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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning and you've

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Speaker 1: got a brand new episode for your Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 1: Thanks so much for being here. Hope you're loving the

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Speaker 1: live videos that go along with these.

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Speaker 2: Yah, we've got another one.

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Speaker 1: That was posted yesterday on our YouTube page. So if

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Speaker 1: you aren't following at Brooke and Jeffrey on YouTube, you

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Speaker 1: should be. Y, was it a second Date that we

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Speaker 1: posted yesterday?

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so go back watch that, you know, watch us.

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Speaker 2: That's how it goes. That's not creepy, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah yeah, And don't want just like live live

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Speaker 4: what do you mean, like in my apartment?

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Speaker 1: I'm like sleeping or do if it helps with our

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Speaker 1: YouTube subscriber numbers, whatever works, all right, and then we're

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Speaker 1: gonna get to a brand new episode in just a second.

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Speaker 2: But first comments Alexis.

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Speaker 3: Oh, Belinda Mandy is on our YouTube instead. First person

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Speaker 3: to watch from Kenya twenty two seconds after upload.

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Speaker 2: Wow, on it, dude, on it is right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, see if you can beat her time next week. Okay,

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Speaker 2: those live videos go up every Tuesday. Your brand new episode, though,

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Speaker 2: starts right now.

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Speaker 5: Broken Jess in the Morning. Second Date updates.

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Speaker 4: We've talked about how run clubs have become kind of

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Speaker 4: a huge thing lately. Yeah, even people who aren't actual

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Speaker 4: runners at all can just show up at the start

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Speaker 4: of this race. They all run together or just uber

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Speaker 4: straight to the finish line to enjoy the drinks and

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Speaker 4: try to hook up with randos there. And apparently one

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Speaker 4: of our listeners met someone through a similar type of club.

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Speaker 6: But it doesn't involve running whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: Oh, if it involves eating, I'm kind of into a

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Speaker 1: eating club.

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Speaker 4: Or maybe it's just an uber club and they all

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Speaker 4: uber together. Let's find out.

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Speaker 6: Josh, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 7: Hey, thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what are you gonna tell us about this club?

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Speaker 8: It's a stroll club. We all like get together and

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Speaker 8: you just kind of like walk wherever you want to walk.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, And did you join this stroll club to

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Speaker 1: meet other singles, because sometimes that's people's motivation.

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Speaker 6: Or you're just really passionate about strolling.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 8: I have a small group of friends who like we

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Speaker 8: where like the goal is not like to date somebody,

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Speaker 8: we walk right and.

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Speaker 1: You're not out of breath like the running club right

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Speaker 4: Well, it depends on how out of shape you are sometimes.

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Speaker 7: That is absolutely true.

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Speaker 8: So I started chatting with this girl named Lisa, and

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Speaker 8: we decide that we're going to go on a date.

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Speaker 2: That's so sweet. What a great way to ask her out.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 8: We were both sort of making jokes about how like

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Speaker 8: like not run club. We're just sort of like here

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Speaker 4: I don't appreciate you diminishing the value of mini golf

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Speaker 8: Okay, the planets sort of like, do mini golf have

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: There are places where you can do that now, where

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they've added alcohol to literally every activity.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you can always sneak alcohol into mini golf

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Speaker 6: So this isn't anything new.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So but that is actually what happened though. I didn't.

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Speaker 8: I didn't really realize that we ended up going to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you didn't pick the trendy one. You picked the

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Speaker 8: Yeah, my knowledge on mini golf is not as great

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 8: I didn't feel like there was any of that sort

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Speaker 8: oh god, it flowed. Yeah, for sure, it flowed.

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Speaker 4: When you say that it flowed, do you mean like

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Speaker 6: The alcohol was working and flowing? No, what do you mean?

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Speaker 9: No?

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Speaker 6: The opposite of.

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Speaker 2: Okay? Was it flirty?

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, it was definitely flirty.

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Speaker 6: What do you mean?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like how flirty are we talking?

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Speaker 8: Like we were making jokes with the golf club. We

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Speaker 6: She was doing that to you right as.

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Speaker 8: Well no, I was doing that to myself.

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Speaker 7: Now, of course she was doing that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, we're swinging golf clubs at each other flirtatiously.

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Speaker 6: Figured he's like hitting her in the legs of the lub,

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Speaker 6: She's like, leave me away.

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Speaker 3: He's a good question to ask people on our show.

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Speaker 1: Why do I feel like you guys were such a

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Speaker 8: We for sure were Okay, did you.

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Speaker 4: Make it all the way to the final hole or

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Speaker 8: So we did make it to the final hall, and

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Speaker 2: There, Oh what happened in Holy eighteen?

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Speaker 8: So there's little time that says no trick shots because

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Speaker 8: obviously everybody's trying to do something silly on whole number eighteen,

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Speaker 8: me included, oh no, and I try to be silly

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Speaker 1: Oh why is that better than a face? Though for

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, it Now just seems like part of the

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Speaker 8: Yeah, oh yeah, maybe it was mini golf team.

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Speaker 2: Was a family so mad at you did they what happened?

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Speaker 8: They were not super happy, but we, like I did apologize,

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Speaker 6: Like, is it a situation where you have to play

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I saw so I just ripped my putter through the.

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Speaker 4: Oh man, that's a mood killer. How was your date

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Speaker 4: reacting to all this happening? This is a lot for

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Speaker 8: We were both so like, oh my god, Oh my god,

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Speaker 8: what just happened? And then after the fact we were

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, mood.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she found the humor in it too.

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Speaker 8: It definitely helped that we've been drinking for like forty

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Speaker 6: Okay, good.

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Speaker 1: So as you're apologizing, you wreak of alcoholis to the family.

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Speaker 2: That is a cute. Look, yeah, I'll try to be funny.

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Speaker 4: So after you gave a nine year old a birthday

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Speaker 4: that they'll never forget, how did you two leave it?

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Speaker 8: So, I mean I will say that that they ended

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Speaker 8: with a kiss, and then the next morning I texted

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Speaker 8: her she texted back said like too much fun yesterday and.

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Speaker 6: That's actually really good.

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Speaker 2: Have you actually asked her out in those texts or no?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, that one that was like, hey, let's sneak alcohol

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Speaker 7: Maybe that would be fun too.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, what other childhood places could we ruin with

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Speaker 1: I would like to say, a library is a very

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Speaker 1: adult place, Jeff that I enjoy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so he doesn't need alcohol. Are you drinking there

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Speaker 2: because it's fun? Yeah? Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 6: Think we'ret the same page except for with Lisa here.

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Speaker 4: So we're going to reach out to her when we

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Speaker 4: come back and try to get you a mulligin on

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Speaker 4: a date. Reference this as good as we're going to

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Speaker 4: do with your second date update right after this, hold.

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Speaker 5: On Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning second date updates.

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Speaker 4: It's funny how your dating life can just snowball so quickly,

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Speaker 4: and that was the case for our listener Josh, who

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Speaker 4: recently met a woman named Lisa at Stroll Club, which

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Speaker 4: rolled into golf clubs at a mini golf place and

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Speaker 4: so I know just how enjoyable that can be. Lisa

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Speaker 4: it was. So it is weird that she suddenly stopped

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Speaker 4: responding to him and Josh, you definitely sounded pretty disappointed

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Speaker 7: Felt like we had a great time.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if just the issue here is that then

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Speaker 1: maybe you took the joke too bar.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean, like sneaking.

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Speaker 3: Alcohol places when like, yeah, she also could go to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I actually I want a real date.

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Speaker 8: I mean, first of all, it was just a little

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Speaker 8: thing over text. Second of all, like we were flowing

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Speaker 7: I think that that joke would have landed with her,

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Speaker 7: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, So you're surprised she didn't laugh back, like

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Speaker 1: it should have been obvious that you weren't being serious.

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Speaker 7: Yeah for sure.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, after drinking for forty five minutes, you should

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Speaker 4: be laughing at pretty much everything together.

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Speaker 6: If it's not funny, I just want to say.

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Speaker 8: You guys though, like I met her in the real

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Speaker 8: world and not on a dating app.

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Speaker 7: Like it feels like crazy to do that these days.

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Speaker 8: So like it does feel like something kind of special,

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Speaker 8: and I really don't want to let it go.

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Speaker 7: So whatever we can do to like make it work.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's really nice man.

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Speaker 4: Well, just like we used to say in my high

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Speaker 4: school kiss club, let's just close our eyes and go

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Speaker 4: for it.

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Speaker 6: So here we go.

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Speaker 1: We did you say it because you were the only

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's Oh you ought to diminish me in my

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Speaker 6: I was thriving. So I've got your back here. Thank you.

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Speaker 6: Trying to tear you down. This whole thing somebody had to.

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Speaker 6: All Right, here we go. I'm gonna dot Lisa. We'll

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Speaker 7: Hello.

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Speaker 6: Hey, is this Lisa?

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 6: Is this hey Lisa. We're a radio show called Brook

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Speaker 6: and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, the whole show is here, Lisa. What's that funny?

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Speaker 2: What are you laughing at? Is this like one of

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Speaker 2: those jokes when you had a joke club and you're.

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Speaker 6: All we did. We cracked each other up in.

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Speaker 1: Comedy Lisa, Sorry, are you there, Lisa?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I have no idea what's going on? We do?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the case a lot of the times here.

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Speaker 4: But this is a segment called a second Date update. Okay,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if you're familiar with it, but basically,

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Speaker 4: we're trying to help out a listener that went on

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Speaker 4: a date with you and afterwards, there hasn't been a

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Speaker 4: trying to figure out if there's a reason for that.

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Speaker 6: And it's a guy named Josh.

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Speaker 9: Yeah. I find it a little strange that he's relying

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Speaker 9: on a radio station to intervene here, but yeah, I

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Speaker 9: remember him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense. Why you think this is strange?

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 1: It is an odd way. But he was really excited

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Speaker 1: about you and about your guys. Is time together.

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, it was fun.

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Speaker 9: We had a really good time. It was a lot

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Speaker 4: Yeah, even mentioned that you texted after the date saying

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Speaker 4: what an awesome time it was. So that's why he's

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Speaker 4: so confused that there hasn't been a second meet up.

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Speaker 9: Maybe there doesn't need to be a second date.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I don't know if you've ever been out with someone

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Speaker 9: romantic connection you may have with them.

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Speaker 2: Wait, he said that you guys shared a kiss at

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Speaker 2: the end of the day. Wasn't it good? Like it

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Speaker 2: feels like that's as flirty as you can get.

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Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I didn't realize he was want to literally

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Speaker 6: But yeah, we did. Well, we pulled it out, We

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Speaker 6: asked him. Yeah he didn't offer that. Yeah.

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Speaker 9: I mean, I don't even know if I can say this,

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Speaker 9: but I kind of just have second thoughts on how

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Speaker 4: Bed whoa oh, based on the kiss or just based

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Speaker 4: on the full experience of hanging out with him.

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Speaker 6: That's such a good question.

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Speaker 9: The kiss was fine, you know, but I don't know.

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Speaker 9: I just I don't know if I had that spark

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Speaker 4: I mean.

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Speaker 2: Something, Hey, I wanted to hear about the spark more.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's weird.

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Speaker 4: So well, I mean I just want to say, like,

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Speaker 4: hold on, hold on, hold on, Josh, because I mean,

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Speaker 4: at this point it's kind of blown.

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Speaker 6: Lisa, we need to let you know.

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Speaker 4: Josh has been waiting on the other line, listening into

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Speaker 4: the conversation, waiting to not very patiently.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we were going to get more information, but yeah,

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Speaker 4: Josh is here.

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Speaker 9: Well, I shouldn't be surprised, even though this whole thing's

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Speaker 9: been kind of a surprise.

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Speaker 8: Look, we were on a mini golf course. Like, it's

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Speaker 8: okay that there wasn't like the craziest romantic spark. I

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Speaker 8: would love to take you out to like a very

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Speaker 8: nice dinner, have oysters, and then see if there's a spark.

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Speaker 5: Why oyster.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're saying that the environment of all the children

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Speaker 4: and families at the mini golf place wasn't conducive to

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Speaker 4: being romantic with Lisa?

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Speaker 6: Is that what you're saying?

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Speaker 7: I just wanted to have a good time together on

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Speaker 7: that day. I wanted to end with the kist. I

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Speaker 7: want trying to make it end with more than that.

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Speaker 7: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: I mean, Lisa, do you see what he's saying. Does

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Speaker 4: the setting of where it's happening matter in terms of

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Speaker 9: I gotta be honest, I don't think so, because I've

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Speaker 9: definitely done stuff a mini golf place before done.

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Speaker 2: So okay, I don't think we need details on.

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Speaker 9: That in a baby shower, a graduation ceremony, you know.

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Speaker 9: Just I don't think it's really the setting. I think

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Speaker 9: it's I think it's the vibe.

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Speaker 6: I don't thinking.

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Speaker 2: Nothing gets you go in like fertility.

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Speaker 9: Right, it's evolution. It's evolution. It's not me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Are you just saying you didn't have that chemistry

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Speaker 9: Correct?

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Speaker 2: Is there any way he could fix it?

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Speaker 8: I mean, look, I'm happy to dress sex here when

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Speaker 8: we're not going to minigolf.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean but a little bit.

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Speaker 7: I just mean I'm beat a dressed up nice and like,

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Speaker 7: I don't know what leads is into. Maybe it's that, Maybe.

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Speaker 8: It's taraway pants. I'm willing to adjust whatever she's into.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that man who will do anything to

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Speaker 1: make you happy, Lisa, that sounds pretty good.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I gotta be honest. I wasn't expecting this sort

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Speaker 6: Does that help his situation? Is it turning you on

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Speaker 6: a little bit?

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Speaker 2: I think pants?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 1: That, but.

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Speaker 4: What if we brought a baby in here with a

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Speaker 9: Gotta you gotta play the dirty diaper games to get

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Speaker 3: Any other games?

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Speaker 9: Is the objective here to get another date? Josh?

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Speaker 8: Is that.

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Speaker 6: She puts it so sexily too.

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Speaker 8: It is very much that, Yes, okay, so romantic.

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Speaker 2: I think he's kind of cute, he's funny, you're funny.

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Speaker 1: I think that if you gave it another shot, you

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Speaker 4: And before I ask Lisa, I just want to ask

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Speaker 4: even if you have like a really nice time with him,

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Speaker 4: you don't feel that romantic spark right away, that like

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Speaker 2: And it happens later. Is that what you mean?

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Speaker 4: Or maybe you never do It just never comes where

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Speaker 3: That is the friend zone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very common And trying to help Josh here, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: I don't think that our answer is going to help him.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm trying to like just make it like a

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Speaker 6: Jump in and Brooke.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry that I even brought it up to you

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Speaker 2: That that's the first step, and then the friends come back.

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Speaker 3: That's how you find out there's a spark fast yes.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you hear that, Lisa. You're talking to the

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Speaker 4: think you should go for it. You might not know

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Speaker 4: that the attraction's there until you actually try something with Josh.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know that Jeff's helping here, but I

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Speaker 6: Had a chuck e cheese? Maybe?

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know the baby shower, go relax.

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Speaker 9: I should have never said the thing about the babies.

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Speaker 6: Okay, but if.

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Speaker 4: You agree to this, Lisa, we're just putting it out there.

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Speaker 4: We would pay for the date.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 9: I I have to just be honest and say that

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Speaker 9: I've never had a man call a radio station to

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Speaker 4: So we are running out of time. It sounds like

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Speaker 4: it's a yes from Lisa.

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Speaker 9: Correct, It is a yes.

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Speaker 6: Nothing turns the woman on like that.

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Speaker 3: Free always say that again on the day.

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Speaker 5: Reok and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: I'm always pleasantly surprised whenever we meet people who've kind

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Speaker 4: of lost their filter, like her. Yeah, like we knew

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Speaker 4: her dad's root canal pretty much anywhere, any place you

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Speaker 6: But for Josh, it just wasn't happening.

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Speaker 1: It just didn't like for her, No, I mean, man,

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Speaker 2: I know it is not a good look for Josh.

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Speaker 1: Hey, maybe the next time they hang out, because they

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Speaker 4: It is interesting what turned her is that she found

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Speaker 4: it intriguing. He went through us in our show, so I.

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Speaker 2: Still think it was a tear away Pansy mentioned.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I don't know what turns people on anymore. Hopefully

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Speaker 4: it's listening to our podcast at Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 6: That's quite the date night. Go find us wherever you

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Speaker 6: get yours. Just look Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning