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Speaker 1: Mother Knows Death starring Nicole and Jenny and Maria qk.

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Speaker 2: Hi. Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. Let's get started

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Speaker 2: with the story of the day. As usual, we have

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Speaker 2: a completely unbelievable story to start the show off. So

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Speaker 2: earlier this year, an inmate at a Miami prison got pregnant,

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Speaker 2: and you know, everybody was really confused about how because

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Speaker 2: when she first entered the prison, she was not pregnant,

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Speaker 2: and I think there was an assumption that there was

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Speaker 2: a guard. I mean, that's not like that wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: a unique situation. People get pregnant by guards a lot.

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Speaker 2: So they were really having a hard time finding out

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Speaker 2: how she got pregnant at first. And then you know,

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Speaker 2: they made the discovery that she formed this relationship with

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Speaker 2: a man that had a cell on the floor above her,

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Speaker 2: and they were communicating through the vents. And then at

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Speaker 2: some point they figured out that they could drop tiny

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Speaker 2: objects through the vents and it would land into her cell,

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Speaker 2: and so at some point they had a discussion about

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Speaker 2: having a baby and it kind of just went from there.

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Speaker 2: So explain exactly how this happened. So I guess this

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Speaker 2: guy started masturbating into saran wrap. He wrapped it up

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Speaker 2: really thin and put it inside of a cigarette wrapping,

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Speaker 2: which then he dropped down. He put inside of a

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Speaker 2: pen and then dropped it through the vent down to her.

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Speaker 2: She had one of those applicators that you used to

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Speaker 2: put like a monastat in your vage. You ever use

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Speaker 2: one of those or see one of those things, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's almost like a tampon applicator of sorts, and put

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Speaker 2: it inside of her vadge with the semen in there,

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Speaker 2: and basically artificially inseminated herself and she got pregnant. It's

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Speaker 2: just like kind of unbelievable. I mean, they're saying they're

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Speaker 2: calling it like the virgin Mary or baby essentially because

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Speaker 2: they've never met, you know, they were going back trying

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Speaker 2: to figure out how this happened. And the two of

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Speaker 2: them have never been in a position to meet, let

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Speaker 2: alone be in a position to have sex, right, So

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Speaker 2: of course this was very confusing and people were saying

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Speaker 2: this was unlikely, but it's possible. I have so many questions. First,

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Speaker 2: I didn't even realize that male and females were housed

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Speaker 2: in the same building. I thought they had like completely

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Speaker 2: different facilities. They were at so that's one, and then two,

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Speaker 2: this is a known thing that they have relationships through

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Speaker 2: the toilets and the events, right, yeah, So like why

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Speaker 2: are they allowing it if they know about it? Right,

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Speaker 2: If they really don't want these people to be communicating,

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Speaker 2: I don't think they could do anything about it. I

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Speaker 2: think it's the structure of the building that allows them

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Speaker 2: to do it. And think about it, if you're sitting

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Speaker 2: in a room all day with nothing to do, you're

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Speaker 2: gonna get creative, right, Like, you have literally nothing occupying

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Speaker 2: your vine, So even you know, and then putting two

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Speaker 2: of these minds together is just not a good idea.

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Speaker 2: I mean, this is how people escape from jel and

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Speaker 2: all that sort of thing. So I don't even know

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Speaker 2: why they're allowing it, but I think it's kind of

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Speaker 2: amazing that they cheap up with this idea and it

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Speaker 2: actually worked. And I know that they're saying it's rare,

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Speaker 2: but like, no, it really isn't. It's artificial insemination. And

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Speaker 2: on top of that, you have like the freshest semen

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Speaker 2: ever that you're doing it with. It's not like you're

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Speaker 2: you have a frozen one or you have to do

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Speaker 2: it like from a donor or something and wait, like

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Speaker 2: there's no laps time, it's fresh. It's like, why is

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Speaker 2: this any different than going to the doctor's office and

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Speaker 2: getting artificially inseminated. I know they use a different tool

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Speaker 2: In fact, did you know that they have it at

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Speaker 2: home kits to do insemination at your house? Oh? No,

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Speaker 2: I don't think I realized that. Yeah, if you're like

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Speaker 2: having a difficult time getting pregnant, that's one of the

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Speaker 2: things that they say might help. And they've had a

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Speaker 2: sixty seven percent success rate. But which is you would

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Speaker 2: say that? No, it's it's high, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I know a person that's had this done and it

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Speaker 2: So like it works. Yeah, it's not out of the question.

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Speaker 2: I want to know though, how Like I thought, so

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Speaker 2: they're both in jail for murder, right, okay, yeah, and

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Speaker 2: applicators or whatever they have, Like, how do they even

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Speaker 2: have access to all the stuff if they're in prison.

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Speaker 2: I can see the monaster because they might offer that

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Speaker 2: not sure. I know there's verses there and everything. People

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Speaker 2: like they find the way. I'm telling you, like I

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Speaker 2: always am saying this about these great painters, right, like Michaelangelo. Like,

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Speaker 2: of course Michaelangelo was this incredible painter. There was nothing

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Speaker 2: had was time. All these people just can't say that though,

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Speaker 2: because there were millions of people around at that time

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Speaker 2: it's it's there. There is some level of talent there. Okay,

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Speaker 2: But I agree with you that this is a conversation

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Speaker 2: I have with the kids all the time that they

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Speaker 2: need to be bored more because that's how you figure

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Speaker 2: out like what you're good at. Right, Yeah, but okay,

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Speaker 2: so they're bored and they're really they're really good at this.

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Speaker 2: It just I just can't even imagine being in such

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Speaker 2: a situation that you want to have a baby so

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Speaker 2: bad that you just don't even care like she doesn't

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Speaker 2: even know what he looks like unless he wrote to

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Speaker 2: her in one of these letters and said, like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I I'm five foot six and I have brown hair

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Speaker 2: and brown eyes. Like but it's kind possibly know about them.

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Speaker 2: It could really be the ultimate catfish because you could

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Speaker 2: say whatever you want. I mean, you can't see the

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Speaker 2: person you're talking through event. It's almost like the concept

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Speaker 2: of this show Love is Blind, where they're talking and

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Speaker 2: they can't see each other and they see if they're

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Speaker 2: forming this relationship, and then they go for it and

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Speaker 2: each other. It's almost that the same principle. I actually

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Speaker 2: wonder if they watch that show and she got the

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Speaker 2: to take the semen and artificially inseminate yourself. Well, that

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Speaker 2: is that really that smart? Though? I mean like a

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Speaker 2: think it's like mind blowing that she was that smart

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Speaker 2: that she figured it out, But more importantly, why did

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Speaker 2: she want to get pregnant like they she's in jail

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Speaker 2: for life or at least a long time because she

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Speaker 2: murdered someone, Right, what happens to that baby? Does it

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Speaker 2: with another inmate. So I think in a standard situation,

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Speaker 2: either get a family member to take custody or so

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Speaker 2: that you would then have access to the kid when

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Speaker 2: sure something smart actually, because it's like, oh, have this

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Speaker 2: of getting this baby to be like a you know,

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Speaker 2: and older, just be like, all right, I'm getting out

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Speaker 2: now I'm your mom. Well, I wonder if I wonder

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Speaker 2: if Elizabeth Holmes from fair and nose tried to do that.

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Speaker 2: You know, she's like the blood testing fraud chick. So

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Speaker 2: she got pregnant two times during her right before her

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Speaker 2: you just had two babies and they're gonna be Lilyan

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Speaker 2: and Luccia's age by the time she gets out of jail.

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Speaker 2: Did she get pregnant by some billionaire like Hotel Air

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Speaker 2: So when they have their visits then they can have sex.

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Speaker 2: So this happened. This probably happens more frequently than we

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Speaker 2: even know about. If people are allowed to have visits

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Speaker 2: I definitely think people can get pregnant via conjugal visits,

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Speaker 2: which is the whole concept of This is very fascinating.

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Speaker 2: Were we just talking about jail stuff last week or yeah,

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Speaker 2: women that are attracted to prisoners and stuff. I feel

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Speaker 2: like this needs to be an external exam of some

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Speaker 2: it just keeps coming up. Well, how terrible of a

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Speaker 2: person is this woman like you? Okay, so you murdered

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Speaker 2: of your lives, and you both are are convicted murderers

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Speaker 2: like that kids like like fucked. Really. I don't think

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Speaker 2: the average person that is, you know, committing murder and

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Speaker 2: clearly have no regard for human life. I mean they

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Speaker 2: that's true. Also, I want to say, this jail is

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Speaker 2: there is a certain era at the beach that that

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Speaker 2: would be nice to have out of your windows, you know, Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 2: I mean I was blown away by this. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I think it's funny. They're calling it the Virgin Mary baby, like.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just thought it was hilarious. So

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Speaker 2: how did they figure it out? Did she admit to it?

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Speaker 2: It seemed at first that she wasn't really being open

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Speaker 2: in trouble, But then eventually she confessed to it. I mean,

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Speaker 2: is he gonna get in trouble? I don't understand that, Ike,

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Speaker 2: he get in trouble for you? If they're having a relationship.

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Speaker 2: I think this is the most extreme form of having

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Speaker 2: They figured out a way. It's kind of the prison's

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Speaker 2: fault for not monitoring them, and that's that. And the

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Speaker 2: baby was born. Good for them. Congrats. Celebrity news. Oh

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Speaker 2: my god, guys, I am totally heartbroken. A bunch of

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Speaker 2: people sent me this story over the weekend that the

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Speaker 2: former My Chemical Romance drummer has been found dead. So

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Speaker 2: right now, it looks like somebody had called animal control

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Speaker 2: with narcissism was talking about his narcissism at a charity

430
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:11,440
Speaker 2: he thanksgiving event. So he was diagnosed with narcissistic person

431
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,560
Speaker 2: personality disorder, which involves persistent pattern of grandiosity a need

432
00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,400
Speaker 2: for admiration and a lack of empathy. So this makes

433
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,880
Speaker 2: one hundred percent sense, Like he doesn't give a shit

434
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: the quality of life that his kids are going to have,

435
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:27,720
Speaker 2: having all these different moms and not being able to

436
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 2: spend enough time with them and all that stuff, and

437
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,840
Speaker 2: he needs He's He's made some statements like that he

438
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 2: thinks he's some kind of superhuman. Yeah, like he has

439
00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 2: ability handily repopulating their earth. Yeah he so so like wow, surprised.

440
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,439
Speaker 2: I think like we could have diagnosed him with that.

441
00:23:46,160 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 2: Uh yeah, when I saw I was like, why is

442
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 2: this even news? So what? So what is he trying to?

443
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 2: Like what what's the point of him coming out with this?

444
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 2: He's trying to bring awareness to it and prove that

445
00:23:57,080 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 2: you could try to heal yourself. Like well, just like newsflash, dude,

446
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: Like the irony of him talking about himself during a

447
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 2: charitable event for other people on Thanksgiving, like, get over yourself.

448
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm just like this wait to shock.

449
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 2: Mariah Carrey has kids, the first set of kids with him, right, yeah,

450
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 2: and she's probably mortified it everything that's gone on after

451
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:25,160
Speaker 2: every single woman's like yeah, no shit, I did find

452
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,959
Speaker 2: it funny because I read her book and she talked

453
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:32,239
Speaker 2: a lot about her first marriage and about her like

454
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,320
Speaker 2: pseudo affair with Derek Jeter, but when it got to

455
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 2: meeting him and having kids, she really glazed over it.

456
00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,920
Speaker 2: And I don't know if it was, you know, so

457
00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: she wasn't speaking poorly of her kid's dad or something

458
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 2: for them to read later or what. I just thought

459
00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: it was really interesting that she went so heavily in

460
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 2: detail about other relationships she had and then it was

461
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 2: kind of just like and I met Nick and we

462
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 2: had twins, and then we got divorce, Like it was

463
00:24:56,400 --> 00:25:00,959
Speaker 2: pretty quick. So maybe she was like she was heartbroken

464
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 2: over the first relationship or something, and he was just

465
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 2: kind of like a rebound, you know. I think no,

466
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,920
Speaker 2: she certainly wasn't heartbroken about her first marriage. That guy

467
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: was incredibly abusive. In her words, I think she was

468
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 2: most heartbroken that her and Derek Jeter didn't work out.

469
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:18,320
Speaker 2: I think she like really was into him. Well, it

470
00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 2: would be kind of cool to be married to a

471
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 2: professional baseball player, yeah, especially when you're like the Queen

472
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 2: of Christmas, you're this huge singer. But I don't know,

473
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,919
Speaker 2: I just I have to imagine that she's mortified by this,

474
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 2: and if you're in her calvary, you know you're just

475
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 2: like you could just tell your kids, like, don't even

476
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,040
Speaker 2: worry about them, Like I could be both parents to you.

477
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 2: Just just forget about that guy, right, I don't know. Okay,

478
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,920
Speaker 2: freak accidents, this this one again. Did you watch a

479
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 2: video for this one? Yes, it's terrifying, all right. So

480
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 2: last weekend, this guy had gone to Castle's and Coasters

481
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,640
Speaker 2: Amusement Park in Phoenix. I think that's such a stupid

482
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:59,240
Speaker 2: name for meetsmooth park. So yeah, but like if it

483
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 2: was open in the night teen fifties, that makes sense.

484
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 2: If it's like an old one, I don't know how

485
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 2: twenty twenty four, they need the rebrand, all right. So

486
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 2: he had gone there for his niece's birthday party, and

487
00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: then they went on this double loop Desert Storm roller coaster.

488
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,040
Speaker 2: So as the coaster starts going up the little hill

489
00:26:16,080 --> 00:26:18,560
Speaker 2: you know where, it's making the like clicking sound as

490
00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 2: it's bringing you up to launch you off of the top,

491
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 2: he notices another clicking sound and realizes that his lap

492
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:29,159
Speaker 2: bar has released, so his safety restraint is no longer

493
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 2: holding him down and within seconds, he decides, you know what,

494
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 2: I'm not even risking this. I'm gonna just climb out

495
00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: because they always have like stairs going up the hill,

496
00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 2: you know, I guess for workers or in emergency situations

497
00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,200
Speaker 2: like this. So in this video they show him climbing

498
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 2: out of his seat like seconds before this thing launches

499
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 2: down the hill. This is giving me such anxiety, seriously, Yeah,

500
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:53,719
Speaker 2: I don't know if i'd have the balls to do that.

501
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,040
Speaker 2: Like I would notice that, you know, you notice that

502
00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,080
Speaker 2: the things off. But I don't know if in a

503
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 2: situation like that that I would make such a split

504
00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 2: decision to get out like that. I'd be so scared

505
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 2: to be all the way up there too on the

506
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 2: latter thing whatever. I mean, God knows what would have

507
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 2: happened if he didn't do that. I don't know if

508
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 2: just you know, how like when you go down, it

509
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 2: pulls you so much that you might just like you know,

510
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 2: when you go on like the gravitron or something, you

511
00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,879
Speaker 2: stick to the wall because the force is so is

512
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 2: so great, Like maybe that lap bar is just there

513
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 2: to like make sure an extra light person doesn't come out,

514
00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 2: But like you know, he could have stuck good and

515
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: would have been fine. I don't know, because it wasn't

516
00:27:37,080 --> 00:27:40,400
Speaker 2: upside down clearly because it didn't have the oversoulder thing right.

517
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 2: So no, it says it's a double loop roller coaster.

518
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,399
Speaker 2: I don't think all loop roller coasters have to have

519
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 2: the harness. Well, I guess the most alarming part of

520
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 2: this story is that it's said at the end of

521
00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: the article that Arizona is one of eight states that

522
00:27:55,840 --> 00:28:00,040
Speaker 2: does not regulate its amusement parks. And like, as a

523
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:03,480
Speaker 2: person that travels, that's scary to me. Never thought about that, Like,

524
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 2: you know, we're going to Arizona soon. Like, I don't know,

525
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 2: if I saw an amusement park, I might just be like, oh, guys,

526
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 2: why don't we go there today? Like I wouldn't even think.

527
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,199
Speaker 2: I wouldn't even think about it. Just I don't know.

528
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,760
Speaker 2: It's just this ignorance is bliss kind of thing. But no,

529
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 2: the most disturbing part of the story is he said

530
00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: the ride operator didn't even notice he got off of

531
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: it until he got on the ground. Because that monitors

532
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:31,359
Speaker 2: these rides are teenagers that are stoned. Come on, they

533
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 2: don't give a shit, they don't even they they're not

534
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,320
Speaker 2: that I'm such a crazy person. Like when the kids

535
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 2: go on those rides and stuff, I go up with

536
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:40,400
Speaker 2: them and I'm just like, pull on the lap bar,

537
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 2: pull it, let me see you do it and stuff.

538
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 2: And they're like, oh my god, stop doing this moment,

539
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: And I'm like I don't care because I like, what

540
00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 2: if that was a kid? Right, Like, what would they

541
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: have done? They don't know what to do, Like, well,

542
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: what would they have done? Would a kid? You know? Know?

543
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 2: To Like I tell the kids all the time, I'm like,

544
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: scream your freaking head off, because they're like, I, I

545
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 2: don't want to bother you, but my flat bar's not down,

546
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Like they're too scared to

547
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 2: speak up, and I always am just like, you will die.

548
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 2: I think if this happened to me, I don't think

549
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 2: I'd think I would be able to get out in time.

550
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 2: And I think I would just hold on for dear life.

551
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,400
Speaker 2: But I don't think that without my cause I don't know.

552
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 2: This is this is pretty bad. And he's saying that

553
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 2: they didn't visit you know how they're supposed to like

554
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 2: pull on some strap or something to make sure it's down.

555
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 2: He said they didn't do that at all, and then

556
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: of course she didn't the ride operator didn't even notice

557
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 2: he got off on the hill. I don't know they

558
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 2: really need to do. So what is it, like he put,

559
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,680
Speaker 2: I mean what you can't you can't sue. What are

560
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 2: you gonna sue? Like, you can't file like, well, he

561
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: filed a complaint with the park, and I guess that's

562
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: why they're you know, they need to have inspections or

563
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 2: they need to change. And that's like, like I look

564
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 2: at it, like, Okay, that's sue worthy just because of

565
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 2: the I told trauma that would cause me forever, like

566
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 2: I would never ever, ever in a million years. But

567
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,320
Speaker 2: you can't. I mean he didn't get hurt or anything

568
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 2: like that. But yeah, definitely something needs to be done

569
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,640
Speaker 2: just to make sure that they're like having a little

570
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 2: bit of more restrictions or standards when they're doing these rides.

571
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: You know.

572
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:20,000
Speaker 2: Well, I thought he had a really good quote. He said,

573
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 2: quote I think all amusement parks that basically have people's

574
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 2: lives in their hands need to be better regulated. And

575
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: I do agree. I mean, this is very dangerous if

576
00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 2: it's not done properly. I'm kind of surprised that it's

577
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: not mandatory that they're regulated. I have to look up.

578
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,840
Speaker 2: What are the other eight states or the other seven

579
00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 2: states besides Arizona. It's probably although it definitely was Action

580
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 2: Park at some point, which is Jersey. Though I don't know.

581
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 2: We're going to write about that soon actually, because we

582
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 2: really we're talking about that and just talking about how

583
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: like kids teeth would fall off and then people would

584
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:01,560
Speaker 2: get lacerations from like teeth that were embedded in the

585
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 2: ride and stuff. It's just like amazing. Weich he talk

586
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 2: about it. He went there, No, I know he went there,

587
00:31:07,440 --> 00:31:10,920
Speaker 2: but yeah, we want the documentary. Yeah, we watched it together. Yeah, yeah,

588
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:12,959
Speaker 2: I mean, we certainly should write about it. They had

589
00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 2: a million problems. I think it'll be really interesting for

590
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 2: people to read. Okay, in California, this twenty four year

591
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 2: old guy was hanging Christmas lights on his house. It

592
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,920
Speaker 2: appears there was this high voltage power line right near

593
00:31:24,960 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 2: the house and he when he was up on the roof,

594
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 2: I guess he swung a strand of the lights over

595
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 2: the power line trying to get it on the other side,

596
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:37,360
Speaker 2: but they made contact and then it ended up electrocuting him.

597
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 2: So scary, you know, I was thinking. Most people probably

598
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 2: think the dangers associated with hanging Christmas lights are like

599
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 2: falling off of the roof or something. Well he did.

600
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 2: He got He got a jolts so hard that he

601
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,160
Speaker 2: fell off the roof and paramedics showed up and found

602
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 2: him in a tree. Yeah, which is insane to think

603
00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 2: about that scene. And then it's like, you know, you

604
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: have people up on it finding you like that. At first,

605
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:05,959
Speaker 2: when I read the headline, I thought he was hanging

606
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: them up like plugged in or something, which obviously you

607
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 2: should never do. But this is really scary. I feel

608
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 2: like it could happen to anybody if they don't know. Yeah,

609
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 2: I mean, and normally if you got if you got

610
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 2: an electric shock from hang from the Christmas lights, it

611
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: wouldn't be so bad that it would kill you like that,

612
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Like the reason that he

613
00:32:29,040 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 2: died instantly was because it was a high voltage line

614
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,240
Speaker 2: that he so happened to make contact with. But you

615
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 2: have to think like your heart is the heart beat

616
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 2: is put off by electrical impulses, you know, That's how

617
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 2: your heart beats, And when you get an electric shock

618
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:50,440
Speaker 2: like that through your body, it could cause your heart

619
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: to just have irregular beats and it could kill you.

620
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 2: But with a high voltage electrocution like this, the word

621
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:01,479
Speaker 2: electrocution being specifically to peep fole who die from an

622
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 2: electric shock. I mean it could pop. I've seen it

623
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 2: pop people's heads off. Oh my god. Yeah, it's it's

624
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 2: like insane, break phones, break joints, like it could be intense,

625
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 2: cause really bad burns. So I mean it threw him

626
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: right back, you know, and he was in the tree,

627
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 2: which is terrible that first responsors had to find him

628
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,600
Speaker 2: like that too. Yeah. I think it's just really important

629
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:28,360
Speaker 2: if you're hanging lights to be really careful because these

630
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 2: accidents can happen so easily into anybody. This episode is

631
00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 2: brought to you by the Gross Room guys. So, I

632
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 2: was talking earlier about the story of animals eating you

633
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 2: after you die, and I have a ton of stories

634
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 2: and articles written about it in the Gross Room, But

635
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 2: one of the specific ones that I'm thinking about right

636
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 2: now is this guy who had thirty or so cats,

637
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 2: and like I was saying earlier, these cats ate him

638
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 2: when he died, and the condition of his body is

639
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: just so outrageous. But in the article, I also go

640
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 2: over the difference is like how you could tell that

641
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 2: these wounds were caused by the animals and you could

642
00:34:16,680 --> 00:34:18,960
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643
00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:23,920
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644
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645
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648
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649
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650
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652
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 2: crime in Spain, I guess police got tipped off that

653
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:57,239
Speaker 2: there was, like, you know, some suspicious activity happening at

654
00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 2: this strip club, so they took these dogs there to

655
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: try to sniff out the property. They were hoping to

656
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:05,800
Speaker 2: find some cash and some drugs. They were really surprised, however,

657
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: when one of the drug sniffing dogs went over to

658
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 2: one of the dancers and wouldn't leave her alone, and

659
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:13,560
Speaker 2: it turns out that she had some cocaine stepped up

660
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,920
Speaker 2: her vagina. Yeah, and that's the whatever we always say.

661
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 2: It's like a little vault that you could hide things in.

662
00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,360
Speaker 2: But it's just not a good idea to stick drugs

663
00:35:22,440 --> 00:35:26,240
Speaker 2: up there, because you know, sometimes they give you drugs

664
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,720
Speaker 2: that you could put into your vagina because it goes

665
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 2: right into the bloodstream. It absorbs through the lining of

666
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 2: the vagina so easily. So like if that bag wasn't

667
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 2: completely sealed and there was residue outside of it or whatever, like,

668
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,919
Speaker 2: it could have been really bad for her. She could

669
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 2: have had taken too much in her body. You know,

670
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 2: it's just not a good idea to ever, like store

671
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 2: drugs in your body. Didn't you recently do a mystery

672
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 2: diagnosis of a drug mule and something similar happened. Yeah,

673
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 2: I mean I have a lot of cases of it

674
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 2: in the grocroom actually, of people who are swallowing condoms

675
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: full or usually it's condoms full of drugs and one

676
00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 2: of them burst and it kills them, you know what

677
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,880
Speaker 2: I mean. But you just shouldn't ever store it. You

678
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 2: shouldn't stick them up your butt, you shouldn't swallow them,

679
00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,040
Speaker 2: you shouldn't put them in your vagina because like if that,

680
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 2: if they're not extra sealed, forget it, you know, and

681
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 2: imagine like if if she thought that the drug the

682
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 2: cops were coming there to do a search, it was

683
00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 2: probably like a quick thing. It wasn't like a careful like,

684
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,120
Speaker 2: oh shit, let me grab this thing real quick and

685
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 2: stick it there, you know, so it could have you know,

686
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 2: it could have killed her really if enough got into

687
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 2: her bloodstream like that. Yeah, I mean, I can't imagine

688
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 2: it was a well thought out thing. I'm just imagining, imagining,

689
00:36:44,719 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 2: like the cops burst in the door, they're doing a raid,

690
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 2: and then you just take the ziploc bag and like

691
00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 2: jam it up there. So yeah, yeah, of course it's

692
00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 2: like Lorraina Brocco style, like pouring the drugs down the

693
00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 2: toilet because your house is getting raided, you know. So

694
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 2: it's just not I mean, I understand, it's just not

695
00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:03,040
Speaker 2: worth it because like, look, she got caught anyway, and

696
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 2: she could have really hurt herself. So next time, just

697
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,279
Speaker 2: I don't know what to tell you, flush it down

698
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 2: the toilet, Yeah I don't, Yeah, don't don't. Just try

699
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:15,320
Speaker 2: to stick it anywhere you can, because I just can't believe,

700
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,520
Speaker 2: you know, the dog was just doing his job, so

701
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 2: like she can't be mad at the dog, but it

702
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 2: is funny that he was like really circling the person

703
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 2: and they were like, like, how do you think that

704
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 2: went down? The dog was next her and they're like,

705
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:30,359
Speaker 2: all right, it spread open, Like I don't I don't know.

706
00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: I just think that that probably happens. I feel like

707
00:37:33,160 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: dogs are always like sniffing my button stuff, So I

708
00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: don't know if that's like, don't you think that every time.

709
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:41,919
Speaker 2: We don't have any dogs in our family, but every

710
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:43,839
Speaker 2: time I'm near one, I feel like they're just like

711
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:47,280
Speaker 2: sticking their face like way too close to my crotch,

712
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 2: you know, Like I just don't like it. Yeah, I mean,

713
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 2: I definitely don't like when they're like obviously when they're

714
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 2: trained for drugs or whatever, it's just like it's you

715
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,839
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Well, and the cops can't let

716
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 2: it go because they, you know, people do stuff like this,

717
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 2: and obviously it was the case. So yeah, he's an idiot, Okay.

718
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 2: In Massachusetts, this woman caught an ambulance to assist her

719
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,680
Speaker 2: seventy nine year old mother. When they got there, they

720
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,960
Speaker 2: were shocked to find that the woman was stuck to

721
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 2: a mattress that was infested with cockroaches, bed bugs, and feces.

722
00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: It was so bad that she had these ulcerations from

723
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 2: clearly from neglect, and it was so bad that paramedics

724
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 2: couldn't get her off of the mattress, so they had

725
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:37,080
Speaker 2: to transport her body attached to the mattress to the

726
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:40,000
Speaker 2: hospital where surgeons had to cut her body off of

727
00:38:40,040 --> 00:38:44,280
Speaker 2: the mattress. I can't even imagine the scene in the hospital.

728
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: I'm sure you cannot either. No, I mean, it sucks,

729
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: like but you could see how that happens. Think about this,

730
00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 2: like when you have a cut on your knee. This

731
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 2: happened to me a lot when I was a kid,

732
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 2: Like I would get these abrasions or scrapes on my

733
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 2: knee and then I would put like one of those

734
00:38:58,960 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 2: big bandages over for it, and then you know, the

735
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 2: next day you go to take it off, and it's

736
00:39:03,520 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 2: stuck to it, right, because you have all of this

737
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:10,399
Speaker 2: like what forms the scab. It's like serous fluid that's

738
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 2: coming out and that's coming to heal the wound and everything.

739
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: But just imagine that on a large scale, like it,

740
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, It's just like when a

741
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 2: band aid sticks to your to a cut and having

742
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,439
Speaker 2: these open wounds on your back and everything like that.

743
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 2: And it turns out that this woman was actually being

744
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 2: cared for by loving family members as well as a

745
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: nurse who said that she saw her a week before

746
00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:36,480
Speaker 2: and she was completely fine. Well, I wouldn't say loving

747
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 2: family members. They were getting money from the state to

748
00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 2: take care of her, but clearly they were not taking

749
00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,799
Speaker 2: care of her. They you know, they're getting charged with

750
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 2: fraud now because they were trying to falsely file reports

751
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 2: and get money and use her bank account and they

752
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 2: were splitting the checks they were getting with the daughter.

753
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:59,240
Speaker 2: So it was sorry, it was it was the woman.

754
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 2: The seventy nine year old woman's daughter was the primary caretaker,

755
00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:06,399
Speaker 2: and then her granddaughter was helping her out, and then

756
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,839
Speaker 2: they also had a nurse coming to the house. How

757
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 2: sick is that, Like you're just collecting money. So so she

758
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 2: had apparently she had untreated diabetes and got these also,

759
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:19,000
Speaker 2: I mean, even if she was bedbound and wasn't being

760
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 2: flipped properly and everything like that, she was getting terrible

761
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 2: bed sores which led to an acratizing fasciitis. So that's

762
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: an infection deeper within underneath the layers of the muscle,

763
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 2: and that caused her to become septic and she ended

764
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: up dying from that. Like, it's just it's so so

765
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 2: sad to me that that this happened, you know. Well, Okay,

766
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 2: so they're saying that a week before the nine one

767
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 2: one call, the nurse's report said that she was clean,

768
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,760
Speaker 2: well cared for, alert, and her diabetes was well controlled.

769
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: Obviously there was no mention of the bugs, which investigators

770
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 2: are saying it would take weeks to form an infestation

771
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:00,040
Speaker 2: of that level that she had. Yeah, and also the

772
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:04,000
Speaker 2: wounds wouldn't appear overnight as well. Yeah. And then they're

773
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,359
Speaker 2: saying the daughter received up to one hundred and forty

774
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 2: thousand dollars for caring for the mother, which she was

775
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 2: splitting with her daughter, and they were it says they

776
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 2: allegedly build Mass Health for services not provided, and they

777
00:41:16,520 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 2: were billing them for services after her death as well.

778
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: So not only is it like you've definitely been caught,

779
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: they're just gonna keep billing for the services that they're

780
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 2: not even rendering. So wait, I don't understand. Though they

781
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 2: didn't get in trouble after she died. No, So it

782
00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: says the daughter, granddaughter, and the nurse are facing charges

783
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 2: of manslaughter, caregiver, neglect of an elder, larceny, and medicaid

784
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 2: fraud and they're due back in court in January. But

785
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: like they didn't get in trouble right away when the

786
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,239
Speaker 2: mom was brought to the hospital attached to the mattress.

787
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: I guess because like half over, Yeah, because like how

788
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 2: were they collecting after she died? I would think at

789
00:41:55,040 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 2: that time. Maybe it's different because like obviously, if you're

790
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 2: abusing a child's like you would get you would get

791
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 2: arrested and taken right right away. Well, maybe it was

792
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,839
Speaker 2: like they were blaming the nurse, the nurses blaming them.

793
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 2: They couldn't do anything technically until they looked further into it. Yeah,

794
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 2: there might have just been a couple of days in

795
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: between this happening and them getting arrested. Yeah, or maybe

796
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 2: they didn't even did they know. Maybe they didn't even

797
00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 2: know that the mom got taken to the hospital, if

798
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 2: she was being left alone for long periods of time

799
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 2: and stuff. I don't know. No, they called the ambulance

800
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:36,280
Speaker 2: to help her. None of it makes any sense. People

801
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 2: are so dumb, like you think that you just think

802
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 2: that you're just gonna be like, oh, she just got

803
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 2: like this yesterday. I don't know what happened. She was

804
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 2: completely fine, Like I just don't get it. I don't

805
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,879
Speaker 2: know what goes on. Clearly they were like, we can

806
00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 2: get some cash. We don't give a shit about her

807
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 2: own daughter. That's so gross, it's horrible. Are you gonna

808
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 2: do that to me? Well, we're we're gonna be old

809
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:03,799
Speaker 2: around the same time. So this is a question for

810
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 2: the girls because they're gonna be caring for both of

811
00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 2: us together. Oh god, all right. Medical news in California,

812
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,600
Speaker 2: the six year old our teacher was in the middle

813
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,439
Speaker 2: school classroom when she noticed that a bat somehow got

814
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,239
Speaker 2: in her classroom and got trapped. I guess the thing

815
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 2: wasn't moving around at first, and I don't know if

816
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 2: she knew if it was dead or her or whatever,

817
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 2: but she wanted to try to gently scoop it up

818
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 2: and bring it outside. And when she did that, it

819
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 2: came to woke up, got scared and bit her. Yeah,

820
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 2: And the worst part is is that she didn't think

821
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 2: it was that big of a deal. She just kind

822
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: of like didn't go to the doctor, didn't do anything,

823
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 2: because when a bat bite you, their teeth can be

824
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 2: so small that it might not even hurt. So she

825
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,880
Speaker 2: just didn't really think much of it. And then she

826
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 2: didn't start showing any problems for an entire month, and

827
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,840
Speaker 2: started showing signs of like fatigue and fever and f

828
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 2: just like normal stuff. And then all of a sudden,

829
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 2: shit went downhill real fast, and then she went to

830
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 2: the hospital and was dead within four days. It's just

831
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:14,920
Speaker 2: diagnosed with rabiasts, So all right, So I have a

832
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 2: million questions, like, if you get bit by any animal,

833
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 2: is it safe to say you should just go get treatment?

834
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,319
Speaker 2: I matter what I think, So yes, I always think

835
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 2: that you should at least call your doctor. I told

836
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 2: you when I got my surgery and I came home

837
00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:31,399
Speaker 2: and I saw my cat and I was gone for

838
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 2: the longest time I've been away from the cat. She like,

839
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 2: I went to pet her, and she bit my hand,

840
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: and I immediately called the doctor and was just like,

841
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,239
Speaker 2: because it's a puncture wound, right, and the bacteria in

842
00:44:43,239 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 2: their mouth could go deep into your hand. And I

843
00:44:45,520 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 2: was still healing from surgery, and I was like, I

844
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 2: don't need this to be a problem. Got antibiotics, it

845
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 2: was never a problem, you know what I mean. But

846
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 2: for certain animals that carry rabies, especially bats. For example,

847
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 2: if you get bit by an aw animal that's known

848
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 2: to cause rabies, you should one hundred percent go because

849
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 2: there's a vaccine for it that you can get that

850
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,960
Speaker 2: if you get it within forty eight hours, you will

851
00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:15,239
Speaker 2: never get the rabies virus. It won't replicate and you

852
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,239
Speaker 2: won't get sick and die from it. But if you

853
00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 2: go once you're having symptoms, I mean sometimes you don't

854
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 2: show symptoms for two or three months after you get bit.

855
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 2: It's so scary, and it's like one hundred percent fatal.

856
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 2: There's been twenty documented cases under twenty documented cases in

857
00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:37,839
Speaker 2: the history of time that people have survived rabies. That's

858
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,839
Speaker 2: how bad it is. I just I think people have

859
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 2: this understanding. I think people falsely think that when you

860
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 2: get bitten by an animal with rabies that you get

861
00:45:49,320 --> 00:45:52,960
Speaker 2: it immediately and die immediately. Yeah, no you don't. So

862
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,959
Speaker 2: I found it really interesting. I mean I even would

863
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 2: have assumed it took a couple of days, not you know,

864
00:45:58,640 --> 00:46:02,520
Speaker 2: months at a time to present itself, because that's even worse. Yeah,

865
00:46:02,600 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 2: I mean the lesson here is just like and even

866
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 2: if the animal doesn't have rabies, you can still get

867
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:13,400
Speaker 2: terrible bacterial infections and weird ones because animals carry some

868
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 2: weird bacteria that could cause you. I've had cases of

869
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 2: people that had to get amputations because of certain things

870
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:26,640
Speaker 2: of animal bites that not rabies related, but just bacterial related.

871
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:30,240
Speaker 2: So just go go to urgent care and go wherever

872
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,759
Speaker 2: and get checked out. It's just it's the best thing

873
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 2: to do, I think. I mean, I could totally see

874
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 2: myself being in a situation where I get bitten and

875
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 2: then I'm just like, oh, well by trash can. No

876
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:46,920
Speaker 2: that the raccoon in the trash can is still a

877
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:51,320
Speaker 2: mystery unsolved. I don't want to where that they came from.

878
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 2: One of the biggest things too, is that, well, it's

879
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 2: like the raccoon that my mom swears was in our

880
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:59,600
Speaker 2: house once that like nobody saw, there was no signs

881
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 2: of it like this, wait, this is is a great story.

882
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:05,440
Speaker 2: So this is when we were we lived at my

883
00:47:05,480 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: mom's house still, we were all teenagers or something, and

884
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: my mom swears that her and my dad were sitting

885
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,279
Speaker 2: on the couch on a Saturday night, like eating ice

886
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,640
Speaker 2: cream and watching whatever show they used to watch, the

887
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 2: Commission or one of those those like eighties shows like that,

888
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 2: or nineties shows whatever. And she goes out into the

889
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,439
Speaker 2: kitchen to get ice cream and she said that there

890
00:47:27,480 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 2: was a raccoon sitting in the kitchen right so, and

891
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 2: I guess, I don't know what. She went and got

892
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,840
Speaker 2: pop pop or something, and he went out and it

893
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:39,399
Speaker 2: was gone. And then like Louis was in his room

894
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 2: in the back room, it was just like it was

895
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 2: gone and nobody saw it. And we just like we

896
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 2: make fun of her to this day because like nobody believes.

897
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 2: We're like, no, you were like tripping or something. You

898
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 2: definitely didn't see this thing. I got this. And then

899
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 2: Maria so that Maria had a raccoon in her trash

900
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:56,919
Speaker 2: can last weekend, and then she said that she went

901
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 2: back and it was gone, and we're like, yeah, okay.

902
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,200
Speaker 2: The point is, though, is that from this teacher's perspective,

903
00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 2: aside from her not getting help when she got bit,

904
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 2: I mean, I know that she was trying to do

905
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 2: the right thing. But another flaming red, you know, flag,

906
00:48:12,640 --> 00:48:15,800
Speaker 2: is that this a bat being awake in the middle

907
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:19,640
Speaker 2: of the day is a terrible sign. That's always the thing,

908
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 2: Like when a nocturnal animal is awake during the day,

909
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:28,640
Speaker 2: they could definitely have Raby's. So you just there's just

910
00:48:28,680 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 2: two different things that happened in this situation that should

911
00:48:31,400 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: occlude her, Like I need to go get this checked out.

912
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,160
Speaker 2: And we just talked about a little kid that got

913
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 2: bit by a bat, right, Yeah, remember it was a

914
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 2: kid that got bit There was a bat in the

915
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 2: kid's room and they didn't even realize that the kid

916
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:49,319
Speaker 2: had gotten bit by the by the bat. And then

917
00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:53,280
Speaker 2: we were talking about Rabi's with the squirrel, the peanut

918
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 2: the squirrel case. Yeah, well that was ridiculous. There is

919
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,360
Speaker 2: still more information that needs to come out about the

920
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 2: peanut the square. Okay, it's been quiet lately. I wonder,

921
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,320
Speaker 2: I wonder why. But we heard from other sources that

922
00:49:06,080 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 2: there is more to the story and it's not it

923
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 2: doesn't it's not all what it seems. But we'll wait

924
00:49:12,360 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 2: to see what comes out in the media about that.

925
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 2: All right, So this next one is so fascinating. So

926
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 2: Australia has passed a new law that plans to take

927
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: effect next year which would ban children under sixteen from

928
00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:29,720
Speaker 2: having access to social media. I love this idea. Honestly.

929
00:49:30,239 --> 00:49:32,440
Speaker 2: I think that there's been so many studies done now

930
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:34,960
Speaker 2: that shows that social media is having more of a

931
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,880
Speaker 2: negative impact on children than positive. I just don't know

932
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 2: how they're going to have this legit happen, Like, how

933
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 2: do you get a kid from not just going on

934
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 2: their mom's phone or having their mom sign up for

935
00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 2: an account or whatever, Like, well, you might be made

936
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 2: putting more work on the parent, because all I could

937
00:49:55,800 --> 00:49:58,880
Speaker 2: see is my kids don't have social media now, but

938
00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:01,840
Speaker 2: if they did, they would be like I need to

939
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,440
Speaker 2: go on your phone to look at it, you know,

940
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,879
Speaker 2: and it would cause more work for me. The only

941
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:11,439
Speaker 2: thing I could see, which is so much work would

942
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 2: be that they'd have to pass a law in the

943
00:50:14,560 --> 00:50:19,560
Speaker 2: country where when you register a phone, it has to

944
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 2: be registered to the age of the person using the phone,

945
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:26,399
Speaker 2: and then they would take those IP addresses and block them.

946
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 2: But I just think that is so much work to

947
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:33,680
Speaker 2: do that. But also just how Okay, so I go

948
00:50:33,800 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 2: to the store and I and I'm buying a phone

949
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:39,279
Speaker 2: for you, Like, how how do you even prove that it?

950
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 2: I just I don't know how you could possibly get

951
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 2: around it without just I know that they said that

952
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,840
Speaker 2: there's like a really hefty fine involved, right, So I

953
00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 2: don't think for parents. I think for the social media

954
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 2: the social media companies. But I'm just wondering. Listen, this

955
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,880
Speaker 2: is I'll tell you. I think that it's good because

956
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,840
Speaker 2: I think that a lot of kids want to do

957
00:51:03,000 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 2: it because their friends are doing it and they don't

958
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 2: want to be the only ones left out. I've heard

959
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 2: this from several parents of like, well, every kid in

960
00:51:10,200 --> 00:51:12,759
Speaker 2: their school has a phone and has TikTok, so my

961
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 2: kids should have that, you know, because you don't want

962
00:51:15,040 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 2: your kid to be like the weirdo that's left out. Right.

963
00:51:17,920 --> 00:51:20,920
Speaker 2: But if, in theory, if no one has access to it,

964
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 2: then then it would be they wouldn't they wouldn't miss it,

965
00:51:25,760 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 2: They just wouldn't. And this law goes as far as

966
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,360
Speaker 2: to say that if they have a current account, that

967
00:51:31,520 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 2: that's also getting shut down. Yeah, and parents can't override

968
00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 2: like there's no like is it okay with you? And

969
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,400
Speaker 2: then they can override it like it's just it is

970
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 2: what it is. Nobody under sixteen. Let's say a kid

971
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:49,680
Speaker 2: has assuming their phones work exactly like ours do, a

972
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 2: kid has downloads TikTok on their phone, right, and then

973
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 2: they say, okay, they're going to say how old are you?

974
00:51:57,160 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 2: And you're gonna lie and say you're you're you're seventeen right,

975
00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:04,879
Speaker 2: like so how like, I don't know how they pull

976
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,919
Speaker 2: that off without just having one of those buttons that says, oh, yeah,

977
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,959
Speaker 2: I'm this age. The same as websites like they there's

978
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 2: like these these really raunchy porn websites that are just

979
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:18,879
Speaker 2: like are you eighteen? Yeah? I am okay, you are okay? Cool?

980
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 2: You could say it like it's the same with alcohol websites.

981
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 2: They ask you if you're twenty one before going on

982
00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 2: an alcohol website, like yeah, of course, yeah. But I

983
00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:29,839
Speaker 2: mean I'm really interested to see if they're if they

984
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,120
Speaker 2: have some kind of a way to pull it off,

985
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 2: because I do. I think it's great. I know a

986
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 2: lot of people think it's government overreach, which I'm usually

987
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: not a fan of, but in this particular case, I

988
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 2: feel like it's it's causing such a social like impact

989
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:52,439
Speaker 2: on these children growing up. I mean, it's noticeable. There's

990
00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:56,120
Speaker 2: schools around here even that are saying that they're not

991
00:52:56,320 --> 00:53:00,400
Speaker 2: letting there wasn't it Warwi's talking about that. Maybe I

992
00:53:00,480 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 2: didn't talk we didn't talk about that on here, that

993
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:07,800
Speaker 2: there was a school that's suing Facebook and stuff for

994
00:53:07,960 --> 00:53:09,600
Speaker 2: oh it is it's in New Jersey. I was talking

995
00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 2: to Gabe about it. I didn't put it on here.

996
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 2: It's in Princeton, New Jersey. There's a school that's suing

997
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,760
Speaker 2: like Facebook and Meta and stuff, saying that their costs

998
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 2: have gone up for mental health care for children so

999
00:53:21,400 --> 00:53:24,600
Speaker 2: much because of social media that they're now suing Facebook

1000
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,279
Speaker 2: because they want to get their money back because that's

1001
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:31,040
Speaker 2: how much money they're putting into mental health resources at

1002
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 2: the school. Listen, I could totally see this. I want

1003
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 2: to say. I'm part of the first teenage generation with

1004
00:53:37,640 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 2: social media and it quickly got toxic. I don't even

1005
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 2: think I had a Facebook or anything till I was

1006
00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:46,640
Speaker 2: in ninth or tenth grade either. So imagine these kids

1007
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: that are starting off in fifth grade with this. But

1008
00:53:49,600 --> 00:53:51,920
Speaker 2: and it wasn't even like it is now though. It

1009
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:56,359
Speaker 2: just no it. It is such a toxic place right now.

1010
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,920
Speaker 2: I know a couple people that have teenage kids that

1011
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 2: have serious problems with that because it's like, you know,

1012
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:04,840
Speaker 2: back in our day, you would go to school and

1013
00:54:05,640 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 2: you could get bullied at school, but then you'd have

1014
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 2: some relief when you get like a safe space at

1015
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,640
Speaker 2: home to be away from that. And now it's just

1016
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 2: you're exposed to it all the time. You're exposed to

1017
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 2: it all the time. It never ends. You're constantly in

1018
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 2: this cycle of just getting harassed. Of course, anybody's going

1019
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,080
Speaker 2: to develop mental health issues. Yeah, that I was reading

1020
00:54:25,160 --> 00:54:27,839
Speaker 2: that there's been studies done that say that on kids,

1021
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,360
Speaker 2: that forty three percent of the people that were surveyed

1022
00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:32,920
Speaker 2: said that they've been a victim of cyber bullying at

1023
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 2: some point. This is not people, I'm saying children. I mean,

1024
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 2: that's that's a high number. But not only that, there

1025
00:54:39,640 --> 00:54:42,480
Speaker 2: was one and out of three teenager girls felt worse

1026
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,680
Speaker 2: about their bodies, even boys feeling worse about their bodies

1027
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,959
Speaker 2: and stuff. It's just like it's kind of the most

1028
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 2: awkward stage and hardest stage to go through anyway, because

1029
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 2: you're just going from being a kid to having all

1030
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 2: these hormones induced and just like your body is like

1031
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,920
Speaker 2: completely changing every time you look in the mirror, just

1032
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 2: like all this stuff and then drop on top of it,

1033
00:55:02,600 --> 00:55:05,840
Speaker 2: this stuff with all the influencers and the filters and

1034
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 2: this and that. It's a lot. It's just a lot.

1035
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:11,799
Speaker 2: It's a lot for me. I think you could talk

1036
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 2: to anybody in the world that uses social media and

1037
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 2: they've had some type of trouble. I mean, how many

1038
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 2: times have you just got messages being like you're ugly?

1039
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 2: Like thanks keyboard work, you're really ruined in my day.

1040
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 2: But you know, we're older and you know how to

1041
00:55:26,480 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 2: use your brain to be like, well, this person's a

1042
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:30,799
Speaker 2: loser that's taking time out of their day when they

1043
00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 2: should be a productive member of society. Whereas when you're fourteen,

1044
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 2: you're just worried about your classmates saying you're ugly. Right, yeah,

1045
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 2: I think it's really really difficult to be a teenager

1046
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:45,960
Speaker 2: today with social media, don't. I really am curious how

1047
00:55:45,960 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 2: they're going to enforce this. They also said that the

1048
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 2: social media companies are not going to be able to

1049
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 2: enforce uploading IDs online to prove age. I know, when

1050
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 2: you sign up for PayPal, for example, they make you

1051
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:01,000
Speaker 2: upload your driver's license, but that's a banking institutions, so

1052
00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,600
Speaker 2: they have different, you know, regulations. But in theory, I

1053
00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 2: guess if they would consider this to be as of

1054
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:12,920
Speaker 2: as important. Then they have the technology to be able

1055
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 2: to prove who people are, like right, Like that's actually

1056
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 2: a good example. If if I could go online and

1057
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,440
Speaker 2: do banking because they know who I am when I

1058
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 2: log in, then they could do that technology with social

1059
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 2: media too. But even then though, it's still like I

1060
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 2: could log in, I mean, you log into my bank

1061
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 2: account all the time, right, it's just like just give

1062
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:39,800
Speaker 2: the password to somebody and call it a day. Like

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00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 2: well that or like, I don't know, for example, like

1064
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:45,319
Speaker 2: they could be like, okay, you can only have one

1065
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,040
Speaker 2: driver's license uploaded to one account, but what about us

1066
00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 2: where we each have a personal account and then we

1067
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:51,360
Speaker 2: have the podcast account.

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00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:52,239
Speaker 3: You know.

1069
00:56:52,520 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 2: It's like, I don't know, I don't I'm having a

1070
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 2: really hard time understanding how they're going to actually enforce

1071
00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:03,800
Speaker 2: this unless they're doing some great tech coding. I just

1072
00:57:04,239 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 2: it's not one of these laws that they just like

1073
00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 2: they just did and it means nothing, you know what

1074
00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,040
Speaker 2: I mean. I don't think so. I think Australia and

1075
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 2: New Zealand are really hardcore about stuff like this, and

1076
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,280
Speaker 2: they actually follow through with it. It's not just like

1077
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 2: for show, I'm curious because we have a lot of

1078
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:22,840
Speaker 2: listeners in Australia as well as in the grocerym and

1079
00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 2: I'm just curious what you guys think about this, because

1080
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 2: I can't really imagine that any parent really would be

1081
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 2: upset about this, Like, do they really think that the

1082
00:57:33,360 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 2: social media is good for their kid in any kind

1083
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 2: of way. I just can't even imagine a parent arguing

1084
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 2: for it. Unless you're one of those moms that uses

1085
00:57:41,600 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 2: your child to make money on social media. I'm sure

1086
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 2: they're gonna have a problem with it. Oh that's interesting. Well,

1087
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 2: but technically it doesn't matter because if you're taking videos

1088
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 2: with a kid, it's not the kid doesn't have to

1089
00:57:53,960 --> 00:57:57,919
Speaker 2: go on the social media. No, you're right, and there's

1090
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 2: gonna be. There are laws coming out kids being used

1091
00:58:01,240 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: for things like that already, because it's obviously it's becoming

1092
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 2: more and more. Well, of course, quickly we think of

1093
00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 2: that woman Ruby Frank immediately who starts abusing her children

1094
00:58:12,600 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 2: and then is using them to make a living. Yeah,

1095
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 2: it's horrible. And then on the social media end, you know,

1096
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 2: they're not stoked about this at all. They're facing major

1097
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,479
Speaker 2: fines if they don't adhere to the law. Elon Musk

1098
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 2: says he's most worried about freedom of speech, which like

1099
00:58:28,440 --> 00:58:31,640
Speaker 2: chill out, and then Mark Zuckerberg, of course, is just

1100
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,520
Speaker 2: like I'd really encourage you to wait for further studies

1101
00:58:34,560 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 2: to come out, Like what further studies? We know the

1102
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:43,000
Speaker 2: effects it's having. Well, there's that movie documentary called The

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00:58:43,240 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 2: Social Project. Is that what it's called. I think it's

1104
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 2: called that's it's not a movie. It's a documentary about

1105
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 2: social media. Isn't it called like the Social Dilemma? Yes,

1106
00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 2: something like that. It's on Netflix. That ruined my life, Gabe,

1107
00:58:59,640 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 2: maybe watch that on one of our anniversary weekends. How

1108
00:59:03,200 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 2: really it? And I like was crying so bad. I

1109
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 2: felt it was terrible. It's just so terrible, Like the whole,

1110
00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:13,120
Speaker 2: the whole entire thing of it is terrible. And yeah, exactly,

1111
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 2: have romantic Well, this is the same as him, you know,

1112
00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 2: right before I was about to give birth to his child,

1113
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 2: making me watch some documentary on nine to eleven with

1114
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 2: firefighters dying, Steve Buscemi did. I was just like crying

1115
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,800
Speaker 2: my eyes out the night before I was supposed to

1116
00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 2: give birth, Like why would you show your pregnant wife

1117
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,080
Speaker 2: that movie right then and there. But whatever, then you

1118
00:59:34,240 --> 00:59:38,040
Speaker 2: took that opportunity to then show me Steele. Magnolia is

1119
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 2: about a woman that was a mother that died. Thanks. Yes,

1120
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:45,440
Speaker 2: it had nothing to do with my pregnancy though she

1121
00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:49,480
Speaker 2: had diabetes that was uncontrolled. And but you were in

1122
00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 2: the hospital after you gave birth for a while and

1123
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 2: I didn't know that all that happened thinking about was

1124
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,880
Speaker 2: something horrible like that happening? All right, anyway, we're digressing.

1125
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,400
Speaker 2: What were we talking about? I can't We're talking about

1126
01:00:01,480 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 2: Mark Zuckerberg being, Oh, he's the worst, a little bitch

1127
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:09,080
Speaker 2: of he well so, yeah, and with Eola Musk with

1128
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:11,640
Speaker 2: freedom and speech and stuff like I'm a huge like

1129
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,880
Speaker 2: freedom of speech person and everything. But at the same time,

1130
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 2: I don't like, what does that have to do with kids,

1131
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:21,920
Speaker 2: because when you're under eighteen years old, your parents are

1132
01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:24,440
Speaker 2: are the ones that should be making the decisions for

1133
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:27,800
Speaker 2: your well being. I think I would argue ninety nine

1134
01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 2: percent of children under sixteen are not going on there

1135
01:00:31,200 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 2: to you know, freely express what they think about world

1136
01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 2: views and everything. It's to make fun of their classmates.

1137
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,960
Speaker 2: To a post selfies. I can imagine that if if

1138
01:00:41,200 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 2: like X and meta and all these things they do

1139
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,880
Speaker 2: their analytics. I mean, they're making the majority of their

1140
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 2: money off of children. Yeah, so I mean really like

1141
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I know adults are on social media all

1142
01:00:55,160 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 2: the time, but children are are dedicated to it. They

1143
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:01,800
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, They're making a career out

1144
01:01:01,840 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 2: of it, just the advertisements and everything is their job

1145
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 2: is to make these children be on that device all day.

1146
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:11,960
Speaker 2: So I don't know what kind of further studies need

1147
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,520
Speaker 2: to be done. I wonder, Well that's okay. So that's

1148
01:01:14,560 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 2: where I was getting with that documentary, the Social whatever

1149
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:23,840
Speaker 2: Dilemma or project whatever it's called. When they interviewed I

1150
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:27,760
Speaker 2: think it was the guy who started Pinterest. Maybe did

1151
01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 2: you watch it? I never watched it. Oh it's you should.

1152
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,480
Speaker 2: Every parent should watch it for sure. You should just

1153
01:01:34,520 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 2: watch it too because it because it's it really goes

1154
01:01:38,200 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 2: behind the psychology of like how these companies are keeping

1155
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:43,800
Speaker 2: you on the device, on their things at all, on

1156
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:46,840
Speaker 2: their platforms at all times. But it was some major

1157
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,480
Speaker 2: CEOs of companies. At the very end, they asked all

1158
01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 2: of them like would you let your kid have social media?

1159
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:56,680
Speaker 2: And every one of them is like no, absolutely not

1160
01:01:57,240 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 2: real nice. Yeah, no, I know that's why you're just like, okay,

1161
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 2: thank you. That's that that proves your point right there.

1162
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 2: I will fully acknowledge that I feel like I have

1163
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 2: an addiction to my phone. For example, on Saturday, I

1164
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 2: was at a funeral and I was at a mass

1165
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 2: that was an hour long, not even a full hour long,

1166
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 2: and I was like sweaty were Jones and yes, and

1167
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 2: it's that's like really not good. No, it's not good.

1168
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 2: And I have you know, the iPhone has these features

1169
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 2: now where you could set timers on apps, so if

1170
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 2: you've been on the app for so long, it'll like

1171
01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: lock you. I mean you could override it, but it's like, hey, listener,

1172
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 2: this actually is true with you because if I text

1173
01:02:38,400 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 2: you and you don't. Maria usually writes me back like

1174
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 2: right away all the time. If I don't hear from

1175
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 2: her for an hour, I'm like she's dead somewhere, whereas me,

1176
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 2: you'll text me and like I might get back to

1177
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:54,880
Speaker 2: you the next day, Like I just don't. I don't

1178
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 2: have my phone like I do sometimes. But then when

1179
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:01,959
Speaker 2: I decide it's like my time not to have the phone,

1180
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:03,680
Speaker 2: I just put it away and I don't touch it

1181
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 2: for hours at a time. Well, I really struggle. I

1182
01:03:07,520 --> 01:03:10,640
Speaker 2: struggle with Instagram the most, Like I don't go on TikTok.

1183
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:14,120
Speaker 2: I'm not interested. The only time I've gone on TikTok

1184
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,960
Speaker 2: to watch videos for fun is to watch like sour

1185
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 2: dough baking tips. Right, I don't just go on there

1186
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:24,439
Speaker 2: and freely scroll, because the videos are what really could

1187
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 2: trap you for hours without you even realizing it goes by.

1188
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 2: And this is why I started embroidering and trying to

1189
01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:34,480
Speaker 2: read more, because I've recognized, you know, earlier this year

1190
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,720
Speaker 2: that I just have a problem with being on my

1191
01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:39,480
Speaker 2: phone all of the time, and I don't want to

1192
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,840
Speaker 2: be Do you have like that? You know how there's

1193
01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 2: that thing that tells you how long you're on the

1194
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 2: phone and stuff the screen time? Yeah, yeah, do you

1195
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 2: look at it? Yeah, that would be like if it's

1196
01:03:53,720 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 2: saying it's hours of your day, you just have to

1197
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 2: think about it, like, Okay, I'm up. However many hours

1198
01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 2: a day you're off? Right, Well, I feel like on

1199
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:06,360
Speaker 2: average it's around four hours every day. Yeah, which but

1200
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 2: part of my terrible because it is part of your

1201
01:04:10,000 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 2: job as well. So yeah, part of my day is

1202
01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:15,920
Speaker 2: checking my emails. We also use social media for work,

1203
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 2: so I have to go on you really check times.

1204
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:21,880
Speaker 2: Yeah like that, because i used to be on Instagram

1205
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:23,960
Speaker 2: way too much and I've cut back. I mean, all

1206
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,200
Speaker 2: you guys that have been following me forever could tell

1207
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:28,240
Speaker 2: that I've cut back so much because I used to

1208
01:04:28,320 --> 01:04:32,360
Speaker 2: post a couple times a day, every single day, stories

1209
01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 2: running all the time, and and then like I just

1210
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 2: was I just thought, like I'm not present in my

1211
01:04:38,520 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 2: life right now, you know what I mean? Like it,

1212
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:44,080
Speaker 2: me and Gabe noticed this phenomenon, like when we're on

1213
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:47,800
Speaker 2: vacation or at a parade or a baseball game or something,

1214
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:51,680
Speaker 2: every single person has their phone out and they're recording

1215
01:04:51,880 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 2: whatever event's going on, and they're not just actually living

1216
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 2: the moment and watching the event happen. You're like too

1217
01:04:58,240 --> 01:05:01,560
Speaker 2: busy about getting it on film, which how many people

1218
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:04,400
Speaker 2: actually go back and watch all those videos anyway, But

1219
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 2: it's just like every single person is not actually watching

1220
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 2: their kid perform or this or that because they have

1221
01:05:10,720 --> 01:05:13,280
Speaker 2: the phone in front of their face, in between their

1222
01:05:13,400 --> 01:05:16,400
Speaker 2: child and and themselves, you know what I mean. It's

1223
01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 2: it's just really interesting to watch and I just have

1224
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,040
Speaker 2: made a decision that I want to be present and

1225
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,880
Speaker 2: experienced because those memories like live in my head more

1226
01:05:24,920 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 2: than in my camera, you know what I mean. No,

1227
01:05:27,360 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 2: I totally agree with that. I'm on my phone and

1228
01:05:30,320 --> 01:05:33,240
Speaker 2: a lot when I'm doing stuff because I'm of huge

1229
01:05:33,360 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 2: picture taker. I mean, I have a degree in photography.

1230
01:05:35,800 --> 01:05:39,560
Speaker 2: I've always been obsessed with taking pictures, so I definitely

1231
01:05:39,640 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 2: have a problem with that. I've tried to be better

1232
01:05:42,120 --> 01:05:46,440
Speaker 2: about that, especially when like when the girls have a

1233
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 2: recital or something, right, Like I try to be that

1234
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 2: person that like videos it for you so you can

1235
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 2: watch it it real like fut then have it because

1236
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 2: like yeah, and I would do that for you too,

1237
01:05:56,760 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, Like when you have

1238
01:05:58,680 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 2: kids and stuff, like I'll record so like you can

1239
01:06:01,480 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 2: be in the moment. But like you when your kids

1240
01:06:04,400 --> 01:06:06,880
Speaker 2: on stage, they want to look down at you looking

1241
01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:08,440
Speaker 2: at them. They don't want to look down at you

1242
01:06:08,640 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 2: on your phone, you know what I mean. Like they

1243
01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 2: when you're playing softball or anything like, they want to

1244
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 2: they want to see that you're like paying attention to them,

1245
01:06:17,960 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 2: not to your phone. I've been getting better about it

1246
01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 2: because like I have a timer set on Instagram and

1247
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,400
Speaker 2: when it goes off, I will only override it if

1248
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 2: I still have work stuff to do, like posting our

1249
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:35,080
Speaker 2: clip or something. Otherwise, I won't override it. I'll just

1250
01:06:35,160 --> 01:06:36,840
Speaker 2: be like I'm not going on the rest of the day.

1251
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 2: But I don't you need to get to a point

1252
01:06:39,800 --> 01:06:42,320
Speaker 2: where you don't need that. Well, I know, and I

1253
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 2: know it's like losery to admit that, but like, you know,

1254
01:06:45,440 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 2: I have this story. I have this conversation with my

1255
01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:51,080
Speaker 2: friends too, because I'm like, I will you know, I'll

1256
01:06:51,120 --> 01:06:53,400
Speaker 2: watch an entire episode of Housewives and I can't tell

1257
01:06:53,440 --> 01:06:57,080
Speaker 2: you one thing that happened because I wasn't really watching it. Yeah,

1258
01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 2: I was almost going the entire time. Yeah, well, this

1259
01:06:59,840 --> 01:07:02,600
Speaker 2: is what it's happening to all people, you know what

1260
01:07:02,680 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 2: I mean. And it's not it's not anything that you

1261
01:07:05,440 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 2: should be embarrassed about. It's just like, this is why

1262
01:07:08,800 --> 01:07:12,480
Speaker 2: I think that this is like it pertains to sixteen

1263
01:07:12,600 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 2: year olds, but really it just needs to be to

1264
01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 2: everyone because think about if every single person in the

1265
01:07:19,000 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 2: world is on social media for four plus hours a night,

1266
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 2: then like what's getting done in the world. There's so

1267
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,160
Speaker 2: many hours a day that you like, that's why at

1268
01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 2: the end of every day, I'm just like, Okay, I

1269
01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:33,080
Speaker 2: accomplish this today, this today, this today, this today. Like

1270
01:07:33,600 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 2: if you can't, if you're just like oh I didn't

1271
01:07:35,680 --> 01:07:37,800
Speaker 2: even get dressed and I've been sitting on my phone

1272
01:07:37,920 --> 01:07:40,640
Speaker 2: all day and like playing on my phone and watching TV,

1273
01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:43,360
Speaker 2: then like you kind of aren't successful as a human,

1274
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 2: like you just kind of well, this was my point.

1275
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 2: We'd turn on timers and stuff because I'm like, okay,

1276
01:07:47,880 --> 01:07:49,640
Speaker 2: like there's definitely a world in which I could set

1277
01:07:49,720 --> 01:07:51,760
Speaker 2: on my counts all night long and play on my phone, right,

1278
01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:53,640
Speaker 2: but I don't want to do that anymore. At least

1279
01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:55,920
Speaker 2: if I read a book or if I made something,

1280
01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 2: I feel like I've accomplished yeah, exactly where Otherwise I'm

1281
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 2: like I just looked at the same feed. I can't

1282
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 2: even see my friend's feeds anymore because of the algorithm,

1283
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 2: So I've just looked at a feed of nonsense for

1284
01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:10,040
Speaker 2: four hours in a row, and it's it's just like

1285
01:08:10,160 --> 01:08:13,520
Speaker 2: all dumb shit. Like it's like, okay, it's like entertaining. Oh,

1286
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:15,920
Speaker 2: this memes funny, this video is funny, whatever, but like,

1287
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 2: what how does that enrich your life? Like it doesn't

1288
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 2: all right, well, it just gone on super long tage,

1289
01:08:22,400 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 2: all right. Last medical story. Back in twenty seventeen, a

1290
01:08:25,720 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 2: sixty six year old man had visited a men's health

1291
01:08:28,320 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 2: clinic looking for treatment for fatigue and weight loss. Somehow

1292
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:35,480
Speaker 2: along the way they ended up misdiagnosing him and unnecessarily

1293
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 2: treated him with a quote invasive erectile dysfunction shot, which

1294
01:08:39,400 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 2: caused irreversible damage. So I think that there's I've seen

1295
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:46,680
Speaker 2: a couple of these starting to pop up around these

1296
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,920
Speaker 2: like men's health clinics that you go and they say like, hey,

1297
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:52,599
Speaker 2: do you have low testoassrner, you tired all the time,

1298
01:08:53,000 --> 01:08:55,519
Speaker 2: low sexual desire, blah blah blah, like come here and

1299
01:08:55,640 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 2: we'll treat you. And obviously like there's some kind of

1300
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 2: a medical professional running these places, because I mean, you

1301
01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:05,760
Speaker 2: would hope so, because they shouldn't be injecting people with

1302
01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:09,240
Speaker 2: any kind of medications without a doctor or a nurse

1303
01:09:09,320 --> 01:09:13,720
Speaker 2: practitioner or PA or somebody doing it. But it this

1304
01:09:13,960 --> 01:09:17,479
Speaker 2: particular clinic is being told that they're conning old men

1305
01:09:17,800 --> 01:09:19,960
Speaker 2: for money. And I guess this guy, I don't know

1306
01:09:20,040 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 2: how he ended up going there, but he went in

1307
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 2: and they were like, oh, are you having problems with

1308
01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 2: the rectile dysfunction? And he said, yeah, but like I

1309
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 2: don't really care about that. I care about whatever other

1310
01:09:31,160 --> 01:09:33,760
Speaker 2: symptoms he was having which had nothing to do with that.

1311
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:40,080
Speaker 2: And they gave him these at home testosterone replacement therapy,

1312
01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 2: which included putting injections into his penis, I guess, and

1313
01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:45,760
Speaker 2: then they said he wasn't doing it right. So he

1314
01:09:45,880 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 2: went back and it was I don't know if it was, Oh, yeah,

1315
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:52,160
Speaker 2: it was the PA. The physician's assistant had shown him

1316
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 2: how to injected it and injected like seventy five percent

1317
01:09:55,680 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 2: more than he should have or something, and it gave

1318
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:01,839
Speaker 2: him a condition known as priapism, which is a prolonged erection.

1319
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:05,880
Speaker 2: So when you have an erection, the blood fills up

1320
01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 2: in the penis and that's how it stays erect, but

1321
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:11,599
Speaker 2: then it leaves the penis, and then that's how guys

1322
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 2: could go on living with normal penile health. But when

1323
01:10:15,520 --> 01:10:17,800
Speaker 2: you have all of that blood that's stuck up in

1324
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,480
Speaker 2: the penis for a long time, that means that oxygenated

1325
01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:25,759
Speaker 2: blood isn't getting in there to profuse or give oxygen

1326
01:10:25,880 --> 01:10:29,200
Speaker 2: to the penis, and it could die. And when you

1327
01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:32,679
Speaker 2: have an erection that's longer than four hours. They advise

1328
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:35,320
Speaker 2: you to go to the hospital to get that fixed

1329
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 2: right away, because this can be this could happen what

1330
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,200
Speaker 2: happened to this guy, which is that his penis it

1331
01:10:41,400 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 2: just like it totally died, nothing left. It just won't

1332
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:49,040
Speaker 2: work anymore prolonged direction can't get erections anymore. And he's

1333
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:53,320
Speaker 2: been awarded four hundred and twelve million dollars. It's the

1334
01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 2: highest medical malpractice payout in history because of this. It

1335
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:01,880
Speaker 2: is very interesting that it's, oh, hi, monetarily, it's it's

1336
01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,680
Speaker 2: good though, because like, like what amount of money. This

1337
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 2: guy's sixty six, right, so he still has he could

1338
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 2: still have potentially another twenty thirty years of a sex

1339
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:15,040
Speaker 2: life left in him, right, Like really, like you don't

1340
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:17,120
Speaker 2: know when a person's gonna die. People live into their

1341
01:11:17,200 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 2: nineties all the time, and and like maybe they don't

1342
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:22,200
Speaker 2: have sex or whatever, but like sixty year old certainly

1343
01:11:22,280 --> 01:11:25,560
Speaker 2: are having sex. Right, You're just telling this guy like

1344
01:11:25,800 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 2: he just can't ever have sex again. Like it's it's you.

1345
01:11:29,439 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 2: You're ruining a person's life like that. That's a big,

1346
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:35,439
Speaker 2: a big part of life that you can't ever get back.

1347
01:11:35,640 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 2: You can't know even this money is not getting him

1348
01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:42,519
Speaker 2: that back. Yeah, exactly, And they really need to like

1349
01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 2: stop doing shit like like now it's like, oh, well,

1350
01:11:46,600 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 2: if I'm gonna lose my whole entire business and like

1351
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 2: be in debt the rest of my life, maybe I'll

1352
01:11:50,800 --> 01:11:53,720
Speaker 2: think twice about doing this to people. Which is sad

1353
01:11:53,840 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 2: that you have to go that route to make somebody

1354
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 2: feel that way, Like you should not want to just

1355
01:11:59,240 --> 01:12:01,600
Speaker 2: blow people off and do whatever you want and be

1356
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 2: negligent just because you can and make a lot of money.

1357
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 2: It happens all the time though, So it's I mean

1358
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:11,000
Speaker 2: it's it's like I like, it's the same with the

1359
01:12:11,080 --> 01:12:13,839
Speaker 2: social media thing, Like I like these big hefty finds

1360
01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:16,240
Speaker 2: that are going to be involved with things like this

1361
01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 2: because maybe it will make people think twice before they're

1362
01:12:20,520 --> 01:12:23,639
Speaker 2: going to hurt somebody like that, you know what I mean. Yeah,

1363
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:25,840
Speaker 2: I want to know who this guy's lawyer is. That's

1364
01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:29,760
Speaker 2: what he is, a very good lawyer. Yeah apparently. I

1365
01:12:29,840 --> 01:12:32,040
Speaker 2: mean they're like, he's not even going to get any

1366
01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:34,519
Speaker 2: of that money. You think, like he'll get some of it,

1367
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 2: but if it's probably give them like a couple mil

1368
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:40,040
Speaker 2: up front, and then he'll never see the rest of it.

1369
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:42,639
Speaker 2: I just can't even imagine if it's like a small

1370
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:45,599
Speaker 2: like if you were if you were doing like John Hopkins,

1371
01:12:45,680 --> 01:12:47,800
Speaker 2: of course you would be able to get a couple

1372
01:12:47,840 --> 01:12:50,519
Speaker 2: of million dollars. But if this is just a little

1373
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 2: a practice that does men's health and stuff, they don't

1374
01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 2: have I would imagine that they don't have that kind

1375
01:12:55,960 --> 01:12:58,400
Speaker 2: of money sitting up. I don't know. They have clinics

1376
01:12:58,600 --> 01:13:02,320
Speaker 2: in a bunch of state, so it's like a chain. Yeah,

1377
01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:06,759
Speaker 2: it's a chain. So they have clinics in Colorado, Florida, Illinois, Nevada, Nebraska,

1378
01:13:06,880 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 2: North Carolina, and Wisconsin. Okay, and I believe this suit.

1379
01:13:11,080 --> 01:13:14,479
Speaker 2: I feel like this suit was at a New Mexico, Mexico. Yeah. Yeah,

1380
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 2: so they have clinics in a bunch of different areas.

1381
01:13:18,880 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 2: I don't know if they're like four hundred and twelve

1382
01:13:21,240 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 2: million dollar rich, but they seem to be doing pretty good.

1383
01:13:24,320 --> 01:13:28,000
Speaker 2: So yeah, you can't just have like facilities and everywhere

1384
01:13:28,080 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 2: if you're not making some sort of money. And there

1385
01:13:31,040 --> 01:13:32,960
Speaker 2: was more to the story too. It was like he

1386
01:13:33,040 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 2: got he had this erection and then I guess he

1387
01:13:36,560 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 2: went home after and said like, I still have an erection,

1388
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 2: and the guy made some kind of crude comment to him, like, oh,

1389
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:48,040
Speaker 2: it's like really good. Go show your friends like total

1390
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 2: douche bags. It's a great I know. And then so

1391
01:13:51,479 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 2: then he went home and called them and was like,

1392
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 2: I still have this erection. And then he said he

1393
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,280
Speaker 2: went back to the clinic because he was in pain,

1394
01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:01,160
Speaker 2: because like, having an erection like that is painful after

1395
01:14:01,240 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 2: a while. And then they tried to do something for

1396
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:07,280
Speaker 2: him to make it go away, and it wouldn't work,

1397
01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:09,599
Speaker 2: and then they made them go to the emergency room

1398
01:14:09,640 --> 01:14:11,680
Speaker 2: and drive there by himself, but it was too late

1399
01:14:11,760 --> 01:14:15,519
Speaker 2: by the time he got there. I one hundred percent

1400
01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 2: agree with this. Yeah, me too. Okay. Other death news, So,

1401
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:24,040
Speaker 2: a new study has come out revealing that Tesla's are

1402
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:27,320
Speaker 2: involved in more fatal accidents than any other car brand,

1403
01:14:27,400 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 2: despite Tesla claiming that they're the safest cars on the road.

1404
01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 2: What's interesting about this article is that it doesn't say

1405
01:14:34,960 --> 01:14:38,599
Speaker 2: that there's anything wrong with a Tesla mechanically that would

1406
01:14:38,640 --> 01:14:41,840
Speaker 2: make them more inclined to cause people's deaths, but more

1407
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,840
Speaker 2: about the people that are driving that are driving them,

1408
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:50,160
Speaker 2: which is interesting because you know, our kids don't have

1409
01:14:50,240 --> 01:14:51,840
Speaker 2: a school bus, so Gabe and I have to bring

1410
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 2: the kids to school every single day, and oftentimes if

1411
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,919
Speaker 2: Gabe is off work, we go together. So we're constantly

1412
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 2: back and forth, back and forth together driving the kids

1413
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 2: to school, and we have all these theories about like, Okay,

1414
01:15:04,200 --> 01:15:06,560
Speaker 2: this person has this car, this is their personality, Like

1415
01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:09,400
Speaker 2: we make jokes about it all the time, and so

1416
01:15:09,560 --> 01:15:11,800
Speaker 2: that's why I think it's really interesting that they think

1417
01:15:11,880 --> 01:15:15,960
Speaker 2: that that there's a certain personality with the Tesla cars,

1418
01:15:16,000 --> 01:15:18,519
Speaker 2: but it don't. They have those ones that like, you

1419
01:15:18,600 --> 01:15:21,519
Speaker 2: don't really have to drive. I saw a guy like

1420
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:24,559
Speaker 2: reading a book one day when he was driving his car.

1421
01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:28,000
Speaker 2: So some Teslas have his self driving mode, which I

1422
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:31,680
Speaker 2: believe is just a form of cruise control essentially, but

1423
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:35,519
Speaker 2: people just really are taking it seriously, like, no, you

1424
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:38,560
Speaker 2: could put in the address and it will take you.

1425
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:40,920
Speaker 2: It will drive you to where you put the address in.

1426
01:15:41,320 --> 01:15:43,600
Speaker 2: But I don't think you're supposed to totally not be

1427
01:15:43,720 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 2: paying attention. And they're having a problem because I remember

1428
01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:49,680
Speaker 2: we had a report a really long time ago that

1429
01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 2: people were taking naps. Well it was on the self

1430
01:15:52,479 --> 01:15:54,639
Speaker 2: driving mode. Yeah, in your case, you're saying you saw

1431
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,160
Speaker 2: someone reading a book. I think you're supposed to be

1432
01:15:57,240 --> 01:16:00,479
Speaker 2: paying attention. You're just not driving it yourself. It's funny

1433
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:03,599
Speaker 2: because we were sitting in traffic, but it was driving enough,

1434
01:16:04,080 --> 01:16:06,080
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. Yeah, And I look over

1435
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 2: at this guy and he's like reading a book right

1436
01:16:09,040 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 2: And the whole time I was just like, is this

1437
01:16:11,880 --> 01:16:14,320
Speaker 2: guy serious right now? Like he's reading a book while

1438
01:16:14,320 --> 01:16:16,000
Speaker 2: he's driving. He's not even looking at the road. And

1439
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:18,160
Speaker 2: then I realized, Oh, it was a Tesla. They got

1440
01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:22,040
Speaker 2: that weird function that it could drive without. I think

1441
01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:24,680
Speaker 2: I think the one that we were talking about it

1442
01:16:24,840 --> 01:16:27,600
Speaker 2: was it was someone, wasn't it like someone that was

1443
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:30,559
Speaker 2: drunk that slept in the Tesla and they ended up

1444
01:16:30,640 --> 01:16:33,040
Speaker 2: hitting a pedestrian and killing them or something like. There

1445
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:35,280
Speaker 2: was like some I feel like it was years ago.

1446
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 2: There was something like that. But yeah, I guess you're not.

1447
01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:39,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. I've never been in one, but I

1448
01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 2: guess you're You're supposed to still kind of stay at

1449
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 2: the wheel and be paying attention. So then what's the

1450
01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:48,439
Speaker 2: point of it. I don't know. I think it's really dumb.

1451
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 2: I've been in a Tesla A couple of times, and

1452
01:16:52,800 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 2: in my opinion, I think their dashboard situation has so

1453
01:16:56,600 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 2: much going on that every reguard distract us too. Your car,

1454
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 2: in particular, the buttons are just like all over the plate,

1455
01:17:05,520 --> 01:17:07,680
Speaker 2: Like I don't know how you find something if you're

1456
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 2: just trying to do it quick. I can't when I'm driving,

1457
01:17:11,360 --> 01:17:14,599
Speaker 2: I cannot just say, oh, the heater's on too hot,

1458
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:17,400
Speaker 2: let me make it colder. I can't. It's like too

1459
01:17:17,520 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 2: it's a touchscreen and I'll crash the car. It's like

1460
01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:21,320
Speaker 2: worse than playing on my phone that I actually know

1461
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:24,479
Speaker 2: how to get around. There's just different functions that I'm like,

1462
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:27,080
Speaker 2: there's probably a way to do it, Like I just

1463
01:17:28,920 --> 01:17:31,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's like it's the same thing, like

1464
01:17:31,160 --> 01:17:32,640
Speaker 2: a car is not that hard to drive. Why do

1465
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:34,639
Speaker 2: you have to make itself drive? Like? Why does why

1466
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,040
Speaker 2: did it change the gear shift on every single vehicle

1467
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:42,320
Speaker 2: every year? It's made like why? Y? Yeah? Your is

1468
01:17:42,439 --> 01:17:45,799
Speaker 2: very straightforward with the buttons, So I appreciate that because

1469
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:48,439
Speaker 2: I'm I'm a simple gal. I can't. I can't have

1470
01:17:48,560 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 2: the buttons being like you have to press this twice,

1471
01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:53,280
Speaker 2: turn a nub five times, and then you could turn

1472
01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:55,760
Speaker 2: the heat. Did you read that the that the that

1473
01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,959
Speaker 2: there was a list of other cars that were interested

1474
01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:03,920
Speaker 2: or that we're in these accidents as well. Yeah, they

1475
01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:07,960
Speaker 2: said Kia's, Buick, Dodge, and Hyundai. So like, what's the

1476
01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:10,480
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, it's just like, what's the correlation?

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Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting that they're saying it's like the

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Speaker 2: type of people that drive these cars and not not

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Speaker 2: the cars themselves. Yeah. I do find it interesting because yeah, exactly,

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01:18:21,560 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 2: so Elon might not be wrong that his car is safe,

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01:18:25,000 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 2: because it is. It's just the people that are driving

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01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:30,920
Speaker 2: it are not driving it safely. That's what they're saying, exactly.

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Speaker 2: That's interesting. Okay, all right, let's get onto Questions of

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Speaker 2: the Day. Every Friday on the app mother Knows Death

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01:18:37,720 --> 01:18:39,920
Speaker 2: Instagram account, we put a story up and you guys

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Speaker 2: could ask whatever questions you want. First, is it ever

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01:18:43,280 --> 01:18:45,800
Speaker 2: too early to teach your children about death? Or listen

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01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:49,760
Speaker 2: to your podcast? I don't think it's too early to

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01:18:49,840 --> 01:18:53,559
Speaker 2: teach your children about deaths because one of the things

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Speaker 2: I think that people say to their kids often is is,

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Speaker 2: you know, kids get scared that they're going to die,

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01:18:59,280 --> 01:19:01,320
Speaker 2: and then I think that you should tell them that

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01:19:01,360 --> 01:19:05,280
Speaker 2: they are going to die someday, because why would you

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01:19:05,320 --> 01:19:06,960
Speaker 2: tell them they're not going to die when they are

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01:19:07,080 --> 01:19:09,800
Speaker 2: going to die someday. You don't need to like go

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01:19:09,920 --> 01:19:11,800
Speaker 2: out of your way to scare them about it. But

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01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 2: it's scaring. It's just it's just if you tell them

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01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:16,840
Speaker 2: that from the time that they're little kids, like they

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Speaker 2: just always live their life knowing that their time here

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Speaker 2: is short and that they should not, you know, spend

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01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:26,600
Speaker 2: six hours on TikTok, you know, every day. But I mean,

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01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:31,599
Speaker 2: this is why I have anxiety. Thanks, yeah, one of them.

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01:19:31,640 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 2: Any But this is the thing, Like you're in a

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01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 2: family and and you know old people, so they're going

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01:19:39,320 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 2: to die anyway, Like that's happening no matter what. And

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01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 2: then you have these tragic cases of young people dying

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01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:49,200
Speaker 2: in families, parents dying, siblings dying, and you don't want

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01:19:49,240 --> 01:19:51,639
Speaker 2: your kid to like go down a complete rabbit hole

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01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 2: because they because you've coddled them and kept them away

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01:19:55,320 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 2: from death so much like every human should know that

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01:19:58,720 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 2: death is it's just a part of life. As people

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01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:04,760
Speaker 2: having babies. It's just like it is what it is.

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01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:06,960
Speaker 2: And I think it helps them when like their dog

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01:20:07,080 --> 01:20:09,120
Speaker 2: dies or their cat dies or anything like that. Like

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01:20:09,240 --> 01:20:11,800
Speaker 2: it's just it's something that they should just if you

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01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:14,280
Speaker 2: tell them. From the time they could talk, it's normal

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01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:17,759
Speaker 2: to them. But now the podcast is a different situation

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01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 2: because I feel like I don't talk on this podcast

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01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 2: how I talk to my children, So that's up to you.

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01:20:27,320 --> 01:20:30,960
Speaker 2: Like as far as talking about erections and masturbation and

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01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:33,680
Speaker 2: stuff like that, I don't think kids need to hear

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01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:36,640
Speaker 2: about that kind of stuff. And also some of the

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01:20:36,760 --> 01:20:39,360
Speaker 2: murder cases that we talk about are just and like

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01:20:39,479 --> 01:20:43,240
Speaker 2: child abuse cases and stuff. There's certain things that they

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01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:47,240
Speaker 2: don't need to hear in my opinion, until they get

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01:20:47,320 --> 01:20:49,800
Speaker 2: a little bit older to be able to process that.

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01:20:50,479 --> 01:20:54,960
Speaker 2: So I mean, that's your call as a parent to

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01:20:55,080 --> 01:20:57,920
Speaker 2: make that decision on which age is appropriate for that.

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01:20:58,120 --> 01:21:00,760
Speaker 2: But I mean Maria and I would watched to Catch

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01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:04,400
Speaker 2: a Predator together when she was like ten thirteen. I

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01:21:04,479 --> 01:21:07,439
Speaker 2: don't know if you were ten. You weren't ten. You

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01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:11,479
Speaker 2: definitely were not ten. You were like that really a teenager? Yeah, yeah,

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01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:15,880
Speaker 2: and like that. But that's okay because I think at

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01:21:15,920 --> 01:21:20,400
Speaker 2: that point you got you start learning like, okay, there

1535
01:21:20,479 --> 01:21:22,800
Speaker 2: are people out there like this, and like if you

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01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:27,599
Speaker 2: start getting into that, like they understand more. Kids could

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01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:30,000
Speaker 2: start learning about like true crime and stuff when they're

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01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:33,599
Speaker 2: teenagers and stuff, but it's like if they're if they're

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01:21:33,760 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 2: under ten years old. I just think it's it's even though,

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01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:40,960
Speaker 2: like now, like I tell the kids certain things, but

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01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:44,160
Speaker 2: not everything. They don't. They don't. I tell them enough

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01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:47,240
Speaker 2: so they know that they should protect themselves around adults

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01:21:47,320 --> 01:21:50,320
Speaker 2: and strangers and this and that. But at the same time,

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01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 2: I don't go into graphic details that I would go

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01:21:54,439 --> 01:21:57,760
Speaker 2: to in this podcast. Yeah, I mean, I try to

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01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:00,000
Speaker 2: think about it. I feel like Crime con for example,

1547
01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:04,240
Speaker 2: has like a strict nobody under eighteen policy, and I

1548
01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:06,479
Speaker 2: feel like it's not even because you know, they're really

1549
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:10,560
Speaker 2: respectfully covering the cases and everything, but there's also just

1550
01:22:10,640 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 2: an age in which you have to like understand that,

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01:22:13,760 --> 01:22:15,600
Speaker 2: like a sixteen year old might not be able to

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01:22:15,640 --> 01:22:18,639
Speaker 2: handle a case of a grandmother needing to get cut

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01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:21,160
Speaker 2: out of a mattress because she was so neglected, but

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01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 2: you don't know, it's up to your kid, and you

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01:22:23,120 --> 01:22:26,960
Speaker 2: know your kid the best. Yeah, And it's exactly. I

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01:22:27,080 --> 01:22:30,120
Speaker 2: think that certain kids just they're at different levels of

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01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:31,760
Speaker 2: what they could do. But I don't I don't know,

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01:22:31,920 --> 01:22:34,280
Speaker 2: Like I don't think that the mother knows death is

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01:22:34,320 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 2: a place for any child personally, it's definitely not a

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01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:40,280
Speaker 2: place for children. I think when you're you know, in

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01:22:40,400 --> 01:22:44,160
Speaker 2: your mid to higher teens, that's when you can start comfortably,

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01:22:45,000 --> 01:22:48,920
Speaker 2: you know, sharing the show with your kid exactly, because

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01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 2: also it's explicit, you know, we curse, we talk about

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01:22:51,280 --> 01:22:53,240
Speaker 2: sex stuff too, So you might not want your kid

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01:22:53,320 --> 01:22:55,840
Speaker 2: learning about stuff like that, but you might want your

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01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:58,400
Speaker 2: kid to know about some dumb shit somebody did on

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01:22:58,479 --> 01:23:00,680
Speaker 2: TikTok that they shouldn't have been doing. Yeah, and I do.

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01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 2: I actually I didn't even put that in here because

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01:23:04,400 --> 01:23:06,640
Speaker 2: because it's like this is happening so often. But there

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01:23:06,800 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 2: was a kid, and this is a good example, like

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01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:12,120
Speaker 2: there was some I read a news story this week,

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01:23:12,200 --> 01:23:13,720
Speaker 2: one of the ones we caught out that there was

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01:23:13,760 --> 01:23:17,120
Speaker 2: a TikTok challenge and this kid went to sleepover his

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01:23:17,280 --> 01:23:21,120
Speaker 2: friend's house. He's twelve years old, and they they did

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01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:23,760
Speaker 2: this huffing that was on the TikTok and the kid died.

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01:23:24,280 --> 01:23:27,160
Speaker 2: The twelve year old died, And I sat them down

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01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:29,400
Speaker 2: because they were maybe gonna have a sleepover one of

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01:23:29,439 --> 01:23:32,679
Speaker 2: their friends. Last weekend and like I just was like, listen,

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01:23:33,320 --> 01:23:35,240
Speaker 2: I'm just letting you know because we don't have TikTok

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01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:38,160
Speaker 2: in my house, right, but like other kids have to

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01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:41,400
Speaker 2: TikTok at their house, and I'm just like, this is

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01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:44,360
Speaker 2: just an example of like stuff people are doing on TikTok.

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01:23:44,439 --> 01:23:46,599
Speaker 2: Like these kids were like halfing these cans and then

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01:23:46,600 --> 01:23:48,360
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, like the kid didn't understand what

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01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 2: he was doing, and he died at his friend's house

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01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:53,560
Speaker 2: at a sleepover. So I think it's appropriate to like

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01:23:53,680 --> 01:23:57,400
Speaker 2: bring those things up to children, just but but like

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01:23:58,040 --> 01:23:59,880
Speaker 2: you bring them up when you hear them here, I

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01:24:00,040 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 2: wouldn't let them listen to it, or you could let

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01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,720
Speaker 2: them listen to certain segments like that are that are

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01:24:05,800 --> 01:24:10,160
Speaker 2: more monitored, you know, yeah, exactly, all right. Second, do

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01:24:10,280 --> 01:24:15,280
Speaker 2: you ever video autopsies like cocaine and a stripper's vagina?

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01:24:15,360 --> 01:24:17,559
Speaker 2: I don't know that anything a ten year old needs

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01:24:17,560 --> 01:24:21,639
Speaker 2: to know about. Do I ever video autopsies? I don't personally.

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01:24:21,760 --> 01:24:25,519
Speaker 2: I've been videoed a couple times for educational purposes for

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01:24:25,640 --> 01:24:28,200
Speaker 2: medical students and residents while I'm doing an autopsy. But

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01:24:28,640 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 2: that's it, all right. Last, where did the name momm

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01:24:32,200 --> 01:24:35,120
Speaker 2: come from this person saying that her daughter also calls

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01:24:35,200 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 2: her grandmother mama, but she hasn't heard anybody else use

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01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,960
Speaker 2: it before. Well, when I got pregnant with Maria, when

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01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:43,280
Speaker 2: I was fifteen years old, my mother was thirty eight

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01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 2: years old, and I don't think that she was quite

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01:24:45,280 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 2: ready to be called grandma and my grandmom. We called

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01:24:49,400 --> 01:24:52,280
Speaker 2: both of my grandmom's nanny. I don't know where that

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01:24:52,479 --> 01:24:56,679
Speaker 2: came from, but all of my cousins also call both

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01:24:56,720 --> 01:25:01,439
Speaker 2: of our grandmoms on both sides nanny. So my mom,

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01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:04,280
Speaker 2: I mean, like she was thirty eight, she Nanny's like

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01:25:04,920 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 2: weird old and granny all this, you know. So I

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01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:11,759
Speaker 2: guess that's why she just decided that that sounded like younger.

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01:25:13,200 --> 01:25:16,080
Speaker 2: It's it's just like the difference between a secretary and

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01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:20,000
Speaker 2: an administrative assistant. It's the same dance thing. I always

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01:25:20,120 --> 01:25:22,599
Speaker 2: make a joke that when I have a kid, you'll

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01:25:22,640 --> 01:25:29,040
Speaker 2: be like, hello, baby, my name's Nicole. I'm curious, I'll worry. Well,

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01:25:29,080 --> 01:25:31,360
Speaker 2: I'll worry about that when the time comes. Yeah, you'll

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01:25:31,400 --> 01:25:33,080
Speaker 2: worry about it when the time comes. But I am

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01:25:33,240 --> 01:25:37,240
Speaker 2: curious what you're gonna pick. But I always think it's

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01:25:37,280 --> 01:25:40,400
Speaker 2: just funny. Yeah, I mean it's easier to call her that.

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01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:43,160
Speaker 2: I call both my grandmoms on both side momm but

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01:25:43,280 --> 01:25:46,519
Speaker 2: they were both young, so I think that's understandable. It

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01:25:46,680 --> 01:25:49,599
Speaker 2: is like a more fresh grandma name. Yeah. I remember

1621
01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:52,479
Speaker 2: saying it a lot in school though, and people being like,

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01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:55,200
Speaker 2: who were you talking about? And I'm like, my grandmom.

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01:25:56,400 --> 01:26:00,080
Speaker 2: They're like, well, I just called my grandmom grandmam. Well

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01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:04,240
Speaker 2: everybody's got different names whatever. Yeah, especially I really love

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01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:08,280
Speaker 2: Ricky's cousin Devin. They call her mom honey. I think

1626
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:11,120
Speaker 2: it's so cute. Yeah, that is cute. Yeah, so everybody

1627
01:26:11,160 --> 01:26:13,400
Speaker 2: has their own thing. But I don't know. I think

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01:26:13,439 --> 01:26:15,760
Speaker 2: it's I think it's a cute name. It's perfect for Beth.

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01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:18,800
Speaker 2: We just end up calling her Beth anymore. Why do

1630
01:26:18,920 --> 01:26:22,519
Speaker 2: they call her honey? I don't really know the origin story.

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01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:24,880
Speaker 2: I'm sure they're gonna text me after they listen to this,

1632
01:26:25,080 --> 01:26:26,880
Speaker 2: but I think it's just such a cute name.

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01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:27,240
Speaker 1: It is.

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01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:30,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably like want to go with something like

1635
01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:34,519
Speaker 2: along those lines. Yeah, just something fun and unique, and

1636
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:36,680
Speaker 2: then they always know it's you because I'm always like,

1637
01:26:37,400 --> 01:26:40,519
Speaker 2: because I don't know, we just call mo mom anymore. Well,

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01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:42,599
Speaker 2: we call her Beth b e F because that's how

1639
01:26:42,800 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 2: pop up says her name. But yeah, when you call

1640
01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:48,439
Speaker 2: both of them the same thing, like, how did you

1641
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:52,360
Speaker 2: differentiate between I also call momm kitty and I don't

1642
01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:55,000
Speaker 2: know why. Yeah, I don't know. We all call each

1643
01:26:55,000 --> 01:26:56,880
Speaker 2: other kitty, though, I don't know where that ended up

1644
01:26:56,960 --> 01:27:00,200
Speaker 2: coming from. Yeah, I don't know. My great grandmother, my

1645
01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:03,760
Speaker 2: dad's side's real name was Kitty, So that's kidd music.

1646
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:08,960
Speaker 2: What's her like real name Catherine, And the nickname came

1647
01:27:09,000 --> 01:27:11,920
Speaker 2: out of it was Kitty. Yeah, I mean, that's so

1648
01:27:12,200 --> 01:27:15,360
Speaker 2: like retro, but it's kind of I don't know. I

1649
01:27:15,400 --> 01:27:18,000
Speaker 2: don't know how I feel about it these days modern times.

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01:27:19,560 --> 01:27:21,800
Speaker 2: I don't know. I always think, you know, like really

1651
01:27:21,920 --> 01:27:25,840
Speaker 2: retro names are like, you know, like kitty Bunny is

1652
01:27:25,880 --> 01:27:29,720
Speaker 2: another sixties one that was huge. Yeah, I don't know

1653
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:34,479
Speaker 2: what's that short for. I don't know, Barber or something.

1654
01:27:34,520 --> 01:27:36,400
Speaker 2: I don't know. It had to be Barber or something

1655
01:27:36,439 --> 01:27:38,479
Speaker 2: along those lines, because where else would it come from.

1656
01:27:39,800 --> 01:27:46,479
Speaker 2: Some of the nicknames peej No, that's inside joke, inside jokes.

1657
01:27:46,640 --> 01:27:51,040
Speaker 2: All right. On that note, all right, if you guys

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01:27:51,080 --> 01:27:53,479
Speaker 2: have a shocking story, please submit to stories that Mother

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Speaker 2: knows that dot cob. I promise another episode of six

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Speaker 2: Shocking Stories is coming up with the near future. We're

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01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:00,400
Speaker 2: just trying to wait a little bit because there's so

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01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:02,679
Speaker 2: many news stories that we have to cut each week.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, we'll have some coming up around the holidays

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01:28:04,800 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 2: for sure. Yeah, So enjoy, have a great rest of

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01:28:08,320 --> 01:28:10,040
Speaker 2: your day. We will see you later this week.

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Speaker 3: SYA, thank you for listening to Mother nos Death. As

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Speaker 3: a reminder, my training is as a pathologist's assistant. I

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Speaker 3: have a master's level education and specialize in anatomy and

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Speaker 3: pathology education. I am not a doctor and I have

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Speaker 3: not diagnosed or treated anyone dead or alive without the

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Speaker 3: assistance of a licensed medical doctor. This show, my website,

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Speaker 3: can make healthier decisions regarding their life and well being.

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Speaker 3: Always remember that science is changing every day and the

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Speaker 2: Thanks