WEBVTT - He Moved On Quickly & Easily - 8.25.26

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<v Speaker 1>All right, nephew, thank you. Subject, he moved on quickly

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<v Speaker 1>and easily. Dear Steven Shirley, I dated a man for

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<v Speaker 1>going on three years, and near the end of our relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>he was very mean to me. I couldn't get him

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone when he was out, and he would

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<v Speaker 1>call me back when it was convenient for him. I

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<v Speaker 1>could not ask him any questions without him getting mad.

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<v Speaker 1>He had been staying with me day and night, but

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<v Speaker 1>then he started staying at his own apartment a few

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<v Speaker 1>nights here and there. He did not invite me over

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<v Speaker 1>to stay with him. He had changed so much that

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<v Speaker 1>I thought he was cheating. My brother would snoop on

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<v Speaker 1>him and we found out that he was really at

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<v Speaker 1>his house alone when he was not with me. After

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<v Speaker 1>four months of his standoffish behavior, I suggested we break up.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't fight for our relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Instead, he said he needed a real break from me

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<v Speaker 1>because I was nagging him and accusing him of stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that he wasn't doing. We parted ways almost a year

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<v Speaker 1>ago and we haven't talked to each other until yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>He called and said he had to tell me something

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<v Speaker 1>and he wanted me to hear it from him. He

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<v Speaker 1>said that he's having a baby with his new girlfriend

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<v Speaker 1>and he's proposing to her soon. It's only been 11

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<v Speaker 1>months since we broke up. I asked if he was

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<v Speaker 1>dating her while he was dating me and he said no.

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<v Speaker 1>He said he met her after I dumped him and

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<v Speaker 1>they fell in love. He said instead of me giving

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<v Speaker 1>him space when he needed it most, I chose to

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<v Speaker 1>dump him. If he ever really loved me, why didn't

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<v Speaker 1>he just tell me he needed space?

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<v Speaker 4>He could have.

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<v Speaker 1>How could he have moved on so quickly and easily? Well, because,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that's what.

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<v Speaker 2>People do in life.

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<v Speaker 1>They keep him moving. He said, I mean, it looked

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<v Speaker 1>like he was ready anyway, if you ask me. You

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<v Speaker 1>said he started being mean to you. He wouldn't take

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<v Speaker 1>your calls and he didn't invite you over when he

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<v Speaker 1>stayed at his own place away from you. So because

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<v Speaker 1>of all that, you broke up with him.

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<v Speaker 2>And guess what? You should have.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't fight for the relationship because, again, he was

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much done. I don't care what he says about

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<v Speaker 1>needing space. It was over for him, and he was

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<v Speaker 1>ready to move on. It doesn't seem like you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were happy anyway. You say you had trust issues, so

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<v Speaker 1>that made you nag him and accuse him of cheating,

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<v Speaker 1>which he said you did. But you nor your brother

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<v Speaker 1>had any evidence of that. So after the breakup, he

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<v Speaker 1>found someone else and he's starting a family with her.

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<v Speaker 1>So guess what? It is time for you to let

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<v Speaker 1>it go and move on. It's been a whole year.

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<v Speaker 4>Tommy?

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<v Speaker 5>You have actually gotten on my nerve just through this letter.

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<v Speaker 5>So I know you were getting on his nerve. You

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<v Speaker 5>have gotten on mine in a matter of two minutes.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm tired of you myself. And so here's the problem.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that you have not taken time to look

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<v Speaker 5>at yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 5>What are you doing and what are you doing wrong

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<v Speaker 5>and why are you running? What made you run him

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<v Speaker 5>off to the point where he did not want to

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<v Speaker 5>be with you? You start seeing it. You start seeing

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<v Speaker 5>the signs. He's sleeping here maybe two or three days

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<v Speaker 5>a week. Most of the time, he's headed over to

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<v Speaker 5>his house. He's not really with you anymore.

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<v Speaker 3>It's you.

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<v Speaker 5>What are you doing? And can you start pinpointing? Let's

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<v Speaker 5>start backtracking and start seeing what... did you do that

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<v Speaker 5>ran this man off to the point where you got

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<v Speaker 5>your brother, not your brother, CSI, he over there trying

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<v Speaker 5>to figure out what's going on with the man. Guess

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<v Speaker 5>what he found out? He at home by himself. And

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<v Speaker 5>what is he? He is at peace because you are

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<v Speaker 5>not there. And you need to start trying to figure

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<v Speaker 5>out about yourself. What am I doing that I am

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<v Speaker 5>running this man off? It was the nagging. It was

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<v Speaker 5>all the questions. It was all of this, all of that.

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<v Speaker 5>You started seeing all the signs that he's snappy.

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<v Speaker 3>What else is he? Stop.

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<v Speaker 5>You got all these questions for him.

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<v Speaker 3>You hit him up on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>He mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Once a man starts being mean, he's tired.

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<v Speaker 3>He's done.

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<v Speaker 5>He is done with you. Now, me personally, he should

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<v Speaker 5>have been done early and walked away from the relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>He actually let it drag out a little longer, maybe

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<v Speaker 5>to the point where you thought it still had possibility.

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<v Speaker 5>And it's been gone. He was done a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 5>He just held on to it for me.

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<v Speaker 3>So now.

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<v Speaker 5>Now he's at a point he's met somebody else 11

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<v Speaker 5>months later. He's calling you back. I guess this is

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<v Speaker 5>out of respect call. He wants you to hear from him.

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<v Speaker 5>I found somebody. We got a baby on the way

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<v Speaker 5>and I'm going to answer the mayor. So I'm letting

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<v Speaker 5>you know that this is getting ready to happen. It

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<v Speaker 5>is what it is, but I just wanted to be

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<v Speaker 5>man enough to let you know from me.

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<v Speaker 3>To you, this is what it is.

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<v Speaker 5>What you're supposed to take away from this is what

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<v Speaker 5>did I do that I drove a man away to

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<v Speaker 5>the point where here it is less than a year later,

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<v Speaker 5>he's about to get married and have a baby. What

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<v Speaker 5>did I do that I lost a good man? And

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<v Speaker 5>that's the part you got to start. You got to

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<v Speaker 5>start working on yourself. Because there's something wrong with you.

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<v Speaker 5>You're doing something. You nagged this man to death. And

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<v Speaker 5>he was ready to get up away from you and

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<v Speaker 5>find him somebody else that's not going to nag him.

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<v Speaker 5>And that's all men want. We just want some peace.

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<v Speaker 5>That's all a man wants.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all. Just some peace. We want some peace, and

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<v Speaker 3>we want a peace. You see what I'm saying? That's all.

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<v Speaker 3>Give me a peace, and let me have some peace.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all. And we fine.

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<v Speaker 5>But the nagging, the questions, it just becomes a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Once your man just like, you're getting on his nerve.

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<v Speaker 3>When you hear, what? You, uh, you, you, we at

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<v Speaker 3>wit's end. Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Look, I have to tell you this right now. At

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<v Speaker 5>this point of what I'm hearing in the letter, you

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<v Speaker 5>are not ready to love.

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<v Speaker 3>You're not.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll come back and let Junior get his point.

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<v Speaker 2>Hang on, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>But from Tommy, you ain't ready to love.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll have part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up.

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<v Speaker 2>Today's title is... He moved on quickly and easily.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get back into it with Junior's response coming up

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<v Speaker 1>Time to recap today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is, he

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<v Speaker 1>moved on quickly and easily. This is from a woman

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<v Speaker 1>who had been dating a man for three years, and

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<v Speaker 1>near the end of their relationship, she says, the man

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<v Speaker 1>started being mean to her.

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<v Speaker 2>He wouldn't answer her phone calls.

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<v Speaker 1>He would go stay at his own place and wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>invite her over. He changed a lot, and she thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was cheating. She had her brother to snoop on him,

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<v Speaker 1>but her brother said that the man wasn't doing anything.

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<v Speaker 1>He was at home by himself. So after that, she

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<v Speaker 1>thought that... It would be a good idea for her

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<v Speaker 1>and the man to break up after four months of

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<v Speaker 1>him just being standoffish with her. She said he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>fight for the relationship. He didn't fight for her. He

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<v Speaker 1>said he needed a real break from her because she

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<v Speaker 1>was nagging him and accusing him of stuff he wasn't doing.

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<v Speaker 1>And she was questioning him a lot. So about this

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<v Speaker 1>has been about a year. They parted ways about a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago. And they haven't talked to each other in

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<v Speaker 1>that whole year except for yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>He called her and told her that he was having

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<v Speaker 1>a baby with another woman and he was going to

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<v Speaker 1>propose to her. And he didn't want her to hear

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<v Speaker 1>it from anyone else but him. So now she's all

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<v Speaker 1>upset because, you know. Why is he with this man?

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<v Speaker 1>How could he move on so quickly? Why is he

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<v Speaker 1>with this woman? How could he move on so quickly

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<v Speaker 1>and easily? And why didn't he just tell her that.

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<v Speaker 2>He needed space? And he didn't. And he's moved on

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<v Speaker 2>and she can't get over it after almost a year. Junior,

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<v Speaker 2>what you got?

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<v Speaker 4>Everything you just said, sure. All the reasons why he's

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<v Speaker 4>doing all these things. I'm going to tell you one thing.

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<v Speaker 4>You said all this stuff, but this is what happens.

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<v Speaker 3>The baby. The baby. What about the baby?

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<v Speaker 7>A baby will make you standoffish because the baby keep crying.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't matter, Shirley. He got a baby.

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<v Speaker 3>The baby.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 4>All I hear is the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all you hear is the baby?

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<v Speaker 4>Standoffish. Ain't been here four months. He won't talk. Babies.

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<v Speaker 5>Babies.

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<v Speaker 4>Make me try to tell you, I'm having a baby.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't got time for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm having a baby.

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<v Speaker 5>A baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So he's preparing for the baby?

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<v Speaker 4>No, the man ain't slept. You know, Shirley, he didn't

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<v Speaker 4>fall in love with the other woman. He fell asleep.

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<v Speaker 4>That's what he felt.

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<v Speaker 3>Asleep.

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<v Speaker 4>He tired.

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<v Speaker 2>And she got pregnant?

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<v Speaker 4>She pregnant. He got to deal with all this. He

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<v Speaker 4>ain't got time for you.

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<v Speaker 2>And then walk around here.

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<v Speaker 4>Carrying his baby.

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<v Speaker 7>He can't talk to you. You sent your brother to

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<v Speaker 7>the spa. Your brother said he ain't doing nothing. Because

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<v Speaker 7>it's a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're blaming it on this little innocent baby?

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<v Speaker 4>No, no, no, no, no, no. He had to make

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<v Speaker 4>a baby. He made a baby with somebody else. It

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<v Speaker 4>ain't you.

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<v Speaker 3>The baby.

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<v Speaker 4>Your brother went and saw he wasn't doing anything. He

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't even out.

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>You know why?

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<v Speaker 4>Because you can't be out and having a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't.

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<v Speaker 4>He ain't got time. You think it's bad?

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<v Speaker 7>Ask his friends. His best friends. They ain't seen him.

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<v Speaker 7>You know why he ain't seen him? He having a baby.

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<v Speaker 2>So what is he doing? What does that make him do?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you have kids, Shirley.

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<v Speaker 7>What was he doing when you had a baby?

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<v Speaker 4>Standing right there looking crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Can't say nothing. Carla, you had a baby before.

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<v Speaker 4>Tasha's right there the whole time. Couldn't go nowhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Where?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm hungry.

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<v Speaker 2>Having a baby.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm hungry. Let me find you something to eat.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's supposed to be a happy occasion, Junior. It's not.

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<v Speaker 4>He having the baby. It's happy until the baby get here.

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<v Speaker 4>This man didn't fall in love with you. This man

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<v Speaker 4>fell asleep.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't see nothing else in this.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, she's just upset because it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>even though it's been a year to her, it was

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<v Speaker 1>quick and it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Easy for him to just move on.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you know the day they broke up, Sherry?

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<v Speaker 6>What?

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<v Speaker 7>They broke up the day when he found out he

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<v Speaker 7>was having a baby. He had to tell her, I

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<v Speaker 7>got to go. I can't be in a relationship with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to have a baby. That's the day they

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<v Speaker 4>broke up. It was 60 days. How long ago?

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<v Speaker 7>Like 11 months when he found out because he carried

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<v Speaker 7>a baby for nine. So when he found out, the

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<v Speaker 7>baby hit her. She said she broke up yesterday. Baby

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<v Speaker 7>be here Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 2>Next Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 4>Baby be here next Tuesday.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby's birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>Baby birthday next Tuesday. Seven days, all he got left.

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<v Speaker 2>Do the math.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't help her. Just do the math. That's it.

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<v Speaker 4>He's not that he don't want to be with you,

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<v Speaker 4>but he fell in love with somebody. He didn't fall

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<v Speaker 4>in love. He fell asleep, and she was hungry. That's

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<v Speaker 4>all I got.

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<v Speaker 3>I see what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the baby just consumes you.

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<v Speaker 4>You sent your brother to spy on somebody who having

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<v Speaker 4>a baby. He can't do nothing. Of course that car

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<v Speaker 4>in the driveway every night.

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<v Speaker 6>He's going to try to make it work.

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<v Speaker 2>He's trying. Well, he's going to propose to her. He's

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<v Speaker 2>going to propose to the woman. He has to.

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<v Speaker 5>The baby.

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<v Speaker 7>The baby.

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<v Speaker 4>The baby.

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<v Speaker 3>That's it.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course he's going to propose. Yeah, he's going to

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<v Speaker 2>do the right thing.

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<v Speaker 7>He ain't got no choice.

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<v Speaker 4>He's tired. He ain't slept in months.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, he's not carrying the baby.

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<v Speaker 5>She is.

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<v Speaker 4>He's so tired. He done been on food runs.

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<v Speaker 7>He done bought all the colors for the room. He

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<v Speaker 7>done put a crib together. He got a car seat now.

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<v Speaker 4>He ain't never had none of this. You ask about

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<v Speaker 4>what's wrong with him.

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<v Speaker 5>Nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>The baby.

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<v Speaker 5>The baby.

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<v Speaker 3>All right.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, listen, thank you, guys.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't get him back, the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh-uh. No, he's not coming back.

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<v Speaker 4>That was appointments in the way.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, coming up at 46 minutes after the hour, we

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<v Speaker 1>got Junior, the baby, here with Sports Talk right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.