1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com. 3 00:00:07,160 --> 00:00:08,959 Speaker 2: Thomas is on the phone today for a first day 4 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:12,039 Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Sophie. So in 5 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: just a few minutes, we're gonna call Sophie and see 6 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 2: if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe 7 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: get him another date. But before we do that, Thomas, 8 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 2: how long has it been since you heard from Sophie. 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 3: It's been about four days. 10 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 4: Okay, that's not too bad. You sure you're getting ghosted. 11 00:00:27,560 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 5: I have sent a few messages and I haven't heard back, 12 00:00:29,600 --> 00:00:30,720 Speaker 5: So at this point I do. 13 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 4: Think I'm get ghosted. Okay, well, let's hear about your date. 14 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 4: How did that go? 15 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 5: So, in my mind it went pretty well. I think 16 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 5: we had some drinks and advertisers. We got to know 17 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 5: each other a little bit, and it was good overall. 18 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 5: There was one moment where we I don't even want 19 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 5: to call it an argument, but we did have a 20 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:52,159 Speaker 5: little like heated back and forth for a minute. So 21 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,840 Speaker 5: that's why I'm thinking that's what it probably was. 22 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 3: If I were to guess. 23 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 2: Okay, let's get to the heated back and forth. In 24 00:00:58,520 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 2: just a second. How'd you get there? 25 00:01:00,440 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 6: Oh? 26 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 3: We were just we were just getting kidding, like getting food. 27 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,199 Speaker 5: I picked her up and we went and uh yeah, 28 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 5: just got some food and drinks and it was pretty 29 00:01:08,920 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 5: low key. 30 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:12,560 Speaker 4: So what was the heated debate about then? 31 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,480 Speaker 5: So we were going through uh we were talking about 32 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,480 Speaker 5: my dating profile and stuff, and she kept just being like, uh, 33 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 5: so what's your real hide or or so what's your 34 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 5: real job? 35 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 3: And I'm like, what do you It's right here, like 36 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 3: I already said it. Oh believe me? 37 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 5: Uh or it seems like she didn't believe me, and 38 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 5: so it just got kind of a back and forth. 39 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 5: But once I cleared it up, I feel like everything 40 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:36,080 Speaker 5: for the. 41 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 3: Rest of the night was good and we have fun. 42 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 2: Was she joking or she actually legit didn't believe it? 43 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:44,959 Speaker 3: It seemed like she she didn't believe me. 44 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: If she didn't believe you, that that wasn't a you problem, 45 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: Like I think that that would just mean that she'd 46 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 1: been lied to and those apps had been leading her 47 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: astray many times before you. So you know, I guess 48 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: it would depend on how you've responded to that. So 49 00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: you yelled back or what what did. 50 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 3: That sound like? 51 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, No, I don't think. I wasn't trying to Uh. 52 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 5: I wasn't yelling back or anything. 53 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 3: But I think after the second time, I'm kind of like, so, 54 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 3: what's your real job? I was kind of like, well, 55 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 3: this is my real job, Like these are this is 56 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 3: what I did. That was I'm not lying. 57 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 5: I might have sounded a little more in chence, So 58 00:02:18,560 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 5: that's why I was saying. It wasn't really an argument. 59 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 5: It was just kind of like a heated thing from 60 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 5: for a second. 61 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: I mean, can I ask, was there like your height, 62 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 1: exact height? 63 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,839 Speaker 4: Sous lie about their height to ask it's there. 64 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 3: I don't do that. I put it. I put my 65 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 3: real height on there, and I put my job on there. 66 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: That's cool that you're out here telling the truth. I 67 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: think that that's understandable. And it not understandable, but you know, 68 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:48,200 Speaker 1: we respect that. 69 00:02:48,360 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 3: Are you a shorter, dude, I'm six foot flat. 70 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,679 Speaker 4: Oh. I don't think it was the height. I don't 71 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:56,920 Speaker 4: think it was the height here. Was there anything else 72 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:58,639 Speaker 4: that happened on the date that may have caused a 73 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 4: little bit of I don't say tension, but I was gonna 74 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 4: say friction. But usually friction could be a good thing. 75 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: She did word she kind of asked for it. She 76 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: kind of walked right into friction. Maybe she's one of 77 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: those people that gets turned on by arguments. Oh yeah, 78 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 1: you know how some people are into that and they 79 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: like like a heated debate. So maybe if you engaged 80 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: for a minute and then diffused it, maybe she got bored. 81 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:17,959 Speaker 1: That would be really sad and that would be a 82 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: flag on your side, but maybe interesting. 83 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 4: How did things end with you guys? 84 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 5: It was pretty good. We we hugged, We didn't kiss, 85 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 5: but it wasn't It didn't feel like things were bad. 86 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 5: It felt like at that point the energy had kind 87 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 5: of turned around and Advisor backed up. 88 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 2: Did you say anything about future plans, like you know, 89 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 2: when you guys parted. 90 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 5: Ways, I said, I'll text you and she said, all. 91 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: Right, okay, right, well and you've heard nothing in fourdey, 92 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 2: So we'll play a song come Back, and then call 93 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:52,320 Speaker 2: her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you 94 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 2: and maybe get you another day to right awesome, thank you, Right, 95 00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 2: we'll play on come Back, Get your first day follow 96 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 2: up next right in the middle of. 97 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 4: Today's first date follow up. 98 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: If you're just joining Thomas is on the phone and 99 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: Thomas is getting ghosted by Sophie. So we're about to 100 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 2: call her right now and see if she'll tell us 101 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 2: why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date. But 102 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: before we do that, Thomas, why don't you catch everybody 103 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 2: up on your date with Sophie. 104 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 3: Yeah. So, Sophie and I met on one of the 105 00:04:13,800 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 3: dating apps. We ended up going out for drinks and appetizers. 106 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 3: It was a pretty good time overall. At the beginning, 107 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 3: we were going over my dating profile and. 108 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 5: She was pointing out some like things that she thought 109 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,400 Speaker 5: were maybe I was lying about but I wasn't, and 110 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 5: so they got kind of a little tension there for 111 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 5: a moment, but after that it was all right. But 112 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 5: I haven't heard from her since, so hoping to just 113 00:04:36,000 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 5: clarify that up with her and have another date. 114 00:04:38,279 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 4: All right, Were you ready for us to call her? 115 00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:40,719 Speaker 6: Yes? 116 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, here we go. 117 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 3: Huh h. 118 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 2: I'm aspeak to Sophie. Please, Sophie, Hi, how are you? 119 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: My name is Jubil and I host a radio show. 120 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:00,520 Speaker 2: It's called The Show. 121 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,400 Speaker 4: Hi. Sophie Imina also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. 122 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 4: Hi on the phone with you. How are you? 123 00:05:08,880 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 3: I'm good. 124 00:05:09,400 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 7: There's so many of you. 125 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:13,080 Speaker 3: What's up? 126 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:15,120 Speaker 2: Well, we do a segment on the show it's called 127 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 2: the first Day follow Up. So that's where if you 128 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 2: go out on a date with somebody and then you 129 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:21,320 Speaker 2: end up ghosting them, that person can get have us 130 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,479 Speaker 2: get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. 131 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 2: So you're currently actively ghosting somebody I think, okay, and 132 00:05:28,440 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 2: his name is Thomas. 133 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 7: Okay, okay, and you. 134 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,520 Speaker 4: Went out with him like a couple of days ago. 135 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 7: Uh yeah, it was like like four or five days 136 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 7: ago or something. Yeah. 137 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, And he says you haven't talked to him since 138 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 2: you guys have gone out, so we're wondering if you 139 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 2: would tell us why you're ghosting him. 140 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean I'm going I'm just like really awkward 141 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,159 Speaker 7: about sending the text. It's like I'm not interested, so 142 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 7: it is avoid doing that. On our date, he like 143 00:05:57,600 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 7: we got into like a fight, and I just feel 144 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 7: like if you get into like a fight on your 145 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,039 Speaker 7: first date, like it's probably not going to work out. 146 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 4: What was the fight about. 147 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 7: It was just like a couple of things, Like he 148 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:15,559 Speaker 7: was just being super cagey about like his profile because 149 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 7: like he you know, on his profile. I think he 150 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 7: said he was like six feet and like he's not 151 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 7: six feet, and so I was just like, oh, like, 152 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 7: so what's your real height and he was just like 153 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 7: I'm six feet and I'm just he's not. And so 154 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 7: that was weird, and he got really like defensive about it. 155 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 7: And then I was like asking him about his job, 156 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:37,839 Speaker 7: because like that's what you do on a first date, 157 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 7: but he just like kept deflecting and like not answering 158 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 7: my questions, which I thought was super weird. And he 159 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 7: kept like laughing at me when I was getting like 160 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 7: frustrated and like saying it was cute, but like I 161 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 7: wasn't trying to be cute. I was like getting frustrated. 162 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 7: So yeah, I mean, I just think he's like I 163 00:06:57,640 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 7: don't know, I'm not I'm. 164 00:06:58,920 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: Not into it. 165 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 2: Okay, So you guys were legit arguing because he told 166 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,359 Speaker 2: us a little bit about your date, and that part 167 00:07:05,680 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 2: sounded like it might have been a playful thing. 168 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: To me. 169 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 8: He wasn't playful, not for me, Like I was getting 170 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:13,680 Speaker 8: like he thought he seemed to think it was fun, 171 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 8: but like I wasn't having fun because it's like I 172 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 8: don't like having people like kind of lie to me, 173 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 8: and I'm just like, I don't even know if his job, 174 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 8: like is his job? 175 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 5: I don't know. 176 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 7: I was sketched out. 177 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: So you didn't get the vibe that he was lying 178 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: to you before you went on the date. It was 179 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: when you got there and saw him that you felt 180 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:30,840 Speaker 1: like he was lying. Yeah. 181 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 7: Well because like before we had just been like texting 182 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 7: and stuff and like messaging through the app and stuff, 183 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 7: and like. 184 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 3: He was fine. 185 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 7: And then when I met him in person, like, I 186 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 7: guess he had more time to like be weird about things. 187 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 3: I don't know. 188 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 7: He seems fine before. 189 00:07:44,720 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 4: So what made you feel like he was lying about 190 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 4: his job? 191 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 7: I don't know, like like just what the job saying. 192 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 7: It's like I don't know what answering your question with 193 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 7: a question is weird. 194 00:07:54,280 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 4: So because I felt like he wasn't truthful with. 195 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 7: You, yeah, I mean he definitely are would be literally 196 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:02,240 Speaker 7: shocked if he was. 197 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:03,000 Speaker 3: Truthful at all. 198 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 4: Okay, well, well let's ask him because now I have 199 00:08:05,920 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 4: to be truthful. Sophie. Thomas is on the other line 200 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:09,080 Speaker 4: listening and wants to talk to you. 201 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:14,720 Speaker 3: Hey, Sophie, Uh, it's awkward. 202 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 6: I know. 203 00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 5: I just hold on because I feel like maybe I 204 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 5: wasn't there at dinner and stuff. I was not lying 205 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:25,679 Speaker 5: about those things, and it seems like you still feel 206 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:26,320 Speaker 5: like I was lying. 207 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 7: First of all, sorry if I said all that stuff 208 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,680 Speaker 7: about you, Uh, it seems like you were lying and. 209 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 3: It's weird. 210 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 7: I'm sorry. 211 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 5: In my opinion, I was like, oh, great, like good, 212 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 5: we had a good first conversation that like we're at 213 00:08:43,000 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 5: least like expressing like ourselves and being honest. And I 214 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,240 Speaker 5: don't know, I felt like that was a good way 215 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 5: to start our relationship. 216 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 7: I wasn't lying. 217 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 3: We don't. 218 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 5: I just feel like I feel stuck for it because 219 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 5: it feels like there's nothing I can say that will 220 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 5: make you believe me. 221 00:08:58,040 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 4: Well, what do you consult on? 222 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 3: I mean, just various businesses hire me? 223 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 7: Okay that you guys, come on, that's like, what is that? 224 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:09,360 Speaker 4: Okay, So that's cool. So what did you consult on 225 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:10,240 Speaker 4: your last job? 226 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 5: It was it was a it was a construction business, okay, okay, 227 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 5: would you consult with them? 228 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 4: Like with that? What do you do specializing in construction? 229 00:09:21,280 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 3: Just sort of coding and just general like permit stuff. 230 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 7: Yes, I mean it's like you didn't really answer anything. 231 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 7: About anything. 232 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 3: So it's like, what project are you working. 233 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 7: On right now? 234 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:32,359 Speaker 3: Right now? I'm in between projects. 235 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 7: Okay, so what was your last project? 236 00:09:34,120 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 3: The one that just finished? It was it was for 237 00:09:37,720 --> 00:09:39,640 Speaker 3: an updating like a subway station? 238 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 4: What I mean, people really do this? 239 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 3: Does this sound like that's true? 240 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 5: I can. 241 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,600 Speaker 2: I can see your Selfie's side on this, Thomas. You're 242 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:54,480 Speaker 2: not giving enough detail to make it sound convincing. 243 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 4: Really, I was. 244 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 3: Just gonna I mean, the truth is I worked for what. 245 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 5: Was my dad company, and I still you know, I've 246 00:10:02,600 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 5: taken over a lot of responsibility. 247 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 3: But I feel like maybe that's that's something. 248 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:09,920 Speaker 5: I've been hesitant to say because it's not like I 249 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 5: built it myself. 250 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 4: I think that's where also, maybe there doesn't need to 251 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 4: be that much pressure on your job on a first date. 252 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, fine, okay, so really what about the height? 253 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:23,119 Speaker 3: Like how tall are you? Actually? 254 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 5: When I go to the doctor, they say I'm a 255 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:27,880 Speaker 5: six foot flat? 256 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 7: Are you paying? 257 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 3: Like we're not, Hey, if you want to go on 258 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 3: another date, you could measure me. 259 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 2: Oh there you go, Sophie. Would you like to go 260 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 2: on another date with Thomas? We'll pay for it. Then 261 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:44,679 Speaker 2: you can measure him no. 262 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 7: I don't want to measure him. I don't want to 263 00:10:47,120 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 7: do that. Okay, No, there's absolutely no way. 264 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 1: They don't sound that compatible. To be honest, we're not, okay. 265 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: Thank you for being honest. 266 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:06,720 Speaker 6: Thank you for thinking me, well, it's your lost, because yeah, 267 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 6: you could have measured me in more ways than one. 268 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 4: Oh Juble's first day follow up