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Speaker 5: Broken Jess in the Morning. Second Date updates.
Speaker 4: We've talked about how run clubs have become kind of
Speaker 4: a huge thing lately. Yeah, even people who aren't actual
Speaker 4: runners at all can just show up at the start
Speaker 4: of this race. They all run together or just uber
Speaker 4: straight to the finish line to enjoy the drinks and
Speaker 4: try to hook up with randos there. And apparently one
Speaker 4: of our listeners met someone through a similar type of club.
Speaker 6: But it doesn't involve running whatsoever.
Speaker 1: Oh, if it involves eating, I'm kind of into a
Speaker 1: eating club.
Speaker 4: Or maybe it's just an uber club and they all
Speaker 4: uber together. Let's find out.
Speaker 6: Josh, welcome to the show.
Speaker 7: Hey, thank you guys.
Speaker 2: Okay, what are you gonna tell us about this club?
Speaker 8: It's a stroll club. We all like get together and
Speaker 8: you just kind of like walk wherever you want to walk.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, And did you join this stroll club to
Speaker 1: meet other singles, because sometimes that's people's motivation.
Speaker 6: Or you're just really passionate about strolling.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 8: I have a small group of friends who like we
Speaker 8: went together. We actually have gone since a couple of times,
Speaker 8: where like the goal is not like to date somebody,
Speaker 8: but it is to sort of like branch out our
Speaker 8: friend group and like meet new people, just chat while
Speaker 8: we walk right and.
Speaker 1: You're not out of breath like the running club right
Speaker 1: right here to have a conversation.
Speaker 4: Well, it depends on how out of shape you are sometimes.
Speaker 7: That is absolutely true.
Speaker 8: So I started chatting with this girl named Lisa, and
Speaker 8: we decide that we're going to go on a date.
Speaker 2: That's so sweet. What a great way to ask her out.
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 8: We were both sort of making jokes about how like
Speaker 8: we both like doing anti sports like the stroll club,
Speaker 8: like not run club. We're just sort of like here
Speaker 8: to walk. So I thought it would be funny to
Speaker 8: take her to not golf, but mini golf.
Speaker 4: I don't appreciate you diminishing the value of mini golf
Speaker 4: as not being a real sport.
Speaker 8: Okay, the planets sort of like, do mini golf have
Speaker 8: a drink?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 8: There are places where you can do that now, where
Speaker 8: you can like have a drink at mini golf.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they've added alcohol to literally every activity.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you can always sneak alcohol into mini golf
Speaker 4: even if they don't sell it there.
Speaker 6: So this isn't anything new.
Speaker 7: Okay, So but that is actually what happened though. I didn't.
Speaker 8: I didn't really realize that we ended up going to
Speaker 8: like more of a kid's mini golf than like an
Speaker 8: adults mini golf.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't pick the trendy one. You picked the
Speaker 1: family fun center one.
Speaker 8: Yeah, my knowledge on mini golf is not as great
Speaker 8: as it should be.
Speaker 1: Clear, when it's just you two, is it the same
Speaker 1: good energy that you had when you were in the
Speaker 1: stroll club or was there awkward moments?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 8: I didn't feel like there was any of that sort
Speaker 8: of like dead air space between us talking. Do you
Speaker 8: know what I mean, like where it was sort of like,
Speaker 8: oh god, it flowed. Yeah, for sure, it flowed.
Speaker 4: When you say that it flowed, do you mean like
Speaker 4: your personalities were matching or was it just.
Speaker 6: The alcohol was working and flowing? No, what do you mean?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 8: I mean both yea, so yes.
Speaker 6: The opposite of.
Speaker 2: Okay? Was it flirty?
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, it was definitely flirty.
Speaker 6: What do you mean?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, like how flirty are we talking?
Speaker 8: Like we were making jokes with the golf club. We
Speaker 8: were sort of like pretending to smack each other in
Speaker 8: the botto or whatever, and like it was okay.
Speaker 6: She was doing that to you right as.
Speaker 8: Well no, I was doing that to myself.
Speaker 7: Now, of course she was doing that.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, we're swinging golf clubs at each other flirtatiously.
Speaker 6: Figured he's like hitting her in the legs of the lub,
Speaker 6: She's like, leave me away.
Speaker 3: He's a good question to ask people on our show.
Speaker 1: Why do I feel like you guys were such a
Speaker 1: distraction at the Family Golf h Play World.
Speaker 8: We for sure were Okay, did you.
Speaker 4: Make it all the way to the final hole or
Speaker 4: did you get kicked out by employees before then?
Speaker 8: So we did make it to the final hall, and
Speaker 8: there's a little bit of a story.
Speaker 2: There, Oh what happened in Holy eighteen?
Speaker 8: So there's little time that says no trick shots because
Speaker 8: obviously everybody's trying to do something silly on whole number eighteen,
Speaker 8: me included, oh no, and I try to be silly
Speaker 8: and like bank shot off of the side. And this
Speaker 8: is going to sound like actually absurd, but the ball
Speaker 8: goes off the course and goes smack into this probably
Speaker 8: like nine year old birthday king.
Speaker 1: Oh why is that better than a face? Though for
Speaker 1: sure it was going to be hitting a child's head.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it Now just seems like part of the
Speaker 4: decoration team.
Speaker 8: Yeah, oh yeah, maybe it was mini golf team.
Speaker 2: Was a family so mad at you did they what happened?
Speaker 8: They were not super happy, but we, like I did apologize,
Speaker 8: like I'm so sorry.
Speaker 6: Like, is it a situation where you have to play
Speaker 6: it as it lies?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I saw so I just ripped my putter through the.
Speaker 4: Oh man, that's a mood killer. How was your date
Speaker 4: reacting to all this happening? This is a lot for
Speaker 4: her to witness too.
Speaker 8: We were both so like, oh my god, Oh my god,
Speaker 8: what just happened? And then after the fact we were
Speaker 8: making jokes about it, like immediately.
Speaker 6: Oh okay, mood.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she found the humor in it too.
Speaker 8: It definitely helped that we've been drinking for like forty
Speaker 8: five minutes straight up until then.
Speaker 6: Okay, good.
Speaker 1: So as you're apologizing, you wreak of alcoholis to the family.
Speaker 2: That is a cute. Look, yeah, I'll try to be funny.
Speaker 4: So after you gave a nine year old a birthday
Speaker 4: that they'll never forget, how did you two leave it?
Speaker 8: So, I mean I will say that that they ended
Speaker 8: with a kiss, and then the next morning I texted
Speaker 8: her she texted back said like too much fun yesterday and.
Speaker 6: That's actually really good.
Speaker 2: Have you actually asked her out in those texts or no?
Speaker 8: Yeah, that one that was like, hey, let's sneak alcohol
Speaker 8: into a library.
Speaker 7: Maybe that would be fun too.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, what other childhood places could we ruin with
Speaker 4: our fundas?
Speaker 1: I would like to say, a library is a very
Speaker 1: adult place, Jeff that I enjoy.
Speaker 2: Okay, so he doesn't need alcohol. Are you drinking there
Speaker 2: because it's fun? Yeah? Yeah, okay.
Speaker 6: Think we'ret the same page except for with Lisa here.
Speaker 4: So we're going to reach out to her when we
Speaker 4: come back and try to get you a mulligin on
Speaker 4: a date. Reference this as good as we're going to
Speaker 4: do with your second date update right after this, hold.
Speaker 5: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.
Speaker 4: It's funny how your dating life can just snowball so quickly,
Speaker 4: and that was the case for our listener Josh, who
Speaker 4: recently met a woman named Lisa at Stroll Club, which
Speaker 4: rolled into golf clubs at a mini golf place and
Speaker 4: ended with them in Kiss Club, which I was the
Speaker 4: president and sole member of my high school Kiss Club member,
Speaker 4: so I know just how enjoyable that can be. Lisa
Speaker 4: even messaged him the next day saying how much fun
Speaker 4: it was. So it is weird that she suddenly stopped
Speaker 4: responding to him and Josh, you definitely sounded pretty disappointed
Speaker 4: in part one and not sure what could have caused
Speaker 4: her to suddenly ghost right, Yeah, no, I.
Speaker 7: Felt like we had a great time.
Speaker 1: I wonder if just the issue here is that then
Speaker 1: you asked her to go drink at a library, like
Speaker 1: maybe you took the joke too bar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, like sneaking.
Speaker 3: Alcohol places when like, yeah, she also could go to
Speaker 3: a bar.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I actually I want a real date.
Speaker 8: I mean, first of all, it was just a little
Speaker 8: thing over text. Second of all, like we were flowing
Speaker 8: in terms of our sense of humor, like she was
Speaker 8: getting my jokes.
Speaker 7: I think that that joke would have landed with her,
Speaker 7: you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Oh, okay, So you're surprised she didn't laugh back, like
Speaker 1: it should have been obvious that you weren't being serious.
Speaker 7: Yeah for sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, after drinking for forty five minutes, you should
Speaker 4: be laughing at pretty much everything together.
Speaker 6: If it's not funny, I just want to say.
Speaker 8: You guys though, like I met her in the real
Speaker 8: world and not on a dating app.
Speaker 7: Like it feels like crazy to do that these days.
Speaker 8: So like it does feel like something kind of special,
Speaker 8: and I really don't want to let it go.
Speaker 7: So whatever we can do to like make it work.
Speaker 6: Okay, that's really nice man.
Speaker 4: Well, just like we used to say in my high
Speaker 4: school kiss club, let's just close our eyes and go
Speaker 4: for it.
Speaker 6: So here we go.
Speaker 1: We did you say it because you were the only
Speaker 1: person in the club.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's Oh you ought to diminish me in my
Speaker 4: high school self.
Speaker 6: I was thriving. So I've got your back here. Thank you.
Speaker 6: Trying to tear you down. This whole thing somebody had to.
Speaker 6: All Right, here we go. I'm gonna dot Lisa. We'll
Speaker 6: see if she answers. Let's do it.
Speaker 7: Hello.
Speaker 6: Hey, is this Lisa?
Speaker 9: Yes?
Speaker 6: Is this hey Lisa. We're a radio show called Brook
Speaker 6: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 2: Good morning, the whole show is here, Lisa. What's that funny?
Speaker 2: What are you laughing at? Is this like one of
Speaker 2: those jokes when you had a joke club and you're.
Speaker 6: All we did. We cracked each other up in.
Speaker 1: Comedy Lisa, Sorry, are you there, Lisa?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I have no idea what's going on? We do?
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the case a lot of the times here.
Speaker 4: But this is a segment called a second Date update. Okay,
Speaker 4: I don't know if you're familiar with it, but basically,
Speaker 4: we're trying to help out a listener that went on
Speaker 4: a date with you and afterwards, there hasn't been a
Speaker 4: lot of momentum building towards a second one, so he's
Speaker 4: trying to figure out if there's a reason for that.
Speaker 6: And it's a guy named Josh.
Speaker 9: Yeah. I find it a little strange that he's relying
Speaker 9: on a radio station to intervene here, but yeah, I
Speaker 9: remember him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. Why you think this is strange?
Speaker 3: It is.
Speaker 1: It is an odd way. But he was really excited
Speaker 1: about you and about your guys. Is time together.
Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 9: We had a really good time. It was a lot
Speaker 9: of fun.
Speaker 4: Yeah, even mentioned that you texted after the date saying
Speaker 4: what an awesome time it was. So that's why he's
Speaker 4: so confused that there hasn't been a second meet up.
Speaker 9: Maybe there doesn't need to be a second date.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 9: I don't know if you've ever been out with someone
Speaker 9: and it goes really well and you feel like they're
Speaker 9: a good person, but you just don't know how much
Speaker 9: romantic connection you may have with them.
Speaker 2: Wait, he said that you guys shared a kiss at
Speaker 2: the end of the day. Wasn't it good? Like it
Speaker 2: feels like that's as flirty as you can get.
Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I didn't realize he was want to literally
Speaker 9: kiss and tell.
Speaker 6: But yeah, we did. Well, we pulled it out, We
Speaker 6: asked him. Yeah he didn't offer that. Yeah.
Speaker 9: I mean, I don't even know if I can say this,
Speaker 9: but I kind of just have second thoughts on how
Speaker 9: he would be in.
Speaker 4: Bed whoa oh, based on the kiss or just based
Speaker 4: on the full experience of hanging out with him.
Speaker 6: That's such a good question.
Speaker 9: The kiss was fine, you know, but I don't know.
Speaker 9: I just I don't know if I had that spark
Speaker 9: that makes you want to jump a guy's bones.
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 2: Something, Hey, I wanted to hear about the spark more.
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's weird.
Speaker 4: So well, I mean I just want to say, like,
Speaker 4: hold on, hold on, hold on, Josh, because I mean,
Speaker 4: at this point it's kind of blown.
Speaker 6: Lisa, we need to let you know.
Speaker 4: Josh has been waiting on the other line, listening into
Speaker 4: the conversation, waiting to not very patiently.
Speaker 7: I'm sorry.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we were going to get more information, but yeah,
Speaker 4: Josh is here.
Speaker 9: Well, I shouldn't be surprised, even though this whole thing's
Speaker 9: been kind of a surprise.
Speaker 8: Look, we were on a mini golf course. Like, it's
Speaker 8: okay that there wasn't like the craziest romantic spark. I
Speaker 8: would love to take you out to like a very
Speaker 8: nice dinner, have oysters, and then see if there's a spark.
Speaker 5: Why oyster.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're saying that the environment of all the children
Speaker 4: and families at the mini golf place wasn't conducive to
Speaker 4: being romantic with Lisa?
Speaker 6: Is that what you're saying?
Speaker 7: I just wanted to have a good time together on
Speaker 7: that day. I wanted to end with the kist. I
Speaker 7: want trying to make it end with more than that.
Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
Speaker 4: I mean, Lisa, do you see what he's saying. Does
Speaker 4: the setting of where it's happening matter in terms of
Speaker 4: creating romance?
Speaker 9: I gotta be honest, I don't think so, because I've
Speaker 9: definitely done stuff a mini golf place before done.
Speaker 2: So okay, I don't think we need details on.
Speaker 9: That in a baby shower, a graduation ceremony, you know.
Speaker 9: Just I don't think it's really the setting. I think
Speaker 9: it's I think it's the vibe.
Speaker 6: I don't thinking.
Speaker 2: Nothing gets you go in like fertility.
Speaker 9: Right, it's evolution. It's evolution. It's not me.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Are you just saying you didn't have that chemistry
Speaker 2: with Josh? Like that's the issue for you?
Speaker 9: Correct?
Speaker 2: Is there any way he could fix it?
Speaker 8: I mean, look, I'm happy to dress sex here when
Speaker 8: we're not going to minigolf.
Speaker 2: What does that mean but a little bit.
Speaker 7: I just mean I'm beat a dressed up nice and like,
Speaker 7: I don't know what leads is into. Maybe it's that, Maybe.
Speaker 8: It's taraway pants. I'm willing to adjust whatever she's into.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that man who will do anything to
Speaker 1: make you happy, Lisa, that sounds pretty good.
Speaker 9: Yeah, I gotta be honest. I wasn't expecting this sort
Speaker 9: of persistence.
Speaker 6: Does that help his situation? Is it turning you on
Speaker 6: a little bit?
Speaker 2: I think pants?
Speaker 5: Okay?
Speaker 1: That, but.
Speaker 4: What if we brought a baby in here with a
Speaker 4: bunch of gifts would that do something for you?
Speaker 9: Gotta you gotta play the dirty diaper games to get
Speaker 9: me going.
Speaker 3: Any other games?
Speaker 9: Is the objective here to get another date? Josh?
Speaker 8: Is that.
Speaker 6: She puts it so sexily too.
Speaker 8: It is very much that, Yes, okay, so romantic.
Speaker 2: I think he's kind of cute, he's funny, you're funny.
Speaker 1: I think that if you gave it another shot, you
Speaker 1: may you may find something there.
Speaker 4: And before I ask Lisa, I just want to ask
Speaker 4: the girls just in general. Is this something that has
Speaker 4: happened to you before, where you're hanging out with a guy,
Speaker 4: even if you have like a really nice time with him,
Speaker 4: you don't feel that romantic spark right away, that like
Speaker 4: desire to jump his bones.
Speaker 2: And it happens later. Is that what you mean?
Speaker 4: Or maybe you never do It just never comes where
Speaker 4: the romantic connection happens, and that's never happened.
Speaker 3: That is the friend zone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, very common And trying to help Josh here, Jeff,
Speaker 1: I don't think that our answer is going to help him.
Speaker 4: No, I'm trying to like just make it like a
Speaker 4: normal thing, like there is hope down the line that
Speaker 4: there could be romance attraction could.
Speaker 6: Jump in and Brooke.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry that I even brought it up to you
Speaker 4: because I know you hook up with pretty much everybody,
Speaker 4: so well, I think.
Speaker 2: That that's the first step, and then the friends come back.
Speaker 3: That's how you find out there's a spark fast yes.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you hear that, Lisa. You're talking to the
Speaker 4: loosest morning show in the entire country, and we all
Speaker 4: think you should go for it. You might not know
Speaker 4: that the attraction's there until you actually try something with Josh.
Speaker 1: So I don't know that Jeff's helping here, but I
Speaker 1: do think that you should give him another go.
Speaker 6: Had a chuck e cheese? Maybe?
Speaker 2: Well, I don't know the baby shower, go relax.
Speaker 9: I should have never said the thing about the babies.
Speaker 6: Okay, but if.
Speaker 4: You agree to this, Lisa, we're just putting it out there.
Speaker 4: We would pay for the date.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 9: I I have to just be honest and say that
Speaker 9: I've never had a man call a radio station to
Speaker 9: get my attention before, and it's quite a romantic cask.
Speaker 4: So we are running out of time. It sounds like
Speaker 4: it's a yes from Lisa.
Speaker 9: Correct, It is a yes.
Speaker 6: Nothing turns the woman on like that.
Speaker 3: Free always say that again on the day.
Speaker 5: Reok and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: I'm always pleasantly surprised whenever we meet people who've kind
Speaker 4: of lost their filter, like her. Yeah, like we knew
Speaker 4: that lady for maybe two minutes before she's sharing how
Speaker 4: she got it on in a baby shower, a graduation ceremony,
Speaker 4: her dad's root canal pretty much anywhere, any place you
Speaker 4: can imagine she's done it.
Speaker 6: But for Josh, it just wasn't happening.
Speaker 1: It just didn't like for her, No, I mean, man,
Speaker 1: it didn't feel like she had a lot of hard
Speaker 1: parameters either.
Speaker 2: I know it is not a good look for Josh.
Speaker 1: Hey, maybe the next time they hang out, because they
Speaker 1: aren't gonna go out again, maybe maybe it'll spark.
Speaker 4: It is interesting what turned her is that she found
Speaker 4: it intriguing. He went through us in our show, so I.
Speaker 2: Still think it was a tear away Pansy mentioned.
Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know what turns people on anymore. Hopefully
Speaker 4: it's listening to our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey.
Speaker 6: That's quite the date night. Go find us wherever you
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