Speaker 1: Brooking Jebels. Second date update dates a lot of people
Speaker 1: try to find fun games to play when they're on
Speaker 1: a first date. Usually it's something boring like checkers or
Speaker 1: Chinese Checkers or Italian checkers. Basically, people play checkers on
Speaker 1: first dates all the time. But the guy in today's
Speaker 1: second date update, Mike, chose to play a different game.
Speaker 1: He didn't go the checker route. Yeah, what's up, Mike?
Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, how are you doing good?
Speaker 1: I read your email. Way to be bold and not
Speaker 1: play Checkers on a first date, man, Yeah, thanks. I
Speaker 1: thought that was a little too run of them though,
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, exactly, Mike knows. I'm talking about everybody's
Speaker 1: always playing checkers on first day. Tom, I know, I know.
Speaker 1: Why are we so obsessed with checkers? Right now? What
Speaker 1: did you do on your first date? Well, so we
Speaker 1: went to a bar, right and like, we got to
Speaker 1: the bar, and I wanted to do something fun and
Speaker 1: I wanted to break the ice, and so I decided,
Speaker 1: like the two of us should play this game together.
Speaker 1: You know, Okay, what game? I thought, We'll look at
Speaker 1: the bar and we'll pick out a person and we'll
Speaker 1: guess that person's name and what they do for a living. Oh,
Speaker 1: I like that game. I play that game. I don't
Speaker 1: know that there's a name for that game, but I
Speaker 1: also play that game. Yeah. It's fun, like you get
Speaker 1: to show each other like a little bit your personality,
Speaker 1: you laugh, and you get to judge people all at
Speaker 1: the same time. Super fun. It's just like making funny
Speaker 1: backstories about how maybe they like worked at a manure
Speaker 1: plant a while back. Totally. Totally. Yeah. So like after
Speaker 1: the game, I thought, let's go talk to them and
Speaker 1: like actually see like how did we do? Oh wow,
Speaker 1: that's a risky. Did you just go up to him
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, we've been watching you all night
Speaker 1: trying to guess what you do for a living, and
Speaker 1: we want to see if we're right, and then ask
Speaker 1: them a bunch of questions. So, you know, you go
Speaker 1: up to them and you just sort of like casually
Speaker 1: ask them about themselves, and you just try and like
Speaker 1: you know, drop it in. Like I mean, it's easy
Speaker 1: to start with the name right, and then like you
Speaker 1: naturally get to like what they do for a living,
Speaker 1: and like it turns out we got one guy right.
Speaker 1: So what did this guy do that you got right? Well,
Speaker 1: so he works in it. And we looked at him.
Speaker 1: We saw his t shirt. It was like a computer
Speaker 1: graphic and he was wearing some glasses and he was
Speaker 1: like nursing his drink in the corner and and you know,
Speaker 1: we both we both thought like it. And we're talking
Speaker 1: to him and he tells us he works in it.
Speaker 1: And as soon as he said that, just instinct, like
Speaker 1: she and I high five and he looks at us
Speaker 1: real weird. Maybe he just thinks you're really passionate about it.
Speaker 1: Jobs like, hell, yeah, guys, can I get in on
Speaker 1: that high five? Two? Yeah? Yeah, I mean, like we
Speaker 1: totally would have high five then. Like it was a
Speaker 1: great moment. Okay, so it sounds like you had a
Speaker 1: good time. Yeah, it was so much fun. Like we
Speaker 1: kept going around and like meeting more people. And there
Speaker 1: was this other table that we introduced ourselves too, and
Speaker 1: we like we hung out with them. We laughed. I
Speaker 1: was enjoying myself. She was enjoying herself this table, like
Speaker 1: they enjoyed hanging. We're like, hey, I mean, everything sounds
Speaker 1: great till this point. How did you end everything? You know,
Speaker 1: we both had to be up for work the next day,
Speaker 1: and like we both decided let's call it a night,
Speaker 1: and we walked outside. I gave her a hug, and
Speaker 1: it was just like it was a really nice day, like,
Speaker 1: you know, nothing awkward. It was just like a nice
Speaker 1: hug at the end. And I haven't heard from her since,
Speaker 1: did you? I mean, did you get time through all
Speaker 1: this game and hanging out with your new group of
Speaker 1: friends to actually get to know her very well? I
Speaker 1: mean I thought so, yeah. You know, I thought like
Speaker 1: we got a chance to show each other like how
Speaker 1: we interact, and you know, there were no like awkward
Speaker 1: silences that like I tend to experience on first dates.
Speaker 1: You know, we got to sort of like we got
Speaker 1: to sort of like hang out with each other and
Speaker 1: like see how we interact with lots of different kinds
Speaker 1: of people. I thought it was awesome. Okay, so after
Speaker 1: the date, did you make plans to hang out again?
Speaker 1: We didn't make concrete plans, but we both said, like, yes,
Speaker 1: let's hang out again. We both she confirmed that she
Speaker 1: had a good time, and I was like very clear,
Speaker 1: like this was awesome. I would love to see you again.
Speaker 1: You think she's not calling you back? Then? You know,
Speaker 1: like I don't know there was one moment like during
Speaker 1: the night when like I made one joke about one
Speaker 1: guy that like I just thought it was a joke
Speaker 1: that like didn't land right, you know, what was a joke.
Speaker 1: So we were looking at this one guy trying to
Speaker 1: guess his name and what he does, and like his
Speaker 1: clothes were like real shabby, didn't look like he prized
Speaker 1: like personal hygiene, and like I made a comment and
Speaker 1: a joke about like, well he's probably poor. Oh dude, Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a joke, you right, you know, if you're right,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I will be steered clear of that guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to poor people anyway, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: how did she react when he said that? Did she
Speaker 1: seemed upset? I mean there was like a look, right,
Speaker 1: she seemed a little bit like, oh he wins the
Speaker 1: little Yeah, of course he's poor. You're gonna win because
Speaker 1: wins because she's at uncomfortable and yeah, but but I
Speaker 1: didn't think it was more than that. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: I'm poor, I couldn't care less if she's poor, right,
Speaker 1: Like joke, Okay, so so you think maybe she's not
Speaker 1: calling you back because she didn't like that joke. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's that's really all I can think of. Okay, cool,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, call her and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. All right, Okay, awesome, thank
Speaker 1: you guys. Okay, hang on focking Jebels second date update
Speaker 1: date if you're just joining us for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: I'm really surprised that Mike, who was on the phone
Speaker 1: to call Deanna right now for another date, isn't getting
Speaker 1: a call back, because normally women love it when you
Speaker 1: make fun of poor people on days. Mike, I'm surprised,
Speaker 1: Like that's always been a go to for me. Just
Speaker 1: sometimes you just drive around the city and laugh at
Speaker 1: homeless people, and it's always gotten me so far with ladies.
Speaker 1: That is not that is not fair. That is not
Speaker 1: all what I meant. It was a light joke and
Speaker 1: it didn't land. It didn't land, all right. If you're
Speaker 1: wondering what we're talking about. Mike went out with this
Speaker 1: girl named Diana. They went to a bar and they
Speaker 1: spent their night playing a fun game where they would
Speaker 1: look at people and try to guess their occupation and
Speaker 1: all that, and then even go up to them later
Speaker 1: and meet them and then find out if they were right,
Speaker 1: but he feels like she might not be calling back
Speaker 1: because he had a poorly time joke where he looked
Speaker 1: at someone and said, I bet you that guy's just
Speaker 1: poor and didn't look like she thought it was funny.
Speaker 1: It sounds worse here. I never heard. Did you ever
Speaker 1: approach the poor guy and find out what he did? No,
Speaker 1: we steered clear of him. I thought it was probably
Speaker 1: not best to revisit. Yeah, yeah, just leave that in
Speaker 1: the past and move forward. And even then, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you recovered because you said that she was interested
Speaker 1: in hanging out again at the end of the night.
Speaker 1: It sounded like it. Yeah. And when we kept hanging out,
Speaker 1: we kept meeting these other people. She had a great time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, cool, Well, I'm about to die her. Fun
Speaker 1: of her right now and see if we can find
Speaker 1: out why she's not getting back to you. Okay, awesome, Thanks,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Danna please? This is Danna, Hey, Danna, how are you?
Speaker 1: This is jew Bil from Brook and Jewbwil in the
Speaker 1: morning Brook and Jewbil in the morning Brook and jewels
Speaker 1: the first name, last name in the morning. Don't listen
Speaker 1: to him what are you calling me about? What's happening?
Speaker 1: It's Brooke and Jewel in the morning. It's a radio show,
Speaker 1: and we got an email about you from one of
Speaker 1: our listeners about me. Yeah, his name is Mike. Can
Speaker 1: you guys went out on a date the other night? Oh?
Speaker 1: Why did he email you? Guys? That was a tone
Speaker 1: change because we do a segment on our show called
Speaker 1: the second Date Update. So Mike had a really great time.
Speaker 1: He says, he thought you had a good time too,
Speaker 1: But now you're not calling him back, So, well, that's interesting,
Speaker 1: that's interesting. You don't think that he had a good time.
Speaker 1: You could say that. Yeah, his description of the date
Speaker 1: is like picture perfect, almost like you guys were laughing,
Speaker 1: you're high fiveing, you gave hugs. Oh that's true. I
Speaker 1: thought we had a really good time. I had fun.
Speaker 1: But apparently he didn't have good enough time. Why do
Speaker 1: you say that? I mean, how much do you guys know? Well,
Speaker 1: we know that you guys went to a bar and
Speaker 1: then played a game where you would guess people's occupations
Speaker 1: and stuff, then went and talk to people and found
Speaker 1: out if you were right. Yeah, yes, pretty much. All
Speaker 1: he told us was it the poor joke. He told
Speaker 1: us about the poor joke, how he tried to make
Speaker 1: fun of somebody and it didn't really work very well. Now,
Speaker 1: the whole thing was us judging people. It was that
Speaker 1: was I mean, that was fine. Um, so you're into that,
Speaker 1: all right, Yeah, I mean I was even joking about
Speaker 1: somebody saying that they were probably a professional like hamburger
Speaker 1: eater or something. We were just joking. It was all
Speaker 1: good fun. It was fine. Okay. So if that didn't
Speaker 1: bother you, then why don't you think he had a
Speaker 1: good time? Okay, So did he tell you like we
Speaker 1: made some friends. He told us that, you guys talked
Speaker 1: to a lot of people. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, there was
Speaker 1: this one group in particular that like we kind of
Speaker 1: ended the evening with. We were sitting sitting at the
Speaker 1: table and like you know, having drinks and having laughs
Speaker 1: and like we had along really well. Okay, all that
Speaker 1: sounds good, Like you told me anything that sounds bad yet.
Speaker 1: So so the point is I had to work in
Speaker 1: the morning. He had to work in the morning, so
Speaker 1: it was time to go. You know, we give each
Speaker 1: other a hug, We say, you know, I had a
Speaker 1: great time, like to see each other again, and at
Speaker 1: this point, you think that you guys are going to
Speaker 1: go out again. I thought so. Yeah, So we say
Speaker 1: goodbye and I get home and one of the girls
Speaker 1: from the table sent me a friend request on Facebook,
Speaker 1: so you know, I accepted her friend request and like,
Speaker 1: I had not been home that long, and she sent
Speaker 1: me a message on Facebook saying that she's like, I
Speaker 1: don't I don't know if you know, but this guy
Speaker 1: that you were in with is back at the bar.
Speaker 1: And he was like, she told me she's there, like
Speaker 1: in real time, like telling me, like what's going on
Speaker 1: with this guy? But he's like at the bar, like
Speaker 1: flirting with other girls. He was going to go home,
Speaker 1: so he yeah, didn't go home. Yeah, but it's the
Speaker 1: same thing you guys. I mean, it's one date. It's
Speaker 1: not like you're in a relationship. He has no reason
Speaker 1: to be. But I'm just saying, it's kind of weird
Speaker 1: for him to say goodbye to me and go back
Speaker 1: into the bar where we just had a date and
Speaker 1: he's hitting on other girls. Yeah. Yeah, I mean I
Speaker 1: guess I could see that I'm still on the fence.
Speaker 1: Is that weird? I would say that's weird, Like he said,
Speaker 1: he was going home. He lied. Obviously, he's not that
Speaker 1: into me, and I'm just not into that. Okay. Well
Speaker 1: he said that he was into you, Well it seems otherwise. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well maybe you want to ask him, because he's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening to this conversation and wants
Speaker 1: to talk to you. Are you serious? Yep? Mike? Are
Speaker 1: you there or have you called another radio show already? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm here, Hi, Piana, Hi Mike. Well there's a comely
Speaker 1: reasonable explanation to all of this, Okay. I came with
Speaker 1: a jacket, and when we walked out of the bar,
Speaker 1: I left it in there, so I went back in
Speaker 1: to get my jacket. So you're saying you forgot your
Speaker 1: jacket and then you accidentally started flirting with other women. No, No,
Speaker 1: I'm saying that I don't get to like have a
Speaker 1: lot of nights where I get to like socialize. I
Speaker 1: don't go out a lot. And so when I went
Speaker 1: back in to get the jacket, I went back to
Speaker 1: the table that we had been hanging out with, and
Speaker 1: I just like staying. I hung out with them and
Speaker 1: I had a good time. I wasn't hitting on other girls, really,
Speaker 1: So why would this girl tell me that you were
Speaker 1: I have absolutely no idea. I wasn't even talking to her.
Speaker 1: I was talking to like the other guys at the
Speaker 1: table more than her. She has no reason to send
Speaker 1: you that like that way out a line. So you're
Speaker 1: just telling me that she just made it up, that
Speaker 1: she just decided to tell me, just make up that
Speaker 1: you were flirting with other women. Why what would she
Speaker 1: do that for? Why would she tell me that. Look, yes,
Speaker 1: were there other women at the bar that I spoke to, Yeah,
Speaker 1: was I hitting on them? No, like not at all.
Speaker 1: I hear you. I just it just seems different than
Speaker 1: what I heard, and it just it just felt really
Speaker 1: really crappy, you know, like I had a good time
Speaker 1: with you. Okay, if you're asking if I am banging
Speaker 1: anyone that we need oh wait, that's the word that
Speaker 1: you jump to actually said flirting. Yeah, you went from
Speaker 1: zero to one hundred. Well, I just thought like, let's
Speaker 1: put all our cards on the table, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: put it out there, Mike. You did you put them
Speaker 1: all out there? Yeah? Mike, I didn't say you were
Speaker 1: banging other people? Like well, I mean I just got
Speaker 1: like I feel like I'm being a use here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but she said flirting Mike. Yeah, yeah, Well call a
Speaker 1: spade a spade, like I know, I know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just had a good time. This is such an
Speaker 1: intense conversation after a first day. Mike sounds like a
Speaker 1: sketch ball, and I don't know about a sketch ball.
Speaker 1: Like that's a little bit harsh. I agree, But you know,
Speaker 1: like both of you sound a little crazy on the
Speaker 1: phone right now to because it's not my fault. I
Speaker 1: was brought into this on the radio. Yeah I was.
Speaker 1: I was happy to just leave it alone, you know.
Speaker 1: I'll give you that look, Dianna. I like you. I
Speaker 1: had a good time, and I obviously wouldn't be calling
Speaker 1: this radio station again in touch with you if I'm
Speaker 1: always banging somebody else. Mike, stop it, we get it,
Speaker 1: We get it. Mike, Danna, would you like to go
Speaker 1: on a second date with Mike. We will pay for it.
Speaker 1: Assure you he's not banging anybody else at that barn. Please, Dana,
Speaker 1: please go out with me again. Like I swear on
Speaker 1: my life, on my brother's life, on my mother's life,
Speaker 1: on my grandmother's life, that I was only going back
Speaker 1: into that bar to get my jacket. Wow, you hear that, Danna.
Speaker 1: People will die if Mike lying? So would you go
Speaker 1: out with him more time? I mean I don't want
Speaker 1: to hurt his mom. Okay, yeah, all right, so that's
Speaker 1: a yes. You'll see you'll go on a second day
Speaker 1: with Mike. Sure, yes, Okay, that's amazing. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: I promise you will not regret it. We'll have a great,
Speaker 1: great time. Okay, but I keep the banging talk to
Speaker 1: a minimum. Jewil in the morning got to text in
Speaker 1: at seven eight, five to nine two says that guy
Speaker 1: is totally lying. He definitely went back to that bar
Speaker 1: to hit on other women. Yes, he was. You missed
Speaker 1: today's second date update that was taped while Brooke was
Speaker 1: still here. Jackie is filling in while she's out on
Speaker 1: maternity leave. Mike wanted to call a girl named Diana
Speaker 1: who wasn't calling back after their date. Apparently, while they
Speaker 1: were out on their first date, they kind of played
Speaker 1: a game where they would look at people and guess
Speaker 1: what they did for a living and stuff, yeah, a thing,
Speaker 1: and then they'd go up and talk to those people
Speaker 1: and find out if they were right. Well after they
Speaker 1: left each other for the evening. Apparently they made friends
Speaker 1: with some people and one of the girls text in
Speaker 1: and was like, Hey, that guy back here again, and
Speaker 1: he's totally hitting on everybody. So she didn't want to
Speaker 1: call him back because he figured that he was just
Speaker 1: a player. And he went back to the same bar
Speaker 1: they were just hanging out at to hit on people,
Speaker 1: and he swore that he forgot his coat there and
Speaker 1: he just ended up like hanging out and he doesn't
Speaker 1: know a lot of people and have a lot of friends,
Speaker 1: so he was just having a good time, and she
Speaker 1: bought it and agreed to go out with him again. Say,
Speaker 1: she had someone that was almost a stranger, another female
Speaker 1: that went out of her way to say, girl, he's
Speaker 1: a dog and she I mean, normally girls, you know,
Speaker 1: that's the kind of girl you want to be friends with.
Speaker 1: But you know, Jackiet girls are haters like that. Like
Speaker 1: if if I went back to the bar and I
Speaker 1: was just like randomly having conversations with like five other
Speaker 1: women that night, somebody's gonna be like, he's hitting on girls.
Speaker 1: That's just how it works. And all I was doing
Speaker 1: was just trying to hang out with my friends and
Speaker 1: my new friends that I met because I forgot my jacket. Yeah,
Speaker 1: totally inn Anyway, they agreed to go out again. If
Speaker 1: you want to do a Seconday at update, all you
Speaker 1: have to do his email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back. It is Friday,
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