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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you do need a place to park when

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Speaker 1: before you set up all the rubber bands and I

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Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: It's the tariffs. God, the tariffs on maximum strength rubber

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Speaker 2: Rubber bands they put on a sparagus. Those are the

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Speaker 1: Still not strong enough, expensive, not stronger, Jeff. But that

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Speaker 3: It's like, what hap, Leo?

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Speaker 1: Are the rubber band tariffs hitting you hard to or

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Speaker 1: did you rubber band yourself?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I'm still here. I'm doing all right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, where you get your extra strength rubber bands from.

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Speaker 4: I know you typically need to get a lot of them,

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Speaker 1: That's actually kind of smart.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got I got a drawer that I got

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Speaker 1: Actually share the wealth at some point. But hey, I

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Speaker 4: And Marissa?

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Speaker 1: Okay, where'd you meet her?

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Speaker 4: We matched on bumble and we connected over love of dogs.

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Speaker 4: You know, we have two dogs, and it's just we

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Speaker 1: One hundred and one Dalmatians, that movie like Goah. Okay,

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So when we matched at first, she was very

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, that's how you saved me. I was going

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Speaker 1: to say, that's how you saved money on your day

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was willing to spend it. It was her idea.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think it's impressive that you are good with

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't do that, but that's great that I'm sort

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Speaker 1: I love that when you're like naturally friends fortally. But

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Speaker 1: The say so take us to the flea market, though.

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Speaker 4: It went okay, which is better than okay, which is

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Speaker 4: So she was excited to be there too, and bargain

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Speaker 1: See, Yeah, what did you get into, Like a crate

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Speaker 4: It was good, And I know that sometimes for these things,

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Speaker 4: We each got one thing. I got a Fleetwood Mac

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: You know, if you think about it, this cheap date

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Speaker 2: Yeah, taxidermy is not cheap chip.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that didn't happen, thank god, not his house.

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Speaker 4: It's been about two weeks.

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Speaker 3: You've gone without a jacket for two weeks. That's sure.

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Speaker 1: It's not his only jacket, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Only favorite if you wore it, I know, and the

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Speaker 2: Oh man, this is dire, Jeffrey, I know, this is

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Speaker 1: We're going to reach out and call Marissa, try and

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Speaker 1: Friends ghost each other, right, yeah, I mean, I mean politely.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, eventually you get back together.

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Speaker 1: Alexis. If a friend wore the same outfit as you,

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Speaker 3: I'm usually one of copies my friend's outfit.

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Speaker 2: Maybe she's a terrible friend.

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Speaker 1: It is weird because our listener Leo has not heard

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Speaker 1: And the worst case scenario I'm thinking of is if

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Speaker 2: Sake, worn by the fox with the monocle.

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Speaker 1: Oh even worse, that would not be good. Leo. Have

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 6: I have not.

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Speaker 3: Okay, great jacket caper.

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Speaker 2: That's what she does to other jackets and then resell

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Speaker 1: See. Anything is possible, especially since she's the one that

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't think about.

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Speaker 1: That, abody.

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Speaker 2: You probably won't put a lot more thought into it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Why you come to the show creating creative Investigators.

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Speaker 6: Here's the thing, like, do we bring up the jacket

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Speaker 1: Is it more important that you get the jacket back

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Speaker 4: I gotta be honest, it's more important to me that

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Speaker 3: I mean she might want the jacket more than him too.

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Speaker 1: We don't know, if possible. Let's find out. I'm going

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Speaker 1: picks up. But here we go. Hello, Hey is this Marissa? Yes, ma, Hey,

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Speaker 1: this is probably the weirdest phone call you're gonna get

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Speaker 1: Yes, we're a show. We try to help out our

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Speaker 5: That's weird.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people don't get calls, but it's weird

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Speaker 2: We get understand why that would be strange strange call.

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Speaker 5: I've never heard this, So it's just.

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Speaker 1: So we're trying to help out our listener that you

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: You remember Leo.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Sorry, I'm like catching up right now. Okay, So

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Speaker 5: he called you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we we spoke to him before and he told

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Speaker 5: Okay, so he probably wants his jacket, I assume, so

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Speaker 5: I can just like leave it outside my place.

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Speaker 3: That's all your as the jacket. You're not focused on

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Speaker 5: I'm just not really into him.

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Speaker 2: But I thought that you just wanted to be friends.

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Speaker 5: There was one that said, don't talk about the X

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Speaker 2: Well, that's an important reminder that which should be number one.

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Speaker 5: There was something that said, a girl who don't like

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Speaker 6: I mean, but you don't see these things as just

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Speaker 5: I just think it's better to plan nice things than

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Speaker 5: You're kidding, You're kidding right now.

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Speaker 5: I can't believe you did that.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe tell me that effort. Wait your mandame

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Speaker 4: Right, not Leo.

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Speaker 5: I'm I don't even I'm upset. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It was my fault. It was my fault. I'll take

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, the good thing now is that you

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Speaker 5: Well, you also wrote on your little list remember to

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Speaker 5: The things that you're saying that you usually do and

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Speaker 4: You are, is what this list feels like. Marissa. I

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Speaker 5: No, No it didn't, And now you're just lying.

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Speaker 2: Listen, listen.

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Speaker 6: I mean, you've got a person here who really likes you,

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Speaker 5: I guess someone who doesn't have so many red flags

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Speaker 1: And I haven't heard him mention his ex girlfriend once

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Speaker 5: No, not really like this is not even like someone

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Speaker 5: I want to I just don't even don't care enough.

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Speaker 1: No, but you will hold onto his jacket for two weeks.

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Speaker 5: I'll put your jacket out at seven, come and get

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Speaker 1: Thank You're not even sure, Jose you in on doing better?

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