2: apology is. 164 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 4: Do you stand on business and miss the birth of 165 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:02,599 Speaker 4: your nephew? 166 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 2: I don't know. You shouldn't have to be in that position, 167 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 2: that's for sure. Hey Megan, Yes, hi Megan. What do 168 00:07:09,000 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: you think? So this woman is a guest in somebody 169 00:07:11,080 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 2: else's home eating peanuts. It's her pregnancy, craving. The child 170 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: who lives in a home is allergic to peanuts, and 171 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: now it's a whole family divide over this thing. 172 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:21,239 Speaker 5: Who's wrong? 173 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 6: Yep, the people who are coming to the house are wrong. 174 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,520 Speaker 6: So I have two children with severe peanut allergies. They 175 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 6: are three and one, and we obviously have a no 176 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 6: peanut rule in our house because it can be life threatening. 177 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 6: I've been in the hospital so many different times as 178 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 6: we're discovering these allergies. And for me, if someone doesn't 179 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 6: respect my children and my role of no peanuts in 180 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 6: the house, and like, the relationship is over. There's no 181 00:07:46,760 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 6: question these are my kids in their health and safety, 182 00:07:50,520 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 6: and yes, I totally understand that, Like you might not 183 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 6: realize how severe it is because you're not their parents 184 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 6: and you haven't been in the hospital with them, you 185 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 6: haven't had to give an an EpiPen before. But it's 186 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 6: her health and it's just the relationship is over. 187 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 2: I mean, even if the woman overreacted, even if she 188 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: was overreacting, like you know, get out, or like you 189 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 2: can't be here, you can't eat that, or whatever, you 190 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: get a choice. Well, even if she was rude about that, 191 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,440 Speaker 2: she was defending her child. I mean, I think you 192 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 2: got to give someone a little bit of grace when 193 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 2: it comes to defending their child's health for good reason. 194 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 2: And so I feel they need to come together, you know, 195 00:08:23,080 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: even if that, even if it was an overreaction, I 196 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 2: think it's like you're about to be a mom and 197 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 2: you're about to experience the same thing. You know, you're 198 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,480 Speaker 2: going to defend a child, and so I don't know, 199 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 2: And I can't believe the brother is standing on business 200 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 2: on that side. I mean that's like, I know you 201 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 2: want to defend your wife, but like your wife was wrong. 202 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 2: So I feel like, is it really worth burning down 203 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: the relationship with your sister and your nephew and all 204 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 2: this over that. I mean, it's it's not like anyone 205 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 2: really has a choice in the matter except the woman 206 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 2: eating the peanuts, right right. 207 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 6: Yeah, And maybe once she has her you know, she 208 00:08:55,440 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 6: has her child and she realizes, like the health and 209 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 6: safety of the child is so important, and maybe she 210 00:09:01,760 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 6: will realize and condescens is and apologize hopefully. 211 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thank you, Megan, have a good day you too. 212 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 2: But I get I can see a situation where he's like, wow, 213 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 2: that that that escalated and now we're in a hotel 214 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:15,520 Speaker 2: and things are weird. But I can also see behind 215 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 2: closed doors where he's going hey to his wife, like, yo, 216 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:22,079 Speaker 2: you can't act like that, Like you're gonna have to apologize. 217 00:09:22,160 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 5: You can. 218 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 2: You can be one way, you know, externally, but then 219 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:27,559 Speaker 2: internally you got to check the person that you're with 220 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 2: and be like, hey, I can't stand by this. I'm 221 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,319 Speaker 2: not going to break up my entire family relationship over 222 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 2: a medical condition with some peanuts, right, like you. 223 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 4: Need to fix it, right, my girl, come on. 224 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 5: The peanuts with the omnems with the peanuts. 225 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,239 Speaker 4: Look whatever order a winning and okay. 226 00:09:43,000 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 5: It doesn't matter whichever order it is. Hey, Robin Hi, 227 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 5: Robin Kigy's cord? What say you? 228 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: Well? 229 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 7: I have a two kids also that are allergic. 230 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:57,959 Speaker 1: My one daughter is extremely allergic to every single night 231 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,839 Speaker 1: that you can find, and my the one's allergic to 232 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:05,440 Speaker 1: almonds and pistachio. So I agree with the lady that 233 00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: whose kids is allergic, because you know, it's like bringing 234 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 1: a gun to the house, you know what I mean. 235 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: It's like people don't understand how serious allergies are. 236 00:10:18,600 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 5: They can be really dangerous. 237 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, Robin, thank you, have a good day, 238 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 2: you too. 239 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:26,480 Speaker 5: I mean, what about this one? What if? 240 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: I mean, well, let's say let's say you're the you 241 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 2: have the peanut allergy, and you're going to stay at 242 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 2: someone's home and you're like, hey, I thank you for 243 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 2: the invitation, but I'm allergic to peanuts. Do you have 244 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 2: any in your home? And they're like yeah, is it 245 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 2: fair to expect them to like d peanut the whole house? 246 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,079 Speaker 2: Or do you? At that point say okay, well, then 247 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 2: in this case, I'm going to stay in a hotel 248 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 2: because I need to do that, because that's what's best 249 00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 2: for me. 250 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 4: I was staying in a hotel. 251 00:10:51,520 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 5: I wouldn't it, because. 252 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 2: You can't expect someone to, you know, if they eat 253 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: peanuts and who knows, they got to throw it all 254 00:10:56,200 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 2: the way there. There's some oil somewhere, is it in 255 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 2: you know? Who knows what? So at that point, I 256 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: don't think you can expect anyone else to really look 257 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 2: out for you. 258 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 5: You have to look out for yourself. 259 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 3: You have to, and you have to stand up for 260 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 3: yourself because allergies make it's inconvenience like it's inconvenienced everybody. 261 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:12,959 Speaker 3: You know, I hate being the person at the table 262 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 3: like sorry, guys, I can't eat this or I don't 263 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 3: eat that. It's not fun to be that person. But 264 00:11:17,240 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 3: you which you want to die. You're gonna kill this kid? 265 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 3: Oh with some pain that yeah, Stephanie, Hi, Stephanie. 266 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 8: Oh my god, I'm so excited. 267 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:25,280 Speaker 4: I guess they're sorry. 268 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I've never been so excited. And I 269 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 2: almost called you Stefani. I almost made it like fancy 270 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 2: or I don't know why, because you know I like 271 00:11:32,200 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 2: to make names. 272 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 9: I have one of your thirteen listeners and I have 273 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 9: never made it there. 274 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:39,040 Speaker 2: Well, you know what, it's a miracle because it's usually 275 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 2: everybody who calls in your So this is my third 276 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 2: time calling today. You know, this is incredible, So welcome 277 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: And what did you want to say? 278 00:11:47,679 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 9: Not that I agree entirely with Rufia when playing the 279 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,199 Speaker 9: long game, but I feel like you could completely have 280 00:11:53,480 --> 00:11:56,240 Speaker 9: a really good conversation with the brother and sister in 281 00:11:56,320 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 9: law once their child is born. You know, after a 282 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 9: new baby these are born, everybody wants to put hand 283 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 9: sanitizer on and you know they like over sanitized battles 284 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 9: and beakies and things like that, and those are not 285 00:12:09,960 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 9: even life threatening things like you could have a real 286 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 9: genuine conversation with this sister in law about how your 287 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 9: carelessness and cravings put my child's life at risk because 288 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 9: you want to you know, peanut m and m's or something. 289 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 5: And so it's very selfish. 290 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 2: It's very selfish in someone else's house, standing on your business. 291 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,160 Speaker 5: That's very selfish. 292 00:12:35,280 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 9: Yes, And this mother was very accommodating, and that she 293 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 9: sent her own children to their bedrooms and let this 294 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,679 Speaker 9: woman still kind of enjoy her peanuts somewhere in this house, 295 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 9: even though she was probably structing that she was going 296 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 9: to have her child somewhere in the next week or two. 297 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 2: Not good, Not good. Thank you, Stephanie Stefani. Have a 298 00:12:56,320 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 2: nice day. Imagine sh occup has such a hard time 299 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 2: getting through. 300 00:13:01,760 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 5: And nobody else does. It's all right, problems solve there. 301 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:07,640 Speaker 2: It is. 302 00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,040 Speaker 5: Get Roofie over here. 303 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 6: I'll do care. 304 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,320 Speaker 5: Don't have penealogy. See now a long game. 305 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 2: Maybe look up The entertainment report is insuming