WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Persistence Pays Off

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated. If you go out with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that you really really like, how long you willing to

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<v Speaker 1>wait and pursue them hoping to get that second date?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your maximimy? Is it two weeks before you tap out?

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<v Speaker 1>Four weeks?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, you're gonna wait. You're gonna wait that long to

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<v Speaker 2>get a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. How long you're willing to wait

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<v Speaker 1>for it?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say two minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one of our listeners, Jacqueline, sent us an email

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<v Speaker 1>saying she met a guy so amazing. She's been trying

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<v Speaker 1>to lock down date number two for the last four months.

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<v Speaker 2>When you said it the music chriscendo, I'm so right, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Months to do whatever it takes. In fact, she's calling

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<v Speaker 1>in the big guns to get it done today. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's us. So, Jacqueline, thank you for calling at and

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<v Speaker 1>t Welcome to the shoot.

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<v Speaker 2>Than four months?

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<v Speaker 3>My gosh, have you been dating other people in that time?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you just holding out for this guy?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I've like met up with some other people,

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<v Speaker 4>but I feel like most of my brain phase is

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<v Speaker 4>taken up by like thinking about Tom Yeah, thinking about Tom.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's guy number one. In your heart right now.

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<v Speaker 1>So Tom is his name? How did you meet him?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, were that online? Like most people?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know as soon as you met him that

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<v Speaker 2>there was something really special about him?

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<v Speaker 4>I did. I got that like feeling. He's a lawyer and.

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<v Speaker 1>He is say no more. You have won us all over,

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not going to anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>Why you He's busy, That's why I was gonna say,

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<v Speaker 2>and drunk. I mean, lawyers like to throw back.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, that's a lot of positives that you all

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<v Speaker 1>just said right there.

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<v Speaker 5>So that's not like your dream guy, a drunken, rich guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I was never around perfect home, Okay, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean maybe he's honestly been that busy.

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<v Speaker 3>Like when my best friend was working at one of

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<v Speaker 3>her firms, she was billying I think like ninety hours.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that's possible. So how did things get

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<v Speaker 1>started between you and Tom, Jacqueline?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we have like this really good banter on the app,

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<v Speaker 4>and we have a lot in common of like things

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<v Speaker 4>we like to do. And here's ridiculously good looking, Like

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<v Speaker 4>he's so good looking. At first, I was like sort

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<v Speaker 4>of scared.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, okay, so now it feels like it puts

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<v Speaker 3>it into a little bit different perspective.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so like he probably has a waiting list of girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what did you guys do? Did he ask you out?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? He asked me out and he went out to

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<v Speaker 4>dinner and he offered to pick me up, which I

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<v Speaker 4>thought was like so sweet, but you know, I just

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<v Speaker 4>have to look out for my safety. So so what

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<v Speaker 4>so I like took a car service there.

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<v Speaker 2>And that smart before you meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, we went to this Mediterranean place that I've

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<v Speaker 4>never been to. It was outside, it was really pretty

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<v Speaker 4>at all those like little fairy light.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I love it.

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<v Speaker 4>What else he did that I loved was like one

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<v Speaker 4>she was actually dressed properly, like I've gone on it

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<v Speaker 4>on so many app dates and guys are just like

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<v Speaker 4>they just came from the gym or something. And she

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<v Speaker 4>was like waiting outside the restaurant for me, which yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And so what about the actual date itself? When you

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<v Speaker 1>sat down to have dinner with him? How was that?

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<v Speaker 4>It was great? We had so much like we were laughing,

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<v Speaker 4>We had so much to talk about, Like we had

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<v Speaker 4>to keep asking the waiter to come back in five minutes.

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<v Speaker 4>We hadn't even looked at the venue.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's a great sign.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I thought so. He never took out his phone.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember a lot from a date that happened

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<v Speaker 1>four months ago? Yeah, she found every single detail.

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<v Speaker 3>She found a lawyer that doesn't take out their phone.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that that doesn't even exist, you.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, yeah, like you would remember that you.

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<v Speaker 1>Said a lot of good things. Did anything bad happen

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<v Speaker 1>on the date? Because it has been a long time

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<v Speaker 1>since you guys hung out.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think anything bad, like, because I've been running

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<v Speaker 4>it over and over in my mind. The only thing

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<v Speaker 4>I can think is like, I wish I could sell

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<v Speaker 4>your picture. But like his jaw is so shiveled. I

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<v Speaker 4>was like I kept saying, like, are you sure you

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<v Speaker 4>don't mew?

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<v Speaker 3>And you you don't mew the exercise to make your

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<v Speaker 3>chin better?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, And he didn't know what I was talking about,

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<v Speaker 4>so like I had linked with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you explain it to some of the listeners who

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what that is?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so you make like the MW sound, you're like

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<v Speaker 4>new me and like kind of defines your job.

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<v Speaker 5>Muscles.

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<v Speaker 1>Any wait, where were you doing that to show him

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<v Speaker 1>during the date?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, moment, like you were trying to be funny.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean he's sort of a couple. But I

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<v Speaker 4>mean you did look at me like what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>But like it wasn't like I can stand up on

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<v Speaker 4>the table and do it for emly, but.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I'm sure lawyers love to be on

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<v Speaker 1>it date with cats.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically, Oh, come on, she's just game playful, like you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to date somebody that's super serious.

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<v Speaker 2>And can't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she like pulled like a ball of string around

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<v Speaker 1>on the table too, very playful.

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<v Speaker 5>She's like, you know, hold on, I'm going to get

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<v Speaker 5>this hair ball.

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<v Speaker 1>So was there any like romantic stuff that happened on

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<v Speaker 1>the day. Was there a kiss?

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe there wasn't, unfortunately, but he did say he wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to see me again and gave me a really long, tight,

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<v Speaker 4>tight hug.

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<v Speaker 3>So oh, she's still living in that embrace. Have you

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<v Speaker 3>had zero contact with him since some were.

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<v Speaker 1>Yet you know what's happen in the last four months?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, at first I texted him a little bit more.

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<v Speaker 4>He said he wanted to see me again and everything,

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<v Speaker 4>and then his birthday was two weeks ago, so I

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<v Speaker 4>texted him for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you know that.

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<v Speaker 6>I know, it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just came into her brain naturally. Okay, so now it's

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<v Speaker 1>been four months since that dinner date with this lawyer guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and you've come to us hoping that we can get

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<v Speaker 1>him to agree to a second date.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, all right, you have to be on your a

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<v Speaker 5>game because this is a lawyer week.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you get a show.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe we just say this is a belated birthday present.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that won't creep him out at all. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>do that when we come back and get your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right after this hold on second date update

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<v Speaker 1>four months. Most people don't wait that long to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to us trying to score another date. But our listener,

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<v Speaker 1>Jacqueline is a unique individual.

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, and she met a unique man.

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<v Speaker 1>She figured out that man's birthday happened recently and won't

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how she knew that, But that really doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 1>The bottom line is this, Her date Tom was very attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a lawyer, so duh, she wants to see him again.

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<v Speaker 2>No, they had a real connection, Jeffrey. It wasn't just

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<v Speaker 2>that she really enjoyed him.

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<v Speaker 1>But her first two points to us were he's beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>and a lawyer.

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<v Speaker 2>To help her.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't even have to mete for that, Jawllain. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all natural, baby, But the big problem is he's not

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<v Speaker 1>reaching back out to her in the last four months.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna try and change that for you today, Jacqueline,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm good. How are you guys?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know that I was totally clear. Did he

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<v Speaker 2>ever hit you back at all?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 5>Zero?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, honestly, I don't want you to be like

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<v Speaker 3>her if he doesn't remember who you are.

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<v Speaker 5>Months ago total.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, I haven't reached back to

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<v Speaker 1>my mother in the last like four to five years,

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<v Speaker 1>so that doesn't necessarily mean that it's completely dead.

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<v Speaker 5>And she is looking for you.

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<v Speaker 2>Actively though, And do you know her first name?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what? Come back to me at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the segment.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'll remember that for you exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But let's give this guy Tom a call, Tom the lawyer.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see if he answers. Are we calling his cell phone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I gave you his cell phone and he's definitely going

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<v Speaker 4>to remember me.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's positive.

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<v Speaker 5>I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm not sure if I like the way that

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<v Speaker 1>you said that, but okay, we're gonna style it. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello. Is it Tom? Uh?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're so formal. Answer your phone professional. Yeah, Hey Tom,

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<v Speaker 1>nice to meet you. We're a radio show called Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning. Do you have a second?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello Thomas?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, did you hang.

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<v Speaker 6>Up too much?

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<v Speaker 1>Hello?

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<v Speaker 6>Tom?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you there?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm here? I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>Who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from a award winning radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brook and Jeffrey in the war.

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<v Speaker 2>That's actually true.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened a long time ago, but.

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<v Speaker 4>It happened like when the book City win prizes and

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<v Speaker 4>everyone has one.

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<v Speaker 6>You're on the radio right now, man, That's what the

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<v Speaker 6>call is regarding.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's a great question actually regarding you and your

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<v Speaker 1>dating life with a woman that you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>about four months ago named Jacqueline.

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<v Speaker 6>Jacqueline. Yeah, okay, do.

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<v Speaker 2>You remember Jacqueline? She definitely remembers you.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys met online and went out to like a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh he was Mediterranean, Mediterranean food.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, she loved your jaw.

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<v Speaker 6>I yes, I do remember who you were talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, okay, I got a little laugh out of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you thinking about calling her back?

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<v Speaker 6>I know if I'm being completely out Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's okay, we hear that sometimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a reason.

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<v Speaker 6>Why I'm not gonna be calling Jacqueline back? I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 6>end up staying away from her? Oh? It was it

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<v Speaker 6>was strange.

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<v Speaker 2>What was strange?

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<v Speaker 6>The date? Well, the date, No, the date was fine.

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<v Speaker 6>We had a lovely time, We're out good. The problem

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<v Speaker 6>was that she was overly forward after the date.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>What happened after?

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<v Speaker 6>Jacqueline was leaving voicemails at my place of work. Oh,

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<v Speaker 6>she knew I was an attorney and apparently found out

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<v Speaker 6>where I worked. Ill.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that you weren't answering her, and so she

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to reach you anyway possible because she was

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<v Speaker 1>really really excited about the potential for you guys's relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Did that feel like a boundary that was cross

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<v Speaker 2>there for you? Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you tell her though, because you know, people who

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<v Speaker 3>maybe don't work in your line of field don't feel

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<v Speaker 3>the same.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, after about the fourth or fifth voicemail, I remember

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<v Speaker 6>she did get in contact with my secretary and.

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<v Speaker 2>What did she say to her?

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<v Speaker 6>My secretary had her on the line and I had to,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, fib and say, I'm extremely busy with the case, which,

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<v Speaker 6>truth be told, I was busy with the case. But

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<v Speaker 6>the other issue with all of this is that I

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<v Speaker 6>never gave when the information of what law firm I

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<v Speaker 6>work at?

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<v Speaker 2>How did she find you LinkedIn?

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<v Speaker 6>You know, I do not know off the top of

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<v Speaker 6>my head. I did not inquire about her further into this,

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<v Speaker 6>I guess lately.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, kend Of just wrote that off.

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<v Speaker 6>I found that it was a little bit of a

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<v Speaker 6>really intrusive move from being.

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<v Speaker 2>Out that's going to be good for her to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>Definitely a little odd. Yeah, and uh, I'm sorry that

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<v Speaker 1>she I know you said you're trying to avoid her,

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<v Speaker 1>but sorry, we made kind of an oops because she's

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the phone with us right now in the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this.

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<v Speaker 2>She heard all that.

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<v Speaker 1>What Yeah, that's that's how this segment works, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, hey, guys, heym I'm so happy that, like I

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<v Speaker 4>get to hear your voice.

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<v Speaker 6>Cut a while, Jacqueline, what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to get ahold of you because

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<v Speaker 4>I been thinking about you and I have such a

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<v Speaker 4>good time when we went out and he said, you

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<v Speaker 4>want to see me again?

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<v Speaker 6>So I did at a certain point. But this is

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<v Speaker 6>getting borderline stalker behavior. This is insane. You're using to

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<v Speaker 6>contact me. I'm working right now. I thought this was

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<v Speaker 6>a client.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I'm so sorry. But if you would have gotten

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<v Speaker 4>back to me, like I wouldn't have called them. And

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<v Speaker 4>I think stalker is like way overblown. I've left a

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<v Speaker 4>couple of messages that you're work.

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<v Speaker 5>Say that often it's not technically.

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<v Speaker 6>If it's not stalkers, how did you find out where

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<v Speaker 6>I work?

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<v Speaker 1>Actually, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 2>It's going to be hard to win an argument against

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<v Speaker 2>the lawyer right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, in my defense, it was so simple, like all

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<v Speaker 4>your pictures on the app, Like I saw that there

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<v Speaker 4>was one picture of you outside in the courtyard and

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<v Speaker 4>you could see the courthouse across the street. So all

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<v Speaker 4>I did was go on Google find the courthouse, and

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<v Speaker 4>then I knew you were working in the building across

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<v Speaker 4>from it. So you know, I call the different law

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<v Speaker 4>firm so I find you.

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<v Speaker 2>That made it sound worse.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you you did detective work based on a picture

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<v Speaker 1>on his profile?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, all ladies will do that, Like you look for

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<v Speaker 4>contract clues in the pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. I can't voicemails. You do it, but you

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<v Speaker 2>just know where they work. What's the harm?

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<v Speaker 5>Don't tell them?

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<v Speaker 1>You can't leave the evidence behind that you've been okay.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't have left voicemails if you would have just

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<v Speaker 4>returned my call. And you know he had meant that

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<v Speaker 4>he wasn't really loving his new secretary, so I thought.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe you didn't love Wait did you just say he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't like his new secretary?

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<v Speaker 4>He mentioned that when we had dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>To be the new secretary.

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<v Speaker 1>Tom, can you see how maybe you've brought some of

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<v Speaker 1>this upon yourself? Stop it, but at a bare minimum,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be impressed with how she was able

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out where or scared Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>You you section me Tom on the date, what's your

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<v Speaker 4>best quality? And I said, I'm determined, and so I

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<v Speaker 4>think I'm proving. But I was determined to get a

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<v Speaker 4>hold of you again.

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<v Speaker 3>You know there's a good side and a bad side

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<v Speaker 3>to every quality.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm gonna have to like disagree with you about your

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<v Speaker 4>secretary because she's totally friendly. When I call there, she's

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<v Speaker 4>still there.

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<v Speaker 2>We can convert, not for long if she keeps giving

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<v Speaker 2>out Tom's information.

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<v Speaker 4>I found his information. I figured that all out on

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<v Speaker 4>my own to like fining a lot credit for that.

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<v Speaker 2>He is not impressed, Tom.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he'll be impressed if you wish him happy belated

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<v Speaker 1>birthday right now.

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<v Speaker 6>What are you talking about?

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<v Speaker 1>That lets you figure out it's your birthday. That's called persistence.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought she texted you the birthday message.

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<v Speaker 6>I blocked her a long time ago. I don't see

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<v Speaker 6>anything she sent to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Why he didn't get the message? You better tell it

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Better wish him happy birthday right now, dude.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 1>Or better yet, you can wish him happy birthday when

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<v Speaker 1>you meet face to face for your second date, a

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<v Speaker 1>date that we will pay for if Tom agrees to it.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, Tom?

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<v Speaker 6>Absolutely not. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's a pretty clear message.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, are you sure you want to say that, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure Jacquelin's on the other side of the

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<v Speaker 1>door from wherever you are right now, so you might

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<v Speaker 1>want to say yes, Just.

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<v Speaker 5>Say yes, we'll go right now.

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<v Speaker 6>I would not be surprised at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my god, Jacqueline, you do understand what he's saying,

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<v Speaker 3>right Yeah, No.

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<v Speaker 4>I get it. I mean there was a couple of times,

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<v Speaker 4>like one of my friends wanted to meet for lunch

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<v Speaker 4>and she sort of lives over by that courthouse, like

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<v Speaker 4>down that way. So we went and we had lunch,

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<v Speaker 4>trying to maybe run into Tom and I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, there's more than one crazy of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I don't want Jacqueline to leave this phone call

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<v Speaker 1>empty handed. That's why, Jacqueline, we're going to offer to

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<v Speaker 1>send you out to lunch with Tom secretary you get

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<v Speaker 1>along with so much.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, please don't go to lunch with my secretary. Please.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is going to be one of those

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<v Speaker 1>dates we look back at and say, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe there'll be better off as friends.

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to be one of those dates where

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<v Speaker 2>we turn the audio over to authorities.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you know, that'll be nice and they can be

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<v Speaker 1>friends and you can visit her every few months while

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<v Speaker 1>she's in prison for whatever mischief she gets herself into.

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<v Speaker 2>After this, I don't think there's any friendships ahead.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be nice. They could write each other letters back

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<v Speaker 1>and forth.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that it'll just be back and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he's never going to respond, But remember you can

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