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Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter subject to the Kitchen and the Bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty seven year old man

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Speaker 1: and I'm married to a forty two year old woman

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Speaker 1: that I've known for twelve years. We got married after

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Speaker 1: we'd been apart for about five years. I didn't want

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Speaker 1: to let her go again, so I rushed in. Before

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Speaker 1: we got back together, I dated a great businesswoman that

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Speaker 1: was the total package. She was a great cook, and

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Speaker 1: she held it down as a small business owner. She

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Speaker 1: looked good and smell good all of the time. She

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Speaker 1: set the bar really high as far as but she

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Speaker 1: didn't want to be married, so we ended up growing apart.

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Speaker 1: I rebound it back to what was familiar and who

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Speaker 1: I was comfortable with. The problem is that she's way

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Speaker 1: too comfy with everything. My wife is not the woman

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Speaker 1: I met years ago. She's a bit of a slop now.

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Speaker 1: And I heard her on the phone with her mom

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Speaker 1: a few days ago saying that I love her unconditionally

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Speaker 1: and we'll drink her bath water if she asks me to.

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Speaker 1: She's so wrong about that. I'm falling out of love

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Speaker 1: with her and starting to feel stuck. She's got an

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Speaker 1: outstanding body and she knows it. She thinks she's putting

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Speaker 1: it on me in the bedroom, but it's always sloppy

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Speaker 1: and all over the place. I just want to make

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Speaker 1: love to my wife every once in a while, but

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Speaker 1: she's on some freaky stuff all of the time. I

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Speaker 1: want home cooked meals that I don't always have to cook,

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Speaker 1: and she told me that she no longer enjoys cooking,

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Speaker 1: and we need to get a meal prep delivered or

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Speaker 1: her mom can cook for a occasionally. She must think

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Speaker 1: I'm a fool if she cannot meet my basic needs

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen in the bedroom. Why am I in this?

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Speaker 1: I'm a Christian and I don't believe in divorce, but

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Speaker 1: I can't keep doing this how can I fix my

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Speaker 1: failing marriage before it's too late. Okay, I'm just a

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Speaker 1: bit confused about what exactly you want. I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: complaining about everything, but one of the main things is

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Speaker 1: the bedroom action. Because you put that in your title.

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Speaker 1: You're saying she can't please you, but she wants it

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Speaker 1: all the time and you only want it every once

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Speaker 1: in a while. There's a problem there. You know, first

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Speaker 1: of all, you got to have an honest conversation with

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Speaker 1: her about your concerns. You've got to communicate with her,

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Speaker 1: just like you told Steve and I. You've got to

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Speaker 1: let your wife know what's on your mind. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you owe to yourself, you owe to your wife, You

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Speaker 1: owe to your marriage, and don't let her go around

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Speaker 1: thinking she's got it going on and but you think

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Speaker 1: she's missing it. I mean, that's not good, and that's

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Speaker 1: on you. The kitchen in the bedroom are important to you,

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Speaker 1: and you're not getting what you want, which is only

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Speaker 1: once in a while. But you're complaining because she wants

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Speaker 1: it all the time. You're probably both sitting up there frustrated.

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Speaker 1: I say, you know, when you do talk to her,

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Speaker 1: be careful how you say. What you say because you

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Speaker 1: could really end up hurting your wife's feelings. If you're

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Speaker 1: uncomfortable with doing this, get some sort of counseling because

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Speaker 1: your marriage is in trouble and you need to start

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Speaker 1: looking at some serious solutions. You said you're a Christian

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Speaker 1: who doesn't believe in divorce. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: Christians get divorced every single day, every day, you know,

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Speaker 1: for whatever reason for cheating. Christians cheat all of that,

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Speaker 1: all of those things. You're asking, how can you fix

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Speaker 1: your failing marriage before it's too late. You got to

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Speaker 1: fix yourself, You got to fix these things together. So

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Speaker 1: again I suggest counseling therapy. You know you're staying in

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Speaker 1: this and you're not happy and she may not be

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Speaker 1: happy either. Where you are right now. It can lead

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Speaker 1: to cheating, It can lead to resentment, disrespect, distance, all

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Speaker 1: those things, and before you know it, you'll be a

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Speaker 1: divorced Christian if you don't decide what you're gonna do

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Speaker 1: and try to fix it now.

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Speaker 3: Steve, Yeah, great response. Surely this marriage is over. This

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Speaker 3: is a rap. You ain't fixing this one. This one

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Speaker 3: is not salvageable. I'm going to read you. This is

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Speaker 3: a man who wrote this letter, and I am going

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Speaker 3: to show you why this letter ain't gonna First of all,

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Speaker 3: when a man going to get down to write, he

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Speaker 2: He just needs to hear some other opinions.

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Speaker 3: So listen to this forty seven year old man married

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Speaker 3: twelve years. We got married after we had been apart

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Speaker 3: five years. This is critical to the letter. They had

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Speaker 3: been a part for five years.

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Speaker 2: A lot can.

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Speaker 3: Happen in five years, and a lot of changes can

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Speaker 3: happen in five years. I'm telling you this marriage is over.

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Speaker 3: I didn't want to let her go again, so I

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Speaker 3: rushed in before we before we got back together. Now

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Speaker 3: I rushed in before we got back together. Here your problem.

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Speaker 3: I dated a great businesswoman that was the total package.

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Speaker 3: She was a great cook, she held it down as

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Speaker 3: a small business owner. She looked good and smelled good

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Speaker 3: all the time. She set the bar really far as

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Speaker 3: high as dating gos. But she ain't want to be married,

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Speaker 3: so we ended up growing apart. This I will show

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Speaker 3: you later on in the letter why this is the

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Speaker 3: whole problem. This is why this marriage is doomed because

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Speaker 3: in the five years that they were apart. This is

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Speaker 3: what and who he got involved with, and this is

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Speaker 3: how he felt during the five year period they were apart.

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Speaker 3: This is the description of what this man was doing.

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Speaker 3: I dated a great business woman that was the total package.

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Speaker 3: Great cook, she held it down as a business owner.

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Speaker 3: She looked good and smelled good all the time. She

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Speaker 3: set the bar really far as high as dating goals.

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Speaker 3: She just didn't want to be married. So we ended

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Speaker 3: up growing a part. Then, he said, I rebounded back

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Speaker 3: to what was familiar and who I was comfortable with.

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Speaker 3: And the problem is she's way too comfortable with everything.

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Speaker 2: Oh you ain't gonna fixed this, miss Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: All right, we'll have part two of your response coming up,

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Speaker 1: Steve to this letter, the kitchen and the bedroom coming

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The kitchen and the Bedroom.

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Speaker 2: The name of this letter is this marriage is doomed.

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Speaker 3: Forty seven year old man dating a forty two year

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Speaker 3: old woman that he's known for twelve years. We got

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Speaker 3: married after we had been apart for five years, and

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Speaker 3: so he rushed back in because he didn't want to lose.

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Speaker 3: So but during the five year period, this is what

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Speaker 3: he did. I dated a great businesswoman that was a

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Speaker 3: total package. She was a great cookchie down in, a

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Speaker 3: small business owner. She looked good and smelled good all

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Speaker 3: the time. She set the bar really hard as far

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Speaker 3: as high as dating goals.

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Speaker 2: But she didn't want to be married, so we ended

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Speaker 3: Ah, here we go. That's the problem with this whole letter.

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Speaker 3: Now here's the other problem. I rebounded back to what

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Speaker 3: was familiar in who I was comfortable with, and the

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Speaker 3: problem is she's way too comfy with every day. So

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Speaker 3: here is the beginning the second part of the problem,

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Speaker 3: which is why I say this marriage is due. My

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Speaker 3: wife is not the woman I met years ago. She's

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Speaker 3: a bit of a slob now. And I heard on

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Speaker 3: the phone with her mom a few days ago saying

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Speaker 3: that I love her unconditionally and would drink her bath water.

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Speaker 3: She asked me to guess what he said. She is

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Speaker 3: so wrong about that. I ain't taking the.

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Speaker 2: Teeth bowl in your little fucking math drinking bath for

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Speaker 2: it from you. Didn't you just hear him.

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Speaker 3: Describe her as a bit of a slob right now?

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Speaker 3: And then the man said, I'm falling out of love

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Speaker 3: with her and starting to feel stuck. You're not starting

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Speaker 3: to fall out of love. He out of love. This

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Speaker 3: is not a letter of something that's declining. This is

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Speaker 3: a letter about something that has declined. Because he said

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Speaker 3: I feel stuck now, he tried to bring it back.

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Speaker 3: She's got an outstanding body and she knows it. She

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Speaker 3: thinks she's putting on me in the bedroom, but it's

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Speaker 3: always sloppy and.

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Speaker 2: All over the place.

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Speaker 3: Well, now, ladies, you're probably thinking, what does he mean

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Speaker 3: when he says, it's always sloppy and all over the place.

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Speaker 2: It means she.

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Speaker 3: Doing too much, She doing too much, she doing the most,

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Speaker 3: and that ain't what he wants. It's sloppy and it's

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Speaker 2: That's sloppy love.

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Speaker 3: Every time we get somewhere before I can get a

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Speaker 3: good rhythm going here, you won't jump up do something now.

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Speaker 3: And I'm gonna tell you why, because listen to this

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Speaker 3: my wife once in a while. But she on some

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Speaker 3: freaky stuff all the time. And you know where she

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Speaker 3: got this freaky stuff from the five years y'all was

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Speaker 3: the Mac and he don't put it on her now.

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Speaker 3: She thinks that's the way it goes, sloppy and all

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Speaker 3: over the place. Do it like they flip over here,

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Speaker 3: Give me that that that's stand up over here. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you do whatever had Okay, now on your back. Okay,

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Speaker 3: now hold on to the shendy in and that swaying

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Speaker 3: crossed me one time. Hold on right there, go in there,

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Speaker 3: bring some water in here, throws them, throws them all

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Speaker 3: on me.

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Speaker 2: It's just too much, she.

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Speaker 1: Told me, water in and thrust some oil.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, but she's on some freaking stuff all the time.

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Speaker 3: I want a home cooked meals that I don't always

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Speaker 2: She told me.

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Speaker 3: She no longer enjoys cooking, and we need to get

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Speaker 3: a meal prep delivered or her mom can.

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Speaker 2: Cook for us occasionally. She must think I'm a food.

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Speaker 3: And you know why, he says, she think I'm a

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Speaker 3: food because of what he had before. He said, I

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Speaker 2: She was not a slob, and she was not sloppy.

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Speaker 3: She must think I'm a fool if she cannot meet

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Speaker 3: my basic needs in the kitchen, in the bedroom. Why

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Speaker 3: am I in this? See he wants he just wants

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Speaker 3: us to tell him why he in it? Then here's

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Speaker 3: the line of lines. I'm a Christian and I don't

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Speaker 3: believe in divorce, but I can't keep doing this. So

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Speaker 3: how can I fix my failing marriage before it's too late?

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Speaker 2: What do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Before it's too late. No, it's already too late. First

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Speaker 3: of all, I'm a Christian. I don't believe in love.

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Speaker 2: What did that got to do with it?

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Speaker 3: Shanny did say something that made all the sense, and well,

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Speaker 3: Christian get divorced all the time.

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Speaker 2: That's what you believe in.

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Speaker 3: I believe in the Bible, I sin, I believe in

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Speaker 3: in the weather channel. But sometimes I don't bring my jacket.

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Speaker 3: The problem with this is the comparison. The comparison is

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Speaker 3: the whole problem in this relationship right now.

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Speaker 2: The five years they was a part, he ran up.

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Speaker 3: Into the real deal, the rebound. He got back with her,

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Speaker 3: and things have changed. It is no way to fix this.

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Speaker 3: You could bring it up if you want to, but

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Speaker 3: she's already convinced that you love her unconditioning you would

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Speaker 3: drink her bath water. She is wrong about that. He's

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Speaker 3: not drinking her bath wah, and he'd drink that other.

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Speaker 2: Girl's bath.

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Speaker 1: So you don't think there's any way.

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Speaker 2: That can know that.

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Speaker 3: They ain't fixing the sugar because what he won't he

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Speaker 3: had and what he went back to you is not

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Speaker 3: what he had or what he won't anymore. As she

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Speaker 3: a slav now as she don't want to cook, as

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Speaker 3: she's doing too much in the building.

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Speaker 2: With that, she's showing.

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Speaker 3: What she learned in the five years he was off

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Speaker 3: and he WoT what he had before.

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Speaker 2: This is a wrap. You can try to fix this

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Speaker 2: if you want to.

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