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Speaker 1: You've never been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Gee, how you doing. I'm good?

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Speaker 3: Here are you?

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Speaker 1: We're great, Thanks for being on the show. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: waiting by the phone. So what's going on with Victor?

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Speaker 1: Give us some background info here? How you guys met,

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Speaker 1: About any dates that you've been on, anything that may

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, I met Victor on him and he took

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Speaker 4: me out on a date and I thought we were

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Speaker 4: having a great time because my talcasterwards and even started

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Speaker 4: to plan another date. But then out of nowhere, he

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Speaker 4: just stopped responding and ghosted me, which is so weird

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Speaker 4: because we.

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Speaker 2: Were really vibing. Huh.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you really felt like everything was going great,

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Speaker 1: the communication was good, you were attracted to him, you

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Speaker 1: felt that that was reciprocated. I mean, you're looking back

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Speaker 1: on this and it was like this was all good.

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Speaker 1: What's the problem.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost like did I like, Yeah, what happened?

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Speaker 3: I'm super confused.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And obviously it's frustrating when you meet someone that

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Speaker 1: you like, you know, because the dating apps can be

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Speaker 1: so monotonous and it can be kind of hard to

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Speaker 1: focus in on one person or whatever else. So when

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Speaker 1: you do go out with somebody and they're cool, it's

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Speaker 1: frustrating because you don't want to have to go back

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Speaker 1: and start over all over again. Yeah, so let's call

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Speaker 1: this guy Victor. We'll see if we can get him

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Speaker 1: on the phone. Since you can't, we'll ask some questions.

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Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone as well, and hopefully we

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Speaker 1: can straighten this out and set you guys up one

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Speaker 1: another date that we paid for. All right, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: play one song. We'll come back and do it. Let's

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Speaker 1: see what's going on. Part two of waiting at the

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Speaker 1: phone stay right here at you in two minutes after

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Speaker 1: Hoseier on the Fread Show, Pogier, It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, hey Gia. Yeah, all right, welcome back. Let's

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Speaker 2: call Victor.

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Speaker 1: You guys, you met online, right, and you went on

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Speaker 1: a date and you felt like everything was going well.

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Speaker 2: You met on Hinge.

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Speaker 1: I should say Hinge because I guess online might be

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Speaker 1: like match or something, but you met on the app Hinge. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you thought everything went great, except you haven't heard

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Speaker 1: from this guy for another date, and you're kind of

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Speaker 1: frustrated and puzzled and you want to know why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, let's call him now. Good luck?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? Hi is his Victor? Oh, yes, yes Victor,

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Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

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Speaker 1: Fred's Show. My whole team is here, and I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: to bother you. I do have to tell you, though,

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio at this time. I

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Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the calls. That

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Speaker 1: okay if we uh talk on the show for just

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Speaker 1: a second year. Oh yes, yes, yes, thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Jia who

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Speaker 1: met you on Hinge and you guys went out one time.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember her? Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah I remember?

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Speaker 3: Do you do?

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Speaker 1: All right, well you don't that sounded kind of optimistic there,

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Speaker 1: like it didn't sound you normally we get like a

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Speaker 5: Actually, that's that's a crazy thing, you know. I thought

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Speaker 5: the day was was really fun. You know, I even

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Speaker 1: When she pulled out like one of those warshots, the

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Speaker 1: worship blots is what She's like, what do you see here?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, like you made me take an emotions focussed test,

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Speaker 5: And I was just like, what the heck are you?

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Speaker 1: She wanted what was she looking for, like official compatibility?

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Speaker 1: She wanted to see sort of what your scores were,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well I don't even know if she was taking

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Speaker 5: Like I felt like I was back in school.

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Speaker 1: Geah, let me bring ga in what Okay, first date

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Speaker 1: and at the end of the day, you want him

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Speaker 2: I assume you've done them?

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Speaker 1: And then you know what it means if they based

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like he said that he wanted to get to

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Speaker 4: So it was like, wait, what, oh, naturally, Okay, hang

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Speaker 2: Naturally is hinge natural? Like its natural?

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Speaker 5: But afterwards, when we met in person, you know, you

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Speaker 5: get to you get to meet a person, you get.

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Speaker 3: To talk to them.

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Speaker 5: You don't ask them to sit for hours staring at

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Speaker 2: Can be ambiguous.

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Speaker 1: But I do kind of agree with him though, Like

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Speaker 1: I mean, I suppose at some point you could learn

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, but we're talking organic. Why are we on hinge?

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Speaker 3: That's not organic? That's an app. I mean, I just

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Speaker 2: Take it first think about it.

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Speaker 5: This is just for us to just barely get an introduction,

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Speaker 5: is right? Personally?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Why hours to fill my profile?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: We both did.

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Speaker 2: But that's that's the thing. That's what attracted to each other.

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Speaker 5: That, not when we met in person.

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Speaker 1: Well, everybody knows, everybody on these dating apps knows that

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Speaker 1: you should take an IQ test and then put that

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Speaker 1: your IQ is low? Not going out with you? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well the time, I mean, but.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean it's like, oh wow, that person

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Speaker 3: Maybe that's attractive someone.

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Speaker 5: I gotta be honest with you in person as well.

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Speaker 5: And I was being honest, like that's okay to take

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Speaker 5: a couple of tests, that's fine, But you're wanting me

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean maybe like learning about love languages and stuff.

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Speaker 1: it's not going to matter.

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Speaker 3: Well, I thought that I thought that sometuffe was there.

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Speaker 3: I thought that the connection was there, and that's why

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Speaker 5: You just got focused on the on these tests and

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Speaker 5: it just threw me off and I was just like,

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Speaker 3: Awkward for me.

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Speaker 1: Is like a job interview. Tell me about a time

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Speaker 1: when you were challenged by a partner.

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Speaker 5: Or something I trying to do.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It depends on the results of the test. We're going

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Speaker 1: to need to see these results.

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Speaker 3: President's only eight years. I want to be in a

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Speaker 3: relationship for more than eight years.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it should it should be, but not like that.

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Speaker 1: Look, I don't gee, I appreciate what you're trying to

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Speaker 1: a little mechanical and inorganic. So I look definitely different

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound Victor like you'd be interested in taking

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Speaker 5: No, no, I don't think I want to be part

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Speaker 5: of some scientific tests or something like that. Like, I

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what is this? GM?

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Speaker 1: Hey, you might find somebody who's who takes the same

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Speaker 1: approach that you do, do all of this, a more

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Speaker 1: analytical approach, and maybe maybe it works out. Okay, but

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Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like it's Victor at all.

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Speaker 2: No, not at all.

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Speaker 3: She sounds like a low Q.

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Speaker 2: Individual in them.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well we don't actually know that because he never

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Speaker 1: told things been a test though, Fredda, and he's not

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Speaker 1: doing too well. Yeah, well we don't know that. We

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Speaker 1: never saw the results of the tests. So all right, guys,

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Speaker 1: thank you for your time, best elected, both of you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. The entertainmer before KK sit for Caleb, will

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Speaker 2: do it next? KK? Like, what of my voice cracks

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Speaker 2: when I say that? For a week?

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Speaker 1: Show me Shelley tie one thousand, one hundred and fifty bucks.

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Speaker 2: That's next? To fred show