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Speaker 1: Buggle up. Hold it four years. Here we go with

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Speaker 1: this one subject. My woman plays text games. Good morning

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Speaker 1: to the best morning show in the nation. Oh, I'm

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Speaker 1: a forty three year old, attractive, intelligent, smart working man okay,

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Speaker 1: who lives, who loves his woman and daughter very much.

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Speaker 1: I just knew it was going to be a woman there,

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Speaker 1: a smart working man who loves his woman and daughter

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Speaker 1: very much. My woman is an attractive forty two year

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Speaker 1: old who I never could get to believe in me,

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Speaker 1: but I love her anyway. I have not cheated on

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Speaker 1: my woman. I do not drink, and I treat my

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Speaker 1: woman as good as she will let me. We decided

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Speaker 1: that it was time to take our relationship to the

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Speaker 1: next level, so we agreed to live together, moving toward marriage.

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Speaker 1: A few days ago, I received a text message from

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Speaker 1: a woman who said she met me at a workshop

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Speaker 1: I was a part of a New York City The

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Speaker 1: woman said she was attracted to me and wanted to

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Speaker 1: know if I still had a girlfriend. I responded no,

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Speaker 1: because I have a woman, not a girlfriend. This statement

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Speaker 1: made me wonder if my woman was playing text games

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Speaker 1: with me. I quickly concluded in my mind that this

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Speaker 1: was not possible because my woman is mature and would

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Speaker 1: not do this. Boy, was I wrong? Then she asked

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Speaker 1: if I could, if she could call me at six

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Speaker 1: o'clock PM. I said, sure, you can. This is where

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Speaker 1: the texting stopped. Later that evening, I was speaking to

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Speaker 1: my woman and she started asking me questions about do

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Speaker 1: you flirt when you are out, et cetera. My answer

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Speaker 1: was yes, but flirting does not turn into sex. I

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Speaker 1: then knew the woman who texted me was my so

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Speaker 1: called woman. She quickly admitted that she was the one

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Speaker 1: texting me and that I was going to do something

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Speaker 1: with this woman. Because I admitted that I did not

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Speaker 1: have a girlfriend, I told the truth. I thought I

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Speaker 1: had a woman. I thought I had a woman. Well,

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Speaker 1: I was wrong because only my girlfriend would play a

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Speaker 1: text game with me instead of asking me a question

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Speaker 1: face to face. After explain aiming that I was not cheating,

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Speaker 1: but curious, she then hung up the phone. Was this

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Speaker 1: entrapmentt If she does not trust me, why didn't she

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Speaker 1: just leave me alone? Why didn't she just leave me alone?

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Speaker 1: Just looking for feedback? Sincerely, good man, looking for a

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Speaker 1: woman who does not play text games? Uh? You know what,

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Speaker 1: dear good man, it does sound like your woman has

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Speaker 1: trust issues with you. It sounds like she is a

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Speaker 1: little immature and um, you know, but you know you

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Speaker 1: cannot tell a woman that you were curious about another woman.

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Speaker 1: You just can't do that as a man. Um. You

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Speaker 1: know that doesn't do anything to ease her already suspicious mind.

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Speaker 1: And I say you've got issues too, because if you

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Speaker 1: were completely happy with your woman, you know, what were

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Speaker 1: you curious about? Anyway? And I do agree the texting

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Speaker 1: stuff was tricky, you know, and all that she was

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Speaker 1: trying to trap you. And uh, I think you guys

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Speaker 1: need to talk about this and work it out before

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Speaker 1: you decide to get married, because I guarantee you it

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Speaker 1: will only get worse in the marriage. Twelve minutes after

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Speaker 1: we'll be back. Some co cracking going on in this

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Speaker 1: and stay yet, it's a real cold crack. It's the

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Speaker 1: under kind. This is cold cracker. But right now, come on, Steve,

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Speaker 1: let's go with part two of today's Strawberry Letter. Good

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Speaker 1: morning to the best morning show in the nation. I'm

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Speaker 1: a forty three year old, attractive, intelligent, smart working a

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Speaker 1: man who loves his woman and daughter very much. My

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Speaker 1: woman is an attractive forty two year old who I

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Speaker 1: could who I never could get to believe in me.

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Speaker 1: But I love her anyway. I have not cheated on

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Speaker 1: my woman. I do not drink, and I treat my

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Speaker 1: woman as good as she will let me. First of all, dog,

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Speaker 1: let's go quit playing with each other. You wrote me,

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Speaker 1: I'm an adult male, full grown. He's an attractive man

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Speaker 1: forty three. Come on, man, you wrote the wrong You

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Speaker 1: wrote the letter to the wrong person. You know good

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Speaker 1: and will as a man. You cannot write a letter

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Speaker 1: of any kind, and I do not know what the

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Speaker 1: underlying meaning is. So now, brother, I hope he was

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Speaker 1: ready for the truth, because that's what I'm gonna tell you,

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Speaker 1: because your letter is not full of the truth. First

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Speaker 1: of all, I question any man who starts their letter

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Speaker 1: off with I am a forty three year old, attractive, intelligent,

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Speaker 1: smart working man right there. If that don't have a

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Speaker 1: woman wrote all over it, that's a I'm a forty

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Speaker 1: three year old, attractive, intelligent, smart working man. Okay, dog, already,

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Speaker 1: I know that you on something else his woman and

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Speaker 1: loves this woman and daughter very much. My woman is

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Speaker 1: attractive forty two year old who I could now here's

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Speaker 1: the line where the letter starts telling the story forty

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Speaker 1: two year old who I could never get to believe

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Speaker 1: in me. One. When a man starts a letter like this,

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Speaker 1: he's setting you up to justify an action he's about

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Speaker 1: to commit because he got a woman that he never

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Speaker 1: could get to believe in him one. So then I

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Speaker 1: questioned the rest of the next statement. Then, but I

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Speaker 1: love her anyway. I'm not cheated on my woman. And

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Speaker 1: I do not drink and I here's another trick line,

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Speaker 1: I do not drink, and I treat my woman as

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Speaker 1: good as she will letting me. That means there as

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Speaker 1: a whole song where there's a void that he ain't

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Speaker 1: feeling for some reason, and he wants us to let

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Speaker 1: us know up top it's because she doesn't believe in

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Speaker 1: him one. So the brothers setting him up for what

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Speaker 1: he about to do. Then, after all of this, don't

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Speaker 1: believe in you one, we decided it was time to

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Speaker 1: take our relationship to the next level. So we agreed

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Speaker 1: to lead and live together, moving towards me for what

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Speaker 1: you have got to found you a woman who's attractive

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Speaker 1: but don't believe in you. You're moving towards marriage with

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Speaker 1: what not a hundred percent? I'll come on dog. A

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Speaker 1: few days ago here his way, I received a text

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Speaker 1: from a woman who said she met me at a

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Speaker 1: workshop in New York City. The woman said she was

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Speaker 1: attracting me and wanted to know if I still had

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Speaker 1: a girlfriend. That here's the whole letter. I respond didn't know.

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Speaker 1: See that's all he put. Then he thought to himself.

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Speaker 1: He didn't put this in the text, he thought to himself,

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Speaker 1: because I have a woman, not a girlfriend. He didn't

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Speaker 1: text that to the girl. Don't get confused, ladies. All

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Speaker 1: she said was do you have a girlfriend? He responded no,

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Speaker 1: because I have a woman, not a girlfriend. See he

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Speaker 1: didn't tell the girl, no, I don't have a girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: I have a woman. He just told the girl no.

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Speaker 1: Did he played it in his mind because I have

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Speaker 1: a woman, not a girlfriend. So you gotta understand how

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Speaker 1: dudes is? This statement made me wonder if the woman

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Speaker 1: was playing text game with me. I concluded, in my mind,

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Speaker 1: it couldn't be possible, because my woman is mature and

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Speaker 1: would not do this. Boy, was I wrong? Then she

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Speaker 1: asked if she could call me a six PM. I said, sure,

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Speaker 1: you can't. Okay, Dog, come on now, come on now,

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Speaker 1: call you a six o'clock for what what' if you're

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Speaker 1: just flirting? Calling that six to talk about what? All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much. You know we gotta get out

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Speaker 1: of here. Join me today live one thirty pm Eastern

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Speaker 1: Time for The Strawberry Letter Live after show on Facebook.

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Speaker 1: Thank you,