Speaker 1: Second date up dated. If you go out with somebody
Speaker 1: that you really really like, how long you willing to
Speaker 1: wait and pursue them hoping to get that second date?
Speaker 1: What's your maximimy? Is it two weeks before you tap out?
Speaker 1: Four weeks?
Speaker 2: Wait, you're gonna wait. You're gonna wait that long to
Speaker 2: get a second date.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. How long you're willing to wait
Speaker 1: for it?
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say two minutes.
Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners, Jacqueline, sent us an email
Speaker 1: saying she met a guy so amazing. She's been trying
Speaker 1: to lock down date number two for the last four months.
Speaker 2: When you said it the music chriscendo, I'm so right, Jeff.
Speaker 1: Months to do whatever it takes. In fact, she's calling
Speaker 1: in the big guns to get it done today. And
Speaker 1: that's us. So, Jacqueline, thank you for calling at and
Speaker 1: t Welcome to the shoot.
Speaker 2: Than four months?
Speaker 3: My gosh, have you been dating other people in that time?
Speaker 3: Are you just holding out for this guy?
Speaker 4: I mean, I've like met up with some other people,
Speaker 4: but I feel like most of my brain phase is
Speaker 4: taken up by like thinking about Tom Yeah, thinking about Tom.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's guy number one. In your heart right now.
Speaker 1: So Tom is his name? How did you meet him?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: Well, were that online? Like most people?
Speaker 2: Did you know as soon as you met him that
Speaker 2: there was something really special about him?
Speaker 4: I did. I got that like feeling. He's a lawyer and.
Speaker 1: He is say no more. You have won us all over,
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.
Speaker 5: I'm not going to anymore.
Speaker 2: Why you He's busy, That's why I was gonna say,
Speaker 2: and drunk. I mean, lawyers like to throw back.
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's a lot of positives that you all
Speaker 1: just said right there.
Speaker 5: So that's not like your dream guy, a drunken, rich guy.
Speaker 1: I was never around perfect home, Okay, I.
Speaker 2: Mean maybe he's honestly been that busy.
Speaker 3: Like when my best friend was working at one of
Speaker 3: her firms, she was billying I think like ninety hours.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's possible. So how did things get
Speaker 1: started between you and Tom, Jacqueline?
Speaker 4: Well, we have like this really good banter on the app,
Speaker 4: and we have a lot in common of like things
Speaker 4: we like to do. And here's ridiculously good looking, Like
Speaker 4: he's so good looking. At first, I was like sort
Speaker 4: of scared.
Speaker 3: Oh well, okay, so now it feels like it puts
Speaker 3: it into a little bit different perspective.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so like he probably has a waiting list of girls.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what did you guys do? Did he ask you out?
Speaker 4: Yeah? He asked me out and he went out to
Speaker 4: dinner and he offered to pick me up, which I
Speaker 4: thought was like so sweet, but you know, I just
Speaker 4: have to look out for my safety. So so what
Speaker 4: so I like took a car service there.
Speaker 2: And that smart before you meet somebody.
Speaker 4: So yeah, we went to this Mediterranean place that I've
Speaker 4: never been to. It was outside, it was really pretty
Speaker 4: at all those like little fairy light.
Speaker 2: Oh I love it.
Speaker 4: What else he did that I loved was like one
Speaker 4: she was actually dressed properly, like I've gone on it
Speaker 4: on so many app dates and guys are just like
Speaker 4: they just came from the gym or something. And she
Speaker 4: was like waiting outside the restaurant for me, which yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: And so what about the actual date itself? When you
Speaker 1: sat down to have dinner with him? How was that?
Speaker 4: It was great? We had so much like we were laughing,
Speaker 4: We had so much to talk about, Like we had
Speaker 4: to keep asking the waiter to come back in five minutes.
Speaker 4: We hadn't even looked at the venue.
Speaker 2: Oh that's a great sign.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought so. He never took out his phone.
Speaker 1: Do you remember a lot from a date that happened
Speaker 1: four months ago? Yeah, she found every single detail.
Speaker 3: She found a lawyer that doesn't take out their phone.
Speaker 3: I think that that doesn't even exist, you.
Speaker 4: Know, yeah, like you would remember that you.
Speaker 1: Said a lot of good things. Did anything bad happen
Speaker 1: on the date? Because it has been a long time
Speaker 1: since you guys hung out.
Speaker 4: I don't think anything bad, like, because I've been running
Speaker 4: it over and over in my mind. The only thing
Speaker 4: I can think is like, I wish I could sell
Speaker 4: your picture. But like his jaw is so shiveled. I
Speaker 4: was like I kept saying, like, are you sure you
Speaker 4: don't mew?
Speaker 3: And you you don't mew the exercise to make your
Speaker 3: chin better?
Speaker 4: Yes, And he didn't know what I was talking about,
Speaker 4: so like I had linked with him.
Speaker 1: Can you explain it to some of the listeners who
Speaker 1: don't know what that is?
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you make like the MW sound, you're like
Speaker 4: new me and like kind of defines your job.
Speaker 5: Muscles.
Speaker 1: Any wait, where were you doing that to show him
Speaker 1: during the date?
Speaker 2: Yeah, moment, like you were trying to be funny.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean he's sort of a couple. But I
Speaker 4: mean you did look at me like what are you doing?
Speaker 4: But like it wasn't like I can stand up on
Speaker 4: the table and do it for emly, but.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I'm sure lawyers love to be on
Speaker 1: it date with cats.
Speaker 3: Basically, Oh, come on, she's just game playful, like you
Speaker 3: don't want to date somebody that's super serious.
Speaker 2: And can't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe she like pulled like a ball of string around
Speaker 1: on the table too, very playful.
Speaker 5: She's like, you know, hold on, I'm going to get
Speaker 5: this hair ball.
Speaker 1: So was there any like romantic stuff that happened on
Speaker 1: the day. Was there a kiss?
Speaker 4: Maybe there wasn't, unfortunately, but he did say he wanted
Speaker 4: to see me again and gave me a really long, tight,
Speaker 4: tight hug.
Speaker 3: So oh, she's still living in that embrace. Have you
Speaker 3: had zero contact with him since some were.
Speaker 1: Yet you know what's happen in the last four months?
Speaker 4: Well, at first I texted him a little bit more.
Speaker 4: He said he wanted to see me again and everything,
Speaker 4: and then his birthday was two weeks ago, so I
Speaker 4: texted him for that.
Speaker 2: Why do you know that.
Speaker 6: I know, it.
Speaker 1: Just came into her brain naturally. Okay, so now it's
Speaker 1: been four months since that dinner date with this lawyer guy,
Speaker 1: and you've come to us hoping that we can get
Speaker 1: him to agree to a second date.
Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, you have to be on your a
Speaker 5: game because this is a lawyer week.
Speaker 1: Maybe you get a show.
Speaker 2: Maybe we just say this is a belated birthday present.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that won't creep him out at all. Let's
Speaker 1: do that when we come back and get your second
Speaker 1: date update right after this hold on second date update
Speaker 1: four months. Most people don't wait that long to reach
Speaker 1: out to us trying to score another date. But our listener,
Speaker 1: Jacqueline is a unique individual.
Speaker 2: Hey, and she met a unique man.
Speaker 1: She figured out that man's birthday happened recently and won't
Speaker 1: tell us how she knew that, But that really doesn't matter.
Speaker 1: The bottom line is this, Her date Tom was very attractive.
Speaker 1: He's a lawyer, so duh, she wants to see him again.
Speaker 2: No, they had a real connection, Jeffrey. It wasn't just
Speaker 2: that she really enjoyed him.
Speaker 1: But her first two points to us were he's beautiful
Speaker 1: and a lawyer.
Speaker 2: To help her.
Speaker 1: He doesn't even have to mete for that, Jawllain. That's
Speaker 1: all natural, baby, But the big problem is he's not
Speaker 1: reaching back out to her in the last four months.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna try and change that for you today, Jacqueline,
Speaker 1: how you doing.
Speaker 4: I'm good. How are you guys?
Speaker 2: I don't know that I was totally clear. Did he
Speaker 2: ever hit you back at all?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 5: Zero?
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, I don't want you to be like
Speaker 3: her if he doesn't remember who you are.
Speaker 5: Months ago total.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, I haven't reached back to
Speaker 1: my mother in the last like four to five years,
Speaker 1: so that doesn't necessarily mean that it's completely dead.
Speaker 5: And she is looking for you.
Speaker 2: Actively though, And do you know her first name?
Speaker 1: You know what? Come back to me at the end
Speaker 1: of the segment.
Speaker 2: And I'll remember that for you exactly.
Speaker 1: But let's give this guy Tom a call, Tom the lawyer.
Speaker 1: We'll see if he answers. Are we calling his cell phone?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I gave you his cell phone and he's definitely going
Speaker 4: to remember me.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's positive.
Speaker 5: I like that.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not sure if I like the way that
Speaker 1: you said that, but okay, we're gonna style it. Here
Speaker 1: we go.
Speaker 6: Hello. Is it Tom? Uh?
Speaker 4: Hi?
Speaker 1: Oh you're so formal. Answer your phone professional. Yeah, Hey Tom,
Speaker 1: nice to meet you. We're a radio show called Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have a second?
Speaker 5: Hello Thomas?
Speaker 1: Okay, did you hang.
Speaker 6: Up too much?
Speaker 1: Hello?
Speaker 6: Tom?
Speaker 2: Are you there?
Speaker 6: I'm here? I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: Who is this?
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from a award winning radio show
Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the war.
Speaker 2: That's actually true.
Speaker 1: It happened a long time ago, but.
Speaker 4: It happened like when the book City win prizes and
Speaker 4: everyone has one.
Speaker 6: You're on the radio right now, man, That's what the
Speaker 6: call is regarding.
Speaker 1: Yes, that's a great question actually regarding you and your
Speaker 1: dating life with a woman that you went out with
Speaker 1: about four months ago named Jacqueline.
Speaker 6: Jacqueline. Yeah, okay, do.
Speaker 2: You remember Jacqueline? She definitely remembers you.
Speaker 1: You guys met online and went out to like a restaurant.
Speaker 2: Oh he was Mediterranean, Mediterranean food.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, she loved your jaw.
Speaker 6: I yes, I do remember who you were talking about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, I got a little laugh out of you.
Speaker 2: Were you thinking about calling her back?
Speaker 6: I know if I'm being completely out Okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's okay, we hear that sometimes.
Speaker 1: Is there a reason.
Speaker 6: Why I'm not gonna be calling Jacqueline back? I'm gonna
Speaker 6: end up staying away from her? Oh? It was it
Speaker 6: was strange.
Speaker 2: What was strange?
Speaker 6: The date? Well, the date, No, the date was fine.
Speaker 6: We had a lovely time, We're out good. The problem
Speaker 6: was that she was overly forward after the date.
Speaker 2: What do you mean?
Speaker 1: What happened after?
Speaker 6: Jacqueline was leaving voicemails at my place of work. Oh,
Speaker 6: she knew I was an attorney and apparently found out
Speaker 6: where I worked. Ill.
Speaker 1: She said that you weren't answering her, and so she
Speaker 1: was trying to reach you anyway possible because she was
Speaker 1: really really excited about the potential for you guys's relationship.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Did that feel like a boundary that was cross
Speaker 2: there for you? Okay?
Speaker 3: Did you tell her though, because you know, people who
Speaker 3: maybe don't work in your line of field don't feel
Speaker 3: the same.
Speaker 6: Well, after about the fourth or fifth voicemail, I remember
Speaker 6: she did get in contact with my secretary and.
Speaker 2: What did she say to her?
Speaker 6: My secretary had her on the line and I had to,
Speaker 6: you know, fib and say, I'm extremely busy with the case, which,
Speaker 6: truth be told, I was busy with the case. But
Speaker 6: the other issue with all of this is that I
Speaker 6: never gave when the information of what law firm I
Speaker 6: work at?
Speaker 2: How did she find you LinkedIn?
Speaker 6: You know, I do not know off the top of
Speaker 6: my head. I did not inquire about her further into this,
Speaker 6: I guess lately.
Speaker 1: Okay, kend Of just wrote that off.
Speaker 6: I found that it was a little bit of a
Speaker 6: really intrusive move from being.
Speaker 2: Out that's going to be good for her to hear.
Speaker 1: Definitely a little odd. Yeah, and uh, I'm sorry that
Speaker 1: she I know you said you're trying to avoid her,
Speaker 1: but sorry, we made kind of an oops because she's
Speaker 1: actually on the phone with us right now in the
Speaker 1: other line listening to this.
Speaker 2: She heard all that.
Speaker 1: What Yeah, that's that's how this segment works, and she's
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, guys, heym I'm so happy that, like I
Speaker 4: get to hear your voice.
Speaker 6: Cut a while, Jacqueline, what are you doing?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 4: I was just trying to get ahold of you because
Speaker 4: I been thinking about you and I have such a
Speaker 4: good time when we went out and he said, you
Speaker 4: want to see me again?
Speaker 6: So I did at a certain point. But this is
Speaker 6: getting borderline stalker behavior. This is insane. You're using to
Speaker 6: contact me. I'm working right now. I thought this was
Speaker 6: a client.
Speaker 4: Oh, I'm so sorry. But if you would have gotten
Speaker 4: back to me, like I wouldn't have called them. And
Speaker 4: I think stalker is like way overblown. I've left a
Speaker 4: couple of messages that you're work.
Speaker 5: Say that often it's not technically.
Speaker 6: If it's not stalkers, how did you find out where
Speaker 6: I work?
Speaker 1: Actually, that's a good question.
Speaker 2: It's going to be hard to win an argument against
Speaker 2: the lawyer right now.
Speaker 4: Okay, in my defense, it was so simple, like all
Speaker 4: your pictures on the app, Like I saw that there
Speaker 4: was one picture of you outside in the courtyard and
Speaker 4: you could see the courthouse across the street. So all
Speaker 4: I did was go on Google find the courthouse, and
Speaker 4: then I knew you were working in the building across
Speaker 4: from it. So you know, I call the different law
Speaker 4: firm so I find you.
Speaker 2: That made it sound worse.
Speaker 1: Are you you did detective work based on a picture
Speaker 1: on his profile?
Speaker 4: Yeah, all ladies will do that, Like you look for
Speaker 4: contract clues in the pictures.
Speaker 2: That's true. I can't voicemails. You do it, but you
Speaker 2: just know where they work. What's the harm?
Speaker 5: Don't tell them?
Speaker 1: You can't leave the evidence behind that you've been okay.
Speaker 4: I wouldn't have left voicemails if you would have just
Speaker 4: returned my call. And you know he had meant that
Speaker 4: he wasn't really loving his new secretary, so I thought.
Speaker 2: Maybe you didn't love Wait did you just say he
Speaker 2: didn't like his new secretary?
Speaker 4: He mentioned that when we had dinner.
Speaker 2: To be the new secretary.
Speaker 1: Tom, can you see how maybe you've brought some of
Speaker 1: this upon yourself? Stop it, but at a bare minimum,
Speaker 1: you have to be impressed with how she was able
Speaker 1: to figure out where or scared Jeff.
Speaker 4: You you section me Tom on the date, what's your
Speaker 4: best quality? And I said, I'm determined, and so I
Speaker 4: think I'm proving. But I was determined to get a
Speaker 4: hold of you again.
Speaker 3: You know there's a good side and a bad side
Speaker 3: to every quality.
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to like disagree with you about your
Speaker 4: secretary because she's totally friendly. When I call there, she's
Speaker 4: still there.
Speaker 2: We can convert, not for long if she keeps giving
Speaker 2: out Tom's information.
Speaker 4: I found his information. I figured that all out on
Speaker 4: my own to like fining a lot credit for that.
Speaker 2: He is not impressed, Tom.
Speaker 1: Maybe he'll be impressed if you wish him happy belated
Speaker 1: birthday right now.
Speaker 6: What are you talking about?
Speaker 1: That lets you figure out it's your birthday. That's called persistence.
Speaker 2: I thought she texted you the birthday message.
Speaker 6: I blocked her a long time ago. I don't see
Speaker 6: anything she sent to me.
Speaker 1: Why he didn't get the message? You better tell it
Speaker 1: to him. Better wish him happy birthday right now, dude.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't know that.
Speaker 1: Or better yet, you can wish him happy birthday when
Speaker 1: you meet face to face for your second date, a
Speaker 1: date that we will pay for if Tom agrees to it.
Speaker 1: What do you think, Tom?
Speaker 6: Absolutely not. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think that's a pretty clear message.
Speaker 1: Well, are you sure you want to say that, because
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure Jacquelin's on the other side of the
Speaker 1: door from wherever you are right now, so you might
Speaker 1: want to say yes, Just.
Speaker 5: Say yes, we'll go right now.
Speaker 6: I would not be surprised at this point.
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, Jacqueline, you do understand what he's saying,
Speaker 3: right Yeah, No.
Speaker 4: I get it. I mean there was a couple of times,
Speaker 4: like one of my friends wanted to meet for lunch
Speaker 4: and she sort of lives over by that courthouse, like
Speaker 4: down that way. So we went and we had lunch,
Speaker 4: trying to maybe run into Tom and I didn't.
Speaker 2: Oh no, there's more than one crazy of you.
Speaker 1: Well, I don't want Jacqueline to leave this phone call
Speaker 1: empty handed. That's why, Jacqueline, we're going to offer to
Speaker 1: send you out to lunch with Tom secretary you get
Speaker 1: along with so much.
Speaker 6: Well, please don't go to lunch with my secretary. Please.
Speaker 6: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: I think this is going to be one of those
Speaker 1: dates we look back at and say, you know what,
Speaker 1: maybe there'll be better off as friends.
Speaker 2: I was going to be one of those dates where
Speaker 2: we turn the audio over to authorities.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, that'll be nice and they can be
Speaker 1: friends and you can visit her every few months while
Speaker 1: she's in prison for whatever mischief she gets herself into.
Speaker 2: After this, I don't think there's any friendships ahead.
Speaker 1: It'll be nice. They could write each other letters back
Speaker 1: and forth.
Speaker 3: I think that it'll just be back and.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's never going to respond, But remember you can
Speaker 1: listen to all of our podcasts with our second dates
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