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Speaker 1: Morgan Stewart is a model, actress, reality star, television host,

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Speaker 1: and entrepreneur and a sport for coming onto a show

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Speaker 1: because I kind of hazed to her a little bit

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Speaker 1: years ago on my failed talk show about being on

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Speaker 1: a show called Rich Kids of Beverly Hills. So I

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Speaker 1: give her credit for coming on. Her career took off

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Speaker 1: as a star on the E reality series Rich Kids

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Speaker 1: of Beverly Hills. A life like that certainly must come

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Speaker 1: with its stereotypes. But we sit down to discuss the

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Speaker 1: details of her journey from her own perspective, this is

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Speaker 1: just be with Morgan Stewart. So I don't know if

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Speaker 1: I do, but I keep saying to myself, I think

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Speaker 1: I owe her an apology because I've never gone back

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Speaker 1: and watched the time that you were on the talk show.

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Speaker 1: But I know the tone from either like rumblings or

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I think that, like that I

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Speaker 1: gave you guys too hard a time. And I'm not

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Speaker 1: even gonna say that. I'm not going to make an

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Speaker 1: excuse that producers do prep you and say this is

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Speaker 1: like this revolting show about all these rich kids, because

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Speaker 1: I hadn't seen the show, right you get these papers

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Speaker 1: as you know, hi, and these are these kids that

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Speaker 1: are these rich kids, and it's there, and I guess,

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Speaker 1: you know, the producers wanted there to be like this

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Speaker 1: salacious segment and so and I guess, to be perfectly honest,

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Speaker 1: a show called Rich Kids of Beverly Hills does sound

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Speaker 1: partially vile. So I came on and I think I

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Speaker 1: don't remember what, but I remember there being a you

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Speaker 1: being the blonde, pretty cute girl on the end, and

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Speaker 1: your boyfriend at the time seemed like this, like a

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Speaker 1: bossy Beverly Hills, half a nice kid, half a douchebag,

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Speaker 1: and like, okay, So I apologize if I was like

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Speaker 1: better than or a bitchy or whatever. I whatever you

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Speaker 1: perceived me to have been, me to have really been. Well.

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Speaker 1: First of all, I appreciate you even saying that, and

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Speaker 1: I actually I watched it back not too long ago,

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Speaker 1: and I welcomed but I was so self aware and

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Speaker 1: I think we all were that we kind of welcomed

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Speaker 1: that interaction with the audience as well, because of course

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Speaker 1: the name was vile. The name was sprung up on

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Speaker 1: us last minute. Nobody no mind onto that show, being

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Speaker 1: like we're signing on Rich Kids of Everything Hill Games

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Speaker 1: a titled project, so I remember almost my takeaway from

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Speaker 1: that experience was feeling invigorated, like I'm not the person

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Speaker 1: you think I am. Let's watch the show. Obviously, to

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Speaker 1: use your word, it was a little violent times and

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Speaker 1: a little bit obnoxious, of course, but I definitely felt

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Speaker 1: like my reaction might have shifted post leaving your set,

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Speaker 1: because I think the people around us, who were kind

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Speaker 1: of our caretakers of the day were like, let's go.

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Speaker 1: That was just not what we expected, and then I was, oh,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't. But then I was like, bring it on,

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Speaker 1: like we have to kind of be aware that this

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Speaker 1: is going to be the reaction of like the average

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Speaker 1: American person. So it wasn't all terrible, I get it.

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Speaker 1: But what show was I on? Nice poets of demoies?

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Speaker 1: I know, but Real Housewives versus Rich Kids is not

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Speaker 1: you don't know the name, but I'm talking about the

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Speaker 1: actual show. I didn't see your show, but I don't

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Speaker 1: know how much more disgusting it could have been than

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Speaker 1: what's going on right now in Housewives. I can't imagine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was, it's definitely different, but yes, I get what

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Speaker 1: you're saying, Okay, so I get what you're saying too,

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Speaker 1: and I appreciate it. And you know, nobody's gonna accuse

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Speaker 1: me of not being edited or filtered. So no, um,

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Speaker 1: all right, so we met then, and you know, but

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Speaker 1: it was on for four seasons, like that's not nothing.

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Speaker 1: Now that I you know, have institutional knowledge about that

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Speaker 1: sort of thing, that's not nothing. So it was a

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Speaker 1: success by everyone's standards, I guess. So. I mean the

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Speaker 1: whole time we filmed the show, the network kind of

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Speaker 1: played that game, which I mean, you guys probably never

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Speaker 1: had because the show's so massively successful. But with us,

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Speaker 1: it was like, I don't know if it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: another season. The ratings are, you know, five hundred thousand

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Speaker 1: now they're getting like nobody. I was like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: don't think I never felt Looking back now, I'm like you, oh,

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Speaker 1: the show was a success. During it, we never were

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Speaker 1: made to feel like it was doing well. We never

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Speaker 1: had an audience. I had literally I got married on

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Speaker 1: the show to my ex husband, and we had like

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Speaker 1: a million overnights that is, as you know, like unheard

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Speaker 1: of for e right now. No, that's amazes And I

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Speaker 1: remember them pulling and being like or you know what

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Speaker 1: it was? Sorry, it was like nine hundred and fifty thousand,

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Speaker 1: and they were like, but you just you didn't hit

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Speaker 1: a million. No, but that's I'm so glad you're bringing

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Speaker 1: this up because when we back in the dark ages

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Speaker 1: and I was on reality television and we didn't even

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Speaker 1: have Twitter in the beginning, so and I was instrumental

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Speaker 1: in this, they would not They didn't give us the ratings.

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Speaker 1: That was not something we got. For several seasons, we

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Speaker 1: didn't get the ratings. It wasn't something it was emailed.

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Speaker 1: And I remember going all the way up to the

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Speaker 1: heads and saying like why are we playing hide and seek?

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Speaker 1: Like why don't you send you know, we had to

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Speaker 1: fish and find them and look it up on the

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Speaker 1: internet and find it from other people's and these sites

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Speaker 1: that Bravo would say aren't real and we'd find it

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Speaker 1: on the press or some other way for years, and

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Speaker 1: there was no way to negotiate because you didn't know

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Speaker 1: what anything meant, and you didn't know what even ratings meant.

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Speaker 1: But they never told us, like the ratings, that there

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Speaker 1: were ratings. We were dumbess, you were dumbbies. So Finally

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Speaker 1: after years and it was the second time I came back.

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Speaker 1: I think, unless I don't think I'm mixing No, I'm

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Speaker 1: not mixing stories. I would say, why don't you send

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Speaker 1: us once a week in email saying this is the ratings,

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Speaker 1: and also if we've done well, why don't you tell

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Speaker 1: us we've done well? Which never really happened because they

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Speaker 1: always want to keep you down. It wasn't like, why

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Speaker 1: don't you say, hey, this is great? Yeah, yeah, no, no, No,

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Speaker 1: that's negotiation tactics. That's why they don't send you ratings

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Speaker 1: because if your ratings or that's why they I think

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Speaker 1: it's almost legally now that they have to. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: when your children or whatever, you don't know what a

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Speaker 1: good rating is. So I was like, God, this show

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Speaker 1: is just not making it. Looking back, the dumbest thing

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Speaker 1: they could have done for their network, not for my life,

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Speaker 1: was canceled that show. Oh, Fair, Fair It could have

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Speaker 1: gone forever, it could have they that was like the

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Speaker 1: last show that had legitimate ratings. I hate to I'm

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Speaker 1: not shitting on E, but I'm just saying, like, no,

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Speaker 1: it's interesting, that's interesting. Yeah. I didn't even think of

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Speaker 1: it that because it could have been it's a franchise.

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Speaker 1: It could have been rich kids of everything, just like

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Speaker 1: Sunset selling everything funny that I didn't I didn't think

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Speaker 1: I know there's a girl only because I think she's

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Speaker 1: friends with Kyle and I've seen her on social media,

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Speaker 1: Dorothy Wang. I don't know what she does, but she

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Speaker 1: seems to be a big personality. And I don't know

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Speaker 1: who else was on that show. So did anybody else

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Speaker 1: break out? Because it feels like when I think of you,

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Speaker 1: I think about there was a bachelorette that really broke

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Speaker 1: out and she did a lot of work. I think

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Speaker 1: her name was Ali maybe for a while, she did

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Speaker 1: hosting gigs and things. And I think about Kristin Cavalery,

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Speaker 1: Lauren did too, but in a different way way, less

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Speaker 1: like a company like making money behind the scenes way. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and Kristin did that too, but I get the sense

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Speaker 1: blowing it out, but I actually know, um, yeah, I

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Speaker 1: get that sense. So what about you, So did you

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Speaker 1: this into something I'm gonna be playing chess? Did you

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Speaker 1: think or did you just get lucky after? Like? Or

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Speaker 1: do you you hard? I think I think I knew

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Speaker 1: before the show, like I always wanted to do something

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Speaker 1: but be successful. And just the fact that I was

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Speaker 1: always engaging in pretty funny and outspoken, and my personality

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Speaker 1: was like my real my only real gift. So I

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Speaker 1: was like, it's gonna be in some sort of format

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Speaker 1: And we had tried actually before Rich Kids with another

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Speaker 1: was gut instinct. I knew something was going to come after.

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Speaker 1: And so I did the four seasons, and I treated

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Speaker 1: it like a job the whole time, like I was

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Speaker 1: very serious about it. I knew that like I was

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Speaker 1: going to be on time. I didn't think I was

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Speaker 1: This is serious. And then towards the end of Rich Kids,

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Speaker 1: And once the show ended, I signed a deal with

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Speaker 1: them to work at the actual network and I did

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Speaker 1: some digital stuff and that kind of snowballed into doing

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Speaker 1: Pop was like, I'm never going to have this fucking

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Speaker 1: And it just worked out. So then I did Daily

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Speaker 1: I went into the office. I was like, nobody's going

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Speaker 1: This is my long term goal. That was always the goal,

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Speaker 1: and that worked out as well. So I just ended

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Speaker 1: that in November after five years. So I was there.

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Speaker 1: So when you start walked in, you were like at

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Speaker 1: E all the time, and like the way it is

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Speaker 1: on the show with Katherine Heigel, you were like going

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Speaker 1: I was finishing Rich Kids nin up. I'm referring to

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Speaker 1: right right when she's pregnant the whole time, and they're

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Speaker 1: like what ye No, So they offered me a contract

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Speaker 1: post Rich Kids, and that was like a basically like

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Speaker 1: a nine to five, like you're gonna work here, you're

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Speaker 1: gonna really yeah, and you're gonna do digital content and

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Speaker 1: we're gonna see if this even works out, we'll see interesting.

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Speaker 1: And so I did that and that one year deal

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Speaker 1: turned into six years. So I gather knowing the powers

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Speaker 1: that be and knowing the genre. Yeah, you did definitely

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Speaker 1: didn't make a lot of money at Rich Kids at all.

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Speaker 1: I could literally bull's eye what you made and it's

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Speaker 1: it's like everyone thinks you're rich because ironically you're a

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Speaker 1: rich kid, but you're not a rich kid from that

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Speaker 1: the treadmill and knowing how it feels to be exhausted,

427
00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:45,879
Speaker 1: but then sort of want to get on again or

428
00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:48,040
Speaker 1: a different treadmill. Then you'll get to a point where

429
00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,119
Speaker 1: you're like, I really just don't want to be on

430
00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,920
Speaker 1: any treadmill. It's really interesting because you gotta get to fifty.

431
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:55,080
Speaker 1: And then you'll say, but we have ways for that.

432
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:58,800
Speaker 1: So so you're with Jordan. How did you guys meet?

433
00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 1: We actually dated. We dated ten years ago for the

434
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:09,120
Speaker 1: first time, so before I met my last husband. We

435
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:10,760
Speaker 1: were together for a year and a half. We lived together.

436
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:12,800
Speaker 1: He was actually dating a friend of mine and then

437
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,800
Speaker 1: they we weren't that close. I told her straight up.

438
00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:18,119
Speaker 1: It was one of the most awkward conversations. I was like, listen,

439
00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 1: this is weird, but we're gonna go for this, and

440
00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:22,040
Speaker 1: we did for a year and a half. We broke up,

441
00:20:23,960 --> 00:20:26,120
Speaker 1: did not keep in touch at all. I randomly, why

442
00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,560
Speaker 1: did you break up? We just were young and it

443
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:30,280
Speaker 1: just wasn't too much. It was just too much. We're

444
00:20:30,320 --> 00:20:33,440
Speaker 1: just children, and so, you know, we did not keep

445
00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,399
Speaker 1: in touch whatsoever. And most of the boyfriends that I

446
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,560
Speaker 1: had prior to him, like all went to Beverly High

447
00:20:37,600 --> 00:20:39,879
Speaker 1: and all kind of you know, were between Cannon and

448
00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:42,280
Speaker 1: Beverly Drive, and I saw everybody every single day. He

449
00:20:42,320 --> 00:20:43,600
Speaker 1: was like the first boyfriend I had that Like, we

450
00:20:43,680 --> 00:20:45,359
Speaker 1: dated for the year and a half. We broke up.

451
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 1: That was it. And I randomly kind of kept in

452
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,440
Speaker 1: touch with his older brother here and there for random things,

453
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: and then I would see his parents around and we

454
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,560
Speaker 1: kind of had like a connection somehow. And then I

455
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,000
Speaker 1: got married and then divorced and he was in a

456
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 1: long term relationship and then he kind of literally DMed me.

457
00:21:01,240 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: He was like hi, and I was like, I'm not

458
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 1: a fucking moron, Like I'm not going you're doing whatever

459
00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 1: you're doing, You're traveling, like I am getting into how

460
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:13,200
Speaker 1: do you know everything he's doing. I just knew through

461
00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:15,239
Speaker 1: the grape vine, but you just really hadn't seen him

462
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 1: at all for years. Nothing. I had seen him at

463
00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:20,399
Speaker 1: his brother randomly invited me and my ex husband to

464
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 1: a white party they were having like three years prior,

465
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:25,560
Speaker 1: and I saw him for two seconds and I went

466
00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 1: up to be like, hi, how are you? And he

467
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 1: was so like not that friend, and he's like hey,

468
00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:33,240
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, okay, well, but let me

469
00:21:33,440 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 1: does he everyone knows each other in that small world.

470
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:42,160
Speaker 1: And so, and he's doctor Drew's son. No, doctor Phil's son. Sorry,

471
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,879
Speaker 1: he's I know doctor Drew. And I like that. I

472
00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:45,840
Speaker 1: love Doctor Drew. I will Yeah, he's amazing. So he's

473
00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:49,600
Speaker 1: doctor Phil's son. Yeah. So he's got a little swag,

474
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:52,000
Speaker 1: he's got game. I assume I'm gonna look him up.

475
00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 1: I assume he's good looking. So does he have a look?

476
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 1: Does he Does he have game? And that like you

477
00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:57,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like he thinks he's he's hot

478
00:21:58,320 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 1: and he's a musician. He's a little bit of a

479
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: hot stepper. There's literally no, there's no duche tree to

480
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:08,080
Speaker 1: this one. He's like funny, dirty, sweet, like very yeah

481
00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:11,880
Speaker 1: he looks like that. Yeah, got it, okay, and most

482
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:18,119
Speaker 1: importantly like quite intelligent. Okay, so no dishbaggery. And he

483
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:22,040
Speaker 1: dms you. So he just was intrigued yeah, just was like,

484
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: what's up, how's it going. We chatted for a few months,

485
00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 1: and then I ended up seeing him in New York

486
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:29,359
Speaker 1: like twenty nineteen, and I literally didn't even want to go.

487
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not even going to do this. Well

488
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: exact way to go get a drink, and it was

489
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 1: you weren't doing it. I was dumb. There's nothing going

490
00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 1: to end in anything. I was like, I'm not gonna

491
00:22:37,480 --> 00:22:38,960
Speaker 1: go through. Like I'm going through enough right now. I

492
00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 1: don't need to deal with that. So I saw him there,

493
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 1: we hung out. It was like fine, we continued, he

494
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,919
Speaker 1: continued to chat. It was Mexico. Then I went to

495
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: Mexico for New Year's he was still on tour. I

496
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,960
Speaker 1: slammed my hand in the door randomly. It was like

497
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:51,639
Speaker 1: one of those doors where you slide, and then the

498
00:22:51,680 --> 00:22:53,080
Speaker 1: other one came sliding, so I had to go to

499
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: hospital her. And then I was really at a breaking

500
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: point and I was like, what is this year? This

501
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,800
Speaker 1: is so fucked, Like just let me live for five minutes. Yeah,

502
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:05,119
Speaker 1: and then he sent flowers to Mexico because you were

503
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: heard in my hand and I was like, that's kind

504
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 1: of like serious. That was December, and then he came back.

505
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:14,280
Speaker 1: We hung out for January, and then the world got

506
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:18,399
Speaker 1: shut down. That's how long ago that this too? I

507
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:21,200
Speaker 1: don't the time. I think that's anything same the start

508
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: of three years ago now, I mean, okay, okay, you know,

509
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,399
Speaker 1: I literally Paul could do that was ninety two. That

510
00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: was seventy. I don't know what year, what year it is,

511
00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 1: I don't know twenty seventeens, so I don't that was

512
00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 1: three years ago. Okay, got it. I'm the exact same way.

513
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: It's funny, but that's my only frame of reference. And

514
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,320
Speaker 1: then January we were kind of like living together. I

515
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 1: had an apartment and by May we what do you

516
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 1: mean January were living together? A head apart said, this

517
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 1: was December, December, I was on vacation. He sent me flowers.

518
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,359
Speaker 1: We got back from the trip, he got back from tours.

519
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:52,880
Speaker 1: Through January, we were like hanging out. I had an apartment.

520
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: We were like he was living at the at a hotel.

521
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,399
Speaker 1: And then he rented a house because he was selling

522
00:23:58,440 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: his house, and I basically ended up moving into that house,

523
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: still going home, but spending most of my time. This

524
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: is when and you're a single human being you're young,

525
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 1: you've got fucking rich, hot musician, and you're gonna do

526
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 1: this for the pandemic. I love this, and I we

527
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,439
Speaker 1: at this point, we didn't know the pandemic was going

528
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: to be the pandemic. So I was very much like,

529
00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 1: I pay for my own rent, I pay for my

530
00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: own clothes, I pay for my own health injurance. I

531
00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,000
Speaker 1: am an independent woman. I am not gonna like get

532
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 1: swept up in this. I still pay. So I made

533
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: a rule to like sleep home for a few nights

534
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:32,600
Speaker 1: a week, and that lasted about a month and then

535
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 1: January were fully fully living together at that point. In March,

536
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 1: and then by May we were pregnant stop first child.

537
00:24:40,480 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 1: What my birthdays made me? Second? Oh, in my for

538
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 1: the first the first time we ever had unprotected sex,

539
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:53,280
Speaker 1: the first ever. This is like knocked up. That's hysterical

540
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: that you worked at EAT because you're live like this

541
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,399
Speaker 1: is knocked up, except that he's not. You like it,

542
00:24:58,520 --> 00:25:03,040
Speaker 1: you love him, but they left the that's hilarious. Wow, Okay, Yeah,

543
00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: and then July we got engaged. December we got married.

544
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: I gave birth in February, and then we did it

545
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 1: all again because in May again, I got pregnant. I

546
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: hadn't even had I mean, this is I don't know

547
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: how much we can say on the show. I hadn't

548
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 1: even had like a full period. I mean, you know

549
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: you made your Yeah, it worked and may it was

550
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,120
Speaker 1: my birthday again. I guess that's when we do things.

551
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: And literally I found out when I was eight weeks.

552
00:25:26,119 --> 00:25:28,240
Speaker 1: He's like, don't don't make a joke. It's positive. We

553
00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:30,680
Speaker 1: know you're just feeling like shit, it's final, You're right.

554
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,240
Speaker 1: I looked away for one second on that test. One

555
00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: second I was like and it said and I literally

556
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,639
Speaker 1: could not move for three minutes. And I went to

557
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: the doctor and she literally said to me, your dude,

558
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,439
Speaker 1: date is February seventeenth. My daughter's due date was February fourteenth.

559
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: I had her on the sixteenth, so they are I

560
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,400
Speaker 1: had him on the seventeenth, so they are one year

561
00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 1: and one day. It's like jippy life, like you must

562
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,520
Speaker 1: be saying, so exhausted. I think it's great that this

563
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 1: all like like this ended this anything for a moment,

564
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 1: you need a breath because you'll has you can't get

565
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:04,959
Speaker 1: out with that pay in the bill. It will come

566
00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 1: some other place that insane. Okay, So you're that's amazing, okay,

567
00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 1: And you have a good relationship and a good kids.

568
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 1: How do you stay connected with all these parts? Because

569
00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: I am in a relationship with someone who lives in

570
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: a different state and it and it works. It works

571
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 1: because there comes a time when you're honest about like,

572
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 1: not what a relationship should be, but what a relationship

573
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: actually is, and that if you're a person who really

574
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:33,600
Speaker 1: likes your own time. And I used to not even

575
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:35,399
Speaker 1: know that I wanted to have my own time in

576
00:26:35,400 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: a relationship because I just I didn't have the same

577
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: career and the same kids. So it was always what

578
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: are we doing? What do we do? I have? So

579
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: I have one life with my child, I have one

580
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: life with Paul and the blending I have one and

581
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:49,040
Speaker 1: I have one life with my work and one life

582
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,640
Speaker 1: on my own, like and I love them all. Yeah,

583
00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: so it's not fantasy, it's reality and um, and it's

584
00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: not easy to stay connected. But then you, Cheryl hend said,

585
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 1: you go, you do these amazing things and you bank

586
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,040
Speaker 1: these new memories and like you live off of those,

587
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: Like we just went to Puerto Rico and we hadn't

588
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: been on an Alane vacasion for a year that was romantic,

589
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: and we came in on fumes and we went and like,

590
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: now we have that to bank, so we have a

591
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: little spring in our stuff and then we'll paid each

592
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 1: other in a couple of weeks and need you know,

593
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 1: something to get us to the next thing. But anyway,

594
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: it's a very realistic relationship, which it may not sound sexy,

595
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,159
Speaker 1: but that's so I ask you because I'm hearing all

596
00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: these ingredients no different than hearing about ben Affleck and

597
00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: Jennifer seventy two red carpet events in one year, wide

598
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: leg jeans in July and in Italy. He's an addict,

599
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,119
Speaker 1: they have kids, they have break up like this cannot

600
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 1: be perfect. The wide leg jeans in July and Italy

601
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 1: really just speaks to me on because it's it's in

602
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: the city. You're right, you're wearing wide leg, cameltoe thick

603
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:53,640
Speaker 1: jeans in a metropolis in Europe. That alone, would I'd

604
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 1: break up with Paul like I'd be like I couldn't

605
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: handle it. It was the wide leg paparazzi jeans. I'm done, No,

606
00:27:58,119 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: I'm with you one hundred percent. And that's the other thing.

607
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: That's somebody that doesn't want to have that balance, right,

608
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 1: Like what you were saying earlier out at a certain age,

609
00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 1: she wants to be the biggest star in the entire

610
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: world in every facet, whether it's makeup, and I don't

611
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 1: want to be that person. I think for us, this

612
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,520
Speaker 1: is also something that I'm so acutely aware of in

613
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 1: terms of like, you know, we're very fortunate people, So

614
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 1: me telling you, we really get to prioritize our relationship

615
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: because we are fortunate enough to have people that help

616
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 1: us with our children, right, Like, so we are able

617
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: to go out for dinner and be together. And you know,

618
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:32,919
Speaker 1: I know my kids are taken care of. I know

619
00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: that I'm a damn good mother. I'm with them as

620
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:38,360
Speaker 1: much as I possibly can be. I guide them, I'm patient,

621
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: I drive them to all the things. But we really

622
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: make it a priority to be together with like zero kidshit.

623
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 1: Now we're lucky we get to do Yeah, no, I

624
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: can it not everyone gets to do that. That's even

625
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 1: before we had kids. We had the conversation like this

626
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: is gonna get really gnarly, and it's so easy to

627
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: be so and we are exhausted, right, Like I just came,

628
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: he didn't have COVID. I was alone with both of them,

629
00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: and I like saved him because I was like, I

630
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: want you to stay healthy because I don't want God

631
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,120
Speaker 1: forbid you to get say, he stayed in his like

632
00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: little studio in the back. He looked quarantined away from us.

633
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: But I'd rather him be clear. But that's sort of

634
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: what we do. But you know, he might. I was

635
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: just thinking yesterday, like he might go on tour again.

636
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: What's that going to look like that It's gonna be

637
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 1: a shift. That's gonna be difficult. Now the kids are older,

638
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: they have more things that they're doing, and I'm gonna

639
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: have to like fly to you. You're gonna have to

640
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: fly home. What's gonna be exhausted. It does sound at

641
00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 1: the beginning, and then it's gonna be just awful, yea awful,

642
00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: yeah exactly. So we'll have to take it as I think.

643
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: You just take it as it comes. Exactly. You do

644
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: take it as it comes, but just know that it can.

645
00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,280
Speaker 1: It's it's amazing if you just make the right decisions

646
00:29:44,480 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: and you live in reality versus theory. So how your

647
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: in laws get together, So you've got normal parents and

648
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 1: you've got doctor Phil and as he's still married. No,

649
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: they're not memorating into they are married. There. I'm obsessed.

650
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: My mother in law and I from the moment we met,

651
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: we always had like a little bit of a connection.

652
00:30:16,440 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: She has only two boys, but her and I have

653
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 1: always nice. We've had our thing. I don't know, it's

654
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: no bullshit. We are just like I think. When I

655
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 1: was younger, I was a little bit more like in

656
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: awe of who she was. And now I'm like, I'm

657
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: older and I just see like her as who she is,

658
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,600
Speaker 1: as like a full human and we vibe we really were.

659
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: Oh because you met her, you met her when you

660
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:36,360
Speaker 1: were dating for a year and a half and you

661
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: were like a child and they had to run the program.

662
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: And now you're peers in a way in a way,

663
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: and I really and she's honestly, would rather not be

664
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 1: peers with any other human but her. She is wonderful.

665
00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 1: And that was one of the first things I was like,

666
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, how are parents going to sit together

667
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: at dinner? Like you know, this is just it's seamless. Oh,

668
00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: they love each other. You could travel together. We could

669
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 1: travel together, my mom and her and his mom like

670
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 1: email and chat and like can get drinks like there

671
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: isn't because they're so normal. Wasn't she involved in his business?

672
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: I feel like this was she ever involved in his business?

673
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: So she does the show with him. They've had the

674
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: show for twenty two years and she's walked on and

675
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:19,440
Speaker 1: off that show with him every single day. So they're

676
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: they're nauseatingly best friends too. It's like, I hate to

677
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,840
Speaker 1: say it because it sounds like such bullshit, but like

678
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,080
Speaker 1: it's literally like you walk in and they're like get

679
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: their kitchen counter, like eating pie, and you're like, okay, wow, okay,

680
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: So then you have two nauseatingly perfect parents, so you

681
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 1: have a good shot. Okay. So and wait you just

682
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: left his show? So their show just ended too, Yes,

683
00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: well that was his he decided that. I didn't decide

684
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: my fate. But yes, right, but what oh okay, I'm saying,

685
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 1: everybody's got more free time. So like doctor so doctor

686
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,400
Speaker 1: Phil and his wife will just come up with like

687
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: pop over and see the baby. What's that? Like? That

688
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 1: is the funniest. So everyone is always like so are

689
00:31:57,720 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 1: they always over her? Are they always? No? Way? Right? Boundaries?

690
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: Nobody but most mother in laws are not like that.

691
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: They're all My mother is weirdly like neurotic crazy, has

692
00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: her own shit, is not pushy, does not come over,

693
00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: and my mother in law is like, let me know

694
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 1: if something works for you. If doesn't, I know, You're like,

695
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: I never feel like people are coming in at both

696
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: sides boundaries. It's boundari to because the day is busy

697
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 1: and we have shit going on and we can't have

698
00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: Grandma coming in every second of every day. And they

699
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: totally get that. I'm sure they also know what it's

700
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: like to be like have a pit crew descended upon

701
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: them and like know what privacy means. I mean, yeah,

702
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 1: I have in laws too that are like amazing, like

703
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: they're they're not coming over and sleeping on the pill out.

704
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: You know, they're their own human beings and they are

705
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: way more social than we are and have their own

706
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: lives and they're a lot of boundaries. It's amazing. It's

707
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: called like meals shopping, all the good, it's all the positive.

708
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: It's so true. I think that's another really big benefit

709
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: that my in laws are really good. Like they are

710
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: busy and like he's going to continue to do with

711
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: some other stuff. So it's not like they're ever going

712
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: to be the people that have like a totally free

713
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: Wednesday to come like knock on the door. Yeah, but

714
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: you're a fully like entertainment industry unit. That's interesting. Oh yeah,

715
00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: how much you're talking about the business to them? Like

716
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: how much are you and your husband talking to Phil

717
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 1: and his wife about like the entertainment industry and the

718
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: business end? Do you would you ever work on projects together?

719
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 1: That's a weird. I would like, I know there's that

720
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 1: whole like nepotism talk, baby talk or whatever, like I'm

721
00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: signed me up for nepotism daughter in law, Like, I

722
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 1: will take it all day. I was actually I picked

723
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: my father in law's brain all day. I spoke to

724
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,920
Speaker 1: him like when I was doing my last renegotiation and

725
00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,719
Speaker 1: his I was literally had to stop him and be like,

726
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: this is cable. This is We're not talking about millions

727
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:46,959
Speaker 1: of dollars right right, Like you're asking me to like

728
00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: ask for the back end of I'm like, this is

729
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 1: not you're getting shares in viacom And yeah, he's like

730
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: talking You're talking about a puppet show and I'm talking

731
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: about like literally under two hundre Like why this is

732
00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 1: not the same bar with reset. I don't think you're

733
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 1: saying and but I have this idea that I'm working

734
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: on and I was actually supposed to go over. I

735
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 1: sent him a deck literally two weeks ago to talk

736
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 1: to him about it, because he's clearly done something right.

737
00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:09,720
Speaker 1: He's been on the air for however long two thousand

738
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: years I mean, and number one, I mean, that doesn't

739
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,680
Speaker 1: happen anymore saying insane and I got COVID, so I'm

740
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:19,359
Speaker 1: supposed to go there tomorrow. But I are you intimidated though,

741
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: or do you like you just call casually or there

742
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: is a boundary because like I feel there's a little

743
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: like sometimes there, yeah, you tell me, is there like

744
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:30,759
Speaker 1: uh I am? I definitely think it's no. I will

745
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,319
Speaker 1: text and call. He loves it. They like me. I

746
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: hope when I see him, I'm always like a little

747
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: bit like, oh, you're like that big like you are.

748
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 1: He is a big presence, he's a big person. He

749
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: talks quickly, he's very with it, he's very So I'm

750
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: kind of sitting there like what is he talking about? Ads?

751
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,320
Speaker 1: Like what? I no, no, no, So so you hippreciate

752
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: you're a little good good intimidated. You appreciate that time.

753
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,239
Speaker 1: You're not trying to waste his time with nonsense garbage. Baby. Totally,

754
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to seem like an idiot. But he

755
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,759
Speaker 1: also definitely takes like he doesn't need to take the

756
00:34:59,800 --> 00:35:02,799
Speaker 1: time to do He could be like, that's your my son. No,

757
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna I like this dynamic because I understand

758
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 1: this dynamic of you feeling good that you are with

759
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:13,320
Speaker 1: You're with a man who has a very successful family,

760
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: and you know that you have earned your state at

761
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: the table, and you don't feel like they think you're

762
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 1: that dumb, dumb girl that's marrying the guy for that reason,

763
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: because you are successful in your own right and you've

764
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: made something of yourself. It's not that easy. I get

765
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: the whole thing totally, and I think I came you're

766
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,600
Speaker 1: so right. I came in with some built respect. And also,

767
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,200
Speaker 1: my husband didn't marry any of those girlfriends right, like

768
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 1: he had plenty of girlfriends in between. I think it

769
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: was really important for him on the guy side of things, like, yes,

770
00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: so I need somebody. He's very strong in his purpose.

771
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 1: He's like fortunate that he gets to pursue his dream

772
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,359
Speaker 1: every single day. He takes it seriously all day. I'm

773
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: kind of like, are you done yet? And he's kind

774
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 1: of like, this might not seem like work to you,

775
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 1: but I'm doing this shit all day. And I think

776
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: it was important for him to have a partner that

777
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: wasn't like gonna just shop all day. I shop all day,

778
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: but I also work all day. I get it. I

779
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: shot you at least leave the house, so you should

780
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: just come over here and take all my stuff? How

781
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 1: do you extend your fifteen minutes? Like? And I actually

782
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: it's funny because I don't think of you. I wouldn't

783
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 1: have even like I now know who you are, but

784
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:16,440
Speaker 1: I didn't realize you were that same person from that show.

785
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: Like I thought to reconnect that for myself. So that's

786
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: good and something I can relate to. You've definitely become

787
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 1: your own being separate from that, and that's amazing. And

788
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: so now how do you keep extending it? Like? What

789
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 1: is your real goal? My real goal is to continue

790
00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: down the path that I'm on, Like I'm really trying

791
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: to have a vessel on television that incorporates who I am,

792
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: like three sixty like not the rich kid, not the

793
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 1: variation of like that person from now on, E that's

794
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 1: like sort of got a little bit of that, but

795
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: like it's kind of reading what other people are telling

796
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 1: me to read. Like I need something that's going to

797
00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: showcase like all different parts of me, which is something

798
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 1: I'm working on and hopefully people will like it and

799
00:36:56,160 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: got it because I see the fact, like the fashion

800
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: comes through that. I love love, love, I mean the fact,

801
00:37:01,560 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: but even that I don't even get the credit for,

802
00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: so I appreciate it, but I love fashion. But there's

803
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: just I think I have a I connect with people

804
00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: pretty easily and not in like a bullshitty type of way,

805
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,279
Speaker 1: and I kind of I want that to kind of

806
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:17,359
Speaker 1: start to transcend and come out. I feel like I've

807
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 1: been in this like little bit of a box my

808
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: entire career, which is now like crazy to say it,

809
00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:24,640
Speaker 1: but it's been like and you could do a talk

810
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 1: show and it's a terrible, Oh my god, it was.

811
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,719
Speaker 1: I hated it more than anything I've ever done. But

812
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 1: there could be a way that you could do that

813
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 1: where it would not be insufferable. That's what I would like,

814
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,959
Speaker 1: That's what I am trying to Yeah, but I could

815
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: see that I think that would work, but that's a grind.

816
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:40,760
Speaker 1: So you have to find a way that's not torture.

817
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: You have to be honest. It's when I got it.

818
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 1: I remember getting a talk show and I was out

819
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 1: in LA and I was with my best friend, and

820
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 1: I had too much to drink, and I said to her,

821
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,080
Speaker 1: why the hell am I doing? Like because you have,

822
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 1: But it's one of these things you're supposed to want.

823
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: Someone hands you a diamond, You're like, of course I wanted.

824
00:37:58,239 --> 00:37:59,800
Speaker 1: Of course, why would you want a diamond? You supposed

825
00:37:59,800 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: to want to and everybody wants to. I didn't want.

826
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: I don't like to be handled. I don't like the

827
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,879
Speaker 1: pit crew on me. I'm a very antisocial person, and

828
00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,279
Speaker 1: I don't like to direct traffic and traffic to be

829
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: directed everything that I don't like. It was so you

830
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 1: have to be so honest with who you really are,

831
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: because it seems so great to do certain things. But

832
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: like if you're honest, as you get older, you keep

833
00:38:22,320 --> 00:38:23,919
Speaker 1: any more and then you just say no to things

834
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: or figure out a way to make it exactly how

835
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,560
Speaker 1: you need it to be. Because because I could see

836
00:38:28,600 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: you talking, what what does the film schedule? Like? Just

837
00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 1: quickly like were you filming all year or did you

838
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: film for a few months and then go crazy and

839
00:38:35,560 --> 00:38:37,160
Speaker 1: then get to that. I think you are off a

840
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: certain period of time. There's only one season, but they

841
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 1: had to do two shows a day. But with My Dag,

842
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: you're used to getting up to five and you had

843
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 1: to wake up and be in there at six forty five.

844
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: It's just it's everything. I don't I don't sleep late.

845
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: I get up at six, but it has to be

846
00:38:50,320 --> 00:38:52,479
Speaker 1: on my terms. Someday I may wake up at seven.

847
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:55,640
Speaker 1: I cannot be corralled. I cannot be forced. I am

848
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Speaker 1: just like a loose horse. So it's not for me.

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Speaker 1: It cannot it has to be. This is perfect, This

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Speaker 1: has become, this is This has been wildly successful, shocking

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Speaker 1: to me, not shocking, but like the amount of success

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Speaker 1: that these shows have been, and it's because it's perfect

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Speaker 1: for me. Like, yeah, the structure, Um, I love talking

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Speaker 1: to you. It was so unbelievable. I have one more thing,

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Speaker 1: the Rose and Thorn of your career. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: this is so different. I don't even know how to

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Speaker 1: simplify what it is. I mean, the rose is obviously

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Speaker 1: feeling successful, feeling purpose, feeling like I can connect to people,

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Speaker 1: and then the thorn is maybe not being showcased in

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Speaker 1: the most authentic way. It's not coming who you really

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Speaker 1: are has not come through on these projects. No yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess not fully me yet. And I'm just like,

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Speaker 1: it's ready to break through that level because it's hoasty,

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Speaker 1: it's hosty, it's a little yeah, it's removed, it's you know,

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Speaker 1: it's not I get it. It's a little vapid. It's

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Speaker 1: just not I'm in there, but not no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: I get it. It's happened for years. You're amazing good.

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy. And I have to tell you. My

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Speaker 1: mom love you. She's like I love that Bethan. He's

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Speaker 1: so real, not full of shit like these other I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 1: so oh yeah, well maybe I'll get to meet her.

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Speaker 1: Like I've had so much fun because I get to

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Speaker 1: meet people here that I get to know. So now

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Speaker 1: I feel like I know you. So yeah, maybe one

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Speaker 1: time in LA will get together. I see to meet you.

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Speaker 1: I'll see later. God, I keep loving the show. Every

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Speaker 1: time I do the show, I do homework. I think

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Speaker 1: we like, am I gonna have something to talk about?

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Speaker 1: I don't even know who someone is for the most part,

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Speaker 1: Like I know who they are, but I don't really

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Speaker 1: know anything about them, And I just the Juicy Center

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Speaker 1: is so great, what a great thing. I don't think

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Speaker 1: that anyone's ever heard half of what Morgan Stewart just said.

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Speaker 1: I think she's so interesting. I'm so grateful if the

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Speaker 1: show can highlight someone in a way that you would

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Speaker 1: never have known that they were meaning, Like Kelly Rippa said,

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Speaker 1: this was the best interview she ever did, and I

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Speaker 1: know that people got things from her that they've never

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Speaker 1: gotten anywhere else. And also she said things that she's

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Speaker 1: definitely not told anybody. It's really nice to have these

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Speaker 1: honest conversations and get to the depths of who they are.

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Speaker 1: And I'm really excited and I'm so excited to do

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Speaker 1: this with you. And it's so different from rewives and

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Speaker 1: I also sit in this chair and have a completely

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Speaker 1: different conversation. So I love it. Thank you so much,

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