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Speaker 1: They update their profiles with prompts that appeal to handymen.

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Speaker 2: Hammer and a drill? Come on over?

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Speaker 1: Yes, So you get your bed frame assembled, but then

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Speaker 3: I mean, I would at least have to go on

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Speaker 1: But no, I wasn't gonna deal with that videos. I'm

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Speaker 2: For you. It's a beautiful man that can do both.

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well here's a question.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Fred Show on demand on the free iHeart Radio.

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Speaker 1: App get to used to eight three five, But they

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Speaker 1: didn't answer my questions.

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Speaker 2: Does it matter? I mean, yes, I'm sure it's hot.

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Speaker 1: If a guy committed you let me fix that and

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Speaker 1: goes and grabs the tools and fixes it. But ultimately,

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Speaker 1: is it fine if it just gets fixed?

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Speaker 4: Please? Just get it fixed. Please.

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Speaker 1: My second thing is like, let's say we're let's say

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Speaker 1: we're on our way somewhere, we're driving somewhere in the car,

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Speaker 1: and maybe it's hot or we're dressed to go out,

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Speaker 1: and then there's a flat tire your car in my car.

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Speaker 2: But we're together.

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Speaker 1: Now. I know how to fix a flat tire. I

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Speaker 1: know how to change a tire, okay, but maybe but

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Speaker 1: I also have triple A Okay, so I could or

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Speaker 1: I have roadside assistance on the thing, which is it

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Speaker 1: unsexy if I'm like, I really don't feel like in

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Speaker 1: one hundred degree heat changing the tire right now? So

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Speaker 1: I'm going to call the roadside assistant. They're going to

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Speaker 1: come and do it. Does that make is that unattractive

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Speaker 1: to you? I think a lot of people would say yes.

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Speaker 1: I think that there are women who want me to

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Speaker 1: get out and be sweaty and disgusting and change the tire,

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Speaker 1: which I can do. I don't want to do it.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna make you do it, but I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: get it done. But maybe I don't want to do

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Speaker 1: it because I don't know. Then we have to go home,

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Speaker 1: I have take a shower, start over you. I'm a

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Speaker 2: What does it? Does that matter to you?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 1: Would you find that unattractive if I called roadside assistance?

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Speaker 4: It depends on how long we have to wait.

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Speaker 6: Sometimes roadside assistance comes right away, and sometimes they play

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Speaker 6: all day. If they're going to take hours and you

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Speaker 2: But then I'm all dirty and money and we show

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Speaker 2: up to your event and I'm gross.

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Speaker 5: And oh yeah, and you don't care if I don't

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Speaker 5: care that I have to show up to looking like that.

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Speaker 5: Well approach, But we would go back home and make

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Speaker 5: change and.

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Speaker 2: Just be late.

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Speaker 6: It's a great story though, Man, you got a little

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Speaker 6: dirt on your should The man I had to get

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Speaker 2: Change it all later.

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Speaker 6: And how awesome does that sound?

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Speaker 2: So exactly? Man that will never ask anyone else to

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Speaker 2: do anything. It's all him.

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Speaker 1: I'm going through the I mean I knew I think

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Speaker 1: I knew the answer. I think I knew that that

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Speaker 4: Bad, don't you to be honest?

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Speaker 1: Well, I think for some people, and if you believe

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Speaker 1: in maybe it's not gender rules. I don't mean to

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Speaker 1: make it like that, but is it like a protector thing?

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Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, you know, he can handle it, and

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Speaker 1: when he handles it himself, then there's more confidence in

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Speaker 1: I don't know other things that could happen then if

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Speaker 1: the guy has to call someone to do it. Is

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Speaker 1: that kind of what it is? But that's kind of

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Speaker 1: old school, isn't it like that? You know, it's kind

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Speaker 1: of an old school mentality, Isn't that? Is that kind

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Speaker 1: of the same as like I expect you to make

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Speaker 1: me dinner kind of stuff like I would never. I

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Speaker 1: would never if I did it a woman who couldn't

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Speaker 1: cook and clean, I wouldn't have any you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean.

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Speaker 2: Like, let's be But I'm just saying I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I guess I wouldn't necessarily judge you if you if

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Speaker 1: you don't do girly stuff. So if I don't do

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Speaker 1: manly stuff like go shoot deer and and you know,

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Speaker 1: change oil and filters and stuff.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, picturing all of us, I love it.

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Speaker 1: Someone Mike said, how do you pre trip your airplane?

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Speaker 1: What does the pre trip mean? If you can't put

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Speaker 1: together a couch? You mean pre flight? You mean like

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Speaker 1: walk around and make sure everything's falling off of the thing.

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Speaker 4: Like I can fly a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: I can do that, But I can I can fly

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Speaker 1: a flying an airplane and putting a couch together at

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Speaker 1: two different skills, thankfully.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, I mean I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if I walk around the airplane and look

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Speaker 1: really broken on it, I'm not even I don't fix it.

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Speaker 1: I get a mechanic to fix it, right, Like I, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I get an aircraft mechanic to come do it. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. So I don't think those are the

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Speaker 1: same thing. Not attractive let me see here. Terrace is no,

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Speaker 1: not unattractive at all, especially if you're on your way

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Speaker 1: to an event. You don't want your person to be sweating. Plus,

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Speaker 1: I'm the type of person that doesn't want to put

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Speaker 1: call triple A. I still think I would be judged.

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Speaker 1: I really do. I love how hard Jason rides for

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Speaker 1: mechanic mic I have no choice. Now here's the question.

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Speaker 1: He works on stuff. You know he has the gay Ruge.

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Speaker 1: Of course he owns the gay Rush. But then when

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Speaker 1: he comes home, does he does he fix all the

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Speaker 1: those people that's like my dad is a is a

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Speaker 1: mechanical engineer, so he works all day. He has zero

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Speaker 6: Oh no.

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Speaker 5: Like I was talking about this with Kaitlin last week,

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Speaker 5: It's like there's certain types of people that are like

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Speaker 5: I came from a family that was very much like

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Speaker 5: if something needed to be done, we just have to

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Speaker 5: figure out a way to pay someone to come and

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Speaker 5: do it, whereas Mike's family and Mike you would never

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Speaker 5: pay anyone to do anything like if it's something handy,

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Speaker 5: You got to figure it out and do it yourself.

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Speaker 5: His dad just replaced a gas line at our house, Like,

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Speaker 5: how is that even?

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Speaker 2: How do you even do that?

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Speaker 5: Like I don't even know, you know, like digging the

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Speaker 5: ground up to fight? Like how do you even start that?

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Speaker 5: Without Colin Julie, you know what I mean? Like, I

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Speaker 5: don't understand. But he's always like always, he would never

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Speaker 1: Ever, it'd be very satisfying if I could do more stuff.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't know. And the other thing is

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Speaker 1: I'm a low CD, so then I obsess over in

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Speaker 1: the job that I did, and then I wind up

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Speaker 1: doing it. Whint's it becoming more difficult than it needed

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Speaker 1: to be. I should have just hired someone. I tried

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Speaker 1: And by the time I did that, I just paid

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Speaker 2: He did it.

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Speaker 1: It took a quarter of the time and he takes

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Speaker 1: everything away and it's like we're done.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, Like I can't.

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Speaker 1: I'm not good at much okay, and I can accept

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Speaker 1: that I can live with that.

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Speaker 6: Pay for it man, pay for convenience. Bro Yes, life

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Speaker 6: is hard enough. Life is hard enough.

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Speaker 2: I wish, would you guys In the very pointy birthday ads,