WEBVTT - Women in the Game

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<v Speaker 1>This is cut to It with Steve Smith Senior at

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<v Speaker 1>production of The Black Effect and I Heart Radio. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Smith Senior and I'm Little John and this is

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<v Speaker 1>cut to It. Good do It, Good do It. That's

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<v Speaker 1>getting down to do it, Good do It. We asked

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<v Speaker 1>the questions you always want to know, but no one

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<v Speaker 1>ever asked, let's cut to it. You ain't heard am

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<v Speaker 1>about it? Then we're about to let you know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>all coming up to the cut to It podcast. Paige Demarcos.

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<v Speaker 1>She's the chief operating officer of the Draft Network. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a co host of the TV in Fantasy podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>she makes a mean Greek chicken, pays DeMarcus on cut

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<v Speaker 1>to a Podcast. Were there any particular sports that you

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<v Speaker 1>fell in love with and also, you know, fell in

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<v Speaker 1>love with that you went out and participated in all

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<v Speaker 1>sports rather than just being observer. Yeah. So I played

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<v Speaker 1>basketball my whole life, and I grew up in a

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood with all boys, so we had like a little courtyard.

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<v Speaker 1>I had a brother obviously my brotherhood mentioned um. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I grew up in a neighborhood of all boys,

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<v Speaker 1>so with this courtyard and in the courtyard it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like the area that was Our parents were

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<v Speaker 1>like cool with us going in there because it was

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<v Speaker 1>safe and it was gated off from the regular street

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<v Speaker 1>from one Row Street. So we would go there and

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<v Speaker 1>we played every sport like I was all time QB.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm still all time QB with my family, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I could throw every route like I was jokingly over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend was like they're like, what's your favorite route

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<v Speaker 1>to throw? And I was like a wheel route and

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<v Speaker 1>they were like, oh that's awesome and freaking out about

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<v Speaker 1>that on social media. But um, I played every sport

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<v Speaker 1>growing up because I wanted to play with the boys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you could, what would you what would you throw

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<v Speaker 1>to Steve Smith? Run on a wheel roud? I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell you right, you know why? Why why are you

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<v Speaker 1>not running a wheel out? It's such a lazy and

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<v Speaker 1>sloppy route? Oh my god, here we go. Only if

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<v Speaker 1>the wide receiver runs it lazy? Come on now, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's your favorite route to run? Okay, well I'll break

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<v Speaker 1>it down generally? Why sis don't? Yeah that's pretty generally ends?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I was gonna say slow tight ends. Yeah. See

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm I'm saying it more in their regards

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<v Speaker 1>of if YO go to route as a wire was

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<v Speaker 1>a wheel route. Yeah, like he didn't mind. I'm throwing

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<v Speaker 1>the ball to a really really slow dad, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>that's why it's fun for me because I'm like, my

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<v Speaker 1>dad is the slow tight end, Like that's the dude

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm throwing the ball too. So exactly right, who's

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<v Speaker 1>covering slow dad? Slow uncle? Slow Dad's getting slow if

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<v Speaker 1>I can't cover by slow uncle. So that's why this works.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys like push dad into the good night to that,

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<v Speaker 1>and I get excited too, because you sound like you

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<v Speaker 1>will overthrow somebody. But it's not your faults. Quarterback, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you better believe. I'm I'm I'm I'm looking. I'm looking.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Tom Brady. I'm looking at you and I'm going.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got my hands out. I'm yelling at you. I'm going,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the catchable ball? You just slow? He run

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<v Speaker 1>four He's definitely, yeah, that might be. That might be kind.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if he's hitting that. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>that's why he can run the wheel roud. He's not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not throwing him a fade. He's not getting there fast.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's he's he's still no. Dad is definitely not

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<v Speaker 1>running a slant. There is no chance that's happening. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh yeah, I think you're overestimating how athletic my brother. Yes, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I can. That's that's I get the whole where the

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<v Speaker 1>whole wheel, every route's in the tree for my brother

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<v Speaker 1>because he's six six and super athletic, but not for

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<v Speaker 1>not for especially not for my uncle. He's short and slow.

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<v Speaker 1>My dad's at least semi tall and not that slow.

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<v Speaker 1>He's just average, right, He's average. You go from Chicago Nebraska,

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<v Speaker 1>that had to be a culture shock to some degree. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a It was a huge culture shock, almost

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<v Speaker 1>as so much of a culture shock that I transferred.

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<v Speaker 1>So when I was a freshman my first weekend at school,

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<v Speaker 1>I was way overwhelmed. I was like, this is so different.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's for the most part, now Lincoln and Omaha has

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of this is really cool, but like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people were from small town. That started to

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<v Speaker 1>freak me out a little bit. It was totally different.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, I'm a city kid. I

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<v Speaker 1>dressed different than everybody here. I'm walking around in Jordan's.

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<v Speaker 1>These girls were making fun of me for wearing Jordan's

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this isn't cool. I don't like this,

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<v Speaker 1>Like this is not this might not be my people,

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<v Speaker 1>but I ended up loving it. I had my best

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<v Speaker 1>friends in my whole life. Uh. Then I had an

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<v Speaker 1>unbelievable college experience. But my my first quarter of the

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<v Speaker 1>year of my freshman year almost almost took me out

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<v Speaker 1>of there. But I ended up kind of my My

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<v Speaker 1>dad was like, you gotta stick with it, you gotta scholarship, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta stay there, do your thing, You'll be fine,

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<v Speaker 1>And he was right, you know, and and change is different.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was away from my family for the first

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<v Speaker 1>time ever, so I got used to it. But uh,

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<v Speaker 1>it was definitely a culture shock. Nebraska is not Chicago.

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<v Speaker 1>So you at the University of Nebraska, You're nineteen years old,

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<v Speaker 1>you start your first company, seeing an opportunity to cover

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<v Speaker 1>sports using Twitter. Why decide to do that at at

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<v Speaker 1>that young age? What what was in you too to

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<v Speaker 1>want to want to build that up? Yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 1>It was very much. I'm sitting in a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>kind of intro class. It's a journalism one on one

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sitting in a class and Joe Starrita is

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<v Speaker 1>the one of my favorite professors. He's sitting up at

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<v Speaker 1>the frontal class and he asked the class he goes

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<v Speaker 1>who is currently on Twitter? And I raised my hand

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm the only one you got. They're talking. There's

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<v Speaker 1>at least two kids, probably more in this class. Nobody

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<v Speaker 1>raises her hand. And at the time, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't care about Facebook, and that was like just

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand nine, like everybody was on Facebook. It was

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<v Speaker 1>that was the thing you got, you wanted to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, no, no, no, I'm on Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>and like I think it's a huge opportunity to cover sports.

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<v Speaker 1>And about half the class kind of started laughing at me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, all right, all right, cool, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm that person. I like being the underdog. I

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<v Speaker 1>like being told that I can't do something. So that

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of the first thing was like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys think this is a joke, I'll show you right

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<v Speaker 1>like you'll see. And so I started meeting up with

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<v Speaker 1>UM had a sorority sister who her boyfriend was a

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<v Speaker 1>really really good UM was really into web development. So

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<v Speaker 1>we just started meeting and we would have we have

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<v Speaker 1>coffee meetings at this place called the Mill, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's we just started talking about starting corn Fed Sports.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why we started it because there wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>any coverage, um that we liked covering the Aska sports

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<v Speaker 1>and Nebraska football, so we were like, why don't we

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<v Speaker 1>just start our own thing. And I'm sure this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>surprise you guys, but like, obviously I wanted to cover football,

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<v Speaker 1>but I also wanted to cover all the other sports,

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<v Speaker 1>like Nebraska has a phenomenal volleyball team like the nineties.

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<v Speaker 1>Nebraska football is the current Nebraska volleyball team like badass,

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<v Speaker 1>really really good, so I wanted to cover them. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to cover our basketball team. I wanted to like

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to cover every sport, like I literally love

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<v Speaker 1>all sports. Enough people kept telling me that I either

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do it, or I shouldn't do it, or it

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<v Speaker 1>was stupid. And then as that started to happen, it

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<v Speaker 1>just sparked in me like if this is making people

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<v Speaker 1>feel uncomfortable, especially older people, Like it was mostly older

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<v Speaker 1>professors and older journalists that were like, that's not a

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<v Speaker 1>thing newspapers, like you should go right for the newspaper

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<v Speaker 1>and I was, like, nobody reads the newspaper that's eighteen

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<v Speaker 1>or nineteen years old, Like there's an entire generation that's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna make this obsolete. Like else me, it's social and

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<v Speaker 1>it just they you know, I think they were afraid

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<v Speaker 1>of the change, and so I just wanted to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of embrace it and take the risk because I could.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in college and I could take the risk,

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<v Speaker 1>and I did and it and it definitely paid off.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was it was people telling me that it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a good idea over and over and over again

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<v Speaker 1>that inspired me to think, if I'm making people uncomfortable,

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably for a reason, and I should lean into

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<v Speaker 1>this and pay attention to this. And that's that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. It's already hard to break into sports

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<v Speaker 1>in general as general. Then you add on top whether

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<v Speaker 1>you're a minority and whether you're you're a woman. Not

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<v Speaker 1>only do you breaking into sports media, but you're also

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<v Speaker 1>on an entrepreneurial journey. What are what's been some of

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<v Speaker 1>the challenges you've had to face with with going down

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<v Speaker 1>both of those paths. Yeah, being a woman in sports

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, guys like that, it takes a certain level

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<v Speaker 1>of toughness to just be able to do it in general,

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<v Speaker 1>like constantly. And it took toughness in two thousand in

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand nine of the freshman in college, and it

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<v Speaker 1>takes toughness now is an executive in sports media in

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<v Speaker 1>like it's there's a lot of the same bs going

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<v Speaker 1>on now that there was going on then. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>in a different position now and I've worked my way

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<v Speaker 1>into a position where i can call the shots as

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<v Speaker 1>far as who I'm hiring and who I'm bringing in

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<v Speaker 1>and who's a part of the conversations. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's how it changes. Like, that's how it changes

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<v Speaker 1>is you get more diversity from minorities and from women

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<v Speaker 1>in jobs where they can hire people and they can

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<v Speaker 1>be focused on that and making sure that there are

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<v Speaker 1>people that are like me that have a say in

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<v Speaker 1>the rooms that matter, because that's what That's what sucks

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<v Speaker 1>then and it sucks even now. But it's it's better

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<v Speaker 1>now for me because of the because of what I've

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<v Speaker 1>been able to achieve. But you know, having people call

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<v Speaker 1>the shot for you and not believe in you, and

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<v Speaker 1>even after you you do, I could have one mistake, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I could make one mistake and it was still so

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<v Speaker 1>like prolific the mistake to them, where I could watch

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<v Speaker 1>my colleague make mistakes and it was like, well he

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<v Speaker 1>played so like it doesn't matter right, like he knows

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<v Speaker 1>the game like and it was like, no, he doesn't,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he doesn't study like me, he doesn't talk to

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<v Speaker 1>the coaches like me, he doesn't talk to the players

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<v Speaker 1>like me, like I out hustle him NonStop. And I

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<v Speaker 1>can remember that being so frustrating and just almost not

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<v Speaker 1>pursuing sports because of that, but then just deciding. One day,

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<v Speaker 1>I just had this total breakdown and I talked to

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<v Speaker 1>my dad and my dad was like, listen, like you

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<v Speaker 1>love sports, like this is your passion. You're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>give up because some jerk calls you sweet cheets in

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<v Speaker 1>a locker room, like you're gonna get over it, Like

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna get over it. You're gonna get tough, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna realize like next time he said something like

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<v Speaker 1>that to you, you better have something to say back.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, all right, Dad, And that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much like what I did from then on, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, dudes are gonna say stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>me and I'm just gonna say something back and guess what,

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<v Speaker 1>every time it happens, they're like totally checked themselves. They're

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<v Speaker 1>like whoa, because they're not used to getting it back.

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<v Speaker 1>They're used to just saying it's saying it's saying it

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<v Speaker 1>and nobody checks them. So when you check them and

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<v Speaker 1>it's like, oh, okay, I want them to do. For

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<v Speaker 1>the most part, there's a couple, you know, extreme cases,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's that's what it's like to be a woman

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<v Speaker 1>in sports. Like it's and it's like, as I said,

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<v Speaker 1>there's still a lot of challenges now that I face,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm in a different position. And that's why as

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<v Speaker 1>an executive, I've I've been very conscientious of who I'm hiring,

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<v Speaker 1>who I'm bringing in, what the culture is like within

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<v Speaker 1>the company, to make sure that we have diverse voices

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<v Speaker 1>and that that can change the game. Uh. If more

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<v Speaker 1>people have that attitude, how do you not fall into

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<v Speaker 1>the narrative of now being in charge of well, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>only gonna hire women, or I'm only going to hire

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<v Speaker 1>people who did not play right. Where you don't all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden it spend it so far like to

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<v Speaker 1>spend spirits are to where now you're instead of part

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<v Speaker 1>of the solution, now you've just created a different narrative

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<v Speaker 1>that you're part of the problem too. Listen, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really important question, guys, because it's I feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>is where you can start to have that understanding of Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is how you how you do things. And I'm not,

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<v Speaker 1>by any means the person that's ever not going to

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<v Speaker 1>make mistakes. But what I can say is I'm always

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<v Speaker 1>gonna hire the best person for the job. The difference

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<v Speaker 1>between what your guys are alluding to, and I get

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time, like you're gonna look for women,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna look for minorities, you're gonna look the I

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<v Speaker 1>Every and I mean that in the nicest way I

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<v Speaker 1>can possibly say it. Every Tom Dick and Harry White

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<v Speaker 1>guy applies for a job that they do not deserve,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not entitled to, they don't have the qualifications for.

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<v Speaker 1>But they show up their nineteen years old, they're not

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<v Speaker 1>in journalism school, and they hit me up and they

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<v Speaker 1>think they deserve a full time writing job. Straight up.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened all the time, you know who. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>hear from women and minorities, but neither one. I have

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<v Speaker 1>had to seek out every minority that I have hired,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've had to seek out every female that I

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<v Speaker 1>have hired. Why do you think that? Because I know

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I'm I'm that's exactly right. I'm a black

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<v Speaker 1>male that worked in sports for for quite some time,

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<v Speaker 1>and from from my own personal experience, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>be not even better than average, not even better, way

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<v Speaker 1>better exceptional, And that's just to get a foot in

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<v Speaker 1>the door, right. So to your point, every time Dack

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<v Speaker 1>and Harry applies, but it is hard to stand out.

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<v Speaker 1>So because you know why a lot of the times

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<v Speaker 1>and Harrys get the job, that's true. But then also

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<v Speaker 1>how do you how do you make the opportunities not

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<v Speaker 1>even just available, but just highlighted in awareness to to

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<v Speaker 1>other people. You can make the opportunities available, you have

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<v Speaker 1>to be consciential of of making this a part of

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing as you're hiring it. Because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's like it is if you sat in a room,

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<v Speaker 1>I would venture to say that the white guys in

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<v Speaker 1>the room are more often than not going to think

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<v Speaker 1>they deserve the opportunity, whereas the girls are going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk themselves out of it. They're gonna give you ten

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<v Speaker 1>reasons why they don't deserve it. And the black guys

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<v Speaker 1>don't are going to talk themselves out of it as well,

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<v Speaker 1>or they're just not going to speak up because it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a conditional thing, like we've been conditioned to think

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't deserve these things because we haven't seen it,

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<v Speaker 1>Whereas if you're a white guy in this country, you've

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<v Speaker 1>seen you can think you think you walked it, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's the that is the time. That is you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a lot of learned behavior, a lot of watching

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<v Speaker 1>and seeing and and not thinking that you deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>And that that only changes when people that have the

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<v Speaker 1>ability to hire people are conscientious of that and say, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if I have a job name right at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the day. You guys talked about it earlier. Sports

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<v Speaker 1>is so competitive that if I don't have a reference

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<v Speaker 1>that I know about you, you're not going to get

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<v Speaker 1>the job because I know enough people in sports that

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<v Speaker 1>I can call and say, hey, tell me about this person. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's the first part, is the networking part, and

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<v Speaker 1>how that plays a part in this, and and reaching

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<v Speaker 1>out to people and saying, Hey, I want to hire somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm looking for you know this, these are the qualifications.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have anybody that you can send my way? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know anybody? Have you heard from anybody? Because

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<v Speaker 1>that's what that's what's happening. Like, that's what you have

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<v Speaker 1>to do. Because the guys who send me their resumes

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I mean it, If I went through

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<v Speaker 1>and I probably have four hundred resumes saved in my email,

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<v Speaker 1>I would venture to say three nine, if not all

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred are all white guys, and and most of

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<v Speaker 1>them are not qualified, and they all ask for jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's because they've been conditioned to think that they

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<v Speaker 1>can have it and and I don't. There's there's only

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<v Speaker 1>so much one individual can do, right, Like what can

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<v Speaker 1>I do for my company? I can make I can

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that I am present in how I am hiring,

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<v Speaker 1>who I am hiring, and making sure I'm doing my

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<v Speaker 1>due diligence to reach out and try and find people,

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<v Speaker 1>versus just sitting back and saying, well the best people

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<v Speaker 1>will find me. Um, that's just I think my attitude.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't speak to what anybody else is doing, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's how I've approached it. Let's talk ball, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you've done you're doing Draft Network, you've done fantasy

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<v Speaker 1>you do a little bit of fantasy football, correct, yep,

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<v Speaker 1>As a former athlete, I hate fantasy football. Why you

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<v Speaker 1>hate fantasy man, I hate fantasy football because fantasy football

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<v Speaker 1>has financially has been great. But now for everybody involved

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<v Speaker 1>in fantasy and football, right, fantasy love it, football, love it.

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<v Speaker 1>You come by on a fantasy football and it brings

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<v Speaker 1>in more revenue dollars. But now you have the fan

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<v Speaker 1>who may not necessarily watch the games, but now they're

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<v Speaker 1>only watching because the impacts fantasy football. But sometimes you

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<v Speaker 1>have people they can look at a guy. Let's just say, hypothetically,

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<v Speaker 1>guy has ten thousand yards, a billion I'm exaggera and

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<v Speaker 1>a billion touchdowns, but if he doesn't perform that week

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<v Speaker 1>on fantasy, you trash you trashy. Never I've never I

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<v Speaker 1>have never met a guy who's played in the league

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<v Speaker 1>that like fantasy football. I don't because I and I

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<v Speaker 1>totally understand why you would feel that way. Because if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Steve or if I'm I've seen it in an

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<v Speaker 1>interview in a post game right where you've got Travis

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<v Speaker 1>Kelsey getting interviewed post game and he's he didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>a big game, and somebody's yelling at him from the stands, like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>your trash, You're terrible today. You're tweeting at somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling them that you you know, you've lost me

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<v Speaker 1>my fantasy matchup. Like I can imagine that as a competitor,

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<v Speaker 1>especially if you win the football game. Like if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out there and you win the game and then

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<v Speaker 1>people are tweeting at you about how you didn't win fantasy,

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<v Speaker 1>You've gotta be like, who the hell cares? Right, Like

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<v Speaker 1>I tell I tell people that all the time that

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<v Speaker 1>play fantasy, Like you have what you want to happen

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<v Speaker 1>in your head, and then here's what reality is. Because

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<v Speaker 1>the head coach doesn't care about giving Clyde Edwards Hilaire

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<v Speaker 1>that's many touches because that's what's good for your fantasy team,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he's gonna do what's best for the matchup to

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<v Speaker 1>play that in the game, and that's what he's gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>So you might want this to happen, but it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna happen because that's not the game plan. And if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. That's why. That's why I can see why

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<v Speaker 1>you hate it. So I understand why you hate it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like I woke up today and said, Gerard

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<v Speaker 1>starting me on this fantasy team, I gotta show out

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<v Speaker 1>screw him, Like that's not what you're doing. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>get the call your own play yes, to the point

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<v Speaker 1>of where when you hear that, you're like, really and

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<v Speaker 1>then now and then I play fantasy a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>when I was done. You don't know the game plan, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you really don't. You don't understand or the matchups' not.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like this is terrible, right, So I literally hate

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<v Speaker 1>fancy football. If everybody could just chill and be nice,

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<v Speaker 1>then we'll be fine, right, because then you wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>fans screaming at you or tweeting at You're like, yo, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>you suck your garbage because you didn't have three catches

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<v Speaker 1>for him, and you're like, yeah, okay, cool, Like if

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<v Speaker 1>people just didn't. People doing that to athletes in general

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<v Speaker 1>has always made me upset, Like whether it's fantasy related

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<v Speaker 1>or it's like you have a bad game and the

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<v Speaker 1>team loses, and people feel this sense of ownership where

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<v Speaker 1>they can come over and tell you like like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys are saying, like you don't walk up to somebody,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't go outside to the garbage man and you

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<v Speaker 1>yell at the garbage man because there's one piece of

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<v Speaker 1>garbage that fell out, and you're like, you stuck at

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<v Speaker 1>your job, like nobody does that, Like people you got

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<v Speaker 1>in sport. We have to take a break and the

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<v Speaker 1>morning thing. We gotta pay some bills. You got checks.

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<v Speaker 1>I got all my answers questions. Um, yeah, I got

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<v Speaker 1>all my questions answered. That's what I'm here for, a brother,

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<v Speaker 1>to a podcast playing football with the boys in the league,

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<v Speaker 1>growing up in middle school where your coach told you

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<v Speaker 1>that you had to quit because there was no place

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<v Speaker 1>for you to play in high school? Now the word

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<v Speaker 1>I highlighted, and I've just been sitting on for the

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<v Speaker 1>last couple of days prepping for this is no place.

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<v Speaker 1>And as a dad of one daughter and then I

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<v Speaker 1>was as a father of four and two bos three boys,

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<v Speaker 1>I cannot imagine someone else telling my children that you

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have a place here. H What was going

0:21:55.720 --> 0:21:57.959
<v Speaker 1>when you heard that? How did that sit with you?

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<v Speaker 1>And and now hearing that so many years later, walk

0:22:04.040 --> 0:22:09.119
<v Speaker 1>us through that. Yeah, it's still a chip on my

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<v Speaker 1>shoulder that I carried today. Um and and unfortunately it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a story that a lot of girls

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<v Speaker 1>and women are still being told by their coaches, fathers, brothers, sisters, moms. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, sports was the one is I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>say it was, but at that time in my life, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was about thirteen. I lost my brother

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of years before my family had been through

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. My parents were on the board on the

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<v Speaker 1>verge of the divorce. UM. Sports was my refuge. Football

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<v Speaker 1>was the place that I was going to on a

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<v Speaker 1>consistent basis, UM to be outside of my mind and

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<v Speaker 1>inside of my heart. And I was on fire for it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>It was my safe space at the time, and that

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<v Speaker 1>that family that I had with the boys who were

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<v Speaker 1>on my team was so important to me, and my

0:23:10.720 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 1>coaches were so important to me. So for my coach,

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<v Speaker 1>who I trusted, who I believed, who told me I

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<v Speaker 1>was exceptional. You know, I was a running back, so

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<v Speaker 1>he he it broke my heart. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>else to put it. To have him come to me

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<v Speaker 1>and say, hey, you're great. You you you you. You

0:23:29.560 --> 0:23:32.639
<v Speaker 1>know the boys are getting bigger. Um, there is no

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<v Speaker 1>option for you. And if you want to be a

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<v Speaker 1>serious athlete, which he knew I wanted to be, he

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<v Speaker 1>limited my options and he said, here are your options.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was one of the few times in life

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<v Speaker 1>where I let somebody else give me the options. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>because I couldn't see past the people who influenced me.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that's a huge lesson, particularly for women,

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<v Speaker 1>because the world guide so much of who we are

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<v Speaker 1>and how we're supposed to be in dress and who

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<v Speaker 1>we love and all those things, and so I think

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<v Speaker 1>that it was heartbreaking. So I went on and I

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<v Speaker 1>carried a fire probably into basketball. UM. I carried a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of anger. And the way I played ball.

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<v Speaker 1>If you watch me play, UM, I played a lot

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<v Speaker 1>like a dB out there or running back out there

0:24:22.160 --> 0:24:24.760
<v Speaker 1>going to the hoop. Like I had all of that

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<v Speaker 1>same fire that I carried from from middle school to

0:24:29.160 --> 0:24:33.000
<v Speaker 1>high school and to college playing basketball. And so in

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<v Speaker 1>that moment, I felt heartbreak. UM. I felt like the

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<v Speaker 1>world was telling me what my possibilities were as a

0:24:39.960 --> 0:24:42.560
<v Speaker 1>woman and I and I like it. I really I

0:24:42.640 --> 0:24:46.080
<v Speaker 1>really didn't like it. I will say that frankly, that

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:49.239
<v Speaker 1>coach was just making the right decision for me. Right.

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:51.000
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go to college. I wanted college to

0:24:51.040 --> 0:24:55.920
<v Speaker 1>be paid for UM, and so focusing on basketball helped

0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:58.080
<v Speaker 1>me get that. For me, it was the right path.

0:24:58.720 --> 0:25:03.160
<v Speaker 1>But at the time, UM, I think that the way

0:25:03.200 --> 0:25:07.000
<v Speaker 1>I think now is if you have somebody who you

0:25:07.040 --> 0:25:11.240
<v Speaker 1>think is exceptional, maybe I wouldn't have been able to

0:25:11.280 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 1>play running back at the varsity level. Maybe I wouldn't

0:25:15.560 --> 0:25:19.119
<v Speaker 1>have been able to um even play in high school.

0:25:19.160 --> 0:25:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Who knows, but I think totally eliminating that that was

0:25:24.280 --> 0:25:29.560
<v Speaker 1>a possibility for me period, For somebody I trusted meant

0:25:29.600 --> 0:25:33.720
<v Speaker 1>that I shouldn't even try. And that that's where I

0:25:33.760 --> 0:25:36.199
<v Speaker 1>think the miss was, like, you don't even try to

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:39.159
<v Speaker 1>do this because the path doesn't exist. Just because you

0:25:39.240 --> 0:25:42.280
<v Speaker 1>come to a forking road, is that's telling you to

0:25:42.320 --> 0:25:45.600
<v Speaker 1>go left or go right? Well, how soft is the

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:48.720
<v Speaker 1>is the dirt in the middle or until you go

0:25:48.920 --> 0:25:51.920
<v Speaker 1>straight right? Like how hard is this brick in front

0:25:51.960 --> 0:25:55.359
<v Speaker 1>of me or what? Uh? So I think that that

0:25:55.880 --> 0:25:59.320
<v Speaker 1>and and you know, the world happens exactly the way

0:25:59.320 --> 0:26:01.520
<v Speaker 1>it's supposed to. But I think if you want to

0:26:01.560 --> 0:26:04.400
<v Speaker 1>be a creator, if you want to advance something, then

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:06.800
<v Speaker 1>sometimes you gotta go against the grain. And I think

0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:11.439
<v Speaker 1>we should do more encouraging, particularly our girls um to

0:26:11.560 --> 0:26:15.080
<v Speaker 1>make pass for themselves. And you know, for me, I

0:26:15.200 --> 0:26:17.439
<v Speaker 1>use it as a chip And now I got this

0:26:17.520 --> 0:26:20.360
<v Speaker 1>league that I'm developing and creating opportunities for other women.

0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:23.399
<v Speaker 1>So it worked out, but I would have loved for

0:26:23.440 --> 0:26:26.399
<v Speaker 1>somebody to challenge me, to challenge the system at that time.

0:26:27.359 --> 0:26:30.160
<v Speaker 1>What would you tell yourself back then? To maybe stand

0:26:30.240 --> 0:26:32.760
<v Speaker 1>up to those coaches or just kind of say hey,

0:26:32.960 --> 0:26:34.880
<v Speaker 1>I want a place or to create that space for you.

0:26:35.240 --> 0:26:37.119
<v Speaker 1>If I could have went back and done that again,

0:26:37.560 --> 0:26:40.440
<v Speaker 1>would have winn and tried out for our freshman football

0:26:40.440 --> 0:26:48.000
<v Speaker 1>team at Bellflower High School. Oh hold, you could have

0:26:48.040 --> 0:26:56.320
<v Speaker 1>played exactly Bellflowers still Google right now, let's give the

0:26:56.359 --> 0:27:01.600
<v Speaker 1>world a context. Compare them Cincinnati Bengals. Oh, doctor was

0:27:01.680 --> 0:27:03.879
<v Speaker 1>like that, don't do the bu communities like that. We

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:08.280
<v Speaker 1>weren't that bad. We weren't We weren't Arizona Cardinals bad.

0:27:08.400 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 1>We were before fits. I mean, which Arizona car are

0:27:11.520 --> 0:27:15.720
<v Speaker 1>you're talking about when they was in Arizona or I'm

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:18.080
<v Speaker 1>just trying to figure out when you say bell Flower,

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:22.479
<v Speaker 1>that just I'm like, that just debunked our whole story

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:29.000
<v Speaker 1>right there. Team bell Flowers stank. I put it like this.

0:27:29.119 --> 0:27:32.440
<v Speaker 1>When bell Flower has a good team, they got a

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:35.920
<v Speaker 1>good team, it's a shocker when they don't bell Flower.

0:27:36.240 --> 0:27:38.520
<v Speaker 1>This is how bad Bell Flowers. You either play at

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:41.119
<v Speaker 1>night or during the day. If you cannot play at

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:45.520
<v Speaker 1>night is because gang affiliated or your team is awful.

0:27:46.480 --> 0:27:48.640
<v Speaker 1>But most of the time, even at night when it's

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:51.000
<v Speaker 1>a big game and it's gang affiliated. They just have

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:54.160
<v Speaker 1>a ton of police. I don't think bell Flower had

0:27:54.200 --> 0:27:58.600
<v Speaker 1>a night game. Bell Flower is an offsite tink game

0:27:58.720 --> 0:28:02.080
<v Speaker 1>for a big school. How about the just keep talking

0:28:02.080 --> 0:28:05.919
<v Speaker 1>about my team, my school, am I and my Lyne

0:28:05.960 --> 0:28:12.000
<v Speaker 1>though you you I Detechno lize you were not and

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:14.840
<v Speaker 1>I felt like, um, like I could have I could

0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:19.520
<v Speaker 1>have played in Actually now they're gonna be three years

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:23.240
<v Speaker 1>later playing at UM playing at Wilson High School, which

0:28:23.320 --> 0:28:26.480
<v Speaker 1>was in the same division. So she she was alignment

0:28:26.600 --> 0:28:28.879
<v Speaker 1>and so it was a little different for her. But

0:28:29.000 --> 0:28:31.120
<v Speaker 1>I definitely could have got could have got a couple

0:28:31.160 --> 0:28:33.879
<v Speaker 1>of years in on jay V for sure. How was

0:28:33.920 --> 0:28:37.880
<v Speaker 1>your support system through all of this? What did they

0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:40.840
<v Speaker 1>ingrain in you? What how did they hold your hand?

0:28:40.880 --> 0:28:45.080
<v Speaker 1>And what were those dialogues like, yeah, you know, nothing

0:28:45.240 --> 0:28:48.680
<v Speaker 1>was more important than going to college. To my mom,

0:28:48.840 --> 0:28:53.360
<v Speaker 1>like she going and getting a college education. She knew,

0:28:53.920 --> 0:28:57.600
<v Speaker 1>she had the foresight that sports was going to equal

0:28:57.640 --> 0:29:00.720
<v Speaker 1>in education. Education was going to equal up good jobs,

0:29:00.720 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>seeing more of the world, and then the possibilities were endless.

0:29:03.960 --> 0:29:08.000
<v Speaker 1>So for my mom, she was she was all about listening.

0:29:08.600 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 1>You know, you're a great athlete, You're a great ball

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:14.360
<v Speaker 1>player focused on that, so she wanted me to focus

0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.560
<v Speaker 1>on bad I think she actually liked seeing me play

0:29:16.600 --> 0:29:20.240
<v Speaker 1>basketball too, so that was her preference. Um. So when

0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:23.520
<v Speaker 1>I got home, there were no, um, you know, cry

0:29:23.560 --> 0:29:25.440
<v Speaker 1>on my shoulder. It's just like I told her before,

0:29:25.480 --> 0:29:28.200
<v Speaker 1>there was really no cry on my shoulder. It was

0:29:28.280 --> 0:29:31.160
<v Speaker 1>either hey, are you gonna listen to them and not

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:34.040
<v Speaker 1>play football, or you're gonna focus on basketball. Whichever one

0:29:34.280 --> 0:29:36.400
<v Speaker 1>you're going to do, you need to go be exceptional

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:39.480
<v Speaker 1>at it. Um. I had a lot of love for basketball,

0:29:39.600 --> 0:29:43.080
<v Speaker 1>so I saw, um, you know, at the time, I

0:29:43.120 --> 0:29:45.440
<v Speaker 1>had friends who were going off to college who were

0:29:45.480 --> 0:29:48.160
<v Speaker 1>older than me, and so I really saw that path

0:29:48.200 --> 0:29:50.400
<v Speaker 1>and focused on that path. And then I had a cousin.

0:29:51.160 --> 0:29:54.560
<v Speaker 1>His name is Lonnie, and he was on his way

0:29:54.920 --> 0:29:59.120
<v Speaker 1>um to college. He played It's crazy, he played volleyball

0:29:59.200 --> 0:30:03.520
<v Speaker 1>at Lock. This dude got a volleyball scholarship. This is yeah,

0:30:03.640 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>at Lock High School. He got My mom and dad

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 1>went to Lock. Yeah, so he got a volleyball scholarship.

0:30:09.560 --> 0:30:11.920
<v Speaker 1>And he was like, oh, j look, I don't care

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 1>what these people are saying. You can ball. You go

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:18.240
<v Speaker 1>focus on basketball. And that dude end up coming to

0:30:18.360 --> 0:30:21.000
<v Speaker 1>like every one of my games all through high school,

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:25.760
<v Speaker 1>all through college. When you're playing basketball, now where is

0:30:25.920 --> 0:30:29.719
<v Speaker 1>your heart? I know you possibly like our You're over

0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:33.360
<v Speaker 1>there peeking over at football practice, like going, man, that

0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:38.560
<v Speaker 1>could be me. I dug one in the basketball why one?

0:30:38.760 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 1>I jumped When I decided that that was the focus.

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:48.880
<v Speaker 1>I jumped on and I completely focused on getting a

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:53.840
<v Speaker 1>Division one basketball scholarship. That was the goal, and I

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>didn't look back until I signed my letter of intent.

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 1>The first thing I did on my visit was go

0:31:01.920 --> 0:31:05.280
<v Speaker 1>to the football It was so weird, um um, on

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:07.800
<v Speaker 1>my visit to the college and they were showing me

0:31:07.880 --> 0:31:09.959
<v Speaker 1>all this stuff, the locker room and everything, and I

0:31:10.000 --> 0:31:13.680
<v Speaker 1>just was obsessed and it was it retriggered my love

0:31:14.520 --> 0:31:19.440
<v Speaker 1>um for for football. Um. I couldn't imagine what I

0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:21.000
<v Speaker 1>would have done if I would have went to a big,

0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:24.280
<v Speaker 1>old powerhouse SEC football school. I probably would have not

0:31:24.440 --> 0:31:28.360
<v Speaker 1>been able to focus at all of basketball. Um. But

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:31.880
<v Speaker 1>that's what changed for me. And so I think I played,

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:35.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, my seasons of basketball. But I immediately met

0:31:35.960 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 1>this guy named David Kellogg. He was an entrepreneur and

0:31:39.600 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 1>he played dB. He was a dB UH for the

0:31:42.560 --> 0:31:45.720
<v Speaker 1>football team. In a couple of years into my college career,

0:31:45.760 --> 0:31:47.680
<v Speaker 1>he was like, oh, Jay, I'm gonna start. I'm gonna

0:31:47.720 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 1>start a women's football league. Oh. He started telling me that.

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:57.479
<v Speaker 1>It was like people, He's like, He's like, I'm telling you,

0:31:57.520 --> 0:32:00.360
<v Speaker 1>when you've done with basketball, I'm gonna start this sleeve.

0:32:00.960 --> 0:32:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Hot girls are gonna play. It's gonna be eight on age.

0:32:05.040 --> 0:32:12.560
<v Speaker 1>Give her high's he whispering breath, stink, no tea, whispering

0:32:12.600 --> 0:32:17.520
<v Speaker 1>sweet nothings, and don't know that. And she over there,

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:24.400
<v Speaker 1>she taking it all in too. I dream. Oh he's

0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:29.440
<v Speaker 1>so hard dreaming. Hey, I got this bridge that it's over.

0:32:29.720 --> 0:32:32.160
<v Speaker 1>They call it over at the pond. Don't worry about that.

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:35.600
<v Speaker 1>It's not over at the pond. I got the I

0:32:35.640 --> 0:32:39.080
<v Speaker 1>got the title to it. Man, it ain't in my pocket.

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I got the title to give me a hundred dollars

0:32:41.240 --> 0:32:44.640
<v Speaker 1>and it's yours. She was like, do you accept cord?

0:32:46.800 --> 0:32:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Everything in my pocket right now? Can I lay away?

0:32:50.280 --> 0:32:54.479
<v Speaker 1>Do you take bikes? I got a bike. So So

0:32:54.560 --> 0:32:57.280
<v Speaker 1>David Kellaw comes in and tells you about this women's

0:32:57.280 --> 0:32:59.280
<v Speaker 1>football team that he that he wants to start. So

0:32:59.320 --> 0:33:01.880
<v Speaker 1>what's your what's your reaction? Does that start to spur

0:33:02.040 --> 0:33:03.959
<v Speaker 1>up your It sounds like it starts to spur up

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:06.560
<v Speaker 1>that level football again. And how did you transition into that?

0:33:07.000 --> 0:33:09.760
<v Speaker 1>It was wild because yes, so David, and David was

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:14.400
<v Speaker 1>actually the best friend of my college boyfriend, right so.

0:33:15.120 --> 0:33:17.000
<v Speaker 1>Um and now that y'all made me think about this.

0:33:17.080 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 1>Every guy every dated back in the day. Um, we're

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:22.240
<v Speaker 1>all football players. So there was something I was trying.

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I was trying to stay close to the game and

0:33:24.200 --> 0:33:32.479
<v Speaker 1>every where I couldn't. Um, you can kiss, but I

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 1>just want your clicks. Poor guys like they they really

0:33:39.000 --> 0:33:41.840
<v Speaker 1>didn't they really they had no chance, but um, but

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:47.000
<v Speaker 1>they can ballow. Heading into my senior year, he completely

0:33:47.080 --> 0:33:50.360
<v Speaker 1>tore up my focus in basketball because he stood up this.

0:33:50.920 --> 0:33:52.720
<v Speaker 1>He went and did it. It was just eight on

0:33:52.880 --> 0:33:57.160
<v Speaker 1>eight women's football, tackle football, and he had all the

0:33:57.240 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 1>little teams around all of the little cities. It was

0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:03.680
<v Speaker 1>like six teams and it was all of these athletes,

0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 1>girls from the soccer team, from the intramural teams, and

0:34:07.920 --> 0:34:10.120
<v Speaker 1>David mestand put me at running back at one of

0:34:10.120 --> 0:34:12.239
<v Speaker 1>the on one of these teams, and I was, I was,

0:34:12.560 --> 0:34:19.840
<v Speaker 1>I could not there was I was so overloaded with um,

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:23.800
<v Speaker 1>happiness and fulfillment. UM the idea because it was the

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:29.360
<v Speaker 1>first time I played football with women, and I never

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:31.799
<v Speaker 1>thought of the concept like, yo, I don't have to

0:34:31.840 --> 0:34:35.439
<v Speaker 1>play against boys. I can actually play with girls, which

0:34:35.480 --> 0:34:39.640
<v Speaker 1>was always my preference, like play against other women, and

0:34:39.719 --> 0:34:42.640
<v Speaker 1>so UM we ended up doing that for a couple

0:34:42.680 --> 0:34:45.960
<v Speaker 1>of years, and once I got a taste of that,

0:34:46.000 --> 0:34:48.200
<v Speaker 1>I never looked back. We hear people say, man, we

0:34:48.239 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 1>want equal opportunity, we want this, we want that, But

0:34:52.040 --> 0:35:00.080
<v Speaker 1>what this really equal opportunity from Odess's perspective, really me,

0:35:00.840 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a dream of women playing in the NFL.

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 1>I have a dream of the w NFC UM standing alone,

0:35:11.440 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>UM having an opportunity to bring in sponsorship dollars, build

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:20.960
<v Speaker 1>a strong revenue stream. UM work with universities and colleges

0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 1>and the government UM to build a pipeline for girls

0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:29.200
<v Speaker 1>to play football against other girls. So if me equity

0:35:29.440 --> 0:35:35.759
<v Speaker 1>looks like developing a professional women's tackle football league UM

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:43.000
<v Speaker 1>that has its UH support from professional men's football, but

0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:47.320
<v Speaker 1>that we will wake up and no girl will ever

0:35:47.440 --> 0:35:52.720
<v Speaker 1>be told that her time in football is over because

0:35:52.760 --> 0:35:59.160
<v Speaker 1>no opportunity exists for her. And see that is an

0:35:59.200 --> 0:36:03.120
<v Speaker 1>answer that I love you want other women to have

0:36:03.320 --> 0:36:06.560
<v Speaker 1>that opportunity that not to hear what you heard, which

0:36:06.600 --> 0:36:09.879
<v Speaker 1>is you have no place because this world is big

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:15.840
<v Speaker 1>enough with the right leadership in every area, right and

0:36:15.880 --> 0:36:18.680
<v Speaker 1>we're just talking about football. With the right leadership, there's

0:36:18.840 --> 0:36:23.840
<v Speaker 1>enough football fields to go around, there's enough footballs to

0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:27.680
<v Speaker 1>go around, and there's enough cliques and listen, it sounds

0:36:27.719 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>like there's enough bodies that want to get punished, like

0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:34.640
<v Speaker 1>the game of football is right, and who are willing

0:36:34.680 --> 0:36:39.880
<v Speaker 1>to put themselves through it? Yea. And also to just personally,

0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, I know you guys are looking and with

0:36:42.680 --> 0:36:45.560
<v Speaker 1>with with the pandemic and all all of that stuff.

0:36:45.600 --> 0:36:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I think you'll be good as Steve Smith uh senior

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:53.240
<v Speaker 1>Um comes along. We you know, whatever stuff you guys

0:36:53.239 --> 0:36:56.480
<v Speaker 1>have haven't going on, email us and we'll give you

0:36:56.480 --> 0:37:00.560
<v Speaker 1>a thousand dollars um. And then my foundation also do

0:37:00.640 --> 0:37:04.480
<v Speaker 1>a thousand dollars just just to say, you know. And

0:37:04.480 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 1>and the reason I say all of that is I

0:37:08.280 --> 0:37:11.799
<v Speaker 1>can't fix all of the issues. But if if you

0:37:11.840 --> 0:37:16.360
<v Speaker 1>get enough of enough people that's right behind y'all, that

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:18.319
<v Speaker 1>that's what it counts. And so that you know, so

0:37:18.480 --> 0:37:22.359
<v Speaker 1>just hearing your answering and why really encouraged me. And

0:37:22.400 --> 0:37:26.759
<v Speaker 1>I loved it because it wasn't a It wasn't an

0:37:26.840 --> 0:37:30.600
<v Speaker 1>extravagant you ask or thought it was a through. It

0:37:30.960 --> 0:37:34.120
<v Speaker 1>was a kiss for me. I believe in that there's

0:37:34.160 --> 0:37:38.960
<v Speaker 1>things that will happen and will exist that I can't see. Um,

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:41.600
<v Speaker 1>But I've been in I've been at this for a decade.

0:37:41.640 --> 0:37:44.839
<v Speaker 1>This ain't new, right, Like I I'm working my ass

0:37:44.920 --> 0:37:47.920
<v Speaker 1>off to build this. I'm not asking for anybody to

0:37:48.080 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>give me or hand me anything. I've been working at

0:37:51.160 --> 0:37:54.160
<v Speaker 1>it for a decade. So it's not like, um, this

0:37:54.239 --> 0:37:57.719
<v Speaker 1>is happening overnight or I see what's been built over

0:37:57.760 --> 0:37:59.680
<v Speaker 1>a hundred years and think that I can build it

0:37:59.719 --> 0:38:04.520
<v Speaker 1>into what. What I'm asking for is that to your point,

0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:08.279
<v Speaker 1>there are people like you there. There are brands out there,

0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:11.279
<v Speaker 1>you know, shout out to Adidas and Rebel Sports who

0:38:11.280 --> 0:38:15.000
<v Speaker 1>have already jumped on board with us. But there are people, um,

0:38:15.080 --> 0:38:18.640
<v Speaker 1>that could literally change the trajectory of the opportunity that

0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:22.359
<v Speaker 1>women have in women's sports. And I think it just

0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:27.680
<v Speaker 1>takes um some unity, uh and some support. You know.

0:38:27.719 --> 0:38:30.200
<v Speaker 1>I think that there's billions and billions of dollars like

0:38:30.280 --> 0:38:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I was on one. I don't know if you have

0:38:32.080 --> 0:38:34.120
<v Speaker 1>all the sides, but there's one of the things that

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<v Speaker 1>my presentation that I always present that says that five

0:38:37.800 --> 0:38:40.800
<v Speaker 1>hundred million dollars has been invested over the last seven

0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:47.040
<v Speaker 1>years and the failed professional men's football leagues five million dollars, girl,

0:38:47.520 --> 0:38:51.080
<v Speaker 1>and what I what I would do with one percent

0:38:51.160 --> 0:38:54.280
<v Speaker 1>of that would blow somebody's mind. I think it's about

0:38:54.280 --> 0:39:04.120
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0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:07.439
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<v Speaker 1>to podcasts. Coming up on the Cut to It podcast,

0:39:23.360 --> 0:39:26.320
<v Speaker 1>we've got Jennifer King, the first black woman to become

0:39:26.360 --> 0:39:29.640
<v Speaker 1>a full time coach in the NFL. A former football

0:39:29.640 --> 0:39:34.160
<v Speaker 1>player herself, she also coached women's basketball. Jennifer King on

0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>the Cut to It Podcast. I think this is a

0:39:39.800 --> 0:39:45.560
<v Speaker 1>unique question because I'm a dad. What's the dynamic when

0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:49.440
<v Speaker 1>you wanted to play and obviously your girl, so we

0:39:49.920 --> 0:39:52.640
<v Speaker 1>I want to highlight that and also talk about to

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:58.640
<v Speaker 1>some degree, talk about the stigma of girls playing guy sports,

0:39:58.719 --> 0:40:01.520
<v Speaker 1>especially at a young age, because us I've used to do.

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:03.440
<v Speaker 1>I used to do football camps when I did play,

0:40:03.840 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>and I and I. One thing that I always noticed

0:40:06.360 --> 0:40:08.800
<v Speaker 1>that was really cool is you always got two or

0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:12.120
<v Speaker 1>three girls. But these two or three girls were always

0:40:12.320 --> 0:40:17.640
<v Speaker 1>excellent players because they most most young men playing sports,

0:40:17.680 --> 0:40:21.239
<v Speaker 1>they lacked the details. But that that girls that played

0:40:21.280 --> 0:40:23.880
<v Speaker 1>they always knew that they had to have the fundamentals

0:40:23.920 --> 0:40:30.719
<v Speaker 1>because some girls were just physically not as strong or

0:40:30.800 --> 0:40:34.840
<v Speaker 1>not as fast as the counterparts as the counterparts, and

0:40:34.920 --> 0:40:40.239
<v Speaker 1>so what was the dynamic between mom seeing you play

0:40:40.320 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 1>football and dad seeing you play football? Yeah, that was

0:40:45.719 --> 0:40:48.200
<v Speaker 1>that was funny because you know when I got to

0:40:48.280 --> 0:40:50.880
<v Speaker 1>like middle school even high school, you know, the coaches

0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:53.120
<v Speaker 1>were like, you know, like I think she can help us.

0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:56.440
<v Speaker 1>You know, so I was I was trying. I was trying,

0:40:56.600 --> 0:40:59.080
<v Speaker 1>but you know that was like nah, like they printed.

0:40:59.080 --> 0:41:00.759
<v Speaker 1>My parents trum was let me do anything else and

0:41:00.840 --> 0:41:04.600
<v Speaker 1>supported me except for playing football that they were worried about,

0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:06.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, me get injured, so I didn't get to

0:41:06.840 --> 0:41:09.400
<v Speaker 1>do it. So I still just played in like pe

0:41:09.440 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 1>and you know, in class but that was it pretty

0:41:12.680 --> 0:41:14.879
<v Speaker 1>much until I was an adult. So did they ever

0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:18.680
<v Speaker 1>tell you that you that you can't. No, they never

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:20.799
<v Speaker 1>told me I couldn't. They just didn't sign me up

0:41:20.800 --> 0:41:22.520
<v Speaker 1>for allowing me to do it because you know, they

0:41:22.560 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 1>were worried about me get injured. So that was pretty

0:41:24.960 --> 0:41:27.000
<v Speaker 1>much it. Not that I couldn't do it, it was

0:41:27.080 --> 0:41:33.400
<v Speaker 1>just they were concerned. And I like that because obviously

0:41:33.480 --> 0:41:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm a dad and I played football, and you know,

0:41:38.239 --> 0:41:42.200
<v Speaker 1>I remember I wasn't working on Thursday night and I

0:41:42.239 --> 0:41:44.360
<v Speaker 1>was watching, but I was watching Thursday night because I

0:41:44.360 --> 0:41:45.920
<v Speaker 1>had to take notes and I had a show to

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:49.759
<v Speaker 1>do the next that following weekend, and because of that,

0:41:50.640 --> 0:41:52.879
<v Speaker 1>I was watching the Thursday night and I remember sitting

0:41:52.920 --> 0:41:58.680
<v Speaker 1>there watching Ryan Sayeser he got his injury, and I

0:41:58.719 --> 0:42:03.000
<v Speaker 1>can remember, like yesterday, my wife goes, My wife Angie goes,

0:42:03.320 --> 0:42:07.760
<v Speaker 1>that's why I won't bammim playing football, and I got sold.

0:42:08.640 --> 0:42:13.800
<v Speaker 1>I was a little bit irritated because I had to walk.

0:42:14.960 --> 0:42:20.480
<v Speaker 1>I paused it and I walked Boston through what happened

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:25.600
<v Speaker 1>and why it happened. Not the sport, her natural reaction,

0:42:25.680 --> 0:42:29.640
<v Speaker 1>which I agree with. It's a brutal sport. That's why

0:42:29.719 --> 0:42:33.680
<v Speaker 1>I wanted to play, but as a dad, I had

0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:37.560
<v Speaker 1>to go, No, it's not the sport necessarily, it's the

0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:43.480
<v Speaker 1>participant in that sport that increased the chances of his

0:42:44.440 --> 0:42:48.400
<v Speaker 1>probability of getting hurt. On the way he did something

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 1>and we went back through it and I walked him

0:42:50.760 --> 0:42:54.239
<v Speaker 1>through it, and from that moment on, I had told

0:42:54.280 --> 0:42:58.080
<v Speaker 1>my son, for you to play this game. If you

0:42:58.160 --> 0:43:00.759
<v Speaker 1>can't see, if you don't see you what you hit,

0:43:01.360 --> 0:43:04.640
<v Speaker 1>you don't hit it. And on that particular play, and

0:43:04.640 --> 0:43:07.200
<v Speaker 1>I played against Ryan, he's a hell of a football player,

0:43:08.520 --> 0:43:13.400
<v Speaker 1>but also like anybody else, you can have that centimeter

0:43:14.480 --> 0:43:20.080
<v Speaker 1>of air put your head down and it can cost

0:43:20.120 --> 0:43:24.520
<v Speaker 1>you something. I broke my neck in college. I put

0:43:24.560 --> 0:43:27.799
<v Speaker 1>my head down, the two people hit me exactly on

0:43:27.840 --> 0:43:31.200
<v Speaker 1>the same shoulders, and I had a C four burst fracture.

0:43:32.239 --> 0:43:34.759
<v Speaker 1>And I was in a neck harness for about seven

0:43:34.880 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 1>or eight months, to the point of where I had

0:43:37.280 --> 0:43:41.600
<v Speaker 1>to lift. When I got out of neck harners, I

0:43:41.680 --> 0:43:44.760
<v Speaker 1>had to lift and improve my support around my shoulders.

0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:47.840
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a fusion surgery, but I had to

0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:52.160
<v Speaker 1>left every time until a long time. And I never

0:43:52.200 --> 0:43:55.279
<v Speaker 1>told anybody what I'm saying that now is probably for

0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.560
<v Speaker 1>the first three or four years of my career. Any

0:43:58.600 --> 0:44:02.600
<v Speaker 1>time I would turn abruptly writer left, or if I

0:44:02.640 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 1>didn't left that week, I would get a stinger that

0:44:05.520 --> 0:44:10.960
<v Speaker 1>would go up my neck. Wow, And I had to,

0:44:11.200 --> 0:44:13.319
<v Speaker 1>but I that's all I did. I wouldn't left much,

0:44:13.640 --> 0:44:19.920
<v Speaker 1>but I get them tracks right right, and and and

0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:23.080
<v Speaker 1>and the reason I got injured, Here's why I got injured.

0:44:24.040 --> 0:44:26.400
<v Speaker 1>Rob Morris was a linebacker for b y U. We

0:44:26.440 --> 0:44:27.960
<v Speaker 1>had to win that game and go off to the

0:44:28.040 --> 0:44:32.160
<v Speaker 1>Vegas Bowl to play eventually a team led by Freshno

0:44:32.239 --> 0:44:36.320
<v Speaker 1>State by David Carr. And I was playing proper return

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:39.040
<v Speaker 1>and Rob Morris was a potential first round draft pick.

0:44:39.800 --> 0:44:42.840
<v Speaker 1>He end up getting drafted I think UH in the

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:46.480
<v Speaker 1>first round, fourteenth or something pick. And Rob Morris played

0:44:46.480 --> 0:44:48.759
<v Speaker 1>on special teams and I saw him, so I was

0:44:48.760 --> 0:44:51.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna dip on them. And the same way I played,

0:44:51.239 --> 0:44:52.920
<v Speaker 1>I tried dip on Rob Morrison, the same way I

0:44:52.960 --> 0:44:56.279
<v Speaker 1>tried to beat New Mexico. When I played against UH

0:44:56.520 --> 0:44:58.920
<v Speaker 1>Brian Orlaer. I wanted to show this little kid from

0:44:59.080 --> 0:45:01.600
<v Speaker 1>l a complaining only it was my It was my

0:45:01.640 --> 0:45:06.480
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to showcase what I could do for scouts because

0:45:06.520 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 1>I was not getting looked at as much after things giving.

0:45:11.200 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I was about, you know, in in in college, and

0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:18.239
<v Speaker 1>I remember I tried to dip on them. I was

0:45:18.280 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 1>on the sideline on our sidelight going down and in

0:45:20.719 --> 0:45:25.120
<v Speaker 1>pro vote, going down the sideline, and I was like,

0:45:25.920 --> 0:45:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I went to dip on them, dip my head. The

0:45:28.440 --> 0:45:31.200
<v Speaker 1>other guy did not see hit. They both hit both

0:45:31.200 --> 0:45:36.840
<v Speaker 1>shoulders simultaneously bang back in the day. I'm like, man,

0:45:36.840 --> 0:45:39.080
<v Speaker 1>my neck is tight. So he took me out for

0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:42.759
<v Speaker 1>a few plays, put some big gay on it, some

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:48.359
<v Speaker 1>frees bio. Freese wasn't in the ring. That old man

0:45:48.480 --> 0:45:50.920
<v Speaker 1>smell put that on there and finished the game. It's

0:45:50.920 --> 0:45:54.560
<v Speaker 1>called that bio that uh that that bio stuff. Cream

0:45:54.560 --> 0:46:00.400
<v Speaker 1>of Jesus left the cream of Jesus on. So I

0:46:00.520 --> 0:46:03.800
<v Speaker 1>go on there, man, and we finished the game. And

0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:06.959
<v Speaker 1>it's called the Holy War. In Utah, they always play

0:46:07.320 --> 0:46:09.919
<v Speaker 1>by you and b y U and Utah always play

0:46:09.960 --> 0:46:12.560
<v Speaker 1>around thanksgiveing. Mom was in town. We won the game.

0:46:13.040 --> 0:46:15.720
<v Speaker 1>We're going to the Vegas Bowl. And I'm a self

0:46:15.719 --> 0:46:18.320
<v Speaker 1>adjuster self. Just here is somebody to try to adjust.

0:46:18.320 --> 0:46:21.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't go to Kyra practice. I'm Kyra practor so

0:46:21.400 --> 0:46:23.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to adjust my neck. Man, I gotta cricket

0:46:23.520 --> 0:46:25.880
<v Speaker 1>is getting stiffer and stiffer. We go to the doctor.

0:46:25.920 --> 0:46:27.800
<v Speaker 1>I go. Doctor said, man, my neck is stiff, is

0:46:27.800 --> 0:46:31.200
<v Speaker 1>getting worse and worse. They do an X ray. We're

0:46:31.239 --> 0:46:33.759
<v Speaker 1>just gonna do a routine. Next way. Man, before I

0:46:33.840 --> 0:46:38.120
<v Speaker 1>get ten minutes down down the street, you need to

0:46:38.120 --> 0:46:41.799
<v Speaker 1>come back, you guys. Before a birth fracture broke my neck,

0:46:42.600 --> 0:46:45.440
<v Speaker 1>put me in the harness, didn't get to play. If

0:46:45.440 --> 0:46:49.239
<v Speaker 1>you go back and see the Vegas Bowl, you'll see me.

0:46:49.280 --> 0:46:51.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm holding up trophy and I was in the neck brace.

0:46:51.960 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, career and in in in question. So are

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:58.640
<v Speaker 1>you saying then that you believe you got injured because

0:46:58.680 --> 0:47:01.879
<v Speaker 1>you had just a decrease in the fundamentals. You forgot

0:47:01.880 --> 0:47:04.080
<v Speaker 1>the fundamentals at that point? Is that what you're saying? Absolutely,

0:47:04.080 --> 0:47:06.680
<v Speaker 1>I got, I forgot. I didn't not have the fundamentals.

0:47:06.719 --> 0:47:10.360
<v Speaker 1>I knew the fundamentals, but I reach, I reacted and

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:13.279
<v Speaker 1>I did. I did not see what I I hit,

0:47:14.280 --> 0:47:16.719
<v Speaker 1>and so it that's what happened. And so when you

0:47:16.760 --> 0:47:20.000
<v Speaker 1>have these camps, typically these these young women that are playing,

0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:24.560
<v Speaker 1>they don't miss the building the fundamentals. They have so

0:47:24.760 --> 0:47:29.359
<v Speaker 1>much fundamentals they they hone in and every I did.

0:47:30.160 --> 0:47:33.360
<v Speaker 1>I did three or four camps every year for eight years.

0:47:33.719 --> 0:47:35.799
<v Speaker 1>I did them all and not this isn't a brag.

0:47:35.880 --> 0:47:38.520
<v Speaker 1>I did them. I had the honor of doing them

0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:45.440
<v Speaker 1>on military brick basis. So I've done camps in Hawaii, Frankfurt, Germany,

0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:52.160
<v Speaker 1>Camp Humphreys in South Korea, down to Fort Bragg, and

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 1>it's still a constant, and it does not I don't

0:47:55.560 --> 0:47:58.800
<v Speaker 1>care where I go. There's always three or four girls

0:47:58.840 --> 0:48:03.080
<v Speaker 1>who who have the fundamentals, and I just think that's awesome,

0:48:03.120 --> 0:48:07.640
<v Speaker 1>because yes, they may be not all. Some are more.

0:48:08.280 --> 0:48:09.840
<v Speaker 1>There's a few girls. I remember I was in the

0:48:09.880 --> 0:48:12.080
<v Speaker 1>Element Sico and I saw a girl named Felicia, just Molly.

0:48:12.120 --> 0:48:17.920
<v Speaker 1>Woppa dude. So Park put them polls on, put the

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:27.319
<v Speaker 1>whole eight piece right bucket coach law too with the

0:48:27.360 --> 0:48:36.040
<v Speaker 1>side with what's prew punch. And I've seen some of

0:48:36.040 --> 0:48:38.440
<v Speaker 1>the you know, some girls who are bigger than guys.

0:48:39.239 --> 0:48:42.200
<v Speaker 1>What the fundamentals? Man Some some young men just they

0:48:42.320 --> 0:48:46.040
<v Speaker 1>athletically gifted, but they lacked the fundamentals. Jennifer, would you

0:48:46.080 --> 0:48:50.480
<v Speaker 1>add that in terms of fundamentals and young women in sports. Yeah,

0:48:50.480 --> 0:48:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I think he's absolutely right. I mean, you looking basketball,

0:48:53.480 --> 0:48:55.040
<v Speaker 1>you know it's not it's not a lot of dunking

0:48:55.080 --> 0:48:58.360
<v Speaker 1>going on, but the fundies is big and women's basketball

0:48:58.400 --> 0:49:00.520
<v Speaker 1>and just how the game is played. It's it's two

0:49:00.520 --> 0:49:03.120
<v Speaker 1>different games. But I do think, you know, women are

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:05.839
<v Speaker 1>really good at the fundamentals of sport. What was your

0:49:05.880 --> 0:49:11.319
<v Speaker 1>playing for college? Oh? Man, it was. It was kind

0:49:11.360 --> 0:49:13.480
<v Speaker 1>of crazy because, um, you know at that time, I

0:49:13.520 --> 0:49:15.719
<v Speaker 1>was playing a bunch of sports in high school and

0:49:16.200 --> 0:49:19.360
<v Speaker 1>um decided to play basketball and hopefully softball in college.

0:49:19.400 --> 0:49:22.319
<v Speaker 1>So and there was it was some bigger schools like

0:49:22.400 --> 0:49:25.440
<v Speaker 1>men majors that wanted me for either, but neither wanted

0:49:25.440 --> 0:49:27.320
<v Speaker 1>me for like both, like basketball, didn't want me to

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:29.960
<v Speaker 1>play softball softball didn't want to play basketball. So I

0:49:30.040 --> 0:49:33.920
<v Speaker 1>end up going to it like a D three school both, right.

0:49:34.200 --> 0:49:36.919
<v Speaker 1>I had a great visit. Uh, it's a really good,

0:49:36.960 --> 0:49:39.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, high academic school. So I went there and

0:49:39.800 --> 0:49:44.400
<v Speaker 1>played both good career guilt for college. You had the

0:49:44.440 --> 0:49:49.000
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to play both. So that leads me to believe

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:53.799
<v Speaker 1>the academic workload and playing two sports, how did you

0:49:53.840 --> 0:49:57.600
<v Speaker 1>manage that? I always been a busy person, you know.

0:49:57.680 --> 0:50:00.120
<v Speaker 1>Growing up. Sometimes I would have three different practice say

0:50:00.160 --> 0:50:02.160
<v Speaker 1>it's like after school for different sports. So I wasn't

0:50:02.160 --> 0:50:06.320
<v Speaker 1>always doing the most so to have that, it wasn't

0:50:06.480 --> 0:50:08.000
<v Speaker 1>that big of a deal for me to play two

0:50:08.040 --> 0:50:14.120
<v Speaker 1>sports in college as an unpaid uber driver myself speak

0:50:14.160 --> 0:50:17.239
<v Speaker 1>on it for the rest of the pea is riduculous.

0:50:19.440 --> 0:50:21.960
<v Speaker 1>And sometimes I don't even I don't even get it. Thanks,

0:50:22.560 --> 0:50:28.839
<v Speaker 1>It's like go here. Yeah, that's exactly how it was. Now.

0:50:28.920 --> 0:50:30.719
<v Speaker 1>Jennifer called out your place a little bit earlier, and

0:50:30.800 --> 0:50:33.560
<v Speaker 1>I gotta I gotta pull her. Call bull. She's second

0:50:33.600 --> 0:50:36.880
<v Speaker 1>all time and points scored for Guilford College women's basketball,

0:50:37.440 --> 0:50:39.480
<v Speaker 1>so she had all these practices, but she was still

0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:42.960
<v Speaker 1>put in the work. Oh for sure. I mean I was.

0:50:43.920 --> 0:50:45.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean I didn't put in all that work to

0:50:45.360 --> 0:50:47.960
<v Speaker 1>go out there and score, you know, five points a game, man,

0:50:48.080 --> 0:50:49.680
<v Speaker 1>So I was. I was lucky to always be able

0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:52.040
<v Speaker 1>to score the ball. So um, I had a good

0:50:52.040 --> 0:50:55.000
<v Speaker 1>time at Guilford, was fun while getting her bachelor's Sons

0:50:55.000 --> 0:50:58.800
<v Speaker 1>and Sports management, and she got her masters from Liberty,

0:50:59.320 --> 0:51:03.560
<v Speaker 1>So she's as athletic as academic, best of both worlds

0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:09.120
<v Speaker 1>to shame. I see it. And yet all of that

0:51:09.640 --> 0:51:14.840
<v Speaker 1>you decided to go because a journey. But it's a

0:51:14.920 --> 0:51:18.480
<v Speaker 1>journey that I just mean, I just mean that is

0:51:18.520 --> 0:51:22.520
<v Speaker 1>because you have all this information. You also coached. I

0:51:22.560 --> 0:51:25.080
<v Speaker 1>want to go down that path you were coaching. Also

0:51:26.040 --> 0:51:30.560
<v Speaker 1>was a police officer, you know, as as they say,

0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:33.680
<v Speaker 1>and you know back in the day old in Living Color, right,

0:51:33.800 --> 0:51:42.279
<v Speaker 1>she got she's a layah. I get that all the time. Man,

0:51:42.400 --> 0:51:46.360
<v Speaker 1>My friends are savages. So she'll take us through that.

0:51:46.520 --> 0:51:50.400
<v Speaker 1>You you you you end up being you know, playing

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:54.279
<v Speaker 1>balling out a guilt for college, and then you start

0:51:54.360 --> 0:52:00.919
<v Speaker 1>coaching the basketball team, you know, started the basketball team,

0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:04.160
<v Speaker 1>and then you coach that Greensboro College, you know, Lou

0:52:04.360 --> 0:52:11.719
<v Speaker 1>Lou cool ten years, ten years and also doing what else?

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Why are your coaching? I was, I was a cop man, yeah,

0:52:15.560 --> 0:52:17.239
<v Speaker 1>on the on the south side of hot Point to

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<v Speaker 1>see you know what it was my wife point, So

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely knowing, And I explained it all because m

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<v Speaker 1>is about that action. A bunch of hot people in

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<v Speaker 1>hot Point are about that action. And I'm sure Jennifer

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<v Speaker 1>could tell us. But when when did you start getting

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<v Speaker 1>the I guess to back all of it when did

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<v Speaker 1>you know as you were finishing your career at UH

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<v Speaker 1>at Guildford, when did you know you want to become

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<v Speaker 1>a coach? I mean, you know we started to leave

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<v Speaker 1>finished college. You gotta do something, you know, So I

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<v Speaker 1>knew it went to be in sport, and I had

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<v Speaker 1>some contacts already and I one of my guys to

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<v Speaker 1>end up being a mentor for me, offered me a

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<v Speaker 1>job at Greensboro. So that's how I ended up coaching

0:52:59.160 --> 0:53:02.360
<v Speaker 1>and got into it. So, um, just to stay in sports,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, keep that that competition, you know, as an athlete,

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<v Speaker 1>you know when you've done sometimes you have to find

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<v Speaker 1>a way for that to find that drive, that rush.

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<v Speaker 1>So that was the next best thing for me. Tell

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<v Speaker 1>us and walk us through some of the things with

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<v Speaker 1>everything going on, because I want you to speak about

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<v Speaker 1>some of your experiences as a police officer, also as

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<v Speaker 1>a woman of color that serving the community and what

0:53:25.480 --> 0:53:28.920
<v Speaker 1>you experienced, because I don't know what you experience. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it was like for you as a

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<v Speaker 1>police officer, how you handle people, what you what you saw,

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<v Speaker 1>what you didn't see, what you can identify with now

0:53:38.920 --> 0:53:42.080
<v Speaker 1>being out of you know, being out of the of

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<v Speaker 1>the role of being a police officer, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to give you that platform, that opportunity because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what you experience. Only you do, but you

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<v Speaker 1>also know a lot of things about your role that

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<v Speaker 1>I have no idea about. Yeah, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>crazy working on the on the south side of our Point,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we it was a lot and on Um

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<v Speaker 1>you know, heroin was big at the time, so we

0:54:02.960 --> 0:54:06.920
<v Speaker 1>had a bunch of heroin problems with overdoses almost every day. Um,

0:54:06.960 --> 0:54:09.640
<v Speaker 1>you would go to and just stuff in general. You

0:54:09.640 --> 0:54:12.360
<v Speaker 1>know that the gangs and the the drug game was crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>and UM, I think I definitely now see things from

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<v Speaker 1>both sides, um because I've been profiled before, but I

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<v Speaker 1>also you know, been a police officer at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>So um, you know it was it was a good

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<v Speaker 1>experience for me. One thing I'm thankful for. I think

0:54:25.440 --> 0:54:28.320
<v Speaker 1>our training and high Point was as good as it gets,

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:31.799
<v Speaker 1>you know, like we went above and beyond the required

0:54:32.200 --> 0:54:34.880
<v Speaker 1>States training, which is not much, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of people, if they did that or

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<v Speaker 1>had the resources to do that, they could be a

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<v Speaker 1>lot better. Because you know, sometimes I see things happen

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just like, oh, man, I can't believe they

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<v Speaker 1>did that or like we never would they did it

0:54:45.719 --> 0:54:49.200
<v Speaker 1>that way. But you know, everybody's trained differently, so you

0:54:49.239 --> 0:54:52.080
<v Speaker 1>can't you can't really uh you know, look at every

0:54:52.080 --> 0:54:55.080
<v Speaker 1>situation they're saying this because it's different people, Um, different

0:54:55.080 --> 0:54:57.560
<v Speaker 1>training and involved. So um, you know, I was definitely

0:54:57.600 --> 0:54:59.640
<v Speaker 1>thankful for our training and you know, you learned a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of since you know, those streets, man, stuff you

0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:04.360
<v Speaker 1>can carry on in life, and like you said, you

0:55:04.400 --> 0:55:07.719
<v Speaker 1>deal with people sometimes that they're worse, so it's how

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with different kind of people. And um, you know,

0:55:10.680 --> 0:55:12.719
<v Speaker 1>we see it all and I did a lot, did

0:55:12.719 --> 0:55:15.279
<v Speaker 1>a lot, you know, and how poor experienced a lot

0:55:15.520 --> 0:55:18.640
<v Speaker 1>and it's definitely helped me, you know, moving forward and

0:55:18.719 --> 0:55:21.600
<v Speaker 1>just you know in life. So um, definitely thankful for

0:55:21.719 --> 0:55:24.239
<v Speaker 1>the person responders out there. But you know, at the

0:55:24.280 --> 0:55:26.840
<v Speaker 1>same time, some people need to do better and you know,

0:55:26.880 --> 0:55:29.600
<v Speaker 1>we need some things to change. Is it fair to say?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm assuming with you moonlighting as a basketball coach

0:55:34.600 --> 0:55:38.880
<v Speaker 1>and working full time job as a police officer, I'm imagining.

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:41.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming and I hope I'm assuming a good way. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>When you were coaching these kids that you were instilling

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<v Speaker 1>things in them because you were seeing the difference between

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<v Speaker 1>the right response and the wrong response. Yeah. Absolutely, I

0:55:51.800 --> 0:55:54.319
<v Speaker 1>mean it literally felt like sometimes I was in a

0:55:54.360 --> 0:55:56.160
<v Speaker 1>double life because you know, say if I was working

0:55:56.200 --> 0:55:58.640
<v Speaker 1>on first shift and you know things, I would do

0:55:58.800 --> 0:56:01.880
<v Speaker 1>expirits during the daytime. Um, I mean just be insane

0:56:02.239 --> 0:56:05.000
<v Speaker 1>like a movie, and then I go to basketball practice

0:56:05.120 --> 0:56:08.120
<v Speaker 1>and you know, it was like a totally different world.

0:56:08.200 --> 0:56:10.880
<v Speaker 1>But definitely trying to you know, instill those values and

0:56:10.960 --> 0:56:13.080
<v Speaker 1>things that I learned, you know, for the kids because

0:56:13.080 --> 0:56:14.600
<v Speaker 1>they were in college, so it was important for them

0:56:14.640 --> 0:56:17.239
<v Speaker 1>to learn some of those lessons. So what was the

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<v Speaker 1>moment when you were both a police officer and you

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:22.480
<v Speaker 1>were coaching? What was that moment when you knew you

0:56:22.520 --> 0:56:24.880
<v Speaker 1>had to choose. Yeah, that was when I got my

0:56:24.920 --> 0:56:29.040
<v Speaker 1>head coaching job at Johnson Welles and Charlotte. So, um,

0:56:29.080 --> 0:56:31.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, when she moved a chair over to the

0:56:31.120 --> 0:56:34.200
<v Speaker 1>head spot, you can't really be doing a bunch of

0:56:34.200 --> 0:56:36.319
<v Speaker 1>other jobs. So when I moved to Charlotte, that's when

0:56:36.360 --> 0:56:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I left the police force. How do you handle some

0:56:39.400 --> 0:56:42.560
<v Speaker 1>of the labels in coaching? Now you're female coach in

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<v Speaker 1>the National Football League? Congratulations, first Africa, African America put

0:56:48.640 --> 0:56:53.240
<v Speaker 1>that label on it, African American time coach, you get

0:56:53.360 --> 0:56:58.239
<v Speaker 1>you got a W two. First of all, do you

0:56:58.320 --> 0:57:03.680
<v Speaker 1>like the label of being first black female coach? I

0:57:03.680 --> 0:57:06.080
<v Speaker 1>mean that's something that I can't escape because it kind

0:57:06.080 --> 0:57:07.840
<v Speaker 1>of is what it is. So I mean, whether I

0:57:08.160 --> 0:57:10.680
<v Speaker 1>like it or not, just gonna be there. So, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I think right now, I don't really

0:57:12.960 --> 0:57:15.040
<v Speaker 1>think that much of it, but something you know down

0:57:15.120 --> 0:57:18.040
<v Speaker 1>the road, definitely something to look back on and you know,

0:57:18.240 --> 0:57:20.760
<v Speaker 1>be thankful and happy for the accomplishment. Well, it's it's

0:57:20.840 --> 0:57:23.920
<v Speaker 1>knocking down barriers. I can truly say as the father

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<v Speaker 1>of an African American woman in a year where I

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<v Speaker 1>think there are a lot of first you have politics aside,

0:57:31.320 --> 0:57:34.280
<v Speaker 1>you have the first African American woman to be vice president,

0:57:34.560 --> 0:57:37.640
<v Speaker 1>you have an African woman, African American woman who's now

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<v Speaker 1>the CEO of Walgreens the first time a fortune fifty company. Um,

0:57:42.160 --> 0:57:45.840
<v Speaker 1>and then yourself the first African American woman coach in

0:57:46.000 --> 0:57:50.560
<v Speaker 1>NFL representation matters. My daughter looks at TV a lot

0:57:50.600 --> 0:57:53.080
<v Speaker 1>of times says, oh Dash, she looks like me, and

0:57:53.160 --> 0:57:56.360
<v Speaker 1>that look her being six me and being six that's

0:57:56.400 --> 0:57:58.960
<v Speaker 1>big for her to see people. So I know it

0:57:59.000 --> 0:58:00.920
<v Speaker 1>made process at as if I don't know how to

0:58:00.920 --> 0:58:03.000
<v Speaker 1>feel right now, but you're knocking down the barriers to

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<v Speaker 1>where she doesn't have to worry about being the first

0:58:05.560 --> 0:58:07.880
<v Speaker 1>in certain instances. So it's really big. So I do

0:58:07.960 --> 0:58:11.240
<v Speaker 1>want to say where it proudly because as a father

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<v Speaker 1>being in the house with black you know, being married

0:58:13.680 --> 0:58:17.080
<v Speaker 1>to a black woman, raising a young African American woman,

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<v Speaker 1>it is very big. So thank you. I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that it's big. You are a unique person,

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