1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: don't know y'all all looking back to back down, giving 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: them like amazing bus things and it's not me true 4 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: good Steve har to mother, don't join me. You gotta 5 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: use that turn be hurting them. You gotta turn to 6 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:45,240 Speaker 1: turn them out. Turn got to turn them out to 7 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: turn turn the water the water. Come, come on your thing, 8 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: I show will good morning everybody, y'all listening to the VARs, 9 00:02:06,120 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 1: Come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey 10 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 1: got a radio show, Man on man on man. Grateful 11 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: for it comes with a huge amount of responsibility. I 12 00:02:17,680 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: didn't really know I was gonna have to be this responsible, 13 00:02:20,919 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: you know, Um, can I share something with y'all? I 14 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 1: started out to Finally I had gotten on track and 15 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: was able to see a way to even pursue my dream. 16 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:36,359 Speaker 1: It has been a long, a long trip that I've 17 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: been on, and I've gone through so many phases of it. 18 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: It is rewarding along the way to accomplish your dreams. 19 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: What I'm saying is this, let me let me put 20 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: it together, because I got so much running through my 21 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,800 Speaker 1: head right now. You know, it's It's one thing to 22 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 1: accomplish your dream, but there's joy in the process of 23 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: achieving it. See, some people are so caught up in 24 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: the goal, the final goal, that they find no joy, 25 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:15,240 Speaker 1: no enjoyment in the process. If you have found what 26 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: it is you want to do and you strike out 27 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: on that journey, please understand you are far more blessed 28 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: than the average person to know what it is you 29 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: really want to do. To find your work in life, 30 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: your purpose, to find out what direction you want to 31 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: go in is such a blessing. The average person, if 32 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: you sit down and talk to them, oftentimes don't have 33 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: their life on track. And it'd be some people that 34 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: you're looking at you think God are going on because 35 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: of their appearance, their swagger, or they walk like it, 36 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: they talk like it, they look like it. But if 37 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:58,920 Speaker 1: you sit down and talk to the average person, the 38 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: average person man does not know what their purpose is, 39 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: has not discovered what they want to do, and have 40 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: no idea how to get there. If you are on 41 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: the other side of that, if you understand your purpose, 42 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:16,919 Speaker 1: if you have an idea of what you want to be, 43 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:21,000 Speaker 1: and you are on your way there, you are truly 44 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: blessed and in that blessing. You must recognize it as 45 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: a blessing. You must recognize the fact that you are 46 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:33,800 Speaker 1: on the right side, and that there should be a 47 00:04:33,839 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 1: sense of accomplishment and a feeling of pride in you 48 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: that you are on track to accomplish your goal. See 49 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 1: what used to happen was sometimes I used to keep 50 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 1: my nose so on the grindstone that I wouldn't even 51 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: look up and realize. Man, hey, man, I know you're 52 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 1: trying to get here, but Steve, hold on, man, can't 53 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 1: you see what you've done so far? Can't you find 54 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 1: just some joy in the process. See, a lot of 55 00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,840 Speaker 1: us lose the joy of the blessings God has given 56 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,359 Speaker 1: us because we're looking at the end. Tomot, I ain't 57 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 1: there yet. You on your way. I'm gonna give you 58 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: an example. I had a friend who told me that 59 00:05:15,520 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: they wanted to be a million now, and they asked 60 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 1: me some questions and I told him, so they started 61 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: the process, and I am telling you, this dude works 62 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:32,599 Speaker 1: extremely hard. So about a year later we were talking. 63 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:39,359 Speaker 1: He had found this business, he had set his goal, 64 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: and he was working towards it. Then about two years 65 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:45,479 Speaker 1: later I ran up into him again. We were talking 66 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,240 Speaker 1: about it and everything. It's a man. Really really appreciate 67 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 1: the advice. He said, Man, but this is all jacked up, man, 68 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,000 Speaker 1: because I still ain't made that million I was talking about. 69 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, just just keep at it. 70 00:05:58,920 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: It's coming. He's a man. Keep at it. Man. You 71 00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: know how long I've been doing this? Been two years now. 72 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: And I didn't say that to him, but I said 73 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 1: to myself, yeah, two years. He said, Man, I've been 74 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 1: grinding so long. Man, it's just it ain't having it 75 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: from me. I said, wait a minute, man, hold on, 76 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,400 Speaker 1: hold on. I said, about how much you're making right 77 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: now a year? Man, about two hundred and fifty thousand. 78 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:28,920 Speaker 1: I quit breathing. I said, well, my man, two years 79 00:06:28,960 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: ago you didn't have a clue. Two years later, you're 80 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 1: making a quarter of a million dollars. I said, man, 81 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:41,039 Speaker 1: do you understand how blessed you are? I said, man, 82 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: your family was about to get put out two years ago. 83 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:48,479 Speaker 1: You don't bought a house? Yeah, man, but this ain't 84 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: the house. I really won't. Ohoa Pardner, whoa, I got that. 85 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 1: I got that house. You really won't make Mike call 86 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:59,719 Speaker 1: five eight million. I don't know, but man, y'all gotta 87 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,600 Speaker 1: hig you're making a payments, you drive it. You ain't 88 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: out no more. I said, hold on, man, you got 89 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: to stop. I said, you got to stop. I said, man, 90 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:08,960 Speaker 1: because right now, man, you you coming across as real 91 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: ungrateful to me. And so he said, man, why are 92 00:07:11,920 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: you tripping like that? Man? Man, you act like don't 93 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: nobody want to have nothing but you? I said, whoa man, 94 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:19,400 Speaker 1: where are you going with this conversation? I said, Oh, 95 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: I didn't come to you. I just came to you 96 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: and ask you how you doing. And I'm trying to 97 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 1: point out to you that the journey that you started on, 98 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 1: that you are on your weight, and you are in 99 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: the process of accomplishing your goals. And can you not 100 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:36,400 Speaker 1: feel some joy and some pleasure in your accomplishment. Quit 101 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 1: tripping on the fact that you ain't made a million yet. 102 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: You on your way. You don't went from your He thought, 103 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: this dude was making fifteen thousand dollars a year. You 104 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: making quarter of a million dollars in two years. May 105 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: come on, man, can't you see? Can't you see? So 106 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: he said eventually, a man, I kind of see what 107 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: you're saying. But that ain't about nothing to me because 108 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:58,680 Speaker 1: I ran up into him a year and a half later. 109 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: How you doing, man, Man, I showed, wish I'd appreciate 110 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 1: it my life when I had it like that? I said, 111 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 1: what you mean? Had it like that? Man? Just fell 112 00:08:09,200 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: on some hard times. Man, I'm right back why I was. 113 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: And then we talked. I said, hey, man, don't worry 114 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: about it. I said, Once you know how to accomplish something, 115 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: I said, you just reapply the same principles and start 116 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: on over again. Man, you know how hard it is 117 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: to be to start over. Okay, my man, Hold up, partner, 118 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: you can't do yourself like this again. First you wasn't 119 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 1: grateful for what you had. Now you're looking at the 120 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 1: fact that you might have to start over, and you 121 00:08:33,200 --> 00:08:37,600 Speaker 1: know how hard it is to start over. Maybe God said, okay, 122 00:08:38,440 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: you ain't happy with this. Okay, didn't handle it your way? 123 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: You obviously ain't happy with the way I'm bringing it 124 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:46,719 Speaker 1: into your life. You want to handle it your weight, 125 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: Go ahead and handle it because he will let you 126 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,000 Speaker 1: have it your way. Can I tell you that he 127 00:08:51,160 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 1: will let you do it exactly the way you want 128 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 1: to it because he gives us all the power of choice. 129 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,719 Speaker 1: So then maybe he said, Okay, you don't appreciate the 130 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: way I'm doing it. You don't like the favor I'm 131 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 1: showing you. You think it's take it too long. I'm 132 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: gonna let you do it your way. I'm not gonna 133 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 1: turn my back on you. I'm just gonna let you 134 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,559 Speaker 1: do it your way. Just just say. Maybe he said that, 135 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 1: and now he right back where it was. So what 136 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: I try to get the young cat to understand was, man, 137 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: appreciate your life for what it is. Because like life, 138 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: Jenny's got that song that he got out off this album. 139 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: Still I still believe it could have been worse. And 140 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: now that it is worse, what's on your mind now, folks, 141 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:33,520 Speaker 1: If you are on that side of life where you 142 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:35,599 Speaker 1: have figured out what you want to do, you know 143 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 1: how you're gonna get that, and you know your purpose. 144 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 1: You're accomplishing what the majority of people never ever do. 145 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 1: So be grateful for your process. Don't tumble yourself, don't 146 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 1: throw yourself off to cliff. It's gonna be all right. 147 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: Success takes a measure of time. It is not easy. 148 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 1: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. You're listening 149 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. I've got sunshine on a cloudy day 150 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: when it's cold outside. I got the month of May. Well. 151 00:10:13,520 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: I guess you say, Steve, what can make you feel 152 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: this way? My response is simply my girl. I'm talking 153 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 1: about my girl. Boom boom boom boom boom boom boom 154 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:39,360 Speaker 1: boom boom boom boom boom boom boom bump. Yeah. Boy, man, 155 00:10:39,600 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 1: I saw before I introduce you all, I was going 156 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: to work the other day and coming from work last night, 157 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 1: and I watched on the way in my van, I 158 00:10:55,440 --> 00:11:03,440 Speaker 1: watched the Motown Hits via story on Amazon Prime. Uh huh? 159 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: Is that with by Berry Gordy? Right? Oh? I mean 160 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:14,839 Speaker 1: you can't talk about Hits vial without talking about with them. 161 00:11:16,040 --> 00:11:19,439 Speaker 1: I just wonder if they have another one. It's the 162 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 1: news news on Amazon Prime. It's not okay, it's girl, 163 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: what okay? Can I ask you a question? How long 164 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 1: Amazon playing? Long time? Oh? Wow? Yeah? What you mean? 165 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:44,880 Speaker 1: Or why there we go? Eight years? I just get 166 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:50,000 Speaker 1: to the story. I never got it last year. I 167 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:54,199 Speaker 1: don't know what y'all talking about some eight years frustrated 168 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 1: with us? I'm talking about what the TV shows on 169 00:11:58,440 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: it not not the order stuff on line. They ain't 170 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 1: want to talking about here, Steve, we know, baby, we 171 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: have that. You know, Shirley, you ain't gonna talk down 172 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 1: to me. You don't even know what it's about. You 173 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: don't even know what it's about. Like last year, year before, Steve, 174 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:20,599 Speaker 1: you just what you ain't seen nothing. I don't see it. 175 00:12:20,720 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 1: We all saw it. Lord Jesus helped me, Father God 176 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 1: dealing with these ungrateful people on this show. As I 177 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:34,600 Speaker 1: tried to share it didn't lightenin't seen You ain't seen nothing. 178 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:42,079 Speaker 1: That was Robinson. Well, yeah, we can't ask you not. 179 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: It was mostly the special was mostly about the Funk Brothers. Yeah, 180 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,640 Speaker 1: and all the hits they made. That's the one. The 181 00:12:53,840 --> 00:13:04,959 Speaker 1: beer you d shirt ye man else anybody else ought 182 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 1: of it? Day? All of it? Well you no, no, no, no, 183 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: no no no. What we're gonna do is the CLO. 184 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:15,880 Speaker 1: That's what we're gonna do because I can't now you 185 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: ain't seen nothing, Shirley, because I thank you ly have 186 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 1: seen it. You just found out it was on Amazon Prime. 187 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 1: Hey y'all. When Shirley quit Hayden, I'm gonna tell y'all 188 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 1: all about it. At some point in the show me, 189 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,839 Speaker 1: I was just asking your question. You're just mad because 190 00:13:32,840 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: you're late, all right? Coming up in thirty three minute, 191 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 1: thirty two minutes after the hour, asked the CLO Chief 192 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: Love Officer. He's mad Steve Harvey right after this, you're 193 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it's 194 00:13:47,760 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 1: time now for ask the CLO Chief Love Officer. Steve 195 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: Harvey in the building when it's cute self look at 196 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 1: him this one. Steve CLO is from Santana in Detroit. 197 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: Santana writeside been dating a woman that's separated from her husband. 198 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 1: She recently moved in my apartment complex, and we both 199 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 1: have six year old sons, so that's how we met. 200 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,199 Speaker 1: Her son told his dad that mommy had a boyfriend, 201 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,480 Speaker 1: and all hell broke loose. He came to my apartment 202 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,000 Speaker 1: one day and threatened me, saying he is getting his 203 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 1: family back and I'm in the way. I told him 204 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 1: i'd respect his wishes because I don't need the drama. 205 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: My girlfriend says it's a lie and he's crazy, and 206 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: she still wants to be with me. What do I do? 207 00:14:33,960 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: Save your life? Though? Save your life? You just said 208 00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: it ain't worth the drama. You won't respect his wishes, 209 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:45,600 Speaker 1: So now let it play out. Let some time go 210 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:48,240 Speaker 1: between it. If she won't to be with you, Let's 211 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: just see how this work out. But this food right here, 212 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: You've got to be careful. He'd already came to your apartment. 213 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,240 Speaker 1: Ain't like he don't know where you live? And that 214 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: little day are he gonna tell it again? Mama, boardfrien 215 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:06,240 Speaker 1: him back as soon as she says, board free him back? 216 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 1: Yess who're coming back? Daddy? Yeah they're not. They're just separated. 217 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, all right, moving on? Uh huh uh 218 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: Kizza and Houston says, my fifty one year old stepfather 219 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: and I don't get along, and uh it's putting a 220 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: strain on my relationship with my mother. I hang out 221 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 1: in a popular downtown area and so does he. He 222 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: seems to like girls around my age and it's disgusting. 223 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 1: He flirts and sends drinks to ladies, and one of 224 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 1: my former classmates says he even d MMed her on Instagram. 225 00:15:43,480 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 1: My mother knows I don't like him, but she doesn't 226 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: know why. She keeps lecturing me about being rude and 227 00:15:48,840 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: said I need to work on my attitude. Should I 228 00:15:51,120 --> 00:15:55,120 Speaker 1: tell her why I'm rude? M that's a tough for 229 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 1: because issue old mother. So she can see your damn 230 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:04,800 Speaker 1: any dead? Yeah, I mean stepdad to him. I don't know. 231 00:16:05,040 --> 00:16:10,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know. I I would just say, Mom, 232 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 1: i've seen him out before. Where I go, do you 233 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: know he goes out? I don't know, Na, I see 234 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 1: his hard you know? I mean, but this her mother 235 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: got a strain on relationship. Here's what I know. You're 236 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 1: not fit to play my mama. That's what I'm not fit. 237 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: Now you know some boyfriend girls and one of my 238 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: dudes or something. I might stay out of it. But 239 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: once I see you playing my mama, you're not playing 240 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:42,360 Speaker 1: my mama. Dog, that's not gonna happen, not me, not 241 00:16:42,520 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 1: as a man. You can't do nothing my mama. So 242 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: I'm assuming a lot of women feel that way about 243 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:53,560 Speaker 1: their mama. So they're playing my mama. Thing I don't. 244 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: That's off limits. My mother in any disrespect towards her 245 00:16:58,160 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 1: is off limits. So so what did she do? Though? 246 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: So does she tell? If she was me, I whip 247 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 1: his ass. But that ain't what's going to happen. But 248 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,040 Speaker 1: she ain't me, so I think I think she may 249 00:17:12,119 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 1: have to pull her mother's coat and just say, mom, 250 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,000 Speaker 1: do you know that dad goes out to the same 251 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: place as I go to And that's the problem I have. 252 00:17:19,720 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: And I've seen him out there doing the most and 253 00:17:22,560 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 1: I think the most. And that's why I don't care 254 00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: from him, because I don't want you to get hurt. Yeah, 255 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 1: and then maybe maybe she needs to know that because 256 00:17:31,280 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: because you're nothing to clown my mama. No, not in 257 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 1: front of me. I oh you show howthing to do 258 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 1: that partner? Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, that's good. Yeah, 259 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:48,920 Speaker 1: that it is uh uh. Devel in North Carolina says, 260 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:51,959 Speaker 1: I'm forty year old, single woman with three children from 261 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: a previous relationship. And I recently met a man that 262 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:56,639 Speaker 1: was about to go to prison and he will be 263 00:17:56,800 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: out in sixteen months. We're getting to know each other 264 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 1: while he's inside. He was charged with he was charged 265 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: with being an accessory to a crime, and he's never 266 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:09,160 Speaker 1: been in legal trouble before. He's forty four, and we'll 267 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:11,400 Speaker 1: have to start all over again when he gets out. 268 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 1: So that's my only concern. There aren't many good men left, 269 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: so I'm trying to do something different? Am I foolish 270 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 1: to fall for a man in jail? Well, you say 271 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:27,440 Speaker 1: you want to do something different, it's really different. So 272 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:32,800 Speaker 1: now you have hooked up with a man that did 273 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:36,560 Speaker 1: she say? He was on his way to prison. So 274 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 1: now he got to go for sixteen months and you 275 00:18:39,080 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: all are spending this time to get to know each other. How? What? What? What? What? 276 00:18:45,000 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: How are you getting annoying? What? No? I'm listening? Do 277 00:18:51,720 --> 00:18:57,400 Speaker 1: you go to visit? Nah? Lady, I think I think 278 00:18:57,440 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: you need a hold type before you put a lot 279 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:02,840 Speaker 1: of stock in this, because you're not gonna really know 280 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: this guy until you spend time with him. Right, you 281 00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 1: have to spend time with him. He can't be doing time. 282 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 1: You have to spend time. No different, we talk about time, 283 00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: but it was two different ways. You need to spend 284 00:19:16,240 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: time with him. But he got to do some time first. 285 00:19:18,880 --> 00:19:20,960 Speaker 1: And until you spend time with him, you're not gonna know. 286 00:19:21,040 --> 00:19:23,800 Speaker 1: You're not getting to know nobody that's locked up. What 287 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: he right, it's what he wants? What you want to hear? Yeah, 288 00:19:28,320 --> 00:19:30,280 Speaker 1: you know he's enjoying this in there now. You know 289 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: I'm not saying you are just you know, disolved what 290 00:19:35,800 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 1: what am I looking for the word. I'm not saying 291 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:41,760 Speaker 1: you just own that guy or just associate yourself. I'm 292 00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 1: not saying that because some good brothers that is locked away. 293 00:19:44,920 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: But you need to wait. You need to wait until 294 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:49,520 Speaker 1: you find out who he is, because you're none about 295 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 1: this man. That's true and accessory to what crime? What 296 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 1: about this? A woman has kids, right, Steve? And when? 297 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 1: How soon should she introduce her kids to a man 298 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:04,680 Speaker 1: that she is dating and has been dating for a while. 299 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: If you've been dating for a while, that must mean 300 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 1: there's some serious interest there. So as soon as you 301 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 1: think a guy is a serious contender, I think that's 302 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:16,359 Speaker 1: when you have to introduce to kids. But I think 303 00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 1: you have to do it in a public place. I think. 304 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: I don't think you bring them to the home. I 305 00:20:21,960 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 1: think you meet out park or McDonald's with a little 306 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 1: play area in it so the kid can go off 307 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: and play and just see how he reacts to the 308 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,480 Speaker 1: child and how the child reacts to him. But don't 309 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,440 Speaker 1: do it in your home that way. If you don't 310 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: get the reaction you need or you won't, then it 311 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:40,920 Speaker 1: wouldn't know where my dad at. You know, you're just 312 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: some dude at the park you talk to you know kids, 313 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 1: equate things in their house has belonging to them. Oh, 314 00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,639 Speaker 1: you know. Coming up next, Junior is in for the nephew. 315 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: Would run that prank back? We'll do it right after 316 00:20:54,240 --> 00:20:59,359 Speaker 1: this you're listening to coming up at the top of 317 00:20:59,440 --> 00:21:02,680 Speaker 1: the hour, Sannah standing by with National News and we'll 318 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:08,000 Speaker 1: tell you all about the Steve Harvey Foundation Virtual Mentoring Camp. Okay, 319 00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: it is happening this Father's Day weekend. We'll tell you 320 00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,240 Speaker 1: all about that at the time. Right now. Yeah, it's exciting, 321 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:18,080 Speaker 1: right right now. Junior is in the building for the 322 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,200 Speaker 1: nephew with run that prank back? What you got for 323 00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 1: its Junior? We were ready yesterday. But it is not 324 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: what you think. It's just just the title, that's all. 325 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 1: It is exotic delivery. Okay, okay, exotic deal. I can't 326 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 1: see exotic delivery. Here we go, running cat. Hello, Hello, 327 00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: I am trying to reach Adrian. Adrian, Yeah, this is 328 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: this is he How can I help you? How you doing? 329 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,280 Speaker 1: My name is, My name is Rashod. I'm with GPT 330 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 1: and we have a delivery for you. I'm gonna be 331 00:21:51,640 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: arriving probably in the next I guess about the next 332 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:56,959 Speaker 1: ninety minutes. Are you Are you actually at the house, sir? 333 00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: Um No, I'm not at home right now, but I 334 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: mean you can just go ahead and leave whatever it 335 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: is my my wife and you know, kids can probably 336 00:22:04,960 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: get it when it home from schools, you know. So 337 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,719 Speaker 1: let me make sure I got the address right. Are 338 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:13,800 Speaker 1: you thirty eight North River Drive? Yeah? Okay, So is 339 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:17,879 Speaker 1: anyone there right now at all? Uh? No, nobody is 340 00:22:17,960 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 1: home right now. I don't understand why he can't just 341 00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 1: just leave the package there for again, Well, this has 342 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,920 Speaker 1: to be this has to be signed, and I have 343 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:29,159 Speaker 1: you on here as the handler for this delivery, so 344 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,760 Speaker 1: I definitely gotta get quite a few signatures from you. 345 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,679 Speaker 1: I got about five or six pieces of paper sheets 346 00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: that you need to sign off on. Are you Are 347 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: you What time did your wife get there? Sir? She'll 348 00:22:40,080 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 1: be there. Lady. What do you what do you What 349 00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,200 Speaker 1: do you mean? I'm a handler handling? What what are you? 350 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: What are you delivering? This is GPT, sir, this is 351 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: Global Pet Transport. We have two peacocks, we have a seal, 352 00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,800 Speaker 1: and we have a baby kangaroo that we're dropping off today. Okay, 353 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: there's gotta be some kind of mistake, right, we have 354 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 1: a dog, that's it. We don't, we don't. We're not 355 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 1: an animal sanctuary here. I don't. I don't understand what 356 00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: what you're talking about. We didn't a kangaroo, I feel, 357 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 1: I mean, you're you're you're you're Adrian. It's correct. Yeah, 358 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,080 Speaker 1: that's my name, man, But okay, and you're thirty eight 359 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:19,679 Speaker 1: North River Drive. Listen, listen, Yes that is accurate. But again, 360 00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 1: I'm not a handler. I'm not handling things. Okay, okay, sir, 361 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 1: let me let me if there is some confusion. Your 362 00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:31,120 Speaker 1: name is here, your address is here. So I don't 363 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 1: see where I have a problem. Everything I'm asking you, 364 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,440 Speaker 1: you're saying it's correct, except now you're saying you don't 365 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: want your delivery. It's not my delivery man. That's what 366 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you. This is not I didn't 367 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:46,600 Speaker 1: order a kangaroo. I didn't order these things. Okay, A kangaroo, 368 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:51,080 Speaker 1: a seal, and two peacocks doesn't make sense, man, two peacocks? 369 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:53,359 Speaker 1: Whose order is this? This is not my holder? Man? 370 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:55,800 Speaker 1: You got my name? Okay, so here, okay, So here's 371 00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 1: here's what we need to do. Will your wife be here, 372 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 1: be at the house within the next nineteen minutes. She 373 00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 1: she she might be, But you know what are you saying? 374 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: What I'm gonna do is leave them here, leave them 375 00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: at you at your place, and you can call the 376 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,680 Speaker 1: company that shipped them, and you can figure out what 377 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:15,720 Speaker 1: went wrong or whatnot. But it is my leave these 378 00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: animals there? What what? What is your what's your name? Brothers? 379 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,280 Speaker 1: What's your name? Brothers? My name is Rashod Rahan. Let 380 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,280 Speaker 1: me tell you something like now, Okay, you're not about 381 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: to leave no animals at my house. Okay, you're not 382 00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: leaving no keeay cocks. You're not leaving no in kangaroos. 383 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: You're not leaving no concealed Okay, we're not having a 384 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:34,040 Speaker 1: pettant zoo at my house. When I get to my house, 385 00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: was shot? Ain't no animals gonna be there? Okay, Okay, 386 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 1: you know what? Who wanna sig it? Okay, let's let 387 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: me get my wife on the phone here right, Let 388 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: let me call my wife. Hang on, Hey, I'm sir. 389 00:24:42,960 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: I don't listen, sir. I don't have time for you 390 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 1: to reach out to your wife, for you to try 391 00:24:47,359 --> 00:24:50,000 Speaker 1: to figure out what you're gonna do about your kangaroo, 392 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,880 Speaker 1: your peacocks, your seal. I don't. I gotta make this drop. 393 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 1: I gotta keep moving. I have other animals on the truck. 394 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 1: I don't give up about your other animals. Okay, I'm 395 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 1: a home. If she made ordered to damn tankle would 396 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:05,159 Speaker 1: see it, okay, because I know I didn't order. All right, 397 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: We're gonna figure this out, okay, And she's not gonna, sir, 398 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 1: Listen to me. Listen to me, sir. You can figure 399 00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:15,120 Speaker 1: this out when you get home. Right now, I'm now 400 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:18,400 Speaker 1: about an hour out. I'm gonna drop. The animals can 401 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: do something, sir. If if it's not yours, somebody will 402 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 1: come back tomorrow and pick them up. Do you mean 403 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 1: somebody gonna come back and pick them up tomorrow? I'm 404 00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,000 Speaker 1: not gonna have the feeling my house overnight you think 405 00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,360 Speaker 1: I am. I ain't Mary Popper's man. I ain't nowt 406 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: here doing nothing but these fucking animals like this. You 407 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 1: get crazy for shot. Please, it doesn't containimal at my 408 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,560 Speaker 1: house when I arrived. So help me, God, so so 409 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 1: so help you. Gouy what you're gonna have it? The 410 00:25:43,720 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: animal's gonna be there when you get there. Man, you're 411 00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: not feeling you're slowing up my whole delivery route today. Okay, 412 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: I ain't got time for this. I ain't got time 413 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:56,200 Speaker 1: for this, man. But why you order? Why you order 414 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,720 Speaker 1: of Kangaroo if you don't want it? Now? If I 415 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 1: didn't order them and glue, that's why I don't want 416 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 1: them to king Lu because I didn't order them from Kangaroo. 417 00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:06,879 Speaker 1: Be telling me what's out word of what I want. Okay, 418 00:26:07,000 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 1: this is the worst customer service in the world. I 419 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 1: don't even a customer of yours. You're trying to tell 420 00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 1: me that I gotta kangaroo, a peacocks and peacocks. You 421 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,720 Speaker 1: have two two peacocks. You have two peacocks, Sir. This 422 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,440 Speaker 1: doesn't even make any statements what you're gonna do with 423 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: those animals animals. I don't know what you're gonna do 424 00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: with them, But you're gonna sign. You're gonna sign this 425 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:30,639 Speaker 1: paperwork through that's what you're gonna do. You mind if 426 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:36,000 Speaker 1: you think I'm signing that paperwork animal? Man, I don't 427 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 1: want to whoop your ass at your house in front 428 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 1: of your wife and kids behind some damn animals. I 429 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,200 Speaker 1: don't what you're gonna sign my PaperWorks you want. I 430 00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,560 Speaker 1: wish you would try to whip my from them. I'm 431 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: about to show my kids what it looks like with 432 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 1: a to show up its talks, real reckless o. Can 433 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 1: you show it up here with a damn caravan an 434 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 1: animals like I mean, the just ridiculous. Okay, huh no, 435 00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:00,639 Speaker 1: got my face, man, this is ridicious. It's only one thing, 436 00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 1: I really, just only one last thing I need to 437 00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:05,080 Speaker 1: tell you, to be honest with you. What is that? 438 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,920 Speaker 1: The only thing I can tell you now, Adrian, is 439 00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: that I have nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mourning Show. 440 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 1: Your white bridget got me in the prank phone call you. 441 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:21,480 Speaker 1: Oh man, you gotta be kidding me. Oh man? Who wow? 442 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 1: You don't want the delivery man? You don't want I 443 00:27:26,640 --> 00:27:31,239 Speaker 1: don't want the kangaroo man. What is those animals together? Man? 444 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:32,840 Speaker 1: You gotta be high up your mind. One of those 445 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 1: damn animals together? All right? Baby, give it? Tell me 446 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:38,920 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. What's the baddest and I mean the baddest 447 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,880 Speaker 1: radio show in the lad Let me hear, Adrian, It's 448 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: a Steve Harvey Morning Show, baby, you have it exactic delivery. 449 00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: It was none by dancing, none of that. Yeah, doctor 450 00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:56,920 Speaker 1: do lettle you up delivering a zoo this man house. Yeah, 451 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:12,720 Speaker 1: karoo dn't get a zeal steale. That crazy crazy truly. 452 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:17,359 Speaker 1: So what's going on, Junior? Oh? You know, as I 453 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 1: think about that, you know, I was talking about this, 454 00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:22,120 Speaker 1: but I would really thinking about it when the last 455 00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: time you've been to the zoo, Like I ain't been 456 00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: to zoom a long time. You know, I thought about 457 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 1: that yesterday and it's been a long time, maybe in 458 00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:38,120 Speaker 1: my twenties, you know, twenties. Yeah, sure, Hey, that was 459 00:28:38,200 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: just the wild Dan shirt. I would whatever, Junior and 460 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: whatever they've been in the wild, but you know, I 461 00:28:58,760 --> 00:29:00,959 Speaker 1: wouldn't call it a steal. I don't do the snakes 462 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:11,120 Speaker 1: dot it's really yeah, all right, thanks Jure. Coming up 463 00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:13,320 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment 464 00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 1: and national news for you. Right after this. You're listening 465 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:23,240 Speaker 1: to The Steven Show. Attention young men between the ages 466 00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:27,560 Speaker 1: of thirteen to eighteen years old. The Steve Harvey Virtual 467 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:32,600 Speaker 1: Mentoring Program is on this Father's Day weekend with special 468 00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 1: guests including jeez La Lakerstar Taylor Horton, Tucker, Terrence Jay, 469 00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: and many many more. So, Steve, you said that during 470 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:45,200 Speaker 1: your mentoring session jul you found that the boys are 471 00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: dealing with so much pain because of the deaths of 472 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:53,400 Speaker 1: so many young black men. Right, yeah, Yeah, I'm having 473 00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:58,680 Speaker 1: some special men to help them with it. Oh. It's 474 00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: gonna be a panel called Pass the Pain Pass and 475 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: the guest are Shirley Tracy Martin. He's the father of 476 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:12,480 Speaker 1: Trey Brown, Martin's father Aubrey Wright, father of Dante Wright, 477 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: and Michael Brown senior, father of Michael Brenno. So I'm 478 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,640 Speaker 1: gonna have these men on to help these young men 479 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:25,520 Speaker 1: because they're dealing with so much pain with the actions 480 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: of the police. Uh, They're dealing with the absence of 481 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 1: their fathers in their lives. Uh. You know, it's just 482 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,640 Speaker 1: a lot, man, that these young men deal with. So 483 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: we address in our Menuting program things on so many levels. 484 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 1: So if you have a boy between thirteen and eighteen, 485 00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:47,280 Speaker 1: please invite him. You can go to Stephen Marjorie Harvey 486 00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: dot org for more information about where you can Stephen 487 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 1: Marjor Harvey Foundation dot org. Right, Harvey dot org. Harvey, Yeah, 488 00:30:58,240 --> 00:31:00,239 Speaker 1: you know all of that gets to it. But if 489 00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: you look it up me to give you more information 490 00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: and just come and join us, and then I'll be 491 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 1: haling some of them, some of the speeches myself. But 492 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 1: it's really great. We did during the pandemic six million 493 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:19,480 Speaker 1: boys how standing virtually because it was virtual, so we 494 00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: had boys globally globally, so during the pandemic we reach 495 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 1: six million boys. God's word, awesome. That's a lot of 496 00:31:29,680 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: people that and it makes a difference in these young 497 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: men's lives because they have to have somewhere to go, 498 00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 1: somewhere to let it out, to let people know how 499 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:41,480 Speaker 1: they feel, because they are dealing with lots of trauma 500 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 1: and all of that. Because of this, and also it's 501 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 1: just important that young men hear a different voice, a 502 00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 1: different idea of what manhood really is, as opposed to 503 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 1: what's presented to them out in the streets or was 504 00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 1: presented to them in music. Oftentimes, you got to hear 505 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 1: what a real man sounds and what it looks like. 506 00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 1: And a lot of our speakers are men and who 507 00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,600 Speaker 1: look like them and sound like them and can relate 508 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: to them. And a lot of guys I have speaking 509 00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: came from fathers homes themselves and can help them deal 510 00:32:13,680 --> 00:32:16,200 Speaker 1: with coping with the fact that they their father isn't 511 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: active in their life. A lot of these boys that 512 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,480 Speaker 1: come on and their dads will be active in their life, 513 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,800 Speaker 1: but there's many who'll be where dad's are absent in 514 00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: their life. And that's an important thing to cover. And 515 00:32:26,080 --> 00:32:29,840 Speaker 1: you had your dad in your life all the way 516 00:32:30,040 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 1: until I was forty. That's what made I started the 517 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: foundation when I right, I had my father Toss forty three. 518 00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:39,360 Speaker 1: And when I was looking at that man in that 519 00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: casket at the funeral, I came to the conclusion, if 520 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 1: it was not for that dude right there, I wouldn't 521 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 1: be who I am today. I was already on television, 522 00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,880 Speaker 1: already making money, already you know, had been able to 523 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,960 Speaker 1: do things for my parents. But yeah, man, when I 524 00:32:56,080 --> 00:33:00,320 Speaker 1: looked in that casket, I said, no, no, no, it's 525 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:02,840 Speaker 1: no way I'm here without this dude. So how do 526 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:04,920 Speaker 1: me and who don't have fathers? How did they get 527 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:06,880 Speaker 1: the wedding want to be? And when I was on 528 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 1: the plane going home, I said, man, you started foundation. Wow, 529 00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: thank god you do. Great story, Steve, So young men 530 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:17,800 Speaker 1: please go and register now at Harvey Foundation dot Org. Okay, 531 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,560 Speaker 1: all right, switching gears here, Steve, it is time for 532 00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 1: today's headlines. Ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne Tripp, thank you, 533 00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:28,880 Speaker 1: thank you very much. This is Andrew put the News. 534 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 1: President Biden is expected to sign the measure today, designating 535 00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:35,680 Speaker 1: June nineteenth as a federal holiday. Juneteenth's marking the day 536 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,080 Speaker 1: in eighteen sixty five that enslaved Africans in Texas found 537 00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:40,600 Speaker 1: out that they had been free to day. Were the 538 00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 1: last to be told, and their slave masses certainly weren't 539 00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: gonna tell them, got them all work out of them. 540 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: But again, this is the twelfth federal holiday, and President 541 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,720 Speaker 1: Biden is expected to sign it. Following his three hour 542 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:54,120 Speaker 1: face to face with Russia Vladimir Putin yesterday, President Biden 543 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: said that he did what he came to do. He 544 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,400 Speaker 1: said that the two discussed several topics, including cyber attacks, 545 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,920 Speaker 1: which he says are coming out of Russia but which 546 00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:05,440 Speaker 1: Putin denies, and human rights. How could I be the 547 00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:08,800 Speaker 1: President of the United States of America and not speak 548 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,759 Speaker 1: out against the violation human rights? I told him that 549 00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,600 Speaker 1: unlike other countries, including Russia, we're uniquely a product and 550 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: an idea. That's why we're going to raise our concerns 551 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:22,120 Speaker 1: about cases like Alexi NAVALNY. We hold these true self 552 00:34:22,200 --> 00:34:25,040 Speaker 1: evidence that all men and women. We haven't lived up 553 00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,760 Speaker 1: to the completely, but we've always included more and more people. 554 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,719 Speaker 1: I raised a case of two wrongfully in prisons of 555 00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:34,320 Speaker 1: American citizens, Paul Wellen and Trevor Reid. I made it 556 00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: clear that we will not tolerate attempts to destabilize our 557 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: democratic collections, and we would respond. I told President Putin 558 00:34:40,600 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: that we need to have some basic rules of the 559 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,040 Speaker 1: road that we can all abide by. Mister Biden says 560 00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,200 Speaker 1: a while there were differences, that the tone of the 561 00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: meeting overall was positive. Putin referred to the president as professional. 562 00:34:53,480 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: On Capitol Hill early this week, twenty one members of 563 00:34:56,880 --> 00:35:00,800 Speaker 1: the House of Representatives, all Republicans, voted again a measure 564 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 1: that would have awarded Congressional Gold Medals to US Capitol 565 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,759 Speaker 1: police and other members of law enforcement who were there 566 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 1: during the violent attack and occupation by Donald Trump's supporters 567 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: last January. The rest of the House, okay the bill anyway, 568 00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,879 Speaker 1: That number was four or six to twenty one. It's 569 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: just those twenty one Republicans have voted against it. It 570 00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 1: now goes to the Senate and then goes to the 571 00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: President and he's expected to sign that as well. We'll 572 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,400 Speaker 1: have a lot of going on here the haters. I 573 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: tell you yesterday doco to like this. But because of 574 00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 1: a survey conducted by a health charity for young people, 575 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 1: the most respected member of the royal family right after 576 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,839 Speaker 1: the Queen is actually Megan Markle. The survey of people 577 00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:42,840 Speaker 1: between ages thirteen and twenty five gave the Queen twenty 578 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 1: six percent to vote. Harry and Megan came in second 579 00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 1: with twenty one percent, and then way down Kate and 580 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 1: Prince William with eleven percent. And I guess this is 581 00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:55,320 Speaker 1: sort of a Father's Day story. Yeah. Reports are that 582 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: a man with perhaps the world's largest family thirty nine 583 00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:01,320 Speaker 1: wives and ninety four children, has died. I guess he 584 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,799 Speaker 1: was tired. Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 585 00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:09,440 Speaker 1: You're listening show? All right, So, guys in Trenting viral 586 00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 1: video news. Did you all see this double murder suspect? Okay, 587 00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 1: keep that in mind. He's a double murder suspect. He's 588 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,560 Speaker 1: on trial in Tampa for his life. He's been accused 589 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,640 Speaker 1: of killing his girlfriend and his daughter. This happened back 590 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: in twenty eighteen. His name is Ronnie O'Neill. He represented 591 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: himself in court. Take a listen, he's just going to 592 00:36:32,520 --> 00:36:42,440 Speaker 1: show oman temper with ed to me. There's such because 593 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: really it wasn't enough, so we had to temper whatever 594 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 1: since it was sucked already. Sue whatever, ye hold on, 595 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 1: hold on. His ass is going in prison as soon 596 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:04,520 Speaker 1: as he gets through talking. Yes, right, yes, he did 597 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,160 Speaker 1: double homicide. He should go for the rest of his life. Absolutely, 598 00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 1: What the hell ever did because it needed more once 599 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:18,040 Speaker 1: he at first they ain't have enough. Tell you we're 600 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:22,640 Speaker 1: got some more. Man ain't got enough. That's why when 601 00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 1: you're here, oh man, as soon as you get through talking, 602 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 1: go ahead, just going to pri himself has a fool 603 00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:36,080 Speaker 1: for a client. That's that's where the saying is quite 604 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 1: apropos right there. Jeez, I'm just gonna do when you 605 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:45,960 Speaker 1: call yourself to the stand, what do you what? All that? Right? 606 00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 1: There is one season of lawing on that's all. That's 607 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 1: what he watched. I'm gonna call the police to the stand, sir. 608 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 1: Did you temple what you ever did? No? I did nothing. 609 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 1: Yes you did, Yes, you did. Oh my god. Some 610 00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:10,840 Speaker 1: people think if you speak loudly that means I have 611 00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 1: exhibited a right here, this is the gun that I 612 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:21,000 Speaker 1: allegedly lou used. Oh my god, do you recognize its 613 00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,400 Speaker 1: going officer? Yes, is the one we found at the 614 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 1: crime scene. No, it's not. I don't know. See, y'all 615 00:38:28,800 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 1: just made this exhibit A. Do this for me? Uh? 616 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:35,000 Speaker 1: You is the jeery foreman. They asked y'all to go 617 00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:38,839 Speaker 1: back and deliberate. What are you seeing on your honor? 618 00:38:38,920 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: We've all we've been talking about this during the trial 619 00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:45,879 Speaker 1: and at lunch today we've reached a verdict. No, y'all 620 00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:48,560 Speaker 1: gotta go deliberate. Ye, you gotta talk about No, we 621 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: was at lunch. We deliberated. We have a verdict and 622 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:54,960 Speaker 1: we can't go in the back if you want us too. 623 00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,919 Speaker 1: But you can just take this paper because right here, 624 00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 1: right now in the jewery box. Good we an you 625 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,840 Speaker 1: got to go into back if you just read the 626 00:39:03,880 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 1: paper we wrote on the napkin. While are you down Friday? 627 00:39:07,239 --> 00:39:13,839 Speaker 1: All right? Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour, 628 00:39:13,880 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk to Steve about being a dad and 629 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,439 Speaker 1: a Granddad. This is sponsored by Fatherhood, the movie which 630 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 1: stars Kevin Hart. It's on Netflix. We'll talk about it 631 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,600 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 632 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 1: Fatherhood is Kevin Hart's brand new movie. It premiers this 633 00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:37,839 Speaker 1: Friday on Netflix. Kevin is excellent, excellent, Steve in this role. 634 00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:41,239 Speaker 1: It's a Kevin Hart you've never seen before. And we 635 00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:44,200 Speaker 1: love Kevin Hart and he loves us too, so much 636 00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:46,759 Speaker 1: so that Steve, he left a message for us all 637 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,759 Speaker 1: the way from Budapest. Take a listen, shout out to 638 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:52,400 Speaker 1: my friends and family into Steve Harvey Morning Show. One 639 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:55,120 Speaker 1: of remind you, guys that Friday is going down. I 640 00:39:55,239 --> 00:39:58,400 Speaker 1: got a movie dropping on Netflix called Fatherhood. That's right 641 00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,880 Speaker 1: the eighteenth of June. It is going him down. I 642 00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,960 Speaker 1: gotta move about Fatherhood, and guys, it is everything that 643 00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 1: it's supposed to do. This is an opportunity that I 644 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,799 Speaker 1: had to change the narrative that was attached to black 645 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: fathers and put a positive representation on it. Man, this 646 00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,480 Speaker 1: is a positive story. It's a true story about a 647 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 1: man named Matt Loglan and his battle in life and 648 00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:21,680 Speaker 1: how he overcame the odds and overall one with love. 649 00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:26,400 Speaker 1: It's a positive message behind it. It's about really really 650 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: embracing fatherhood and understanding the true definition and meaning of it. 651 00:40:32,920 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: And I hope this is something that will motivate more 652 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,919 Speaker 1: men out there to step up be great fathers, because 653 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:40,879 Speaker 1: ultimately that's what we need. It makes really a better 654 00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: place man. Fatherhood is dropping on the eighteenth of June. Guys, 655 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:50,040 Speaker 1: a true story and emotional story, my first real drama 656 00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:57,879 Speaker 1: for drama man. Check it out. Wow, Yeah, we see 657 00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 1: Kevin in a whole different light in this movie. You 658 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:03,040 Speaker 1: definitely want to check it out and bring like, what, 659 00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 1: three or four block boxes of tissue three or four. Yes, 660 00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:11,640 Speaker 1: you will laugh, you will cry for sure. So Steve, 661 00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: that brings us to We kind of talked about it 662 00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 1: a little bit earlier. But you do know a little 663 00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:21,160 Speaker 1: something about fatherhood, you do. I've been a father thirty 664 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 1: eight years. It's now let me say this. Fatherhood is difficult. 665 00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:35,720 Speaker 1: It's not more difficult than motherhood. I think motherhood reigned 666 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:39,719 Speaker 1: supreme in terms of difficulty because simply because giving birth 667 00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 1: alone dwarfs all of our efforts as men. Anybody can 668 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,600 Speaker 1: be a father. It take a real man to be 669 00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: a dad. You can father a child and walk off. 670 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:58,800 Speaker 1: But what we need is more dads, more daddy's And 671 00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:02,320 Speaker 1: that's the daunting and the challenging part of it. And 672 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,800 Speaker 1: it's rewarding to be a father man, it really really is. 673 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:11,279 Speaker 1: It's fulfilling. It makes you feel validated when you do 674 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:15,280 Speaker 1: fatherhood the right way, when you know that you're protecting somebody, 675 00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: when you know that you're loving somebody, when you know 676 00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:23,160 Speaker 1: that you're offering somebody guidance and advice. That's that's a 677 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 1: that's a big task. Notice I didn't mention money in there, 678 00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:32,440 Speaker 1: because that has nothing to do with fatherhood, not a 679 00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:37,240 Speaker 1: dog own thing. It is your time, It is your love, 680 00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:41,560 Speaker 1: It is your guidance, it is your advice, it is 681 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:45,959 Speaker 1: your encouragement. It is your being there and a time 682 00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: of need. That makes you a great dad and a 683 00:42:48,560 --> 00:42:52,160 Speaker 1: great father. And that's that's what's needed in this world today. 684 00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,759 Speaker 1: And there has nothing to do with the economics at all. 685 00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,560 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, duke, what's your most rewarding 686 00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:01,719 Speaker 1: thing a father for thirty eight years, what's your most 687 00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:06,560 Speaker 1: rewarding thing about being a father? Or memory or experience? 688 00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:11,080 Speaker 1: Just here, when I hear my sons repeat back some 689 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 1: things I told them when they were teenagers. They were 690 00:43:14,719 --> 00:43:18,680 Speaker 1: they were listening that that resonates with me, man, I 691 00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 1: go wild. They got it, you know, And uh now look, man, 692 00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,600 Speaker 1: like Father's Day is coming now. Father's Day dwarfs in 693 00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:33,040 Speaker 1: comparison to Mother's Day. Please understand, it's an essence. It's 694 00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 1: actually embarrassing. You know, restaurants, soul out, you know, you know, 695 00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 1: the car sectional small. You know what I'm saying. You know, 696 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,920 Speaker 1: an't nobody it ain't that big a deal, you know, 697 00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 1: I don't, you know, it is what it is. But 698 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:52,080 Speaker 1: it's really I like Father's Day from me, man, I 699 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 1: don't really you know, all of them gonna call me 700 00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 1: and wish me a happy Father's Day, but yeah, you 701 00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:03,359 Speaker 1: know anybody, Oh yeah, they're gonna say pap Pa, They're 702 00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 1: gonna run in now, They're gonna make me feel great. 703 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:06,960 Speaker 1: But you know, I'm gonna get a car, put it 704 00:44:07,040 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: on my desk, act like, you know, I gotta figure 705 00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,279 Speaker 1: out what day we're gonna get all these cars off 706 00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,920 Speaker 1: my desk. Though, Happy Father's Day coming up. Junior in 707 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,239 Speaker 1: for the nephew with the prank phone call right after 708 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:26,200 Speaker 1: this Happy Father's Day you're listening to morning show coming 709 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 710 00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 1: minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for it today, and 711 00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:36,160 Speaker 1: the subject is get this guys, my mama needs some clothes. 712 00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:41,359 Speaker 1: What is that about? Wait till you hear it got 713 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 1: close close? Well, yeah, you'll find out. This one's crazy. 714 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 1: All right. We'll get into it in just a little bit. 715 00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,600 Speaker 1: But right now, Junior is in for the nephew with 716 00:44:51,760 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got for its? Junior? 717 00:44:54,760 --> 00:44:57,279 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know how you do this, you know, 718 00:44:57,560 --> 00:45:00,400 Speaker 1: and keep your job, but this is just what it is. 719 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:05,880 Speaker 1: Sleeping security guard. See. I don't know how you're securing 720 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:10,160 Speaker 1: them if you sleep, but sleeping security guard running. Get 721 00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:17,200 Speaker 1: security booth man, help you? Hey, uh this circuit I 722 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:20,520 Speaker 1: can barely hear. Is this is this a security booth 723 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:25,319 Speaker 1: down by the by the gate? Yea, sir, this security booth. Yeah, 724 00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: listen man, it's some people, uh next door to me. 725 00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,520 Speaker 1: They keep I'm hearing a bunch of scuffling and stuff 726 00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:35,439 Speaker 1: going on, but I ain't you know, I ain't really 727 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 1: show what's happening. I know, I know I'm hearing this 728 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:44,760 Speaker 1: lady scream or something. Man, But I I just okay, suns, 729 00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:47,840 Speaker 1: you can give us the unit number that you're in. 730 00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,960 Speaker 1: We could have somebody come right over there and check 731 00:45:51,040 --> 00:46:02,880 Speaker 1: that out. Hello, sir, sir um Hello, yeah, sir, okay, yeah, uh, 732 00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:07,720 Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta sleeping disorder, man, So I'm okay, honest. 733 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,400 Speaker 1: People next door to me, man, they was, I mean, 734 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: they were sitting there. I heard this lady screen and 735 00:46:15,239 --> 00:46:17,560 Speaker 1: I just didn't. I ain't want nobody to, you know, 736 00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: start shooting or nothing, because I know they was arguing 737 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,920 Speaker 1: pretty pretty heavily then I heard it. I know they 738 00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,800 Speaker 1: must have been fighting because I heard something I understand, Sir, Sorry, 739 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:41,359 Speaker 1: what what unit are union? Hello? Sir? Are you there? Hello? Hello? Hello, Yes, 740 00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm here. Are you okay? Just you you're security guy? Right, Yes, 741 00:46:47,160 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 1: sir you called us about ten minutes ago and we've 742 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,319 Speaker 1: been trying to find out what unit cre Well. Yeah, man, 743 00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,840 Speaker 1: the people up here, man, they arguing and I'll be 744 00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,680 Speaker 1: I'm hearing mold people over that night and they fighting. Man. 745 00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,320 Speaker 1: I know I hear too God be too mean and 746 00:47:03,360 --> 00:47:09,120 Speaker 1: they're fighting. This lady over step you but tell me 747 00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:12,320 Speaker 1: unit the unit, sir? Are you some kids over that 748 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 1: to sir. We need to know the unit so that 749 00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:35,720 Speaker 1: we can come out and investigate. Hello, hello, sir, Hello, Hello, 750 00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 1: Hello sir. Huh huh hey, hey, look I cannot do 751 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 1: this all day. I am trying to work. I cannot 752 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:52,880 Speaker 1: be around with you on the phone. Could you please 753 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 1: give me your unit number? Shut I'm keeping over that. 754 00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,040 Speaker 1: They arguing, man, I know you, Yes, you have said 755 00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:01,840 Speaker 1: that they are. I heard you when you said that 756 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:04,360 Speaker 1: they will argument, sir. If you just give me that 757 00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,680 Speaker 1: unit number that either you're in or the union number, 758 00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:11,000 Speaker 1: you hear the no it's coming from, we could have 759 00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: somebody to come over there and check that out immediately. 760 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 1: So what the union number are you in? Again, sir? 761 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,879 Speaker 1: Do you do? You do? You do? You hear them arguments? See, 762 00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:24,920 Speaker 1: let me put on her snore, I need the unit number. 763 00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:27,600 Speaker 1: Let me listen. I'm gonna put the phone up. Do 764 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:32,440 Speaker 1: you hear, yes, sir, but I don't hear the unit number. 765 00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: I did the unit number. Without the unit number, We're 766 00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:54,239 Speaker 1: just having a conversation. Hello, hello, hello, Hello, sure are 767 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:58,279 Speaker 1: you there? Yoh yeah? Oh ay man, you checked on 768 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,480 Speaker 1: them people, know, sir, we have not checked on the 769 00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,920 Speaker 1: people because we have not been able to get the 770 00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 1: unit number from you, sir, dude, this fall flee every 771 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:17,399 Speaker 1: time he gets here to tell me something, he fall 772 00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:23,719 Speaker 1: cose got to see it keeps falling sleep. Hey man, 773 00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,800 Speaker 1: come here, dude, this guy following sleep on the phone. 774 00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:37,560 Speaker 1: I think get unit out of him to keep falling asleep. Hello, sir, wellve, sir, sir, 775 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:43,479 Speaker 1: Hey man, I don't know what unit he's in. Heep 776 00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,400 Speaker 1: fallowing asleep every time I asked you something if he 777 00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:48,640 Speaker 1: falls asleep. He keeps telling me that over that fight. 778 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:51,320 Speaker 1: But I don't hen he won't kill me. To you, 779 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:55,000 Speaker 1: I don't sorry, I don't know to you, what would 780 00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:58,920 Speaker 1: you wake up? Sleep? Hey? I got a guy on 781 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,719 Speaker 1: the phone and he said get me some screaming over 782 00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 1: his highest unit. But he's fall asleep. I don't can't 783 00:50:05,640 --> 00:50:08,120 Speaker 1: get him on get him to tell me with the 784 00:50:08,320 --> 00:50:18,920 Speaker 1: union number. Hey, dude, come here, listen to this. Listen. Hello, 785 00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna need you to wake up, sir. Okay, sir, 786 00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,359 Speaker 1: could you please give me the unity? I gotta ask 787 00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 1: you something? How come y'all all, y'all do just sit 788 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,040 Speaker 1: on y'all to watch cars come in and out that 789 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:35,600 Speaker 1: door and stead of helping people that need help, like 790 00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,880 Speaker 1: you want the number. You shut your housing at me. 791 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,319 Speaker 1: You didn't do your damn job. You read a cop. 792 00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm a reader cop, I'm a rend the cop fall asleep. 793 00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 1: Would you just give me the UN number? Please? I 794 00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:49,799 Speaker 1: give you the number, new yo, the number. You're ready 795 00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:53,359 Speaker 1: for the unit number? Are you? Are you listening to me? Yes, 796 00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:58,000 Speaker 1: saysn't to you, sir. Death is a few timing from 797 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:02,640 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You just got right by 798 00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:12,239 Speaker 1: your co worker? Yeah? Crazy, Yeah, it's not funny, man, 799 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:15,080 Speaker 1: this is not funny. Y'all got me out here walking 800 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 1: around this complex looking for people, hollering and screaming and out. 801 00:51:21,000 --> 00:51:28,240 Speaker 1: You're sleeping every thirty five second, man, put it out. Okay, 802 00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,239 Speaker 1: let me let me ask you something, man, what is 803 00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 1: what is the baddest radio show in the land? Morning show? Okay? Okay, okay, 804 00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:49,719 Speaker 1: he put up in there, play too, father, sleeping man, 805 00:51:50,360 --> 00:51:55,759 Speaker 1: man trying to do his job. Yeah, you sleep seriously, man, seriously, 806 00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,680 Speaker 1: but junior, and thank you for that, of course. And 807 00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:00,160 Speaker 1: you what else do you have going on? And you 808 00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: got a lot of stuff going on right now? Huh. 809 00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 1: I've been screaming this all week. I might as well 810 00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 1: just continue to Steve Harvey Morning Show and Walmart Family 811 00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,879 Speaker 1: Mobile want to help you celebrate Father's Day this year. 812 00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 1: In it for a chance to win a high end smartphone, 813 00:52:15,440 --> 00:52:18,880 Speaker 1: six months of Walmart Family Mobile service plus two thousand, 814 00:52:19,239 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 1: five hundred dollars and it's all gonna be in cash. 815 00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,799 Speaker 1: I said it. Cash that is in it and get 816 00:52:25,960 --> 00:52:28,960 Speaker 1: ruled at Steve Harvey FM dot com. 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Sure, Why I don't 827 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,520 Speaker 1: we pick the way? When do you want to sit? There? 828 00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:12,760 Speaker 1: Sit anywhere? Were your masks? Order anything? They got plenty, 829 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 1: They haven't run out of any one out of this. 830 00:53:16,120 --> 00:53:18,759 Speaker 1: There's so many losses in that in that's in that fish. 831 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:22,880 Speaker 1: Take all of losses. Is ready Mother's Day? Have a 832 00:53:22,920 --> 00:53:28,880 Speaker 1: loss endo take Happy Father's Day. We love you Dad's 833 00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:32,200 Speaker 1: We're just kidding around. Happy Father's Day. Coming up next 834 00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 1: it is the Strawberry Letter. Right after this, the subject 835 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:39,879 Speaker 1: my mama needs some clothes. We'll get into it right 836 00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the Steve Morning Show. Time 837 00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you need 838 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:52,480 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, on sex, on dating, on work, on parenting, 839 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:56,279 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 840 00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:59,560 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 841 00:53:59,640 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 842 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 1: gonna read this one gear that right here, right now. 843 00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,880 Speaker 1: Who knows it could be yours? All right, ladies and gentlemen, 844 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,320 Speaker 1: it's time for the Strawberry Letter with my good friends. 845 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:14,080 Speaker 1: Shirley straw Thank you, my good friend, Junior. Subject my 846 00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:19,320 Speaker 1: mama needs some new clothes. Dear Stephen, Shirley, I'm a 847 00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,080 Speaker 1: twenty six year old married woman and I let my 848 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:24,759 Speaker 1: mother stay with me for three months. We lived four 849 00:54:24,840 --> 00:54:27,120 Speaker 1: hours apart, so when I had my first child, she 850 00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:29,640 Speaker 1: came to help out. My mom is one of those 851 00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:33,200 Speaker 1: older women that looks great, dresses in trendy clothing, and 852 00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:37,359 Speaker 1: loves to change up her hairstyle. She's single now after 853 00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:41,439 Speaker 1: going through her second divorce, and she lives with my grandparents. 854 00:54:42,000 --> 00:54:44,520 Speaker 1: She's been a big help with the baby, but now 855 00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,520 Speaker 1: I need her to go back home. She's reluctant to 856 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,160 Speaker 1: leave because she's made friends here and she's a big 857 00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:54,320 Speaker 1: part of our daily lives. The problem is she loves 858 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:58,200 Speaker 1: to change her outfits during the day depending on her mood. 859 00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,839 Speaker 1: Most morning, she has on a sexy matching short night 860 00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:04,600 Speaker 1: gown and rogue combination as though she had a man 861 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,879 Speaker 1: in her room all night. The lingerie is a bit much, 862 00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:11,319 Speaker 1: but I can tell my young husband gets a kick 863 00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:15,200 Speaker 1: out of saying it. My mom usually wears shorts and 864 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,040 Speaker 1: fitted T shirts around the house, but if we leave 865 00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,160 Speaker 1: the house for any reason, she'll change to more revealing 866 00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:26,000 Speaker 1: outfits with heels or furry sandals. If it's trendy, she 867 00:55:26,239 --> 00:55:28,879 Speaker 1: owns it. She loves the stories that I don't even 868 00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:31,840 Speaker 1: shop at anymore. I could only hope to have a 869 00:55:31,920 --> 00:55:34,920 Speaker 1: body like hers when I'm her age but I wouldn't 870 00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:38,600 Speaker 1: be in public with my booty jiggling like her. We 871 00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,120 Speaker 1: are having a cookout for the fourth of July and 872 00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,439 Speaker 1: I had hoped she'd be gone by then, but she's 873 00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:47,480 Speaker 1: not ready to go. There's no way she'd dressed like 874 00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 1: this around my grandparents, so I think that's why she's 875 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 1: choosing to stay here with us. I don't like the 876 00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 1: way my friends and my husband's friends look at her, 877 00:55:57,320 --> 00:56:00,400 Speaker 1: and I could tell they're judging her based on her clothes. 878 00:56:00,800 --> 00:56:03,040 Speaker 1: How can I get her out of my house without 879 00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:09,920 Speaker 1: sounding ungrateful for all of her help? Please advise, I 880 00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:13,160 Speaker 1: just want This letter is not for me. It's hard 881 00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:16,960 Speaker 1: to talk about somebody do a good job. Surely I'm 882 00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:21,160 Speaker 1: gonna look you know. I'm sorry, but but your mom 883 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,759 Speaker 1: does need to sit down. She does. I mean, like 884 00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 1: you say, she wouldn't be dressing like that at her parents' house, 885 00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:30,880 Speaker 1: so she clearly knows what she's doing and she wants 886 00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:35,040 Speaker 1: this attention. She needs to save those sexy outfits for 887 00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,239 Speaker 1: when the right man comes along and she could wear 888 00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:40,239 Speaker 1: them for him. Other than that, I think you should 889 00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:42,560 Speaker 1: tone it down, mom. I mean, she's all in front 890 00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:45,319 Speaker 1: of your husband and his friends dressed like that. It's 891 00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,279 Speaker 1: got to be embarrassing for you. I'm sure it is. 892 00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:50,920 Speaker 1: That's why you wrote the letter. H And there is 893 00:56:51,000 --> 00:56:54,000 Speaker 1: such a thing I have to say this as age appropriateness. 894 00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:57,440 Speaker 1: You can still be sexy, you can still do all 895 00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:00,600 Speaker 1: these things, you know, show your shape and everything, but 896 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 1: without all your stuff hanging out. You know you can 897 00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,719 Speaker 1: do this. I just want to tell you that. And 898 00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:11,239 Speaker 1: just because you got it like that, it doesn't mean 899 00:57:11,320 --> 00:57:13,760 Speaker 1: that everyone has to see what you're thinking and working 900 00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:17,240 Speaker 1: with all the time. Because she clearly craves the attention 901 00:57:17,280 --> 00:57:19,640 Speaker 1: I'll say that again, and wants all eyes on her, 902 00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,840 Speaker 1: and all attention is not good attention. You want to 903 00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,760 Speaker 1: draw someone to you if you're if you're interested in 904 00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:29,360 Speaker 1: in another man. Mom, you know that likes you for 905 00:57:29,480 --> 00:57:32,280 Speaker 1: your class and you're in things like that, not for 906 00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:36,280 Speaker 1: your booty jiggling. As your daughter said, um, and to you, 907 00:57:36,880 --> 00:57:39,640 Speaker 1: the letter writer, have you spoken with your mom about this? 908 00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:41,360 Speaker 1: I mean, you got to tell her how much you 909 00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 1: appreciate her being there for you and and helping out 910 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,200 Speaker 1: with the baby and all of that. But her outfits 911 00:57:48,240 --> 00:57:50,680 Speaker 1: are a little you know, too sexy for your taste, 912 00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:54,000 Speaker 1: and they've become a distraction in your marriage. So while 913 00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:57,320 Speaker 1: she's staying there, you know you want her to please 914 00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 1: cover up. And having said all of that, I know, 915 00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,560 Speaker 1: I know it's gonna be difficult to say anything because 916 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 1: it's your mom. It is your mama, and this is 917 00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:10,480 Speaker 1: a hard call, a tough call you. It's not that 918 00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:12,800 Speaker 1: you want her to go so much, you just want 919 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:16,080 Speaker 1: her to stop wearing all these sexy, sexy clothes with 920 00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:18,600 Speaker 1: all of stuff hanging out. I think you guys can 921 00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:21,640 Speaker 1: do that if you sit down and talk to her. Maybe, Steve, 922 00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:24,800 Speaker 1: I know you said the letter isn't for you. That's 923 00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 1: what I got. I don't really even know how to respond. Hill. Yeah, 924 00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,400 Speaker 1: I have no experience at this. My mother dressed like 925 00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:40,320 Speaker 1: she taught Sunday school. Yeah, that's how my mamma looked. 926 00:58:40,680 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 1: My mama. Everybody knew she was somebody mama and somebody grandmama. 927 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:47,920 Speaker 1: There was no mistaking her. So I have no experience 928 00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:50,240 Speaker 1: at this. So all I can tell you is this, 929 00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,720 Speaker 1: First of all, I'm gonna just try to Your mama 930 00:58:55,840 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 1: knows what she's doing. She knows exactly what she's doing. 931 00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:06,160 Speaker 1: She ain't stupid, but she also must at least come 932 00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:10,240 Speaker 1: to the terms that this is your second divorce. So 933 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,200 Speaker 1: all this booty jiggling and a cheek showing and all 934 00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:19,200 Speaker 1: this breasts out, it ain't holding nobody. So now she's 935 00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:25,040 Speaker 1: living at your grandparents house after the second divorce, which 936 00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:30,520 Speaker 1: means you didn't even farewell after the second divorce. I 937 00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:33,400 Speaker 1: don't know what happened, but you are now living do 938 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 1: your mama lives with her parents? What kind of divorce 939 00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,800 Speaker 1: did she have that workout? Less? They didn't have no 940 00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,400 Speaker 1: house or nothing. I don't know what. Woman just keeps 941 00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 1: getting put out in their back at their grandmama house. 942 00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:49,040 Speaker 1: Just don't make no sense. But she's been a big 943 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:51,400 Speaker 1: help with you because you lived four hours apart and 944 00:59:51,560 --> 00:59:55,040 Speaker 1: you had your first baby. And now she don't want 945 00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,040 Speaker 1: to leave and go back home because she'd have made 946 00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:59,760 Speaker 1: friends here and she's a big part of our daily 947 00:59:59,800 --> 01:00:02,560 Speaker 1: life eyes. So now she doesn't want to go back. 948 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:05,400 Speaker 1: And you all got a Fourth of July thing coming up, 949 01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:08,240 Speaker 1: and you was hoping she'd be gone by the fourth. 950 01:00:08,320 --> 01:00:10,080 Speaker 1: She's gonna be out there by the fourth, and that 951 01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:15,000 Speaker 1: right now, fourth and that fall, No fourth, ain't that fall. 952 01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:20,080 Speaker 1: She got something to wear already for Yeah, she's ready, Steve. 953 01:00:20,520 --> 01:00:26,120 Speaker 1: She got a white linen bra set and go with 954 01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:31,200 Speaker 1: the show. Two of Steve's response is coming up in 955 01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:33,919 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hours, subject my mama needs 956 01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,320 Speaker 1: some new clothes. We'll get back into it right after this. 957 01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:43,800 Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Steve, come on, let's recap 958 01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:47,080 Speaker 1: this Strawberry letters subject my mama needs some new clothes. Now, 959 01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:49,680 Speaker 1: when we left off, you were talking about, you know 960 01:00:49,760 --> 01:00:51,960 Speaker 1: what she was gonna wear. Surely the best thing I 961 01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,160 Speaker 1: can do is, in a minute, we're gonna do a 962 01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:56,840 Speaker 1: re enactment. You're gonna be the daughter, and you're gonna 963 01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:01,120 Speaker 1: try to talk to me about my office. That's the 964 01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:02,800 Speaker 1: best way to do this, because I really don't know 965 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:07,280 Speaker 1: what to say. This woman addresses provocatively around her twenty 966 01:01:07,320 --> 01:01:09,440 Speaker 1: six year old daughter, who is also married. They got 967 01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 1: a new baby, and you know, she loves to change 968 01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 1: outfits doing the day, depending on her mood. Most of 969 01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:19,200 Speaker 1: the morning she got on the sexy matching short night 970 01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,320 Speaker 1: gown and road combination as though she had a man 971 01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:25,439 Speaker 1: in her room at night. Landre is a bit much, 972 01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:28,800 Speaker 1: but I can tell my young husband gets a kick 973 01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:32,280 Speaker 1: out of seeing it. Well, maybe you need to buy 974 01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:37,160 Speaker 1: something to stuff your mama. God, because what you can't 975 01:01:37,240 --> 01:01:39,080 Speaker 1: let you, yo, you can't let your mama will do 976 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:42,400 Speaker 1: you in your own house. But then you just had 977 01:01:42,480 --> 01:01:44,560 Speaker 1: the baby, so you got a couple other things you're 978 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:48,600 Speaker 1: working on, like yo, answer busy, So you ain't got 979 01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,080 Speaker 1: time to put the high heel fluffy shoes on the 980 01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:55,400 Speaker 1: chicken bredies on them. So you got to leave that alone. All. 981 01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:57,479 Speaker 1: If you leave the house for any reasons, she'll change 982 01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:01,200 Speaker 1: to a more revealing outfit with he and fairy sandals. 983 01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:04,840 Speaker 1: She loves the she loves the stores that I don't 984 01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:08,040 Speaker 1: even shop at no more. I can only hope to 985 01:02:08,160 --> 01:02:10,960 Speaker 1: have a body like hers when i'm her age. Yo, 986 01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 1: mama banging banging, and she ain't playing with it. H 987 01:02:19,080 --> 01:02:21,760 Speaker 1: Now you wan't you having a cookout? July fourth? And 988 01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:24,479 Speaker 1: I was hoping she'd be gone, but she ain't ready 989 01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:29,240 Speaker 1: to go. She ain't going nowhere, tell you right now, 990 01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:33,840 Speaker 1: you wait till you see this fourth July streamers. She 991 01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:39,760 Speaker 1: got a red halt or blue blouse tied up in 992 01:02:39,800 --> 01:02:42,920 Speaker 1: the knot right under the brawl. She got she got 993 01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,600 Speaker 1: a red brawl. She got a blue shirt, blouse open 994 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,479 Speaker 1: all the way tied in the knot under the red 995 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:55,160 Speaker 1: brawl with some white daisy dupes on and some red, 996 01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:58,720 Speaker 1: white and blue cowboy boots. So now I ain't got 997 01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:02,160 Speaker 1: nothing for you. So here we are. I'm the mama 998 01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:06,640 Speaker 1: and Shirley's the daughter trying to talk to me about it. 999 01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:09,920 Speaker 1: I will be using to help me. Re enacted this 1000 01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:17,240 Speaker 1: assist old Dale's voice to voice, Mom, Mom, what do 1001 01:03:17,360 --> 01:03:24,080 Speaker 1: you have on? You like it? I mean, if mom, 1002 01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:27,760 Speaker 1: come on and saying say it? No you want We're 1003 01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:30,240 Speaker 1: just going to the grocery store. Mom, Will you going 1004 01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:35,040 Speaker 1: to the grocery store? Sweet? Yes, I'm going out to 1005 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:39,200 Speaker 1: the grocery store. But do you have to wear dear shorts? 1006 01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:42,880 Speaker 1: Have to? Mom? I could see your butch cheeks. Girl 1007 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: is hot out there? Well, I mean I know it's hot, mom, 1008 01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:50,520 Speaker 1: but it ain't that hot? Mama? Yeah? Come on, I 1009 01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,640 Speaker 1: mean really? Oh so y'all, so my daughter's is ganging 1010 01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:56,320 Speaker 1: up on me? Yeah? Yeah? And what about your top? 1011 01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,560 Speaker 1: Does it have to be that low? I mean I 1012 01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:03,880 Speaker 1: can almost see your harry OLA's mom. Come on all 1013 01:04:04,040 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 1: they wants to see them. But that I keeps that 1014 01:04:08,760 --> 01:04:12,960 Speaker 1: to myself till it's surprised time. I know, But did 1015 01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:17,200 Speaker 1: your shirt have to be that low cut? I mean really, mom, no, baby, 1016 01:04:18,200 --> 01:04:21,720 Speaker 1: nurse of blouse. This guy, this guy buddies on it. Yeah, 1017 01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,360 Speaker 1: I just utbuttons it this far. It ain't low cut, 1018 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:29,720 Speaker 1: it's unbutton. I did this on purpose with you. And 1019 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:33,520 Speaker 1: then when I came back, huh, ask her about her hair? Yeah, 1020 01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:38,040 Speaker 1: she changes hairstyles. What what what are you wearing? What 1021 01:04:38,240 --> 01:04:40,680 Speaker 1: is that here? How many colors do you have? What? 1022 01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:44,880 Speaker 1: What's going on with this? This is for all my friends, 1023 01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:49,920 Speaker 1: This is for Pride months, yes, okay, and I rocked 1024 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:52,240 Speaker 1: to support my peoples and everybody. You know, I have 1025 01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,160 Speaker 1: friends from all persuasions, so that's why I got this. 1026 01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,280 Speaker 1: But you know, they opened up the New Weeks though 1027 01:04:57,360 --> 01:05:00,520 Speaker 1: down the street, and I've been down then, you know, 1028 01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:04,600 Speaker 1: and they're in a battle. You know, the ones is 1029 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,200 Speaker 1: battling with the week stow across the streets. So they 1030 01:05:07,320 --> 01:05:10,200 Speaker 1: have in competitive sales. And one of them got buy 1031 01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:14,160 Speaker 1: two weeks, get eight free. You had to be you 1032 01:05:14,240 --> 01:05:21,400 Speaker 1: got every style. I got ten weeks. I'm gonna be. 1033 01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:26,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be Marilyn Monroda Mara not yes, and okay, 1034 01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,880 Speaker 1: And I did want to say this, Mom, I got 1035 01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,000 Speaker 1: a husband. Dallas Shoe war House got them on sale. 1036 01:05:32,320 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 1: What is that, Dallas shoe ware House? But do you 1037 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:38,320 Speaker 1: have to wear that around my house in front of 1038 01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:42,320 Speaker 1: my man, in front of my husband? Come on, looking? 1039 01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:44,320 Speaker 1: Was you're having a problem with what I'm wearing in 1040 01:05:44,440 --> 01:05:49,080 Speaker 1: front of looking? Yes, Davante's looking at you, and he's 1041 01:05:49,120 --> 01:05:52,120 Speaker 1: not looking at me. He's looking at you. Need to 1042 01:05:52,160 --> 01:05:55,800 Speaker 1: buy yourself together. See, you need to put yourself together. See, 1043 01:05:55,840 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 1: don't ask me to come apart when you need to 1044 01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:01,560 Speaker 1: come together. Mom. I'm you know, I just had a baby. 1045 01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm working on it to get right back in shape 1046 01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:06,840 Speaker 1: from well, you know, how is the baby now? Sweet? 1047 01:06:07,160 --> 01:06:13,240 Speaker 1: The baby's just three months old. Where you know time? Mom, 1048 01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,480 Speaker 1: it ain't taking me that time. I snapped back when 1049 01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:18,760 Speaker 1: I had you. I was back out that thirty days later, 1050 01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:24,760 Speaker 1: snap crack a pound. I was like rice crispies. And 1051 01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:27,120 Speaker 1: is this you never told me the real reason? But 1052 01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:30,360 Speaker 1: is this why you divorced? You? You had two divorces. Mom. 1053 01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:34,000 Speaker 1: You know I really ain't figuring it out. You know, 1054 01:06:34,120 --> 01:06:37,240 Speaker 1: they just you know, everybody won'ts meet. I'm just trying 1055 01:06:37,240 --> 01:06:43,640 Speaker 1: to get somebody to keep me too. Much. I'm I'm 1056 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:46,160 Speaker 1: no sweetie brother. As I tell you what, I'm gonna 1057 01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:48,040 Speaker 1: take Ober down to the stove because one of these 1058 01:06:48,160 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 1: young boys come picks me up all the time. I'm 1059 01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 1: gonna take over down to the store. I meet you 1060 01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:56,640 Speaker 1: down now. Coming up, Shall Underwood, don't work next to 1061 01:06:56,760 --> 01:07:04,919 Speaker 1: me because you look real, homie. You're listening show coming 1062 01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:08,160 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour. It's Carla's Reality Update, 1063 01:07:08,240 --> 01:07:10,640 Speaker 1: but right now it is our girl. Come on, Steve, 1064 01:07:10,800 --> 01:07:14,960 Speaker 1: let's do it my boot? Come on, what'd you say, Julie, 1065 01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:20,160 Speaker 1: my boot? Jud Let me let you introduce it in. 1066 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:24,760 Speaker 1: That's right, hey, listening ladies and gentlemen, the future missus 1067 01:07:24,800 --> 01:07:29,640 Speaker 1: space Sheryl Underwood. Yes, akay, this segment is over. I 1068 01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:31,600 Speaker 1: don't need to say, I don't need to do nothing 1069 01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:42,080 Speaker 1: else to seven. Yeah, that's right. Telling the Top has 1070 01:07:42,160 --> 01:07:52,840 Speaker 1: been renewed season twelve. Rody do it? Can't let this go? Listen? 1071 01:07:53,440 --> 01:07:57,920 Speaker 1: Why not Las? Why not Steve Harvey? For years? Everybody 1072 01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:01,080 Speaker 1: else been doing it? Why came by? Bad? Get what? 1073 01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:07,280 Speaker 1: I got that right up? We got so much to celebrate, Julia, 1074 01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:11,080 Speaker 1: This our winking baby got renews. So mama still getting 1075 01:08:11,160 --> 01:08:14,760 Speaker 1: that chet we're getting all the checks and everything. Then 1076 01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:18,920 Speaker 1: the Senate and the House them pass, so jim Tain' 1077 01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:24,200 Speaker 1: is a federal holiday. Once President Biden signed in the law. 1078 01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:28,480 Speaker 1: That mean Tommy Carla, which one of y'all doing the barbecue, 1079 01:08:28,560 --> 01:08:31,120 Speaker 1: which one of y'all doing the bobble Tommy on vacation. 1080 01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:37,959 Speaker 1: That leaves me. Okay, get the bibbecue, Gotta get Sarili's brawberry, 1081 01:08:38,120 --> 01:08:41,160 Speaker 1: makes a potato salad. Because it's time for us to celebrate. 1082 01:08:42,160 --> 01:08:53,120 Speaker 1: Surely make just bringing the paper good ryl in the 1083 01:08:53,240 --> 01:08:55,880 Speaker 1: drunk but that want to know. Okay, get in your 1084 01:08:55,920 --> 01:08:59,840 Speaker 1: car and bring out some paper, plays cups, nap kids, 1085 01:09:00,080 --> 01:09:04,040 Speaker 1: because we're gonna really really party. And I want to 1086 01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:07,599 Speaker 1: say Happy Father's Day to all the fathers that because 1087 01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:11,400 Speaker 1: I you know, I want to wish everybody my brother Michael, 1088 01:09:11,680 --> 01:09:15,400 Speaker 1: my brother Lafiette, my brother Chris, my uncle Cliff, all 1089 01:09:15,479 --> 01:09:20,800 Speaker 1: my cousin stayed happy fasday. Bro. Yeah, we're gonna be 1090 01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:25,720 Speaker 1: making my transmission Ben drop when saying the only way 1091 01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:32,440 Speaker 1: that I hate, no, no, no, The only thing connected 1092 01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:35,240 Speaker 1: with father today this weekend is I'm gonna be holling 1093 01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:41,200 Speaker 1: with Junior, who your daddy? And like we do every night, 1094 01:09:41,280 --> 01:09:43,920 Speaker 1: don't we do? You be like who your daddy? Well, 1095 01:09:43,960 --> 01:09:46,160 Speaker 1: I know I'm looking at my birth certificate right now. 1096 01:09:46,320 --> 01:09:55,240 Speaker 1: But for purposes of this activity, you the future misses 1097 01:09:55,920 --> 01:10:02,080 Speaker 1: hulations to us, Jill, I'll tell you we love this 1098 01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,679 Speaker 1: love right here, Cheryl. But we got a girl girl 1099 01:10:05,040 --> 01:10:07,800 Speaker 1: coming up put in love Junior. At the top of 1100 01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:12,120 Speaker 1: the hour, Carlin's Reality Update. Right after this you're listening 1101 01:10:12,400 --> 01:10:18,920 Speaker 1: to all right, come on, Junior introduced that girls here. 1102 01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:22,280 Speaker 1: Oh she is in the building. Ladies and gentlemen, it 1103 01:10:22,479 --> 01:10:28,439 Speaker 1: is time for Colin Farrell's Reality Update. Coming in hot baby. 1104 01:10:30,360 --> 01:10:34,720 Speaker 1: Thank you both, Junior and Shirley. I'm coming in, yes, yes, 1105 01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,919 Speaker 1: speaking of hot news. All right, we're gonna do reality 1106 01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:41,640 Speaker 1: news update. And also I got some podcasts alert for 1107 01:10:41,800 --> 01:10:45,000 Speaker 1: you guys too, podcast alert, So get ready, boo boom 1108 01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:49,880 Speaker 1: dj Khalin podcast alert. Oh no, no, okay, first let's 1109 01:10:49,920 --> 01:10:54,040 Speaker 1: get it ready. Let's jump in reality update. Married to Medicine. 1110 01:10:54,160 --> 01:10:56,719 Speaker 1: So the ladies went on a trip to Jekyll Island. 1111 01:10:57,160 --> 01:11:00,680 Speaker 1: It was an eight hour bus ride on the R 1112 01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:03,040 Speaker 1: and B. You know I told you last week about 1113 01:11:03,080 --> 01:11:07,519 Speaker 1: Heavenly and Lisa, Lisa Beef and on the bus, but 1114 01:11:08,240 --> 01:11:10,200 Speaker 1: I was mad when they had to stop for gas 1115 01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,800 Speaker 1: and doctor Jackie got out and she had to pump 1116 01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:14,560 Speaker 1: the gas. I was looking at the bus dripping, like 1117 01:11:14,600 --> 01:11:16,920 Speaker 1: what you're doing? Well, why are you sitting there? I 1118 01:11:17,000 --> 01:11:21,720 Speaker 1: didn't understand that. That bothered me pretty much the entire episode. 1119 01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:23,800 Speaker 1: I will say that because you know how much we 1120 01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:28,240 Speaker 1: love doctor Jackie. Yes, we love us. Oh they're bothered me. 1121 01:11:28,280 --> 01:11:31,040 Speaker 1: They got on my nerves. But finally Heavenly and Lisa, 1122 01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:34,640 Speaker 1: they calmed down. They get to the hotel. Doctor Contessa, 1123 01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:39,160 Speaker 1: she confided in doctor Jackie and Quad and told them 1124 01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:43,000 Speaker 1: about the issues that she's been having in her marriage 1125 01:11:43,040 --> 01:11:45,360 Speaker 1: and told him about the life coach. You know, when 1126 01:11:45,479 --> 01:11:48,760 Speaker 1: doctor Scott said that he he's been seeing a life 1127 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:55,120 Speaker 1: coach for about seven months, his wife was really months. Yeah. Yeah, 1128 01:11:55,640 --> 01:11:58,240 Speaker 1: And it sense like Quad and Doctor Jackie they were 1129 01:11:58,360 --> 01:12:01,960 Speaker 1: trying to talk to doctor Contessa, give her some advice. 1130 01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:04,519 Speaker 1: You know, they've had marital issues before. We know Qui 1131 01:12:04,680 --> 01:12:07,600 Speaker 1: got a divorce and so they were just trying to 1132 01:12:07,880 --> 01:12:11,600 Speaker 1: give her some advice. But doctor Contessa she wants to 1133 01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:15,559 Speaker 1: be married. She wants to be married to doctor Scott. 1134 01:12:15,640 --> 01:12:18,719 Speaker 1: So they later on the ladies told Doctor Simone about 1135 01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:23,840 Speaker 1: the conversation that they had with Doctor Contessa. They all 1136 01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:27,680 Speaker 1: got together and decided to invite the husbands down for 1137 01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:30,960 Speaker 1: the trips. So we will see next week what happens 1138 01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:33,400 Speaker 1: when the husbands get there. But Doctor Jackie I like 1139 01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:36,480 Speaker 1: what she said though in her you know, they're confessional 1140 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:39,920 Speaker 1: and when they do their testimonies about the show, and 1141 01:12:40,120 --> 01:12:43,320 Speaker 1: she said, you know, it's a slippery slope when you 1142 01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:51,400 Speaker 1: get involved with other folks marriages, du du Yeah, yeah, 1143 01:12:51,920 --> 01:12:56,280 Speaker 1: you're playing with fire. Yeah exactly. Shirley coming in hot. 1144 01:12:56,360 --> 01:13:00,120 Speaker 1: So that's married to medicine. I'll keep you updated on that. Now, 1145 01:13:00,240 --> 01:13:02,400 Speaker 1: let me give you a podcast alert. Let me tell 1146 01:13:02,400 --> 01:13:08,160 Speaker 1: you what's going on. What's happening? Yeah, two podcasts? Why 1147 01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:10,439 Speaker 1: want you to check this out? As we continue to 1148 01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:13,880 Speaker 1: commemorate June as Black Music Month. As we know on 1149 01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:17,720 Speaker 1: the latest episode of Quest Love, We Love Us from Questlove, 1150 01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:22,880 Speaker 1: he is going to celebrate a musician named Nathan East. 1151 01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:26,479 Speaker 1: And if you don't know who Nathan East is, he's 1152 01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:29,360 Speaker 1: a bad boy. He has played the bass and helped 1153 01:13:29,640 --> 01:13:32,479 Speaker 1: write some of the biggest songs like Saving All My 1154 01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,720 Speaker 1: Love for You, put Louis I just can't stop loving you, 1155 01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:39,600 Speaker 1: giving you the best that I got. Nathan East is 1156 01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,280 Speaker 1: a legend and so Quest Love is gonna chop it 1157 01:13:42,439 --> 01:13:47,080 Speaker 1: up on his latest podcast, Questlove Supreme with Nathan East. 1158 01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 1: So check it out anywhere where you get your podcasts. 1159 01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:57,240 Speaker 1: Another podcast alert Jill Scott, Jill Scott. Yes, yes, Jill Scott. 1160 01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:04,360 Speaker 1: It's called Jill Scott Presents Jill dot Ill the Podcast. 1161 01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:06,680 Speaker 1: So I love that Jill Scott. And she's chilling with 1162 01:14:06,760 --> 01:14:10,320 Speaker 1: her friends, her co host and they are talking about 1163 01:14:10,400 --> 01:14:15,960 Speaker 1: everything relationships, health, art, everything else that you know, being 1164 01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:19,400 Speaker 1: a black woman and surviving and thriving. So you gotta 1165 01:14:19,520 --> 01:14:22,879 Speaker 1: check out Jill Scott's podcast. They're gonna talk about fathers. 1166 01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:26,080 Speaker 1: Of course it's timely. Father stayed this weekend, so make 1167 01:14:26,120 --> 01:14:30,280 Speaker 1: sure you check it out Jill dot Ill the Podcast. 1168 01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:32,640 Speaker 1: Anywhere where you get your podcasts. So now you're up 1169 01:14:32,680 --> 01:14:35,759 Speaker 1: to date. You got reality update, you got your podcast alerts. 1170 01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:39,000 Speaker 1: Make sure you follow me at lips by Carla. What 1171 01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:42,040 Speaker 1: you got Sharon Lea, Well, thank you, Carla. That was 1172 01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:43,960 Speaker 1: I feel like I know a lot of stuff. Now 1173 01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:51,519 Speaker 1: for that stick with me, girl, I'll inform you hot baby. Yes, 1174 01:14:51,640 --> 01:14:55,000 Speaker 1: well we'll let more of the today's trending stories coming 1175 01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:57,040 Speaker 1: up on the Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes 1176 01:14:57,120 --> 01:15:01,360 Speaker 1: after right after this, you're listening Dave Harvey Morning Show. 1177 01:15:03,400 --> 01:15:06,920 Speaker 1: All right, guys, June is Black music month. Yesterday would 1178 01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:13,559 Speaker 1: have been Tupac's fiftieth birthday. Wow is right to mark 1179 01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,880 Speaker 1: the occasion. Jada Pinkett Smiths shared a never released poem 1180 01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 1: by her late bff. POC wrote me many letters and 1181 01:15:21,520 --> 01:15:24,120 Speaker 1: many poems, she says, and I don't think this has 1182 01:15:24,160 --> 01:15:28,879 Speaker 1: ever been published, honestly, Jada said in her insta tribute 1183 01:15:28,960 --> 01:15:33,560 Speaker 1: before sharing lost Souls spelled with a Z. While he 1184 01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:37,240 Speaker 1: later released a song called Lost Souls, she believes he 1185 01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:40,400 Speaker 1: wrote the original concept during his stay at Rikers Island 1186 01:15:40,439 --> 01:15:43,439 Speaker 1: in New York. Guys, And to that, I gotta ask you, 1187 01:15:43,840 --> 01:15:46,640 Speaker 1: what was your favorite TUPAC song? Steve? I know you 1188 01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:49,680 Speaker 1: loved POC, what was your favorite? Well? You know, I'm 1189 01:15:49,680 --> 01:15:52,680 Speaker 1: not a hip hop specialist by any stretching to imagine now, 1190 01:15:54,200 --> 01:15:57,519 Speaker 1: I've only bought three hip hop albums, four hip hop 1191 01:15:57,600 --> 01:16:04,000 Speaker 1: albums in my life. I bought Jay Z's Blueprint. Well, 1192 01:16:04,320 --> 01:16:07,120 Speaker 1: I bought Diary of a Sinner, which is one of 1193 01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:14,400 Speaker 1: my favorite boy boy, all right, and I got well, 1194 01:16:14,439 --> 01:16:20,000 Speaker 1: I bought a few more. I bought Ice Que Defsatifkey, Tupox, 1195 01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:26,000 Speaker 1: all eyes on Me and to me, the greatest rap 1196 01:16:26,320 --> 01:16:32,800 Speaker 1: group of all time Outcast, Oh, to me, that was 1197 01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,040 Speaker 1: the greatest rap group. Now that's all. I'm not of 1198 01:16:35,080 --> 01:16:39,000 Speaker 1: hip hop, especially so if I offitted anybody, I don't care. 1199 01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:42,080 Speaker 1: All Right, We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1200 01:16:42,120 --> 01:16:44,720 Speaker 1: Show coming up at thirty three minutes after the hour. 1201 01:16:44,880 --> 01:16:50,680 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to show attention young men 1202 01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:54,519 Speaker 1: between the ages of thirteen to eighteen years old. The 1203 01:16:54,680 --> 01:16:59,479 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Virtual Mentoring Program is on this Father's Day 1204 01:16:59,560 --> 01:17:05,200 Speaker 1: week in with special guests including Jeezy La Lakerstar, Taylor Horton, Tucker, 1205 01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:09,639 Speaker 1: Terrence Jay, and many many more. So, Steve, you said 1206 01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:13,080 Speaker 1: that during your mentoring session Jules, you found that the 1207 01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,560 Speaker 1: boys are dealing with so much pain because of the 1208 01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:20,280 Speaker 1: deaths of so many young black men. Right, yeah, yeah, 1209 01:17:20,840 --> 01:17:24,840 Speaker 1: I'm having some special men to help them with it. 1210 01:17:27,040 --> 01:17:29,160 Speaker 1: It's going to be a panel called Past the Pain 1211 01:17:30,360 --> 01:17:34,720 Speaker 1: Passed and the guest as Shirley Tracy Martin. He's the 1212 01:17:34,800 --> 01:17:41,000 Speaker 1: father of Trevor Martin's father, Aubrey Wright, father of Dante Wright, 1213 01:17:41,840 --> 01:17:46,680 Speaker 1: and Michael Brown senior father of Michael Brown. So I'm 1214 01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:49,160 Speaker 1: gonna have these men on to help these young men 1215 01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:54,040 Speaker 1: because they're dealing with so much pain with the actions 1216 01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:59,200 Speaker 1: of the police. They're dealing with the absence of their 1217 01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:03,479 Speaker 1: fathers in their lives. Uh. You know, it's just a lot, man, 1218 01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:07,240 Speaker 1: that these young men deal with. So we address in 1219 01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,920 Speaker 1: our mentoring program things on so many levels. So if 1220 01:18:09,960 --> 01:18:13,720 Speaker 1: you have a boy between thirteen and eighteen, please invite them. 1221 01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:16,640 Speaker 1: You can go to Stephen Marjorie Harvey dot org for 1222 01:18:16,880 --> 01:18:21,080 Speaker 1: more information about where you can Stephen marjor Harvey Foundation 1223 01:18:21,200 --> 01:18:26,559 Speaker 1: dot org. Right, Harvey Foundation dot org. Harvey Foundation dot org. Yeah, 1224 01:18:26,760 --> 01:18:28,720 Speaker 1: you know, all of that gets to it. But if 1225 01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,080 Speaker 1: you look it up, Nara give you more information and 1226 01:18:31,240 --> 01:18:33,599 Speaker 1: just come and join us and then I'll be hailing 1227 01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,560 Speaker 1: some of the information, some of the speeches myself. But 1228 01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:40,320 Speaker 1: it's really great. Uh. We did during the pandemic six 1229 01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:47,840 Speaker 1: million boys, how standing virtually because it was virtual, so 1230 01:18:47,960 --> 01:18:52,120 Speaker 1: we had boys globally globally, so during the pandemic we 1231 01:18:52,240 --> 01:18:58,720 Speaker 1: reach six million boys. That's a lot of people, man, 1232 01:18:58,880 --> 01:19:00,960 Speaker 1: and it makes a difference and send these young men's 1233 01:19:01,040 --> 01:19:04,799 Speaker 1: lives because they have to have somewhere to go, somewhere 1234 01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:07,759 Speaker 1: to let it out, to let people know how they feel, 1235 01:19:07,840 --> 01:19:10,720 Speaker 1: because they are dealing with lots of trauma and all 1236 01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:13,919 Speaker 1: of that. Because of this, and also it's just important 1237 01:19:13,960 --> 01:19:17,559 Speaker 1: that young men hear a different voice, a different idea 1238 01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:20,799 Speaker 1: of what manhood really is, as opposed to what's presented 1239 01:19:20,840 --> 01:19:23,519 Speaker 1: to them out in the streets or what's presented to 1240 01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:27,040 Speaker 1: them in music. Oftentimes, you got to hear what a 1241 01:19:27,200 --> 01:19:30,000 Speaker 1: real man sounds like and what it looks like. And 1242 01:19:30,120 --> 01:19:32,599 Speaker 1: a lot of our speakers are men and who look 1243 01:19:32,680 --> 01:19:35,400 Speaker 1: like them and sound like them and can relate to them. 1244 01:19:35,479 --> 01:19:38,760 Speaker 1: And a lot of guys I have speaking came from 1245 01:19:38,840 --> 01:19:42,719 Speaker 1: father's homes themselves and can help them deal with coping 1246 01:19:42,760 --> 01:19:45,200 Speaker 1: with the fact that they their father isn't active in 1247 01:19:45,280 --> 01:19:47,200 Speaker 1: their life. A lot of these boys that come on 1248 01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:49,040 Speaker 1: in their dads will be active in their life, but 1249 01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:51,760 Speaker 1: there's many who'll be what dad's are absent in their life. 1250 01:19:51,800 --> 01:19:54,640 Speaker 1: And that's an important thing to call it. And you 1251 01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:57,880 Speaker 1: had your dad active in your life. Coming up is 1252 01:19:57,880 --> 01:20:00,120 Speaker 1: our last break of the day. At forty nine, fine 1253 01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,519 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, and of course Steve Harvey, our 1254 01:20:02,600 --> 01:20:05,880 Speaker 1: fearless leader, will have some closing remarks for us right 1255 01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:10,960 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. All right, guys, 1256 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:13,560 Speaker 1: here we are our last break of the day on 1257 01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:18,519 Speaker 1: this Thursday. It's almost the weekend. It was a good day. 1258 01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:22,200 Speaker 1: We have fun today, Steve. You have fun. Yeah, I'm 1259 01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:25,920 Speaker 1: doing my job. We were doing. Yeah, it's fun. Hey, listen. 1260 01:20:26,200 --> 01:20:29,280 Speaker 1: You know we didn't get to our very last CLO 1261 01:20:29,479 --> 01:20:32,920 Speaker 1: question earlier this morning in the six o'clock hour, Steve, 1262 01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:35,560 Speaker 1: So I wanted to bring this one back because it 1263 01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:38,080 Speaker 1: was interesting and I wanted to hear your take on it. Okay, 1264 01:20:38,880 --> 01:20:41,320 Speaker 1: all right, here we go. This is for our Cello 1265 01:20:41,479 --> 01:20:45,400 Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer. This is from Kyla in Oklahoma City. 1266 01:20:45,520 --> 01:20:48,200 Speaker 1: Kyla says, my husband and I were at dinner last 1267 01:20:48,320 --> 01:20:51,080 Speaker 1: night and a female came over to our table and 1268 01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:53,840 Speaker 1: call my husband by name and said it's been years 1269 01:20:53,960 --> 01:20:56,840 Speaker 1: since she's been since she's seen him. My husband acted 1270 01:20:56,880 --> 01:21:00,000 Speaker 1: like he didn't know her, so she went into detail 1271 01:21:00,240 --> 01:21:02,760 Speaker 1: about how he used to mess with her friend when 1272 01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:06,080 Speaker 1: he was married to his first wife. I told the 1273 01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:08,680 Speaker 1: lady to get the hell away from the table. I 1274 01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:10,840 Speaker 1: went off on him on the way home, and he 1275 01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:15,160 Speaker 1: swore he doesn't know her. Could he be a cheater? 1276 01:21:15,720 --> 01:21:18,439 Speaker 1: Should I believe him? Or do some snooping on my 1277 01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:23,400 Speaker 1: own clo. Well, let's go of a couple of things. Now, 1278 01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:26,280 Speaker 1: can we get hot and hated? Let me ask you 1279 01:21:26,360 --> 01:21:29,120 Speaker 1: all the question when the girl said I knew you 1280 01:21:29,200 --> 01:21:33,760 Speaker 1: when you used to mess around with my friend with 1281 01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:41,040 Speaker 1: your first wife. Did he have a first wife? Well, 1282 01:21:41,080 --> 01:21:43,000 Speaker 1: I mean we have to assume that he did. And 1283 01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:46,960 Speaker 1: she said that, so it wasn't he She was talking 1284 01:21:47,000 --> 01:21:51,080 Speaker 1: about messing around with her friend with this wife, right, 1285 01:21:51,320 --> 01:21:54,519 Speaker 1: the first one that was yeah, yeah, prior to this one. 1286 01:21:54,640 --> 01:21:58,280 Speaker 1: Right now? Okay, so dog really, bro, you and n 1287 01:21:58,439 --> 01:22:09,400 Speaker 1: KLIL really come gonna lie way out? Well, well, let's 1288 01:22:09,439 --> 01:22:14,280 Speaker 1: just deal with some truth first. Okay, Okay, if he 1289 01:22:14,560 --> 01:22:18,040 Speaker 1: did mess around with her girlfriend, what she probably did, 1290 01:22:19,840 --> 01:22:27,559 Speaker 1: it was on his first wife. Oh not not hurt. Now, 1291 01:22:27,640 --> 01:22:30,240 Speaker 1: if you don't have a first wife any more. The 1292 01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:35,320 Speaker 1: divorce had to be for some reason, right, okay. And 1293 01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:39,559 Speaker 1: if you was unhappy and you sought satisfaction or relief 1294 01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:43,000 Speaker 1: outside your house, that's the mistake in the wrong you committed. 1295 01:22:43,720 --> 01:22:47,840 Speaker 1: But you ain't that, brother, No, more, Come on, big see. 1296 01:22:48,320 --> 01:22:50,599 Speaker 1: So I don't know why she over in here trying 1297 01:22:50,640 --> 01:22:54,400 Speaker 1: to bring up my past when clearly the man of 1298 01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:58,120 Speaker 1: God that I am to day I saw it would 1299 01:22:58,320 --> 01:23:01,960 Speaker 1: not participate in what I used to participate in. Why 1300 01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:04,200 Speaker 1: she all up and here I am trying to move 1301 01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:06,479 Speaker 1: on and have this wonderful life. You I would have 1302 01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:08,519 Speaker 1: met the woman of my dreams that here she talking 1303 01:23:08,560 --> 01:23:11,599 Speaker 1: about somebody in the path. So yeall denied that pass 1304 01:23:11,640 --> 01:23:13,360 Speaker 1: because I'm blocked that out and I want to hear 1305 01:23:13,400 --> 01:23:17,400 Speaker 1: out my face. Oh so that's what he says to 1306 01:23:17,560 --> 01:23:21,240 Speaker 1: his current wife, Like just like that, Oh, with all 1307 01:23:21,280 --> 01:23:25,920 Speaker 1: that passion, all that energy, and now the devil busy 1308 01:23:26,040 --> 01:23:28,120 Speaker 1: trying to rob me of my destiny. There he gonna 1309 01:23:28,120 --> 01:23:31,080 Speaker 1: send this empt up to me while we having a 1310 01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:34,760 Speaker 1: peaceful and a happy family time together. All right. So, 1311 01:23:35,600 --> 01:23:40,120 Speaker 1: and I've done nothing to draw your concerned or suspicion 1312 01:23:40,200 --> 01:23:45,280 Speaker 1: about me, doing nothing except being a loving hood. Come yeah, okay? 1313 01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:49,760 Speaker 1: So to answer her question, then should I believe him 1314 01:23:50,479 --> 01:23:53,360 Speaker 1: or do some snooping of my own? But if you 1315 01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:55,719 Speaker 1: do some snooping of your own, what are you gonna 1316 01:23:55,760 --> 01:23:58,240 Speaker 1: find out? Even if you find out he was messing 1317 01:23:58,320 --> 01:24:01,240 Speaker 1: around with this girl that he talking about that ain't 1318 01:24:01,240 --> 01:24:03,000 Speaker 1: got nothing to do with you. Ain't no such thing 1319 01:24:03,080 --> 01:24:05,720 Speaker 1: as cyril cheatahs. There's no such thing as wants a 1320 01:24:05,800 --> 01:24:09,040 Speaker 1: cheatah always and cheatah. Y'all spread a lot of stuff. 1321 01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:11,320 Speaker 1: So God can't forgive you, and you can't get up 1322 01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:13,920 Speaker 1: and move on, and you can't improve. Oh people can't. 1323 01:24:14,160 --> 01:24:18,320 Speaker 1: Oh you're using that. Oh reverse psychology. People can't change. No, Well, 1324 01:24:18,400 --> 01:24:21,439 Speaker 1: I'm not using reverse psychology. Just trying to follow you, sir. 1325 01:24:22,040 --> 01:24:24,720 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on hold? Did we not having did 1326 01:24:24,760 --> 01:24:27,400 Speaker 1: we not have a strop letter the other day about 1327 01:24:27,439 --> 01:24:30,720 Speaker 1: a woman that was cheating? We talk about this right now. 1328 01:24:33,040 --> 01:24:36,360 Speaker 1: So what I'm asking you, though, is so you're trying 1329 01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:40,000 Speaker 1: to say if the woman came up to him and said, 1330 01:24:40,080 --> 01:24:45,760 Speaker 1: you used to mess with my friend on your other wife, right, 1331 01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:49,479 Speaker 1: what's her reason if he come up making that state? 1332 01:24:50,400 --> 01:24:54,640 Speaker 1: Except she trying to be messy? That sound like she 1333 01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:57,880 Speaker 1: about to succeed, because now she's talking about do I 1334 01:24:58,040 --> 01:25:02,200 Speaker 1: believe him or do I do some snooping. When you're snooping, 1335 01:25:02,360 --> 01:25:04,679 Speaker 1: what you're gonna find out that he did mess around 1336 01:25:04,720 --> 01:25:07,120 Speaker 1: with this woman? And so what they gotta do with you? Though? 1337 01:25:08,160 --> 01:25:10,720 Speaker 1: She doesn't want it to happen to her, that's all. 1338 01:25:10,880 --> 01:25:13,920 Speaker 1: That's okay. Well, but see it ain't nothing happened to her. 1339 01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:18,920 Speaker 1: This strawberry letter ain't about I think my husband messing around. 1340 01:25:19,200 --> 01:25:21,320 Speaker 1: This letter was me and my husband having done him. 1341 01:25:21,400 --> 01:25:24,840 Speaker 1: A woman came up to me, called him by his name, 1342 01:25:25,479 --> 01:25:28,519 Speaker 1: and then said, I remember you used to see my 1343 01:25:28,720 --> 01:25:32,080 Speaker 1: friend and he was married to your other wife. But 1344 01:25:32,240 --> 01:25:33,960 Speaker 1: the part I love is that he act like he 1345 01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:37,040 Speaker 1: didn't know it. That's what I love. My man, My man, 1346 01:25:37,360 --> 01:25:45,400 Speaker 1: he did get away from our table lady, and know 1347 01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:50,280 Speaker 1: what she talking? She does some snooping and finds out 1348 01:25:51,080 --> 01:25:54,880 Speaker 1: and what sure, what do you mean? And then what? 1349 01:25:55,320 --> 01:25:58,320 Speaker 1: So now he has to pay for a past relationship 1350 01:25:58,400 --> 01:26:01,800 Speaker 1: he had with his former wife. You're talking about if 1351 01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:04,920 Speaker 1: she starts snooping, what if she finds out that he's 1352 01:26:05,000 --> 01:26:08,200 Speaker 1: messing around on her too? Oh? The current wi the 1353 01:26:08,400 --> 01:26:13,920 Speaker 1: letter writer, The letter writer, Yeah, it's just that's why 1354 01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:19,799 Speaker 1: she now she does why what? What? What's the reason? 1355 01:26:20,360 --> 01:26:24,559 Speaker 1: Because he's cheated before? Because the woman came up and said, 1356 01:26:25,560 --> 01:26:30,760 Speaker 1: he cheated before? What I gotta do with you? That's 1357 01:26:30,840 --> 01:26:33,080 Speaker 1: why she wants to do. That's why she wants to 1358 01:26:33,160 --> 01:26:40,759 Speaker 1: snoop to see. Wow, that's how y'all think. Uh yeah, yeah, okay, 1359 01:26:40,840 --> 01:26:46,519 Speaker 1: we're going do it. Then your head and be careful 1360 01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,679 Speaker 1: for looking himself because you might fast. You might find 1361 01:26:50,240 --> 01:27:00,640 Speaker 1: exactly I'm so glad to show y'all have. For all 1362 01:27:00,680 --> 01:27:04,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. Participants 1363 01:27:04,479 --> 01:27:07,360 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1364 01:27:07,479 --> 01:27:11,720 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. 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