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Speaker 1: Second data Day, Today's second data. Her name is Ali.
Speaker 1: Send us an email saying that she thinks she's scared
Speaker 1: the dude she went out with on their first date.
Speaker 1: She didn't go into much detail, but I'm guessing maybe
Speaker 1: maybe she was too aggressive, maybe not aggressive enough, and
Speaker 1: he was like, oh, she's not interested. Or perhaps she
Speaker 1: did the scariest thing of all and she wanted to
Speaker 1: like talk and stuff. Oh not that, no, God, like
Speaker 1: find out about each other, like ask questions. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I could barely get the words out frightening, frightening stuff
Speaker 1: on a first date. So I hope that didn't happen.
Speaker 1: But let's talk to her and see, Ali, Welcome to
Speaker 1: the show. How you doing good? How about yourself? See
Speaker 1: already with the talking. I knew it. I knew it.
Speaker 1: Jules got goosebumps. He's about ready to hang up. All right, Allie,
Speaker 1: your email said that you scared the guy. Before we
Speaker 1: get into that, what's his name? His name is Anthony,
Speaker 1: Anthony all right. And where did you meet Anthony? We
Speaker 1: met on our morning commute to work on the busy.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. J A lot of really normal people
Speaker 1: take the bus to work. Ye, never met one. You've
Speaker 1: never been on a bus, I don't think. All right, allie,
Speaker 1: how'd you guys meet on the bus. Well, he's a
Speaker 1: really nice guy, but he's very shy, so it took
Speaker 1: us probably riding the bus for about six months together
Speaker 1: before he finally talked to me. So he asked me out, okay,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, I was just like, okay,
Speaker 1: why not? My last boyfriend was a jerk, so I
Speaker 1: thought a nice, shy guy would be a good choice.
Speaker 1: Did you say that to him on the bus? Like?
Speaker 1: Oh why not? No? Okay? And what were you feeling
Speaker 1: leading up to the date? Oh? I feel pretty good
Speaker 1: about it. I mean I'm not scared of much. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: like anything is better than your ex, so pretty much.
Speaker 1: All right. What did you guys do when you actually
Speaker 1: went out? So we went to the shooting range, which
Speaker 1: is more my thing. Oh okay, that was your choice?
Speaker 1: Yeah okay? And had he ever been to the range before? No? No,
Speaker 1: And he was a little bit like Okay, Well, you know,
Speaker 1: do you want to go out to dinner and you know,
Speaker 1: talk and stuff, And I was like, oh no, let's
Speaker 1: go to the shooting range. Because my theory is dinner movie,
Speaker 1: all of that, everybody's on their best behavior, so you
Speaker 1: don't really get to know much about them. I don't
Speaker 1: feel like so in my opinion, going to the shooting
Speaker 1: range and putting a gun in somebody's hand really brings
Speaker 1: out the real us. It shows you if they have confidence,
Speaker 1: if they're a whimp. You know, dude, I'm kind of
Speaker 1: scared of you right now. I mean, maybe I'm scared
Speaker 1: him when I shot the you know, bad guy in
Speaker 1: hostage target and I shot the bad guy right in
Speaker 1: the center of the head. Maybe not scared him. I
Speaker 1: don't know. That was gonna be my other question. Did
Speaker 1: you you like bring your own target and it was
Speaker 1: actually a picture of his face, like that could have
Speaker 1: scared How did he seem to react when he's look
Speaker 1: him to the shooting range. Was he cool with the
Speaker 1: gun or was he, like you said, scared of it. Well,
Speaker 1: he seemed a little bit nervous, But I shot first
Speaker 1: and showed him the rope, showed him how to use
Speaker 1: the gun and everything until his turn came and first
Speaker 1: time he shoots, she like kind of screams like whoa,
Speaker 1: and like starts laughing. And you know, at first I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, ye okay, and he's like, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that was cool. Like he seemed like he was okay
Speaker 1: with it, but after another shot or two, he just
Speaker 1: seemed to get more and more shaky, and then he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: I need to go outside, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: seemed a little weird. But after I finished my next round,
Speaker 1: I went out to check on him, and he still
Speaker 1: seemed like he was shaking a little bit, but he
Speaker 1: was on the phone and when he got off, he
Speaker 1: was like, I'm really really sorry, I have to go.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, it was everything, okay, Are you okay?
Speaker 1: And he's like, yeah, yeah, there's something I had to
Speaker 1: go and weird. Haven't heard from him since, and tried
Speaker 1: texting him a couple of times. How much do you
Speaker 1: think the gun range had to do with him not
Speaker 1: calling you back? I mean, do you think it was
Speaker 1: maybe making up an emergency or he realized that, hey,
Speaker 1: I really like guns and I need to listen to the
Speaker 1: the military now, and that's where he went, Like, I
Speaker 1: really don't know, because, like I said, at first, he
Speaker 1: seemed really excited, but then, you know, catch him outside
Speaker 1: with a phone and saying he has to go, like
Speaker 1: and not giving me any kind of reason. It did
Speaker 1: kind of make me wonder it did scare him, But
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like, I didn't really think it was
Speaker 1: that scary of a thing to do. I think it's
Speaker 1: weird too, because he asked you out, and even if
Speaker 1: it was a little scary, because guns can be scary. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but why wouldn't he just say, hey, let's get out
Speaker 1: of here and go do something else. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Did you notice his pants? Did he maybe tinkle his
Speaker 1: pants because he was nervous shooting a gun and he's embarrassed? Now,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I saw. Okay, And you've tried reaching
Speaker 1: out to him a few times and he has not
Speaker 1: responded at all. Yes, okay. Have you tried writing something
Speaker 1: down on a bullet and shooting it in his door?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well that's another option. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, call him and hopefully he answers
Speaker 1: and we can get you a second date. Update. All right,
Speaker 1: all right, thank you very much, okay brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second Date and welcome back, ladies and gentlemen
Speaker 1: to the Second Date update and also the new Broadway
Speaker 1: smash hit Ali Get Your Gun, darring Ali who took
Speaker 1: her date to the gun range on their first date
Speaker 1: and co starring Anthony, the person that she took to
Speaker 1: the gun range and isn't calling her back, probably because
Speaker 1: he tinkled himself because he's scared of guns. Let's find
Speaker 1: out the dramatic conclusion right now in Ali, Get Your Gun? Alie,
Speaker 1: did I about get that right? Oh? Sure? If you're
Speaker 1: just joining us, Ali took her date to the gun range.
Speaker 1: In the middle of it, he excuse himself to take
Speaker 1: a phone call, look rather nervous, and then left and
Speaker 1: hasn't talked to her since. So we're trying to figure
Speaker 1: out why. And Ali didn't ask. I mean, if he
Speaker 1: is scared of guns, are you still wanting to date him?
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it secks you when a guy
Speaker 1: knows how to handle a gun, But I would still
Speaker 1: give him a chance. I mean, he's a really great guy.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can teach him how to be a man,
Speaker 1: not being a man. If you were a little afraid
Speaker 1: of You should be afraid of guns. They could kill you.
Speaker 1: Right here we go, Ali gonna call him after a
Speaker 1: brief intermission, Sir, we can get their coro, nuts and
Speaker 1: licorice and head right back to their seats. It's Ali,
Speaker 1: get your gun all right here? We call him Dallas
Speaker 1: one him right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Anthony?
Speaker 1: This is Anthony? Hey, Anthony, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and jew BWL in the Morning. What
Speaker 1: my name is jew Bowl. I host a morning radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called Brook and Jewel in the Morning. So I'm
Speaker 1: on the phone. Also, Brooke is here, hey, Anthony, and
Speaker 1: Jose is also here too. He's on the phone too,
Speaker 1: So you got three of us on the phone with
Speaker 1: you right now, Anthony. Okay, okay, what is this about? Well,
Speaker 1: we actually got an email from one of our listeners
Speaker 1: who was trying to get in contact with you. What
Speaker 1: is this? I'm just I'm confused. I'm sorry. Well, we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show it's called the second
Speaker 1: Date Update. So you recently went out with a girl
Speaker 1: named Ali Ali. Yeah, and Ali emailed us because you're
Speaker 1: not calling her back? Right? Yeah, that was not a
Speaker 1: good experience with that person. Really wait, she said you
Speaker 1: took a phone call outside and then like bailed, like
Speaker 1: something could have been really wrong. She was worried about you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just really bad. I felt really like guilty and
Speaker 1: so I had to bail. I'm sorry that was not
Speaker 1: for me. What did you feel guilty about? Well, I
Speaker 1: don't even know, like what you know or what she
Speaker 1: told you or what. Well she told us that you
Speaker 1: guys met on the bus first of all, weird, okay, weird,
Speaker 1: But she told us that you guys met on the
Speaker 1: bus and then you went to a shooting range and
Speaker 1: in the middle of that you took a phone call
Speaker 1: and then were nervous and left and haven't talked to her.
Speaker 1: It wasn't my idea to go to the shooting range.
Speaker 1: So you didn't like the shooting range. Parts of the
Speaker 1: shooting range were not for me. The bathrooms are dirty
Speaker 1: or what do you mean? What part didn't you like? Okay,
Speaker 1: So we were at the shooting range and we shot
Speaker 1: some bulls eyes and she was helping me, and that
Speaker 1: was all right, that was fine. And then there were
Speaker 1: the like you know, the silhouettes of people and shot
Speaker 1: some of those. That was fine too. Then they had
Speaker 1: this like pay for picture of a deer shoot and
Speaker 1: I don't know, I love like animals, and she was
Speaker 1: just like it was right there and she was like,
Speaker 1: come on do it, like shoot this. I know it's
Speaker 1: not a real deer, but like it was just like
Speaker 1: she got me to shoot it. And I just felt
Speaker 1: like immediately, just so bad, just not good at all. Oh,
Speaker 1: that's really sweet. You felt bad shooting a fake deer silhouette.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a silhouette, it was a picture. It was
Speaker 1: it was looking at me. I could see its eyes.
Speaker 1: So you shot bammy and you felt bad. Don't say
Speaker 1: that that makes me feel even poor dad. I think
Speaker 1: that's fine to have those emotions. But why does that
Speaker 1: make you not want to call her back? Well? I
Speaker 1: was feeling bad about that, and so I went outside
Speaker 1: and I called my mom and um, I want to
Speaker 1: talk to her about it, and like I was like,
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm a bad person, and she said
Speaker 1: that yeah I am. Oh my gosh, that you were
Speaker 1: a bad person. Well yeah, I mean the way she's
Speaker 1: it's like you start with paper deer, and then what's next,
Speaker 1: plastic deer? Then it's just getting more normal to hear. Real, dear,
Speaker 1: you're just getting used to it. It's just slippery slope gateway, dear,
Speaker 1: is what you what you shot? She said, it's probably
Speaker 1: a bad influence. So she thinks that Ali is a
Speaker 1: bad influence on you because she wants you to kill animals.
Speaker 1: I just my mom didn't raise me that way to
Speaker 1: shoot deer, paper deer, anything shaped like a deer. Just
Speaker 1: loved animals. Okay, okay, but you were cool shooting the
Speaker 1: silhouettes of people, just not that well, they didn't have faces.
Speaker 1: Oh that makes sense, they can't look at you, Jubilee,
Speaker 1: that's true. Good point. Honestly, maybe it's just the way
Speaker 1: I was raised, But I think shooting a deer would
Speaker 1: hurt me more than shooting a person. Okay, okay, why
Speaker 1: didn't you just tell her that? Well, she's so into it.
Speaker 1: She was like excited. I came back. She shot the
Speaker 1: deer more. That must have been just horrible for you.
Speaker 1: She just couldn't stop shooting the deer. She was really
Speaker 1: in your well, Anthony, I do need to let you
Speaker 1: know that Ali is actually on the other line right now,
Speaker 1: so it's a perfect opportunity for you to confront the
Speaker 1: paper deer murderer. She's on the phone. Hi, Anthony, Why
Speaker 1: didn't you tell me she was on the phone. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: Anthony's short memory. I forgot that she was there. So, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's there and wants to talk to you. Yeah, hey, Um,
Speaker 1: why didn't you just tell me? I don't know. I
Speaker 1: didn't even know that i'd have to talk to you again.
Speaker 1: I didn't think this would happen. Well, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: but it's healthy to talk things out, you know. Like
Speaker 1: by had known that the animal thing was really gonna
Speaker 1: upset you, we didn't have to shoot that. We could
Speaker 1: have stuck with bullseyes the whole time. I mean, I
Speaker 1: didn't know that or people. He was fine with people.
Speaker 1: I don't know how was I supposed to tell you that?
Speaker 1: Like I was gonna call you and tell you that
Speaker 1: I had a hard time shooting the paper deer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess I could see that being awkward.
Speaker 1: I think the hardest part of that conversation would have
Speaker 1: been saying I had a hard time shooting the paper
Speaker 1: deer and then I had to call my mom about it.
Speaker 1: It's funny, I mean, it's jealous. The paper deer. It's
Speaker 1: not even like you shot the real thing. I mean,
Speaker 1: come on, it's not a big deal. It is a
Speaker 1: big deal. You had eyes, and you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: No matter what your mom says, I'm not a bad
Speaker 1: influence on you. I'm helping toughen you up. Don't talk
Speaker 1: about my mom. Okay, you don't know what. So did
Speaker 1: mommy help you get over everything after you got back
Speaker 1: from the shooting range? I mean, I mean I dealt
Speaker 1: with it, Like I went home and I could cried,
Speaker 1: and I donated two hundred dollars to a wildlife foundation
Speaker 1: day hard. That's good, But come I mean, a lot
Speaker 1: of people would say that hunters have more respect for
Speaker 1: animals and what they eat and the time that they
Speaker 1: put into getting their food than people who just go
Speaker 1: to the grocery store and buy meat. Right, yeah, but
Speaker 1: then they shoot them. There's a whole lot of honey.
Speaker 1: I guess now would be a bad time to say that.
Speaker 1: Like I grew up hunting and I have antlers mouted
Speaker 1: on my wall. No, that's not good. You should take
Speaker 1: those down. But it's not a big deal. I mean,
Speaker 1: I really, I really just can't believe you're serious that
Speaker 1: this isn't really happening. But you've killed them. I mean,
Speaker 1: I yes, I killed them, but I ate their meat,
Speaker 1: so their life didn't go to waste. That's that's so gross.
Speaker 1: Oh man, dinner date's gonna be real hard for you
Speaker 1: to I mean, are you are you vegan? I'll eat
Speaker 1: like chicken and fish, but I won't eat like bear
Speaker 1: meat or foresta force me, Anthony, you know that they
Speaker 1: get chicken and fish with a shotgun, right they stand
Speaker 1: outside of the water. The way they do it is
Speaker 1: a lot more cruel. Stop talking about this. Well, how
Speaker 1: about you guys go talk about it in person and
Speaker 1: go on another date? Anthony, would you like to go
Speaker 1: out with Ali again? We'll pay for it. Alia a steak?
Speaker 1: Oh wow. I don't appreciate the laughter, and I don't
Speaker 1: appreciate the offer. I don't want a steak, especially when
Speaker 1: with someone who might have killed the steak. So is
Speaker 1: that a no, Anthony? Yeah? Well, Ali, I'm sorry you
Speaker 1: did not get a second date out of the deal.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I mean, this was playing more entertaining than
Speaker 1: our first date, and I really like to keep eating meat,
Speaker 1: So I'm totally okay with this. Okay, Anthony, thank you
Speaker 1: for your time. Man. Hopefully you know, after some counseling
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, you'll be able to get over
Speaker 1: shooting that paper, Dear. I mean, it's gonna be hard
Speaker 1: to forget, like it's stuck in my memory. But I mean,
Speaker 1: I just have to find somebody who believes the same
Speaker 1: things I do. I think you already found her. I
Speaker 1: think her name is mom Broken. Jewil in the Morning
Speaker 1: in a text in at seven eight five to nine
Speaker 1: two says poor guy, he has PTSD from watching BAMBI.
Speaker 1: Can't you hear that Brooke and Jewel in the Morning
Speaker 1: talking about today's second date update if you missed it,
Speaker 1: Ali wanted to call this dude to Anthony. They went
Speaker 1: to a gun range together. It was her idea. She
Speaker 1: likes to shoot. He had never done it before, and
Speaker 1: he's split in the middle of it. He got a
Speaker 1: phone call said he had to leave. It turns out
Speaker 1: when we got him on the phone that he was
Speaker 1: uncomfortable because they were shooting the normal targets and then
Speaker 1: a deer target came up and he shot at it.
Speaker 1: He felt really bad, so he called his mom and
Speaker 1: his mom told him that he was a bad person
Speaker 1: because he was shooting it a deer target, and then
Speaker 1: he left and he just feels horrible about the whole
Speaker 1: thing because he shot at a deer, you know, but
Speaker 1: not a real deer. It wouldn't be that big of
Speaker 1: a deal to me. If you know, he didn't feel
Speaker 1: comfortable shooting whatever, that's fine. But calling your mom, I
Speaker 1: mean that's where I draw the line, Like, come on, buddy, yeah,
Speaker 1: on a first date to call your mom and go, Mommy,
Speaker 1: guess what just happened. I shot at a deer a
Speaker 1: picture of a deer? Am I bad? And she's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're bad. Get home. You're getting a spanking right now.
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't want you hanging out with that
Speaker 1: kind of person, right, Yeah, you're an adult man. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course, every single dude who owns a gun is
Speaker 1: texting in right now like, yeah, I'll take it shooting range.
Speaker 1: I'm not afraid to be real. Man. She stopped dating
Speaker 1: Mama's boys, Yeah, it's that, or it's a lot of
Speaker 1: people making jokes about how she dodged a bullet. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a lot of dodge a bullet jokes. Thank you for those.
Speaker 1: Keep them coming, because I'm enjoying reading them all right. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second day update, all
Speaker 1: you have to do is email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back