WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Bikin' on a Budget

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<v Speaker 1>King Jewels second day. Remember, if you want a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, all I have to do is email. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel at Moving nine to five dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call the person that didn't call you back. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>often impressed when we get emails at the locations that

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<v Speaker 1>guys will ask women out. Aaron, who's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us right now, had the nerve to ask a

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<v Speaker 1>girl out after yoga class. Good job, man? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>hot yoga class? Aaron? Were you really sweaty? Yeah? A

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, a little bit. I'm impressed with that, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just I couldn't imagine walking up to a

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<v Speaker 1>girl going like I just saw you stretch for an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't take you out. How did you approach a

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<v Speaker 1>girl after yoga class? What did you do? I just

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<v Speaker 1>walked up to her and just said high Like that

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much it. It's all you have to do in Seattle.

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<v Speaker 1>No man, no man, do it like it's so amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Guys just go ask ye good job out of you?

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<v Speaker 1>What did you like about her? He was just stunning.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she was beautiful. Yeah, I was gonna say

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<v Speaker 1>other than the fact that she's wearing yoga pants. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>every woman looks great at yoga pans. It did help

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but I mean I'm a sucker for

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<v Speaker 1>a smile man, and she just she looked at me

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<v Speaker 1>and smiled, and I was just like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>like that was just it right there, Like that did it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just had to go say something to her, so

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<v Speaker 1>I did it. So did you ask her out right? Then? White?

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<v Speaker 1>Then I'm not from Seattle. I just moved here not

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<v Speaker 1>too long ago. So we were just talking about different

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<v Speaker 1>things out here, and kind of told her I was

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<v Speaker 1>new in town and how did you do the whole that, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you should take me out and show me around. The

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<v Speaker 1>conversation eventually kind of went in that direction. Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how was it when you guys saw each other out

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<v Speaker 1>of class? Was it still comfortable for me? It was?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she just still looked the same. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't had a yoga pants on, unfortunately. But what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do on your date? We went out

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<v Speaker 1>to the sort of restaurant by the pier, and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it wasn't that late, so we rented bike

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<v Speaker 1>and then that was cool roll bikes for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just fun. The conversation was laughing and joking

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth, and we stopped and it was a

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<v Speaker 1>spot that we passed and sold some gelato and got

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<v Speaker 1>some there. And then I just noticed a little change,

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<v Speaker 1>like at that moment Brooks falling in love with your date,

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<v Speaker 1>that a great date bicycle rides at gelato? What happened

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<v Speaker 1>to Gelatto? How could go wrong? When you're married? You

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<v Speaker 1>got to live vicariously and cream? What are dates? So

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<v Speaker 1>you noticed the change after you got stopped for gelato?

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<v Speaker 1>It was something that happened inside the Gelatto store, and

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of, um, I kind of apologized for it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I don't know if that actually worked. What you do? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I went to pick up our Gelatto's and I was

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<v Speaker 1>on my way back, and I don't know why. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I sneezed, and like she was looking dead at me.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I sneezed, I you know, as a reflex,

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<v Speaker 1>you put your hand up to your face, so it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't go everywhere, but I didn't. I completely forgot that

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<v Speaker 1>her gelato was in my hand, so I completely sneezed

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<v Speaker 1>on her. A one no no, I did. I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize and I kind of ran back. I even

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<v Speaker 1>got her a bigger one, like like, I'm it was

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<v Speaker 1>an accident, so I didn't you know, it wasn't nothing

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<v Speaker 1>on purpose, and just I just need well, at least

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<v Speaker 1>you got her another one. She can't be too upset

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<v Speaker 1>about that then, and a bigger one. So I was like, maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we get her a bigger one. Maybe that'll

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<v Speaker 1>put a smile on her face with So how did

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<v Speaker 1>everything end? Then after that, we you know, rolled back

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<v Speaker 1>to the bike running spot and then uh, she was

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of quiet after that, like she was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like not really talkative. So we gave each

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<v Speaker 1>other a hug and I said, you know, I'll call

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<v Speaker 1>you soon, and she said okay, and then that was it.

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<v Speaker 1>How many times have you called her a couple, to

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with me, too many? Okay? And about two

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<v Speaker 1>days I called her about five times. Five times in

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<v Speaker 1>two days. That's a lot, man. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just really filling her, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>And I thought the date was great now that I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know what happened, and then for it to turn

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<v Speaker 1>down like that, like I never got a response, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, all right, you're ready to call

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<v Speaker 1>her again? Yeah? What I got to move. Okay, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna play a song coming back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second day update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>it rooking jubil in the morning. All right, Aaron, you're

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<v Speaker 1>ready to call Erica and see what you did wrong? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it. We don't actually know if you did

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<v Speaker 1>anything wrong, if you're just tuning into the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron met a girl named Erica yoga class. They ended

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<v Speaker 1>up going out for an afternoon of bike riding and gelato.

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<v Speaker 1>He sneezed in her gelato at some point, but he

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<v Speaker 1>redeemed himself. He got her a new one and even

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<v Speaker 1>bigger scoop. Yeah, so we don't think that's the issue.

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<v Speaker 1>But she hasn't gotten back to him. He's tried to

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<v Speaker 1>call her about five times in the last couple of days,

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<v Speaker 1>which be a bit much. But we forgot to ask you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you been back to the yoga studio where you

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<v Speaker 1>met her? No? I haven't, haven't. You're a smart idea

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<v Speaker 1>that scared Okay, all right, Aaron, We're gonna call her

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<v Speaker 1>right now, see if we can get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get your second date out. The date Okay, gotcha?

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is Erica. There, This is she Erica. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm moving ninety two point five. You got a second? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling because you actually went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a friend of mine and you haven't called him

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<v Speaker 1>back since. And so he and I were talking and

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<v Speaker 1>I said I would call you to ask why. Oh hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember going out on a date with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Aaron a little while ago? You met him

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<v Speaker 1>at a yoga class. Yeah, yeah, all right, so Aaron

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<v Speaker 1>liked you a lot, had to really good time, but

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to know if he did something wrong. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is weird. M He did tell us this.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that you guys went out for bike riding

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<v Speaker 1>in Gelato and at one point he sneezed and your Gelatto.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that story is kind of funny. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you mad about that? No? No, no, that was actually

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, that was really funny. I actually wish I

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<v Speaker 1>would have video recorded it. Um, but no, he got

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<v Speaker 1>me another one. It was totally fine. It's really fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you just not like him? I mean, what's the problem.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is with the Gelato It was a group

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<v Speaker 1>on he had and apparently that was like the theme

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<v Speaker 1>for the night because with the bikes and dinner, it

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<v Speaker 1>was all group on. So we had to stick to

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like a limitate, like we had to choose

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<v Speaker 1>a smaller bike, we had to you know, only not

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<v Speaker 1>spend so much within dinner and we only had one

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<v Speaker 1>drink each. So it was all a group on date. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like the first date. You have to make a

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<v Speaker 1>good impression. What who cares what he paid with he paid? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean I even think the yoga's clash we

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<v Speaker 1>took together, he made a group on that. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, I'm sorry. That's the reason why you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>call me back, Erica. That's Aaron. I should probably let

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<v Speaker 1>you know now that he's on the phone and just

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<v Speaker 1>heard everything you said. What because I use a group

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<v Speaker 1>on that's why you couldn't call me back? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling you. I mean, I'm just thought we had

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<v Speaker 1>a good date and I'm just shocked that it was groupon. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you should never do that on your first date,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for next time. So you're saying that's like

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<v Speaker 1>using a gift card on a first date. Care it

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<v Speaker 1>was just sort of like a telling sign. I will

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<v Speaker 1>use groupon for myself and my friends. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're trying to impress a girl, you gotta you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stop with your king no way, er are you a

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<v Speaker 1>financially responsible person. It's not that I'm irresponsible. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like I just told you, I just moved up here

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<v Speaker 1>not long ago. So um, exactly, it has nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>do with his status or what he's doing. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>years a group, that means that you're a broke bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not your first day. Truth. The truth of the

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<v Speaker 1>matter is I came back up here, I checked back

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<v Speaker 1>into school, and I work in fast food, so it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't pay me that much. So I wanted to show

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<v Speaker 1>you a good time, but my budget was just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of not where I was hoping it was going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't really expecting to meet you. I'm sorry about

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<v Speaker 1>your situation, and I'm sure you know with your attitude

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<v Speaker 1>you will do well, and I'm sure you know you're

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<v Speaker 1>lucky her around. Um, does it really bother you that much? Erica,

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<v Speaker 1>I've felt with it in the past night. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to deal with the whole having to pay his

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<v Speaker 1>way sort of thing, Aaron. The real important question is

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<v Speaker 1>are you really honestly still attracted to this girl? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I am. I mean that's something mine are I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if that's all I need to fix, then I'll find

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<v Speaker 1>something else like and be able to take her somewhere nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you don't think she's shallow, No, that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>not shallow. That's just she has standards, and a woman

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<v Speaker 1>has the right to have standards. I think I've gotten

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<v Speaker 1>to the bottom of the issue. Erica is obviously incredibly hot.

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron wants to go out with her again, because you'll

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<v Speaker 1>put up with pretty much anything if the girl's really

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<v Speaker 1>really attractive, not anything, I mean, if you would have

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<v Speaker 1>to be there, man, I mean you can ask you yourself, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the date was great. I mean we laughed

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<v Speaker 1>the entire time, and I love to laugh like I

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<v Speaker 1>love comedy movies. So if you can make me laugh

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<v Speaker 1>in real life, it's just like wow. So you'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again, Aaron? I would love to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with her again? All right, Erica, would you be

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<v Speaker 1>willing to go out with Aaron again on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. I got a gift card

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<v Speaker 1>to Red Robin in my wallet right now. No, but seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll send you guys out on the second date. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Will you go out with him again?

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<v Speaker 1>We could be friends. I mean, you know, he is funny,

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<v Speaker 1>he's he has a great personality. I knew it and

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<v Speaker 1>knew it. Yeah, you are hot, aren't you? Erica? I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell Aaron you got any final words before we

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<v Speaker 1>let you go. I mean, apparently to date this chick,

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<v Speaker 1>you gotta have a BMW or something and have six

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<v Speaker 1>figures in your banking account. But it is what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>You just say good riddance. Two words. Aaron living Social

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<v Speaker 1>dot com in the morning,