WEBVTT - Separation Anxiety with Larsa Pippen

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, everybody. Welcome to the latest episode of Amy

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<v Speaker 1>and TJ. I'm sitting next to my riding partner, Andy Robot,

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<v Speaker 1>who is wearing the dopest riding boots you have ever seen.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I could show them to y'all. It is

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<v Speaker 1>just amazing. So I am not kidding. You think I'm joking.

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<v Speaker 1>You're rocking it. Today's uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>This is funny because this morning when I put the

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<v Speaker 2>boots on. Please tell our listeners what you said to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, everybody would have had the same reaction if you

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<v Speaker 1>saw the boots come on in Manhattan at noon. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what'd you say? I said, I didn't know we were

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<v Speaker 1>riding horses up to the studio.

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<v Speaker 2>But I laughed. I laughed. I think I might have

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<v Speaker 2>said touche.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's a look, right, they are awesome. Maybe no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not a joke. You look great today.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very simplest get up. You know, those are my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite jeans that you wear.

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<v Speaker 2>I do know that. Yes, I put them on when

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<v Speaker 2>I need to. You know what, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like maybe your mood could be lifted up a little.

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<v Speaker 2>I put these jeanes on. Did you know I did that?

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<v Speaker 1>It worked?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you did. Your mood, you're it completely lifted up.

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<v Speaker 1>You just you were dragging me a little bit this

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<v Speaker 1>morn I was, and I was because there's been so

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<v Speaker 1>much March madness. I think I've talked about this plenty,

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<v Speaker 1>but when the NCAA tournament starts, my every day is

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<v Speaker 1>starting from noon to midnight. I am sitting in front

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<v Speaker 1>of two three four screens watching every single game that's on.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've been doing that for the past several days.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm dragging a little bit because the games have

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<v Speaker 1>been great.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, and I do want to give you props here.

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<v Speaker 2>I think we've seen almost every single game together, except

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<v Speaker 2>for the last game last night, which apparently it was

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<v Speaker 2>a shame that I missed because it was so good overtime.

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<v Speaker 2>But you did take out I just want to say,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you. You did take out four hours of prime

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<v Speaker 2>March madness viewing on Saturday to go to my seventeen

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<v Speaker 2>year old daughter's school fundraiser. Isn't that where everybody wants

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<v Speaker 2>to be on a Saturday afternoon with basketball playing?

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you, Uh, don't thank me. I told you

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<v Speaker 1>even if Arkansas was playing in the tournament, my alma

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<v Speaker 1>mater I would have gladly gone to Analysea's fundraiser and

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<v Speaker 1>be there and support. On the other hand, it turns

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<v Speaker 1>out this was more entertaining than the NCAA. Yes, we

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<v Speaker 1>had some BLUs.

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<v Speaker 2>We always find a way to have fun, even at fundraisers.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an absolutely great time. But that's what we've

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<v Speaker 1>been up to. And look, my mood has changed. And

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<v Speaker 1>I am on this podcast often. We have had people

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<v Speaker 1>on and it turns into a therapy session. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>mean for it too, but it turns into not just

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<v Speaker 1>the therapy for us, but therapy for the listener oftentimes

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<v Speaker 1>and a group therapy session for us all Doctor Gardier,

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<v Speaker 1>America psychologist Jeff Gardier was on and that was a great,

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<v Speaker 1>great episode.

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<v Speaker 2>We didn't even mean for it to be therapy. It

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<v Speaker 2>turned into therapy.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't know how much help we needed, but apparently

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<v Speaker 1>he helped a lot of people in that respect. We

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<v Speaker 1>had Maddie with Jacamo, the Peloton instructor, very popular. We

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<v Speaker 1>had a great chat with him about a lot he's

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<v Speaker 1>been going through. And we had also Gavin Fastl.

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<v Speaker 2>He was amazing and it was what I think is

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<v Speaker 2>so cool when you can have people on and it

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<v Speaker 2>unexpectedly becomes some incredible learning, growing experience where you learn

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<v Speaker 2>things you didn't know. I think we're all so quick to,

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<v Speaker 2>especially if someone's famous or has made headlines of some sort,

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<v Speaker 2>to think the worst or to think of them through

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<v Speaker 2>the lens of the worst thing we heard they did.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's so nice when you get to actually sit

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<v Speaker 2>down and talk with people and learn where they're coming from,

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<v Speaker 2>what they've been through, and what they learned from those experiences,

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<v Speaker 2>and then that you get something out of it. And

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<v Speaker 2>I've just really enjoyed being able to do that with

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<v Speaker 2>so many of our guests.

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<v Speaker 1>And we're able to do it again today and this

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<v Speaker 1>has helped my mood as well, because I am always

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<v Speaker 1>right if I described you. So we just had a

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<v Speaker 1>little chat in the green room with our guests today

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<v Speaker 1>and we got to talking about kids in life and

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and you're able to connect with folks. So when

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<v Speaker 1>I hear someone who had a twenty four year marriage

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<v Speaker 1>right ended up divorced, but had a twenty four year

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<v Speaker 1>marriage and has four amazing kids who are doing amazing things, right,

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<v Speaker 1>she's an entrepreneur. She is a television star. To hear

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<v Speaker 1>the story of the life, I am dying to get

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<v Speaker 1>information from somebody who is who has that type of resume. However,

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<v Speaker 1>for everybody else out there, possibly who is not exposed

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<v Speaker 1>to our guests the way we have now been, they

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<v Speaker 1>only see her as a headline.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>They only see her as a controverse. They only see

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<v Speaker 1>her possibly as something scandalous.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, Well, we are talking about the amazing Larsa Pippen,

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<v Speaker 2>who is here in studio with us. iHeart studios. First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, think it is so nice to meet you

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<v Speaker 2>in person. Hi. Hey, she's a bit round of applause.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's true, you know, your most important I'm sure

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<v Speaker 2>the the proudest job you have is being a mom

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<v Speaker 2>to your four children, and one of whom is here,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, in the studio with us. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>happy to have Sofia with us.

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<v Speaker 3>Sophia's with us. She's on spring break. So we're here

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<v Speaker 3>to shop and hang out in New York.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and that's what moms and daughters should be doing

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<v Speaker 2>on those fun trips. But you're also here working as well,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's what you've been doing you've been an entrepreneur.

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<v Speaker 2>I actually was looking at your jewelry line really like

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<v Speaker 2>some of your stuff. I might have to go back

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<v Speaker 2>in there a little bit later. I actually like, Wow, I

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<v Speaker 2>like this stuff. It's really beautiful and elegant. But you

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<v Speaker 2>know that you have been in the headlines and some

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<v Speaker 2>of it you put yourself out there. You are a

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<v Speaker 2>big franchise. You might have heard of it, The Real

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<v Speaker 2>Housewives of Miami. Larsa is the star of the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's just be honest, and that often comes sometimes with

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<v Speaker 2>some nagging headlines. But I want to see if we

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<v Speaker 2>can get a headline out of you because we have

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<v Speaker 2>been reading about season seven. It's been renewed, but the

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<v Speaker 2>cast has not been named. Is there anything you can

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<v Speaker 2>tell us about it?

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, I don't know. I feel like you know, with

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<v Speaker 3>these brands chizes, every few years, I like to switch

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<v Speaker 3>it up and add someone new. So I guess they're

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<v Speaker 3>just going to probably replace.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone someone someone, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I don't think it'll be me though. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think me. I mean I hope not.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard from them.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yes, of course, I talked to the product

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<v Speaker 3>I love our production company. I have a great relationship

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<v Speaker 3>with them. I love Bravo, I love Andy Cohen. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like for me it's like family. If I've ever

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<v Speaker 3>had a problem, I reach out to them and they

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<v Speaker 3>always They're always there for me. So I've never had

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<v Speaker 3>any complaints about the network or you know, my bosses.

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<v Speaker 1>As we sit here, you do or don't know whether

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<v Speaker 1>or not you'll be in the next season of Real

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<v Speaker 1>Housewives of Miami.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm pretty sure I would be back.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what would the show be without you?

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<v Speaker 3>Probably nothing. I mean, you know, you guys, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what it is. You guys, Like I feel like if

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<v Speaker 3>we don't talk about certain things and people don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to watch, and if it's just super flatline, then it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>who wants to watch that? So I think sometimes you

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<v Speaker 3>have to shake things up and cause a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of stir.

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<v Speaker 1>And and you're happy to do so.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know, it's all in good fun, you guys,

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<v Speaker 3>It's all in good fun. I feel like the girls,

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<v Speaker 3>we all know what the show is, you know, and

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<v Speaker 3>when you spend a lot of time with these strong

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<v Speaker 3>independent women, you're gonna butt heads. So but I think

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<v Speaker 3>at the end of the day, we always make peace.

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<v Speaker 3>We're always fine. And you know, when you're on television,

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<v Speaker 3>small things get magnified.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm curious because I have watched and I think

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<v Speaker 2>to myself, I don't have that in me. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>imagine even if it is, yes, you're doing it to camera,

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<v Speaker 2>Yes you understand what your role is. That people are

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<v Speaker 2>looking maybe even to you, so that their lives don't

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<v Speaker 2>seem so awful. Oh, at least I don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with that toxic situation. But are you ever at

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<v Speaker 2>a point where like I just can't be in this

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<v Speaker 2>environment or do you enjoy it? Do you get a

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<v Speaker 2>thrill out of it? No?

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<v Speaker 3>I you know, I feel like I have a whole

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<v Speaker 3>nother life outside the show. So I think when I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in the like Housewives vibe, I feel like I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>focused on that, and when I go home, I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>focused on my businesses, my kids. You know, my kids

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<v Speaker 3>take up a lot of my time. I have four

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<v Speaker 3>kids that plays for the Memphis Grizzlies. I have my

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<v Speaker 3>other son who's a junior in college at LMU. I

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<v Speaker 3>have my son who's a senior that's being recruited to

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<v Speaker 3>like nine schools. Like No, I really wanted him to

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<v Speaker 3>go to like an Ivy League school, like I wanted

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<v Speaker 3>him to go to Stanford. He has a scholarship to Stanford,

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<v Speaker 3>but he really wants to play basketball, and so I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like he's he's looking at other schools as well.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I have Sophia, who's my little twin and

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<v Speaker 3>my little mini me. So I feel like that to me,

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<v Speaker 3>I think, if you have a life that's totally fulfilled

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<v Speaker 3>at home, and then it's okay. I don't just live

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<v Speaker 3>for housewives. It's not my goal in life, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's fun for me, and when it

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<v Speaker 3>stops being fun, I'll do something else.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's technically unscripted, but is it scripted to

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<v Speaker 2>an extent? Are you acting a little bit when you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing this? When you're playing No No, and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>you unfiltered it.

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<v Speaker 3>You know? I think, like I said, if you're with

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I have a sister, So I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>when my sister comes to stay with us, we fight.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just normal when you're with another woman all the time,

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna have disagreements. Like it's just normal. It's just

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<v Speaker 3>magnified sometimes because you know, we're hungry. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>We've been in the same room for a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>We're hungry.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, why why is it you think you're dehumanized? We

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<v Speaker 1>always feel that way, that you become fodder. It's easier

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<v Speaker 1>to make fun of or talk about someone, or talk

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<v Speaker 1>trash about someone when they're not talking about you as

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<v Speaker 1>what you just said. Your mom your mother to four

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<v Speaker 1>pretty wonderful, accomplished kids. But that's rarely the headline that

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<v Speaker 1>I see.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I think it's because my kids don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>be in the public eye. You know, my kids are

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<v Speaker 3>very private. I think they're more like their dad. Their

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<v Speaker 3>dad is very private in his life. And I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I signed up to do the show, and I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to ask my kids like, do you guys

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<v Speaker 3>really I don't put pressure on them. If they want

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<v Speaker 3>to shoot, you know, the show with me, then it's

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<v Speaker 3>like great. But if you don't. I feel like they're

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<v Speaker 3>thriving in what they do and I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>mix it two if they don't want it. I kind

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<v Speaker 3>of let them make their own decisions. And I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like from the time they were like sixteen, all of

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<v Speaker 3>my decisions have always been based like on our mutual, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we agree on every decision I've ever made.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think a lot of people don't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>They probably think, like, oh, she's doing all this, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>all these things. Their kids are probably so upset, And

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, no, my kids are there because we talk

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<v Speaker 3>about everything, and we discuss every small thing and we

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<v Speaker 3>come up with the answer together. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>when you raise good solid kids, by the time they're

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<v Speaker 3>sixteen eighteen, like they are built pretty solid. And I

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<v Speaker 3>trust her judgment, so I kind of go with that.

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<v Speaker 1>We were talking about this a short time ago. Somebody

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<v Speaker 1>else in Hollywood's in Hollywood and headlines a lot. When

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<v Speaker 1>I was having an interview, I was started talking to

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<v Speaker 1>her about all her accolades and how people viewer and

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<v Speaker 1>the first she almost got on to me like like,

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't mention that I'm a mom. You didn't mention

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<v Speaker 1>like that's the thing she wanted to be known for.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it do you think people think of you

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<v Speaker 1>when they first when I say Lars of Pippen, And

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<v Speaker 1>what's the first thing you think comes out of their

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<v Speaker 1>or to their mind?

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<v Speaker 3>But I kind of feel like it's the people that

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<v Speaker 3>the guys that I've been linked to it's probably the

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<v Speaker 3>number one thing my personal life. But for me, honestly,

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<v Speaker 3>like I have, like I'm so fulfilled with my family,

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<v Speaker 3>with my businesses that like, I'm not consumed with men

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<v Speaker 3>that I've never been boy crazy my entire life, and

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<v Speaker 3>so literally when I date someone, I don't take it

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<v Speaker 3>so like you know, this is the guy for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, hey, we're having fun as long as, like

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<v Speaker 3>you know, I'm making you do while you're making me

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<v Speaker 3>do well, as far as our businesses and our stuff

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<v Speaker 3>and our growth, that it's great. And if it's not,

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<v Speaker 3>it's okay because I have a whole I have so

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<v Speaker 3>much love at home that I don't necessarily need to

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<v Speaker 3>be with someone that like consumes my entire heart.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious you mentioned you have discussed everything with your

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<v Speaker 2>kids before, because it is a very public thing that

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<v Speaker 2>you do. And in terms of co parenting with your ex,

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<v Speaker 2>had there ever been a moment, Has there ever been

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<v Speaker 2>a moment where like, please don't do this or we

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<v Speaker 2>don't want you to do this. Has there ever been

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<v Speaker 2>a disagreement about your choices or how you want to

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<v Speaker 2>live your life?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what, Honestly, my ex is great. He is

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<v Speaker 3>a great guy. He co parents, you know, we co

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<v Speaker 3>parent amazing together. Not really, we don't really discuss us

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<v Speaker 3>our personal lives. I feel like the decisions we make

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<v Speaker 3>are based on our kids, like where Justin wants to

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<v Speaker 3>go to college, or like who's you know, if he's

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<v Speaker 3>going to go look at the school with him, or

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to go. It's not necessarily based on our

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<v Speaker 3>you know, the people that we date.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you want him to go to school? Again?

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<v Speaker 1>You want him to go you want to do Stanford?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, he's really My kids are really academic and

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<v Speaker 3>they're really smart. They all play the piano, they all

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<v Speaker 3>speak multiple languages. You know, my kids were in the

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<v Speaker 3>chess club when they were like four years old. So, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I want him to go to Stanford because I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like he would thrive there. But he wants to go

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<v Speaker 3>to like a really good basketball program.

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<v Speaker 2>So I feel like he's just trying to get you

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<v Speaker 2>to narrow down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm from the University of Archite rank.

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<v Speaker 2>The colleges that he'd like to go to.

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<v Speaker 1>If he wants to go to Arkansas, we're known as

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<v Speaker 1>the Harvard of the South.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got to an Arkansas game by the way.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, Oh wow, how is that experience?

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<v Speaker 3>I've actually gone with with Tyson Chicken guy. Oh, I've

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<v Speaker 3>gone with what's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>We know?

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<v Speaker 3>So John used to invite us to Arkansas when I

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<v Speaker 3>was with my ex. Every summer we would.

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<v Speaker 1>Go and spid like a week with him. Oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you've just spent some time.

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<v Speaker 2>We have a mutual.

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<v Speaker 1>With him.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a tough couple of days here. You have

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<v Speaker 2>announced that you have split from your boyfriend, and you

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<v Speaker 2>had a podcast with him, and uh, I just want

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<v Speaker 2>to give you the opportunity to to just set the

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<v Speaker 2>record trait. I know there's always speculation, people always point

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<v Speaker 2>to this or that, but this has been probably a

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<v Speaker 2>pretty tough couple of days for you. How have you

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<v Speaker 2>Or maybe it hasn't. Maybe I'm putting words in your mouth.

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<v Speaker 2>How have you been? You know?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I just I just finished, I just

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<v Speaker 3>wrapped shooting the show, and I spent time away from

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<v Speaker 3>him and everyone else. I was there for like two weeks,

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<v Speaker 3>and it just kind of gave me clarity when I

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<v Speaker 3>was alone. And I think when you're alone, you kind

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<v Speaker 3>of really either miss the person or realize maybe you're

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<v Speaker 3>not my guy. And I feel like that made me

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<v Speaker 3>realize that I don't think he's my guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Marcus Jordan is who we're talking about. Everyone. If you

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<v Speaker 2>google your name and his name, the age gap comes

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<v Speaker 2>up the sixteen years. Did that play a role in

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<v Speaker 2>any of the relationship issues.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, I don't think so. I just think we're

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<v Speaker 3>just on a different journey, you know, And I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I have to be true to who I am,

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm doing, and what he's doing.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I want him to be happy. He's a great guy,

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<v Speaker 3>but I just don't feel like it's from me.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that sometimes doesn't have to have.

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<v Speaker 3>A different Why do I dated guys are way older

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<v Speaker 3>than me that we're way more immature than him. So

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if it's I don't think it's the age.

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<v Speaker 3>I just think it's where we are right now, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And where you are right now relationship status. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a single woman we're talking to. Is that right?

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<v Speaker 3>Single? Ready to mingle?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just kidding.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, are you not ready to mingle?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you know, not right now, but I think

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<v Speaker 3>I you know soon probably what.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what we don't like? She just mentioned your

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<v Speaker 1>Google and the names and this and that pop up.

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<v Speaker 1>But we all been through breakups before, and they don't

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<v Speaker 1>feel good. It's how are you? How is your heart

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<v Speaker 1>these days? A breakup is difficult with somebody you love

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<v Speaker 1>the way that you profess to love this man, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like spending time away from him made it easier.

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<v Speaker 3>And I feel like when I was stuck doing this

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<v Speaker 3>other show, it kind of made me like just be alone.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think it's hard sometimes to break up because

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<v Speaker 3>you're so used to living with the person. We had

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<v Speaker 3>our podcast together, we worked together. I had them on Housewives,

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<v Speaker 3>and that was hard because we were used to being

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<v Speaker 3>together all the time. And when I went and shot

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<v Speaker 3>this other show, I just realized that, you know, Larsa,

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<v Speaker 3>You're okay, Like you're fine.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so interesting because the name of your podcast was

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<v Speaker 2>Separation Anxiety. Yeah, and when you finally did separate just

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<v Speaker 2>for work reasons, you realize you weren't that anxious.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. No, I'm good. I'm like, no, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 2>Teacher just took a big sip of water and it

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<v Speaker 2>almost came out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 2>Eve.

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<v Speaker 1>He goes to the bathroom, but she might forget about me.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I just feel like you guys, I just really

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<v Speaker 3>feel like for me, my number one priority is like

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<v Speaker 3>my kids, my businesses, you know, my show, and being

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<v Speaker 3>with someone that I can grow with. And if I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not growing with you, like we kind of have to

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<v Speaker 3>be at the same place in order to grow together,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, so I feel like that that's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>what I want.

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<v Speaker 1>Does this is what's all? This following and unfollowing? We've

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<v Speaker 1>been subject to this as well, but every little thing

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<v Speaker 1>you do on social media is now dissected, but the

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<v Speaker 1>following and the unfollowing of each other? Where are you

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<v Speaker 1>on that? I guess what's you all? Not your status?

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<v Speaker 1>But how are you all now? Or you can touch

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<v Speaker 1>every day? Or have you completely closed that door? What

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<v Speaker 1>happens when you do get back in the same area neighborhood,

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<v Speaker 1>city and you have a chance to see each other

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<v Speaker 1>and you don't have that distance you talked about that

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<v Speaker 1>helped get clarity.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, you know, we're friends. We were friends

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<v Speaker 3>for three years before we started dating, and I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like we're gonna be friends eventually, but right now, I

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<v Speaker 3>just feel like it's you know, we're cool.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was interesting too. We saw that you all

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<v Speaker 2>had met in twenty nineteen. But obviously anyone can can

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<v Speaker 2>figure it out if they haven't already. Marcus is the

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<v Speaker 2>son of Michael Jordan, and of course your ex husband

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<v Speaker 2>Scotty Pippen and Michael Jordan played together. But you your

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<v Speaker 2>world's never crossed before then. That was interesting to me

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<v Speaker 2>because it would seem like you all would have somehow

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<v Speaker 2>met or known. I mean, no, you knew of each

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<v Speaker 2>other but had never met before.

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<v Speaker 3>When I met my ex, I was a senior in college,

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<v Speaker 3>and so they only played together for the last year.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what we were together, was the very last year, and

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<v Speaker 3>so I never met his mom. I never met the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I was in college. I was twenty one

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<v Speaker 3>years old. And so the following year, Scottie signed to

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<v Speaker 3>Houston and we moved to Houston. And they weren't I

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<v Speaker 3>think people want to pretend they were best friends. They

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<v Speaker 3>were not friends. They were not best friends.

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<v Speaker 1>They were not It was never that were you disappointed

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, of course your X so well, But

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you didn't even watch the Last Dance that documentary.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get a chance to see that on Netflix?

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<v Speaker 1>That was about the whole the last. Yeah, Okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>you think your ex was wrongly depicted in that? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I know he was upset about it, but you watching

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<v Speaker 1>from a distance that you were but also having insight,

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<v Speaker 1>did you look and say that they didn't do him

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<v Speaker 1>right on that?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I don't know. I feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>he like Scotty, knows how he feels. I'm sure he

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<v Speaker 3>feels a certain way because you know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's something I don't really think about.

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<v Speaker 3>To be honest with you, Yeah, I feel like if

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<v Speaker 3>he was hurt by it, I'm sure there's a reason

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<v Speaker 3>why he was hurt by it.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you go back, but it sounds like when

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<v Speaker 2>you go back to season seven on the Housewives, how

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<v Speaker 2>much of what's happened in the last few weeks are

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<v Speaker 2>you willing to share? I mean, how much do they

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<v Speaker 2>ask you to share? Is it up to you?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, they ask you to share everything. They ask you,

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<v Speaker 3>they want everything, And you know, for me, I'm like

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<v Speaker 3>private when it comes out of my relationships. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm not one of those people that leaves their

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<v Speaker 3>relationship and like puts everything out there. It's just not

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<v Speaker 3>something I do. I feel like you know. I can

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<v Speaker 3>tell you we just you know, we grew apart or

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<v Speaker 3>stuff like that. But I'm not one to, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>dissect entire relationship because I feel like if I've spent

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<v Speaker 3>time with someone like that wouldn't be fair. I don't like.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like when people break up and they just

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<v Speaker 3>start bashing each other to look good. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I've looked like the villain, you know, when my breakups

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<v Speaker 3>with certain people in the past, because I don't really

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't really defend myself. But that's because I

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<v Speaker 3>don't need to. Because the people that know and I

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<v Speaker 3>that I care about, the people that I love, know

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<v Speaker 3>the story. I don't really care to like have other

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<v Speaker 3>people be mad at whoever I spent time with because

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't me wrong or whatever that I'm not like that.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like I learned from it, and I appreciate

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<v Speaker 3>the time we've spent together, and I'm ready to move on.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's something you can think of now that you're

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<v Speaker 1>just you would love to correct, right. I know you're

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<v Speaker 1>used to so many headlines and foolishness and father and

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<v Speaker 1>tablet all this, But what is one thing you can

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<v Speaker 1>think of that just drove you crazy, Like, I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe they're saying that that it's so wrong that you

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<v Speaker 1>wish you could have cleared up.

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<v Speaker 3>I think, well, the thing about you know, people assuming

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<v Speaker 3>that I knew Marcus and his family before, which I

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<v Speaker 3>did not, or the fact that you know stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's so not true.

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<v Speaker 1>What's off limits? You just mentioned that the producers wanted

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<v Speaker 1>you to put everything out there? What for you would

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I'm not going that far. What's what's the

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<v Speaker 1>line for you of going too far?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I don't want to cross the line of

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<v Speaker 3>someone that I love or I care about it. I

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<v Speaker 3>would never want to make someone not look good, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and have it be my perspective. I don't really talk

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<v Speaker 3>about people in lessy're in the same room where they

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<v Speaker 3>can defend themselves. I don't think it's fair for me

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<v Speaker 3>to like batch someone, you know, because I felt they

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<v Speaker 3>did me, you know what I mean, not the right way.

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<v Speaker 2>You mentioned being vilified. Do you think that people think

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<v Speaker 2>of you as a villain.

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<v Speaker 3>I think people don't like whoever the bigger star is.

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<v Speaker 3>So for instance, when my ex and I broke up,

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<v Speaker 3>whoever the bigger star is people think, like you must

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<v Speaker 3>have done something wrong too leave him, and I'm like, no,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not that, Like, you know, we just grew apart.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think sometimes people like it's so much easier

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<v Speaker 3>to hate on a woman. It is so much easier

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<v Speaker 3>to hate on a woman that it is to hate

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<v Speaker 3>on a man. And it takes you know, it takes

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<v Speaker 3>two people to make a relationship work. It takes two

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<v Speaker 3>people to make a relationship fall apart. So it's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, if you're not doing what you're supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>be doing, and then I'm not going to do what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm supposed to be doing. So I definitely take responsibility

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<v Speaker 3>for the things that I didn't do one hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm also a cancer, Like I'm a lover, so

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<v Speaker 3>I love hard, you know, that's just my personality, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's kind of how I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Where along that I'm always fascinated by this because we've

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<v Speaker 1>talked here, Like I think back to certain parts of

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<v Speaker 1>our lives, all of us, Like you were dating this

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<v Speaker 1>person at this age and this age, But if if

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<v Speaker 1>you had met that person now where you are, You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I would never have been interested. I never would have

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<v Speaker 1>gone that way. What from that college young lady who

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<v Speaker 1>met your ex where along the lines that you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you matured or changed to a point that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that relationship would have been something you would

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<v Speaker 1>have been interested in, or you think maybe you all

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<v Speaker 1>would have always been compatible along the way.

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<v Speaker 3>I you know what, I think like people grow differently,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel like people grow at you know, different

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<v Speaker 3>speeds and where they are. I would never change one

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<v Speaker 3>thing about anybody that I spent time with. I feel

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<v Speaker 3>like I learned from it all. It was a great experience.

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<v Speaker 3>I just feel like at the end, like it's hard

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<v Speaker 3>to be married to an athlete. When they retire, that's

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<v Speaker 3>like a very hard time for athletes because they're so

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<v Speaker 3>used to being the man. They're so used to, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>just being this big life. And then I think a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of them when they retired, they just don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>as good as they used to, and so it's hard,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, it's challenging. Yeah, I hear girls tell me

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<v Speaker 3>all the time, like, oh, set me up with this

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<v Speaker 3>athlete or set me up with that athlete. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>you have to be built to be able to be

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<v Speaker 3>with an athlete because their lives are so stressful. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>every game you have people, there's critics to talk about

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<v Speaker 3>your game, and you're always on the road and you

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<v Speaker 3>have to like it's just so many things that you

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<v Speaker 3>have to have in order to make it.

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<v Speaker 1>With an athlete as all right, now, would someone be

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<v Speaker 1>challenged in dating you? Like you said you would warn

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<v Speaker 1>a woman about dating a pro athlete with some wou

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<v Speaker 1>A guy need to be warn like, hey, you're getting

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<v Speaker 1>into it. Laarsa here she has to deal with this

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<v Speaker 1>and this and she's here and that.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm so easy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I am your cancer. I told.

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<v Speaker 2>I's a lover, A lover.

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<v Speaker 3>I am the I've never dated a guy that has

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<v Speaker 3>not wanted to marry me ever, guy that I've ever dated. Literally,

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<v Speaker 3>you guys gets obsessed with me. Maybe it's my cooking,

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe it's I have good vibes in the morning. I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know. I just feel like I have good energy.

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<v Speaker 2>We've heard about your sex life, so maybe that's it too.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from you though we didn't hear it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm just saying I have good energy, and I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like people like good energy.

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<v Speaker 2>That's amazing. I'm curious. Just having watched Scotty as you

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<v Speaker 2>mentioned go through the ups and the downs, dealing with fame,

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<v Speaker 2>dealing with the critics, dealing with all of that. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you think you learned some of what he went through

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<v Speaker 2>and applied it to your own life now in the

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<v Speaker 2>public eye.

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<v Speaker 3>I think so. I think, like, yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm not really phased by like the noise

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<v Speaker 3>because I feel really solid on the inside, and I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like that's the most important thing. You know, surround

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<v Speaker 3>yourself with people that love you, that want to see

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<v Speaker 3>you win. And I think as we get older, you

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<v Speaker 3>start realizing that there are people in your circle that

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to see you win. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>I've let a lot of those people go, and I'm

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<v Speaker 3>so much happier without them. Every time something every time

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<v Speaker 3>something bad has happened in my life, it's really showed

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<v Speaker 3>me who my real people are. And so for me,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like that is that to me, is like

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<v Speaker 3>the best experience of life.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel you, Larsa, because yeah, anytime you go through

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<v Speaker 2>something where maybe not everyone's going to agree with your

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<v Speaker 2>choices or agree with how things happened, do you end

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<v Speaker 2>up with not a smaller group of friends sometimes? And

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<v Speaker 2>that's not a bad thing. Have you had that experience?

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<v Speaker 3>I used to think. I used to think that I

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<v Speaker 3>had like a thousand best friends. I'd be like, that's

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<v Speaker 3>my best friend, that's my best friend. And then I

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<v Speaker 3>realized when I went through my divorce, when I went

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<v Speaker 3>through certain things in my life, that those people were

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<v Speaker 3>the biggest haters and so I am so much happy

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<v Speaker 3>without them, Like God has blessed me time and time again.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like when you have good energy, you get

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<v Speaker 3>good things. And I, you know, I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>killing it, killing it.

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<v Speaker 1>You thought you had a thousand best friends? What are

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<v Speaker 1>you down to now? How many?

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm down to like a hundred?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wow?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm a people person, you guys. Some people collect friends.

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<v Speaker 1>We're best friends now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I have you as all the time. Yes, I love, like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, hanging out with good people and having good

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<v Speaker 3>times and making great memories like I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that too. I think that that's part of life.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm a big people person too. I love I

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<v Speaker 2>love having friends to share things with. It makes life

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<v Speaker 2>more fun. But it can be problematic, especially when it's

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<v Speaker 2>all displayed for everyone to watch as their entertainment. Have

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<v Speaker 2>you ever been in a situation in the Housewives franchise

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<v Speaker 2>where you thought, I don't want to do this anymore,

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<v Speaker 2>this isn't worth it, this is too much. Not recently,

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<v Speaker 2>but initially.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like when I was on fourteen years ago,

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<v Speaker 3>my exit and like the show, and I didn't want

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<v Speaker 3>to cause waves in my relationship, and my kids were younger,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I felt like it wasn't right for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I didn't contribute as much just because I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like I had to protect my kids, I had to

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<v Speaker 3>protect my ex. But now, no, I feel like I'm

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<v Speaker 3>in a great place. I love sharing my life. I

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.280
<v Speaker 3>would do it anyway on Instagram and everything else, kind

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<v Speaker 3>of like an open book. So you know, so it's

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<v Speaker 3>working out for me right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you edit yourself at all on the show or

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<v Speaker 2>do you just say whatever you think?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I think I need to do a better job

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<v Speaker 3>of editing myself, by the way, really, just because I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like sometimes you say things and you don't mean

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<v Speaker 3>them the way they you know, yet seen to the public.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I feel like a lot of times like

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<v Speaker 3>things that I've said have come back to bite me

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<v Speaker 3>in the ass, but it's it's not meant that way.

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<v Speaker 3>You know what I'm saying. You know how you can

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:11.880
<v Speaker 3>take things out of context.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, do you have an example? No, I

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<v Speaker 2>like to not be repeated, so you're editing your.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm no, I'm so real, you guys. I was

0:27:22.119 --> 0:27:25.720
<v Speaker 3>saying I need to start like not not doing so

0:27:25.840 --> 0:27:27.840
<v Speaker 3>much of that and being a little bit more closed off.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm learning. I'm learning every days, a learning,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you watch the show's back?

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<v Speaker 3>No? I when they send it to us, I watch

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:39.160
<v Speaker 3>it and I never look back at it again. Oh really,

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<v Speaker 3>And my kids don't really watch a show.

0:27:40.840 --> 0:27:43.480
<v Speaker 2>They don't know why, they just don't.

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<v Speaker 3>They don't. My kids don't really. My kids are athletes,

0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 3>they're busy. Sophia has a model like they don't.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it you do that? The kids are like,

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<v Speaker 1>hell yeah, I'll go to that. Oh yeah, I'll check

0:28:01.359 --> 0:28:04.119
<v Speaker 1>that out. Do they ever get into our reap some

0:28:04.200 --> 0:28:05.720
<v Speaker 1>benefits of mama?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, no, it's crazy. I used to beg my

0:28:08.040 --> 0:28:10.000
<v Speaker 3>kids to go to concerts with me, and I'd say, hey,

0:28:10.359 --> 0:28:11.959
<v Speaker 3>so and so on by it us. He's got a concert,

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:13.720
<v Speaker 3>let's go. And my kids would be like, we're good,

0:28:13.760 --> 0:28:16.439
<v Speaker 3>we're gonna like we're gonna go get like shoot, you know,

0:28:16.600 --> 0:28:19.880
<v Speaker 3>go shoot some basketballs, or like I'm gonna go work out,

0:28:20.040 --> 0:28:22.320
<v Speaker 3>or My kids are not party kids, like my son.

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:25.160
<v Speaker 3>I have a son that's twenty three, twenty one, eighteen,

0:28:25.560 --> 0:28:28.679
<v Speaker 3>and Sophia's fifteen. But I have the greatest kids in

0:28:28.680 --> 0:28:31.280
<v Speaker 3>the world. They don't drink, they don't like smoke, they

0:28:31.280 --> 0:28:34.400
<v Speaker 3>don't go out. They're very focused on school and sports,

0:28:35.160 --> 0:28:37.480
<v Speaker 3>and so I'm really thankful for that. They're not into

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:39.560
<v Speaker 3>like the music world, like the rap world. They don't

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:42.320
<v Speaker 3>want to go to concerts, they don't really like going out.

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:45.760
<v Speaker 3>They're just like the perfect human.

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like my kind of people. That sounds it does sound.

0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:48.840
<v Speaker 2>Like you're kind of people.

0:28:48.920 --> 0:28:50.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, they're like great kids. And for me, that's

0:28:50.840 --> 0:28:52.360
<v Speaker 3>like the number one thing. That's kind of how I

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.960
<v Speaker 3>judge people based on their kids, And like the time

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.800
<v Speaker 3>and energy that you've put into your kids, that's you

0:28:57.800 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 3>know what you reap you so and I feel like

0:28:59.600 --> 0:29:02.240
<v Speaker 3>I put so much love into my kids that they're

0:29:02.320 --> 0:29:04.800
<v Speaker 3>like the best kids in the world, are my best friends.

0:29:04.840 --> 0:29:08.320
<v Speaker 3>I enjoy them every single day, and so that's that's

0:29:08.440 --> 0:29:09.520
<v Speaker 3>my pride and joy.

0:29:09.920 --> 0:29:11.320
<v Speaker 2>You can tell you can tell by the way you

0:29:11.360 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 2>speak of them that that's that's all true. And so

0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I know that you've got a beautiful road ahead of you.

0:29:17.080 --> 0:29:20.120
<v Speaker 2>What do you want in the future? What where do

0:29:20.200 --> 0:29:23.160
<v Speaker 2>you see your career headed? I mean, what are your

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 2>hopes and dreams?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like that is such a

0:29:27.680 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 3>good question. I don't know. I feel like I just

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 3>want to keep building, like my Larcemary jewelry line. I'm

0:29:33.000 --> 0:29:36.840
<v Speaker 3>working on a tequila called Alujo. I'm just working on

0:29:36.920 --> 0:29:39.240
<v Speaker 3>different things, things that I love and that I'm passionate about.

0:29:39.280 --> 0:29:40.680
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I only want to do things that

0:29:40.720 --> 0:29:41.080
<v Speaker 3>I love.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that tequila and jewelry can Who.

0:29:45.160 --> 0:29:47.120
<v Speaker 3>Doesn't like diamonds and who doesn't feel like we need

0:29:47.160 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 3>a shot? It's like the best of both worlds. It's

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:51.600
<v Speaker 3>so good.

0:29:51.760 --> 0:29:54.280
<v Speaker 2>Drink the dahuila first and then go shopping online for

0:29:54.280 --> 0:29:56.600
<v Speaker 2>your jewelry. That might be a good combo for you. Exactly.

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:02.000
<v Speaker 2>What about in terms of you believe that there is

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<v Speaker 2>someone out there for you that you're going to grow

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<v Speaker 2>old with, You believe in that soulmate thing I do?

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<v Speaker 3>I do. I feel like I really like being married.

0:30:10.640 --> 0:30:12.400
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I do like having a partner. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I do like having someone that I'm always with. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think so. I think I have someone out there

0:30:18.160 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 3>that's like perfect for me. I'm sure they're scared of

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:23.120
<v Speaker 3>death because of Housewives, but they're like, I don't want

0:30:23.120 --> 0:30:23.840
<v Speaker 3>to be on that show.

0:30:24.000 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that that would genuinely impact your ability

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<v Speaker 2>to maybe find that perfect person because they might not

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<v Speaker 2>want to be in the spotlight.

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<v Speaker 3>Well. I was talking to one of my best friends,

0:30:34.240 --> 0:30:37.280
<v Speaker 3>Caroline Stanberry, who lives in Dubai, and she's on the show,

0:30:37.360 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 3>She's on Housewives of Dubai, and she's like, I have

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:42.880
<v Speaker 3>this perfect guy for you. He's amazing. She's like, but

0:30:43.200 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 3>he's going to be so scared when I tell him

0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:47.640
<v Speaker 3>that you're on housewives, And I was like, really, so,

0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:50.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like sometimes it's a lot

0:30:50.240 --> 0:30:52.480
<v Speaker 3>of guys don't want to put theirselves.

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Out there like that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, But what is dating like for you?

0:30:56.240 --> 0:30:56.320
<v Speaker 2>Like?

0:30:56.320 --> 0:30:58.240
<v Speaker 1>How do you meet have to be introduced to someone?

0:30:58.360 --> 0:31:02.080
<v Speaker 1>If people sliding into you DM like, what's happening? How

0:31:02.120 --> 0:31:04.120
<v Speaker 1>do you go about dating? Are you on dating apps?

0:31:05.000 --> 0:31:05.080
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:31:05.200 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 3>I think for me, I meet people through friends and

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 3>I kind of be like any person I've ever been with,

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 3>I've kind of been friends with for a long time,

0:31:12.760 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 3>and then I just kind of you know, talk to them,

0:31:14.960 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 3>figure out everything about them first, you know, know they're

0:31:17.840 --> 0:31:20.360
<v Speaker 3>dating history, and then I kind of like decide if

0:31:20.360 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 3>I want to like jump in.

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<v Speaker 2>The water, describe your perfect man.

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:29.000
<v Speaker 3>I think my perfect man would be really smart, really driven,

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:32.680
<v Speaker 3>like a workaholic because I love to work, and someone

0:31:32.720 --> 0:31:36.320
<v Speaker 3>that's really nice and charitable, because I feel like living

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:38.360
<v Speaker 3>a life of purpose is like way more important than

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<v Speaker 3>all the other stuff.

0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Now, robot, describe your perfect man.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, oh, you're asking me. Oh well, I'm sitting right

0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 2>next to it.

0:31:50.600 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>Wow, she played. Wow, Yeah, it was not a good.

0:31:54.880 --> 0:31:56.880
<v Speaker 2>The truth is, I actually was surprised you were turning

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:58.880
<v Speaker 2>the table onto me. I was like, wait what Oh,

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:00.400
<v Speaker 2>So it took me a second to real and I

0:32:00.400 --> 0:32:03.120
<v Speaker 2>was supposed to answer that question. But actually what you

0:32:03.160 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 2>just said is true. I mean someone who works hard,

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:07.280
<v Speaker 2>someone who makes me for me. It's someone who can

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<v Speaker 2>make me laugh, who I can laugh with, who I

0:32:09.600 --> 0:32:13.160
<v Speaker 2>can be silly with, who I can We just said

0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:15.120
<v Speaker 2>this earlier, but Tita has an amazing quote, and I

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<v Speaker 2>think this describes our relationship and what I think made

0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 2>me realize that we were going to be amazing together

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:24.560
<v Speaker 2>for a very very long time. Everyone's always looking for

0:32:24.560 --> 0:32:27.360
<v Speaker 2>that person to grow old with, but some would suggest,

0:32:27.560 --> 0:32:29.720
<v Speaker 2>and I would concur that if you can find the

0:32:29.760 --> 0:32:32.640
<v Speaker 2>person to stay young with, that's the person you can

0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:36.520
<v Speaker 2>actually get through some tough times with, because if you

0:32:36.560 --> 0:32:38.880
<v Speaker 2>can laugh and you can play, and you can have

0:32:38.920 --> 0:32:41.680
<v Speaker 2>that childlike enthusiasm with that partner. And I want a

0:32:41.680 --> 0:32:44.840
<v Speaker 2>partner too. I'm a big believer. I want a life partner.

0:32:44.920 --> 0:32:47.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know that everyone does, but I do. And

0:32:47.720 --> 0:32:49.400
<v Speaker 2>I can see that in you as well. I mean,

0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:51.040
<v Speaker 2>you had a twenty four year marriage, and we all

0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:53.200
<v Speaker 2>got married young. We all were believers and dreamers. I

0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:56.000
<v Speaker 2>got married at twenty three, twenty three, how you were

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<v Speaker 2>twenty two. And I do think that that's the that's

0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:03.560
<v Speaker 2>that speaks volumes do your belief in love and your

0:33:03.560 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 2>belief in finding that partner and wanting that even at

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:07.240
<v Speaker 2>that young age.

0:33:07.280 --> 0:33:09.959
<v Speaker 3>I grew up like watching my parents. My parents are

0:33:09.960 --> 0:33:12.800
<v Speaker 3>still married, they're obsessed with each other. My mom and

0:33:12.840 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 3>dad do everything together, and so I kind of feel

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:16.120
<v Speaker 3>like I want that.

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh he just gave me chills mine too, and his

0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 2>like yours are how many years over fifty years? And

0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:25.280
<v Speaker 2>I think I took for granted that that was just

0:33:25.320 --> 0:33:27.960
<v Speaker 2>something that was a given. You know, it obviously takes work,

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 2>but it's also about finding that right person totally.

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:34.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, does that have Does that play your watching your parents?

0:33:34.240 --> 0:33:36.960
<v Speaker 1>Does that play into your life, and that there's a

0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 1>standard now that you won't accept anything less than I

0:33:40.520 --> 0:33:40.920
<v Speaker 1>think so.

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:43.120
<v Speaker 3>I think, like watching it, my mom takes care of

0:33:43.160 --> 0:33:45.080
<v Speaker 3>my dad like she adores him, and I feel like

0:33:45.120 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm normally like that with the guys that I'm with,

0:33:47.480 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 3>So I feel like I definitely kind of mimic that,

0:33:49.360 --> 0:33:51.000
<v Speaker 3>you know. I just feel like I haven't met a

0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:53.400
<v Speaker 3>person that's like like my dad.

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:56.040
<v Speaker 2>So we'll see, that's a that's a tough that's a

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 2>tough bar, right to me.

0:33:57.600 --> 0:33:59.479
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my mom, kid, my mom. I remember one day

0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:01.800
<v Speaker 3>she was like, you need to be with this kind

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:03.520
<v Speaker 3>of guy, and you know, she was like, I would

0:34:03.520 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 3>you know, she was saying something like if she didn't

0:34:05.800 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 3>have this, she would leave my dad. I'm like, where

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.080
<v Speaker 3>would you go? Like there's no guy better than my dad,

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:11.960
<v Speaker 3>Like you can't even she was trying to give me

0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:13.839
<v Speaker 3>an example, and I was like, by the way, there's

0:34:13.840 --> 0:34:15.560
<v Speaker 3>no one better than my dad, Like, they.

0:34:15.440 --> 0:34:16.279
<v Speaker 1>Don't make my kid.

0:34:16.520 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 2>That's so sweet. Do you have a celebrity crush?

0:34:19.800 --> 0:34:22.200
<v Speaker 3>No, not really, like no.

0:34:22.719 --> 0:34:23.720
<v Speaker 1>She didn't even hesitate.

0:34:23.760 --> 0:34:25.560
<v Speaker 2>No. I wish everyone could have seen her face.

0:34:25.760 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 1>You know what it is.

0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:28.160
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a lot of times when people think

0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 3>that like this person's great on paper, and then you

0:34:31.640 --> 0:34:33.000
<v Speaker 3>actually meet them and they are.

0:34:32.880 --> 0:34:34.520
<v Speaker 1>So not the worst.

0:34:34.640 --> 0:34:36.640
<v Speaker 3>That happens to me all the time because I feel

0:34:36.640 --> 0:34:39.680
<v Speaker 3>like I've met people that I thought were like, like

0:34:39.760 --> 0:34:42.200
<v Speaker 3>the greatest soccer player on the planet, and then when

0:34:42.200 --> 0:34:43.960
<v Speaker 3>I started talking to him, I was like, that's it,

0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:48.680
<v Speaker 3>that's it, no thanks. And then like I've talked to

0:34:48.719 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 3>people that are in the music world and I'm like, oh,

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:52.600
<v Speaker 3>he's so cool when he's on stage, but then when

0:34:52.600 --> 0:34:54.960
<v Speaker 3>he would like get off stage, I was like, you

0:34:55.000 --> 0:34:58.960
<v Speaker 3>were so much cooler on the stage. So it's hard.

0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:01.120
<v Speaker 1>Who was it, Larsa? Who was? I know you're not

0:35:01.120 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna say, but I.

0:35:03.200 --> 0:35:05.640
<v Speaker 3>Do feel like I want to date like a business guy.

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 3>I feel like that's kind of like where I need

0:35:09.200 --> 0:35:11.560
<v Speaker 3>to be, like date someone that's very business savvy, and

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:13.440
<v Speaker 3>you know, I think I like that.

0:35:13.920 --> 0:35:16.560
<v Speaker 1>What's your advice maybe to your daughter, but also to

0:35:16.680 --> 0:35:21.760
<v Speaker 1>young women who watch the show who often they describe

0:35:21.800 --> 0:35:25.759
<v Speaker 1>him as these guilty pleasures. Oftentimes they or all kinds

0:35:25.800 --> 0:35:27.440
<v Speaker 1>of things that describe him as it's not something we're

0:35:27.480 --> 0:35:29.560
<v Speaker 1>supposed to take seriously. It's just supposed to be entertainment.

0:35:29.560 --> 0:35:31.360
<v Speaker 1>But what could you say to a young woman watching

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:34.359
<v Speaker 1>the show to take from it, to learn from it,

0:35:34.360 --> 0:35:37.080
<v Speaker 1>to be empowered by Do you see that type of

0:35:37.520 --> 0:35:40.520
<v Speaker 1>I guess service if you will, that some of these

0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:45.720
<v Speaker 1>shows still can provide. You're a strong, successful woman who's

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:48.759
<v Speaker 1>got four wonderful kids that should be highlighted. But it

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 1>doesn't seem like oftentimes it is when we talk about

0:35:51.080 --> 0:35:51.719
<v Speaker 1>these shows.

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 3>You know, I feel like a lot of people are

0:35:54.560 --> 0:35:57.320
<v Speaker 3>in miserable relationships. And I think if you look at

0:35:57.880 --> 0:35:59.799
<v Speaker 3>I was married for such a long time, you know,

0:35:59.840 --> 0:36:02.080
<v Speaker 3>I was a stay at home mom. I raise my kids,

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:03.520
<v Speaker 3>and I feel like a lot of times when you

0:36:03.560 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 3>watch housewives, you see like these women are entrepreneurs, they

0:36:06.440 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 3>have a second life, Like your life is not over

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:11.279
<v Speaker 3>because you are not with that person, or you can

0:36:11.320 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 3>be who you want to be. I'm a firm believer

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:14.960
<v Speaker 3>of that, like you can wake up one day and say, hey,

0:36:15.000 --> 0:36:17.200
<v Speaker 3>guess what I am going to be this today, and

0:36:17.239 --> 0:36:19.880
<v Speaker 3>you put all your energy into that and you basically

0:36:19.880 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 3>can grow like that. So, you know our show, I

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 3>feel like there are so many women that have done

0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:27.600
<v Speaker 3>so much with their platform. I use my platform to

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:30.400
<v Speaker 3>basically show what I'm doing as far as my business

0:36:30.440 --> 0:36:34.239
<v Speaker 3>stuff and you know, my kids and just feeling good.

0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 3>You know. It is a little bit of cattiness, of course,

0:36:37.000 --> 0:36:39.520
<v Speaker 3>but it's really fun, you guys, it's fun to shoot.

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:42.759
<v Speaker 2>I was so I saw you just smile, and he said, yeah,

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:45.880
<v Speaker 2>there's some cattiness. Do you enjoy that part of it alone? No?

0:36:45.880 --> 0:36:48.400
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not confrontational, I promise.

0:36:48.560 --> 0:36:49.840
<v Speaker 2>How should you describe yourself?

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:53.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm a cancer, I'm a lover. I'm super nice. I'm

0:36:53.320 --> 0:36:57.120
<v Speaker 3>very generous, and I think that probably is bad because

0:36:57.120 --> 0:36:58.960
<v Speaker 3>I think when you give, when you're a giver and

0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 3>then the person is not giving back what you give,

0:37:02.200 --> 0:37:04.000
<v Speaker 3>you kind of get a little resentful, you know.

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:05.360
<v Speaker 2>Do you stand up for yourself?

0:37:05.600 --> 0:37:07.640
<v Speaker 3>Yes? I feel like if I baby doesn't like to

0:37:07.680 --> 0:37:10.680
<v Speaker 3>be put in a corner, so I don't want to

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:11.480
<v Speaker 3>be put in a corner.

0:37:11.560 --> 0:37:13.239
<v Speaker 2>You know, what do you do when someone puts you

0:37:13.280 --> 0:37:13.960
<v Speaker 2>in a corner?

0:37:14.480 --> 0:37:17.319
<v Speaker 3>I handle my business. No. Now, I just feel like

0:37:17.640 --> 0:37:19.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm a lover you guys, and I feel like sometimes,

0:37:20.480 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 3>you know, being on this show, do you know what happens?

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:23.880
<v Speaker 3>I feel like being on these shows. I was just

0:37:23.920 --> 0:37:27.160
<v Speaker 3>with Teresa Judas last week and she was telling me

0:37:27.160 --> 0:37:30.000
<v Speaker 3>how people pick on her because she is like the franchise,

0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:32.400
<v Speaker 3>like she is a big person, and I was thinking,

0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:34.600
<v Speaker 3>that's probably why they pick on me too, because then

0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:38.640
<v Speaker 3>they have a like, you know, it makes press. So

0:37:38.719 --> 0:37:40.600
<v Speaker 3>it's like, if you have nothing going on in your life,

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:43.120
<v Speaker 3>pick on Larsa and then it's like a story behind it. Now,

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:46.319
<v Speaker 3>because I don't ever talk about anyone on our show,

0:37:46.480 --> 0:37:48.600
<v Speaker 3>I have a great life. My life is so full

0:37:48.680 --> 0:37:50.440
<v Speaker 3>that when I'm on the show, I want to talk

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.719
<v Speaker 3>about all the great things I'm doing. I don't want

0:37:52.719 --> 0:37:56.080
<v Speaker 3>to talk about what you're wearing, like you know, it's

0:37:56.680 --> 0:37:59.239
<v Speaker 3>my mind is not on that. But but then you

0:37:59.280 --> 0:38:01.839
<v Speaker 3>have to defend yourself because someone is talking about you,

0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:03.920
<v Speaker 3>and then you know, that's kind of where the cattiness

0:38:03.920 --> 0:38:04.560
<v Speaker 3>comes in at.

0:38:04.760 --> 0:38:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Who is the real Housewives of Miami villain? Who's the

0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:09.959
<v Speaker 1>villain on the show.

0:38:11.320 --> 0:38:12.400
<v Speaker 3>Do you really want me to answer that?

0:38:13.040 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Yep, Well, I know it's not you because you're the

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:17.480
<v Speaker 1>cancer and you're a lover and you don't like the cattiness,

0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 1>So it's not you. Ry Larsa, I don't know.

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.200
<v Speaker 3>I don't think there's really a villain on our show.

0:38:23.239 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 1>Now we have Andy here, who is a huge, huge

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:30.200
<v Speaker 1>Real Housewives. He loves the franchise. He loves Real Housewives

0:38:30.200 --> 0:38:33.000
<v Speaker 1>of Miami. Now, Andy, if I asked you who was

0:38:33.080 --> 0:38:39.240
<v Speaker 1>the villain on Real Housewives of Miami, who would you say?

0:38:39.960 --> 0:38:43.960
<v Speaker 2>You can be honest, I would say you moved the

0:38:44.080 --> 0:38:47.200
<v Speaker 2>story along. But I think Adriana is the real.

0:38:47.040 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 3>Villain, right, Okay, yeah that makes sense, just.

0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:52.279
<v Speaker 1>Being honest, But she moves a story along, as you say, I.

0:38:52.239 --> 0:38:56.080
<v Speaker 2>Think there's necessary things that are that you bring up

0:38:56.520 --> 0:38:58.200
<v Speaker 2>that moves things forward.

0:38:58.400 --> 0:39:04.239
<v Speaker 1>But not the villain. She's not the villain. Well, I

0:39:04.239 --> 0:39:05.880
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't say the main.

0:39:08.080 --> 0:39:11.280
<v Speaker 3>I mean I feel like for me, I just listen

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:13.880
<v Speaker 3>if I don't say the things I say, like who's watching,

0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:16.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm the kind of person. Just if you see this

0:39:16.600 --> 0:39:18.239
<v Speaker 3>cup and it's full of water, I'm gonna say, who

0:39:18.320 --> 0:39:18.799
<v Speaker 3>left this cup?

0:39:18.800 --> 0:39:22.640
<v Speaker 1>You're full of water, Like that's where it starts.

0:39:23.520 --> 0:39:26.359
<v Speaker 3>It's there. So it's like I just pointed out and

0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:27.759
<v Speaker 3>you know.

0:39:29.200 --> 0:39:31.960
<v Speaker 2>You mentioned that you made the mistake. And I've done

0:39:32.000 --> 0:39:33.879
<v Speaker 2>this before too, and I have admitted it, and it's

0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:37.360
<v Speaker 2>been awful of reading comments Sometimes do you make a

0:39:37.400 --> 0:39:39.799
<v Speaker 2>point not to read comments? And when you have done it,

0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:41.680
<v Speaker 2>what has that been like for you?

0:39:43.440 --> 0:39:48.080
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I normally do not read comments, but you know,

0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:50.200
<v Speaker 3>I feel like it's the one percent of people that

0:39:50.239 --> 0:39:52.319
<v Speaker 3>have nothing going on in their lives that are writing them.

0:39:52.760 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 3>But the majority of the people don't think like that.

0:39:55.080 --> 0:39:56.680
<v Speaker 3>The people that are that I care about, that are

0:39:56.680 --> 0:39:59.640
<v Speaker 3>busy with their lives, taking care of their businesses, their kids,

0:39:59.640 --> 0:40:02.760
<v Speaker 3>their their minds, they're not doing that. They're not writing

0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 3>all those bad, you know things on Instagram. But I

0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 3>don't really I'm not really phased by it, to be

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:11.279
<v Speaker 3>honest with you. And I don't really read them because

0:40:11.280 --> 0:40:11.759
<v Speaker 3>I don't care.

0:40:12.560 --> 0:40:12.759
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:40:12.800 --> 0:40:13.440
<v Speaker 3>I feel like this is.

0:40:13.600 --> 0:40:15.719
<v Speaker 2>Like getting that place i'd like to get. I'm not

0:40:15.719 --> 0:40:18.040
<v Speaker 2>there yet. How do you get to a place where

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:18.520
<v Speaker 2>you don't care?

0:40:19.480 --> 0:40:21.759
<v Speaker 3>You just have to start thinking about the people that

0:40:22.000 --> 0:40:23.840
<v Speaker 3>matter and the people that care. And I feel like

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 3>the people that genuinely are happy in their lives want

0:40:26.680 --> 0:40:28.799
<v Speaker 3>to see other people happy, and the people that are

0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 3>miserable in their lives want to make you miserable and

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:34.520
<v Speaker 3>want to see misery on you. So for me, I'm

0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:37.279
<v Speaker 3>not I'm not doing that. I'm killing it. Why would

0:40:37.280 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 3>I even deal with those people? If anything, I'd actually

0:40:40.560 --> 0:40:43.080
<v Speaker 3>want to hang out with them to help them, because

0:40:43.160 --> 0:40:45.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm like a girl's girl or like, you know, I

0:40:45.120 --> 0:40:47.839
<v Speaker 3>could help you. But I'm not necessarily like a hater.

0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:50.759
<v Speaker 3>I've never been jealous of anyone. I've never like, I

0:40:50.760 --> 0:40:53.720
<v Speaker 3>don't talk about anyone that's not my personality. I'm always

0:40:53.760 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 3>ready to like uplift other women and like help any

0:40:56.680 --> 0:40:59.080
<v Speaker 3>which way I can. So I feel like if you

0:40:59.160 --> 0:41:01.160
<v Speaker 3>knew my real life, like I think on this show,

0:41:01.200 --> 0:41:03.879
<v Speaker 3>it's hard because you're put with these women that you're

0:41:03.880 --> 0:41:07.120
<v Speaker 3>really not best friends with and so and you know,

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:09.640
<v Speaker 3>things come up, and I think everyone's trying to stay

0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:11.520
<v Speaker 3>on the show and do whatever they have to do

0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:14.279
<v Speaker 3>to maintain their position on the show. Whereas for me,

0:41:14.360 --> 0:41:16.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I'm just living my life. I'm just living

0:41:16.840 --> 0:41:19.319
<v Speaker 3>my life and that's all I can offer.

0:41:28.360 --> 0:41:31.160
<v Speaker 1>You make a good point there. That seems very difficult.

0:41:31.200 --> 0:41:33.160
<v Speaker 1>It's almost like everyone in the show. If you're not

0:41:33.160 --> 0:41:36.759
<v Speaker 1>friends already, then you're showing up almost with strangers to

0:41:36.760 --> 0:41:40.360
<v Speaker 1>a certain degree who are all competing. Stay on the

0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:43.040
<v Speaker 1>show totally. That is a recipe for disaster.

0:41:43.239 --> 0:41:47.279
<v Speaker 3>Well, that's what it is, and that's what you And

0:41:47.280 --> 0:41:49.320
<v Speaker 3>then you have people that just watch that and they're like,

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:51.759
<v Speaker 3>oh my god, I love her. I'm like, if you

0:41:51.800 --> 0:41:53.440
<v Speaker 3>only know our real life, you probably.

0:41:53.160 --> 0:41:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Wouldn't Oh my god, So who are you friends? Who

0:41:55.760 --> 0:41:57.399
<v Speaker 1>would you say? If you don't want to name names,

0:41:57.400 --> 0:41:57.839
<v Speaker 1>that's fine.

0:41:57.840 --> 0:41:59.520
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I feel like I'm really close with

0:41:59.640 --> 0:42:02.600
<v Speaker 3>Lisa Justina. We've been friends, like from before I came

0:42:02.640 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 3>back on the show. We've been friends for over a decade.

0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:07.200
<v Speaker 3>I feel like we we hang out off the show.

0:42:07.280 --> 0:42:08.920
<v Speaker 3>That's like, really, my really good friend.

0:42:09.320 --> 0:42:12.719
<v Speaker 2>And how often when you all are filming, when you're

0:42:12.719 --> 0:42:15.440
<v Speaker 2>together in groups and things get a little contentious, is

0:42:15.480 --> 0:42:16.720
<v Speaker 2>alcohol involved.

0:42:16.920 --> 0:42:20.239
<v Speaker 3>I'm not really like a heavy drinker. I'm like a girl.

0:42:20.320 --> 0:42:22.520
<v Speaker 3>I probably have like one drink and I probably like

0:42:22.560 --> 0:42:25.759
<v Speaker 3>babysit that one drink all night. I don't feel like

0:42:25.840 --> 0:42:28.439
<v Speaker 3>on our show. There's not our show is not really

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:29.920
<v Speaker 3>that kind of show. I feel like some of the

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:32.840
<v Speaker 3>other franchises they have issues with alcohol. Our show not

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 3>so much.

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:36.120
<v Speaker 2>Because I always wonder if people just get that liquid

0:42:36.120 --> 0:42:38.080
<v Speaker 2>courage to say whatever they want.

0:42:38.600 --> 0:42:40.960
<v Speaker 3>There's a couple of girls I like to drink. They

0:42:41.040 --> 0:42:43.440
<v Speaker 3>like to drink, but I don't. I mean, I don't know.

0:42:43.480 --> 0:42:45.600
<v Speaker 3>I feel like for me, I don't really like drink

0:42:45.680 --> 0:42:47.480
<v Speaker 3>like that. So I'm never like out of character.

0:42:47.760 --> 0:42:49.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so what comes out of your mouth? You are

0:42:49.960 --> 0:42:50.959
<v Speaker 2>intending I.

0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:51.759
<v Speaker 3>Double down on it.

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:53.160
<v Speaker 2>That's exactly right.

0:42:53.360 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 3>Are bad? I double down on it without alcohol. I'm like,

0:42:57.080 --> 0:42:59.480
<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm sorry, but can we be friends tomorrow?

0:43:00.280 --> 0:43:03.279
<v Speaker 1>You double down not on alcohol. What do you do

0:43:03.360 --> 0:43:04.200
<v Speaker 1>on the alcohol?

0:43:04.520 --> 0:43:06.920
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I don't know. I probably just fall asleep.

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:11.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh are there folks? And this again not putting you

0:43:11.080 --> 0:43:13.000
<v Speaker 1>in a position to name names if you don't want to.

0:43:13.400 --> 0:43:15.400
<v Speaker 1>But you said you don't know who's coming back for

0:43:15.480 --> 0:43:17.640
<v Speaker 1>the next season of the show. Are there some people

0:43:17.640 --> 0:43:19.560
<v Speaker 1>you would really hope don't come back, that they don't

0:43:19.600 --> 0:43:21.799
<v Speaker 1>have back, that you wouldn't have to work with again?

0:43:22.680 --> 0:43:25.759
<v Speaker 3>You know? I feel like when I think of a housewife,

0:43:25.800 --> 0:43:29.279
<v Speaker 3>I think of someone that has a family, kids, a

0:43:29.440 --> 0:43:33.000
<v Speaker 3>husband and ex husband, businesses are something like that. This

0:43:33.120 --> 0:43:34.960
<v Speaker 3>is what I would want to see because I'm like, look,

0:43:34.960 --> 0:43:37.719
<v Speaker 3>I want to see you know this lifestyle, and some

0:43:37.760 --> 0:43:39.839
<v Speaker 3>of the people on our show don't necessarily have all that.

0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:42.200
<v Speaker 3>So I feel like that to me is like when

0:43:42.200 --> 0:43:44.120
<v Speaker 3>I think of a housewife, I think of you have

0:43:44.280 --> 0:43:48.160
<v Speaker 3>these certain things, you know. So that's kind of my opinion.

0:43:48.520 --> 0:43:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Well, I want to ask you one other thing too,

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:55.319
<v Speaker 2>because just with being in the headlines and everything that's

0:43:55.360 --> 0:43:58.239
<v Speaker 2>been said and written about people, do you think you're

0:43:58.239 --> 0:44:02.919
<v Speaker 2>misunderstood one thousand percent? And what are people getting wrong

0:44:02.920 --> 0:44:03.279
<v Speaker 2>about you?

0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:06.960
<v Speaker 3>I think they don't really know who I am, and

0:44:07.000 --> 0:44:10.239
<v Speaker 3>I think they judge me based on my exterior and

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:12.839
<v Speaker 3>I think they think that like I'm a certain way

0:44:13.000 --> 0:44:15.920
<v Speaker 3>because I'm not one of those people that's like I

0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:19.840
<v Speaker 3>don't like to like play victim. That's not my personality.

0:44:19.840 --> 0:44:21.839
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I would never play victim. My kids

0:44:21.880 --> 0:44:25.240
<v Speaker 3>would never play victim. We're like built tough, we're built good,

0:44:25.280 --> 0:44:28.160
<v Speaker 3>you know. So I feel like I can cry up

0:44:28.160 --> 0:44:29.719
<v Speaker 3>a storm and tell you the worst things that I

0:44:29.719 --> 0:44:31.080
<v Speaker 3>feel like some of the other people would do it,

0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:33.320
<v Speaker 3>but I'm just not like that. I feel like I'm

0:44:33.400 --> 0:44:36.319
<v Speaker 3>the kind of person that like can overcome anything and

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:38.360
<v Speaker 3>move on and do it in a way where I

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:42.080
<v Speaker 3>look good doing it, and that's kind of my personality.

0:44:42.160 --> 0:44:44.160
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, if people want to hate on me based

0:44:44.200 --> 0:44:47.919
<v Speaker 3>on how I look or how I dress or things

0:44:47.960 --> 0:44:50.759
<v Speaker 3>they don't know about me, then that's okay. You know,

0:44:50.760 --> 0:44:52.480
<v Speaker 3>they have a right to their opinion. I'm okay with it.

0:44:52.920 --> 0:44:56.680
<v Speaker 1>As tough as you are that had to come through

0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 1>a lot of experience.

0:44:58.440 --> 0:45:00.719
<v Speaker 3>Well, being married to an NBA player tw two years old,

0:45:00.760 --> 0:45:03.359
<v Speaker 3>I feel like you're used to it, You're built like it.

0:45:03.400 --> 0:45:06.279
<v Speaker 3>I've been in this lifestyle for a long time, and

0:45:06.360 --> 0:45:08.880
<v Speaker 3>i feel like I'm not like one of those people that, like,

0:45:09.360 --> 0:45:11.719
<v Speaker 3>you can say the worst things about me, and I'm

0:45:11.800 --> 0:45:13.719
<v Speaker 3>not really a phased by it because I feel like

0:45:14.280 --> 0:45:16.360
<v Speaker 3>I look at my kids, I look at my businesses,

0:45:16.360 --> 0:45:18.319
<v Speaker 3>I look at my friends that are there like they

0:45:18.320 --> 0:45:20.799
<v Speaker 3>would do anything for me, and I feel like that

0:45:20.920 --> 0:45:22.959
<v Speaker 3>to me makes me feel good. I don't really care

0:45:23.080 --> 0:45:25.920
<v Speaker 3>to like portray an image. There's so many celebrities that

0:45:25.960 --> 0:45:29.440
<v Speaker 3>portray this image of like they're amazing and they're great

0:45:29.440 --> 0:45:31.319
<v Speaker 3>because they have this big PR company and then when

0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:33.360
<v Speaker 3>you really know them, you're like, they're a bunch of losers.

0:45:34.080 --> 0:45:37.640
<v Speaker 3>They're losers. I'm like for me, I've literally every single

0:45:37.719 --> 0:45:39.799
<v Speaker 3>year have like given back to charity since I was

0:45:39.840 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 3>twenty one years old. My kids do stuff for charity.

0:45:42.560 --> 0:45:44.759
<v Speaker 3>We love to give back. I'm very generous with my

0:45:44.800 --> 0:45:47.520
<v Speaker 3>friends and my people. So to me, as long as

0:45:47.560 --> 0:45:50.440
<v Speaker 3>I am living a life that's like fulfilled and like

0:45:51.000 --> 0:45:52.480
<v Speaker 3>you know, that's all I care about.

0:45:52.680 --> 0:45:55.240
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to use that word you don't get phased

0:45:55.280 --> 0:45:58.000
<v Speaker 1>by it, but there have to be moments where you

0:45:58.040 --> 0:46:00.520
<v Speaker 1>do get phased by something. What gets you there has

0:46:00.560 --> 0:46:02.600
<v Speaker 1>to be I mean, you have friends and people you

0:46:02.600 --> 0:46:05.000
<v Speaker 1>can lean on and talk to. You Do you do therapy?

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Where do you run? What is it that? Yeah? You no?

0:46:09.320 --> 0:46:11.520
<v Speaker 3>I work. I don't believe in therapy for me because

0:46:11.600 --> 0:46:14.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm like Middle Eastern, So I feel like my mom

0:46:14.160 --> 0:46:16.799
<v Speaker 3>is my therapist. I have like a big family. I

0:46:16.840 --> 0:46:20.279
<v Speaker 3>come from a family of five. They're in all my business.

0:46:20.640 --> 0:46:23.480
<v Speaker 3>So I can't do one thing without my entire family

0:46:23.520 --> 0:46:25.319
<v Speaker 3>calling me and saying why did you do that or

0:46:25.320 --> 0:46:28.439
<v Speaker 3>what are you doing? So for me, that's like that's

0:46:28.480 --> 0:46:32.520
<v Speaker 3>my safe zone. It's like my family my kids. But yeah,

0:46:32.560 --> 0:46:35.080
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I work out every day that probably helps,

0:46:35.760 --> 0:46:38.080
<v Speaker 3>and I strong myself with people that are strong, you know.

0:46:38.160 --> 0:46:40.400
<v Speaker 3>I think it's like your tribe if you have a

0:46:40.400 --> 0:46:43.840
<v Speaker 3>tribe of strong, independent women and men, and you know

0:46:43.920 --> 0:46:46.160
<v Speaker 3>my family, my dad's really educated. I feel like, so

0:46:46.200 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 3>if I need business advice, I go to my dad.

0:46:48.080 --> 0:46:50.319
<v Speaker 3>If I need advice on my kids, I go to

0:46:50.320 --> 0:46:53.080
<v Speaker 3>my mom. Like I have a great support system, and

0:46:53.120 --> 0:46:55.160
<v Speaker 3>I think that's what like a lot of people lack.

0:46:55.320 --> 0:46:57.440
<v Speaker 3>I think if you don't have a good support system,

0:46:57.920 --> 0:46:59.840
<v Speaker 3>then you not going to feel good and you're going

0:46:59.920 --> 0:47:02.600
<v Speaker 3>to feel like you're alone. And there's nothing worse than that.

0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:06.480
<v Speaker 3>But for me, I feel like I have the best family.

0:47:06.520 --> 0:47:09.520
<v Speaker 3>I have the like my friends are amazing, my business

0:47:09.560 --> 0:47:12.880
<v Speaker 3>partners are amazing. I just I find myself like in

0:47:12.960 --> 0:47:15.160
<v Speaker 3>places and I put myself in places with people that

0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:18.240
<v Speaker 3>uplift me, and that to me is like my safe place.

0:47:19.040 --> 0:47:21.400
<v Speaker 2>Do you think that there is strength in showing weakness

0:47:21.400 --> 0:47:22.040
<v Speaker 2>sometimes though?

0:47:22.160 --> 0:47:26.520
<v Speaker 3>Or No. I don't believe in weakness. I don't believe

0:47:26.520 --> 0:47:28.720
<v Speaker 3>in that, Like I'm just not that person.

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:29.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

0:47:29.360 --> 0:47:32.040
<v Speaker 3>I feel like you can overcome almost anything and you

0:47:32.080 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 3>can be someone that you want to be tomorrow. And

0:47:35.120 --> 0:47:37.360
<v Speaker 3>for me, I'm just like, be who you want to be.

0:47:37.920 --> 0:47:39.359
<v Speaker 3>You know, That's kind of how I live, That's how

0:47:39.360 --> 0:47:39.640
<v Speaker 3>I train.

0:47:39.719 --> 0:47:39.800
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:47:39.840 --> 0:47:42.400
<v Speaker 3>I've taught my kids that they could be heard, or

0:47:42.440 --> 0:47:44.160
<v Speaker 3>my son can have a game that's really bad, and

0:47:44.200 --> 0:47:46.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, it's fine, you play your ass off. Tomorrow's

0:47:46.960 --> 0:47:49.040
<v Speaker 3>a new day, go back tomorrow and we'll get it going.

0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:51.280
<v Speaker 3>We don't really like, we're not one of those people

0:47:51.280 --> 0:47:53.719
<v Speaker 3>that harps on losses. We don't do that. We're just like,

0:47:54.040 --> 0:47:56.160
<v Speaker 3>all right, let's go to the next what's the next problem,

0:47:56.200 --> 0:47:59.239
<v Speaker 3>what's the next goal. And that's kind of how if

0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:02.759
<v Speaker 3>most people thought like that, people being much happier. I

0:48:02.800 --> 0:48:05.480
<v Speaker 3>don't look back at like, you know, things in my

0:48:05.560 --> 0:48:07.319
<v Speaker 3>past that didn't work out for me. I look at

0:48:07.360 --> 0:48:10.280
<v Speaker 3>it like I make decisions. Even if it's the wrong decision,

0:48:10.280 --> 0:48:12.600
<v Speaker 3>it's okay. I learned from it. So as long as

0:48:12.640 --> 0:48:15.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm learning from it bettering myself than i'm winning.

0:48:15.400 --> 0:48:17.759
<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're you've been in this training since

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:19.399
<v Speaker 1>you were It sounds like a family thing. It sounds

0:48:19.440 --> 0:48:21.839
<v Speaker 1>like it's just your upbringing. I have to read self

0:48:21.880 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 1>help books, right and I was forty plus before I started.

0:48:25.440 --> 0:48:27.080
<v Speaker 1>Some of the things that you're saying now make sense

0:48:27.120 --> 0:48:29.319
<v Speaker 1>to me. If I was thirty four, I was like,

0:48:29.320 --> 0:48:30.880
<v Speaker 1>what is she talking about? How does she do that?

0:48:30.920 --> 0:48:33.399
<v Speaker 1>But it sounds like it's from but do you have?

0:48:33.640 --> 0:48:36.200
<v Speaker 1>You don't have a guru, you don't read certain authors,

0:48:36.280 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 1>you don't listen to certain podcasts, do nothing, nothing.

0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:40.319
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:42.239
<v Speaker 3>I just feel like I'm like that. I'm very like

0:48:42.280 --> 0:48:44.680
<v Speaker 3>positive and I feel like I just focus on positive

0:48:44.719 --> 0:48:47.759
<v Speaker 3>things and God keeps blessing me just because I just

0:48:47.800 --> 0:48:51.040
<v Speaker 3>have Like you know, I'm letting. I'm open to the

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:54.440
<v Speaker 3>universe with positive energy, not necessarily like, oh poor me,

0:48:54.680 --> 0:48:57.720
<v Speaker 3>I didn't have a great relationship or my marriage failed.

0:48:57.760 --> 0:48:59.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't look at it like that. I look at

0:48:59.160 --> 0:49:01.040
<v Speaker 3>it like it was a great experience. I have four

0:49:01.080 --> 0:49:04.680
<v Speaker 3>amazing kids. He's killing it. He's happy. I'm killing it.

0:49:04.760 --> 0:49:06.839
<v Speaker 3>How we're big family, we're all killing it.

0:49:08.160 --> 0:49:11.080
<v Speaker 2>Let's still kill it. I mean you're inspiring me, all right,

0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:13.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, I mean I do. I do appreciate that,

0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:15.840
<v Speaker 2>not wallowing and self pity and whymy and poor me,

0:49:16.760 --> 0:49:19.080
<v Speaker 2>but instead taking it and saying how can I do better?

0:49:19.120 --> 0:49:23.480
<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you are a hopeful person, which is

0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:26.719
<v Speaker 2>an amazing thing to be able to have and to

0:49:26.960 --> 0:49:29.400
<v Speaker 2>and to invest in and to give to your children.

0:49:29.640 --> 0:49:32.640
<v Speaker 2>And I you know, Lord knows, you haven't had just

0:49:32.680 --> 0:49:35.480
<v Speaker 2>this easy, blessed life where you've just been sailing through.

0:49:35.520 --> 0:49:40.000
<v Speaker 2>You've been working your ass off, you've been dealt setbacks,

0:49:40.360 --> 0:49:43.279
<v Speaker 2>but you just keep building it and going forward. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's an incredible thing to be able to do and

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<v Speaker 2>to give to your kids. So and thank you for

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<v Speaker 2>sharing it with us. I love your attitude.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not about the end. It's about like the journey,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, And I love the journey. I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 3>about the journey.

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<v Speaker 1>And the next stop on the journey. He said, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not sure, you don't know what's next on this.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm on this and I love it and I'm happy

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<v Speaker 3>and I like where it's going.

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<v Speaker 1>Now we talk. We started this now, and we know

0:50:06.000 --> 0:50:09.279
<v Speaker 1>your relationship status is single now by the time we

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<v Speaker 1>actually post this podcast, is there any chance your relationship

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<v Speaker 1>status it's going to change again, Larsa, and we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to hear that you all have reunited, is there?

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<v Speaker 2>Listen.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not one of those people that says never because

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<v Speaker 3>I never say never. But I don't know, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I feel like right now I'm happy,

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<v Speaker 3>like alone. I feel like I'm good. I just want

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<v Speaker 3>to work on all my stuff. I just finish shooting

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<v Speaker 3>another show. I shot three shows this year, so I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm busy. You know. I'm finally now like

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<v Speaker 3>free to hang out with my kids, you know, spring break,

0:50:37.960 --> 0:50:40.759
<v Speaker 3>and my twenty one year old son wants to go

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<v Speaker 3>to like Italy, So I'm like, I'll take you to

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<v Speaker 3>Italy's and the school's done. Like, I just want to

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<v Speaker 3>hang out with my kids and focus on my family

0:50:47.239 --> 0:50:47.600
<v Speaker 3>right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that, But the door sounds like there's a crack.

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<v Speaker 3>Never say no, he's a great guy. It's a great guy.

0:50:52.840 --> 0:50:54.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to talk negative about him. I just

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<v Speaker 3>feel like I'm just focusing on things that are like

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<v Speaker 3>going to make me better, and you know, that's where

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<v Speaker 3>I am.

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<v Speaker 1>The last podcast you all did together was four months ago,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, actually, hence the title of our podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>Separation Anxiety. We always want to be together. And you said,

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<v Speaker 1>we're just used to being all over each other all

0:51:13.200 --> 0:51:16.759
<v Speaker 1>the time. Now I heard that. If i'd heard that

0:51:16.800 --> 0:51:19.319
<v Speaker 1>four months ago, I felt differently about it, but to

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<v Speaker 1>hear how we go from that just a short time

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<v Speaker 1>ago to not just a breakup, but you have a

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:28.759
<v Speaker 1>piece about the breakup in that four months that you

0:51:28.800 --> 0:51:31.440
<v Speaker 1>go from that, because that sounded so great and hopeful

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<v Speaker 1>in my forever, Like I was like, how do we

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<v Speaker 1>get from there to here?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I think my personality is very what's the word.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's very forgiving. So I forgive and I forgive,

0:51:46.360 --> 0:51:50.080
<v Speaker 3>and I forgive and I forgive until I realize there's

0:51:50.080 --> 0:51:53.480
<v Speaker 3>no more forgiving. So, you know, I just feel like

0:51:53.520 --> 0:51:56.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm in a place of like that's probably why, Like

0:51:56.160 --> 0:51:59.279
<v Speaker 3>I'm like a relationship person with my friends, all my

0:51:59.280 --> 0:52:01.400
<v Speaker 3>friends I've been from for over twenty years. Like I

0:52:01.440 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 3>don't really have like, you know, friends that I don't

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<v Speaker 3>have a relationship with. That's not my personality. I feel

0:52:06.920 --> 0:52:09.360
<v Speaker 3>like I work on all my relationships and I always

0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:12.320
<v Speaker 3>try to see the best in everyone. But at some point,

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<v Speaker 3>Larcia's got to think about Larsa, and I felt like

0:52:14.719 --> 0:52:17.160
<v Speaker 3>I was giving up too much of me, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>And so that's kind of what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you hearing rogues The way I heard it is

0:52:22.600 --> 0:52:25.960
<v Speaker 1>that it sounds almost like you stayed longer than you

0:52:26.000 --> 0:52:28.600
<v Speaker 1>should have, Like there were things you saw, probably and

0:52:28.640 --> 0:52:32.280
<v Speaker 1>probably yeah, you were trying, like you said, I tried.

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<v Speaker 3>I really tried. I really tried. I tried for all

0:52:35.760 --> 0:52:37.400
<v Speaker 3>the right reasons. And I feel like, you know, I

0:52:37.920 --> 0:52:40.680
<v Speaker 3>really like I'm a romantic, like I want to make

0:52:40.719 --> 0:52:43.319
<v Speaker 3>sure that, like you know, I communicate really well and

0:52:43.360 --> 0:52:45.600
<v Speaker 3>I make sure everyone's good and you feel good. I

0:52:45.680 --> 0:52:47.279
<v Speaker 3>do this with my kids every day and we have dinner,

0:52:47.320 --> 0:52:49.319
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, how do you feel? Do you feel good?

0:52:49.360 --> 0:52:51.799
<v Speaker 3>Do you feel solid? What can I do to make

0:52:51.800 --> 0:52:53.719
<v Speaker 3>you feel better? What can you do to make you

0:52:53.760 --> 0:52:56.520
<v Speaker 3>feel better? And so I feel like and I like

0:52:56.560 --> 0:52:59.799
<v Speaker 3>to uplift people, but I feel like if I'm not

0:53:00.080 --> 0:53:02.799
<v Speaker 3>getting it back, then it's you know, I just don't

0:53:02.880 --> 0:53:03.160
<v Speaker 3>like it.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's thus the piece, because you're at peace with

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<v Speaker 2>with your decision, and maybe we'll see the larcinator, right,

0:53:11.320 --> 0:53:14.360
<v Speaker 2>is that the larcen the larciness, Sorry, I said larcinator.

0:53:14.560 --> 0:53:17.440
<v Speaker 2>L Oh my god, that's so funny. That's the larseness,

0:53:17.600 --> 0:53:19.960
<v Speaker 2>the larsonest. I love that. But you know that I

0:53:19.960 --> 0:53:22.480
<v Speaker 2>can feel that energy coming back. Stop laughing at me.

0:53:23.640 --> 0:53:25.319
<v Speaker 2>I do this all the time. I say the wrong word.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, no, I feel like I'm the larceness when I

0:53:27.760 --> 0:53:30.120
<v Speaker 3>need to be. I'm like the bear that's always sleeping.

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<v Speaker 3>We don't poke the bear too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I had another question, but I'm afraid I might poke

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<v Speaker 1>the larcinator.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel free to use that. It's okay, I mean, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't have to credit me.

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<v Speaker 1>We are going to get a patent on that. As

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<v Speaker 1>soon as this it's over. We are going to trademark

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<v Speaker 1>the hell out of that one. Oh my goodness. Really

0:53:51.239 --> 0:53:53.600
<v Speaker 1>it is. It's a pleasure to get to talk to

0:53:53.760 --> 0:53:59.640
<v Speaker 1>you and to meet you outside of a headline, because again,

0:53:59.800 --> 0:54:02.880
<v Speaker 1>we all we know of you is what the headlines

0:54:02.920 --> 0:54:05.759
<v Speaker 1>oftentimes read. I haven't tell you truth. I haven't seen

0:54:05.840 --> 0:54:08.480
<v Speaker 1>all the seasons of the real high spots of Miami,

0:54:08.520 --> 0:54:12.040
<v Speaker 1>so I didn't get a very good handle on you know,

0:54:12.080 --> 0:54:14.880
<v Speaker 1>who's the villain and what role you play. But it

0:54:15.000 --> 0:54:17.439
<v Speaker 1>is so amazing, and we love, love love doing this here,

0:54:17.680 --> 0:54:20.040
<v Speaker 1>to bring someone in here and talk to them as

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<v Speaker 1>a human being, as a mom first, as a business

0:54:23.000 --> 0:54:26.359
<v Speaker 1>person first, and not as a caricature. And it's just

0:54:26.400 --> 0:54:29.919
<v Speaker 1>it makes such a difference. And look, I would hate

0:54:29.960 --> 0:54:31.279
<v Speaker 1>to think and I don't think you are. And you

0:54:31.280 --> 0:54:32.880
<v Speaker 1>don't have a PR person in here. We have so

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<v Speaker 1>many coming here.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah that's true.

0:54:34.280 --> 0:54:36.360
<v Speaker 1>Sure people are sitting in the corner, just making my

0:54:36.400 --> 0:54:39.919
<v Speaker 1>attorney right here. Yeah, I'm got Sophia right here, she's

0:54:39.920 --> 0:54:42.320
<v Speaker 1>in the corner. But it is, it is a treat

0:54:42.360 --> 0:54:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and it has absolutely been a pleasure to be able

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you in this way.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, guys, Thank you so much for being with us.

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<v Speaker 3>Lara, thank you for having me