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Speaker 1: Hey there, everybody. Welcome to the latest episode of Amy

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Speaker 1: and TJ. I'm sitting next to my riding partner, Andy Robot,

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Speaker 1: who is wearing the dopest riding boots you have ever seen.

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Speaker 1: I wish I could show them to y'all. It is

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Speaker 1: just amazing. So I am not kidding. You think I'm joking.

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Speaker 1: You're rocking it. Today's uh huh.

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Speaker 2: This is funny because this morning when I put the

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Speaker 2: boots on. Please tell our listeners what you said to me.

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Speaker 1: Look, everybody would have had the same reaction if you

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Speaker 1: saw the boots come on in Manhattan at noon. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: what'd you say? I said, I didn't know we were

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Speaker 1: riding horses up to the studio.

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Speaker 2: But I laughed. I laughed. I think I might have

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Speaker 2: said touche.

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Speaker 1: But it's a look, right, they are awesome. Maybe no, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: this is not a joke. You look great today.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: It's very simplest get up. You know, those are my

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Speaker 1: favorite jeans that you wear.

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Speaker 2: I do know that. Yes, I put them on when

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Speaker 2: I need to. You know what, I don't know. I

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Speaker 2: feel like maybe your mood could be lifted up a little.

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Speaker 2: I put these jeanes on. Did you know I did that?

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Speaker 1: It worked?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you did. Your mood, you're it completely lifted up.

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Speaker 1: You just you were dragging me a little bit this

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Speaker 1: morn I was, and I was because there's been so

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Speaker 1: much March madness. I think I've talked about this plenty,

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Speaker 1: but when the NCAA tournament starts, my every day is

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Speaker 1: starting from noon to midnight. I am sitting in front

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Speaker 1: of two three four screens watching every single game that's on.

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Speaker 1: And I've been doing that for the past several days.

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Speaker 1: So I'm dragging a little bit because the games have

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Speaker 1: been great.

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Speaker 2: That's true, and I do want to give you props here.

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Speaker 2: I think we've seen almost every single game together, except

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Speaker 2: for the last game last night, which apparently it was

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Speaker 2: a shame that I missed because it was so good overtime.

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Speaker 2: But you did take out I just want to say,

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Speaker 2: thank you. You did take out four hours of prime

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Speaker 2: March madness viewing on Saturday to go to my seventeen

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Speaker 2: year old daughter's school fundraiser. Isn't that where everybody wants

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Speaker 2: to be on a Saturday afternoon with basketball playing?

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Speaker 1: So thank you, Uh, don't thank me. I told you

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Speaker 1: even if Arkansas was playing in the tournament, my alma

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Speaker 1: mater I would have gladly gone to Analysea's fundraiser and

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Speaker 1: be there and support. On the other hand, it turns

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Speaker 1: out this was more entertaining than the NCAA. Yes, we

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Speaker 1: had some BLUs.

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Speaker 2: We always find a way to have fun, even at fundraisers.

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Speaker 1: It was an absolutely great time. But that's what we've

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Speaker 1: been up to. And look, my mood has changed. And

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Speaker 1: I am on this podcast often. We have had people

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Speaker 1: on and it turns into a therapy session. We don't

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Speaker 1: mean for it too, but it turns into not just

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Speaker 1: the therapy for us, but therapy for the listener oftentimes

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Speaker 1: and a group therapy session for us all Doctor Gardier,

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Speaker 1: America psychologist Jeff Gardier was on and that was a great,

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Speaker 1: great episode.

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Speaker 2: We didn't even mean for it to be therapy. It

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Speaker 2: turned into therapy.

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Speaker 1: We didn't know how much help we needed, but apparently

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Speaker 1: he helped a lot of people in that respect. We

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Speaker 1: had Maddie with Jacamo, the Peloton instructor, very popular. We

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Speaker 2: He was amazing and it was what I think is

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Speaker 2: so cool when you can have people on and it

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Speaker 2: unexpectedly becomes some incredible learning, growing experience where you learn

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Speaker 2: things you didn't know. I think we're all so quick to,

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Speaker 2: especially if someone's famous or has made headlines of some sort,

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Speaker 2: And it's so nice when you get to actually sit

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Speaker 2: what they've been through, and what they learned from those experiences,

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Speaker 1: And we're able to do it again today and this

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Speaker 1: has helped my mood as well, because I am always

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Speaker 1: right if I described you. So we just had a

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Speaker 1: little chat in the green room with our guests today

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Speaker 1: and we got to talking about kids in life and

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Speaker 1: relationship and you're able to connect with folks. So when

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Speaker 1: I hear someone who had a twenty four year marriage

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Speaker 1: she's an entrepreneur. She is a television star. To hear

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Speaker 1: information from somebody who is who has that type of resume. However,

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Speaker 1: for everybody else out there, possibly who is not exposed

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Speaker 1: to our guests the way we have now been, they

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Speaker 1: only see her as a headline.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 1: They only see her as a controverse. They only see

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Speaker 1: her possibly as something scandalous.

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Speaker 2: Right, Well, we are talking about the amazing Larsa Pippen,

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Speaker 2: who is here in studio with us. iHeart studios. First

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Speaker 2: of all, think it is so nice to meet you

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Speaker 2: in person. Hi. Hey, she's a bit round of applause.

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Speaker 2: And it's true, you know, your most important I'm sure

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Speaker 2: the the proudest job you have is being a mom

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Speaker 2: to your four children, and one of whom is here,

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Speaker 2: by the way, in the studio with us. So we're

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Speaker 2: happy to have Sofia with us.

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Speaker 3: Sophia's with us. She's on spring break. So we're here

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Speaker 3: to shop and hang out in New York.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and that's what moms and daughters should be doing

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Speaker 2: on those fun trips. But you're also here working as well,

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Speaker 2: and that's what you've been doing you've been an entrepreneur.

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Speaker 2: I actually was looking at your jewelry line really like

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Speaker 2: some of your stuff. I might have to go back

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Speaker 2: in there a little bit later. I actually like, Wow, I

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Speaker 2: like this stuff. It's really beautiful and elegant. But you

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Speaker 2: know that you have been in the headlines and some

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Speaker 2: of it you put yourself out there. You are a

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Speaker 2: big franchise. You might have heard of it, The Real

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Speaker 2: Housewives of Miami. Larsa is the star of the show.

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Speaker 2: Let's just be honest, and that often comes sometimes with

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Speaker 2: some nagging headlines. But I want to see if we

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Speaker 2: can get a headline out of you because we have

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Speaker 2: been reading about season seven. It's been renewed, but the

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Speaker 2: cast has not been named. Is there anything you can

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Speaker 3: Honestly, I don't know. I feel like you know, with

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Speaker 3: I mean I don't think it'll be me though. I

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Speaker 2: Have you heard from them.

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Speaker 1: As we sit here, you do or don't know whether

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure I would be back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what would the show be without you?

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Speaker 1: And and you're happy to do so.

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Speaker 3: I you know, I feel like I have a whole

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Speaker 1: Well, why why is it you think you're dehumanized? We

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Speaker 1: what you just said. Your mom your mother to four

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Speaker 3: Well, I think it's because my kids don't want to

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Speaker 3: But I kind of feel like it's the people that

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Speaker 1: you've just spent some time.

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Speaker 2: It's been a tough couple of days here. You have

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Speaker 2: Marcus Jordan is who we're talking about. Everyone. If you

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Speaker 3: No, No, I don't think so. I just think we're

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Speaker 3: A different Why do I dated guys are way older

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Speaker 3: I just think it's where we are right now, you know.

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Speaker 3: Single? Ready to mingle?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 1: You know what we don't like? She just mentioned your

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Speaker 1: But we all been through breakups before, and they don't

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Speaker 3: I feel like spending time away from him made it easier.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. No, I'm good. I'm like, no, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm scared.

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Speaker 3: No, I just feel like you guys, I just really

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Speaker 3: I feel like, you know, we're friends. We were friends

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Speaker 2: And it was interesting too. We saw that you all

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Speaker 2: Scotty Pippen and Michael Jordan played together. But you your

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Speaker 3: When I met my ex, I was a senior in college,

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Speaker 3: You know, I was in college. I was twenty one

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Speaker 1: They were not It was never that were you disappointed

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. I feel like, you know,

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's something I don't really think about.

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Speaker 3: To be honest with you, Yeah, I feel like if

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Speaker 2: So if you go back, but it sounds like when

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Speaker 3: Oh, they ask you to share everything. They ask you,

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Speaker 3: like I'm not one of those people that leaves their

438
00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:02,720
Speaker 3: relationship and like puts everything out there. It's just not

439
00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,840
Speaker 3: something I do. I feel like you know. I can

440
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,320
Speaker 3: tell you we just you know, we grew apart or

441
00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,080
Speaker 3: stuff like that. But I'm not one to, like, you know,

442
00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:13,120
Speaker 3: dissect entire relationship because I feel like if I've spent

443
00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,399
Speaker 3: time with someone like that wouldn't be fair. I don't like.

444
00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:18,119
Speaker 3: I don't like when people break up and they just

445
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,399
Speaker 3: start bashing each other to look good. I feel like

446
00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,399
Speaker 3: I've looked like the villain, you know, when my breakups

447
00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:25,919
Speaker 3: with certain people in the past, because I don't really

448
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:28,879
Speaker 3: like I don't really defend myself. But that's because I

449
00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:31,399
Speaker 3: don't need to. Because the people that know and I

450
00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,119
Speaker 3: that I care about, the people that I love, know

451
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,560
Speaker 3: the story. I don't really care to like have other

452
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:38,639
Speaker 3: people be mad at whoever I spent time with because

453
00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:41,159
Speaker 3: they didn't me wrong or whatever that I'm not like that.

454
00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I learned from it, and I appreciate

455
00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,520
Speaker 3: the time we've spent together, and I'm ready to move on.

456
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,760
Speaker 1: What's what's something you can think of now that you're

457
00:19:50,800 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 1: just you would love to correct, right. I know you're

458
00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:56,040
Speaker 1: used to so many headlines and foolishness and father and

459
00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 1: tablet all this, But what is one thing you can

460
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,680
Speaker 1: think of that just drove you crazy, Like, I can't

461
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:02,560
Speaker 1: believe they're saying that that it's so wrong that you

462
00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,159
Speaker 1: wish you could have cleared up.

463
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:08,480
Speaker 3: I think, well, the thing about you know, people assuming

464
00:20:08,520 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 3: that I knew Marcus and his family before, which I

465
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,080
Speaker 3: did not, or the fact that you know stuff like that,

466
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 3: I feel like that's so not true.

467
00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 1: What's off limits? You just mentioned that the producers wanted

468
00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 1: you to put everything out there? What for you would

469
00:20:20,480 --> 00:20:23,159
Speaker 1: be like, I'm not going that far. What's what's the

470
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:24,960
Speaker 1: line for you of going too far?

471
00:20:25,320 --> 00:20:27,320
Speaker 3: I think I don't want to cross the line of

472
00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 3: someone that I love or I care about it. I

473
00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:32,560
Speaker 3: would never want to make someone not look good, you know,

474
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:34,520
Speaker 3: and have it be my perspective. I don't really talk

475
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 3: about people in lessy're in the same room where they

476
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 3: can defend themselves. I don't think it's fair for me

477
00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:42,320
Speaker 3: to like batch someone, you know, because I felt they

478
00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 3: did me, you know what I mean, not the right way.

479
00:20:45,080 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 2: You mentioned being vilified. Do you think that people think

480
00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,240
Speaker 2: of you as a villain.

481
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:54,240
Speaker 3: I think people don't like whoever the bigger star is.

482
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 3: So for instance, when my ex and I broke up,

483
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:58,920
Speaker 3: whoever the bigger star is people think, like you must

484
00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:01,879
Speaker 3: have done something wrong too leave him, and I'm like, no,

485
00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,600
Speaker 3: it's not that, Like, you know, we just grew apart.

486
00:21:05,680 --> 00:21:08,399
Speaker 3: And I think sometimes people like it's so much easier

487
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,440
Speaker 3: to hate on a woman. It is so much easier

488
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:11,680
Speaker 3: to hate on a woman that it is to hate

489
00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,680
Speaker 3: on a man. And it takes you know, it takes

490
00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 3: two people to make a relationship work. It takes two

491
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:18,600
Speaker 3: people to make a relationship fall apart. So it's like,

492
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 3: you know, if you're not doing what you're supposed to

493
00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:21,960
Speaker 3: be doing, and then I'm not going to do what

494
00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to be doing. So I definitely take responsibility

495
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:28,120
Speaker 3: for the things that I didn't do one hundred percent.

496
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 3: But I'm also a cancer, Like I'm a lover, so

497
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: I love hard, you know, that's just my personality, and

498
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 3: that's kind of how I am.

499
00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:40,280
Speaker 1: Where along that I'm always fascinated by this because we've

500
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: talked here, Like I think back to certain parts of

501
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 1: our lives, all of us, Like you were dating this

502
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,119
Speaker 1: person at this age and this age, But if if

503
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 1: you had met that person now where you are, You're like,

504
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:54,120
Speaker 1: I would never have been interested. I never would have

505
00:21:54,160 --> 00:21:58,320
Speaker 1: gone that way. What from that college young lady who

506
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:01,919
Speaker 1: met your ex where along the lines that you feel

507
00:22:01,960 --> 00:22:05,600
Speaker 1: like you matured or changed to a point that you

508
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:09,679
Speaker 1: don't think that relationship would have been something you would

509
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: have been interested in, or you think maybe you all

510
00:22:12,040 --> 00:22:13,760
Speaker 1: would have always been compatible along the way.

511
00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 3: I you know what, I think like people grow differently,

512
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 3: and I feel like people grow at you know, different

513
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,240
Speaker 3: speeds and where they are. I would never change one

514
00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 3: thing about anybody that I spent time with. I feel

515
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 3: like I learned from it all. It was a great experience.

516
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,000
Speaker 3: I just feel like at the end, like it's hard

517
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,600
Speaker 3: to be married to an athlete. When they retire, that's

518
00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 3: like a very hard time for athletes because they're so

519
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 3: used to being the man. They're so used to, you know,

520
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,720
Speaker 3: just being this big life. And then I think a

521
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 3: lot of them when they retired, they just don't feel

522
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,360
Speaker 3: as good as they used to, and so it's hard,

523
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,440
Speaker 3: you know, it's challenging. Yeah, I hear girls tell me

524
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 3: all the time, like, oh, set me up with this

525
00:22:48,119 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 3: athlete or set me up with that athlete. I'm like,

526
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 3: you have to be built to be able to be

527
00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 3: with an athlete because their lives are so stressful. You know,

528
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 3: every game you have people, there's critics to talk about

529
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 3: your game, and you're always on the road and you

530
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 3: have to like it's just so many things that you

531
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:07,200
Speaker 3: have to have in order to make it.

532
00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,000
Speaker 1: With an athlete as all right, now, would someone be

533
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: challenged in dating you? Like you said you would warn

534
00:23:14,359 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 1: a woman about dating a pro athlete with some wou

535
00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:18,520
Speaker 1: A guy need to be warn like, hey, you're getting

536
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 1: into it. Laarsa here she has to deal with this

537
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:21,639
Speaker 1: and this and she's here and that.

538
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 3: No, I'm so easy.

539
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 1: No, I am your cancer. I told.

540
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 2: I's a lover, A lover.

541
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 3: I am the I've never dated a guy that has

542
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,880
Speaker 3: not wanted to marry me ever, guy that I've ever dated. Literally,

543
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 3: you guys gets obsessed with me. Maybe it's my cooking,

544
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,919
Speaker 3: Maybe it's I have good vibes in the morning. I

545
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:44,200
Speaker 3: don't know. I just feel like I have good energy.

546
00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 2: We've heard about your sex life, so maybe that's it too.

547
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,120
Speaker 1: I'm from you though we didn't hear it. Yeah.

548
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:51,680
Speaker 3: Well, I'm just saying I have good energy, and I

549
00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 3: feel like people like good energy.

550
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 2: That's amazing. I'm curious. Just having watched Scotty as you

551
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 2: mentioned go through the ups and the downs, dealing with fame,

552
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 2: dealing with the critics, dealing with all of that. Do

553
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 2: you think you learned some of what he went through

554
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 2: and applied it to your own life now in the

555
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:12,680
Speaker 2: public eye.

556
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 3: I think so. I think, like, yeah, you know, I

557
00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 3: feel like I'm not really phased by like the noise

558
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,960
Speaker 3: because I feel really solid on the inside, and I

559
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 3: feel like that's the most important thing. You know, surround

560
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,400
Speaker 3: yourself with people that love you, that want to see

561
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:29,480
Speaker 3: you win. And I think as we get older, you

562
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 3: start realizing that there are people in your circle that

563
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 3: don't want to see you win. And I feel like

564
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 3: I've let a lot of those people go, and I'm

565
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 3: so much happier without them. Every time something every time

566
00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 3: something bad has happened in my life, it's really showed

567
00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 3: me who my real people are. And so for me,

568
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 3: I feel like that is that to me, is like

569
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 3: the best experience of life.

570
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 2: I feel you, Larsa, because yeah, anytime you go through

571
00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 2: something where maybe not everyone's going to agree with your

572
00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,520
Speaker 2: choices or agree with how things happened, do you end

573
00:24:58,600 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 2: up with not a smaller group of friends sometimes? And

574
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 2: that's not a bad thing. Have you had that experience?

575
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 3: I used to think. I used to think that I

576
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 3: had like a thousand best friends. I'd be like, that's

577
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,199
Speaker 3: my best friend, that's my best friend. And then I

578
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: realized when I went through my divorce, when I went

579
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 3: through certain things in my life, that those people were

580
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,399
Speaker 3: the biggest haters and so I am so much happy

581
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 3: without them, Like God has blessed me time and time again.

582
00:25:22,520 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 3: I feel like when you have good energy, you get

583
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 3: good things. And I, you know, I feel like I'm

584
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:28,800
Speaker 3: killing it, killing it.

585
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,119
Speaker 1: You thought you had a thousand best friends? What are

586
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 1: you down to now? How many?

587
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 3: Now I'm down to like a hundred?

588
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: Okay, wow?

589
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a people person, you guys. Some people collect friends.

590
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:40,520
Speaker 1: We're best friends now?

591
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah?

592
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 3: I have you as all the time. Yes, I love, like,

593
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 3: you know, hanging out with good people and having good

594
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 3: times and making great memories like I love that.

595
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 2: I love that too. I think that that's part of life.

596
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,880
Speaker 2: And I'm a big people person too. I love I

597
00:25:56,920 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 2: love having friends to share things with. It makes life

598
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 2: more fun. But it can be problematic, especially when it's

599
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 2: all displayed for everyone to watch as their entertainment. Have

600
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,360
Speaker 2: you ever been in a situation in the Housewives franchise

601
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 2: where you thought, I don't want to do this anymore,

602
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: this isn't worth it, this is too much. Not recently,

603
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 2: but initially.

604
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 3: I feel like when I was on fourteen years ago,

605
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,120
Speaker 3: my exit and like the show, and I didn't want

606
00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 3: to cause waves in my relationship, and my kids were younger,

607
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 3: and so I felt like it wasn't right for me.

608
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 3: Then I didn't contribute as much just because I felt

609
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 3: like I had to protect my kids, I had to

610
00:26:33,000 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 3: protect my ex. But now, no, I feel like I'm

611
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 3: in a great place. I love sharing my life. I

612
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 3: would do it anyway on Instagram and everything else, kind

613
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,360
Speaker 3: of like an open book. So you know, so it's

614
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 3: working out for me right now.

615
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 2: Do you edit yourself at all on the show or

616
00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,320
Speaker 2: do you just say whatever you think?

617
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,080
Speaker 3: No, I think I need to do a better job

618
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 3: of editing myself, by the way, really, just because I

619
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:57,920
Speaker 3: feel like sometimes you say things and you don't mean

620
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 3: them the way they you know, yet seen to the public.

621
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 3: You know, I feel like a lot of times like

622
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: things that I've said have come back to bite me

623
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 3: in the ass, but it's it's not meant that way.

624
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. You know how you can

625
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 3: take things out of context.

626
00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 2: I feel like, do you have an example? No, I

627
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 2: like to not be repeated, so you're editing your.

628
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 3: No, I'm no, I'm so real, you guys. I was

629
00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 3: saying I need to start like not not doing so

630
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 3: much of that and being a little bit more closed off.

631
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 3: You know, I'm learning. I'm learning every days, a learning,

632
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 3: you know, experience.

633
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,359
Speaker 2: Do you watch the show's back?

634
00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:36,960
Speaker 3: No? I when they send it to us, I watch

635
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 3: it and I never look back at it again. Oh really,

636
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 3: And my kids don't really watch a show.

637
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 2: They don't know why, they just don't.

638
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 3: They don't. My kids don't really. My kids are athletes,

639
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 3: they're busy. Sophia has a model like they don't.

640
00:27:57,440 --> 00:27:59,439
Speaker 1: What is it you do that? The kids are like,

641
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:01,360
Speaker 1: hell yeah, I'll go to that. Oh yeah, I'll check

642
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:04,119
Speaker 1: that out. Do they ever get into our reap some

643
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 1: benefits of mama?

644
00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, it's crazy. I used to beg my

645
00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 3: kids to go to concerts with me, and I'd say, hey,

646
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:11,959
Speaker 3: so and so on by it us. He's got a concert,

647
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 3: let's go. And my kids would be like, we're good,

648
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 3: we're gonna like we're gonna go get like shoot, you know,

649
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,880
Speaker 3: go shoot some basketballs, or like I'm gonna go work out,

650
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:22,320
Speaker 3: or My kids are not party kids, like my son.

651
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 3: I have a son that's twenty three, twenty one, eighteen,

652
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 3: and Sophia's fifteen. But I have the greatest kids in

653
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 3: the world. They don't drink, they don't like smoke, they

654
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,400
Speaker 3: don't go out. They're very focused on school and sports,

655
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 3: and so I'm really thankful for that. They're not into

656
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 3: like the music world, like the rap world. They don't

657
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 3: want to go to concerts, they don't really like going out.

658
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 3: They're just like the perfect human.

659
00:28:45,840 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: Sounds like my kind of people. That sounds it does sound.

660
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 2: Like you're kind of people.

661
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, they're like great kids. And for me, that's

662
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: like the number one thing. That's kind of how I

663
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 3: judge people based on their kids, And like the time

664
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 3: and energy that you've put into your kids, that's you

665
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 3: know what you reap you so and I feel like

666
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 3: I put so much love into my kids that they're

667
00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,800
Speaker 3: like the best kids in the world, are my best friends.

668
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 3: I enjoy them every single day, and so that's that's

669
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: my pride and joy.

670
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 2: You can tell you can tell by the way you

671
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 2: speak of them that that's that's all true. And so

672
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 2: I know that you've got a beautiful road ahead of you.

673
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 2: What do you want in the future? What where do

674
00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 2: you see your career headed? I mean, what are your

675
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 2: hopes and dreams?

676
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like that is such a

677
00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 3: good question. I don't know. I feel like I just

678
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 3: want to keep building, like my Larcemary jewelry line. I'm

679
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 3: working on a tequila called Alujo. I'm just working on

680
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 3: different things, things that I love and that I'm passionate about.

681
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 3: I feel like I only want to do things that

682
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 3: I love.

683
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 2: I like that tequila and jewelry can Who.

684
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 3: Doesn't like diamonds and who doesn't feel like we need

685
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: a shot? It's like the best of both worlds. It's

686
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:51,600
Speaker 3: so good.

687
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 2: Drink the dahuila first and then go shopping online for

688
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: your jewelry. That might be a good combo for you. Exactly.

689
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 2: What about in terms of you believe that there is

690
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 2: someone out there for you that you're going to grow

691
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 2: old with, You believe in that soulmate thing I do?

692
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 3: I do. I feel like I really like being married.

693
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:12,400
Speaker 3: I feel like I do like having a partner. I

694
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 3: feel like I do like having someone that I'm always with. Yeah,

695
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 3: I think so. I think I have someone out there

696
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 3: that's like perfect for me. I'm sure they're scared of

697
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 3: death because of Housewives, but they're like, I don't want

698
00:30:23,120 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 3: to be on that show.

699
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 2: Do you think that that would genuinely impact your ability

700
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: to maybe find that perfect person because they might not

701
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 2: want to be in the spotlight.

702
00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 3: Well. I was talking to one of my best friends,

703
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 3: Caroline Stanberry, who lives in Dubai, and she's on the show,

704
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 3: She's on Housewives of Dubai, and she's like, I have

705
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 3: this perfect guy for you. He's amazing. She's like, but

706
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 3: he's going to be so scared when I tell him

707
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 3: that you're on housewives, And I was like, really, so,

708
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like sometimes it's a lot

709
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 3: of guys don't want to put theirselves.

710
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:52,719
Speaker 2: Out there like that.

711
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: You know, But what is dating like for you?

712
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 2: Like?

713
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: How do you meet have to be introduced to someone?

714
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: If people sliding into you DM like, what's happening? How

715
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: do you go about dating? Are you on dating apps?

716
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:05,080
Speaker 2: No?

717
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 3: I think for me, I meet people through friends and

718
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 3: I kind of be like any person I've ever been with,

719
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 3: I've kind of been friends with for a long time,

720
00:31:12,760 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 3: and then I just kind of you know, talk to them,

721
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 3: figure out everything about them first, you know, know they're

722
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 3: dating history, and then I kind of like decide if

723
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 3: I want to like jump in.

724
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:23,800
Speaker 2: The water, describe your perfect man.

725
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 3: I think my perfect man would be really smart, really driven,

726
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:32,680
Speaker 3: like a workaholic because I love to work, and someone

727
00:31:32,720 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 3: that's really nice and charitable, because I feel like living

728
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 3: a life of purpose is like way more important than

729
00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:39,120
Speaker 3: all the other stuff.

730
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: Now, robot, describe your perfect man.

731
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:50,120
Speaker 2: Wait, oh, you're asking me. Oh well, I'm sitting right

732
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:50,520
Speaker 2: next to it.

733
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: Wow, she played. Wow, Yeah, it was not a good.

734
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 2: The truth is, I actually was surprised you were turning

735
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 2: the table onto me. I was like, wait what Oh,

736
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 2: So it took me a second to real and I

737
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:03,120
Speaker 2: was supposed to answer that question. But actually what you

738
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 2: just said is true. I mean someone who works hard,

739
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,280
Speaker 2: someone who makes me for me. It's someone who can

740
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 2: make me laugh, who I can laugh with, who I

741
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,160
Speaker 2: can be silly with, who I can We just said

742
00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 2: this earlier, but Tita has an amazing quote, and I

743
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: think this describes our relationship and what I think made

744
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 2: me realize that we were going to be amazing together

745
00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:24,560
Speaker 2: for a very very long time. Everyone's always looking for

746
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:27,360
Speaker 2: that person to grow old with, but some would suggest,

747
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: and I would concur that if you can find the

748
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 2: person to stay young with, that's the person you can

749
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 2: actually get through some tough times with, because if you

750
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: can laugh and you can play, and you can have

751
00:32:38,920 --> 00:32:41,680
Speaker 2: that childlike enthusiasm with that partner. And I want a

752
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 2: partner too. I'm a big believer. I want a life partner.

753
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 2: I don't know that everyone does, but I do. And

754
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: I can see that in you as well. I mean,

755
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 2: you had a twenty four year marriage, and we all

756
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 2: got married young. We all were believers and dreamers. I

757
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 2: got married at twenty three, twenty three, how you were

758
00:32:56,000 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 2: twenty two. And I do think that that's the that's

759
00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 2: that speaks volumes do your belief in love and your

760
00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,640
Speaker 2: belief in finding that partner and wanting that even at

761
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 2: that young age.

762
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,959
Speaker 3: I grew up like watching my parents. My parents are

763
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 3: still married, they're obsessed with each other. My mom and

764
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 3: dad do everything together, and so I kind of feel

765
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 3: like I want that.

766
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 2: Oh he just gave me chills mine too, and his

767
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 2: like yours are how many years over fifty years? And

768
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 2: I think I took for granted that that was just

769
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 2: something that was a given. You know, it obviously takes work,

770
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 2: but it's also about finding that right person totally.

771
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:34,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, does that have Does that play your watching your parents?

772
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: Does that play into your life, and that there's a

773
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: standard now that you won't accept anything less than I

774
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: think so.

775
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 3: I think, like watching it, my mom takes care of

776
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 3: my dad like she adores him, and I feel like

777
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 3: I'm normally like that with the guys that I'm with,

778
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 3: So I feel like I definitely kind of mimic that,

779
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 3: you know. I just feel like I haven't met a

780
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 3: person that's like like my dad.

781
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 2: So we'll see, that's a that's a tough that's a

782
00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: tough bar, right to me.

783
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, my mom, kid, my mom. I remember one day

784
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 3: she was like, you need to be with this kind

785
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 3: of guy, and you know, she was like, I would

786
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 3: you know, she was saying something like if she didn't

787
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 3: have this, she would leave my dad. I'm like, where

788
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,080
Speaker 3: would you go? Like there's no guy better than my dad,

789
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 3: Like you can't even she was trying to give me

790
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,839
Speaker 3: an example, and I was like, by the way, there's

791
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 3: no one better than my dad, Like, they.

792
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: Don't make my kid.

793
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 2: That's so sweet. Do you have a celebrity crush?

794
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 3: No, not really, like no.

795
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 1: She didn't even hesitate.

796
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 2: No. I wish everyone could have seen her face.

797
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 1: You know what it is.

798
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,160
Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of times when people think

799
00:34:28,200 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 3: that like this person's great on paper, and then you

800
00:34:31,640 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 3: actually meet them and they are.

801
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: So not the worst.

802
00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: That happens to me all the time because I feel

803
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: like I've met people that I thought were like, like

804
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 3: the greatest soccer player on the planet, and then when

805
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 3: I started talking to him, I was like, that's it,

806
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 3: that's it, no thanks. And then like I've talked to

807
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 3: people that are in the music world and I'm like, oh,

808
00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 3: he's so cool when he's on stage, but then when

809
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 3: he would like get off stage, I was like, you

810
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 3: were so much cooler on the stage. So it's hard.

811
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 1: Who was it, Larsa? Who was? I know you're not

812
00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: gonna say, but I.

813
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 3: Do feel like I want to date like a business guy.

814
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 3: I feel like that's kind of like where I need

815
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 3: to be, like date someone that's very business savvy, and

816
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 3: you know, I think I like that.

817
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: What's your advice maybe to your daughter, but also to

818
00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 1: young women who watch the show who often they describe

819
00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:25,759
Speaker 1: him as these guilty pleasures. Oftentimes they or all kinds

820
00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: of things that describe him as it's not something we're

821
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: supposed to take seriously. It's just supposed to be entertainment.

822
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: But what could you say to a young woman watching

823
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 1: the show to take from it, to learn from it,

824
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: to be empowered by Do you see that type of

825
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: I guess service if you will, that some of these

826
00:35:40,560 --> 00:35:45,720
Speaker 1: shows still can provide. You're a strong, successful woman who's

827
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: got four wonderful kids that should be highlighted. But it

828
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,080
Speaker 1: doesn't seem like oftentimes it is when we talk about

829
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 1: these shows.

830
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 3: You know, I feel like a lot of people are

831
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 3: in miserable relationships. And I think if you look at

832
00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 3: I was married for such a long time, you know,

833
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 3: I was a stay at home mom. I raise my kids,

834
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 3: and I feel like a lot of times when you

835
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 3: watch housewives, you see like these women are entrepreneurs, they

836
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 3: have a second life, Like your life is not over

837
00:36:08,640 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 3: because you are not with that person, or you can

838
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 3: be who you want to be. I'm a firm believer

839
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 3: of that, like you can wake up one day and say, hey,

840
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 3: guess what I am going to be this today, and

841
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 3: you put all your energy into that and you basically

842
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 3: can grow like that. So, you know our show, I

843
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 3: feel like there are so many women that have done

844
00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 3: so much with their platform. I use my platform to

845
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,400
Speaker 3: basically show what I'm doing as far as my business

846
00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 3: stuff and you know, my kids and just feeling good.

847
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 3: You know. It is a little bit of cattiness, of course,

848
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 3: but it's really fun, you guys, it's fun to shoot.

849
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,759
Speaker 2: I was so I saw you just smile, and he said, yeah,

850
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,880
Speaker 2: there's some cattiness. Do you enjoy that part of it alone? No?

851
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,400
Speaker 3: No, I'm not confrontational, I promise.

852
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:49,840
Speaker 2: How should you describe yourself?

853
00:36:50,400 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 3: I'm a cancer, I'm a lover. I'm super nice. I'm

854
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 3: very generous, and I think that probably is bad because

855
00:36:57,120 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 3: I think when you give, when you're a giver and

856
00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 3: then the person is not giving back what you give,

857
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,000
Speaker 3: you kind of get a little resentful, you know.

858
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 2: Do you stand up for yourself?

859
00:37:05,600 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 3: Yes? I feel like if I baby doesn't like to

860
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 3: be put in a corner, so I don't want to

861
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 3: be put in a corner.

862
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,239
Speaker 2: You know, what do you do when someone puts you

863
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 2: in a corner?

864
00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 3: I handle my business. No. Now, I just feel like

865
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 3: I'm a lover you guys, and I feel like sometimes,

866
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 3: you know, being on this show, do you know what happens?

867
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:23,880
Speaker 3: I feel like being on these shows. I was just

868
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 3: with Teresa Judas last week and she was telling me

869
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,000
Speaker 3: how people pick on her because she is like the franchise,

870
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 3: like she is a big person, and I was thinking,

871
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,600
Speaker 3: that's probably why they pick on me too, because then

872
00:37:34,640 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 3: they have a like, you know, it makes press. So

873
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 3: it's like, if you have nothing going on in your life,

874
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 3: pick on Larsa and then it's like a story behind it. Now,

875
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 3: because I don't ever talk about anyone on our show,

876
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 3: I have a great life. My life is so full

877
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 3: that when I'm on the show, I want to talk

878
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 3: about all the great things I'm doing. I don't want

879
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 3: to talk about what you're wearing, like you know, it's

880
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 3: my mind is not on that. But but then you

881
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 3: have to defend yourself because someone is talking about you,

882
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 3: and then you know, that's kind of where the cattiness

883
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 3: comes in at.

884
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: Who is the real Housewives of Miami villain? Who's the

885
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:09,959
Speaker 1: villain on the show.

886
00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 3: Do you really want me to answer that?

887
00:38:13,040 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: Yep, Well, I know it's not you because you're the

888
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,480
Speaker 1: cancer and you're a lover and you don't like the cattiness,

889
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: So it's not you. Ry Larsa, I don't know.

890
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 3: I don't think there's really a villain on our show.

891
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: Now we have Andy here, who is a huge, huge

892
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: Real Housewives. He loves the franchise. He loves Real Housewives

893
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,000
Speaker 1: of Miami. Now, Andy, if I asked you who was

894
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 1: the villain on Real Housewives of Miami, who would you say?

895
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 2: You can be honest, I would say you moved the

896
00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 2: story along. But I think Adriana is the real.

897
00:38:47,040 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 3: Villain, right, Okay, yeah that makes sense, just.

898
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 1: Being honest, But she moves a story along, as you say, I.

899
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: Think there's necessary things that are that you bring up

900
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 2: that moves things forward.

901
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: But not the villain. She's not the villain. Well, I

902
00:39:04,239 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 1: wouldn't say the main.

903
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 3: I mean I feel like for me, I just listen

904
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 3: if I don't say the things I say, like who's watching,

905
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,520
Speaker 3: I'm the kind of person. Just if you see this

906
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 3: cup and it's full of water, I'm gonna say, who

907
00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:18,799
Speaker 3: left this cup?

908
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:22,640
Speaker 1: You're full of water, Like that's where it starts.

909
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 3: It's there. So it's like I just pointed out and

910
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 3: you know.

911
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 2: You mentioned that you made the mistake. And I've done

912
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,879
Speaker 2: this before too, and I have admitted it, and it's

913
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 2: been awful of reading comments Sometimes do you make a

914
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 2: point not to read comments? And when you have done it,

915
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 2: what has that been like for you?

916
00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:48,080
Speaker 3: I mean, I normally do not read comments, but you know,

917
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 3: I feel like it's the one percent of people that

918
00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 3: have nothing going on in their lives that are writing them.

919
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 3: But the majority of the people don't think like that.

920
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,680
Speaker 3: The people that are that I care about, that are

921
00:39:56,680 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 3: busy with their lives, taking care of their businesses, their kids,

922
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 3: their their minds, they're not doing that. They're not writing

923
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 3: all those bad, you know things on Instagram. But I

924
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 3: don't really I'm not really phased by it, to be

925
00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:11,279
Speaker 3: honest with you. And I don't really read them because

926
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 3: I don't care.

927
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 2: You know.

928
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 3: I feel like this is.

929
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 2: Like getting that place i'd like to get. I'm not

930
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 2: there yet. How do you get to a place where

931
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 2: you don't care?

932
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 3: You just have to start thinking about the people that

933
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 3: matter and the people that care. And I feel like

934
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 3: the people that genuinely are happy in their lives want

935
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,799
Speaker 3: to see other people happy, and the people that are

936
00:40:28,840 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 3: miserable in their lives want to make you miserable and

937
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 3: want to see misery on you. So for me, I'm

938
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,279
Speaker 3: not I'm not doing that. I'm killing it. Why would

939
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: I even deal with those people? If anything, I'd actually

940
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 3: want to hang out with them to help them, because

941
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 3: I'm like a girl's girl or like, you know, I

942
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 3: could help you. But I'm not necessarily like a hater.

943
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 3: I've never been jealous of anyone. I've never like, I

944
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:53,720
Speaker 3: don't talk about anyone that's not my personality. I'm always

945
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 3: ready to like uplift other women and like help any

946
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 3: which way I can. So I feel like if you

947
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 3: knew my real life, like I think on this show,

948
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,879
Speaker 3: it's hard because you're put with these women that you're

949
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 3: really not best friends with and so and you know,

950
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 3: things come up, and I think everyone's trying to stay

951
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 3: on the show and do whatever they have to do

952
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,279
Speaker 3: to maintain their position on the show. Whereas for me,

953
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm just living my life. I'm just living

954
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 3: my life and that's all I can offer.

955
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:31,160
Speaker 1: You make a good point there. That seems very difficult.

956
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: It's almost like everyone in the show. If you're not

957
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: friends already, then you're showing up almost with strangers to

958
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: a certain degree who are all competing. Stay on the

959
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: show totally. That is a recipe for disaster.

960
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 3: Well, that's what it is, and that's what you And

961
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 3: then you have people that just watch that and they're like,

962
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,759
Speaker 3: oh my god, I love her. I'm like, if you

963
00:41:51,800 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 3: only know our real life, you probably.

964
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,719
Speaker 1: Wouldn't Oh my god, So who are you friends? Who

965
00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,399
Speaker 1: would you say? If you don't want to name names,

966
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 1: that's fine.

967
00:41:57,840 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 3: I feel like I feel like I'm really close with

968
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 3: Lisa Justina. We've been friends, like from before I came

969
00:42:02,640 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 3: back on the show. We've been friends for over a decade.

970
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 3: I feel like we we hang out off the show.

971
00:42:07,280 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 3: That's like, really, my really good friend.

972
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 2: And how often when you all are filming, when you're

973
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 2: together in groups and things get a little contentious, is

974
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:16,720
Speaker 2: alcohol involved.

975
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 3: I'm not really like a heavy drinker. I'm like a girl.

976
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 3: I probably have like one drink and I probably like

977
00:42:22,560 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 3: babysit that one drink all night. I don't feel like

978
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,439
Speaker 3: on our show. There's not our show is not really

979
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: that kind of show. I feel like some of the

980
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 3: other franchises they have issues with alcohol. Our show not

981
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 3: so much.

982
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: Because I always wonder if people just get that liquid

983
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 2: courage to say whatever they want.

984
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,960
Speaker 3: There's a couple of girls I like to drink. They

985
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 3: like to drink, but I don't. I mean, I don't know.

986
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 3: I feel like for me, I don't really like drink

987
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 3: like that. So I'm never like out of character.

988
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so what comes out of your mouth? You are

989
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:50,959
Speaker 2: intending I.

990
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 3: Double down on it.

991
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 2: That's exactly right.

992
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 3: Are bad? I double down on it without alcohol. I'm like,

993
00:42:57,080 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 3: I said, I'm sorry, but can we be friends tomorrow?

994
00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:03,279
Speaker 1: You double down not on alcohol. What do you do

995
00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: on the alcohol?

996
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I probably just fall asleep.

997
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 1: Oh are there folks? And this again not putting you

998
00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: in a position to name names if you don't want to.

999
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: But you said you don't know who's coming back for

1000
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 1: the next season of the show. Are there some people

1001
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,560
Speaker 1: you would really hope don't come back, that they don't

1002
00:43:19,600 --> 00:43:21,799
Speaker 1: have back, that you wouldn't have to work with again?

1003
00:43:22,680 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 3: You know? I feel like when I think of a housewife,

1004
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 3: I think of someone that has a family, kids, a

1005
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 3: husband and ex husband, businesses are something like that. This

1006
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 3: is what I would want to see because I'm like, look,

1007
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:37,719
Speaker 3: I want to see you know this lifestyle, and some

1008
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 3: of the people on our show don't necessarily have all that.

1009
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 3: So I feel like that to me is like when

1010
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 3: I think of a housewife, I think of you have

1011
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 3: these certain things, you know. So that's kind of my opinion.

1012
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 2: Well, I want to ask you one other thing too,

1013
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:55,319
Speaker 2: because just with being in the headlines and everything that's

1014
00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 2: been said and written about people, do you think you're

1015
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:02,919
Speaker 2: misunderstood one thousand percent? And what are people getting wrong

1016
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 2: about you?

1017
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 3: I think they don't really know who I am, and

1018
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 3: I think they judge me based on my exterior and

1019
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 3: I think they think that like I'm a certain way

1020
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 3: because I'm not one of those people that's like I

1021
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 3: don't like to like play victim. That's not my personality.

1022
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:21,839
Speaker 3: I feel like I would never play victim. My kids

1023
00:44:21,880 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 3: would never play victim. We're like built tough, we're built good,

1024
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 3: you know. So I feel like I can cry up

1025
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 3: a storm and tell you the worst things that I

1026
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 3: feel like some of the other people would do it,

1027
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 3: but I'm just not like that. I feel like I'm

1028
00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 3: the kind of person that like can overcome anything and

1029
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 3: move on and do it in a way where I

1030
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 3: look good doing it, and that's kind of my personality.

1031
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 3: So yeah, if people want to hate on me based

1032
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:47,919
Speaker 3: on how I look or how I dress or things

1033
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 3: they don't know about me, then that's okay. You know,

1034
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,480
Speaker 3: they have a right to their opinion. I'm okay with it.

1035
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: As tough as you are that had to come through

1036
00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 1: a lot of experience.

1037
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 3: Well, being married to an NBA player tw two years old,

1038
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:03,359
Speaker 3: I feel like you're used to it, You're built like it.

1039
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,279
Speaker 3: I've been in this lifestyle for a long time, and

1040
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,880
Speaker 3: i feel like I'm not like one of those people that, like,

1041
00:45:09,360 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 3: you can say the worst things about me, and I'm

1042
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:13,719
Speaker 3: not really a phased by it because I feel like

1043
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 3: I look at my kids, I look at my businesses,

1044
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:18,319
Speaker 3: I look at my friends that are there like they

1045
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 3: would do anything for me, and I feel like that

1046
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:22,959
Speaker 3: to me makes me feel good. I don't really care

1047
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 3: to like portray an image. There's so many celebrities that

1048
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 3: portray this image of like they're amazing and they're great

1049
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 3: because they have this big PR company and then when

1050
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 3: you really know them, you're like, they're a bunch of losers.

1051
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 3: They're losers. I'm like for me, I've literally every single

1052
00:45:37,719 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 3: year have like given back to charity since I was

1053
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 3: twenty one years old. My kids do stuff for charity.

1054
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 3: We love to give back. I'm very generous with my

1055
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 3: friends and my people. So to me, as long as

1056
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:50,440
Speaker 3: I am living a life that's like fulfilled and like

1057
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 3: you know, that's all I care about.

1058
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:55,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to use that word you don't get phased

1059
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: by it, but there have to be moments where you

1060
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 1: do get phased by something. What gets you there has

1061
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 1: to be I mean, you have friends and people you

1062
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: can lean on and talk to. You Do you do therapy?

1063
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: Where do you run? What is it that? Yeah? You no?

1064
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 3: I work. I don't believe in therapy for me because

1065
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:14,080
Speaker 3: I'm like Middle Eastern, So I feel like my mom

1066
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 3: is my therapist. I have like a big family. I

1067
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:20,279
Speaker 3: come from a family of five. They're in all my business.

1068
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 3: So I can't do one thing without my entire family

1069
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,319
Speaker 3: calling me and saying why did you do that or

1070
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:28,439
Speaker 3: what are you doing? So for me, that's like that's

1071
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 3: my safe zone. It's like my family my kids. But yeah,

1072
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 3: I feel like I work out every day that probably helps,

1073
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 3: and I strong myself with people that are strong, you know.

1074
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,400
Speaker 3: I think it's like your tribe if you have a

1075
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,840
Speaker 3: tribe of strong, independent women and men, and you know

1076
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:46,160
Speaker 3: my family, my dad's really educated. I feel like, so

1077
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 3: if I need business advice, I go to my dad.

1078
00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 3: If I need advice on my kids, I go to

1079
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 3: my mom. Like I have a great support system, and

1080
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 3: I think that's what like a lot of people lack.

1081
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,440
Speaker 3: I think if you don't have a good support system,

1082
00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,840
Speaker 3: then you not going to feel good and you're going

1083
00:46:59,920 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 3: to feel like you're alone. And there's nothing worse than that.

1084
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 3: But for me, I feel like I have the best family.

1085
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 3: I have the like my friends are amazing, my business

1086
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:12,880
Speaker 3: partners are amazing. I just I find myself like in

1087
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 3: places and I put myself in places with people that

1088
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 3: uplift me, and that to me is like my safe place.

1089
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,400
Speaker 2: Do you think that there is strength in showing weakness

1090
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 2: sometimes though?

1091
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:26,520
Speaker 3: Or No. I don't believe in weakness. I don't believe

1092
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:28,720
Speaker 3: in that, Like I'm just not that person.

1093
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1094
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 3: I feel like you can overcome almost anything and you

1095
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 3: can be someone that you want to be tomorrow. And

1096
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,360
Speaker 3: for me, I'm just like, be who you want to be.

1097
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 3: You know, That's kind of how I live, That's how

1098
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 3: I train.

1099
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:39,800
Speaker 2: You know.

1100
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 3: I've taught my kids that they could be heard, or

1101
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 3: my son can have a game that's really bad, and

1102
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 3: I'm like, it's fine, you play your ass off. Tomorrow's

1103
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 3: a new day, go back tomorrow and we'll get it going.

1104
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:51,280
Speaker 3: We don't really like, we're not one of those people

1105
00:47:51,280 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 3: that harps on losses. We don't do that. We're just like,

1106
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 3: all right, let's go to the next what's the next problem,

1107
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 3: what's the next goal. And that's kind of how if

1108
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 3: most people thought like that, people being much happier. I

1109
00:48:02,800 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 3: don't look back at like, you know, things in my

1110
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 3: past that didn't work out for me. I look at

1111
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,280
Speaker 3: it like I make decisions. Even if it's the wrong decision,

1112
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:12,600
Speaker 3: it's okay. I learned from it. So as long as

1113
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 3: I'm learning from it bettering myself than i'm winning.

1114
00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: It sounds like you're you've been in this training since

1115
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,399
Speaker 1: you were It sounds like a family thing. It sounds

1116
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 1: like it's just your upbringing. I have to read self

1117
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: help books, right and I was forty plus before I started.

1118
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: Some of the things that you're saying now make sense

1119
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,319
Speaker 1: to me. If I was thirty four, I was like,

1120
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:30,880
Speaker 1: what is she talking about? How does she do that?

1121
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,399
Speaker 1: But it sounds like it's from but do you have?

1122
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:36,200
Speaker 1: You don't have a guru, you don't read certain authors,

1123
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: you don't listen to certain podcasts, do nothing, nothing.

1124
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:40,319
Speaker 2: No.

1125
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 3: I just feel like I'm like that. I'm very like

1126
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 3: positive and I feel like I just focus on positive

1127
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 3: things and God keeps blessing me just because I just

1128
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 3: have Like you know, I'm letting. I'm open to the

1129
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 3: universe with positive energy, not necessarily like, oh poor me,

1130
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,720
Speaker 3: I didn't have a great relationship or my marriage failed.

1131
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 3: I don't look at it like that. I look at

1132
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 3: it like it was a great experience. I have four

1133
00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:04,680
Speaker 3: amazing kids. He's killing it. He's happy. I'm killing it.

1134
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:06,839
Speaker 3: How we're big family, we're all killing it.

1135
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 2: Let's still kill it. I mean you're inspiring me, all right,

1136
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 2: you know, I mean I do. I do appreciate that,

1137
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,840
Speaker 2: not wallowing and self pity and whymy and poor me,

1138
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 2: but instead taking it and saying how can I do better?

1139
00:49:19,120 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: It sounds like you are a hopeful person, which is

1140
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 2: an amazing thing to be able to have and to

1141
00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,400
Speaker 2: and to invest in and to give to your children.

1142
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: And I you know, Lord knows, you haven't had just

1143
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 2: this easy, blessed life where you've just been sailing through.

1144
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 2: You've been working your ass off, you've been dealt setbacks,

1145
00:49:40,360 --> 00:49:43,279
Speaker 2: but you just keep building it and going forward. And

1146
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,120
Speaker 2: that's an incredible thing to be able to do and

1147
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: to give to your kids. So and thank you for

1148
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 2: sharing it with us. I love your attitude.

1149
00:49:50,080 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 3: It's not about the end. It's about like the journey,

1150
00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,280
Speaker 3: you know, And I love the journey. I'm really excited

1151
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 3: about the journey.

1152
00:49:55,600 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: And the next stop on the journey. He said, you're

1153
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 1: not sure, you don't know what's next on this.

1154
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 3: I'm on this and I love it and I'm happy

1155
00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 3: and I like where it's going.

1156
00:50:02,840 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: Now we talk. We started this now, and we know

1157
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: your relationship status is single now by the time we

1158
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 1: actually post this podcast, is there any chance your relationship

1159
00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: status it's going to change again, Larsa, and we're going

1160
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 1: to hear that you all have reunited, is there?

1161
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 2: Listen.

1162
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:21,840
Speaker 3: I'm not one of those people that says never because

1163
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 3: I never say never. But I don't know, you know,

1164
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:26,480
Speaker 3: I don't know. I feel like right now I'm happy,

1165
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:28,600
Speaker 3: like alone. I feel like I'm good. I just want

1166
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,280
Speaker 3: to work on all my stuff. I just finish shooting

1167
00:50:30,280 --> 00:50:32,640
Speaker 3: another show. I shot three shows this year, so I

1168
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 3: feel like I'm busy. You know. I'm finally now like

1169
00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 3: free to hang out with my kids, you know, spring break,

1170
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,759
Speaker 3: and my twenty one year old son wants to go

1171
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 3: to like Italy, So I'm like, I'll take you to

1172
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 3: Italy's and the school's done. Like, I just want to

1173
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 3: hang out with my kids and focus on my family

1174
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 3: right now.

1175
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 2: I like that, But the door sounds like there's a crack.

1176
00:50:50,920 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 3: Never say no, he's a great guy. It's a great guy.

1177
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:54,400
Speaker 3: I don't want to talk negative about him. I just

1178
00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 3: feel like I'm just focusing on things that are like

1179
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 3: going to make me better, and you know, that's where

1180
00:50:59,520 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 3: I am.

1181
00:50:59,800 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: The last podcast you all did together was four months ago,

1182
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,240
Speaker 1: and he said, actually, hence the title of our podcast,

1183
00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: Separation Anxiety. We always want to be together. And you said,

1184
00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: we're just used to being all over each other all

1185
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:16,759
Speaker 1: the time. Now I heard that. If i'd heard that

1186
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 1: four months ago, I felt differently about it, but to

1187
00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 1: hear how we go from that just a short time

1188
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 1: ago to not just a breakup, but you have a

1189
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: piece about the breakup in that four months that you

1190
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: go from that, because that sounded so great and hopeful

1191
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: in my forever, Like I was like, how do we

1192
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:36,879
Speaker 1: get from there to here?

1193
00:51:37,239 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 3: You know, I think my personality is very what's the word.

1194
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:46,240
Speaker 3: I think it's very forgiving. So I forgive and I forgive,

1195
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:50,080
Speaker 3: and I forgive and I forgive until I realize there's

1196
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 3: no more forgiving. So, you know, I just feel like

1197
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:56,080
Speaker 3: I'm in a place of like that's probably why, Like

1198
00:51:56,160 --> 00:51:59,279
Speaker 3: I'm like a relationship person with my friends, all my

1199
00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 3: friends I've been from for over twenty years. Like I

1200
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 3: don't really have like, you know, friends that I don't

1201
00:52:04,640 --> 00:52:06,919
Speaker 3: have a relationship with. That's not my personality. I feel

1202
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,360
Speaker 3: like I work on all my relationships and I always

1203
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 3: try to see the best in everyone. But at some point,

1204
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 3: Larcia's got to think about Larsa, and I felt like

1205
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 3: I was giving up too much of me, you know,

1206
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:19,839
Speaker 3: And so that's kind of what it was.

1207
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:22,600
Speaker 1: Are you hearing rogues The way I heard it is

1208
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:25,960
Speaker 1: that it sounds almost like you stayed longer than you

1209
00:52:26,000 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: should have, Like there were things you saw, probably and

1210
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:32,280
Speaker 1: probably yeah, you were trying, like you said, I tried.

1211
00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:35,719
Speaker 3: I really tried. I really tried. I tried for all

1212
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 3: the right reasons. And I feel like, you know, I

1213
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 3: really like I'm a romantic, like I want to make

1214
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:43,319
Speaker 3: sure that, like you know, I communicate really well and

1215
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 3: I make sure everyone's good and you feel good. I

1216
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 3: do this with my kids every day and we have dinner,

1217
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 3: I'm like, how do you feel? Do you feel good?

1218
00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,799
Speaker 3: Do you feel solid? What can I do to make

1219
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 3: you feel better? What can you do to make you

1220
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,520
Speaker 3: feel better? And so I feel like and I like

1221
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 3: to uplift people, but I feel like if I'm not

1222
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,799
Speaker 3: getting it back, then it's you know, I just don't

1223
00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 3: like it.

1224
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:06,120
Speaker 2: So that's thus the piece, because you're at peace with

1225
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 2: with your decision, and maybe we'll see the larcinator, right,

1226
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:14,360
Speaker 2: is that the larcen the larciness, Sorry, I said larcinator.

1227
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:17,440
Speaker 2: L Oh my god, that's so funny. That's the larseness,

1228
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:19,960
Speaker 2: the larsonest. I love that. But you know that I

1229
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 2: can feel that energy coming back. Stop laughing at me.

1230
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,319
Speaker 2: I do this all the time. I say the wrong word.

1231
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I feel like I'm the larceness when I

1232
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,120
Speaker 3: need to be. I'm like the bear that's always sleeping.

1233
00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 3: We don't poke the bear too much.

1234
00:53:32,960 --> 00:53:34,879
Speaker 1: I had another question, but I'm afraid I might poke

1235
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:35,799
Speaker 1: the larcinator.

1236
00:53:38,520 --> 00:53:40,880
Speaker 2: Feel free to use that. It's okay, I mean, it's fine.

1237
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 2: Don't have to credit me.

1238
00:53:42,800 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: We are going to get a patent on that. As

1239
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 1: soon as this it's over. We are going to trademark

1240
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: the hell out of that one. Oh my goodness. Really

1241
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: it is. It's a pleasure to get to talk to

1242
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: you and to meet you outside of a headline, because again,

1243
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:02,880
Speaker 1: we all we know of you is what the headlines

1244
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: oftentimes read. I haven't tell you truth. I haven't seen

1245
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: all the seasons of the real high spots of Miami,

1246
00:54:08,520 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: so I didn't get a very good handle on you know,

1247
00:54:12,080 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 1: who's the villain and what role you play. But it

1248
00:54:15,000 --> 00:54:17,439
Speaker 1: is so amazing, and we love, love love doing this here,

1249
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: to bring someone in here and talk to them as

1250
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: a human being, as a mom first, as a business

1251
00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:26,359
Speaker 1: person first, and not as a caricature. And it's just

1252
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:29,919
Speaker 1: it makes such a difference. And look, I would hate

1253
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:31,279
Speaker 1: to think and I don't think you are. And you

1254
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 1: don't have a PR person in here. We have so

1255
00:54:32,920 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 1: many coming here.

1256
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 2: Yeah that's true.

1257
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,360
Speaker 1: Sure people are sitting in the corner, just making my

1258
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:39,919
Speaker 1: attorney right here. Yeah, I'm got Sophia right here, she's

1259
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:42,320
Speaker 1: in the corner. But it is, it is a treat

1260
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: and it has absolutely been a pleasure to be able

1261
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:45,839
Speaker 1: to talk to you in this way.

1262
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 2: Thank you, guys, Thank you so much for being with us.

1263
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 3: Lara, thank you for having me