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Speaker 1: Jewels second dat day. You know, the saying goes, after

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Speaker 1: you just got out of a relationship, you gotta jump

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Speaker 1: horse jump back on you. However it works, And that

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Speaker 1: tried to let the horse jump back on him. Right, Mark,

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Speaker 1: I don't know what that means that you wanted to

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Speaker 1: Mark met her and they went out on a date

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Speaker 1: recently got out of a long relationship. That's what your

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Speaker 1: email said, right, Yeah, that's right, okay, And tell us

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Speaker 1: a little bit about Alice and the girl that you

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Speaker 1: went ice skating. Oh that's so dude. I always wanted

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Speaker 1: with Brooke. I guess. Yeah, you went ice skating. How'd

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Speaker 1: After ice skating, we got some hot chocolate and you're adorable.

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Speaker 1: and since then she hasn't called you. Well, we have

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Speaker 1: You know, no, no, no, I've listened to your second

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Speaker 1: Like the second dates are actually helping people learn how

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Alison please?

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Speaker 1: This is Alison. Hey Alison, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Yes,

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Speaker 1: how you doing fine? I'm calling you actually because you

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Speaker 1: Well apparently you've been blowing him off for a couple

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Speaker 1: and you keep like postponing it. Yeah, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: I never meant to do that, like, that was not

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Speaker 1: What can I tell him? Then? Can you just tell

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Speaker 1: really isn't sketchy. I just I just needed a couple

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Speaker 1: more days. I promise. I really do like him. Are

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Speaker 1: enough time in your day and your job's really demanding

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like you're you're going to get a boob

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Speaker 1: job or something and you need to get that finished. No,

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Speaker 1: not at all. I just feel like this could be

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Speaker 1: like year or so of I guess, like of me

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Speaker 1: You guys went on that one date? Yeah? Had you

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Speaker 1: we were with two totally separate groups. But I've met

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Speaker 1: And it's you know, like I know how much she

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Speaker 1: my hair blonde. She's just going to appreciate it. Alison.

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Speaker 1: You know where you're right, Alison. Married, we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: the last year. Yeah, I see. No, I just wanted

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Speaker 1: Well then I will. I will tell him to just

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Speaker 1: That's what that's sets the message you want me to

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Speaker 1: pass along, That's exactly it. Thank you, you're welcome, Allison.

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Speaker 1: You've been collecting pictures of me? Allison? Um? Mark, it

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Speaker 1: wasn't that you weren't supposed to find out about it

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Speaker 1: this way, Like, I have this beautiful book that I've

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Speaker 1: just been working on and I just wanted you to

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Speaker 1: see it. And I haven't been blowing you off, I swear.

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Speaker 1: So you've been working on this since way before we

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Speaker 1: even met. I mean yeah, because you were in a relationship,

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Speaker 1: and so I knew that we couldn't be together. I'm

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Speaker 1: not kind of girl like, of course I was going

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Speaker 1: to wait until you were single. How did you even

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Speaker 1: know I was in a relationship. I mean, like we

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Speaker 1: have mutual friends and at work, and so I just,

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Speaker 1: you know, I knew, I knew some things about you.

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Speaker 1: You've been like talking me for the past year. No

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Speaker 1: oh no, no, no, no, I'm not I'm not that

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Speaker 1: kind of crazy person. I'm not a stalker at all,

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Speaker 1: a crazy person. You knew what our life was like before,

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Speaker 1: and it was documented. Alison, this is creepy. It's not,

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Speaker 1: it's not at all. Like it's really just meant to

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Speaker 1: be sweet and endearing, and I mean, you're really gonna

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Speaker 1: love it when you see it, I promise. I feel unsafe.

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Speaker 1: I don't think anybody blames you for that, Alison. I

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Speaker 1: think you've officially scared Mark a little bit because of you,

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Speaker 1: because it wasn't supposed to be like that. She was

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Speaker 1: supposed to see it on our date, and now you

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Speaker 1: ruined it. And everybody knows that I was supposed to

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Speaker 1: show him this book and he was supposed to just

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Speaker 1: be so happy to see it. Yeah, Alison, you know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry up for you for the apology, but that

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Speaker 1: doesn't change anything. Alison. In your mind, how was this

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Speaker 1: going to play out exactly? He was gonna fall in

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Speaker 1: love with you after you gave him a book? Do

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Speaker 1: you think you are that is exactly what it's supposed

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Speaker 1: to happen? Oh, honey, don't know? Honey, mean you know

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Speaker 1: this was a genius plan and you're just upset because

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Speaker 1: you didn't think about it. Oh my god, there's so

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Speaker 1: many things wrong with this guy. How dare you spoil this?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Hey, hey, Allison, you made me look

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Speaker 1: and everything. Allison. I know that you're upset, but I

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Speaker 1: haven't even asked if Mark will go out with you again,

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Speaker 1: like the whole thing might not be ruined. Mark, would

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Speaker 1: you like to go out with Allison again on a

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Speaker 1: second day? We'll pay for it. No, it's because of you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: you did that. I'm sorry. I apologize Alison. I think

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Speaker 1: Allison's gone, Oh my gosh, I'm scared for my safety.

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Speaker 1: And Mark, I think you might need to find a

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Speaker 1: new job and a new town. I think Coley, you

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Speaker 1: guys might have literally saved my wife. The morning text

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Speaker 1: message in at seven eighty five to nine two that says,

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Speaker 1: I was super creeped out. If I was that guy,

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Speaker 1: I'd run fast. Yes, broken Jewil in the morning if

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Speaker 1: you missed today's second date update. Mark wanted to call Alison,

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Speaker 1: and when we got her on the phone, we found

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Speaker 1: out the reason she wasn't calling back was because she

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Speaker 1: wasn't ready to hang out with Mark yet, because she

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Speaker 1: was collecting photos of him so she could make an

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Speaker 1: album about how they were when they meant, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: and yeah it is weird and creepy and he was

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Speaker 1: creeped out by it. But then she blamed all of

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Speaker 1: us for ruining everything. Actually I feel kinda weird. Actually

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Speaker 1: she needed to learn that lesson. Someone in her life

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Speaker 1: needs to talk to her, someone in her life needs

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Speaker 1: to hug her. They need to hug her and say,

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Speaker 1: don't start making a photo lage album of a dude

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Speaker 1: you went on one day with because it will probably

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Speaker 1: creep him out, like a will scrap book like my

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Speaker 1: grandma's scrap books everything, And that's weird. You know, it

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Speaker 1: doesn't make sense of a grandma's not being so clean.

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Speaker 1: All right, you pictures of me? What the hell? Grandparents? Parents?

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Speaker 1: They are so clean and like, why are you watching me? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I didn't give you any approval to take those pictures

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Speaker 1: when I was younger. And I'm thinking about calling the authority. Remember,

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Speaker 1: if you want to do a second day up, they

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Speaker 1: don't have to do his email the show and we

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Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back. I

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Speaker 1: need another hour of se