WEBVTT - Hot Topics and Holidays 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.760 --> 0:00:10.959 It is a hot topic holiday episode. I get excited 0:00:10.960 --> 0:00:15.960 for current events. This is I don't. I actually felt 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:18.240 that come over me when I read it. But you 0:00:18.239 --> 0:00:21.079 know why I don't love hot topics. I do know why. 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:23.160 But would you like to share that you can share? 0:00:23.239 --> 0:00:26.000 Why do you think I don't like hot episode? Swimming? 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:29.240 Last time? It went so swiftly? Last time? Did it 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:35.400 go so swiftly? Escalated swiftly? Oh? This is Tara Reid 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:40.000 filling in for Kristin bruston wind Down. Oh? But yeah, 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:44.080 I made this joke in front of two sweet twenty somethings. 0:00:44.360 --> 0:00:46.479 I like, who's Tara Reid? I go, you guys, is 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:49.120 this so Tara Reid's a good twenty or two thousand 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:52.000 and five or something? And they both like looked at me, 0:00:52.000 --> 0:00:53.559 and I was like, y'all have no idea who Tara 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:57.279 Reid is? Do you? And they were like no, did 0:00:57.320 --> 0:00:59.840 I tell you the time? Christine? I remember seeing her 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:03.040 to club one time, like we grew up with Tara Reid. Yeah, 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.800 she was like our girl. She was. Is she doing now? 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:09.440 I don't know. When I googled her, I found this 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:11.520 interview because I was trying to explain it to them. 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.880 It hurts me, so can you just let her it 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:16.040 does doesn't hurt, No, it doesn't hurt. This is actually 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:19.000 the best it sounded. And legend Brost is living for 0:01:19.040 --> 0:01:22.080 the fact that I don't have a voice. Really, Oh 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:24.679 he loves it. Why because I'm usually the one that's 0:01:24.680 --> 0:01:29.120 putting the like Escully did voice, got it okay? But 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:32.560 that it does knock? Yeah? Sorry. So I googled her 0:01:32.640 --> 0:01:34.840 to see what is Tara doing now? And all I 0:01:34.920 --> 0:01:38.839 found is this really sad, slurry interview that she did. 0:01:39.840 --> 0:01:42.000 I know, and it wasn't I don't feel like it 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:44.800 was that long ago. I don't know, but I was like, oh, Tara, 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:48.240 you know, Hollywood's hard, it is, I know, you know, 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.480 well not really like I don't know, like you know 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:57.640 more than I do. Sure, but yeah, well that's a bummer. Yeah, 0:01:57.640 --> 0:02:00.720 but we're happy to have you here. Yeah, we're missing 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:05.320 kitt KitKat Is. She is at the doctor's office right 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:08.040 now with her daughter because everyone and their daughter has 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:12.400 the flu. That's correct, So that's that's a bummer. Miss. 0:02:12.440 --> 0:02:14.200 We miss our little KitKat. But we are going to 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:18.120 have a hot topic, show chat about the holidays, anything 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:22.760 else that's going on. Why I don't like these usually 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:27.800 is because it can become a little click baity a 0:02:27.840 --> 0:02:32.000 little and that scares me because, you know what, one 0:02:32.080 --> 0:02:36.040 of the things that I've been that I've tried to well, 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:38.639 that I that I worked on this year was what 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:41.040 how do I say this? Was? And I kind of 0:02:41.040 --> 0:02:43.400 talked about this a little bit on one of my last episodes, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:47.600 was about opinions and having opinions and like what does 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.600 my opinion actually? Like? Why do I even have to 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:54.880 have an opinion? Correct? Right? So? And then what do 0:02:54.919 --> 0:02:57.480 I want my opinion to be? Like when I speak? 0:02:57.600 --> 0:03:01.679 Do I want it to be an opinionion? Like? What 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:05.720 level of because we all have an opinion, right, so 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.320 it's and when we share it, how do we want 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.160 it to come out? And so sometimes I think when 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.040 I have shared my opinion, it might not come out 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:16.040 the way that I would either a want it to 0:03:16.240 --> 0:03:18.920 or be. Why would I need to have that certain 0:03:19.000 --> 0:03:21.640 kind of opinion? Well, I also think it's worth noting 0:03:21.680 --> 0:03:24.000 that there is And I had to have a pleasant 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:27.280 discussion with one of your listeners at one point because 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:33.639 she our listeners. She wrote to me about me on accident, 0:03:34.280 --> 0:03:41.640 Oh Angela, oh no, and I had to remind her 0:03:41.760 --> 0:03:44.160 that there is a show flow, that there are things 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:47.200 that we are given as ideas of topics. Yes, that 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:50.600 what is the point of me actually being here if 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:55.080 I don't say anything? Ever? Right, it's a podcast, right, 0:03:55.520 --> 0:04:00.960 isn't it? You know? Yeah? So anyways, it's worthy admiring 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:04.240 if everyone agreed on it. So like I tell the girls, hey, like, 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:07.320 if you disagree, disagree, because no one wants to listen 0:04:07.400 --> 0:04:10.640 to something where everyone's like yes absolutely, yes, as sure 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:12.440 for sure, Like and if you don't agree with me, 0:04:12.480 --> 0:04:14.200 say you don't agree with me? Can I get Can 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:17.719 I let you guys in a secret behind morning show recipes? Yes? Okay, 0:04:17.800 --> 0:04:20.359 so this could not be true anymore. I don't know. 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:23.719 Radio is much evolved since I was nineteen. But back 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:26.200 in the day, there was this formula that they had 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:28.920 and it was a three person formula for morning shows 0:04:29.000 --> 0:04:32.839 and they called it the dough, the Richard for cleaning 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.400 it up, and the dude. So somebody had to be 0:04:35.400 --> 0:04:39.719 a go with the flow homie always a female and 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:44.880 always just like somebody that just was always combative about everything. Sure, 0:04:44.920 --> 0:04:47.440 but that's what makes it interesting. And over years of 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:49.960 radio they discover this little formula because that's how it 0:04:50.160 --> 0:04:54.200 that's what gets people intrigued, and you can usually identify 0:04:54.240 --> 0:04:56.360 with somebody and like kind of side with somebody. Yeah, 0:04:56.360 --> 0:04:58.320 because if everyone was me and you wouldn't like that 0:04:58.720 --> 0:05:00.680 listening to that either, Yeah, there has to be the 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:02.920 view would never be the view because if everybody had 0:05:02.920 --> 0:05:07.120 the same opinion, well doesn't show I haven't watched the view. 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:09.240 I don't think they're all kind of I don't know 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:12.960 I have it, but I think yeah, are supposed to 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:16.760 be that everyone's kind of like you know, right, Yeah, 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:20.040 So all of that to say in your defense, often 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:23.640 we are asked sometimes do you have an opinion about this? Right? 0:05:24.040 --> 0:05:26.400 And I think we learned a valuable lesson last time 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:29.080 that we just don't even have to have one right 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:32.360 or if you do, that's okay, it's it's it's just 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:36.279 how it how how it comes out to. Yeah, and 0:05:36.320 --> 0:05:38.880 the people could listen to the whole thing and get 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:42.800 some context. Sure that would have been helpful. Yeah, any 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:46.240 friends under the bus, but yeah, yeah, yeah, but why 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.839 As I'm reading this breakdown, the first headline and topic 0:05:48.880 --> 0:05:52.719 are you ready for it? I was like, wait what 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.960 and I gain I don't are you ready for it? 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:57.960 And I was like, is that a hint? I was like, 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:03.320 well done, No I I It says Jana Kramer's husband says. 0:06:03.600 --> 0:06:05.440 I'm like, oh my gosh, I did like what what 0:06:05.520 --> 0:06:09.279 did he say? I'm like, why is this on the rundown? 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:11.600 And I didn't know it got picked up? But of 0:06:11.600 --> 0:06:15.080 course it says he wouldn't allow her to do sex 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:19.680 scenes like on Yellowstone. Here's the article here, ladies, let's 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:22.599 have your take on this. And I'm like, oh gosh, 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:24.200 what is this? So I click on it and it 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:27.960 brings me to US Weekly. I was like, crap, you're 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:32.520 vacation home US Weekly and so I start reading the 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:36.279 comments and it's like girl, run red flags, like he 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:40.960 won't allow. So I just sent it to Alan and 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:46.160 I was like, oh boy, and he's like, oh, for 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:49.159 Fok's sake, He's like, I look crazy, you know, And 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:52.080 I'm like, well, let's actually have a conversation about it, 0:06:52.160 --> 0:06:55.240 because I I hear what you were saying on the show, 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:58.440 and I can empathy empathize that it would be difficult. 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:02.000 But when you say I would never allow her to 0:07:02.040 --> 0:07:03.800 do this. There was a little piece of me that 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:07.479 was like, is he serious? You know, yeah, if I 0:07:07.480 --> 0:07:11.640 got the role of like of a lifetime he would 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:16.600 he actually would he actually make me say no. And 0:07:16.640 --> 0:07:18.920 so for a split second that was a good topic 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.360 for us. Actually yeah, And for a split second that 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:26.040 episode made me kind of go wait, but like really, 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:29.400 like I know again this goes back to the whole 0:07:29.440 --> 0:07:32.280 podcasting thing of you know, it's fun to kind of 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:35.000 stir the pot a little bit, have fun, and this 0:07:35.080 --> 0:07:37.720 is you know, but the podcast it's it's supposed to 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:41.320 you know, stir pots a little bit this one and 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:45.600 so but then I afterwards it got me kind of thinking. 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:48.080 Then when I saw that article, I was like, all right, babe, 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:50.360 so what like what is it like? Do you really 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:52.280 mean that? Because I yeah, for a split second, I 0:07:52.360 --> 0:07:54.480 was like, oh wow, like maybe he actually means this 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:56.880 or or is he just putting it on for like 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:05.440 a little pot stirring. But what's the answer. He's both, no, 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:08.520 he said, I mean it would be something we would 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:10.880 need to discuss. He goes, I will never like it. 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:14.320 I will never like someone being able to smell your pheromones. 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:17.200 He's like those are mine. That's correct, Ellen and I 0:08:17.240 --> 0:08:18.600 have a lot in common. That's why I think this 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:21.880 is a good topic here. Yeah, he's like, those are mine, 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:24.040 you know, And to have someone that close to you, 0:08:24.720 --> 0:08:27.520 he goes, I am going to have a really hard 0:08:27.560 --> 0:08:31.120 time with that. Having said that, he's like, if it's 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:34.800 career changing and it's a big role, obviously I wouldn't 0:08:34.800 --> 0:08:36.640 say for you to turn it down. It would just 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:38.320 be hard for me. And I'm like, I totally get that. 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.679 I totally empathized that that would be really hard for you. 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:44.840 And if it is, I'm not just going to do 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:49.200 it for some crap movie or whatever. It would be 0:08:49.280 --> 0:08:54.400 for something that would be, you know, moving the needle 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:58.120 forward for my career if that role entailed it as 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:02.360 long as the needle it's for Alan. So what is tricky, 0:09:02.480 --> 0:09:04.600 I think is that Alan would be if you were 0:09:04.600 --> 0:09:10.080 doing a really great acting job, Alan would not like that. Well, 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:12.559 it is the only one that really knows what it 0:09:12.559 --> 0:09:14.600 would look like if you were doing an excellent job 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:16.800 at acting. Well. I remember one time in one of 0:09:16.840 --> 0:09:18.760 the movies, I can't remember which one, He's like, really, Babe, 0:09:18.800 --> 0:09:20.640 the hand behind the head, you know, because like when 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:24.680 you kiss someone I do like, I'm like, is this sting? Yeah? 0:09:24.960 --> 0:09:28.600 Like no, But I also don't want to like overthink 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.439 any there. But out of the day, he is the 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:36.240 most supportive husband ever I think, and I want to 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.160 just stick up for him a little bit because he's 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:42.439 not the red flag. He would never actually make me 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:45.040 say no. It would just be a discussion. I think 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.920 it should be a discussion. Yeah, I would stick up 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.160 for him a lot in this case because I have 0:09:50.240 --> 0:09:52.319 some I'm married to someone who is in an industry 0:09:52.320 --> 0:09:54.679 that could lend itself if it needed to. This is 0:09:54.720 --> 0:09:57.400 why we're a no with Dancing with the Stars. And 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:03.800 I told Cheryl Burke that, like I do. I think 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:10.319 it is when you know it's your person, you can say, 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:13.480 don't allow, wouldn't love it, wouldn't approve it, whatever word 0:10:13.559 --> 0:10:16.920 you want to use. But I don't know and hear 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:19.360 everyone this is where you guys get into my DMS 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:22.600 Kristin Dbruss because you're gonna say, I just don't know 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:27.560 anybody that feels super comfortable watching their partner do that 0:10:27.640 --> 0:10:30.640 with someone else ever, Like you want it to be 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:34.720 on like no one, Oh, okay, maybe not all, maybe 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:36.680 even have the couches. You're looking at me. No, it's 0:10:36.720 --> 0:10:40.200 because again I've dated actors who have done those kind 0:10:40.240 --> 0:10:43.880 of roles. I can't I cannot imagine. Is it the 0:10:43.920 --> 0:10:46.440 Detroit and me like, I'm literally like, let's we are 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:48.600 cutting like I don't know it. It's because you're not. 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:51.840 That's just not what you're used to, you know, like 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:54.559 when two actors date each other, that's just the norm. 0:10:55.360 --> 0:10:57.400 I would I literally would die, like I can feel 0:10:57.400 --> 0:11:00.720 my throat closing. Yeah, if it was if it was Alan, 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:03.559 you know, all of a sudden started acting, Yeah, I 0:11:03.559 --> 0:11:05.079 wouldn't like that because I'd be like, he's not used 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:07.319 to that, you know what I mean, Like, no, you're 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:09.320 not an actor, you know what I mean. But if 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:14.439 he did it before, then yeah, because that's I would do. Yeah. 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.400 But it's interesting too because I get people that are like, oh, 0:11:16.400 --> 0:11:18.160 I couldn't even be without my husband two in ter 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:19.679 night's a year, like how do you do that? And 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:21.840 I'm like, oh, I don't know any different, Sure, so 0:11:21.880 --> 0:11:26.480 I guess it's a long I can do that. Well, Well, 0:11:26.520 --> 0:11:29.079 anyone can do anything, that's right, That's what I'm saying. 0:11:29.440 --> 0:11:32.040 I though, could not watch my husband do anything with 0:11:32.080 --> 0:11:34.960 anybody else. No, but again I think it's different because 0:11:35.240 --> 0:11:38.800 you guys aren't actors, That's right, and so that's that's 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:40.480 the thing that will always be I think the hardest 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:42.760 thing because it is a craft. I want to defend that. 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:45.240 I know, acting is like an actual craft in talent. 0:11:45.320 --> 0:11:46.840 So this isn't like I think people are just like, 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:49.439 it's not like we're doing pornos, right, I like a 0:11:49.520 --> 0:11:51.520 lot of things get really close now well yeah, I 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:53.400 mean they like we talked about the last episode it 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:56.160 which was like things, you know, they're really stretching boundaries 0:11:56.360 --> 0:12:00.560 with how intimate scenes are and what you know they're 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:02.559 doing on TV and the streamers and all that. So 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.720 I like, I get it. Having said that, it is 0:12:06.480 --> 0:12:09.320 a part of my job if the role entails it, yeah, 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:12.560 those scenes, yeah we would just say hey yeah. But 0:12:12.760 --> 0:12:17.360 to defend my husband, I think he he's like the 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:22.760 allow word was tough. Come on, everybody a Scottish the 0:12:22.840 --> 0:12:25.640 love of God, Like, Alan is such a good dude. 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:29.240 He also very supportive and he is supportive. He's also 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.120 protective of you, which I like in that way because 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:36.360 I feel like this I always feel like nervous to misspeak, 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.480 but like, I feel like in my experience, in my 0:12:38.559 --> 0:12:40.480 ten years with you, I have not seen anyone be 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:43.439 this protective of you in such good ways. Yeah, and 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:47.040 I love that about him. He's that's the difference for me. 0:12:47.080 --> 0:12:49.800 When I met Alan, I was like, ooh, my favorite 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:52.240 part of Alan is I knew what he was going 0:12:52.320 --> 0:12:56.840 to establish some boundaries that were probably like you and 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.880 I have talked about this off air. Sometimes I forget 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:02.960 recording and then I get nervous. Let me just rewind myself. 0:13:03.240 --> 0:13:05.560 But like I needed someone like pressing to come in 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:08.760 and be like, that's actually not acceptable, and so I 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:11.280 kind of like, and it's true, Like, if you're talking 0:13:11.280 --> 0:13:13.320 about the true covenant of marriage, there's a lot of 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:17.760 things that need to be discussed and protected, and I 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.319 feel like Alan does a really good job of those things. Yeah, 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:24.520 and one thousand percent. And because the level and because 0:13:24.559 --> 0:13:27.680 there's actually respect in this marriage. Yes, the things that 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:30.760 I would do in the past when I wasn't with 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:34.000 Alan on set, even married, I mean I was way flirty, 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:38.320 inappropriate being married, but there was zero respect. I wanted 0:13:38.360 --> 0:13:40.400 to be out of my marriage right, you know, but 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:42.280 still so inappropriate, And you would have said yes to 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:45.160 the roles without even discussing with him, there would be no, like, 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:49.439 zero discussion there was. I mean, I was I didn't 0:13:49.480 --> 0:13:54.480 have good boundaries because I was just the marriage. There 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:56.920 was zero respect and I was so disrespected for so 0:13:57.040 --> 0:13:58.880 long that I was like, I need to respect you. 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:02.480 You didn't respect me, right, you know? But you know 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:05.720 now it's like, oh my gosh, Like thinking even even 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.280 if I was, and I don't think I was meaning 0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:10.480 to be flirty, but thinking back, I'm like, I would 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.520 never be like instagramming all the time with another dude 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:16.360 on set, like, and I haven't since I've been because 0:14:16.360 --> 0:14:20.040 I'm like, that's not respectful, right, that's the difference. Yeah, 0:14:20.120 --> 0:14:22.040 So I think I've So I think Alan. I like 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:24.200 that Alan just spoke what he wanted to say. He's 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:29.760 also he's a football soccer player. He's not made from 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:32.640 like he wasn't media trained to be picking his words specifically. 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.320 And I want to remind everyone he's Scottish. Okay, Yeah, 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:51.640 so leave Allan alone. Next hot topic, Taylor Swift gave 0:14:51.680 --> 0:14:54.760 a whopping one hundred and ninety seven million in bonuses 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:57.400 to eras to her performer's crew on Top of their salaries. 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:01.400 The typical amount is five to ten in each. She 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:04.000 gave each of her heirs to her truck drivers one 0:15:04.040 --> 0:15:07.240 hundred thousand bonuses a handwritten note. I there's one thing 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:08.840 that I got to say. Did you end up going 0:15:08.840 --> 0:15:11.560 to a show? I didn't, so I really wanted to 0:15:11.680 --> 0:15:15.640 because it's, you know, from all the things that I 0:15:15.680 --> 0:15:18.840 saw and the you know, people going to see it 0:15:18.880 --> 0:15:22.560 on Instagram, you know, posting their stories. I did watch 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:26.200 the movie, but I yeah, I would have loved to 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:30.080 have gone. The tickets were just too expensive. But I mean, 0:15:30.240 --> 0:15:32.840 one thing that I just have always loved is the 0:15:33.400 --> 0:15:36.040 how she goes out of her way for writing the notes. 0:15:36.760 --> 0:15:39.840 She's so crazy busy and doing all the things, but 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:42.520 she goes above and beyond for things like that. And then, 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:46.560 I mean, those bonuses change people's lives in what she does. 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:51.480 So I think it's it's incredible that she gives back 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:54.320 the way that she does, because she's obviously made I 0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:56.160 don't know how much that tour made, but it made 0:15:56.200 --> 0:15:58.520 a lot, and so the fact that she knows that 0:15:58.960 --> 0:16:01.240 it wouldn't go on without these other people, so how 0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:03.400 she pays them back is beautiful. I mean I think 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:06.040 that's like so respectful. And you know, she's making homemade 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:09.280 pop tarts. Have you seen this? No, she makes homemade 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:13.080 pop tarts for like the other players on the Chiefs 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:16.680 and stuff. And I'm like, I can't even shampoo. She 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.120 just did, like I'm not finding time to wash my 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:21.800 hair and she's making homemade pop tarts and on stage 0:16:21.800 --> 0:16:24.000 for three hours. Like It's why I'm about to cancel 0:16:24.320 --> 0:16:27.720 my invite to the to the Queendom Christmas party thing 0:16:27.760 --> 0:16:30.320 because everyone was talking about like bring a checruder on 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:33.120 a board. I was like, Pam, I love you, but 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:35.480 I don't, like, can I just go to Whole Foods 0:16:35.480 --> 0:16:36.960 and get like some cookies and throw them on a 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:39.240 plate like I'm like and be Yet she's making handmade 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:41.560 pop tarts. So now I just feel even worse about myself. 0:16:42.840 --> 0:16:46.320 It's really this is a crazy season anyways, I feel like, 0:16:46.480 --> 0:16:48.120 but I think we just have to do what we 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:51.240 can do within our means and boundaries, right, Yeah, but 0:16:51.320 --> 0:16:54.320 Taylor is more than generous, which I also wonder you know, 0:16:54.440 --> 0:16:56.280 like you and I really always believe in like the 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:58.960 more you give, the more you get cheerful giver. That's 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:02.240 biblical but I also like wonder if that is why 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:05.120 she's so wildly successful, because she's always kept herself grounded 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:08.840 and gracious and gives back so much. I feel like, 0:17:09.560 --> 0:17:11.400 you know, what goes around comes round. I mean, we're 0:17:11.440 --> 0:17:15.040 like literally living in history watching Taylor Swift. It's wild 0:17:15.160 --> 0:17:16.960 to think. I wonder. I'm like, who's going to be 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:20.760 the next generation for our kids? You know, like who 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:23.280 would are they even born yet? I don't know? Isn't 0:17:23.280 --> 0:17:26.400 that wild? Yeah? Are they in somebody's belly right now? 0:17:26.520 --> 0:17:29.120 That's what would be the next I mean, because who 0:17:29.119 --> 0:17:32.520 would Taylor Swift be for our era? Britney? Yeah, I 0:17:32.600 --> 0:17:37.320 was thinking Brittany or Whitney. Yeah, Whitney. Wow. Yeah, I 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:39.320 don't know. I mean I guess so. But even then, 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:41.680 but even then it wasn't to that scale. No, I mean, 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:46.720 this is of another proportion. Yeah, it's crazy the amount 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:48.480 of semi trucks. I mean just even the amount of 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:52.680 like lights and staging, and it's it is literally history. 0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:56.000 Love would Love is a very big swiftye and so 0:17:56.240 --> 0:17:58.439 it is her goal to be out on that Eras 0:17:58.440 --> 0:18:01.600 tour somehow, and I just couldn't do it. It's I 0:18:01.640 --> 0:18:04.080 felt like even to get tickets was so crazy, even 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:07.399 if you could afford them, to get them, the actual 0:18:07.480 --> 0:18:10.800 like process of attaining them, it's kind of crazy. You 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:16.280 can now buy a car on Amazon? What? What is happening? 0:18:17.160 --> 0:18:20.040 What is happening? I can't wait. It's moments like this 0:18:20.080 --> 0:18:22.240 where we talk about stuff that I go ten years 0:18:22.240 --> 0:18:26.000 from now. You can now buy a Hyunday. You know how? 0:18:26.040 --> 0:18:29.520 I know how to say Hyundai, not high Unday because 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:33.720 it's Hyundai like Sunday. Oh, I never knew on Amazon. 0:18:33.960 --> 0:18:37.719 That's interesting. Starting today, Amazon car shoppers in forty eight 0:18:37.800 --> 0:18:44.439 cities New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, Wow, and buy a Hyundai. Interesting? 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:49.240 Would you do that? No? Would you? I don't know. 0:18:50.200 --> 0:18:52.359 I wouldn't buy a Hundai. That's no offense to anyone. 0:18:52.400 --> 0:18:57.480 But I'm a I'm a Ford chick. So but I 0:18:57.480 --> 0:19:00.119 if I could buy a Forward on Amazon, I don't know. 0:19:00.240 --> 0:19:02.119 I mean, listen if I'm bawling out of control and 0:19:02.160 --> 0:19:05.360 I can just like add to cart I don't know. 0:19:06.000 --> 0:19:10.359 There's something about I still am. I think I'm just 0:19:10.400 --> 0:19:12.680 getting old. Yeah, but like I'm just such an old 0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:16.439 school show. I love a testimonial, I love face to face. 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:18.240 I want to know that I can trust the guy 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:20.240 that sold it to me or the woman that's helping 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:22.800 me pick it out, or like trust a sales I 0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:25.879 don't know. I did find one that I feel like 0:19:26.480 --> 0:19:29.520 one recently because I'm car shopping at the moment. What 0:19:29.520 --> 0:19:32.560 do you want to get? I just want to get 0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:34.840 out of my jeep? Do you want a third row? No? 0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:37.320 I have a third row? Oh yeah? And I don't 0:19:37.359 --> 0:19:41.560 like it? Is it too tiny? Everything's too tiny except 0:19:41.600 --> 0:19:48.840 for what a Stottish man you marriage? Yeah? I feel 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:50.760 that way. You know, it's wild. We got an expedition 0:19:50.880 --> 0:19:53.560 and I thought for sure that's gonna be way big enough. 0:19:53.600 --> 0:19:55.840 Like Preston and I are very small people like we 0:19:55.880 --> 0:19:58.200 are Teacup Yorkis and so like everybody we make is 0:19:58.240 --> 0:20:00.560 pretty tiny. So far too, and I'm like, why does 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:02.679 everybody need these huge vehicles? And then I get an 0:20:02.680 --> 0:20:05.520 expedition which is huge and I love it, but they're 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:09.280 still not in the strong space never so now what 0:20:09.680 --> 0:20:13.240 I have to get? The big expo? Long? You're basically 0:20:13.359 --> 0:20:16.719 driving a boat. It is about and it's still not 0:20:17.000 --> 0:20:18.919 like I don't know what to do with that. So 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:22.680 does the perfect vehicle exist? That's my question. People love 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:24.960 their minivans, and I know they do, but it's not 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:28.240 high en, up, high and up enough for me. Yeah. No, 0:20:28.280 --> 0:20:30.160 I agree with you and that I like to feel 0:20:30.160 --> 0:20:32.360 a little bit higher up. Though the built in vacuum 0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:34.679 did have me clicking around for a minute. If you 0:20:34.720 --> 0:20:50.639 know my personality, can we do a Christmas check in 0:20:50.720 --> 0:20:56.080 really fast? How are you feeling about the holidays? Your 0:20:56.119 --> 0:20:59.760 husband will be back from traveling, You'll have some more 0:20:59.760 --> 0:21:02.000 time with him. Have you figured out the holiday plans? 0:21:02.480 --> 0:21:04.720 What are you looking forward to? What are you stressed about? 0:21:05.280 --> 0:21:08.679 I am trying to decide how much I'd like to share. Well, 0:21:08.720 --> 0:21:10.480 because the other day I set you a good song. 0:21:10.520 --> 0:21:11.840 I'm like, if you want a good cry, I just 0:21:12.240 --> 0:21:15.000 it's like I had, And you're like, we're scheduling a cry, 0:21:15.440 --> 0:21:21.120 schedule a cry for this afternoon. I would say I 0:21:21.160 --> 0:21:27.400 adore Christmas season so much like Christmas and Easter are 0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:29.800 so special to me. I think the air is different. 0:21:29.920 --> 0:21:33.920 I think there's something really cool that comes over us 0:21:35.320 --> 0:21:38.600 and I feel this pull and I feel like a 0:21:38.640 --> 0:21:42.200 lot of it is not about this, It's not Jesus 0:21:42.320 --> 0:21:44.080 is the reason for the season. Kind of feel and 0:21:44.119 --> 0:21:49.680 that's where I get. I gets I get resentful of 0:21:49.720 --> 0:21:52.440 the disconnection that it's trying to do. Like I feel 0:21:52.440 --> 0:21:55.119