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Speaker 1: All right, ladies and Gentlemen's time for the Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: with my good friend Shirley Strawberry. Thank you, junior subject.

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Speaker 1: My mama saw the video. Just Stephen Shirley. I'm a

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Speaker 1: thirty four years old and I've been dating a sexy

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Speaker 1: chocolate man for four years. We have a very active

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Speaker 1: sex life, and during the lockdown we started spicing things

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Speaker 1: up and filming our exploits around the house. He's very

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Speaker 1: him up. We have a three year old son and

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Speaker 1: because of the lockdown, my mother husband hasn't been able

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Speaker 1: to see him almost a year. She told me no

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Speaker 1: matter what my son does, she wants pictures or videos

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Speaker 1: because she misses him so much. I go through my

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Speaker 1: I know that if I don't, she'll start hounding me

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Speaker 1: and bugging me NonStop for them. Yesterday I was sending

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Speaker 1: and I having crazy sex. I sent it to her,

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Speaker 1: along with some videos of my son playing and saying

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Speaker 1: until it was too late. I tried calling no. I

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Speaker 1: was hyperventilating, and me hyperventilating, and my boyfriend told me

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Speaker 1: to just calm down and that everything would be okay.

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Speaker 1: But it wasn't. The next day, when I woke up,

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Speaker 1: and both of them freaked out. I have never been

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Speaker 1: more embarrassed or ashamed in my entire life, and all

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Speaker 1: Will they ever respect me or my boyfriend again? He

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Speaker 1: was ready to propose, but we're scared. Well you may

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Speaker 1: as well now They can't say too much at least

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Speaker 1: if you're married, I mean, if he's the right one.

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Speaker 1: Don't be scared now. And you know what, I knew

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Speaker 1: this was gonna be bad. I knew it was when

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Speaker 1: I saw Mama and video in the same sentence. There's

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Speaker 1: no good that could come out of that. There's just

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Speaker 1: no good. And I'm gonna be real with you as

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Speaker 1: always and tell you that, sorry, there's just nothing you

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Speaker 1: Your folks have seen it, they've analyzed it, they've judged you.

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Speaker 1: The whole family has seen it, and they can't unsee this.

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Speaker 1: Whatever was on that tape, they can't unsee it. No parent,

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Speaker 1: no parent wants to see their kid like this. They

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Speaker 1: just don't. And kids don't even want to, you know,

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Speaker 1: think that their parents are having sex. You know, that's

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Speaker 1: just how that goes. But all you can do now

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Speaker 1: is just to move forward because life does go on.

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Speaker 1: You can't do any more videos. I wouldn't suggest that

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Speaker 1: yourself check and triple triple quadruple check from now on

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Speaker 1: before you even touch your phone and press that sin button.

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Speaker 1: You have to check because you got yourself in a

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Speaker 1: which was terrible enough, but your parents definitely didn't need

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Speaker 1: I don't know if they'll ever forgive you or get

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Speaker 1: goes by, hopefully. Steve, I completely disagree with everything, Shirley Strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Just say it now. I know, Shirley. It's giving you

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Speaker 1: Shirley is telling you what regular people should do and

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Speaker 1: What I'm about to tell you, I am just telling

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Speaker 1: show you a total re enactment. Oh, don't ever bring

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Speaker 1: it up. Don't mention the damn video. Act like you

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Speaker 1: ain't seen it all the mismessages. Call your mama back

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Speaker 1: and say, hey mama, hey girl, how you doing. Did

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Speaker 1: you get the videos at the baby? That ain't all

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Speaker 1: I got? The girl? Their videos about Louis or not?

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Speaker 1: Did you see the one where he was flipping them

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Speaker 1: boyfriend asked for your hand in marriage anyway? Don't ever

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Speaker 1: mention it, Attrack. You ain't seen it. When they started

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Speaker 1: a total re enactment of how to hendle it. What

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Speaker 1: you mean, my mama saw the video is the subject

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Speaker 1: of myself better for it today. We'll get back into

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Speaker 1: it at twenty three minutes after the hour right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, stew all right, we got a recap today's

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Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject is my mama saw the video.

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Speaker 1: Let's go Steve. This grandmother, because of COVID, ain't seen

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Speaker 1: her grandson. This woman's thirty four years. Her and her

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Speaker 1: boyfriend have a lot of kinky sex. So the mother

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Speaker 1: told her to send him any pictures of video. She

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Speaker 1: sending stuff every day, and so the sexton got so

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Speaker 1: kinky theater and started video with it. Well an it

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Speaker 1: were inadvertently, she accidentally sent her mama not only the

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Speaker 1: After she sent it, she realized it. She started hyperventilating, panicking.

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Speaker 1: Her boyfriend told her, don't wear everything gonna be all right.

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Speaker 1: She woke up, she had a dozen misscalls from her mama,

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Speaker 1: I've never been more embarrassed and ashamed in my entire life.

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Speaker 1: All of my family has seen this or know about.

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Speaker 1: was in a nutshell, apologize, never film again. Shirley gave

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Speaker 1: a wonderful regular people answer. My answer is, don't ever

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Speaker 1: If they bring up the video, you don't know what

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Speaker 1: And if you don't know how to do it, here's

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Speaker 1: a reenactment. Shirley is going to be the mother. I'm

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Speaker 1: how to answer the question. Jay is my daddy and

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Speaker 1: Junior is my uncle. They've all seen the video and

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Speaker 1: handle it. This is a reenactment. Phone is ringing Hello,

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Speaker 1: This is mama. Hey, mama, baby girl, how you been.

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Speaker 1: Did you get the little did you get the videos

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Speaker 1: of Bernard? Yeah, ain't crazy. I got all that, baby girl.

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Speaker 1: He's so good, momma. Ain't even cutest little thing you missing,

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Speaker 1: don't you? He's wonderful? And yes I do. But I

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Speaker 1: didn't call to talk about baby Bernard. Well that's all

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Speaker 1: we're talking about, is this baby, because you know you

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Speaker 1: asked for baby videos, That's what I said. But baby,

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Speaker 1: the other videos that you said, why would you send

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Speaker 1: me the trash? It is so nice because because Bernard

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Speaker 1: No any strong, I'm talking about the any strong flipping

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Speaker 1: just be all up in that thing. I said, banas

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Speaker 1: so crazy. That's all I'm seeing. Nah nah this baby girl.

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Speaker 1: Hey uncle Ray Ray, baby girl. I got a video

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Speaker 1: on my phone. And you is this you grabbing grabbing

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Speaker 1: you know I pulled the sheets up, looking for it. No,

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Speaker 1: that's not that's not what we talked about. We talked

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Speaker 1: about I saw this video you Why is you all

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Speaker 1: on top of the headboard like that? What is y'all

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Speaker 1: These little boys. I can't keep it. I'm just going down.

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Speaker 1: What is you up on the headboard for? It is

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Speaker 1: not time for that? This your daddy, Hey dad, I

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Speaker 1: need hey, hey, baby girl. I need to know when

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Speaker 1: where y'all get that much money from it? I ain't

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Speaker 1: ever seen that much honey in the room in my life.

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Speaker 1: It was honey everywhere honey? And what why what were

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Speaker 1: y'all doing with all little honey? What? What what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Let me talk? You know, you know Berna like Whinny

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Speaker 1: I just want I just want to know, baby, where

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Speaker 1: did you learn all this stuff with? I just want

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Speaker 1: to celebrate baby. We praised you as a Christian. You

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Speaker 1: you know when had all them slaves and stuff. Ain't

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Speaker 1: That's why when Farah had all them slaves, you know,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell him what they were doing. That's why,

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Speaker 1: you know, I said, hey, let my people go. That

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Speaker 1: was the story of Moses. Let my people go, baby girl,

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Speaker 1: I had volume up on it. What is all this?

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Speaker 1: All this holling harder? What was that about? You just

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Speaker 1: sitting there screaming on the video? Do you hard? You

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Speaker 1: know how hard it was for them the building peerms uncle, uncle,

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Speaker 1: Uncle Ray Ray. That was hard building the pier. There

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Speaker 1: was a lot of grunting and stuff trying to get

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Speaker 1: In the Pharaoh days, I loved the Lord. Hey, daddy,

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Speaker 1: I have a hey, I have another question. I've never

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Speaker 1: seen you. Your mama ain't never been tied up like that.

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Speaker 1: Now I won't. I ain't nobody to tie your MoMA

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Speaker 1: up like that. You I mean, it was rope everywhere.

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Speaker 1: What what was that about? What was that, daddy? What

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Speaker 1: don't try to tell you, my mom. I'm talking about

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Speaker 1: the rope that I saw in the video. Girl was

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Speaker 1: assume there's a part three to this? Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: coming up, Thank you. Coming up at forty six minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hours Sports Talk with Junior. Right after this,

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