1 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tori Spelling and iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 2: Hi my friend. 3 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so excited, me too. I can't 4 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: believe that we've never crossed paths. 5 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:27,319 Speaker 2: Okay, we My producer and I were just talking about 6 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 2: this because in my mind, I'm like, no, we're friends. 7 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:32,880 Speaker 2: And I was like, and then she's like, when's the 8 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,479 Speaker 2: last time you saw Deranda? And I was like, the 9 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 2: lines blur because I watch her on TV. I'm a 10 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 2: big fan, and I was like, I can't remember. We 11 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,640 Speaker 2: stop it. We've never met in person. 12 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:46,360 Speaker 1: God, I was gonna say this because I thought it 13 00:00:46,360 --> 00:00:48,639 Speaker 1: would sound weird, but I thought we'd met before too, 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 1: because I'm. 15 00:00:50,240 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, and then you couldn't place it. 16 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:53,560 Speaker 1: I don't think we have met. 17 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: I can't imagine. 18 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: Here we are finally, So this is this is great. 19 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 1: This is very exciting for me. You know, you are 20 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 1: part of my history. Oh my gosh, you're a friend 21 00:01:08,560 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: of my historyan Hannahs and you know we've we've we 22 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:13,720 Speaker 1: all grew up with you and your family. So this 23 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: is real good great. 24 00:01:16,440 --> 00:01:22,520 Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. Well I adore you. I loved you 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 2: on Real Housewives of New York and I'm just going 26 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,679 Speaker 2: to tell you right now. I am such a fan 27 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 2: that when the og cast was gone, I was gone, Wow. 28 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,039 Speaker 1: You know what, it's a you know, it's a touchy situation. 29 00:01:36,120 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 1: I never liked that. Listen. I think it's hard. It's 30 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,040 Speaker 1: always hard when they try, don't you find, even with 31 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: these series, when they replace people and put a new 32 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: person or try to, you know, remake this, you can 33 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: never replace nostalgia, you know, nostalgia. I would say it 34 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: about New York City. I you know, New York City 35 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: is going through a rough time right now, but for me, 36 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: I'm living in nostalgia. So nostalgia will always be the 37 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: New York City that I've lived in twenty years. And 38 00:02:02,680 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: he can't replace that, right, And I think it's comforting. 39 00:02:06,720 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: It's comforting. People grow up with you, they have references 40 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 1: they you know, and more than ever, God knows we 41 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 1: need comfort right now. 42 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 2: Yes, right, I'm sorry to hear about your family home. 43 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: Oh thank you, yeah, thank you. 44 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: I was one. 45 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 2: I'm shocking. I literally found out on I was watching 46 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 2: like some news thing on my phone. We were all 47 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 2: locked into our phones trying to figure out what was 48 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,519 Speaker 2: going on, and I was like, well, cost a beach. 49 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's my family's beach. And then I'm like, yeah, 50 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 2: so I found out there and I texted my mom 51 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 2: like is this true, and like yeah. 52 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, it just goes to show you. But 53 00:02:49,320 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: you know, it really puts these times and our lives 54 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 1: put things in perspective. We worry so much about stuff, stuff, stuff, stuff, 55 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,839 Speaker 1: and one day it's all gone and you just got 56 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: to keep on moving, right. I mean, it's heartbreaking, but 57 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:03,959 Speaker 1: really that's the truth of it. It's just stuff. 58 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 2: It's so true. Going back to Real Housewives and the 59 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: OJ like, I just got to say, I mean, I 60 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 2: feel I'm in the same boat with you, just because 61 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 2: you know, there was the original nine O two and 62 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:23,800 Speaker 2: oh and god bless c W did we were Beverly 63 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,239 Speaker 2: Hills nine O two and oh. In two thousand and 64 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: nine they did c w's nine O two and oh 65 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: whole new cast and it was a great show, but 66 00:03:34,280 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 2: it wasn't nine O two and oh. 67 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 3: Well that's you had to take it that And I 68 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 3: think when you start off like they did and you 69 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 3: just say, okay, season thirteen it's these girls, and then 70 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 3: season thirteen they're gone and this now you don't love 71 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 3: these girls. 72 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: I think the audience gets very confused, and then there's 73 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: this bizarre sense of loyalty that people you just lose. 74 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: You may even it goes far to say you may 75 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: get people that just make a decision. I don't want 76 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: to I don't want the new I know I do 77 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: that in my life, like when something a new ownership 78 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: of a restaurant or they changed, I'm like, no, I 79 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: don't want to go there anymore. It's sort of a 80 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 1: human reaction. And I always said, and you know, I 81 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: hope I don't get in trouble when I say this, 82 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: but you know, it would have been really because these 83 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:19,560 Speaker 1: girls are the new New York. I mean they are 84 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what that girl looks like anymore. I'm 85 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: just turned sixty, and you know, the New York that 86 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:27,479 Speaker 1: they're raising their children in and working and doing that. 87 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:29,560 Speaker 1: But it should have been called something more like the 88 00:04:29,600 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: Girls of New York or the Girlfriends of New York 89 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:33,840 Speaker 1: or the something, because then I think it really would 90 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: have allowed more of an easy jump. You know, that's 91 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:40,560 Speaker 1: a big jump from those girls. I mean it was 92 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: even a big jump for me to join it sixth season. 93 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: You know, I came in you know, halfway through the 94 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: seasons and you know, those grinds very established. 95 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 2: I was hesitant to accept you because I'd been a 96 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: fan from season one. 97 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I had to lake up because you know, 98 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 1: I knew I knew all these girls for like one 99 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: hundred years. When we know each other's kids and we 100 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 1: live I don't know if you know the Upper East Side, 101 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: but we need to live on the Upper East Sides, 102 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: like these are the people in your neighborhood. So we 103 00:05:09,320 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: really were, you know, all connected, and so I think 104 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 1: it made it easier for them and made it easier 105 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: for the audience because we had the connective tissue, you 106 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 1: know what I mean. 107 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know any signs. I know Burke Dwarfs. 108 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right. I know. You know what my model 109 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 1: is in life, toy, I will go to dinner with 110 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:32,160 Speaker 1: you before five o'clock above Burkedorfs. After five o'clock. Do 111 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: not invite me to anything past Burgdorf Goodman. I refuse. 112 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 1: If it's fast Burgdorff Goodman, I do not go that. 113 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 2: I love that. I need to find that version in 114 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 2: la I just don't go out. I have five kids. 115 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's unbelievable. You have five kids, Oh. 116 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: My gosh, except for single now. So I guess I 117 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 2: got to start going out again. I got to recreate 118 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 2: myself at fifty one. 119 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 1: Do Yeah, that's the thing, you know. 120 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 2: I mean you unfortunately went through having to start over again. 121 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: Yes, And I mean how old are your kids? 122 00:06:14,080 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 2: Seventeen, sixteen, thirteen, twelve and seven. 123 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 1: That's crazy, Tori. 124 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 2: Derenda. Yes, it is. 125 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: I mean you have one that's on the leg out 126 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 1: and still one that are very little. 127 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 2: They're never leaving, none of minor leaving. And if I 128 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 2: beg them too, No, I'm kidding. I'm that mom. That's like, 129 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: I just want to compound one day so we can 130 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 2: all have like properties. I agree to live together. 131 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: Well, you know that's why I love I always have 132 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: that fantasy about keeping bluestone manner forever, because I'm like, oh, 133 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: I can build a house for Hannah, and because I 134 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: have eighteen acres and we can just you know, Unfortunately, 135 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. If I don't know if Hannah has 136 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 1: that fantasy, that's where the glitch goes. 137 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 2: How old is Hannah now? 138 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,240 Speaker 1: She's thirty one, but she's at back at school she's 139 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: gonna PhD so you know you can't. You know, she's 140 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 1: God knows her hand. It's gonna end up. I'll probably 141 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: end up in some condo outside of Palm Beach or 142 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,800 Speaker 1: something like with all the other all the other New Yorkers. 143 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 2: Not something sexy though we are you dating? 144 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 1: I haven't been dating. I've tried. I haven't been dating 145 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: lately because I've been so busy and so disinterested. I 146 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:28,559 Speaker 1: don't know what it is I want to want to date. 147 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,679 Speaker 1: Does that make sense? I want to dance and date. 148 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:36,160 Speaker 1: I love people. I don't have any bad feelings towards men. 149 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: My experiences with both my partner's husbands, but it was 150 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: very good. I just think what happens is well. First 151 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:45,360 Speaker 1: of all, I think when you when you get you know, 152 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: like I said, it just turns sixty. Yeah, your tolerance 153 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: goes down like we used to be, like, you know, 154 00:07:53,400 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: just bullshit. Not that I was ever overly tolerant, and 155 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: also too, I think because I became so fiercely independent 156 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: after Richard passed that and created this really fun world 157 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: like I have a fun free world that really I 158 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: come and go as I please, like I am a 159 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:20,040 Speaker 1: lone wolf and I managed to seek out these other 160 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: people that I've known for twenty or thirty years, maybe 161 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: either gotten divorced or just been part of my life 162 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 1: or our partnered and we're kind of a gang. And 163 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 1: we vacation together. And that's maybe not a good thing, 164 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: because sometimes when you're too comfortable and too happy, you 165 00:08:35,320 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: do two things. You don't seek out food and you 166 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:43,160 Speaker 1: gain weight. You know, a hungry animal is a successful animal. 167 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: Right, comfortable and happy sounds good to me. Have you 168 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: ever gotten in one of those dating apps? 169 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 1: Yes, I have. I was on what's the one called? 170 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: I was on for the. 171 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: League that talk to me. 172 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: The league is a good one. The league is like 173 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:09,239 Speaker 1: the LinkedIn of of dating apps. It's a little more curated, 174 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: and they're they're very like, you know, career type, like 175 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 1: a LinkedIn I tried. I applied to Raya like a 176 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: year ago. I have every recommendation in the world, but 177 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:21,920 Speaker 1: I'm still on a wait list. 178 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 2: What I know. Let me talk to somebody about this. 179 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 2: This is ridiculous. We could swipe together, yeah, exactly, And 180 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 2: I say, no, not everybody. 181 00:09:34,880 --> 00:09:37,680 Speaker 1: It's someone the other night said I should go on Hinge. 182 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 1: But I don't like how would someone like you or 183 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: me go on a hinge like I just that that's 184 00:09:45,240 --> 00:09:46,800 Speaker 1: a page six article. 185 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 2: Which is why Riah is supposed to be. It's so 186 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 2: secretive and I don't know the dating apps. I'm I 187 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: was married for eighteen years, together for twenty like there 188 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 2: weren't dating app and then when I had single friends, 189 00:10:02,679 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: I had so much fun. I'd be like swiping for them, yes, no, 190 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,680 Speaker 2: great grade. It was all fun and games because it 191 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 2: was their shit right. And now people are like, you 192 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 2: got to get on dating apps. I'm like, I don't 193 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 2: want to. No, I don't want like I don't come 194 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: from that generation. I guess where you meet somebody online? 195 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 2: And I don't know. I don't judge anybody that does it. 196 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: I will say this when I do put in the effort, 197 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: and I do put the word out because you know, 198 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 1: and I you know it does I do start dating, 199 00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:37,719 Speaker 1: Like dating for me is not. I don't find dating like, oh, 200 00:10:37,760 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: you can't meet people, you can't do that. It's so hard. 201 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: I think there's always people to me. I think you 202 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 1: have to have an openness, you know, but that just 203 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: life takes over. You get busy, you're I'm sort of here, 204 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 1: I'm in the Berkshires, I travel, I get focused on Hannah, 205 00:10:53,400 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: I get focused on work. I have elderly parents, and 206 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: I just life sort of takes up a lot of 207 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: my space. So I'm not I am making excuses. I think, 208 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 1: if I to be honest with you, I would like 209 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty five to prioritize it. But I think 210 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:11,440 Speaker 1: I have to literally prioritize it. 211 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm feeling a show here. Should we call Bravo? 212 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 1: Yeah? No, But thinking about it, I said to my 213 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:23,599 Speaker 1: friend Greg last night, I'm going to make sure that 214 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,320 Speaker 1: I'm in the city Tuesday, Wednesdays and Thursday nights, and 215 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:29,320 Speaker 1: I'm going to start meeting new people and accepting dates 216 00:11:29,400 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 1: because I'm always like, oh, I ninety around Wednesday, will 217 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: and won't be there next Thursday. You know, people get 218 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: this interested. So I'm just going to focus on being 219 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: in the city, committed to it, not just for that, 220 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:44,200 Speaker 1: but just for life. Because when you're always all over 221 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: the place, people are like, oh, she's probably up in 222 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,280 Speaker 1: the Berkshers. Oh she's probably you know what I mean. 223 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 2: So I can find one in the city, one in 224 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:51,319 Speaker 2: the Berkshires. 225 00:11:51,840 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: I don't know about the Berksches. You know, I'm sort of. 226 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 2: Like I've never been. I have no idea. 227 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:59,280 Speaker 1: It's sort of like the woman on the hill. I 228 00:11:59,320 --> 00:12:01,360 Speaker 1: think people are afraid to come to my gate. And 229 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 1: you know what if I had, if I started dating 230 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 1: in the Berkshires, it would be the talk of my 231 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 1: town and my parents would not have I I'm still 232 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:13,520 Speaker 1: twelve in my parents' eyes, so they still trenda sincla. 233 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 1: It's so funny because I was on the phone. Ryan's 234 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:21,200 Speaker 1: on right now, my my agent, and I was in 235 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: the car with him, and he's so used to me. 236 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: Is Derenda, you know, running around doing New York, and 237 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 1: my mother called that. I put on a speakerphone and 238 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,640 Speaker 1: I think it changed his whole attitude with it, because 239 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,199 Speaker 1: they're like, now, God bless you. Now be careful out 240 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,559 Speaker 1: there in La your father and I love you. We 241 00:12:35,559 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: were working. You know, someone thinks of me, someone that 242 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: has this caretaker like that, because it's in their eyes. 243 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm still little. 244 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 2: I love that, and you're the cariage taker. But you 245 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 2: need we all need someone that takes care of us. Still, wait, 246 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:55,440 Speaker 2: would you date down? No, Down's not the right word. 247 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 2: Age shut down, younger. 248 00:13:00,200 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: Not so much. I don't want to date someone so 249 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:06,800 Speaker 1: much younger, like fifty, oh fifty, I do fifty, but 250 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: not like forty. I went up. 251 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 2: No, I went out forty five, forty eight McCalla day. 252 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 2: Yeah maybe that, Yeah, okay, you went out with. 253 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: People or not. I would date a little older because 254 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: I make care a little bit older. But you know 255 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 1: what my mother always said about dating older man. When 256 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: you marry an old man, you get an older man. Yeah. 257 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 2: I mean my my soon to be ex husband is 258 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 2: eight years older than me. No, It's fine when we 259 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:39,080 Speaker 2: first were together, but now I'm looking at him, he 260 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 2: looks great, but I'm like, now he's older. 261 00:13:42,800 --> 00:13:43,960 Speaker 1: Now, how young would you date? 262 00:13:44,960 --> 00:13:47,360 Speaker 2: I get it, this is bizarre, but I guess this 263 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 2: is a thing. Now I get hit on by like 264 00:13:51,720 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 2: young guys. Oh that is now like twenty five to 265 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 2: early thirties. And I'm like, when are they looking for 266 00:13:59,040 --> 00:14:02,800 Speaker 2: a mommy? It like it's I don't know, and yeah, 267 00:14:02,800 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 2: people are like, oh that's the thing. Yeah. I'm like, yeah, 268 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 2: don't you know things they don't know what they're doing 269 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 2: at that age, they don't know what they want, like 270 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 2: uh huh. So I would say forty and over. 271 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:14,719 Speaker 1: It's just I went out for a teeny dwy a 272 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: little bit with someone in their thirties. I wasn't very 273 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: vocal about it, but I'm talking like a couple of days, 274 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: and it is a very big especially when you have 275 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,880 Speaker 1: a child that is starting to fall much. You know, 276 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: there's too much life that you have. And I don't know. 277 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: I think short term it's fun, it's probably long term 278 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be sustainable. You know, I'm too much of 279 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: a grown up. Like I'm a dense grown. 280 00:14:38,600 --> 00:14:41,720 Speaker 2: Up, right, but you're a fun grown up. 281 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: I have fun, but you know I don't. I have 282 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: a lot going on. I've seen a lot, I've done 283 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: a lot, and I don't really suffer fools very well, 284 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And I don't want to teach, 285 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,240 Speaker 1: and I don't want to teach anymore. Like the teaching 286 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 1: phase of my life is ended. 287 00:14:56,280 --> 00:14:57,240 Speaker 2: Oh teaching? 288 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, no, they don't really when you're that young, 289 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: you're still good. But have a lot of patience for that. 290 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right. Well, you just taught me a lot 291 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 2: about dating right now. I wasn't even going to talk 292 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:15,200 Speaker 2: to you about that, but okay, can we talk traders now? 293 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: Yes? Go ahead. How disappointing. Huh oh my god. 294 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:25,520 Speaker 2: Okay, So here's the thing. I hadn't watched it, but 295 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 2: I started watching it to see you and then you 296 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 2: were gone. So but then, sorry to say, I fell 297 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 2: in love with the show. Now I'm like a faithful fan. 298 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 1: Well it's a great show. 299 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 2: I didn't reat show and I didn't know. 300 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: It's a great show regardless of me being on it 301 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,440 Speaker 1: or not. And it's just so sad. I feel so 302 00:15:46,480 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 1: sad that I because I was very excited to you know, listen, 303 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: I had planned for I had the close like you 304 00:15:51,720 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't believe, you know, to not be part of it, 305 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: and just the comaradity of it. You know what it's 306 00:15:57,200 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 1: like when you're filming with people and just being in Scotland, 307 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 1: be in that situation. So I believe me, I cried 308 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 1: about it for weeks. You can talk to Ryan. I 309 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: was heartbroken because it is such a fun experience and 310 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 1: when are you going to be able to do that again? 311 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 2: You're not, So can you talk me through the process, 312 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 2: because I kind of would love to be on it 313 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: one day. Uh So you get a call, you get 314 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,240 Speaker 2: to offer you fly to Scotland. Do you know, you 315 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,680 Speaker 2: don't know anyone that's going to be there. Nothing was 316 00:16:25,720 --> 00:16:27,640 Speaker 2: anyone on your flight that you're like. 317 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: Everyone comes in at different times. Oh okay, and once 318 00:16:32,160 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: you're there, you're It starts the minute you land, but 319 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 1: you're you're in that world and you do that. For 320 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 1: anyone that says you know or you're privy, just stuff, 321 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:45,320 Speaker 1: it's just not true. You're not privy to anything. And 322 00:16:45,400 --> 00:16:47,560 Speaker 1: I think that's what makes the show so beautiful is 323 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: that they're able to keep that the integrity of the show. 324 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 1: Even when I got murdered and had to go home, 325 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't allowed to Like I had to really slither home, 326 00:16:56,560 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: and I went right up to the Berkshires and went 327 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 1: off grid because I wasn't allowed to post. I was 328 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: at allowed to do anything because remember they had announced 329 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 1: the cast, So for the remaining time, I had to 330 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 1: stay completely under the radar, Like I didn't even want 331 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: to go How long until the show ended filming? 332 00:17:14,400 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 2: Like how long is that? 333 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 1: That? 334 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Like, not only were you murder and 335 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 2: eliminated from the show, but then you can't even go 336 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:23,000 Speaker 2: on Instagram? What uh? 337 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: This way? I didn't go to a restaurant. I didn't 338 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: go to Instagram. I didn't go I didn't do anything. 339 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: I literally went to the Berkshires and stayed like low 340 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 1: key and if I because you got to, which I 341 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:41,720 Speaker 1: think probably makes it harder for people because they announced 342 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: the cast that David started filming. So honestly, if they 343 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: see me in New York City at La Galou having 344 00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:50,280 Speaker 1: dinner on a Wednesday night, it's not these fans are 345 00:17:50,320 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: They're like they figure things out in two seconds. 346 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:55,120 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, hello Reddit, Yeah. 347 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: Exactly, Hello, read it exactly. 348 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 2: So my friend Pedro Parks was on it and she 349 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:03,520 Speaker 2: told me like she went into it with a mood 350 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 2: board and all the fashion. She's like, I had no 351 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 2: idea what I'd have to do that. I'd be like. 352 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 2: She's like, they did ask me like can you swim? 353 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:13,800 Speaker 2: And I was like, why do I need to swim? 354 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:19,640 Speaker 2: She's like so yeah, So like how many outfits did 355 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: you bring? 356 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:23,920 Speaker 1: I brought about? Well, I brought more than needed, but 357 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,360 Speaker 1: I brought about I mean, I broke out. I lived 358 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:28,679 Speaker 1: in London ten years. So when I lived in London, 359 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:31,160 Speaker 1: I had the best stuff, like the best. I had 360 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:34,360 Speaker 1: the original Alexander McQueen stuff, a ton of Vivian Weissman. 361 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 1: I brought all my old alayah. I bought some of 362 00:18:38,680 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 1: the stuff from the Hunting company that you know they 363 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,480 Speaker 1: had like those great jackets parties, you know, the outdoor 364 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 1: kind of clothing company I had. 365 00:18:48,800 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 2: Can you hear me drooling over the microphone? 366 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:55,280 Speaker 1: I mean, all my beautiful, beautiful kill I had. I 367 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: had a Libertine jacket that I never wore that was 368 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 1: to the floor long jacket that all like a beautiful 369 00:19:02,080 --> 00:19:08,239 Speaker 1: trench that yeah, I mean you pack to dress and 370 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 1: I literally got to wear that one. Two outfits my 371 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 1: outfits alone were I mean, I have all the pictures. 372 00:19:17,080 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 1: I think I'm going to put up an instagram of 373 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: all the euphans you. 374 00:19:20,240 --> 00:19:23,000 Speaker 2: I was about to say, people want to see that 375 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 2: you have to all the outfits that were planned. 376 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:29,280 Speaker 1: And I know, and then I read. I studied, I've 377 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:31,479 Speaker 1: told as I said on the Tonight Show the other night, 378 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: I read the Art of War. I studied. I did 379 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 1: Hannah help me write out things and strategies and situations 380 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 1: and sayings I had. I went through a whole role 381 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,800 Speaker 1: of type dress, taping everything to my wall in my 382 00:19:43,840 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 1: bedroom and literally like four days later, a month taping it. 383 00:19:48,520 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, wait what is that when they do 384 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:56,359 Speaker 2: the things like like a stakeout it, yes, with the 385 00:19:56,440 --> 00:19:59,200 Speaker 2: pins pins, Oh my god, what is it? 386 00:19:59,480 --> 00:20:02,239 Speaker 1: Really? I really felt that that. I think to like 387 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,920 Speaker 1: spend time with the other players, because you know, when 388 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,600 Speaker 1: you're you're even when you're filming. You can film, but 389 00:20:07,640 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: you're not you're not hanging out afterwards. As soon as 390 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 1: you're done filming, you go back to your rooms. 391 00:20:11,840 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 2: Oh really Yeah. 392 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 1: No, no, there's no hanging out. I mean not that 393 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: I knew of because I wasn't there, but they're pretty 394 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:18,880 Speaker 1: strict about that too. 395 00:20:19,480 --> 00:20:21,760 Speaker 2: Really, so no, like socializing in from of the like 396 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 2: amazing fireplace in the library, and like having a content. 397 00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know because I left so early, 398 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,400 Speaker 1: but you know, I just think they built of comaradity 399 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 1: that you you know how it is, even when you 400 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,080 Speaker 1: film something or you do anything, you walk away with 401 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 1: it with the comaradities that no one else understands. And 402 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: I feel like I missed out on that too. Yeah, 403 00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: the gaming, that's time I was dying to sit around 404 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 1: the round table. I think I would have been very 405 00:20:44,400 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 1: good around the round table. 406 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 2: Oh my god, were you hoping to be a trader. 407 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,439 Speaker 1: Oh. I was open to whatever they were going to do, 408 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: but I thought they would have made me a trader. 409 00:20:57,680 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: I was surprised when I wasn't made a trader, but 410 00:20:59,880 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 1: I I was open to either. I think that might 411 00:21:01,920 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 1: have lasted a little longer if I was a trader. 412 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,800 Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, it's such a different thing 413 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: than filming for Housewives or just filming in general. It's 414 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 1: a it's a whole different game because it's it's a 415 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:17,680 Speaker 1: game of chance. It's like there's no real rule book, 416 00:21:17,720 --> 00:21:20,920 Speaker 1: which you think, you know, if someone decides they want 417 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: you gone, you're gone. 418 00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 2: That doesn't feel fair because when I started watching it, 419 00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, it's like a game of chess, 420 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,919 Speaker 2: like in life. It is very good at life chess. 421 00:21:33,000 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: I was like hmm, But then yeah, it's like. 422 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:38,639 Speaker 1: But everybody should do it once. You should do you 423 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:42,119 Speaker 1: should do it. It's it's a really beautiful experience. Like 424 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 1: I truly felt bad when I went home. I was demastating, 425 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 1: ging me feel bad again. 426 00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 2: No, oh my god, do you don't want to talk 427 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,840 Speaker 2: about anymore. I have a few more questions though, oka 428 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 2: do you feel like they were like, oh, the real housewise, okay, getting. 429 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 1: The mass and I don't I think, I mean, it 430 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:11,119 Speaker 1: was so early on, no one even at that point, 431 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 1: no one really we didn't even really have a chance 432 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,959 Speaker 1: to get to uh, you know, know each other. So 433 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:21,000 Speaker 1: obviously there was something. You can't blame them, because the 434 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 1: whole point is that you try to get rid of 435 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,639 Speaker 1: the people that you think are going to be a 436 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 1: threat or strong And let's face that, I'm a strong character, right, 437 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:33,400 Speaker 1: so it's this it's a terrible compliment in some ways. 438 00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,439 Speaker 2: Like do you think you would have gone home that 439 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 2: night if you hadn't gotten fired up? Was it in 440 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 2: the kitchen? 441 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:44,320 Speaker 1: Maybe? I think that I just I don't I think 442 00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 1: that who knows, maybe, But I think I'm just a 443 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: strong character. I think that you have to be much more, 444 00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 1: you know, I think when you're under the radar. And 445 00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: that's the thing about the housewives, going back to the question, 446 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,199 Speaker 1: they really are characters. 447 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 2: Their standouts mm hm. 448 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,399 Speaker 1: And they are buddy but you know they are definitely 449 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 1: they hang out together and they're definitely more. There's more 450 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,840 Speaker 1: commodity with them and stuff. So you look at you know, 451 00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:12,919 Speaker 1: it was me and then who was second? 452 00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:19,719 Speaker 2: Thebai I didn't feel like she was a threat. Now 453 00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,480 Speaker 2: she's pretty to look at, but I didn't and then drop. 454 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,520 Speaker 1: And so left right now and the Housewives is just 455 00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:31,119 Speaker 1: Dolores mm hmm. But she trust she's very good. Doris 456 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 1: is like a good theilers is very good at keeping 457 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:38,040 Speaker 1: her her cards. Trust she'll be I think she'll be good. 458 00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 1: And by the way, we don't know. 459 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,040 Speaker 2: Oh, you have theories. We don't know. 460 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,440 Speaker 1: I have theories, but no one's called. No. I'm telling you. 461 00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: They keep the intake and it's fine. And I don't 462 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:52,720 Speaker 1: ask because you know, are. 463 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 2: A scandabal still there. 464 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I haven't caught up cripp out. 465 00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 2: Why didn't they take him out? 466 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,360 Speaker 1: Well, because it's not really. 467 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 2: He's not really a threat, right, No, no, no, after 468 00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 2: everything that happened, that's the thing, like. 469 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:17,880 Speaker 1: Who's the threat? Who is? It doesn't But if you're yeah, 470 00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: so you know, that's that's it. But I have to say, 471 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,199 Speaker 1: if you're gonna get murdered, be the first one to 472 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 1: get murdered, because you get a lot of attention, so 473 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:27,640 Speaker 1: you're gonna do it, be the first one. 474 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 2: I mean, that's like when I did Dancing with the Stars, 475 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,679 Speaker 2: I was like, what eliminated first? And then everyone's like, 476 00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 2: but wait, you know there still up to me, and 477 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:41,760 Speaker 2: did you love it? I loved it? Oh my god. 478 00:24:42,800 --> 00:24:44,720 Speaker 2: I never wanted to do it because I was so 479 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 2: scared of performing in front of live audience sorry my 480 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 2: dog's barking live audience on TV. I was like, oh 481 00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 2: my gosh, and dancing like I feel like I'm I 482 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 2: can I can only to move. I'm not great with choreography, 483 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,959 Speaker 2: but I can style like nobody's business. But yeah, I 484 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 2: got in there and I gave it my all. When 485 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 2: I commit, I commit, and I learned so much about 486 00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:12,919 Speaker 2: myself and I was having such a great time and 487 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: then just like that, gone and everyone still says you 488 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:16,439 Speaker 2: were robbed. 489 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: Yeah you were just quick. But you know what a great. 490 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: Randa Medley you were robbed. 491 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 1: Again, Like I would love to it would be great 492 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,280 Speaker 1: just to do it, because what a great experience, and 493 00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:25,960 Speaker 1: all did. 494 00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:30,200 Speaker 2: You get a great experience I did? I was like, 495 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 2: and I don't work out. I haven't worked out since 496 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 2: like the nineties. And I was like, wow, I got 497 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,480 Speaker 2: some muscle memory because my muscles came back just like that. 498 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 2: And then I was gone and it went away just 499 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 2: like that. 500 00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 1: It's like Erica Jaye right now, her body's like this 501 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 1: because she's been doing all the dancing. Dancing is the 502 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:50,520 Speaker 1: best thing. 503 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:55,280 Speaker 2: And it gives you joy. I found there's something about it. 504 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,480 Speaker 1: That just I don't want to do it just for 505 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: doing those workouts and stuff like that. 506 00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,600 Speaker 2: You should do it. You should do it. 507 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 1: I would love to do it. I used to teach aerobic, 508 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 1: so I got the whole beat thing down. But that's 509 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: what I really want to try to push to do 510 00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 1: next is Dancing with the Stars. 511 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you got the Olivia Newton John thing down. 512 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: I was like a little step and everything else. 513 00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,400 Speaker 2: Oh my god. I'd love to see you in leg warmers. 514 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,640 Speaker 1: I oh I have them. 515 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:20,440 Speaker 2: But you know what I got to tell you, no 516 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 2: one's talking about anybody else on that show except for you. 517 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:28,400 Speaker 2: So I'm sorry your time was cut short. But people 518 00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,400 Speaker 2: are still talking about still devastated by it. So that's 519 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,800 Speaker 2: the good news, right, good news. I know you wanted 520 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,439 Speaker 2: to play the game. You were there to play. 521 00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:43,160 Speaker 1: I really was, and I'd be good at it. 522 00:26:43,160 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 2: It doesn't have a Trader's All Stars. 523 00:26:45,080 --> 00:26:50,200 Speaker 1: They should, Yeah, they should have a Traders All Star 524 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 1: and bringing back the best. I mean, Phedro was just 525 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: incredible on the show. Should I said to someone the 526 00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 1: other day, Phaedri should never not be on TV. She's 527 00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:02,240 Speaker 1: just TV gold. 528 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 2: She really is. She's life gold. Like I loved wing 529 00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 2: on Dancing with the Stars. We would gosh on the 530 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 2: downtime and even coming back for the final we would 531 00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 2: sit there and nobody gossips like Vaedor and it's been 532 00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:19,960 Speaker 2: in a good way. 533 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 1: She did the Ultimate Girls Troop two of Bluestone Manor 534 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,000 Speaker 1: at my house, so she was up there for that. 535 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: What this is a couple of years ago and she 536 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 1: was just amazing. It was just amazing. Did you she 537 00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:33,880 Speaker 1: did stay in the shark room? 538 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:34,520 Speaker 2: She did? 539 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:36,080 Speaker 1: Yes, she loved it. 540 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 2: Why does no one want to want to stay in 541 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 2: the shark room? 542 00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:40,800 Speaker 1: I think she loved it. 543 00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:48,240 Speaker 2: I would love it. Yes, Oh my gosh, tony rooms. 544 00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,400 Speaker 2: Well there is bedrooms. 545 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,399 Speaker 1: Oh bedrooms. There's one, two, three. 546 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,600 Speaker 2: I have a motive here. I'm asking for a reason. 547 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:59,360 Speaker 1: Do three, four, five, six like seventh? 548 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 2: Oh great, so all my kids and I could come. 549 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, they go. It's an eighteen acres so they can 550 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:11,159 Speaker 1: wander away and never be in trouble. It's beautiful. I 551 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 1: love it. I don't go this time of year as 552 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: much because you know, and I have my I have 553 00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 1: my brother's staying there right now. So just because it's like, 554 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 1: you know, you kind of need someone to stay in 555 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: the house and those type of things. But it's cold. 556 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,760 Speaker 1: I'll start going against her the next month. I like 557 00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: being in New York January February because it's kind of easy. 558 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,440 Speaker 1: It's easy to look what it's cold. 559 00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:35,720 Speaker 2: I just got home from New York last night. 560 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 1: Really I did, oh wow, you then you you don't 561 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:44,040 Speaker 1: know cool? Oh no, it's been very it's been a 562 00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: very cold and daunting. It's been a daunting winter. 563 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,080 Speaker 2: Listen, I don't know how you packed for Scotland. I 564 00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 2: don't know if you had steamer trunks because I just 565 00:28:53,200 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 2: picture that with you or something. But I mean just 566 00:28:56,800 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 2: me going for like five days. The coats I brought, 567 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 2: what's the thing? I knew, but I had to keep 568 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 2: doing a wardrobe change like midday just to feel like 569 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 2: I used them, and then packing them. You can't. It's 570 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:15,040 Speaker 2: you can't roll them. You know. Everyone's like the packing rule. 571 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,080 Speaker 2: That's what we do in LA. It's like New York, like. 572 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: No, No, I think I had like four or five 573 00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: suitcases for Scotland, big ones, like big because you have 574 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: to because you you really have to layer there because 575 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: June is a funny month. So my first husband was 576 00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 1: scot is Scottish, so I went to Scotland a lot 577 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,959 Speaker 1: when I was when we lived in London. We used 578 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 1: to go like every weekend. And the thing about June 579 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: is it can be super warm in the morning and 580 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 1: forty five in the afternoon. Mm hm. 581 00:29:47,080 --> 00:29:51,320 Speaker 2: My soon to be exis Scottish as well. And I'd 582 00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 2: been there. Yeah, I had blood sausage. 583 00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:58,480 Speaker 1: Oh no, I say, yeah there. Dare I say I 584 00:29:58,480 --> 00:29:59,440 Speaker 1: did have it once to. 585 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 2: Anghi Hagis and I had haggis had at all. 586 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to try it once if you go 587 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 1: to Scotland, but once only. 588 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I can say that stuff the right of passage 589 00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:16,440 Speaker 2: if you're there, Wait blue so bluestone manner. You've put it, 590 00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 2: You've had girl trips there everyone on TV. But would 591 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 2: you ever do it as like an Airbnb experience exclusive experience? 592 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 1: Well I did. I did a collab with Airbnb for 593 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: two one night's stays. If they put it on for 594 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,680 Speaker 1: a uh you know, it was like a collaborations with 595 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:42,000 Speaker 1: AIRBB at one hundred and seventy seven thousand people applied 596 00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: to it. They crashed their site because you know, blue 597 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: Stone Matters become like the Disney of Bravo. So when 598 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: I when I'm home up there on. 599 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 2: The way seek Disney and Bravo. 600 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,920 Speaker 1: Yep. Literally, people are like, come to my gate and 601 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 1: just sit there and look up at that. Luckily, it's 602 00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: kind of there's a gate you have to go up 603 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:03,320 Speaker 1: and up and up, so it's a little bit protected 604 00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: like that. But yeah, and you know, we're working on 605 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 1: getting a show up and going about it. Hopefully that's 606 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:11,640 Speaker 1: gonna be in the work soon. 607 00:31:12,720 --> 00:31:16,360 Speaker 2: Oh that would be great. Pump's gonna be so jealous. 608 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,080 Speaker 1: I think, like Savander Pump does pretty well for ourselves. Well. 609 00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: Worried about a little older Riddo Medley. 610 00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah boy, Okay, I'm gonna go back to the Real 611 00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,360 Speaker 2: Housewives for one more second. 612 00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead, I'm here for you. 613 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 2: Okay, wait, and maybe this is something I don't know. 614 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 2: Have you been on the show, the new one? 615 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: Yes, no, they don't. 616 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:45,360 Speaker 2: They asked you to come in for a cameo. 617 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 1: Noh, I get that really yeah. 618 00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:55,400 Speaker 2: What they really want to clean slate come on, I 619 00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 2: think I think. 620 00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 1: It will vokes. It's just a little voke, too much comparison. 621 00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: And you know, I think they need to let these 622 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 1: girls just really stand on their own without you know 623 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:08,080 Speaker 1: what I mean, because imagine if they said, oh, you know, 624 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,760 Speaker 1: next week episode Luendel Steps is going to be on. 625 00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,719 Speaker 1: That's going to be the focus for the audience. They 626 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:14,480 Speaker 1: need to these girls need to. 627 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 2: Yeah that yes, yes, do you think or has there 628 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 2: ever been talking. 629 00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:24,920 Speaker 1: For the third person in the last two days that's 630 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: asked me this question? 631 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 2: It really yes, it seems such a question. 632 00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:32,920 Speaker 1: I'm assuming is there ever a world? Do they combine 633 00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,800 Speaker 1: the two at some level? Was that it? No? 634 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:41,160 Speaker 2: No, I'm thinking a reboot of the OG. 635 00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: So they try a new. 636 00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 2: Show, but with you guys like coming back, like you know, 637 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 2: I limited series at least, I don't know, give me 638 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 2: a movie something. 639 00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 1: I think what they should have kept doing and I 640 00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 1: miss and I love to was the girls trips like 641 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: the one we did Saint bart Once a year they 642 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: get all the old girls back together. So me, that 643 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: was great because it allowed everybody because you know, a 644 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: lot of people are all over the place. Now, it 645 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 1: allowed the It would have allowed the audience to see 646 00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:17,120 Speaker 1: us all together once a year, get their dose of 647 00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 1: that and keep it moving. Right. 648 00:33:20,360 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 2: Wait, maybe I met you in Saint Bart's. I was 649 00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,320 Speaker 2: on Sonya's yacht. That's where I met Sonya. 650 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: No, that wasn't okay, No, No, I think we think 651 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,360 Speaker 1: we know each other because we have so many connective tissues. 652 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,400 Speaker 1: And it says if we because if you, if you 653 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: lived in New York, we know each other. If I 654 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 1: lived in London, we know each other. So it's one 655 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 1: of those assuming knowing things. 656 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 2: Right, if you lived in London, we wouldn't know each other. 657 00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:53,120 Speaker 2: We would in London. Did you mean la la la la? 658 00:33:53,240 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 2: We don't. Yeah, well whatever, we know each other. Now. Wait, 659 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 2: so have you watched I know it's in the second 660 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 2: season the new show. 661 00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:10,840 Speaker 1: Yes, because I have a radio show every week of 662 00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,000 Speaker 1: Radio Andy at that group. Yeah, Reality Check. So I 663 00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 1: do watch it. You have to, Yeah, I have to 664 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: watch it. I've watched all the shows, just a different show. 665 00:34:23,360 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 2: And that's okay. It shouldn't have the same title, but 666 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:28,200 Speaker 2: that's fine, just my opinion. 667 00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,600 Speaker 1: And I think that they you know, they've got there. 668 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: It's just it's just so hard for me to know. 669 00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: I don't have this thing that it was them or us. 670 00:34:37,800 --> 00:34:41,160 Speaker 1: I think things. They make decisions, you know better than anyone. 671 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:44,520 Speaker 1: You work at TV a long time. They make decisions. 672 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:48,240 Speaker 1: That's the decision, and they go forward with it, and 673 00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,960 Speaker 1: sometimes it's a good decision sometimes is that What will 674 00:34:51,000 --> 00:34:53,200 Speaker 1: be interesting now is to see what next year is 675 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: going to look like. Okay, wait, did you watch the finale? 676 00:34:58,000 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 2: I don't watch it anymore. 677 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: Oh you don't watch it? Yeah, it's fit because you know, 678 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 1: the response hasn't obviously, I think probably has been as 679 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,120 Speaker 1: positive as they would like it to be. So let's 680 00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 1: see what they what's going to happen next season. 681 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,919 Speaker 2: They didn't do this ship to Beverly Hills. Why New York? 682 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:20,279 Speaker 2: I know, imagine a whole new group of girls in 683 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 2: Beverly Hills. I can't no, because that's called selling sunset. 684 00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:25,520 Speaker 2: You know. 685 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: It's that was a really big, big, big, very upset 686 00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 1: about it. I think people still are sort of like 687 00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:34,000 Speaker 1: stunned by it. I think that's part of the reason 688 00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 1: that there's such a difficulty excepting because I think people 689 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 1: are still stunned that it happened. Because You're right, it's 690 00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,200 Speaker 1: never happened again, and I don't think they would do 691 00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,839 Speaker 1: it again. I think it was you know, I think 692 00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:45,760 Speaker 1: that was like a one. 693 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:50,240 Speaker 2: And done of all the casts of all the cities. 694 00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:52,560 Speaker 1: I don't think they'll do it. I mean, who knows. 695 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,840 Speaker 1: Let's see there there's the ongoing question right now, like 696 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,480 Speaker 1: will they do that to New Jersey? Right? Are they 697 00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,920 Speaker 1: going to do the same thing? And I hope not 698 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:07,360 Speaker 1: because learning curve for the audience is exhausting. It's a lot. 699 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 1: It takes a lot for an audience to fall in 700 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: love with you. That learning curve is all right, it's 701 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:15,799 Speaker 1: not an instant no, it's not an instant no. 702 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:20,080 Speaker 2: And you know what, you can keep plugging in newcast 703 00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:21,960 Speaker 2: to different shows. And I'm a lot better at all 704 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,000 Speaker 2: because I this happened with one else, so I keep 705 00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:27,320 Speaker 2: bringing it up. But it's like, you know, you can't 706 00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 2: recreate magic. You can put different people in, but it's 707 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 2: never the same. So I'm not a Real Housewives franchise fan. Yeah, 708 00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 2: the only two I have watched since the beginning. It's 709 00:36:41,320 --> 00:36:43,279 Speaker 2: the only two. Well, I guess I only have one 710 00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:46,480 Speaker 2: to watch now is Real Housewives of Beverly Hills and 711 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,480 Speaker 2: Real Housewives of New York. I'm friends with Teresa, so 712 00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 2: I have watched New Jersey sporadically, but no, nope, I 713 00:36:56,200 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 2: was all or nothing and like New York was my 714 00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,960 Speaker 2: And maybe it's because I'm from LA. Like I'm from La, 715 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,439 Speaker 2: so I responded to Beverly Hills, but I really fell 716 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 2: in love with the women. And then New York is like, 717 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,520 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, I never lived in New York, but 718 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 2: it's kind of the other you know, La. Well, but 719 00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:18,399 Speaker 2: your cast was just magical and. 720 00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 1: The cast was and what was great is it really 721 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:24,080 Speaker 1: did allow people to see a little piece of New 722 00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: York because if you don't live in New York, you 723 00:37:25,640 --> 00:37:28,440 Speaker 1: don't know how it works. And we were real. I 724 00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:31,640 Speaker 1: mean we're real New Yorkers, Like we live in the city, live, 725 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,640 Speaker 1: play work, raise our children here, like this is our playground. 726 00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,239 Speaker 1: And I think, you know, it takes a very sort 727 00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 1: of as I just said to someone who want to 728 00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: he's a very unique person to live in this kind 729 00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 1: of environment and love it like I love New York City. 730 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 1: I love it. 731 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,040 Speaker 2: Like they didn't do this to Sex and the City. 732 00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:54,839 Speaker 2: Imagine I correct direction because the fans wouldn't accept it? 733 00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:59,160 Speaker 2: Who can calm down here? So on the New Cast, 734 00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:04,400 Speaker 2: God saying who do you think? Like, who would you 735 00:38:04,440 --> 00:38:11,360 Speaker 2: say is the Direnda? I can't even ask you that 736 00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 2: because you can't there's your one of the kind. 737 00:38:14,760 --> 00:38:17,520 Speaker 1: It's that. And I still think there's act like. 738 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:22,000 Speaker 2: You're literally one to be kind, You're Dinda Medley, and there's. 739 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 1: Like I just sure, I mean who would be the 740 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:26,680 Speaker 1: new So? I mean I think they're all just who 741 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: would be the new Luis were the new? 742 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 2: In which incarnation of her? 743 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: You know? 744 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,839 Speaker 2: There's just no who falls in the bushes on that show? 745 00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:41,800 Speaker 1: That would be the o G girls. They were individually 746 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:45,799 Speaker 1: characters like they really were. It's just it's just like 747 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,359 Speaker 1: they are on Sea. I always say, if you see 748 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,000 Speaker 1: me be a lowandering Ramona out in the wild, we're 749 00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:56,919 Speaker 1: the same people. So but they collectively they were just fantastic, right, 750 00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god? That's why they say. 751 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:01,600 Speaker 2: Who do you think is the messiest? On the New Cast? 752 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,120 Speaker 1: The one that's in so much trouble? Brand? I think 753 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,200 Speaker 1: Brand is really she's She's the one that really I 754 00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,640 Speaker 1: think has gotten is stirs up a lot of stuff, 755 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:16,640 Speaker 1: but she'd miss it. Hm. The one that I think 756 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 1: is really that I feel like is a very good 757 00:39:18,719 --> 00:39:20,920 Speaker 1: how like I kind of relate to the most as 758 00:39:20,960 --> 00:39:23,440 Speaker 1: far as like she seems to me like on point 759 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:25,360 Speaker 1: of knowing what she's doing and kind of got it 760 00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:26,960 Speaker 1: got it down. Is Eric? 761 00:39:28,640 --> 00:39:30,759 Speaker 2: Okay, I know all these names, so I haven't seen 762 00:39:30,760 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 2: the show. You know what, I'm gonna go against my 763 00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 2: word and I'm gonna watch an episode I get. I'm 764 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,719 Speaker 2: gonna see how I feel. Fine, I'll go into it 765 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 2: open minded. 766 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:44,440 Speaker 1: Yes, well, listen, I don't speaks. I'm messy everywhere, so 767 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,200 Speaker 1: you might as well try it. Give it a go. Yeah, 768 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 1: you're right that desserts staying on the kitchen table. 769 00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,760 Speaker 2: Okay, and before we go, uh, you make it nice. 770 00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 2: I make it messy. Help me find the error of 771 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:03,439 Speaker 2: my ways. 772 00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:08,440 Speaker 1: And which way i'm mess category. 773 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,359 Speaker 2: Oh, you've helped me in many categories today figure out 774 00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 2: so much they didn't even plan on. But I'm just 775 00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,560 Speaker 2: you make it nice. I can make it nice too, 776 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:26,640 Speaker 2: But I am notoriously kind of messy's wrong, disorganized. 777 00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,239 Speaker 1: I think of you as a messy person. That's interesting. 778 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:34,200 Speaker 2: I don't know like messy. See, I have a connotation 779 00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:39,960 Speaker 2: of messy being like dirty or like I'm not like that. 780 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:42,480 Speaker 2: I think of you that you but not caught mess. No, 781 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:43,160 Speaker 2: I don't think. 782 00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: I think that you are outspoken and curious, which I 783 00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:48,960 Speaker 1: think those are good things. 784 00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 2: True. I'm talking more about my living quarters. Oh yeah, 785 00:40:56,320 --> 00:41:00,239 Speaker 2: like it. So, for instance, we got evacuated. We were 786 00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,200 Speaker 2: gone for a week. We came home and I thought 787 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 2: our house had been burglarized. I thought I'd been looted, 788 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 2: and then I realized, oh my god, this is just 789 00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 2: how we live. And we were in airbnb for a 790 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:14,719 Speaker 2: week and it was pristine. I kept to pristine. So 791 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,480 Speaker 2: I came back home and with all the devastation and 792 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,120 Speaker 2: everyone losing so much, I was like, oh my god, 793 00:41:20,520 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 2: I more than ever now, I just want all this 794 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:26,719 Speaker 2: stuff gone. That takes me in power. 795 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:32,279 Speaker 1: Everything myself. And you have seven children, that's hard. And 796 00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,439 Speaker 1: you have seven children and you have a career five 797 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:37,440 Speaker 1: five five sorry five children, and then you have a 798 00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:38,760 Speaker 1: career and. 799 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 2: That's you have seven bedrooms. 800 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: But come on, now, give yourself a break. You have 801 00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 1: five children, you've just been evacuated. You're doing it. I 802 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,720 Speaker 1: mean you're now did you get divorced, You're getting divorced. 803 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:55,880 Speaker 2: I'm getting divorced. 804 00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 1: Is he's still actively involved with all the kids and everything. Yeah, 805 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:01,960 Speaker 1: oh yeah, so. 806 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,399 Speaker 2: That's we compared quite well. 807 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:04,600 Speaker 1: So that's great. 808 00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:06,120 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. 809 00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 1: But still it's a lot of fun kids. I even 810 00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 1: known Hannahcoff's back home when she's one. 811 00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 2: They're a little bits, they are, But no one seems 812 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 2: to cut that break. People come from my house there's like, 813 00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,799 Speaker 2: you gotta get your shit together, and I'm like, I 814 00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,080 Speaker 2: don't have help. Well, don't I do it all myself. 815 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:27,120 Speaker 2: I'm a chef, I'm an uber driver. 816 00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 1: So what came to my house and say you need 817 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,920 Speaker 1: to get your ship together? I said, you need to 818 00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 1: leave through the front door, don't use the back door, 819 00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:34,520 Speaker 1: so I can make sure you leave, so. 820 00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 2: I see, you know I'm too nice help me? Yeah, no, no, okay, 821 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:40,719 Speaker 2: Oh you're doing that's the first step. You got five 822 00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:44,760 Speaker 2: beautiful kids, and you're doing your up every day. They're safe, 823 00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,600 Speaker 2: healthy and alive. I would not get myself all worked 824 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:50,640 Speaker 2: up about that. I could clean up the house a 825 00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:53,879 Speaker 2: little bit, though. Really I want to see this house, 826 00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:57,520 Speaker 2: but I, oh my god, I could never have you 827 00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:00,720 Speaker 2: in my house unless we're filming it. And that sounds 828 00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:08,960 Speaker 2: like a great episode of something. Okay, oh it's not. Well, 829 00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:12,120 Speaker 2: there's no like piles with like dead animals buried at 830 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 2: the bottom that I know of. Uh huh. 831 00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: Okay, well we need to get the cameras in there. 832 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just going to show you real quick because 833 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 2: we are friends. Now. This is wow. I'm really letting 834 00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:28,880 Speaker 2: you in. Like here you see piles. 835 00:43:29,719 --> 00:43:32,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, but it's not. It's just more like yeah, I 836 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:33,880 Speaker 1: mean it's like just clean up stuff. 837 00:43:34,280 --> 00:43:36,040 Speaker 2: It just needs to be cleaned up. I just don't 838 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:40,560 Speaker 2: have the time, It's correct. Okay, So I had a good, 839 00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,360 Speaker 2: solid week where I did nothing. 840 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,160 Speaker 1: You got to get your troll down the kitchen and 841 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,279 Speaker 1: help you. That's you've got map Hower there. 842 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,719 Speaker 2: Okay, great, if you want to speak to them, they