WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: (2/21/18) I've Been Watching You

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<v Speaker 1>Jewels second dat day. You know, the saying goes, after

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<v Speaker 1>you just got out of a relationship, you gotta jump

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<v Speaker 1>right back on that horse, or you gotta let the

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<v Speaker 1>horse jump back on you. However it works, And that

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<v Speaker 1>is what Mark tried to do on his date. He

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<v Speaker 1>tried to let the horse jump back on him. Right, Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what that means that you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>get back in the dating scene. Okay, Mark said that

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<v Speaker 1>he wants to call this girl name Alison today. Apparently

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<v Speaker 1>Mark met her and they went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>recently got out of a long relationship. That's what your

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<v Speaker 1>email said, right, Yeah, that's right, okay, And tell us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about Alice and the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. She works in my building,

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<v Speaker 1>not in my office, but in my building. And my

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<v Speaker 1>friends were trying to get me back in the game,

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<v Speaker 1>and and they hooked me up with her. And so

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<v Speaker 1>you just work in the big business park. How'd you

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<v Speaker 1>approach her? A bunch of people from the building went

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<v Speaker 1>to lunch together and she was in that group and

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<v Speaker 1>sort of hit it off. There was it like a

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<v Speaker 1>set up where your friends were like, Okay, we're all

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go to lunch, We're gonna invite her. No, I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't set up for me to meet her. She was

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<v Speaker 1>just there and I made the move, all right, And

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<v Speaker 1>I made my move. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your date. What did you guys do? We actually

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<v Speaker 1>went ice skating. Oh that's so dude. I always wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to do that for a date and my husband will

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<v Speaker 1>never take me. Maybe Mark, you know, if this doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>work out for you, Mark, you can get a date

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<v Speaker 1>with Brooke. I guess. Yeah, you went ice skating. How'd

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<v Speaker 1>that go? It was awesome. I only fell twice and

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<v Speaker 1>we hit it off, and like, we talked about how

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<v Speaker 1>we both wanted to leave our jobs in the same building.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, so you both said you both bonded over

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<v Speaker 1>the hatred of your job. How'd your date end? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>After ice skating, we got some hot chocolate and you're adorable.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice and then I walked her to her car and

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<v Speaker 1>we kissed and it was really nice, really nice date,

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<v Speaker 1>really good way to get back in it, you actually kissed,

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<v Speaker 1>and since then she hasn't called you. Well, we have

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<v Speaker 1>plans to go out again on a Saturday the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>and then Saturday rolls around and she says, oh, can

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<v Speaker 1>we push it to the next day. I said okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after that, the next day comes and she's like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>can we push it to next week? And I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>that sucks? So Mark, I'm just wondering what could have

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<v Speaker 1>gone wrong? Like you mentioned that you just gotta out

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<v Speaker 1>of a relationship. Did you happen to talk about your

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<v Speaker 1>X on the date? I specifically avoided that topic. That's good.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of people wouldn't do that. They would have

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<v Speaker 1>taken her ice skating. We're like, oh, man, Jessica used

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<v Speaker 1>like ice skating a lot. I missed ice skating with her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, no, no, no, I've listened to your second

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<v Speaker 1>dates a lot, so I know that's the wrong move.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the second dates are actually helping people learn how

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<v Speaker 1>to date. So if everything went right, ice skating was cool,

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<v Speaker 1>you kissed at the end of the date, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she's blowing you off? Now? I've been racking

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<v Speaker 1>my brains and I have no idea because it went really, well,

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<v Speaker 1>have you run into her in the building? Now she

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<v Speaker 1>works in a separate part of the building, so I

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<v Speaker 1>never really saw her in the first place. All right, okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, comeback, call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay. Well, I have one more thing though.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the texts are really polite, and they're pushing this

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<v Speaker 1>date that is theoretically going to happen. So it's long

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<v Speaker 1>a she's like blowing me off. She just politely keeps moving.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why it's so confusing, because it's not just hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do it today, Yeah, exactly. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call her get your second day update right after this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's one more thing I have to tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it? Mark? I really appreciate you taking my call.

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<v Speaker 1>You're welcome. Is there before I throw it to the song?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything else that you want to say before

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<v Speaker 1>we go? Um? No, we're good. All right, play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back and get your second date update. Hang on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, all right, brooking jubil in the morning, sudate.

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<v Speaker 1>All Right, Mark is on the phone with us. He

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us about a girl named Alison they met through

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<v Speaker 1>friends at work, They went out ice skating, had some cocoa,

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<v Speaker 1>kissed at the end of the date. Really nice date.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't really find a reason why she wouldn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again, and she's been blowing him

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<v Speaker 1>off rescheduling in a very nice way, so he's not

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<v Speaker 1>even really sure if she actually doesn't want to see

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<v Speaker 1>him again, or if for some reason she just really

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<v Speaker 1>is rescheduling. We're about to call it right now, but Mark,

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<v Speaker 1>before we get her on the phone. You know you

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<v Speaker 1>got out of a long relationship. You told us, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right. Do you feel like this girl could be

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<v Speaker 1>your next girlfriend? I mean I probably. I wouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>pushing it if I didn't think like we had something, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so turn into something? So there's something there then yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're ready for another relationship? Um yeah, I think well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, yeah, I'm just curious if you really like

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, like and you thought maybe you saw a

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<v Speaker 1>future with her, or if you just thought that you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to go out on another date, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely think there's potential there for to turn into

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<v Speaker 1>something more. They're just really curious. I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get why sheeps putting it off. Okay, well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call it right now. See we can get

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and then get your second date up date. Okay, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Alison please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Alison. Hey Alison, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing fine? I'm calling you actually because you

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<v Speaker 1>recently went out on a date with a listener of

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<v Speaker 1>our show. It then Yeah, his name is Mark. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well apparently you've been blowing him off for a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks since your date, and he asked us to

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<v Speaker 1>call on see if we could find out why. He

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<v Speaker 1>said I was blowing him off. He said, he's been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to go out with you ever since your date,

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<v Speaker 1>and you keep like postponing it. Yeah, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him off. I genuinely just needed to postpone it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Should I tell him that You're actually going to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him one of these days? Yeah? Absolutely? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you waiting for? Well, I mean, this is just

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<v Speaker 1>it's important and I want to make sure that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally there for it. So I just needed to

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<v Speaker 1>have the right time. Are you trying to end another relationship? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not. No, I'm single. Okay, Well Mark wants to know,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's why you emailed us, because you know how

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<v Speaker 1>it is if you go out with someone and they keep,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, going, oh hey, I can't go out this week,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe next week, and then they keep doing that. At

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<v Speaker 1>a certain point, you feel like they don't like you.

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<v Speaker 1>I never meant to do that, like, that was not

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<v Speaker 1>my intention at all. No, I just I just needed

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<v Speaker 1>more time. Okay, Because he's starting to get that vibe

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<v Speaker 1>from you that you don't want to go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>What can I tell him? Then? Can you just tell

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<v Speaker 1>him that I just needed a couple extra days just

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<v Speaker 1>to just to kind of get some things together. That

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<v Speaker 1>sounds so sketchy, though, Allison, but it's not really. It

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<v Speaker 1>really isn't sketchy. I just I just needed a couple

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<v Speaker 1>more days. I promise. I really do like him. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you just like out of time, like you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>enough time in your day and your job's really demanding

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<v Speaker 1>or I kind of would rather not tell you, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think it might sound crazy and I would

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<v Speaker 1>really not want to come off like a crazy person

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<v Speaker 1>that makes me want to know even more what it is. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking, like you're you're going to get a boob

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<v Speaker 1>job or something and you need to get that finished. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. I just feel like this could be

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<v Speaker 1>the most important second day of my life and I've

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<v Speaker 1>really rather not ruined the surprise. WHOA you like him

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<v Speaker 1>that much? Wow? I do? I mean, I just I've

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<v Speaker 1>been working on this picture book for him for the

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<v Speaker 1>last I don't know, a couple of months, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to make sure that it's because Saton, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not ready yet to get to him, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to finish it. You say you've been

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<v Speaker 1>working on a picture book? Yeah, have you what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I've been working on collecting some photos of the last

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<v Speaker 1>like year or so of I guess, like of me

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<v Speaker 1>liking him and like Alison, I guess I'm I'm I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys went on that one date? Yeah? Had you

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<v Speaker 1>known each other beforehand? Because when we talked to him,

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<v Speaker 1>he says that he knew you worked in the same

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<v Speaker 1>building and you met like at a lunch. Yeah, in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of like dating, But I've known of him for

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<v Speaker 1>about a year. And a half or so. One of

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<v Speaker 1>my girlfriends at work pointed him out to me, and

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<v Speaker 1>we were with two totally separate groups. But I've met

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<v Speaker 1>and I just knew it was perfect, like it was

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<v Speaker 1>we were going to date, so I just had to

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<v Speaker 1>wait it out. So are the pictures? So what I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I guess I don't understand exactly what you're building.

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<v Speaker 1>You said a picture book, but what is the picture

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<v Speaker 1>book of collages or something? Like who we were before

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<v Speaker 1>we started dating? So like I went to a high

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<v Speaker 1>school and I got his high school yearbook photo who

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<v Speaker 1>had that in it? And I recently died my hair blonde,

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<v Speaker 1>so I have like the before and after photo, like,

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<v Speaker 1>so like who we were before we got together. How

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<v Speaker 1>you're planning on giving him this on your second date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean I think he's really appreciated. I think

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<v Speaker 1>he'd really love it. We don't have girlfriends to tell

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<v Speaker 1>you that this is like crazy. This isn't crazy. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like a book of my feelings and all of like

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<v Speaker 1>all of what we were before we're going to be together.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's you know, like I know how much she

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<v Speaker 1>liked blondes, and the fact that I went and died

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<v Speaker 1>my hair blonde. She's just going to appreciate it. Alison.

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<v Speaker 1>You know where you're right, Alison. Married, we're gonna have

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<v Speaker 1>this like shown at the wedding was like what our

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<v Speaker 1>minds were like before we were together. Alison. You know

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<v Speaker 1>what if somebody had done that for me on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date, I would think that that was so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>You are such a no I would think that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be nice if somebody went to all that work

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<v Speaker 1>for me, give me a picture book of things for

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<v Speaker 1>the last year. Yeah, I see. No, I just wanted

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<v Speaker 1>it to be sweet like and that's why I can't

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<v Speaker 1>see him yet. It's okay, I'm not ready, all right, Allison,

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<v Speaker 1>Well then I will. I will tell him to just

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<v Speaker 1>hold tight and you will eventually go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what that's sets the message you want me to

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<v Speaker 1>pass along, That's exactly it. Thank you, you're welcome, Allison.

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<v Speaker 1>I also need to let you know that Mark is

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<v Speaker 1>on the other line and just heard that. Mark. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>say hi to Allison. Gosh, Allison, M what's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>You've been collecting pictures of me? Allison? Um? Mark, it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't that you weren't supposed to find out about it

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<v Speaker 1>this way, Like, I have this beautiful book that I've

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<v Speaker 1>just been working on and I just wanted you to

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<v Speaker 1>see it. And I haven't been blowing you off, I swear.

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<v Speaker 1>So you've been working on this since way before we

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<v Speaker 1>even met. I mean yeah, because you were in a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I knew that we couldn't be together. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not kind of girl like, of course I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to wait until you were single. How did you even

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<v Speaker 1>know I was in a relationship. I mean, like we

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<v Speaker 1>have mutual friends and at work, and so I just,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I knew, I knew some things about you.

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<v Speaker 1>You've been like talking me for the past year. No

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<v Speaker 1>oh no, no, no, no, I'm not I'm not that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of crazy person. I'm not a stalker at all,

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<v Speaker 1>a crazy person. You knew what our life was like before,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was documented. Alison, this is creepy. It's not,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not at all. Like it's really just meant to

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<v Speaker 1>be sweet and endearing, and I mean, you're really gonna

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<v Speaker 1>love it when you see it, I promise. I feel unsafe.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think anybody blames you for that, Alison. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you've officially scared Mark a little bit because of you,

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<v Speaker 1>because it wasn't supposed to be like that. She was

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to see it on our date, and now you

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<v Speaker 1>ruined it. And everybody knows that I was supposed to

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<v Speaker 1>show him this book and he was supposed to just

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<v Speaker 1>be so happy to see it. Yeah, Alison, you know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry up for you for the apology, but that

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't change anything. Alison. In your mind, how was this

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<v Speaker 1>going to play out exactly? He was gonna fall in

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<v Speaker 1>love with you after you gave him a book? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you are that is exactly what it's supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to happen? Oh, honey, don't know? Honey, mean you know

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<v Speaker 1>this was a genius plan and you're just upset because

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't think about it. Oh my god, there's so

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<v Speaker 1>many things wrong with this guy. How dare you spoil this?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Hey, hey, Allison, you made me look

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. Allison. I know that you're upset, but I

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<v Speaker 1>haven't even asked if Mark will go out with you again,

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<v Speaker 1>like the whole thing might not be ruined. Mark, would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go out with Allison again on a

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<v Speaker 1>second day? We'll pay for it. No, it's because of you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you did that. I'm sorry. I apologize Alison. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Allison's gone, Oh my gosh, I'm scared for my safety.

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<v Speaker 1>And Mark, I think you might need to find a

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<v Speaker 1>new job and a new town. I think Coley, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys might have literally saved my wife. The morning text

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<v Speaker 1>message in at seven eighty five to nine two that says,

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<v Speaker 1>I was super creeped out. If I was that guy,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd run fast. Yes, broken Jewil in the morning if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed today's second date update. Mark wanted to call Alison,

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<v Speaker 1>and when we got her on the phone, we found

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<v Speaker 1>out the reason she wasn't calling back was because she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't ready to hang out with Mark yet, because she

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<v Speaker 1>was collecting photos of him so she could make an

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<v Speaker 1>album about how they were when they meant, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah it is weird and creepy and he was

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<v Speaker 1>creeped out by it. But then she blamed all of

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<v Speaker 1>us for ruining everything. Actually I feel kinda weird. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>she needed to learn that lesson. Someone in her life

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<v Speaker 1>needs to talk to her, someone in her life needs

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<v Speaker 1>to hug her. They need to hug her and say,

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<v Speaker 1>don't start making a photo lage album of a dude

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<v Speaker 1>you went on one day with because it will probably

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<v Speaker 1>creep him out, like a will scrap book like my

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<v Speaker 1>grandma's scrap books everything, And that's weird. You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't make sense of a grandma's not being so clean.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you pictures of me? What the hell? Grandparents? Parents?

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<v Speaker 1>They are so clean and like, why are you watching me? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't give you any approval to take those pictures

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<v Speaker 1>when I was younger. And I'm thinking about calling the authority. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second day up, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to do his email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back. I

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<v Speaker 1>need another hour of se