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Speaker 2: Greg is on the phone today for our first Day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Joyce.
Speaker 2: So we're about to call her and see if she
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him
Speaker 2: a second date. But first, Greg, how long has it
Speaker 2: been since you were from joy Oh?
Speaker 3: Man, it's been like a almost two weeks.
Speaker 4: Ooh, I know, I know. I'm trying to figure this out.
Speaker 4: I don't know what happened. I feel like we had
Speaker 4: a good time.
Speaker 1: What was the last thing she said to you?
Speaker 4: The last thing she said to me? Well, we were
Speaker 4: at in the bar. I don't know. We had like
Speaker 4: a whole great date.
Speaker 3: It's just like I felt like she all of a
Speaker 3: sudden disappeared on me, and so I was the one
Speaker 3: who reached out to her of her text trying to
Speaker 3: figure out where she went, and I just haven't heard back.
Speaker 1: Oh that's so good. Tell us about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I mean I feel like I should tell
Speaker 3: you what happened first, because we ended up having a
Speaker 3: good date.
Speaker 4: It wasn't like it was just some.
Speaker 3: Random little fling, like we went out, got like these
Speaker 3: burritos from a food truck, ended up walking around like
Speaker 3: doing karaoke, Like I don't know, Joy's kind of my dream.
Speaker 4: Really.
Speaker 3: She was like spontaneous. She's got like this I don't know,
Speaker 3: mischievous energy. I don't know, Like I don't want to
Speaker 3: call her mischievous, but like that's.
Speaker 4: The best way I can come up with.
Speaker 3: She's gorgeous, like we ended up kissing and all this
Speaker 3: good stuff, like she could challenge me. But yeah, it
Speaker 3: was so weird when we when we got to this,
Speaker 3: when we got to the bar, she just I went
Speaker 3: to the bathroom and when I came back, she was gone,
Speaker 3: did something happen?
Speaker 4: I'm trying to figure that out, Like I've been playing
Speaker 4: the date over and over in my head.
Speaker 3: And we ended up getting into this argument about the
Speaker 3: hot sauces that we were kidding with our burritos, Like
Speaker 3: she got this nasty she got this nasty hot sauce.
Speaker 3: It was like those fivejlapeno or five chili whatever, like
Speaker 3: the hospital.
Speaker 4: You could get. It was like you are what are
Speaker 4: you doing? And she's like, oh, I'm tough as nails.
Speaker 4: I was like, oh okay, you're gonna regret that.
Speaker 3: I thought she was just like putting on a play
Speaker 3: Like I thought she was just like playing around, and
Speaker 3: I called it such like a basic move, and she
Speaker 3: just kind of like paused for a minute.
Speaker 2: Was like, okay, m yeah, maybe the word basic might
Speaker 2: have hit harder than you wanted it to.
Speaker 4: Well, that's that's what I'm worried about.
Speaker 3: Like, I'm just so freaked out that, you know, because
Speaker 3: we were being so playful and like just kind of
Speaker 3: play teasing back and forth.
Speaker 4: But like I don't want her to think.
Speaker 3: I don't want her thinking that I think that she
Speaker 3: active is basic, Like I don't know. I was just
Speaker 3: trying to rather her back in the same way that
Speaker 3: she was rising me. But it was like that moment
Speaker 3: just keeps playing it over and over in my head,
Speaker 3: and I'm just so worried he actually think that.
Speaker 1: You're trying to rap her back like she was rasing you.
Speaker 5: Joking, Yeah, yeah, you know.
Speaker 1: Did she say anything after that? Did she seem weird
Speaker 1: after that?
Speaker 3: I mean, just like that that moment where her face
Speaker 3: went kind of slack, John when I called her like
Speaker 3: such a basic one.
Speaker 4: Well, no, that's not the thing though. I didn't call
Speaker 4: her basic. I just said, that's such like a basic
Speaker 4: thing to do, try and show that you're all tough.
Speaker 5: And so I don't know, well, had you guys had
Speaker 5: a couple drinks at that point, because sometimes people get
Speaker 5: a little sensey poo, you know, so maybe that could
Speaker 5: be part of it, Like you came off a little
Speaker 5: bit more harsh, and then she was being a little sensitive,
Speaker 5: and then you can't take back the fact that you
Speaker 5: just bounced on somebody.
Speaker 3: Oh god, well yeah, now that's all I'm going to
Speaker 3: think about.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so of course.
Speaker 1: Okay, And you haven't heard anything from her since your date.
Speaker 3: No, it's been, like I said, like a week and
Speaker 3: a half, two weeks, and it feels like.
Speaker 4: So much longer than that.
Speaker 3: And I texted her a couple of times, like I said, Hey,
Speaker 3: you doing okay, and then I like she didn't respond,
Speaker 3: And then I feel so silly because I texted her
Speaker 3: again afterwards, telling you exactly what I'm telling her, exactly
Speaker 3: what I'm telling you, like I apologize for calling her
Speaker 3: base when she never said, like that's what's bothering me.
Speaker 3: And so I have like three on read texsh no
Speaker 3: row from me and I'm just feeling like, I don't know,
Speaker 3: I just feel so dumb. I just feel so dumb,
Speaker 3: Like I went to the bathroom, she's gone, and now
Speaker 3: she's not responding to my text, and I'm just like, how.
Speaker 4: Did I mess this up?
Speaker 1: All Right, we'll see if we can figure it out
Speaker 1: for you.
Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come Back Brutal, call her
Speaker 2: and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you
Speaker 2: and maybe get you a second date.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, thanks guy.
Speaker 2: All Right, we'll get your first Day follow up right
Speaker 2: after this. If you're just joining us for today's First
Speaker 2: Day follow up. Greg is on the phone and he's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Joy So we're about to call her.
Speaker 2: That sounds sad, he's getting ghosted by Joy.
Speaker 5: Ah.
Speaker 2: We're about to call her and see if she'll tell
Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a
Speaker 2: second date. But before we do that, Greg, why don't
Speaker 2: you recap your date for us real quick?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, I mean, I mean, like I was saying,
Speaker 4: the date was great.
Speaker 6: We went out for burritos and then we went out
Speaker 6: did some karaoke and I wasn't seen too well, but
Speaker 6: we ended up going to a bar afterwards, and I
Speaker 6: made a joke about calling her Burrito Choice basic and
Speaker 6: then she just ditched.
Speaker 4: Me at the bar when I went to the bathroom.
Speaker 1: All right, are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 3: Where?
Speaker 5: God?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'm gonna to sit down for this.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Hello, Hi, I'm asking the joy please?
Speaker 1: Hey, Joy? How are you? This is a radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called The Jebel Show? Hi Joy? I mean Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Victoria and my name is Jebel.
Speaker 6: Was up?
Speaker 1: Sorry?
Speaker 7: Hi? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Not much? Have you ever listened to the show before?
Speaker 8: I have?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, well have you ever heard Have you ever heard
Speaker 1: a first Date follow up before?
Speaker 7: Yes? I have?
Speaker 1: Sweet.
Speaker 2: So that's the segment where if you're ghosting somebody, they
Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Right, So we got an email about you from somebody
Speaker 2: you ghosts Enjoy.
Speaker 1: Who Greg Ringwell?
Speaker 7: Really?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, I'm ghosting him.
Speaker 1: Yes, Well, why do you mind telling us why he
Speaker 1: ditched me? What I ditched?
Speaker 4: You?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 8: She said he was going to run to the bathroom
Speaker 8: and then he never came back. Wait, what I waited
Speaker 8: like fifteen minutes, and I was like, I thought I'd
Speaker 8: been shut up, and then like Emmy had just kissed
Speaker 8: so I thought maybe it was that, and so I laughed.
Speaker 1: Did you text him or anything to see if he
Speaker 1: was okay?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 7: Why would I.
Speaker 8: I wasn't going to text the guy who like irish
Speaker 8: by me after he kissed me, So I just like
Speaker 8: message received, you know, and I just laughed.
Speaker 1: But like, what if he was really in the bathroom
Speaker 1: and he needed a minute?
Speaker 7: I gave him fifteen minutes.
Speaker 8: It's like an eternity when you're just standing at a him.
Speaker 4: Can I hop in here? Can I hop in here? Mind? Hey? Joy?
Speaker 4: Hi Joy? I was in the bathroom line. That line
Speaker 4: was like a mile long. You saw it. And then
Speaker 4: I don't know, I.
Speaker 3: Got like pulled into this dumb conversation with a guy
Speaker 3: about Journey. He was saying like Journey was overrated, and
Speaker 3: I came back and then you were gone. I thought,
Speaker 3: I honestly thought you were upset about what I was
Speaker 3: saying about, like the hot sauce and stuff.
Speaker 8: Okay, if you're telling me my big romantic first date
Speaker 8: ended because you got trapped in a debate about journey.
Speaker 4: Don't obsess about that, Are you kidding me? I mean
Speaker 4: I was gone for like fifteen minutes.
Speaker 8: Well fifteen minutes is like a really long time to
Speaker 8: wait when you're by yourself, Like, and what was I
Speaker 8: supposed to do? Like go send out a search party
Speaker 8: to the men's room, Like I couldn't go in there, and.
Speaker 4: Chell, you shouldn't you?
Speaker 3: Yeah, you should have sent out a search party. I
Speaker 3: think that's exactly a great idea. You know, knock on
Speaker 3: every stall door and says Gregan. There, I'm trying to
Speaker 3: find my date right now. He seems really good karaoke.
Speaker 3: Maybe you know him?
Speaker 8: Oh god, I mean I'm surprised people weren't avoiding you
Speaker 8: because of that.
Speaker 3: You butchered that karaoke? What no, No, I did not
Speaker 3: I don't have a bad scene. What's what do you mean?
Speaker 4: Okay?
Speaker 8: Not to be like a juggle, though you did like
Speaker 8: leave me for like some sort of conversation in the bathroom.
Speaker 8: So I feel like it's I'm entitled to it, but
Speaker 8: like you were not good like I thought. I kind
Speaker 8: of thought you were doing it on purpose, like to
Speaker 8: be funny.
Speaker 3: It's it's karaoke. You don't have to be perfect. Oh
Speaker 3: don't worry, you were Oh my.
Speaker 4: God, are you being serious right now? I really can't
Speaker 4: tell if you're joking anymore. I really can't tell if
Speaker 4: you're using.
Speaker 8: I mean, you left me alone in this a yokey bar,
Speaker 8: and then like now you're calling me on the radio.
Speaker 7: It's all just a little like not how I expected
Speaker 7: my morning to go.
Speaker 4: It's like, Okay, first of all, I didn't leave you.
Speaker 4: You left me.
Speaker 3: Okay, you left me while I was using the facilities.
Speaker 3: And first of all, get your ears check. I sound amazing.
Speaker 3: I don't know where this is coming from.
Speaker 8: I think this kind of goes with the like the
Speaker 8: fact that you think burritos are better than tacos, Like
Speaker 8: I feel like maybe we have like bear.
Speaker 4: Because they all because they are. Don't even try and
Speaker 4: switch the don't even try and switch the topic to that.
Speaker 4: That's ridiculous.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, you and.
Speaker 4: Sorry, don't don't call me. Oh my god, what did
Speaker 4: you just call me?
Speaker 7: I called you bo boy? Did you ditch me in
Speaker 7: the middle of our date? We kissed and then you were.
Speaker 3: Just gone, like stop saying your dishy because I had
Speaker 3: to take a.
Speaker 5: Jesus again.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I haven't forget that I would have
Speaker 3: to act used the facility somewhere. You're going to What
Speaker 3: would happen if I'm gone for more than fifteen minutes?
Speaker 4: You're going to call the police?
Speaker 7: Well, no, I guess.
Speaker 4: I mean I don't know.
Speaker 7: I thought you left me.
Speaker 4: What kind of abandonment issues do you have if you
Speaker 4: think that I can't leave?
Speaker 7: Here we go?
Speaker 1: Here we go?
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 8: Number one, men's rooms never have lines, and number two, like,
Speaker 8: so I left.
Speaker 7: You could have texted and I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 7: the line is so long.
Speaker 4: Oh my god. I could have texted I get what
Speaker 4: don't know? Don't no, no, no no no no no no,
Speaker 4: do not.
Speaker 7: Hey.
Speaker 8: I had to like like, no, you were not looking
Speaker 8: for me all night?
Speaker 7: Please? You could have called me. If you've been worried
Speaker 7: about where I went.
Speaker 8: When you got back from the bathroom, you could have
Speaker 8: called me and I would have told you I'm in
Speaker 8: an uber. I thought you distion me, but you didn't
Speaker 8: do that. You waited until like midday.
Speaker 4: But now you're going to use the bathroom. Oh my god,
Speaker 4: I love how you leaving is my fault? This is ridiculous.
Speaker 4: Do you hear this, guys, She's saying that because she left,
Speaker 4: it's my fault the date ended. I mean I couldn't
Speaker 4: even want to stretch up with me.
Speaker 7: I was not going into the man's room. I'm really
Speaker 7: sorry that.
Speaker 1: Earlier joy. Would you like another day with Craig? Will
Speaker 1: pay for it?
Speaker 8: I mean no, I don't understand, like why he even
Speaker 8: called me, just like great me on the radio, Like,
Speaker 8: this is insane.
Speaker 4: I'll get out this happen well yourself? What is this?
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm talking.
Speaker 3: To an entirely different person. We had a great date
Speaker 3: and you're spinning it out and this is disgusting behavior.
Speaker 4: You know what. I'm glad. I don't want this. It's ridiculous.
Speaker 7: Cool, great, great talk, thanks for calling.
Speaker 4: You know what, It's fine.
Speaker 3: I don't even want to go out with a basic
Speaker 3: like you anyway.
Speaker 4: Get racked whoa
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