Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: a second date update, all you have to do is
Speaker 1: email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five
Speaker 1: dot com. We will call the person that didn't call
Speaker 1: you back, just like we're about to do for Gabby.
Speaker 1: Who's on the phone. Hi, Gabby? Hi? How are you?
Speaker 1: I'm okay. I'm pretty confused though. Now. You emailed us
Speaker 1: about a guy named Jake that you met at kind
Speaker 1: of a singles mixer. Yeah, I mean my friend send
Speaker 1: me up for it, and I was like, well, it
Speaker 1: was close to where I worked, so I thought I'd
Speaker 1: just stopped eye and see what was up. Are you
Speaker 1: newly single at like six months? And were you shocked
Speaker 1: that you actually met somebody at one of these events
Speaker 1: that you liked. I was shocked that I met someone
Speaker 1: and that he was attractive because I thought, maybe, you know,
Speaker 1: there'd be some nice kind of show guys, which he was.
Speaker 1: But he was also like kind of tall and muscular,
Speaker 1: and he's like a biker and a runner. So I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, well, hello, I always feel like at
Speaker 1: those events, like if there's one hot dude, he's got
Speaker 1: all the ladies on him. Well, he wasn't like a
Speaker 1: super like hot, outgoing guy. So he was kind of
Speaker 1: hanging out by himself. I've you know, I've hosted a
Speaker 1: couple of these single mixers things. Never been to one
Speaker 1: for myself. I need to, but um no, Like there's
Speaker 1: a lot of times there's awkward guys that just you
Speaker 1: can tell don't know how to talk to where at all?
Speaker 1: I mean totally. And he was a little awkward, like
Speaker 1: you know, he wasn't approaching anyone, Okay, so what happened
Speaker 1: He approached you or you approached him. I approached him
Speaker 1: and he seemed just like really nice, like not controlling,
Speaker 1: not too full of himself. He was just kind of relaxed,
Speaker 1: and you know, I asked him if he wanted to
Speaker 1: go out, and he said he did, so I've planned
Speaker 1: a little date for us later on in the week.
Speaker 1: You plan a date? Did You're awesome? Gabby? I wish
Speaker 1: more girls to do that. Take the guesswork out of it.
Speaker 1: Then I don't have to work hard to like think
Speaker 1: of anything. I think that's great, But then again, I'm
Speaker 1: kind of lazy, you know what I mean. There's some
Speaker 1: dudes that might not want that. Yeah, like me, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I like to plan. I like to be
Speaker 1: a gentleman in traditional You know you don't have any money.
Speaker 1: I don't, but I still plan it. What did you
Speaker 1: end up doing with him? One of my favorite authors
Speaker 1: was doing a reading at Barnes and Noble, So we
Speaker 1: went over there and then we went to dinner, and
Speaker 1: halfway through the dinner, he got super weird and seemed
Speaker 1: like embarrassed, like his face was turning red and looked
Speaker 1: visibly uncomfortable, didn't want to dessert, like signed the check,
Speaker 1: and like ran out the restaurant. We just took off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I followed him out because I was worried, like
Speaker 1: I don't know if I offended him or if I
Speaker 1: did something wrong. There's some kind of miscommunication. And I've
Speaker 1: called him a couple of times since and have not
Speaker 1: heard anything. What were you guys talking about in the
Speaker 1: moments right before he started like visibly getting uncomfortable. I
Speaker 1: mean nothing, just like you know that our food was good.
Speaker 1: It wasn't anything, really, Like you weren't talking about how
Speaker 1: many guys you've how many guys you've been with in
Speaker 1: the biblical sensor. That nothing awkward. I mean, the only
Speaker 1: thing I can think back in my head about was like,
Speaker 1: by the time I got to dinner, he was going,
Speaker 1: I don't really know I want for dinner. So maybe
Speaker 1: he didn't like the restaurant or maybe I'm not really sure. Gabby,
Speaker 1: since you asked him out and you kind of picked
Speaker 1: all the events for the date, do you think that
Speaker 1: at any point you might have felt like emasculated? Did
Speaker 1: you get that impression? I hope not. At any point
Speaker 1: he could have said I'd rather go somewhere else, or
Speaker 1: you know, I don't feel like I was being so
Speaker 1: controlling that he would feel like he had no sense
Speaker 1: of destiny and like what we were doing. Now you said,
Speaker 1: you know he didn't really like that, he didn't really
Speaker 1: like this. Was there anything that he did seem to
Speaker 1: like or enjoy about the date? Um? I mean not
Speaker 1: really is I mean he wasn't really way don't really
Speaker 1: wi him knowing. Okay, Gabby, hang out for a second,
Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song. Come back, call him and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, thank you brooking jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning date. All right, Gabby, are you ready
Speaker 1: to get Jake on the phone and find out why
Speaker 1: he ditched you? Yeah? I guess if you didn't hear
Speaker 1: the first part of the second day up date, Gabby
Speaker 1: went to dinner with this guy who she met it
Speaker 1: a singles mixer. It went to Barnes and Noble first
Speaker 1: as they could hear an author that she was talking
Speaker 1: about read And at a certain point the guy looked
Speaker 1: very red, you said, and then kind of just took off. Yep,
Speaker 1: And he didn't seem to enjoy any of the date.
Speaker 1: At the end of this, you know, tub always asked
Speaker 1: for a second date. Are you gonna want to go
Speaker 1: out with him again? Do you think? I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: just more really curious about why he got upset and left.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, I would like to go on a
Speaker 1: second date with him, but I don't know if he'd
Speaker 1: be into that. Was like, Hey, did I do something
Speaker 1: weird that I should not do on a next date? Right?
Speaker 1: That's more of the questions. All right, we'll call him
Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hey, I was looking for Jake. This
Speaker 1: is Jake. Jake. What's up? Man? This is Jewel from
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the morning. I'm moving ninety two
Speaker 1: point five. How are you? I'm sorry? This is a
Speaker 1: radio stitution. Yeah, have you heard of our show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewel in the morning. I don't personally listen to you.
Speaker 1: You're not familiar. Okay, well, let's try to change that
Speaker 1: in the future. But I wanted to talk to you
Speaker 1: for a second about a girl that you went out
Speaker 1: on a date with who I know as well. Her
Speaker 1: name is Gabby Matter at a singles mixer. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: know Gabby. Okay. The reason that I'm calling you is
Speaker 1: Gabby said that during your date you kind of took
Speaker 1: off at the end, and she feels like you ditched her.
Speaker 1: She basically wants to know if she did something wrong.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is such a mistake. Mistake. I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have done it. I'm really embarrassed about the whole thing.
Speaker 1: Why is that? Oh God, We're supposed to meet at
Speaker 1: Northgate Mall, and truthfully, I haven't been on a date
Speaker 1: in like five years really, so I was extremely nervous,
Speaker 1: and so I was sweaty, and so before I get
Speaker 1: in my car, I actually take off my glasses and
Speaker 1: I wiped down my face. Okay, and I forget my
Speaker 1: glasses in the car line. By the way, what do
Speaker 1: you say, I'm legally blind? Legally blind? Why didn't you
Speaker 1: go back and get your glasses. I was running late,
Speaker 1: and truth is, even with all my glasses, it's gonna
Speaker 1: take me a good ten minutes to try my car. Anyways,
Speaker 1: it was so bad. I was asking people in them
Speaker 1: all Wherest. Barnes and Noble, and it was like literally
Speaker 1: like twenty to thirty feet away. I can't even see
Speaker 1: the sign. Okay, but damn my luck, there's a restaurant
Speaker 1: right next to Barnes and Noble that she wants to
Speaker 1: go to. Okay, so I don't even have a chance
Speaker 1: to go back to my car to get my glasses.
Speaker 1: So I was looking at the men. You're not even
Speaker 1: able to read it. I could barely make out the
Speaker 1: pictures in it. Why are you not telling Gabby? At
Speaker 1: this point, I'm I am in the same boat as you.
Speaker 1: I had you tell someone on the first date, yes,
Speaker 1: that you don't have your glasses. You know, maybe it's
Speaker 1: a guide thing. I mean, I I want to be
Speaker 1: seen as masculine, and I'm just telling someone that I'm
Speaker 1: legally blind. Makes me feel weak or whatever the case is.
Speaker 1: So you're kind of ambarrassed of it. Yeah, it's a
Speaker 1: first date. Okay, Well it's hard to talk to someone
Speaker 1: when you can't make eye contact with him. I mean,
Speaker 1: I try to look at her as best as possible,
Speaker 1: but I couldn't quite see where her eyes were, so
Speaker 1: I'm right, I'm sure my eyes were darting all over
Speaker 1: the place. And of course I order a beer this
Speaker 1: time on the menu, so I start thinking to myself
Speaker 1: that she think I'm illiterate or what the case is.
Speaker 1: And then at the end of the night, we part
Speaker 1: ways at the restaurant and I walked in my car, which,
Speaker 1: by the way, it took me about thirty minutes to find.
Speaker 1: And God, I have a car alarm, right, I clicked
Speaker 1: it on. Hey, I have to do that by myself,
Speaker 1: and I can see perfectly fine. So I lose my
Speaker 1: car everywhere. But I get back to my car and
Speaker 1: first thing I do, of course, is putting on my glasses.
Speaker 1: She runs over towards my car, and she's an Amazon woman.
Speaker 1: She's huge. I don't remember her looking miss big. Oh no,
Speaker 1: you can see size even when things are blurry. Dude,
Speaker 1: Oh no, but I probably myself on keeping myself lean.
Speaker 1: She's tall, But not only is she tall, but she's sick.
Speaker 1: So it's really not the kind of girl I go for.
Speaker 1: All right, let me get this straight, Jake. So you
Speaker 1: put on your glasses after not being able to really
Speaker 1: see her all night, and once you saw her, you
Speaker 1: were not interested because you took off, so you just
Speaker 1: boned out, Yes, Amazon woman, Jake, how the apes? Jake?
Speaker 1: Come on, Jick. At this point, I should let you
Speaker 1: know that Gabby is actually on the other line and
Speaker 1: heard everything you just said. What kind of idiot drives
Speaker 1: around without his glasses on and you just admit that
Speaker 1: you didn't have them on? It was a fust night.
Speaker 1: You might be aick woman, but I'm not the weirdest
Speaker 1: person I've ever heard of her going through an entire
Speaker 1: date without glasses and not just admitting you didn't have them. Okay,
Speaker 1: you know what's weird is being as large as you
Speaker 1: are and ordering from the skinny menu. I mean, had
Speaker 1: I heard you order from the full side menu, I
Speaker 1: might have had a better idea that you were an
Speaker 1: am Oh my gosh, Jake. I mean, there's a reason
Speaker 1: you haven't dated in five years, and that's becoming obvious
Speaker 1: right about now to me. Yeah, that's right. I can't
Speaker 1: find a woman who's fit like me that God, just
Speaker 1: too bad that they don't make glasses for people who
Speaker 1: have had personalities, because he did get someone who had
Speaker 1: a good personality to take a personality glasses off and
Speaker 1: be as awful on the inside as you are. And
Speaker 1: maybe I'll be fine, Gabby. I'll trust me, I'll be fine.
Speaker 1: I'll find the right one for me. I hope that
Speaker 1: person doesn't exist. This would be an awful person somewhere
Speaker 1: out there. Jake. There is a hot, young, fit, blind
Speaker 1: woman too, and that's why I'm looking for Oh my god,
Speaker 1: young fit and blind. That's he's a liar. He's an
Speaker 1: a hole. You also could have just been man enough
Speaker 1: and said, listen, I'm not that physically attracted to you. You
Speaker 1: You didn't have to drive away like a little you
Speaker 1: know what. At that point, I was just scared what
Speaker 1: you do to me. All I could do is get
Speaker 1: in the car and take off. You are such a jerk.
Speaker 1: Well good. I hope the next girl that you date
Speaker 1: gives you some sort of horrible STD and you rot
Speaker 1: in your bed with freaking burning sensation and hinds. Jake,
Speaker 1: I just gotta say, you're just saying you must not
Speaker 1: be that physically fit if you were really intimidated by her.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm Gabby, just just to make sure you
Speaker 1: know I'm lean. So that's that we cannot talk to
Speaker 1: him anymore. Him on the show anymore. Hey, Jake, you
Speaker 1: want to be a contribute to the show on a
Speaker 1: daily basis, I'd love to hear book talk to you
Speaker 1: every day. You're gonna have the fit segment with Jake
Speaker 1: him in the face body by Jake every morning on
Speaker 1: the show. This is not funny. Funny, Gabby, you got
Speaker 1: your answer, I asserted. And at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: we always ask if you guys want to go on
Speaker 1: a second date Jake and Gabby, I would hell no,
Speaker 1: you don't even let me finish. You don't even let
Speaker 1: me finish you guys, I'm gonna pay for the date. No, no, no, thanks.
Speaker 1: Send Jake to a twenty four hour fitness with a mirror,
Speaker 1: and then I think that's pretty much all he means. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry you had to go through this, me too,
Speaker 1: but thanks for letting me figure it out. And hopefully
Speaker 1: now people will know when ask Jake is and not
Speaker 1: go on a date with him. All right, Jake, thank
Speaker 1: you for your time. Man, No, thank you guys, you
Speaker 1: appreciate it. We will talk to you tomorrow morning six
Speaker 1: oh five with the new segment to start Brooks Morning
Speaker 1: Off the Right Way by Jake