WEBVTT - What will define your year?

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>This is Laura. Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>tip is to consider what concept or idea will define

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<v Speaker 1>your upcoming year. In both looking forward and looking backward,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be helpful to think about what will set

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<v Speaker 1>this year apart. I know a lot of people choose

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<v Speaker 1>a word for the year. I generally don't, but I

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<v Speaker 1>understand the appeal. A word can help define a mindset,

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<v Speaker 1>which you can then use as you weigh different choices.

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<v Speaker 1>Perhaps this is the year of saying yes, or the

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<v Speaker 1>year of gratitude, or the year of intentionality. You could

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<v Speaker 1>also define a year by a particular habit you hope

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<v Speaker 1>to start or stop. This is the year you quit smoking,

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<v Speaker 1>or the year you become a runner, or the year

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<v Speaker 1>you learn Spanish. I like this framing because it makes

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<v Speaker 1>a goal, an aim, and a defining experience part of

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<v Speaker 1>your identity rather than a chore. New Year's resolutions occasionally

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<v Speaker 1>feel oppressive, but a theme changes things. If you think

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<v Speaker 1>of the upcoming year as the year you quit smoking,

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<v Speaker 1>then it is not you versus smoking. It's a year

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<v Speaker 1>when a defining experience is the change in your relationship

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<v Speaker 1>to smoking. It takes this to do to a whole

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<v Speaker 1>new level. As for the year you become a runner,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not saying you will run for forty five minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>four times a week at six am. I mean some

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<v Speaker 1>people would do well with that structure, but for other

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<v Speaker 1>people that might not always be feasible in a busy life. Instead,

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<v Speaker 1>what you are saying is that you are envisioning yourself

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<v Speaker 1>at a runner on December thirty first, and behaving in

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<v Speaker 1>accordance with that identity. In the meantime. A runner runs

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<v Speaker 1>regularly because well, she's a runner. She doesn't need to

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<v Speaker 1>beerate herself and give up if she misses a Thursday

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<v Speaker 1>morning run because she is sick or it is raining.

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<v Speaker 1>A runner just goes on another run in a few

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<v Speaker 1>days because she is a runner and that is what

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<v Speaker 1>a runner does. Or maybe instead of a mindset of

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<v Speaker 1>a goal, this framing could suggest that it is the

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<v Speaker 1>year of a particular activity for you. It could be

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<v Speaker 1>the year of dinner parties, the year of calling friends

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<v Speaker 1>on your commute, the year of watching Tom Stoppard's plays.

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<v Speaker 1>Consider an activity that you want to do more of

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<v Speaker 1>and set that as a theme for the year. Or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe these past twelve months have been particularly hard. You

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<v Speaker 1>might decide that this is the year of recuperation or

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<v Speaker 1>rest or getting your feetback under you. When you know

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<v Speaker 1>that is what the year is all about, you have

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<v Speaker 1>a rubric for choosing which opportunities to accept and which

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<v Speaker 1>ones to let pass you by, and for a figuring

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<v Speaker 1>out how you spend your time and shape your days.

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<v Speaker 1>You won't feel guilty for not saying yes to everything,

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<v Speaker 1>because the big yes you are saying this year is

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<v Speaker 1>to recuperation. Not everything fits with that theme. Whatever the

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<v Speaker 1>particular theme for the upcoming year, it can feel clarifying

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<v Speaker 1>to have a focus, and that focus doesn't have to

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<v Speaker 1>be about self improvement, truly, it can be about anything.

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<v Speaker 1>This maybe is the year of having fun. Life can

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<v Speaker 1>feel so busy and time can pass so fast. If

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<v Speaker 1>we aren't intentional about what we want for the year,

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<v Speaker 1>it is easy to find ourselves on December thirty first

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<v Speaker 1>wondering what even happened. So reflect on your hopes for

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<v Speaker 1>the year ahead and consider setting a focus for the year.

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<v Speaker 1>When you know what you want the year to be about,

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<v Speaker 1>you are positioned to make that intention a reality. If

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<v Speaker 1>you decide what will define the year for you. You

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<v Speaker 1>can let me know about it at Laura at Laura

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<v Speaker 1>vandercam dot com. In the meantime, this is Laura. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for listening, and here's to making the most of our time.

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