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Speaker 1: Hi you guys, Balacant, Welcome back to the bonus episode.

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Speaker 1: If you give them all the podcast, I have Jessic Kerr.

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Speaker 2: Hello, good morning, good good morning, a boy mate, a

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Speaker 2: boy and then I have Easton.

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Speaker 1: Did you get a new snap back? Is it a

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Speaker 1: snapback or a fitted? Oh? I got my La Dodger fitted. Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm doing my thing.

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Speaker 3: I think I got a patch on one of the sides.

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Speaker 1: You do World Series twenty twenty stunning.

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Speaker 4: It's new, newish, newish.

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Speaker 3: I buy things and then don't wear them for a while.

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what I do. It's like I'm saving it

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Speaker 1: for when I go do something. But then I realized

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Speaker 1: I'd never go do.

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Speaker 2: Something, and then it wasn't that must be nice. I

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Speaker 2: buy things and wear them immediately because I'm so excited

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Speaker 2: to wear them.

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Speaker 4: So they're like, do that, oh to jiu jitsu? Like

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Speaker 4: I just wear like I just got it.

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Speaker 3: I like your heels.

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Speaker 4: I like your heel.

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Speaker 1: By the way your your legs would be stellar if

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Speaker 1: you could, if you jiu jitsu and in Stiletto's, Oh.

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Speaker 4: You tell everyone you would.

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Speaker 1: If I didn't think about that, I just thought about

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Speaker 1: the epic ass you'd have you thinking.

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Speaker 5: About what do they call it grappling?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, with a girl in a dress and heels.

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Speaker 2: Oh ass out vagina out everything with me out china

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Speaker 2: vagina vagina.

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Speaker 1: That's what Ocean calls it. That's so cute because you

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Speaker 1: have to wash your vagina, mom, And I'm like, yes,

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Speaker 1: you do, and your arm pit and your show does okay.

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Speaker 1: I got a text from a friend that was like,

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Speaker 1: you give Ocean the accent of like a Rugrats character.

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Speaker 4: She does have it. It's so accurate.

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Speaker 1: She does. And like the other day she asked me

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Speaker 1: for a purple otter pop you know, like the frozen things,

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Speaker 1: and she she goes, I want to pupple one mom,

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Speaker 1: And I said you want pupple and she goes, no purple.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, purple, no purple. She totally thinks she's saying

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Speaker 1: it correctly. I have to say the like, as time passes,

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Speaker 1: you become, for me at least more and more obsessed

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Speaker 1: with your kid.

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Speaker 3: You're like Sart becoming a little human.

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Speaker 1: I'm just like, you're the coolest person. You're sitting here

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Speaker 1: talking to me about things that matter. I was watching

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Speaker 1: Kardashians today for background noise, and then it sucked me

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Speaker 1: in and I was like, you know what, I'm going

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Speaker 1: to go and watch like the new season because Roku

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Speaker 1: has like keeping up and it's like all they do

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Speaker 1: is play Kardashians all day long. So it was like

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Speaker 1: season three, episode one where they go camping or something

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Speaker 1: and they go with Adrian Baylone's parents and.

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Speaker 4: I loved Adrian and Rob, but okay, go Chloe.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I watch and the Ocean was

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Speaker 1: talking about, you know, is this Housewives? I've never seen

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Speaker 1: this before and I was like, it's great, girl. You

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Speaker 1: should feel inspired by these women. Absolute freak Absolutely these

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Speaker 1: are the women.

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Speaker 4: Study these women.

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Speaker 1: They're interesting, kind, very exciting to look at, very esthetically pleasing.

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Speaker 1: The Arctic Ape easton a couple.

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Speaker 3: Well, Kim has one, Kylie has one.

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Speaker 1: Where did you get that Kylie has one? I don't

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Speaker 1: know this is this true? I don't think so I

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Speaker 1: can post me this, please don't. I do not need

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Speaker 1: Marty Singer coming for me. Oh yeah, no, you're have

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Speaker 1: you seen it? I think he's seen it, that's why

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Speaker 1: he's talking about it. Well, allegedly allegedly.

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Speaker 3: Allegedly allegedly, it looks like her allegedly.

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Speaker 5: It's with Ai going around who knows, but it's been

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Speaker 5: on the but it's been out for a good while

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Speaker 5: before Ai was something, so I don't know.

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Speaker 3: But allegedly she's on there.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. There's this. I go through kicks where

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I say this all the time. You don't

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Speaker 1: need to know. You don't have to watch the Kardashians

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Speaker 1: to know what's going on in their life. Like they're

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Speaker 1: just shoved down our throats. And I'm totally fine with it.

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Speaker 1: I find them interesting and aesthetically very pleasing to look at.

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Speaker 1: But there are times where it sucks me in and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, let's watch, let's see. I'm into it.

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Speaker 2: I love it for the how I love it for

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Speaker 2: the homes that I just like it for that. So

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Speaker 2: I feel like you were like or so many people

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Speaker 2: are like, it's not that interesting now, but I'm like,

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Speaker 2: it's interesting in a different way than I watch Bravo

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Speaker 2: stuff for anyway, keep going sorry.

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Speaker 1: I think so too.

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Speaker 4: Like I like the homes. I like to be like,

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Speaker 4: oh wow, look at the yard.

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Speaker 1: I like watching how powerful these women are. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: just like wild to me to go from like them

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Speaker 1: driving an r V by Lake to like security camped

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Speaker 1: outside of the homes and getting on private jets to

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Speaker 1: go to Paris for twelve hours and then get back

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Speaker 1: to like it. Just I find it amazing.

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Speaker 2: They also get so much hate and they really don't

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Speaker 2: give up. They don't give a heck at all.

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Speaker 1: You want to know why, I think it's be well,

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Speaker 1: I think they do maybe behind closed doors. I'm sure

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Speaker 1: it's hard because they're still humans, but it's the family,

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Speaker 1: like the safest you could ever feel. They're like experiencing

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Speaker 1: it together. It would be like Easton and my mom

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Speaker 1: and me having multiple other siblings, knowing exactly what the

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Speaker 1: other one is going through, but like we've got memories

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Speaker 1: together since birth, Like you're that thick. So what's the bonus?

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Speaker 1: What's the bonus episode about? Today?

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Speaker 4: Jessica speaking of beauty, speaking of Kardashians.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of stunning to look at No, this is I

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Speaker 2: really loved this. You picked this lot and it is

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Speaker 2: how do you define beauty?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, I'm interested to see Ethan's take on this.

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Speaker 2: I am interested Ethan's take, I'm interested yours, and I'm

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Speaker 2: interested in mine because I think we're all going to

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Speaker 2: be very different.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I would love for one of you to

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Speaker 1: go first.

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Speaker 4: Easton, shall you stay or no? I did a lot

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Speaker 4: of people.

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Speaker 1: Write in all this because this one. When you sent

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Speaker 1: me the list of like what bonus topics to choose from,

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Speaker 1: I was like, this one seems interesting and I'm not

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Speaker 1: going to sugarcoat it.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of amazing and different ones. So you're right,

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Speaker 2: it's interesting, lots of different perspectives.

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Speaker 3: What did Taylor say?

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Speaker 1: Who's Taylor your friend? Tap good?

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Speaker 3: What do you say? That is a lid for every pots?

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Speaker 1: The lid for every pot? No, it was Alex.

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Speaker 3: It was a rushing a lid for every pot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've we've been talking. I think I gravitated towards

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Speaker 1: this topic because we've been talking a lot about types

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Speaker 1: and who we find attractive, and it started again with

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Speaker 1: Kardashians Landon. We'll talk about it in the Actually, let's

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Speaker 1: talk about it now since it's right on topic. Landon

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Speaker 1: yesterday was talking about he finds Kendall more appealing than

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Speaker 1: Kylie of the Jenner sisters. Easton said he likes a

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Speaker 1: look that's more manufactured.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't, Yeah, I know that sounds.

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Speaker 1: I don't we all can. They're not a natural family,

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Speaker 1: Like that's not a nat like natural beauty. But I'm

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Speaker 3: Look you know why. I'm just drawn to like lips, yeah, lips. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I don't know why.

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Speaker 4: And if you're like.

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Speaker 1: Different pot oh that he was like, there's the lid

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Speaker 1: for every pot and he was Landing, was like, I

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Speaker 1: like more of an athletic build a more natural body.

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Speaker 1: Easton was like, I like more of a bb L.

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Speaker 4: Great, you know, but that's what's so great. Everyone can

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Speaker 4: have their preference.

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Speaker 1: That's what's so great is your lid. There's a pot

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Speaker 1: for you, but there's.

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Speaker 4: A pot for your lid.

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Speaker 1: I'm hoping and if you're as lucky as like Irena

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Speaker 1: Shake to have lips like that. Do you know who

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Speaker 1: Irene she had a baby with Bradley Cooper.

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Speaker 4: She was Yeah, she's she's stunning.

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Speaker 1: She's Irena Shake. She's Russian and absolutely beyond and her

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Speaker 1: body is amazing. See. I think I have many differences

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Speaker 1: after that, are ready to fit many different pots.

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Speaker 4: I feel like you do too.

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Speaker 2: If we're going just off of physical attributes, is that

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Speaker 2: what you're saying, like physical attributes.

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Speaker 5: Is she taken after Adriana Lima in something because that's

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Speaker 1: Well, she does have like she does have that very pretty,

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Speaker 1: like olive skin, like the natural look, the good eyebrows

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Speaker 1: that don't need much work like whatever, like that's that's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and she you said her lips are natural.

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Speaker 1: Irena sche Yeah, I don't know, she's always had lips

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Speaker 4: Beautiful, beautiful.

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Speaker 2: I bet, I bet I'd like to find this list once.

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Speaker 2: Who are the top ten that people bring into doctors?

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Speaker 4: I bet she's up there.

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Speaker 1: I bet she's definitely.

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Speaker 4: Up there for sure.

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Speaker 1: Okay for yeah, defining beauty, you got, okay, defining beauty.

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Speaker 5: I'm attracted to looks, But how I define beauty is

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Speaker 5: almost how you treat other people like your server, your mother,

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Speaker 5: your father, the people around you.

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Speaker 3: That's where I find beauty. And how you treat other people,

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Speaker 4: I totally agree. We all know the hot chick who's stunning,

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Speaker 2: Meet her and you and everybody, like, I can't be

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Speaker 5: I don't want totally dick energy to come to me,

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Speaker 5: so I do, And that isn't PC that.

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Speaker 3: I really I was joking got her, but no, I

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Speaker 5: Like I I have to be attracted visually, but now

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Speaker 5: I have to find beauty in the person, and that's

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Speaker 3: How do you treat other people? How do you hold

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Speaker 3: yourself you know totally?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's my Yeah, how do you hold yourself in

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Speaker 5: but you fit. I find beauty in that, Like, how

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Speaker 5: can I just fit in? How can I make it work?

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Speaker 5: Be like cordial with all these people? That's where I

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Speaker 5: find beauty.

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Speaker 4: Okay, why you treat others like? That's awesome?

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Speaker 5: Ye?

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Speaker 2: Stunning, absolutely stunning answer, absolutely beautiful answer.

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Speaker 1: Off. Okay, so that's like the initial you obviously have

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Speaker 5: I have to be attracted, yeah, visually attracted to you,

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Speaker 5: and then after that, if you're a bitch, I can

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Speaker 5: not be visually attracted to you anymore?

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Speaker 1: Right, turned off really quickly?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay.

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Speaker 5: But there's a lot of girls that like, honestly that

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Speaker 5: I'm not attracted to, but I see them and I'm like,

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Speaker 5: oh damn, now I'm attracted to her.

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Speaker 4: The attitude.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, how they're like going.

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Speaker 5: Around, I'm like, dude, yeah, you're attractive just because the

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Speaker 4: She's like down and out.

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Speaker 2: But there's this like beauty I find in people, especially

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Speaker 4: I don't know that's beautiful to me. I'm sure there's

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Speaker 1: I love that story because I think I find beauty

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Speaker 1: Well, because like I'm just talking about where I find

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Speaker 1: writing for her. Again, we don't know what she knew,

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Speaker 3: You could say that about everybody at at his party stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but truly. And the reason why I kind

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Speaker 3: How many times I'm.

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Speaker 1: Going through a lot today and I don't want to

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's funny you say that, because I did

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Speaker 4: It would have been I was like, what would have

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Speaker 3: And she went, but did you see everybody else?

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Speaker 5: But did you see everybody else's met gallup voted like,

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Speaker 5: uh usher, all these people who were asked took the

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Speaker 4: I bet she answered that though multiple.

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Speaker 5: Times, and she's going up the stairs, which how far

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Speaker 5: and how many questions were you asked about what? So

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Speaker 5: if you are in that position for everybody to love you,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna have a bad day.

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Speaker 3: Fucking let them.

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Speaker 1: But if I were to go out on a date

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Speaker 3: Like yeah, and they're like you like pretty.

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Speaker 5: When I like somebody, I like somebody with a background,

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Speaker 4: History and got some baggage.

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Speaker 3: No, no, like that, just like family things like that.

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Speaker 3: At school, you were bullied, you got through it.

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Speaker 1: You have character, like correct, you.

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Speaker 3: Hold yourself at a high standard.

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Speaker 1: And yeah, just the way like with the for his

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Speaker 3: Okay, but I like some lips done. Yes, she she

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Speaker 1: Don't think of you to like a slim ways behind.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. When we were where did we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there are a lot of girls. The problem is

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Speaker 3: Hey, girls with the natural because we do see it

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Speaker 2: To watch the ass that the girls that do the

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Speaker 4: Good for you, right, Yeah, but what.

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Speaker 1: Easton saying, he just likes the chick where it's like,

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Speaker 1: I've been through a lot in my life.

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Speaker 4: I need nothing from you.

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Speaker 3: It's nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, history history, like she she she gives me like

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Speaker 3: I love that I wanted to slap back at me.

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Speaker 4: She's got a little spicy Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't want like a submissive girl.

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Speaker 1: You know, we've been trying to not cuss as much,

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Speaker 1: what did our friends say?

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Speaker 4: So many good ones?

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Speaker 2: Okay, internal confidence of how you look makeup, no makeup,

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Speaker 5: When you see a girl with no makeup out, yeah,

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Speaker 5: like you're looking at her going like, damn, she stepped out.

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Speaker 5: Most dudes and I know they're like, she stepped out

443
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,199
Speaker 5: no makeup. She's competing with all of these women. I

444
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,239
Speaker 5: can only imagine if she put makeup on. Yeah, so

445
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 5: I like a girl like that too, Just fuck it,

446
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 5: let's go.

447
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

448
00:22:39,359 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 1: I find women sexiest when they have like clean face.

449
00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 1: I don't like the big fake lash.

450
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,159
Speaker 5: I don't like fake big ones. I like fake lashes,

451
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,240
Speaker 5: but you don't always need them time, there's a.

452
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 4: Time and the place.

453
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, a lots of Like I like a naturally

454
00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 5: unnatural girl, sorry to cut you.

455
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Speaker 4: Off, naturally unay. Confidence in your body the way it

456
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 4: is now. So I hear that.

457
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 2: I've always said confidence is beautiful, of course, and like

458
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:17,239
Speaker 2: with women who are like body positivity celebrated. I had

459
00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 2: a friend who was like, she felt a certain way

460
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:25,840
Speaker 2: she was overweight. Her doctor told her she was obi.

461
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: She said, I want to be healthier. I don't want

462
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:32,360
Speaker 2: to celebrate this because I personally want to be healthier

463
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:34,760
Speaker 2: and I respect the women who do want to celebrate it.

464
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 2: But and she said, but what does frustrate me? So

465
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Speaker 2: when people say, oh, well, you should be healthier, Like,

466
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Speaker 2: first off, you don't know. Second, I understand where you're

467
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 2: coming from. But she's like, what does frustrate me is

468
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:53,160
Speaker 2: people having the attitude toward me, like like they don't

469
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,639
Speaker 2: know I'm working on myself and my body. Why can't

470
00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,800
Speaker 2: I just like, yes, I know I need to lose weight,

471
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,160
Speaker 2: but why can't I also just like love and appreciate

472
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 2: what I look like now as a work in progress.

473
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 2: Like She's like, I need to lose fifty pounds, but

474
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:09,439
Speaker 2: why can't I also love? Because it's like, what am

475
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 2: I supposed to not be happy with myself and confident

476
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 2: until I lose fifty pounds.

477
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Speaker 4: She's like, I'm trying, but right now, I also.

478
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 2: Want to feel good. I also want to feel like

479
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 2: you know what, This isn't where I want to be.

480
00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 2: But I'm going out, I'm looking good, I'm feeling good.

481
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 2: And I was like, that's a great point.

482
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Speaker 3: If I agree, Look how you want as long as

483
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 3: you're healthy. Whatever your body type.

484
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Speaker 5: Is, whatever you look like, it doesn't matter your weight,

485
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:33,280
Speaker 5: whatever it is, it doesn't matter as long as you

486
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Speaker 5: are healthy.

487
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: No, she's saying, what, like, why can't she even though

488
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 1: she knows for health purposes, I need to lose x

489
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:43,240
Speaker 1: amount of pounds.

490
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Speaker 5: But that's why the doctor looks that because you are healthy,

491
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 5: you're just bigger. You're fine, obviously, But that's.

492
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Speaker 1: Where I'm saying, like she say, But she was saying,

493
00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,560
Speaker 1: but the doctor and she both decided for you to

494
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Speaker 1: live a healthy life, you have to lose x amount

495
00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:00,720
Speaker 1: of pounds. Why can she not sell celebrate the way

496
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 1: she looks knowing I am going to lose the fifty pounds,

497
00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: but I don't want to sit here and beat myself up.

498
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 1: And then once I lose the fifty pounds, I'll celebrate.

499
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 1: And you know what, you get into really really murky

500
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: waters when you start living that way, because once you

501
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: accomplish that, it will never be an yeah right, And

502
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 1: I think that comes with money, It comes with job titles,

503
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 1: It comes with so much if you start. And the

504
00:25:28,680 --> 00:25:30,639
Speaker 1: reason I can say this is because I have to

505
00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:35,199
Speaker 1: actively that's who I am. By nature? What is I

506
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 1: will be happy once this is over. I will be

507
00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 1: happy once I do this. Guess what, this is over,

508
00:25:41,440 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 1: This is coming gone. And I still look at the

509
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,240
Speaker 1: next thing like, oh, I'm gonna be so thrilled when

510
00:25:46,280 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: this is done. And it's the people around me to

511
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 1: say to me, you've got to stop and look around

512
00:25:56,320 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 1: and be.

513
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 3: Like, look at your accomplishment, right, be.

514
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 1: Grateful for or for all of these things.

515
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 3: You know.

516
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: I used to say, I'll be happy when I get

517
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:09,239
Speaker 1: rid of my acne, for example, the acne leaves, well,

518
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: I'll be happy once I get rid of the freckles,

519
00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 1: like once these fade, and once.

520
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 3: I do some like get rid of your eleven, you

521
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 3: get some res.

522
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 1: I'll be happy once I have my lips done.

523
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 2: I'll be happy when it is so dangerous because it

524
00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 2: never comes.

525
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 4: Usually it never comes momentary.

526
00:26:24,119 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 2: It's fleeting, and you're like, I'm happy now that's probably fleeting, right.

527
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I think that is a bat An internal

528
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: battle rather than why can't people allow me? It's like

529
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: hold on though, that's not real life because these people

530
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 1: who maybe aren't celebrating you, they say one thing, they

531
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 1: move on with their days. Like if you're feeling that

532
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: you are, that you can't live a certain way. People

533
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: aren't allowing you to No, no, no. And I can

534
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: say this because I live this way and have to

535
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: actively stop myself from living this way. You're not allowing

536
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,560
Speaker 1: yourself to celebrate where you're at and what you look

537
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 1: like right now. No one else cares.

538
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,160
Speaker 4: And if they are in their assholes, they don't matter.

539
00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: No, they don't matter. That's a tough pill to swallow. Yeah,

540
00:27:09,320 --> 00:27:14,240
Speaker 1: and you're like, wow, most people's opinions are so insignificant,

541
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:18,800
Speaker 1: yet I allow it to affect my day.

542
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 5: You got to surround yourself with good friends, yeah, to

543
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 5: look at you and when you don't feel like confident

544
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 5: in the outfit because of this or that, and your

545
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 5: friends go, you look fucking great.

546
00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter because you

547
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: can tell someone they look amazing.

548
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 5: But when you got great friends, close friends, Like I've

549
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 5: put on stuff and like my homies have been like, no,

550
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:39,919
Speaker 5: you look great, and I'm like, all right, fuck it,

551
00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:41,359
Speaker 5: I look like an idiot. But I go out and

552
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 5: I feel confident because of my good friends giving me

553
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 5: actual You know.

554
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: Wow, what a difference between men and women.

555
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 4: I could tell someone over and over.

556
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:54,360
Speaker 3: John agrees, tune in.

557
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: Pretty, Sir John, I'm the same way.

558
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 5: I wear the most ridiculous clothing, like different colors, everything

559
00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,720
Speaker 5: never even matter, and my friends will like.

560
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 1: Look great, you look fine, You look ridiculous, but you

561
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 1: look great because it's you.

562
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 3: And as long as someone.

563
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 5: Can accept that, no matter who talks shit, you look

564
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 5: at your homies and they're like, fuck them, you look great, and.

565
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:14,960
Speaker 1: You're like, yeah, seeing you up. And there will be

566
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 1: someone out there who's like, I dig that guy's look.

567
00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 1: And because because those people are normal, they won't tell

568
00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:24,439
Speaker 1: you that they dig it. They'll make a mental note,

569
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 1: go buy that shit a compliment.

570
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,679
Speaker 5: But also, but that's the thing for a woman like

571
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:30,439
Speaker 5: I don't know why women aren't like going out. If

572
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 5: you don't love your body, love your body, who cares?

573
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 5: Because if I see women who even are bigger and

574
00:28:35,320 --> 00:28:37,840
Speaker 5: they're in like, I'm like, damn.

575
00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 3: You look good. When you're confident, look good, you're confidence.

576
00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 5: You are bringing up like you're you could have been

577
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 5: a five face wise, nothing else, and you are now

578
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:47,959
Speaker 5: at ten.

579
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 3: The way you're holding yourself in the confidence that you have, in.

580
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,320
Speaker 5: The outfit that you have with the body type like,

581
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 5: that's the thing if women had confidence. Dudes are really

582
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 5: attracted to confidence, good ones at least I don't.

583
00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 4: Know what they're and there's some fake till you make it.

584
00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 4: I believe in that.

585
00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:03,600
Speaker 5: But yeah, no, I love when women are just like

586
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,760
Speaker 5: when we were at Coachella and all of them in

587
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,479
Speaker 5: stagecoach and all these women no matter what size, skinny

588
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 5: as hell big, they.

589
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: Were doing whatever, and I was fucking loving it. Weren't

590
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 3: you part of my language? No?

591
00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: I did love it. That's why I was annoyed at

592
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,920
Speaker 1: the comment section, like all on like la times, where

593
00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:22,200
Speaker 1: all these people were like coming out and being celebrated

594
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 1: by everybody. At Coachella, by the way, it was like

595
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 1: we all look freaking awesome and the music's good, and

596
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: like do you.

597
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,360
Speaker 4: Want a mushroom?

598
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: It's pretty fun to go to the comment section and

599
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:39,280
Speaker 1: these people are like being very unkind, and I'm like,

600
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 1: what is wrong with just being like good?

601
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 4: I'm so happy all.

602
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: These people had fun.

603
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:45,360
Speaker 4: I hope I can go.

604
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 3: Back school, right, how about just keep scrolling?

605
00:29:47,920 --> 00:29:48,240
Speaker 4: Yes?

606
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: Anyway, what else are people saying? I feel like we've

607
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:55,080
Speaker 1: monopolized I sometimes forget that this is like a communal podcast.

608
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 3: Love who you are, be confident.

609
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: Are what else is sexy? I pray that one person

610
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,120
Speaker 1: is like strictly looks.

611
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 4: There's a lot of lalla with hearts.

612
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: Like I know, that's really sweet and I so needed

613
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 1: to hear that. And I hope that people like I

614
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 1: need to put it out there that it is not gone.

615
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: It never goes unnoticed with people that show me love,

616
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:23,080
Speaker 1: but specifically this past like, however many weeks or months

617
00:30:23,600 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 1: it has like really meant a lot to me. So

618
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: thank you for setting hearts or being nice. Yeah, I

619
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:32,320
Speaker 1: appreciate it.

620
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,480
Speaker 2: I mean, you know, it's like, uh, the bar is low,

621
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 2: so thanks for being kind you guys to a very

622
00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 2: kind lady. But okay, okay, this is what kind of

623
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 2: I was getting at.

624
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 4: But they are way more eloquent with their words.

625
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 2: Being selfless in a very selfish world, which is very

626
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 2: hard to do. The effort to do so is beauty.

627
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:56,080
Speaker 2: I agree, it is a selfish world. Yes, well written,

628
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 2: well said. Compassion.

629
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 4: This is another one.

630
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Speaker 2: Compassion and for others, regardless if you're the same or not.

631
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 2: I think that's oh my god, open mindedness. I didn't

632
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 2: even I think that is beautiful.

633
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 1: I think that's beautiful if you.

634
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 2: Don't agree, But you can just be in a room

635
00:31:12,920 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: with people who all have different opinions and it's peaceful

636
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 2: and fun.

637
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 3: And have an open mind about it.

638
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 4: Like, oh, I don't agree with that.

639
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:25,120
Speaker 2: I think that's stupid, but I love that you have

640
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 2: your own opinion. How you treat someone. Lots of those

641
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 2: someone's overall aura? What is an aura?

642
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 4: Like an energy?

643
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: Energy?

644
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 5: And it's crazy because I used to hear the like

645
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 5: hippie girls there, or it's blue and.

646
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: Fully it's like colors, right, you can have like the energy.

647
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 3: That's how I mean. They'll say, they'll.

648
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: Say, like you have a lot of blue around you,

649
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 1: and I don't know what it means, but I've had

650
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: that done. You can do like they take like pictures

651
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: and the colors so you can actually see and read

652
00:32:02,800 --> 00:32:03,400
Speaker 1: what it means.

653
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

654
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, someone's aura their energy, their vibe. Like I

655
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 1: think if you go around someone and they are being

656
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 1: kind to you or whatever, but you just kind of

657
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 1: get a weird feeling when you're around them and you

658
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: can't explain why, just don't go around them.

659
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I really like this one. They said, accepting

660
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: yourself is true beauty. Only when this happens to you

661
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 2: truly shine. And I like it because they didn't put

662
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 2: accepting And maybe they didn't mean this, but this is

663
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Speaker 2: kind of how I read it. They didn't put accepting

664
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: and loving yourself. They just put accepting yourself. And to me,

665
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 2: that's like there are many times in my life even now,

666
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 2: where there's so many things I have to work on

667
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,080
Speaker 2: that I do not love about.

668
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 4: Myself at all.

669
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 2: But when I can finally be like, you know what,

670
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: this is how I am, and I'm working on it,

671
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 2: and I've accepted myself and accepted that I need to

672
00:32:57,320 --> 00:32:59,120
Speaker 2: work on these things and that I have flaws and

673
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 2: that I'm an asshole.

674
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 4: Sometimes I do think that's beautiful.

675
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: I think there's like a beauty in that I don't

676
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 2: have to love myself wholeheartedly and be like I'm the best.

677
00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 3: Because I'm not almost like self awareness.

678
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, yes, but I feel like it's

679
00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:18,040
Speaker 1: also like circling the drain at times, or like chasing

680
00:33:18,080 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 1: your own tail when you when people are like I'm

681
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:25,160
Speaker 1: working on myself, unless you're like a really crappy person,

682
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: like we are all going to have moments of being

683
00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 1: a hypocrite we're people. We're all gonna have moments of

684
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,240
Speaker 1: not being self aware, being dicks. Like, there's never gonna

685
00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: be a time in my life where I'm gonna say

686
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 1: I can work on that and just never be a

687
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: dick again. Right, It's just impossible. Right, we're people. I'm

688
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 1: going to do things and then someone else could do

689
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: the same thing and I could judge them for it,

690
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: and it's like, Wow, in this moment, I'm not only

691
00:33:54,040 --> 00:33:58,120
Speaker 1: a hypocrite, I'm not self aware. We're human beings. So

692
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: I think you also, in eccess yourself, have to say,

693
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: you know what, like, is this something that I need

694
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: to work on? No, this is just called a moment,

695
00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: and I'm a person. It's not a proud moment, but

696
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: it's it is what it is. But if you're someone

697
00:34:12,719 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: who's like you beat yourself up at all times, that

698
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: needs to be worked on.

699
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, right, or you're.

700
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: Kind of a dick to people like that should be

701
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,239
Speaker 1: worked on. But not these moments because you had a

702
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,160
Speaker 1: bad day. Bad days are going to happen. Can I

703
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 1: tell you I watched Inside Out last night with my

704
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,439
Speaker 1: daughter for the first time. The new One's coming out,

705
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 1: The new One's coming out, I'm so grateful that I

706
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: watched it Easton. It is absolutely adorable.

707
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 3: It is the different emotions.

708
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:42,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like basically and I love the angry guy.

709
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 7: It's so who's like that said, we're going that she

710
00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 7: like loses her mind and like all these and they're like, no,

711
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 7: you're touching a core memory that's happy and you're making

712
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 7: it sad.

713
00:34:55,920 --> 00:35:00,120
Speaker 1: I think accepting the fact that we're human beings and

714
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: this constant and I think this is what kind of

715
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: gets to me when I do when I'm filming a

716
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: show or whatever, and I'm just having like an abbody

717
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: experience these past few months where I'm like, I'm kind

718
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:17,800
Speaker 1: of sick of like the tit for tat and keeping

719
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 1: track of like what you did and how mine's different,

720
00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,360
Speaker 1: and like psychoanalyzing why you may have done that or

721
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 1: you psychoanalyzing me. I just want everyone to be like,

722
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 1: you know what, let's just like be people and like

723
00:35:28,680 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: do the best we fucking cat because there's a lot

724
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: of work. Anything that doesn't have to be worked on,

725
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:40,239
Speaker 1: that's not affecting your day to day, don't worry about it.

726
00:35:40,480 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: We've got to stop putting so much pressure on ourselves.

727
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 5: Okay, try to smile and get through the day. Even

728
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 5: if I'm having a bad day, I'll try to make

729
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 5: somebody's better.

730
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: But you know what, that's you and sometimes people can't

731
00:35:51,120 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 1: do that. I can't. If I'm having a bad day,

732
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: I wear it on my sleeve. I wear it on

733
00:35:55,160 --> 00:35:58,719
Speaker 1: my face at the world. I don't care. And that's

734
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,760
Speaker 1: why I have to apologize a lot.

735
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 5: I was there too, and then I started being nice

736
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 5: to other people when I was pissed off. I know,

737
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 5: Like then I see them happy and I'm like, oh,

738
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 5: maybe it's not that bad.

739
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,439
Speaker 1: Sometimes I force myself to smile when I'm sad.

740
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 4: I try to do that too, and I look like

741
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 4: a crazy person.

742
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 1: Do you you make me happy? And and so do

743
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: you dress. I could be having a bad day, and

744
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,240
Speaker 1: if I see both of you, it makes me happy.

745
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:28,080
Speaker 4: That makes me happy, and I thank you and I

746
00:36:28,239 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 4: love you.

747
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 2: When I come around your family, though, I do, and

748
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,279
Speaker 2: I tell you it's like my family. Anytime I can

749
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: be a bitch, and then I go around my family

750
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 2: and I'm like, Okay, I feel better.

751
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what it is. It's called when you

752
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: have your little community. We called it passing the rock.

753
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:44,360
Speaker 1: Like after my dad died, it was like one of

754
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 1: us would be having the worst day ever and it

755
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:48,719
Speaker 1: was just one of those days of burning and like

756
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: mom would be the pillar of strength. So we just

757
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:53,839
Speaker 1: kind of passed the rock to each other.

758
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 4: And I love that.

759
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 2: I've literally never heard that, and I love that I'm

760
00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 2: not tell my family about it. So it's like passing

761
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 2: the like you have the rock today and you're gonna

762
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:04,720
Speaker 2: have a bad day and we're all going to be here.

763
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 1: You're the pillar, You're the rock today.

764
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:09,879
Speaker 4: Oh, the rock is the strength.

765
00:37:11,440 --> 00:37:15,400
Speaker 3: That day. Somebody just grabs it and goes, all right,

766
00:37:15,440 --> 00:37:16,840
Speaker 3: I'll figure it out, and by the way, the.

767
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 1: Universe just picks. It's like, you know what, Easton's the

768
00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,000
Speaker 1: strong one today and the girls are going to lose

769
00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 1: their minds and it's like, well, that's fine because Easton's

770
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: got the rock.

771
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:26,400
Speaker 3: And then there was a day where I went and.

772
00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 4: We are the rock. I love that so much.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's happened a little lately with like

774
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 2: me and you, where I feel like I work for you,

775
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 2: but like sometimes I've shown up to the house and

776
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 2: I'm like in a certain mood and you like have

777
00:37:42,320 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: the rock and you've like said to me, like, you know,

778
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 2: if you ever need anything, and I'm like, so sweet,

779
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 2: or your mom or you.

780
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: The moment I turned into an employer where I like,

781
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,719
Speaker 1: don't care about what people are going through in their

782
00:37:55,760 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: personal lives. I'm like, let's make that a priority. We'll

783
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:05,160
Speaker 1: recognize it, and how can we structure the dynamic of

784
00:38:05,200 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 1: all of us so that we can all continue doing

785
00:38:07,880 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: our jobs properly and that doesn't suffer who can pick

786
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 1: up the slack in what areas? But still remember that,

787
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,520
Speaker 1: like so and so is going through something right now.

788
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: You know the moment I don't do that anymore, someone

789
00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: better check me well.

790
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:25,120
Speaker 2: That I mean it comes back to beauty because I

791
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 2: will mention this was like a month ago.

792
00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 4: I texted Lalla, I want to mention it on here

793
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:30,400
Speaker 4: and I said.

794
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 2: Especially if you're a boss out there, and I said

795
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,040
Speaker 2: it was like it was a day before. I said,

796
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: I'm so sorry, but I have to take a mental

797
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 2: health day tomorrow and I did feel really bad about it,

798
00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:43,160
Speaker 2: and like not without skipping a beat. Not only was

799
00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 2: she like, of course, take it, like take care of yourself.

800
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 2: The entire family was like texting me. The entire team supportive.

801
00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 4: Kind just as a boss.

802
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 2: It's like I feel like it's very rare or like

803
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,359
Speaker 2: they'll go okay and then you feel guilty, but it's

804
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 2: thank you for that because it's very beautiful and they

805
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 2: like came out in droves and it's just.

806
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:09,399
Speaker 3: Like, thank you for everything you do with of.

807
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 4: Course, as you know, you feel appreciated in love.

808
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: And we're here to tell you that you are all beautiful.

809
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 3: And if you're.

810
00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, so that's how we define beauty. Yes. And

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Speaker 1: that was really fun.

812
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 4: That was so fun. You guys wrote in so many

813
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 4: amazing things.

814
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:34,279
Speaker 2: Sometimes I wish maybe we'll start sharing screenshots or something.

815
00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: I think we need to make the bonus episode a

816
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 1: little longer. You guys. I love you so much. I

817
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: hope you go out there and slay the day. It

818
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 1: is Monday, and I know that we all go wan,

819
00:39:44,239 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: but like just another day to be like, do I

820
00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: need to work on this or is it just a

821
00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:48,959
Speaker 1: bad day?

822
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 3: If you're self aware of it, it's just a bad day.

823
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 1: It's just a bad day. I love you, guys. Reminder,

824
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: Bonus episodes air every single Monday, and the video on

825
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:03,479
Speaker 1: YouTube drop same day. Wednesdays. We have the regular old

826
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 1: give them Mala episodes and videos for that on YouTube

827
00:40:06,360 --> 00:40:09,239
Speaker 1: drop Fridays at ninet am Pacific time. I will catch

828
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Speaker 1: you guys next week, or I'll catch you on Wednesday.

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Speaker 4: To welcome