WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Book Club Snub

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. Most people will tell you you

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<v Speaker 1>can't force true love to happen. Everyone should tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe you can trick love into existence, what you know,

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<v Speaker 1>put your hands on love a little bit, mold it

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<v Speaker 1>a certain way, considering love. Brooke did it when she

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<v Speaker 1>threw herself in front of her husband's car when he

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to leave his work at the TV station.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, and then she was like, well, I could

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<v Speaker 1>sue you, or you could take me out to dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>You could forever find that guy that's uninsured. I'm scared

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<v Speaker 2>of lawsuits.

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<v Speaker 1>And Brook's not the only person who's tried to meddle

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<v Speaker 1>her way into someone's heart. One of our listeners, Kendra,

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<v Speaker 1>says that she ran some interference to get herself a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy. But she says, if we can

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<v Speaker 1>get him to answer, because you know, sometimes people won't,

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<v Speaker 1>but if he does, we are not allowed to tell

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<v Speaker 1>him the real background story. She is willing to tell us, though,

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<v Speaker 1>So let's welcome Kendra to the show. Kendra, how you doing,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm great?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Give us some new ideas? I know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you have some maniacal plan.

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<v Speaker 1>That you had. Yeah, so can we learn the name

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<v Speaker 1>of the guy?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, I mean his name is Jacoby Jacoby.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, how soon into meeting Jacoby, did you know like

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<v Speaker 4>I need to know this guy, he needs to be

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<v Speaker 4>with me.

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<v Speaker 3>It was instant. I was shopping at Target and there

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<v Speaker 3>was this park when I saw him, so I casually

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<v Speaker 3>sort of followed him through the stores he was shopping,

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<v Speaker 3>and he just street and I feel like you weren't.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if for some reason I see you

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<v Speaker 2>slipping from.

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<v Speaker 1>I picture like giggling coming from behind the.

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<v Speaker 2>Hiding in the middle of a clothes rack.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, and then I was fine him on. I went

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<v Speaker 3>to check out and I was able to justly see

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<v Speaker 3>his credit card when he put it into the machine,

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<v Speaker 3>and I saw his name.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh say number.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I saw his name and he didn't see me,

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<v Speaker 3>and he left the store.

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<v Speaker 1>And wait, you didn't say hi to him?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I was just memorized his name.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh well, Jacoby said, Jacoby's probably amazing even I remembered it, said.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do with his name?

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<v Speaker 5>Then?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I went to social media.

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously you can find someone just by Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I love how you act like you've never tried to

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<v Speaker 1>look someone up on social media before.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but someone that have already met, not someone I've

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<v Speaker 2>never talked. If you know what they look like and

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<v Speaker 2>you see the profile pick too.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you able to find him, Kendra? Yes, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>God, you have a private detector in this in your future.

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<v Speaker 1>You were able to like learn anything about him from it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Well I was able to determined from the social

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<v Speaker 3>media that he was single.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay. How do you end up like actually getting

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<v Speaker 1>in contact with the guy. When does that happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? I didn't actually reach out to him right then,

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<v Speaker 3>but I did find his mom's Facebook.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, oh, you're deep in this?

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<v Speaker 6>That a hotter brother?

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it just seemed like it would be more natural

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<v Speaker 3>if there was a different way that I was introduced.

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<v Speaker 2>Huh, dude, you're gonna DM his mom.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, it turns out that his mom is in a

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<v Speaker 3>book club that's in my area.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, so okay, and I love to read, So I

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<v Speaker 6>sent a request to the book club to see if

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<v Speaker 6>I could join.

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<v Speaker 4>Goodness, it's just you and a bunch of sixty year

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<v Speaker 4>old women and among club.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I went to the book club up and we

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<v Speaker 3>started up a conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>And organically obviously, well.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and she was really nice and she thought I

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<v Speaker 3>was really sweet and charming. So you know, I just

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<v Speaker 3>happened to mention that I was single, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>there are no good single guys out there.

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<v Speaker 4>And you know, that's the literally the opening for any

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<v Speaker 4>mom to then introduce the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Which reminds me, Barbara, do you have any children? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the bait's been cast. So what did what did the

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<v Speaker 1>mom say?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, she asked me for my phone number that you

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<v Speaker 3>could pass on to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, it's such a mom thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Dude, if you found this out, if you found out

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<v Speaker 4>a woman with this far to meet.

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<v Speaker 2>You, would you be complimented or creeped out?

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<v Speaker 1>This is the type of thing you don't actually tell

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<v Speaker 1>them until you're into your like twentieth anniversary. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>now you've given your phone number to this guy's mom,

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<v Speaker 1>and does he reach out to you? I'm guessing Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>A couple of days later, I got a he.

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<v Speaker 1>Must have a good relationship with his mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Then his mom had a picture of her from Facebook,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>So were you able to get a date out of it?

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<v Speaker 3>I did?

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<v Speaker 4>He did that?

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<v Speaker 3>He asked me on a date, so it worked.

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<v Speaker 1>Give us a nutshell of how the date went.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a real casual date. We went and had

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<v Speaker 3>coffee and you know, I made sure it was cute.

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<v Speaker 3>We actually started talking about our respective dating histories, and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lot over coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean we were talking about specifics, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>Just he said he's been in love with two people

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<v Speaker 3>in his life.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, what did you say to his two loves?

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<v Speaker 3>I told him the truth. I don't think I've ever

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<v Speaker 3>been in love.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh I feel like that would be a good answer

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<v Speaker 4>it men take it as a challenge, wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 2>You tried me?

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<v Speaker 3>So?

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<v Speaker 1>At no point during this coffee date did it ever

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<v Speaker 1>come up like the real way that you met him?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, it did not.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so how did it day?

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<v Speaker 3>And oh it was just very natural, normal feeling date.

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<v Speaker 3>And it gave me a nice, thick hug.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you see his mom at book club?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she's kind of alienating me farther away.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, for sh talk, nothing's worse than book club drama. Yikes. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>according to your email, that date happened about a week ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're going to come back and try and call

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<v Speaker 1>Jacoby here for you. And remember, we can't tell him

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<v Speaker 1>anything about how she actually got this to happen, so

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<v Speaker 1>we just talk about the date.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I think that that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>We're just going to talk about his two true loves

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<v Speaker 1>when we come back and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 2>We got enough to come.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll do it right after this. Hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>This is one of the most interesting dating stories that

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<v Speaker 1>we've heard in a while about how someone gets together.

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<v Speaker 1>And just try to follow me on this. So girl

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<v Speaker 1>sees cute guy at Target, follows him to the register,

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<v Speaker 1>sees his name on his credit card, takes it home,

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<v Speaker 1>and finds his social media determines he's single. Each step

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<v Speaker 1>is a little This is where it takes a turn.

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<v Speaker 1>Connects with his mom, joins her local book club, befriends her,

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<v Speaker 1>and casually mentions that she can't find any good single

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<v Speaker 1>men anywhere these days.

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<v Speaker 2>It does.

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<v Speaker 4>It does kind of read like the start of a

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<v Speaker 4>horror film, single white female.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing, But the next thing you know, she's on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with target boy himself, an in depth discussion about

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<v Speaker 1>true love.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it's wild because now not only is he

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<v Speaker 4>not calling her back, but his mother is also avoiding

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<v Speaker 4>her at the book clubs.

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<v Speaker 1>Something happened. It's crazy, and we have to take all

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<v Speaker 1>of that information and put it to the side, forget it.

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<v Speaker 1>We can not talk about any of it. Kendra has

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<v Speaker 1>specifically asked not to bring it up. If we're able

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<v Speaker 1>to get Jacoby on the.

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<v Speaker 4>Phone, there's some good stuff to talk about still, though,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, Kendra, are you worried that he's somehow found

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<v Speaker 4>out everything that Jeffrey just said?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, there's just no no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she's hiding underneath his desk at work, right.

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<v Speaker 1>He hasn't mentioned it once, so he has no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's give him a call, though, and hopefully we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>a reason or see if there is a reason why

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<v Speaker 1>he's not calling you back for date number two. But

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. I'm dialing his number right now. He Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Jacoby?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't Hey Jacoby? We found Yeah, we're a radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, Hello, We're

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<v Speaker 1>really excited to talk to you. Man.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh man, you don't even.

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<v Speaker 7>Know all right, I'm not I'm not too familiar with

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<v Speaker 7>the show radio station.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's okay. Sorry, we're we're doing something called the

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<v Speaker 1>second Date Update, and one of our listeners has asked

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<v Speaker 1>us to reach out to you to try and figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if we can get you on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with her, because you've already gone out with her once.

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<v Speaker 1>Her name's Kendra.

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<v Speaker 7>Ken Kendra. Yeah, I know Kendra.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, you guys went to coffee together.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I've kind of set you guys up.

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<v Speaker 7>It is weird. How do you guys know all this question?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, she told us about it, at least a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of it, not like every single detail, but she

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<v Speaker 1>said that you.

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<v Speaker 2>She met your mom at their book club.

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<v Speaker 7>This is true.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she said there was a really nice coffee date.

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<v Speaker 1>You had a nice conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we were.

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<v Speaker 7>It was a nice time. But okay, well I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 7>where is this going?

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<v Speaker 1>Like we're trying to help her figure out, like why

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<v Speaker 1>a second date hasn't happened, Like, how do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>about Kendra?

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<v Speaker 5>She's cool?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, did you have a plan to call her and

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<v Speaker 2>ask her out again?

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<v Speaker 8>Uh?

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<v Speaker 7>This is very awkward.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't.

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<v Speaker 7>That It's okay, Okay, hold on, hold on, It's not bad, guys.

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<v Speaker 7>It's not like it's not a bad thing. It's just

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<v Speaker 7>I don't see it long term.

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<v Speaker 2>How can you tell in one coffee day? I mean

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<v Speaker 2>it feels like you would need more than that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well made you say that?

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<v Speaker 7>So she is not really big on love. She actually

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<v Speaker 7>told me she's never been in love before at all,

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<v Speaker 7>like ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it doesn't mean she's not big on love. It

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<v Speaker 4>just means that she's never been in the right relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, is that how she said it?

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<v Speaker 6>She said I don't like love.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh no, no, no, she didn't say she don't like it.

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<v Speaker 7>She says she's never been in love ever, like in

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<v Speaker 7>her life.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, not everybody has understood understood.

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<v Speaker 7>But here's my mindset. I want to set her down.

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<v Speaker 7>I want one person to be committed to like that,

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<v Speaker 7>like my person. And it does concern me, and it

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<v Speaker 7>does worry me that maybe the reason why she hasn't

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<v Speaker 7>found love is that maybe she doesn't want it at all,

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<v Speaker 7>like it's not wanted, and maybe she's still probably playing

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<v Speaker 7>in the field. I'm not sure, but it does.

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<v Speaker 8>It does raise my eyebrow.

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<v Speaker 7>It does raise it.

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<v Speaker 4>I thought you were going to say, like you didn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to be your first love because first love is

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<v Speaker 4>so chaotic and rash and.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So okay, well this so now you're not even willing

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<v Speaker 1>to give her a second date. That's where your stance

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<v Speaker 1>is on her.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not sure she's ready for a commitment.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>You, not upset you whoa, whoa, whoa whoa hold on, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>sorry to uh kind of spring this on you here, Jacobe.

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<v Speaker 1>But Kenja has been listening to this conversation on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line quietly the other times. Well, no, which I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta unlike her.

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<v Speaker 6>So I cannot even believe this.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you're questioning my commitment and you don't even know

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<v Speaker 3>what I went through to meet you.

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<v Speaker 6>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>You mean?

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<v Speaker 6>I saw you in Target?

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<v Speaker 3>There was something special about you. I mean the way.

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<v Speaker 6>You put your stuff in the cards, and you were

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<v Speaker 6>special when.

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<v Speaker 7>You meet No, no, no, no, no you you must have had

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<v Speaker 7>it mistaken, like you met my mom at a book club.

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<v Speaker 7>You didn't meet me at Target.

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<v Speaker 3>That was not an accident.

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<v Speaker 8>I I followed you to the register, and I saw

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<v Speaker 8>your name on your credit cards, and I went to

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<v Speaker 8>social media.

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<v Speaker 7>And wait wait wait, whoa, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 6>Just Kobe, you're gonna listen to me? And I found

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<v Speaker 6>your mom. And I found out that she was in

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<v Speaker 6>a book club right around the corner from my house,

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<v Speaker 6>so I asked it joined the book club.

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<v Speaker 5>But that process and I went to the foot clubs

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<v Speaker 5>and I met your darling mother and wait, dadding and

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<v Speaker 5>she no, I'm not gonna wait.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, okay, process.

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<v Speaker 6>Mother, do you know how many recipes that woman has

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<v Speaker 6>for chickens? And I said, so happens, I'm single? She said, oh,

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<v Speaker 6>you're and charming.

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<v Speaker 3>I have I have a single.

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<v Speaker 7>Fun No, no, no, I'm done. I'm not. I'm not listening

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<v Speaker 7>to anymore of this. I don't need to hear any

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<v Speaker 7>more of this.

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<v Speaker 1>So is this is this the kind of stable woman

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<v Speaker 1>that you've been looking for? You at this entire time?

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<v Speaker 7>You know what I'm gonna I'm gonna committed.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, were maybe a little right. We had no

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<v Speaker 2>idea that that was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 5>Shut up, you knew exactly what was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>You told us not to mention.

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<v Speaker 3>You knew.

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<v Speaker 8>No, no, no, no, this is okay.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't I don't know what crazy we call that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Jo, I think you're being a little bit too

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<v Speaker 1>harsh on the woman that just realized that she loves you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh God, you shadowed her cold, cold heart, and after

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<v Speaker 1>years of not finding any love, she finally found it.

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<v Speaker 8>Sarcastic, don't you know I had to look to find

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<v Speaker 8>all of your stuff, Jacoby?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Kendra, I think you you've proven your commitment.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he gets the point. Why don't you take

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<v Speaker 1>a breath for a second and just let us talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Jacoby a little bit.

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<v Speaker 6>But I tell you what, Honey, your oil needs to

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<v Speaker 6>be changed.

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<v Speaker 5>That snick is passed.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's an analogy, but I'm s no, it's

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<v Speaker 4>right on his car window.

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<v Speaker 3>What is going on?

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<v Speaker 2>We don't know anymore, Jacoby, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 6>I regret supporting this at the beginning.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god, like no, no, if anything, I feel

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<v Speaker 7>like I've dodged a bullet, and the.

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<v Speaker 1>Only Kobe this bullet isn't able to be dodged. Even

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<v Speaker 1>though it's not Valentine's Day, it's going straight for the heart.

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<v Speaker 2>There's normally bullets on Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Want to upgrade and get with the time on you.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to ask Jacoby if you would like

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<v Speaker 1>to see Kendrick one more time?

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<v Speaker 2>You couldn't even say that with a straight face, whether

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<v Speaker 2>you say yes or no.

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<v Speaker 1>She would love to hang out again and unpack all

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<v Speaker 1>of this information face to face, and we would pay

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<v Speaker 1>for that meet up.

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<v Speaker 8>You guys give like gift cars for straining orders. I'll

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<v Speaker 8>do that that I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would do.

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<v Speaker 2>Department should look.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we do have a gift car to the

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<v Speaker 1>subway across from the courthouse, so that would get you

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<v Speaker 1>pretty close if you meet Kendra there. No, I mean answer,

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<v Speaker 1>oh answered.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I'm not I'm not doing this.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not hang up and yeah, I did not see

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<v Speaker 1>that coming. Okay, if love doesn't work after this, then

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it.

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<v Speaker 4>Ever, if you need the audio for your case, just

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<v Speaker 4>go to our podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>When y'all could just.

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<v Speaker 3>Drop the sarcasm and your podcast stuck.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a point, so she is committed to that,

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<v Speaker 1>to hating our podcast. So I stand by here brooking

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning. I mean, that call did not

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<v Speaker 1>go quite how we want to.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like the second time in a couple of

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<v Speaker 2>weeks that I feel bad.

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<v Speaker 1>You feel bad about helping people.

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<v Speaker 2>The other person. I'm like, we had no idea what

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<v Speaker 2>we're dealing there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I will say we did hold up our end

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<v Speaker 1>of the agreement, though we didn't tell him the truth

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<v Speaker 1>of how they met. She offered that up all by herself.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>I like, how.

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<v Speaker 1>Rude to him that I am committed.

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<v Speaker 2>I started with what if he knows? And she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no way he could ever find out? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>terrible secret keeper.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt like another ten seconds, Jose would have been

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<v Speaker 1>the one to let it slide, but nope, we stayed strong.

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<v Speaker 1>You did it and you can't end this on us.

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<v Speaker 1>And for that, I'm giving everybody in the room a

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<v Speaker 1>gold star for the day and for the record, I

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<v Speaker 1>said it under my breath like a million times.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you ever want to get a second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>I promise you we can do a better job than this.

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to go to that book club with

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<v Speaker 2>the mom. Didn't hear all the ladies gossip about what

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<v Speaker 2>just happened.

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<v Speaker 1>You're already part of a book club. I know another

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<v Speaker 1>email the show. If you ever need help though with

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<v Speaker 1>your dating life, We'll call that person who's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back and check out all of our second dates

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<v Speaker 1>on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get

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<v Speaker 1>yours

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<v Speaker 2>Freaking Jeffrey in the morning,