1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beka, Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast Happy Monday. 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: Everybody. As you can hear by the sound of my voice, 4 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 2: Becca is not in today. We are sons, Becca. But 5 00:00:19,120 --> 00:00:19,799 Speaker 2: Mark is here. 6 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 3: Hi? 7 00:00:20,239 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 2: Mark? Hello? Easton is here? HOI Euston Hello, And that 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: we are joined today by the one, the only, Aaron Limb. 9 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:35,960 Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, no, thank you. I appreciate the help 10 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:40,199 Speaker 2: on the clopping because my son's right arm today. But 11 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: if you guys are listening and you don't know who 12 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: Aaron Limb is, let me just let me just roll 13 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:47,160 Speaker 2: off a few of the things that Aaron does. 14 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: So. 15 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 2: She is the host of Ease The Rundown Show. She 16 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 2: is the host of Ease Binge Club, the show. You 17 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 2: might see her on Live from the Red Carpet on 18 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 2: e You might see her she was on Daily Pop 19 00:01:00,480 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 2: while Carissa was on a maturine leave. She is also 20 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 2: the host of Discoveries, Dodgeball Thunderdome. Hey, uh what am 21 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: I missing? I think that's about it for now, the 22 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 2: newly engaged Aaron Limb. She is also my neighbor. Aaron Limb. 23 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: So those are my two main most important titles, Tanya's 24 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 1: neighbor and newly engaged Aaron Limb. 25 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 2: Yeah exactly. So I'm really just painting the picture for 26 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 2: everybody here. You are super accomplished, super rad, and super engaged. 27 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: That is me. 28 00:01:35,120 --> 00:01:38,479 Speaker 2: Yeah. So really, it's just a treat to have you here. 29 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 2: I love being your neighbor. 30 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: I love being your neighbor. You're honestly the best neighbor. 31 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: And I've said it on my Instagram a couple of times, 32 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: but I'll say it here. For the scrubbers, Tanya Rad 33 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: is the dream neighbor. She makes me these oat balls 34 00:01:57,080 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: fresh from the oven every single time. She has dropped 35 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 1: off countless treats at my door, whether it's flowers or champagne, 36 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: or health shots or hand sanitizer or chlorox wipes at 37 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: the beginning of a pandemic. Tanya Rad is the girl 38 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: you want to live next to. She's the girl next door. 39 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 2: Oh, I mean it goes both ways. I feel like 40 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 2: you have done the exact same thing for me, but 41 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 2: it just feels so nice because I feel like when 42 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 2: you're an adult, you don't really have like neighbors like that, 43 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 2: you know, what I mean, or you want to like 44 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: you want to have neighbors that you can always like 45 00:02:32,520 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 2: be like, oh, hey, like i'm not home, can you 46 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 2: you know I just got this package? Can you bring 47 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: it in? Or like, hey I'm not home, can you 48 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 2: let somebody in? They're dropping something out for me. So 49 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 2: it's just like nice to have. But I also just 50 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 2: love you because for those of you that Okay, So 51 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,360 Speaker 2: first of all, I want to hear about the engagement 52 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: story because that's like new and exciting news. And then 53 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 2: I want to talk about the day we went ring 54 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,880 Speaker 2: shopping because I have never gone ring shopping before and 55 00:02:55,200 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 2: we went. When was that like a year ago? Yeah? 56 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 2: We went like a year ago. Yeah it was a 57 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 2: year ago. 58 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,239 Speaker 1: How crazy that before Red Star? 59 00:03:04,680 --> 00:03:06,640 Speaker 2: And no, it was right when I started dating him 60 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 2: because I remember when you were like, I want you 61 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 2: to come with me ring shopping. I was like, I 62 00:03:10,480 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: need to make sure I don't tell him what I'm 63 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 2: doing because that sounds so crazy, real creepo for him. 64 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: But man, that day literally just gave us the full on. 65 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: Education, but the education that we needed. 66 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, really truly. 67 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 2: Okay, So first of all, so you I have met 68 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 2: Joshua and I love him and he's so wonderful. How 69 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 2: long have you guys been dating? 70 00:03:30,720 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: Two years? 71 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, so he proposed on your two year anniversary ish. 72 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 1: Not like the exact day, but we were celebrating our 73 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: two year anniversary. It was a week or two after 74 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 1: our anniversary when he proposed. Did not see it coming 75 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: at all. No. I literally thought it was going to 76 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 1: be so far into the future, just the way that 77 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: he would talk, like, you know, there are things that 78 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 1: we wanted to get in order, or he was just 79 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 1: like you know, later, later, later, and I was just like, okay, later, 80 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: It is definitely not in the year twenty twenty or 81 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe twenty twenty one. We'll see. But 82 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,720 Speaker 1: we did know that we wanted to spend our lives 83 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: with each other, so you know that we both were 84 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 1: certain of. It was just all like him saying, I 85 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: got to save up for this grand ring, and I 86 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:18,040 Speaker 1: was like, screw the ring. At this point, I do 87 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: not care. Let's just do little infinity bands and go 88 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: to the courthouse, get married, and screw everything else. And 89 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: he's like, seriously, you're ruining everything. No, I want to 90 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 1: give you a proper proposal engagement ring. You want, but 91 00:04:33,040 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: like it's gonna take some time. So I literally had 92 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: no idea, and he was getting nervous that I was 93 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 1: just gonna eventually give up and leave him. 94 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,839 Speaker 2: Did you set up some sort of like ultimate not ultimatum, 95 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: but were you like, I want to be engaged after 96 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: this many years or whatever, Like how did you set 97 00:04:49,640 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 2: that whole thing up or did you both dis agree? 98 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: There was no ultimatum, but early on in our relationship, 99 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 1: probably like at the six or seven months, it was 100 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:00,480 Speaker 1: kind of like I think we kind of knew, okay, 101 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 1: we or we did know we are each other's person, 102 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 1: and so I was like, I probably won't get engaged 103 00:05:08,040 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: or know that I'm ready to be engaged until at 104 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:12,280 Speaker 1: least two years. And then after a year rolls around, 105 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't I can't wait two years, But 106 00:05:15,080 --> 00:05:18,120 Speaker 1: then like two years just flew by. But I never 107 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 1: gave an until ultimatum. It didn't really matter the timeline 108 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,040 Speaker 1: for me. I was like, as long as I'm young 109 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: enough to still have kids and have a good marriage 110 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:30,560 Speaker 1: before that, that's fine. So yeah, there's no timeline really 111 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,679 Speaker 1: for me. But he has been planning this gosh since 112 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: probably when the pandemic started. I want to say, like 113 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 1: he's been planning this and has had all of these 114 00:05:40,720 --> 00:05:44,479 Speaker 1: things in order, and I had no idea, and he 115 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:47,480 Speaker 1: kept thinking in his mind, oh, she knows, she knows, 116 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: she knows, But really I had it was just lost 117 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 1: on me because you guys were super dressed up. 118 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 2: So how did he get you to get dressed up? 119 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: As what my question was? 120 00:05:55,960 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: So basically every date night we dress up in a 121 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 1: special during Corona COVID pandemic times, like it was always 122 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: the best excuse to dress up, to put on heels, 123 00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: wear a cute outfit and I love that, by the way. Yeah, 124 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 1: and for the last couple of weeks, he's been wearing 125 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,320 Speaker 1: a suit to date night to desensitize me to him 126 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: in a suit. So he's this for a while, like 127 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,240 Speaker 1: he's used to be in a suit by now. So 128 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: when we were dressing up for this particular date night, 129 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 1: he was like, yeah, it's like our other date nights. 130 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,839 Speaker 1: You know, I'm pretty dressy. I was like, okay, cool, 131 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 1: and so he said, you know, let's go out to dinner, 132 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,000 Speaker 1: Let's do a date night, Let's do it early. It's 133 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: the day before the Emmys. I know, you usually have, 134 00:06:39,120 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: you know, scripts to prepare whatever. Let's do like four 135 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: pm tapas and then if we get hungry later, you know, 136 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,480 Speaker 1: we'll just come back home and I'll cook you something 137 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:49,159 Speaker 1: while you get ready. I was like, yes, that sounds amazing. 138 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 1: I love an early dinner. So we set it up. 139 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: And originally we were supposed to be in Catalina this 140 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: weekend or that weekend, but it was Emmy's that kind 141 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: of popped up like three weeks in advance, and so 142 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,799 Speaker 1: that just you know, threw the whole thing off because 143 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: he was planning to propose to me in Catalina. My 144 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: family was gonna be there, His family was gonna be 145 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: there with everyone, had tickets booked everything, So literally destroyed 146 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: his whole plan and so so whatever, and then we're 147 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,920 Speaker 1: getting ready to go to the date night and he says, oh, 148 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: you're gonna be busy all Emmy's day. What do we 149 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: do with Pearl? I can't watch Pearl, that's my dog. 150 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: And he's like, I can't watch Pearl the next day 151 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: and I said, oh, my parents for sure can watch her. 152 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,400 Speaker 1: And my parents live, you know, twenty five minutes away, 153 00:07:35,840 --> 00:07:37,360 Speaker 1: not far from me. And I was like yeah, let 154 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:39,840 Speaker 1: me just call my mom now. And see. I call 155 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: my mom and asked if she can take Pearl and 156 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 1: she says, of course. Do you want me to come 157 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: pick her up? Are you gonna drop her off? And 158 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, well, let me ask Joshua. I 159 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: was like, what should we do. He's like, well, let's 160 00:07:49,920 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: just drop her off right now. It's no problem. I'll 161 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 1: push push the reservation back a little. And I was like, okay, cool, Mom, 162 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: We're on our way and she's like great, and so 163 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 1: we're on our way to my parents. 164 00:07:59,240 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 2: So he made it also made it seem like it 165 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 2: was lightly did inception. 166 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,160 Speaker 1: He got into my brain and made me plan all 167 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: of these things right right right, We're going to my 168 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 1: parent good, he's so good. We're going to my parents. 169 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: And then he's like, I'm gonna stay in the car 170 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 1: and I was like, no, you're not going to stay. 171 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 2: In the car. 172 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: Come say hello to my parents. You know that they're 173 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: gonna want to say hi, even if it's really quick. 174 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: And he's like okay, like playing it off. And so 175 00:08:22,880 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: we walk in and then we walk into my parents' 176 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: home and they're like, oh, we're out back, and I 177 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,160 Speaker 1: walk outside or I'm heading towards the backyard and then 178 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 1: I see like my closest girlfriends, I see them, and 179 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,679 Speaker 1: then I see his family and I see mine all 180 00:08:37,760 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: lined up, and I instantly knew once I saw his 181 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: parents there, because they're from Washington, and I was like, 182 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: they're never in town. 183 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 184 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: Once I saw everyone lined up, no one said a thing. 185 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 1: Everyone had glassy eyes, They're already crying, and I was like, 186 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, it's happening. It's happening. I'm like, oh no. 187 00:08:55,559 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 1: And then he takes me and then he says like 188 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: the sweetest things to me, like right by the door, 189 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: then no one could hear. And then he walks me 190 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: over to this gazebo in my parents' backyard and it 191 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:09,200 Speaker 1: has like the rose petals on the ground and the 192 00:09:09,200 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 1: flowers all set up, and then he just like gets 193 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: on one knee and I didn't even look at the ring. 194 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 1: He's like, will you marry me? And I was like 195 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: of course, and he's like what and I said yes, 196 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: and then we like hung and then he's like the 197 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: ring and I was like, oh my gosh, the ring. 198 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,359 Speaker 2: I feel like, is it like an out of body experience? 199 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 2: Like it's almost like it's one of those things that 200 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:30,800 Speaker 2: you think about your whole life and then when it happens, 201 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 2: did you just black out? Like how do you even 202 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 2: remember all those details? 203 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: I mean I literally remember it all so clearly. I 204 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:40,560 Speaker 1: remember everything he said, Like when he was like telling me, 205 00:09:40,640 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: you know, all the cute romantic things, I remember every word. 206 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: And then I don't know. I guess I didn't black out. 207 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 1: I was just so in the moment and just so 208 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: literally swept off my feet like it was the happiest, 209 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: best experience, best day. It was, so it was just amazing. 210 00:09:57,720 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna need like deer, I'm gonna write this 211 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 2: in my dear feature your husband journal, but like, dear 212 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 2: future husband, I'm gonna need a GoPro on your head 213 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 2: when you propose, because I just black out with things 214 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,360 Speaker 2: like that, Like I will for sure not remember and 215 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,080 Speaker 2: I want to remember like every detail. 216 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,280 Speaker 1: And like my sister was taking a video and then okay, 217 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: my friend's uh boyfriend, he's this amazing photography. He was 218 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: taking all these photos, so like I actually got to 219 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,600 Speaker 1: like relive every moment in these pictures as well. But 220 00:10:22,679 --> 00:10:25,000 Speaker 1: like I really will never forget that moment. I should 221 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: probably write it down and in a journal because I 222 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: know in a year from now, I'll be like, what 223 00:10:28,520 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 1: exactly happened? 224 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 2: Wait? So okay, so now you're engaged. The ring is gorgeous, 225 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:35,439 Speaker 2: by the way, just saw it, and really I saw 226 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:36,720 Speaker 2: the photos, but I was like, oh my gosh, and 227 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 2: real life. Look, we went ring shopping like a year ago. 228 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:43,160 Speaker 2: And it's so funny because I remember when you told 229 00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:44,320 Speaker 2: me you were going. I was like, I want to 230 00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 2: go because I've never even like you always think you 231 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 2: know what you want, but then like you don't, you 232 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,240 Speaker 2: don't and you know I knew nothing about it, and 233 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 2: thank god we win because now I know exactly exactly right. 234 00:10:55,720 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: Like that day literally was just the education that every 235 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: girl needs. If you want to be specific about anything, 236 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: highly suggest going with your best girls, go to a 237 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: place that can sit you down and give you an 238 00:11:09,200 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 1: hour of their time, because you don't want to leave 239 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: this to chance with your man. Okay, And Joshua was smart. 240 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 1: He's like, I want to get you exactly what you want. 241 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna The only thing he freestyled was going 242 00:11:20,600 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: bigger in size, which I'm not mad at. 243 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 2: The freestyle that is so good I know, you know, 244 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 2: what I realize is that I just need a I 245 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: just need one stone, like I don't need what do 246 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 2: they called the other ones? Like all the way, I 247 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 2: don't need any paves. I just need just a fatty one. Yeah, 248 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: because I have large fingers, so just as to go 249 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 2: that rack. 250 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. But it's seriously, they tell you everything from like 251 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: size to color to yeah, to every single little detail. 252 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:52,560 Speaker 1: And I didn't really. I feel like I changed the 253 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: shape that I wanted so many times where I was like, 254 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: oh I want to round, and then I want a radiant, 255 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:01,200 Speaker 1: or then I wanta whatever, and then finally I was like, 256 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 1: you know what, I want an oval. And I don't 257 00:12:03,800 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: think I ever told him that, but I told one 258 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,319 Speaker 1: of our mutual friends because she had randomly asked like, oh, 259 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 1: did you ever land on what you wanted? I was like, yeah, 260 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:14,320 Speaker 1: I think i'd want this, and I sent her like 261 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: pictures and all this stuff, and she kept it that 262 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 1: whole year. 263 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:20,320 Speaker 2: She reached out to me too, just just for some 264 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,800 Speaker 2: names of things. Yeah. 265 00:12:21,880 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So she went with him, and she was worried. 266 00:12:25,920 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: She's like, oh my gosh, I think he freestyled or 267 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:30,680 Speaker 1: like went rogue. Is it what she wanted. I'm like, 268 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,840 Speaker 1: it's more than what I could have ever wanted. 269 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:35,960 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. It's just like I love hearing this 270 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 2: because I just feel like everything that's going on in 271 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:41,319 Speaker 2: the world right now is just so just it's just 272 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 2: not it's just depressing quite honestly, and so love to 273 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 2: hear just like love. You know. It's like life is 274 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 2: still happening, people are getting engaged, people having babies, and 275 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:54,439 Speaker 2: so it's just like so nice to see. And are 276 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:56,400 Speaker 2: you planning the wedding at all? Have you started or 277 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 2: do you guys want to. 278 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:00,120 Speaker 1: Like kind of like we do want to do the 279 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:04,440 Speaker 1: whole going down to the courthouse get married like way 280 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: before we actually have the ceremony and just start our 281 00:13:07,800 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: lives and be married and do the Haley Bieber justin 282 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: Bieber thing where they did a whole year legally married 283 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: and then they went and had that party. We are 284 00:13:16,160 --> 00:13:18,400 Speaker 1: down to do that. So who knows, we could be 285 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,520 Speaker 1: married by the end of this year, but then do 286 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:21,920 Speaker 1: the party whenever it's safe. 287 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:23,959 Speaker 2: I love you call it a party. Whatever. 288 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: The ceremony, the thing that all the other people care about, 289 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 1: you know, Like for us, it's really just we want 290 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 1: to start our lives and you know, like buy a 291 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 1: house and think about our future and so and that's 292 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: more important for us. And and yeah, what you're saying, like, 293 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: you know, this year has been such a dumpster fire, 294 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: Joshua reminded me, like still in twenty twenty, like babies 295 00:13:45,320 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: were born, people got married, people got engaged, people have completed, 296 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 1: you know, huge milestones or reached huge milestones. So it's 297 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: not all bad. And so yeah, it was really cool 298 00:13:57,960 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 1: that that that happened. All of this. 299 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,640 Speaker 2: I'm seriously so happy for you, Like I literally cannot 300 00:14:04,679 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: get over it. Thank you. 301 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: I'm so I'm still like on cloud nine. It happened 302 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:12,080 Speaker 1: all so fast, like the next day was Emmy's and 303 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 1: then it was like a crazy couple of weeks of 304 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: work and I still haven't come off the high. And 305 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: I'm like I just want to be still and do 306 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: nothing with my fiance. 307 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,800 Speaker 2: Fiance will fly. It's just different. 308 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: It's so different. It already feels so different, really look 309 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,760 Speaker 1: at him so different. And also I'm like, oh my gosh, 310 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: I need to be more responsible with my life, Like 311 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: there's a man who is expecting me to come home, 312 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: Like I can't be reckless with my life anymore. Like 313 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: I know that is so committed to someone and they're 314 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: committed to me. 315 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 2: That is so wild like having a fiance. It's just 316 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 2: weird because even I mean, I'm only one step in, 317 00:14:52,240 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 2: like in a relationship, and it's it's wildly different than 318 00:14:55,520 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 2: being single. I mean, I guess, like it's true, you know, 319 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 2: like there's somebody that I don't know, there's like a 320 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 2: whole different person, and so I feel like to up 321 00:15:06,120 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 2: that up like up the ante is like even more intense. 322 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really cool. I highly suggest getting engaged and 323 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: hopefully getting married. I highly suggest it. Yes, everyone should 324 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: do it. 325 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh wow, okay, well hmm. On that note, we're 326 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 2: gonna pause. We're gonna take a quick break, and then 327 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 2: we will be right back. We have more things to discussed, 328 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 2: like our cute double dates. Hey, we're gonna go a 329 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: cute happy hour today, y'all, and many more things. So 330 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:58,760 Speaker 2: hang take we are back in the o R. Everybody 331 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 2: with Aaron Limb. He's he's finest and brightest truly, because 332 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 2: she is the host of I don't know, it's like 333 00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:08,080 Speaker 2: I have to like literally list them. She's the host 334 00:16:08,160 --> 00:16:13,440 Speaker 2: of Binge Club and the Rundown and you're on Live 335 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 2: from the Red Carpet and all the shows and then 336 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 2: uh discoveries Dodgeball Thunderdome, which is your newest. By the way, 337 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 2: I have to give a shout out. My niece is 338 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 2: like your number one fan from Dodgeball Thunderdome. She's he's obsessed. 339 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:29,080 Speaker 2: I cannot forget. I need to get a video of 340 00:16:29,120 --> 00:16:31,200 Speaker 2: you saying how to her because she's like literally your 341 00:16:31,240 --> 00:16:34,520 Speaker 2: biggest fan, like obsessed with the show. I love. Yeah, 342 00:16:34,560 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: like probably watches every episode multiple times. 343 00:16:36,760 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: Wow, I need her to build a little mini core. 344 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 2: I would love to see it, love to see it. Okay, 345 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 2: So what else did I want to cover with you? Oh? Oh, 346 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:50,200 Speaker 2: by the way, just wanted to give a little quick 347 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 2: PSA to everybody that's listening. So I was like a 348 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 2: pro rollerblader when I was like a teenager, like professional, 349 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 2: like I could like zip around town like no problem. 350 00:17:00,360 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 2: And so this weekend, a red Star and I wanted 351 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 2: to blade, and so we went to Big Five picked 352 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 2: up some blades and like I got risk guards because 353 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,119 Speaker 2: I don't really need all the padding because I used 354 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 2: to blade out like I'm so good. You know, put 355 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:17,439 Speaker 2: everything on. So he lives on like this hill. Okay, 356 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:21,120 Speaker 2: it doesn't feel as steep as it is when you're 357 00:17:21,520 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 2: on on four wheels because we literally just go out 358 00:17:26,040 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 2: of the house and I start going down the hill 359 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 2: and I am like going full speed and he's like like, 360 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,399 Speaker 2: he's like, break, You're going too fast. I was like, 361 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 2: I don't know how it's all happening so fast. So 362 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 2: he tries to like come to like catch me like 363 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 2: before like I go down, but I just panicked and 364 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 2: so I just fell. I felt completely backwards, hit my tailbone, 365 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:52,119 Speaker 2: hit my hand, completely broke into like profuse sweating, like 366 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:54,359 Speaker 2: full on sweat. And then it's like kind of a 367 00:17:54,400 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 2: busy street and I'm just like laying flat on like 368 00:17:56,960 --> 00:18:00,879 Speaker 2: a busy street, just like literal road can. And so 369 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:02,879 Speaker 2: that's the only thing that like, if we were on 370 00:18:02,960 --> 00:18:04,800 Speaker 2: a busy street, I probably would have sat there and cried. 371 00:18:05,240 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 2: But I was like, I'm on a busy street. I 372 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 2: just need to get myself up and like get to safety, 373 00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So like I like brushed 374 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 2: it off. And that night I was meeting some of 375 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,359 Speaker 2: his friends for the very first time. Oh yes, like 376 00:18:17,400 --> 00:18:20,880 Speaker 2: his oldest friends from like mommy and me. Okay, wow, 377 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 2: we had this whole thing planned. We were cooking. It 378 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 2: was just like a whole you know thing. We were 379 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,639 Speaker 2: gonna do a thing in the backyard, and so I 380 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 2: just mentally just said, you're fine, shake it off, like 381 00:18:31,320 --> 00:18:35,920 Speaker 2: no big deal. Okay. Cut to two hours go by, 382 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 2: and I'm just like in ferocious pain, Like I cannot 383 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 2: brush my hair, I can't wash my hair. So I 384 00:18:42,200 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 2: literally had him put my hair in a bun for 385 00:18:44,480 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 2: the night. And my watching a man try to put 386 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:51,120 Speaker 2: a bun into my hair so good. It's I wish 387 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 2: I would have. I think I have one of them 388 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 2: on video. I need to show you because it's just 389 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,720 Speaker 2: the sweetest thing because he's trying so hard and he 390 00:18:57,840 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 2: just can't get it. But I also just and get 391 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:02,040 Speaker 2: my arm up to do it myself. So I just 392 00:19:02,119 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 2: was like whatever, Like I couldn't really do my makeup, 393 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: so in terms of like my look, it was just whatever. 394 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 2: He picked up the slack in terms of a lot 395 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 2: of the cooking because I just had like one hand. 396 00:19:13,600 --> 00:19:14,400 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 397 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 2: So I started drinking the whole like I just had 398 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: to drink the pain away and then we'll go up 399 00:19:18,520 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 2: Sunday and was like way worse. So then I was 400 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:25,960 Speaker 2: like majorly panicked, like I did some serious damage. Oh 401 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 2: my gosh, all is fine. I went and got an 402 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:29,360 Speaker 2: X Ray's not broken, So. 403 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:35,159 Speaker 1: Yo, rollerblading really is dangerous because I've recently gone rollerblading 404 00:19:35,160 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 1: too coincidentally, but I feel like it's it's so much 405 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: harder for adults because we just don't move the way 406 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 1: we used to. We're less agile, we are further from 407 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,840 Speaker 1: the ground, therefore when we fall, we fall harder, and 408 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,000 Speaker 1: our bones just do not work the way. 409 00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:53,320 Speaker 2: I also realized that I'm a lefty, and I think 410 00:19:53,359 --> 00:19:55,480 Speaker 2: that when I was younger, I had like the special ones, 411 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,720 Speaker 2: the lefty break and this is. 412 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: The double breaks. 413 00:19:58,800 --> 00:20:01,280 Speaker 2: Yes, I had the double little breaks because I was like, 414 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 2: I don't know how to do it by right foot. 415 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 2: It was my right end. So I just panicked again. 416 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:08,080 Speaker 2: I wish I had it. I wish he had a 417 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,159 Speaker 2: gop on his head because it was truly just like 418 00:20:10,200 --> 00:20:12,640 Speaker 2: the funniest just from what I remember, it was. 419 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 1: Just like was he dying of laughter? 420 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we both, I mean, after we realized that 421 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,119 Speaker 2: I could like get up, you know, like, and I 422 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 2: was fine we both were like peeing our pants. 423 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's so. 424 00:20:24,040 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 2: And the funny part is he took video because he 425 00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 2: told me to buy elbow pads and knee pads. I 426 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:30,560 Speaker 2: was like, I'm fine, I'm good, and so because I 427 00:20:30,560 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: want this on video just so that it's documented that 428 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,199 Speaker 2: I told you to buy all the like gear, all 429 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 2: the padding and stuff. And so then I was like, 430 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 2: did he wear the elbow pads? No, he's good. Oh gosh, 431 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 2: he's just wow blading around town. I'm just brought my 432 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 2: blades home so I can practice on my own. 433 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:54,720 Speaker 1: Let's go blading soon. Let's be too laid to the 434 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 1: place after today. 435 00:20:56,760 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 2: I don't know if I have it in me. Today 436 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 2: I'm a little little PTSD my arm, But like soon 437 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:02,720 Speaker 2: gets too soon? 438 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: Fine next week, but mine mine are ready. I've been 439 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:09,440 Speaker 1: rollerblading in the house that. 440 00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:10,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm like, I need to start. I need to 441 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:13,159 Speaker 2: start on flat land. Also, we need to plan a 442 00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:17,080 Speaker 2: cute another cute double date. We should Yeah that was 443 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 2: really fun. It was cute, right, we had a really 444 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 2: good time we did. 445 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,320 Speaker 1: It was chill. Yeah, I love that. 446 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 2: I love that for us. 447 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, we like because Joshua doesn't do a lot 448 00:21:31,040 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 1: of double dates. He's like, unless I know, it's if 449 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: it's a guaranteed good time with good people. 450 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:37,920 Speaker 2: Well he's got a high barometer. 451 00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: Well, you know, sometimes it's like, oh, it's going to 452 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,959 Speaker 1: double date with two random people you've never met, And 453 00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:47,200 Speaker 1: he's like, well, like what I mean, yeah, do it? 454 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 1: How do I know we're gonna have a good time? 455 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:51,919 Speaker 1: But like he's met you tons of times. You know, 456 00:21:52,040 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 1: we see each other all the time. 457 00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 2: The girl Tony is a thing, you know. 458 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,439 Speaker 1: But yeah, it was like such a good time and 459 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 1: good vibes, good food. We walked. 460 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:04,199 Speaker 2: I love a walk. I love that we're walking Tonight's 461 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:06,360 Speaker 2: happy hour too. I love that we can walk to places. 462 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 2: It makes me feel like we're in New York even 463 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,080 Speaker 2: though we're not. Yeah, also, we need to discuss this. 464 00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:16,719 Speaker 2: It's unfortunate that Becca is not here because and you 465 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 2: know this, because I feel like you're gonna be Are 466 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:19,640 Speaker 2: you gonna be hosting the People's Choice Awards. 467 00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be on the red carpet doing the countdown 468 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 1: stuff and all of that. 469 00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 2: Okay, so everybody that's listening scrubbing in could potentially be 470 00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:35,880 Speaker 2: a three peat winner. At the twenty twenty People's Choice 471 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:39,159 Speaker 2: Awards Ladies and Gentlemen, and I can't really clap all 472 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:44,640 Speaker 2: that well right now, there we go. I don't even 473 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 2: want to say potentially because like it's just gonna happen. 474 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 1: I feel like it's gonna happen, because I mean, you 475 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: won the last two times and this is clearly the 476 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: most popular best podcast ever, so you know, one really 477 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: stands the tunes. 478 00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 2: You know What's interesting though, because I've been like just 479 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,159 Speaker 2: doing a lot of reflecting on everything just in general, 480 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:09,280 Speaker 2: just life and such, you know, just very introspective these days. 481 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 2: And for some reason, like I didn't it's not that 482 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:16,199 Speaker 2: I didn think we were gonna get nominated this year, 483 00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:20,320 Speaker 2: but I just feel like there's a lack of there's 484 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,920 Speaker 2: just like a lack of joy, you know what I 485 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 2: mean right now, just in the time. And so I 486 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 2: was like when the People's Choice Word was like going 487 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,439 Speaker 2: around for like nominations and submissions and stuff, I was like, 488 00:23:31,440 --> 00:23:32,440 Speaker 2: you know what, I don't want to like get my 489 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 2: expectations up and then get like let down, you know 490 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 2: if it doesn't happen. Blah blah blah. And then when 491 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: I saw it, it was almost like I saw Santa Claus 492 00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 2: on Christmas morning. It was just like the joy that 493 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,320 Speaker 2: I needed. And like, I just feel like this podcast 494 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 2: is just continuously throughout the entire pandemic and a place 495 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:52,439 Speaker 2: of like also keeping me in check too, because I 496 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 2: think in the beginning of the pandemic, I was really 497 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 2: depressed and like sad, and like people were emailing in 498 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 2: and being like it's Tanya, okay, like how is she doing? 499 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 2: And that kind of like made me more accountable for 500 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,920 Speaker 2: where I where I was, you know what I mean, 501 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 2: and like kind of made me like take a look 502 00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 2: and be like wow, like I need to figure this out, 503 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 2: like and this is the new normal, and I need 504 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 2: to go on runs or go outside or do things 505 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,720 Speaker 2: that's gonna that are gonna help me get to a 506 00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:20,520 Speaker 2: better mental state, you know. And so this podcast has 507 00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 2: just been like such a joy and the fact that 508 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 2: the Scrubs sisters like continue to show up and continue 509 00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 2: to like go all out. And it's funny because I was, 510 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,720 Speaker 2: uh when I sent Red Star because Red Star has 511 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,880 Speaker 2: been voting every day and I was like telling him 512 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 2: how just like it made me like emotional and I 513 00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 2: was crying and he was just like what did he say? 514 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: He said something that just like made me just so 515 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 2: he was like He's like, Tonya, this is you know 516 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,720 Speaker 2: what I mean? Like you're that's totally you, Like you 517 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 2: go all in on these things, you know what I mean? 518 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,920 Speaker 2: Like you're the person that would vote one hundred times 519 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,080 Speaker 2: for your favorite musician when you're you know whatever, So 520 00:24:56,160 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 2: it makes sense, you know, like we're all just very 521 00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 2: passionate people. So everybody that's listening, I love you guys. 522 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,600 Speaker 2: Let's make it a three FAVO. 523 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 1: Send in your votes one hundred times today every day, 524 00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:11,399 Speaker 1: and you. 525 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 2: Can do twenty five times a day, but if you 526 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 2: have multiple emails, I highly. 527 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,879 Speaker 1: Encourage twenty five times every single email. How about that? 528 00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,720 Speaker 2: Yes, I have quite a girthy list of emails, a girthy, 529 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:27,480 Speaker 2: eirthy list between my own emails, and then I do 530 00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 2: the scrubbing in email, and then I use some of 531 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 2: our producers' emails, which clearly shows me that they aren't voting, 532 00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 2: but they who cares? I'm using their emails. And then 533 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:38,360 Speaker 2: I use some kiss afm emails you. 534 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,879 Speaker 1: Know, just really I'm voting from all seven of my 535 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 1: emails and you can vote until October twenty third. 536 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,639 Speaker 2: Do you know how October twenty third, that's what that's soon? 537 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, we are in October, people, so you've got less 538 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:55,400 Speaker 1: than twenty days. Yeah do that? 539 00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,000 Speaker 2: Do you know how they're doing the People's Choice the 540 00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 2: words this year? Like what they're gonna Well. 541 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:04,080 Speaker 1: It airs Sunday, November fifteenth, from nine to eleven, and 542 00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 1: I am assuming that it's all virtual, kind of how 543 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:10,000 Speaker 1: the Emmys did it. We will be doing like a 544 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: red carpet broadcast how we usually do safely. We'll be 545 00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,680 Speaker 1: taking all of the tests leading up. I'm not quite 546 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,199 Speaker 1: sure how the interviews and the structure will look, but 547 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 1: if I were to guess, I'd say probably like the 548 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 1: Emmys and a lot of fun. 549 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 2: So I have enough your host yet, right. 550 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 1: No, we don't know too many details, but yeah, there 551 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,640 Speaker 1: will be great appearances and special acts and musical performances 552 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:40,120 Speaker 1: and all of that that is so wild. Yeah, it's 553 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,320 Speaker 1: gonna be great. So make sure you guys are voting. 554 00:26:42,560 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: Make sure you're voting. Yes, Easton, do you have any 555 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:49,440 Speaker 2: words about the nomination? About the three p It's it's. 556 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,400 Speaker 4: The type of thing where like I'm I'm suprier, I'm 557 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 4: not surprised but I'm still impressed by the nomination and 558 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:00,840 Speaker 4: I don't have any doubt that we're going to take 559 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,800 Speaker 4: it home a third time. The thing I really like 560 00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:05,480 Speaker 4: about it is that we have won one hundred percent 561 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 4: of the Pop Podcast Awards, like since they introduced it, 562 00:27:08,880 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 4: Scrubbing has won it. 563 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 1: So I like. 564 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 2: Thatcial Engine that could. It's like, literally, when you look 565 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,720 Speaker 2: at the nominees, we are the little engine that could. 566 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:21,560 Speaker 2: These are like a behemoth podcasts that are in that category. 567 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 2: And then there's Scrubbing in which just goes to show 568 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 2: you it's not about what is it? What's the thing? 569 00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:30,840 Speaker 2: It's not about the cats and the it's not about 570 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,960 Speaker 2: the skin in the game, but the motion of the 571 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:33,520 Speaker 2: ocean or. 572 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,800 Speaker 1: Something like that. Did you just combined two cliches or 573 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: is that one that it actually exists to. 574 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:47,120 Speaker 2: Cliches that don't apply, to cliches that cancel each other 575 00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 2: out completely. It's just the motion of the ocean. Baby. 576 00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 2: It just goes to show you it's not about like volume, 577 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,600 Speaker 2: it's about value. 578 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,880 Speaker 1: Okay, that's a new one. Never heard that one. 579 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:02,880 Speaker 2: Well, it's value over volume. It's value over volume. 580 00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 4: It is I think that's a costco advertisement. 581 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:13,639 Speaker 2: Quality not quantity. 582 00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,919 Speaker 1: Yes, it is all of those things. And you do 583 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,399 Speaker 1: really have a loyal fan base. 584 00:28:18,600 --> 00:28:19,400 Speaker 3: I think that's the key. 585 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: The people who are listening truly love you, love and 586 00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:25,159 Speaker 1: adore you guys, and would go to bat for you. 587 00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 1: I think that's the key. 588 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 3: I think that's the most important part is the passionate 589 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:31,600 Speaker 3: Scrubbers out there, because as I'm looking at the list 590 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 3: of fellow nominees this year, I'm ready to predict right 591 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 3: now that this podcast will win again. And that is 592 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 3: not to say that those are not really great podcasts, 593 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,160 Speaker 3: because they are. I just don't think they have the 594 00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 3: passionate fan base that's Scrubbing In does. Like arm True Expert, 595 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,959 Speaker 3: I think gets quite a few more listeners than this 596 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 3: one does. 597 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,760 Speaker 2: But yeah, perhaps, but DA's isn't. 598 00:28:49,560 --> 00:28:51,680 Speaker 3: Going to be campaigning and the fans aren't going to 599 00:28:51,720 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 3: be that passionate about it. Call Her Daddy has a 600 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 3: huge passionate fan base, But I think it's a lot 601 00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 3: of dudes, and dudes are going to be motivated to 602 00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 3: vote for the People's Choice Awards. So I think you're 603 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 3: going to win. 604 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 1: And where will this trophy go when you win? 605 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:13,440 Speaker 2: Just next to the other one that's on display it 606 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:14,040 Speaker 2: out there. 607 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, there's one in your living room. Where's the 608 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 1: other one? 609 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 2: So we have this like weird nook in our apartments. 610 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 2: Do you have that weird nook that I have? 611 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: I don't think. 612 00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 2: So it's this random hole in the wall that's literally 613 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 2: a hole in the wall on my staircase. And it's 614 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 2: like the size of I don't even know when People's 615 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 2: Choice Award it's bigger than that. But I put the 616 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 2: People's Choice Award in there from the first year and 617 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,960 Speaker 2: then so they give you one award and then if 618 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: you want multiples, you purchase them. And so I didn't 619 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,720 Speaker 2: buy one for myself the second year because I was like, 620 00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:50,280 Speaker 2: already have one, and now I kind of wish i'd 621 00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,520 Speaker 2: had because when we get three, like it would just 622 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:59,600 Speaker 2: be so cool. You yeah, like every I regret that decision. Yeah, 623 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 2: so Beck has one. So we all on the podcast, 624 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 2: we all have one now because I took the first 625 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 2: year and then she took the second year. 626 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: Yeah okay, okay, and. 627 00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:14,560 Speaker 2: Then we purchased for like everybody else got it, okay, cool? Yeah, 628 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 2: So let's put it. Slide it right on next to 629 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 2: the other one. 630 00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: Wow, that is such a I mean, those things are 631 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,120 Speaker 1: speaking of girthy. People's choice, so we're heard is girthy, weighty. 632 00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 1: It's just beautiful. 633 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:32,360 Speaker 2: You know. What's interesting though, is it's also like, yeah, 634 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 2: there's Eastern's Easterns holding up right there. It's quite heavy, 635 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 2: it is. It's one of those things where and I 636 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 2: talk about it a lot on the podcast and just 637 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 2: in general imposter syndrome, and I think everybody has it 638 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:48,560 Speaker 2: to a certain degree, but it's one of those things 639 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 2: that I think even more this year, I've like felt 640 00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 2: because of the pandemic and like everything's going so awful, 641 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:59,480 Speaker 2: like people are being laid off and fur load, and 642 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,239 Speaker 2: there's so much devastation in the world right now, and 643 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:06,840 Speaker 2: so it's like why do I have this, Why do 644 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: I get to do this? Why? You know what I mean? 645 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 2: Like I've been having a lot of that lately, and 646 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 2: it's like, I don't know, it's almost just like I 647 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 2: don't need the validation that I used to think that 648 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 2: I needed from people in the industry, if that makes sense, Okay, 649 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 2: because I know that the people that matter that are 650 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 2: listening to the podcast and that like we're actually having 651 00:31:33,160 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 2: a direct line of communication to are so like involved, 652 00:31:37,600 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like we're all doing life together. 653 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 2: We're all just doing it. And so to me now 654 00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 2: it's almost like that is the valid Like that is 655 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 2: what I needed, like to know that, like I am, 656 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 2: we're all in this together, do you know what I mean? 657 00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 2: And so like for so long I was seeking this 658 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 2: validation from bosses or people higher up than me or 659 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 2: respected in the industry. And I feel like over the 660 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 2: last like two years, I don't need that anymore, Like 661 00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,360 Speaker 2: I don't even it's almost like, what's that saying? 662 00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 1: You? 663 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 2: What is this saying? 664 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 3: Period? 665 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 2: I just got all the same so wrong, But the 666 00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,800 Speaker 2: intention is there. It's it's the thing. 667 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: About it's it's a she suns saying. 668 00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 2: It's like the you get your your You're I'm missing 669 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 2: the beginning, but it's something you're stronger if you accept 670 00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 2: the apology that you never get. Do you know I'm 671 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 2: talking about what. 672 00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:36,800 Speaker 1: I I think I know what you're saying. 673 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,440 Speaker 3: It's like your life is better when you learn to 674 00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 3: accept an apology you never got. 675 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 2: Hey, So that's like the thing, but it's not it's 676 00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 2: it's like not the apology, it's the validation. So my 677 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:57,640 Speaker 2: imposter syndroom. I always needed validation from up here. Nobody 678 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 2: can see me because we're doing a podcast. In my 679 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:00,480 Speaker 2: hand is like above my head. 680 00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 1: It's high. 681 00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 2: It's high. And I don't need that anymore because I 682 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 2: realize what I the impact and the relationship in the 683 00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 2: community is so much stronger than any validation I'm going 684 00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 2: to get from anything else exactly. So it's like I 685 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 2: don't need it anymore. It's the weirdest thing. And so 686 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 2: like I have this. I have to thank the Scrub 687 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,560 Speaker 2: Sisters for that because it's like, this is something that 688 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 2: I've been struggling with literally my entire career, and I 689 00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 2: think there's still obviously there's going to be that part 690 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 2: of me that still struggles with a little bit, but 691 00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 2: it's like I'm not seeking that out anymore, right, And 692 00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 2: that's like a huge mountain that I've crossed. 693 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 1: And like, you are a woman of the people. You know, 694 00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:44,560 Speaker 1: you are so grounded and re rooted in reality and truth, 695 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 1: and I think that's why people relate to you and 696 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:52,200 Speaker 1: support you and want to see you grow. When people 697 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: see you on the street, I'm like, oh my gosh, Tanya, 698 00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:55,640 Speaker 1: and then they just want to talk to you. About 699 00:33:56,280 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: anything in everything you know that happened. 700 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 2: We did see a scrubber on our date night. They've 701 00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 2: posted in our Facebook group, and I was so upset 702 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 2: she didn't come up and say hi to us. But 703 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 2: I guess because of COVID. Like I guess, I mean respect. 704 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 2: I think you know respected respect. Yeah, but you could 705 00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,600 Speaker 2: just say hi from six feet away, like a socially 706 00:34:13,600 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 2: distant situation. 707 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:16,760 Speaker 1: I send us a drink from six feet away. 708 00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 2: We love a socially distant. 709 00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 1: Situation, drink hello. 710 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 2: But yeah, I was so sad she didn't like, come 711 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 2: and say hi. 712 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,400 Speaker 1: Next time, come say hi with a mask six feet apart. Yes, 713 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,879 Speaker 1: and she likes tequila. Soda on the. 714 00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,320 Speaker 2: Rocks, loves that for sure. 715 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:35,000 Speaker 1: Where is it soda? 716 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 2: No tequila? You're right? Yeah, Yeah, I'm gonna be drinking. 717 00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:40,440 Speaker 2: I just like I think, I'm just gonna be like, so, 718 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,919 Speaker 2: we're gonna go to a happy hour tonight. I'm gonna 719 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,920 Speaker 2: have a couple of drinks, drink pain away in my 720 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 2: arm of hers. You'll you, I just really, I just 721 00:34:52,200 --> 00:34:55,600 Speaker 2: want everybody to really appreciate when you're opening a can 722 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:59,400 Speaker 2: of pickles today, just appreciate the fact that you have 723 00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,839 Speaker 2: two hands. Second, one can hold the jar and one 724 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:05,760 Speaker 2: can open the top. You know, if you are baking something, 725 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,959 Speaker 2: just appreciate that you have one hand that can hold 726 00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,360 Speaker 2: the ball and the other one can mash the bananas 727 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:10,719 Speaker 2: in there. 728 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: I was really waiting for an actual cliche to come. 729 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:16,840 Speaker 1: Was gonna be like some metaphor. 730 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,399 Speaker 2: You were going to the bathroom. Literally, if you're going 731 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:22,360 Speaker 2: to the bathroom, be grateful that you have one hand 732 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 2: that can wipe yourself and two hands that can pull 733 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,200 Speaker 2: that underwear back up, because let me just tell you. 734 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: Unless you have long nails, it's impossible with both hands. 735 00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:34,120 Speaker 1: Just wanted to say for that last time. 736 00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 2: So yesterday I didn't realize how much Red Star did 737 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 2: for me yesterday. So yesterday I was just a waste 738 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 2: of a human. I literally laid in bed all day. 739 00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 2: He tended to me, opened my water bottle but gave 740 00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:46,720 Speaker 2: it like I just did nothing. I went to the bathroom, 741 00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:48,480 Speaker 2: he helped me put pull everything back up. I just 742 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 2: like rested my arm completely. And then this morning when 743 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,920 Speaker 2: I came home for work, I realized how hard everything 744 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 2: is with one hand, you know what I mean. And 745 00:35:56,480 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm trying to open my hydro flask. 746 00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:06,160 Speaker 1: I was like, she's really struggling today. She's poor Tonia. 747 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,120 Speaker 1: Everyone prays up for Tania. 748 00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:10,680 Speaker 2: No, honestly, in the grand scheme of things, it's like 749 00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:14,480 Speaker 2: a blip and whatever. But it's funny because when you 750 00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:17,800 Speaker 2: don't have something. Because my coworker Sierra sliced her finger 751 00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 2: last year, like she completely cut it open. So she 752 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 2: was functioning with one hand for like a long time too, 753 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 2: and she's like, yeah, you don't realize how much you 754 00:36:25,880 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 2: used like two hands. 755 00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:33,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, finish this one, Tania. You don't realize what you have. 756 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 2: Till it's gone. There we go. 757 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:37,920 Speaker 1: Just had to add a cliche. 758 00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 2: We love a cliche. But yeah, so AnyWho, who. 759 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,600 Speaker 1: She is, Well, she's looking cute in case you guys 760 00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,839 Speaker 1: are wondering, her hair doesn't look well. 761 00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 2: So I realized that because so you know when you 762 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:53,920 Speaker 2: put your hair in a bun, how it just like 763 00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 2: kind of just gets all like curly and wild. And 764 00:36:57,560 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 2: so since I did that for our dinner on Saturday night, 765 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 2: I was just like, it needs to just be in 766 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 2: a bun at all times, so I can't leave it down. 767 00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 2: And so when I realized I was going to be 768 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 2: alone today I just had to wash it and let 769 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,759 Speaker 2: it just go. Sanzi, Oh, you need your hairstylist back, 770 00:37:11,120 --> 00:37:14,480 Speaker 2: Lend's he coming back, coming back. We actually went to 771 00:37:14,480 --> 00:37:16,320 Speaker 2: the store, so I had to get like ice packs, 772 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 2: and then I got like my Brasen sling and stuff, 773 00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 2: and he bought. He goes, why don't we get you 774 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 2: like a clip? He goes, I think what's throwing me 775 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 2: off is the rubber band part. He's like, why don't 776 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,200 Speaker 2: we get a clips? I can like clip it into 777 00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:29,799 Speaker 2: the head And then he really got it. 778 00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:32,799 Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, that's good. I love seeing them in do 779 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: the things that women do. Like I one time had 780 00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: Joshua take off my nail polish and it was just 781 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 1: the cutest sight I've ever seen. 782 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 2: I know, like it's like the stupidest thing. 783 00:37:42,719 --> 00:37:45,400 Speaker 1: But it's so cut tried to record a video and 784 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 1: he's like, no, I'm gonna stop doing it if you 785 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:51,319 Speaker 1: start recording. Fine, I really need you to take off 786 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: this nail polish. 787 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,480 Speaker 2: I didn't say it. I was like one of his 788 00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:58,759 Speaker 2: friends got video that night of him doing my hair. Yeah, 789 00:37:59,040 --> 00:38:03,880 Speaker 2: I was like, thank you for the Okay, So I 790 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:05,640 Speaker 2: don't even know where we were going with this. May everybody, 791 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 2: make sure to vote. Everybody, make sure to watch Aaron's 792 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 2: five million Everything. 793 00:38:13,120 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: So The Rundown on Snapchat Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Binge Club 794 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: on Snapchat on Saturdays, Dodgeball Thunderdome on Discovery nine pm Wednesdays. 795 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:30,200 Speaker 1: And if you don't have cable, because you just don't, 796 00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 1: you can download the Discovery Go app for free stream 797 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:37,839 Speaker 1: the show for free. You're welcome. Also, if you love 798 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 1: David do Brick, he's on it, so go get. 799 00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so we're gonna take a quick break and then we're 800 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:47,399 Speaker 2: gonna come back and do some emails. Can I get 801 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,480 Speaker 2: an email? Amen? 802 00:38:49,800 --> 00:39:05,479 Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, then we're back. 803 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 2: We are going to answer some emails. So erin. We 804 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:13,399 Speaker 2: have scrub sisters and the email asking for advice. Oh, 805 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:16,560 Speaker 2: I don't know how good you are giving advice. I'm 806 00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:21,240 Speaker 2: not so great. But Mark usually gives some pretty sensible advice. 807 00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:23,200 Speaker 2: Ethan's pretty good and sensible too, so. 808 00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 3: Well, thank you. I have strong opinions on both of these. 809 00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 2: Okay, great, I have strong opinions on those things, but 810 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:33,520 Speaker 2: it's usually on the non helpful side. But you know what, actually, 811 00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,000 Speaker 2: did you guys see the Facebook group? How I can't remember. 812 00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 2: Somebody posted and said if you've got if you've written 813 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 2: an email and gotten advice from the podcast, Oh yeah, 814 00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,560 Speaker 2: what's the follow up? And I was reading that chain, 815 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:47,680 Speaker 2: and I was actually surprised at some of the great 816 00:39:47,719 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 2: advice I gave wasn't always sons the advice over here. 817 00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:54,000 Speaker 2: Let me tell you that we were off on a 818 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:54,360 Speaker 2: lot of it. 819 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 1: A lot of times. 820 00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,120 Speaker 3: It was just like something totally unexpected happened, and. 821 00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:00,960 Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, yeah. But like there was this one 822 00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,160 Speaker 2: girl who I can't remember what she said. I can't 823 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 2: rein her. My advice was like, Oh, he's just trying 824 00:40:06,040 --> 00:40:07,680 Speaker 2: to throw you off. He's going to propose, like he's 825 00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 2: totally for us. I don't know, but holler at us. 826 00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:12,680 Speaker 2: I like that change. 827 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:13,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, that was cool. 828 00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:16,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is Emily. Maybe we'll hear back from her 829 00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,279 Speaker 3: someday and see how our advice turned out for her. 830 00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 3: I'm twenty seven and my best guy friend, Tyler is 831 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,799 Speaker 3: twenty nine. We've known each other since my freshman year 832 00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,360 Speaker 3: of high school. Within the past two years, many of 833 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:28,439 Speaker 3: my friends have made comments about how we do couple 834 00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,799 Speaker 3: things together, such as cooking and eating dinner with one 835 00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:34,120 Speaker 3: another's families and attending weddings as one another's plus one, 836 00:40:34,600 --> 00:40:36,560 Speaker 3: and even going on family trips to the lake with 837 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,560 Speaker 3: one another. Well, when I attended his cousin's wedding as 838 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 3: is plus one, I got lots of questions from his 839 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:44,919 Speaker 3: extended family members. But how long we've been dating? Here's 840 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 3: the catch. Neither of us are touchy feely people, and 841 00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:51,319 Speaker 3: there's never been a steamy moment or obvious flirting. We 842 00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:54,320 Speaker 3: also talk about anything but our dating lives with one another. 843 00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 3: I can't help but think if I don't make a 844 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,680 Speaker 3: move to get out of the friend zone, I could 845 00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:00,719 Speaker 3: miss out on an amazing guy who I get along 846 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,000 Speaker 3: with so well. But I'm very nervous that if he 847 00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:06,120 Speaker 3: doesn't see the potential for a romantic relationship, our friendship 848 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,520 Speaker 3: could turn awkward. I'd love to hear your thoughts. 849 00:41:09,480 --> 00:41:14,640 Speaker 2: Okay, here's my thought, and this is different than I 850 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:19,359 Speaker 2: would have said maybe ten years ago. So who needs 851 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 2: guy friends? 852 00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:21,720 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, preach sister. 853 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,960 Speaker 2: I used to have a guy like I mean, I know, 854 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,000 Speaker 2: I don't say I used to, but I had a 855 00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,400 Speaker 2: very very good guy friend and we're still good friends. 856 00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,799 Speaker 2: But once he got married, that kind of became his like, 857 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 2: you know, his priority his wife and that so like 858 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,480 Speaker 2: our friendship is is still there, but it's not what 859 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:40,560 Speaker 2: it used to be, do you know what I mean? 860 00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:42,279 Speaker 2: So it's like, no matter how good of a guy 861 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,520 Speaker 2: friend you have, let's say right now, that's not going 862 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:47,760 Speaker 2: to be the case as you you know, get married 863 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,239 Speaker 2: and things like that. So I say, just go for it. 864 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,480 Speaker 2: Who cares, Like, go in for the kiss, go in 865 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,640 Speaker 2: for the like, whatever you want. And if he says no, 866 00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:57,840 Speaker 2: then who cares? He's not your guy friend anymore. And 867 00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 2: then fine, you move on. 868 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, And also, if you're not talking about your love 869 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:07,160 Speaker 1: lives or who you guys are dating, then clearly you 870 00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 1: guys care about each other's feelings that you don't want 871 00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,919 Speaker 1: to hurt each other. Therefore you probably like each other. 872 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:16,280 Speaker 1: You must like each other because I have guy friends 873 00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:18,680 Speaker 1: that I'm close with in the same way where was like, 874 00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 1: we eat dinner, we cook, we're cool with each other's families, 875 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:26,880 Speaker 1: but we are very open about like, oh I'm dating 876 00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 1: this person or this is. 877 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 2: What happens to have guy friends. You do that with 878 00:42:29,760 --> 00:42:30,759 Speaker 2: even you're engaged. 879 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:35,600 Speaker 1: Okay, excuse me, she's giving me the eyes, she's judging. 880 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 2: No, judgment. 881 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:39,279 Speaker 1: I just find it why I don't hang out with 882 00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:41,920 Speaker 1: my guy, my one close guy friend. I don't hang 883 00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,759 Speaker 1: out with him the same way we used to, where 884 00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,799 Speaker 1: it was like, you know, we could be over at 885 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 1: each other's places until late hours of the night or 886 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:52,360 Speaker 1: like whatever. You know, it's definitely changed because we are 887 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,440 Speaker 1: respectable of each other's relationships. I would say, we're so 888 00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,200 Speaker 1: close where we can text and call and like pick 889 00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,000 Speaker 1: up as if wherever we left off, you know, so, 890 00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,879 Speaker 1: and we'll always be there for each other. But it's 891 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 1: definitely not the same. But like, yeah, I can ask 892 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: him about his girlfriend or if he's seeing anyone in 893 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,239 Speaker 1: vice versa. He would always be able to ask me 894 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,560 Speaker 1: about you know who I'm seeing, and I would always 895 00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:21,839 Speaker 1: seek maile advice from him if I need. So, Yeah, 896 00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 1: it was never like we didn't talk about it because 897 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:25,600 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, we may be like each other and 898 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:27,640 Speaker 1: we don't want to hurt each other's feelings, right, you know, 899 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:30,280 Speaker 1: But I don't know, I feel like it can also 900 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:34,280 Speaker 1: ruin a It can definitely ruin a friendship, ruin the friendship. 901 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:37,440 Speaker 3: Who cares I'm with? I agree, who cares? Ruin the friendship? 902 00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,160 Speaker 3: And but when one of you starts getting somebody else, 903 00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,439 Speaker 3: the friendships over anyway, so who cares? But yeah, one 904 00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:44,400 Speaker 3: more thing I gotta say when I look at this email, 905 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,759 Speaker 3: I need Emily to take a really good, hard look 906 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 3: at herself here. Do you really have feelings for this guy? 907 00:43:50,800 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 3: Because never in this email do you say you have 908 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 3: feelings for this guy. Yeah, you say it's just convenience, 909 00:43:57,120 --> 00:44:00,160 Speaker 3: and it's the pressure of everybody saying what's with you too? 910 00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:02,440 Speaker 3: How come you two aren't together or you should be together? 911 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 3: And you think he's an amazing guy and you get 912 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,840 Speaker 3: along with him, so well, that's all great, but it 913 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,279 Speaker 3: doesn't actually say that you have feelings for him and 914 00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,160 Speaker 3: you get that and you want to be with him 915 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,600 Speaker 3: all the time, and you're not touchy feely, and you 916 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 3: don't say you want to be touchy feeling with this guy. 917 00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,800 Speaker 3: So I don't know if there's actually anything here or 918 00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,759 Speaker 3: if you just think he's a really good guy and 919 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:23,239 Speaker 3: would make somebody a good boyfriend. I'm not sure that 920 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:24,800 Speaker 3: person is you. 921 00:44:23,760 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 2: You know what? That is a very very astute point mark, Tanya, 922 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,279 Speaker 2: not a question mark, a point mark, because that is 923 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,399 Speaker 2: I think sometimes And she said she's twenty seven, he's 924 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:43,000 Speaker 2: twenty nine, right. I think I did this a lot 925 00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,440 Speaker 2: when I was twenty seven, Like I'm so much older now, 926 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 2: but I think that you you see a good guy 927 00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:52,040 Speaker 2: and you're like, I should want to be with him. 928 00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:55,040 Speaker 2: He's got a solid he's a solid job. He you know, 929 00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,080 Speaker 2: goes to church, he's he fit, checks off all the boxes, 930 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 2: and you're like, I should want to be with this guy. 931 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:01,360 Speaker 2: But if you don't. 932 00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,279 Speaker 1: Feel it, yeah, like you don't feel it? 933 00:45:04,480 --> 00:45:06,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I gotta tell you my first date with 934 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,360 Speaker 2: Red Star, I had tingles on my vagina. 935 00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,680 Speaker 1: But that's a I definitely know about those tingles. 936 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:13,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's liking it. 937 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 1: Honestly, Joshua was the first person that I've dated where 938 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,359 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm tingling all the time 939 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:22,640 Speaker 1: when I'm around him, like two years in and still 940 00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,640 Speaker 1: but yeah, if you don't have that that instant connection 941 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,160 Speaker 1: and you're be even friends this long and your questioning, 942 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,359 Speaker 1: you probably don't have it. I don't know. 943 00:45:32,520 --> 00:45:35,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, So let's get back out there, Emily. Let's just 944 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,359 Speaker 2: get back Let's get on some dating apps and really 945 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,440 Speaker 2: just go all in, just go one hundred percent, all in, 946 00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,520 Speaker 2: full force, give it your all you got, and let's 947 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:46,160 Speaker 2: get some tingles in that vagina without the best. 948 00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:49,000 Speaker 3: Friend without the best don't ruin the friendship if you 949 00:45:49,000 --> 00:45:50,160 Speaker 3: don't have the feelings anyway. 950 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Karen. 951 00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:54,560 Speaker 3: But a year ago, my boyfriend went on a weekend 952 00:45:54,560 --> 00:45:56,480 Speaker 3: trip with his friends. After the trip, I noticed a 953 00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:59,960 Speaker 3: shift in his behavior. I confronted him. He broke down, 954 00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 3: crying and confessed he had cheated on me one time 955 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,680 Speaker 3: during the trip with his friends and we ended things. 956 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:07,239 Speaker 3: This crushed me. I truly believe this was the man 957 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,080 Speaker 3: I would spend my life with, and after some time, 958 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 3: I decided to give him a second chance. I can 959 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,319 Speaker 3: see how much he is trying to prove himself to 960 00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,320 Speaker 3: me and show me that he's changed. However, I constantly 961 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:18,960 Speaker 3: think about what he did. I'm scared that right now 962 00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:20,920 Speaker 3: he's on his best behavior, but in the future he 963 00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,799 Speaker 3: will get comfortable, take me for granted and cheat on 964 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 3: me again. I'm very open about my feelings, but he 965 00:46:26,520 --> 00:46:29,400 Speaker 3: always reassures me that he never wants to lose me again. 966 00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,920 Speaker 3: I know people make mistakes, but I'm not sure if 967 00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 3: this is one I can truly get over. Do you 968 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:36,880 Speaker 3: guys think a relationship can survive after cheating. Do you 969 00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:39,480 Speaker 3: think the saying once a cheater, always a cheater is true. 970 00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:44,760 Speaker 2: I have strong opinions on this because I don't believe 971 00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 2: in the saying once a cheater, always a cheater. I don't. 972 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 2: I do think that people can make mistakes that and 973 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,080 Speaker 2: they won't make those same mistakes again. However, I do 974 00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 2: think this shows something in his character that you don't 975 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 2: want to be with, if that makes sense. Like it's 976 00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:03,600 Speaker 2: almost like I think, yes, you can forgive and you 977 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 2: can forget, but that shows something in his character that 978 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,840 Speaker 2: would make me really question if I want this person 979 00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:11,840 Speaker 2: to be in my life forever. 980 00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:15,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I also agree, once cheer always cheered, Like, that's 981 00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:18,280 Speaker 1: not a saying that I believe in, But I think 982 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,759 Speaker 1: that you don't want to be with that person when 983 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:24,120 Speaker 1: they made the mistake with you, Like, let that person 984 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,960 Speaker 1: grow and learn from this relationship and maybe they'll be 985 00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,279 Speaker 1: better in the next relationship. But I feel like you 986 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:34,080 Speaker 1: will always have that insecurity and then once your. 987 00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 2: Trust is broken, yeah, like, it is so hard. 988 00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:38,319 Speaker 1: To get it back and you're always gonna be thinking 989 00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:40,879 Speaker 1: cozy texting, where is he going up another guy's trip? 990 00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 1: What's gonna happen here and you're gonna resent him, and 991 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,759 Speaker 1: then he's gonna resent you, and it's literally gonna lead 992 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,400 Speaker 1: to a cycle. And I just don't know if you're 993 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,120 Speaker 1: gonna be able to get over that hurt. Like you 994 00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,319 Speaker 1: can paint over the canvas, but the paint is still 995 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:56,480 Speaker 1: underneath that new coat. And I feel like I've been 996 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 1: in this situation before and they can work their ass 997 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,759 Speaker 1: off and you are gonna feel entitled to it. You're 998 00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,759 Speaker 1: gonna be like you did this, therefore you owe me 999 00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:06,120 Speaker 1: all of these things. But no one's really gonna meet 1000 00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:11,560 Speaker 1: you on that level of just perfection. And I feel like, 1001 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,239 Speaker 1: you know, you need to be with someone where you 1002 00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:17,440 Speaker 1: do not feel like you need to look at their phone, 1003 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,120 Speaker 1: look at their email, look at their Instagram, because it 1004 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,440 Speaker 1: is so truly freeing to be with a person that 1005 00:48:22,520 --> 00:48:25,760 Speaker 1: you fully trust, because it will eat you up alive 1006 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:27,959 Speaker 1: at night, like. 1007 00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:31,840 Speaker 2: I couldn't imagine, because I still have like triggers in 1008 00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 2: me because I was cheated on so long ago and 1009 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,160 Speaker 2: I still and till this day, like every relationship I've 1010 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,880 Speaker 2: been in, there's still a little part of me that 1011 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,360 Speaker 2: has a little bit of that in in it but 1012 00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:46,880 Speaker 2: and I have no reason to be that way, do 1013 00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:48,200 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And it's the point where 1014 00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:49,840 Speaker 2: like I have to say, like, there's this part of 1015 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,280 Speaker 2: me that's like triggered a little bit because of something 1016 00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,520 Speaker 2: that happened to me like ten years ago. So I 1017 00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:57,360 Speaker 2: couldn't imagine if the person that I was with showed 1018 00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,640 Speaker 2: me any indication that they cheat, Like I just yeah, 1019 00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:03,799 Speaker 2: for me, it's just and I know, I actually have 1020 00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 2: a friend who her husband cheated on her and she 1021 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 2: tried to, you know, they were married, so she tried to, 1022 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:14,880 Speaker 2: you know, just stick through it, and they tried so 1023 00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:18,720 Speaker 2: hard and just she was just ultimately like could couldn't 1024 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,759 Speaker 2: do it, and they ended up divorcing. She's now remarried, 1025 00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,279 Speaker 2: had a baby. So there's light at the end of 1026 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,319 Speaker 2: the tunnel. Yeah. 1027 00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,839 Speaker 1: I think sometimes we stay in those situations because we 1028 00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:31,279 Speaker 1: maybe have doubt that we're not going to find someone 1029 00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 1: who loves us just as much. 1030 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:36,280 Speaker 2: I think fear keeps people in relationships a lot longer 1031 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,480 Speaker 2: than they need to be for many reasons. Fear of 1032 00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:42,520 Speaker 2: being alone, fear of not finding anybody better, fear of 1033 00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,440 Speaker 2: being older, fear of all these things, when in reality 1034 00:49:46,440 --> 00:49:48,680 Speaker 2: it's like you should just want to have the best 1035 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,480 Speaker 2: partner in life that you can. 1036 00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,160 Speaker 1: Right, and then think about it, like do you want 1037 00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:55,280 Speaker 1: to be with someone who had these doubts or didn't 1038 00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:59,520 Speaker 1: have the just didn't have the willpower to say no 1039 00:49:59,680 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 1: to outside forces? I guess outside women, vaginas, outside vaginas. Yeah, 1040 00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:11,480 Speaker 1: I think she's gonna be okay if she walks away. 1041 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:14,920 Speaker 2: Forgiving and putting it behind you is like the hardest thing. 1042 00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:19,120 Speaker 3: And trust is like a piece of paper. Once it's crumpled, 1043 00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 3: it can never be perfect again. 1044 00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,359 Speaker 1: Oh so real. 1045 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's a good one. Trust is like a 1046 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,160 Speaker 2: box of chocolates. 1047 00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:40,359 Speaker 1: Trust. Trust is earned like droplets and lost like buckets. 1048 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 2: Well that's good, Like I'm. 1049 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:47,319 Speaker 1: Earned like it tastes like droplets to earn the then 1050 00:50:47,320 --> 00:50:49,440 Speaker 1: once it's out like a bucket of water. 1051 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,239 Speaker 2: That is a good one. Do you make that up? 1052 00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:51,839 Speaker 2: Or is that like a thing? 1053 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:51,920 Speaker 5: No? 1054 00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:52,600 Speaker 1: I think I heard it. 1055 00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 2: That's a good one. That is a good one. You 1056 00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:59,000 Speaker 2: know what, today's scrubbing in is really full of just nuggets, 1057 00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:02,080 Speaker 2: just life nugget. It's nugget. I really hope that your 1058 00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 2: notes pad is out and everybody's just taking away these nuggets, pages. 1059 00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,360 Speaker 1: And pages of notes and nuggets. 1060 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:09,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1061 00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,040 Speaker 3: Well that's it for emails. Are you excited about the 1062 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:13,720 Speaker 3: Grays Station nineteen two hour crossover event? 1063 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,239 Speaker 2: Yeah? I have the calendarmarked off. It's November twelve. I'm 1064 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:20,719 Speaker 2: so excited. I really think Grays is gonna just like 1065 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,440 Speaker 2: be epic this season. 1066 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:27,960 Speaker 1: Is this the last? 1067 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:33,200 Speaker 2: No? No, no, no new new new, But I do 1068 00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,480 Speaker 2: think it's gonna be really good because where they left 1069 00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,280 Speaker 2: us last season, and that season finale wasn't even supposed 1070 00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:39,239 Speaker 2: to be the finale, and it was. 1071 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:43,759 Speaker 1: Oh that's right, Yon good Yo. So my nurse that 1072 00:51:43,920 --> 00:51:47,680 Speaker 1: was doing my COVID test today, she was on her 1073 00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,399 Speaker 1: scrubs it said Gray's Anatomy, and I thought of you, 1074 00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:53,279 Speaker 1: but I'm also like worried she's not a legit nurse. 1075 00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:54,360 Speaker 1: And she was wearing as. 1076 00:51:57,239 --> 00:52:00,239 Speaker 2: They make Gray's Anatomy, make scrubs like real one, like 1077 00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,239 Speaker 2: real ones. That's so legit, that is super legit. They're 1078 00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,720 Speaker 2: not a lot of figs, but they're good. Wow. 1079 00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my gosh, that's really funny. I literally was 1080 00:52:09,239 --> 00:52:11,200 Speaker 1: questioning authentic this year. 1081 00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,440 Speaker 2: I know our next goal on the podcast is to 1082 00:52:15,480 --> 00:52:17,520 Speaker 2: be extra not next goal, but it's like our big 1083 00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:19,400 Speaker 2: goal to be extras on the set, and now I 1084 00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,360 Speaker 2: feel like with COVID they're probably limited to like so 1085 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 2: few extras that our chances really really got eliminated during 1086 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:29,600 Speaker 2: this pandemic. But you know what, we're the little engine 1087 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,040 Speaker 2: that could, and we're just gonna We're gonna get in 1088 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,000 Speaker 2: that on that set. 1089 00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,680 Speaker 1: I'm shocked you haven't been an extra yet. It's really 1090 00:52:36,520 --> 00:52:38,359 Speaker 1: really weird that you haven't been. 1091 00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 2: We like a challenge over here at scrubbing in, you know, 1092 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:43,880 Speaker 2: we like we see that challenge straight. We did go 1093 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:47,239 Speaker 2: to the set last year. Remember that that was really good. 1094 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,800 Speaker 2: That was to see that elevator that like Patrick Dempsey 1095 00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 2: put all their X rays in when he you know, 1096 00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:56,600 Speaker 2: remember that scene when he had every like surgery he 1097 00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:59,000 Speaker 2: and married it did together on the We were in 1098 00:52:59,000 --> 00:53:01,640 Speaker 2: that elevator and when you see it in real life, 1099 00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 2: did you cry? No? It was so not magical because 1100 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:08,400 Speaker 2: it just let you know, it's like a set, so 1101 00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 2: it just is. So it's so funny to see. 1102 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:13,800 Speaker 1: They say don't meet your heroes on the sets. 1103 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:17,200 Speaker 2: Although it was so fun we were like reenacting, like yeah, stairs. 1104 00:53:16,880 --> 00:53:17,680 Speaker 1: I saw the video. 1105 00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:19,880 Speaker 2: I saw the video. So I feel like that was 1106 00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 2: one step in the right direction. 1107 00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, hopefully you don't have a speaking part. Just kidding. 1108 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:28,439 Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't care. I'll be a patient, Sit 1109 00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:31,440 Speaker 2: me down, touch me up. 1110 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: Maybe you can come in as a rollerblading. 1111 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 2: Victim, truly pandemic. What have you guys all been doing 1112 00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 2: during the pandemic to keep yourself busy? Rollerblading? And then 1113 00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:42,799 Speaker 2: I come in with like. 1114 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,239 Speaker 1: Would be so perfect. 1115 00:53:47,480 --> 00:53:50,799 Speaker 2: It would be like when life imitates art. Yes, art 1116 00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 2: art imitates life. 1117 00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,760 Speaker 1: Life imitates art, yes, life in reverse. 1118 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:59,799 Speaker 2: Things are getting weird now, Okay, well, Aerin, thank you 1119 00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:00,920 Speaker 2: for taking the time. 1120 00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:02,839 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me. This was so fun. Thank 1121 00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:05,279 Speaker 1: you scrub sisters for listening hopefully, and for. 1122 00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 2: You you definitely did not bore everybody. Can You can 1123 00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:11,440 Speaker 2: follow Aaron's at Aaron just at Aaron Limb. 1124 00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:13,600 Speaker 1: On Instagram and Limb I'll at you, girl. 1125 00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 2: And then one last time, let's run through the resume here. 1126 00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:21,319 Speaker 1: Benj Club on Snap, run Down on Snap, Dodgeball, Thunderdome 1127 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 1: on Discovery, and Live from E on the network E. 1128 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,040 Speaker 2: And don't forget to vote for the People's Shows. 1129 00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:31,360 Speaker 1: Don't you dare forget to vote for Scrubbing Easton. 1130 00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:32,960 Speaker 2: Do we have an update on your friends? 1131 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:37,200 Speaker 4: Yes, yes we do. So I want to thank everybody 1132 00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:40,000 Speaker 4: that sent me such nice messages and a lot of 1133 00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 4: Scrubbers contributed to Chris and Jordan's go fund me and 1134 00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,680 Speaker 4: we raised a lot of money for them, and it 1135 00:54:44,760 --> 00:54:48,879 Speaker 4: was just so cool. But Jordan was moved to a 1136 00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,360 Speaker 4: to a rehab facility earlier in the week. It's like 1137 00:54:51,400 --> 00:54:53,880 Speaker 4: the top place in the country for her type of 1138 00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:57,960 Speaker 4: brain injury, and they're feeling really optimistic about, you know, 1139 00:54:58,640 --> 00:55:00,920 Speaker 4: the therapy she's going to go through there. Uh so 1140 00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 4: you know, she's she's two days in, so it's so 1141 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,160 Speaker 4: really early, but but uh, you know, just keeping keeping 1142 00:55:06,200 --> 00:55:07,920 Speaker 4: the positivity and keeping the hopes. 1143 00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:09,640 Speaker 2: High with that feels like good good. 1144 00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:13,280 Speaker 4: Yeah it is, because they don't. 1145 00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:15,400 Speaker 2: It's not like we're in the clear, but it definitely 1146 00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 2: is not exactly exactly. 1147 00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,160 Speaker 4: The fact that she got into this place is pretty remarkable. 1148 00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:22,040 Speaker 4: And and of course script sisters are everywhere. I heard 1149 00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,480 Speaker 4: from someone who's like on the board of that facility 1150 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:26,160 Speaker 4: and she's like, I listened to the podcast I heard 1151 00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:31,000 Speaker 4: about it, so really, are right, it's so cool? So 1152 00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 4: uh yeah, I just I really appreciate everybody's kind words, 1153 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,080 Speaker 4: and I keep those good vibes come in because they 1154 00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:36,719 Speaker 4: still need it. 1155 00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:40,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. I honestly received so many messages from the podcast 1156 00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,440 Speaker 2: last week, just people saying how they were listening and 1157 00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,839 Speaker 2: they like stopped in there, they like pulled their car 1158 00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,840 Speaker 2: over to like pray with us, and like, I really 1159 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:52,600 Speaker 2: got so many messages, So just everybody keep keep them 1160 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 2: in your thoughts and prayers and will definitely keep you 1161 00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:59,640 Speaker 2: guys posted on how they're doing. Uh okay, thank you 1162 00:55:59,680 --> 00:56:02,480 Speaker 2: every buddy again, Thank you Aaron, and we'll see you 1163 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:10,040 Speaker 2: next week with Becca. We'll be back. We love you. Bye,