1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous people. It is La La Kent And if 2 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 1: you are just landing from outer space, it's the Give 3 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,920 Speaker 1: Them Lala podcast. I've got my little ride or die. 4 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 2: Hi everyone, it's me. It's jess here. 5 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 1: I am by the way. I had no idea how 6 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:27,479 Speaker 1: short you are until you took your shoes off. 7 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 2: Thank you, because I'm proud. 8 00:00:31,440 --> 00:00:33,760 Speaker 3: I'm five to one on a good day, I'm like 9 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 3: just under five to one, but a little over five 10 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 3: that is so cute. It's not cute, it's pathetic. And 11 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 3: I have to say, and I'm not going to say five, 12 00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 3: what are you? 13 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:48,800 Speaker 2: I'm five? No, I'd rather say five one. But yeah, 14 00:00:49,040 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 2: that's me. 15 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 1: So the new house I because ocean's crawling now. I 16 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,520 Speaker 1: make everyone take their shoes off. And if you're like 17 00:00:56,600 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: a fixture in the home, like Jessica is, we have 18 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:01,960 Speaker 1: house slippers. 19 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,520 Speaker 3: We have house slippers that I accidentally wore home the 20 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 3: other day. 21 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 2: I do it all the. 22 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: Time, and it defeats the whole purpose of the house slippers. 23 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: I know, right, I looked down on the ground and 24 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:16,199 Speaker 1: was like, Jessica's boots are here, but Jessica is not. 25 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 2: And her slippers are elsewhere. 26 00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 1: Went home, but I'm serious. You took the shoes off, 27 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, well, I do, little peanut, 28 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: because Lala said something something and I was like, well, 29 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:31,760 Speaker 1: I'm sure and she said not really. 30 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 3: And I said, Lala, what do you tell I'm the 31 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 3: shortest person you've ever met? And she was like really, 32 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 3: And then I took my boots off, which are like 33 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 3: a chunky heel, and she gasped. 34 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: I did, yeah, tiny, little bean, I know, I love it. 35 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: I mean I love a petite. 36 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 3: Little little assistants rolling around the house. 37 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: So I had a pretty amazing weekend. 38 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 3: Oh my god, let's hear because I saw story Instagram 39 00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 3: story footage okay, and there's no way this is real, 40 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 3: but I'm just gonna ask it. 41 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: Anyway. 42 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 2: Were you at the club? 43 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 1: I went to the motherfucking club. Oh my god, I did. 44 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 1: I did it, okay, And I didn't think I was 45 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:19,880 Speaker 1: going to be able to first Before the club. We 46 00:02:20,280 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 1: it was a girls' night and we had dinner at Delilah, 47 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: which was amazing, but it was like early bird special. 48 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:32,800 Speaker 1: We went to I think around six six thirty, but 49 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 1: we went so early because a friend of mine invited 50 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 1: us to go to the Dave Chappelle show, which was 51 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: actually a Bob Saggat tribute. So I don't know if 52 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: anyone has heard about this. It took place in the 53 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: Belly Room. I won't go into details because obviously it was, 54 00:02:57,360 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: you know, a very intimate setting. I will say it 55 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 1: was absolutely incredible. Really, I was like, how am I 56 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: here right now? I'm witnessing one of the most beautiful 57 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 1: moments that I think I'll ever witness in my whole life. 58 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:19,560 Speaker 1: Oh wow. I mean there were fifty people in this room. 59 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 2: Really, in the belly room. 60 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 3: If you're not from Los Angeles, it's like there's the 61 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 3: Comedy Store, which is the main room, and then the 62 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 3: belly Room is sort of a room next to it, 63 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 3: which is a bit smaller. So yeah, fifty people in 64 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 3: this room. 65 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 2: That's pretty That's. 66 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: A lot, right, No, I mean it felt it was 67 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: all friends and family of Bob Saggett and obviously people 68 00:03:45,440 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: that worked for Dave Chappelle, and I mean John Mayer 69 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:51,920 Speaker 1: was there with his guitar and it was just like, 70 00:03:52,600 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: jaw on the floor. How am I here witnessing this 71 00:03:55,720 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 1: right now? This is incredible and in Yeah, so we 72 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 1: got to go and do that I was so thankful. 73 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: It'll be a moment I've been thankful. I'll be thankful 74 00:04:06,120 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: for forever and guess so after after it's over, we 75 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: go downstairs outside to like the front of the comedy store, 76 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:19,799 Speaker 1: and I'm cool with Collie in a night. At this point, 77 00:04:19,800 --> 00:04:23,039 Speaker 1: we're like pushing midnight, right, Wow, Yeah that's late. Yeah 78 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,320 Speaker 1: I was late, and Stossy looks me dead in my 79 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: fucking eyes and says, we are going to the club 80 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: Stacy Stossy Schroeder. 81 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 2: Wait, is that is she a club girl? Because I 82 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 2: don't personally know Stacy, I just know her through you. 83 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: Is she a club girl? 84 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,720 Speaker 1: Okay? So would you say I'm a club girl? No? Okay, 85 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: times me by like a million, that's how much of it. 86 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: Not club girl? She is okay, awesome, And come to 87 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,280 Speaker 1: find out, she just wanted to go to see what 88 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: people wear at the club these days. Oh that's hilarious. 89 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,360 Speaker 1: She was videoing every She's like, I'm in shock, And 90 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: I was also in shock because I'm looking around this 91 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:10,920 Speaker 1: club and everyone. A lot of people have sunglasses on, 92 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: and I'm like, there's no sun in here, and you 93 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 1: you ain't Drake, ain't Kanye West are you sure about that. 94 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:23,760 Speaker 2: I'm sure they weren't Drake Ork. It wasn't Drake or Kanye. 95 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: No, they have security. These people were like people. They 96 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:30,919 Speaker 1: were like me with sunglasses on. 97 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,960 Speaker 3: Okay, and it's dark in the club, So how do 98 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 3: you not tumble down the stairs? 99 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 1: That's what I was wondering. I can't even keep sunglasses 100 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: on during the day when I'm like backing out in 101 00:05:42,560 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: my driveway. Yeah, so props to them, but also take 102 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: your fucking sunglasses off in the nightclub if you're not 103 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: Drake or Kanye West, Like I'm begging you, She's begging you. 104 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:55,599 Speaker 1: But then again, I don't know. Maybe they were famous, 105 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: because this this is like a new world for me 106 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: because now it's like, oh, they're famous on talk they're YouTubers. 107 00:06:01,720 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 2: And I'm like, hum, I don't know, Yeah, maybe they were. 108 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,520 Speaker 2: But also like, don't wear your sunglasses. 109 00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 3: It's just even if you are, even if you are 110 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 3: super famous, it's not it's not. It doesn't make life 111 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,160 Speaker 3: easier at the club. And I know it from the footage. 112 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 3: I saw that it's dark in that room. It's not 113 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 3: like it's like I'm just gonna throw these sunglasses on 114 00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 3: and my my night's gonna be easier. 115 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 2: No, you have to watch where you're going. You're gonna 116 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:27,480 Speaker 2: run into people. 117 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: It's just a whole different world. I mean I was 118 00:06:30,279 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 1: looking around and there was like a group of these guys, 119 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 1: and I mean everyone's in their twenties, right, like early twenties. 120 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: You can just tell like babyfaces everywhere, right, Like I've 121 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:45,360 Speaker 1: missed this world, right, Like I'm in Jessica, I'm in 122 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 1: this world again. Okay, Yeah, how crazy is that? Like 123 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: I'm looking around and I'm like, who is next? Right? Yeah? 124 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. 125 00:06:57,760 --> 00:06:59,240 Speaker 1: It was fun. It was so fun. 126 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 2: I was just gonna say, did you have fun? 127 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 3: Or was it more of a I'm going to be 128 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 3: an outsider looking in look at all these clubgoers enjoy it. 129 00:07:06,440 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 3: But I'm not coming back here for a while. 130 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: You know. I think I I loved going. Yeah, I 131 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 1: won't be going back for a while. I think I'm 132 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: the type of person who's much more into like, let's 133 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: go to a lounge. I don't like screaming trying to 134 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: talk to someone. Yeah. And even when I was like 135 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: drinking and in my early twenties, like the club was 136 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: just not my scene. Do you dance yeah, like yeah, 137 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: but I I have a very specific type of music 138 00:07:38,400 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: that I want to hear. Okay, I don't want like 139 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: do you know like EDM. I'm like my body doesn't. 140 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: Like I'm just now having convulsions trying to keep up 141 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: with a beat, right, yes, to like move with it right, 142 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: Like I need something that is like chill that I 143 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 1: can lean back with that I can have someone pop 144 00:07:56,480 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: that booty for me, you know, like that's my vibe. 145 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,400 Speaker 2: And it wasn't that vibe or it was kind of 146 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 2: just like it's all over the place. 147 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: Okay, all of it. I had the best time good, 148 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:10,680 Speaker 1: but the best time good. But here's here's where it 149 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: gets sad. Oh no, this was not just a night 150 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,880 Speaker 1: out that we were like on a win, let's do it. 151 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 1: We planned this night on New Year's Eve. The moms 152 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,160 Speaker 1: we said let everyone, when can we do it? And 153 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:25,840 Speaker 1: we all looked at our calendar and we were like, 154 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: January fifteenth, is everyone free? And my mom was like, 155 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: you're taking my daughter out? Yeah, I'll watch the baby. 156 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: Jacks was like, please go have a girl's night. 157 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 2: I think that's sweet. 158 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 3: In all the books, they're like, you guys, remember three 159 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 3: weeks from now we're going out to the club and 160 00:08:45,320 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 3: put it on your calendar, like, here's what's happened. 161 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:52,320 Speaker 1: No, that's exactly what happened. So that was that was 162 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:56,280 Speaker 1: my weekend. I got in at one thirty am. That's 163 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: actually pretty early for the club. And I'm little disappointed, 164 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: a little late for La La. I was like, it's 165 00:09:01,920 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 1: time for bad one thirty am. How did you feel 166 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: the next day? Tired? And I know that I'd like, 167 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,680 Speaker 1: I have a big week this week, like this week 168 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 1: is a long one. So I just knew. I knew 169 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: Sunday is my day of rest. Sunday's just like the Lord. Yes, 170 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: I may or may not have been in my pajamas 171 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:27,079 Speaker 1: all day. That's another story. We won't get into it. 172 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:32,760 Speaker 1: We won't get into it. Before we cut to our 173 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: short break. Let's talk about the tour we're doing it. 174 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: Give them Laala is going on tour. We are starting 175 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 1: in Irvine, California. Then we're going to Fort Lauderdale, Clearwater, Orlando, 176 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 1: Sorry Orlando. I was too excited to get to Hot 177 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: Lanta that it came out of Orlando, Nashville, New Orleans, Houston, Austin, 178 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,280 Speaker 1: and Dallas. I am so excited. This tour is gonna 179 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:03,080 Speaker 1: be lit af. I'm excited to meet you guys. I 180 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: want to talk about it all. So if you don't 181 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 1: have your tickets already, go to give them live dot com. 182 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: And remember if you bought tickets to the tour that 183 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: was gonna happen, those are still very much valid and 184 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: I will see you in your city to get it 185 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:24,559 Speaker 1: poppin love me a good pop up pop pop pap. 186 00:10:25,440 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: Also for my podcast listeners, because today is a super 187 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: exciting podcast. Yeah it is. It's gonna be really fun. 188 00:10:33,160 --> 00:10:35,680 Speaker 1: In fact, I actually feel bad talking about the club 189 00:10:36,040 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: on this podcast because today is a very sweet podcast 190 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,640 Speaker 1: and we're talking about all things children and love and innocence. 191 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: So I want to give my podcast listeners twenty percent 192 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: off of give them La La Baby. All you have 193 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: to do is go to give them La La Baby 194 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 1: dot com. Nothing on the site is off limits, throw 195 00:10:54,760 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: it in the bag and just use code podcast twenty 196 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:01,679 Speaker 1: at checkout and enjoy your goods. We are going to 197 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:03,560 Speaker 1: cut to a short break and we're going to be 198 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: back with some voicemails about Ocean biting the shit out 199 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: of me and how I get her to stop doing it. 200 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. We are back. 201 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 2: We're back. 202 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 3: Okay, So before we get into these voicemails, Yeah, I 203 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: have a question. 204 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 1: What's your question? 205 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 2: I said, I was going to keep asking. I want 206 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 2: to know how the DM game is going. 207 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 1: Oh, the DM game. I've I only did the one 208 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: slide in okay, right, the DM is poppin' though, Like 209 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: the DM is where it's at. 210 00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 3: Oh my god, I know, and I had no idea. No, 211 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 3: that's that's what it is these days. Though you don't 212 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 3: need to go out, you. 213 00:11:48,559 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 2: Don't need to go to the bars. Slide in the DM. 214 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 1: Is Instagram like a dating app kind of. I mean 215 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: it's seen. I mean you're asking the wrong person, that's right. 216 00:11:57,120 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: You've had a boyfriend for a long time. 217 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think it can be anything can 218 00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 3: be a dating app if you try hard enough. 219 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: I mean it feels like that's where people like. Sliding 220 00:12:07,520 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 1: in the DM is like the new swipe, right. 221 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know what it's. 222 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 3: I feel like it's more because you can find out 223 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,680 Speaker 3: a lot a lot about a person that way. 224 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,040 Speaker 2: I go to your page, I'm. 225 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 3: Gonna see videos, I'm gonna see your demeanor, cute photos, 226 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 3: see what you're into, so that gives you more Listen. 227 00:12:25,520 --> 00:12:27,679 Speaker 3: I've never been on the dating apps, but I've heard 228 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,679 Speaker 3: it's like limited information. Yeah, so you only have a 229 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 3: few photos, you only have that quick bio. 230 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: That's what terrifies me, though, jess this is my what 231 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: terrifies me the most. Yes, like I slid in the 232 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 1: DM a while back. If I continue to slide in 233 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: the DM, first of all, I don't like it makes 234 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 1: me feel weird. I just feel like I'm giving a 235 00:12:48,679 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: piece of myself to someone where I'm like, I don't 236 00:12:50,880 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: even know if you deserve it. 237 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: That's true, you know, point Yeah? 238 00:12:53,920 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, But do you think that when I start talking 239 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 1: to boys that they google me? 240 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: One hundred thousand percent? 241 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 1: That is terrifying and I would like them to not 242 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 1: do that. What. 243 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 2: No, I don't. Why do you think that I just don't. 244 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: Want them googling me? Yeah, I just don't. It's like, 245 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: just right, keep my name out right because you. 246 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 2: Can't control what pops up. 247 00:13:22,480 --> 00:13:22,800 Speaker 1: First. 248 00:13:23,040 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 3: No, I think it's cool that you're googleable because when 249 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 3: you google me, it's like someone from Idaho who is 250 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,120 Speaker 3: like a newscaster, or like Jessica Walter who was on 251 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 3: arrested development and passed away. 252 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 2: God rest her soul. 253 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 1: I would rather have that, really, yes, because then it's 254 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,559 Speaker 1: like I have no control over what people can google, right. Yeah. 255 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: If the only place you can find me is my 256 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,560 Speaker 1: own Instagram, that I can control, I dig that. I 257 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 1: don't want you watching the show. I don't want you 258 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: googling shit. I don't want you hashtagging my name and 259 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: your little freaking search bar. 260 00:13:56,640 --> 00:13:59,680 Speaker 3: Yeah nerve No, Okay, let me ask you this. Do 261 00:13:59,760 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 3: you google someone if you were interested? Would you google 262 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:03,640 Speaker 3: this person? 263 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 4: No? 264 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:07,320 Speaker 1: I usually just no, I just go to the gram. 265 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you find it that way. 266 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,319 Speaker 1: Yes? Why would I go to Google and I can 267 00:14:11,320 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: go to the gram. 268 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: Because you might find information that they haven't told you. 269 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: I google everyone. 270 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 2: I google everyone. I google Kyle, I google you. 271 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: I'm googling every. 272 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 2: Day, Lisa. 273 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:26,920 Speaker 1: I think I should start googling, but I get it. 274 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:27,520 Speaker 2: I get it. 275 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 3: Listen, if you slide in Lalla's DMS and you shoot 276 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:35,760 Speaker 3: your shot and you guys get a conversation. 277 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 2: Going, don't google her. 278 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: Don't google me, just go off go and watch Vanner 279 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:45,680 Speaker 1: Pump Rules either. Oh well, okay, because I feel like 280 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: the type of guy that I'm into like does not 281 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: watch Vanner Pump Rules, and I would like it to 282 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 1: stay that way. Yeah, okay, with all that all being said, 283 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: now you're making me sweat purposely talking about dms and men. 284 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 3: Okay, So then we'll go to the voicemails, because if 285 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 3: you want to refresh the listeners. You asked a question. 286 00:15:07,400 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 3: You asked for some Ocean advice last episode. 287 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: I think yes, So Ocean has very little hair, but 288 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: a lot of teeth, six of them, okay, And I 289 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 1: still breastfeed and that's a comfort to her. So sometimes 290 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:27,520 Speaker 1: she'll bite the nips, but she looks at me and 291 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 1: smiles and she knows it's a little bit of a game. 292 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: But mostly it's like when I'm holding her, she's biting 293 00:15:34,080 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 1: my shoulder, or like when I try to do her nail, 294 00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:39,800 Speaker 1: she's biting my arm, and it's like, no joke, all right, 295 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: Those little razor blade teeth really can fuck you up. 296 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: So I asked you guys to give me advice on 297 00:15:46,720 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: how to get her to stop biting. Let's roll the 298 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 1: first voicemail. 299 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:53,520 Speaker 4: Hi, Laala, my name is Michelle. I have been a 300 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 4: huge fan of yours since the beginning, but especially now 301 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:02,280 Speaker 4: I saw on your Instagram story were asking about ocean 302 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 4: and how to prevent babies from biting when it hurts, 303 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 4: and you can't really tell them that. So I wanted 304 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 4: to tell you an experience that I had when I 305 00:16:13,240 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 4: was a baby. I was apparently a terrible biter, and 306 00:16:18,000 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: my mom was very, very frustrated, and one day she 307 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 4: just took my arm and she hit me back, and 308 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 4: I never better again, and I'm totally fine. I'm twenty 309 00:16:29,680 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 4: seven and I've made it my whole life. I don't 310 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,400 Speaker 4: have any bite marks, who was an unt of youth 311 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 4: or anything like that, but it showed me that it hurts, 312 00:16:38,640 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 4: so I stopped biting her after that. I hope that 313 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 4: back could potentially help you. I'm thinking of you, and 314 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 4: I love the podcast. Talk to you soon, say. 315 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:59,120 Speaker 1: Michelle. Oh my gosh. Okay. First of all, just the 316 00:16:59,120 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 1: way that you told that story was awesome. Okay, so 317 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:04,520 Speaker 1: this is what I've heard too, because my little brother 318 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: used to be a bier and my mom and my 319 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: grandpa bit him back stop yes, yes, on the arm 320 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:15,440 Speaker 1: or something wherever I guess, I don't know the arm. 321 00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: Wherever they bite you, I guess is where you bite 322 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 1: them back. Oh my god, but it freaks me out, 323 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: Like if if Ocean bites me, I don't think I 324 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: could bring myself to bite her bite her back. 325 00:17:31,000 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 3: My god, No I would if I saw that, if 326 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 3: I walked in and saw you buy Ocean, I'd be like, 327 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:37,760 Speaker 3: what is going on? 328 00:17:37,960 --> 00:17:41,359 Speaker 1: Because I've attempted, because I knew that the Easton was 329 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: a bitter I've attempted to like bite her. It's obviously 330 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: not hard because I don't think I could bring myself 331 00:17:46,560 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: to do that. But now, like hearing a voicemail like this, 332 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,919 Speaker 1: I'm like, maybe I we'll just bite the shit out 333 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: of her. I'm just kidding. 334 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:54,320 Speaker 2: But she laughs. 335 00:17:54,359 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 1: When I did it, she was like laughing about it. 336 00:17:56,680 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 3: Because you probably this is probably this is like, you know, 337 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 3: she's twenty seven, Michelle's twenty seven. 338 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 2: This is back in the day. It was probably a 339 00:18:03,800 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 2: nice bite. 340 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:09,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, you probably do was strong, yeah or something, and 341 00:18:09,200 --> 00:18:12,159 Speaker 3: mars were left, keith marks were left, and you probably 342 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:13,640 Speaker 3: did a fun little like. 343 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: Oh, well that's exactly what I did. Yeah. I literally 344 00:18:18,160 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: softly bit her and said that, you know, bite the 345 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 1: mom oh, and she laughed. 346 00:18:24,200 --> 00:18:26,760 Speaker 2: Yes, she probably wanted it probably made her want to 347 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 2: do it. 348 00:18:26,960 --> 00:18:30,120 Speaker 1: It's me dead in my eyeballs and laughed. 349 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 2: That's really funny. 350 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:35,840 Speaker 1: There was one person that told me when they do that, 351 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: you flick up, and I was like, nope. 352 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:39,120 Speaker 2: You flick on kill. 353 00:18:39,440 --> 00:18:42,159 Speaker 1: No, I'm not flicking my baby. Oh my, I can't. 354 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 3: No, no, I know when when it well, you can't 355 00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 3: put hot sauce. 356 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:47,920 Speaker 2: You could put hot sauce all. 357 00:18:47,840 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 3: Over your body because when babies bite their nails. When 358 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,000 Speaker 3: I used to bite my nails is like a bad habit. 359 00:18:54,720 --> 00:18:57,440 Speaker 3: My mom put hot sauce on the top of my fingers. 360 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 3: I was like six, and so I'd go to bite 361 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,639 Speaker 3: and then burn it burned my mouth, but then I 362 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 3: just rinse my hands off. 363 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 1: So that doesn't make any sense. It doesn't make any sense. Okay, Well, 364 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 1: let's see what other voicemails people have left and see 365 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:13,200 Speaker 1: if they have the Yeah, the biting. 366 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,159 Speaker 2: That was funny though, Michelle. 367 00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 5: Okay, Hi, my name is Nina. I'm a mom of 368 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:24,440 Speaker 5: a three year old and newly pregnant again. But girl, 369 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 5: I've been there with the teeth biting. Oh my god. Okay, 370 00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 5: So something that was really helpful for us. There's a 371 00:19:31,880 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 5: book called Teeth or Not for biting by Elizabeth Verdick. 372 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:37,919 Speaker 4: It's really cute. 373 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:41,000 Speaker 5: You can get it on Amazon. But we would read 374 00:19:41,040 --> 00:19:45,359 Speaker 5: that book every single day. We also have a Feelings 375 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 5: Corner in our room, something by Generation Mindful. Check it out. 376 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 5: You create a nice safe space to talk about feelings 377 00:19:52,800 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 5: and things. You can hear my little one in the background. Anyway, 378 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,239 Speaker 5: we would go there and we would talk about it, 379 00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 5: and it was super helpful. If you're not for biting, 380 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 5: good luck. 381 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to get that book because I can't 382 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 1: say that I'm fully sold on the biting of my baby. Yeah, 383 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 1: I just can't gnaw on her like she's a fucking 384 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: chicken wing. It doesn't feel right, you. 385 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 2: Know, especially if she laughs. It doesn't work. 386 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: It doesn't work. And I'm not willing to bite her 387 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:21,920 Speaker 1: any harder at the age of ten months. Okay, Yeah, 388 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 1: but I like the feeling corner where like you go 389 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,360 Speaker 1: and you can express your feelings and all of that stuff. 390 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 1: I have a feeling that Ocean's gonna be a feeler 391 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:36,160 Speaker 1: because she is a water baby to her core, okay, 392 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 1: and she's you know her, she's very chill. She's an 393 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 1: angel baby. Like literally, we go out put her in 394 00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 1: a high chair. You don't even know she's there. Yeah. 395 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:49,280 Speaker 1: But when she's done, she's done. She's done. Yeah, Like 396 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: there's no build up. It's like chill too, I'm over it, 397 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 1: put me to bed. Has no time for you trying 398 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,160 Speaker 1: to like do what you're doing, you know. And she's 399 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:02,080 Speaker 1: on a very tight schedule. So I know that when 400 00:21:02,160 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 1: she's older, she's gonna be stuck in how she's feeling. 401 00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 1: And I have friends that are pisces and they're waterworks. 402 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,080 Speaker 1: I thought I was sensitive. I deal with my best 403 00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: friend Madison, who's a Pisces. The two of us together 404 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: sobbing messes all the time, all the fields. 405 00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:22,880 Speaker 3: Really, Oh, I didn't know Madison was a Pisce's that's 406 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 3: beautiful that your Madison is for anyone who's been living 407 00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 3: under a ruck. Lala's a best friend in the whole 408 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,520 Speaker 3: wide world. And they're like sisters. 409 00:21:31,560 --> 00:21:33,399 Speaker 2: And the fact that you have a daughter. 410 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: They're one day apart their birthdays. Oh, I know, God, 411 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: I know. 412 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 2: Were you a feelings kid, I can't I was. 413 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,560 Speaker 1: I don't know that. I was like in my feelings 414 00:21:44,600 --> 00:21:48,679 Speaker 1: like that, like a big crier, but I was hyper. 415 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 1: I don't remember crying a lot I remember being hyper 416 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 1: sensitive to other people's emotions around me though. Yeah. Yeah, 417 00:21:56,840 --> 00:22:01,760 Speaker 1: like I was a super independent case, which Ocean is 418 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: is going to be the same way. I can see it. Yeah. 419 00:22:04,080 --> 00:22:07,120 Speaker 1: I can't even feed her anymore. She has to feed herself, 420 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 1: which crazy, So all the baby spoons I just bought 421 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: her are a waste, like because she can't control her 422 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 1: hand yet to feed herself. Yeah, but yeah, she has 423 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 1: no interest in you doing anything. Yeah. 424 00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,480 Speaker 3: I like the feelings corner idea. I think that's really 425 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 3: sweet and cute. And when I used to babysit and nanny, 426 00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:28,919 Speaker 3: we had a feeling step for one of the so 427 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 3: it was like three steps up the stairs. Yeah, and 428 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,359 Speaker 3: we'd sit there, yeah, and I'd say, why did you 429 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,679 Speaker 3: just make that decision? And we talk about right, what 430 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,960 Speaker 3: was making you feel like you had to hit your sister, right, 431 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 3: that kind of stuff. 432 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 1: So I think that's cute. My mom told me that 433 00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 1: it's super important when you have kids and you do 434 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: time out, that you never make them do time out 435 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:51,680 Speaker 1: in their bedroom because their bedroom is supposed to bring 436 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:54,639 Speaker 1: them a lot of peace and it shouldn't be for punishment, 437 00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: Like you don't want them to associate their bedroom with punishment. Yes, 438 00:22:58,320 --> 00:23:01,960 Speaker 1: so to have like the thirds or sitting in the corner. 439 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, I heard that, and that makes sense because when 440 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 3: I used to go to time out, I loved it. 441 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 2: I'll spend all day in here in my bedroom. I'll 442 00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 2: draw color. 443 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:12,960 Speaker 1: Too many activities? You have any activities to be sitting 444 00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:13,480 Speaker 1: in time out? 445 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,639 Speaker 2: Yes, that's a great tip though. 446 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I thought it was good. I thought it was 447 00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:21,399 Speaker 1: a good one. So anytime that ocean acts a damn fool, 448 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: gonna place her somewhere that is not that fun. Yeah, yeah, 449 00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:28,240 Speaker 1: what's the next voicemail? 450 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 2: Next voicemail? 451 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,200 Speaker 6: Hi long. My name is Sarah and I'm a mom 452 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,159 Speaker 6: of two boys to a six year old and an 453 00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:38,240 Speaker 6: eleven year old. To answer your question about the biting, 454 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 6: I simply just put my finger in my son's mouth 455 00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 6: to help stop biting. Lately, my eleven month old wants 456 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,800 Speaker 6: to bite my shoulder. He'll go for the boo when 457 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 6: he wants to breastfeed. So I just simply put my 458 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 6: finger in his mouth and say ouch, and then he 459 00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 6: kind of looks at me. 460 00:23:57,359 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 5: And he's like, oh, okay, I letter not bite. 461 00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 6: I hope that help thinks. Bye? 462 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 1: Okay, Sarah, that I can get down with. I can 463 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: get down with the ouch. And here's the thing. I 464 00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: am not bite shaming anybody. You you want to teach 465 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,920 Speaker 1: your kid not to bite, you lay a bite on 466 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,880 Speaker 1: him like you do, you boo, like whatever. We all 467 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: got our own thing. We're all just doing what we 468 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:24,119 Speaker 1: can do to have nice kids around, right, Yes, But 469 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:30,879 Speaker 1: the ouch thing, it's all about the word and the tone. Yeah, okay. 470 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna shove my finger into Ocean's mouth and 471 00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,639 Speaker 1: when she bites it, shove it it, not shove it, yes, 472 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: place it delicately in her mouth. And when she bites me, 473 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:43,680 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say ouch. 474 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:47,880 Speaker 2: And scare the living shit out of. 475 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:52,199 Speaker 1: Her the way I talked to Oh, oh, do you 476 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: hear to mama? That's why she just still bite. 477 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,119 Speaker 3: I was gonna say that seems like she would laugh 478 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 3: and then keep doing it. Yes, But I love her 479 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,480 Speaker 3: so much, I know, and it's almost like, Oh, she's 480 00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,160 Speaker 3: everything that I said. 481 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,600 Speaker 1: If my baby does this, this is what I'm gonna do. 482 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 1: My baby is kind of doing. And it's like, it's 483 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:16,160 Speaker 1: so cute when she bites me. It's so cute when 484 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: she screams bloody murder in her crib. You know, it's 485 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 1: all so cute. And I can now see when when 486 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,760 Speaker 1: you go out to dinner and people's kids are running 487 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 1: around and you're like, can you shut them up and 488 00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: make it stop, and they're looking at him laughing. It's 489 00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 1: because there's nothing your kid does that is like not cute. Yeah, 490 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:39,640 Speaker 1: you literally think it's all like totally tolerable. Yeah, Oh god, 491 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 1: am I saying this, And I'm gonna have the kid 492 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 1: that's running around Ggi Friday is screaming at everybody throwing shit. 493 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 3: No, because I think she'll be the kind of kid 494 00:25:47,640 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 3: like you were just saying, in her feelings, that's like 495 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:53,199 Speaker 3: coloring at the table and letting mommy and gg have 496 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:54,119 Speaker 3: a nice night. 497 00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 1: Have a nice sparkling water. Sparkling water take the edge 498 00:25:57,680 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: off of the day. 499 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 2: That it's cute. 500 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,359 Speaker 3: I like that idea, though, saying ouch, but maybe like 501 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:04,840 Speaker 3: a sad like ouch. 502 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 1: She might still laugh though, well, she does laugh when 503 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:13,600 Speaker 1: I pretend cry, so maybe it isn't much of a feeler. 504 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: If she's laughing at me while I'm crying, I'm gonna 505 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 1: say she's the stone cold. 506 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 2: She's like the Grinch. When the Grinch was a baby, like. 507 00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 1: No, she is the Grinch, doesn't She kind of look 508 00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:28,080 Speaker 1: like the baby Grinch. The baby Grinch is adorable, by 509 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,240 Speaker 1: the way. Baby Grinch is so so cute. But he 510 00:26:30,320 --> 00:26:33,399 Speaker 1: has those big brown eyes and just the little swoop 511 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,760 Speaker 1: of hair, a little swoop, and Ocean has that she does. 512 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 1: She has banks. I'm in fear that she's gonna have 513 00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 1: a mullet, But what am I gonna do but extensions? 514 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 1: Then she don't really have a mullet. That's why you 515 00:26:48,080 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: just stick with the bows. 516 00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and they look cute and she loves them, 517 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 3: so yeah. 518 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,280 Speaker 1: But a lot of people on my Instagram, not a lot, 519 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,000 Speaker 1: very few actually, but I still notice them are like, 520 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,719 Speaker 1: you're a baby has bows on all the time, You 521 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:06,000 Speaker 1: need to take them off. This is Instagram. This is 522 00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 1: for a photograph, right, Shut the fuck up. You're not 523 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,560 Speaker 1: living at my house, because if you did, you would 524 00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,360 Speaker 1: see my baby and pajamas and onesies and no bow 525 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:21,159 Speaker 1: on covered in food constantly because she literally hulks her 526 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:26,200 Speaker 1: bib off, hulks her bibof. I've never seen strength like Oceans. 527 00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:29,359 Speaker 2: No, she and it. One second the bibs on, you 528 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 2: turn your you turn your head, it's off. 529 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,600 Speaker 1: But it's a ripping it off, like the same with 530 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,240 Speaker 1: her bows. She gets tired. That thing is being incredible 531 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,399 Speaker 1: hulked off of her Yeah okay, yeah, and the things 532 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,960 Speaker 1: that she's able to move. I'm impressed by her strength. 533 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:47,679 Speaker 1: She could very well be an MM fighter. 534 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 2: Maybe that's her future. Is that a wrestler an MMA fighter? 535 00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:53,359 Speaker 2: I don't know. 536 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,240 Speaker 3: I don't know the difference between like the MMA kick 537 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 3: like all the I think Connor McGregor is the same 538 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,440 Speaker 3: as like Dionne Wilder or Deontay Wilder. 539 00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:03,120 Speaker 1: I think they are. 540 00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,679 Speaker 2: Are they Okay? Well, then there you go. There you go, 541 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 2: like Hull Cogan is in that. 542 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,160 Speaker 1: No, hu is a wrestler. See, it is different. 543 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 2: It's different. 544 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:17,080 Speaker 1: An MMA fighter. They have boxing gloves. A wrestler, I 545 00:28:17,119 --> 00:28:19,400 Speaker 1: think doesn't have gloves. 546 00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:27,960 Speaker 2: Is this true? 547 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 1: That's how you tell the difference the gloves. Do you 548 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: wear gloves? We fight? One's a boxer, one's a wrestler. 549 00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:38,560 Speaker 2: But there's something. 550 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 3: There's boxer wrestlers, and now I know there is you're right, 551 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 3: boxer wrestler, and they're all different. 552 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:47,040 Speaker 2: They're all different. 553 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 1: They're all different. Yeah, okay, so how did we get 554 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: on wrestlers? What was it? 555 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,400 Speaker 2: Oh, the ocean might be one full circle. 556 00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: Now we got onto it. Do we have time for 557 00:28:58,400 --> 00:28:59,280 Speaker 1: one more? Yes? 558 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 2: This is the great? 559 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 7: Okay, Hey, well, my name is Hillary and I a 560 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 7: license mental health canclor and fellow beastfeeding mom and I 561 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:11,360 Speaker 7: saw your question about how to not get baby Ocean 562 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 7: to bite when she's nursing, and at that age all 563 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,360 Speaker 7: behavior is based on association. So the best thing you 564 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 7: can do is take that booby away every time she 565 00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,680 Speaker 7: bites you, and she'll stop real quick. Good luck and 566 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:33,920 Speaker 7: hopefully those teeth stop biting anything that they're not supposed 567 00:29:33,920 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 7: to have a good. 568 00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,080 Speaker 1: One, Hillary, I love the thought of taking something away 569 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:42,400 Speaker 1: from Ocean that she but it's so comforting. And can 570 00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,040 Speaker 1: I tell you this is what she does. She'll be 571 00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 1: on the boob and suki sucky, loving it, living for it. 572 00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 1: Once she's done, like she's full, then the nipple becomes 573 00:29:55,120 --> 00:30:00,200 Speaker 1: a chew toy and it's like Max, you have Oh 574 00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,080 Speaker 1: I do that's fun? Like that's what it turns into. 575 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 1: I turn into the grinch and Max not letting go. 576 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:08,520 Speaker 2: Oh my god, otion is Max? 577 00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 1: Oh my nipple is. 578 00:30:10,200 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 2: So you're saying if so, you're saying if you were 579 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,920 Speaker 2: to take this advice and take the boob away, she'd 580 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,200 Speaker 2: be like. 581 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: I'm fine, I'm full, let's take it away. Like at 582 00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:20,840 Speaker 1: this point it's just a chew toy. 583 00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 3: So it's probably the delicate balance between knowing when she's 584 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 3: full and right before she starts biting that you have 585 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,120 Speaker 3: to like be like, okay, we're done and popping out. 586 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: Yes, And when I say how that hurts, she still 587 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: has it lightly in between her teeth and goes hm 588 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: and looks at me with a giant smile and laughing, 589 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,400 Speaker 1: And it's so cute. It's so cute babies are. Even 590 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: though my nipples are on the verge of bleeding after 591 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,600 Speaker 1: she does it, I'm like, you are so cute. I 592 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 1: cannot deal. 593 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 2: I don't know if I can do it one day. 594 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 3: Breastfeed No, I think I can breastfeed, But like having 595 00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 3: a teeth around my nipple, it kind of just. 596 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,240 Speaker 1: You have no no idea until they start unless they 597 00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:04,320 Speaker 1: bite it. Like I have no idea that Ocean has 598 00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: teeth unless she does that right right? Yeah, yeah, so 599 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: where's that? No, breastfeeding is awesome. I still do skin 600 00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 1: to skin with Ocean in the bath. You do, yes, 601 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:17,240 Speaker 1: and she's ten months old. 602 00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:19,880 Speaker 3: What is that for someone who doesn't know me? Is 603 00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,400 Speaker 3: it just holding her in the bath when you're both naked. 604 00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. Skin to skin is like one of the most 605 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: important things to do after you give birth. Like they 606 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: literally take the baby out of the womb and directly 607 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 1: place them on your chest and it creates such a 608 00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:38,480 Speaker 1: bond between you and your baby. And I could not 609 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,240 Speaker 1: get enough of it when, oh my gosh, when she 610 00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: was a newborn, it was constant, like I never stopped. 611 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:47,960 Speaker 1: Now it's harder to do because she's ten months old, 612 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 1: and I just feel like I can't sit downstairs naked 613 00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: living room with my ten month old who has no 614 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:59,200 Speaker 1: desire to sit still when she's awake. But we do 615 00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,719 Speaker 1: it at nighttime for bath time, and for some reason, 616 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:05,040 Speaker 1: well not for some reason. I know what it's like 617 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,880 Speaker 1: to be in the bath and it feels awesome and 618 00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,440 Speaker 1: you do get sleepy. Yeah, and she like we have 619 00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: our skin to skin where she lays directly on me 620 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:13,800 Speaker 1: and I like put the warm water on her back 621 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:14,760 Speaker 1: and she just lays there. 622 00:32:14,960 --> 00:32:16,160 Speaker 2: Oh that's really sweet. 623 00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm rocking that until the wheels fall off. Yeah, 624 00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,600 Speaker 1: I'm rocking the breastfeeding. I'm rocking the skin to skin, 625 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: like I don't want to let it go because I 626 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 1: don't know when I'm gonna have another baby. Yeah yeah, 627 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:27,120 Speaker 1: you know. 628 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, so so then it sounds like all of this 629 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 3: is really great advice. 630 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,440 Speaker 1: I just love hearing people's advice, but also from like 631 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 1: their own personal experiences, you know. Yeah, like we're moms 632 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: out here doing the damn thing, and I'm proud of us, 633 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 1: proud of you. It's not easy, and I'm super proud 634 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 1: to know and have this person on my podcast. Today, 635 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 1: I have Jessica Curry and her daughter Parker. And for 636 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 1: those of you who are not familiar with the Parker family, 637 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,160 Speaker 1: I was lucky enough to meet them at a park 638 00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:04,360 Speaker 1: one day. We connected on Instagram and I remember Parker 639 00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:09,800 Speaker 1: being photographed in a museum. She was, I want to say, 640 00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: around two or three. I'll find out exactly, but she's 641 00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,680 Speaker 1: staring up at a portrait of Michelle Obama and it 642 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:21,400 Speaker 1: was captured. Her mouth is open, like she cannot believe 643 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 1: what she's looking at, and it went viral. And I've 644 00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 1: seen Parker do many interviews, many cooler things than the 645 00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: Give Them La La podcasts. I'll say that, and she 646 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:38,000 Speaker 1: is the cutest little girl in the entire world, and 647 00:33:38,040 --> 00:33:40,240 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to talk to her. I'm excited to 648 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:46,040 Speaker 1: talk to her mama. And the interview is absolutely incredible. 649 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 1: But we did it on a day where I did 650 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: not have Jessica present, and I forgot to double click 651 00:33:53,320 --> 00:33:57,240 Speaker 1: the record button. But thank god for Zoom because we 652 00:33:57,320 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 1: captured all of the audio. We have amazing video that's 653 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:03,000 Speaker 1: going to be up on our Instagram page to give 654 00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:06,440 Speaker 1: them all a podcast. And when we come back, we're 655 00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:09,359 Speaker 1: going to roll that interview. You guys are gonna die, 656 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 1: and you have to make sure to check out my 657 00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:16,560 Speaker 1: Instagram page because the videos are even more amazing. We 658 00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:23,400 Speaker 1: will be right back with Jessica and Parker Curry. We 659 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: are back, and I have two incredible well, I have 660 00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:33,160 Speaker 1: an incredible woman who is raising an incredible daughter and 661 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:39,560 Speaker 1: other children. I have Jessica and Parker Curry. I met 662 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:41,839 Speaker 1: you and your mom and dad, and you had two 663 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:44,160 Speaker 1: other kids with you, right, Jessica, you have a daughter 664 00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:44,920 Speaker 1: and a son. 665 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 8: Ava and Cash. 666 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: Yes, you guys were at the park and I saw 667 00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 1: you guys there. 668 00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 8: Remember you are the lady with badl Chad with yeah star. 669 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 9: Yeah, we didn't know that when we were at the 670 00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:06,280 Speaker 9: park that day. That's the beauty of this story because 671 00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 9: she is a normal person, wasn't a disguise, she was 672 00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 9: just a mama at the park with her baby. 673 00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: I think I might have had makeup on that day, Parker, 674 00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:18,399 Speaker 1: Laala looks different without her face on. 675 00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 9: No, you didn't make up on that day. 676 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 1: Oh I didn't know, Okay, So I was. I was 677 00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 1: a vibe that day too. 678 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:28,239 Speaker 9: I guess I. 679 00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 1: Shot because I think that would be a little too 680 00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:34,720 Speaker 1: generous of me to say I've been in some movies. 681 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: I wouldn't call me a star though you're a star, 682 00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 1: though you have written books? Is that crazy to see, Parker. 683 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:46,080 Speaker 8: I've been a zoo with thousands of kids who all 684 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,160 Speaker 8: had my book. 685 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 1: That was your face. I love this child, Jessica, you 686 00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,720 Speaker 1: have no idea. Okay. So I met this cute family 687 00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,960 Speaker 1: at the park. Jessica and I then exchange d MS, 688 00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 1: and I immediately already knew who Jessica and Parker Curry 689 00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:10,320 Speaker 1: were because they went viral when a photograph was taken 690 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: of Parker looking up at a portrait of beautiful Michelle 691 00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 1: Obama and and the photograph everybody fell in love, everybody 692 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:27,000 Speaker 1: became obsessed. It was everywhere. Tell me about the moment 693 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:27,880 Speaker 1: that that happened. 694 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:29,239 Speaker 9: You can tell me. 695 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 8: I just slipped up at that portren it just to 696 00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:39,600 Speaker 8: write a book. That's the shorter version of my version. 697 00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:43,000 Speaker 8: But her version's gonna take like thirty minutes. 698 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: I love all the versions. 699 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,360 Speaker 8: Is gonna take like half of our time. So he 700 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:54,839 Speaker 8: mean that one for another time. 701 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 9: Well, yeah, Tucker gains the short version. But you know, 702 00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 9: we went. I took her and her sister. I'm not 703 00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 9: gonna go through the. 704 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:06,160 Speaker 8: Whole thing, but but you're gonna. 705 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:06,319 Speaker 1: Go, like. 706 00:37:07,880 --> 00:37:11,160 Speaker 9: I'm gonna get I'll give about the medium version. Can 707 00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 9: I give the medium version, short median version? Okay? Okay. 708 00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 9: So we took them to the National Portrait Gallery because 709 00:37:20,719 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 9: I wanted them to see the portrait of Michelle Obama 710 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,239 Speaker 9: that had just been unveiled. And going to museums for 711 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:32,120 Speaker 9: us was like not unusual, Like at the time we 712 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:36,480 Speaker 9: lived in d C. Where you know, the Smithsonian museums 713 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:41,280 Speaker 9: are free, which is unusual. So we went and Parker 714 00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:44,080 Speaker 9: almost zipped right by the portrait the first time, and 715 00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:47,040 Speaker 9: then she came back and obviously, you know how it 716 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:48,560 Speaker 9: is as a mom You're like, you know, I got 717 00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 9: I want to get my picture, I want to take 718 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,480 Speaker 9: this picture, you know. But she wouldn't turn around for me. 719 00:37:52,600 --> 00:37:55,840 Speaker 9: She was literally stuck in that moment, and she was 720 00:37:55,880 --> 00:38:03,000 Speaker 9: focused on the portrait and spell bout I love that. 721 00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 9: And so I got a picture of her facing the portrait, 722 00:38:08,400 --> 00:38:10,880 Speaker 9: and I didn't know that someone else had taken a 723 00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:15,120 Speaker 9: picture of her, and that picture clearly showed that her 724 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:19,040 Speaker 9: mouth was wide open. She was having a moment, having 725 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 9: a little moment. And that picture, as you said, subsequently 726 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,640 Speaker 9: went viral and I think really inspired a lot of 727 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:32,480 Speaker 9: people and inspired a lot of little kids. And we've 728 00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,840 Speaker 9: been fortunate that we've had the opportunity to write Parker 729 00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:40,400 Speaker 9: Looks Up, which is about that moment, and and Parker 730 00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 9: Shines On. 731 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,959 Speaker 1: Of course, we can't forget that one. 732 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 9: Forget Parker shines off. It in the background. 733 00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:50,879 Speaker 1: It is in the background as it should be. 734 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:53,000 Speaker 9: She has oceans. 735 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,160 Speaker 8: Can can I see ocean? 736 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 4: Yes? 737 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 1: Yes, let me bring her in. 738 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:01,200 Speaker 9: We got another party crasher who just came into year. 739 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, such a beautiful family. I saw you 740 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 1: at the park that day and was like, who is 741 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:17,200 Speaker 1: this family? They are so cute and sweet and and 742 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:18,879 Speaker 1: I loved everything about it. 743 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,160 Speaker 9: No, you missed one person. 744 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 8: A Marquise cash motion. This is a Martise mash in. 745 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 9: This is the second. 746 00:39:28,680 --> 00:39:33,040 Speaker 8: Okay, this is a Marquis care In. The second more 747 00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 8: than the first is coming here today. 748 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:39,240 Speaker 9: Yeah, okay, is the ocean coming. 749 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:41,839 Speaker 1: Ocean's gonna come in. She's just finishing up her eggs 750 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 1: and then she's gonna come say hi to us. She's 751 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: having having breakfast. She might have took him. She had 752 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,720 Speaker 1: a morning nap. She's been up since six thirty. 753 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,240 Speaker 9: Oh, we know that life. 754 00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:56,600 Speaker 1: We know that life. 755 00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 8: Kicks like. 756 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:05,120 Speaker 1: Writing another book. No, get into work, plain laughing Parker, 757 00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:08,360 Speaker 1: When when you saw the portrait of Michelle Obama? What 758 00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:11,560 Speaker 1: made you stop and look up and made you so happy? 759 00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: Can you tell me everything, everything, everything, everything about the portrait. 760 00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:21,359 Speaker 1: That's a great answer. I love that answer. And when 761 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,439 Speaker 1: did you decide that you felt you wanted to write 762 00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:24,600 Speaker 1: a book after my. 763 00:40:24,600 --> 00:40:26,759 Speaker 8: Mom said hey, let's write a book in her head? 764 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,640 Speaker 8: And then you told me so like. 765 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,399 Speaker 1: You thought that that sounded fun. 766 00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 8: And then okay, time bestseller, and then and then we 767 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,479 Speaker 8: decided to write another book. Now, mommy, now we read. 768 00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 1: Now. 769 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:42,960 Speaker 8: We're writing a two ready to reach called Parker Dresses 770 00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,239 Speaker 8: Up and You're from Mark and me and Mommie are 771 00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:49,360 Speaker 8: thinking about reading enough right to read. I'm thinking about Parker, 772 00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 8: little go back in time to see your mom as 773 00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:53,640 Speaker 8: a secure child. 774 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 1: You have such great ideas. Ocean would love those two 775 00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,239 Speaker 1: new books. And how old? How old are you? 776 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:03,640 Speaker 9: Parker? 777 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 1: You're six? So when when was the picture taken of 778 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 1: you looking up at the portrait? A two years old? 779 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:20,560 Speaker 9: She said, talking to a famous movie star who was 780 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:21,600 Speaker 9: by Friank Parker. 781 00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm going to FaceTime you every day to 782 00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 1: make me feel. 783 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 9: Better about me. 784 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:27,520 Speaker 5: Give me your number. 785 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:36,320 Speaker 1: Well, FaceTime will be girlfriends. I love that. I mean, Jessica, 786 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 1: you have to. You have to look at her and 787 00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,320 Speaker 1: be like, where did she come from? She's so smart. 788 00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 1: She the fact that she's sitting here on a FaceTime 789 00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,799 Speaker 1: doing a podcast and holding a conversation. I mean you 790 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:55,200 Speaker 1: actually zoom zoom, thank you? Okay, I did say FaceTime, 791 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:56,320 Speaker 1: I'm getting old? 792 00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:01,480 Speaker 9: Yeah whatever, not at all looks like a teenager, doesn't she. 793 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,960 Speaker 8: She looks like it's only nineteen years old. 794 00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 1: Oh tell me more, Parker. 795 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,239 Speaker 9: Friends like to call me a teen mom. I think 796 00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 9: that's funny. She looks like a mom, doesn't she She 797 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:14,719 Speaker 9: looks so young. 798 00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:16,120 Speaker 1: But how can you looks? 799 00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 8: How old are you? 800 00:42:17,760 --> 00:42:20,680 Speaker 1: I'm thirty one in one year younger, and my mommy, 801 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,560 Speaker 1: she's thirty two. 802 00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 9: Actually I'm thirty two. Okay, I'll take it. I'm thirty two. 803 00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,759 Speaker 1: We'll take it. We'll take it where we can get it. 804 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,239 Speaker 1: I mean, dude, do you just listen to her and 805 00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,160 Speaker 1: go like, where did you come from? She's like a 806 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:35,560 Speaker 1: brilliant little girl. 807 00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 9: She's definitely an old soul. I think well, I mean 808 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,839 Speaker 9: you have an old soul, which means like you're a 809 00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:48,240 Speaker 9: little bit before your time. Truly, I think so, because 810 00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 9: if you think about it, when she went viral and 811 00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:54,200 Speaker 9: she was two years old, you know, we met Michelle Obama. 812 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,000 Speaker 9: She invited us to meet her and we spent time 813 00:42:57,040 --> 00:43:02,320 Speaker 9: with herdies Oh sing a girl. 814 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:06,040 Speaker 8: When one mommy a doll? The that's you one. We 815 00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:10,920 Speaker 8: need to hook her up with Michelle Obama and Barack Obama. 816 00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,840 Speaker 8: Where would you go to have brunch with the first lady? 817 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: Well, I have no idea, because if I met Michelle Obama, 818 00:43:19,160 --> 00:43:23,000 Speaker 1: I would probably forget how to speak what did you 819 00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:23,600 Speaker 1: say to her? 820 00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,440 Speaker 8: Okay, so do you want to hire me? You had 821 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:28,840 Speaker 8: a dance party? So we had a dance parting. 822 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,279 Speaker 1: And you just had the best time. I mean, was 823 00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:35,840 Speaker 1: she nice? 824 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 5: And then yeah? 825 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 8: And she gave me a personal tour of her office 826 00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:41,480 Speaker 8: to our family. 827 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,280 Speaker 1: Wow. And did did you give her your book? 828 00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:45,120 Speaker 5: Yeah? 829 00:43:46,400 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 1: Your first one, Parker looks Up. 830 00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:49,319 Speaker 8: And it was signed. 831 00:43:49,719 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: You have a signed book by the first Lady. 832 00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:55,359 Speaker 8: No, we signed it for her. 833 00:43:55,480 --> 00:43:57,799 Speaker 1: Oh, you signed it for her and gave it to her, 834 00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:02,680 Speaker 1: lucky first lady. Right, So talk to me about being 835 00:44:02,719 --> 00:44:05,080 Speaker 1: a New York Times bestseller because Parker. I don't know 836 00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: if you know this, but I wrote a book and 837 00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,359 Speaker 1: I did not make that list. Why you should ask them? 838 00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 1: I don't have it with me right now. 839 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 9: Books, Well, don't shame or we do not have a 840 00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:20,320 Speaker 9: copy of Parker looks Up in Here. We should be ashamed. 841 00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 9: We don't have a copy of Parker looks Up. We 842 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,680 Speaker 9: have Parker Shines Off, Parker looks Up in Here. We 843 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 9: need to ask people, Okay, we need to ask the 844 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:36,440 Speaker 9: New York Times bestseller people why La LA's book was 845 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:39,760 Speaker 9: not a New York Times bestseller. That doesn't make sense, Yeah, Parker, 846 00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:40,480 Speaker 9: can you call them? 847 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:41,319 Speaker 8: Yeah? 848 00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: I can only hope that when Ocean, you know, gets older, 849 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:51,440 Speaker 1: that she can. I mean, I'm watching you, Parker, and 850 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:54,160 Speaker 1: I cannot believe that you're only six years old and 851 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 1: you've written books, one which is a New York Times bestseller. 852 00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,960 Speaker 1: When do you think that we can expect your your 853 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:00,720 Speaker 1: next book? 854 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,200 Speaker 9: Actually in four days. 855 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,200 Speaker 1: In four days you have a third book coming out. 856 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,200 Speaker 9: Yeah, And then six days after that we have our 857 00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 9: fourth book coming out. And then actually two days ago 858 00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:17,320 Speaker 9: we just signed a contract for our sixth book, contract. 859 00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:19,879 Speaker 1: My mouth or my jaws on the ground. I mean, 860 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:23,359 Speaker 1: this is incredible and you should be you should be 861 00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:27,320 Speaker 1: so proud of yourself, Parker. Are you proud of yourself? 862 00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:27,919 Speaker 4: Yes? 863 00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: And then kind of I'm playing with you. Oh, I'm 864 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:34,160 Speaker 1: proud of playing with you too. And what do you 865 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,120 Speaker 1: tell kids your age if they have have dreams to 866 00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,160 Speaker 1: write a book? What would you tell them? Would you 867 00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,880 Speaker 1: tell them it's easy? Would you tell them to go 868 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,200 Speaker 1: for it? What would you say to them? 869 00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:44,799 Speaker 9: What would be your best advice for other kids? 870 00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:49,880 Speaker 8: Keep dreaming, keep playing, and keep working hard during that 871 00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:50,440 Speaker 8: been playing. 872 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,600 Speaker 1: Yes, that's the most important. 873 00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 9: Yeah, kids in. 874 00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,239 Speaker 8: A book you can write a book about play. That's 875 00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:00,760 Speaker 8: the idea. 876 00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:04,120 Speaker 1: That's the idea. And I think that's great advice because. 877 00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,960 Speaker 8: You'll get the i of writing a book about while 878 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:07,440 Speaker 8: you're playing. 879 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 9: That's that's very good advice, actually sound advice. 880 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:14,640 Speaker 1: That's great advice. And I love that she's six years 881 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 1: old telling us that the most important thing is playing, 882 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 1: because it can't be all work at the age of six, 883 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: right right, you gotta have you gotta have a lot 884 00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:23,040 Speaker 1: of bit of play. 885 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 6: I love. 886 00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 8: These days. 887 00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,600 Speaker 9: We sing a lot of spots this these days. It's 888 00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,720 Speaker 9: probably my fault too. That's okay. 889 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,640 Speaker 1: Where the sing song house? I mean everything I say 890 00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 1: to ocean, I'm singing. So where when these books come out? 891 00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:42,480 Speaker 1: Can people get your books that are here right now 892 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:44,080 Speaker 1: and your brand new. 893 00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:50,279 Speaker 9: Books Children's book well, yes, Children's Book World in LA 894 00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:54,279 Speaker 9: does have a lot of our books in stock and 895 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,680 Speaker 9: every and anywhere books are sold, including Target and Costco. 896 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:01,000 Speaker 9: And you can go to Simon She's to his website 897 00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:02,920 Speaker 9: and they'll direct you to everywhere that you can buy 898 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:03,319 Speaker 9: a book. 899 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:07,759 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm so proud of you, Parker. You 900 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,640 Speaker 1: are a bright light. I want you to keep writing books. 901 00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 1: I want you to keep playing. I want you to 902 00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: keep making a difference. Are you the oldest of all 903 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:20,280 Speaker 1: the kids? Oh, it's a big weight on your shoulders, 904 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,080 Speaker 1: So you got to teach them the ways? Huh yeah, 905 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,680 Speaker 1: patch yourself on the back. 906 00:47:24,760 --> 00:47:26,400 Speaker 9: The example, right, Yes, I. 907 00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,800 Speaker 1: Love it. And before I let you guys go, Jessica, 908 00:47:31,040 --> 00:47:33,760 Speaker 1: what would you tell parents who have an ambitious child. 909 00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:36,680 Speaker 1: You're trying to make her dreams come true. You're still 910 00:47:36,719 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 1: a mom to two other kids, you're still a wife. 911 00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 9: How do you do this? I don't know. That's the 912 00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,440 Speaker 9: first honest and true thing that comes to my mind, 913 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 9: because it was already a lot, certainly juggling being a 914 00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 9: mom of multiples. I had two before you know, Parker 915 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,359 Speaker 9: went viral. When she went viral, was just two of them. 916 00:47:55,440 --> 00:48:00,120 Speaker 9: It was already a lot at that point. So I 917 00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 9: honestly just don't put too much pressure on myself. I 918 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,520 Speaker 9: try to take a lot of care of myself, whether 919 00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:08,480 Speaker 9: that means just making sure I take like a bath 920 00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,600 Speaker 9: every day, or or you know, find some time for 921 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:17,160 Speaker 9: a me day. But just like everyone and anyone else 922 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,480 Speaker 9: who's a mom, trying to balance and there's a lot 923 00:48:20,480 --> 00:48:24,680 Speaker 9: of charts, there's a lot of calendars, but also, you know, 924 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 9: Parker and our experience going virals what inspired me to 925 00:48:30,520 --> 00:48:33,680 Speaker 9: write the books. I already had like a little small 926 00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 9: mom blog that I was writing because a lot of 927 00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:41,319 Speaker 9: my family and my friends were like inspired by the 928 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:43,520 Speaker 9: things that we were doing during the week and on 929 00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:47,239 Speaker 9: the weekends. And so while I didn't consider myself a writer, 930 00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:50,920 Speaker 9: when I had the opportunity to write the book, it 931 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,319 Speaker 9: was important to me that they were all included. I mean, 932 00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 9: you know, Parker looks up, includes Parker and Eva because 933 00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:57,880 Speaker 9: it's the story of that day that we were at 934 00:48:57,920 --> 00:49:01,040 Speaker 9: the museum, and Ego was there too, even though she 935 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:02,640 Speaker 9: was in the picture, she was little, so she was 936 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:05,319 Speaker 9: in our stroller, but she was there too. She got 937 00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 9: to see the portrait, and Parker shines on as you know, 938 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 9: on the cover. All three of them are there. So 939 00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 9: we took a moment, an extraordinary moment, and have turned 940 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:19,840 Speaker 9: it into something really special for our family. And obviously 941 00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 9: family is really important to me. So the fact that 942 00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,800 Speaker 9: we're all involved now in this brand that we're building 943 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:28,480 Speaker 9: to empower kids is probably why it's so easy to 944 00:49:28,560 --> 00:49:29,040 Speaker 9: keep going. 945 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,200 Speaker 1: That really is, And I love that you said that 946 00:49:32,640 --> 00:49:33,839 Speaker 1: you don't know how you're doing it. 947 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:34,760 Speaker 9: That's so honest. 948 00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,600 Speaker 1: I feel that, I know my listeners will feel that 949 00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,840 Speaker 1: as well. And not putting pressure on yourself. You just 950 00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 1: you do what you can. But you should be extremely proud, 951 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,640 Speaker 1: and so should you, Parker and I'm gonna I'm gonna 952 00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:48,600 Speaker 1: bring Ocean in so you can see her. Thank you 953 00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,800 Speaker 1: so much for being on my podcast today. 954 00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:53,279 Speaker 9: We are honored to be your guest, So thank you, 955 00:49:53,320 --> 00:49:53,719 Speaker 9: thank you. 956 00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:58,480 Speaker 1: Okay, yes I'm going to let my guests go and 957 00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:00,440 Speaker 1: then I'm going to bring Ocean on. Thank you so much, 958 00:50:00,480 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 1: you guys for listening to the Give Them While Out 959 00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:04,879 Speaker 1: podcast with Just Fim Parker Curry and we will catch 960 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:05,640 Speaker 1: you next week