WEBVTT - Miss Dorinda Medley

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<v Speaker 1>Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi my friend.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm so excited, me too. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe that we've never crossed paths.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we My producer and I were just talking about

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<v Speaker 2>this because in my mind, I'm like, no, we're friends.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, and then she's like, when's the

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<v Speaker 2>last time you saw Deranda? And I was like, the

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<v Speaker 2>lines blur because I watch her on TV. I'm a

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<v Speaker 2>big fan, and I was like, I can't remember. We

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<v Speaker 2>stop it. We've never met in person.

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<v Speaker 1>God, I was gonna say this because I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>would sound weird, but I thought we'd met before too,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, yeah, and then you couldn't place it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we have met.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't imagine.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we are finally, So this is this is great.

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<v Speaker 1>This is very exciting for me. You know, you are

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<v Speaker 1>part of my history. Oh my gosh, you're a friend

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<v Speaker 1>of my historyan Hannahs and you know we've we've we

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<v Speaker 1>all grew up with you and your family. So this

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<v Speaker 1>is real good great.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my goodness. Well I adore you. I loved you

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<v Speaker 2>on Real Housewives of New York and I'm just going

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you right now. I am such a fan

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<v Speaker 2>that when the og cast was gone, I was gone, Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, it's a you know, it's a touchy situation.

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<v Speaker 1>I never liked that. Listen. I think it's hard. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always hard when they try, don't you find, even with

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<v Speaker 1>these series, when they replace people and put a new

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<v Speaker 1>person or try to, you know, remake this, you can

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<v Speaker 1>never replace nostalgia, you know, nostalgia. I would say it

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<v Speaker 1>about New York City. I you know, New York City

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<v Speaker 1>is going through a rough time right now, but for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm living in nostalgia. So nostalgia will always be the

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<v Speaker 1>New York City that I've lived in twenty years. And

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<v Speaker 1>he can't replace that, right, And I think it's comforting.

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<v Speaker 1>It's comforting. People grow up with you, they have references

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<v Speaker 1>they you know, and more than ever, God knows we

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<v Speaker 1>need comfort right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, right, I'm sorry to hear about your family home.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh thank you, yeah, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was one.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm shocking. I literally found out on I was watching

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<v Speaker 2>like some news thing on my phone. We were all

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<v Speaker 2>locked into our phones trying to figure out what was

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<v Speaker 2>going on, and I was like, well, cost a beach.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, that's my family's beach. And then I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so I found out there and I texted my mom

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<v Speaker 2>like is this true, and like yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, it just goes to show you. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it really puts these times and our lives

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<v Speaker 1>put things in perspective. We worry so much about stuff, stuff, stuff, stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>and one day it's all gone and you just got

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<v Speaker 1>to keep on moving, right. I mean, it's heartbreaking, but

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<v Speaker 1>really that's the truth of it. It's just stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so true. Going back to Real Housewives and the

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<v Speaker 2>OJ like, I just got to say, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel I'm in the same boat with you, just because

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<v Speaker 2>you know, there was the original nine O two and

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<v Speaker 2>oh and god bless c W did we were Beverly

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<v Speaker 2>Hills nine O two and oh. In two thousand and

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<v Speaker 2>nine they did c w's nine O two and oh

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<v Speaker 2>whole new cast and it was a great show, but

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<v Speaker 2>it wasn't nine O two and oh.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's you had to take it that And I

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<v Speaker 3>think when you start off like they did and you

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<v Speaker 3>just say, okay, season thirteen it's these girls, and then

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<v Speaker 3>season thirteen they're gone and this now you don't love

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<v Speaker 3>these girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the audience gets very confused, and then there's

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<v Speaker 1>this bizarre sense of loyalty that people you just lose.

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<v Speaker 1>You may even it goes far to say you may

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<v Speaker 1>get people that just make a decision. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to I don't want the new I know I do

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<v Speaker 1>that in my life, like when something a new ownership

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<v Speaker 1>of a restaurant or they changed, I'm like, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go there anymore. It's sort of a

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<v Speaker 1>human reaction. And I always said, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope I don't get in trouble when I say this,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, it would have been really because these

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<v Speaker 1>girls are the new New York. I mean they are

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that girl looks like anymore. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just turned sixty, and you know, the New York that

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<v Speaker 1>they're raising their children in and working and doing that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it should have been called something more like the

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<v Speaker 1>Girls of New York or the Girlfriends of New York

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<v Speaker 1>or the something, because then I think it really would

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<v Speaker 1>have allowed more of an easy jump. You know, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a big jump from those girls. I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>even a big jump for me to join it sixth season.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I came in you know, halfway through the

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<v Speaker 1>seasons and you know, those grinds very established.

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<v Speaker 2>I was hesitant to accept you because I'd been a

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<v Speaker 2>fan from season one.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know, I had to lake up because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew I knew all these girls for like one

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<v Speaker 1>hundred years. When we know each other's kids and we

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<v Speaker 1>live I don't know if you know the Upper East Side,

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<v Speaker 1>but we need to live on the Upper East Sides,

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<v Speaker 1>like these are the people in your neighborhood. So we

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<v Speaker 1>really were, you know, all connected, and so I think

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<v Speaker 1>it made it easier for them and made it easier

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<v Speaker 1>for the audience because we had the connective tissue, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't know any signs. I know Burke Dwarfs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's right. I know. You know what my model

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<v Speaker 1>is in life, toy, I will go to dinner with

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<v Speaker 1>you before five o'clock above Burkedorfs. After five o'clock. Do

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<v Speaker 1>not invite me to anything past Burgdorf Goodman. I refuse.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's fast Burgdorff Goodman, I do not go that.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. I need to find that version in

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<v Speaker 2>la I just don't go out. I have five kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying it's unbelievable. You have five kids, Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>My gosh, except for single now. So I guess I

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<v Speaker 2>got to start going out again. I got to recreate

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<v Speaker 2>myself at fifty one.

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<v Speaker 1>Do Yeah, that's the thing, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean you unfortunately went through having to start over again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I mean how old are your kids?

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<v Speaker 2>Seventeen, sixteen, thirteen, twelve and seven.

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<v Speaker 1>That's crazy, Tori.

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<v Speaker 2>Derenda. Yes, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you have one that's on the leg out

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<v Speaker 1>and still one that are very little.

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<v Speaker 2>They're never leaving, none of minor leaving. And if I

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<v Speaker 2>beg them too, No, I'm kidding. I'm that mom. That's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want to compound one day so we can

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<v Speaker 2>all have like properties. I agree to live together.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know that's why I love I always have

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<v Speaker 1>that fantasy about keeping bluestone manner forever, because I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I can build a house for Hannah, and because I

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<v Speaker 1>have eighteen acres and we can just you know, Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. If I don't know if Hannah has

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<v Speaker 1>that fantasy, that's where the glitch goes.

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<v Speaker 2>How old is Hannah now?

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<v Speaker 1>She's thirty one, but she's at back at school she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna PhD so you know you can't. You know, she's

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<v Speaker 1>God knows her hand. It's gonna end up. I'll probably

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<v Speaker 1>end up in some condo outside of Palm Beach or

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<v Speaker 1>something like with all the other all the other New Yorkers.

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<v Speaker 2>Not something sexy though we are you dating?

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't been dating. I've tried. I haven't been dating

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<v Speaker 1>lately because I've been so busy and so disinterested. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what it is I want to want to date.

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make sense? I want to dance and date.

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<v Speaker 1>I love people. I don't have any bad feelings towards men.

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<v Speaker 1>My experiences with both my partner's husbands, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>very good. I just think what happens is well. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, I think when you when you get you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, it just turns sixty. Yeah, your tolerance

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<v Speaker 1>goes down like we used to be, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just bullshit. Not that I was ever overly tolerant, and

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<v Speaker 1>also too, I think because I became so fiercely independent

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<v Speaker 1>after Richard passed that and created this really fun world

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<v Speaker 1>like I have a fun free world that really I

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<v Speaker 1>come and go as I please, like I am a

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<v Speaker 1>lone wolf and I managed to seek out these other

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<v Speaker 1>people that I've known for twenty or thirty years, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>either gotten divorced or just been part of my life

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<v Speaker 1>or our partnered and we're kind of a gang. And

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<v Speaker 1>we vacation together. And that's maybe not a good thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because sometimes when you're too comfortable and too happy, you

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<v Speaker 1>do two things. You don't seek out food and you

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<v Speaker 1>gain weight. You know, a hungry animal is a successful animal.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, comfortable and happy sounds good to me. Have you

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<v Speaker 2>ever gotten in one of those dating apps?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I have. I was on what's the one called?

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<v Speaker 1>I was on for the.

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<v Speaker 2>League that talk to me.

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<v Speaker 1>The league is a good one. The league is like

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<v Speaker 1>the LinkedIn of of dating apps. It's a little more curated,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're they're very like, you know, career type, like

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<v Speaker 1>a LinkedIn I tried. I applied to Raya like a

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<v Speaker 1>year ago. I have every recommendation in the world, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still on a wait list.

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<v Speaker 2>What I know. Let me talk to somebody about this.

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<v Speaker 2>This is ridiculous. We could swipe together, yeah, exactly, And

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<v Speaker 2>I say, no, not everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>It's someone the other night said I should go on Hinge.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't like how would someone like you or

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<v Speaker 1>me go on a hinge like I just that that's

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<v Speaker 1>a page six article.

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<v Speaker 2>Which is why Riah is supposed to be. It's so

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<v Speaker 2>secretive and I don't know the dating apps. I'm I

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<v Speaker 2>was married for eighteen years, together for twenty like there

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<v Speaker 2>weren't dating app and then when I had single friends,

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<v Speaker 2>I had so much fun. I'd be like swiping for them, yes, no,

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<v Speaker 2>great grade. It was all fun and games because it

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<v Speaker 2>was their shit right. And now people are like, you

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<v Speaker 2>got to get on dating apps. I'm like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to. No, I don't want like I don't come

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<v Speaker 2>from that generation. I guess where you meet somebody online?

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<v Speaker 2>And I don't know. I don't judge anybody that does it.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this when I do put in the effort,

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<v Speaker 1>and I do put the word out because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I you know it does I do start dating,

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<v Speaker 1>Like dating for me is not. I don't find dating like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't meet people, you can't do that. It's so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's always people to me. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>have to have an openness, you know, but that just

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<v Speaker 1>life takes over. You get busy, you're I'm sort of here,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the Berkshires, I travel, I get focused on Hannah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get focused on work. I have elderly parents, and

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<v Speaker 1>I just life sort of takes up a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>my space. So I'm not I am making excuses. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>if I to be honest with you, I would like

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<v Speaker 1>in twenty twenty five to prioritize it. But I think

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<v Speaker 1>I have to literally prioritize it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I'm feeling a show here. Should we call Bravo?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? No, But thinking about it, I said to my

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<v Speaker 1>friend Greg last night, I'm going to make sure that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in the city Tuesday, Wednesdays and Thursday nights, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to start meeting new people and accepting dates

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm always like, oh, I ninety around Wednesday, will

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<v Speaker 1>and won't be there next Thursday. You know, people get

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<v Speaker 1>this interested. So I'm just going to focus on being

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<v Speaker 1>in the city, committed to it, not just for that,

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<v Speaker 1>but just for life. Because when you're always all over

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<v Speaker 1>the place, people are like, oh, she's probably up in

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<v Speaker 1>the Berkshers. Oh she's probably you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>So I can find one in the city, one in

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<v Speaker 2>the Berkshires.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about the Berksches. You know, I'm sort of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I've never been. I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>It's sort of like the woman on the hill. I

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<v Speaker 1>think people are afraid to come to my gate. And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what if I had, if I started dating

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<v Speaker 1>in the Berkshires, it would be the talk of my

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<v Speaker 1>town and my parents would not have I I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>twelve in my parents' eyes, so they still trenda sincla.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny because I was on the phone. Ryan's

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<v Speaker 1>on right now, my my agent, and I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the car with him, and he's so used to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Derenda, you know, running around doing New York, and

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<v Speaker 1>my mother called that. I put on a speakerphone and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it changed his whole attitude with it, because

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<v Speaker 1>they're like, now, God bless you. Now be careful out

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<v Speaker 1>there in La your father and I love you. We

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<v Speaker 1>were working. You know, someone thinks of me, someone that

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<v Speaker 1>has this caretaker like that, because it's in their eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still little.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that, and you're the cariage taker. But you

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<v Speaker 2>need we all need someone that takes care of us. Still, wait,

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<v Speaker 2>would you date down? No, Down's not the right word.

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<v Speaker 2>Age shut down, younger.

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<v Speaker 1>Not so much. I don't want to date someone so

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<v Speaker 1>much younger, like fifty, oh fifty, I do fifty, but

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<v Speaker 1>not like forty. I went up.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I went out forty five, forty eight McCalla day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah maybe that, Yeah, okay, you went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>People or not. I would date a little older because

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<v Speaker 1>I make care a little bit older. But you know

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<v Speaker 1>what my mother always said about dating older man. When

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<v Speaker 1>you marry an old man, you get an older man. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean my my soon to be ex husband is

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<v Speaker 2>eight years older than me. No, It's fine when we

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<v Speaker 2>first were together, but now I'm looking at him, he

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<v Speaker 2>looks great, but I'm like, now he's older.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, how young would you date?

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<v Speaker 2>I get it, this is bizarre, but I guess this

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<v Speaker 2>is a thing. Now I get hit on by like

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<v Speaker 2>young guys. Oh that is now like twenty five to

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<v Speaker 2>early thirties. And I'm like, when are they looking for

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<v Speaker 2>a mommy? It like it's I don't know, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>people are like, oh that's the thing. Yeah. I'm like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>don't you know things they don't know what they're doing

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<v Speaker 2>at that age, they don't know what they want, like

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<v Speaker 2>uh huh. So I would say forty and over.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I went out for a teeny dwy a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit with someone in their thirties. I wasn't very

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<v Speaker 1>vocal about it, but I'm talking like a couple of days,

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<v Speaker 1>and it is a very big especially when you have

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<v Speaker 1>a child that is starting to fall much. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's too much life that you have. And I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think short term it's fun, it's probably long term

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't be sustainable. You know, I'm too much of

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<v Speaker 1>a grown up. Like I'm a dense grown.

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<v Speaker 2>Up, right, but you're a fun grown up.

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<v Speaker 1>I have fun, but you know I don't. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot going on. I've seen a lot, I've done

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, and I don't really suffer fools very well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. And I don't want to teach,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't want to teach anymore. Like the teaching

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<v Speaker 1>phase of my life is ended.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh teaching?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, no, they don't really when you're that young,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still good. But have a lot of patience for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're right. Well, you just taught me a lot

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<v Speaker 2>about dating right now. I wasn't even going to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you about that, but okay, can we talk traders now?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? Go ahead. How disappointing. Huh oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So here's the thing. I hadn't watched it, but

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<v Speaker 2>I started watching it to see you and then you

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<v Speaker 2>were gone. So but then, sorry to say, I fell

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<v Speaker 2>in love with the show. Now I'm like a faithful fan.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's a great show.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't reat show and I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a great show regardless of me being on it

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<v Speaker 1>or not. And it's just so sad. I feel so

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<v Speaker 1>sad that I because I was very excited to you know, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I had planned for I had the close like you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't believe, you know, to not be part of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and just the comaradity of it. You know what it's

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<v Speaker 1>like when you're filming with people and just being in Scotland,

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<v Speaker 1>be in that situation. So I believe me, I cried

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<v Speaker 1>about it for weeks. You can talk to Ryan. I

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<v Speaker 1>was heartbroken because it is such a fun experience and

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<v Speaker 1>when are you going to be able to do that again?

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<v Speaker 2>You're not, So can you talk me through the process,

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<v Speaker 2>because I kind of would love to be on it

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<v Speaker 2>one day. Uh So you get a call, you get

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<v Speaker 2>to offer you fly to Scotland. Do you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know anyone that's going to be there. Nothing was

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<v Speaker 2>anyone on your flight that you're like.

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<v Speaker 1>Everyone comes in at different times. Oh okay, and once

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<v Speaker 1>you're there, you're It starts the minute you land, but

0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:39.640
<v Speaker 1>you're you're in that world and you do that. For

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<v Speaker 1>anyone that says you know or you're privy, just stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not true. You're not privy to anything. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what makes the show so beautiful is

0:16:47.640 --> 0:16:50.600
<v Speaker 1>that they're able to keep that the integrity of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Even when I got murdered and had to go home,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't allowed to Like I had to really slither home,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went right up to the Berkshires and went

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<v Speaker 1>off grid because I wasn't allowed to post. I was

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<v Speaker 1>at allowed to do anything because remember they had announced

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<v Speaker 1>the cast, So for the remaining time, I had to

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<v Speaker 1>stay completely under the radar, Like I didn't even want

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<v Speaker 1>to go How long until the show ended filming?

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<v Speaker 2>Like how long is that?

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<v Speaker 1>That?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, Like, not only were you murder and

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<v Speaker 2>eliminated from the show, but then you can't even go

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram? What uh?

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<v Speaker 1>This way? I didn't go to a restaurant. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go to Instagram. I didn't go I didn't do anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I literally went to the Berkshires and stayed like low

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<v Speaker 1>key and if I because you got to, which I

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<v Speaker 1>think probably makes it harder for people because they announced

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<v Speaker 1>the cast that David started filming. So honestly, if they

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<v Speaker 1>see me in New York City at La Galou having

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<v Speaker 1>dinner on a Wednesday night, it's not these fans are

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<v Speaker 1>They're like they figure things out in two seconds.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, hello Reddit, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly, Hello, read it exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>So my friend Pedro Parks was on it and she

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<v Speaker 2>told me like she went into it with a mood

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<v Speaker 2>board and all the fashion. She's like, I had no

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<v Speaker 2>idea what I'd have to do that. I'd be like.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, they did ask me like can you swim?

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, why do I need to swim?

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<v Speaker 2>She's like so yeah, So like how many outfits did

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<v Speaker 2>you bring?

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<v Speaker 1>I brought about? Well, I brought more than needed, but

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<v Speaker 1>I brought about I mean, I broke out. I lived

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<v Speaker 1>in London ten years. So when I lived in London,

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<v Speaker 1>I had the best stuff, like the best. I had

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<v Speaker 1>the original Alexander McQueen stuff, a ton of Vivian Weissman.

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<v Speaker 1>I brought all my old alayah. I bought some of

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<v Speaker 1>the stuff from the Hunting company that you know they

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<v Speaker 1>had like those great jackets parties, you know, the outdoor

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<v Speaker 1>kind of clothing company I had.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you hear me drooling over the microphone?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, all my beautiful, beautiful kill I had. I

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<v Speaker 1>had a Libertine jacket that I never wore that was

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<v Speaker 1>to the floor long jacket that all like a beautiful

0:19:02.080 --> 0:19:08.239
<v Speaker 1>trench that yeah, I mean you pack to dress and

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<v Speaker 1>I literally got to wear that one. Two outfits my

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<v Speaker 1>outfits alone were I mean, I have all the pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm going to put up an instagram of

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<v Speaker 1>all the euphans you.

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<v Speaker 2>I was about to say, people want to see that

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<v Speaker 2>you have to all the outfits that were planned.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know, and then I read. I studied, I've

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<v Speaker 1>told as I said on the Tonight Show the other night,

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<v Speaker 1>I read the Art of War. I studied. I did

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah help me write out things and strategies and situations

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<v Speaker 1>and sayings I had. I went through a whole role

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<v Speaker 1>of type dress, taping everything to my wall in my

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<v Speaker 1>bedroom and literally like four days later, a month taping it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, wait what is that when they do

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<v Speaker 2>the things like like a stakeout it, yes, with the

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<v Speaker 2>pins pins, Oh my god, what is it?

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<v Speaker 1>Really? I really felt that that. I think to like

0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:04.920
<v Speaker 1>spend time with the other players, because you know, when

0:20:04.960 --> 0:20:07.600
<v Speaker 1>you're you're even when you're filming. You can film, but

0:20:07.640 --> 0:20:09.760
<v Speaker 1>you're not you're not hanging out afterwards. As soon as

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<v Speaker 1>you're done filming, you go back to your rooms.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, there's no hanging out. I mean not that

0:20:15.520 --> 0:20:17.800
<v Speaker 1>I knew of because I wasn't there, but they're pretty

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<v Speaker 1>strict about that too.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, so no, like socializing in from of the like

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<v Speaker 2>amazing fireplace in the library, and like having a content.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't know because I left so early,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, I just think they built of comaradity

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<v Speaker 1>that you you know how it is, even when you

0:20:32.560 --> 0:20:35.080
<v Speaker 1>film something or you do anything, you walk away with

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<v Speaker 1>it with the comaradities that no one else understands. And

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I missed out on that too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the gaming, that's time I was dying to sit around

0:20:42.840 --> 0:20:44.400
<v Speaker 1>the round table. I think I would have been very

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<v Speaker 1>good around the round table.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, were you hoping to be a trader.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh. I was open to whatever they were going to do,

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<v Speaker 1>but I thought they would have made me a trader.

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<v Speaker 1>I was surprised when I wasn't made a trader, but

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<v Speaker 1>I I was open to either. I think that might

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<v Speaker 1>have lasted a little longer if I was a trader.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. You know, it's such a different thing

0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:09.840
<v Speaker 1>than filming for Housewives or just filming in general. It's

0:21:09.880 --> 0:21:12.720
<v Speaker 1>a it's a whole different game because it's it's a

0:21:12.800 --> 0:21:17.680
<v Speaker 1>game of chance. It's like there's no real rule book,

0:21:17.720 --> 0:21:20.920
<v Speaker 1>which you think, you know, if someone decides they want

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<v Speaker 1>you gone, you're gone.

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't feel fair because when I started watching it,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, it's like a game of chess,

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<v Speaker 2>like in life. It is very good at life chess.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like hmm, But then yeah, it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody should do it once. You should do you

0:21:38.680 --> 0:21:42.119
<v Speaker 1>should do it. It's it's a really beautiful experience. Like

0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:46.919
<v Speaker 1>I truly felt bad when I went home. I was demastating,

0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:48.080
<v Speaker 1>ging me feel bad again.

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<v Speaker 2>No, oh my god, do you don't want to talk

0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:51.840
<v Speaker 2>about anymore. I have a few more questions though, oka

0:22:01.280 --> 0:22:07.040
<v Speaker 2>do you feel like they were like, oh, the real housewise, okay, getting.

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<v Speaker 1>The mass and I don't I think, I mean, it

0:22:08.800 --> 0:22:11.119
<v Speaker 1>was so early on, no one even at that point,

0:22:11.119 --> 0:22:13.040
<v Speaker 1>no one really we didn't even really have a chance

0:22:13.080 --> 0:22:15.959
<v Speaker 1>to get to uh, you know, know each other. So

0:22:16.040 --> 0:22:21.000
<v Speaker 1>obviously there was something. You can't blame them, because the

0:22:21.000 --> 0:22:22.879
<v Speaker 1>whole point is that you try to get rid of

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<v Speaker 1>the people that you think are going to be a

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<v Speaker 1>threat or strong And let's face that, I'm a strong character, right,

0:22:28.160 --> 0:22:33.400
<v Speaker 1>so it's this it's a terrible compliment in some ways.

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<v Speaker 2>Like do you think you would have gone home that

0:22:35.600 --> 0:22:38.760
<v Speaker 2>night if you hadn't gotten fired up? Was it in

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<v Speaker 2>the kitchen?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe? I think that I just I don't I think

0:22:44.400 --> 0:22:48.159
<v Speaker 1>that who knows, maybe, But I think I'm just a

0:22:48.200 --> 0:22:51.320
<v Speaker 1>strong character. I think that you have to be much more,

0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:54.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, I think when you're under the radar. And

0:22:54.760 --> 0:22:56.800
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing about the housewives, going back to the question,

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<v Speaker 1>they really are characters.

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<v Speaker 2>Their standouts mm hm.

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:03.399
<v Speaker 1>And they are buddy but you know they are definitely

0:23:03.400 --> 0:23:07.040
<v Speaker 1>they hang out together and they're definitely more. There's more

0:23:07.119 --> 0:23:10.840
<v Speaker 1>commodity with them and stuff. So you look at you know,

0:23:10.880 --> 0:23:12.919
<v Speaker 1>it was me and then who was second?

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<v Speaker 2>Thebai I didn't feel like she was a threat. Now

0:23:20.000 --> 0:23:22.480
<v Speaker 2>she's pretty to look at, but I didn't and then drop.

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<v Speaker 1>And so left right now and the Housewives is just

0:23:25.680 --> 0:23:31.119
<v Speaker 1>Dolores mm hmm. But she trust she's very good. Doris

0:23:31.200 --> 0:23:33.560
<v Speaker 1>is like a good theilers is very good at keeping

0:23:33.560 --> 0:23:38.040
<v Speaker 1>her her cards. Trust she'll be I think she'll be good.

0:23:38.080 --> 0:23:39.199
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, we don't know.

0:23:42.119 --> 0:23:44.040
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you have theories. We don't know.

0:23:44.440 --> 0:23:47.440
<v Speaker 1>I have theories, but no one's called. No. I'm telling you.

0:23:47.080 --> 0:23:50.240
<v Speaker 1>They keep the intake and it's fine. And I don't

0:23:50.280 --> 0:23:52.720
<v Speaker 1>ask because you know, are.

0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:54.200
<v Speaker 2>A scandabal still there.

0:23:55.680 --> 0:23:57.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't know. I haven't caught up cripp out.

0:23:57.760 --> 0:23:58.840
<v Speaker 2>Why didn't they take him out?

0:24:01.760 --> 0:24:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Well, because it's not really.

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:09.440
<v Speaker 2>He's not really a threat, right, No, no, no, after

0:24:09.520 --> 0:24:11.200
<v Speaker 2>everything that happened, that's the thing, like.

0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:17.880
<v Speaker 1>Who's the threat? Who is? It doesn't But if you're yeah,

0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:21.000
<v Speaker 1>so you know, that's that's it. But I have to say,

0:24:21.040 --> 0:24:23.199
<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna get murdered, be the first one to

0:24:23.280 --> 0:24:25.560
<v Speaker 1>get murdered, because you get a lot of attention, so

0:24:25.600 --> 0:24:27.640
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna do it, be the first one.

0:24:28.720 --> 0:24:31.480
<v Speaker 2>I mean, that's like when I did Dancing with the Stars,

0:24:31.600 --> 0:24:34.679
<v Speaker 2>I was like, what eliminated first? And then everyone's like,

0:24:34.760 --> 0:24:38.760
<v Speaker 2>but wait, you know there still up to me, and

0:24:39.040 --> 0:24:41.760
<v Speaker 2>did you love it? I loved it? Oh my god.

0:24:42.800 --> 0:24:44.720
<v Speaker 2>I never wanted to do it because I was so

0:24:44.760 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 2>scared of performing in front of live audience sorry my

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 2>dog's barking live audience on TV. I was like, oh

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:56.359
<v Speaker 2>my gosh, and dancing like I feel like I'm I

0:24:56.359 --> 0:24:59.320
<v Speaker 2>can I can only to move. I'm not great with choreography,

0:24:59.400 --> 0:25:02.959
<v Speaker 2>but I can style like nobody's business. But yeah, I

0:25:03.000 --> 0:25:04.760
<v Speaker 2>got in there and I gave it my all. When

0:25:04.760 --> 0:25:09.000
<v Speaker 2>I commit, I commit, and I learned so much about

0:25:09.000 --> 0:25:12.919
<v Speaker 2>myself and I was having such a great time and

0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:15.800
<v Speaker 2>then just like that, gone and everyone still says you

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:16.439
<v Speaker 2>were robbed.

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you were just quick. But you know what a great.

0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:21.080
<v Speaker 2>Randa Medley you were robbed.

0:25:20.880 --> 0:25:23.120
<v Speaker 1>Again, Like I would love to it would be great

0:25:23.160 --> 0:25:25.280
<v Speaker 1>just to do it, because what a great experience, and

0:25:25.320 --> 0:25:25.960
<v Speaker 1>all did.

0:25:25.800 --> 0:25:30.200
<v Speaker 2>You get a great experience I did? I was like,

0:25:30.480 --> 0:25:32.359
<v Speaker 2>and I don't work out. I haven't worked out since

0:25:32.440 --> 0:25:35.520
<v Speaker 2>like the nineties. And I was like, wow, I got

0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:39.480
<v Speaker 2>some muscle memory because my muscles came back just like that.

0:25:39.800 --> 0:25:42.080
<v Speaker 2>And then I was gone and it went away just

0:25:42.240 --> 0:25:42.480
<v Speaker 2>like that.

0:25:43.359 --> 0:25:45.679
<v Speaker 1>It's like Erica Jaye right now, her body's like this

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:49.720
<v Speaker 1>because she's been doing all the dancing. Dancing is the

0:25:49.760 --> 0:25:50.520
<v Speaker 1>best thing.

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:55.280
<v Speaker 2>And it gives you joy. I found there's something about it.

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:57.480
<v Speaker 1>That just I don't want to do it just for

0:25:57.600 --> 0:25:59.520
<v Speaker 1>doing those workouts and stuff like that.

0:26:00.000 --> 0:26:01.600
<v Speaker 2>You should do it. You should do it.

0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:04.280
<v Speaker 1>I would love to do it. I used to teach aerobic,

0:26:04.400 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>so I got the whole beat thing down. But that's

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>what I really want to try to push to do

0:26:07.680 --> 0:26:09.080
<v Speaker 1>next is Dancing with the Stars.

0:26:09.320 --> 0:26:12.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, you got the Olivia Newton John thing down.

0:26:12.560 --> 0:26:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I was like a little step and everything else.

0:26:15.080 --> 0:26:17.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. I'd love to see you in leg warmers.

0:26:17.600 --> 0:26:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I oh I have them.

0:26:18.800 --> 0:26:20.440
<v Speaker 2>But you know what I got to tell you, no

0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:23.960
<v Speaker 2>one's talking about anybody else on that show except for you.

0:26:24.080 --> 0:26:28.400
<v Speaker 2>So I'm sorry your time was cut short. But people

0:26:28.440 --> 0:26:32.400
<v Speaker 2>are still talking about still devastated by it. So that's

0:26:32.480 --> 0:26:35.800
<v Speaker 2>the good news, right, good news. I know you wanted

0:26:35.800 --> 0:26:37.439
<v Speaker 2>to play the game. You were there to play.

0:26:37.880 --> 0:26:43.160
<v Speaker 1>I really was, and I'd be good at it.

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:46.600
<v Speaker 2>It doesn't have a Trader's All Stars.

0:26:45.080 --> 0:26:50.200
<v Speaker 1>They should, Yeah, they should have a Traders All Star

0:26:50.280 --> 0:26:52.720
<v Speaker 1>and bringing back the best. I mean, Phedro was just

0:26:52.800 --> 0:26:56.920
<v Speaker 1>incredible on the show. Should I said to someone the

0:26:57.000 --> 0:27:00.840
<v Speaker 1>other day, Phaedri should never not be on TV. She's

0:27:00.920 --> 0:27:02.240
<v Speaker 1>just TV gold.

0:27:02.680 --> 0:27:09.840
<v Speaker 2>She really is. She's life gold. Like I loved wing

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:13.000
<v Speaker 2>on Dancing with the Stars. We would gosh on the

0:27:13.400 --> 0:27:15.960
<v Speaker 2>downtime and even coming back for the final we would

0:27:15.960 --> 0:27:19.240
<v Speaker 2>sit there and nobody gossips like Vaedor and it's been

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:19.960
<v Speaker 2>in a good way.

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:23.160
<v Speaker 1>She did the Ultimate Girls Troop two of Bluestone Manor

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:26.000
<v Speaker 1>at my house, so she was up there for that.

0:27:26.520 --> 0:27:28.240
<v Speaker 1>What this is a couple of years ago and she

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:32.560
<v Speaker 1>was just amazing. It was just amazing. Did you she

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:33.880
<v Speaker 1>did stay in the shark room?

0:27:34.040 --> 0:27:34.520
<v Speaker 2>She did?

0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:36.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes, she loved it.

0:27:36.119 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 2>Why does no one want to want to stay in

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:38.560
<v Speaker 2>the shark room?

0:27:38.920 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 1>I think she loved it.

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:48.240
<v Speaker 2>I would love it. Yes, Oh my gosh, tony rooms.

0:27:48.440 --> 0:27:50.400
<v Speaker 2>Well there is bedrooms.

0:27:50.560 --> 0:27:52.399
<v Speaker 1>Oh bedrooms. There's one, two, three.

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:54.600
<v Speaker 2>I have a motive here. I'm asking for a reason.

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:59.360
<v Speaker 1>Do three, four, five, six like seventh?

0:28:00.160 --> 0:28:02.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh great, so all my kids and I could come.

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:05.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they go. It's an eighteen acres so they can

0:28:06.480 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 1>wander away and never be in trouble. It's beautiful. I

0:28:11.200 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 1>love it. I don't go this time of year as

0:28:13.160 --> 0:28:16.919
<v Speaker 1>much because you know, and I have my I have

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:19.960
<v Speaker 1>my brother's staying there right now. So just because it's like,

0:28:20.000 --> 0:28:21.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, you kind of need someone to stay in

0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:24.000
<v Speaker 1>the house and those type of things. But it's cold.

0:28:24.119 --> 0:28:26.760
<v Speaker 1>I'll start going against her the next month. I like

0:28:26.880 --> 0:28:30.240
<v Speaker 1>being in New York January February because it's kind of easy.

0:28:30.359 --> 0:28:32.440
<v Speaker 1>It's easy to look what it's cold.

0:28:33.440 --> 0:28:35.720
<v Speaker 2>I just got home from New York last night.

0:28:36.200 --> 0:28:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Really I did, oh wow, you then you you don't

0:28:40.480 --> 0:28:44.040
<v Speaker 1>know cool? Oh no, it's been very it's been a

0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:47.280
<v Speaker 1>very cold and daunting. It's been a daunting winter.

0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:51.080
<v Speaker 2>Listen, I don't know how you packed for Scotland. I

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:53.160
<v Speaker 2>don't know if you had steamer trunks because I just

0:28:53.200 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 2>picture that with you or something. But I mean just

0:28:56.800 --> 0:29:02.360
<v Speaker 2>me going for like five days. The coats I brought,

0:29:02.560 --> 0:29:06.080
<v Speaker 2>what's the thing? I knew, but I had to keep

0:29:06.080 --> 0:29:08.800
<v Speaker 2>doing a wardrobe change like midday just to feel like

0:29:08.840 --> 0:29:12.400
<v Speaker 2>I used them, and then packing them. You can't. It's

0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:15.040
<v Speaker 2>you can't roll them. You know. Everyone's like the packing rule.

0:29:15.160 --> 0:29:18.080
<v Speaker 2>That's what we do in LA. It's like New York, like.

0:29:18.160 --> 0:29:20.880
<v Speaker 1>No, No, I think I had like four or five

0:29:20.880 --> 0:29:26.160
<v Speaker 1>suitcases for Scotland, big ones, like big because you have

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>to because you you really have to layer there because

0:29:29.440 --> 0:29:32.320
<v Speaker 1>June is a funny month. So my first husband was

0:29:32.320 --> 0:29:35.480
<v Speaker 1>scot is Scottish, so I went to Scotland a lot

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:37.959
<v Speaker 1>when I was when we lived in London. We used

0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:40.880
<v Speaker 1>to go like every weekend. And the thing about June

0:29:41.040 --> 0:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>is it can be super warm in the morning and

0:29:44.360 --> 0:29:46.280
<v Speaker 1>forty five in the afternoon. Mm hm.

0:29:47.080 --> 0:29:51.320
<v Speaker 2>My soon to be exis Scottish as well. And I'd

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:53.840
<v Speaker 2>been there. Yeah, I had blood sausage.

0:29:54.240 --> 0:29:58.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I say, yeah there. Dare I say I

0:29:58.480 --> 0:29:59.440
<v Speaker 1>did have it once to.

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:04.120
<v Speaker 2>Anghi Hagis and I had haggis had at all.

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you have to try it once if you go

0:30:07.080 --> 0:30:08.520
<v Speaker 1>to Scotland, but once only.

0:30:08.720 --> 0:30:11.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I can say that stuff the right of passage

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:16.440
<v Speaker 2>if you're there, Wait blue so bluestone manner. You've put it,

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:21.520
<v Speaker 2>You've had girl trips there everyone on TV. But would

0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 2>you ever do it as like an Airbnb experience exclusive experience?

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:32.600
<v Speaker 1>Well I did. I did a collab with Airbnb for

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 1>two one night's stays. If they put it on for

0:30:35.520 --> 0:30:38.680
<v Speaker 1>a uh you know, it was like a collaborations with

0:30:38.720 --> 0:30:42.000
<v Speaker 1>AIRBB at one hundred and seventy seven thousand people applied

0:30:42.000 --> 0:30:46.600
<v Speaker 1>to it. They crashed their site because you know, blue

0:30:46.600 --> 0:30:49.760
<v Speaker 1>Stone Matters become like the Disney of Bravo. So when

0:30:49.760 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I when I'm home up there on.

0:30:52.160 --> 0:30:53.800
<v Speaker 2>The way seek Disney and Bravo.

0:30:54.080 --> 0:30:56.920
<v Speaker 1>Yep. Literally, people are like, come to my gate and

0:30:57.000 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 1>just sit there and look up at that. Luckily, it's

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:01.440
<v Speaker 1>kind of there's a gate you have to go up

0:31:01.480 --> 0:31:03.320
<v Speaker 1>and up and up, so it's a little bit protected

0:31:03.400 --> 0:31:06.600
<v Speaker 1>like that. But yeah, and you know, we're working on

0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:09.760
<v Speaker 1>getting a show up and going about it. Hopefully that's

0:31:09.800 --> 0:31:11.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna be in the work soon.

0:31:12.720 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 2>Oh that would be great. Pump's gonna be so jealous.

0:31:18.360 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 1>I think, like Savander Pump does pretty well for ourselves. Well.

0:31:22.600 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 1>Worried about a little older Riddo Medley.

0:31:26.600 --> 0:31:29.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah boy, Okay, I'm gonna go back to the Real

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:31.360
<v Speaker 2>Housewives for one more second.

0:31:31.760 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, go ahead, I'm here for you.

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:36.440
<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, and maybe this is something I don't know.

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:40.040
<v Speaker 2>Have you been on the show, the new one?

0:31:40.440 --> 0:31:42.320
<v Speaker 1>Yes, no, they don't.

0:31:42.360 --> 0:31:45.360
<v Speaker 2>They asked you to come in for a cameo.

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:51.280
<v Speaker 1>Noh, I get that really yeah.

0:31:51.120 --> 0:31:55.400
<v Speaker 2>What they really want to clean slate come on, I

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 2>think I think.

0:31:56.080 --> 0:31:59.880
<v Speaker 1>It will vokes. It's just a little voke, too much comparison.

0:32:00.040 --> 0:32:02.440
<v Speaker 1>And you know, I think they need to let these

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 1>girls just really stand on their own without you know

0:32:05.080 --> 0:32:08.080
<v Speaker 1>what I mean, because imagine if they said, oh, you know,

0:32:08.200 --> 0:32:10.760
<v Speaker 1>next week episode Luendel Steps is going to be on.

0:32:10.800 --> 0:32:12.719
<v Speaker 1>That's going to be the focus for the audience. They

0:32:12.760 --> 0:32:14.480
<v Speaker 1>need to these girls need to.

0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:21.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that yes, yes, do you think or has there

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:22.440
<v Speaker 2>ever been talking.

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:24.920
<v Speaker 1>For the third person in the last two days that's

0:32:24.920 --> 0:32:25.800
<v Speaker 1>asked me this question?

0:32:26.320 --> 0:32:29.560
<v Speaker 2>It really yes, it seems such a question.

0:32:30.280 --> 0:32:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming is there ever a world? Do they combine

0:32:32.960 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 1>the two at some level? Was that it? No?

0:32:36.320 --> 0:32:41.160
<v Speaker 2>No, I'm thinking a reboot of the OG.

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:44.840
<v Speaker 1>So they try a new.

0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:50.160
<v Speaker 2>Show, but with you guys like coming back, like you know,

0:32:50.440 --> 0:32:52.920
<v Speaker 2>I limited series at least, I don't know, give me

0:32:52.920 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 2>a movie something.

0:32:54.960 --> 0:32:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I think what they should have kept doing and I

0:32:58.240 --> 0:33:01.360
<v Speaker 1>miss and I love to was the girls trips like

0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:03.200
<v Speaker 1>the one we did Saint bart Once a year they

0:33:03.200 --> 0:33:06.120
<v Speaker 1>get all the old girls back together. So me, that

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:08.600
<v Speaker 1>was great because it allowed everybody because you know, a

0:33:08.640 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 1>lot of people are all over the place. Now, it

0:33:11.360 --> 0:33:13.600
<v Speaker 1>allowed the It would have allowed the audience to see

0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:17.120
<v Speaker 1>us all together once a year, get their dose of

0:33:17.280 --> 0:33:19.520
<v Speaker 1>that and keep it moving. Right.

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:24.000
<v Speaker 2>Wait, maybe I met you in Saint Bart's. I was

0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:26.320
<v Speaker 2>on Sonya's yacht. That's where I met Sonya.

0:33:26.600 --> 0:33:30.720
<v Speaker 1>No, that wasn't okay, No, No, I think we think

0:33:30.760 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 1>we know each other because we have so many connective tissues.

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 1>And it says if we because if you, if you

0:33:35.600 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>lived in New York, we know each other. If I

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:39.400
<v Speaker 1>lived in London, we know each other. So it's one

0:33:39.440 --> 0:33:40.960
<v Speaker 1>of those assuming knowing things.

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Right, if you lived in London, we wouldn't know each other.

0:33:45.600 --> 0:33:53.120
<v Speaker 2>We would in London. Did you mean la la la la?

0:33:53.240 --> 0:34:04.240
<v Speaker 2>We don't. Yeah, well whatever, we know each other. Now. Wait,

0:34:04.320 --> 0:34:06.440
<v Speaker 2>so have you watched I know it's in the second

0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 2>season the new show.

0:34:08.640 --> 0:34:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, because I have a radio show every week of

0:34:11.000 --> 0:34:16.000
<v Speaker 1>Radio Andy at that group. Yeah, Reality Check. So I

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 1>do watch it. You have to, Yeah, I have to

0:34:18.800 --> 0:34:23.040
<v Speaker 1>watch it. I've watched all the shows, just a different show.

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:25.319
<v Speaker 2>And that's okay. It shouldn't have the same title, but

0:34:25.800 --> 0:34:28.200
<v Speaker 2>that's fine, just my opinion.

0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:31.600
<v Speaker 1>And I think that they you know, they've got there.

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:34.560
<v Speaker 1>It's just it's just so hard for me to know.

0:34:34.840 --> 0:34:37.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't have this thing that it was them or us.

0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:41.160
<v Speaker 1>I think things. They make decisions, you know better than anyone.

0:34:41.440 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 1>You work at TV a long time. They make decisions.

0:34:45.000 --> 0:34:48.240
<v Speaker 1>That's the decision, and they go forward with it, and

0:34:48.560 --> 0:34:50.960
<v Speaker 1>sometimes it's a good decision sometimes is that What will

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:53.200
<v Speaker 1>be interesting now is to see what next year is

0:34:53.239 --> 0:34:57.160
<v Speaker 1>going to look like. Okay, wait, did you watch the finale?

0:34:58.000 --> 0:34:59.120
<v Speaker 2>I don't watch it anymore.

0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:01.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh you don't watch it? Yeah, it's fit because you know,

0:35:01.960 --> 0:35:04.960
<v Speaker 1>the response hasn't obviously, I think probably has been as

0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:07.120
<v Speaker 1>positive as they would like it to be. So let's

0:35:07.160 --> 0:35:10.480
<v Speaker 1>see what they what's going to happen next season.

0:35:11.120 --> 0:35:13.919
<v Speaker 2>They didn't do this ship to Beverly Hills. Why New York?

0:35:15.120 --> 0:35:20.279
<v Speaker 2>I know, imagine a whole new group of girls in

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:25.200
<v Speaker 2>Beverly Hills. I can't no, because that's called selling sunset.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's that was a really big, big, big, very upset

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I think people still are sort of like

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<v Speaker 1>stunned by it. I think that's part of the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that there's such a difficulty excepting because I think people

0:35:38.080 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 1>are still stunned that it happened. Because You're right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>never happened again, and I don't think they would do

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<v Speaker 1>it again. I think it was you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>that was like a one.

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<v Speaker 2>And done of all the casts of all the cities.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think they'll do it. I mean, who knows.

0:35:52.840 --> 0:35:55.840
<v Speaker 1>Let's see there there's the ongoing question right now, like

0:35:55.920 --> 0:35:58.480
<v Speaker 1>will they do that to New Jersey? Right? Are they

0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:00.920
<v Speaker 1>going to do the same thing? And I hope not

0:36:01.680 --> 0:36:07.360
<v Speaker 1>because learning curve for the audience is exhausting. It's a lot.

0:36:07.600 --> 0:36:09.520
<v Speaker 1>It takes a lot for an audience to fall in

0:36:09.520 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 1>love with you. That learning curve is all right, it's

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:15.799
<v Speaker 1>not an instant no, it's not an instant no.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know what, you can keep plugging in newcast

0:36:20.160 --> 0:36:21.960
<v Speaker 2>to different shows. And I'm a lot better at all

0:36:21.960 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 2>because I this happened with one else, so I keep

0:36:24.000 --> 0:36:27.320
<v Speaker 2>bringing it up. But it's like, you know, you can't

0:36:27.520 --> 0:36:32.040
<v Speaker 2>recreate magic. You can put different people in, but it's

0:36:32.160 --> 0:36:38.360
<v Speaker 2>never the same. So I'm not a Real Housewives franchise fan. Yeah,

0:36:38.440 --> 0:36:41.279
<v Speaker 2>the only two I have watched since the beginning. It's

0:36:41.320 --> 0:36:43.279
<v Speaker 2>the only two. Well, I guess I only have one

0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:46.480
<v Speaker 2>to watch now is Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and

0:36:46.600 --> 0:36:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Real Housewives of New York. I'm friends with Teresa, so

0:36:49.520 --> 0:36:56.080
<v Speaker 2>I have watched New Jersey sporadically, but no, nope, I

0:36:56.200 --> 0:36:59.640
<v Speaker 2>was all or nothing and like New York was my

0:37:00.960 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 2>And maybe it's because I'm from LA. Like I'm from La,

0:37:04.080 --> 0:37:06.439
<v Speaker 2>so I responded to Beverly Hills, but I really fell

0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:09.279
<v Speaker 2>in love with the women. And then New York is like,

0:37:09.360 --> 0:37:11.520
<v Speaker 2>oh my gosh, I never lived in New York, but

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:16.160
<v Speaker 2>it's kind of the other you know, La. Well, but

0:37:16.239 --> 0:37:18.399
<v Speaker 2>your cast was just magical and.

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:21.600
<v Speaker 1>The cast was and what was great is it really

0:37:21.640 --> 0:37:24.080
<v Speaker 1>did allow people to see a little piece of New

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:25.640
<v Speaker 1>York because if you don't live in New York, you

0:37:25.640 --> 0:37:28.440
<v Speaker 1>don't know how it works. And we were real. I

0:37:28.480 --> 0:37:31.640
<v Speaker 1>mean we're real New Yorkers, Like we live in the city, live,

0:37:31.800 --> 0:37:35.640
<v Speaker 1>play work, raise our children here, like this is our playground.

0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:38.239
<v Speaker 1>And I think, you know, it takes a very sort

0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:39.800
<v Speaker 1>of as I just said to someone who want to

0:37:39.880 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 1>he's a very unique person to live in this kind

0:37:42.040 --> 0:37:45.640
<v Speaker 1>of environment and love it like I love New York City.

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I love it.

0:37:47.280 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 2>Like they didn't do this to Sex and the City.

0:37:49.360 --> 0:37:54.839
<v Speaker 2>Imagine I correct direction because the fans wouldn't accept it?

0:37:55.800 --> 0:37:59.160
<v Speaker 2>Who can calm down here? So on the New Cast,

0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:04.400
<v Speaker 2>God saying who do you think? Like, who would you

0:38:04.440 --> 0:38:11.360
<v Speaker 2>say is the Direnda? I can't even ask you that

0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:14.440
<v Speaker 2>because you can't there's your one of the kind.

0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:17.520
<v Speaker 1>It's that. And I still think there's act like.

0:38:17.800 --> 0:38:22.000
<v Speaker 2>You're literally one to be kind, You're Dinda Medley, and there's.

0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Like I just sure, I mean who would be the

0:38:24.640 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 1>new So? I mean I think they're all just who

0:38:26.680 --> 0:38:30.200
<v Speaker 1>would be the new Luis were the new?

0:38:30.960 --> 0:38:32.440
<v Speaker 2>In which incarnation of her?

0:38:33.800 --> 0:38:34.040
<v Speaker 1>You know?

0:38:34.400 --> 0:38:37.839
<v Speaker 2>There's just no who falls in the bushes on that show?

0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:41.800
<v Speaker 1>That would be the o G girls. They were individually

0:38:41.960 --> 0:38:45.799
<v Speaker 1>characters like they really were. It's just it's just like

0:38:45.840 --> 0:38:48.359
<v Speaker 1>they are on Sea. I always say, if you see

0:38:48.160 --> 0:38:51.000
<v Speaker 1>me be a lowandering Ramona out in the wild, we're

0:38:51.000 --> 0:38:56.919
<v Speaker 1>the same people. So but they collectively they were just fantastic, right,

0:38:57.520 --> 0:38:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? That's why they say.

0:38:59.280 --> 0:39:01.600
<v Speaker 2>Who do you think is the messiest? On the New Cast?

0:39:02.400 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 1>The one that's in so much trouble? Brand? I think

0:39:06.200 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Brand is really she's She's the one that really I

0:39:09.200 --> 0:39:12.640
<v Speaker 1>think has gotten is stirs up a lot of stuff,

0:39:12.640 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 1>but she'd miss it. Hm. The one that I think

0:39:16.719 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 1>is really that I feel like is a very good

0:39:18.719 --> 0:39:20.920
<v Speaker 1>how like I kind of relate to the most as

0:39:20.960 --> 0:39:23.440
<v Speaker 1>far as like she seems to me like on point

0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:25.360
<v Speaker 1>of knowing what she's doing and kind of got it

0:39:25.480 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 1>got it down. Is Eric?

0:39:28.640 --> 0:39:30.759
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I know all these names, so I haven't seen

0:39:30.760 --> 0:39:33.040
<v Speaker 2>the show. You know what, I'm gonna go against my

0:39:33.120 --> 0:39:36.520
<v Speaker 2>word and I'm gonna watch an episode I get. I'm

0:39:36.520 --> 0:39:38.719
<v Speaker 2>gonna see how I feel. Fine, I'll go into it

0:39:38.760 --> 0:39:39.560
<v Speaker 2>open minded.

0:39:39.880 --> 0:39:44.440
<v Speaker 1>Yes, well, listen, I don't speaks. I'm messy everywhere, so

0:39:44.480 --> 0:39:47.200
<v Speaker 1>you might as well try it. Give it a go. Yeah,

0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:49.800
<v Speaker 1>you're right that desserts staying on the kitchen table.

0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:57.760
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and before we go, uh, you make it nice.

0:39:58.000 --> 0:40:02.480
<v Speaker 2>I make it messy. Help me find the error of

0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:03.439
<v Speaker 2>my ways.

0:40:04.520 --> 0:40:08.440
<v Speaker 1>And which way i'm mess category.

0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:13.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you've helped me in many categories today figure out

0:40:13.400 --> 0:40:16.520
<v Speaker 2>so much they didn't even plan on. But I'm just

0:40:16.880 --> 0:40:19.560
<v Speaker 2>you make it nice. I can make it nice too,

0:40:20.640 --> 0:40:26.640
<v Speaker 2>But I am notoriously kind of messy's wrong, disorganized.

0:40:26.680 --> 0:40:29.239
<v Speaker 1>I think of you as a messy person. That's interesting.

0:40:29.960 --> 0:40:34.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't know like messy. See, I have a connotation

0:40:34.320 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 2>of messy being like dirty or like I'm not like that.

0:40:40.040 --> 0:40:42.480
<v Speaker 2>I think of you that you but not caught mess. No,

0:40:42.640 --> 0:40:43.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't think.

0:40:43.239 --> 0:40:46.160
<v Speaker 1>I think that you are outspoken and curious, which I

0:40:46.160 --> 0:40:48.960
<v Speaker 1>think those are good things.

0:40:49.000 --> 0:40:56.040
<v Speaker 2>True. I'm talking more about my living quarters. Oh yeah,

0:40:56.320 --> 0:41:00.239
<v Speaker 2>like it. So, for instance, we got evacuated. We were

0:41:00.239 --> 0:41:02.200
<v Speaker 2>gone for a week. We came home and I thought

0:41:02.239 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 2>our house had been burglarized. I thought I'd been looted,

0:41:04.920 --> 0:41:07.400
<v Speaker 2>and then I realized, oh my god, this is just

0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:10.279
<v Speaker 2>how we live. And we were in airbnb for a

0:41:10.320 --> 0:41:14.719
<v Speaker 2>week and it was pristine. I kept to pristine. So

0:41:14.880 --> 0:41:17.480
<v Speaker 2>I came back home and with all the devastation and

0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:20.120
<v Speaker 2>everyone losing so much, I was like, oh my god,

0:41:20.520 --> 0:41:22.840
<v Speaker 2>I more than ever now, I just want all this

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:26.719
<v Speaker 2>stuff gone. That takes me in power.

0:41:28.120 --> 0:41:32.279
<v Speaker 1>Everything myself. And you have seven children, that's hard. And

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.439
<v Speaker 1>you have seven children and you have a career five

0:41:34.480 --> 0:41:37.440
<v Speaker 1>five five sorry five children, and then you have a

0:41:37.480 --> 0:41:38.760
<v Speaker 1>career and.

0:41:38.600 --> 0:41:41.840
<v Speaker 2>That's you have seven bedrooms.

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 1>But come on, now, give yourself a break. You have

0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:50.279
<v Speaker 1>five children, you've just been evacuated. You're doing it. I

0:41:50.280 --> 0:41:53.720
<v Speaker 1>mean you're now did you get divorced, You're getting divorced.

0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:55.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm getting divorced.

0:41:58.080 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 1>Is he's still actively involved with all the kids and everything. Yeah,

0:42:01.400 --> 0:42:01.960
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, so.

0:42:01.920 --> 0:42:03.399
<v Speaker 2>That's we compared quite well.

0:42:03.600 --> 0:42:04.600
<v Speaker 1>So that's great.

0:42:04.920 --> 0:42:06.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

0:42:06.160 --> 0:42:08.200
<v Speaker 1>But still it's a lot of fun kids. I even

0:42:08.320 --> 0:42:10.239
<v Speaker 1>known Hannahcoff's back home when she's one.

0:42:10.600 --> 0:42:14.560
<v Speaker 2>They're a little bits, they are, But no one seems

0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:17.600
<v Speaker 2>to cut that break. People come from my house there's like,

0:42:18.000 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 2>you gotta get your shit together, and I'm like, I

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:24.080
<v Speaker 2>don't have help. Well, don't I do it all myself.

0:42:24.160 --> 0:42:27.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm a chef, I'm an uber driver.

0:42:27.760 --> 0:42:29.239
<v Speaker 1>So what came to my house and say you need

0:42:29.320 --> 0:42:30.920
<v Speaker 1>to get your ship together? I said, you need to

0:42:31.000 --> 0:42:33.120
<v Speaker 1>leave through the front door, don't use the back door,

0:42:33.160 --> 0:42:34.520
<v Speaker 1>so I can make sure you leave, so.

0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:38.680
<v Speaker 2>I see, you know I'm too nice help me? Yeah, no, no, okay,

0:42:38.680 --> 0:42:40.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh you're doing that's the first step. You got five

0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:44.760
<v Speaker 2>beautiful kids, and you're doing your up every day. They're safe,

0:42:44.800 --> 0:42:48.600
<v Speaker 2>healthy and alive. I would not get myself all worked

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:50.640
<v Speaker 2>up about that. I could clean up the house a

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:53.879
<v Speaker 2>little bit, though. Really I want to see this house,

0:42:53.920 --> 0:42:57.520
<v Speaker 2>but I, oh my god, I could never have you

0:42:57.640 --> 0:43:00.720
<v Speaker 2>in my house unless we're filming it. And that sounds

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:08.960
<v Speaker 2>like a great episode of something. Okay, oh it's not. Well,

0:43:09.000 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 2>there's no like piles with like dead animals buried at

0:43:12.160 --> 0:43:17.080
<v Speaker 2>the bottom that I know of. Uh huh.

0:43:17.320 --> 0:43:19.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well we need to get the cameras in there.

0:43:19.280 --> 0:43:21.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm just going to show you real quick because

0:43:21.600 --> 0:43:26.000
<v Speaker 2>we are friends. Now. This is wow. I'm really letting

0:43:26.000 --> 0:43:28.880
<v Speaker 2>you in. Like here you see piles.

0:43:29.719 --> 0:43:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's not. It's just more like yeah, I

0:43:32.400 --> 0:43:33.880
<v Speaker 1>mean it's like just clean up stuff.

0:43:34.280 --> 0:43:36.040
<v Speaker 2>It just needs to be cleaned up. I just don't

0:43:36.080 --> 0:43:40.560
<v Speaker 2>have the time, It's correct. Okay, So I had a good,

0:43:40.719 --> 0:43:43.360
<v Speaker 2>solid week where I did nothing.

0:43:46.280 --> 0:43:48.160
<v Speaker 1>You got to get your troll down the kitchen and

0:43:48.239 --> 0:43:50.279
<v Speaker 1>help you. That's you've got map Hower there.

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Okay, great, if you want to speak to them, they