WEBVTT - TRENDING- Prince Harry

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<v Speaker 1>One Republic, I ain't worried. Ryan's roses just a few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes away. We're about to make this call. A large

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<v Speaker 1>charge was showing up on the credit card bill, and

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks he's cheating and spending this money on another woman.

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<v Speaker 1>He bought her a mattress. She thinks random. He bought

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<v Speaker 1>her a mattress to unjunk their sleep. But it seems

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<v Speaker 1>like a strange purchase if you're trying to cover something up.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, that's minutes away Ryan's roses. Tanya, with the

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<v Speaker 1>trending report, you said, have we ever made a big

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<v Speaker 1>decision in life to please your family? Go ahead, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I really wanted to think about that because I

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<v Speaker 1>think so many people can relate to that sentiment. But

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<v Speaker 1>ever since Prince Harry announced his upcoming memoir, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people have speculated what it's going to be about.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he's gonna talk a lot about his strained

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with Prince William King Charles. But according to the Telegraph,

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<v Speaker 1>a source claims that he wrote the book for himself

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<v Speaker 1>and that Harry couldn't keep trying to make his family happy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not a takedown of his family, but rather a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful read and a tale of family idiosyncrasies and struggles

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<v Speaker 1>with which readers from all walks of life will identify.

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<v Speaker 1>And it really got me thinking about like family dynamic,

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<v Speaker 1>and especially now, I feel like since I'm in my thirties,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of my friends are kind of discovering some

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<v Speaker 1>of these big life decisions that they made because their

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<v Speaker 1>parents wanted them to do it versus that they themselves

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to do it. And I feel like that's a

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<v Speaker 1>hard pill to swallow as you get older, because you're

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<v Speaker 1>like living this life and wondering did I really make

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<v Speaker 1>that decision because it's what I wanted, or it's because

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<v Speaker 1>something that my parents or my family just wanted me

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<v Speaker 1>to do. And so I just think that this book

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<v Speaker 1>is going to be something. Obviously, nobody can really relate

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<v Speaker 1>to Prince Harry because his life is so right, it's royalty,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so different. But I think when you really

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<v Speaker 1>break it down to its root, I think everybody can

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<v Speaker 1>relate in some way because I think we've all made

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<v Speaker 1>a decision based on I have done the absolute opposite

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<v Speaker 1>everything that my parents wanted me to do or thought.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, they never said you have to do, but

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<v Speaker 1>thought I would do based on their guidance. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I dropped out of college, I moved from Georgia to California.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm unmarried and I don't have kids. That's not what

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<v Speaker 1>they saw. So I've done all the other things. But

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<v Speaker 1>when you while you're doing those things, where there ever

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<v Speaker 1>these moments where you felt bad like you were going

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<v Speaker 1>against what your parents wishes were not really interesting? Not

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<v Speaker 1>really because I was hyper focused on I knew what

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to do with my life, hyper focused on

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<v Speaker 1>that interesting, and I had to get that in and

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<v Speaker 1>out of my system. How about you, Sisson, I always

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<v Speaker 1>I almost didn't have a choice when I was in college.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember there was a moment when I was doing radio.

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<v Speaker 1>I started at nineteen, and I really wanted to try

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on radio per se and like try to

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<v Speaker 1>get a full time job, and I wanted to quit college.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had a conversation with my dad and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do that, you have to be

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<v Speaker 1>able to support yourself, support on yourself. And I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>do it because I wasn't making enough money at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was a moment where I said, Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to just finished college because my parents are still

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<v Speaker 1>helping me. And that that was a moment where I

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<v Speaker 1>remember I was like, I did that essentially for my parents,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I got my college degree because it was something

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<v Speaker 1>that they wanted me to get and do, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad I have it. And then it's it's not poo

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<v Speaker 1>poo degrees, but how has it served you? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, time management degrees are impressive and important. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to poo them. But I didn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>college degree either, And my dad said the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>to me. It's like, if you're going to move to California,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to support yourself. So I did have to

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<v Speaker 1>get a job. So I got a job. So I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going and I got a job. And my job

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<v Speaker 1>was hosting American glad Eaters for kids. That's great though,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a fun job. It was a great job. But

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<v Speaker 1>I ended up being able to support myself that first year.

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<v Speaker 1>And but it's the same exact. I mean, your dad's

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<v Speaker 1>a good dad, because that's the right thing to say,

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