Speaker 1: What's up this lip service? I'm Angela Yee McGuire. I'm
Speaker 1: talking to Santiago Boom. You gotta do no, you gotta
Speaker 1: just jump in. This is actually great that you messed up.
Speaker 1: Love it repping the rack service right now period. And
Speaker 1: I'm Callie. You did a whole drop. I want you
Speaker 1: to keep that. CALLI is definitely like lip service gold
Speaker 1: for us. Really, thank you. Yeah, so thank you for
Speaker 1: coming on here. Thank you all for having me. So
Speaker 1: you're in town from Atlanta? So what you what you've
Speaker 1: been doing about you here in New York? I just
Speaker 1: actually I just landed. I've been in Detroit. I'm on
Speaker 1: tour with a lot of US. I've been in every
Speaker 1: city about now. But I'm only be here for a
Speaker 1: couple of hours. Okay, So all you did was really
Speaker 1: just eat and come here, all right? You know eating
Speaker 1: is important. Yeah, but every time I come to me
Speaker 1: like I don't really like the food. What where have
Speaker 1: you eaten that you don't even remember? Yeah, you gotta
Speaker 1: go a place I never I never do because we
Speaker 1: got to get you are certified list of good restaurants.
Speaker 1: I think it's one place Jul Jul. Yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: Chinese Asian food. Yeah, that's like it. We loved you,
Speaker 1: but that's not the that's not the one right now,
Speaker 1: where's the it's um say last now, I think I've
Speaker 1: been there too, better right, No in Brooklyn, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be honest. Yeah, because I live in Atlanta. So we
Speaker 1: got some good food where food that really fill you up?
Speaker 1: You want to eat the whole plate. If we were
Speaker 1: visiting in Atlanta right now, yeah, would you text you
Speaker 1: where we should eat? What's the top? I like seafood? Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's this place called the boiler Yes, sea feel bad? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: it's real good. I like steaks and like mash potatoes
Speaker 1: in the steak market. Yeah, that's my jam my boyfriend
Speaker 1: and there for like a little date night and blew
Speaker 1: his mind. I was so happy that he liked that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want with my best friend. And we had these
Speaker 1: drinks that the smoke was coming out of the roads.
Speaker 1: I had three. They have very whimsical presentation. Whimsical. I've
Speaker 1: never heard anybody used that in a real life situation.
Speaker 1: You got your state wrapped and gold. No, I'm not
Speaker 1: real big on red meat. I'm very, very rarely eat it. So, um,
Speaker 1: I've been there twice and both times I didn't have
Speaker 1: steak at all. However, Um, the first time I went
Speaker 1: to people that I was with, hats, You're not from
Speaker 1: New York, you from Chicago. From Chicago, so what do
Speaker 1: you think about the food here? I'm just caring in
Speaker 1: New York. It's been good my first earlier times when
Speaker 1: I was coming to New York, I was a lot younger,
Speaker 1: so I wasn't eating. I was eating like that shipped
Speaker 1: off the street. They're cooking like rice and we're coming
Speaker 1: from a club. So it was like tree right is that? Um?
Speaker 1: What was it? Parkmer ready? And yeah, yeah, I've been
Speaker 1: chicken over right the white sloo he pay a little
Speaker 1: at the end of the shot. Yea even like, so,
Speaker 1: now what are you eating? And when you like? I
Speaker 1: went to Sweet Chicks. That was my first time as
Speaker 1: part owners. What's your favorite? Um? I do like Brooklyn
Speaker 1: chop house. I love my little Brooklyn spots. So like
Speaker 1: I like Caribbean food. Yeah, heaches in Brooklyn the grill
Speaker 1: um chillies. I love Caribbean food. Okay, So when I'm
Speaker 1: telling you next time we're gonna make we'll get you right, yeah,
Speaker 1: good food here. Yeah, my foodie, I like I do
Speaker 1: when I come to you. I was sorry telling my manager.
Speaker 1: I was like, we lead New York like us. No
Speaker 1: food for me? We got you, dam I'm so big.
Speaker 1: When I think of food in New York, I think
Speaker 1: of like Ruth Chris, Mr Child Noble. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: so let's talk about something I like about food and
Speaker 1: eat and eat it up alright. First of all, we
Speaker 1: love being on here too, and the two of y'all
Speaker 1: together was definitely a vibe. So let's talk about that song.
Speaker 1: Because I have always said, what's my what's my motto?
Speaker 1: He better respect the box? Yeah, I got to respect it,
Speaker 1: and so like you wouldn't have sech of somebody they
Speaker 1: didn't eat it first. No, even if I'm not giving,
Speaker 1: like you know, giving it back, you definitely gotta you know,
Speaker 1: not get me ready, Yeah, get me right. But as
Speaker 1: a man, what are your thoughts about that? I totally agree.
Speaker 1: I don't even want to do if I can't eat,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't even be wanting to do nothing else with
Speaker 1: smart about you like me for real, you know, like
Speaker 1: we were supposed to be. Yeah, we just you know,
Speaker 1: I don't have to like you know, so you eat
Speaker 1: somebody susy that you don't like. For sure, I'm a man,
Speaker 1: thank you. I cannot like some ship she do or
Speaker 1: something like that. But the end of the day, she
Speaker 1: got a box. Would you second you didn't like if
Speaker 1: you didn't like the guy. No, No, that's what we
Speaker 1: go differently, and y'all that's why y'all smarter than us,
Speaker 1: and y'all make better decisions because y'all understand that. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying that if I don't like you,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be doing that. But as a man, just
Speaker 1: being real, I don't gotta like you to eat your pussy,
Speaker 1: you anything or talk to you nothing. I don't gotta
Speaker 1: like you. But that's why would you don't have to
Speaker 1: do that? So why would do if I like you?
Speaker 1: That doesn't really that's just like the do that you
Speaker 1: are telling about a sexual experience. Okay, so we're gonna
Speaker 1: we've been engaging that like, I'm not not sex if
Speaker 1: I can't do that or you at the caliber that
Speaker 1: I should be doing that too. Okay, I understand what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. He also feels like though, that he can't
Speaker 1: have women friends. I choose not to you choose not
Speaker 1: to have platonic. I can't say can't and I respect
Speaker 1: the guys who do. But I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: you know, for me, you know, you walk past one
Speaker 1: you don't see her, like, oh, that's a good friend
Speaker 1: for me that you don't see. No platonic, none of that.
Speaker 1: I feel like, I just don't. I feel like this men, um,
Speaker 1: you're just being honest about it, Like, yeah, I could
Speaker 1: be cool with a girl, but she let me slip.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna slide because what else are we cool about?
Speaker 1: Like as a man, like, what are we really talking about?
Speaker 1: What I talked to you about friends? To understand you're
Speaker 1: saying you're not. We can talk about music, we can
Speaker 1: talk about sports. I'm a gambler. I fight like we
Speaker 1: can talking about UFC whatever, hockey football? Hold you fight? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You about me and my guy friends. I'm a girl.
Speaker 1: I grew up in the street guy friends. But listen
Speaker 1: to me. This is what I'm saying now. My guy
Speaker 1: friends are squares, so they my girlfriends. I called them
Speaker 1: my brothers. We never had sex before. But if I
Speaker 1: also be like, uh, I got it is can you
Speaker 1: scratch it? If I gave them right, Yeah, that friends
Speaker 1: that wouldn't sleep with me. You don't, you don't, you don't,
Speaker 1: you don't really you don't. You don't know that I do, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because they're either married or involved with somebody that I'm
Speaker 1: friends with, or that's still none of them. But I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm not never saying I don't know, Like I'm just
Speaker 1: being honest with myself. I had a situation. I was
Speaker 1: younger right like um, and it was like cool with
Speaker 1: this girl and we was like fortunate kids at school.
Speaker 1: So that's like Timmy, he'll figure phase like we're coming
Speaker 1: through having had the same type of time on they're
Speaker 1: missing scooted that I bought her when and we yeah,
Speaker 1: on accident at even nothing, So they kind of put
Speaker 1: this narrative out and she wasn't like no, um, like
Speaker 1: she was a popular chick and I'm just this new
Speaker 1: dude that doesn't transfer us like they're getting me cloud instantly,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I ain't even on her right, so
Speaker 1: just off that I looked at her different, so I
Speaker 1: was being I never shot at her like at us.
Speaker 1: Sweater Goud, This's why I think like this sweater Goud
Speaker 1: so like a year pocket it I get a record
Speaker 1: deal year past, I see on my confidence up a
Speaker 1: little bit better. I like to say, damn, you know,
Speaker 1: I always dug you like you ain't know she'sh you
Speaker 1: just ever said nothing. And since that day and you
Speaker 1: let me come back, I'm gonna let you know if
Speaker 1: I see you that way. Other than that, I don't
Speaker 1: see a woman. Sorry to say that I saw to god,
Speaker 1: I don't know at all. But if I see a woman,
Speaker 1: I see, oh how cannot enter? Not everyone, but if
Speaker 1: I feel that, but I have to see this. Most
Speaker 1: of my guy friends that are my guy friends today,
Speaker 1: I want to and this is the truth. And they
Speaker 1: know what's the truth. And their girlfriend's probably know what's
Speaker 1: the truth too. That when they met me, they told
Speaker 1: me this. They shot but they just didn't want to
Speaker 1: be out the car with you, right because guess what,
Speaker 1: you have to get some puss exactly saying that. But
Speaker 1: sometimes you just gotta kick some game for really no,
Speaker 1: and I please, that's what. That was one of my
Speaker 1: main things when I was because a girl growing up
Speaker 1: with a lot of guys. I used to do things,
Speaker 1: you know, with my we used to get money together
Speaker 1: and things, and I always you know I say this
Speaker 1: a lot. I always hung out with a girl who
Speaker 1: was very promiscuous. Is you know who was easily to
Speaker 1: give up through you gonna do this work exactly? And
Speaker 1: I used to be able to go my guys, and
Speaker 1: my guys appreciate from you. It's my point that I got.
Speaker 1: But I have to say that they shoot their shot
Speaker 1: at because they respect me when they get let down.
Speaker 1: They didn't call all that friend ship. But because you
Speaker 1: go out like have guys that you've just been cool
Speaker 1: with taking you out to dinner, just think that done
Speaker 1: things like that, but not anything happening. See now, because
Speaker 1: I'm just the type of person. If I really don't
Speaker 1: even like you, I'm not even gonna give it a
Speaker 1: dinner day and none of that, not even just being cool. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm cool with people I've been on Like these are
Speaker 1: people I've been like little kids, like little girl grew
Speaker 1: up with you and stuff like that. So it's it's
Speaker 1: really hard. I'm kind of closed off when it comes
Speaker 1: to letting people in my life. So like when it
Speaker 1: comes to me like different guys and stuff, it takes
Speaker 1: so much Like where do you think that comes from?
Speaker 1: You being closed off? First of all I've seen. My
Speaker 1: my dad ain't really been like in my life at all.
Speaker 1: And my my mom, she like seeing how she dealt
Speaker 1: with her relationships and stuff like that. And then my
Speaker 1: mom came out she was lesbian. Like when I was sixteen,
Speaker 1: I was just like, I don't know, like she never
Speaker 1: really taught me like how to deal with like relationships
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. So I'll just be like I
Speaker 1: just I'm focused on something else. So it'll come, you know,
Speaker 1: whenever it happens. But I just don't be want to
Speaker 1: put my energy towards that. I just see how she
Speaker 1: dealt with stuff and office to my mom loved her,
Speaker 1: but like I just don't be wanting to go through
Speaker 1: what she was going through, right and that. So you
Speaker 1: think that you started writing and rapping when you were
Speaker 1: twelve years old? Yeah, okay, So what made you decided
Speaker 1: to start doing that? Like what was the circumstances for you?
Speaker 1: My mom she was married and he was a producer.
Speaker 1: You always have like my godmother and they're singing or
Speaker 1: like different girls and they're wrapping and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and I just like that's so cool, Like you know,
Speaker 1: I want to try, like I'll be writing in my
Speaker 1: little journal and stuff, like I was a soccer player,
Speaker 1: so and I didn't really have no friends. I was
Speaker 1: actually like bully throughout the school. So I was just
Speaker 1: like just teach me, Like, teach me, how do I
Speaker 1: want to hang with you? Like, you know, since my
Speaker 1: dad wasn't really there in a younger life, I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: and let me see if I can find a way
Speaker 1: to like bond with my stepdad in a certain way,
Speaker 1: you know. So then he just taught me everything. But
Speaker 1: I was waiting there every day even if I wasn't
Speaker 1: doing nothing. I'm just just around. I'm just sitting there, yeah,
Speaker 1: trying to sing, trying to anything if I could, Yoto,
Speaker 1: I was coaching. Yeah. So you have an interesting story
Speaker 1: about how you got signed at How old you when
Speaker 1: you got something? Sixteen? How did that happen? In Chicago?
Speaker 1: I was out one night, um me and some of
Speaker 1: my my good childhood friends and um, I was at
Speaker 1: the McDonald's actually, and it's crazy R Kelly discovering me.
Speaker 1: I know it's crazy, but it was like this McDonald's
Speaker 1: done in Chicago. It's called rocking at the time, and
Speaker 1: now it's like really like like new Millenium Mine like
Speaker 1: something like soon. You know, it was like a staple
Speaker 1: to go to. They had it like designed like seventies
Speaker 1: style sixties or some ship like that. So that was
Speaker 1: like on the weekend, if you was downtown, able to
Speaker 1: get downtown, you might go up. And it was like
Speaker 1: twenty four hours. So we go with one of my
Speaker 1: good friends. He just got a scholarship to do. It
Speaker 1: was like hooping and ship. So my man, Corey mcgetty
Speaker 1: shot him out whatever. So we just happened to go
Speaker 1: down there and it was like super packed, so we
Speaker 1: couldn't really even get in the parking lot. And he
Speaker 1: went in to use the restroom and uh, it was
Speaker 1: taking a long and I just got out because I
Speaker 1: had never been down there, like I want to see
Speaker 1: what's up. I'm walking through the parking lot, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking like it's like people like showing off their
Speaker 1: cars and all that type of ship. So it's a
Speaker 1: lot of people crowding around somebody around the car and
Speaker 1: it was killed and he just happened to see and
Speaker 1: I was looking at the car and realize like it
Speaker 1: was him. You know, this is like night, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So you ain't, I'm saying. And then
Speaker 1: in Chicago's we ain't saying nobody fails and he wasn't
Speaker 1: looking famous, no jewelry on them. And then I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: you know I didn't notice that. Somebody in his camp
Speaker 1: noticed my homie who hooped and we got to talk
Speaker 1: about basketball and I was like, man, let's play for
Speaker 1: some money and I ain't even had none. He was like,
Speaker 1: what you do since you're doing all the talking. I'm like, ship, who,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get you all to come you know
Speaker 1: this bet sucker um you know. And he's like, man,
Speaker 1: you look like you rapped. But you know, I've been
Speaker 1: super like super, that's crazy. I'm from Chicago, but East
Speaker 1: Coast rapp has had me early on, so I looked
Speaker 1: different from anybody from Chicas. I carry myself like that.
Speaker 1: And he was looking like and I'm like, na, but
Speaker 1: rap and he's like, just wrap a song, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't care, You're just it's or about you whatever.
Speaker 1: So I can't howdy thinking ship and I'm like, damn,
Speaker 1: but I was puffing Mace. I was crazy about that
Speaker 1: at that time. I kicked his maze Verson. He was like, man,
Speaker 1: I knew you could crab. Like, no, that's amazing what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I'm like, but I can't. Ye, I never rapped,
Speaker 1: you know, so like, no, it's cool. I'm about to
Speaker 1: go to the studio now, y'all should come. I went
Speaker 1: to the studio. And then that's when they kind of
Speaker 1: clicked to me. When I went in the studio, like damn,
Speaker 1: this might be coming through my head. I'm seeing all
Speaker 1: the plaques on the wall and ship. And then he
Speaker 1: just like kind of just do something out there, like, man,
Speaker 1: I ain't making no promises, but you should give it
Speaker 1: a shot. And after that, and where was gott so
Speaker 1: gotty At the time, I was, I was a solo.
Speaker 1: I was by myself. I hadn't seen gott gout. He
Speaker 1: I actually just had out of um. He had just
Speaker 1: he was in prison for a high second and he
Speaker 1: had just got out. But got Iss a little bit
Speaker 1: older than me. So I just happened to see him
Speaker 1: in the office one day. I'm coming out the studio
Speaker 1: and he was there, like having a meeting with this dude.
Speaker 1: I ain't Williams who signed kills. He was having a meeting.
Speaker 1: But he had his own CD like his face on
Speaker 1: it and like he was turning out the trunk at
Speaker 1: that time. I never saw that, like damn, how you
Speaker 1: how you did that? You know what I'm saying. But
Speaker 1: then I also know him from my neighborhood, and he
Speaker 1: was like, no, like all my cousin loved him, you
Speaker 1: know how, like somebody your family like talking about somebody.
Speaker 1: So I kind of looking up to him, like, no,
Speaker 1: he's super smooth, dude is getting money the whole nine.
Speaker 1: After that, I saw him, he remembered me from like
Speaker 1: me being seven years old, remember everything. Seeing him another
Speaker 1: time after that, and um, he was She was selling
Speaker 1: the CD and I swear to god, I ain't had
Speaker 1: no money to buy it. But I'm like, just give
Speaker 1: it to me, you know what I'm saying, Just give
Speaker 1: it to me. Bro. He's like, I know you signed
Speaker 1: with dude, how much you have charged me for me
Speaker 1: to do a song with you. I don't even know
Speaker 1: how to do black features. I don't even know what
Speaker 1: he meant saying that. I'm just let me get the
Speaker 1: CD up for real, and I let kills A and R.
Speaker 1: At the time, his cousin Blackie, I'll let him hear it,
Speaker 1: and before he listened to it, he said, how good?
Speaker 1: And to get him to listen to it, I said,
Speaker 1: good enough. I wrap with him because Carl's put me
Speaker 1: in the group with this producer. I'm on this song
Speaker 1: called We Ride on the double CD to it got
Speaker 1: jay Z Cameron in or the first song I ever
Speaker 1: wrapped on. Damn. So the guy it's all in there
Speaker 1: my name and that you feel me? I wrote all
Speaker 1: much of everything me and this cat name is a
Speaker 1: double in the club track recording out here. All of
Speaker 1: youngsters don't know me, but the g yeah, all the
Speaker 1: ever fat Joe all and they know me to listen to.
Speaker 1: Growing up, I was a straight I'm still a straight,
Speaker 1: nicky fan. The whole Eliyah, Missy Elliott then was my vibes.
Speaker 1: But I want to ask you one question. I heard
Speaker 1: your music and it's in it's dope. You got a
Speaker 1: real good whisper floor everything. I understand it because I
Speaker 1: don't got the biggest, strongest, loudest voice on of it.
Speaker 1: But when you're writing from a woman perspective, and he
Speaker 1: was talking about guys and everything like, and you didn't
Speaker 1: your answer about guys and how your music is meaning?
Speaker 1: What place did you write it from like when you talk,
Speaker 1: is it real or is it just like you kind
Speaker 1: of imaginary? No, It's real. And I'm talking from a
Speaker 1: place where I'm dealing with somebody that I'm like really
Speaker 1: got to the point where I actually care, and I
Speaker 1: got to that point where it's like it is hot, sick,
Speaker 1: or like we is going through it like I've been dealing.
Speaker 1: I've been dealing with that person. So or my friend
Speaker 1: will be in a studio or something, or she'll talk
Speaker 1: to me about the story she had something. But I
Speaker 1: feel like I need to get this all much. It's
Speaker 1: like talk about this because I don't want to hear
Speaker 1: this right now. Okay, girl, I'm combining all kinds of
Speaker 1: stories that we all just talking about, like we can
Speaker 1: all relate to and like we can relate everybody else
Speaker 1: can women artists like like where they write from? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, even if like a dude write
Speaker 1: it for a female, not have done that before you
Speaker 1: write it from like how I do want to hear it,
Speaker 1: even if it's like a situation, I feel like I
Speaker 1: didn't handle it how I wanted to handle it, Like
Speaker 1: I'll be like I'm rapping, like what give us an example,
Speaker 1: like you just know, like if you arguing with somebody
Speaker 1: or something, you'd be like, damn, I should I should
Speaker 1: have said this. Then I go in the studio like,
Speaker 1: this is what I really wanted to say, and that's
Speaker 1: what I really So that's that's get the last word.
Speaker 1: That's so I write from that perspective life. Yeah, what's
Speaker 1: the most toxic sign for a man? Because you talk
Speaker 1: about it in your music. I had like three. Okay,
Speaker 1: I say scorpio, I say that, I say that, I
Speaker 1: say Pisces, and I say A said good job. Ain't
Speaker 1: none of the in between the scorpio Gemini. I like
Speaker 1: Gemin like Gemini women too. In my adult life. They
Speaker 1: are two different people. Yeah, yeah, exactly. I feel like
Speaker 1: you just gotta understand the two different versions of them.
Speaker 1: Like it's not that they're two different people, they just
Speaker 1: have two different kinds of sides. You know, one is
Speaker 1: a really you know, sexual you know, hugging and a
Speaker 1: nice vibe carving robe and the other ones like the
Speaker 1: other one is after they come. Because yes, exactly, man,
Speaker 1: geminis like that. Like okay, I have a lot of
Speaker 1: Gemini female friends and that's like turn up crew like
Speaker 1: if you're ready to like, if you're ready to some pop,
Speaker 1: that's my that's my turn up crew. And it's the
Speaker 1: same with the males. I'm always bobbing with their Life's
Speaker 1: always really fun and we outside's going to keep talking
Speaker 1: about a sign too, So I love what's your sign?
Speaker 1: I'm a Sagittarius. Yeah, my best my best guy friends.
Speaker 1: You can't have a guy friend, you know that this
Speaker 1: is Let me tell you why this is my best
Speaker 1: guy friend. This this man. He's a couple of years
Speaker 1: older than me, and you know, we grew up in
Speaker 1: the same neighborhood. And he has taught me more than
Speaker 1: I've learned in school about myself, you know, like I
Speaker 1: learned his three in math and you know, etiquette in school,
Speaker 1: how to fold my hands and be quiet and raise
Speaker 1: my hand and whatever else you learned in school. But
Speaker 1: he told me about myself. He told me about my
Speaker 1: blood and my race. Like you know, I grew up
Speaker 1: in a Puerto Rican family. You know, my grandmother was
Speaker 1: born in nineteen twenties, so imagine, I hate to say this,
Speaker 1: but you know my grandmother, you know, they wanted us
Speaker 1: to be really light, and they didn't even want us
Speaker 1: to tell to my in the in the summer, we
Speaker 1: used to wear these big hats, so we went and
Speaker 1: freckle up and get too dark. They want. My mother
Speaker 1: when she was pregnant for me, she prayed that I
Speaker 1: would be really white skinned because my mom is probably
Speaker 1: Jesus color, and she went through a lot of racism
Speaker 1: growing up, and she didn't want me and my sister
Speaker 1: to go through that, you know what I mean. So
Speaker 1: I was kind of scared of, you know, the darker
Speaker 1: side of me until I met my friends, until I'm
Speaker 1: at best. He taught me to be proud of my
Speaker 1: of being, you know, a woman of color. I am
Speaker 1: a woman of color. I'm not a white person. He
Speaker 1: taught me. Um, he taught me the history of my people,
Speaker 1: my Puerto Rican people, you know. And he's a Dominican guy,
Speaker 1: and he knows, he knows it all. He taught me
Speaker 1: my black history, my Puerto Rican history, my Dominican history,
Speaker 1: and I mean we literally used to sit there teaching me.
Speaker 1: I swear he was, and we were being on the
Speaker 1: block smoking weed up in the cribles too cold, so
Speaker 1: we upstairs bagging up talking about like we want to
Speaker 1: think about my best friend. He's an aries. He we
Speaker 1: never we don't have no bullshit conversations. We don't talk
Speaker 1: about everything is yeah, hell like talking about you know yeah,
Speaker 1: like oh my boyfriend and scaring me sa to that's
Speaker 1: what he said. Yeah, but that's though, that's what y'all
Speaker 1: didn't realize. Yeah, exactly, because man don't know how to
Speaker 1: consult you when you haven't Yeah, that's never walked. And
Speaker 1: he's like, I can't help you with my scar. And
Speaker 1: I was breaking Kelly, like I'll talk to him like,
Speaker 1: you know what, like I'll tell you about that, like
Speaker 1: he tell me, like what's really going on through the
Speaker 1: man's you know my I don't want to be sitting
Speaker 1: there in the conversation, but he will, you know, because
Speaker 1: he's my guy friends. So how you see him and
Speaker 1: so you're not attracted to him my guy friend? Yeah,
Speaker 1: just because of your guy friend. No, I just like,
Speaker 1: like she said in the beginning, he most likely pushed
Speaker 1: up on me in type of way, That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: but I told him I'm not on that and he
Speaker 1: kept it cool. Like you want to know, Corny wants
Speaker 1: to be on that though, because though why don't you
Speaker 1: like him? Yeah, that's a great question. Um, he's not
Speaker 1: my type, like WHI it's like he cool. He was
Speaker 1: cool friend, And sometimes when you find out a connection,
Speaker 1: it's it's you that es is hard. He doesn't know
Speaker 1: that you don't know like that like that oh ship,
Speaker 1: I like like tall, you know here on the shorter side.
Speaker 1: You know I can't do that. Well you're taught to, right,
Speaker 1: I'm like five eight okay, so I'm talt for a female.
Speaker 1: How do you Okay? So just because you gotta talk
Speaker 1: what else? Um, I don't know. We're not into the
Speaker 1: same things. Like you know, I take my career like
Speaker 1: real serious, so that's my priority. And I feel like
Speaker 1: I need somebody who understands, like if I have to go,
Speaker 1: like if I have to do stuff, you gotta understand
Speaker 1: this is what comes first for me. And like even
Speaker 1: though I'm one, I feel like i'm more like in
Speaker 1: the head, I'm a little more like grown. But she wasn't.
Speaker 1: Yeah he wasn't. He still want to be honest, Yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: So it was like we're not even on the same
Speaker 1: like mindset or things that we want to do and like,
Speaker 1: but you're cool, like we I can talk to you
Speaker 1: about what you're still you're talking said and all that,
Speaker 1: but you still she like him as a friend. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm trying to figure out. You're not
Speaker 1: explaining like somebody else. Look just like you have women
Speaker 1: friends like if I'm going, if I'm life, this ain't
Speaker 1: even because you're twenty one, so they know it a
Speaker 1: little better. When y'all say, as a friend, how do
Speaker 1: you separate? That's what I'm trying to listen to me,
Speaker 1: this is what happens. Like she said he tried and
Speaker 1: she wasn't interesting, said she wasn't interested. He wasn't gonna
Speaker 1: be mad at her, Like I forget that, I don't
Speaker 1: even want I mean, they got to a bond. So
Speaker 1: let me ask your question. Let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1: They got it from? What so okay? From my experience,
Speaker 1: like me and my and my best friends who are men?
Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying, Like what what caun y'all?
Speaker 1: What cause y'all beat having calmed? What? What? What is it?
Speaker 1: Me and my me and my guy friends. We you know,
Speaker 1: we have a lot in comment. We both like football,
Speaker 1: were like getting money, we would do that, you understand, negger? Yeah,
Speaker 1: we like man you know so, But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Sometimes there are some girls that you would actually be
Speaker 1: able to have. It wasn't just a random like random
Speaker 1: dude like I've been knowing him. It took him. It
Speaker 1: probably took him some years to build up that courage
Speaker 1: to But then I'm like, nah, but we could be
Speaker 1: going out, we have fun, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Not your dress, he's like he'd be dressing. He put
Speaker 1: that fresh, so why wouldn't be funk with him? So
Speaker 1: I can't say this if you could, it's not as
Speaker 1: it's not a chemes. You five eight and he might
Speaker 1: be five three. But when y'all lay down, y'all the
Speaker 1: same time, unless you're talking to your record's not five
Speaker 1: three year Now I'm understand this and maybe what you want.
Speaker 1: I ain't telling you trying to push this man on
Speaker 1: her from being sure. So you can't hold it against
Speaker 1: a person like oh he's sure, like, don't never she's
Speaker 1: not interested in you don't even use that as nothing though,
Speaker 1: like short time. These people can't help. But if you
Speaker 1: don't like it, you don't like it. Yeah, trachically he's
Speaker 1: not my type, Okay, Camustre wise not mentally the same. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just that does not stop him from being I want
Speaker 1: to hang out. He likes clothes, I like clothes, were
Speaker 1: like you know, he tastes me like like home. That's right,
Speaker 1: crazy wrong, it's nothing wrong. Not going to ask you.
Speaker 1: So it's impossible for you to just have a cool,
Speaker 1: last calm bond with a woman that you're not having sex.
Speaker 1: You have sex with a woman in order you have
Speaker 1: anything in common, don't because you're not going to have
Speaker 1: sex with every for sure, you think that. But in
Speaker 1: the other part, That's what I'm trying to say, is like,
Speaker 1: where does it come to me to say, like, y'all
Speaker 1: got probably more guy friends and women friends, right, No, No,
Speaker 1: I got my women. But where I'm from and what
Speaker 1: I know, they all say, I can't kick it with
Speaker 1: bitch bitches. Accidently, this is what girls kick it with? Girls?
Speaker 1: Why the fund do I want to kick it with them?
Speaker 1: But beyon't like some I'm not like guys. Right now,
Speaker 1: guys I can call be like, we're going out to
Speaker 1: the club tonight. You know that's let's actually, what's his purpose?
Speaker 1: What are you vibing with him? A out? That's what? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're thinking about it hard. He's just trying to think
Speaker 1: of the big plus. If you if you say you
Speaker 1: need to back to the questions. Just what's wrong with understanding? Yeah?
Speaker 1: For to pay? If you know, that's just me. I
Speaker 1: like just saying you said, Yo, come out, We're just
Speaker 1: going to the club. It was yeah, bringing the we
Speaker 1: we are? Yeah, ability with other girls. Yes, you know
Speaker 1: y'all run his own girls away too. How that's your
Speaker 1: bitch was? Let me show you anybody had around me
Speaker 1: for me, they're gonna want to hang out with't gonna
Speaker 1: think you got money, just like you know what's on
Speaker 1: the outfit. Hold on, you must be successful with me.
Speaker 1: You're me your friend? Why do your friend want to
Speaker 1: Everybody has different interest everybody has different chemistry, everybody has
Speaker 1: different approaches. Let me ask you something. Have you ever
Speaker 1: eight of girl's pussy and I had sex with her? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because that's what you wanted because she was just like,
Speaker 1: because I'm a pussy either for that? Let me ask
Speaker 1: the las good at Of course I wouldn't say that
Speaker 1: the way he's sitting here talking about what you want
Speaker 1: to ask? Because I think I know all right. For
Speaker 1: the ladies, have you ever said to dick and I
Speaker 1: had sex period, not ever, Like would you say somebody's
Speaker 1: dick and never have sex with them, Like I've never
Speaker 1: signed aboudy dick and didn't have sex with them. No,
Speaker 1: but I've been like, hey, baby girl, and you want
Speaker 1: to get your dick suck I'm not talking about her
Speaker 1: relationship obviously with not like he's saying that's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I never I've never suck somebod like I didn't have
Speaker 1: sex with ye, So you can't have sex with me.
Speaker 1: If you my dick for me, you got dan. I'm not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not Dan unless you're my boy. Like, so like
Speaker 1: I'll suck your and then we have sex soon. Let
Speaker 1: me to the first time. If you with a girl,
Speaker 1: have you ever been cheated on? Of course? Is it
Speaker 1: worse if she has sex with somebody else? Are just
Speaker 1: sexist dick hurt? Yeah, but it's got like a levels
Speaker 1: to it. So she's back. She'd been like, Babe, I
Speaker 1: didn't even suck my own, like be like it might
Speaker 1: not even be clean, and like want she be to
Speaker 1: me and girl like I ain't even I need letting
Speaker 1: you know that on me, and she'd be like, he
Speaker 1: just ate my ass discussing kiss you because because you
Speaker 1: know he is bottom feeder. Yeah, okay, so when you
Speaker 1: get cheated on, do you want to know all the details? Um? Like,
Speaker 1: what do you need to know? Honestly, when I find
Speaker 1: out'll just be like, I'm cool, don't don't. I don't
Speaker 1: need to know the details. Actually, but the last time
Speaker 1: it happened to me, I didn't even ask for the
Speaker 1: day of details. They just came. So it was just
Speaker 1: like what the other girl told you, the other girls
Speaker 1: she told me, and it was like she was like
Speaker 1: saving for the moment that she was like gonna tell
Speaker 1: me Google link, Like she really she didn't like me.
Speaker 1: That was the thing, Like she wanted my position so
Speaker 1: very badly, and that she I told him, I said,
Speaker 1: I didn't even match you. You just look stupid because
Speaker 1: you're not even paying attention. This girl is recording and
Speaker 1: and take it. Everything that she is doing and just waiting,
Speaker 1: it's like she's talking to me like anything that she's doing,
Speaker 1: she just she ran, I'm the day, calm, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: tell Kelly and this house don't look And she had
Speaker 1: the whole Google doctor. Yeah that's the time, Like question,
Speaker 1: you remember what did I say he don't know his
Speaker 1: own question. It was his birthday. I didn't. Let's get
Speaker 1: back to the topic. I don't want to know any details.
Speaker 1: If my man she's sawing me, I don't want to
Speaker 1: know anything. So what's your question? Why do you want
Speaker 1: to know the details? She didn't. I didn't want She
Speaker 1: just did you look at wasn't your question? Well? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I looked at it. I'm looking like it was all
Speaker 1: adding up in my head, you know, like to play
Speaker 1: like you crazy, So I'm like, oh, so, actually it
Speaker 1: was more of a him, so you was just your
Speaker 1: slyer like it was just like why would you even?
Speaker 1: It was just a baffling moment, like oh my god,
Speaker 1: like I was actually right about a certain things. You know,
Speaker 1: you speculate, you feel certain things, guys like you're crazy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And it was more of that, like I didn't really
Speaker 1: care that it is what it is. You made your baby'
Speaker 1: gonna lay in that because I'm gone. But it was
Speaker 1: more of like dang like that, like what did you see?
Speaker 1: She was sitting like screenshots like, so I got a
Speaker 1: promise ring right? So she I guess they haven't said
Speaker 1: so she like, I want a promise ring and he's
Speaker 1: like no, but then he got her little flowers, so
Speaker 1: she like taking pictures of the flowers and stuff, and oh,
Speaker 1: you got her promise. And I'm keeping it a secret,
Speaker 1: but I'm not getting this and this and that and
Speaker 1: the trips and the bags and all kinds of stuff.
Speaker 1: So it's just more of like a hate that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I did actually back my hat. That's good. Anytime you
Speaker 1: go through all that being an artists always write about it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's how you get back. I feel like that was
Speaker 1: that song was I actually when I found out, I
Speaker 1: made it like a week after it happened. It was
Speaker 1: a way because I didn't want to talk about it
Speaker 1: with nobody for real, because like it was like your friends,
Speaker 1: like yeah, like friends always be known before you, but
Speaker 1: you don't ever want to believe that, like something like that.
Speaker 1: I can't tell because they're gonna be like, girl, we
Speaker 1: told you, are you crazy? So that's why I was like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I like that, no comment, No, but
Speaker 1: you actually actually maybe that's not even true because you know, uh, guy,
Speaker 1: I could be a friend. You give him a chance.
Speaker 1: You know, he think it's all good. You know, y'all
Speaker 1: had that bonding and they all said he got comfortable
Speaker 1: because I was friends with the guy that cheat on me.
Speaker 1: First I was cool with him, like it was like
Speaker 1: I seen him around other girls and stuff like we
Speaker 1: would talk about different things. Um that then pretend to
Speaker 1: anything like sexual or nothing. Then I'm like, he shot
Speaker 1: his shot. I'm like, you know, maybe you know I
Speaker 1: gave it a chance. Hey, still he did what he did,
Speaker 1: like my friend, don't mean you get comfortable? And then
Speaker 1: how does he fail now saying your success? Like, do
Speaker 1: y'all still speak at all? Does he reach out? Oh?
Speaker 1: I don't know that number is blocked. I see no
Speaker 1: call o D. And just look at that whole ring.
Speaker 1: Do not answer? Do not have a blast with whatever
Speaker 1: you got going? Remember the question exit cheating anything that
Speaker 1: you wouldn't do in front of your personal answer, anything
Speaker 1: that you feel, anything you feel like you have to
Speaker 1: hide from your forget other, anything don't you want to tell,
Speaker 1: and anything that you wouldn't want your significant other to do.
Speaker 1: If you're doing something that you wouldn't appreciate them doing,
Speaker 1: then it's out of pocket cheating. I think there's levels
Speaker 1: to it, Like and then you said where did it starts?
Speaker 1: The initial feeling of I have to hide whatever it
Speaker 1: is that I'm saying we're doing. If you got a
Speaker 1: hid text message, that the true meaning I catch my man,
Speaker 1: If I catch my man talking to somebody in a
Speaker 1: way that I don't want him to talk to this person,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like, are you cheating? You know
Speaker 1: about it, but you think I think that it's the
Speaker 1: start of the cheating stuff, and I'm just that's red flam.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's considered cheating yet if you
Speaker 1: haven't physically done anything. But yeah, but exactly, but I
Speaker 1: don't get somebody you don't hiding the messages from you
Speaker 1: you didn't want me to see that. That's cheating. For me,
Speaker 1: it's just wrong. But I'm not gonna be like, hey,
Speaker 1: you're cheating, like you know what you cheated on me?
Speaker 1: We need therapy now. No. But what you're doing is
Speaker 1: you're you're you're walking down a sneaky path, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. You're you're on your way. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think it's on your way. But I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's necessarily cheating. I feel like maybe you would, right
Speaker 1: and then I was cheating because well, for me, it
Speaker 1: is because I always be like, well, if it was me,
Speaker 1: you would be looking at me like I'm just this
Speaker 1: crazy hole. You can't trust me. Now you're gonna go
Speaker 1: do me all kinds of ways. Because I was tasting
Speaker 1: that one then one dude, and that's she into guys
Speaker 1: like they're not going for that. Didn't even do that
Speaker 1: to a dude, like for certain women to look at
Speaker 1: and I'm looking for I'm looking for some I'm texting.
Speaker 1: Guys can do it kind of like instinctively, right, y'all
Speaker 1: do that, it's like premeditated and start for women. I
Speaker 1: believe it's starting y'all. Man, it's start in your mind too,
Speaker 1: actually startling that. I feel like a man, I can't
Speaker 1: have a drive, you know what I mean, like by mistake,
Speaker 1: No it's not. I don't feel like a woman can
Speaker 1: end up on some dick by mistakes. A woman a
Speaker 1: woman not going to even look at it like different.
Speaker 1: But I agree with that, and you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: I might use that as an excuse women. They just
Speaker 1: I feel like a man could be like damn, that
Speaker 1: was because you could be in the club, meet a guy,
Speaker 1: get drunk and then mind is this cheening conversation they
Speaker 1: didn't shut your mic down. They're like, I can't have
Speaker 1: her talking about that. See what you started with your question,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get homie in the game. Are you trying
Speaker 1: to get the short guy in the game a nice girl? Oh,
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong. He's very hats like, he's not
Speaker 1: really short, like I just like him six foot I
Speaker 1: mean six foot old. Personally upset about this because I like, No,
Speaker 1: I feel yeah, like because his home is talking about him.
Speaker 1: You've been friends zoned in the past. It's coming from
Speaker 1: ah no, but that's just not a cool place for
Speaker 1: dude to stay in it. I feel like I've been
Speaker 1: for me, I've been hit to friends ze like it's
Speaker 1: been years now. He's chilling. He didn't have girlfriends like,
Speaker 1: and it's not like I'd be busy. I'll be staying
Speaker 1: out the way. It's not no female feeling like, oh
Speaker 1: she she want to talk to my y'all girl best friend.
Speaker 1: She do too much? Like, But it's okay. Let's just
Speaker 1: say you had a show on the road, y'all was
Speaker 1: in Miami and he need a place to crash for
Speaker 1: the night. Could he stay in your room? Yeah, on
Speaker 1: the pull out couch. Yeah, that's that's fine. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I just made sure that I'm covered. Like, you
Speaker 1: know what, if you had a boyfriend, would that be okay?
Speaker 1: Probably I wouldn't probably do that, But it's a respect
Speaker 1: thing for my boyfriend. Respect. It's a respect thing for
Speaker 1: my boyfriend like that, that's my friend. But I know
Speaker 1: that then you would not be okay with true. I
Speaker 1: have plenty of guy friends, and I'm very devoted and
Speaker 1: secure with them I have. So let's say, for instance,
Speaker 1: I have a friend shout out to my friend be no,
Speaker 1: be no. We met because my homeboy put me on
Speaker 1: him because he had fire. Weat so I would get
Speaker 1: weed from him, and then we became cool. He's a chef.
Speaker 1: He cooks, I cook, I eat. We have that in common.
Speaker 1: He from Atlanta, like your cool. You know he'll hate me.
Speaker 1: You don't want to. He probably do, and that's going
Speaker 1: conversation job but that. But but here's the thing. This is,
Speaker 1: this is this is the thing he though he probably
Speaker 1: might wanted to in the past, or maybe if I,
Speaker 1: you know, said what's up with what's up? People probably
Speaker 1: be down right. The fact that we can still be
Speaker 1: cool regardless of if it never happens. That's where the
Speaker 1: volume lies. You don't got to be about set. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's a real friendship. That's my homie. Like we might
Speaker 1: not speak for three months or you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: we might speak for three days straight, like he might
Speaker 1: call me like what's up with this? Or you know,
Speaker 1: what's going on with you know? How do you feel
Speaker 1: that your man? How do you feel like your man
Speaker 1: having female friends? Nah? You it's the whole I got
Speaker 1: grandfather in that situation. You did heard um my core relationship.
Speaker 1: My man has to be my friends. Okay, I have
Speaker 1: no issue with that. There's a there's a you know,
Speaker 1: but he wouldn't want to. But he wouldn't want to.
Speaker 1: I respect what he would very tight relationship. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I wouldn't now go like I
Speaker 1: feel something. I feel some type of way, but now
Speaker 1: be like I'm a watch like how y'all relationship is
Speaker 1: Like if it's too much, y'all face wake up on
Speaker 1: the FaceTime and y'all talk too much. It's that's what
Speaker 1: has a girlfriend and he has a woman. He can't
Speaker 1: do that with his female friend, but boundaries with our
Speaker 1: god friends. If it's not. It's not It shouldn't be
Speaker 1: hard for you that my best friend, my best guy friend.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm since I was fourteen years old. Like, sure,
Speaker 1: I could call him here and there and we can
Speaker 1: have a conversation on the phone, but I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: be calling him. I know you got a wife and
Speaker 1: I'm great friends with her, and don't call you a
Speaker 1: a certain time if you're in a relationship and married,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not calling you. I'm not here.
Speaker 1: I waited tomorrow at the time. If I'm calling my
Speaker 1: my guy friend, You're like, hey, I'm out with my girl.
Speaker 1: You know, what's just just text me I'm doing something.
Speaker 1: You know, It's like it's boundary. You just gotta communicate.
Speaker 1: And I have just seen that was the time. That
Speaker 1: was the time that on me and my best friend,
Speaker 1: where we were hanging out every day. Speak for all
Speaker 1: the guys. There was a time that he and I
Speaker 1: were hanging out every day. But you know that time changed.
Speaker 1: You know, as we got older, I ended up in
Speaker 1: a serious relationship, So of course we're not going to
Speaker 1: be together every day. He got married, you know, so
Speaker 1: as as as we've grown, I was friendship has changed too,
Speaker 1: But it doesn't mean that we love each other any left.
Speaker 1: It's just as you And it happens with female friends too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what. One of my really good friends owns
Speaker 1: the studio we're recording here right now. I know him
Speaker 1: since I was in high school and he's really goofing.
Speaker 1: I know his wife, his kids, everything. He's an amazing guy.
Speaker 1: Oh boy, I can do that. I give them there,
Speaker 1: I take the heppen And you don't think you can.
Speaker 1: I think you know it. Doesn't want to say this.
Speaker 1: You own this story in Chicago Fleet Club, right, I'm
Speaker 1: sure a lot of women hit you up for gear
Speaker 1: and sneakers and clothes and all of that. So that
Speaker 1: is like sort of a relationship friendship. Do you become friends?
Speaker 1: Because if they say, like, and this is crazy women
Speaker 1: that do that ship and I want them to hear
Speaker 1: and understand this. If you sit and say, yo, can
Speaker 1: I get X, Y and Z because you might got
Speaker 1: some Instagram fathers. Can I repost this promotion whatever the
Speaker 1: funk is supposed to be, right? Or if I can
Speaker 1: get this for a deal whatever? What if I reply
Speaker 1: back to that, can I fuck you? No? Hold on?
Speaker 1: I would be wrong for that, right, I don't do that.
Speaker 1: But how do you come off just saying you're taking
Speaker 1: from me? This is why ladies don't ask these men
Speaker 1: for nothing you think about it, No, I'm just keeping
Speaker 1: the funky something. Come that with. Think I didn't get
Speaker 1: to pay people to post things? Right, if you want
Speaker 1: to post that's a promo for your basics. You could
Speaker 1: always say no for sure, But it's always saying like,
Speaker 1: understand what I'm what it takes me. You probably look
Speaker 1: at your store like, oh, I really like your stuff,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I really you know. That's
Speaker 1: not what she's saying. See what I'm saying. She's coming
Speaker 1: straight through like can I get you? Want to build
Speaker 1: herself up some more? And I rock with you? So hey,
Speaker 1: don't be down to don't know me, not like the
Speaker 1: store I'm talking about you. I will not ever be
Speaker 1: that girl asking people to say be more to one
Speaker 1: who I've never done, keeping it for real and it
Speaker 1: does nothing. So God, I did nothing just because I
Speaker 1: had to understand and learn. You know, I even did
Speaker 1: business kind of wrong, like meaning I looked at people
Speaker 1: who didn't have much going on for themselves, like they
Speaker 1: had a lot of time in their hands. Are you
Speaker 1: perfectly work for me? But now it's it's gotta be
Speaker 1: you got a lot on your hands. I could pay
Speaker 1: you to work for me, honestly, because you can take
Speaker 1: me places where I can't go. My thing can add
Speaker 1: for sure. So it'll be somebody looking at from a
Speaker 1: small mind, somebody who haven't been well traveled, saying, oh
Speaker 1: she got this many followers on Instagram. Boy, you ship
Speaker 1: he doesn't turn to a fan and a local fan
Speaker 1: because she keep posting that her body and all this bullshit,
Speaker 1: but I get her money. Bullshit is about like it
Speaker 1: ain't like I don't think really have social media. If
Speaker 1: you don't really got nothing in life going on, you
Speaker 1: ain't selling nothing you and it should be you gotta
Speaker 1: sign up for this ship. And I say this they
Speaker 1: you know they got to like swimsuit deals and stuff. Girls.
Speaker 1: Really she's traveling and she got a bikini like it
Speaker 1: may look like, but no, no, no, you should have
Speaker 1: something going on that you gotta sign It can't be
Speaker 1: because you can be tricked too, you know. It's another
Speaker 1: side to that. The same thing is say get out here,
Speaker 1: cashop you some money. We don't even notice thing that
Speaker 1: girls be dead media like to keep in touch with
Speaker 1: a family and friends, but to like you could be
Speaker 1: private and only let your friends and family certain things.
Speaker 1: I understand what you're saying, because there's so much money
Speaker 1: to be made on the internet. If you're not making
Speaker 1: money on there, what are you doing there? That's all
Speaker 1: because like your financial situation, Like before you got signed,
Speaker 1: I was on the internet, like doing them little promo
Speaker 1: deals and you know, get out, because that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you're internet. Yeah, yeah, you was doing something with a
Speaker 1: with a plan and something that's different selling something to
Speaker 1: your consumer. You make music, you know, just trying to
Speaker 1: figure out social media, trying to make some money because
Speaker 1: I got my mom and my ear Like, girl, what
Speaker 1: you're doing with your life? I think you would have
Speaker 1: did if the music thing wouldn't happened. At first. I
Speaker 1: played soccer since I was seven and I stopped when
Speaker 1: I was nineteen, and I wanted to like be that
Speaker 1: girls on the US team and go to the World
Speaker 1: Cup and stuff. But that rapid. But I also was
Speaker 1: going to go to school for communication, like broadcast communication.
Speaker 1: I want to be the girl on on the court,
Speaker 1: like you know, you just you can't still do that too.
Speaker 1: That now you have the song standards, which you know
Speaker 1: it is important to have standards, right, So talk to
Speaker 1: me about what your standards are in life when it
Speaker 1: comes to men tall right about what about such a
Speaker 1: controversial question. I mean, let me ask you this. If
Speaker 1: a guy was six four but his penis was really small,
Speaker 1: would you prefer that or a guy who was five
Speaker 1: five but with a huge penis? If you have to
Speaker 1: pick tall and small or short and long bringing the tripod,
Speaker 1: hello's gonna. I would say tall talk with a little dick.
Speaker 1: It's no use it. It's not disproportionate too, and got
Speaker 1: the is it like skinny? It's just small. It's just small,
Speaker 1: disproportionate is it's not giving the short end bring on
Speaker 1: the trip just the short guy? But you want to
Speaker 1: got to be your boyfriend now because in my relationship
Speaker 1: I yet down and if I can't now I'm keep
Speaker 1: on looking what it doesn't? You know? Have you ever
Speaker 1: done there before? What she did on one of your boyfriends?
Speaker 1: It's more I was just thinking, like I'll be like
Speaker 1: I'm done, I'm blocking you. Then I do something I
Speaker 1: haven't actually I haven't. Have you ever been a side check.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't not, but because I feel
Speaker 1: like you've had a side guy, I feel like it's
Speaker 1: a topic. I just gotta understand. You might always start.
Speaker 1: I think everybody start. Is that everybody said it's a
Speaker 1: side that everybody, but everybody a lot of everybody had somebody,
Speaker 1: but you had somebody that's already in their life, relationship,
Speaker 1: break up, what you're going. It's always that one person
Speaker 1: that you know is in your life and she's gonna
Speaker 1: be there. So before you could be number one, but
Speaker 1: you gotta know how to be number two before you
Speaker 1: could be number one. Have a situation. I'm not if
Speaker 1: you're my side, I'm not gonna make you my man.
Speaker 1: It's like you didn't have the qualities to be made
Speaker 1: in the first place. And that's why he doesn't read
Speaker 1: hash techy just come out. It just might not be
Speaker 1: that way. Have you ever moved from the side check
Speaker 1: to the main check? No, I come in like you
Speaker 1: already know. I hope to see listen. I don't know
Speaker 1: for real, but in my head is enough. But I
Speaker 1: come in, Yeah, come in like you know what I'm on.
Speaker 1: Like one we asked asked one day, think of shot.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I always it's like, kay, let go,
Speaker 1: even if you if they did something, and it's still
Speaker 1: it's still the calling and the damn. I really like,
Speaker 1: you know, like that. I don't know how. I don't
Speaker 1: know how he spe for me. I'm very possessive. I
Speaker 1: remember even when I was a teenager, you know, I
Speaker 1: like this guy. I remember he was. He he was like,
Speaker 1: he had like a nice caramel color and green eyes.
Speaker 1: He was one of the first guys that I've ever
Speaker 1: been with with green eyes. No, he was Jamaican like
Speaker 1: he was. Yeah, he had like hazel green eyes. He
Speaker 1: was so fine and he and I was we were
Speaker 1: having a nice time. I used to go sleep in
Speaker 1: his house and hang out with him and his mom.
Speaker 1: And then one day I knew that he had this
Speaker 1: girlfriend that he had broke up with, like maybe a
Speaker 1: couple of months before he and I started sleeping together
Speaker 1: and they got back together, and he was like, listen,
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you because I'll respect you and and
Speaker 1: I want you to know I don't want to stop
Speaker 1: seeing you, but I'm back with my girl. And I
Speaker 1: was like, you love your girls so much that right,
Speaker 1: And I was like got something I was I always
Speaker 1: I wanted to be number one. I can't exactly, but Callie,
Speaker 1: you tweeted something out that was interesting. Okay, he had thus,
Speaker 1: but I'm making a slut. How do you make a guy?
Speaker 1: What makes a guy slept? Just being nasty? Come her sluck? Yeah,
Speaker 1: and like any time I said I'd be like this
Speaker 1: when I'm on at any moment, like you gotta be
Speaker 1: on go like I don't care hard, like I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I like to so sexy and you're nasty. You're aggressive
Speaker 1: in the bedroom. You do a lot of initiating when
Speaker 1: it comes to sex. Yes, but I like when a
Speaker 1: guy is more aggressive than me, Like, make me shut
Speaker 1: that down. I'd like to be sittings, yes, but it's
Speaker 1: rare because he needs to be acting. Who do you consenting? Nasty?
Speaker 1: Great question? What's nasty to you? Um? Just like somebody
Speaker 1: want to just devour every single part of your body
Speaker 1: at any type, in any moment. Spinning your mouth, like
Speaker 1: spitting in the mouth is trendy right now. Spitting in
Speaker 1: the mouth is the number one answer when we asked
Speaker 1: what do you think it is nasty on this That's
Speaker 1: why it's the number one answer. Because I feel like,
Speaker 1: but it is nasty. That's nasty. It's here, but I
Speaker 1: feel like it's maybe last year or so. It's been
Speaker 1: very trendy, and especially like Stephanie said, what you people
Speaker 1: that question? Right Angela at the top of the list
Speaker 1: and eating your ass? You said, can you eat your
Speaker 1: spin your mouth? Oh wow? Yeah? Okay about snowballing? Is
Speaker 1: that like a formal small good hygiene? What I before?
Speaker 1: What about sex in your period? I'm down with that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like what's the problem for sure? You like you said
Speaker 1: stop number the sin? Would you eat a period? What
Speaker 1: if you had a tap? I'm not doing that either.
Speaker 1: I've definitely had that done because you didn't tell them.
Speaker 1: You want to see it handed down from a man
Speaker 1: and a woman and a woman know what's going on
Speaker 1: down there? Where? Yeah? You clean, If you're clean, and
Speaker 1: you're first of all, you focus on the click anyway,
Speaker 1: you're not even down bad. So touch string and just
Speaker 1: yeah I couldn't really like copper. They're like touch there.
Speaker 1: It's to make sure your mom doesn't even go Now
Speaker 1: tap and you go the only twenty To me, you're
Speaker 1: kind of a baby. But have you ever done an No,
Speaker 1: you think you would consider it. See, I only did
Speaker 1: the thumb thing, and I don't like that's a little bit.
Speaker 1: Guy comes in handy, it's cool, But I don't know, baby,
Speaker 1: maybe maybe you get it, but like it's still got
Speaker 1: to be a conversation for real, Like I may need
Speaker 1: the whole bot on my period. So yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe what about Have you had a guy come in
Speaker 1: your face? Yes, she's crazy, Yes, it's just come out
Speaker 1: with listen to the next album he said, yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: you're looking around like your mom? What's my best friend? Mom?
Speaker 1: But she like kind of raised me a little bit too,
Speaker 1: so she like looking at me like, girl, like what
Speaker 1: did you just say? From what she? Should? You know? Why?
Speaker 1: Honestly listening to your music, you are very open and
Speaker 1: very sexual. Yeah, which I don't find the problem with
Speaker 1: it that it's about. It's empowering to be able to
Speaker 1: talk about things that you do. This is really you
Speaker 1: know that's happening, Like you know this his life is really,
Speaker 1: this is what's really going on. Can't be scared to
Speaker 1: say like, yeah, yeah, this is what I'll be doing.
Speaker 1: So get with the gang. You listen to it. What's
Speaker 1: your what's your trick that you do, like in the
Speaker 1: bedroom for a guy that you're like, this is my
Speaker 1: special ship because everybody got a little special something. Finish him,
Speaker 1: finish a move? What should finish a move on the tiptoes?
Speaker 1: With the grip? I think? Okay, yeah, yeah, that grip trick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: with the grip? What's the grip? You don't think the
Speaker 1: definitely you never had a pus grip? Yeah, I didn't
Speaker 1: know what it was called the grip. That's more like visual.
Speaker 1: What about toys, by the way that we wants to
Speaker 1: advertise on here? I just you know, I love the woman.
Speaker 1: Can we please? Can y'all send me one right now?
Speaker 1: Y'all have your box? So, caddie, have you used any toys?
Speaker 1: I only use a vibrator? Okay, yeah, that's nice. Have
Speaker 1: you used it during sex or just by yourself? She said? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why during That's what I want to ask. Just one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it through so he couldn't get it, not necessarily because
Speaker 1: he is. It's part of it. Yeah, it's an experience,
Speaker 1: another layer, you know what I'm saying. Because he couldn't
Speaker 1: do it, it's a different thing. He's doing it, doing
Speaker 1: it more. It's a battery so I'm gonna get you
Speaker 1: a right. So answer and Angela's questions to Collie of
Speaker 1: a good move not my give him girl move right.
Speaker 1: But one of my goal too is I and it's
Speaker 1: actually one of my favorite positions. So I like to
Speaker 1: lay flat on my stomach with my legs crossed so
Speaker 1: everything is really really tight, and then I throw it
Speaker 1: back from that way in the position right. So in
Speaker 1: that moment, take the vibrator and put it on my vagina,
Speaker 1: put it on my clip while he's in me from
Speaker 1: the back. That's amazing. So that's when you use the toy.
Speaker 1: It's not because you're not doing what you supposed to
Speaker 1: be doing, but it's just adding the letter of another
Speaker 1: list what I'm saying. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: how do you think of do with fields? If you're
Speaker 1: doing this thing that was like, it's not that you
Speaker 1: need it, you know, I just try and be a
Speaker 1: little What does he trying? What you mean to be
Speaker 1: to try to listen? It's the best pleasing women. What
Speaker 1: do you think when you have sex? Is the goal
Speaker 1: to please the woman or just to please yourself? It
Speaker 1: is for sure to please the woman of pleasure. That's
Speaker 1: a battery did that. That's not me, Camber, your first
Speaker 1: organ battery helped. I can't keep up with the bad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was with the vibrator to see the rose we got.
Speaker 1: We just drossed the roses. They said it to thank
Speaker 1: you people, thank you. It came out of nowhere. I
Speaker 1: was like, here's the thing with the rose though, sipping moderation,
Speaker 1: because that thing is powerful. But it got the level.
Speaker 1: It's the level you level, even even in the only
Speaker 1: charged battery is wells in you there. I used the
Speaker 1: rods about it like there's no way. It was just
Speaker 1: like and I went and look, I'm looking at the reviews, like,
Speaker 1: am I the only one that felt like this. I'm like,
Speaker 1: there's no way that Because I kept hearing about it,
Speaker 1: I'm like, let me tell you seventeen second orgasm. Okay,
Speaker 1: and Jesus you have your way from swamp squirting. So
Speaker 1: so you know what we're gonna get you one of those.
Speaker 1: The Womanizer is very similar to the roads. It does
Speaker 1: the same thing. So you should sell some of these
Speaker 1: in the fleet club roses. Yeah, it sounds like I
Speaker 1: should tell us. He said, it's not a bad thing.
Speaker 1: It's not a bad thing. And you shouldn't be intimidated
Speaker 1: about the ways I've been squirted on before. Do you
Speaker 1: like it? Of course I love it. He's nasty. I
Speaker 1: was gonna say the same thing. We don't even like
Speaker 1: it because it's a mixture from your bladders. It's weird.
Speaker 1: It's very weird. But you have toxic chocolate out right now?
Speaker 1: Do you consider yourself toxic? Um? Yeah, I have like toxic.
Speaker 1: I call them toxic tantrum. So okay, that's so I
Speaker 1: can be toxic if you take me there, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be toxic with you. You know. I consider like my
Speaker 1: friend Black call you some toxic. But really they mean
Speaker 1: like if you won't play games, I'm going to play
Speaker 1: them right back with you. Just explain being a Gemini.
Speaker 1: And but if you bring it out, you're gonna get
Speaker 1: Because my little tea is I can be loyal. But
Speaker 1: when you do that one thing, they give me like
Speaker 1: the each a little bit it okay, yeah, I mean listen,
Speaker 1: I honestly really enjoyed this project. First of all, you
Speaker 1: had some artists that I love right now on it
Speaker 1: as features. I love hearing you by yourself. But like
Speaker 1: I said, beers on their money law, I mean, right now,
Speaker 1: let her love her project. And then you had Young
Speaker 1: Blue on there also you on you, So it's like
Speaker 1: a tip for that situation. What's the worst of you
Speaker 1: on your situation you've had. And sometimes you gotta show
Speaker 1: guys like what they do so that they get a
Speaker 1: taste of what it's like to do it back to them.
Speaker 1: So I was dealing with this one guy and I
Speaker 1: actually really like liked him for real, for real, and
Speaker 1: like the way he was kicking it to me, it
Speaker 1: was like he was just like to me, he was
Speaker 1: like dreaming, like oh, I can't believe it's too good
Speaker 1: to be true. But then once I found out about
Speaker 1: the situation or whatever, I was like, what situation? Just
Speaker 1: basically like he I hear you whoever is given the
Speaker 1: time of day, you know what I mean? And maybe
Speaker 1: feel like he was honestly kind of like playing my
Speaker 1: emotions like I'm not gonna like I can't find nobody,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like I'm not that girl.
Speaker 1: I think he forgot that. So I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, I kept it playing. I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, that's cool. So I went I started talking
Speaker 1: to this other guy whatever he's the other boys started
Speaker 1: calling my phone. Sure what that was both six phones?
Speaker 1: So why don't you make a song for basketball players?
Speaker 1: That's what you like. You don't gotta be one basketball
Speaker 1: playing But that's trying to tell you listen to me.
Speaker 1: That's your range. I that's what six phones. You're gonna
Speaker 1: find a bunch of them exitely short basketball player. But no,
Speaker 1: I'm saying you get a pick of them. Listen to him.
Speaker 1: It's that to the kiddy, get your marketing scheme out
Speaker 1: six or six fast, six nine seven ft for real? Anyway,
Speaker 1: old you like him? Not the tall guys, then I
Speaker 1: don't think it's not that maybe like like six seven
Speaker 1: seven to stop right now? Yeah, sorry about this guy,
Speaker 1: So go ahead. What happened and you on you? Oh?
Speaker 1: Basically I started talked to this guy he had basketball player.
Speaker 1: I know I was right, I knew yeah, but I
Speaker 1: actually still have feelings for other guy. But he started
Speaker 1: asking me like, oh, as you talking to is just
Speaker 1: like it to somebody else, but the potential are you
Speaker 1: doing this? And that? Yes I am, And it was
Speaker 1: just like he felt like he actually said, oh wow,
Speaker 1: like you feel like you you gotta do me like that?
Speaker 1: Like it was like you on your situation, like he
Speaker 1: was just like he didn't have nothing to say. But
Speaker 1: in the day, I still ended up talking to the
Speaker 1: basket you talk to the first time I went back,
Speaker 1: then I you on you, then you went back, and
Speaker 1: then then what happened after you went back? Right, it
Speaker 1: just you shouldn't have shouldn't have went back, should have
Speaker 1: went bad. It just made it more toxic. Yeah, you're young,
Speaker 1: You're gonna sun up and make mistakes. Yeah, it's all
Speaker 1: learning like you out here every day. I know, I
Speaker 1: know for a fact a lot to learn. And but
Speaker 1: you having fun. Yeah, I think that's the main thing.
Speaker 1: Like we learned to laugh on the mistakes that we
Speaker 1: made in our life. You can't tell nobody nothing. Sometimes
Speaker 1: you gotta go through that ship to learn it yourself.
Speaker 1: Like somebody could tell you what to do logically, but
Speaker 1: if you decide no, that ain't even if you got
Speaker 1: to keep doing it over, you know, learning the lesson
Speaker 1: over until you finally get that. You think you've been
Speaker 1: in love, Yeah, I only been in love one time.
Speaker 1: Well one guy and the one with the Google link.
Speaker 1: Uh ship, Okay, I want to send me to Google
Speaker 1: link that won't hurt. Could he come back now? No,
Speaker 1: absolutely not. I'm definitely gonna hit him with about was
Speaker 1: that about him? No, that was just saying so that
Speaker 1: was just like, oh what could I What could I say?
Speaker 1: You know that goes with the hit them with, you know, right,
Speaker 1: So yeah, she most definitely couldn't not come back. Well, Callie,
Speaker 1: we thank you so much for coming through on Lift
Speaker 1: Service and we're we're honestly like listening to toxic Chocolate.
Speaker 1: It's a lot of things that we cover on the show.
Speaker 1: So we love you for being open and honest. And
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see where you go from here,
Speaker 1: honestly because you only twenty one years are you're still
Speaker 1: a baby? Yeah? Am I? Yeah? Twenty when I'm just
Speaker 1: thinking about what I was doing when I was twenty
Speaker 1: one years ship man, somebody told me I was a
Speaker 1: baby when I was twenty one. I look at them
Speaker 1: like saying, grown a baby. Yeah, And look, congratulations on
Speaker 1: everything you have going on, like they go really hard
Speaker 1: for you. And to see all the people that have
Speaker 1: sunk with you, you know, and to the EP that
Speaker 1: even you know, we was rocking out too, I think
Speaker 1: that's so it's amazing. I think you're great like for
Speaker 1: women to be able to relate to and for men
Speaker 1: to vibe out to. So congratulations and cheers, cheers. Your
Speaker 1: favorite song talk to Chocolate. I'm gonna say I like
Speaker 1: the song with money long, yeah a lot. But I
Speaker 1: also love beer and I like how y'all both go
Speaker 1: back and forth on that one. Yeah, that definitely, And
Speaker 1: I like the topic of that because it's fast. It's
Speaker 1: because yeah, we're not about to get right, but I
Speaker 1: like but I always say, like, you gotta respect the
Speaker 1: box and for any guy that wants to have sex,
Speaker 1: you got it regardless, you've got to eat it for
Speaker 1: take it at her. It's like you gotta ask for
Speaker 1: parents hand in marriage. It's kind of like that you
Speaker 1: gotta ask the pussy for like is it okay? Right exactly?
Speaker 1: I gotta take care of you first, but yes, and
Speaker 1: lip service before entry there you go. Alright, But Catty,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming through. And I know
Speaker 1: we're gonna see you again. So next time I look
Speaker 1: back at this and be like, remember when he was
Speaker 1: on the show, remember the taxi chocolate me to say
Speaker 1: like that, Okay, whoa do remember at all? She do
Speaker 1: remember the first time she came rude. So this road
Speaker 1: is crazy that one guys don't have toys like the
Speaker 1: way we have to. We don't have a toy for him. Yes,
Speaker 1: okay for real, Yes, I need the real deal. What
Speaker 1: if it had on like wardrobe department? Nothing, I need
Speaker 1: the real y'all don't realize. Man, that's stuff between y'all.
Speaker 1: That's something that's a killer. Came not imagine to that.
Speaker 1: No blow up dolls. I don't know. All this funny
Speaker 1: ship they'd be doing ain't nothing from imagine to real
Speaker 1: woman menage. Somebody going company reached out to to make
Speaker 1: a life size doll masturbation doll of me. You want
Speaker 1: to that. I'm not gonna do it because they want to,
Speaker 1: you know they want you should do No, absolutely no,
Speaker 1: that's weird and we got me. Thank you for everybody
Speaker 1: who supports me and anybody who would want that. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not judging your likes. You know you should do it.
Speaker 1: You know that you know the sex offenders in your
Speaker 1: timeline that I thought, I promise you. They said that
Speaker 1: they will only make sixty of them or something like
Speaker 1: that that would sell out the first day, will sell
Speaker 1: out the first day. I know, and they told me
Speaker 1: the price. I won't say that what the price was.
Speaker 1: But it's not even a bad It wasn't even at
Speaker 1: it because you don't got the price a I got
Speaker 1: all the phone was gonna make. But it's no, it's
Speaker 1: a whole promo run and they will have to they
Speaker 1: want to mold of the cars. Yeah, and that way. No,
Speaker 1: that's like giving the secret of my boxs not the
Speaker 1: same to see this guy, Christy white Man, just no
Speaker 1: stream the album. No, the internet is now, because then
Speaker 1: people do weird someto. I get real weird deal. Somebody
Speaker 1: will end up behind that sending me a video like,
Speaker 1: oh thank you, No, sir, that's gonna make your stomach
Speaker 1: to watch. You watch the video when I watched the video. No,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna click on and see what it is. Do
Speaker 1: you have any videos? Of course? Yeah, she do doing
Speaker 1: me like that video, a few of them. You can
Speaker 1: have a poker face. You gotta work on your day.
Speaker 1: She didn't you know how you know what she's about
Speaker 1: that she don't want to say. She's like that. She'd
Speaker 1: be confused. She'd be like, it's real cringey when you're
Speaker 1: trying to not tell the truth. But it's it's hard
Speaker 1: for me actually not to tell that. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: laugh about everything. Like when I I'll just be like, caught,
Speaker 1: I could. I feel like you could see it. He'd
Speaker 1: be like, did you come. She'd be like because, like, no,
Speaker 1: going to say, I did not think this would be
Speaker 1: a conversation like this. So I'm like, oh, Cally, you
Speaker 1: knew what it was. I did it though I didn't.
Speaker 1: I purposely didn't like go. I went into this like, oh,
Speaker 1: so it can be like organic, so I can, you know,
Speaker 1: just be talking, you know, Yeah, you said I liked y'all. Though, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it goes right along with the with the
Speaker 1: toxic chocolate. We appreciate you, thank you lift service, and
Speaker 1: thanks Boom you have little toxic too. You're definitely talk
Speaker 1: to chocolate now.