1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning. The Breakfast Club Morning. 2 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: Everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious, Charlamage the guy we 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 2: are the Breakfast Club. 4 00:00:10,400 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: Laila Roses here as. 5 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 2: Well, and we got a special guest. 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: In the building. 7 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 3: Yes, indeed you know her from. 8 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Atlanta, Ladies and Gentlemen, Drusidora. 9 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 3: Welcome SNA Morning, y'all. I'm good. I'm good. 10 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 4: I actually have been in New York for a couple 11 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 4: of days, so the city's been showing me love. 12 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,720 Speaker 3: I'm not tired, I'm awake. I'm here with y'all. 13 00:00:30,240 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: How's your energy? 14 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 3: How's my energy is better? 15 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 4: You know, I've been going through a lot, but I 16 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 4: feel like where y'all have seen me for the past 17 00:00:37,280 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 4: what two years, I'm definitely in a more heeled place. 18 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, when did you get to that place? 19 00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 4: Honestly, honestly, working on my album was like my therapy. 20 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 4: So I think that just being able to get all 21 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 4: of those emotions out and just do something productive and 22 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,640 Speaker 4: put it all on paper and leave it there, that 23 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:02,279 Speaker 4: was a big part of, you know, my healing journey for. 24 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 2: Breaking down for people that don't know what you're talking about, 25 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,120 Speaker 2: because lot of people might not watch the Housewives of Atlanta. Yeah, 26 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,920 Speaker 2: she was on Housewives Atlanta. You got a divorce of separation. 27 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 4: It's not official yet, separation going through through the bust, 28 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:14,400 Speaker 4: which is a weird. 29 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,440 Speaker 2: Separation because he lives in the basement. Yes, and you 30 00:01:16,480 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 2: live upstairs. Yes, and you're not allowed downstairs. 31 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:19,040 Speaker 5: Yes. 32 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:20,000 Speaker 3: And he's been there first. 33 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, and he's not allowed to come upstairs unless like 34 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 4: grandom access. It's just like, I've never heard of this, 35 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 4: Like I don't know anybody else that I can say, 36 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 4: how did you deal with this? You know, I've never 37 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 4: heard of this, and I did not know that would 38 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 4: ever be something the judge would rule on. So it 39 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,679 Speaker 4: makes it extra complicated. It's already hard enough. Divorce is 40 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 4: already tough enough, but you know, to run into each 41 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 4: other in the driveway or you know what I mean, 42 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 4: Like it's a lot you have no idea. Well, how 43 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:44,240 Speaker 4: did it even come to that point that who said 44 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 4: that this how it should be? Like, because we I've 45 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 4: never heard of that. Did he say I want to 46 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 4: live and I want to remain in the house, and like, 47 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 4: how did that happen? He was basically like, I'm not 48 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,160 Speaker 4: leaving the kid's attorneys were like, yeah, he's not going 49 00:01:57,200 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 4: to leave the premises, and so have you seen that 50 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:00,120 Speaker 4: movie War of. 51 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 3: The World, Thank you? 52 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, right, it's like that in real life, you know, 53 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 4: where it's it's the asset in the marriage. 54 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 3: And so what I've been learning through this. 55 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 4: Process is like, you know, it's love and it's like 56 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 4: pure bliss, and we built this beautiful family and we're 57 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 4: building legacy, and then all of a sudden we're going 58 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,359 Speaker 4: through a divorce and now it's all business. 59 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 3: It's like, you know, a. 60 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 4: Negotiation of so the asset being the house, it's a 61 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:25,080 Speaker 4: big deal, you know, and so I would love to 62 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 4: just split everything like a fifty to fifty, keep it 63 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 4: simple and we can be done. But he's like, I 64 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 4: want everything. I want the house, I want forty percent 65 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:35,320 Speaker 4: of your business that I've had since two thousand and 66 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 4: five's my company, you know, and he's coming for that. 67 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 3: And it's it's just how. 68 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: Did y'all get there? What started the separation? 69 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 2: People assumed it was cheating, people assumed it was so 70 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 2: many different things. 71 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 1: How did y'all get there? Let's go, girl, I just show. 72 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 3: House when. 73 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,760 Speaker 4: Yes, okay, so you know everything, so you watched it 74 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 4: like people, right, So a lot. So we lived in 75 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 4: Chicago and from Chicago originally born to raise and we 76 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 4: lived there for some time. 77 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,560 Speaker 3: And it was a lot of women. You know, it 78 00:03:13,639 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 3: was a lot of. 79 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 4: Women, you know, the whole finding things in your phone 80 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 4: or I got family, like it's family. Everybody knows we 81 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 4: live here. People seeing you out, sir at dinner with women. 82 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 4: So it was a lot of that. 83 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 3: I did at one. 84 00:03:26,680 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 5: Point, excuse me, why can't you let him and his 85 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 5: women be wow. 86 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 3: Questions? 87 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 6: You know what A first I thought it was because 88 00:03:42,560 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 6: he just don't watch the show. And I'm like, oh, no, 89 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 6: he's trying to get her. Aren't you from South Carolina? 90 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 3: Cousins? 91 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 2: Really? 92 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 5: Oh? 93 00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 4: He I think from oh yeah, going Oh, but you know, 94 00:03:58,200 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 4: he got a lot of cousins, you remember, because of 95 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 4: who on the show? 96 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, don't you don't know? 97 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: Oh you did see that was the. 98 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 2: Chicago you found up. But then you moved to Atlanta 99 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 2: and gave them. 100 00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 4: I did you know, because let me tell you. So, 101 00:04:13,040 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 4: my parents were married for sixty years till my dad 102 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 4: passed away. So I grew up in a household you 103 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 4: know where I saw people choose each other every day 104 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 4: fight make up. 105 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 6: You know. 106 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:23,279 Speaker 4: That was just what I saw. So that's what I 107 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 4: wanted for myself. So when I got married, it was like, 108 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 4: this is what we go through. We're going to talk 109 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:29,280 Speaker 4: about it, communicate and move forward. So yes, I did 110 00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:33,000 Speaker 4: forgive him. We moved to Atlanta and he left and 111 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:34,480 Speaker 4: went to Tampa for three days. 112 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: Everyone saw that on national TV. 113 00:04:36,440 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 4: But it was it was embarrassing, you know what I mean, 114 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 4: like you leave your family and you don't tell us 115 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,400 Speaker 4: where you went. And it was more so because it 116 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:47,719 Speaker 4: was public, you know, and and humiliation and embarrassment. 117 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,600 Speaker 3: And I think that was tough, was it for you? 118 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it was that. And it was just a. 119 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 4: Continuous, you know, continuous behavior of like dealing with other 120 00:04:55,360 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 4: women and then coming on the show, and then there 121 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 4: was women saying, oh they were pregnant. It was a 122 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 4: particular woman who reached out and said she was pregnant 123 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 4: with his baby, and that was a big That was 124 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,240 Speaker 4: a big thing. That was probably one of the biggest straws. 125 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,880 Speaker 4: And then it was the disrespect of my mom, you know, 126 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:16,480 Speaker 4: of my family, the disrespect of my son, Jojo, my 127 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 4: fourteen year old. So it was just very layered, and 128 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,920 Speaker 4: finally he moved out of the bedroom. So we separated. 129 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 4: And we were separated at the time, so it was 130 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 4: a huge separation. We were trying to repair things, but 131 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 4: ultimately it just wasn't able. 132 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 3: To be repaired. 133 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:31,279 Speaker 1: I thought you cheated. 134 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,799 Speaker 3: Well that's that's what he says. 135 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 5: You know. 136 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 4: It was almost like, oh, she's hanging out and having fun. Oh, 137 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 4: this is my moment, you know, and now it flipped 138 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 4: to like a victim mentality when that really wasn't what 139 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 4: it was. 140 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:45,520 Speaker 1: It was a girl. 141 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 3: Oh well they thought that before this month. 142 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, but I heard you talk about it on 143 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 6: Carlos King and that was my first time actually hearing 144 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:54,760 Speaker 6: you explain. 145 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 3: It the way you did. 146 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:58,119 Speaker 6: So he had alleged that you were dating a woman 147 00:05:58,240 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 6: at the time and that's who you were cheating, and 148 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,919 Speaker 6: you said at the time you were going through so 149 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 6: much with him that you would have taken attention from 150 00:06:04,080 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 6: a Carborard box that please talk about. 151 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 3: What is the matter with you, girl? Lloyd? Just the 152 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,520 Speaker 3: comic relief of the situation that you need. 153 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, I wouldn't I wouldn't say there 154 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:26,279 Speaker 4: was eating you know, we we were hanging out that's 155 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 4: that's still my girl to this day. 156 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,119 Speaker 3: Like we're still friends. But I think it was extra 157 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 3: sauce placed on it. 158 00:06:31,440 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 4: I will say, Okay, flirting, yeah, like I'll be honest 159 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 4: about that, a little nibbled on some food we went 160 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 4: to dinner. We was eating at the dinner table. But 161 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 4: all of the extra stuff. I mean, you have to 162 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 4: really watch the show and know. 163 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 3: Who Ralph is. 164 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 4: He is very much a narcissist and that's who I married, 165 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 4: That's who I chose to love. But at the end 166 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 4: of the day, what happened happened. People have actually witnessed it. 167 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 4: The disrespect so to say, Okay, I'm hanging with this 168 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 4: woman and now it's a relationship that just came out 169 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:01,680 Speaker 4: of nowhere. There was never any evidence, where's a receipt. Like, 170 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 4: you know, people can say things, doesn't make it true. 171 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 4: People say things about you. You know, is everything true? 172 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 3: Not everything everything? 173 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 5: But listen, how do you balance healing in private when 174 00:07:13,520 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 5: your pain is being monetized on reality TV? 175 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 4: Honestly, you know, that time that we did not come 176 00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:22,640 Speaker 4: right back on the show, I was actually grateful because 177 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 4: that was the time I took just to self, Like 178 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 4: I spent my time alone. You know, I just completely 179 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 4: shut down and I did a lot of praying, and 180 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 4: like I said, honestly, people may not have understood why 181 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 4: I said Dennis was my angel on Earth. 182 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 3: But really it was. 183 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 4: I was very grateful because it was a blessing at 184 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 4: that time to have somewhere to go a lot of 185 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 4: times like I didn't want to wake up out and 186 00:07:41,720 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 4: get out the bed. It's like you just don't feel productive, 187 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 4: like overwhelmed. Depression is real. So it was just knowing 188 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 4: that I have people supporting me, believing in me, and 189 00:07:52,560 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 4: a rooting for me, and I had to. 190 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 3: Show up, you know, for that. 191 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:57,360 Speaker 4: And when I got to the studios like okay, I 192 00:07:57,400 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 4: made it, you know, and then being able to compile 193 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 4: all this this body of work and have a productive outlet, 194 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 4: like I said, it was exactly what I needed to 195 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 4: get me to the other side where I. 196 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 6: Am now looking back, because your project is here, the 197 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:10,880 Speaker 6: music is here. But looking back on it, you brought 198 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 6: up the Dennist Angel on Earth comment and that the 199 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 6: people had conversations about that for a while. 200 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 3: I know, it's. 201 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 2: Crazy, Grimy, I'm not gonna lie. 202 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: You look shady. 203 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:22,880 Speaker 2: When when it first came out because it came out 204 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 2: that you were working with Porsches porschess Yes, what out. 205 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 3: A didentist is out here? Yes, the shock for me, 206 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 3: it's the conversation. 207 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 2: Now this is and it wass soon. You did it 208 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,600 Speaker 2: behind Porsches back, without having without talking. 209 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,679 Speaker 3: But that wasn't it happened like that. See there we go. 210 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 3: See we gotta talk about it. That's not how it happened. 211 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 4: So actually, you know this is during the time Porsche 212 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:52,680 Speaker 4: was living her African princess life. 213 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 3: Saw what she was. She was in Nigeria. 214 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 4: She wasn't checking for her girls. You know, I was 215 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 4: calling her. So on the record, I called Porscha a 216 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:04,400 Speaker 4: bunch of times. Work with Dennis, Yes, Like why wouldn't 217 00:09:04,440 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 4: I Dennis had been reaching out for years, like come 218 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 4: be an ambassador for Naya. 219 00:09:08,600 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 3: Let's you know. 220 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 4: It was like no, no, no, But because of what 221 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:14,760 Speaker 4: I was going through, this is my selfish season, okay. 222 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 4: And the music was good because I was like Dennis 223 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,959 Speaker 4: I talks music like I was confused like everybody else, 224 00:09:21,040 --> 00:09:23,680 Speaker 4: right I was, But when he sent my team the music, 225 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 4: it was like this is really good, Like I. 226 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 3: Need to do this music. That's how it felt for me. 227 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 4: So when I was calling her and I was texting her, 228 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 4: I have the receipts, show them a reunion. I was like, girl, 229 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:37,840 Speaker 4: I need to talk to you like it's really really important. 230 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 3: Bunch of techs. She wanted responding to you, girl, like 231 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: at all crickets. 232 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,959 Speaker 4: So when she did come back and we did talk, 233 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 4: we were in the studio Dennis. We'll be talking to 234 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 4: her and she's like, send me some songs. She's like, oh, 235 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 4: this is my favorite song. This is my favorite song. 236 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 4: So I'm like, okay, Porsche. He told me he had 237 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 4: a conversation, so she's cool. We talked two weeks before 238 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 4: we started filming and she was like, yes, girl, I 239 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,840 Speaker 4: know we're going through our divorces, need to get together. 240 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 3: I love the music. 241 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 4: I was like okay, because you know, I wanted to 242 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 4: make sure like we're all family. It's all yes, girl, 243 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 4: I know, like it's all good. Let's hang out a 244 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 4: week before we film. Oh sorry, didn't come to your 245 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 4: birthday party, girl, but let's turn up tonight. You, me 246 00:10:12,960 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 4: and Yandy, let's go out for that was the energy. 247 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:17,559 Speaker 4: So we go to Shamia's birthday party. That's why I 248 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:19,439 Speaker 4: was so libergasted. 249 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: He said it was a different story. 250 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 3: What's that? 251 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: So when the cameras came on. 252 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 3: A different it was like a light switch. 253 00:10:27,360 --> 00:10:30,600 Speaker 4: It was like, why didn't Dennis tell her that he 254 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 4: did it? Because she knew and she never denied it. 255 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:35,880 Speaker 4: But if you notice, when we were at Shamia's party, 256 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 4: it was like, I'm mad at you because you're working 257 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 4: with Dennis. Then it switched to well, you're filming with Dennis, 258 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 4: and then it was like a go naked thing. So 259 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 4: I was not clear on why she was upset and 260 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:47,400 Speaker 4: what the real beef was. But as you've seen the season, 261 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:49,680 Speaker 4: I just see, you know, the fans are smart, like 262 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,280 Speaker 4: shout out to the fans because they're seeing like, no, 263 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,680 Speaker 4: you know, we kind of catching her up in some 264 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 4: lives here, that's not actually how it happened. And it's 265 00:10:57,520 --> 00:11:00,640 Speaker 4: seeming more like deflection because you can't talk about a 266 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,080 Speaker 4: certain person. So she chose to talk about me, you know, 267 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 4: because she couldn't, and she said that she couldn't talk. 268 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: She did it for the cameras. 269 00:11:07,960 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 4: You need story, but I mean you need to have 270 00:11:10,160 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 4: things going on in your personal life, Like why is 271 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:13,199 Speaker 4: everything about what. 272 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:13,760 Speaker 3: I got going on? 273 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,600 Speaker 5: I don't understand on this It's hard to watch sometimes 274 00:11:16,640 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 5: because you don't know if it's real shade, if it's 275 00:11:18,840 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 5: real smoke, or if it's just a storyline. 276 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 3: No, everything I do is real. 277 00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 4: I came on the show and an achilles rupture boot 278 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,760 Speaker 4: Like I came on the show limping, like, that's not 279 00:11:26,800 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 4: how I want to come on. I want to come 280 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 4: in with my like a little bittons, you know, and 281 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 4: be fabulous. And I wanted to show black love and 282 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 4: marriage and all the beauty and all that that's I 283 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 4: didn't want to show this. So everything that I've shown 284 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,360 Speaker 4: has just been my real life. I've not ever produced 285 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:41,959 Speaker 4: anything or tried to give a storyline because like I've 286 00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 4: been working since I was eight years old. 287 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 3: I don't need to put on for cameras. That's not me. 288 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:48,839 Speaker 4: Some people may like, that's what some people may do. 289 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 4: And I feel like in this situation, instead of Porsche 290 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 4: opening up about like her real feelings without talking about 291 00:11:55,840 --> 00:11:58,960 Speaker 4: that particular person, she didn't need to deflect it and 292 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:00,959 Speaker 4: make me her punging back. I think that was probably 293 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,680 Speaker 4: the most hurtful part, because like, I'm going through a 294 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 4: lot too. 295 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:06,080 Speaker 2: The Juy have in a real conversation because it made 296 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 2: you look crazy to the public at first when she 297 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 2: got on there and says, you're supposed to be my friend, 298 00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 2: but you work on my ex and I had no idea. 299 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: Did you have a conversation? After that? 300 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 3: We did, We had to sit down. It didn't go 301 00:12:16,400 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: very well. Which one are you talking about? 302 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 4: Because the NATA well to sit down when she walked 303 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 4: out when we were drinking tea, it escalated, So it 304 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 4: wasn't really like true resolve. But yeah, no, it's it's 305 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 4: like Porscha is not the person as you have seen 306 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,199 Speaker 4: that will communicate. You know, she's going to get up 307 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 4: and walk away. She's going to cover with all of 308 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 4: this happiness like she got it and that's not real. 309 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 4: And I just I think everyone was anticipating her to 310 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 4: come back this season and was excited, but ultimately she 311 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 4: couldn't deliver on the story that we thought we were getting, 312 00:12:45,720 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 4: you know, we thought we were getting Miscawadia and she 313 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 4: couldn't bring that. 314 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:50,480 Speaker 5: Oh so you don't think PA's been delivering this season? 315 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:53,840 Speaker 4: I mean, that's just what I feel, you know, that's 316 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 4: my personal opinion is that this wasn't a real beef. 317 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 3: So then what are we talking about. Let's talk about 318 00:12:58,640 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 3: something real, you get. 319 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 4: You know, two women together who are strong, who are 320 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:04,720 Speaker 4: bosses in their own right, have a conversation. We're not 321 00:13:04,720 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 4: going to agree on everything, but we don't need to 322 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 4: make this the whole thing. We're talking about for the 323 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 4: whole season, me and Dennis the whole season. 324 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 5: That That's why, in a lot of ways, I hate 325 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 5: reality because they will monetize your trauma for pain, like 326 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 5: what you might be going through with your divorce or 327 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 5: what emoture might be going through. It's just like damn. 328 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 5: And then if they can't get that, they just want 329 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:24,719 Speaker 5: to pitch y'all against each other. 330 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: I don't like it. 331 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:26,080 Speaker 1: What's the point of doing? 332 00:13:26,760 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 4: That's how I feel like we're both going through a divorce. 333 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:30,959 Speaker 4: We could be talking about that, you know what I mean? 334 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:31,480 Speaker 3: It really comes. 335 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 4: Everything doesn't have to be like a moment. And I 336 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,720 Speaker 4: think you know, you see some girls that come on 337 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 4: the show and it's just like I need a moment, 338 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 4: let me just say something to go viral or whatever, 339 00:13:39,920 --> 00:13:42,240 Speaker 4: and it's like, no, just be yourself. And I think 340 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 4: that's also how I've been able to be on now 341 00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:47,439 Speaker 4: for four seasons and that's just what I've learned because 342 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 4: there's been a lot of cash shakeups. Like I don't 343 00:13:49,920 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 4: even know how I'm still here because it's been people 344 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 4: that are that we're here, been here for a long 345 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:56,560 Speaker 4: time in or no longer here. But what I've learned 346 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:58,400 Speaker 4: from the ogs that have poured into me is just 347 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 4: be yourself, you know, and the story will tell itself. 348 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:03,680 Speaker 1: So I just want tother question. So you're not with 349 00:14:03,720 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 1: her go naked hairline? 350 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 3: I literally was about to ask, so that's not go 351 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 3: naked hair this right now? Yes? No, this looks good. 352 00:14:10,080 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 2: The hair that. 353 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 4: I was wearing in the sit down where you saw 354 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 4: the bangs, that that that's I warren in real time 355 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 4: because when you put it through a one two edit, 356 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:21,040 Speaker 4: how I made it look it looked great. But in 357 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 4: person y'all saw it, right, That's how that was go 358 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 4: naked there? 359 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 3: So are you an ambassador forked? 360 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 6: No? 361 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 3: No, no, no no no no. I have a great vendor. 362 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 3: She's melted. We're good. 363 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 5: So you don't like go naked head, is what you're saying. 364 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:34,880 Speaker 3: I mean it just didn't work for me. Per se. 365 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 4: When you go to bleach blonded, it just it did 366 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 4: something that wasn't right. 367 00:14:39,160 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 6: Would you have said that prior to all this dinnist stuff, 368 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 6: because I thought you. 369 00:14:42,680 --> 00:14:44,560 Speaker 3: Were so it was it was like a good partnership. 370 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 6: It was in the beginning of the season you said 371 00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 6: you thought you were doing numbers for Go Naked. 372 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 3: I did do numbers. I did do numbers. That's why. 373 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 4: Well, I just believe like as black women, we support 374 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 4: each other. Right, If you're my girl, I'm gonna support you. 375 00:14:57,800 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 4: We have a great working relationship. It was fun, you know, 376 00:15:00,040 --> 00:15:02,160 Speaker 4: fun to work with her at that time. And if 377 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 4: that's your friend, you're gonna hold your friend down. But 378 00:15:04,480 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 4: it was just when all of this started to happen, 379 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 4: it just became corny to me, you know. So I'm like, okay, well, 380 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,520 Speaker 4: now since we're gonna you're gonna drag me, Well, I'm 381 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 4: gonna speak my truth then, because the truth is like 382 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 4: I had your back, but if you don't have my back, 383 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 4: now it's fair game. 384 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 5: You think the show? 385 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 3: You said, all right, let me be honest about this. Yeah, 386 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 3: I'll be honest. Now, Okay, I would rather goneck get 387 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 3: than to wear that hair. 388 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 5: Game. You think the show would still be interesting if 389 00:15:27,240 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 5: if you a portion weren't beefing or like tension just 390 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 5: part of the paycheck. Now. 391 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 3: I mean I came on the show. 392 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 4: Let me make it clear, because I've been an actress 393 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 4: since I was literally like in. 394 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:38,400 Speaker 3: Grade school, right. 395 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:41,400 Speaker 4: So I made a decision because I was like, you 396 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 4: know what, people know me from this role. 397 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 3: They may not like me from this role or that 398 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: role or that movie or whatever. I fell going through COVID. 399 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 4: It was just an opportunity to be more vulnerable and 400 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 4: let the fans really get to know me and see 401 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 4: me as a mother and a wife and a friend 402 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 4: and a sister, like I'm so many other things, and 403 00:15:57,960 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 4: I wanted to show that, and so that was the 404 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:02,440 Speaker 4: reason for me joining the show. 405 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 3: It wasn't to do anything. 406 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 4: But just hopefully inspire other people going through what I'm 407 00:16:07,960 --> 00:16:11,160 Speaker 4: dealing with and connecting that way. So it wasn't to 408 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,880 Speaker 4: show what is happening like that was opposite of what 409 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 4: I wanted to represent on this platform. So I've never 410 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 4: subscribed to let's do this for a moment, you know, 411 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 4: let's do this for storyline. I actually feel like when 412 00:16:23,560 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 4: we used to watch Housewives and when it was nostalgic 413 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:28,040 Speaker 4: was because it was a group of women who were 414 00:16:28,080 --> 00:16:30,760 Speaker 4: really friends, and when you saw them fall out, it 415 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 4: was because I'm fighting you because I love you and 416 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 4: I know you can be better. 417 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 3: You can do so much more. 418 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 4: So that was where the beefs came, and then they 419 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 4: were able to resolve and move forward. And I feel 420 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 4: like here sometimes they just want to kill you off, 421 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:42,560 Speaker 4: you know, they want to. 422 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 3: Just like go below the bell. It was like dang, 423 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 3: like do you like me or not? 424 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:48,640 Speaker 4: Like what are we building or not? And so that's 425 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 4: what I would like to see the show get back to. 426 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:53,640 Speaker 4: And I think this season overall it was refreshing. It 427 00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,040 Speaker 4: wasn't dark, you know, as some of the fans have said, 428 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 4: like they felt like the show was going dark. 429 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 3: So I think we're moving towards a more pot place. 430 00:17:00,640 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: You know, I agree with that. 431 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,240 Speaker 5: But so so like if you do an interview like 432 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:05,399 Speaker 5: now you do, you're a little shady. So the gold 433 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,840 Speaker 5: naked hairline a lot of shady, right, you want that 434 00:17:09,880 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 5: kind of put fuel on the fire. 435 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:13,760 Speaker 4: Well, I mean when you have to wake up and 436 00:17:13,760 --> 00:17:15,879 Speaker 4: see people dragging you constantly, and I'm the type of 437 00:17:15,920 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 4: person that'll just be like, okay, all right, you know, 438 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,679 Speaker 4: and after so long I think now it's like I 439 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 4: got to start standing for me because for so long 440 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 4: I have protected my husband, I have protected my friends. 441 00:17:27,920 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 4: You know, people don't really hear from Drew too much. 442 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 4: I do my job and I go to work. You know, 443 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 4: I'm the girl that just that just works. I have 444 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 4: three children, I'm going through a divorce, and whether whether 445 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 4: I'm on Housewives or a movie or whatever, I'm just working. 446 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:43,119 Speaker 4: But now it's just gotten disrespectful where it's like, okay, 447 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:44,679 Speaker 4: you know you want to throw your shade. 448 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 3: Okay, well I'm gonna speak my truth, and if it's shady, 449 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 3: the truth heard sometimes. 450 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 5: So you're talking about where what Porscha said, you was 451 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:54,639 Speaker 5: having sex with somebody, sleeping with somebody. 452 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 3: She said so many things to take it out. 453 00:17:57,240 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: What the guy's name? 454 00:17:58,640 --> 00:17:59,359 Speaker 3: The past present? 455 00:18:00,280 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 4: Oh well we were talking about her. Oh she was 456 00:18:02,280 --> 00:18:05,439 Speaker 4: dating the past present, but they believed it. But present 457 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 4: you feel. 458 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, got you you got you, got you got. 459 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:10,320 Speaker 4: So you don't see it resolved for you and this 460 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:12,960 Speaker 4: girl at all. You're on Porsche, you don't at all 461 00:18:13,200 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 4: because you said you want to see the show get 462 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 4: back to you know what that was where it used 463 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 4: to be women were able to have their arguments, go 464 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 4: through it, talk it out, and then they're cool. You 465 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 4: know what I mean, you don't ever see you on 466 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 4: Porsche like, you know what, let's just put all this 467 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:33,240 Speaker 4: shit behind us because it didn't get crazy. It did, 468 00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 4: but all right, we're women, we both bosses. We like, yeah, 469 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 4: you don't see that. 470 00:18:39,040 --> 00:18:40,119 Speaker 5: I think. 471 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,639 Speaker 4: In certain cases it's hard to come back from certain 472 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:48,639 Speaker 4: things and just putting out falsities. That's like damaging to 473 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 4: my character, to me as a person. You know, I 474 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 4: have kids, So I just feel like the line has 475 00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 4: been crossed one too many times. However, I feel like, 476 00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 4: you know, if there's an opportunity to have a real 477 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 4: conversation and it may not happen on camera, I don't know. 478 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:04,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean yeah, I mean off camera. 479 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 4: I'm really big on like resolution, I'm really big on 480 00:19:08,840 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 4: gaining understanding and like moving forward. So if it is 481 00:19:11,640 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 4: an opportunity that presents itself, I would be open to that. 482 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 4: But it hasn't happened, and it's it's a year now. 483 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 2: You know, how do you do with the mental because 484 00:19:19,760 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 2: you know, they attack you a lot, right, they attack Uh, 485 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 2: they come for you. 486 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:26,119 Speaker 6: That the Michael Jordan's Michael Jordan thing with him being 487 00:19:26,160 --> 00:19:27,439 Speaker 6: your cousin, Is he your cousin or not? 488 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:29,960 Speaker 3: That was that was clearly a joke. 489 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:33,880 Speaker 4: I'm like, my maiden is Drew Jordan, but I'm from 490 00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 4: Chicago and everybody in Chicago wanted. 491 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 3: To be related to Michael Jordan, so we actually had 492 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:38,840 Speaker 3: the last name. 493 00:19:38,920 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 4: Jordan's were like, oh yeah, that's like the whole time, 494 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 4: Like my brother in law's Craig Hodges in real life. 495 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 4: So go into the games is like, where is your 496 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:47,840 Speaker 4: cousin at right? 497 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,879 Speaker 3: Exactly leg because it's. 498 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 6: That I feel like they come for your outfits, they 499 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 6: be trying to comfort, they come for everything, and so. 500 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,719 Speaker 4: I'm just supposed to take it like it's only so 501 00:19:57,840 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 4: much a person can take where it's like, hold on, look, 502 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 4: I'm from Chicago. 503 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:02,760 Speaker 3: At the end of the day. Now when I start firing, 504 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 3: it's like, oh my god, Drew, Oh she did some shade. 505 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:05,480 Speaker 3: Oh there, so me, And. 506 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 4: It's like, no, this is who I am, and this 507 00:20:07,080 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 4: is what happens when you poke the bear over and 508 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 4: over and over again. But no, like, my mom is 509 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 4: on a Facebook group the Michael Jordan Family Tree, and it's. 510 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,720 Speaker 3: Thousands of people in that chat. She's on their first 511 00:20:16,720 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 3: since our little girl, trying to connect it. I was like, 512 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 3: I want a cousin that. I think that the. 513 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:23,119 Speaker 4: Nieces can relate it to my friend and Don my 514 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 4: mam will want to be related. We all want to 515 00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:25,720 Speaker 4: So it was clearly a joke. 516 00:20:25,840 --> 00:20:28,879 Speaker 6: Then Joe created so many deep dives of trying to 517 00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 6: figure out your. 518 00:20:29,359 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 3: Faily, right. 519 00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,119 Speaker 5: I want to ask some questions about Judrew you been 520 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,400 Speaker 5: you have you know, you've been in this game since 521 00:20:34,400 --> 00:20:36,439 Speaker 5: you were a kid. How do you think Hollywood's perception 522 00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 5: of you has changed? And how is your own perception 523 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 5: of yourself changed? Oh? Good? 524 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:46,719 Speaker 4: Well, you know I feel like on the side of 525 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 4: like the theatrical, you know, TV and film, I'm proud 526 00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 4: of what I've been able to accomplish, you know, in 527 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 4: my career. Sometimes I don't reflect enough and like, wow, 528 00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:55,920 Speaker 4: you know, I've been able to work with some amazing 529 00:20:56,359 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 4: actors and some amazing projects and tell some amazing stories. 530 00:21:01,600 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 4: But the Game, it's like, that's one project that I 531 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 4: just feel like the public perceives me in that way 532 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 4: and I can't shake it. 533 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:13,240 Speaker 3: And it's like what decade is in a decade? 534 00:21:13,320 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I still see the comments to this day, 535 00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:19,200 Speaker 4: which is saying, Okay, this was obviously something really big 536 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 4: and a part of the culture. 537 00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 3: But I did see a hashtag. 538 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 4: Where it was like hashtag canceled the Juice Door hate, 539 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 4: and I just want to say, can we. 540 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 3: Do that please? 541 00:21:26,800 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 4: Like, at the end of the day, this has gone 542 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 4: on too long. Drwin lied to Juice of Door, Like 543 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 4: do we not all watch the same show? You feel 544 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,720 Speaker 4: like they hit carried from there almost definitely. Like I 545 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,120 Speaker 4: see the comments, I'm like wow, And I've met people 546 00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 4: that's like, Ooh, I'm mad at you cause you broke 547 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 4: up med school and I'm like, you know, Tia, was Mary, 548 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 4: you know Booch, you like as a whole family. But 549 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 4: people were very invested in the show. And I just 550 00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:51,239 Speaker 4: think that's a perception people have of me, you know, 551 00:21:51,560 --> 00:21:54,080 Speaker 4: despite all the various roles I've played, which is why 552 00:21:54,080 --> 00:21:56,720 Speaker 4: I did join the show to try to change that narrative. 553 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:01,400 Speaker 4: And I think for myself, yes, perception of self is 554 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 4: I have so many things I want to do. I 555 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 4: want to do Broadway, I want to direct, I produced 556 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:07,479 Speaker 4: my first film, and continue to open the door for 557 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 4: other young talent coming up. And so that's where I'm 558 00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:15,240 Speaker 4: moving into of my contribution stage in life and wanting 559 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 4: to really see others win as well in this business. 560 00:22:18,119 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 4: I think the thing with the game was right. Everybody 561 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 4: else had fictional names, but you really went on there 562 00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 4: is Drew Sodora like you. Why was that shout out 563 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 4: Tomorrow Rocky Hill shout out? I'm oh nice, I love 564 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:39,000 Speaker 4: that woman, you know. Actually, So the story behind that 565 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 4: is I booked Girlfriends. I did an episode of Girlfriends, 566 00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 4: and when I went on set, she remembered meeting me. 567 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 4: Come into my home because my sister, Allison is my 568 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 4: my manager since I was like eight years old, and 569 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 4: so she came to the house to meet my sister. 570 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 4: My sister was a writer on Amen Rock Martin worked 571 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 4: from Morris Agency. Yeah, like like og Wright, And so 572 00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:00,440 Speaker 4: she came to my sister's house to see if she 573 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 4: would share her rolodecks because she was moving to Los 574 00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 4: Angeles to become a producer. And she's like, Drew, when 575 00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 4: you were eight, you were running around the house talking 576 00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 4: about I'm going to be an actress and a sayinger, 577 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 4: and she's like, and you really like stuck with it. 578 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,680 Speaker 4: And so for that reason, let's talk about some bigger things. 579 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 4: So she wrote me in the show the game. So 580 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 4: that's how it came to be, And it was really 581 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:19,960 Speaker 4: like an honor because I'm like, you got to be 582 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 4: like a list right to play yourself. So to have 583 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,200 Speaker 4: the opportunity, I was like, Wow, I want to showcase 584 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:26,680 Speaker 4: my music. I think that was one of the first 585 00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 4: times that people to notice to me as an actual 586 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:30,520 Speaker 4: musical artist. 587 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,879 Speaker 5: Luthamar let me, do you ever feel like people will 588 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,920 Speaker 5: underestimate your arrange because they know you more from Real 589 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,680 Speaker 5: Housewives Now than like your acting career? 590 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:41,600 Speaker 6: Are a music corect even on the show that was 591 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 6: then that was a narrative on the show when you 592 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 6: first came on the show, they were really playing with 593 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:46,520 Speaker 6: your IMDb. 594 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:48,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 595 00:23:48,119 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 4: I mean I think that you get placed in a box, 596 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 4: just even just let's say African Americans and the arts 597 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,439 Speaker 4: as a whole, we get placed in boxes really easily 598 00:23:56,600 --> 00:24:01,440 Speaker 4: stereotyped that exists, and for me joining the show wanting 599 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,680 Speaker 4: to show in my real life now, it kind of 600 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,320 Speaker 4: took away from my actual skill, my passion, which is 601 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 4: you know, music and acting. So for me it was 602 00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 4: important to balance it, which is why you know, on 603 00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 4: off season I go to la and really, you know, 604 00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,359 Speaker 4: you have to get in people's faces and remind them, 605 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:19,920 Speaker 4: like here, I am continuing in my acting classes just 606 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,320 Speaker 4: to keep showing myself approved because it's always changing. It's 607 00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 4: extremely competitive, and I think the industry has changed a 608 00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 4: lot where it used to be and not in all cases, 609 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,040 Speaker 4: but it is this now and it exists. 610 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 3: They look at numbers two, so you might be. 611 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,040 Speaker 4: I've had producers directors say you were the better actress, 612 00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:39,600 Speaker 4: but this person had more followers no than you. And 613 00:24:39,680 --> 00:24:41,719 Speaker 4: so it's a balance now of talent as well as 614 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:45,479 Speaker 4: marketing yourself and being more appealing to buyers. 615 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,920 Speaker 6: Well you got I did it to me. Your music 616 00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 6: is out and I watched you said that your music 617 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,359 Speaker 6: was like you're healing when you were going through the 618 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 6: divorce because you were in such a dark place. What 619 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 6: song on your album was like when you hear it, now, 620 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:01,639 Speaker 6: get tearful, It takes you there, it's your favorite. 621 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,360 Speaker 3: It's two definitely I did it to me and love 622 00:25:05,400 --> 00:25:09,240 Speaker 3: for a minute with Sierra. Shout out to Sierra Gates. 623 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:12,119 Speaker 3: She came and get laid like a eight bar a 624 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:18,040 Speaker 3: little situation. Yeah, Russell Wilson, Sierra. 625 00:25:20,400 --> 00:25:24,440 Speaker 4: Speaking, she was rapping and that's a lot of people 626 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,160 Speaker 4: don't know she came in. But it's a very emotional record. 627 00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,359 Speaker 4: And that was the record that actually Dennis and I 628 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 4: were in the studio and it was like really emotional. 629 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 4: He was over there crying about Portia and I was 630 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,359 Speaker 4: in there having my moment. But it is it's an 631 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 4: emotional record. But I did it to me as very 632 00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 4: representative of the project because it's about taking accountability. And 633 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 4: that's why I love that record because I could sit 634 00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:46,440 Speaker 4: here and share, you know, with you guys all the 635 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 4: things that my ex did right that weren't right. But 636 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 4: it gets tiring after a while to keep blaming everything 637 00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,639 Speaker 4: on the other person. So for me, it's like, no, 638 00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,000 Speaker 4: I played a part. You know, there were things I 639 00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 4: could have done better if I'm being honest, And so 640 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 4: that's what the song is saying, like look in the mirror. 641 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 4: It's not easy to do, you know, but you gotta 642 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,480 Speaker 4: sometimes look at yourself and say, Okay, yeah I made 643 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 4: a mistake here. 644 00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 3: There and I could have been better, and then grow 645 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:11,879 Speaker 3: from that. What do you let him know that I 646 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 3: have Actually I have. 647 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 4: We have had conversations, you know, before we go to 648 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:17,920 Speaker 4: court because when you go to court, that's when everything 649 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 4: blows back up. But we've had conversations where we have stated, 650 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 4: you know, we understand our differences now and I can say, well, 651 00:26:24,400 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 4: I could have done this better, and he has said it, 652 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,760 Speaker 4: you know, and apologize in some areas, and yeah, like 653 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 4: we're humans and just being more gentle with ourselves and 654 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:37,240 Speaker 4: just forgiving each other doesn't erase everything and every pain 655 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 4: that we cause. But yeah, we can be honest and say, 656 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 4: you know, I wasn't perfect. 657 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:41,879 Speaker 3: I can say that now. 658 00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,400 Speaker 2: You've been in the business for since a child, right, Yeah, 659 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:45,880 Speaker 2: what's the most cut throat part? 660 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 1: Is it Hollywood? Is it Reality TV? Or the music? 661 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 5: Oh? 662 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,600 Speaker 3: That's a hard one, oh man. 663 00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 4: I mean I've been able to have a consistent career, 664 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 4: like with acting, even though joining the reality show to 665 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 4: what you were saying, Charlotte, and like I've been able 666 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 4: to now create a space where I did like five 667 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 4: movies you know, last year, and I'm very proud of that. 668 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,960 Speaker 4: So I feel like the acting world has allowed me 669 00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 4: back in, you know, So reality or music? I feel 670 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,040 Speaker 4: like music because I'm still trying to knock down this wall, 671 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:15,960 Speaker 4: but because they look. 672 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 2: At just taking your talent because you can sing, So 673 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 2: it's taking that talent away. 674 00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it does. 675 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,960 Speaker 4: And it's a constant proving which is fine. Like I 676 00:27:25,080 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 4: never get to a point where I feel like entitled 677 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,399 Speaker 4: or like I should have certain things. I feel like 678 00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:31,720 Speaker 4: it's important to keep working on your craft and and 679 00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 4: just do the work. Put your head down and do 680 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 4: the work so that way when the opportunity comes, you know, 681 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 4: I'm prepared. And that's just really what I've been doing. 682 00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 4: So even though I havn't knocked down that door, I 683 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,879 Speaker 4: feel like having a project out is monumental for me. 684 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 4: It doing as well as it's doing almost gold and streams, 685 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 4: which is unbelievable to me, without like a lot a 686 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 4: lot of marketing. It's just really grassroots word of mouth, 687 00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 4: and now getting out there and performing is next for me. 688 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,120 Speaker 4: So I'm just still on that journey of like really 689 00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 4: making it happen for myself in music question. 690 00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,360 Speaker 5: Was the a moment where you felt like reality TV 691 00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,240 Speaker 5: saved you? And was there a time where you felt 692 00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 5: like it broke you? 693 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would definitely say Because people try to say, Okay, 694 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 4: reality TV breaks up a lot of marriages and things 695 00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 4: like that, I can't say, I blame my fallout of 696 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 4: my marriage on it. I feel like what it did 697 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 4: do was escalated and put a magnifying glass. And it 698 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 4: also held us accountable because you know, you can fight 699 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 4: with your spouse and be like, okay, you know what, 700 00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,359 Speaker 4: I'm not even gonna say nothing. We're just gonna roll 701 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 4: past this, or we're gonna put a band aid, or 702 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:39,320 Speaker 4: we're gonna talk about it in private or not talk 703 00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 4: about it at all. But when you're do it on cameras, 704 00:28:42,280 --> 00:28:44,000 Speaker 4: now you gotta talk about it and you have to 705 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 4: go into counseling and they really hold you accountable. So 706 00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,880 Speaker 4: I think for us, it made us more responsible and 707 00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 4: understanding like this probably isn't meant to be. So I 708 00:28:51,920 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 4: think it saved me from dedicating my life to twenty 709 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 4: years in this marriage and then it being over. We 710 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,640 Speaker 4: both have said that we believe that it wouldn't have lasted. Yeah, 711 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,640 Speaker 4: So I think in that regards, it did save me, 712 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 4: you know, to be able to get to this place 713 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 4: and I'm my person, because I think my person is 714 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,040 Speaker 4: still out there. You know, I'm not jaded or bitter. 715 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 4: And then did it break me? Oh yeah, because I 716 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 4: mean this was my biggest storm, Like depression is real, 717 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 4: mental health is real. Like you never know your breaking points, 718 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,800 Speaker 4: and I can honestly say, like I reached that, I 719 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 4: completely lost myself, I lost my voice in this marriage 720 00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,280 Speaker 4: and having it play out on national TV, it was overwhelming. 721 00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 4: It was overwhelming because you're living it a few times, 722 00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:40,280 Speaker 4: you're filming it, and then you're watching it. That's like, 723 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 4: can you imagine that we relived in our head? 724 00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 2: And an embarrassment because usually if there's a problem in 725 00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,520 Speaker 2: your marriage is at home, but now you are the 726 00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 2: whole world has an opinion. The whole world is even 727 00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,080 Speaker 2: a common and they don't know what's sure or what's not, but. 728 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:53,960 Speaker 1: They just have an opinion. 729 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:56,440 Speaker 6: And every time I watch your interviews, You're breaking down 730 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 6: in a interviews every single time, and I'm wondering, like, 731 00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 6: why put more stuff out there? 732 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 3: Like Michael B. Jordan, have you spoke to him since 733 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,560 Speaker 3: the Carlos King interview? Oh my god, that was. 734 00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 2: A big. 735 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 4: So. 736 00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,720 Speaker 6: In Carlos King's interview, Carlos King asked her who's one 737 00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 6: of the most like famous people she's dated, and she 738 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,160 Speaker 6: mentioned that she used to date Michael B. Jordan back 739 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 6: in the day and that was everywhere. I'm like, WHOA, 740 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 6: she'd just be volunteering the influence. 741 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 3: Why you asked a question? 742 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 5: I am. 743 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:26,880 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no, not even a little bit. 744 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 5: You know. 745 00:30:28,600 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 4: I'm an open book and I just try to always 746 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 4: remain that way because I think it's important to talk 747 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 4: about your life and open up. 748 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 3: I make that choice. 749 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 4: I made that choice when I join reality TV because 750 00:30:37,040 --> 00:30:38,480 Speaker 4: I feel like it's important for people to see you 751 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,360 Speaker 4: as a human being, you know, and I feel like 752 00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 4: other people can see you as a real person. 753 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:44,800 Speaker 3: And no, okay, you know, everything's not perfect in my world. 754 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 4: I may overspeak or say too much or shade or whatever, 755 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 4: but this is who I am and I'm unapologetically me. 756 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 4: But yeah, I was asked the questions, so I answered it, 757 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 4: and he asked me on a date to attend the 758 00:30:55,960 --> 00:30:56,959 Speaker 4: NAACP Awards. 759 00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 3: It was probably like two thousand and maybe six, when 760 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,320 Speaker 3: he was like still on the soap operas and I 761 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:03,600 Speaker 3: met his mom and stuff. It was cool. 762 00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:05,200 Speaker 4: We went down a couple of days. No, there was 763 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 4: no like intimacy on the record, but still he was 764 00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 4: very very sweet guy, very very sweet, and he's been 765 00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 4: super successful. But yeah, that's my truth and it happened. 766 00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,280 Speaker 5: You know, this is my last question. With all the 767 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,800 Speaker 5: healing that you've gotten, right and what you know now, 768 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 5: if you could go back and whisper something to yourself 769 00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 5: during the hardest moment of your marriage, what would you say. 770 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 3: The hardest part of my marriage. 771 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 5: I think. 772 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:41,640 Speaker 4: It was a couple of things, but for sure Ralph 773 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:46,280 Speaker 4: moving out of the bedroom. You know that it felt 774 00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 4: like abandonment, you know what I mean. It's different to 775 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 4: like go sleep separately and just but him making the 776 00:31:50,920 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 4: decision to move out when instead of fighting, Because people 777 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 4: don't stay married forever without waking up every day and 778 00:31:58,280 --> 00:31:58,920 Speaker 4: choosing each other. 779 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 3: So when the person wakes up and doesn't choose you. 780 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:08,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, h we appreciate you for joining us. Let's get Andrew, 781 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:10,320 Speaker 2: let's get into your single. We're gonna play your single 782 00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 2: right now. 783 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: What you want to hear? Oh? 784 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:16,080 Speaker 3: I know right. I was like, let's wake it up, 785 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 3: let's wake it up. 786 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,560 Speaker 4: It's early, you know, after you go through all the 787 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,920 Speaker 4: heartach campaign, you know you gotta get outside. 788 00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 3: And so good Girl, Bad Bitch is uh my next single. 789 00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:31,800 Speaker 1: Good Girl it's the outside record, it is. 790 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,960 Speaker 4: It's my outside record, and that's what the album is. 791 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,880 Speaker 4: You know, you may cry and fall in love for 792 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 4: out of love when you're listening to my album, and 793 00:32:38,640 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 4: this particular song is one that's empowering and getting outside 794 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 4: with your girls and just living, you know. 795 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: All right, well, let's get to it. It's Juice and Dora. 796 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,200 Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, wake that ass up 797 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 1: in the morning. Breakfast Club.