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Speaker 1: Now it's time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Candace in Tacoma. Candace Rights,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting liposuction in May. That's next month. My husband

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Speaker 1: is against it because he will have to take care

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Speaker 1: of the kids while I'm recovering. He said, I am selfish.

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Speaker 1: Should that affect my decision?

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Speaker 2: Obviously not. You're gonna do it. You got it schedule

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Speaker 2: for May.

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Speaker 3: You'll probably pay yeah for this. The reason he's calling

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Speaker 3: yourself is just cause it a cost and he got

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Speaker 3: to take care of the kids while you're recovered. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: maybe you got small kids. This is getting the Miami makeover.

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Speaker 3: It's all right, you be honest. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 3: what right now. Don't go to Miami to get it done.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing right now.

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Speaker 2: Why said that? Because it ain't going good down there.

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Speaker 2: They ain't got a.

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Speaker 3: Good track record. Lord and ladies just out here messing

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Speaker 3: with this stuff right here. Get you a license practitioner.

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Speaker 3: Don't try to save money on that to certified. Lord, certified,

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Speaker 3: come with recommendations. Do not go down there in these

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Speaker 3: hotel rooms and go down there to these clinics in

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Speaker 3: Miami that's just meet Marcus doing eight operations in date.

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Speaker 2: It's not safe, ladies. Just be careful. That's right, It's

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Speaker 2: not worth it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, well thank you for that, CLO. Moving

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Speaker 1: on to harmony and Cedar Hill Harmony rights. Have broke

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Speaker 1: up with my boyfriend because he got a call in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the night and left. He said he

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Speaker 1: would not have answered it unless it was an emergency.

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Speaker 1: But he won't tell me who who it was and

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Speaker 1: why he left. Looks like he's cheating.

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Speaker 4: Am I wrong?

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Speaker 2: Well, well he won't.

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Speaker 3: Tell you who it is. I don't see why he won't. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: see that's the problem. And if I'm gonna get up

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Speaker 3: and leave you in the middle of the night, it's

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Speaker 3: my mama, That's who I'm going This is my is

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Speaker 3: my mama? Or is my brother? If I ain't got

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Speaker 3: no brother, he is my best friend who is my brother?

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Speaker 3: But see, I don't get these young guys. You've had

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Speaker 3: plenty of time to come up with why.

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Speaker 4: You left with a good lie to say that.

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Speaker 3: No, you come up with the why you left, why

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Speaker 3: you won't that's say that is beyond me. If you

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Speaker 3: give them nothing, that's where the guilt factor comes in.

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Speaker 5: Give them something, So give them just because you give

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Speaker 5: them the truth. So you're saying, give them something, that's

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Speaker 5: the truth. Why you offended the truth? Wait a minute,

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Speaker 5: my pardner, call me the truth.

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Speaker 2: I won't tell him the truth.

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Speaker 3: That just don't sound like it.

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Speaker 4: And that is the point you must be.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Now, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: If he won't tell you, and you say you're gonna

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Speaker 3: break up, if he won't tell you, and he still

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Speaker 3: won't tell you, that's cause he don't care.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, break up next, he loved the other one more dog?

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Speaker 3: You tripping at this point, he not gonna tell you,

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Speaker 3: and you're telling him you're gonna break up if he

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Speaker 3: don't tell you, and he ain't gonna tell you. He

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Speaker 3: don't even come up with a lie, or you don't care.

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Speaker 3: You'll call you if you can.

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Speaker 5: If he cared, he would lie.

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Speaker 1: Lady, Yes, all right. Moving on to Morris and Kalama

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Speaker 1: zoo h. Morris writes, my wife started using profanity and

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Speaker 1: she's been calling me out of my name when.

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Speaker 4: She gets upset.

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Speaker 1: I'm sick of her talking under her breath around me too.

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Speaker 1: What has gotten into my wife? We've been married four years?

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Speaker 1: How do I stop it right now.

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Speaker 3: Well, you gotta sit down there. You can't stop it.

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Speaker 3: You gotta ask him, just gotta say, baby, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Let's sit out and talk. It's really affected me, the

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Speaker 3: fact that you started using profanity.

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Speaker 2: But just it just don't seem like it's you. It

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Speaker 2: just don't seem Yeah, but it don't seem like it's you.

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Speaker 2: And it's like.

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Speaker 4: And then she talks under her breath, see I have.

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Speaker 2: You got to talk with her? And then she don't change.

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Speaker 4: Then what she don't care? But what happened?

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Speaker 1: Where is all of a sudden she just started using

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Speaker 1: profanity out of the blue.

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Speaker 2: She is up?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she up that badly.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's been building up. I'm edible, she's been.

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Speaker 2: That's what you got out of that.

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Speaker 4: That is your thank goodness, you're not feng. She's just mad.

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Speaker 4: I'm married, That's what she's saying under her bread.

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Speaker 1: He's sick of that too, But he's acting innocently like

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Speaker 1: what has gotten into my wife?

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Speaker 2: He is, We don't know, so some has gotten into it,

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Speaker 2: but y'all how to put it? Then? Oh that's why

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Speaker 2: you got to talk? Oh gotcha? Okay? All right?

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Speaker 1: Last one Steve. This is Asia in Brooklyn. Asia says,

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Speaker 1: I had dinner with a close friend and she asked

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Speaker 1: how my boyfriend is doing. It made me wonder why

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Speaker 1: she asked me that he's cheated before, so is he

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Speaker 1: cheating again? And she knows something? I'm paranoid? Should I

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Speaker 1: ask her if she knows anything?

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Speaker 3: Well, she asked you, how was he doing? Then your

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Speaker 3: response should have been I think he's doing fine. Do

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Speaker 3: you know something different? Since y'all close friend, Well, since

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Speaker 3: you asked, let's get to the bottom of this, here we.

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Speaker 2: Go, you know? Or is it just you paranoid? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Well, she said, she just asked about it, so you know,

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Speaker 3: So how you and your boyfriend doing? I know y'all

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Speaker 3: was messed up before, y'all good? Now it could be

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Speaker 3: just genuine concerned.

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Speaker 4: That's that's normal.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they asked about question.

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Speaker 2: Now she say, hey, girl, how you doing? Do you

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Speaker 2: know what Chester is? Right now? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Who's named Chester?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: So so should she ask if she knows anything?

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Speaker 4: You're saying?

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Speaker 2: I just I mean, and I just tell you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you did, so what's I know what you meant?

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Speaker 3: And I'm saying a lot of this for that dude

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Speaker 3: that wrote in that time to me, I gotta do better.

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Speaker 4: With your grammar.

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Speaker 3: And I need to do words. And I'm not I'm

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Speaker 3: here for entertainment. I'm not here to teach grandma. That's

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Speaker 3: not what this show is about. Hey, you need to

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Speaker 3: cut on a public radio station if you want good Grandma.

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Speaker 2: Listen to some politicians.

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Speaker 1: Why are you bringing up old stuff?

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Speaker 2: Sure bothering him? Let them go? Who talking about? Let

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Speaker 2: something go? And Shirley, what are you talking about? Because

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Speaker 2: you don't let nothing?

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Speaker 3: Got looks yourself?

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Speaker 2: You come here, you warning, bushy glasses and everything.

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Speaker 3: You just.

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Speaker 2: Bullish you all the time. Shouty Jesse, all that.

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Speaker 4: Lips. You're listening to the stream. Harvey Morning Show