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If you're ever in our area, 45 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 5: stop by and be a part of one of our services. 46 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:00,400 Speaker 4: We would love to have you. 47 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 5: But thanks for tuning in today, Thanks for coming out. 48 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 5: I like to get started each week with something kind 49 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 5: of funny, and I. 50 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 4: Heard about this. 51 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 5: Husband and wife they were driving down the road and 52 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,760 Speaker 5: they saw this sign that said Nacodochius forty miles ahead. 53 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 5: They begin to argue over how to correctly pronounce the 54 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 5: name Nakodochus. The husband got so upset he finally said, 55 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 5: when we get there, I'm going to stop and prove 56 00:02:24,200 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 5: to you that I was right. They drove silently for 57 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 5: the next thirty minutes. When he got to the town, 58 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:32,119 Speaker 5: he pulled into the first little fast food restaurant. 59 00:02:32,400 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 4: They both marched up to the counter. 60 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 5: He said to the young lady working behind it, my 61 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 5: wife and I have been arguing for the last thirty minutes. 62 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 5: Would you please, very slowly and very clearly, tell us 63 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 5: how to pronounce the name of this place. The young 64 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 5: lady's eyes got real big. She leaned over the counter 65 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 5: and said, Burger Keen. 66 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 4: All right, hold up your Bible. Say it like you 67 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 4: mean it. 68 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 5: This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. 69 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 5: I have what it says I have. I can do 70 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,640 Speaker 5: what it says I can do. Today I will be 71 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,920 Speaker 5: taught the word of God. I boldly confess. My mind 72 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 5: is alert, my heart is receptive, I will. 73 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 4: Never be the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. 74 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 5: I want to talk to you today about living a 75 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 5: resurrected life. Every person goes through adversities. We've all had 76 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:33,680 Speaker 5: unfair things happen. We didn't get a promotion we deserve, 77 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 5: we lose a loved one, a friend betrayed us, or 78 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 5: maybe a marriage didn't last. 79 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 4: And it's easy to get negative. 80 00:03:41,480 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 5: And bitter and lose our enthusiasm for life. So many 81 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 5: people are living in the past, focused on who hurt 82 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 5: them and how. 83 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 4: Unfair it was. 84 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 5: They go around with a victim mentality, always blaming somebody else. 85 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 5: But understand, you are not defined by your past. 86 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 4: You were prepared by your past. 87 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 5: Every challenge you've been through, every adversity you faced, God deposited. 88 00:04:08,880 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 4: Something on the inside. 89 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 5: Your character was being developed, strength was being increased, vision 90 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 5: was being enlarged. With every difficulty, you can experience a 91 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:24,359 Speaker 5: new level of God's goodness. You may have had unfair 92 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 5: things happen, somebody did you wrong, or maybe you've made 93 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 5: poor choices that's brought trouble on yourself. But if you 94 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,440 Speaker 5: can just see it the right way, you are not 95 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,920 Speaker 5: defined by your past. 96 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 4: Your past is getting you prepared. 97 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 5: One of the best things that I've ever learned is 98 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:45,359 Speaker 5: nothing in life happens to me, it happens for me. 99 00:04:46,200 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 5: In other words, God would not have allowed me to 100 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 5: go through it if. 101 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 4: He didn't have a purpose for it. 102 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 5: He wouldn't have allowed that adversity to come if he 103 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 5: didn't already have a plan to get good out of it. 104 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 5: And even though it's difficult, even though it may be unfair, 105 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 5: if you'll keep the right attitude, it's not only going 106 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 5: to help develop you into who you really are, it's 107 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 5: going to get you to where you're supposed to be. 108 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 4: It did not happen by accident. 109 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:17,239 Speaker 5: All things work together for good when you love the Lord, 110 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 5: and it doesn't say. 111 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 4: That all things are good. 112 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 5: It may be uncomfortable, you may not like it, but 113 00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 5: if you'll stay in faith, God will use it. 114 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 4: To get some good out of it. 115 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 5: And maybe you've gone through a major setback in your health, 116 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:34,839 Speaker 5: in your marriage, in your finances, but don't let that 117 00:05:35,000 --> 00:05:38,640 Speaker 5: set back become the central focus of your life. Now, 118 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 5: keep your new goals in front of you, keep your 119 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 5: dreams alive. Jesus endured the pain of the Cross by 120 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,599 Speaker 5: focusing on the joy that was set before him. What 121 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:54,240 Speaker 5: are you focusing on today, what didn't work out? Who 122 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:55,920 Speaker 5: hurts you how unfair it was? 123 00:05:56,680 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 4: Or are you focusing on your dreams, your goal knowing 124 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 4: that your best days are still out in front of you. 125 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 5: And those adversities, even though they may look like stumbling blocks, 126 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 5: God can use them as stepping stones to take you 127 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 5: to a higher level. Everything you've gone through in life, 128 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:19,880 Speaker 5: every adversity, every lonely time, God was depositing something on 129 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 5: the inside. He's getting you prepared, and you wouldn't be 130 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 5: who you are today. You wouldn't have the depth, the maturity, 131 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 5: the insight if it were not for those things. Keep 132 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:33,800 Speaker 5: it in the right perspective. We are not defined by 133 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:37,080 Speaker 5: our past. You're not defined by how you were raised, 134 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,280 Speaker 5: or by how somebody treated you, or even by the 135 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 5: mistakes you've made. 136 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 4: You are prepared by your past. 137 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 5: Now I'm asking us today to shake off any kind 138 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 5: of self pity, shake off bitterness, shake off going around offended. 139 00:06:53,560 --> 00:06:57,480 Speaker 5: Life is too short to have a victim mentality. And 140 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 5: you may have seen one of your dreams died, You 141 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 5: lost a loved one, lost a marriage, lost your enthusiasm 142 00:07:03,680 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 5: in life, But here's how God works. You've been through 143 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 5: the death, you've been through the burial. Now it's the 144 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 5: third day. It's time for your resurrection. If you're going 145 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 5: to live this resurrected life, you have to have a 146 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 5: resurrected mentality. In other words, I may have been cheated 147 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 5: in a business deal, but. 148 00:07:23,760 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 4: I'm not bitter. 149 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 5: I'm not sour. I know that didn't happen to me. 150 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,920 Speaker 5: That happened for me. God said he would be my vindicator. 151 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 5: He said he would pay me back double. 152 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 4: For every injustice. So I'm not going to drag around defeated. 153 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 4: I am stayed in faith knowing that that just qualified 154 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:41,760 Speaker 4: me for double. 155 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:45,760 Speaker 5: Or in your health, maybe you're facing a sickness. It's 156 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 5: been that way a long time. The medical report doesn't 157 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 5: look good. You should be down and discouraged. But no, 158 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 5: I know this isn't happening to me. It's happening for me. 159 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 5: God is in complete control, and I believe he's not 160 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 5: only going to turn it around, but he's gonna bring 161 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 5: me out better off than I was before. 162 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 4: Stay in faith. 163 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 5: Or like I said, maybe you've made poor choices. You've 164 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 5: made some mistakes. That's opened the door to trouble. And 165 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 5: now that condemning voice, the accuser keeps telling you you 166 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:17,400 Speaker 5: blew it. 167 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 4: It's your fault. 168 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 5: You can't expect anything good. No, You've got to shake 169 00:08:21,480 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 5: that off and say, I may have brought trouble on myself, 170 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 5: but I know God's mercy is bigger than any mistake 171 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,080 Speaker 5: I've ever made. Now, I am not gonna live my 172 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 5: life guilty. I'm not giving up on my dreams. I 173 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 5: know I'm growing, I'm learning, and in the end, God's 174 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 5: gonna use it all. 175 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:39,479 Speaker 4: To my advantage. 176 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 5: Have that resurrection mentality. You are a child of the 177 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 5: Most High God. Nothing can happen to you. It can 178 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 5: only happen for you. It's all a part of God's plan. 179 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,200 Speaker 5: And even when it doesn't seem like it's fair, God 180 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 5: said here in Isaiah sixty one, verse three, he will 181 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:02,080 Speaker 5: give you beauty for your ashes, joy for your mourning. 182 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 5: Some of you may feel like today all you have 183 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:08,720 Speaker 5: is a bunch of ashes. Nothing in life has turned out, 184 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 5: none of your dreams have come to pass. That simply 185 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 5: means you've been through the death, You've been through the burial. 186 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 5: Now it's time for your resurrection. And the good news 187 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:21,440 Speaker 5: is it's not over until God says it's over. He 188 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 5: still has a way to bring your dreams to pass. 189 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 4: Why don't you get in agreement with him? Why don't 190 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 4: you shake off that victim mentality. 191 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 5: If we will have the right perspective, it takes away 192 00:09:33,000 --> 00:09:34,560 Speaker 5: all the power of the enemy. 193 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 4: When things come against us. 194 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 5: In the natural, we should get down and discourage, go 195 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 5: around complaining defeated. But when we understand this principle that 196 00:09:45,440 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 5: eventually God is going to get some good out of it, 197 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 5: and even though it's difficult, God's depositing something on the inside, 198 00:09:52,920 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 5: then we can have a smile on our face even 199 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:56,560 Speaker 5: when our plans don't work out. 200 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:58,440 Speaker 4: We can be in peace. 201 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 5: Even when we should be stressed out. We can be 202 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 5: good to people even when they're not being good to us. 203 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 5: You may have a boss, a friend, a child that's 204 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:09,640 Speaker 5: kind of hard to get along with. Sometimes you have 205 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 5: to look at him and just say it in faith, 206 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 5: you are not happening to me. 207 00:10:13,880 --> 00:10:15,200 Speaker 4: You are happening for me. 208 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 5: They may not understand it, but don't bother explaining it 209 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 5: to him. And this may seem kind of funny, but 210 00:10:21,679 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 5: some of my enemies I need to thank them the 211 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 5: most some of them, I need to write them a check. 212 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 5: They don't realize how God has used them to stretch me, 213 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 5: to grow me. 214 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 4: Up, to help me have a greater confidence in Him. 215 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 5: I've told you how when we were trying to acquire 216 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:41,360 Speaker 5: this place, one of the main business leaders in the 217 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 5: city told a friend of mine, it'll be a cold 218 00:10:44,440 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 5: day in hell before Lakewood ever gets the Compact Center. 219 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,079 Speaker 5: That man doesn't know what he did for me. When 220 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 5: I see him, I need to buy his dinner McDonald's. 221 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 4: Probably. I don't know if. 222 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 5: We'd be here today if it were not for him. 223 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 5: God used him to light a new fire on the inside, 224 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 5: to give me a new determination, a new passion. 225 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,600 Speaker 4: He didn't happen to me, He happened for me. 226 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 5: At first, I was thinking, Wow, we've got a lot 227 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,480 Speaker 5: of things coming against us, and looks like our opponents 228 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 5: are very big, very powerful. But I had to shake 229 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:20,839 Speaker 5: that off and say, no, if God be for us, 230 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 5: who dare be against us? The bigger they are, the 231 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 5: harder they fall. We didn't have a victim mentality. We 232 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:31,040 Speaker 5: had a victor mentality. But too many times when it 233 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 5: looks like one of our dreams has died, we just 234 00:11:33,840 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 5: give up, we stop believing. I've seen people that miss 235 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 5: God's best because they never get past. 236 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 4: The burial stage. 237 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 5: They go through a disappointment, something doesn't go their way, 238 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 5: and instead of letting it go knowing that God has 239 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 5: another plan, instead of getting a fresh vision for their life, 240 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,880 Speaker 5: they waller around in self pity. But you'll never get 241 00:11:55,920 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 5: to your resurrection. You'll never get to phase three if 242 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 5: you don't get it passed the death and the burial. 243 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 5: In other words, you got to have the attitude. I 244 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 5: did my best, I gave it my all. For some reason, 245 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 5: it didn't work out. Now I am not going to 246 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:13,800 Speaker 5: sit around the rest of my life and mourn over 247 00:12:13,880 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 5: something that I cannot change. 248 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 4: That's over and done. So I'm on regroup. I'm on refocus. 249 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 5: I know I've been through the death, I've been through 250 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 5: the burial. I'm getting ready for my resurrection. I'm getting 251 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 5: ready for the new thing God's going to do in 252 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 5: my life. And most of the time, the reason God 253 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,560 Speaker 5: closes a door when we're walking in obedience and being 254 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:37,120 Speaker 5: our best, it's because He has something better in store. 255 00:12:37,679 --> 00:12:39,720 Speaker 5: But when we get sour, when we don't get our 256 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:43,640 Speaker 5: way and we live bitter offended negative that stops God 257 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 5: from bringing the new thing. We have to be able 258 00:12:46,559 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 5: to say God, even though I didn't get my way, 259 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 5: I trust you. 260 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 4: I know you know what's best. 261 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 5: For me, and I believe at the right time, you 262 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 5: will give me the desires of my heart. Several years 263 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 5: after Victoria and I got married, we sold the house 264 00:13:01,360 --> 00:13:03,880 Speaker 5: we were living in and moved to another place, and 265 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 5: the people that bought the house several months later, they 266 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 5: filed a lawsuit against us. They were having a problem 267 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 5: with the outside sewards, and they not only sued us, 268 00:13:13,559 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 5: but they sued the builder, the architect, the realtor, the plumber, 269 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 5: like five or ten different people, everybody they could think of. 270 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 4: And I knew that we didn't do anything wrong. 271 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:24,960 Speaker 5: We were not at fault, but I was so distraught 272 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 5: over this lawsuit. It went on month after month. I 273 00:13:28,679 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 5: remember I had to go downtown and give my deposition. 274 00:13:31,840 --> 00:13:35,200 Speaker 5: I was so stressed out and so nervous, thinking this 275 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 5: is the worst thing in the world that's ever happened 276 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:37,720 Speaker 5: to me. 277 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 4: And at that deposition it took me like two hours. 278 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 5: After I got finished, I was so nauseated I couldn't 279 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 5: even drive home. 280 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 4: I'd allowed it to upset me that much. Well, about 281 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 4: six months. 282 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 5: Later it was all thrown out and we were totally cleared. 283 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 5: But during that whole time, I was thinking of how 284 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 5: bad it was, and just how this is not fair, 285 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 5: and God, this is just wasting our time, on and on. 286 00:14:01,559 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 5: I saw myself as a victim. But about three years 287 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 5: later I begin to see what God was doing. When 288 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 5: we signed the least for this place, a company filed 289 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 5: a lawsuit to try to keep us from moving in. 290 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 4: I realize now God was getting me prepared Back then. 291 00:14:18,880 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 5: When I went to give my deposition concerning this place, 292 00:14:21,960 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 5: I was as calm as I could be. And I 293 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 5: know if I had not gone through that other lawsuit 294 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 5: and seen how it all was going to work out, 295 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 5: I wouldn't have been as confident. I wouldn't have been 296 00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 5: as ready when it came to something that really mattered. 297 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 5: What I'm saying is, when you go through tough times 298 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 5: you don't know what God's getting you prepared for, don't 299 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 5: be shortsighted and think, Oh God, why is this happening? 300 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 4: This is not fair. 301 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,320 Speaker 5: No, God would not have allowed it if he wasn't 302 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:51,600 Speaker 5: going to get some kind of good out of it. 303 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 5: It may be ten years down the road you look 304 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 5: up and think, Wow, if I hadn't I had that adversity, 305 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 5: I wouldn't have met this person, induce me to this person, and. 306 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,000 Speaker 4: On and on. God hasn't all figured out. 307 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,720 Speaker 5: And some of you right now, the thing that you're 308 00:15:06,760 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 5: fighting against, the thing that's got you so stressed out. 309 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 5: If God were to take it away, you wouldn't be 310 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 5: prepared for what he has in store. It would keep 311 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 5: you from going to the level he's trying to get you. 312 00:15:18,560 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 5: To keep it all in perspective that coworker you don't 313 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 5: like that job you dread going to, it's not happening 314 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 5: to you. It's happening for you. God's getting you prepared 315 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:34,320 Speaker 5: for greater levels. What has a great impact on whether 316 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 5: or not it happens or how long we stay there 317 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 5: is our attitude when we go around sour complaining God, 318 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 5: why am I always getting these bad breaks? 319 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:44,680 Speaker 4: No, stay in faith. 320 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 5: Just say God, I know you're in complete control of 321 00:15:48,040 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 5: my life. And no matter how tempted I am to 322 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,720 Speaker 5: be disappointed, I am not going to be a victim. 323 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:57,520 Speaker 5: I am not going to go around negative blaming other people. 324 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 5: I know You've got me in the palm of your hand. 325 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 5: And I believe one day I'm going to look out 326 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 5: and see how this has all turned out. 327 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 4: For my good. Stay in faith. I know this pastor. 328 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 5: Friend, he had a man in his congregation. 329 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:12,960 Speaker 4: That was always having a problem. 330 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 5: This man was always complaining to him about something and 331 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 5: just always in need. 332 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 4: And he finally got tired of it. He was praying. 333 00:16:20,960 --> 00:16:23,360 Speaker 4: He said, God, would you just move this man to 334 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 4: another church. 335 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:27,320 Speaker 5: He is draining all my strength, draining all my energy, 336 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 5: taking all my time. 337 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 4: He said. He heard God speak to. 338 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 5: Him right down in here, and God said, no, I'm 339 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 5: not going to do that. That man has kept you 340 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:40,000 Speaker 5: on your knees like nothing I've ever seen before. It's 341 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,440 Speaker 5: not happening to you, it's happening for you. 342 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 4: Thank God. 343 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 5: We don't have anybody like that around here. Okay, maybe 344 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 5: one person, but they're not here today. But the fact 345 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:55,080 Speaker 5: is we grow in the difficult times. That's when our 346 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:58,280 Speaker 5: character is being developed. Yeah, it's fun being on the 347 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 5: mountaintop where it's easy, but we're not being stretched. It's 348 00:17:02,160 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 5: when we have to dig our heels in and overlook 349 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:08,640 Speaker 5: an insult and forgive a wrong and do the right thing, 350 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:10,680 Speaker 5: even when people aren't treating us right. 351 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 4: That's when we're growing. 352 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 5: And I'm not saying to believe for tough times, but 353 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 5: when they come, I've already made up my mind. I'm 354 00:17:17,680 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 5: not gonna get sour, I'm not gonna get bitter. I'm 355 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 5: gonna get better. I know God is trying to deposit 356 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 5: something on the inside. We've got to go through the 357 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:29,919 Speaker 5: valley in faith, knowing that it's taking us to a 358 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:30,679 Speaker 5: higher mountain. 359 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 3: Now. 360 00:17:31,320 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 4: I love what David said, though I walk through. 361 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 5: The valley of the shadow of death, he didn't say 362 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 5: though I live in the valley, though I'm stuck in 363 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:44,080 Speaker 5: the valley, though I probably die in the valley. No, 364 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 5: he said, this valley is temporary. I'm not gonna die 365 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 5: with these problems. This too shall pass. And the fact 366 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 5: is every one of us is going through. 367 00:17:54,080 --> 00:17:58,359 Speaker 4: Something, a health issue, financial difficulty, a struggle at work. 368 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 4: We all have something in the natural that could steal 369 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 4: our joy and cause us to be worded. But we 370 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 4: got to keep the perspective like David and say, no, 371 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 4: I'm going through this. This didn't come to stay. It 372 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 4: came to pass. 373 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:15,080 Speaker 5: Now, all through the day, you need to remind yourself 374 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 5: this is temporary. 375 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:18,120 Speaker 4: This is just a season. 376 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,000 Speaker 5: I may be lonely right now, but I'm not gonna 377 00:18:21,000 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 5: stay lonely. I know God's gonna bring the right person 378 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 5: into my life. Or I may be wounded emotionally. I 379 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,120 Speaker 5: may be hurting on the inside, but I'm not gonna 380 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 5: stay wounded. 381 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 4: I know God is the. 382 00:18:33,320 --> 00:18:36,600 Speaker 5: Restore of my soul. He's gonna bring healing and give 383 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 5: me beauty. For these ashes, you have to keep yourself encouraged. 384 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 5: Don't settle in the valley that is not your permanent address. 385 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 5: It says in Psaw eighty four, passing through the valley 386 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:53,400 Speaker 5: of Weeping, you will find pools of blessings. 387 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 4: What does that mean? When you go through the valley, 388 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:57,680 Speaker 4: when you go through. 389 00:18:57,640 --> 00:19:01,400 Speaker 5: Difficult times, if you will stay in faith, God will 390 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:05,120 Speaker 5: take those tears and turn them into pools that will 391 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:07,000 Speaker 5: actually refresh you. 392 00:19:07,000 --> 00:19:09,879 Speaker 4: You look up and think, man, I should be down, i. 393 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 5: Should be stressed out. I've got so much coming against me. 394 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 5: But I'm happy. I'm at peace. I'm expecting good things. 395 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 4: Why is that. 396 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:22,000 Speaker 5: It's because you're tapping into those pools of blessings and 397 00:19:22,040 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 5: God is refreshing you. 398 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:24,080 Speaker 3: Now. 399 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:26,360 Speaker 4: I know sometimes when we go through loss. 400 00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 5: It's easy to feel like we've been robbed, like something's 401 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 5: been stolen from us. You lose a loved one, loss 402 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,360 Speaker 5: of a marriage, even the loss of a childhood if 403 00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 5: you weren't raised in a good environment. And when we 404 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 5: go through a loss, we can have one of two attitudes. 405 00:19:42,800 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 4: We can say, God, this isn't fair. Why did this happen? 406 00:19:46,040 --> 00:19:47,240 Speaker 4: It doesn't make any sense. 407 00:19:47,640 --> 00:19:51,400 Speaker 5: We can get bitter, negative, live life, angry and offended. 408 00:19:52,000 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 5: But a much better approach is to take that loss 409 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 5: and sow it as a seed and just say God, 410 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:00,800 Speaker 5: I don't really know why that this has happened to me. 411 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:04,560 Speaker 5: I don't know why this has been taken away, But God, 412 00:20:04,640 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 5: I'm not gonna allow anyone or anything to steal from me. 413 00:20:08,680 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 5: I'm giving it to you as a seed, trusting that 414 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 5: you will bring me a harvest. Don't have a victim mentality. 415 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 5: Maybe you didn't get the promotion you deserved. Just say God, 416 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 5: nobody stole this promotion from me. I know you control 417 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:26,280 Speaker 5: the whole universe, and even though it wasn't right, God, 418 00:20:26,280 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 5: I'm giving it to you as a seed, trusting that 419 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 5: you will bring me an even better promotion. 420 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 4: Or how about a relationship that didn't work out. 421 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 5: God, I'm not gonna sit around bitter for the rest 422 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 5: of my life thinking about the. 423 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,200 Speaker 4: Months and the years that I've wasted. 424 00:20:40,600 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 5: I'm giving this relationship to you as a seed, believing 425 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 5: that you will bring me divine connections, the right people 426 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:48,800 Speaker 5: into my life. 427 00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 4: You cannot have a victim mentality. 428 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 5: Hey I lost my loved one, I've been robbed. No, 429 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 5: just turn it over to God. Give it to him 430 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:59,439 Speaker 5: and you'll be amazed at what kind of harvest he 431 00:20:59,480 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 5: can bring. 432 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:02,160 Speaker 4: I think about Jesus. 433 00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:05,440 Speaker 5: Before he came to the resurrection, he had to go 434 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:09,439 Speaker 5: through the Garden of Gasemone, the road to Galgatha, and 435 00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:13,720 Speaker 5: the Cross. Those were his biggest challenges. The enemy always 436 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,879 Speaker 5: fights us the hardest when he knows we are closest 437 00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,439 Speaker 5: to our victory, and many times on the way to 438 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,120 Speaker 5: our resurrection, on the way to our dreams being fulfilled, 439 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 5: we'll go through these. 440 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 4: Same type of things. And it's interesting. 441 00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 5: When Jesus prayed for Peter, he didn't pray that he 442 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:34,920 Speaker 5: would never have to go through anything difficult. He prayed 443 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 5: that his faith would remain strong. And in the garden 444 00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 5: of Gasemone, Jesus was so distraught over what he was 445 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,679 Speaker 5: about to face. He was in such agony in his 446 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 5: spirit that he swept great drops of blood. He said, Father, 447 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 5: if you're willing take this cup from me, nevertheless, not. 448 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 4: My will, yours be done. 449 00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 5: It was there in the garden that he made a 450 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,439 Speaker 5: decision to hold on to the promise that God had 451 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 5: put in his heart. In fact, there was a war 452 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 5: going on on the inside. Everything in him was telling him, 453 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 5: you're not gonna make it. There's no way, it's too tough. 454 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 5: But when he made the decision to stay in faith, 455 00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 5: God sent. 456 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 4: An angel that began to strengthen him. 457 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 5: You may feel like you're in the garden right now. 458 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 5: Everything has come against you. You don't see in the 459 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:27,959 Speaker 5: natural how you could make it. But God is saying, 460 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:32,760 Speaker 5: hold on to that promise. Keep believing, keep hoping, keep praying. 461 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 5: You are close to your victory. On the road to 462 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 5: be crucified. They made Jesus carry his own cross, but 463 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 5: he had been so beaten down, so mistreated, he couldn't 464 00:22:44,119 --> 00:22:47,000 Speaker 5: carry it the whole way. He fell down under the 465 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 5: weight of his cross. The message is you don't have 466 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:55,159 Speaker 5: to be strong one hundred percent of the time. Sometimes 467 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 5: the cross we're carrying can be extremely heavy. The accusing 468 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,159 Speaker 5: voice will tell you if every day is not a 469 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 5: perfect day, if you don't stay in faith every minute, 470 00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:07,359 Speaker 5: keep your joy and keep your peace, and you're. 471 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 4: Just not strong enough. 472 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 5: But it's always encouraging to remember that even Jesus fell 473 00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 5: down under the weight of his cross, a man by 474 00:23:16,160 --> 00:23:18,840 Speaker 5: the name of Simon came and helped him to carry you. 475 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,119 Speaker 5: God will always send somebody across your path to be 476 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,880 Speaker 5: there for you in the time of your greatest need. 477 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:29,240 Speaker 5: Maybe today it's my voice telling you you can make it. 478 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 4: There are better days up ahead. 479 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 5: But the enemy will tell you this. He'll tell you 480 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 5: you lost your victory, you had a bad day, you 481 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 5: had a pity party, you lost your temper, you yelled 482 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 5: at your kids on God's saying, that's okay, you're human. 483 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 4: I know what it feels like to fall down. I've 484 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,879 Speaker 4: been there. Just get back up again. You've got a 485 00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 4: resurrection coming. They nailed Jesus to the cross, and as he. 486 00:23:56,200 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 5: Hung there, he felt so lonely, so dejected. He cried out, 487 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 5: my God, my God, why have you forsaken me? He 488 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 5: asked a question, but he didn't hear any kind of answer. 489 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,440 Speaker 5: Sometimes heaven can be silent. 490 00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:13,200 Speaker 4: You pray, you. 491 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:17,000 Speaker 5: Believe you're doing your best, but you don't see anything happening. 492 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,639 Speaker 4: You're hurting on the inside. It looks like it's over. 493 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:25,560 Speaker 5: But in those silent times, something powerful is happening down 494 00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 5: in here. God is stretching you. You're developing a greater 495 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 5: confidence in him. Your mind will tell you it's over, 496 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 5: it's never gonna happen, but something will rise up in 497 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 5: your spirit that says, no, God is still on the throne. 498 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,359 Speaker 4: This is not happening to me. It's happening for me. 499 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:46,440 Speaker 5: And even though it's not fair, even though I'm discouraged, 500 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,000 Speaker 5: deep down, I know that I know I've got a 501 00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 5: resurrection coming. 502 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 4: I know God can still turn this around. 503 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 5: As Jesus hung on the cross in all that pain, 504 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 5: the soldiers made fun of him, locked him, ridiculed him. 505 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 5: In spite of all that suffering, in spite of the disrespect, 506 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 5: he looked up to Heaven and said, Father, forgive them. 507 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,480 Speaker 4: They don't know what they're doing. He forgave his enemies. 508 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:15,080 Speaker 5: Then he committed his spirit into his father's hands. 509 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:16,879 Speaker 4: They put him in the grave. 510 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 5: I'm sure the forces of darkness were celebrating, rejoicing, thinking 511 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,639 Speaker 5: they had finally won the victory. But they didn't realize 512 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,680 Speaker 5: it's not over until God says it's over. God always 513 00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 5: has the final say. He controls the whole universe. That 514 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 5: was on Friday, but three days later, on Sunday morning, 515 00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 5: Jesus came up out of that grave. He said, I 516 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,400 Speaker 5: am he that lives. I was dead, but I am 517 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:47,920 Speaker 5: alive forevermore. He went on to say, because I live. 518 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:49,720 Speaker 4: You can live. Also. 519 00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 5: God has an abundant life in store for each one 520 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:53,680 Speaker 5: of us. 521 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 4: But many times on the way to. 522 00:25:56,200 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 5: Our victories, just like Jesus, will experience some of these setback, 523 00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:03,879 Speaker 5: some of these difficult times. You have to remind yourself 524 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:07,000 Speaker 5: it's not happening to me, it's happening for me. God's 525 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 5: getting me prepared on the inside. He's depositing strength, courage, 526 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:15,480 Speaker 5: and ability. Keep your eyes focused on your goals, says 527 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 5: in Hebrews. Now faith is you have to have a 528 00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:23,560 Speaker 5: now mentality. Not one day I'm going to be happy. 529 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:25,600 Speaker 5: One day God's gonna work. 530 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 4: In my life. 531 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 5: No, now is the time to release your faith. The 532 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:33,159 Speaker 5: fact is, right now God is working in your life. 533 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:37,200 Speaker 5: Right now, God's arranging things in your favor. Right now, 534 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 5: God's trying to fill you with his strength. Stay in 535 00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:44,840 Speaker 5: the now. That's what activates God's power. You remember when 536 00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 5: Mary and Martha were at the tomb of their brother Lazarus. 537 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 5: He'd been dead for four days, and they were there 538 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 5: crying so distraught. Jesus finally showed up and said, I 539 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 5: am the Resurrection and the Life. They said, yes, Jesus, 540 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 5: we know in the last days you'll raise our brother 541 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:04,679 Speaker 5: Lazarus from the dead when we all go to heaven. 542 00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,120 Speaker 5: Jesus said, in the fact, no, Mary, no Martha. I'm 543 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 5: not talking about in the last days. I'm talking about today. 544 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,200 Speaker 5: If you'll roll away the stone, I'll raise your brother 545 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 5: right now. He was saying, I am a right now God. 546 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,320 Speaker 5: A lot of times, like these ladies, we're believing one 547 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:24,959 Speaker 5: day God's gonna do something great in my life. One 548 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:28,120 Speaker 5: day God's gonna resurrect my dead dreams. Now, we have 549 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 5: to get out of that one day mentality and let's 550 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:33,920 Speaker 5: start believing that today God's. 551 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:34,680 Speaker 4: Gonna do something great. 552 00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:39,320 Speaker 5: Today, God's gonna open up supernatural doors. Have a now mentality, 553 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,399 Speaker 5: And I know some of you have been through the 554 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 5: death so to speak. You've been through the burial, You've 555 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 5: had people lie about you, lost friends, gone through disappointments, 556 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 5: face sicknesses. 557 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,240 Speaker 4: But God didn't take you through everything. He took you 558 00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 4: through just so you could. 559 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:59,600 Speaker 5: Come out beaten, down, bedraggled, half dead. Well, how you doing, brother, 560 00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 5: All good under the circumstances. Now it's time for your resurrection. 561 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 5: It's time for you to rise up and take everything 562 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 5: that belongs to you. If you've been crucified with Christ, 563 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,520 Speaker 5: you can be raised with Christ. The enemy may have 564 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 5: done his best, but his best will never be enough. 565 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 5: You've got to shake off the past, shake off every disappointment, 566 00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 5: shake off every injustice, shake off every failure. 567 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,680 Speaker 4: Let today be a new beginning. 568 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 5: You may feel like you're in the garden, down and discouraged, 569 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,800 Speaker 5: but take heart, you've got a resurrection coming. You may 570 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 5: have fallen down under the weight of your cross. God 571 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,640 Speaker 5: is saying get back up again. You're close to your victory. 572 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:42,560 Speaker 5: You may even feel like you're on the cross. Your 573 00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:45,880 Speaker 5: dreams have died. Everything's coming against you. You've got to 574 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 5: get a new perspective. Nothing in life has happened to you, 575 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 5: It has happened for you. 576 00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:53,760 Speaker 4: God has you in the palm of his hand. 577 00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 5: He is going to take what was meant to destroy 578 00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 5: you and use it to thrust you into your divine destiny. Remember, 579 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,400 Speaker 5: you are not defined by your past. You are prepared 580 00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:09,600 Speaker 5: by your past. Every adversity, every obstacle, God's depositing something 581 00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 5: on the inside. If you'll live this resurrected life, you 582 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 5: won't have a victim mentality. You will have a victoria mentality. 583 00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 4: And even when. 584 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 5: Things come against you, you'll still have a smile on 585 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:21,200 Speaker 5: your face. 586 00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 4: You'll know God's not only gonna turn it around, but 587 00:29:24,680 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 4: He's gonna give you beauty for ashes, joy for mourning, 588 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,280 Speaker 4: and in the end, you're gonna come out stronger, happier, healthier, 589 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 4: better off than you were before. Amen. Do you receive 590 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 4: it today? 591 00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 5: We never like to close our broadcast without giving you 592 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 5: an opportunity to make Jesus the lord of your life. 593 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 5: Would you pray with me? 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