WEBVTT - Second Date Update: One More Refill 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.480 I am still like shocked at today's brand new second 0:00:03.520 --> 0:00:06.120 date update. I have never in my life felt like 0:00:06.120 --> 0:00:07.440 a worse person than when this. 0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:09.840 Guy revealed why he did what he did. 0:00:10.280 --> 0:00:14.480 No, like, dude, what is your deal? Pick up some cues? Yeah, 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:15.400 oh wait. 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:17.720 Yeah, oh wait, yeah, oh wait, oh wait. I would 0:00:17.760 --> 0:00:20.640 have instantly given him another date. Oh yeah, yeah, I 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:24.159 feel for him. This is me every two weeks. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:28.000 Gotta understand it just a second when we start this 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:29.160 brand new second date update. 0:00:29.200 --> 0:00:32.080 But we always start with your comments because you're really 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:32.880 the star of the show. 0:00:33.120 --> 0:00:35.800 Yeah, and the start today is Mari Koberman, who said, 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:37.159 I love your Guys podcast. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.080 I'm fifteen and I'm definitely learning a little too much 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:41.560 about this weird dating world. 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:43.520 Yeah, but you guys are hilarious to make me smile 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:47.280 while I fall asleep. There you go. Well, good for you. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:50.840 He's not gonna date until he's twenty five. Now, yeah, 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:52.839 we're gonna make maybe we're not helping the reason that 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:53.760 people aren't dating it. 0:00:53.840 --> 0:00:56.880 Yeah, right, exactly. That is not a starting too young 0:00:56.920 --> 0:00:59.560 listening that's right. Yeah, all right, let's get your brand 0:00:59.560 --> 0:01:01.080 new second they started right now. 0:01:01.960 --> 0:01:03.760 The second date up date. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:07.720 Isn't it annoying when you're on the dating apps and 0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.800 you match with somebody and you can just talk to 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:12.000 them right away. 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:15.800 What isn't that what you want to know? It never happened, 0:01:16.080 --> 0:01:17.480 Thank you. 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:20.759 I want to work for it. That's why I'm glad. 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.760 On Bumble they added multiple steps in hoops you have 0:01:23.840 --> 0:01:26.200 to jump through first, where if you're a guy and 0:01:26.240 --> 0:01:29.120 you match with the girl first, the woman sends you 0:01:29.200 --> 0:01:32.600 a prompt question that the guy has to answer, and 0:01:32.680 --> 0:01:35.240 if she doesn't like your response to that, she could 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:35.959 just ditch you. 0:01:35.920 --> 0:01:38.080 Right away without ever speaking a word. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:40.080 Do you I feel like you have to fill out 0:01:40.120 --> 0:01:42.600 full essay questions like you're back in high school English 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:44.280 class all over again to get a date. 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:46.080 We're not there yet, but I hope it gets to 0:01:46.120 --> 0:01:48.720 that person because I love writing essays. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:50.720 Theis ye. 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:55.200 If she does like your answer, then she can approve 0:01:55.280 --> 0:01:56.680 and give the green light to. 0:01:56.720 --> 0:01:57.960 Actually message her. 0:01:59.440 --> 0:02:02.720 So if you get that prompt, then you're halfway there. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:05.960 And one of our listeners apparently got it recently. His 0:02:06.160 --> 0:02:10.920 name is Card with a K, So Card, congratulations, you 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:13.160 got to answer a pre selected question. 0:02:13.520 --> 0:02:18.520 That must feel pretty good. Yeah, you did it. 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:20.760 Buddy, is it too much details to know what her 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.040 pre selected question was about? 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:23.919 What was the question? 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:27.760 So it was, what's the best piece of advice you've 0:02:27.800 --> 0:02:28.560 ever received? 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:33.480 Oh gosh, oh serious? For sure? She was going to 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:35.960 ask for your favorite pizza toppings. That's what I would 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:36.320 have got. 0:02:37.120 --> 0:02:39.399 It is tricky how you answer that, cause if you're 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:41.920 just sincere without being fun, then. 0:02:41.840 --> 0:02:43.560 You're gonna look very boring instead. 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:46.200 But at the same time, if you're too fun and 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:50.519 too silly, then it seems like you're not taking this serious, 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:51.960 not going to call back. 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:55.280 I would take my grandmother's vice, live and learn, die 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:56.160 and forget it all. 0:02:56.400 --> 0:03:00.320 Boring Okay, boring and a little bit morbid if run 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.959 So card, what did you answer to the prompt what's 0:03:03.960 --> 0:03:05.400 the best advice you ever got? 0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.240 So? I really thought about it, and I came up 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.760 with three options because this girl is really cute and 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:11.959 I didn't want to blow it. 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:13.360 Okay, okay, that's good. 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:14.079 What did you do? 0:03:14.200 --> 0:03:16.520 Give us the other two before you tell us the winner? 0:03:16.720 --> 0:03:17.280 We're going deep. 0:03:17.320 --> 0:03:17.920 I want to know what the. 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:19.560 Three options are so we can make sure you chose. 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:21.840 You just writing down life advice for yourself? Is that 0:03:21.840 --> 0:03:22.519 what you're doing. 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.000 We might here. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:29.560 My runner ups were put the cart back, people are watching. 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:31.760 That's pretty good. 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:33.040 Yeah, okay. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:37.040 My next one I was always be yourself unless you 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:37.840 can be Beyonce. 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:44.320 They yeah, that's definitely what it was like saying people 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:44.680 put on. 0:03:47.000 --> 0:03:50.440 You didn't like that one, No, like maybe that's too 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.400 silly and not answering it. So I wasn't sure. 0:03:53.640 --> 0:03:55.200 Okay, So what was the winner? 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:56.000 Yeah? 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:59.000 So the one I went with was never date someone 0:03:59.000 --> 0:04:00.680 who claps when the plane lands. 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:04.520 I think she must have liked it, right. 0:04:05.520 --> 0:04:07.440 She said she was going to update her profile and 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:08.960 put it on hers and she did. 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:14.960 Oh bro, that's extra. That's like personalizing her own. 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:18.599 Thing for you. I was flattered. But the best part was, 0:04:18.680 --> 0:04:19.840 you know, it led to a date. 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:21.320 So there you go. 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:24.039 Okay, you made it over all the hurdles, through the 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.720 obstacles and you got actual meet up with her. 0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:27.920 What did you do for your date? 0:04:28.000 --> 0:04:29.120 I was going to clap right there. 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:30.840 Oh well, he's not going to talk to you if 0:04:30.880 --> 0:04:34.560 you did that, bro, what did you do for your date? 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.040 Well, because of things beyond my control, I couldn't until 0:04:38.120 --> 0:04:40.840 super late, so I booked as a dinner reservation at 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:45.160 nine point thirty nine thirty. She initially asked if I 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.960 could go earlier, but I told her I couldn't, but 0:04:48.000 --> 0:04:50.560 I really wanted to buy her dinner and spend time 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.320 with her and that one or over. 0:04:52.800 --> 0:04:53.960 Okay, oh okay? 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:54.560 Was it? 0:04:54.760 --> 0:04:55.279 Yeah? 0:04:55.480 --> 0:04:57.320 It went well. We were there for a long time 0:04:57.480 --> 0:04:58.200 past midnight. 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:01.000 Oh wow, whoa good days. 0:05:01.800 --> 0:05:03.960 You must have really clicked for two and a half 0:05:04.000 --> 0:05:06.480 hours at dinner. What time does the restaurant even close? 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:08.200 That's a long dinner. It's really long. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:11.400 It was supposed to close at eleven, but we asked 0:05:11.480 --> 0:05:14.239 if we could hang there while they like shut stuff down, 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:15.520 and they let us. 0:05:16.120 --> 0:05:18.919 That's actually like, that's actually a rude thing. It's so bad. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:21.160 I thought I would take that as a compliment if 0:05:21.160 --> 0:05:22.520 I worked in the restaurant. 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:24.280 To be like, well, they love us so much they 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:25.919 want to stick around beyond. 0:05:27.760 --> 0:05:30.120 I stay here for you. Oh goodness. 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:31.960 I don't think they were too bothered by it, because 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:36.240 they still had the clean up and stuff and rolling silverware. 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:37.080 They're sweeping. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.440 You haven't worked any You better have tipped? 0:05:39.440 --> 0:05:41.040 Well, yeah, of course I did. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:44.520 Okay, okay, restaurant aside like it sounds like it was 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:45.320 going great with her. 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:47.360 Yeah, you know, so how did the night end? 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:49.760 It was a good night. I walked her to her 0:05:49.800 --> 0:05:53.719 car because we drove separately, and it was a quick kiss, 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:54.560 not a long one. 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:55.880 Okay, all right. 0:05:56.440 --> 0:05:58.599 So I'm seeing if I can take her out again. 0:05:58.920 --> 0:06:02.320 I even joked over said we could do a normal time. 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.400 I'll put it up to eight thirty. 0:06:05.560 --> 0:06:10.040 Yeah, but us not responding, She's just not responding. 0:06:10.080 --> 0:06:13.120 Oh that's interesting. I mean, it seems like she was 0:06:13.160 --> 0:06:15.440 so invested. Just all of the hoops you had to 0:06:15.520 --> 0:06:17.479 jump through to even get the date, feels like she 0:06:17.520 --> 0:06:18.480 would have been all in. 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.680 Yeah, I would think, but no dice. 0:06:21.800 --> 0:06:22.279 No dice. 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:25.760 Okay, Well, don't sound so dejected on the phone right now. 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:26.000 Carb. 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:27.560 We haven't even called her and got the answer. There 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:29.240 might be a total misunderstanding here. 0:06:29.680 --> 0:06:31.640 That's what I'm worried about. When you guys call people 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:36.560 normally doesn't go well. 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:37.520 Because we're always the last resort, you know, Yeah, and 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:38.360 we only air. 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:39.480 The craziest, worst one. 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:42.240 So don't worry. Is this is the air's actually a 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:42.600 bad thing. 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:46.560 Yeah, hopefully this is so boring we never even put 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:47.719 it on our actual show. 0:06:47.800 --> 0:06:48.480 That's the goal. 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:51.480 We'll see what happens when we call Amy, We're gonna 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.479 come back and try and get you a second. 0:06:53.200 --> 0:06:56.600 Date update super boring edition right after this. 0:06:56.800 --> 0:06:57.080 Thank you? 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:02.120 Yeah, okay, hold on man, second date update. 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:08.159 In the story of Cinderella, you know her date with 0:07:08.200 --> 0:07:10.960 the prince is going well because she stays out with 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:12.520 him till midnight. 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:13.760 Yeah. 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.800 I'm not not a girl, but in. 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:21.120 This situation, our listener, Card with a K took his 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:26.320 date Amy to a late dinner and they stayed past midnight. 0:07:26.080 --> 0:07:27.760 Despite the restaurant being closed. 0:07:28.200 --> 0:07:31.239 True, yes, a date you're like dancing? 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:35.120 Yeah yeah, but it is a good sign that they 0:07:35.120 --> 0:07:37.960 were out together for so long. And now is it 0:07:38.040 --> 0:07:41.600 possible her date accidentally left her glass stiletto behind and 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:50.400 ended up bibbity bopping the waiter. 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:52.720 Alec azooa mechica, dude, I get it. 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:55.000 We don't change things happened. 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:57.720 But no matter what, I am interested to hear how 0:07:57.760 --> 0:08:02.440 this modern day fairy tale ends as involved. 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:03.440 We're gonna find out. 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:06.160 I mean, maybe we could just ask Card Card, did 0:08:06.200 --> 0:08:07.120 you have a hot waiter? 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:08.320 Uh? 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.360 Not exceptionally? 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:15.040 All right, Okay, that's good. You start intimidated by whoever 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:17.320 your staff was was uber a pumpkin. 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.080 That's a good question, ballet Jose. 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:24.600 He said that they drove separately. I didn't need an answer, Jeff, No, 0:08:24.680 --> 0:08:28.200 it's not a we're checking off. 0:08:29.440 --> 0:08:34.480 Okay, let's just call this lovely lady Amy, okay. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.520 And hopefully she picks up and we get some answers 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:39.320 out of her. You ready to do this? I was 0:08:39.320 --> 0:08:42.600 saying that to myself. I'm ready. Let's do it. Jeff, 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:43.120 here we go. 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:50.160 Hello. 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:52.079 Hey is this Amy? 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:54.520 Yeah? 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.640 Hey? This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:57.079 in the Morning. 0:08:57.720 --> 0:08:57.840 Hi. 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:01.600 Amy, Hi, what do you mean? 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:05.200 Ok yeah, radio still exists. I know it's shocking, but 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.120 we do a show. It's called Brook and Jeffrey. I 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:09.400 think I already said that. And uh, this is a 0:09:09.400 --> 0:09:11.000 segment called Second Date Update. 0:09:11.960 --> 0:09:14.000 I'm sorry, I'm not telling rude, but why are you calling? 0:09:14.440 --> 0:09:15.000 Great question? 0:09:15.080 --> 0:09:17.040 Yeah, it's part of that segment, the second Date thing, 0:09:17.080 --> 0:09:19.880 because we're trying to help out one of our listeners 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.680 that you went out with recently, a guy named Card. 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:24.880 Oh my god? 0:09:25.400 --> 0:09:25.439 What? 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:31.640 Sorry? Card? 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:33.960 Did I just hear you go in? 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:37.400 All right? That's my honest reaction. 0:09:37.840 --> 0:09:42.559 Oh no, oh well it's okay. Interesting if you feel 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:43.280 that way. That's fine. 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:46.120 It's just Card has reached out to our show because 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:50.000 he's a little bit confused. Why after your date you're 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.520 not responding to any of his texts or messages? 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:55.400 Okay, oh you're laughing. 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:57.160 Does that mean you think he should know? 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:04.080 I mean, yeah, sure, okay, let's go. 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.600 Yeah, I'll just tell you a few things that we 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:09.080 know about your date is that it started pretty late. 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:10.599 You were at a restaurant for like two and a 0:10:10.640 --> 0:10:14.200 half hours till like way past it even closed. True, 0:10:14.360 --> 0:10:16.960 he felt like the vibes were pretty good, so we're wait. 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:18.680 There was even a cute little kiss he said at 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:19.000 the end. 0:10:19.040 --> 0:10:19.880 Yeah, a little quick one. 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.200 Yeah okay, okay, is that all accurate? 0:10:24.080 --> 0:10:26.240 Yes? Those are tracks? 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:28.160 Well okay, so where did it go wrong? 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:28.400 Yeah? 0:10:28.400 --> 0:10:30.080 Well, maybe just tell us how did you feel about 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:30.400 the date? 0:10:30.840 --> 0:10:33.559 Okay, Well, first of all, we get there at nine thirty. 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:36.400 I'm hungry. I've been waiting to eat, you know. 0:10:36.800 --> 0:10:42.079 Yeah, oh, you didn't have free dinner, but. 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:43.959 I was fully expecting to eat when we got there. 0:10:44.080 --> 0:10:45.160 Totally, Okay, totally. 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.640 The waiter kept coming over to take our order, and 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:48.600 he kept telling him. 0:10:48.440 --> 0:10:49.240 We weren't ready yet. 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:55.960 And I'm like visibly hungry. You're you're hungry, yes, yes, 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:59.559 So we didn't actually get our food till like ten thirty. 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:04.000 Oh my god, I wouldn't even be able to see straight. 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:05.200 If I was just sitting at that table. 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:13.080 Yeah, around eleven, where are the last ones in the restaurant? 0:11:13.080 --> 0:11:15.000 And I'm like, it is time that Okay, So I 0:11:15.400 --> 0:11:17.800 I used to work in a restaurant. Okay, I have 0:11:17.920 --> 0:11:22.960 been a server, and it is absolutely mortifyingly embarrassing to me. 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:25.480 If I'm with somebody who does not respect the fact 0:11:25.520 --> 0:11:27.360 that these people have their own lives. You need to 0:11:27.400 --> 0:11:27.800 go home. 0:11:27.840 --> 0:11:29.800 Oh yeah, yeah. 0:11:29.640 --> 0:11:33.400 Okay, Amy, We totally sympathized with that. That was not 0:11:33.480 --> 0:11:35.959 made clear to us from what we heard from Card. 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:39.439 He felt like you were okay with staying later, and 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:41.480 it was almost like the vibe was so good. 0:11:41.840 --> 0:11:43.280 The date just kept going and going. 0:11:44.080 --> 0:11:45.160 He said, it was good. 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:46.160 Yeah. 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:50.640 When people are asking you to leave the restaurant, oh. 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:54.839 Because it's such a romantic scene. 0:11:54.840 --> 0:11:58.080 They're like, oh, I can't look at this beautiful couple 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:02.920 divorce and he's a yeah, seeing no way. 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:05.480 It sounds like Card is maybe not very good at 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:06.080 reading the room. 0:12:06.280 --> 0:12:09.000 He kept going on looked beyond Beyonce. It looked beyond beyond. 0:12:09.120 --> 0:12:12.040 Oh if you say, am beyond one more time? I 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:14.040 swear that in. 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:17.280 His defense, though maybe he just liked you spend more 0:12:17.320 --> 0:12:17.800 time with you. 0:12:17.960 --> 0:12:21.840 Now, there's something weird about it because around like eleven 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:25.120 fifty five, they finally were like, you have to leave, 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:27.280 and no uncertain terms. They weren't trying to be nice 0:12:27.280 --> 0:12:31.679 about it anymore. And this man looks at the server 0:12:31.880 --> 0:12:34.600 and looks at the bill, and he goes, I'm still 0:12:34.640 --> 0:12:36.040 looking over the bill. 0:12:36.480 --> 0:12:40.680 Oh no, that's financially responsible man. 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:44.640 No way when I tell you I wanted to die. 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:48.200 So around midnight we finally left, and it just seems 0:12:48.280 --> 0:12:51.319 really weird because we could have gone to another place. 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.480 Okay, it sounds like it sounds like you have a 0:12:53.480 --> 0:12:55.520 lot of questions about why he was doing this and 0:12:55.559 --> 0:12:58.000 what was going on. The good news is we could 0:12:58.040 --> 0:13:00.240 just ask him directly, because Card is on the other 0:13:00.640 --> 0:13:01.880 right now wanting to talk to you. 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:03.560 Very patient if you can't still have. 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:10.360 Are you? 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.400 But is it a bad thing that I liked the. 0:13:16.640 --> 0:13:18.160 Turn music off and the lights off? 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:21.720 Okay, you know what, I'm sorry if i'd known that 0:13:21.800 --> 0:13:23.960 you were listening this whole time. I probably would have 0:13:23.960 --> 0:13:26.640 been a little nicer, but you know what, they were 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.720 closing and you wouldn't leave, and it was weird, and 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:31.000 I was one. 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:33.240 To stay there and enjoy it with you. 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:36.160 From the room. Okay. 0:13:37.679 --> 0:13:41.199 They brought up the bill before eleven, and you kept 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:44.640 insisting on waiting more and more, and they were very 0:13:44.640 --> 0:13:47.040 clear they needed and you just you just kept finding 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.760 reasons to I mean, what was going on, because it 0:13:50.800 --> 0:13:53.400 was really I don't know, it was really strange. 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:55.920 Okay, Okay, Amy, I think you've said your your piece, 0:13:56.320 --> 0:13:59.440 so card do you have anything that you want to 0:13:59.440 --> 0:14:01.040 say to me in response to that? 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:07.760 I was a little low on funds. The cell phone 0:14:07.800 --> 0:14:11.040 company I work for doesn't pay me till midnight on Friday. 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.000 I used my debit card for the meal, and I 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.960 wouldn't have gone through if I had paid earlier. 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:23.040 Look, you feel bad for that. He didn't have money 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:24.360 and he needed a way. 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:26.280 To take her out. I don't feel bad. 0:14:26.360 --> 0:14:29.960 That's the dumbest I've ever heard you talking about it. 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:35.320 Why did you just schedule it for a later date? 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:36.640 What is wrong? 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:38.040 What? 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:40.440 I'm sorry? 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:45.640 Okay, you didn't have the money in your account to 0:14:45.680 --> 0:14:48.240 pay the bill, So you're trying to stall until the 0:14:48.720 --> 0:14:49.520 pay until. 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:51.600 I know, right when our paycheck comes through too. 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:56.600 I feel okay, but like, well, okay, we understand that 0:14:56.640 --> 0:14:58.760 if you're paying like directly out of your account with 0:14:58.800 --> 0:15:00.840 a debit card, but like, why don't you do it 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:02.680 on a credit card and then pay it later? 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:04.880 I don't have a credit card. 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:06.440 You don't have a credit card. 0:15:06.880 --> 0:15:09.520 No, I don't trust myself carry one. 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:15.240 I think that's good financially, honestly, but they pre approve 0:15:15.320 --> 0:15:16.560 you for credit cards, even. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:21.480 A rich guy. That is such a privileged thing. You 0:15:21.560 --> 0:15:23.160 know you're doing right. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:27.400 That's a good financial choice, right, Amy, I mean that's responsible. 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:34.520 Girl, serious card. 0:15:34.520 --> 0:15:36.640 You're not really saying a lot here. Is there any 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:38.440 defense you want to make or anything you want to 0:15:38.440 --> 0:15:39.200 say to Amy? 0:15:39.400 --> 0:15:41.040 I mean, what else can I say? I told you 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:43.320 guys what the deal was. I just tried to fall 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:46.200 a little bit. I mean, at this point, I feel 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:47.880 like it set us Cinderella. I got one of the 0:15:47.920 --> 0:15:49.000 wicked step sisters. 0:15:50.680 --> 0:15:51.840 Yeah, don't come at her. 0:15:53.280 --> 0:15:56.680 You know the step sisters are freaky though. Oh yeah, okay. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:59.680 I feel like Amy, you should give him another chance. 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:02.080 I've always dated low fund guys at least. 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:04.840 And if Brooke is willing to give a break to 0:16:04.920 --> 0:16:07.119 a poor man, then you should be willing. 0:16:06.880 --> 0:16:09.680 To do it. That's very character for her. 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.400 So what do you think, Amy, One more chance and look, 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:14.280 we'll take all the credit cards off the table, will 0:16:14.320 --> 0:16:15.000 pay for the date. 0:16:17.560 --> 0:16:19.600 Girl card needs to eat. You need to say yes to. 0:16:19.600 --> 0:16:25.520 This, Amy, all right, listen between the lack of consideration 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:26.240 for the wait. 0:16:26.240 --> 0:16:28.440 Josh, that not just. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:36.640 And the bad and the no credit these red flags 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:39.760 just waving man No, I thank you very much, guys, 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:40.600 but no thank you. 0:16:40.640 --> 0:16:43.440 Oh I thought she was leading to it, Yes, I thought, okay, 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:46.280 I thought she was going to run past the red. 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:49.120 Flas all right, Well. 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:50.520 That gives you something to work towards, you know, like 0:16:50.560 --> 0:16:53.200 a little more financial stability. 0:16:53.320 --> 0:17:02.200 The bullet. I'm Jeffrey in the morning. Brook, What I mean? 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:05.080 Come on? I know you felt sorry for the guy. 0:17:05.280 --> 0:17:06.880 I felt terrible for him. 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:08.200 But be honest with yourself. 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:10.720 There is no way you would go on a date 0:17:10.760 --> 0:17:13.239 with a guy who is so bad with money he 0:17:13.280 --> 0:17:15.800 doesn't even trust himself with a credit card. 0:17:16.080 --> 0:17:20.680 Oh yes, absolutely I would. I had a first date 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:23.000 with a boyfriend who we would do a burger joint 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:24.719 because he had a free burger coupon. 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:29.080 Okay, I'm not talking about your free and easy early 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:31.800 twenties where you would tip the grocery baggers with a 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:32.760 nude polaroid. 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:35.639 I mean, these are adults looking at that. 0:17:37.000 --> 0:17:38.560 You look so cute in polaroids. 0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:43.320 It's just that I know that the perfect lighting in those. 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:45.919 But remember, these are adults looking to lock down a 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:48.600 healthy relationship with a stable guy. Dude. 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:50.919 A guy who is willing to not get a credit 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:54.080