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Speaker 1: Alternatives live from the Duncan Studios, Chicago runs I'm Duncan

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Speaker 1: and Juice Chicago Kiss FM and I Heart Radio station.

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Speaker 1: It's a French show. First text, I see tell Kay

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Speaker 1: when I push hard, when I p two, it's fun.

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Speaker 1: I know about fun. But thanks for letting me know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not alone. Man, the things I learned about you guys,

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Speaker 1: each and every day I got problems. Man. Sometimes you

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Speaker 1: make me feel normal, and that's hard to do. Wow,

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Speaker 1: the people on this show do who do you think is?

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Speaker 1: Are you the most normal? Kiki? Maybe the most normal?

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Speaker 1: I would say so. I would say so too, Yes,

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Speaker 1: that would on the show, on this show, the most

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Speaker 1: normal normal? Well what is normal? I mean I don't

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Speaker 1: at all. I'm just saying like, is it some like

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Speaker 1: societal standard or is it just like they seem like

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Speaker 1: they have their stuff together. If I'm just paraphrasing here,

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Speaker 1: it would take way too long, Kay, when I have

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Speaker 1: to make a list, but I mean we'd have to

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Speaker 1: really get into it. But you and I I would

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Speaker 1: say we cover the anxious depressed, uh O, c D crowd, PTSD,

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Speaker 1: PTSD Rufio. You're just a savant. I don't know what yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: like the best mental health is the hands down no,

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Speaker 1: I would agree with that. But then at the same time, like,

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Speaker 1: but he's a little bit of a temper. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: overly competitive, you know, I say this lovingly overly competitive?

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Speaker 1: Um like knowledge, like sharp knowledge of the most random topic.

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Speaker 1: For sure, that's a gift, Paulina, I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know either, just the things that come out

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Speaker 1: of your mouth. And I mean, we couldn't write them.

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Speaker 1: We couldn't. We don't know. Well, so now you know

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Speaker 1: where the writer's room is. Nobody tells me these things, man,

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Speaker 1: Nobody wants me to No one wants me to win.

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Speaker 1: They don't want me to know where the writer's room is. Man,

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Speaker 1: don't want me to win. Um No, I just I

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Speaker 1: don't know you. You're your own all over the place,

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Speaker 1: literally not normal. I wouldn't say no, no, I see,

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Speaker 1: And then I don't know. You've got some hot takes, though,

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Speaker 1: I will say you got some wild hot takes. This

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Speaker 1: whole thing about living with a guy. But but you're

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Speaker 1: still a single thing that that's to me still is

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Speaker 1: a little bit mind blowing. I do, Okay, that's not

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Speaker 1: a normal person's perspective. It should be ladies, It definitely should.

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Speaker 1: Maybe maybe you're single until your marriage can hear you.

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Speaker 1: But I'll take normal. I'm not mad at that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we'll see how long that last. What is normal? I

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Speaker 1: don't want normal. It's fun to be normal, Okay, but normal.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what normal is. But we're highly I

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Speaker 1: know we're not that. Yeah, I know there's only one

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Speaker 1: of me for sure. You exactly that, I do know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: good morning. It's a French show on one or three

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Speaker 1: five Kiss FM A one man. This is for you.

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Speaker 1: Kalen a woman warned both close and estranged friends not

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Speaker 1: to invite her to weddings or baby showers if they

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Speaker 1: aren't regularly inviting her to movie nights, coffee runs, or

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Speaker 1: lunch dates. She thinks an invitation is just for the

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Speaker 1: sake of receiving a gift. In a TikTok, the woman said,

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Speaker 1: don't invite me to baby showers, weddings, housewarming parties if

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Speaker 1: you don't invite me to other stuff moving nights, girls

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Speaker 1: night out, dinner, coffee days to lunch. It's extremely offensive

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Speaker 1: to pressure somebody into spending money on life milestones without

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Speaker 1: including them in your life's professions. Oh that is period,

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Speaker 1: it's what she said. Other people commented that they are

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Speaker 1: sick of people desiring their presence only an important events

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Speaker 1: that command a pricey present. One person said, funny how

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Speaker 1: I only get invited when my presence requires that I

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Speaker 1: bring a gift. Another said I couldn't have said this better.

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Speaker 1: I feel this so deeply on many levels. Another praised people, saying,

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Speaker 1: preachs love this. Um. Yes, a lot of people, I

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Speaker 1: guess can relate to the idea that out of nowhere

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Speaker 1: don't even know if they really think you're gonna show

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Speaker 1: up or not, but but they know that once you've

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Speaker 1: gotten the invitation, that you're going to feel some obligation

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Speaker 1: to send something at least right yea, but I want

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Speaker 1: to know how eight five, five, nine, one one h

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Speaker 1: three five you could text the same number. By the way,

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Speaker 1: how do you treat that that random invitation? Because I've

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Speaker 1: gotten invited to more than one thing before that included

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Speaker 1: it was like an email invitation, or even if it

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Speaker 1: can donate to our honey fund. Here's here's an easy

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Speaker 1: way for you to send a president. And I haven't

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Speaker 1: want to get something out of me. I feel this,

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Speaker 1: But how do you treat how do you? I mean,

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Speaker 1: just I'll acknowledge I once knew this person, so I'll

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Speaker 1: acknowledge their special occasion. Um for me, I don't like,

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Speaker 1: bother me that if I if I really don't talk

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Speaker 1: to somebody in whatever, like on a normal basis, and

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Speaker 1: they invite me to their wedding or a househoarding party,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna bring a gift and have a good time

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Speaker 1: Like that doesn't it really doesn't bother me, Like especially

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Speaker 1: if like I invited them to are like they were

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Speaker 1: and are my wedding and I was at their wedding,

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Speaker 1: so we do have history. Like I actually feel sometimes

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Speaker 1: I get more mad if I don't get it invite

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Speaker 1: to Like if I had history with somebody in the

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Speaker 1: past and we're really not that close but they're getting

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Speaker 1: married and I kind of don't get an invite to that,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Damn, that's kind of like, like, yess, like,

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Speaker 1: like I knew you when you guys were together, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: like life changes, people drift apart, But like to not

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Speaker 1: currently friends right now, that's kind of rude to me. Damn.

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Speaker 1: I have that issue too. I don't know. I think

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Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be invited everywhere. Like I feel like

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Speaker 1: I see you getting married or you having birthday party

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Speaker 1: every like I love coming to people's stuff. I feel

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Speaker 1: get offended when I'm like, dang, I thought we were cooler. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But I guess at the same time, sometimes I'll see

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Speaker 1: and I was like, how huh, yes, like those guys

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Yeah, like get me the

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Speaker 1: chance to say hell, no, hey, so good morning, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning. Hey. Does it bother you if out of

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Speaker 1: nowhere you get an invitation to something or do you

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Speaker 1: interpret that as this person just wants more gifts? I

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Speaker 1: it's that what they just want gifts because they don't

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Speaker 1: you to the rust. So I kind of feel like, oh,

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Speaker 1: like you said, don't invite people, you know, then they

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Speaker 1: won't invite you, But then something big they don't invite

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Speaker 1: you because they want they want that good gifts. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess. I mean it's it's I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: that just doesn't mean Yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah that

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Speaker 1: makes sense. And I agree like if if if I

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Speaker 1: I'm going to assume it's a gift grab. But what

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Speaker 1: if you meet interact on someone's life and you just

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Speaker 1: didn't know, Well that could be Or if we don't

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Speaker 1: not expecting to get phone calls from people who eat

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Speaker 1: I can't you know what I mean, Like they might

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Speaker 1: invited in you know, Friday night, Bengo night or game

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Speaker 1: if you know what I'm saying, like, I don't so

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Speaker 1: so if they someone got married like that, then I

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Speaker 1: this case by case. It's tough though, because you're kind

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Speaker 1: it's true. Yeah, it's true. So if you thank you

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Speaker 1: have a good day, Yes, I have a good one. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: as long as I can send a gift. Actually for me,

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Speaker 1: because I know last year, a couple of years was

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Speaker 1: just onslaught. It was. It was all these weddings and

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Speaker 1: it's just constant stuff. And I'm like, I don't know you,

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Speaker 1: This woman went viral on TikTok because she's like, look,

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Speaker 1: if you don't invite me to regular stuff like regular

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Speaker 1: invitation to baby showers, weddings or house rumming parties, because

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Speaker 1: why would I go. I barely know you. I know

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Speaker 1: why because you want a gift, right. I've been feeling

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Speaker 1: that way probably the past like a year or two.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I don't see my friends on the regular,

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Speaker 1: but I'm getting these invites to baby showers in particular,

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Speaker 1: and I show up and I am a great baby

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Speaker 1: shower gift giver, like I go all out two seams

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Speaker 1: because I don't even see you. Yeah, so I agree.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what. People have different things

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Speaker 1: for you. So I agree. I agree, Thank you, KM

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Speaker 1: have a good day. Of course you do. That's my thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like I don't. That's why the older I get

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Speaker 1: ever got married, if it were up to me just

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Speaker 1: like he's never cost before. I don't even cost that home.

422
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:40,000
Speaker 1: Like it's so hard, especially watching sports and watch sports together.

423
00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,959
Speaker 1: And I'll be like, yeah, good, and then he'll be like,

424
00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 1: yeah good, like if you were like you blah blah blah,

425
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,600
Speaker 1: Like it's hard, so hard, like to not swear it

426
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 1: and but he doesn't swear, but like he does. I mean,

427
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:56,920
Speaker 1: they're sponges. They do anything you they you do, they

428
00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:59,040
Speaker 1: think it's cool, so you do it. They do it.

429
00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 1: But now actually, and he's talking a lot, he's voce

430
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 1: like every day, I'm like, where did this come from?

431
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:07,480
Speaker 1: Like where did you learn? Like you you're saying stuff

432
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 1: I don't even say. But he watches a lot of

433
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,160
Speaker 1: YouTube and a lot of TV, so that's probably where

434
00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 1: he's picking it up. From what, Like, what's an example

435
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 1: of something that he said that? You were like, where,

436
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,800
Speaker 1: where did that come from? Well, he's he's okay, not

437
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:18,879
Speaker 1: a cust word, but he said stupid before He's like

438
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 1: he's like, you're stupid. I was like, where did It's like,

439
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: where did you hear them? Yeah? I said that to you. Yeah,

440
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,920
Speaker 1: you need to we don't say that. He's just like

441
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:32,919
Speaker 1: he's like stupid. I'm like, oh, I'm like, all right,

442
00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:36,400
Speaker 1: I'll tell you who's stupid. Yeah, you want your Chucky

443
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 1: sand right, stupid. I don't know you. You seem to

444
00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 1: have a Kiki role in young people's lives. You got

445
00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: all kinds of nephews and nieces and all the rest

446
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,800
Speaker 1: of it. And what do they learn from m Kiki? Well,

447
00:22:48,840 --> 00:22:51,440
Speaker 1: they definite had to make a selfie Instagram video absolutely,

448
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:55,400
Speaker 1: ye know how to do that. They also have learned

449
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: how to like maybe not curse, but like definitely had

450
00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 1: a clap bag. So like, for instance, my nephew Kmari,

451
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 1: he's seven years old. He is now playing Fortnite on

452
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:09,119
Speaker 1: the game with other kids. Yeah, yeah, and so like

453
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 1: Camari is the sweetest, like commonest, nicest kid. But if

454
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: like we we walked past the room and we're like,

455
00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 1: hold on, is that Camari because now he's like cursing

456
00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 1: these kids back out on the game, and I'm like,

457
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,199
Speaker 1: oh my god, where did he get that from? But

458
00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,119
Speaker 1: I'm like, he listens to me and my brother go

459
00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: back and forth for me and my sister, and so yeah,

460
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 1: his mom taught him a lot too. So yeah, kids,

461
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 1: pick up, pick it up. You have to be careful

462
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: because my sister's got a mouth. Collins got a little mouth.

463
00:23:36,640 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: They're doing stuff and this little girl is watching and

464
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: paying attention. Hey, Nicole, h Nicole, good morning. So what

465
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:47,160
Speaker 1: did you wind up teaching your kid that you didn't

466
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 1: mean to? Okay, So when my daughter was smaller, maybe

467
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 1: like around three or four. Um, I don't know why,

468
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 1: it's just me, but I like announced to my household

469
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 1: whenever I'm at home. I don't know why I do it,

470
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 1: but I just say, like, oh, I'm gonna go to

471
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:05,919
Speaker 1: the bathroom or whatever. Every okay, yes, everybody in my

472
00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: household needs to know because eventually they'll I'll find me,

473
00:24:09,440 --> 00:24:14,600
Speaker 1: so there's no hiding anyway. My daughter, you know, she

474
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 1: had gotten into the habit of saying, oh, I gotta

475
00:24:17,400 --> 00:24:19,760
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom or I gotta go you know whatever.

476
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 1: But one time, like I must have slipped and said, oh,

477
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:30,280
Speaker 1: I gotta take a number two, but like I did,

478
00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,159
Speaker 1: so then she heard it. She picked up on it,

479
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 1: and then we were out at um church or like

480
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: a wedding. No, no, I'm gonna take a And the

481
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: problem is you can't laugh because then they're gonna think

482
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:48,240
Speaker 1: that they should keep doing it. Oh yeah, no, I

483
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,280
Speaker 1: definitely I looked and I you know, I didn't know

484
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 1: what too. I just picked her up. I was laughing

485
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 1: on the inside, and I'm pretty sure the other people

486
00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 1: around me heard it too, because it was, you know,

487
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 1: the quiet time during matt when the priest was how

488
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: old did she get? Well, that's when she was four.

489
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: She's nine. Now, oh she's three or four? And I

490
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: can just hear it. Now, Mom, I need to take

491
00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 1: see you look at that. You should be laughing at this.

492
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, Nicole, have a good day. Thank you. See.

493
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: I think it might be funny to go to Dallas

494
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,199
Speaker 1: and teach her some stuff and then get the hell

495
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 1: out of there, and then it'd be like could be

496
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: a little surprised for later, you know, when Polly starts

497
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,760
Speaker 1: saying stuff or doing stuff like where did you learn that? Like,

498
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:36,040
Speaker 1: h Uncle Bubba was here? There you go, Hey Brian, Hello,

499
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: hey Brian, what did your child learn from you that

500
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,160
Speaker 1: you wish they hadn't? So she was like three or four.

501
00:25:43,320 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 1: She was sitting in the back seat. I was in

502
00:25:45,240 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: traffic and I just something happened in traffic and I

503
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 1: screamed out, son of and my daughter finished the sentence,

504
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,880
Speaker 1: so she knew, Yeah, it's part of you has got

505
00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: to be like, that's awesome. The party is gonna be like,

506
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: I hope herman didn't find out about this, that is correct.

507
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:07,400
Speaker 1: I was laughing so hard inside, but I'm like, Olivia,

508
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,959
Speaker 1: you cannot say that. That's fun. Brian, Thank you, man,

509
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you too, Thank you recalling

510
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: Oh I love you too. Man. Hey Scott, Scott, what

511
00:26:18,119 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 1: did you teach your kid? You didn't mean to do

512
00:26:19,640 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 1: it though. So actually, my uncle taught me something when

513
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: I was about seven or eight. My grandfather remarried and

514
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:30,760
Speaker 1: no one was really fond of her. So he taught

515
00:26:30,760 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 1: me to make an Ellison noise and say fat Jane.

516
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: Dropping to the trade station at one time and out

517
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 1: the window, I decided to make the gesture and say

518
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: fat Jane and my grandfather her and I thought he

519
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 1: was gonna kill me. That's messed up. Using kid is

520
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 1: a pond messed up? Oh yeah, I was kind of panicked.

521
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:54,520
Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do after that. I just

522
00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: rolled the window up, really fatted the crank windows. Jane,

523
00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 1: Thank you, Scott, have a good day. Oh that's pretty funny. Charles. Hey,

524
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: how's it going, Charles? Good morning? How come much all

525
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 1: the dad's calling up here talking about all the dads

526
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: and the one slipcase. We're the ones that will watch

527
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,040
Speaker 1: all those shows, right, So what happened? Now? My so,

528
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: my wife and I was, uh we were into the

529
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: show Entourage quite a bit. Oh yeah, and my daughter

530
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: was maybe two running around the house and uh so

531
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 1: she had seen a lot of the or heard a

532
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: lot of the show, and you know they dropped the

533
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: up board all day. Oh yeah, and um so I

534
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: think she was in the bathroom or something like that,

535
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 1: and I asked her, I said, hey, can you go

536
00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: ahead and do this? And She's like, f off, Daddy.

537
00:27:45,320 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: We were out because my parents were coming into town

538
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: for Christmas. I was like, oh no, so yeah, you

539
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: don't want to grab on Grandpa. Yeah, exactly, that's pretty good.

540
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 1: Thank you, Charles. Have a good day. Yep, glad you called.

541
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:05,280
Speaker 1: Hey Aaron, Good morning, Aaron High, good morning. How are

542
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,679
Speaker 1: you great? What did your kid learn from you that

543
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:11,239
Speaker 1: you wish he or she had not? Uh? Well, we

544
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: have a very fat cat at home, and when she's

545
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,120
Speaker 1: screaming for food and being demanding, I call her halfer cat.

546
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 1: Shot off helfer cat. You don't need food. So one

547
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: day my four year old were in the middle of

548
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: Target and she wanted a toy that I didn't think

549
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 1: she needs because she has everything from Target already, And

550
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: she in the middle of the toy section, in front

551
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,919
Speaker 1: of so many other moms, screamed that I was a

552
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 1: halfer and I wanted to leave my cart there and

553
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: never return. Oh my god. And so yeah, everyone else

554
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: is looking to it. I can't believe that that person's

555
00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 1: kid just called her a halfer without the rest of

556
00:28:53,640 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: the story. Exactly, here's the toy. That's pretty good. Wait,

557
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: wait to put all that together, kid. Thank you, Aaron,

558
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you you too. Liz High, Liz,

559
00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 1: good morning, good morning. Oh no, Liz, what happened my son,

560
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 1: he was probably about two at the time. He tried

561
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:22,959
Speaker 1: to put it in a tampanoa. So he'd seen you

562
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 1: do it, and so he figured that was something he

563
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: should do. Yeah, yeah, unsuccessfully, I might add, well, I

564
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 1: would think so, yeah, because I don't remember seeing anything

565
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 1: like that ever growing up. I don't remember. I don't

566
00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: remember you. I think another said there's no privacy. So yeah, yeah,

567
00:29:40,760 --> 00:29:43,040
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know how I don't remember that.

568
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: But anyway, thank you, Liz, have a good day. Thank you.

569
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:47,880
Speaker 1: I'm not sure I understood how all that worked until

570
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 1: about a year ago. My sister called a little kid

571
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 1: at school a douche kebab because of her big sister,

572
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: and there was a meeting that my parents sent to attend.

573
00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, little Bella, we could talk about doucheke bob.

574
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 1: Yeah that's a pretty good hey. Yes, yeah, Jess high

575
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 1: So what did your kid pick up from you that

576
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:10,440
Speaker 1: you wish they hadn't. Well, so this is actually my nephew.

577
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:13,160
Speaker 1: My kid's only three months old right now, so nothing yet.

578
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: But um, so my nephew, he's nine and probably around six.

579
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: Our family is a huge gambler family, like we play poker,

580
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: we play bags for money, we play any game money

581
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:31,640
Speaker 1: is at all okay. And he is the exact same way.

582
00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:35,120
Speaker 1: And this started at probably six years old. He's betting

583
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: his friends, like at school. He if they're coming over,

584
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: he's like, Hey, do you guys want to play bags

585
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:46,240
Speaker 1: for five dollars? He's already playing poker with us. Nice. Yes,

586
00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: it's good, but not at this sig. Everything he wants

587
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: to do now is for money. It takes just like

588
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: pride in a game. And we're gonna find out this

589
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: kid's like betting on high school basketball games that he's

590
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:01,480
Speaker 1: playing in and say, you're gonna this is gonna turn

591
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:04,680
Speaker 1: you a whole scandal. It's gonna be all your fault, right,

592
00:31:04,960 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 1: or he could just end up making a lot of

593
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:10,600
Speaker 1: money true that he could turn totally. Yeah, you're right,

594
00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: thank you. These are these are life lessons they need

595
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: to learn, Okay, at a young age. At a gamble,

596
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 1: thank you, chess, it's gonna be card counting by have

597
00:31:18,400 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: a good day, right, make the family. Somebody live from

598
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: the Duncan Studios, Chicago runs I'm Duncan and Chicago Kiss

599
00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: FM and I Heart Radio station. It's the Fred show.

600
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: See I got through the text all of them, and

601
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: some of them are nice, like this one. Here my

602
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: son's face when Fred does the gorilla. It's so funny.

603
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:43,600
Speaker 1: He's nine months old. We listened every day and the

604
00:31:43,640 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 1: way to daycare. I hope he starts doing it, you know,

605
00:31:47,320 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: because I've learned now that these young kids, they mimic

606
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 1: the stuff that. Yeah, like Polly now does a bunch

607
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:55,120
Speaker 1: of crap that I do. So now that just gives

608
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 1: me motivation every time I go and visit Polly, I'm

609
00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 1: just gonna try and teach you something else and then

610
00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 1: dip the hell out of town. That's right. That kid

611
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: doesn't learn to fly, then, I mean that there's like

612
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 1: I'm going to force it on her. I'm gonna give

613
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 1: her like enough airplane related items growing up that she'll

614
00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:11,479
Speaker 1: have no choice. Oh, that's a lot of pressure for it.

615
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 1: Like flying a plane is not like the it doesn't

616
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,000
Speaker 1: sound like the easiest thing to learn is that if

617
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: I can do it, I feel like I could do

618
00:32:20,920 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: it now that I watch you. Oh yeah, I think, Klin,

619
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: I think if I started the airplane, I'm pretty sure

620
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: Calin can get it off the ground. Yeah, yeah, how

621
00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 1: do you do it? How would you do it? Well,

622
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 1: I would get my little laminated list that says checklist, Yeah, checklist.

623
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: I would go down the checklist and I would, you know,

624
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 1: do this like, yeah, you don't know what any of

625
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: the stuff is, but you would. You'd look at it around.

626
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,360
Speaker 1: It's not there anymore, it is, it's still there, just

627
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: a different button now yeah. Yeah, but a lot of that, yeah,

628
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: a lot of touching of the buttons. Yeah, okay, you

629
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: do this. Okay, so far, so good. You put the

630
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,680
Speaker 1: headsets on yep. And then you're talking to nice people

631
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: and your air traffic choice. What would you say to

632
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: them to get to sort of get things moving? Hey,

633
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 1: I'd like to buy one of those megas, so I'd

634
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,560
Speaker 1: like the thing that everyone's buying. And here's my money,

635
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:13,960
Speaker 1: however much this will get me? And h well, no,

636
00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:16,320
Speaker 1: I know, I know your numbers. I'm not going to

637
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: put them on blast. But then then you say you're

638
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: plane numbers them and you tell them that, hey, I

639
00:33:21,200 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: want to leave right now, and they say you say,

640
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,760
Speaker 1: all right, hold on, you got to do this, and

641
00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 1: then you plug in you know the path, the path

642
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:32,479
Speaker 1: right right? Yeah, it's well, they tell you you know

643
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: it's traffic. So where other planes are and where you

644
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: need to be? How high? Okay? Yeah, you want to

645
00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: avoid those other areas. You gotta go where they tell

646
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: you to go. I think you plug it in and

647
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: you go, and then you put on your radio and

648
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 1: you just the radio yeah okay, yeah, yeah, like the

649
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: car radio like one or three point five. Right, you

650
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: just okay, you know there's music and you gotta be bumping. Yeah,

651
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Do you talk to the

652
00:33:56,600 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: lord before you take off it? And yeah? I think so? Yeah,

653
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,760
Speaker 1: you say what up? And please keep tell me again?

654
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 1: How do I get to take off? Clearance? Again? I say,

655
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 1: I'm ready to go. You say your numbers right of

656
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: your plane? Say I would I would like to, you know,

657
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 1: go somewhere. And then they say, all right, this is

658
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: where you need to go. Okay, how fast you need

659
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: to go? And then I told you I plug it in?

660
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: Yeah right, and then I hit go it's plugged in.

661
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 1: So then then what And this is exciting. I have

662
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,759
Speaker 1: no idea how what you've absorbed. You're you're kind of

663
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:28,840
Speaker 1: you're not really wrong about a lot of this so far. Yeah,

664
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: this is good. Yeah, And then we got to work

665
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: on the vernacular a little bit, like I don't know

666
00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: how it would go if you were like, hey, Gary Tower,

667
00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: I'd like to go now. Yeah, So like what up? Hey,

668
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: this is you know, break a breaker, so and so

669
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:43,240
Speaker 1: break breakers? Yes, And then you know, I just say, hey,

670
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of taking off. I already told you guys that,

671
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,640
Speaker 1: you know, so I'm ready now and you just tell

672
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 1: me how to not get hit. Yeah. What you say

673
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: is I finn to take off right now? Oh? They

674
00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 1: go straight? They go straight straight? Cool? Well look right

675
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: bag or fox trot that's what they say. Pull up, Yeah,

676
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,240
Speaker 1: that's what they say that up on the street exactly.

677
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, who's all there? And who do I need

678
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:16,640
Speaker 1: to be? Watch out for it? It's like, hey, take

679
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 1: me to Austin. I know some people there. And then

680
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: they're like, come through. Air Traffic Controls has come through. Yeah,

681
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,720
Speaker 1: And then that's why I say, you know, it's really busy.

682
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: Could you kind of take a little longer of a path? Yeah? Right,

683
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: And then I do this is fantastic. Actually wow, So

684
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: you'll let her drive the drive you next time? You sure? Yeah?

685
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 1: Would you would you get on air fred? Um? No?

686
00:35:38,520 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 1: Not not today? And it's not I don't want you

687
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: to take to that because I think Paulina will get

688
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: on air. Fred, Yeah, Ruby will get on air. Fred

689
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 1: really yeah. In the words of my good friend Big

690
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 1: Boy in Los Angeles, because Dennis Clark, a guy who

691
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,319
Speaker 1: worked with our show, was telling big Boy and some

692
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:55,760
Speaker 1: other people, yeah, oh you know Fred is a pilot,

693
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 1: and he flew himself here today, and all other people

694
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,919
Speaker 1: were like, I never get on that plane with that guy,

695
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 1: and big Boy he goes, Dude, I'll go anywhere on

696
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: that plane with you because you don't want to die.

697
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 1: That's true, And I'm like, that's exactly the right motivation,

698
00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: because you're right, I enjoy living. So because it's like, well,

699
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: what if something happens to me. If something happens to you,

700
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 1: it happens to me too, and I don't want that, right,

701
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: so I gotta protect you at all costs because I'm

702
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: protecting me. Yeah, I true. What you said. You're gonna

703
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: let Kaylin drive. I don't, Okay, what if I don't

704
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:33,399
Speaker 1: like Kayden? What I drive? I'll drive, Canna will supervise. Yeah,

705
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:35,280
Speaker 1: but you'll be in the back and you'll just be chilling.

706
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:38,359
Speaker 1: Can I see your flight license. I need to see

707
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:44,719
Speaker 1: her rush you're gonna superviss not that's right, I love you,

708
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,719
Speaker 1: my girl. Well you can super mass it here, but

709
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: down the plane. I don't know your flight I was

710
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: gonna say if that explanation was not professional and convincing

711
00:36:55,880 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: to you that I don't know really as a flight Yeah,

712
00:37:01,320 --> 00:37:03,760
Speaker 1: could I pull up as a flight instructor? I was impressed,

713
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:12,160
Speaker 1: and that's what worries me. Money. Why were you left

714
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone? All right, good morning, Mark morning,

715
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show. Waiting by the phone. Of course,

716
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,160
Speaker 1: the goal here is to figure out, um, why this

717
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:23,279
Speaker 1: woman you went on a date with is not calling you.

718
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,960
Speaker 1: So why don't you Her name is Maya? I have

719
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: that here in your email. Why don't you explain how

720
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: you met and and any dates that you've been on.

721
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 1: Tell us about those and where things are now? Okay,

722
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 1: so mayanam and I'm bumble right like of course, like

723
00:37:35,920 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: a lot of people getting online, we're out for dinner

724
00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: and drinks. We had a really great time and then

725
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: boom nothing. So I'm going to introduce something wrong or

726
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,000
Speaker 1: you know what what happened? Okay? Um? And you know

727
00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: I always asked this question. Uh yeah, I always get

728
00:37:50,360 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 1: the same answer regardless of what happens next. But you

729
00:37:52,760 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: look back on this date and you really feel like

730
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,239
Speaker 1: it flowed. Well, you left the day thinking, Wow, this

731
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: this is girl's amazing and I'm gonna hear from her again.

732
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: We're gonna go on another date like you really felt confident. Yeah,

733
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: we had a great time, like it was. It was

734
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: that she's getting great energy. I thought we can thought

735
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 1: was going to hit it off. Okay, all right, well

736
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: let's um, we're gonna call Maya. We'll see if we

737
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: can get her on the phone and see if we

738
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,600
Speaker 1: can get some answers for you. You'll be on the

739
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: phone as well. Don't jump in right at first, but

740
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: at some point you're welcome to come in on the

741
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 1: call and hopefully we can figure out what's going on,

742
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: straighten things out, set you guys up on another date,

743
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: and we'll pay for that. All right, Yeah, man, anything

744
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: you can do to help, Yeah, that's that's we're helpers. Yeah,

745
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 1: can you hang on for a second, We'll play a song.

746
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 1: Come back, all right, sit right here, let's find out

747
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 1: what's going on. Part two of Waiting Mita Phone three

748
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:37,839
Speaker 1: minutes away. The French Show is on one O three

749
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: five Kiss, thank you for having us on one O

750
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: three to five. The French Show is here. Um Part

751
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,919
Speaker 1: two of waiting mit the phone. Let's welcome back, Mark, Yeah,

752
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: welcome back. Let's call Maya. You guys met on bumble Um.

753
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: You chatted for a while when on a date. You

754
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: thought that went great. Now you can't get a hold

755
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: of her. You feel like she's ghosting you, and you

756
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: want to know what's up. Yeah, yeah, in a nuts

757
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 1: show and the thing you know about these apps and

758
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: sometimes you chat for a long time and you really

759
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: get to know each other well, maybe even better than

760
00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: you might in a normal dating situation, So that's usually

761
00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: a good sign. Then you go on the day you

762
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: kind of already know what you're dealing with. But for

763
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: her to ghost you, um, yeah, that's disappointing. Really get

764
00:39:17,040 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: nor personality like and if she doesn't seem like it's

765
00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: a girl would just walk out on like it's not

766
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: a long term commitment at this point. But yeah, I

767
00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: definitely feel like a Nor. Okay, all right, let's call

768
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: her now. Good luck? Hello, Hi is this Maya? Hey Maya,

769
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: good morning, It's Fred from the Fred's Show. The whole

770
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 1: crew is here, and I'm sorry to bother you, but

771
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 1: I do have to tell you before we proceed with

772
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: the call that we are on the radio right now

773
00:39:45,800 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: and I need your consent to continue. Is that okay?

774
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,960
Speaker 1: That's cool? Okay, Yeah, well, thank you very much. We

775
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Um. We're calling on behalf of a guy

776
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,719
Speaker 1: named Mark who reached out to us and told us

777
00:39:58,719 --> 00:40:00,720
Speaker 1: that he had met you on bumble, left to chatting

778
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: for or you met on bumble, you chatted for a while,

779
00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 1: you went on a date. Do you remember this guy?

780
00:40:05,000 --> 00:40:08,319
Speaker 1: Got it? Yeah? Yeah, I do remember Mark, because you

781
00:40:08,320 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 1: sound like you're not sure if you remember Mark. No,

782
00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 1: I do, Okay, I do. So he thought everything went well.

783
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: I figured that he would see you again. Says he's

784
00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 1: reached out to plan another date and says that you're

785
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 1: not responding. So can you tell us so we can

786
00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:24,479
Speaker 1: tell him what's going on. I don't know why you'd

787
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,000
Speaker 1: be trying to get a hold of me so much,

788
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: considering he's seeing somebody else. That makes no sense to me.

789
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: What does that mean? He's seeing somebody else? What does

790
00:40:31,000 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: that mean? I found out? Okay, So, like the way

791
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:39,719
Speaker 1: I found out was I saw his Venmo and he's

792
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: got all these payments that he sends out his girl

793
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:46,839
Speaker 1: named Vicky, who he's obviously going out. WHOA, okay, well

794
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:50,160
Speaker 1: hold on, Mark is here, but that's Mark. I'm sorry.

795
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: I always forget to mention that part. So you yeah,

796
00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: you went to his Venmo. Did he Venmo use something

797
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:58,680
Speaker 1: or was there a reason for you to go or

798
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 1: was this just part of your like uh, I don't

799
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:05,239
Speaker 1: know research. It was just like like people you know

800
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: and connect with and stuff like that, and like sometimes

801
00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: go like pop up and histories and whatever and yeah,

802
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: and I managed to find his and it had all

803
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 1: these Wait a minute, so what did it say? What

804
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,399
Speaker 1: did it say he was sending to this Vicky? And why? Well,

805
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: there is just like different like small payments and they'll

806
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:28,840
Speaker 1: be like like different, just like emojis on it. Like

807
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:31,240
Speaker 1: it never was clear, so it was like different emojis

808
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 1: are Like one time I said, love you, Mark, Did

809
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:36,239
Speaker 1: you have an explanation? Are you dating this person? Do

810
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:39,120
Speaker 1: you know what? Uh? Maya, I don't. I don't know

811
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 1: how you can feel about this, But Vicky is my

812
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: little sister. She's in college and I spent her money

813
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: every time she made to her family, and that's what

814
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 1: family does. I don't think you can't just qualify somebody

815
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:54,319
Speaker 1: from Venmo you don't know. And by the way, let's

816
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 1: say that's his sister, so you know, you jump the gun.

817
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: But let's say it is somebody else he's dating. You

818
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: met on bumble. You only went out what one time?

819
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,360
Speaker 1: You know? He? I mean, you're not exclusive yet, you

820
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,799
Speaker 1: have you can go out with other people. I just

821
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 1: that's not how I roll. I think if you are dating, okay,

822
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: well he's apparently that's who he's dating, because you know,

823
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:19,920
Speaker 1: you're evidence from Venmo. Is his sending money to his sister?

824
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 1: It's really your sister? Is it really your sister? Mark?

825
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:25,799
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know why you'd lie about that,

826
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: but maybe because you were called out. I mean, it's

827
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,200
Speaker 1: really your sister. Of course he's my sister. But can

828
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,399
Speaker 1: we you know, can we switch gears for a second

829
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,400
Speaker 1: and talk about what a creep you are for creeping

830
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: through my phone? Must when did you will say go

831
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 1: through it? Honestly, how did you get a chance to

832
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: go through my phone? I think, how do you expect

833
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: me to trust you? Right now? How you took me

834
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: to trust you if I can't leave the room without

835
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: you going through my phone. I don't think she went

836
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 1: through your phone. I think it's public. I think she

837
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 1: just saw your Venmo on the app or whatever, So

838
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: I don't think she went through your phone. But I

839
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: mean still to think to go to the venmo um,

840
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: that's a little deeper than you would have thought to go.

841
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:03,319
Speaker 1: That's a that's a deep guy, that's a deep dive.

842
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 1: You're the personal it really is, and you gotta know,

843
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,040
Speaker 1: maya you don't. I mean, shouldn't you ask? Or I mean,

844
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:10,960
Speaker 1: I don't even know if you ask, because that shows

845
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: that you've been creeping, right, don't you wait and see

846
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,959
Speaker 1: where it goes? I mean, that's that's a big jump.

847
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: If you really like the guy, I think, like, I

848
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: don't know. I just like if you do say on Venmo,

849
00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 1: like you know, it's public. You know other people can

850
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: see it. So it's not like it's a problem to

851
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,279
Speaker 1: like look at other people's stuff, you know what I'm saying.

852
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:32,000
Speaker 1: But it is. It is when you jump to conclusions, right,

853
00:43:32,000 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 1: because it turns out you were wrong and you're not

854
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 1: calling this guy back. I mean, if you really liked him.

855
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: I don't. I just think you don't like him. No,

856
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,200
Speaker 1: but not like I'm sorry, I just like feel like

857
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 1: it's shady. It just doesn't steam right. I don't know shady.

858
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 1: I sent my sister twenty bucks on Venmo the other day.

859
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: That means you're in a lesbian relationship. That's yeah, that's weird,

860
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:57,239
Speaker 1: but okay, I will say though, like we all creep right,

861
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,239
Speaker 1: like we've done the Instagram. You're talking, but let's say

862
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,120
Speaker 1: he did send money to another woman, or that he's

863
00:44:02,160 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: looking at other women on Instagram. They're not in a

864
00:44:04,160 --> 00:44:08,520
Speaker 1: committee relationship, which is true. But hey, I've been single before,

865
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: I've been in that talking stage. You still look, you

866
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: still creep and like, you know, you get your feelings

867
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: hurt sometimes, so I kind of feel her on that

868
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: forgetting your feelings there. I mean, this is just a

869
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: straight lesson learned. You assumed that he was in a relationship,

870
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 1: but he's not. He's sending money. Know what happens when

871
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: you assume, you make an ass out of you And

872
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 1: now she screwed up the whole relationship because I got

873
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: to assume Mark that you don't now you don't want

874
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 1: to see her anyway, Absolutely not there you go. I'm sorry,

875
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,680
Speaker 1: but yeah, I'm out at this one. That it was

876
00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 1: fun though, what a great first date and only date.

877
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: I gotta say, man, you gotta be careful with the

878
00:44:39,600 --> 00:44:43,800
Speaker 1: creeping because look, I mean, in this case, it was innocent. Yeah,

879
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I've jump to conclusions. I guess like people

880
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: have done that too before, and so I guess I

881
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 1: would have changed my mind about going back out. But

882
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:54,880
Speaker 1: you gotta be a pro creeper. You gotta learn your

883
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: lessons about the creeping and you know, and hopefully that's

884
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,440
Speaker 1: the PSA to everyone listening out there that if you're

885
00:45:00,440 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: going to creep, you can't jump to conclusions because then

886
00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:04,920
Speaker 1: this happens. You wind up finding out that he was

887
00:45:04,960 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 1: sending money to his sister because she's in college and

888
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 1: she's Poe. Yeah, you got to creep deeper so you

889
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: get to the bottom of it. Also, though, trust your gut,

890
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,959
Speaker 1: because you are not crazy, all right, I'm just telling

891
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,399
Speaker 1: you a minute. Why are you telling her to trust

892
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: her gut her gut was wrong. Well, she trusted her

893
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: gut and now here it was wrong, So maybe don't

894
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: trust it every time. I'm sorry, it's not going to

895
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: work out Mark. Best of luck to you as well. Okay,

896
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 1: hold on, Paulina, I want to know why that was

897
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,560
Speaker 1: the time for you after eight minutes of that, to

898
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,919
Speaker 1: release your PSA about trusting your gut, because, like I said,

899
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: I've been in situations where I haven't not trusted my gut,

900
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:42,080
Speaker 1: and I could have been right this whole time. I

901
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: feel like, yeah, you'll look like an idiot, but at

902
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: least you trusted yourself, your intuition, the whole thing up.

903
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: Yeah no, but this was this was this is paranoia,

904
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,239
Speaker 1: This was this was unnecessary. I don't even know if

905
00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 1: there was a gut call to be made here. You're

906
00:45:56,040 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: not crazy, ladies. She was absolutely nuts in this case.

907
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:02,240
Speaker 1: She's screwed up a perfectly good thing because she didn't

908
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: ask any questions. She went to venom. I don't know

909
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 1: how you could possibly know anything from Venmo. It's called trauma,

910
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,319
Speaker 1: it's called it's happened before. I've been here before, it

911
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: happens to the best of us. But that can't screw

912
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: up every relationship that you have moving forward. I mean,

913
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 1: you've got to be mindful of that, otherwise you're you're

914
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: always gonna harp on the same things. We've all been

915
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: hurt before, right, but not everything that everybody does that

916
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 1: looks like the last person is the same thing. And

917
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 1: by the way, this is the worst evidence of First

918
00:46:29,960 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: of all, they're dating, so even if he was sending

919
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: another woman money, he has every right to do that

920
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,439
Speaker 1: because they met one time. The second thing is that's

921
00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 1: I think Venmo is probably the worst of all places

922
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 1: to go look to see if someone's up to something,

923
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:48,799
Speaker 1: because why am I sending anybody money? Well, she learned

924
00:46:48,800 --> 00:46:51,320
Speaker 1: her lesson, that is true, but I hope moving forward

925
00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: she still trusts her gut. I'm telling you always believing.

926
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:57,040
Speaker 1: I hate when men I'm dating pay their sister. It

927
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 1: really pisses the unbelievable. You need to do your research

928
00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: more for you know. And that I say she did

929
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:07,720
Speaker 1: mess up at you know what I mean. She didn't

930
00:47:07,719 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: do the actual proper creeping right because my ass would

931
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: have found out where she lives, she is, last name,

932
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: city number. I would have found all that out. She

933
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: would have found that on her own head. She got

934
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 1: a second to date, righta girl. We've got Blackhawks tickets.

935
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 1: It's Pride Night versus Vancouver on March twenty six, and

936
00:47:25,880 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 1: they're celebrating lgbt QI A plus the entire community and

937
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: standing together for inclusion. They got a performance going on

938
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 1: in the atrium before the game, photo opportunities, a bunch

939
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:39,439
Speaker 1: of stuff going on to celebrate Pride Night, Blackhawks dot

940
00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: com slash tickets to go or it's free if you

941
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,799
Speaker 1: call it. Twenty five right now, good luck eight five, five, nine,

942
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,359
Speaker 1: one one h three five. I don't know if it's

943
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: just me, but I feel like I have my disproportionate

944
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 1: amount of stories. I think it's me. I think it's

945
00:47:55,760 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: because I'm way too. I'm inquisitive to my own peril.

946
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 1: Like I asked questions, I don't want the answer too,

947
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:07,879
Speaker 1: because it's I think it's wired in my brain. It's

948
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,399
Speaker 1: it's who I have become. It's who I am. A

949
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: curious person, you know, and I make money. People call

950
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: up here and I talk to him, and if there's

951
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 1: a you know, if there's a little string, I pull

952
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: on it see what I can get. And I feel

953
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 1: like you do the same thing in my relationships, which

954
00:48:23,080 --> 00:48:28,240
Speaker 1: is why occasionally I'm considered inappropriate and a little invasive

955
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:30,239
Speaker 1: and interested. Can I just I'll just ask, I'll ask

956
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: questions and I'll, you know, if you give me an inch,

957
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 1: I'll try and take them out. See what I can

958
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,040
Speaker 1: find out about you. I'm I'm a very curious person,

959
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: and so I find out from this woman. I don't

960
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: even know how it came up. I think she was like, yeah,

961
00:48:42,040 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: I have a Delta buddy pass, which you and I.

962
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: And there's a couple different ways I guess that terminology

963
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: could work. Either you have a pass an individual pass

964
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: given to you by employee, which means you can fly

965
00:48:53,760 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: stand by in this case, though she's listed as somebody's

966
00:48:57,560 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: domestic partner, this woman, so she gets one. Yeah, that's

967
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: the golden one. That's the one where you know you

968
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:05,960
Speaker 1: don't need an individual pat You show up and it's

969
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: almost you're the same as the employee the way that

970
00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 1: I understand it, or the way you can list yourself

971
00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: on flights to fly, because it's a privilege that you

972
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:14,399
Speaker 1: would get if you were married to somebody who works

973
00:49:14,440 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: for the airline. Because I've gotten buddy passes because my

974
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 1: friend's mom works for Delta. But they they're not as

975
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: good as they seem to be. But that's like the

976
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 1: best one you can get. Yeah, and I think you

977
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: still run into the same issues where you might get stranded,

978
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: but nonetheless, um, you know, it's unlimited from the way

979
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: I understand it at least, and I'm sure people are like, well, no, whatever,

980
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't anyway. So this and apparently this has been

981
00:49:36,239 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 1: going on for like ten years. She's been on this

982
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:39,840
Speaker 1: guy or a long time. She's been on this guy's

983
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:44,800
Speaker 1: um buddy list. She's been named his domestic partner for

984
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: a long time. I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with

985
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: this guy obviously, right because and here I am trying

986
00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 1: to talk to her, but it's like, you sleep this dude,

987
00:49:54,160 --> 00:49:57,919
Speaker 1: he's still got you on his benefits. And she's like, well,

988
00:49:58,000 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 1: my ex thought the same thing. But this is a

989
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:05,080
Speaker 1: all I'm gonna say. Nothing. Nothing's happening anymore. So at

990
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 1: one point she slept with this guy, yes, and for

991
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:11,920
Speaker 1: through multiple other boyfriends and the amount of time he

992
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,400
Speaker 1: still hasn't removed her as his domestic partner. So she

993
00:50:15,480 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: must have some bomb diggity. Yes, I mean, and but

994
00:50:20,719 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: why would you do that if you had no hope

995
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:26,799
Speaker 1: of potentially reuniting. I mean, that would be the if

996
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 1: I broke up with somebody even if it were friendly,

997
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: I still don't think that they would be listed as

998
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: my domestic partner because what happens when I date somebody

999
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: else and they're like, why can't we go anywhere on

1000
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: your path? It's like, well, because my ex is on it, right,

1001
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: that wouldn't work. I mean, can you imagine if I

1002
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 1: don't know, like if I'm a pilot, I meet some

1003
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 1: new woman and I'm like, oh, I'm into you. Yeah, Well,

1004
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: my private the main work benefit I have is still

1005
00:50:52,960 --> 00:50:56,400
Speaker 1: devoted to my ex girlfriend. I don't think that would go. No,

1006
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 1: but no, not going. But he did get me thinking

1007
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:07,160
Speaker 1: about what, like, what is there any benefit that you

1008
00:51:07,200 --> 00:51:11,240
Speaker 1: are still receiving from an X? And I'm not talking

1009
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:14,640
Speaker 1: about like, you know, child support. I mean I'm talking about,

1010
00:51:15,320 --> 00:51:17,520
Speaker 1: is there anything that you're still getting from an X

1011
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,800
Speaker 1: that you probably should get for yourself? At this point?

1012
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:24,479
Speaker 1: Is my question? Five? Fee three five. In this case,

1013
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 1: this woman's flying around the world for free because of

1014
00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: a guy that she may or might not have once

1015
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: hooked up with, who years later Steele was giving her

1016
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:36,840
Speaker 1: this benefit. Why would you do that if you weren't

1017
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: trying to hang on to something, right? Yeah, I can't

1018
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 1: he when did she say they stopped hooking up? Did

1019
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 1: she say that she was not She was not clear

1020
00:51:46,719 --> 00:51:49,480
Speaker 1: on that, okay, oh, no clarity. Huh, she was not

1021
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 1: clear yesterday. I don't know. I mean in between, you know.

1022
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:58,239
Speaker 1: But my thing is, like I don't know if I

1023
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 1: had some like free contract ticket benefit here where, like

1024
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: if you knew me and you could just go to

1025
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:07,239
Speaker 1: any venue and get in, that's coming back with me,

1026
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like we're taking that. No,

1027
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 1: you don't get to keep that after you break up

1028
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: with me, because I don't want to have to explain

1029
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 1: to the next girl. Yeah, you know, And I know

1030
00:52:17,680 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: you can only change them every now and like you can't.

1031
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 1: I think it's every year. It depends on the airline.

1032
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: I know you can't just like constantly be updating with

1033
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:29,520
Speaker 1: new domestic partners. But I mean, I think it's been

1034
00:52:29,560 --> 00:52:31,200
Speaker 1: long enough where he could take her off if he

1035
00:52:31,239 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: wanted to. Someone says Costco membership, Netflix subscription, Nycorps bill. Um. Yeah,

1036
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,120
Speaker 1: this text, this text, that's the same thing. You can't

1037
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:45,920
Speaker 1: constantly change the domestic partner pass over to someone else.

1038
00:52:45,920 --> 00:52:47,880
Speaker 1: If you do, the airline will flag you. Right, they

1039
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,680
Speaker 1: still hooking up bro so for a certain period of time.

1040
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 1: I can see why he wouldn't switch it because he

1041
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:56,960
Speaker 1: can't um. My ex husband still has me listed as

1042
00:52:56,960 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: his primary beneficiary in his will. Girl, Yes you know mine,

1043
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 1: I will have a free lawyer for the rest of

1044
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:14,960
Speaker 1: my life. Hey, page, high page, how are you? I'm great?

1045
00:53:15,040 --> 00:53:18,640
Speaker 1: What benefit are you still receiving from an X? He

1046
00:53:19,080 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: is still paying for free music ad free music for me,

1047
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:27,359
Speaker 1: and I do still have his debit card saved on

1048
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,160
Speaker 1: my phone in my Apple Let me ask you this page,

1049
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: if you charge stuff on it? Would he say anything?

1050
00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: I don't think he would because he does still try

1051
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,440
Speaker 1: to get back with me, so I don't think he

1052
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,920
Speaker 1: would say anything. He knows I still have it on

1053
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 1: my phone, but he still pay for my music every month.

1054
00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:54,640
Speaker 1: So yeah, because if I yeah, if I if your

1055
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: credit card, if my credit card is on your phone

1056
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,160
Speaker 1: and I don't want to have some connection to you

1057
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: or see you ever again, or whatever, then I changed

1058
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:04,759
Speaker 1: the card so that you can't you know what I mean?

1059
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:06,480
Speaker 1: And I think that this is his way of hoping

1060
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:10,279
Speaker 1: you know, it's like you're still attached in some way. Yeah,

1061
00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 1: I mean I don't use it, but I just I

1062
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: still have it there. I understands well know I wanted

1063
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:21,840
Speaker 1: to use it, but I'm like coffee, well, because you

1064
00:54:21,880 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 1: have no intention to get back at them, because you

1065
00:54:23,520 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: have integrity and Rufio doesn't. He thank you, have a

1066
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:30,280
Speaker 1: good day. Yeah, glad you called. Thank you for listening. Hey, Amber,

1067
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, Hi Ambert. What benefit of you

1068
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: still receiving from an x so M. My divorce is

1069
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: just finalized in July and I still have my phone

1070
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,400
Speaker 1: totally paid for through his company. Do you think that

1071
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 1: does he have any control that way? Do you think

1072
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: he's doing that on purpose so he can have access

1073
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: to what you're doing. I honestly, that has definitely crossed

1074
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: my mind because he definitely was that kind of person.

1075
00:54:56,840 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: But I'm taking it. Man. We've got four kids and

1076
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 1: I would stale mom for sixteen years, so switching that

1077
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: over it's been a slower process for me, and I'm

1078
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: going to take advantage of the fact that it's one

1079
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 1: must parry downy. Good for you, Amber, I'm just I'm paranoid.

1080
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: I would I would figure somebody was doing that tim

1081
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:18,800
Speaker 1: to check out who I was texting, or you know

1082
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,799
Speaker 1: what I mean, against me? Yeah, Yeah, but it's all good.

1083
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,960
Speaker 1: It's over now. So yeah, yeah, exactly. Hamber enjoyed the

1084
00:55:26,000 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: single life. It's it's it's okay, it's not bad. I

1085
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: thank you, you'll be all right. I'm enjoying it. Yeah,

1086
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:35,839
Speaker 1: it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.

1087
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 1: I don't know how old she is, but that must

1088
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: be wild. I mean, can you imagine any more than

1089
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: ten years maybe even final? What the threshold, let's just

1090
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: say ten Any more than ten years of having not

1091
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: dated and then now dating. It's a different world entirely.

1092
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:57,440
Speaker 1: It's like it's a whole different thing. Yeah, it's really not.

1093
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 1: Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and

1094
00:56:01,000 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: it seemed so scary, but it's really not. I feel

1095
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:06,320
Speaker 1: like people make it sound so bad. It's scary. I

1096
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 1: wouldn't know what to do, like, I wouldn't know the no,

1097
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:12,360
Speaker 1: I how do you get hit on? And girl? You

1098
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:15,280
Speaker 1: know how to flirt back? I don't know if scary,

1099
00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: it's it's just different. It's really different. Yeah, I better

1100
00:56:20,920 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: because you close with big tip you right there? Way

1101
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: to be a single yeah, man, yeah, I don't know

1102
00:56:34,040 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: you guys, I mean Frand talking to Russians. It's like

1103
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: it's having that lady. I'm still talking to the Russians.

1104
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: I think she might I think she might be legit.

1105
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I mean, she was wearing a Lion

1106
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,320
Speaker 1: sweatshirt in one of the pictures that she's because you know,

1107
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:51,280
Speaker 1: I made her send that four fingers. She's from Michigan. Supposedly,

1108
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 1: it's not a scammer. No one would choose that this

1109
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: Russians from Michigan. But I made her hold up four fingers,

1110
00:56:56,480 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 1: as you know. And then I had people. I had

1111
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 1: people on the tex line yesterday tell me, well, you know,

1112
00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 1: the scammers have like women on the ready to do

1113
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 1: whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well

1114
00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: that makes sense. I can see that. But um, why

1115
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 1: would she wear a lion switch? All the NFL teams

1116
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: of scammers not picking the Lions. Please nobody believe that? Yeah, yeah,

1117
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: you go, unless it was one of those like donated switch.

1118
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 1: You know what her sweatshirt said, Lion super Bowl champion.

1119
00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:30,480
Speaker 1: So I know she's not real. Let me see that

1120
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion. Can I know this isn't real?

1121
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: We're in Michigan. Does she say she's from, because I

1122
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:43,000
Speaker 1: can probably help you Detroit. Well, ask her to get

1123
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 1: more specific, and I can tell you trust you can

1124
00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,480
Speaker 1: fit three Chicagos in Detroit. Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.

1125
00:57:52,160 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a

1126
00:57:56,040 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 1: public meeting with a witness or something, and I'll wave

1127
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:02,840
Speaker 1: off the witness if I feel safe. I got you. Yeah, whatever,

1128
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:06,680
Speaker 1: she starts cutting down my organ He'll run one h

1129
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: three five kidst from Chicago's number one hit music station.

1130
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 1: Good morning, It's the Fred's Show. I gotta hear about

1131
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: this conversation. It says on our sheet today. Kiki says,

1132
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: I spoke with Mama Fred, and my first question is also,

1133
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: now y'all talk on the phone. Why are you jealous?

1134
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,120
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no, it's not jealous that

1135
00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 1: I'm concerned. Why Because she doesn't need any sneaky links

1136
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:38,120
Speaker 1: into the into the showgle. She doesn't need any additional

1137
00:58:38,200 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: access to information around here like she already. I'm telling

1138
00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: you this, lady, my very first day, this was my

1139
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: very first day hosting mornings in another city in Charlotte.

1140
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: And this is before you could uh. I mean, it

1141
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 1: got to sound so old I mean it's like mid

1142
00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 1: two thousands, but you couldn't stream like you can now.

1143
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,760
Speaker 1: And but there there was a way. It was like

1144
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:01,520
Speaker 1: region only sudden. I don't know, there was a way,

1145
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:04,040
Speaker 1: but she somehow couldn't get to it in Arizona and

1146
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: it was bothering her so and she woke up at

1147
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:09,000
Speaker 1: like four in the morning to hear my first morning

1148
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,960
Speaker 1: radio show, which my god, must have been just absolutely terrible.

1149
00:59:12,560 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: But at about I don't know, seven thirty, this man

1150
00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: walks in. I hadn't meant anyone there my first day,

1151
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,920
Speaker 1: and he was the chief engineer for the radio station.

1152
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:23,680
Speaker 1: He was like, Hey, your mom is on the phone.

1153
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,840
Speaker 1: I unfortunately cannot give her access to our back lines

1154
00:59:28,080 --> 00:59:32,880
Speaker 1: like proprietary stream. I'm really sorry. By the way, nice

1155
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 1: to meet you. I'm you know whatever, I'm BO and

1156
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh jesus, I'm like, Mom, you can't just call,

1157
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: you know, like when like the and so you said.

1158
00:59:43,760 --> 00:59:46,680
Speaker 1: She had some thoughts about the Neon sign gate Neon

1159
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:48,440
Speaker 1: signed still here in the corner of the room. It

1160
00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:51,160
Speaker 1: was a gift for Christmas that she decided to buy

1161
00:59:51,320 --> 00:59:53,600
Speaker 1: really for all of us, since the Fred's show. Neon

1162
00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:56,640
Speaker 1: sign it's just on the floor there because they won't

1163
00:59:56,680 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 1: hang it up because that wouldn't be fair. And he

1164
00:59:59,680 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 1: was than any of those emails, Jason Brown. So I

1165
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 1: was told to take it up locally, which I did,

1166
01:00:05,960 --> 01:00:14,840
Speaker 1: and then I got ghosted. We've come up with a

1167
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: way that we think we've come up with a way

1168
01:00:16,840 --> 01:00:21,160
Speaker 1: to put it up that does not require any assistance,

1169
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: nor does it require any in permanent install Yes, but

1170
01:00:26,160 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 1: the company line that I was given was it's not

1171
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: fair because I swear it's not fair because everyone doesn't

1172
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 1: have a sign. And my thing is like, well, then

1173
01:00:34,760 --> 01:00:37,720
Speaker 1: get everyone's mom buy a sign. I don't know. I

1174
01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you, like, it's not like I

1175
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,160
Speaker 1: asked the company. It's not like I went you know what.

1176
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:45,640
Speaker 1: I refused to perform unless there is a neon sign

1177
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,600
Speaker 1: that says the friend show, because if I were going

1178
01:00:48,680 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 1: to do that, I would have asked for much more.

1179
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,400
Speaker 1: I refuse to perform unless I leards yet picks me

1180
01:00:55,520 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 1: up every day and brings me here. So anyway, what

1181
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 1: what was the nature of the conversation though, Oh, well,

1182
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: first she's she reached out to tell me she loved me,

1183
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 1: and I was like, yes, yes, she wants me to

1184
01:01:07,920 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 1: know that I'm loved and I was I love you too,

1185
01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: and then she was like, you know what's going on

1186
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: with my sign? And I was like, she was like,

1187
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 1: who do I need to contact? Or well she said

1188
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: something else, but we'll say contact. She's like, who do

1189
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: I need to put up on basically, and I was like, um,

1190
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: you know, Mama fred I don't want you to have

1191
01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: to come to Chicago and you know, tear the city up, girl,

1192
01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 1: So will would We're still working on it and she

1193
01:01:32,800 --> 01:01:35,640
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I think Rufy's got to take Rufy

1194
01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,720
Speaker 1: is gonna go out in the carpenter shop and craps,

1195
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna cut that. That the thing I

1196
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 1: need to make today, I'm gonna do today, and I'm

1197
01:01:42,240 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: bringing it tomorrow and then we'll So this way we're

1198
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,040
Speaker 1: sort of setting We're like setting it up so if

1199
01:01:48,080 --> 01:01:51,800
Speaker 1: anyone complains, I can be quickly just just lift it

1200
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: up and removed. Right. I love it. I can't wait

1201
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,960
Speaker 1: to see how this comes out. It's like no, but

1202
01:01:57,200 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 1: it's really I know, I know we should put it

1203
01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,360
Speaker 1: on this side so they don't see it from the door,

1204
01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 1: so that might be the move. Yeah. Yeah, but it

1205
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:09,280
Speaker 1: has a remote and everything. Yeah, we can make it blink,

1206
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:10,880
Speaker 1: we can make it. We can damn it, we can.

1207
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, I love it. Yeah. I had to

1208
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 1: assure her the sign is safe. It's safe. What else

1209
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 1: do you guys talk about? I can't say you have

1210
01:02:22,560 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 1: your parents ever done this? Full on adopt like another

1211
01:02:25,320 --> 01:02:28,720
Speaker 1: human being? Yeah, my mom does this all the time.

1212
01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 1: She does. Why well hold on first of all, any

1213
01:02:36,560 --> 01:02:39,520
Speaker 1: anybody on this show who engages with her, uh, it

1214
01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 1: makes her a year. Like I don't know, she just

1215
01:02:41,720 --> 01:02:44,960
Speaker 1: she loves all of you. Um, but yeah, I mean

1216
01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:48,520
Speaker 1: we kimmy cakes. She worked here like a decade ago. Um,

1217
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 1: poor girl went and took some job in Virginia or

1218
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:55,400
Speaker 1: not Virginia in Vermont. Yeah, um, oh my god. She

1219
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: called me. She's like, yeah, I'm in Vermont. I took

1220
01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 1: this job. I hate it. I've been here for a week.

1221
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, why where was I Yeah? Oh well someone

1222
01:03:03,320 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 1: else told me I should take it. I'm like, someone

1223
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 1: else is dumb, like no, get out immediately. So I'm like,

1224
01:03:09,760 --> 01:03:11,320
Speaker 1: some of your contract. So I looked at it. We

1225
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:13,480
Speaker 1: got another job. So then we said it to Phoenix

1226
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:16,320
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, if you ever need anything, Mama Freds,

1227
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: you know, in the next next city over, just give

1228
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 1: her a little ring and she'll she'll help you out.

1229
01:03:19,680 --> 01:03:21,880
Speaker 1: I figured that would be like in case of emergency.

1230
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 1: A week later, she's sleeping in my bed. Yeah. She

1231
01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:29,920
Speaker 1: and Mama fred drank too much at the house and

1232
01:03:31,640 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: every Sunday night dinner, my grandparents like, I'm like, basically

1233
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 1: everyone adopted her. I get a picture at the table

1234
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: be my both my grandparents, my mom, my dad, and Kimmy.

1235
01:03:41,480 --> 01:03:43,400
Speaker 1: I love it. She was at my house more than

1236
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:45,800
Speaker 1: I was. And I'm like, oh, well, do I even

1237
01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,320
Speaker 1: need to come back? Well, I don't know. I called

1238
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:50,320
Speaker 1: where you guys going, I'm taking Kimmy to the doctor.

1239
01:03:50,400 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 1: Oh you're taking give me the doctor? Of course you are? Ye,

1240
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: So that you're next, You're probably in the wheel a. Whoa,

1241
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:03,920
Speaker 1: I could see Linda Linda Brown doesn't just everyone, all

1242
01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:07,240
Speaker 1: of my friends, anyone that I know, ends up being

1243
01:04:07,320 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 1: her kid, like one. I think because I'm an only

1244
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 1: child and she was just she had a lot more kids,

1245
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:14,600
Speaker 1: so everyone ends up being one of her sons or

1246
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 1: daughters for sure. And you're saying, Marta, does that too. Yeah,

1247
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:19,360
Speaker 1: my mom is the reason that a lot of people

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01:04:19,520 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: graduated high school. To be honest, like, my mom rides

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Speaker 1: for people. Yeah yeah, I mean that's all I'm gonna

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01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:28,720
Speaker 1: say on this platform. But yes, my mom, Yeah she rides.

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Speaker 1: And like I have the same friends from childhood, you know,

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01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 1: my childhood friends and then my high school friends. Oh yeah,

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01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,520
Speaker 1: you know, I'd like to categorize my friends. But yeah,

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01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:37,760
Speaker 1: they still come to the house for holidays whatever. They'll

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01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: just come by see my mom because she's just very

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01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,200
Speaker 1: like open enough. I feel like, your mom is my mom.

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01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: I love that from Marta though, because she might be

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01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 1: for a lot of people, that person, you know what

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01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: I mean, like and we've talked about it over the years.

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01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: But not to say there aren't a lot of amazing

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01:04:54,000 --> 01:04:56,320
Speaker 1: teachers out there. But not every teacher connects with every student.

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01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:58,040
Speaker 1: But I feel like most of us can remember at

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01:04:58,120 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 1: least one and we're probably lucky to have one, but

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01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 1: at least one, hopefully person who like really wrote for us,

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01:05:03,720 --> 01:05:05,960
Speaker 1: you know, who like believe you know, when other people

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01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: were you know, maybe you don't have it. There was

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01:05:09,000 --> 01:05:10,720
Speaker 1: all I feel like there was always that one teacher

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01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 1: that was like that saw something in you know one

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01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: as an individual. Oh yeah first, and I can remember

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01:05:16,600 --> 01:05:18,120
Speaker 1: who those people were, and I feel like your mom

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01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:20,080
Speaker 1: is probably that person for a lot of people. I

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01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: think so too. Yeah. So she technically works in the

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01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:24,960
Speaker 1: in the office, right, but I think her just being

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01:05:25,000 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 1: at that school forever and knowing all the teachers and

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01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:29,440
Speaker 1: then everybody just always going to her. And it is

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01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:31,120
Speaker 1: for like advice, like you know, oh I need these

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01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: credits to graduate, or how do I do this? Like

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01:05:33,080 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 1: they go to her for some reason. They just gravitate

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01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 1: that way and she helps them, She gives them advice.

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01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:39,720
Speaker 1: It's amazing how you can make them and and do

1281
01:05:39,800 --> 01:05:44,000
Speaker 1: it a you just yeah, you know what I'm saying.

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01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:49,800
Speaker 1: Let's go. Yeah, nothing written down anymore though, Like now,

1283
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,680
Speaker 1: how are we aging ourselves? I'm sure it's only computer

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01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: somewhere now and mom, Mom doesn't do that. Mom's not

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01:05:54,400 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 1: out here scout, that's her daughter cash. And but I

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01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,600
Speaker 1: mean one more thing, that one more rite of passage.

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01:06:02,640 --> 01:06:05,600
Speaker 1: And I guess, uh, the kids he says, may not

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01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: have to experience, which and I making my sound stuff

1289
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 1: sound so old. I'm not that old. But like waiting

1290
01:06:10,480 --> 01:06:12,120
Speaker 1: by the mail for the grades, to show up so

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01:06:12,160 --> 01:06:14,480
Speaker 1: I could try and intercept them, you know, and I

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01:06:14,560 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: knew they were sent out. I didn't know how long

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01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:18,080
Speaker 1: it would take for them to get home or I

1294
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,200
Speaker 1: guess it. Back in ther old and olden days, you

1295
01:06:20,360 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 1: used to have to take your report card home and

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01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:23,840
Speaker 1: get it signed, like when my mom was a kid,

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01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: and like stuff like that. My mom's seen itature down

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01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,040
Speaker 1: to a t. But now I tell on the computer

1299
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,560
Speaker 1: and I wonder if you can just change the password.

1300
01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:34,960
Speaker 1: And then, I mean, I'm sure parents are like, I

1301
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: need access to this, but I mean you could probably

1302
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:39,520
Speaker 1: just say I don't know my grade. You're fine, you know,

1303
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 1: because I'm just changed. I don't know. I forgot the password,

1304
01:06:42,520 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: uppercase you know, I forgot I don't know what it is, Sorry, guys.

1305
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: And then it's like your email, forgot password. I don't know.

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01:06:54,520 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 1: I'm doing right. Going to Harvard School Live from the

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01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:10,120
Speaker 1: Duncan Studios Chicago runs I'm Duncan Chicago Kiss FM and

1308
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 1: I Heart Radio station. It's a French show. Many things

1309
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:16,040
Speaker 1: that kids these days don't have to experience, like like

1310
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:18,480
Speaker 1: taking a report car home. I guess they still do. Um.

1311
01:07:19,320 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: I've talked about this many times you're walking up to

1312
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,480
Speaker 1: another human and asking them for their phone number, calling

1313
01:07:25,240 --> 01:07:28,800
Speaker 1: the house the house phone, and like you know, as

1314
01:07:28,840 --> 01:07:32,120
Speaker 1: a boy, you're fearful that dad would answer the phone

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01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:37,960
Speaker 1: or somebody, and then you get interrogated, Yeah, um, fighting

1316
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 1: for your life if you want to use the internet

1317
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: or the house phone? Which one is it gonna be?

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01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:44,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, You're getting screamed at when you know

1319
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:46,320
Speaker 1: someone needs to make a phone call and it's like

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01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 1: really don't know, don't hearing my mom in my ear like,

1321
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, what's it gonna be? I got do

1322
01:07:53,760 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 1: my homework. A computer gonna be the big mine there

1323
01:08:00,200 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 1: for this Harry that thing in there. It took two people.

1324
01:08:04,600 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 1: Then I gotta get rid of the other guy. I

1325
01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:16,560
Speaker 1: don't need company for this. That's a true story. But

1326
01:08:16,720 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 1: you you know, the story about it comes full circle

1327
01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: because you know, my sister was in college and she

1328
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:28,720
Speaker 1: had I'm trying to think of she was sharing me

1329
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 1: Like I guess the whole college was sharing music because

1330
01:08:31,360 --> 01:08:33,479
Speaker 1: you couldn't download it, like we didn't have lime wire

1331
01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:35,519
Speaker 1: and Napster like we had. So I guess they just

1332
01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:39,360
Speaker 1: had like a folder that everybody shared all their music. In,

1333
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:42,960
Speaker 1: which is equally illegal. But um so she had every

1334
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:45,760
Speaker 1: song and I'm like, I can't, I can't be a

1335
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:48,640
Speaker 1: radio personality gets caught on lime wire, you know what

1336
01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:50,400
Speaker 1: I mean. So I would, I would every time I

1337
01:08:50,520 --> 01:08:53,200
Speaker 1: see her, I'd hook our laptops together and take all

1338
01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:56,800
Speaker 1: of her music. And so so one time I do

1339
01:08:56,960 --> 01:08:59,400
Speaker 1: this and I'm looking through the stuff and there's a

1340
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: folder and I click on it and it's like hard

1341
01:09:04,280 --> 01:09:12,599
Speaker 1: hard core adult content. Like I'm like, oh man, I'm man,

1342
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:16,800
Speaker 1: and she's like, no, no, no, I don't know. Its

1343
01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:20,320
Speaker 1: just shared folder. I'm like, oh man, I'm like, mom,

1344
01:09:20,400 --> 01:09:24,000
Speaker 1: come here, look at what your daughter's looking at. Man.

1345
01:09:24,400 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: I mean, it was nasty call waiting. The kids will

1346
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:32,960
Speaker 1: get to experienced call waiting and waiting. Yeah, or like

1347
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:34,560
Speaker 1: I guess you could still do it, but it's a

1348
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 1: little different now. Either when you'd have friends over and

1349
01:09:37,080 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 1: everybody would listen in on the phone because every phone

1350
01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:41,839
Speaker 1: you could pick it up and everybody could hear everything,

1351
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,960
Speaker 1: or like a party line three way call that was like,

1352
01:09:47,200 --> 01:09:49,240
Speaker 1: you know, you click twice on the receiver you can

1353
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,880
Speaker 1: dial another number and then oh my god, it sound old.

1354
01:09:52,080 --> 01:09:55,680
Speaker 1: They got messy. Yeah, you'd have your friends, Like you'd

1355
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:57,560
Speaker 1: have your friend over for sleepover, and then like the

1356
01:09:57,640 --> 01:09:59,679
Speaker 1: girl would have her friend over, and so you'd call

1357
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:02,479
Speaker 1: and then one guy would listen and hey, do you

1358
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:08,719
Speaker 1: like Fred? Yep, like yeah, I like Fred? Okay, my space,

1359
01:10:16,479 --> 01:10:21,880
Speaker 1: putting music on your voice now music on your play

1360
01:10:21,960 --> 01:10:28,479
Speaker 1: for a little bit, everybody. Hey, it's like that's a

1361
01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: time video that it's like, hey, what's up? You reach Fred,

1362
01:10:32,640 --> 01:10:34,400
Speaker 1: leave a numb believe your name a number? You know

1363
01:10:34,479 --> 01:10:45,439
Speaker 1: what to do one everybody? And you had a time

1364
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,280
Speaker 1: in perfect and then how many times would you do

1365
01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:50,400
Speaker 1: it before? Listen to it? Be like would you like

1366
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:59,280
Speaker 1: to do this again? Press too? Oh yeah, that's yeah.

1367
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:06,479
Speaker 1: Um flipping throod encyclopedia yeah, um, oh my god. You

1368
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:07,920
Speaker 1: know how much we love around here. I think we

1369
01:11:08,000 --> 01:11:10,519
Speaker 1: all experienced this. But when the when the TV got

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01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:13,160
Speaker 1: rolled in, you know, because I think I think every

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01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:15,320
Speaker 1: classroom now has a flat screen TV in it. I

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01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 1: feel like a lot Miami come on, a lot of

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01:11:17,160 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: them do. But back in the day, of course they didn't.

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01:11:20,600 --> 01:11:22,600
Speaker 1: And so like when it was substitute teacher day or

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01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 1: when it was like I don't know, the movie day

1376
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 1: and it had a gigantic TV with a strap over

1377
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 1: the off road times wheel that thing in there and yeah,

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01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: BCI everything, yes, do you know what you know about that? Oh? Yeah? Everybody? Okay, good? Yeah,

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01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 1: and the projector screen in the classroom. I hated that, man. Okay,

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01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 1: I'm glad. I'm glad even some of the younger people

1381
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 1: in the room kind of relate it because I'm you

1382
01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: need you must understand, I must understand a struggle one

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01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:57,800
Speaker 1: three five and holding it down for the French show

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Speaker 1: on the Saint Patrick's Day. It's time for the Friday

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Speaker 1: throw back dance party. Hit us up if you want that,

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Speaker 1: Britney Spears, but someone texted in it's her sisters Britney's birthday.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who that is, but happy birthday. Kenny

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Speaker 1: g in Tampa listening on the iHeartRadio app Little Riley

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Speaker 1: West Loom, Tom and Kelly hitting the gym up right now.

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Speaker 1: Do you have any friends that have like strange rules

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01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:48,400
Speaker 1: that you have to follow when you go to their house,

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01:12:48,560 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 1: Like anybody who's like this, you gotta do this, you

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01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:53,080
Speaker 1: gotta do that. I bring it up because a woman

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01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:55,920
Speaker 1: I guess this was from TikTok. She says she doesn't

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01:12:56,000 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 1: keep any toilet paper in her house and force his

1404
01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:02,559
Speaker 1: guests to used the bidet after going to the bathroom.

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01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 1: So she went viral on TikTok after she admitted that

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01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:09,120
Speaker 1: she stopped using tissues, napkins, paper towels, even toilet paper

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01:13:09,160 --> 01:13:11,599
Speaker 1: in an attempt to spend less money. The woman claims

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01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,640
Speaker 1: that the switch has saved her thousands of dollars and

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01:13:14,800 --> 01:13:17,720
Speaker 1: has kept her cleaner than ever. Okay, she also made

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01:13:17,720 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: the swap after discovering all the chemicals that are in

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01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: toilet paper, so it's not even there. You can't even

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01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: get you're trying to use that at her house, it

1413
01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:28,680
Speaker 1: doesn't exist. You have to use the bidet. I've never

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01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 1: used the biday, does it get it clean? I don't

1415
01:13:32,040 --> 01:13:36,800
Speaker 1: feel my friend, I don't feel clean without the wipe afterwards.

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01:13:37,320 --> 01:13:39,799
Speaker 1: But the new ones, like IM said on one recently

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01:13:39,840 --> 01:13:41,560
Speaker 1: that you could spray the front and the back, and

1418
01:13:41,640 --> 01:13:43,680
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, this thing needs that

1419
01:13:43,760 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 1: should be legal. Way that was there for a while,

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01:13:48,560 --> 01:13:50,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't because my friends and I were all trying it,

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01:13:50,520 --> 01:13:52,240
Speaker 1: like in front of each other and like filming, I

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01:13:52,280 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: don't know whatever, whoae, pull up your plow? Okay, wait

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01:14:02,760 --> 01:14:10,640
Speaker 1: a minute, what's up with your friend over there? So

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01:14:10,880 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 1: you you were all taking turns, yes, and filming each other. Well, yeah,

1425
01:14:16,200 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: not in a sexual way at all, Like it was

1426
01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:21,080
Speaker 1: just funny. We've never used one, and my friend has one,

1427
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:23,720
Speaker 1: and we all were like pranking the next person, like

1428
01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 1: press this button, press that button, and everybody's reaction, We're funny.

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01:14:27,120 --> 01:14:29,639
Speaker 1: Why were you all in the same room. It's such

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01:14:29,640 --> 01:14:31,360
Speaker 1: a girls who go to the bathroom? I don't know

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01:14:32,800 --> 01:14:37,120
Speaker 1: that's a that's the thing that blows me away. That's well,

1432
01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: let me ask you, okay, so let me And this

1433
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:40,519
Speaker 1: is I know that women go to the bathroom together,

1434
01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:42,719
Speaker 1: but I didn't think. But then I learned, like sometimes

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01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 1: you guys will all go and if it's like a

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01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:47,000
Speaker 1: one room thing where the toilet's right there, then you

1437
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 1: guys will all go in together and do your business

1438
01:14:48,960 --> 01:14:52,599
Speaker 1: and all just stand around. Yeah, correct, problem. What happens

1439
01:14:52,640 --> 01:14:55,519
Speaker 1: if you like there's more going on, excellent poop, you

1440
01:14:55,560 --> 01:14:57,680
Speaker 1: just tell them what happened. But what happens if it's

1441
01:14:57,760 --> 01:14:59,840
Speaker 1: more than just a peace situation and it's a little more,

1442
01:15:00,040 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: you know, it advanced or involved? So you just do

1443
01:15:03,080 --> 01:15:04,640
Speaker 1: that in front of your friends. Yeah, I mean they

1444
01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 1: all have the same parts, they all do the same stuff.

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01:15:07,640 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 1: You don't do that. I don't know with your friends.

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01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,120
Speaker 1: I can't imagine like number two for sure. Oh I'm

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01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:18,400
Speaker 1: not like sitting there like I mean he was talking

1448
01:15:18,439 --> 01:15:20,560
Speaker 1: about changing his hamp on, right, weren't you or not?

1449
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:22,560
Speaker 1: Or that? Yeah or that. Yeah, I'm not going to

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01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:24,160
Speaker 1: see you guys. This is going to be twenty minutes.

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01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:27,280
Speaker 1: Can you let's see how well the day really were?

1452
01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:34,760
Speaker 1: Never make my friends, No, but I just but when

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01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:37,560
Speaker 1: you guys all get up to go to the other room, like,

1454
01:15:37,640 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 1: do you have like a little brief little like pow wow,

1455
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:41,680
Speaker 1: Like okay, hey, I'm gonna need a little more time

1456
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:44,599
Speaker 1: than the rest of you, or like I'm actually going

1457
01:15:44,760 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. You have like a code like no, no,

1458
01:15:48,080 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 1: this isn't ship yet time, like I actually have to

1459
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 1: go to the bathroom, I mean, Paulina and I will

1460
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 1: be like I'm going to bathroom, don't follow me, and

1461
01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:59,840
Speaker 1: then like well, no, like it's a private moment, okay, wow,

1462
01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: or like you don't go in there from yeah, like

1463
01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:06,040
Speaker 1: hold on, yeah, I just I don't know. I know women, Yeah,

1464
01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:08,240
Speaker 1: you guys are a lot more comfortable with each other

1465
01:16:08,360 --> 01:16:10,280
Speaker 1: and and your bodily functions, I think, because like I

1466
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:12,560
Speaker 1: don't I don't know that I could even do that.

1467
01:16:13,200 --> 01:16:15,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I would just like I would get

1468
01:16:15,800 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 1: like poop fright if I try to go into the

1469
01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: bathroom and my buddies are all all just be essen

1470
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 1: in there, and I'm like, hold on a minute again,

1471
01:16:22,880 --> 01:16:25,360
Speaker 1: I'm not intentionally pooping with my friends or in front

1472
01:16:25,400 --> 01:16:27,640
Speaker 1: of my bed, Like no, that's just a level of

1473
01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:32,479
Speaker 1: like but peas, Yeah, I mean, guys pretty much whip

1474
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:34,200
Speaker 1: it out in front of each other every time. You know,

1475
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,839
Speaker 1: you guys think it's wild up in the men's bathroom,

1476
01:16:37,960 --> 01:16:42,600
Speaker 1: Like yeah, we walk into the men's room and then

1477
01:16:42,680 --> 01:16:49,360
Speaker 1: just whip it out. Wild barriers here Jason next to

1478
01:16:49,400 --> 01:16:51,679
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, you stand right next season, you're talk

1479
01:16:52,720 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 1: o the divider. If I'm looking, yeah, but I don't

1480
01:16:55,560 --> 01:16:58,200
Speaker 1: look how you don't never like feet? No, because you're

1481
01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 1: supposed to make space. There's there's rules to if how

1482
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:03,400
Speaker 1: many urin rules are on the wall and what space

1483
01:17:03,439 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 1: you're supposed to go into. Oh if I going to

1484
01:17:06,000 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 1: number one, no one should go into number two. They

1485
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:10,000
Speaker 1: should be like three or four or five. The only

1486
01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 1: time you could go to the one next to somebody

1487
01:17:12,040 --> 01:17:15,680
Speaker 1: is if they're all filled. Yes, okay, yeah, but you

1488
01:17:15,760 --> 01:17:19,599
Speaker 1: don't see anything ever, not on purpose. No, what if

1489
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 1: it was like Michael Jordan pissing next to you, Bro,

1490
01:17:22,600 --> 01:17:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm looking, are you right there? It's like, why do

1491
01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:31,200
Speaker 1: you got six rings on that? Bad boy? I was

1492
01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:43,360
Speaker 1: wondering where you kept there? Take that? I like that one.

1493
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:49,439
Speaker 1: The rest are nice looking, though, No, I no, no, no,

1494
01:17:49,600 --> 01:17:52,439
Speaker 1: no one's looking. You guys are so funny with what

1495
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:54,680
Speaker 1: you think is going on in the men's room, Like

1496
01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 1: trust me, no one, No, it's not nearly as as

1497
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 1: open as apparently you guys are. Would want it, yeah,

1498
01:18:04,000 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 1: to promote that, but it's take the dividers down. If

1499
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:14,240
Speaker 1: you don't, I'm only going to the bathroom at home,

1500
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:18,760
Speaker 1: chasing all of a sudden and there with a drill

1501
01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:34,800
Speaker 1: doing some construction a little here were all that so much?

1502
01:18:37,080 --> 01:18:39,160
Speaker 1: This is actually this is actually very interesting, this fact,

1503
01:18:40,479 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 1: as if the rest of them are not, I mean,

1504
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 1: they're all interesting. But Neil Armstrong walked in the moon,

1505
01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:51,479
Speaker 1: of course, and the Apollo eleven crew, of course, they

1506
01:18:51,560 --> 01:18:54,240
Speaker 1: faced the real chance that they wouldn't return from the

1507
01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:58,200
Speaker 1: Moon safely, which would have left their families without financial support.

1508
01:18:58,200 --> 01:18:59,639
Speaker 1: It was very dangerous what they were doing. Of course,

1509
01:18:59,720 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 1: going to space walk in the moon, the whole thing

1510
01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 1: never been done. Due to the extreme danger that they

1511
01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:05,680
Speaker 1: were about to face. They were not able to take

1512
01:19:05,720 --> 01:19:08,200
Speaker 1: out life insurance policies because it was too dangerous, I

1513
01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:11,880
Speaker 1: guess for anyone to insure them. So instead they signed

1514
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:15,559
Speaker 1: hundreds of autographs which their families would have been able

1515
01:19:15,640 --> 01:19:19,240
Speaker 1: to sell if they didn't make it home. Luckily they

1516
01:19:19,320 --> 01:19:23,519
Speaker 1: did and those insurance autographs weren't needed. However, some were

1517
01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 1: sold anyway, and they'll sell for as much as thirty

1518
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 1: thousand dollars if you can get your hands out one.

1519
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 1: But that's crazy. I didn't even think about them. I

1520
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: would have figured NASA would have just said, since you

1521
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:35,920
Speaker 1: guys are all so heroic and daring to go up

1522
01:19:35,960 --> 01:19:37,840
Speaker 1: into space, and like we don't really know what we're doing.

1523
01:19:38,200 --> 01:19:40,360
Speaker 1: I would have thought we'll hook it up if something happens.

1524
01:19:40,920 --> 01:19:43,120
Speaker 1: But I guess not. I guess the family was going

1525
01:19:43,160 --> 01:19:46,680
Speaker 1: to have to hawk all their pictures autograph pictures. So

1526
01:19:48,960 --> 01:19:51,519
Speaker 1: I still want to know who gets the proceeds of anything,

1527
01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 1: like if I were to have an untimely death, I

1528
01:19:55,000 --> 01:19:57,200
Speaker 1: still want to know who gets my parent parent get

1529
01:19:57,280 --> 01:19:59,439
Speaker 1: paid French show or they just quickly changed the name

1530
01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:02,960
Speaker 1: and then nobody it's paid. I don't know. Honestly, that's

1531
01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 1: probably more likely to have who's your benefitary on your life?

1532
01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:08,479
Speaker 1: Parents are for me, I cheated, My mom gets my

1533
01:20:08,600 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 1: mom and Polly in that order. My sister is completely circumvented.

1534
01:20:11,960 --> 01:20:14,200
Speaker 1: All right, Why need to sound some things before you

1535
01:20:14,360 --> 01:20:17,120
Speaker 1: you know, some crazy things again? No, it's my mom

1536
01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:19,360
Speaker 1: and my and my niece. Yeah, right before I start

1537
01:20:19,400 --> 01:20:21,760
Speaker 1: flying the airplanes in no engine, I need to find

1538
01:20:21,800 --> 01:20:24,400
Speaker 1: out what happens. They pay my they pay Polly for

1539
01:20:24,479 --> 01:20:27,960
Speaker 1: a while if something happens to me or no, no, no,

1540
01:20:28,520 --> 01:20:30,200
Speaker 1: they just change your name forgot, like I ever worked here,

1541
01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:31,840
Speaker 1: that's what they're gonna do. No, we would leave it

1542
01:20:31,880 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 1: the same. The Friend Show, we wouldn't take Actually that

1543
01:20:34,600 --> 01:20:38,160
Speaker 1: is sort of what they do. Actually, it is the way. Yeah,

1544
01:20:38,360 --> 01:20:41,719
Speaker 1: it's true. They don't like to change the names of shows.

1545
01:20:41,760 --> 01:20:43,639
Speaker 1: Even if you die. They like to call it friend's

1546
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:47,720
Speaker 1: friends if we ever had too, well, yeah it's yeah,

1547
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:50,400
Speaker 1: it's we are your friends. No, that's that's Graham glad.

1548
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:52,599
Speaker 1: You guys have a contingency plan for my well, yeah,

1549
01:20:53,040 --> 01:21:00,720
Speaker 1: that or the dead show. There's the other one show. Oh,

1550
01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:02,679
Speaker 1: that's a that's the that's the station across the street.

1551
01:21:02,720 --> 01:21:06,560
Speaker 1: My I knew there was a there was a but

1552
01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:09,120
Speaker 1: I'm bump coming. I knew there was. And by the way,

1553
01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:19,400
Speaker 1: which one are you talking about? Yeah? Oh man, I'm

1554
01:21:19,520 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 1: cheap sometimes. Um, I'm actually cheap most of the time. Yeah,

1555
01:21:25,840 --> 01:21:28,559
Speaker 1: they talk better than they tied. These are the radio

1556
01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:32,599
Speaker 1: blogs on the Friend Show. Didn't she have PTFC right there?

1557
01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:36,280
Speaker 1: Ki from KFC? Yeah? Um, no, I recently went back

1558
01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:40,720
Speaker 1: actually to the spot, Yes to the spot you managed? Yes,

1559
01:21:41,200 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 1: yes I did. How were you honored when you walked in?

1560
01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 1: As there a statue there. No, there isn't. The girl

1561
01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:49,120
Speaker 1: was actually kind of rude, but the food was good.

1562
01:21:49,320 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 1: Did you tell her that you, like used to be

1563
01:21:52,040 --> 01:21:54,840
Speaker 1: the lady there? No, because I didn't feel like she

1564
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:56,640
Speaker 1: wanted me there at all, So I was like, this

1565
01:21:56,800 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 1: is not the time. But you tell her like, this

1566
01:21:59,479 --> 01:22:04,160
Speaker 1: is not the kind of customer service that I advocated for. Yeah,

1567
01:22:04,160 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 1: it was absolutely not how I used to do it, Like, yeah,

1568
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,880
Speaker 1: I took that job very serious, like very serious. I

1569
01:22:09,920 --> 01:22:11,880
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Yeah, some days I wonder if I could

1570
01:22:11,880 --> 01:22:16,320
Speaker 1: still move that drive through line too. Yeah, I wondered

1571
01:22:16,360 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 1: why I think I get and then you look at

1572
01:22:18,000 --> 01:22:21,240
Speaker 1: the screen, I'm the monitor like, I'm like, damn, it's

1573
01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:23,759
Speaker 1: a whole different world. Now. What was a good amount

1574
01:22:23,760 --> 01:22:25,639
Speaker 1: of time? What were you what was like a goal

1575
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:27,880
Speaker 1: time from how do they time it? Like from when

1576
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 1: you made the order to when you left? Absolutely? Yes?

1577
01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:32,599
Speaker 1: And how long should that take? Five minutes or less

1578
01:22:32,800 --> 01:22:35,840
Speaker 1: five minutes? Yes? That sounds like a long time really? Yeah?

1579
01:22:36,040 --> 01:22:38,120
Speaker 1: From the drive through windows, I mean these people are

1580
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:41,120
Speaker 1: ordering like sixteen meals, you know, I mean each service

1581
01:22:41,200 --> 01:22:44,120
Speaker 1: like for McDonald's was it was you had the HBO

1582
01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:49,559
Speaker 1: which was handbag out the windows in ninety seconds or less. HBO. Yeah,

1583
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:53,160
Speaker 1: HBO hand bag out the way about that, yep, And

1584
01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 1: it is fast that way. They tell you to move up,

1585
01:22:55,080 --> 01:22:59,400
Speaker 1: like does it stop the counter that absolutely? Yes, they

1586
01:22:59,479 --> 01:23:02,280
Speaker 1: pull up because the censor, we'll say how long you've

1587
01:23:02,320 --> 01:23:04,600
Speaker 1: been there. So they're trying to get their bonus for

1588
01:23:04,680 --> 01:23:08,200
Speaker 1: the year. Yeah, the food's like ready behind you. We're

1589
01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:09,720
Speaker 1: gonna keep this line moving, you know what I'm saying.

1590
01:23:10,000 --> 01:23:13,080
Speaker 1: And you're fifty piece nuggets are still waiting. Don't judge me. Yeah,

1591
01:23:13,560 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 1: get out of my weight. By the way, I'm not

1592
01:23:15,320 --> 01:23:16,880
Speaker 1: trying to call you out, but I did hack your

1593
01:23:16,920 --> 01:23:18,720
Speaker 1: phone this morning. Well I didn't hack it, literally, I

1594
01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:20,720
Speaker 1: did it right in front of you. You did, Like

1595
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:22,280
Speaker 1: your phone was right there, it was open, it was

1596
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:24,840
Speaker 1: already on that I'm going to share a story screen,

1597
01:23:25,080 --> 01:23:27,680
Speaker 1: you know on Instagram. It was already you were like

1598
01:23:27,760 --> 01:23:29,360
Speaker 1: over doing something else. So I just grab it, took

1599
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:31,760
Speaker 1: a picture of myself. Well I wasn't thinking, I know

1600
01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 1: how much time I had, and I posted him. I

1601
01:23:34,080 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 1: just looked at him and whatever your default filters are

1602
01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,920
Speaker 1: for everything, like I look better without them, you think,

1603
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:44,120
Speaker 1: So I have makeup all right? Now in this thing. Well, yes, absolutely,

1604
01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:47,080
Speaker 1: the filters change lives, maybe, but I don't not in

1605
01:23:47,120 --> 01:23:49,160
Speaker 1: a good way. I don't do maybe for you, but

1606
01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:52,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think you would look just as

1607
01:23:52,240 --> 01:23:54,640
Speaker 1: good or better without the China dull thing going on.

1608
01:23:54,800 --> 01:23:57,160
Speaker 1: I think so too. I would. I would agree with

1609
01:23:57,240 --> 01:23:59,280
Speaker 1: you on that. But yeah, filters are great. I'm looking

1610
01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:00,800
Speaker 1: at myself right now, I'm like, damn, looks like I

1611
01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:02,800
Speaker 1: put like a pound of foundation on before I came

1612
01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,439
Speaker 1: to work on the radio today. Yeah, I mean I do.

1613
01:24:05,600 --> 01:24:07,760
Speaker 1: I typically have my you know, face beat before I

1614
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:09,680
Speaker 1: come in in the morning. But like this was Do

1615
01:24:09,800 --> 01:24:11,360
Speaker 1: you see that a lot on the apps when you're

1616
01:24:11,439 --> 01:24:13,360
Speaker 1: dating doing the dating apps? Like the girls look a

1617
01:24:13,439 --> 01:24:15,960
Speaker 1: totally different online than they do when you meet up

1618
01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 1: with them. No, okay, No, I wouldn't say that's that's

1619
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 1: an epidemic of of walking into something and being like, oh, well,

1620
01:24:24,439 --> 01:24:26,920
Speaker 1: because I've done my due diligence usually before I meet someone,

1621
01:24:27,200 --> 01:24:30,240
Speaker 1: like I've looked at enough pictures, We've done the dating

1622
01:24:30,240 --> 01:24:33,880
Speaker 1: app photos. Usually I'll try and get the insta That's

1623
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 1: another story I gotta get to later on this morning.

1624
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,519
Speaker 1: Is I think I'm getting scammed? Right now as we speak,

1625
01:24:38,840 --> 01:24:41,800
Speaker 1: like a really hot Tiffany these and looking girl. Yeah,

1626
01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:47,559
Speaker 1: but she acted. It's not checking out for me. Wouldn't

1627
01:24:47,600 --> 01:24:50,599
Speaker 1: surprise me at all, Like in that sexual harassment training

1628
01:24:50,680 --> 01:24:53,240
Speaker 1: that we have to take, when two co workers punk

1629
01:24:53,360 --> 01:24:55,640
Speaker 1: the dude into believing that he's about to meet up

1630
01:24:55,640 --> 01:24:57,120
Speaker 1: with a hot girl, but really it's just just two

1631
01:24:57,160 --> 01:24:59,760
Speaker 1: co workers punking him. Yeah. Yeah, that was in our

1632
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:02,439
Speaker 1: actual her assment training. Not supposed to do that, rufio.

1633
01:25:02,720 --> 01:25:04,559
Speaker 1: It's not a very nice thing to do. I didn't say, yeah,

1634
01:25:04,560 --> 01:25:08,559
Speaker 1: I got to the twentieth. I like being on that email. Hey,

1635
01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:10,400
Speaker 1: you forgot to do it. Yeah, I want to be

1636
01:25:10,479 --> 01:25:12,599
Speaker 1: on the n I love it when you guys run

1637
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:14,800
Speaker 1: the email because then I get an email about it. Hey,

1638
01:25:14,960 --> 01:25:17,120
Speaker 1: tell your people to learn about sexual her ass I'm

1639
01:25:17,120 --> 01:25:20,320
Speaker 1: gonna do today, right, Yeah, then I'll leave my Tiffany

1640
01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:23,960
Speaker 1: amber Theson. Come, it's just Tiffany Theeson now, dude, So like,

1641
01:25:24,080 --> 01:25:27,000
Speaker 1: let's go. I do give this go credit though. I go,

1642
01:25:27,080 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 1: you're giving me Tiffany Theeson vibes and she goes um

1643
01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:33,320
Speaker 1: nine two one h or saved by the bell, And

1644
01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:36,200
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, so you met like Christine but

1645
01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:40,559
Speaker 1: probably slutty or just downright nasty. Right is that? Well,

1646
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:44,960
Speaker 1: when she was she was like a nightclub manager, and

1647
01:25:45,040 --> 01:25:47,840
Speaker 1: she was always stirring stuff up like she was she

1648
01:25:48,040 --> 01:25:50,479
Speaker 1: was messy, Okay. But then when she was on Saved

1649
01:25:50,520 --> 01:25:52,160
Speaker 1: by the Bell, we're assuming that she was like the

1650
01:25:52,240 --> 01:25:55,560
Speaker 1: all American goody two shoes cheerleader. We all know that

1651
01:25:55,640 --> 01:25:59,439
Speaker 1: she and Zach were smashing. She was slated for a

1652
01:25:59,479 --> 01:26:01,120
Speaker 1: little bit too, you know what I'm saying. So I

1653
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 1: don't think and that dude, the college dude. Oh that's right,

1654
01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:07,479
Speaker 1: that's right. Um. But yeah, so I thought that was

1655
01:26:07,720 --> 01:26:10,439
Speaker 1: you know, that was a that was a keen distinction

1656
01:26:10,479 --> 01:26:13,559
Speaker 1: that she picked up one very important um. I told

1657
01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:15,479
Speaker 1: her that I hoped it was a little bit of both. Okay,

1658
01:26:16,640 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 1: caer leader meets nasty, you know what I mean? She ran,

1659
01:26:21,080 --> 01:26:23,040
Speaker 1: She ran in the peach pit after dark. You've been

1660
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:27,280
Speaker 1: watching too many like high school shows, high school Fantasy.

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01:26:27,560 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: I heard your All American Guy renewed for another season.

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01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:32,759
Speaker 1: I don't even know where I'm at with that because

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01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't watch it until I can until I can

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01:26:35,040 --> 01:26:37,439
Speaker 1: binge it, So I don't even know where we're at.

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01:26:38,320 --> 01:26:40,800
Speaker 1: Like nothing, annoys me more now than having to wait

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01:26:41,360 --> 01:26:43,960
Speaker 1: each week to watch a TV show like we did

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01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:47,160
Speaker 1: back in the olden days. Ye look like like Your

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01:26:47,240 --> 01:26:49,880
Speaker 1: Honor is back on Showtime and I watched it the

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01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:52,000
Speaker 1: other night. I probably have to watch it again because

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01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:53,639
Speaker 1: I may have had an edible before and I don't

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01:26:53,640 --> 01:26:56,920
Speaker 1: really remember it. But um, but but it's every week

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01:26:57,520 --> 01:26:59,439
Speaker 1: you got to wait for the new episodes and I'm like,

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01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:02,840
Speaker 1: wait a minute, no, no, I like, I what if

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01:27:02,880 --> 01:27:05,040
Speaker 1: I want to watch three or four right now? I

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01:27:05,120 --> 01:27:07,120
Speaker 1: don't have that option. But then that's also hard for

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01:27:07,200 --> 01:27:09,479
Speaker 1: you to like stay off a spoilers, you know what

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01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like you're gonna wait for a whole season

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01:27:11,040 --> 01:27:14,880
Speaker 1: to be twitter right, Well, unfortunately, there aren't a lot

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01:27:14,880 --> 01:27:19,120
Speaker 1: of people tweeting about All America. I think I'll be okay.

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01:27:19,640 --> 01:27:21,479
Speaker 1: But that show is more popular than you think, though,

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01:27:21,600 --> 01:27:23,519
Speaker 1: because every time I talk about it, people like a

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01:27:23,600 --> 01:27:25,920
Speaker 1: grown people are like yeah, I know, like even that

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01:27:26,040 --> 01:27:29,240
Speaker 1: Titletown High, I got like ten dms from grown ass

1684
01:27:29,360 --> 01:27:32,360
Speaker 1: people going oh yeah, I'm hooked. I'm hooked. I'm like,

1685
01:27:32,439 --> 01:27:34,840
Speaker 1: we're watching fifteen year olds on TV right now. This

1686
01:27:34,960 --> 01:27:37,840
Speaker 1: isn't okay, but it's on Netflix. I mean it is,

1687
01:27:38,360 --> 01:27:46,519
Speaker 1: you know, live from the Duncan Studios Chicago runs I'm

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01:27:46,600 --> 01:27:53,719
Speaker 1: Duncan and Juice Chicago Kiss FM and I Heart Radio station.

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01:27:53,920 --> 01:27:56,680
Speaker 1: It's a French show. My mom tells a story, you know,

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01:27:56,800 --> 01:27:59,120
Speaker 1: my mom, I wonder where I got it. It's quite

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01:27:59,160 --> 01:28:02,640
Speaker 1: the storyteller, and I believe there's some truth to a

1692
01:28:02,720 --> 01:28:04,439
Speaker 1: lot of the stories she tells. But I also think,

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01:28:04,520 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 1: you know, why would the truth get in the way

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01:28:05,840 --> 01:28:08,599
Speaker 1: of a good story. And I've made a living off

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01:28:08,680 --> 01:28:11,000
Speaker 1: of that. So but my mom tells a story about

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01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:14,960
Speaker 1: my ninety eight year old grandmother who apparently dated the

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01:28:15,080 --> 01:28:17,519
Speaker 1: guy at the DMV and Fort Madison, Iowa, who was

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01:28:17,560 --> 01:28:20,719
Speaker 1: like in his sixties, in order to keep her driver's license.

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01:28:21,080 --> 01:28:23,519
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's true, but that's the story

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01:28:23,520 --> 01:28:25,600
Speaker 1: of my mom's telling, and she's sticking to it. And

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01:28:25,720 --> 01:28:28,439
Speaker 1: of course, my ninety eight year old grandmother and Fort Madison,

1702
01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:31,360
Speaker 1: Iowa had the biggest Cadillac you could buy, not lit

1703
01:28:31,560 --> 01:28:34,200
Speaker 1: su like the four door. Yeah, and she was rocking

1704
01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:36,840
Speaker 1: that thing and apparently never got in an accident. I

1705
01:28:36,880 --> 01:28:39,439
Speaker 1: don't know, but she had her license, and my grandfather

1706
01:28:39,560 --> 01:28:43,439
Speaker 1: kept saying, there's my great grandmother and my grandfather kept saying, hey,

1707
01:28:44,000 --> 01:28:46,400
Speaker 1: we're downe with this, like you need and finally when

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01:28:46,439 --> 01:28:49,000
Speaker 1: she wouldn't do it, and then one day decided she'd

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01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:52,880
Speaker 1: had enough driving and gave her license back. But supposedly

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01:28:53,000 --> 01:28:54,679
Speaker 1: she was you know, I don't know what she was doing.

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01:28:54,720 --> 01:28:57,280
Speaker 1: I don't like to think about that. Ggevie. She was

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01:28:57,360 --> 01:29:03,200
Speaker 1: doing somethings around. Yeah she had Yeah, she had access

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01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,080
Speaker 1: in Fort Madison, Iowa. I don't know how she did it,

1714
01:29:05,200 --> 01:29:08,559
Speaker 1: but man, whatever, but I like the story. I'll stick

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01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:11,000
Speaker 1: with it. I don't think it's true, but maybe maybe

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01:29:11,040 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 1: it is. I don't know. She was a sassy lady. Yeah,

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01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:15,679
Speaker 1: well she sounds like it. I'm glad that she decided

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01:29:15,720 --> 01:29:17,720
Speaker 1: it was time because I have, I know, so many

1719
01:29:17,760 --> 01:29:20,360
Speaker 1: stories of when the family needs to decide, yeah it's time,

1720
01:29:20,880 --> 01:29:22,799
Speaker 1: you know, when you drive right on through the garage

1721
01:29:22,840 --> 01:29:25,040
Speaker 1: and through the back of the garge and push a

1722
01:29:25,240 --> 01:29:27,320
Speaker 1: you know, a fridge to the back of a cherry tree.

1723
01:29:28,160 --> 01:29:30,240
Speaker 1: I was talking about my sister about this, and we're

1724
01:29:30,240 --> 01:29:31,800
Speaker 1: a ways away from this, I hope, I think. But

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01:29:33,280 --> 01:29:38,280
Speaker 1: we were raised by strong personalities, and those strong personalities

1726
01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:40,320
Speaker 1: are going to be difficult for us someday, well, we

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01:29:40,400 --> 01:29:42,160
Speaker 1: have to tell them what to do. That's not going

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01:29:42,240 --> 01:29:45,800
Speaker 1: to go. Well, it won't. Yeah, no, I'm not looking

1729
01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:49,800
Speaker 1: forward to that. But my GGEV is the reason I'm

1730
01:29:49,840 --> 01:29:52,920
Speaker 1: a Cubbs fan. And we every summer, almost every summer,

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01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:55,559
Speaker 1: we would go to Fort Mettason, Iowa from Phoenix, Arizona,

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01:29:55,760 --> 01:29:58,200
Speaker 1: which it wasn't that easy to get to, and we

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01:29:58,320 --> 01:30:01,400
Speaker 1: travel all day and and we'd go and here's my

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01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:03,920
Speaker 1: mom's grandmother, my great grandmother. We'd walk in the room

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01:30:04,280 --> 01:30:07,040
Speaker 1: and if there was a Cubs game on WGN, I

1736
01:30:07,200 --> 01:30:09,280
Speaker 1: kid you not, she'd say, can you guys come back?

1737
01:30:10,320 --> 01:30:13,479
Speaker 1: And my grandmo my mom, but this is her grandmother

1738
01:30:13,640 --> 01:30:15,880
Speaker 1: is like, but Gigi, we came from Arizona to see you.

1739
01:30:15,960 --> 01:30:17,880
Speaker 1: And she'd be like, well, that's fine, you'll still be

1740
01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:23,040
Speaker 1: here tomorrow, right, game doesn't start till exactly. No, I'm serious,

1741
01:30:23,240 --> 01:30:24,720
Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding you. And then and then if

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01:30:24,760 --> 01:30:27,320
Speaker 1: she'd let us stay, then we weren't allowed to talk

1743
01:30:27,920 --> 01:30:30,160
Speaker 1: because she had to watch the Cubs game. So that

1744
01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:33,200
Speaker 1: I remember that distinctly, and that's why I'm a Cubs fan.

1745
01:30:33,400 --> 01:30:34,960
Speaker 1: And it's that a sweet story that I could tell

1746
01:30:35,080 --> 01:30:36,800
Speaker 1: right before my first pitch that I'm never gonna get,

1747
01:30:37,479 --> 01:30:42,800
Speaker 1: you know, you know, the catering manager on Chicago PEV

1748
01:30:42,920 --> 01:30:44,840
Speaker 1: gets to throw out a first pitch. He's from Beast

1749
01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:49,080
Speaker 1: from Atlanta by the way back, but I don't Good morning,

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01:30:49,120 --> 01:30:51,880
Speaker 1: It's the French show on one or three five Kiss FM.

1751
01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:54,160
Speaker 1: I had a dream once that this show actually wasn't

1752
01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:56,439
Speaker 1: even on the air, that they like had just switched

1753
01:30:56,479 --> 01:30:59,160
Speaker 1: it out for another show and they just didn't tell us.

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01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:02,320
Speaker 1: They just it was a it's a weird dream. I

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01:31:02,400 --> 01:31:04,240
Speaker 1: don't know. I have a lot of weird dreams. I

1756
01:31:04,280 --> 01:31:07,599
Speaker 1: still have the dream occasionally that I It's been a while,

1757
01:31:07,720 --> 01:31:09,920
Speaker 1: but I still occasionally have the dream that I somehow

1758
01:31:10,000 --> 01:31:12,880
Speaker 1: didn't complete everything I needed to to graduate college. Yes,

1759
01:31:13,880 --> 01:31:15,840
Speaker 1: and we've looked up that one before, and it has

1760
01:31:15,880 --> 01:31:17,840
Speaker 1: something to do with unfinished business in your life or

1761
01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:19,880
Speaker 1: something like that. I don't know, but yeah, it's like,

1762
01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:23,519
Speaker 1: somehow I I got to graduation, there was nothing in

1763
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 1: the little folder because I missed something, and I had

1764
01:31:26,880 --> 01:31:28,599
Speaker 1: to explain that to my parents and they were pissed.

1765
01:31:28,840 --> 01:31:32,000
Speaker 1: Oh no, Yeah, I think it's a pretty common one.

1766
01:31:32,400 --> 01:31:34,800
Speaker 1: That one in teeth falling out. I don't have that one,

1767
01:31:34,880 --> 01:31:38,439
Speaker 1: but some people have that one's common. Pregnant dreams are common,

1768
01:31:38,800 --> 01:31:41,320
Speaker 1: the falling dreams where I'm falling but I can't stop falling.

1769
01:31:41,920 --> 01:31:45,080
Speaker 1: Ever have that, Yeah I did. Coming Not to remember

1770
01:31:45,240 --> 01:31:47,280
Speaker 1: be able to remember your dreams, Yeah that's common. Yeah,

1771
01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:50,160
Speaker 1: I can't remember my dreams. I barely remember. Always the

1772
01:31:50,240 --> 01:31:52,640
Speaker 1: good ones too. Yeah, wake up like, oh that was

1773
01:31:52,880 --> 01:31:57,280
Speaker 1: and I'm like what happened? Yeah? Yeah? Have you ever

1774
01:31:57,360 --> 01:31:59,360
Speaker 1: had like a really awesome dream and then you wake up?

1775
01:31:59,400 --> 01:32:01,519
Speaker 1: But you try, We're going to get back to so

1776
01:32:01,600 --> 01:32:04,400
Speaker 1: it'll keep going, like hold my eyes shot Like no,

1777
01:32:05,360 --> 01:32:08,800
Speaker 1: I was right in the middle. It was going so well.

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01:32:09,439 --> 01:32:10,559
Speaker 1: It must have been a dream.