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Speaker 1: But I invited you hear I thought I made myself

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Speaker 2: So how did you dare to surbey me?

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Speaker 3: Welcome to I said, no gifts. I'm Bridgard Wineger. We're

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Speaker 3: in the backyard. The winds that were kind of too

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Speaker 3: I don't want to keep starting this podcast talking about

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Speaker 3: the state of my car, but my horn has stopped working.

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Speaker 3: It's just not I'm not able to beep or honk

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Speaker 3: the next few weeks, if you're at a green light,

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Speaker 3: just kind of suffering in silence. Please go through the intersection.

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Speaker 3: Proceed with caution, but keep me in mind. Is there

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Speaker 3: anything else I needed to talk about? I don't think,

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Speaker 3: So let's get into the podcast. Today's guest is just

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Speaker 3: fantastic it's Francesca Ramsey. Francesca, welcome to I said no gift.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me.

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Speaker 3: Of course, how are you I'm doing?

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm here.

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Speaker 4: I'm doing I'm trying to be honest instead of just

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Speaker 4: saying good when the reality is more complicated.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like we're kind of all slowly becoming

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Speaker 4: so at this point you might as well just say

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Speaker 3: And if it does, the budget will be slash.

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Speaker 4: I'm not a recurring I'm maybe a guest again bringing

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Speaker 3: We're only bringing back the stars. This effects budget is reduced. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I mean that's very true. Yeah, I'm more honest with

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Speaker 2: I'm here for it. I support you, I affirm you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you can go home. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 3: This is the self affirmation minute. No, what's been going on?

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Speaker 3: What are you enjoying right now?

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Speaker 2: Ooh? What am I enjoying?

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Speaker 4: I have a new podcast at wondery called Blackistry for Real,

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Speaker 4: which has been taking up a ton of my time,

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Speaker 3: We've been doing everything known each other.

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Speaker 2: We've been doing everything remotely.

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Speaker 4: We started working together end of last year, but we

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Speaker 3: I can go very wrong.

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Speaker 4: He's on TikTok. He's super funny and really really smart

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Speaker 2: But you never know. So yeah, we we have been

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Speaker 2: Well now we can talk shit left.

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Speaker 3: Oh I hate this game. No, I as far as

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Speaker 3: I taking a photo of each spot.

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Speaker 2: I'm not one but two parking spots. Come over. You

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Speaker 3: It's all yours now is it tandem or side by side?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, I mean like people are sitting in

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Speaker 4: I would just wait in my car, or I would

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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, I feel like I would probably whether I

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Speaker 2: That's probably why I sure you in that response.

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Speaker 3: And as far as people with Tesla's it's an interesting

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Speaker 2: Yes, so people were there a lot of people who

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Speaker 4: Certainly, you know one of those weird looking ones. They're

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Speaker 4: They have like very low visibility.

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Speaker 3: They must be. It does not look like it was

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Speaker 2: It reminds me of like when everyone was driving those

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Speaker 4: They're not range rivers, I forget what they're called. But

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Speaker 2: Second of all, a yellow, I know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I do. The little Fiat is a cute little car.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I loved the boxy version. Yeah. I love

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Speaker 3: bring back an electric Fox.

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Speaker 3: Right, they're so like swanky, so stylish. I wonder what

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Speaker 3: Right, I'll see those around la occasion. I assume the

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Speaker 3: As far as a gas car, remember, it's very much

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Speaker 4: The character is at this exactly when you buy the car.

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Speaker 4: Wes Anderson is in the gloves department.

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Speaker 3: He's at the dealership.

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Speaker 3: Immediately we're hearing xylophone.

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Speaker 3: the Subaru Brat? I don't think again, what a name

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Speaker 2: Yes, you can like go to like a drive in movie.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that a great is?

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Speaker 2: Really? I feel like that fits your aesthetic. It's very sporty. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I appreciate hearing you don't understand football, but you give sporty,

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Speaker 3: I'll take sporty spice. I'll take sporting spices. Put me

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Speaker 3: Emma Button, Jerry Hallowell.

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Speaker 2: Jerry Yes, Jerry Hallowell. And Victoria Beckham? Oh was she

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Speaker 2: Beckham when she started?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, yeah, I feel like the names were kind

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she tried, she tried. She was one of the

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Speaker 2: I mean, I have lots of notes. If we really

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Speaker 4: What the vocals were not strong? And I feel confident

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Speaker 2: They just weren't. Yeah, like to the music.

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Speaker 3: It was very fun music. But I don't think that

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Speaker 2: Mm hmm, exactly. She's she's okay, I mean, yeah, I

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Speaker 4: Nobody was able to successfully. I mean, I would say

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Speaker 3: Right exactly.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they all tried. Jerry really tried. She had them.

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Speaker 2: She had a talk about look at me, look at

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Speaker 2: that's all I remember.

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Speaker 3: And the song was the song was not good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody, nobody. I think Baby Tribe.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Baby's still alive.

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Speaker 4: She is, she is, she looks great, she's she's keeping

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, through her hobby, but also through her fashion line,

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Speaker 3: Like her stuff is cute, it's expensive, Yeah, I'm sure.

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Speaker 3: And I feel like she's influenced the naming of children.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that.

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Speaker 3: And I do believe Jerry ended up in politics. I

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Speaker 2: And Scary. Jerry and Scary were in a lesbian relationship.

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Speaker 3: To believe it. I want to believe, so do I.

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Speaker 3: And when you say they were reviewing music.

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Speaker 2: Like the people on TikTok were looking at videos and

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Speaker 3: I need to get into this. Why don't those two

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Speaker 3: for a few minutes.

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Speaker 2: That is that would sustain a tour?

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Speaker 3: No, absolutely, it does, at least a six city tour.

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Speaker 4: And listen, millennials, elder millennials. We don't have a ton

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Speaker 4: so like if you go on tour, you don't we

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Speaker 3: I feel like they have tried a few times. I

447
00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:04,359
Speaker 3: don't like to do that.

448
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:06,879
Speaker 2: They have, and I don't think it's just it just

449
00:20:06,960 --> 00:20:07,959
Speaker 2: has never really worked out.

450
00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:09,440
Speaker 3: You don't want to try a few times. You do

451
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 3: it once and if it doesn't work, then hang up

452
00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 3: the I guess the platform, the platforms, the platform flip flops.

453
00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 4: We were definitely wearing platform Neapolitan nepatol and and one of.

454
00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:27,560
Speaker 2: Those ice cream that has the three. Of course, that's

455
00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:30,280
Speaker 2: what those flip flops looked like. They had like a

456
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:31,920
Speaker 2: line of pink in there.

457
00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 3: Yeah. I love a Neapolitan color scheme.

458
00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:41,119
Speaker 2: Yes, very a brown light pink and a creek. Oh yes, I.

459
00:20:41,119 --> 00:20:43,720
Speaker 3: Would get into a flip flop with that. I'm stomping

460
00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 3: around in some of that.

461
00:20:44,880 --> 00:20:48,080
Speaker 2: I'm into that. Or like a manicure that has that color.

462
00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, I like that. Yeah, I like the ice cream.

463
00:20:51,920 --> 00:20:53,359
Speaker 3: I haven't had it in a long time, so I

464
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,760
Speaker 3: can't speak from recent experience, but you get a freak

465
00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,399
Speaker 3: it still holds up. You can't really can really go there, right, Those.

466
00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:04,120
Speaker 2: Those are those staple flavors. Yeah.

467
00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:05,680
Speaker 3: I don't even know if you can like order that

468
00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 3: at a nice cream place anymore.

469
00:21:07,560 --> 00:21:07,880
Speaker 2: I don't.

470
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 3: I have no idea. It's a question worth asking.

471
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, the good old days when you could order a Neapolitan.

472
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,879
Speaker 3: Well, you know, speaking of questions that need to be asked,

473
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 3: I have something to ask you.

474
00:21:21,160 --> 00:21:21,879
Speaker 2: Yes please.

475
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 3: I was obviously excited to have you here today. I

476
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:27,639
Speaker 3: thought we'll have a nice time. We'll get into whatever

477
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 3: we want to talk about. No feelings will be hurt.

478
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,919
Speaker 3: No rules will be broken, no boundaries will be pushed.

479
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 2: Thank you.

480
00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 3: The podcast is called I said No Gifts. Yes, so

481
00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:40,800
Speaker 3: I was a little surprised when you kind of appeared

482
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 3: in my backyard. Yes, holding what from where I'm sitting

483
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,000
Speaker 3: appears to be a gift.

484
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 2: One thing about me, I'm gonna bring a gift.

485
00:21:50,280 --> 00:21:53,480
Speaker 4: I love a gift. Gifting is my love language, it

486
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 4: really is, Is that true. I have a gift drawer.

487
00:21:56,200 --> 00:21:57,440
Speaker 4: This came from the gift drawer.

488
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 3: A gift drawer.

489
00:21:58,960 --> 00:21:59,160
Speaker 1: Yes.

490
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 4: My policy is we are out and about and you

491
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:04,879
Speaker 4: see something cute and you think this will make a

492
00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,399
Speaker 4: great gift, but I have no one to give it

493
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 4: to buy it anyway, buy too, put it in the

494
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 4: gift drawer, and then you will never show up empty handed.

495
00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: Wow, And every single person will be like, oh my god,

496
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:18,280
Speaker 2: you brought a gift to my housewarming, to my divorce party,

497
00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 2: to my you know, cake cutting ceremony or whatever.

498
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,600
Speaker 3: There's a kid cutting that's kind of a brisks.

499
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,359
Speaker 4: I mean exactly exactly. So you show up with a

500
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 4: gift and you look, you know, like a great guest

501
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 4: and very thoughtful.

502
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: Little do they know you have gifts year round.

503
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:39,280
Speaker 3: Interesting, that's a that's not that's not something I could do.

504
00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 3: Oh yescause I can't buy something for myself. I see

505
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,280
Speaker 3: something that I need for myself, I can't buy it

506
00:22:45,800 --> 00:22:46,280
Speaker 3: let alone.

507
00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: You know, you don't just like browse at you know,

508
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,320
Speaker 2: oh brows and when you see something use you just

509
00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:53,880
Speaker 2: don't buy.

510
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:58,040
Speaker 3: You just rest leave the store and they think, oh no,

511
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 3: I just I buy two. See that's a hell things.

512
00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 2: I also have like a list of.

513
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 4: Gift places on my phone, like when someone gives me

514
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 4: a gift, like plants dot com. Oh, you can send

515
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 4: someone like a succulent just like very nice.

516
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:10,440
Speaker 3: Nice.

517
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 4: There's a site that I found that will like engrave

518
00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,840
Speaker 4: glasses for you, so like, you know, if you have

519
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 4: an anniversary or a funny saying that you have with

520
00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:21,719
Speaker 4: a friend, you can have it engraved on a glass.

521
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 3: Oh that's a nice on a goblin?

522
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 2: Even that a few times? What else do I have

523
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 2: on there?

524
00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 4: I have also of like random things, and it's truly

525
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 4: like I go somewhere or someone sends me something and

526
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, I want to remember this site, so I'm

527
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 4: gonna put on my little gift.

528
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 3: That's very smart, that's very in control of your life.

529
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 4: I am like so type A, and it really comes

530
00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 4: from the fact that I have very little control over

531
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,440
Speaker 4: like other parts of my life right right, That's where

532
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:52,680
Speaker 4: I really like latch on.

533
00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 3: I wonder what type I even am. I don't know

534
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 3: if there's a category for how I'm doing things wrong,

535
00:23:59,480 --> 00:24:01,959
Speaker 3: because I feel like I do have some Type A tendencies,

536
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 3: but not the ones that are good or not the

537
00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 3: ones that lead to success.

538
00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 4: Some people might say that Type A tendencies are bad

539
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 4: because I know for some some people, like I love

540
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 4: a calendar invite and I'm chronically early, and my friends

541
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,879
Speaker 4: are like, this is you send the calendar invite before

542
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 4: we get off the phone, and I'm like, yes, I

543
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 4: need it. I need it on the calendar. So like,

544
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 4: certain aspects of it can be annoying, but at least

545
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 4: you can be counted on literally you n if. I

546
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 4: always tell people if I'm late, start a podcast about

547
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 4: my disappearance.

548
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 2: I'm dead in a dish somewhere. I'm not late.

549
00:24:33,240 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 4: If I'm late, you will hear from me. But if

550
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 4: you don't hear from me, something happened. I am chronically

551
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 4: I'm like a premature baby.

552
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 3: See this that used to be me until the pandemic,

553
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:48,360
Speaker 3: and I've like slowly lost control of being put I'm

554
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 3: always now like panicking on my way to a place,

555
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 3: just freaking out.

556
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,479
Speaker 2: I mean, it's fine in La. Everybody's fifteen minutes late here,

557
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 2: which is horrible.

558
00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't annoy with behavior.

559
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 4: Now, and especially as someone who's chronically ear, it's really

560
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,119
Speaker 4: taken a lot for me to like get over the

561
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 4: fact that everyone's late because I'm always early, and then

562
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 4: like nothing starts for thirty minutes.

563
00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 3: Right, you're now a half hour early. It's not fair

564
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 3: to you. You're the only victim in this situation. I

565
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 3: know it, truly, I've known that pain a lot. Well, look,

566
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:23,639
Speaker 3: the gift is here. Yes, we're recording a podcast. Should

567
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 3: I open it here on the show?

568
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 2: Yes?

569
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 4: Okay, let's and can I also just tell you, of

570
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:32,879
Speaker 4: course I did make the wrapping paper?

571
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 3: You made it?

572
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 2: Did? I did?

573
00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,200
Speaker 3: Well? I'm gonna take a picture of a pre we

574
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:38,440
Speaker 3: gotta get a close up of this.

575
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 4: I took a printmaking class, what and I carved these

576
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 4: little star stamps out of little linoleum blocks, and I

577
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 4: rolled a giant thing of craft paper, and I keep

578
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,920
Speaker 4: a roll of stamped craft.

579
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 2: When I got the invitation of this podcast, I'm.

580
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:59,000
Speaker 4: Like, this is my podcast, I'm the target audience a

581
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 4: gift and they were like, it has to be wrapped,

582
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 4: and like the way was this? Kept telling me and

583
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 4: it has to be wrapped, And I was like, Oh,

584
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 4: it's going to be fucking wrapped.

585
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 2: You think I'm showing up with an unwrapped Uh. Yes,

586
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 2: I made this incredible.

587
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 3: I would have like, I mean this looks so professional.

588
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,520
Speaker 2: Thank you. I got really into it. I took the class.

589
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 4: I took one in college, but then I took one,

590
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 4: uh like maybe two years ago. There's this really cute

591
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:31,800
Speaker 4: queer art studio called Nova Arts in Atwater Village. It's

592
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:35,359
Speaker 4: run by two queer women who went to college together.

593
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 4: And yeah, I took this class and it was just

594
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 4: so cool.

595
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 2: It got so into it, and so.

596
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 4: I've been I save like all of my takeout bags

597
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 4: and I stamp them and I keep them in the

598
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 4: gift drawer.

599
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,160
Speaker 3: So crafty, uh huh.

600
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: I have little cards and I just.

601
00:26:50,320 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 3: And so, now can you make these stamps at home?

602
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 2: Yeah?

603
00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 4: So it's like a little linoleum block and it come.

604
00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 4: You buy these little carving tools that are all different sizes.

605
00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 4: You draw whatever you want on the on the block,

606
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,520
Speaker 4: and it's very therapeutic because you can't be on your

607
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 4: phone both hands and you have to really pay attention

608
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 4: because the tools are sharp, you know, so you have

609
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,680
Speaker 4: to really sit there and be very methodical, and you know,

610
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 4: put a little music on.

611
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,680
Speaker 2: Smoke a little weak.

612
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, and so what else have you made? So my

613
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 4: signature shape is this, like little a little rainbow. I

614
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,439
Speaker 4: put those on everything.

615
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 2: Stars.

616
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 4: I love circles, I love shapes. I love like zig

617
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 4: zag lines. I like things that you can like layer

618
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 4: on top of each other.

619
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 3: So that's so great. Yeah, wow, And the class, what

620
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: what does it mean? You took the class?

621
00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,399
Speaker 4: So it's it was a print making class. So there

622
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 4: were different types of print making techniques. So this was

623
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 4: called lino print, which is like the linoleum print. We

624
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 4: also did like a type setting class. They have like

625
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 4: an old printing press. It was like a test press,

626
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 4: meaning like before you actually put the newspaper together, you

627
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 4: did like a little test version. So there's like little

628
00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 4: blocks with different letters on them. You have to put

629
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 4: them backwards in this thing. Oh and then you like

630
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:13,639
Speaker 4: roll it with ink and you put a piece of

631
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 4: paper on it, and then you roll this giant brick

632
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 4: on top of it. We also did a Reezograph, which

633
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 4: is like a giant printer, but it prints one color

634
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:26,399
Speaker 4: at a time. So if you draw a picture and

635
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 4: it's got red, green, and blue, you have to draw

636
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 4: all the blue areas first and then print it, and

637
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 4: then you draw all the red areas and then you

638
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 4: print it, and then you draw all the wow, yellow areas.

639
00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,080
Speaker 2: And then it's so so cool. What other ones did

640
00:28:40,120 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 2: we do? Yeah, that was it, and then we just

641
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: like did little projects and it was six weeks and

642
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 2: it was like, sounds incredible. It's so cool. They have

643
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 2: like figure drawing, they have all sorts of stuff there.

644
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,520
Speaker 4: And I really especially again because I'm so type A

645
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 4: and because I love control and I lack control. I

646
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 4: love being able to like use my creative talents for

647
00:29:02,360 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 4: something where I'm like, I know there's a process here,

648
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,920
Speaker 4: it's a beginning, middle and edg no notes. You don't

649
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 4: get so different from let's get out of Zoom, no

650
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 4: bitch stamp. So like, for me, like making art is

651
00:29:19,080 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 4: a way to like work through my anxiety but also

652
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 4: to just like feel accomplished and creative and not you know,

653
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 4: like maybe you feel this way too, but like when

654
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 4: you turn your creative passions into a job, it can

655
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 4: kind of like suck the fun out of it. And

656
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 4: so like I have no interest in like monetizing this,

657
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 4: Like this is just such a fun thing that I do,

658
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 4: and I love the feeling of sharing something with someone

659
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:45,200
Speaker 4: that's very personal of course, and how excited they like.

660
00:29:45,440 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 3: Like this, I'm incredible. I'm taking an app. I don't

661
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 3: even need to open the thing at this point, Like

662
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 3: this was enough. Yeah, I mean that is that's baking?

663
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 1: Is that for me?

664
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 3: Like I know that if I do this correctly, there

665
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 3: will be a result and I'll know what it's going

666
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:02,640
Speaker 3: to be.

667
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 2: And giving it to people and they're like this tastes

668
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Speaker 2: really good.

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Speaker 3: I just recently started giving them away. I've been very

670
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Speaker 3: selfish and now I'm finally kind of shining.

671
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Speaker 2: Yes, I love it.

672
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Speaker 3: It's so nice to give people a cookie and have

673
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Speaker 3: them actually enjoy it.

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Speaker 2: Yes, And you also get to go you want a

675
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Speaker 2: cookie and then you give them one?

676
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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, or to withhold Yeah, another powerful stance. Okay,

677
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Speaker 3: let me open this, Yeah, please do did we even

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Speaker 3: just did I even say, it's like a brown rap

679
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Speaker 3: with like these wonderful little white stars with It's great.

680
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 3: There will be pictures on the Instagram. Yeah, calm down, okay,

681
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 3: let's I love brown wrapping papers. Aye.

682
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Speaker 2: Something about it feels sad, oh like yeah, and like artsy.

683
00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 3: And oh I know I'm opening it. It looks like

684
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Speaker 3: you've given me something good, like something that's actually joy. Yeah,

685
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 3: this is actually a useful thing. Well, I mean I

686
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:58,840
Speaker 3: don't exactly know what it is yet, but it's called

687
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 3: massage soap and it's eucalyptus and mint. What is massage?

688
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 4: So it's a soap that has like little rivets on

689
00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 4: it so that when you rub it on yourself like

690
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 4: all ease you but also like gives you a little massage.

691
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Speaker 3: Oh this is wonderful. Where did this come from? Uh?

692
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Speaker 2: Came from World Market, which is where I get a

693
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Speaker 2: lot of my gifts.

694
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Speaker 3: Great gift zone.

695
00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 2: They've got a gift zone for the goal. It's everything

696
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Speaker 2: is in there, even.

697
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:26,719
Speaker 3: The food sections.

698
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:31,400
Speaker 2: It got little snacks, they've got little markers, they've got baretts,

699
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: they've got earrings, they've got candles, they have little eye.

700
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 3: Masks, baskets, Flore's they have.

701
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 4: They have so much cute artwork and stuff. It's like

702
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 4: really affordable and like, and I also have points. I

703
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 4: love a place that I have points. So a lot

704
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 4: of these gifts they come on points.

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Speaker 3: How many points do you think you have? I don't know,

706
00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 3: but if you.

707
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Speaker 4: If I am in the checkout and they're like, would

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Speaker 4: you like to sign up for the rewards for I

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00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 4: say yes, take my data, take my data, give me

710
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 4: those points. If I get an email that's like, you

711
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 4: have to use your points today, I'm like, great, getting in.

712
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: The mini coup let's go got into my head, spin

713
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 2: them points up.

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Speaker 3: I love a points program.

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Speaker 2: Me too, or like a it's your birthday, so now

716
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Speaker 2: you get off. I don't care what it is. I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm buying a house ten percent off an

718
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 2: Eagle Rock for your birthday. Totally.

719
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Speaker 3: I will go to any place more often if it

720
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Speaker 3: has a points system.

721
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 4: Yes, absolutely, I mean it's it's genius. It's great incentive.

722
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 3: Oh, it's an incredible incentive. I feel like I'm being rewarded,

723
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 3: although it's probably absolutely bare minimum. Yeah, it's a scam.

724
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 3: When you get it, it's such a nice little bonus

725
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,840
Speaker 3: you feel like you're the king of the place for

726
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 3: the three minutes you're there.

727
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Speaker 2: Absolutely.

728
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Speaker 3: I recently got some a free chicken sandwhich, and I

729
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 3: was over the moon.

730
00:32:54,280 --> 00:32:55,120
Speaker 2: I was over the moon.

731
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,160
Speaker 3: I was like I had won a million dollars.

732
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Speaker 4: I would love a free chicken sandwich. If anyone is

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Speaker 4: listening a p lease go to my website, check out

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Speaker 4: the po box and send.

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Speaker 3: Me a freaking why that you can sandwich in a box?

736
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Speaker 2: Now, Yes, that's how I like it.

737
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 3: I love a bath product. I love a shower product.

738
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 2: Those are listeners. Bath products. You can't go wrong. They

739
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 2: are not gendered. Everybody needs to take a bath.

740
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 3: Everyone loves to experiment in the bath and shower.

741
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 2: Everybody wants to smell goods. Yeah, of course, so nice.

742
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 3: Are you the sort of person when you're like a

743
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 3: house guest at somebody's place that you'll like get into

744
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 3: their stuff and use their different products?

745
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,360
Speaker 4: Ooh, I'm not, But I will say the last time

746
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 4: that I went and visited, I was like staying at

747
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 4: my aunt uncle's place, and in their guest room they

748
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 4: had like stocked up toothbrushes and toothpas like like in

749
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,520
Speaker 4: like little wrappers for guests.

750
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Speaker 3: This is rich people behavior. It was.

751
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Speaker 2: I was like, I did not know y'all got it

752
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 2: like this.

753
00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's great to see.

754
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 2: It was amazing. That is the type of person that

755
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Speaker 2: I want to be.

756
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Speaker 4: Oh when you code it when you're visiting and you're like, oh,

757
00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 4: I forgot to bring slippers and they're like, here's some.

758
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 2: There's a bunch of slippers in this drawer.

759
00:34:09,200 --> 00:34:11,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is top shelf behavior.

760
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 2: Yeah.

761
00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 3: It was really really cute.

762
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Speaker 2: But I don't I normally I'm not I'm not someone

763
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 2: that pokes around.

764
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm getting in there. I'm putting on the using

765
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:20,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, my hair doesn't need to be washed, but

766
00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 3: this looks expensive and we're gonna give it a try.

767
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 4: You're like, is this your mom's ashes? Guess I'm putting.

768
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 3: Rubbing it in my hands. This is exfoliating.

769
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I'm getting in there, and then at home, I'm doing

771
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 3: the same thing. I'm trying new things all the time.

772
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Speaker 2: Yes.

773
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Speaker 3: And part of it is also I'm like, well this

774
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Speaker 3: soap is on sale this week. Oh no, of course

775
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 3: I'm trying a noose, no soap. No.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm not one who like experiments, like I

777
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 4: don't have like this particular brand of a soap or something.

778
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 4: But like whatever sunscreen I'm using, like I'm a diehard.

779
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 4: I want to use that product till like the day

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Speaker 4: that I die. I'm in mourning if I can't use

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00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 4: it anymore. But raman Is, the supermodel, had a makeup

782
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 4: line and she decided to stop doing it in the

783
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,160
Speaker 4: middle of the pandemic. I was on eBay buying old

784
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 4: bottles of Iman because I was like, I cannot transition

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Speaker 4: to a different foundation.

786
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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you're so used to it. At that

787
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Speaker 3: point I stopped her.

788
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 4: I don't I'm guessing it was the pandemic. But she

789
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 4: didn't even like make an announcement or anything. Like just

790
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,960
Speaker 4: the website went down. You couldn't find the stuff in

791
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 4: the stores anymore. So I was like scouring eBay and

792
00:35:32,320 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 4: like the Internet, try to find old bottles or just

793
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 4: buy things in bulk.

794
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:39,880
Speaker 3: It's not like Iman is brewing it up in her basement.

795
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,440
Speaker 2: I know, I don't know what happened. I am on.

796
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 2: I know you're listening, of course, side of my damn.

797
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 2: Let me know.

798
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:52,800
Speaker 4: What else I will say for daily scun sunscreen. I

799
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 4: love Supergoop. Super Goop not to be confused with Goop.

800
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 4: This is a Goop products, not a product. Every time

801
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 4: I mentioned people go who, I'm like, no, no, it's okay.

802
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 4: We are not giving one of Pultro any more coins.

803
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 4: This is a different company. I love some super goog okay,

804
00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 4: because you know, sometimes like sunscreen is like chalky.

805
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, not this. It just goes right on.

806
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 2: I mean, smooth looking.

807
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: I need you need like an opaque bubble over me. Basically,

808
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 3: get you some daily supero.

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00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:27,000
Speaker 2: Okay, great, it's a game changer.

810
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,800
Speaker 3: I've been, you know, steadily upping my sunscreen usage to

811
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 3: the you know, basically the point that I'm putting it

812
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:34,800
Speaker 3: on before.

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00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 2: Bed, Yes, every single day. You cannot wear too much sunscreen.

814
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just go for it. So this is a

815
00:36:41,160 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 3: good recommendation. I like a like a moisturizing sunscreen.

816
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 2: That's what this is. You put it on like after

817
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 2: you get out of the shower, before you start your day.

818
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 3: This is incredible.

819
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:51,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's wonderful.

820
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 3: Have you read about like the Korean sunscreen market.

821
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 2: Now, whatever the Korean folks are doing when it comes

822
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 2: to skincare, they got it a lot.

823
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 3: They've really time.

824
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 4: I see somebody and I'm like you have the face

825
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 4: of a toddler. They're like, I am using such and

826
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,680
Speaker 4: such Korean skincare, but they have like all the good stuff.

827
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 3: And I believe with the sunscreen, it's almost like a

828
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 3: legal thing, like I guess like in the US, like

829
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 3: whatever they're using in Korea has not been approved by

830
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 3: the FDA or whatever, and so they're just so far

831
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 3: in band.

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00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 4: We're too busy banning TikTok, right, y'all? Can I have

833
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,759
Speaker 4: silky smooth skin and TikTok well?

834
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: An interesting? Interestingly, TikTok and Korean sunscreen are basically sisters.

835
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like it's all over. I mean, yeah,

836
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 3: I don't I'm not even on TikTok, and I know

837
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,000
Speaker 3: people are constantly talking about Korean sunscreen on tiptokh I mean.

838
00:37:40,080 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 2: What I love about I mean, and not to like

839
00:37:42,480 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: turn this into like a pro TikTok screed, but I

840
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 2: love that if you like something like the algorithm like

841
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 2: learns you and gives.

842
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 4: You more stuff, which is like really nice. It kind

843
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 4: of like helps you navigate the rabbit holes in that way.

844
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:59,319
Speaker 4: But yeah, the skincare girlies are serious over there.

845
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 3: I mean, speaking of the algorithm and TikTok. I'm never

846
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 3: on it, and I opened it last night and the

847
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 3: first thing I'm presented with is Donald Trump talking to

848
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,319
Speaker 3: a child. It's like, oh, I immediately.

849
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 2: Show brain want you have to hold it and click?

850
00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: Not interested?

851
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 3: Well, I didn't know there was a no.

852
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 2: If you watched it for too long, it'll think that

853
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 2: you liked it.

854
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:23,359
Speaker 3: I mean, does a track that you immediately closed the app?

855
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:24,839
Speaker 3: I think it does.

856
00:38:25,200 --> 00:38:28,760
Speaker 2: The wrecking everything it's listening right now.

857
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,919
Speaker 3: It probably is. It is TikTok reach Out.

858
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

859
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 3: The banning, it's like not but they're not quite banning

860
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 3: it right. They're like demanding the sell part of the company. Yeah.

861
00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,720
Speaker 4: They were like, we're worried you're spying on us ps,

862
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 4: Facebook and Instagram.

863
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 2: Y'all are good, We're okay, but y'all we want an America.

864
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: If you go to spy on us, you must look

865
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:55,879
Speaker 2: like us. I don't really feel you know, a little

866
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 2: xenophobia sprinkled in there. Y'all can't spy on us. We

867
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 2: want this needs to be.

868
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,280
Speaker 3: A Homesta, be a sucker Berg approved.

869
00:39:04,080 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 4: Yes, literally everything is listening to you. So they're trying

870
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,399
Speaker 4: to cloak it in this you know, like national security thing,

871
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 4: but I don't believe it.

872
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:14,720
Speaker 3: So what's going to happen?

873
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:18,840
Speaker 2: I don't know. I feel like it could go away.

874
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 4: They they gave them a deadline, and I said, you

875
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:25,080
Speaker 4: have to sell to an American company, which also feels

876
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 4: very scammy, right, Like, we're worried about national security. But

877
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,800
Speaker 4: if you just pick Selldom the company to an American company,

878
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 4: will be okay with it? Again, we want to We're

879
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 4: okay with American spying on our citizens, not anybody else.

880
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: I don't know.

881
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 2: I can't, I can't. I can't get a wrangle on

882
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:45,160
Speaker 2: if it's gonna happen or not.

883
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 3: Right, I feel like there's just no way that happens.

884
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 2: I don't know.

885
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 4: I mean, look, every single time I think I have

886
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 4: an understanding of how the world works, some crazy shit happens,

887
00:39:56,920 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Just something happens where I'm

888
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 4: like that was a to be a thing and then

889
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:04,479
Speaker 4: it was so who knows?

890
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 3: Then have you taken any skincare or like soap recommendations

891
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: from TikTok?

892
00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:14,240
Speaker 2: I haven't. I you know, I've been blessed. The melanin

893
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 2: has really been good to me.

894
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:17,320
Speaker 3: I've always.

895
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: Thank you.

896
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 2: Thank you.

897
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 4: I always tell people if I start hawking skincare, you know,

898
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 4: I'm down bad. The finances are in the trash because

899
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 4: this is all natural. And I'm even going, guys, you

900
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 4: should buy this product.

901
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:32,839
Speaker 2: I'm lying to you. No one has helped me get

902
00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,040
Speaker 2: the skin. This is from birth.

903
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 3: Oh you're so lucky.

904
00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

905
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 4: So I've always had really clear skin, and so I'm

906
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 4: very much of the mind, like I don't want to

907
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 4: mess with it. I put on sunscreen the recommendation of

908
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:49,320
Speaker 4: a dear friend, mecup artist, who was like, this is

909
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:51,840
Speaker 4: what you should be doing every day to preserve what

910
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,919
Speaker 4: you have. I try to drink a lot of water.

911
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: Sure, and that's it. I'm a less is more type

912
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 2: of girl, Like what's.

913
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 3: Your like, do you wash your face? Do anything?

914
00:40:59,880 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 5: Like?

915
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I just take my makeup off every

916
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 4: night and I put my sunscreen up, my daily sunscreen on.

917
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 4: I do a little I cream, you know, newly forty

918
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,919
Speaker 4: the bags are giving Chanel, you know, giving, let's see

919
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 4: behind the counter.

920
00:41:14,920 --> 00:41:17,520
Speaker 3: So I do put a little I cream on, but

921
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 3: that I could get into I cream.

922
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: I'm really into Keel's avocado I cream. I did.

923
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 4: I got the recommendation from a friend, But I did

924
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:32,759
Speaker 4: like watch some videos to see like people's suggestions. You want,

925
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 4: supposedly with the I cream, you want something that's like

926
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 4: a little sticky to like help fill in the ridges.

927
00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 4: You don't want it to be too like liquidy. I

928
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:47,120
Speaker 4: don't mean these are not technical liquity sticky. It's medical. Yeah,

929
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 4: So you need something that like I guess it like

930
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,240
Speaker 4: gives your face like buoyancy or something.

931
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:55,040
Speaker 3: So I put that on and I do think it helps.

932
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,719
Speaker 2: I mean, you look great, thank you.

933
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: How long you've been doing the I cream?

934
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,719
Speaker 4: I'm I want to say, like about a year? Okay, Yeah,

935
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 4: I just woke up one day and I was like,

936
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 4: what is going on? And my skin is changing? Yeah,

937
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,320
Speaker 4: so that's really it. And I'm I I just like,

938
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 4: I want to look like myself.

939
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 3: I don't I don't want want to turn into a monster.

940
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 4: Well, I don't want somebody to like, you know, the

941
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 4: rare time I bring somebody home, we wake up in

942
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 4: the bed and they're like, who the fuck is that?

943
00:42:25,640 --> 00:42:26,239
Speaker 2: I don't want that.

944
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 3: I want to look like myself purely, you just the

945
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 3: best version of yourself.

946
00:42:31,719 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 4: Yes, I don't want to have to take like a

947
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 4: sledgehammer to my skin to like get all the ship

948
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 4: off at night.

949
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:41,600
Speaker 3: You know, very light and easy and neutral, minimal. Why

950
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 3: wouldn't ye? That just seems so nice.

951
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we were definitely in a moment where

952
00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 4: the like heavy contour. It was like almost drag makeup,

953
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 4: locked out brow that almost had like a gradient.

954
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: On what was it?

955
00:42:56,280 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 4: The gradient brow very interesting brow work and cut crease

956
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 4: so it was like shadow. But then there was like

957
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 4: a line of like a different color eyeshadow. It was

958
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 4: very interesting. I never went through that phase.

959
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 3: It's interesting, how uh how much browse change? Actually? There

960
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 3: be like a history book on brows.

961
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 2: We had a sperm brown.

962
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, of course we should.

963
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,839
Speaker 2: Have a history book on browsing brows and only called

964
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 2: just browsing.

965
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 3: You've got a book deal, you've got an events, Oh

966
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:25,879
Speaker 3: my god.

967
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:26,560
Speaker 2: Please.

968
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,319
Speaker 3: I love going into a Keels store, have you ever?

969
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 3: Of course I never purchased anything like going in there.

970
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 3: It feels a little doctory. Yes, they've got the sometimes

971
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 3: the coat on.

972
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 4: Yes, it feels very science y. They have like good

973
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 4: hand creams and stuff. They have good products.

974
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:48,879
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've had some samples a little pricey, but yeah, right, right,

975
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 3: and I like the ones occasionally will go in and

976
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 3: they'll be like, can we wash your hands? Can we

977
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 3: do this sort of thing for you?

978
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: Oh?

979
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 3: I'm all about that.

980
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,439
Speaker 4: Oh I got I haven't been in kiels And forever

981
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 4: then nobody asked to wash my hands. But I maybe

982
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 4: I should go back.

983
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 3: Incredible experience. There was a I was in Palm Strings

984
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 3: with my boyfriend last year or something, and it wasn't

985
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 3: a Keels. It was some off brand place. We went

986
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,719
Speaker 3: in and they offered to wash our hands. And I

987
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 3: think that the woman who washed our hands probably she

988
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 3: was very much I don't think she works. I think

989
00:44:20,760 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 3: she was on her way that night to dying. Oh no,

990
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:27,800
Speaker 3: like this person's on the edge. Oh this person is

991
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 3: got something's going on.

992
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that does see what I mean, something must

993
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 4: have been going on if like her dying wish was

994
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 4: I want to wash a stranger's hands.

995
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a very like I just came from

996
00:44:39,080 --> 00:44:42,320
Speaker 3: the back room doing meth feel. But of course I

997
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 3: still allow the hand washing. It's a free wash. I'm

998
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:49,960
Speaker 3: going to take it. But r ip ultimately yeah, yeah,

999
00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 3: I mean it was a bleak feel. Not it was

1000
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 3: not the Keels experience. Certainly they had not checked this

1001
00:44:56,760 --> 00:45:00,200
Speaker 3: person's background when they hired her. They did not all

1002
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 3: her referrals. Her references. Well, I'm excited to try this.

1003
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 3: I mean it's interesting also to give a soap you've

1004
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 3: never tried to someone.

1005
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I feel like you can't go wrong

1006
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 2: with soap, like young with have one job as long

1007
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,840
Speaker 2: as it lathers and cleans. I think it's why. It

1008
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 2: smells good.

1009
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:22,800
Speaker 3: It smells good, it looks like a good product.

1010
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 2: And this is, you know, this is above average soap.

1011
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,839
Speaker 2: This is you know, teacher's pet soap. It's like I'm

1012
00:45:27,840 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 2: a clean new animal, a massagy.

1013
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I feel like that does it's drop? Yeah,

1014
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,759
Speaker 3: this is not like a bar of dial no bar

1015
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 3: of Irish spring.

1016
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: The same as when you give a candle. You don't

1017
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:39,880
Speaker 2: have to have used the candle.

1018
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 4: You just give it a sniff and you're like, this

1019
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,400
Speaker 4: seems good, and you get and it comes in like

1020
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 4: a pretty little dish or something and you're like, great.

1021
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:48,719
Speaker 3: Here we go. Yeah, I wonder I'm gonna open and

1022
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 3: just see what the bar actually, yes, please do. It

1023
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 3: looks like a fun little toy almost almost looks like

1024
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:57,320
Speaker 3: a leg giant lego.

1025
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 2: Piece or something exactly. I mean, I don't know if

1026
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,040
Speaker 2: those things actually will massage.

1027
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 3: You know, it's already doing it.

1028
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:04,040
Speaker 2: Cheery.

1029
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I love this and I can smell it.

1030
00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 3: It smells smells really nice.

1031
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 4: Eucalyptus and mint i mint and aromatic accords balance with

1032
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 4: earthy petrullly.

1033
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 2: Oh fuck Patrulli.

1034
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 3: Sorry, why do you say so? It's giving lilith fair.

1035
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:27,800
Speaker 2: I feel like patually, you know, I associate patually with

1036
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 2: people who were using that instead of showering.

1037
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 3: Oh interesting, where.

1038
00:46:32,400 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 2: It was like patrually mixed with like funk.

1039
00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 3: We're getting a musk. Yeah.

1040
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:37,919
Speaker 2: I mean I did have a Petrulli.

1041
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:39,920
Speaker 4: Phace for like two seconds in high school. But it's

1042
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:44,520
Speaker 4: so overpowering. It's you really need it in moderation, but

1043
00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 4: it doesn't.

1044
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not getting that from this is not

1045
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 3: This is not because I'm very sense bad smell. Actually

1046
00:46:52,520 --> 00:46:54,319
Speaker 3: that's probably not true. I actually feel like I'm kind

1047
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 3: of smell blind, but I'm not getting a bad smell.

1048
00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 2: Well you it sounds like an flick show was in

1049
00:47:00,840 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 2: your future. Smell is blind.

1050
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 3: It's just pods trying to smell things through a wall.

1051
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: Yes, oh my god, straight to series.

1052
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 3: I guess it would be a mesh thing and you're

1053
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 3: trying to smell what's on the other side.

1054
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 4: I will say that one time, when I was like

1055
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 4: home from college and like needed money, I signed up

1056
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:25,320
Speaker 4: for this like bad breath survey where it was like

1057
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:28,399
Speaker 4: they give you different mouthwashes and then you blow into

1058
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 4: a tube and someone has to smell yours on.

1059
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 2: The other side.

1060
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 3: Who was getting paid in this situation?

1061
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 2: I got paid. I think I got like one hundred bucks.

1062
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 2: You had to use this mouthwash.

1063
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 4: They had like different mouthwashes and like you had to

1064
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 4: use a certain mouthwash for a week, and then they

1065
00:47:44,320 --> 00:47:46,680
Speaker 4: had people they were testing to see I don't know

1066
00:47:47,080 --> 00:47:49,200
Speaker 4: the strength of them, and it was like through a

1067
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,959
Speaker 4: little like a little a breathy glory hole. I guess

1068
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 4: you just blow into a little tube.

1069
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,680
Speaker 3: This is mortifying, I know during that week where you like,

1070
00:47:56,719 --> 00:47:59,560
Speaker 3: I'm really going to go for it eating wise, No, I.

1071
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,560
Speaker 2: Was that was a poor college student. I was just

1072
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,719
Speaker 2: needed the money. Wow.

1073
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:06,680
Speaker 3: I wonder who was on the other side.

1074
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 2: Of that show. That's the show? Who who is willingly

1075
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 2: signing up or it's just like a wall that goes

1076
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:15,320
Speaker 2: out into the street and people are walking by, like,

1077
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 2: what the fuck was that smell?

1078
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 3: I think that's a sewer.

1079
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 2: Great to me.

1080
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 3: On the other side, did you feel like the wash

1081
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 3: was working?

1082
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,000
Speaker 2: I guess so, I mean it it All it was

1083
00:48:30,040 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 2: supposed to do was like make your breath mintier. I

1084
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 2: guess I don't know. It worked for me. I listen,

1085
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 2: I got my hundred bucks.

1086
00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 3: That's all that mattered to that exactly at that moment

1087
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 3: in time. Yeah, I feel like there are mouthwashers when

1088
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:43,879
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, yeah, this is probably disintegrating my teeth

1089
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 3: right now. It's working so well, then there are others

1090
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:51,120
Speaker 3: like that's mint lemonade. Yeah, so there is a yeah,

1091
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:51,759
Speaker 3: I wonder did you.

1092
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 2: Ever have a listarine moment? That stuff is nasty?

1093
00:48:54,640 --> 00:48:58,400
Speaker 3: Oh, like a moment I think probably when I had braces.

1094
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that makes They would like recommend you.

1095
00:49:04,120 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 5: Don't like the alcohol ones no listine taste. Yeah, it

1096
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 5: tastes like alcohol.

1097
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,879
Speaker 3: I mean, but that's you know, it's working. It's destroying

1098
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:12,839
Speaker 3: everything in your mouth.

1099
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, not my vibe.

1100
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 3: I need basically paint thinner.

1101
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: Then you need the streine.

1102
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 3: I guess I'm not doing mouthwash at all.

1103
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 2: And it was also like brown, Like you couldn't give

1104
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 2: us a cuter color.

1105
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 3: Telling me there's a brown listerine. What are we talking about?

1106
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 3: You're talking about like raw whiskey.

1107
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 4: There's like a green Listerine. I think that was like

1108
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 4: part of the rebrand. The original listine was like a

1109
00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,600
Speaker 4: copper ish color. It looked like alcohol. It looked like

1110
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 4: a brown liquor.

1111
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,720
Speaker 3: It was wow looking. That is very interesting.

1112
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like I associate that with like my

1113
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 4: dad's house. Oh, use this gross stuff.

1114
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 3: Wow, that sounds awful.

1115
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was bad.

1116
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 3: That sounds very just like fifties hospital.

1117
00:49:56,600 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 2: Yes, that's exactly the vibe.

1118
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 3: Okay, so I've I think I've been on the Listenerine

1119
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 3: train since they went green. Yes, okay, green or blue. Occasionally.

1120
00:50:05,880 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 3: I think they'll do a white. Yeah, but brown, I

1121
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:10,919
Speaker 3: mean whoever was in charge of that at the time.

1122
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: No, it just didn't make any sense, felt like something

1123
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:15,399
Speaker 2: you should be pouring into your car.

1124
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:21,800
Speaker 3: It's a really thin oil. Well, I'm very excited to

1125
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 3: try this soap and let it just take control of

1126
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 3: my shower time. I was recently thinking of do you

1127
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:28,960
Speaker 3: ever go to the Korean.

1128
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 2: Spah I've only been once, but I loved it.

1129
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 3: You go to we Spaw.

1130
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 2: It wasn't we Spa. It was like a it was

1131
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,240
Speaker 2: a women's Korean Spas birthday.

1132
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah it was.

1133
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 4: It was really nice and I was really proud of

1134
00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 4: myself because you had to be like fully naked and

1135
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 4: it's not it's not really my situation. I run past

1136
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:49,239
Speaker 4: the mirror, you know, like that's how I get into

1137
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 4: the shower. And my friends were just like, can you

1138
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:51,880
Speaker 4: believe it?

1139
00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 2: We're all here naked, And I was like, guys, we

1140
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 2: can't talk about it. I did it, and I'm glad

1141
00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 2: that I made Like I made this happen.

1142
00:50:58,960 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 3: What a moment of growth.

1143
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:03,160
Speaker 4: We cannot acknowledge that we're all sitting here tits out,

1144
00:51:03,480 --> 00:51:04,960
Speaker 4: just shooting the breeze.

1145
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: It was so weird.

1146
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it took a ton of courage for

1147
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 3: me to do it the first time I could. There's

1148
00:51:11,200 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 3: no way I would be able to go with friends.

1149
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 3: I have to go alone and just be like, of

1150
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 3: course you're still naked in a room full of Yeah,

1151
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 3: but if you know the people right, I wouldn't be

1152
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 3: able to hold a normal conversation. Oh.

1153
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 2: They were just yickdy yackety.

1154
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:27,000
Speaker 3: Some people are so lucky to just be that good

1155
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 3: in their own skin.

1156
00:51:28,000 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 2: Yeah no, not me, not me at all. My brain

1157
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 2: is just like Ariola, Ariola Arial.

1158
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:39,960
Speaker 3: I'm so uncomfortable. But yeah, I've got I've basically gotten

1159
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:41,600
Speaker 3: used to it. And they have like a body scrub

1160
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,600
Speaker 3: that's incredible, that feels very every few years, like, oh,

1161
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:45,920
Speaker 3: this is something I should do. I feel like we

1162
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 3: talked about this very early on in the podcast, and

1163
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 3: there were people get that were getting on and reviewing,

1164
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 3: Like these snobs are talking about the spot like it's

1165
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 3: thirty dollars.

1166
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I mean listen, if it's not your thing,

1167
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 4: it's not your thing. But I'm of the mind that

1168
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:01,320
Speaker 4: you should treat yourself. It's like a do it for

1169
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 4: your birthday, do it anniversary, just do something cute.

1170
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 3: You're finding nice Korean spot that's very affordable.

1171
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 4: There's also the places they have them here, but I

1172
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:11,920
Speaker 4: really got into them in New York where they just

1173
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:14,520
Speaker 4: do a foot massage and it's like twenty five bucks

1174
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 4: for a thirty minute foot massage.

1175
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,800
Speaker 3: Oh that sounds amazing.

1176
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:20,160
Speaker 2: Love foot massage.

1177
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 1: Oh.

1178
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 3: I mean the closest I've gotten is a pedicure, but.

1179
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 4: No, I'm going full foot. It's wonderful because you can

1180
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 4: sit on your phone while you're doing it. Of course,

1181
00:52:29,160 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 4: it's like when you're getting a massage on your back.

1182
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 4: You're like face down. You just sit in a chair.

1183
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 4: They put a little hot.

1184
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 2: Towel on your foot, they crack your toes, they like

1185
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 2: do a little punching thing. Oh, it's great.

1186
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 3: I might have to get a recommendation. I would love

1187
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:43,880
Speaker 3: to get my foot massage.

1188
00:52:44,080 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1189
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 2: Shout out to Happy Feet in Brooklyn. Great name.

1190
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,439
Speaker 3: Was that before or after the Penguin movie?

1191
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1192
00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 3: They're a season desist income a lawsuit on from one side.

1193
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 3: That is the name of the Penguin movie, right, Happy Feet. Yeah,

1194
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 3: there may have even been a Happy Feet too.

1195
00:53:01,960 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 2: Yeah there was.

1196
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 3: I mean at least there's like a tie in there,

1197
00:53:04,920 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 3: like a merchandising tie. And they could have, you know,

1198
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:10,920
Speaker 3: had the penguins on their posters or no.

1199
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:12,720
Speaker 2: They hadn't said I had a foot with a smile

1200
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:14,320
Speaker 2: on it. It was a very scary.

1201
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:15,600
Speaker 3: Okay.

1202
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 2: I don't like the idea of a foot having a face,

1203
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,799
Speaker 2: but I also don't think of a penguin having a foot. Yeah,

1204
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:21,399
Speaker 2: that's true.

1205
00:53:21,520 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 3: I think about having a little little what is that?

1206
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,320
Speaker 2: This is a beak the bird like fins?

1207
00:53:28,600 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 3: Flippers?

1208
00:53:29,880 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, flippers that close on, Elise, what do you think Yeah,

1209
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 4: a happy flipper.

1210
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, happy flipper. When I think of feet, I think

1211
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:39,279
Speaker 3: of toes, and I'm picturing a penguin with human feet. No. No,

1212
00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 3: that's a freak.

1213
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:41,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gross.

1214
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 3: It's a freak creature. Okay, well incredible, I've got my soap.

1215
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:47,640
Speaker 3: I think it's time to play a game. Oh, let's

1216
00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:52,240
Speaker 3: do it on Elise Today's gift Master. Okay, I'm becoming

1217
00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,040
Speaker 3: such a good person in this podcast. I need a

1218
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 3: number between one and ten from you. Okay, I have

1219
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 3: to do some light calculating to get our game pieces

1220
00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,359
Speaker 3: right now. You can recommend, promote, do whatever you want

1221
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 3: with a microphone.

1222
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you should listen to Black History for real. I

1223
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 2: also have another podcast called let Me Fix It. You

1224
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:14,800
Speaker 2: should listen to that one too. You should slide in

1225
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 2: my DMS if you work for super Goop.

1226
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:18,960
Speaker 3: Okay, this is how we play gift mester. I can

1227
00:54:19,120 --> 00:54:22,360
Speaker 3: name three gifts, three things you can give away, and

1228
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 3: I'm named three celebrities. You'll tell me which celebrity you

1229
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 3: would give which gifts and why? Okay, Okay, the gifts

1230
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:32,040
Speaker 3: were giving away today are number one A distant husband,

1231
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:38,920
Speaker 3: number two a fairy tale ending, and number three a

1232
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:42,640
Speaker 3: box of oranges. Okay, the celebrities will be giving them

1233
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 3: to our number one Pedro Pascal. Number two Shane Shaleen Woodley.

1234
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,279
Speaker 3: M hmm, yeah, I think that's the only way to

1235
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: pronounce it. I don't know. I'm struggling with Shaleen Woodley

1236
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 3: and number three Rupert Murdoch. Interesting mix of people, Yeah.

1237
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: Very interesting. I would give.

1238
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 4: I would give a Shileen Woodley a happy ending or

1239
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:10,560
Speaker 4: fair tale ending because she was in a bunch of

1240
00:55:10,600 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 4: those movies where she was like it was like Divergent.

1241
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 2: She was running, she was scared.

1242
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 3: She's also get she's a Divergent.

1243
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 2: She was, you know, running for her life. She was

1244
00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 2: also in that movie, or she was on that show

1245
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:27,080
Speaker 2: on HBO where from a Big Little Lies Big. She

1246
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:29,839
Speaker 2: seems like she's always going through something. You know, she's

1247
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,120
Speaker 2: gets to have a single mom who works two jobs.

1248
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 2: She's trying to raise her kid take him to an

1249
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:37,040
Speaker 2: expensive school.

1250
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 3: That's an interesting move for her in that show.

1251
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, she definitely looked way too young to be somebody's mom.

1252
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 4: But you know whatever, suspending this belief. Moved into an

1253
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,960
Speaker 4: expensive neighborhood. She deserves a fairy tale ending. And then

1254
00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:53,960
Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, Pedro Pascal a distant husband.

1255
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 3: Oh I like the sound of this.

1256
00:55:56,040 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 2: You know he's a zaddie. He deserves a distant husband.

1257
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:03,160
Speaker 3: Kind of a husband that can occasionally they get in

1258
00:56:03,200 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 3: touch with each other and reconnect.

1259
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 4: But and a husband that's fine being in the background,

1260
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 4: because Pedro is going to be the star.

1261
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 2: He's shiny.

1262
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 3: He needs to be yes exactly.

1263
00:56:11,760 --> 00:56:14,319
Speaker 4: He needs a husband that is social distancing at all

1264
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 4: times and six feet behind him.

1265
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 3: Just resents everything about him.

1266
00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:23,640
Speaker 4: And then Rupert Murdoch, I'm going to give the Oranges

1267
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 4: because you need to get your vitamins when you in prison,

1268
00:56:28,280 --> 00:56:31,799
Speaker 4: you need, you know, even though you've been locked up

1269
00:56:32,120 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 4: for taking advantage of the American public.

1270
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,399
Speaker 2: Right, shouldn't he be in jail.

1271
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:38,720
Speaker 3: I mean, he should have been in jail a long time.

1272
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 2: So a lot of illegal, bad things. He's really screwed

1273
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:43,280
Speaker 2: up our ar media.

1274
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 3: He's the kind of person who's like, jail's not enough, no,

1275
00:56:46,400 --> 00:56:48,920
Speaker 3: simply daily and so.

1276
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:52,800
Speaker 2: Like Oranges, will be like the small, the small gift

1277
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 2: of his day. He'll have a hard time. He'll come

1278
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 2: back to his cell and he will eat some oranges.

1279
00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 3: That's very general, rest of you.

1280
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to give back.

1281
00:57:03,360 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 3: I hope that the oranges are at least out of

1282
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 3: season for Ruper.

1283
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:07,520
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1284
00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:09,919
Speaker 3: Sure, I could do that too, because you know, there's

1285
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:12,200
Speaker 3: a big gap between an out of season and in

1286
00:57:12,320 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 3: season orange. H probably my favorite and least favorite fruit

1287
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 3: really when it's in season and there's nothing better to

1288
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,520
Speaker 3: me than an orange, Okay, but when it's out of seasons, like,

1289
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 3: why does this even exist? I was sold this product?

1290
00:57:25,280 --> 00:57:26,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair.

1291
00:57:26,360 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 3: And within the orange family, I love a blood orange.

1292
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 2: I'm into a cutie right now.

1293
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,760
Speaker 3: Oh I love a little I love the smell when

1294
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 3: you're peeling an orange.

1295
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 4: It's also just the time that they're like pocket size.

1296
00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 4: You can like throw them in your purse and you're

1297
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,560
Speaker 4: out somewhere You're like, anybody want a CUTI And everyone's like,

1298
00:57:42,360 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 4: there's a cutty.

1299
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 2: Like it's just so. They're so fun, They're delightful. I'm

1300
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:46,919
Speaker 2: a mango girl.

1301
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:48,440
Speaker 3: I love a mango.

1302
00:57:48,720 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 2: Love South Florida girl, Mango all day.

1303
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:53,960
Speaker 3: Do mango grow in South Florida?

1304
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 2: They sure do. I don't think they're there naturally, they're

1305
00:57:57,880 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 2: They're like the bbl of Florida fruit.

1306
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, manmade ripe mango delicious.

1307
00:58:04,920 --> 00:58:08,000
Speaker 2: Oh so good. You can like smell it through the rind.

1308
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 3: Now are you just eating them just mango? Are you

1309
00:58:11,120 --> 00:58:11,840
Speaker 3: putting with something?

1310
00:58:11,960 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 2: I am a mango salsa aficionado. Interesting, love a mango salsa.

1311
00:58:17,680 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 2: My trick is to add a little minced ginger to.

1312
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 3: Chutney territory.

1313
00:58:23,440 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 4: It's a little yes, it gives it a little kick,

1314
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 4: a little bite, a little punch. Conventually, I love a

1315
00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:33,240
Speaker 4: mango SAUCEA put it on like a fish, throw it

1316
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 4: in with a salad.

1317
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, this is fancy.

1318
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,200
Speaker 2: I love a sweeten to meat. That's my that is

1319
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 2: my go too.

1320
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,120
Speaker 3: That's a yeah. Sweet meat is delicious and you have

1321
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 3: to go sweet meat.

1322
00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 2: That's how you have to say it when you order

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00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,360
Speaker 2: it at a restaurant. Try it.

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00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, nice savory with a little dash of color of

1325
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 3: your hots. I love it. Do you like a mango

1326
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 3: sticky rice? Oh?

1327
00:58:57,160 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 2: I don't think I've had that now? Is that?

1328
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 3: Is it a thaie restaurant?

1329
00:59:01,560 --> 00:59:01,760
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 3: I love thie. Oh you have to have this. It's

1331
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 3: like I think it's kind of probably I'll speak for Thailand.

1332
00:59:07,480 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 3: It's the official dessert of Thailand.

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00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:12,240
Speaker 2: I do you like a sticky rice? I don't think

1334
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 2: I've had a mango sticky ri.

1335
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a nice sticky rice, the mango. Then

1336
00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 3: they pour like like a milk, condensed milk over it.

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00:59:19,680 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 3: Phenomenal thing.

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00:59:20,600 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 2: Okay.

1339
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:24,640
Speaker 3: I mean, as far as desserts go, I have to

1340
00:59:24,680 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 3: have chocolate in them. But that's one that I give

1341
00:59:26,480 --> 00:59:26,760
Speaker 3: up pass.

1342
00:59:26,880 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 2: Not a big chocolate person.

1343
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't like to hear this.

1344
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 2: I don't hate it, it's just never my first choice.

1345
00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:34,640
Speaker 3: Okay, what's your what's your first choice? Then?

1346
00:59:35,000 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 4: I honestly I love like a cobbler. I love a

1347
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,840
Speaker 4: high I love a fruit with a scoop of ice cream.

1348
00:59:42,960 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 3: Oh on it, that's what I want.

1349
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 2: Like, I want that over cake.

1350
00:59:46,600 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 4: I want like something about the fruity and like the

1351
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:54,240
Speaker 4: shell and the crust and all that stuff is really

1352
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:54,800
Speaker 4: I love.

1353
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:59,320
Speaker 3: That cobbler phenomenal. But my favorite cobbler is a BlackBerry

1354
00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 3: cobbler with you ice cream. Oh you know, talk about

1355
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 3: ice cream. It but served to me. I think for

1356
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 3: the first time in two thousand and seven, and I

1357
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 3: had never tasted anything as good as this combination. Interesting.

1358
01:00:10,800 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 2: I my first choice would be a peach love a peach.

1359
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 3: C classic classic cobbler.

1360
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 2: Like a blueberry, but peach is crimalist.

1361
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,480
Speaker 3: I don't think an apple cobbler does it for me. No,

1362
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 3: I need to bury a peach. That kind of thing works.

1363
01:00:23,320 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, Apple is not giving what needs to be given.

1364
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:28,919
Speaker 3: Then it's kind of like a bad apple pie. Yeah,

1365
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 3: and even of an apple pie has got to be

1366
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:33,240
Speaker 3: like not my first trio. Yeah, that's got to be

1367
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 3: going at one thousand miles an hour to get my attention.

1368
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, same.

1369
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,280
Speaker 3: Well whatever, Okay, well, you played the game very well.

1370
01:00:40,440 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 3: Thank you very well, and it's now time to head

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01:00:43,440 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 3: into the final segment of the podcast, which is called

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01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:48,240
Speaker 3: I Said No Emails. People write into I Said No

1373
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 3: Gifts at gmail dot com. Every one of them is

1374
01:00:51,600 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 3: just kind of begging for answers. They want me to

1375
01:00:54,720 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 3: solve all of their problems, and I do because I'm

1376
01:00:57,680 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 3: incredible and would you help me?

1377
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 2: Yes, of course.

1378
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 3: Okay, let's get into it here. This is Dear Bridger

1379
01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:07,120
Speaker 3: and disreputable guest, my partner and I are about to

1380
01:01:07,160 --> 01:01:11,520
Speaker 3: celebrate our tenth anniversary. Congratulations, and while we aren't big

1381
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 3: gift givers with one another, this occasion feels significant enough

1382
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 3: to merit one. I've racked my brain for romantic gift

1383
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:21,920
Speaker 3: ideas to little success, but I have kept returning to

1384
01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:24,240
Speaker 3: the fact that I would love to replace our ratty

1385
01:01:24,280 --> 01:01:27,400
Speaker 3: old bed linens, which we've had since we started dating.

1386
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 3: My question to you is this, would it be horribly

1387
01:01:30,880 --> 01:01:34,919
Speaker 3: mundane and or self serving to gift something like bed

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01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:39,000
Speaker 3: linens for an anniversary? Appreciate your wisdom and deepest apologies

1389
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:44,080
Speaker 3: for the intrusion. Sean in New York. Okay, Sean, congrats

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01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 3: on the tenth anniversary.

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01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 4: I do think an anniversary gift is a chance to

1392
01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:51,880
Speaker 4: gift something that both of you will use because you're

1393
01:01:52,000 --> 01:01:53,439
Speaker 4: celebrating your love.

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01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 3: Right.

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01:01:54,000 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 4: I think sheets are not a fun gift. What are

1396
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 4: you a mom getting ready to for like the kid

1397
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:04,240
Speaker 4: to go off to college? Like, that's not a sexy gift.

1398
01:02:04,680 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 4: But I come up a lot their edible sheets.

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01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:08,880
Speaker 2: That's not sexy.

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01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:10,920
Speaker 3: I like the idea of edible sheets. You have the

1401
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 3: stickiest mattress in the world.

1402
01:02:12,720 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 2: Also, you haven't had new sheets in ten years.

1403
01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:18,959
Speaker 3: There's something wrong in this Relationshipah, these are two filthy people.

1404
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:23,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's gross, I think. I mean not to you know, retread.

1405
01:02:24,080 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 2: But a spa thing is like, oh interesting, that's like sexy,

1406
01:02:27,600 --> 01:02:30,680
Speaker 2: like a couple's massage, you know, like you guys have

1407
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:33,200
Speaker 2: to spend time together in a towel or a bathrobe

1408
01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 2: looking at each other all you know, misty eyed. I

1409
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: think that's a good a good anniversary gift.

1410
01:02:38,760 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 3: That's a nice gift. That's or nice or what.

1411
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:43,920
Speaker 2: Hobbies is your partner into?

1412
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 4: Right, like not saying this is what it is, but

1413
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 4: it's like this is when you buy someone like new

1414
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 4: golf clubs or something.

1415
01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 3: Oh interesting. Now I want you to read the distant husband.

1416
01:02:54,080 --> 01:02:55,120
Speaker 3: It's time to start.

1417
01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,720
Speaker 4: Well, just like helping them level up and you're showing

1418
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 4: that you like, you know, appreciate their hobbies and you

1419
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,280
Speaker 4: like listen to what they're excited about.

1420
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:07,840
Speaker 2: Right, that's what you have to do. Ask TikTok. TikTok's

1421
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 2: been listening. They'll tell you what's again.

1422
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sure there's a like tenth anniversary TikTok.

1423
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:15,840
Speaker 2: Would you tell them to Tom saying.

1424
01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 3: Get the sheets? Really, I think sheets can be sexy.

1425
01:03:18,640 --> 01:03:21,840
Speaker 3: I think there's an inherent sexiness to a sheet, and

1426
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 3: also just coming from a place of Oh, I need

1427
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:27,959
Speaker 3: a huge excuse to spend any money. Tenth anniversary. Okay,

1428
01:03:28,000 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 3: I can spend seventy dollars now on sheets.

1429
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 4: No, get a massade for seventy dollars. Do not buy

1430
01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 4: seventy dollars sheet.

1431
01:03:36,040 --> 01:03:38,480
Speaker 3: There's seventy dollars go to bed for sheets. I just

1432
01:03:38,520 --> 01:03:39,440
Speaker 3: think that's expensive.

1433
01:03:40,560 --> 01:03:43,840
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, twenty five dollars. You're not wearing the sheets out.

1434
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 4: They don't have ninestones on them, like what what happened?

1435
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 2: No, if you want if you first of all you

1436
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:53,120
Speaker 2: need new sheets, no, we can agree on that, go

1437
01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,760
Speaker 2: buy new sheets. But not as an anniversary gift. We

1438
01:03:56,800 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 2: were together ten years sheets absolutely not.

1439
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 3: No, So you're saying by the sheets the next day? Yeah,

1440
01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 3: by wait, get the points together.

1441
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:08,120
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1442
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 4: Wait for a holiday, a Labor Day sale something like that,

1443
01:04:11,840 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 4: like those exist, I'm sure, but not as an anniversary give.

1444
01:04:16,680 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 3: We do love a labor day, President's Day ye, bedding sale, Yes,

1445
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 3: buying them before those? You're not thinking.

1446
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:28,120
Speaker 2: Democracy is hanging in the ballast, But not these saving.

1447
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 3: Exactly why else have one of those holidays, if not

1448
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 3: to get a decent discount on a mattress or shot.

1449
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 4: Yeah exactly. I wait for all of those holidays to

1450
01:04:37,680 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 4: make purchases. Not an anniversary or go to like a

1451
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 4: fancy restaurant and like, you know, do that, which is

1452
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 4: like kind of stereotypical, but you're not going to go

1453
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:51,040
Speaker 4: wrong with like you know, getting a reservation at a

1454
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,520
Speaker 4: coveted place and telling them as your anniversary and then

1455
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:57,680
Speaker 4: bringing out, you know, a candle and a sparkler and

1456
01:04:58,280 --> 01:04:59,720
Speaker 4: you know, making the thing up a table.

1457
01:04:59,760 --> 01:05:01,120
Speaker 3: The in New York, where should they go?

1458
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 2: Ooh, I really loved I don't think the standard exists,

1459
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:07,200
Speaker 2: but I loved the rooftop at the Standard.

1460
01:05:07,120 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 3: A rooftop anniversary meal. That sounds nice.

1461
01:05:09,800 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, And it was like this enclosed glass thing so

1462
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:14,400
Speaker 4: you could see all around the same it's called the

1463
01:05:14,440 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 4: boom Boom room. Oh, it was so cool and like

1464
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 4: it was like gold. I don't yeah, I don't think

1465
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:21,760
Speaker 4: it's there anymore, but yeah, go to something like a

1466
01:05:21,880 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 4: hotel that has a restaurant. I feel like are always

1467
01:05:24,280 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 4: nice because you get like beautiful views and you can

1468
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 4: get like a nicer, higher end meal.

1469
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 3: That's fine, right, and then maybe like the waiter brings

1470
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 3: out the dessert and you've hidden new sheets in the dessert.

1471
01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 3: That feels right.

1472
01:05:39,920 --> 01:05:42,480
Speaker 2: Your sheets are just covered in chocolate syrup.

1473
01:05:44,600 --> 01:05:47,920
Speaker 3: I just had an anniversary dinner in New York and

1474
01:05:48,080 --> 01:05:50,400
Speaker 3: went to don Angie. Have you heard of this place?

1475
01:05:50,440 --> 01:05:50,520
Speaker 2: Oh?

1476
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 3: Incredible? Okay? Well, Italian food, Okay, I mean I just

1477
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 3: couldn't believe what I was eating.

1478
01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:57,280
Speaker 2: I feel like.

1479
01:05:57,320 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 4: Italian is safe for an anniversary. You don't want to

1480
01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 4: take You don't want to do something like out of

1481
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:02,440
Speaker 4: your comforts.

1482
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:06,280
Speaker 3: Right, you need to You need a nice, secure cuisine

1483
01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 3: that you both appreciate.

1484
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:11,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, don't go to some like weird fusion restaurant. Right,

1485
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:14,320
Speaker 5: do not do fusion on an anniversary. That's for a

1486
01:06:14,360 --> 01:06:18,439
Speaker 5: Wednesday night? Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's risky experimental, but yeah,

1487
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 5: I think an anniversary dinner at either the Boom Boom

1488
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,000
Speaker 5: Room or don Angie. The sheets are stepped into a

1489
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 5: piece of cheesecake if.

1490
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 4: You if you insist on getting the sheets, put it

1491
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 4: together in like a little basket situation, so it's like

1492
01:06:33,320 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 4: sheets and like a little lavender sashchete to go under

1493
01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 4: your pillow or like that little spray that you spray

1494
01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 4: that like helps you go to sleep.

1495
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 3: You know, like what's that sounds like something you would

1496
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 3: use on a spot.

1497
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:48,280
Speaker 4: It's like a little spray that has someone lavender you

1498
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,320
Speaker 4: sprayed on your pillows is how you go to sleep.

1499
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:52,640
Speaker 2: And maybe put some like little slippers in there, like

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01:06:52,760 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 2: give them a little robes, smatching robes that are initialed

1501
01:06:57,120 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 2: and embroidered, you know what I mean. Like it's not sheets.

1502
01:07:00,520 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 4: It's like, you know, I'm giving you the full pack

1503
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 4: at home, like right, love package.

1504
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 3: Now that makes more sense. You hide what you need

1505
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 3: within a package.

1506
01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, And maybe you put some little candies or.

1507
01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:20,680
Speaker 3: You know, a little Jordan almond for example. That feels

1508
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:25,800
Speaker 3: like a good gift. Candies, a basket of cuties. Oh

1509
01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 3: you're eating cuties in bed? Yes, incredible, Yes, orange rinds everywhere.

1510
01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 2: I love this for you.

1511
01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 3: We've answered Sehn's question beyond perfectly. We've saved the relationship

1512
01:07:38,120 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 3: and Sean don't write back in Uh incredible. I'm so

1513
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 3: excited to try my news. So I've had such a

1514
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 3: wonderful time time. Oh, thank you for having me, thank

1515
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:52,040
Speaker 3: you for being here and listener. The podcast is now

1516
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 3: screeching to a halt. The wind didn't get in the way.

1517
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,360
Speaker 3: I don't even know if you've got to hear the wind.

1518
01:07:56,480 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 3: That's not my fault. Get going, I love you, goodbye,

1519
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 3: I said, no gifts is an exactly right production. It's

1520
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 3: produced by our dear friend Annalise Nelson, and it's beautifully

1521
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,320
Speaker 3: mixed by Ben Holliday. And we couldn't do it without

1522
01:08:14,360 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 3: our guest booker, Patrick Kottner. The theme song, of course,

1523
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:22,880
Speaker 3: could only come from miracle worker Amy Mann. You must

1524
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,880
Speaker 3: follow the show on Instagram at I said no gifts.

1525
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:28,120
Speaker 3: I don't want to hear any excuses. That's where you

1526
01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:30,599
Speaker 3: get to see pictures of all these gorgeous gifts I'm getting.

1527
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:32,400
Speaker 3: And don't you want to see pictures of the gifts?

1528
01:08:34,400 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 2: Hello? Invit did you hear fun a man?

1529
01:08:39,560 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 1: Myself perfectly clear? But you're a guess, Tom. You gotta

1530
01:08:47,560 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 1: come to me empty And I said, no gifts. Your

1531
01:08:53,720 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: presences presence enough. I'm already too much, So how do

1532
01:09:01,479 --> 01:09:03,880
Speaker 1: you dare to survey me