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Speaker 1: My girlfriend says she will terminate every pregnancy that's a girl.

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Speaker 1: But what if I want a little baby girl? Updates?

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Speaker 1: I really needed that last thread because her opinion disoriented me.

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Speaker 1: I was shocked and it came out of left field.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't something that I ever expected her to say. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know. You don't expect someone to be like, I'm

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Speaker 1: going to terminate every baby that's a girl. It took

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Speaker 1: me some time to really find a sensitive way to

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Speaker 1: talk about it, and I was struggling because I wanted

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Speaker 1: to have an honest conversation about it, and I didn't

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Speaker 1: want to put her on the defensive. She actually brought

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Speaker 1: it up herself. She said that she had been half

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Speaker 1: joking but was also half or mostly serious. You can't

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Speaker 1: just say you're half joking. I really like you. It's

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Speaker 1: a joke, but maybe it's not. If you like me,

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Speaker 1: clear words, Yeah, just tell me what you think. She

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Speaker 1: said that she'd been half joking, was half serious. She

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Speaker 1: told me that she had thought that she was over

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Speaker 1: her childhood, but the idea of having a daughter terrified her.

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Speaker 1: She said she didn't want to be her mother. She

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Speaker 1: didn't want to put her daughter through it. We're not

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Speaker 1: planning to have children right now, but she said she

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Speaker 1: was not sure about having children anymore and she needed

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Speaker 1: a lot more time to sort herself out, and she

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Speaker 1: didn't know how long it would take, but she said

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Speaker 1: she was not going to have children until she could

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Speaker 1: raise them.

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Speaker 2: Well, that is a ten trillion times more reasonable take

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Speaker 2: than I was.

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Speaker 1: She has started therapy again and she has talked about

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Speaker 1: some of the things her mom did to her. It

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Speaker 1: is hard to listen to my girlfriend talk about her past,

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Speaker 1: but I know she needs to say it out loud.

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Speaker 1: Makes me cry even thinking about what her mom put

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Speaker 1: her through. We are going through a rough time, but

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Speaker 1: I know it is important for her to work through

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Speaker 1: her trauma. I want to help her with that because

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Speaker 1: she is an amazing woman and partner and I am

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Speaker 1: so grateful that we were together.

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Speaker 2: Which that's a great, fantastic ending from a crazy.

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Speaker 1: Just crazy and show. But wow, like I guess it

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Speaker 1: all it all worked out in the end.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like the fact that Op's girlfriend kind of came

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Speaker 2: around and now that both of them are like willing

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Speaker 2: to put in the work to like, Okay, we need

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Speaker 2: to figure out this situation. It clearly sounds like so

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Speaker 2: much happened. It seems like to Opie's girlfriend through her childhood,

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Speaker 2: there's and.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's like like you talked about

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Speaker 1: putting in the work, and I think it's really important

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Speaker 1: to put in the work, put in the hours, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and uh and take what's ours.

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Speaker 2: Such a sentimental moment. Ruined not ruined. When that was

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Speaker 2: first popping off, people