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Speaker 1: Welcome to decisions decisions.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decisions decisions. It sounded

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Speaker 2: like you was talking to Kursky. You definitely say to welcome.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: You want to say together the decisions and decisions, decisions decisions?

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Speaker 1: Do you just try to say without a most decisions.

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Speaker 3: No, yeah, I wasn't fro the moon. I mean we

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Speaker 3: still came home. But also I'm celibate right now, so

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to moan. But decisions, decisions were made,

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Speaker 3: people to not go anywhere, and we're back on on

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Speaker 3: Monday or whenever.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to this guy damn episode. So we want

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Speaker 1: to give y'all, y'all new schedule. Yeah, let's let's start

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Speaker 1: it right out the gate, y'all.

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Speaker 2: So I'm weezy, She's Mandy, and we're decisions decisions on

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Speaker 2: Mondays on Tuesdays.

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Speaker 1: If you want to hear us be little or just weezy,

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Speaker 1: because I'm celibate.

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Speaker 2: When Mandy's ready to fucking suck a dick again, she'll

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Speaker 2: be She'll be available on Tuesdays.

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Speaker 3: Not available on Tuesdays, horrible decisions will be available.

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Speaker 1: I'm sell it Monday. What's my price. What you selling

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Speaker 1: me for Mondays? Here's your schedule.

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Speaker 2: Monday's Decisions Decisions is available on the Black Effect Network

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Speaker 2: and wherever you listen to your favorite podcast. That's right,

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Speaker 2: it's an iHeart radio show. Will be available Mondays. On Tuesdays,

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Speaker 2: Horrible Decisions will only be available on patreon dot com

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Speaker 2: Backslash Horrible Decisions, and on Wednesday, another brand news show.

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Speaker 1: You've Got Decisions.

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Speaker 2: It is going to be our listener letter, our mail

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Speaker 2: segment and every single Wednesday. We know, back in the

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Speaker 2: day when we were doing Horrible Decisions, you easy couldn't.

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Speaker 1: Think for the outline and we never got to y'all this.

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Speaker 1: You were trying to fight me what it is.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, well, damn, can we get through the allline

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Speaker 3: so I could talk to the audience.

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Speaker 2: But now we got it. Just a segment, just be

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Speaker 2: all on Wednesdays, that's right. So you can send in

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Speaker 2: your question, SUS sentiment and a DM sentiment an email.

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Speaker 2: Will put that in the description of this episode. But

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Speaker 2: every single Wednesday, we'll be digging into your questions. And

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Speaker 2: we felt like y'all needed some dedicated times.

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Speaker 1: We would have three.

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Speaker 2: Minutes laugh and We're like, girl, I don't know fucking

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Speaker 3: Literally, there was no thought into the whole mail, and

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Speaker 3: so I'm really glad you guys will get about twenty

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Speaker 3: to twenty five minutes of us really pulling out.

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Speaker 1: All the juice, all the tea.

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Speaker 2: But there was thought all the decisions decisions.

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Speaker 1: Mandy and I have been talking about this since about

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Speaker 1: right around July, yeah, sometime, so this ain't new.

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Speaker 3: We by the way, someone did bring up they was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: y'all been playing this because we ain't got braces on

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Speaker 3: the cover art.

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Speaker 1: That's funny. We did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been writing our book and if you guys

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Speaker 2: got to check out the Essence article that came out

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Speaker 1: While we were writing the book, it was kind of like, yo.

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Speaker 3: We're just trying to do I guess let's let's let's

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Speaker 3: let's express that to them because I know we talked

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Speaker 3: about horrible decisions going behind the paywall, but I do

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Speaker 3: want to get into our reasons eight years later for

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Speaker 3: doing this rebrand and name change. And then while you

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Speaker 3: answer yours, there was a question put a poot onto

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Speaker 3: our Patreon that I would like both of us to

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Speaker 3: answer because it was really interesting. Okay, but yeah, if

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Speaker 3: you want to explain a little bit about writing this

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Speaker 3: book and what led us to kind of changing wanting

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Speaker 2: You're on Patreon, you got to watch our full little

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Speaker 2: really was simple and silly, but kind of the reasoning.

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Speaker 2: So over the last eight years, Horrible Decisions is a

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Speaker 2: show exploring kink's de stigmatizing, talking about sex and launchiness

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Speaker 2: and teaching people so much about what they didn't know

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Speaker 2: I think over this time of almost a decade of it,

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Speaker 2: the last year, we've been talking so much more about

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Speaker 2: navigating non traditional relationships. And that's where we figured out

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Speaker 2: through even writing the book. Damn, there's a lot of

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Speaker 2: serious shit in this book.

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Speaker 2: Between all the fun threesomes and the orgies and the

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Speaker 2: Not to mention y'all have known if you're an og

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Speaker 2: listener of horrible decisions, that advertisements just ain't that easy

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Speaker 2: when you've got horror in the title.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all, by the way, shut out, shout out to

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Speaker 3: the really shout out to the fans, because they'd be like, oh,

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Speaker 3: y'all really gonna get some money now.

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Speaker 1: I love that y'all root for us to make more money.

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Speaker 3: That felt good, but it has it's been a difficult

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Speaker 3: what horrible decisions has meant to so many of you

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Speaker 3: the back end, it's been us fighting with advertisers and

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Speaker 3: brands to even let them know, No, this is an

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Speaker 3: important show. This isn't a bullshit show. There's meaning behind it.

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Speaker 3: There's a lot of things behind this, and we needed

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Speaker 3: that for me personally, I do think that. I mean

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I think that we're.

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Speaker 3: I've navigated sex very much in the open with you guys,

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Speaker 3: I was like, ooh, bit you right, And I want

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Speaker 3: She said, here's a reminder that we cannot shame ourselves

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Speaker 3: and I just love that she shared this. And again,

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Speaker 3: that's why I love our goddamn horror hid However, we

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Speaker 3: It felt like the pod was about reclaiming the word

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Speaker 3: horror and embracing our sexuality, regardless of the misogynistic society

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Speaker 3: But please tell me I'm wrong. Maybe y'all understand. When

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Speaker 2: Sometimes we are in a place where we have grown

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Speaker 1: When I meet counterparts in a different world that aren't

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Speaker 1: Relations algorithm algorithmically, yeah, just se you guys, we can't

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Speaker 3: You already we had our plaque on YouTube hit one

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Speaker 2: This is my lucky number right here, Mandy whatever, I'm

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Speaker 1: But anyway, I you do blow, you're probably gonna blow

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Speaker 1: to night. Oh like, what do you mean you're about

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Speaker 1: you liked? Sure you blue last night?

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Speaker 2: We can't get We pay for production of this show

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Speaker 1: It is, oh yeah, because we all make no money

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Speaker 3: Then Flip thought we went behind on Patreon because of Joe,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna be very honest with you. I'm gonna say

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Speaker 2: I know a lot of people have made jokes about

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Speaker 2: at three live shows. I've continually continuously seen podcasts that

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Speaker 1: By the way, we had a call with Patreon.

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Speaker 3: Patreon even allowing merch to be a part of Tears

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Speaker 2: Bro, I might take a dress outfit a little style

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: People really aren't free thinkers. No, they're not.

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Speaker 2: People don't somewhere where the fuck I took my black

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we go, we go it.

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Speaker 2: I want y'all to know there's over there's like six

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Speaker 2: It doesn't necessarily mean because someone's bigger than we've ever

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Speaker 3: Say that we trash and I still got more money

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Speaker 3: Ain't gonna get it because y'all was back to watch

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Speaker 3: We do have another announcement coming next week, you guys,

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Speaker 3: We have another announcement coming. So sorry, get your heart

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Speaker 1: One announcement we don't have. I'm not pregnant.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's well not Yeah, you fucked last night, you

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Speaker 3: when he got you sunflowers?

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Speaker 2: If that was I did mention like after I was like,

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Speaker 1: Oh, after they were in his hand. Yeah, because then

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Speaker 3: Do you know how much I've talked about these goddamn

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Speaker 2: what if I'm wrong and this bitch kids really mad?

437
00:20:21,200 --> 00:20:22,480
Speaker 1: Again? Before we get on stay, no.

438
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,359
Speaker 3: No, no, I just don't like funeral home flowers. But I

439
00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:26,919
Speaker 3: would have accepted funeral home flowers from your nigga, Like

440
00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:30,640
Speaker 3: I would have accepted that. But I'm not accepting funeral

441
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 3: home flowers from my nigga on balance.

442
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:41,840
Speaker 1: I day and look now you're triggering me. Let's get

443
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:45,120
Speaker 1: into hypothetically speaking, bitch, all right, what are we doing?

444
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:46,399
Speaker 1: Are you so?

445
00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,960
Speaker 2: Manny and I over the years have had so many

446
00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 2: times if you were at Sony Hall, we talked about

447
00:20:50,800 --> 00:20:52,760
Speaker 2: this where we've been like how much would you do

448
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 2: this for?

449
00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 1: What if this? What if that?

450
00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,400
Speaker 2: And so many different icebreakers with guests we thought, why

451
00:20:57,440 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 2: not do this every I think.

452
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 3: I think, by the way, if y'all go back and

453
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:03,920
Speaker 3: listen to how much we would take to get shipped

454
00:21:03,960 --> 00:21:07,080
Speaker 3: on or pissed on, those numbers were outrageous and not

455
00:21:07,160 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 3: even real because you definitely got pissed on for.

456
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:16,640
Speaker 1: Three Wow, I goted not for love, bitch for love?

457
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: Speaking of love, bitch, Oh what we'll call me a

458
00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 2: whole tep because I got the new tattoo.

459
00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:23,800
Speaker 1: We decided it is very I'm not gonna lie.

460
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,920
Speaker 3: All that shit that you talked about, waste, bead holes,

461
00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:31,480
Speaker 3: this nigga eating and whatever you is hurt. You gotta

462
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,000
Speaker 3: stop talking about it. You got a whole steps to me.

463
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,360
Speaker 3: You got this little test you were giving whole tem bit.

464
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 2: Me and mommy had decided to take one of our

465
00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 2: tasks that we liked. Right, so I've art on my stomach.

466
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,600
Speaker 2: He stole that and I took the lines on his neck.

467
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 3: And you've been wanting this, You said that on the

468
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:48,920
Speaker 3: podcast that you've been saying you wouldn't want You've been

469
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 3: probably since you first met him, and then you wanted it.

470
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 3: So y'all wanted to it when when you first met

471
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,440
Speaker 3: you said, oh, I'm still yours, and then you could

472
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:56,080
Speaker 3: take this one.

473
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,359
Speaker 1: I thought I was doing something so original, y'all. I

474
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 1: was at the tattoo shop.

475
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,480
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I know people get each other's names,

476
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,840
Speaker 2: but have you ever seen someone steal another tattoo and

477
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,399
Speaker 2: brand them? So they were like, yeah, old time. I

478
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: thought we were doing something so amazing. I wanted to

479
00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 2: fucking trot in the sand. I wanted to do it

480
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,600
Speaker 2: on a full moon. I was like, good, she's the

481
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 2: same needle. I was acting crazy.

482
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 3: Oh God, blood brothers, full moon and ship bro. I

483
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 3: never want to hear you talk about whole teps and

484
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: a negative.

485
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:23,360
Speaker 1: Because I don't eat.

486
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,000
Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna eat no, no, no, that's that's vegans. I'm

487
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 3: talking about hotep.

488
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:31,120
Speaker 1: Ho tep being it too. No no, no, no no no no.

489
00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:37,639
Speaker 1: You are the waistbeed girl. Oh yeah, don't do that

490
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 1: alumin up. Don't do every other which way. So you

491
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,679
Speaker 1: are a hotep that wears aluminum dealdant. That's it.

492
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,880
Speaker 3: Hold on, I'm trying to But everything else is they

493
00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,119
Speaker 3: say nigga with their friends. They feel like they should,

494
00:22:51,119 --> 00:22:52,760
Speaker 3: they just don't say it on the internet. Hold on, wait,

495
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:56,359
Speaker 3: what else hoteps do that there are, Bro, that's what

496
00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:56,800
Speaker 3: I'm saying.

497
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Speaker 1: What do you mean we know?

498
00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 3: No, but she's a hotel. She is the same person

499
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 3: that she'd be talking about.

500
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 1: No, yeah, I anyway have too many raves to be

501
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: a hotel. They know at the raves, Bro, like black

502
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: people started this music. That's you whatever, bitchypothetically speak, hypothetically speak,

503
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:21,440
Speaker 1: Oh shit, that's right. Okay.

504
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 2: I made it up because I felt like, yeah, but

505
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 2: you did this outline? Okay, I like this one. So

506
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 2: would you rather have to watch before you have a

507
00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 2: mind blowing orgasm? A five minute clip of your partner

508
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: and their acts sharing a very intimate moment. Could be sex,

509
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 2: could be kissing, could be affirmations of them saying I

510
00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 2: love you okay for your orgasm? Or be celibate for

511
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 2: a year? Mind you, every time you receive an orgasm,

512
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,359
Speaker 2: you have to watch a clip of the person that

513
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: you're having it with with someone else, or I celibacy

514
00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:56,200
Speaker 2: for a year.

515
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 1: Do I have an orgasm and then I'm celibate for

516
00:23:59,040 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 1: a year?

517
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 2: Every time in the years, every time every time you fuck,

518
00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 2: you have to watch that person with someone else in

519
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:05,639
Speaker 2: a video.

520
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,840
Speaker 4: Does everything go back? To normal after one year. Yes,

521
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:13,520
Speaker 4: I'll be sold for a year. Damn, I'm not watching

522
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 4: a five minute clip every time. I know at least

523
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,879
Speaker 4: twice five that's ten minutes.

524
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,960
Speaker 1: Hold on, wait you you suck that bitts. I'm not

525
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:27,480
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I'm fine with it. What if I know

526
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 1: that that relationship is over me, getting a peek into

527
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: maybe how you showed up for your ex would kind

528
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:39,400
Speaker 1: of be re Try don't do that to me? Read

529
00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 1: anyy okay? Can we can we remember that? Also?

530
00:24:42,720 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 3: I'm someone who can only because I saw it recently

531
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 3: gets a spark of virality.

532
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,679
Speaker 1: But when I talked about me being okay with my

533
00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 1: partner watching my friend's OnlyFans page or if she was

534
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: a porn starn our episode, so to me, though, I'm

535
00:24:57,040 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 1: not gonna lie.

536
00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 2: Intimate moments and intimate what have you heard? The same ship?

537
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:03,639
Speaker 1: Bro, I ain't gonna hold you only.

538
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 2: You know on much Y'allake niggas is the same, right,

539
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 2: But you don't think they'll start to infect your brand.

540
00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:14,200
Speaker 3: I'll take them to the same restaurant, same bar. Oh noah,

541
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,960
Speaker 3: but I had to check this one. Bartender Nigga said,

542
00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 3: we're a big man at bro. The motherfuck you're doing that?

543
00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: Bro?

544
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 3: He called it out, and I'm like, could I started

545
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 3: bringing my new niggas to the bar?

546
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: I like, and the motherfucker bartender was like, what happened

547
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: to big Man? Can you say that you'll homework? No?

548
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,119
Speaker 1: He knew big Man was no. Maybe he thought they

549
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: was your homework, which.

550
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 3: Is bad because then date did he look gay? No, nigga,

551
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 3: I bought a date. Why are you bringing up my

552
00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 3: ex while I'm here with another nigga?

553
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: What you're doing? Like bartenders, Hey, hold on, let me

554
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: talk to y'all real quick. Bartenders, servers, hostess with the

555
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: most hold on, bottle girls, people in the front of

556
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 1: the club. Now I'm talking to y'all real quick. If

557
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: you see on the rouse, if you see.

558
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:01,360
Speaker 3: Me come to your establishment a lot, it's a certain person.

559
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 3: And then I show up with another person, Do not

560
00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 3: ask about the motherfucker who is not with me.

561
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 1: Wait, it is not all on. It ain't show business.

562
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: And the person that I'm with now now you'd have

563
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 1: made it awkward. They're trying to be funny.

564
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 3: I don't think it is appropriate. Hold on, because bitch,

565
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 3: he lucky. You got a tip that night. I do

566
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:24,360
Speaker 3: not think it is this appropriate if you sit here

567
00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 3: and ask me about where the gentleman is when I'm

568
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,280
Speaker 3: sitting here with another gentleman.

569
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: Baby, let me get my shit off.

570
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 3: This is why we have to have this goddamn podcast,

571
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 3: because what if both of them, my nigga, now you

572
00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 3: make it awkward.

573
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 1: They both know how to talk about one on horrible decisions.

574
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,520
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? No, no, no, no, no, I'm

575
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 1: gonna still talk about the same men. By the way,

576
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:47,479
Speaker 1: you just made me think of a memory. This one.

577
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 2: My nigga thought I was really crazy. We were dating

578
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 2: for a few months and he recommended this spot in Brooklyn.

579
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, have you ever been there? He said, no, cool.

580
00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,119
Speaker 1: We walk in. I had to go to the bathroom

581
00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:58,560
Speaker 1: really bad.

582
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 2: When I got out of the bathroom, he was like,

583
00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 2: I didn't like to table, Let's move over there. So

584
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 2: waitress comes up and she goes, oh, hello again, And

585
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 2: I said hello again.

586
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 1: Nigga, you've been here before, and he was like no.

587
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: I was just sitting over there and was like, no, no, nah,

588
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 2: that hello again sounded like you being this mother.

589
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,919
Speaker 1: Fucker just wanted to argue the way you really just

590
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 1: be extra.

591
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 2: Why because why you're gonna tell me you ain't never

592
00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 2: been somewhere but the bitch said hello again. Now you're

593
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: coming back with the motherfucking toppers in the bread, and

594
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,119
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm gonna ask this hop have you seen him?

595
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:32,239
Speaker 1: A fuck? I wouldn't be mad. I'm not mad if

596
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: you've been here before. Do I not of mean nigga?

597
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 3: I'm not mad at a nigga even No, I ain't

598
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:39,719
Speaker 3: gonna hold you back to the hypothetical. If an orgasm

599
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,640
Speaker 3: is the orgasm that I be like craving, like that's

600
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 3: really good, because I do prefer orgasming over not orgasming.

601
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: Let's be very clear.

602
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 3: If all I gotta do is watch you with your

603
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,440
Speaker 3: ex for five minutes before we fucked for about two hours,

604
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 3: give me that fine out.

605
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,679
Speaker 1: I'm start thinking you want to help. No, that's not

606
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,200
Speaker 1: what the hypothetical was watching. That's what I'm saying, bitch.

607
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: If I got to see that every time I'm about

608
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 2: the fuck, I'm gonna start thinking about this bitch every day.

609
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 2: You're bad perspiraling, Hey, you're bad like see like it's

610
00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 2: going unfair.

611
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: They are broken up and we together in the orgasms

612
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,120
Speaker 1: are for me. I'm not having this dude being part

613
00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 1: of my relationship.

614
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:21,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, because now now adding about to start calling oh

615
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:22,640
Speaker 2: this pussy good Frank.

616
00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: I would never call someone Wait why would because he

617
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: watching the ex every time he about the fuck.

618
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie y'all doing the most give me

619
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 3: my orgasm for a little clip.

620
00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 2: Now in our new episodes, we're going to start doing

621
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 2: reactionary clips. We're gonna start giving you our thoughts immediately

622
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: when we see a video. That's right, since the holidays

623
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 2: are coming and Thanksgiving just passed. I saw this and

624
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 2: I was like, huh, I don't really like to do

625
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 2: Dan wilds a little honey, but I don't know his

626
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:52,720
Speaker 2: name for.

627
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: Whatever? The name Dan? What the RIGI are talking about?

628
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: Dan Bid? Why do you think I know a rich

629
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: white nigga? You've seen him? Name Dan? Who is that?

630
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: Who is do you know? Okay? Do you want me

631
00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 1: to play? Okay, we're gonna play the clip.

632
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,479
Speaker 5: I took three girls home, four girls home for Christmas

633
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 5: vacation and you know, introduce them all of my fucking

634
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 5: family and parents and took turns fucking them. You know,

635
00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 5: it's like that was not a normal family dynamic. But

636
00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 5: that's what I want to do. So that's what I

637
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 5: fucking did you know. It's like, you know, you can

638
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 5: do whatever the fuck you want. Man Like, you'll figure

639
00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:29,040
Speaker 5: out what you like what you don't like. But don't

640
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 5: let society tell you what to do. Don't like you

641
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 5: let your friends, you know, influence you.

642
00:29:34,280 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 1: I love this clip. Okay, Look, look, I knew we

643
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: were gonna have different thoughts on this. When I saw

644
00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: you pick this clip.

645
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 3: I knew you was gonna be phony because I like

646
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 3: I knew he was gonna be phony. I just knew

647
00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 3: he was gonna be phony. I just want to use

648
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 3: that word. But I knew you wasn't gonna like it.

649
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 3: But I'm like, but you're very non traditional in the

650
00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:56,120
Speaker 3: things that you.

651
00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 2: Do, so so okay, I just know you'll take so

652
00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 2: go ahead and be problematic.

653
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: It's been in a threattle.

654
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: If you used to listen, Yes, I was in a threutle.

655
00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 2: My mom was accepting of it, right, Yes, my scissors

656
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,520
Speaker 2: mom wouldn't have been okay.

657
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: Beard Bae's dad was.

658
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if his mom knew, but like, out

659
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,719
Speaker 2: of the three of us, if someone had a family

660
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: member there wasn't accepting, which I would assume scissors.

661
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it was her.

662
00:30:24,600 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 2: If her parents were like, we don't want to see

663
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 2: the two of them on Christmas and she wanted to

664
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 2: be with her family, I absolutely think she'd be in

665
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: her right to do so. I also think it's understandable.

666
00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 2: I think that sometimes we push it a little bit

667
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 2: now when it comes to queerness and things like that.

668
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that, but bringing a polycule to Christmas,

669
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,200
Speaker 2: I do think that you gotta ease people in and

670
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 2: for him saying like, fuck it, this is the life

671
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 2: I want to live, Like, I don't think it's family

672
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:55,880
Speaker 2: or fuck it when it comes to having a lifestyle

673
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:59,080
Speaker 2: that maybe a little much for them, Like, I just kind.

674
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,600
Speaker 1: Of believe in old people.

675
00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 2: If you're in your fourth quarter, I'm not going to

676
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 2: push my wild shit on you.

677
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

678
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,720
Speaker 2: No, I mean I hear you, I hear you know what?

679
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 2: And again, decision decisions. We will be talking about how

680
00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 2: we navigate non traditional relationships. Yeah, and so as someone

681
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 2: that's been non monogamist, as we both have been talking

682
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 2: like this for eight years, Yes, I actually still have

683
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 2: that opinion.

684
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: I and I don't. And here's why.

685
00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 3: Listening to this I the reason why I loved him

686
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,719
Speaker 3: saying it is not that he's forcing his lifestyle onto

687
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:39,960
Speaker 3: these I'm bringing loved ones around it for a family, weekend, gathering, holiday, whatever.

688
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 1: I am bringing my partners who you may only not

689
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: accept because of the dynamic of our relationship that to

690
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,960
Speaker 1: me is not even near or close to the way

691
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: in which you accept the abuser that I've been married

692
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 1: to to show up. We've been together as the two

693
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 1: person dynamic. You know, he lays hands on me. You

694
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: know he's not a good father. But you accept a

695
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 1: nigga who's actually not a good person in so many

696
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 1: other dynamics, and he's allowed around because that's my husband,

697
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: that's my boyfriend, that's the bab the father to my child.

698
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: I feel like you going extreme. No, I'm not going extreme.

699
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 1: The idea is that it's so uncomfortable for a family

700
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: dynamic or friends to accept how I choose to be

701
00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: in a loving relationship. Well maybe because this clip wasn't loving. No no,

702
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: no no. I chose to fuck for a girls on Christmas,

703
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: But that means I love these these is my bitches

704
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:35,480
Speaker 1: and if I want to fuck on Christmas and then

705
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: holding on a period on fucking, or even if they

706
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: own their period on fucking.

707
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,320
Speaker 3: He's like to me, but but to me, he's fucking

708
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 3: his partners on the holidays.

709
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 1: Those are his partners.

710
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 3: I think to me, we have accepted far too long

711
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: actually bad partners that still get to come around, that

712
00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 3: still that don't pay the bills, that abuse, that use,

713
00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 3: that are genuinely not good people. But because you're in

714
00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 3: a dynamic now, your father, your cousin up, we often

715
00:33:00,640 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 3: accept that person even though we don't like them, even

716
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 3: though that they don't treat you well. This idea that

717
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 3: we could accept them fucked up people, but you can't

718
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,600
Speaker 3: accept me coming in with two people that I love.

719
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 3: You loved those two people and they didn't abuse you.

720
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 3: When you were in that throuple, it was a really healthy,

721
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 3: loving dynamic. This idea that I'm forcing it on to you,

722
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,360
Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm bringing my friends around. I'm bringing people

723
00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:20,880
Speaker 3: that love me.

724
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 2: I do think forcing is when you say take it

725
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: or leave it. I think you're giving an ultimatum. And

726
00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 2: I think that's the issue with a lot of scenarios

727
00:33:29,800 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 2: in which people are talking too for me, it's elders, right,

728
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 2: And maybe I'm speaking from a place of where my

729
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 2: parents are older, so I kind of get it. And

730
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 2: luckily my mom is so whatever right right now. Literally,

731
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 2: my mom in my la crib lives above me. And

732
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,120
Speaker 2: so when I said we had a date with a

733
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 2: girl who's coming over for dinner, my mom is like,

734
00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:49,720
Speaker 2: do you not.

735
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 3: Think it's a take it or leave it when the

736
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 3: whole family knows that this person is doing awful things

737
00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 3: to you, But because he's your partner, you're still going

738
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 3: to bring him.

739
00:33:58,720 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 1: I think you're giving a hypothetical that isn't there. No, no, no,

740
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying to me, and it just because.

741
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: Someone's a good person doesn't necessarily mean that means your

742
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,280
Speaker 2: family has to accept them super fast.

743
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, don't know me neither.

744
00:34:10,719 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 3: But the idea that my partner's purio can't come over

745
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 3: because of the dynamic of the relationship. If I'm in

746
00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 3: a monogamous relationship with just one other person, yet y'all

747
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,799
Speaker 3: know he's a fucked up person or she a fucked

748
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 3: up person.

749
00:34:25,280 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: Why does it have to be that well, be that

750
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: out of it first? No, to me, that's the dynamic. No, no, no,

751
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: say this, say that, just like this situation Christmas comes,

752
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: you have three boyfriends. Your mom's like, I don't want that.

753
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: I don't want you to bring a wrye. Maybe it

754
00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 1: makes her uncomfortable, Maybe it's religious shit. Maybe she doesn't

755
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 1: want to see you in this. I don't know.

756
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 2: I'mquet with it. My mom is cool with it, but

757
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 2: I'm talking about if she wasn't. I would not give

758
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,319
Speaker 2: up my relationship with my mom because I'm in a

759
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 2: non traditional relationship. I would have a receparate relationship with

760
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: my family and hope they come around. But I think

761
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:01,480
Speaker 2: the do or die it's too bad. If you don't

762
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:03,239
Speaker 2: like it, I'm not coming. It's kind of off.

763
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 5: No.

764
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:06,600
Speaker 1: I mean, and I hear you, but I don't think

765
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 1: you're hearing.

766
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: My parallel to me, the idea that we accept awful

767
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 3: partners because they're in a traditional relationship.

768
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 1: That's my thing. To me, it is a take it

769
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: or leave it.

770
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 3: I think a parent could be like, yo, I don't

771
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,720
Speaker 3: like your partner, he's an awful person, don't bring him around.

772
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 3: I think that's the same way as you're uncomfortable with

773
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 3: the fact that my partner's an abuser say parallel to

774
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 3: you're uncomfortable with the dynamics of a non traditional relationship.

775
00:35:32,280 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 1: To me, it is a take it or leave it.

776
00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: I think everyone has the right to My problem.

777
00:35:36,120 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 3: Is, I guess one is my problem is, Yeah, one

778
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,080
Speaker 3: is actually harmful, I actually don't like this person. The

779
00:35:41,160 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 3: other is just based on how I choose to live

780
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 3: my life. One is judging and the other is like, oh,

781
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 3: so you're only accepting my partner because we're in a

782
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 3: traditional relationship. And I guess here's my problem. The normalization

783
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:58,720
Speaker 3: of us being in abusive relationships, of relationships with cheaters,

784
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 3: relationships with people that actually do harm to us. That

785
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,960
Speaker 3: being accepted over non traditional relationships, to me has to

786
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 3: be dismantled.

787
00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 1: I guess if that was the case.

788
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 2: But for me, it's like, I don't know, just kind

789
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 2: of watching a little bit of the difference in dynamics

790
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 2: with one family being cool one not.

791
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: I like him fucking his three girlfriends. I don't think

792
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: happened at the fucking Thanksgiving Day table, like he fucked

793
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: him in the room or at the hotel or whatever.

794
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: Like I do think that again, we talked about, or

795
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: we are going to talk about PDA and how I

796
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 1: and how I like portray it. I don't think you

797
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,640
Speaker 1: should be tonguing down your girlfriend and boyfriend in front

798
00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 1: of your family, But I don't think any i'd be

799
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,000
Speaker 1: telling niggas to get a room all the time. I

800
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 1: think it's inappropriate in a monogamous relationship. So to me,

801
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: I think there are levels of respecting people within the

802
00:36:51,800 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: dynamics of your relationship. But not yes for me.

803
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes when we have what people think are radical thoughts,

804
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,480
Speaker 2: and I would say it's rather cool to have three girlfriends.

805
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,239
Speaker 2: I do think that maybe three girl for a long time,

806
00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 2: they maybe do didn't know about the hill.

807
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: Oh the family due the family donet met them all

808
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 1: what you're talking about? Like, so I can't bring all

809
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: three of our girlfriends over, like y'all ain't met all

810
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 1: three of them already.

811
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 2: I've just said I just went something slightly radical that

812
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 2: I wanted to not be radical anymore.

813
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: I think it is. That's that's all. We gotta have

814
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 1: these conversations. Decisions, Mitch, y'all need to make the decisions.

815
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,640
Speaker 3: You want to accept that your son and daughter gonna

816
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 3: have multiple partners, or you want to accept your partner

817
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 3: being with an abuser, and I know, yes, extremes, but

818
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, damn.

819
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 2: Bitch, ed, what would you do if you had two

820
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 2: girlfriends and your family said, hey, this Christmas, like it's

821
00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 2: we don't want to see both them bitches, Like I wouldn't.

822
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: Just see my family. No, I would go see my

823
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,400
Speaker 1: family me too, without your partners.

824
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 3: Absolutely, you know what if you guys want to go

825
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 3: to our Patreoch, you really We did a really interesting

826
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 3: breakdown on the Jirog Carmichael Show, and it was very

827
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 3: Truman like, but we both had a we had a

828
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 3: difference in opinion around him coming out and him forcing

829
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 3: his sexuality onto his parents and so y'all can see

830
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 3: the dynamics there.

831
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 1: And I think it.

832
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 2: May be because he was sharing photos with the dad.

833
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: I found that to be inappropriate. No, I mean I

834
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: would I think I wouldn't show my mom photos of it.

835
00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 2: I felt like Gerard's gayness was And I really hated

836
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,120
Speaker 2: that episode because when I think back on it, I'm like, damn,

837
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:34,360
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that like he should accept his parents

838
00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:37,399
Speaker 2: not loving him. I just meant we got to dial

839
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: it back with like I'm doing this here, like, for example,

840
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,960
Speaker 2: me telling my mom I'm gay. Here's my girlfriend scissors.

841
00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,720
Speaker 2: It's very different from me, and like, look, this is this,

842
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:47,879
Speaker 2: this is that, this is the.

843
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:49,759
Speaker 1: App We're saying the same thing the same way. I

844
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 1: think you should be able to doing. You can.

845
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:55,560
Speaker 3: You can exist a in a non traditional relationship without

846
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 3: displaying like being over the top with it.

847
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 1: Right, I don't know me. Oh, if y'all don't like

848
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: my the.

849
00:39:03,040 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 3: Way I choose to receive love, yeah, fuck y'all, I

850
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 3: ain't coming. I don't like y'all the way y'all cook anyway.

851
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 3: Now I gotta see here and be around a whole

852
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 3: bunch of niggas like family is not to me. And

853
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 3: I've said this, my friends come first, the way I

854
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 3: live life. I'm not gonna have y'all sit here and

855
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 3: dictate who I'm with, how I love, how I receive love,

856
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 3: because y'all are too ignorant to unlearn the things that

857
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 3: I think.

858
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: Genuinely, I don't know.

859
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 2: I think that this is also something else too, Right,

860
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 2: we're from a different era. I don't know if my

861
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: family necessarily hates me, but if it's gonna take them time,

862
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 2: I'm gonna allow and give them grace for time. Yeah,

863
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 2: but you have older parents, y'all. Y'all my parents, I

864
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:46,879
Speaker 2: think fifties sixties too. I understand that's still a different era, dude,

865
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 2: polyamory even twenty years ago.

866
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: Like I actually do think to give people grace. I

867
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: hate that home grace grace. I don't know why we'd

868
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,480
Speaker 1: be working at you even talk about it with the whore.

869
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: I don't like that grace. I ain't gonna hold you.

870
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,719
Speaker 3: I don't like that grace. Don't need to come around

871
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 3: all the time, girl, tell that hold back up.

872
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 2: Honestly, this whole conversation when you ask me if I

873
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 2: would be in a throttle again is why I said no.

874
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,560
Speaker 2: I own dating an African and you know, his family

875
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 2: gonna judge wall maybe not, they're used to having I

876
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:22,280
Speaker 2: don't think they're gonna judge, but you can like they're family.

877
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,160
Speaker 1: They do. But I'm like, literally, just his family is great.

878
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,040
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that his family winning scept I'm just saying, like,

879
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 2: just seeing again being part of a big family.

880
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 1: I only have two.

881
00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm just like, wow, kids, all this stuff, Like

882
00:40:32,680 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 2: I can understand people, and some of them are religious.

883
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 2: I can understand, Like you still want to have your

884
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 2: family dynamic without exing them out because you guys don't

885
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,279
Speaker 2: agree on thing. This isn't like their fucking trumpers, you

886
00:40:44,320 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. Like, at the end of the day,

887
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 2: we don't agree on stuff, and there is something that's

888
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 2: too much for you. Fine, Like I don't want to

889
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: ever push you. You have to remember we're looking at

890
00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:56,760
Speaker 2: it like love. They look at it like sexuality.

891
00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 1: You know what.

892
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 3: I actually realized the difference between us, and maybe because

893
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 3: you have that small dynamic of a family unit what

894
00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 3: I've learned, and maybe because this is how my mom

895
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:11,520
Speaker 3: was coming from an abusive dynamic with with her growing up.

896
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 3: Once I was able to view family members as the

897
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 3: adults and humans that they are, I no longer grant

898
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 3: them the grace of because they are family members. I

899
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 3: think we allow family members to get away with a

900
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:29,240
Speaker 3: lot of awful behavior and bullshit rhetoric because they're family.

901
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: No.

902
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,600
Speaker 3: I think that's why I don't have I have a

903
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:37,080
Speaker 3: strained relationship with my sister, my dad, my great grandfather,

904
00:41:37,239 --> 00:41:40,279
Speaker 3: Like there's a lot of strained relationships because of how

905
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 3: they show up as humans that I don't fuck with.

906
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:44,719
Speaker 3: And so if I don't fuck with how you are

907
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 3: as a human being. Fuck family, bro. That blood is

908
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 3: thicker than water. Bullshit, bitch, that's science. I guess think

909
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:54,000
Speaker 3: that should be then when it come out my goddamn coaching,

910
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 3: I guess letting.

911
00:41:54,880 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 2: It quiet disappointment, like I am talking about. I don't know,

912
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 2: you know, family that you want to spend a holiday with.

913
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 2: I guess I don't want. I don't even want to

914
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,879
Speaker 2: spend it with them. I was with the Sanders family anyway.

915
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 2: And sex miss Carolyn damn bi Okay, sex history y'all

916
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 2: like all them niggas.

917
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: Uh, sex history myself that a lot, but the kids,

918
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 1: but family care about it.

919
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 3: We need to get you some. No, I'm waiting for

920
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 3: the aliens. Well no, then I got mad, bitch. They

921
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:23,439
Speaker 3: said they was here.

922
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 1: You want an alien dick? No, because then I'm mad.

923
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 3: They said that it was really them niggas like in

924
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 3: the ocean, so I feel like it really is octopus.

925
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 3: I thought there was gonna be aliens that look like people. No,

926
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 3: I don't want to fuck octopus.

927
00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: Bro. That shit pissed me off. Not the aliens being

928
00:42:40,160 --> 00:42:41,919
Speaker 1: in the ocean. A lot, a lot of a lot

929
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: of hands.

930
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 3: I don't want that. You wouldn't take eight dicks over one.

931
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 3: I want eight dicks. I don't want eight tentacles. What

932
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 3: I'm saying, I'll take it.

933
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: You don't want tentacles? No, no, no. If we go

934
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: back to horrorble, we're not gonna do that. We're not

935
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,200
Speaker 1: gonna do that. We're not gonna do this.

936
00:42:55,960 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 3: I like like you say it's alien dick, but you

937
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 3: said my occopus.

938
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 1: I would like.

939
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 3: I literally said, I don't want him to have the tentacles,

940
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 3: like I don't want the suction anyway, girl, dog girl.

941
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 1: Sex history? What'll be talking about? So you want to

942
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: be gay so bad?

943
00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 2: Let's go an have a new lesbian tattoo.

944
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 1: I'm nah.

945
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 2: We are going to be talking every single week about

946
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 2: sex history, digging into something that we all know. It

947
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:33,360
Speaker 2: could be BDSM, it could be lesbians, it could be homophobia,

948
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 2: it could be fucking Christmas, it could be anything, digging

949
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 2: into the.

950
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,000
Speaker 1: Sexual history of it.

951
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 2: And sometimes the history may go back to early two thousands,

952
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: and in this case it's far back.

953
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 3: You're taking us like before Christ or after death. The

954
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 3: way I had to look up with BC and ADSA

955
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 3: for BBC. Don't do that, don't do that, don't do that.

956
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: Don't don't for real me, nigga, but you had a

957
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 1: history class.

958
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:58,279
Speaker 2: She just says she ain't no you and it's not

959
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: Anthony Davis. Hello, Okay, So lesbianism. I wanted to get

960
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: into the sex history of homosexuality between women because many

961
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 2: times when we're talking about gayness if men, we talked

962
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 2: about Greeks and it was fucking an ass. But during

963
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:23,440
Speaker 2: the Mesopotamia ERAa, which is seventeen hundred b C. Before Christ,

964
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 2: when people were dealing with the gay shit together, we

965
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:30,960
Speaker 2: didn't see lesbians. We saw woman man, which was gender

966
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 2: non confirming individual. So what I started to look up

967
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 2: was that basically we can't figure out who lesbians were

968
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 2: because they may have been butcher Wait no, yes, literally,

969
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,839
Speaker 2: they could have been women that just wanted to have

970
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:49,239
Speaker 2: a masculine appearance. So in Mesopotamia when they said women man,

971
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 2: they're just like, oh, is this someone who's trans or

972
00:44:52,320 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: just someone who was more masculine. That's why you don't

973
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:59,680
Speaker 2: see any lesbian relationships in that era for them.

974
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 3: I think also based on the science that took place

975
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:08,279
Speaker 3: in like the nineteen forties and fifties, I think a

976
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:13,080
Speaker 3: leaning into religion. They viewed sex for women as just

977
00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,720
Speaker 3: a reproductive act because they wanted them to be moms

978
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 3: and wives and that's it. But also it took a

979
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,320
Speaker 3: long time for society to actually even realize that we

980
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 3: were sexual beings that craved.

981
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 1: Sex, hysteria, the vibrator.

982
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,200
Speaker 2: We'll dig into that for sure, now this one, I

983
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 2: love nearing din in my heart. So in China, Chinese

984
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 2: early history shows that sexual activity between women was accepted

985
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 2: and actively encouraged. This is important because throughout history homosexuality

986
00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:47,919
Speaker 2: is shunned, right, no Christmas dinner for you, your little horse man.

987
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: Oh that sodom mean that was digging each other down

988
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:54,359
Speaker 1: in the goddamn while so female same sex relationship were

989
00:45:54,400 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: described as a special term.

990
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: I love this douchey, I don't like that at all.

991
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:05,160
Speaker 2: Duichi maybe it's duiche it maybe literally meaning that cheat

992
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:12,279
Speaker 2: eating how d u I s hi don't say, Well,

993
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 2: it means paired eating, possibly referring to kanalinge. So literally

994
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:17,839
Speaker 2: the term breaks down is to eating at the same

995
00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 2: time vists me. So when the government UH started uh

996
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 2: getting into different ruling and having discussions amongst homosexual women,

997
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:34,960
Speaker 2: this to me was crazy. There is a text that

998
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 2: talks about the daughter of a slave from a handbook

999
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:45,240
Speaker 2: Kung Dongsui fifth century, describing their contact and the women

1000
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 2: are practicing scissoring. This is the first time that scissoring

1001
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 2: has ever been discussed in history. It is in Chinese

1002
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 2: text from the fifth century. It is called translated the

1003
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 2: pair dance of the female phoenixes.

1004
00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:58,919
Speaker 1: This makes sense.

1005
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:01,239
Speaker 3: I feel like Asians do the most scissoring because I

1006
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,399
Speaker 3: heard their their men dicks be small anyway, so they

1007
00:47:04,400 --> 00:47:06,800
Speaker 3: probably says it with men too, like you know what

1008
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 3: I mean, Like, that's probably a.

1009
00:47:07,960 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: Way of science. Is that science? No, bitch, I'm trying

1010
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,319
Speaker 1: to be funny. Oh, but I do idea.

1011
00:47:13,480 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 3: Hear that the penises over there aren't that big, and

1012
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: so scissoring might be a thing that women realize they

1013
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 3: like because they gotta rub on it a little dick.

1014
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: Actually, that's a good point. Now this this I'm just

1015
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:27,279
Speaker 1: making this up, but I feel like it would make sense.

1016
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:31,360
Speaker 2: Now here's some people that couldn't stay y'all homoseexu wolves,

1017
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 2: including me. In India ancient times, they called it a disease.

1018
00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 2: So basically, what was going on with the lesbians. Right

1019
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 2: in the second and third centuries, they were having fines

1020
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 2: if they engaged in ayoni, which is non vaginal sex,

1021
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 2: which basically means scissoring or homosexual sex, because they what

1022
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: was the fine?

1023
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:55,919
Speaker 1: It doesn't say it the line.

1024
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 3: You know how sometimes you see you, you see a

1025
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:02,120
Speaker 3: parking spot, and you're not supposed.

1026
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,880
Speaker 2: To be like, but you look at the fine and

1027
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 2: it's light. Bitch, I'm a park here anyway. I think

1028
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:10,959
Speaker 2: the five the fine matters. Like if you gonna find

1029
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 2: me one thousand dollars, I might actually have to think.

1030
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 2: But if you only gonna find me twenty five dollars,

1031
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:19,799
Speaker 2: that is I would eat some pussy for that fine,

1032
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 2: me too, like and at cornington the fine price matter.

1033
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 2: To the first century legal text called the man Scrinty,

1034
00:48:26,080 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 2: there is a very small fine upon sex between non

1035
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:35,279
Speaker 2: version women. However, one who manually deflowers a virgin. So

1036
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 2: if you were fingering a bitch, you were sentenced to

1037
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 2: the loss of two fingers.

1038
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:45,879
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold you. I'm not that pressed finger

1039
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:47,680
Speaker 1: pussy if I gotta lose to my finger. Girl.

1040
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 2: If two virgins are caught doing the doer, they would

1041
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 2: have to pay her double the girl's dowry and given

1042
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 2: ten whiplashes. The man fails to provide punishment for arable

1043
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 2: oral and manual sex like scissoring.

1044
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: Wait a second, Wait a second. This one's first century

1045
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:09,080
Speaker 1: AD in India.

1046
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:12,440
Speaker 3: So this one first century and so this punishment during

1047
00:49:12,440 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 3: this time is if you finger dowry.

1048
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: So it's a fine, double the dowry and ten whiplashes.

1049
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I like to be spain again.

1050
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: What is my dowry? What is double? It?

1051
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:26,080
Speaker 3: Like if I only got a ten dollar dowry, it

1052
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,120
Speaker 3: go to twenty dollars and then you gotta spitch?

1053
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: What are you only making pennies on the dollar back? Then?

1054
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 1: Oh see, now you're talking about inflation.

1055
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 3: I'm literally talking about if I had to deal with

1056
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 3: these type of like punishments today, would I give up

1057
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 3: eating kuchi or fingering couchie for the sake of punishment?

1058
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 3: And these punishments outside of the cutting off of my

1059
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 3: two fingers because I like my rings, and then I

1060
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 3: wouldn't be able to wear my rings if I'm missing

1061
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:51,800
Speaker 3: two fingers.

1062
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at the fines or the whiplashes. Nigga,

1063
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: what the fuck? Are you talking about. I'm really thinking

1064
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:01,280
Speaker 1: about these punishing I said, I need to wear my jewelry. Okay,

1065
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 1: so last one. Yes.

1066
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 2: In Thailand, Uh, we love a Thailand we go So

1067
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 2: what I do?

1068
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 1: Oh? Was that fucked up? The way that will SAWAIDI ka,

1069
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: that's crazy? Hold on. When I speak Spanish, I like

1070
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:16,680
Speaker 1: to do it a little. I don't like.

1071
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 3: I think it's all I think it's all racist, is it?

1072
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 3: It's very problematic, But.

1073
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:23,200
Speaker 1: When I do French it ain't. If you could keep

1074
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: doing these accents, I'm gonna bring back the M word

1075
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 1: and our word bitch. Not all decisions decisions you ain't

1076
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: which we need this one. Okay, you're right, you're right,

1077
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: You're right. Bad I'm better put that on the paywall.

1078
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:37,480
Speaker 1: You want to follow over the Sorry? Okay, so what

1079
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,360
Speaker 1: did you just say? Okay, don't say it again, Fidget Spinner.

1080
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 2: So in Thailand, when they talk about homosexuality and entaire history,

1081
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 2: it literally means to play with friends. When they talked

1082
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 2: about lesbians, and one of the earliest references was from

1083
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 2: a king, I swear to God mad I don't know

1084
00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 2: to say this, but Ramnaught, who reigned in fourteen forty

1085
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 2: eight did penalize lesbian relationships in the palace, but the

1086
00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: women that were penalized were penalized with each other.

1087
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,359
Speaker 1: I don't like with whipping. That's another word. We might

1088
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 1: have to work on you. So there were royal harm.

1089
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:19,919
Speaker 1: You say penalized, No, I say penalized. Y'all edvany just horny.

1090
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: I'm not horny. I am celibrated. Penalized because the patriarchy.

1091
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: Bitch. No, see, I don't like that. It's penalized. No,

1092
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:27,920
Speaker 1: it's not fun.

1093
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,759
Speaker 2: But anyway, so the tie people, even though they was

1094
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,719
Speaker 2: cooling it a little bit, playing with friends, they made

1095
00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 2: them whip each other. I thought that was so hot.

1096
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 2: I'm not mad.

1097
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,839
Speaker 1: That's a little bit about lesbianism in the early days.

1098
00:51:40,400 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: I can tell you. In twenty twenty four, honey, it's

1099
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: been hot for me. Have you been gay this year? Yeah, bitch,

1100
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 1: I dated the couple and I ate her pussy like

1101
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 1: Asian pussy. Hu I did Filipino. Don't do that. I

1102
00:51:53,840 --> 00:51:57,839
Speaker 1: don't like. It's a difference. It's a different with Filipino.

1103
00:51:58,280 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 1: Don't do that. They want to Tashi, But I don't

1104
00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:03,920
Speaker 1: like that. You say agent like she said Philippe.

1105
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 3: Philipp don't do that. She don't even talk like that.

1106
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:10,239
Speaker 3: I'm sure she don't. I'm just saying she knew all

1107
00:52:10,280 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 3: of the verses to camrauns.

1108
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: What is it? Is you sucking or not? Is you okay? No?

1109
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 1: Well that's wasn't her first clearly, and she was cool

1110
00:52:20,280 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: in the Philippines. In the Philippines, they know English like

1111
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: I fuck with the Filipinos. What Filipino karaoke? That's their ship? Bro,

1112
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: I don't like that. What are you talking about? Just

1113
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: don't talk about the Philippinos like that? Are you kidding me?

1114
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: Have you seen them niggas sing?

1115
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 4: Dad?

1116
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,640
Speaker 1: Don't let them motherfucker get selenia on. So don't just

1117
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: call them Asian because they're not just Asian. The Philippino anyway,

1118
00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 1: we're trying to be like, come give out of your

1119
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: money and here we go. We gotta cut all this

1120
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 1: Agian shut out. No we're not. We're keeping it all

1121
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: we are so we're all plan to Express and all

1122
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 1: of the other Asian companies. Oh my god, dude, I

1123
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:57,600
Speaker 1: make it worse. I'm talking about Asian I know.

1124
00:52:57,840 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 3: Listen the way I just am scared for them to

1125
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 3: add them goddamn terrorists on my she in bitch. Wait,

1126
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 3: let me see what I just wanted to still remain

1127
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 3: two dollars biggest, keep them motherfuckers working.

1128
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: Let me sell of these niggas. No, no, we're gonna go.

1129
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,879
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1130
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:18,440
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1134
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1135
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1140
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,960
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1141
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1142
00:53:54,920 --> 00:53:56,480
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1143
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1144
00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:04,320
Speaker 2: Oh December sixteenth, take your ass to Instagram because.

1145
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:07,239
Speaker 1: We got an announcement. P'sy ad ho you want to

1146
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:23,000
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