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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show. Stephen, good morning, Welcome to the

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Speaker 1: pro crum. How are you? I'm doing well. Guys, are

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Speaker 1: you doing all right? What's going on with this woman Tara?

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Speaker 2: We need to know how you met, about any dates

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Speaker 2: that you've been on, where things are now? You know,

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Speaker 2: why do you think you're being ghosted? And then how

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Speaker 2: we can help. Yeah, absolutely Well. Aaron and I met

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Speaker 2: at a bar.

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Speaker 3: On Saturday night and we had on a just kind

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Speaker 3: of a blast. I mean, she was sort of an

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Speaker 3: organic meeting. She was hot, she was funny. We had

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Speaker 3: so much fun. All these guys kept coming to hit

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Speaker 3: on her, and she kept pretending that we were already dating.

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Speaker 1: So it was a blast.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty good laughing if you're like protecting her from

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Speaker 2: the you know right, Yeah, I mean to I guess

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Speaker 2: it would attended yourself to anybody, really, but like you

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Speaker 2: were there and she was into you, so she was

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Speaker 2: batting them all off for you, Yeah, for her, but absolutely.

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Speaker 3: I mean I thought, I thought, you know what, what

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Speaker 3: a lucky me and uh, we were having a good time.

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Speaker 3: We were laughing the whole time, and by the time

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Speaker 3: that I ended, we kind of planned this whole date,

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Speaker 3: this perfect date for ourselves of where we're going to

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Speaker 3: dinner and what we're going to be doing.

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Speaker 1: And so I decided to ask for her.

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Speaker 3: Number and told her I would text her mind. So

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Speaker 3: she had it, and I wanted her to text me

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Speaker 3: when she got home safe. So I got home and

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Speaker 3: I texted her, but she had not answered. So I

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Speaker 3: just assumed that maybe she had passed out because it

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Speaker 3: was kind of late. So the next morning I went

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Speaker 3: to text her and I have not heard anything back,

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Speaker 3: so I don't know if she creeped on me or

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Speaker 3: saw something on my Instagram. I don't know what's going on,

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Speaker 3: but that's that's why I'm calling you, because I'm trying

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Speaker 3: to figure out how this awesome, organic meeting with this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's kind of strange because you know, we talked

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Speaker 2: about this all the time, but people meet on the

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Speaker 2: dating apps and then they don't really know what the

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Speaker 2: vibe is in person. But in this case, she met

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Speaker 2: in the wild, and I mean she spent a lot

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Speaker 2: of time with you throughout the evening. She could have

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Speaker 2: walked night, she could have batted you off like she

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Speaker 2: did the other guys. I mean a lot of things

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Speaker 2: could have happened. But so that's weird that you would

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Speaker 2: spend all night with someone talking and you know, getting

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Speaker 2: to know one another and then exchange phone ember is

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Speaker 2: only for her not to call you. So let's play

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Speaker 2: a song. We'll come back in a couple of minutes. Steven,

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Speaker 2: we'll call Tara. You'll be on the phone. We're gonna

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Speaker 2: ask some questions and see if we can figure out

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Speaker 2: what's going on. Maybe there's something we can straighten out

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Speaker 2: and hopefully set you guys up on a date that

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Speaker 2: we pay for.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that'd be great. Thank you. Hey, Steven, Yeah, let's

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Speaker 1: call Tara.

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Speaker 2: You guys met at a bar, actually out in public,

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Speaker 2: and you chat it all night, and she was like

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Speaker 2: telling other guys to go away that we're trying to

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Speaker 2: which I think is a good sign.

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Speaker 1: You exchanged phone numbers.

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Speaker 2: You texted her that night to make sure she got home,

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Speaker 2: She didn't respond the next day, didn't respond, and so

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Speaker 2: you're like, wait a minute, why don't we talk all

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Speaker 2: night and why don't we exchange numbers just for this woman.

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Speaker 2: It kind of ghost me exactly exactly. All right, We're

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Speaker 2: gonna call Tara now and see we can figure this out.

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Speaker 2: Good luck, Stephen, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Hello. Hi, this is Tara. This hi Sarah. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: and I doay, oh okay, well morning. I do have

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Speaker 2: and I would need your permission to continue to cool

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Speaker 2: if we ch have for just a second.

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Speaker 1: Sure, Well good, she was excited, I mean sound like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: talk all the time. I was going to say that

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Speaker 1: I don't call.

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Speaker 2: Of in my capacity as a radio host when I'm

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Speaker 2: not on the radio, but you know sometimes, So, Tara,

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Speaker 2: we're calling on behalf of a guy named Steve, and

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Speaker 2: perhaps you know what we're doing here. But Steven says

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Speaker 2: he met you at a bar and and he feels

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Speaker 2: like after you guys talked all night, that you're ghosting him.

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Speaker 2: Now do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 2: So why the way he described it to you was

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Speaker 2: we just talked to him a second ago. He says

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Speaker 2: that he met you out, you talked all night, that

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Speaker 2: other guys were coming up to you, you were telling them

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Speaker 2: to go away, you change numbers, and talked about going

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Speaker 2: out again. But you haven't responded to him at all.

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Speaker 2: So I guess, how do we get that far if

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Speaker 1: So then this is going to make me look bad.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So, yes, we did meet at the bar and

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Speaker 4: I was totally into him.

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Speaker 1: Then when god, this sounds so bad.

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Speaker 4: So the issue is when he texted me just to

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Speaker 4: make sure I got home, I already had his number

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Speaker 4: in my phone and it was saved as a whole

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Speaker 4: like don't answer, and I saw our other text thread.

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Speaker 1: And so it turns out we already. We already know

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Speaker 1: each other, if you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: Wait, so you you not only know this guy, but

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Speaker 2: you've hooked up with him, and neither one of you remember.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I mean, no judgment, but.

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Speaker 4: The first time I'm saying it out loud.

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Speaker 1: Was it a long time ago?

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Speaker 4: All right? I don't remember exactly. The text thread looks

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Speaker 4: like it's a while ago. It's like years, so a while.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you guys met somewhere before, and you guys

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Speaker 2: oh hey, wait a minute, I've messaged you.

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Speaker 1: Before, correct, And he was a total.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, well, let me let me bring Steven. And

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Speaker 2: I forgot to mention that Steven is here. I get

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Speaker 2: caught up in the story. I'm very forgetful Stephen. Do

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Speaker 2: you I assume you don't remember this?

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Speaker 3: Uh no, I don't hate Kara, I am that's Are

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Speaker 3: you serious?

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Speaker 2: Like you don't remember neither one of you were Okay,

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Speaker 2: you don't remember meeting or doing that. I mean, does

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Speaker 2: one of you look drastically different from a couple of

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Speaker 2: years ago? Have you like changed your look completely plastic

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Speaker 2: surgery or no, I mean facelift.

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Speaker 1: Must have been, like seriously, must have been a sign.

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Speaker 1: I don't, I don't, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, how often does that he meets someone

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Speaker 3: a second time a sign?

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Speaker 1: Like what I mean?

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Speaker 3: It might if I in my defense, I you know,

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Speaker 3: like I don't remember being jabronk. I thought it was

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Speaker 3: just a little tipsy. I have no recollection of when

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Speaker 3: we had met before, but I did have a little

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Speaker 3: mean it could have happened during that time where I

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Speaker 3: was just trying to explode, you know, yeah, just how

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Speaker 3: me myself. But that was but that was so long ago.

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Speaker 3: That was so long ago. I mean, like, I mean,

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Speaker 3: you know, we had so much fun the other night.

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Speaker 3: Are you really are you really?

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Speaker 2: Like not? I will say, I'll say this, I didn't

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Speaker 2: up years ago. I don't think I was necessarily mean

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Speaker 2: few years ago than I do now. And there are

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Speaker 2: people that if I met them again, I might approach

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Speaker 2: it differently, or I might hope that maybe they didn't

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Speaker 2: have the experience they had before because that was years ago,

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Speaker 2: and I've sort of changed the way that I'm approaching things.

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Speaker 1: And doing things.

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Speaker 2: So I mean, you liked him enough, Tara, this version

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Speaker 2: of him, you guys, he doesn't go against the body count.

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Speaker 1: He's free, you know, So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, you didn't know you didn't like him

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Speaker 2: until you were reminded of this thing that neither one

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Speaker 2: is it wouldn't be the worst idea to consider giving

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Speaker 2: it wasn't the same now.

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Speaker 1: And if it was years ago, people do change.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know the fact it's saved as a whole,

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Speaker 4: you know, and like great, I can read the text.

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Speaker 4: It's it's going to be kind of hard to separate

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Speaker 1: But people grow up, do you? But do you do you.

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Speaker 3: Have other phone numbers in your phone where you name

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Speaker 3: people for the past. I mean that's InCred Like maybe.

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Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he was there, but you know, maybe you know,

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Speaker 2: so I save people.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I forgot the text you back and you just

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Speaker 3: decided to kind of call me that but I listen,

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Speaker 3: I was I was immature in my twenties, I will

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Speaker 3: admit that. But we had so much fun the other night.

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Speaker 3: I'm a different person. Are you literally gonna throw us

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Speaker 3: having a fun night with our dream date we plan away?

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Speaker 1: Are you guys gonna pay for it? Yeah? Yeah, for

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Speaker 1: the date?

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Speaker 2: Why not? What I mean, either he's paying for it

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Speaker 2: or we're paying. You're not paying for it, So what

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Speaker 2: difference does that make? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I'm like, it's worth of stot because.

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Speaker 2: If you had just deleted his number completely, then you

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Speaker 2: might not even know that this had ever happened. I

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Speaker 2: mean that mane deja vu. Maybe at some point remember it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's the thing I guess.

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Speaker 1: I guess.

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Speaker 2: How can you hold something against someone and you didn't

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Speaker 2: hang on to it enough to even remember? Like, I

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Speaker 2: don't normally defend people's poor behavior, but I can just say,

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Speaker 2: you know, from experience, I sometimes wish that people had

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Speaker 2: a different experience now, you know, than they did in

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Speaker 2: the past.

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Speaker 1: So why not let's not meet at a bar? Maybe

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Speaker 1: coffee or something. Yeah, stay sober, you too, so you

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Speaker 1: were remember, Let's do this again, you know, lock this

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Speaker 1: one down and remembory they're paying for it.

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Speaker 3: We're going to go for more than coffee. Let's go

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Speaker 3: to dinner. Okay, okay, whatelse.

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Speaker 4: Just remember I'm not a boozy bron There you go.

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Speaker 1: All right. So there we have it.

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Speaker 2: So we'll have to follow up and see how this goes.

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Speaker 2: But I wish you both the best of luck. We'll

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Speaker 2: get your info and and we'll make sure that we

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Speaker 2: uh well, that we pay for your data. I can't

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Speaker 2: wait to hear how this one goes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, me too, Hopefully remember it