Speaker 1: Second date, up date. Most people will tell you you
Speaker 1: can't force true love to happen. Everyone should tell you,
Speaker 1: but maybe you can trick love into existence, what you know,
Speaker 1: put your hands on love a little bit, mold it
Speaker 1: a certain way, considering love. Brooke did it when she
Speaker 1: threw herself in front of her husband's car when he
Speaker 1: was trying to leave his work at the TV station.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, and then she was like, well, I could
Speaker 1: sue you, or you could take me out to dinner.
Speaker 2: You could forever find that guy that's uninsured. I'm scared
Speaker 2: of lawsuits.
Speaker 1: And Brook's not the only person who's tried to meddle
Speaker 1: her way into someone's heart. One of our listeners, Kendra,
Speaker 1: says that she ran some interference to get herself a
Speaker 1: date with a guy. But she says, if we can
Speaker 1: get him to answer, because you know, sometimes people won't,
Speaker 1: but if he does, we are not allowed to tell
Speaker 1: him the real background story. She is willing to tell us, though,
Speaker 1: So let's welcome Kendra to the show. Kendra, how you doing,
Speaker 1: I'm great?
Speaker 3: How are you guys?
Speaker 2: Give us some new ideas? I know, I feel like
Speaker 2: you have some maniacal plan.
Speaker 1: That you had. Yeah, so can we learn the name
Speaker 1: of the guy?
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I mean his name is Jacoby Jacoby.
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: Okay, how soon into meeting Jacoby, did you know like
Speaker 4: I need to know this guy, he needs to be
Speaker 4: with me.
Speaker 3: It was instant. I was shopping at Target and there
Speaker 3: was this park when I saw him, so I casually
Speaker 3: sort of followed him through the stores he was shopping,
Speaker 3: and he just street and I feel like you weren't.
Speaker 2: I don't know if for some reason I see you
Speaker 2: slipping from.
Speaker 1: I picture like giggling coming from behind the.
Speaker 2: Hiding in the middle of a clothes rack.
Speaker 3: Yes, and then I was fine him on. I went
Speaker 3: to check out and I was able to justly see
Speaker 3: his credit card when he put it into the machine,
Speaker 3: and I saw his name.
Speaker 2: Oh say number.
Speaker 3: No, I saw his name and he didn't see me,
Speaker 3: and he left the store.
Speaker 1: And wait, you didn't say hi to him?
Speaker 3: No, I was just memorized his name.
Speaker 4: Oh well, Jacoby said, Jacoby's probably amazing even I remembered it, said.
Speaker 1: What do you do with his name?
Speaker 5: Then?
Speaker 3: Well, I went to social media.
Speaker 2: Obviously you can find someone just by Wow.
Speaker 1: I love how you act like you've never tried to
Speaker 1: look someone up on social media before.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but someone that have already met, not someone I've
Speaker 2: never talked. If you know what they look like and
Speaker 2: you see the profile pick too.
Speaker 1: Were you able to find him, Kendra? Yes, okay, okay.
Speaker 2: God, you have a private detector in this in your future.
Speaker 1: You were able to like learn anything about him from it?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Well I was able to determined from the social
Speaker 3: media that he was single.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay. How do you end up like actually getting
Speaker 1: in contact with the guy. When does that happen?
Speaker 3: Well? I didn't actually reach out to him right then,
Speaker 3: but I did find his mom's Facebook.
Speaker 2: Oh, oh, you're deep in this?
Speaker 6: That a hotter brother?
Speaker 1: Why would you?
Speaker 3: Well, it just seemed like it would be more natural
Speaker 3: if there was a different way that I was introduced.
Speaker 2: Huh, dude, you're gonna DM his mom.
Speaker 3: Well, it turns out that his mom is in a
Speaker 3: book club that's in my area.
Speaker 6: Okay, so okay, and I love to read, So I
Speaker 6: sent a request to the book club to see if
Speaker 6: I could join.
Speaker 4: Goodness, it's just you and a bunch of sixty year
Speaker 4: old women and among club.
Speaker 3: Yeah. I went to the book club up and we
Speaker 3: started up a conversation.
Speaker 2: And organically obviously, well.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and she was really nice and she thought I
Speaker 3: was really sweet and charming. So you know, I just
Speaker 3: happened to mention that I was single, and you know,
Speaker 3: there are no good single guys out there.
Speaker 4: And you know, that's the literally the opening for any
Speaker 4: mom to then introduce the guy.
Speaker 1: Which reminds me, Barbara, do you have any children? Yeah,
Speaker 1: the bait's been cast. So what did what did the
Speaker 1: mom say?
Speaker 3: Well, she asked me for my phone number that you
Speaker 3: could pass on to him.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, it's such a mom thing.
Speaker 4: Dude, if you found this out, if you found out
Speaker 4: a woman with this far to meet.
Speaker 2: You, would you be complimented or creeped out?
Speaker 1: This is the type of thing you don't actually tell
Speaker 1: them until you're into your like twentieth anniversary. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: now you've given your phone number to this guy's mom,
Speaker 1: and does he reach out to you? I'm guessing Yeah.
Speaker 3: A couple of days later, I got a he.
Speaker 1: Must have a good relationship with his mom.
Speaker 2: Then his mom had a picture of her from Facebook,
Speaker 2: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: So were you able to get a date out of it?
Speaker 3: I did?
Speaker 4: He did that?
Speaker 3: He asked me on a date, so it worked.
Speaker 1: Give us a nutshell of how the date went.
Speaker 3: It was a real casual date. We went and had
Speaker 3: coffee and you know, I made sure it was cute.
Speaker 3: We actually started talking about our respective dating histories, and.
Speaker 2: That's a lot over coffee.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean we were talking about specifics, you know.
Speaker 3: Just he said he's been in love with two people
Speaker 3: in his life.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, what did you say to his two loves?
Speaker 3: I told him the truth. I don't think I've ever
Speaker 3: been in love.
Speaker 4: Oh I feel like that would be a good answer
Speaker 4: it men take it as a challenge, wouldn't.
Speaker 2: You tried me?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 1: At no point during this coffee date did it ever
Speaker 1: come up like the real way that you met him?
Speaker 3: No, no, it did not.
Speaker 1: All right, so how did it day?
Speaker 3: And oh it was just very natural, normal feeling date.
Speaker 3: And it gave me a nice, thick hug.
Speaker 2: Have you see his mom at book club?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she's kind of alienating me farther away.
Speaker 1: Mean, for sh talk, nothing's worse than book club drama. Yikes. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: according to your email, that date happened about a week ago.
Speaker 1: So we're going to come back and try and call
Speaker 1: Jacoby here for you. And remember, we can't tell him
Speaker 1: anything about how she actually got this to happen, so
Speaker 1: we just talk about the date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's fine. I think that that's fine.
Speaker 1: We're just going to talk about his two true loves
Speaker 1: when we come back and get your second date update.
Speaker 2: We got enough to come.
Speaker 1: I'll do it right after this. Hold on second date update.
Speaker 1: This is one of the most interesting dating stories that
Speaker 1: we've heard in a while about how someone gets together.
Speaker 1: And just try to follow me on this. So girl
Speaker 1: sees cute guy at Target, follows him to the register,
Speaker 1: sees his name on his credit card, takes it home,
Speaker 1: and finds his social media determines he's single. Each step
Speaker 1: is a little This is where it takes a turn.
Speaker 1: Connects with his mom, joins her local book club, befriends her,
Speaker 1: and casually mentions that she can't find any good single
Speaker 1: men anywhere these days.
Speaker 2: It does.
Speaker 4: It does kind of read like the start of a
Speaker 4: horror film, single white female.
Speaker 1: Thing, But the next thing you know, she's on a
Speaker 1: date with target boy himself, an in depth discussion about
Speaker 1: true love.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's wild because now not only is he
Speaker 4: not calling her back, but his mother is also avoiding
Speaker 4: her at the book clubs.
Speaker 1: Something happened. It's crazy, and we have to take all
Speaker 1: of that information and put it to the side, forget it.
Speaker 1: We can not talk about any of it. Kendra has
Speaker 1: specifically asked not to bring it up. If we're able
Speaker 1: to get Jacoby on the.
Speaker 4: Phone, there's some good stuff to talk about still, though,
Speaker 4: you know, Kendra, are you worried that he's somehow found
Speaker 4: out everything that Jeffrey just said?
Speaker 3: No, no, there's just no no, no.
Speaker 1: I guess she's hiding underneath his desk at work, right.
Speaker 1: He hasn't mentioned it once, so he has no idea.
Speaker 1: Let's give him a call, though, and hopefully we'll get
Speaker 1: a reason or see if there is a reason why
Speaker 1: he's not calling you back for date number two. But
Speaker 1: here we go. I'm dialing his number right now. He Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Jacoby?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Didn't Hey Jacoby? We found Yeah, we're a radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, Hello, We're
Speaker 1: really excited to talk to you. Man.
Speaker 2: Oh man, you don't even.
Speaker 7: Know all right, I'm not I'm not too familiar with
Speaker 7: the show radio station.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's okay. Sorry, we're we're doing something called the
Speaker 1: second Date Update, and one of our listeners has asked
Speaker 1: us to reach out to you to try and figure
Speaker 1: out if we can get you on a second date
Speaker 1: with her, because you've already gone out with her once.
Speaker 1: Her name's Kendra.
Speaker 7: Ken Kendra. Yeah, I know Kendra.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, you guys went to coffee together.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've kind of set you guys up.
Speaker 7: It is weird. How do you guys know all this question?
Speaker 1: Well, she told us about it, at least a little
Speaker 1: bit of it, not like every single detail, but she
Speaker 1: said that you.
Speaker 2: She met your mom at their book club.
Speaker 7: This is true.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she said there was a really nice coffee date.
Speaker 1: You had a nice conversation.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we were.
Speaker 7: It was a nice time. But okay, well I'm sorry,
Speaker 7: where is this going?
Speaker 1: Like we're trying to help her figure out, like why
Speaker 1: a second date hasn't happened, Like, how do you feel
Speaker 1: about Kendra?
Speaker 5: She's cool?
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you have a plan to call her and
Speaker 2: ask her out again?
Speaker 8: Uh?
Speaker 7: This is very awkward.
Speaker 5: I don't.
Speaker 7: That It's okay, Okay, hold on, hold on, It's not bad, guys.
Speaker 7: It's not like it's not a bad thing. It's just
Speaker 7: I don't see it long term.
Speaker 2: How can you tell in one coffee day? I mean
Speaker 2: it feels like you would need more than that.
Speaker 1: Well made you say that?
Speaker 7: So she is not really big on love. She actually
Speaker 7: told me she's never been in love before at all,
Speaker 7: like ever.
Speaker 4: Okay, it doesn't mean she's not big on love. It
Speaker 4: just means that she's never been in the right relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that how she said it?
Speaker 6: She said I don't like love.
Speaker 7: Oh no, no, no, she didn't say she don't like it.
Speaker 7: She says she's never been in love ever, like in
Speaker 7: her life.
Speaker 1: Well, not everybody has understood understood.
Speaker 7: But here's my mindset. I want to set her down.
Speaker 7: I want one person to be committed to like that,
Speaker 7: like my person. And it does concern me, and it
Speaker 7: does worry me that maybe the reason why she hasn't
Speaker 7: found love is that maybe she doesn't want it at all,
Speaker 7: like it's not wanted, and maybe she's still probably playing
Speaker 7: in the field. I'm not sure, but it does.
Speaker 8: It does raise my eyebrow.
Speaker 7: It does raise it.
Speaker 4: I thought you were going to say, like you didn't
Speaker 4: want to be your first love because first love is
Speaker 4: so chaotic and rash and.
Speaker 2: That's true, you know.
Speaker 1: So okay, well this so now you're not even willing
Speaker 1: to give her a second date. That's where your stance
Speaker 1: is on her.
Speaker 7: I'm not sure she's ready for a commitment.
Speaker 5: I'm not.
Speaker 1: You, not upset you whoa, whoa, whoa whoa hold on, hey,
Speaker 1: sorry to uh kind of spring this on you here, Jacobe.
Speaker 1: But Kenja has been listening to this conversation on the
Speaker 1: other line quietly the other times. Well, no, which I
Speaker 1: gotta unlike her.
Speaker 6: So I cannot even believe this.
Speaker 3: Okay, you're questioning my commitment and you don't even know
Speaker 3: what I went through to meet you.
Speaker 6: What do you mean?
Speaker 3: You mean?
Speaker 6: I saw you in Target?
Speaker 3: There was something special about you. I mean the way.
Speaker 6: You put your stuff in the cards, and you were
Speaker 6: special when.
Speaker 7: You meet No, no, no, no, no you you must have had
Speaker 7: it mistaken, like you met my mom at a book club.
Speaker 7: You didn't meet me at Target.
Speaker 3: That was not an accident.
Speaker 8: I I followed you to the register, and I saw
Speaker 8: your name on your credit cards, and I went to
Speaker 8: social media.
Speaker 7: And wait wait wait, whoa, no, no, no.
Speaker 6: Just Kobe, you're gonna listen to me? And I found
Speaker 6: your mom. And I found out that she was in
Speaker 6: a book club right around the corner from my house,
Speaker 6: so I asked it joined the book club.
Speaker 5: But that process and I went to the foot clubs
Speaker 5: and I met your darling mother and wait, dadding and
Speaker 5: she no, I'm not gonna wait.
Speaker 4: Listen, okay, process.
Speaker 6: Mother, do you know how many recipes that woman has
Speaker 6: for chickens? And I said, so happens, I'm single? She said, oh,
Speaker 6: you're and charming.
Speaker 3: I have I have a single.
Speaker 7: Fun No, no, no, I'm done. I'm not. I'm not listening
Speaker 7: to anymore of this. I don't need to hear any
Speaker 7: more of this.
Speaker 1: So is this is this the kind of stable woman
Speaker 1: that you've been looking for? You at this entire time?
Speaker 7: You know what I'm gonna I'm gonna committed.
Speaker 2: I know, were maybe a little right. We had no
Speaker 2: idea that that was going to happen.
Speaker 5: Shut up, you knew exactly what was going to happen.
Speaker 1: You told us not to mention.
Speaker 3: You knew.
Speaker 8: No, no, no, no, this is okay.
Speaker 7: I don't I don't know what crazy we call that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Jo, I think you're being a little bit too
Speaker 1: harsh on the woman that just realized that she loves you.
Speaker 1: Oh God, you shadowed her cold, cold heart, and after
Speaker 1: years of not finding any love, she finally found it.
Speaker 8: Sarcastic, don't you know I had to look to find
Speaker 8: all of your stuff, Jacoby?
Speaker 1: You know, Kendra, I think you you've proven your commitment.
Speaker 1: I think he gets the point. Why don't you take
Speaker 1: a breath for a second and just let us talk
Speaker 1: to Jacoby a little bit.
Speaker 6: But I tell you what, Honey, your oil needs to
Speaker 6: be changed.
Speaker 5: That snick is passed.
Speaker 4: I think it's an analogy, but I'm s no, it's
Speaker 4: right on his car window.
Speaker 3: What is going on?
Speaker 2: We don't know anymore, Jacoby, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 6: I regret supporting this at the beginning.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, like no, no, if anything, I feel
Speaker 7: like I've dodged a bullet, and the.
Speaker 1: Only Kobe this bullet isn't able to be dodged. Even
Speaker 1: though it's not Valentine's Day, it's going straight for the heart.
Speaker 2: There's normally bullets on Valentine's Day.
Speaker 1: Want to upgrade and get with the time on you.
Speaker 2: I'm concerned.
Speaker 1: I just need to ask Jacoby if you would like
Speaker 1: to see Kendrick one more time?
Speaker 2: You couldn't even say that with a straight face, whether
Speaker 2: you say yes or no.
Speaker 1: She would love to hang out again and unpack all
Speaker 1: of this information face to face, and we would pay
Speaker 1: for that meet up.
Speaker 8: You guys give like gift cars for straining orders. I'll
Speaker 8: do that that I.
Speaker 1: Would do.
Speaker 2: Department should look.
Speaker 1: I think we do have a gift car to the
Speaker 1: subway across from the courthouse, so that would get you
Speaker 1: pretty close if you meet Kendra there. No, I mean answer,
Speaker 1: oh answered.
Speaker 7: No, I'm not I'm not doing this.
Speaker 1: I'm not hang up and yeah, I did not see
Speaker 1: that coming. Okay, if love doesn't work after this, then
Speaker 1: I don't know how it.
Speaker 4: Ever, if you need the audio for your case, just
Speaker 4: go to our podcast.
Speaker 1: When y'all could just.
Speaker 3: Drop the sarcasm and your podcast stuck.
Speaker 1: She has a point, so she is committed to that,
Speaker 1: to hating our podcast. So I stand by here brooking
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning. I mean, that call did not
Speaker 1: go quite how we want to.
Speaker 2: This is like the second time in a couple of
Speaker 2: weeks that I feel bad.
Speaker 1: You feel bad about helping people.
Speaker 2: The other person. I'm like, we had no idea what
Speaker 2: we're dealing there.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I will say we did hold up our end
Speaker 1: of the agreement, though we didn't tell him the truth
Speaker 1: of how they met. She offered that up all by herself.
Speaker 1: I know.
Speaker 2: I like, how.
Speaker 1: Rude to him that I am committed.
Speaker 2: I started with what if he knows? And she's like,
Speaker 2: there's no way he could ever find out? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: terrible secret keeper.
Speaker 1: I felt like another ten seconds, Jose would have been
Speaker 1: the one to let it slide, but nope, we stayed strong.
Speaker 1: You did it and you can't end this on us.
Speaker 1: And for that, I'm giving everybody in the room a
Speaker 1: gold star for the day and for the record, I
Speaker 1: said it under my breath like a million times.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: But if you ever want to get a second day update,
Speaker 1: I promise you we can do a better job than this.
Speaker 2: I just want to go to that book club with
Speaker 2: the mom. Didn't hear all the ladies gossip about what
Speaker 2: just happened.
Speaker 1: You're already part of a book club. I know another
Speaker 1: email the show. If you ever need help though with
Speaker 1: your dating life, We'll call that person who's not calling
Speaker 1: you back and check out all of our second dates
Speaker 1: on our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey wherever you get
Speaker 1: yours
Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning,