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Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Double Show.

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Speaker 2: Maddie is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: She's been dating her boyfriend Connor for three years, but

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Speaker 2: now she thinks that something might be going on, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if we can help her out. Maddie, sorry,

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Speaker 2: you have to come on the show this way, but

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Speaker 2: what's up. Why do you think Connor's cheating?

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Speaker 3: Well, Connor and I have been together for three years,

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Speaker 3: and we moved in together after a year, and it's

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Speaker 3: kind of been a little bit of a struggle financially

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Speaker 3: because we were both fresh out of college, you know,

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Speaker 3: trying to make ends meet. But I feel like we

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Speaker 3: really have a very close relationship, even in the hard times,

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Speaker 3: and you know, even when we find ourselves in a fight,

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Speaker 3: Connor will just say something dumb or silly and it

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Speaker 3: just kind of goes away, which I feel like is

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Speaker 3: our white flag moment. I think, honestly, everything's been pretty

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Speaker 3: easy with us. And before Connor, I had a string

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Speaker 3: of horrible relationships. The last three guys they beat it

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Speaker 3: actually cheated on me. So yeah, sorry, yeah, yeah, I

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Speaker 3: walked in on one with another girl, Like it just

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Speaker 3: fits a lot and I hope that that's not like

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Speaker 3: making me nervous because I'm still guarded, you know, all

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Speaker 3: of that. And Connin knows my past, like he knows.

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Speaker 3: He's really been cool with making me feel at ease

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Speaker 3: whenever I feel like something might be happening, you know.

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Speaker 3: But lately, like the last three weeks specifically, it feels

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Speaker 3: like he's.

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Speaker 4: Been hiding something for me and he won't talk about it.

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Speaker 5: What kind of things is he hiding from me or

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Speaker 5: what kind of thing is he hiding from you?

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: He's just been getting home late, like he has this

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Speaker 3: weird schedule. He's been like having these weird hours at

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Speaker 3: work and it's either way early or super late.

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Speaker 4: And then when I asked, he says, oh, yeah, it's

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Speaker 3: But never been like that. But then one day I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh, yeah, I'm going to come op to

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Speaker 3: and I was like, where are you? And he said

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Speaker 3: he had some meeting in town.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to think the worst, and I was

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Speaker 3: trying to just ignore what he was saying because maybe

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Speaker 3: it was just a meeting, you know, and that was it,

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Speaker 3: and maybe he does have a really really weird schedule lately,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. But then I saw some text messages

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Speaker 3: from the girl named Isabelle. I have no idea who

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Speaker 3: that is. Anyway, I saw one of these texts from

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Speaker 3: Isabelle and it said meet me there at three looking

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Speaker 3: forward to seeing you again. And three o'clock is in

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Speaker 3: kind of work, and no one named Isabelle works at

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Speaker 3: his office, and my mind is just kind of going crazy,

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Speaker 3: like I can't let it go. And so then I

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Speaker 3: saw the text, obviously from isabel and I asked, okay.

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Speaker 6: Who is that?

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Speaker 3: And he got really short about it, which he never

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Speaker 3: a work thing because and then I was like, well,

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Speaker 3: where is she from, because she's not from your office.

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Speaker 3: He said, oh, she's just a rep from another district.

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Speaker 3: And that sounds like it could be legit, but it's

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Speaker 3: just the way that he said it. It just sounded

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Speaker 3: like he was making crap up, like right on the spot.

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Speaker 3: And he's always been a horrible liar. So I'm just

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Speaker 3: hoping that you guys can help to ease my mind

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Speaker 3: because I don't know if it's just me because I've

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Speaker 4: Too many times. I just I don't want to go

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Speaker 4: through this again. Yeah, and I don't know if I'm

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Speaker 4: I need to know.

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Speaker 5: I just feel like he should know that your brain

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Speaker 5: is wired to go there at this point. I mean,

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Speaker 5: at some point you're going to have to just trust

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Speaker 5: and all of that. But good for you to ask

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Speaker 5: him about the text message. I don't like how he

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Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks, I don't like it either.

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Speaker 6: Well, let's see if we can figure it out.

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Speaker 2: You already told us at grocery store he's a rewards

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Speaker 2: card member at So we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 2: and then call him and pretend to be from the

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Speaker 2: grocery store and say that every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one lucky customer who gets free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 2: you or to somebody else.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Place, I'll come back and get your to catch a

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Speaker 2: tetter next, if you're just joining us for today, is

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Speaker 2: to catch a tetter. Maddie is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: she thinks that her boyfriend three years Connor, might be

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Speaker 2: messing around. So we're about to call him and pretend

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Speaker 2: to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards

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Speaker 2: card remember, and say that every single month, we choose

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Speaker 2: one random person who gets flowers delivered from our Florida

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Speaker 2: department absolutely free, and see if he sends them to

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Speaker 2: his girlfriend, Maddie or to somebody else. But first, Mattie,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch us up on why you are

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Speaker 2: suspicious that he might be cheating?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 3: You know he's been working really weird hours or before

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Speaker 3: it was normal hours, like hes a really routine schedule,

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Speaker 3: and I caught him texting this girl Isabelle, who I

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Speaker 3: don't know, and he says that she's from work, but

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Speaker 3: I've never heard.

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Speaker 4: Of her before, and I don't know. Just thinks I'm

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Speaker 6: You ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 6: Okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is Gorble calling from I was looking for

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Speaker 2: our rewards card member named Connor.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, let's see.

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Speaker 2: Hey Connor, please don't hang up. This is not a

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Speaker 2: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to tell you congratulations.

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Speaker 2: You're this month's big winner.

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Speaker 4: Okay, what do I win?

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member, totally

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Speaker 2: random who gets free flowers delivered from our flooral apartment.

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Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long stem red roses, a

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Speaker 2: box of chocolates or candy, and a card to be

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Speaker 2: delivered to anybody that you want within the fifty United

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Speaker 2: States of America, absolutely free. It's a three hundred and

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Speaker 2: sixteen dollars value. So thank you very much for congratulations.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: I actually I don't know how well time that is?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 6: Really great? Sounds great, that's wonderful.

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Speaker 2: The first thing I will need will be a first

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Speaker 2: and last name of the lucky recipient.

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Speaker 1: That's for Maddie.

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Speaker 6: M add And would you like a card included with it?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Yes?

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Speaker 6: What would you like to say.

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Speaker 1: On the card?

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Speaker 6: How about I love you?

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Speaker 1: Things are going to get better? Promise?

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Speaker 6: Okay, it never gets easier. Tell you that much you

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Speaker 6: get in trouble, being wandering eye or something.

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Speaker 1: I think that's a little personal.

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Speaker 6: Get the flowers.

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Speaker 2: Sorry about that, Well, you can't get the flowers actually,

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Speaker 2: because this is actually Jubil from the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 6: It's a radio show.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we're all here, I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria,

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Speaker 5: and we do a segment call to Catch a Cheater,

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Speaker 5: where if you think your significant other might be sleeping

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Speaker 5: around you try to see who they send flowers too.

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Speaker 6: And your girlfriend Maddie is actually on the phone.

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Speaker 4: OKAYI Hi, what's this a uhreay cheating on me? No?

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Speaker 6: No, god no, nothing really weird.

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Speaker 4: And and why haven't you been at work? Like what

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Speaker 4: what with your weird schedule? And you're just kind of

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Speaker 1: Oh God, God God, no, no, no, no, no, no, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I know you have kind of a

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Speaker 4: Who's what? No, Connor, I saw the text messages from

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Speaker 4: somebody named Isabelle.

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Speaker 6: Who is she?

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm not I'm not seeing her, but I I

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Speaker 1: I have been. I've been kind of hiding things. The

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Speaker 1: truth is, I got laid off about a month ago,

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Speaker 1: and I really, yeah, I really didn't want to, like,

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Speaker 1: I don't stress you out anymore. I mean, we have

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Speaker 1: I really just wanted to keep making sure that you

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Speaker 1: been on more interviews than I think I ever been before.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this last week alone, I ended up having

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Speaker 4: So you're not cheating, No, no, no, no, not at all. Gosh, Okay,

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Speaker 4: we've been to them. Well.

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Speaker 1: Actually that that's the big part of the reason why

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Speaker 1: things are going to get better. She was gonna I

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Speaker 1: was open to tell you soon starting. Well, I mean

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Speaker 1: technically I did yesterday. Isabelle's my new boss. Not only that,

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Speaker 1: I mean the position that I've got now, it.

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Speaker 6: Pays a lot more.

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Speaker 1: The texts were for a final interview for that position,

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Speaker 1: and I've got it correct.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Connor, Why wouldn't you feel comfortable talking to me

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't know, because I thought you'd be mad

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Connor, I'm not your ex me and I needed.

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Speaker 4: You to feel comfortable talking to me about things. That's

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Speaker 4: a big deal. For you to hide that from me,

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Speaker 4: that's a really big deal. And I'm not even upset

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Speaker 4: that you lost your job. I'm just I'm kind of

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Speaker 4: in this big mess and I've been stressing out. You know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't want you to worry. I'm not your

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Speaker 1: ex I really didn't want you to think I was

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Speaker 1: cheating on you.

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Speaker 2: Hey, that's cool. You're both not each other's excellence. And

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Speaker 2: it sounds like you don't treat each other nicely.

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Speaker 6: Well, sometimes you need to have a reminder, you know.

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Speaker 4: I just want you to know that you can come

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Speaker 4: to me these things. You know. I know you want

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Speaker 4: to protect me, but you don't need to go through

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Speaker 4: this stuff alone. The word team.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'll do my best. Oh, I think at this point

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Speaker 1: I know you more than just flowers.

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Speaker 6: Oh it's okay, Well you.

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Speaker 2: Are getting a new job that pays a lot, so

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Speaker 2: maybe some jewelry. I okay, Well, congratulations, Mattie. At least

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Speaker 2: you know he's not cheating.

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Speaker 4: God, I am relieved. And I knew he's just such

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Speaker 4: a liar. I knew something was going on.

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Speaker 6: You got to trust yourself.

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Speaker 1: I am a really fire

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Speaker 6: The jewel shows to catch a cheater