1 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: He's good. Welcome to Tuesday Show Mortan Studio morning. Hope 2 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: everybody's good. I'm good, We're good. Let's go first the 3 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 1: guy who seems like he's always good, very positive all 4 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: the time, unless occasionally he's not. And then we send 5 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 1: the therapy. That's right, everybody. Hey, guys, So I always 6 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: proud myself as like the parent that comes up with 7 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: like very unique discipline things for my kids. Right, you 8 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:36,319 Speaker 1: locked your kid in the bathroom once and made him 9 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: look at man in the mirror. Listen to listen to 10 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: the Michael Jackins song. Yeah, because look at himself in 11 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 1: the mirror, because it all starts with a man in 12 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 1: the mirror. Right. Okay, So the new one I have 13 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,919 Speaker 1: is called trash for trash. Lately, my kids have been 14 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,879 Speaker 1: walking around calling each other trash, like, oh you trash, bro, 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: you trash. They play games, Ah, you're trash, You're terrible, 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: and so all right, next time I hear one of 17 00:00:53,600 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 1: you guys call your brother trash, you're gonna take the 18 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: trash out for one week. I like it. WHOA, how's 19 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: it worked? Well? So good? It started like two days ago. 20 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:06,120 Speaker 1: No one has called anyone trash. I'm sure they're hearing 21 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 1: NBA players or people play basketball. That's the term, like 22 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 1: you're trash. That's what I get told when I play 23 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: NBA online by kids. Me too, But they had how 24 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,559 Speaker 1: do you know I'm old? My player looks young like yours. 25 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:21,320 Speaker 1: We can tell you old. Yeah, it hurts. My wife 26 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: was in there with me once and I had it 27 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: on speaker through my remote where you could hear the 28 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: people talking to me, and I was playing, and these 29 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: kids were like, you're trash, You're terrible. Hey, Bobby, you're trapped, 30 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:33,960 Speaker 1: and she just felt bad for me. She goes, oh, 31 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: I felt what it was like you get bullied. And 32 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, I was getting bullied like nine 33 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: and ten year olds, like you're trapped, and they say 34 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,919 Speaker 1: bad words. They say bad, bad words. All right, daddie, 35 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:48,040 Speaker 1: thank you. Up next, herr is ladies and gentlemen, lunchbog guys. 36 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 1: Usually I complain about my in laws, like how it's awkward. 37 00:01:51,200 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: My mother in law hits on me a lot. But 38 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you when they come and stay and 39 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: take care of my kids, they do an amazing job 40 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: of cleaning the house. I don't know what they do 41 00:01:59,720 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: if they feel bad for us where you come back 42 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: and they have everything spotless, all the laundry dumb, the 43 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: toy room cleaned up. It's amazing how with the three 44 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: kids they still have time to clean. But say thank 45 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:13,840 Speaker 1: you in laws for actually doing something, and I appreciate you. 46 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: Do you ever feel like you want to invite them 47 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:17,519 Speaker 1: just so the house gets cleaned? Absolutely? Yeah, I'm like, 48 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: I want them to come visit more often if they're 49 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 1: going to clean like that, Like, can they come in 50 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: on Tuesday and leave on a Wednesday? Plenty of time 51 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 1: for house cleaning in the middle? All right up next, Yeah, 52 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: she is Amy, Well, I'm starting to be that mom 53 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 1: that gets really worried watching her son play football because 54 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: the hits seem to be getting harder, and my son 55 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: is very timid when it comes to tackles and whatnot, 56 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:44,839 Speaker 1: and we keep telling him you have to go all 57 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: in or you're gonna get hurt. But now he just 58 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: lets them push him around. And I swear this last 59 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: game he had, he got knocked down so many times, 60 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 1: and I was so worried. But what I am most 61 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: proud of is every time he got knocked down, he 62 00:02:57,440 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: got right back up and still about that yeah, oh yeah, 63 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 1: I get knocked down. The good news is he's getting 64 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: hit all the time, because one, why is that good 65 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: news because that means he's in the game. That's right. 66 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: If he's on the sideline, you ain't getting hit. Also, 67 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: people would always tell me to go all in. Yeah right. 68 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:16,959 Speaker 1: I was small, not as small as Amy's son, the 69 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 1: smallest on the team, but it wasn't a whole lot bigger. 70 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: And I was like, no, I ain't going all in. 71 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: I'm going for ankles. And the only time that I 72 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:27,119 Speaker 1: would ever get just really nailed, it's if I caught 73 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:29,079 Speaker 1: the ball and had no choice and it doesn't hurt 74 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 1: that bad because you're running with the ball your adrenalines up. 75 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,239 Speaker 1: But defensively, He's like me, I give him some tips 76 00:03:33,480 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: when the ball care's coming at you. Oops, I slipped. 77 00:03:36,920 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: That's tip number one, and how not to get hurt. 78 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: All right, Amy, thank you, all right, Ray send me 79 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,119 Speaker 1: out buddy from Mountain Pine, Arkansas. In his yard sometimes 80 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 1: you'll see a fox in his house. Really rocks Bobby bones, 81 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Whatever like the extra effort. So 82 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 1: we ordered some food yesterday and it was said forty 83 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: minutes or so, which it often does on Uber Eats, 84 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,839 Speaker 1: and it gets there, I'm like forty two, and I'm like, dang, 85 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: I've gotta love it. And I do my tip ahead 86 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: of time, and if the service is really good or 87 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: they leave a little note or something, always up the tip. 88 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty generous on the tip anyway, 89 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 1: So I leave the tip and I go ahead, take 90 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 1: the food inside. A look in and everything's wrong and 91 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: the name says Richard on it for me. Okay, now, 92 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: accidents happened. I've had many jobs where at heck, on 93 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 1: this job, there's an accident, wants to well, I gotta 94 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: find a million dollars for that's a big one. So 95 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: I understand accidents. So there's now a button to get 96 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: hold of your driver back after they're done. So I 97 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 1: went back into it the same place you can tips 98 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: as contact your driver foot push a button. They go, 99 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: all right, please hold, we're gonn connect you with your 100 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 1: Uber Eats driver. Hello. I say, hey, man, I got 101 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: Richard's order. You just leve the house, so you have 102 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: ours still, And I think, come get this one. Don't 103 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: take it to Richard because you only left like four 104 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 1: minutes ago. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, I'll be right there. 105 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:57,000 Speaker 1: I've right there. Cool, I'm waiting waiting if you never 106 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: showed up, never saying all, never showed up to get 107 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,279 Speaker 1: Richard's order. So we have Richard's order at our house. 108 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: You still have. We're thrown it away since now, but 109 00:05:05,320 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: I called him? Did they just not care? I don't 110 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: think then? What was he going to leave my order 111 00:05:09,279 --> 00:05:11,799 Speaker 1: at Richard? Probably? Was he just gonna go home because 112 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: he didn't have Richard's order? Now that's crazy. So what 113 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 1: would you have done about the tip? Because you can 114 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 1: go back in and change it? Oh, take it back? 115 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: Would you take it back fully? And then would you 116 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 1: say something like I thought the thumbs up thumbs down, 117 00:05:23,120 --> 00:05:26,400 Speaker 1: which thumbs down thumbs down? Take the whole tip back 118 00:05:26,440 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: because you didn't get what you ordered, So they didn't know. 119 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: And I called him and talked to him exactly. This 120 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: is what's up on the way that Yeah, yeah, yeah, 121 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,599 Speaker 1: revoke it? Yeah? What would you have done? No, I'm 122 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: just gonna get my money back from wherever I ordered 123 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 1: from and leave everything with him the same because he 124 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: knows where I live. I didn't get my money back. 125 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 1: I'm so you can do that. You can do it now. 126 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,039 Speaker 1: The order was wrong, money back, they refund you, so 127 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: fack can you prove that now? Though that's been a while. 128 00:05:50,560 --> 00:05:52,599 Speaker 1: Again a thumbs down. I didn't write anything, I said. 129 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: I did a thumbs down and and I tipped in 130 00:05:56,440 --> 00:06:01,720 Speaker 1: fifteen percent, twenty or thirty okay, not bad? What what 131 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 1: I would I would have gotten my money back from 132 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: the restaurant. I didn't do that. And no, no tip 133 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: and thumbs down and yelp review. I already felt like 134 00:06:08,800 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 1: I was really doing them wrong by going thumbs down 135 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: on it and cutting his tip. And then poor Richard 136 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: never got it, never got his food. If you're listening, bro, 137 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: we got your biscuits? Was his food good? Like? Could 138 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: you have eaten it? I'm not eating somebody else. It 139 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:23,719 Speaker 1: just felt weird. Yeah, so no, we didn't need it 140 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: had some meat on it that we ended up giving ella. Yeah, 141 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: if you taught the driver nothing now he thinks, man 142 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: this house. If I ever get the order again, I 143 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,679 Speaker 1: just leave the wrong order and I get fifteen percent. 144 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: Well that was the situation I did. I'm so dumb. 145 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:36,159 Speaker 1: I didn't think if I getting my money back. But 146 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: I can now, Yeah, I can log in, I go 147 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: now and try to get them back. All right, all right, 148 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: glad you guys are here. That's what's up with us 149 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: this morning. It's time to open up the mail bag 150 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:53,719 Speaker 1: yet something we call Bobby. Hello, Bobby Bones. My boyfriend 151 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:55,599 Speaker 1: and I've been together for nearly a year. We started 152 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,120 Speaker 1: to talk about a future and even buying a place together. 153 00:06:58,640 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: I honestly couldn't be happy beer with the way things 154 00:07:01,000 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: are going, and I'm completely secure in our relationship except 155 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 1: for one thing. He has a clock that hangs in 156 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 1: a prominent place in his living room that has his 157 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: last name on it, with established in the year he 158 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: married his ex wife. That's bizarre. He explained before that 159 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: it was a wedding get from one of his family members, 160 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: and he just really likes the clock. I don't have 161 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: any reason to believe he still has any feelings for 162 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: his ex wife or regrets their divorce. I think he 163 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: does just really like the clock, but I do not 164 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 1: since it's not my house. Would I'll be overstepping if 165 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: I ask him to get rid of the clock? Do 166 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 1: I wait and see if he'll eventually get rid of it? 167 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: What do you think? Thanks so much? Signed? Thinking it's 168 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: time to let go, well, he has to get rid 169 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:49,320 Speaker 1: of this clock, especially if it has a reference to 170 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,040 Speaker 1: him and his ex wife getting married. It's weird. I 171 00:07:52,040 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: don't care if he likes the clock. I'm gonna say this. 172 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: If you're gonna wait for him to get rid of 173 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: the clock, he'll never do it because he'll never think 174 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 1: of it like that. Right. Sometimes we as guys have 175 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: to be told why we're making bad decisions. Sometimes we 176 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: are making bad decisions. And I think if you say 177 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: to him, hey, that clock makes me feel ucomfortable because 178 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 1: of that established I think he'll probably take it down. 179 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: If he doesn't, I think he's not valuing your feelings 180 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:19,680 Speaker 1: over his own like of the clock, because he could 181 00:08:19,680 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: also think that the reason you're saying it is dumb. 182 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: But what he should value over that is your feelings. Exactly, 183 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,080 Speaker 1: even if he thinks, well, that's dumb, I like the clock. 184 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,959 Speaker 1: Even if he thinks that, he should still value the 185 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: fact that you are uncomfortable with it over the fact 186 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: that he likes the clock. And it's probably the establishing 187 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: that's really because their eyes have to see that, and 188 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 1: that's what makes her think of it. Because you have 189 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: to think if someone shared their life with someone else, 190 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: and there's things they acquired, like, I don't know, did 191 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: you and your ex wife have that chair? What about 192 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: the dishes? There could be lots of things that fall 193 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: into that category, and you can't get rid of everything. 194 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: But I think it's that established. Absolutely. It is the 195 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 1: thing that's bothering her. If you tell him you're uncomfortable 196 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: with it, he should take it down, regardless of how 197 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: he feels about it. That's it. He may think it's dumb, 198 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: he may think it's the stupidest thing ever, but he 199 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: should value your feelings over that lunchbox. It's easy. You 200 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 1: want to clean that clock, right, so you get up there, 201 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,559 Speaker 1: you start cleaning. Oh, accidentally knocked it down. It broke 202 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 1: Probably is if you already let him know you didn't 203 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: like that. I was gonna say, if you haven't told 204 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: you don't like it, that's the only way. If you 205 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: don't have that conversation, then you can accidentally break it, 206 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: and then there never has to be this awkward conversation. 207 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 1: And it's all good because the clock's gone and you 208 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 1: buy him a new clock, or you just dress all 209 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: in black. Oh and in the middle of the night 210 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: come with a flashlight. You go and you yeah, you 211 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: sneak and you break in, steal it, you get out. 212 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: He never knows it was you. Now he may have 213 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: some PTSD about people breaking into his house and that's 214 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 1: the whole thing. It would be a good feeling, though, 215 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 1: if he just did it on his own and like 216 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: one day she walked in and it wasn't there. My 217 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,319 Speaker 1: boyfriend in college he had a picture of him and 218 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:56,079 Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend up on his nightstand and we were dating. 219 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:57,840 Speaker 1: We weren't like official. Why would he ever have that 220 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: if he's dating started dating heat again. This is to 221 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: your point, Bobby, of like sometimes boys just don't think 222 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,920 Speaker 1: of what it is. But I remember one day like 223 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,200 Speaker 1: going into his room and suddenly the picture was gone. 224 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: And I never said anything about it, but it like, 225 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: to me, it felt good. I was like, oh, we're 226 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: probably now more official. Like he realized, Oh shoot, I 227 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: probably shouldn't have this picture up. This is weird. Were 228 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: you guys ever official? Yeah? Ok, yeah, we were official? 229 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 1: She said no, now we never. But I'm just saying 230 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: it feels good. If the guy could figure it out 231 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: on his own too, the clock should come down, even 232 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,280 Speaker 1: if he thinks it's dumb. He should value you over 233 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 1: the clock. Yeah, thank you for the email. If you 234 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 1: want to email us, it's very easy. More again, what's 235 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: the address mailbag at Bobby Bones dot com. Right, thank you, guys, 236 00:10:40,320 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: got your cloth. I'm want to bring on Brian Swanson 237 00:10:49,760 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: because he removes animals but he doesn't kill them. And 238 00:10:52,960 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 1: so I did an episode of Breaking Bobby Bones with 239 00:10:55,040 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 1: with Brian. Hey, Brian, good morning, good morning? Are you 240 00:10:57,520 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 1: hey pretty good? I got a question for you. We 241 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:03,480 Speaker 1: got some foxes and it's a whole family of them, 242 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: multiple and they've been in our yard. And one of 243 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,839 Speaker 1: my dogs is a hound dog and she's oh all 244 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: the time. And there are little dead animals all in 245 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: my yard too, like little rats and little these foxes, 246 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:19,200 Speaker 1: I guess gather. And so I'd mentioned on the show 247 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 1: that I want to get rid of the foxes, but 248 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: I don't want to kill them, and then people said 249 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: to me, why would you want to get rid of 250 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:26,440 Speaker 1: the foxes? So can I ask you that first? Why 251 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:28,439 Speaker 1: would I want to get rid of these foxes? If 252 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: your dogs in danger, like if your dog goes to 253 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: attack the fox, and that could be an issue. You know, 254 00:11:35,920 --> 00:11:38,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how big your dog is. But they 255 00:11:38,520 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: do hold their own and they do carry rabies, so 256 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: that that would be a reason to get rid of 257 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: the foxes. I mean, that's enough right there, right the 258 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: rabies and do foxes? What are these little mice or 259 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:52,599 Speaker 1: a little rodents? Do they kill a little things and 260 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,520 Speaker 1: drag it to their home? What's happening in my yard? 261 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: You know? Yeah? Believe any a little present. I don't 262 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: like the present. One of the worst presents I've ever had. 263 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: They all rolled together, and I was talking to my 264 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: wife about trying to get rid of them, and she 265 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to get rid of them 266 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: if we have to kill them, And I said, so 267 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: you'd rather leave them? She goes, I'd rather take them, 268 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 1: trap them as a family, and then put them in 269 00:12:13,760 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 1: the woods as a family. Do you have like a 270 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 1: family trapping kit or something, Brian. So when we re 271 00:12:18,760 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: all cater animals, we always try and bring them to 272 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:24,000 Speaker 1: the same place. So, yeah, if if we set enough traps, 273 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 1: we can generally get most of the family together. But yeah, 274 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: we always that's one of our omissions is always to 275 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 1: keep a family together. Okay, well, I'm gonna have to 276 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,400 Speaker 1: get you out of my house to try to trap 277 00:12:36,480 --> 00:12:40,959 Speaker 1: these foxes or something because they're morning night Eddie seen them. 278 00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:42,959 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're one of them. They roll, they're big. 279 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: I think they're getting bigger than in fighting friends over them. 280 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: It's like a house parties, Like, I don't know what 281 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:50,319 Speaker 1: to do. How harder foxes to trap? They are one 282 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 1: of the most difficult animals to trap. They're they're very 283 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: big on scent, so if they smell anything that spooks them, 284 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: they're not going to go anywhere that trap is there. 285 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,079 Speaker 1: Any way I can just be friends with them like that, 286 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 1: I form a bond like everybody's zigs, and they trap 287 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 1: them and get rid of them where they can. What 288 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,199 Speaker 1: if I like zag and I leave little treats and 289 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: little notes that' say guys, chill anybody. I mean, they 290 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: might be receptive. I mean they are leaving you gifts. 291 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: I mean, so they reached out first. Okay, so then 292 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: I can I can call you and maybe you can 293 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:27,719 Speaker 1: come over and trap these things for me. We could 294 00:13:27,720 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: be there today a little quick wow, you're not good byes? First? 295 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: You know, I didn't. We didn't have a moment. We 296 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: spent like five months over at the house, like trying 297 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: to get rid of them. What you can say, well, 298 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:39,959 Speaker 1: that's sweet. Did you hear what he said? I never 299 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: thought of it this way. They're bringing you gifts when 300 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,400 Speaker 1: they leave you the mice. It's a gift team probably 301 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: doesn't want. But they're ripped in half and their eyes 302 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:49,839 Speaker 1: are ripped out and half eaten. But Brian saying, that's 303 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 1: a that's a thing, right, that's what cats do. They 304 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 1: bring home little treats. They don't have money, they have 305 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: they have mice and that Abby has some questions for Brian, which, 306 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: by the way, you guys can go to Animals Removed 307 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: dot com. That's Brian's company where they specialize in trapping 308 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 1: animals and then humanely putting them back out in nature, 309 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: not killing them. Abby, what would you like to ask Brian? 310 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 1: What if you find like an injured animal in your yard, 311 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: or like a baby without its mom, what do you 312 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 1: what are you supposed to do? So it depends on 313 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: where you live. But there's this amazing place called Walden's Puddle. 314 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: Therew up in Jolton, Tennessee, and they rehab wildlife, either 315 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: orphaned babies or injured animals, everything from you know. They 316 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: have owls there, they have beer they have everything. So 317 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 1: if you find something that's injured or orphaned and they 318 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 1: can help and there they're literally angels out there. We 319 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:45,320 Speaker 1: go out there volunteer and help them out as much 320 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 1: as we can, but they take care of all that. 321 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: What else you have for them? Okay? So I got 322 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:52,000 Speaker 1: back from vacation once and I got home and I 323 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: have a wreath on my front door, and there was 324 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 1: a bird's nest with like four eggs in it. And 325 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: I was like, if I move it, well the mom 326 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:00,800 Speaker 1: ever come back. So didn't touch it, and then it 327 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 1: was on my front door and I was going in 328 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 1: and out, so but would it have come back if 329 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:08,720 Speaker 1: I did move it? Technically, Um, there's only three species 330 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: of birds that you can even touch their eggs, pigeons, 331 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: startling and sparrows. If there's any other species, you can 332 00:15:15,360 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: get in big trouble, even like just a blue jay 333 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: or robin. They're all protected. Um, so you have to 334 00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 1: leave them. Ms would usually come back and uh and 335 00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: and take care of them. So what does that mean 336 00:15:27,360 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: you leave it forever? They just own. It's a squatter. 337 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: They just live in your house, they live on your door. 338 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:35,760 Speaker 1: Now that's it species. And they made a nest and 339 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: they're there. That sucks. And what does he mean like 340 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:43,440 Speaker 1: big trouble, jail time? Yeah, fine, probably yeah things And wow, 341 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 1: if there's a bird, there's a blue jay on my 342 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 1: front door. They built a nest. Do I call somebody 343 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 1: or do I just go well that sucks? Well, that sucks. 344 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: Have you one more question for Brian? How do you 345 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 1: get over like a fear or a phobia of like snakes, lizards, frogs, 346 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: like any any moving creature or bugs outside? So that's 347 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,440 Speaker 1: funny you ask because I'm teaching my son. Um. That's so. 348 00:16:10,680 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: My son's four years old and he caught his first snake. 349 00:16:14,200 --> 00:16:17,200 Speaker 1: This is last week in our garage. So we had 350 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:19,000 Speaker 1: the garage door open. A snake must have got him. 351 00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:23,520 Speaker 1: It was like a tiny milk snake, um sticking around 352 00:16:23,520 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 1: as a pencil. But he caught it and he's holding 353 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: it and I'm like, I said to him, it's gonna 354 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: bite you, but it won't hurt, so you let it 355 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:35,440 Speaker 1: bite him. He went first, went like ah, and he's 356 00:16:35,480 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 1: like wait, it doesn't hurt, and he started laughing. I said, 357 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: it's right, So not all snakes are bad. There's only 358 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 1: here in Tennessee. When my four species that are venomous. 359 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:50,160 Speaker 1: But so he he's already over his furious snakes. He's 360 00:16:50,360 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 1: wanting to go hunt and find snakes with me now, 361 00:16:53,440 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: So if you're there, you go. No foxes, okay, everybody's okay. 362 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: So we learned a lot about animals, and I learned 363 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 1: we've got to get Brian out of the house to 364 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:08,400 Speaker 1: get rid of these boxes humanely. Animals Remove dot Com 365 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: is Brian's website. Brian Swanson of Complete Animal Removal. Brian, 366 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,200 Speaker 1: thank you for your time and your knowledge, and I 367 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:19,439 Speaker 1: will be seeing you soon. Sounds great. All right there, 368 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 1: all right, Brian, see a buddy, It's time for the 369 00:17:23,160 --> 00:17:30,200 Speaker 1: good news. There's a family in South Carolina that was 370 00:17:30,280 --> 00:17:33,119 Speaker 1: really freaking out because they're six year old. Jonathan Millard 371 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 1: had gone out the back door and wandered off into 372 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 1: the woods and it was about four o'clock at night, 373 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 1: it was about to get dark, and they had no 374 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:42,119 Speaker 1: idea where he was. Well, Jonathan has autism, and so 375 00:17:42,359 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 1: they called the Sheriff's department, so we really need help 376 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 1: to find him. And they were worried because when they 377 00:17:46,880 --> 00:17:48,720 Speaker 1: showed up and volunteers showed up and they were doing 378 00:17:48,760 --> 00:17:51,399 Speaker 1: a little search party. They said that with autism, you 379 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 1: really can't yell his name as strangers because he'll see 380 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,040 Speaker 1: that as like, oh no, these are strangers. I'm going 381 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:58,960 Speaker 1: to go the other way. So they were really having 382 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: a hard time finding him him and no one was 383 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 1: really yelling his name. Well, a couple of volunteers that 384 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 1: were there, they had this thermal vision binoculars where you 385 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 1: can look in the woods and just detect things by 386 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:12,000 Speaker 1: the temperature of their body. They spotted Jonathan and we're 387 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: able to get them home safely just because they had 388 00:18:14,280 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 1: these binoculars. It's pretty cool and good. They knew that 389 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:19,359 Speaker 1: too about yelling like strangers yelling, yeah, because I would 390 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,480 Speaker 1: have just been yelling and then that needs to be 391 00:18:21,560 --> 00:18:24,880 Speaker 1: communicated everyone. I had some of those thermal glasses when 392 00:18:24,920 --> 00:18:28,119 Speaker 1: we were shooting our nat GEO show Breaking Bobby Bones, 393 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: which you can watch on Disney Plus. We were in 394 00:18:30,960 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 1: Montana and it was nighttime and we had to make 395 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 1: sure that the sheep didn't get attacked by wolves or bears. 396 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: So you would look in these to see if there's 397 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,120 Speaker 1: any animals coming at night, and we saw a huge 398 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,360 Speaker 1: bear and what is it, like a red blob it's 399 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: a white blob, a white blob. It was huge, and 400 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: I laid them down and said, saved me, protect me. 401 00:18:50,640 --> 00:18:52,040 Speaker 1: I supposed to protect the sheet, but I was like this, 402 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: Saint con, I don't help me. I don't want to 403 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: die doing a show. But we watched it on the 404 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: blob for a while and then the blob went away. Wow. 405 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: But we think the sheep were calling it in. But 406 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,639 Speaker 1: then it's it hurt or smelled us or something. But 407 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 1: those are pretty cool. That's really cool. I've never seen 408 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 1: those things before. Yeah, that's a great story. That's what 409 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:11,760 Speaker 1: it's all about. Right there. That was tell me something good. 410 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 1: Who's gonna make this a regular segment where I come 411 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: on and talk about scams, scams that are taking advantage 412 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 1: of folks. They I'm super interested in them one because 413 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:23,960 Speaker 1: some of them are really good. But I just don't 414 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: want you guys falling for it. If it's the blue 415 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,000 Speaker 1: check mark, if it's a Nigerian prince. There's just every 416 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 1: kind of scam out there. This is one I got 417 00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 1: so and this is pretty sophisticated. I got a call 418 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: saying an order for an iPhone have been placed on 419 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: my Amazon account, and a lot of people have Amazon accounts, 420 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 1: a lot of people have iPhones, and so I looked 421 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: it up. I knew I didn't order an iPhone on 422 00:19:42,720 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 1: my Amazon account, but they're both so generic and things 423 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:48,600 Speaker 1: that a lot of people have to They're just playing 424 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 1: a numbers game here, and so this is what's happening. 425 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:53,959 Speaker 1: So here's a clip of the call I got here. 426 00:19:54,000 --> 00:19:57,280 Speaker 1: You go Places for Half a lifehone eleven pro using 427 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 1: your Amazon account. If you do not author disorder, press 428 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 1: one for press two to authorize disorder. So they're looking 429 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 1: for you to push a button, either one because the 430 00:20:06,280 --> 00:20:07,639 Speaker 1: other one's going to take you to somebody who's in 431 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:10,399 Speaker 1: trying to get your information. Yeah, so first I go, 432 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 1: I didn't order a phone, and then it's an iPhone 433 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,239 Speaker 1: eleven and I'm like, well a criminals like an order 434 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,639 Speaker 1: an eleven? What are they doing? Ranked from twenty eighteen? 435 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:21,000 Speaker 1: So it's a scam. Just no, they're just trying to 436 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: get you to push a button because they're gonna get 437 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 1: someone on to talk with you. What kind of dirty 438 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 1: dog is this on the phone? Their jobs trying to 439 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,680 Speaker 1: scam you out of your information. And so you get 440 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: on and they go, hey, we need to access to 441 00:20:32,760 --> 00:20:34,280 Speaker 1: your account so we can get in to cancel it. 442 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,399 Speaker 1: Don't fall for that, no, no, So what do you do? 443 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:38,160 Speaker 1: Just hang up on them, hang half on them? Okay, 444 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,639 Speaker 1: don't press buttons, hang up iPhone eleven. Guys, for as 445 00:20:41,680 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 1: sophisticated as that is, we need to up that up 446 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:45,359 Speaker 1: like it's times that bit your system like a thirteen 447 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: or a fourteen. This woman thirty three years old is 448 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,960 Speaker 1: scammed out of eighty five thousand dollars by a Nigerian 449 00:20:51,080 --> 00:20:56,040 Speaker 1: fraudster posing as a hunky Greek widower on Hinge who 450 00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: wrote her a love poem that she later discovered was 451 00:20:58,760 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 1: stolen from the internet. It's just one after the must 452 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: have been a good poem. Well, you know usually when 453 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 1: this happened, it's like an eighty year old. Yeah, she's vulnerable, 454 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,760 Speaker 1: but she was talking with a Nigerian scammer who had 455 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 1: tricked her into trusting him and even sent a poem. 456 00:21:12,400 --> 00:21:13,760 Speaker 1: And you know when you go poem, you go, that's 457 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:16,919 Speaker 1: full love. Yeah, man, that's full vulnerability. I'd probably get 458 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,879 Speaker 1: money too, and I wrote me a poem. Hey, Abby, 459 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: can you talk to me for a second about these 460 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: dating apps? So you were on Hinge or you are 461 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:28,280 Speaker 1: on hinge right, that's that your app of choice? And 462 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:30,200 Speaker 1: so how would she have met this guy? Is it 463 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:32,719 Speaker 1: still a swipe right like both pictures? Does she get 464 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: to message him first? Does he message her first? Yes? No, 465 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 1: that's the one where like if you both swipe right 466 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,160 Speaker 1: on each other, then you can message each other, okay, 467 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 1: like comment on a picture? And has anyone ever sent 468 00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 1: you a poem? No? Oh? Poem? Has anyone ever asked 469 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 1: for money? Huh? Are you on right now? Yes? Any luck? Inactive? No? Oh? Inactive? 470 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,160 Speaker 1: Have you shut your account down? No, it's still on there. 471 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: I just haven't been looking or swiping or anything. So 472 00:21:57,640 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 1: how often do you get on the app? Oh? When 473 00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm bored? Okay, but I mean not that much. Back 474 00:22:03,119 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: around to it, because she said she's not looking or swiping, 475 00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,119 Speaker 1: but you do look. Well, it's been like a week. Okay, 476 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: when the last time you went out with someone from hinge? Um, 477 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: that was the last one, that coffee date that was 478 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,640 Speaker 1: not good? Who told you he had other multiple dates? Yes? 479 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,120 Speaker 1: And he tried to give her food from his last 480 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: date and donuts or something. Yeah, it's like, oh, I 481 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: guess we could go through with the buck of my truck. 482 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, what do you see how someone could fall 483 00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:27,399 Speaker 1: for a trickster on Hinge? I don't think so. No, 484 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 1: I don't fall for that. So I don't think I 485 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,280 Speaker 1: would fall for it. If you did, would you be 486 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,200 Speaker 1: embarrassed to tell us? Yeah, you wouldn't tell us. No, 487 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,959 Speaker 1: I don't think I wouldn't any chance any of those 488 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:41,440 Speaker 1: guys were fake Nigerian frodsters. Huh. I think it's pretty 489 00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 1: obvious when they are, because they usually have like typos 490 00:22:44,320 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: and you know, so it's like, Okay, this is weird. 491 00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: They're talking in a weird way. How many guys have 492 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,119 Speaker 1: you met on Hinge and went on a date with? 493 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,520 Speaker 1: I think only one? That guy, that's the only one. 494 00:22:52,560 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: What about the guy that like choked and almost died? 495 00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:58,159 Speaker 1: Oh that was like organic that I'm at or he 496 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:00,520 Speaker 1: slid into my DMS. Oh well yeah, I guess is 497 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: that organic? Now? So it's not an APPA, she's another 498 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: digital place, right? Well, he saw me thing and bobby Fest. 499 00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,600 Speaker 1: I never said that, you never said so. Now he 500 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 1: watched you, yes the listener at bobby Fest and then 501 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: messaged you from the stage basically going I think you're hot. Later, No, 502 00:23:21,400 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: he was just like, oh, you killed it up there, 503 00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:24,280 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh cool, but you're in Kansas. 504 00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,440 Speaker 1: So and then I ignored him for like five months 505 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: and then finally I was like, Okay, oh you're cute, 506 00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 1: but you saved it what He came back five months later, 507 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: but he kind of like slid into my dams on 508 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,679 Speaker 1: various you know stories I had. You never told us 509 00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 1: he was watching a show. I didn't. I don't know why. 510 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 1: I just did. He let the truth come out? You 511 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: it was a loser like we thought, I know, but 512 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: he didn't act that way. Did she tell us he 513 00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,520 Speaker 1: wasn't to listen? Because I said, the only reason he 514 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 1: wants to go to Florida is because he wants to 515 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,080 Speaker 1: meet Bobby and have backstage passes and come to Florida. 516 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,439 Speaker 1: Then mom, and then guess what. They broke up right 517 00:23:58,480 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 1: after he got to come to Florida. And Oh, that's 518 00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:09,719 Speaker 1: all they wanted. That's all they wanted to meet Bobby. Okay, 519 00:24:10,000 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: he did slide. My DM said, that's cute. I guess 520 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: you first. Okay, sorry to bring that up. More background 521 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,359 Speaker 1: on hinge. Don't they hinge to leave their voice? And 522 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 1: a guy can be like hey, Mike, and I'm just 523 00:24:21,400 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 1: like for a girl that likes to hang out and 524 00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,199 Speaker 1: do party stuff. Yeah, you can do that. They can 525 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:27,159 Speaker 1: answer with their voice, so I like that I can 526 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:30,280 Speaker 1: know what they sound like. Cool, it's creepycause I never 527 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: leave like a small voice thing that doesn't sound creepy. 528 00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 1: It's like, what are your hobbies? Fantasy football? That doesn't 529 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:41,680 Speaker 1: that in every way it sounds creepy. All right, Abby, 530 00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,120 Speaker 1: thank you, Sorry that happened to you. But you're looking 531 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: still organic, only organic, so that means ms okay. Finally, 532 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: a woman pays for a Russian astronaut to return to 533 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:56,760 Speaker 1: Earth in a scam. Wow. That level at least are 534 00:24:56,800 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: investigating whether a woman was scammed and descending around thirty 535 00:24:59,640 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 1: thousand all or to a person who claimed to be 536 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: an astronaut or come on, I don't even need to 537 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: launch this investigation launch thank you. Working at the International 538 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,240 Speaker 1: Space Station and needing money to return to Earth, I 539 00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: mean you got to have I just can't get back 540 00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:18,240 Speaker 1: to Earth without your money. That is crazy day. But 541 00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 1: the person continue to ask for money. After she was like, mmm, 542 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:23,439 Speaker 1: I don't know if I have anymore, they said, well, 543 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 1: we need landing fees. Now, like we got enough to 544 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: get down, but we need landing fees. That's crazy. I mean, 545 00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 1: you're gonna give someone money to come back to earth. 546 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:38,479 Speaker 1: You're just begging to give money away. That that stinks 547 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: for her. She's sixty five, that's not eighty five or ninety. 548 00:25:43,119 --> 00:25:46,639 Speaker 1: You know, the vulnerability does it doesn't discriminate that we're 549 00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:51,200 Speaker 1: gonna be a little smarter than that. Sensitive. But come on, 550 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: all right, that's what's up. Thank you guys. Sometimes an 551 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,359 Speaker 1: artist superstar will just call one of our hotline numbers. 552 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: And right now it looks like Ashley McBride is on 553 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: the phone, which pretty cool. I haven't talked to Ashley 554 00:26:01,080 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 1: in a while. Everybody, what's happened in Ashley? What do 555 00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 1: we owe this appearance? Too? Well? We've been trying to 556 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 1: get in touch with you about your car warranty. Funny, 557 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: real funny. Yeah, I'm all good on the warranty. I 558 00:26:16,160 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: bought two in the last couple of weeks, so I 559 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: should be pretty good. I was wondering if you were 560 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 1: in a position to where you know, you could receive 561 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,920 Speaker 1: some good news. Let me check real quick, okay, I 562 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,720 Speaker 1: mean I'm in the good news spot. What are you 563 00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: going to let me know here? Well, congratulations because W 564 00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 1: six is the CMA Broadcast Award winner for Large Market 565 00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:38,920 Speaker 1: Station of the Year. Okay, okay, thank you so right? 566 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,560 Speaker 1: How about that? And congratulation Bobby Bone Show because you 567 00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:47,160 Speaker 1: are the CMA Broadcast Award winner for Daily National Personality. Okay. 568 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: I was like, I care that much about station? Okay, listen, 569 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, how about that? I give that 570 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 1: a solid sea. But then they said us, We're like, 571 00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:04,920 Speaker 1: let's go. That means party. What We're gonna have a 572 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: celebratory party. Like when artists get number one, they have 573 00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,040 Speaker 1: a number one party. So, uh, we have a have 574 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: a party. Well that's I did not expect this. And honestly, 575 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:14,679 Speaker 1: when she told me the radio station, I thought, how 576 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: am I going to awkwardly get out of the segments 577 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 1: as well? On a lot of radio stations. I don't know, 578 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 1: But well, that's really cool. Good. Let me shout out 579 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: Gator Harrison, our program director. That's the first crush is 580 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,000 Speaker 1: it here? And then Ashley, Hey, Ashley, can I ask 581 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: you a couple of questions while you're on? Sure? Okay, 582 00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 1: so you go on. I believe it was CBS this morning. 583 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 1: And when Garth invited you to be a member of 584 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 1: the opery, did you not know that was coming at all? No, 585 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: not at all. I knew that I was going to 586 00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,520 Speaker 1: talk about the Lindyville record and that I was going 587 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 1: to be talking about the horse accident. Um. I definitely 588 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: did so that that was going to happen, because that's 589 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:47,320 Speaker 1: not how opera invitations normally happened. Nor did I know 590 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 1: they had secretly flown my mother in so that that 591 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 1: was when I started ugly crying. Oh, that's awesome. So 592 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 1: I've seen a lot about your new record, and like 593 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,199 Speaker 1: my friend Kaylee, I mean, I have friends that are 594 00:27:58,200 --> 00:27:59,680 Speaker 1: on this record and they didn't tell anything about it 595 00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:01,720 Speaker 1: while they were recording it. What is this project that 596 00:28:01,960 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: you're putting out? Ashley mcgrad Vince Lindyville. I figured I 597 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,360 Speaker 1: would get some friends together and we would do a thing. 598 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 1: It all started with the sentence you know what would 599 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 1: be cool, and then we did this thing that would 600 00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,280 Speaker 1: be cool, and then after that were like, you know 601 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: what we should do. We should make it a record. 602 00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:18,120 Speaker 1: Even if we don't put it out, we told still 603 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 1: make it a record. And what's the difference, What's the 604 00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: difference in this project and like another project where you 605 00:28:22,320 --> 00:28:23,920 Speaker 1: were just inspired to write a bunch of songs about 606 00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,639 Speaker 1: something in your life. We noticed that over the years 607 00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:29,920 Speaker 1: a several of Lett Hayford and Aaron ray Tier and 608 00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,359 Speaker 1: myself and Connie Harrington, like we'd noticed that we had 609 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: these weird characters that popped up on different people's records. 610 00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,800 Speaker 1: Sometimes it was on mine, sometimes would be on something 611 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:40,280 Speaker 1: Aaron was doing or Nicolette was doing. We thought we 612 00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: would take those characters and give them neighbors and a 613 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:46,120 Speaker 1: place to live, and we wound up naming that town Lindyville, 614 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:48,480 Speaker 1: and Lyndyville is out now, by the way, and a friend, 615 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: Kelley hammocks on it and I saw her in a 616 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:51,760 Speaker 1: group picture and I was like, I didn't hear anything 617 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 1: about this, and when you guys were, you know, promoting 618 00:28:55,480 --> 00:28:57,280 Speaker 1: that it was coming out. So hey, look, I know 619 00:28:57,320 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: you didn't expect to be interviewed and we didn't expect 620 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 1: you to call, so we're also it's how about that? 621 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: Ye here? All right? Dad? Hey Ashley, great to talk 622 00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 1: to you. Congratulations on the Opery invite, that's really special 623 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,200 Speaker 1: and the new record, and congratulations to us. But went 624 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:15,000 Speaker 1: in the award. Here yourself. We already dot the party. 625 00:29:15,320 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: Yeah all right, actually have a good day too, by guys. 626 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: All right, bye bye. Did I not react properly to 627 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: the station thing? I just thought that I reacted the 628 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,480 Speaker 1: way I was thinking. I did not know that Ashley 629 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:27,120 Speaker 1: mcrid i was gonna call us. And then she's like 630 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: six one Station of the Year. I'm like, I'm not 631 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: the station guy, that's not your award, and I thought 632 00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:33,240 Speaker 1: they're calling the wrong person. They just called the radio 633 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 1: station and we answer right, So that's a Gator Harrison 634 00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: huh who's station manager. Does a great job. I love him. 635 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,720 Speaker 1: But I was like, that ain't me. And then I 636 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:44,920 Speaker 1: knew that we had been nominated, and I was like, uh, 637 00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: what about it us? And then she went and I 638 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 1: was like, oh, thank god. Okay, so it's kind of awkward, 639 00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:51,400 Speaker 1: but in the end it's good. Yeah, it's awesome. I'm 640 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 1: here's everybody who's gonna get a trophy? Oh, because we 641 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:55,880 Speaker 1: thought would be funny. Now it's gonna get awkward and 642 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 1: list everybody. No, no, no, it's awkward at all. It's 643 00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,400 Speaker 1: the opposite. Here we go, who's gonna trophy? Um for 644 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,800 Speaker 1: CMA me, thank you. Amy yep, Eddie yep. Lunchbox yet yeah, 645 00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:11,880 Speaker 1: Morgan yep, Ray yep, Scooba, Steve yep, mighty yep, Abby yep. 646 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: I mean it's a whole, it's everybody's amazing. Yeah, they 647 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,640 Speaker 1: don't be like I mean because in years past, which 648 00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,160 Speaker 1: has been like three or four of us, and like 649 00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 1: that's got to be expensive for them to buy all 650 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: those tropes. Loss you know what? Awesome, No, I love it. 651 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:28,200 Speaker 1: It's just they're probably like, okay, ching ching, so yes, 652 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 1: super pumped. Everybody gives a real life trophy this year 653 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:31,800 Speaker 1: because everybody deserves it on this show, you know what. 654 00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 1: Every listeners getting one too? Oh wow, just hit out 655 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: the cmas. Do they replace ones or can that break? 656 00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Stop it? I don't think so. They're 657 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,320 Speaker 1: they're glass y'all. This is our Yeah, they're really nice. 658 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:51,640 Speaker 1: They're really nice and and you drop it. Okay, we'll 659 00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:56,280 Speaker 1: talk off the air, Okay, I could glue shatter um. 660 00:30:56,560 --> 00:31:00,120 Speaker 1: There's some pieces everywhere, but like the main tube are 661 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: you know, like the when it was right at the 662 00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:06,200 Speaker 1: beginning because it was in the box and I was 663 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: getting out of my car and I broke it. Immediately 664 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: didn't even have a life. It's I've been. It's heart 665 00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: breaking because it happened right when I got out of 666 00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: my and you never told us until until now, because 667 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:16,960 Speaker 1: I pulled it out of the car to the box 668 00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,440 Speaker 1: and then it just slips. No, I pulled it out 669 00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: of the car. I don't know it tumbled out. I'll 670 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,479 Speaker 1: tell you. Probably home it probably did it. And then 671 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:25,160 Speaker 1: I thought, well, it's in this box, so no way 672 00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:27,040 Speaker 1: it broke. And then when I opened it up a 673 00:31:27,120 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 1: cardboard box, of course it cushioned it. I mean something 674 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 1: my kids trying to tell a story and how they 675 00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: broke someone. Anyway, congratulation, we want it. Check out Ashley's 676 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: record and Okay, all that a voicemail from Kelly in Texas. 677 00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:47,120 Speaker 1: I was trying to say, congratulations on your engagement. I 678 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: don't listen to the show as much alive anymore due 679 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:52,440 Speaker 1: to COVID and not driving as much, so I'm still 680 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: listening to it in order, and you just got engaged 681 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 1: in my world, So congrats. Really happy for you and 682 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 1: Caitlin and looking for to seeing what happens with the 683 00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:04,280 Speaker 1: wedding with all the planning. As I listened to the podcast, 684 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 1: from Fall of twenty twenty. Okay, by, wow, pretty cool. 685 00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: Don't tell her what happens. I'm not. I'm not gonna 686 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 1: spoil it. What did you hear this? Months? Months? Months later? 687 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 1: That's true, But it's honestly like watching a TV show 688 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:15,480 Speaker 1: after all your friends have already watched it. You're just 689 00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 1: watching it later. Which there was the number. I can 690 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,760 Speaker 1: call and be like, hey, guys, I'm just watching Umbrella 691 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 1: Academy Season three, how hilarious Episode two, and they'll be like, dude, 692 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 1: we did that like two years ago. All right, there's 693 00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:31,200 Speaker 1: that one. This is Eliana from Delaware. I have a 694 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:35,280 Speaker 1: morning Corney. What did Jack skill to light to listen 695 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: to in the morning? Because Bobby vone show by Yeah. 696 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,680 Speaker 1: I think she wrote that her her parent did. It's 697 00:32:42,680 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 1: an original. All right, that's what's up. You're a Amy's 698 00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:51,400 Speaker 1: pile of stories. What's your earliest memory? Well, I have it, 699 00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 1: don't say birth. Well, I remember this light coming into 700 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: the tunnel. I remember going I was like, what is 701 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:02,040 Speaker 1: that large? I must pursue it. Uh No. I remember 702 00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,360 Speaker 1: being like four or five, and I do remember being 703 00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 1: with my biological father and he had a large pit 704 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 1: bull and I was writing it and I remember that. 705 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:14,360 Speaker 1: And right after that, I remember my fifth birthday where 706 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 1: they said my name on the radio. They said have 707 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: birthday to me. My aunt got me a little radio 708 00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: and said turn the radio on and he was like, 709 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,440 Speaker 1: oh little gibble birthday shot to oh baba, And I 710 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 1: was like, dang, I want to be just like one. 711 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: Why do you ask because a study was done and 712 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 1: a percentage of people they think they can remember things 713 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,200 Speaker 1: from when they were two years old, and a chunk 714 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,360 Speaker 1: of people say they were called taking their first steps 715 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,400 Speaker 1: or speaking their first work. And I say, I think 716 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,280 Speaker 1: people have seen pictures of this, were videos. Yeah, And 717 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:44,480 Speaker 1: then they go oh yeah, and then that's fair. But 718 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:48,200 Speaker 1: I've never met someone who, honestly I can remember anything 719 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,680 Speaker 1: before about three three Yeah. Yeah. For me, I'm a 720 00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:54,600 Speaker 1: solid four and a half first memory guy. But there's 721 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 1: no chance. I do have a buddy that says he 722 00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:58,640 Speaker 1: come came out of the birth can and remembers that. 723 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: They says that that's a liar. All right, what else 724 00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:04,360 Speaker 1: you get? Well? Another study found that there are five 725 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: types of work days, but this could also be if 726 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:13,960 Speaker 1: even if you're not working, you might have there's typical 727 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,480 Speaker 1: which is you know, not too many bumps. You're not 728 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:18,840 Speaker 1: crushing it, but you're also not slacking. Then there's the 729 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,879 Speaker 1: ideal day where you're more productive. Then we get into 730 00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 1: crisis days, disengage days, and then straight up toxic days. 731 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,840 Speaker 1: And luckily the toxic ones are the least amount that 732 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,680 Speaker 1: we have. But that's when it's a really bad day, 733 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: like your boss is being a jerk, you argued with 734 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,719 Speaker 1: the coworker or something just annoying keeps happening over and over. Yeah, 735 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: I kind of a shift between crisis and disengaged. You 736 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 1: don't ever have ideal. It's all ideal. It's all I do. 737 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: Are you talking about? Anytime I comple come up here 738 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: some some evenings when I'm just bored, I come up 739 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:51,440 Speaker 1: into a fake show. That's how much I love it. 740 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 1: I sit here in the dark room and I'm just like, hey, everybody, 741 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:57,960 Speaker 1: and yeah, it's fine. It's fun for me, it's therapy. Yeah. Well, 742 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,960 Speaker 1: when it comes to work for school flats, I don't 743 00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,760 Speaker 1: know if there was more toxic days or what, but Gary, 744 00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:09,360 Speaker 1: what year? Gary Lavox says that they don't really talk anymore. 745 00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,719 Speaker 1: You know, it's nothing, no bad blood. They each wish 746 00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:15,520 Speaker 1: each other the best, but they're not really talking however, 747 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,320 Speaker 1: And Bobby, I know you're friends with Gary, so I 748 00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: don't know if you know any more about this. They 749 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,440 Speaker 1: might eventually hit the road again together for that COVID 750 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 1: Farewell tour they had to do that got canceled, and 751 00:35:25,360 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 1: I feel like if they're not talking, them might be weird. 752 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 1: Well here's what I think. I think that they're probably going. Man, 753 00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:35,440 Speaker 1: this kind of sucks not planning big shows. Obviously, you 754 00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,040 Speaker 1: have an identity there, you're celebrated for that. You're making 755 00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:42,160 Speaker 1: good money. Although I'm sure they're fine financially, but you 756 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: have to miss that. You know, Gary's doing solo stuff. 757 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,800 Speaker 1: Jay to Marcus, bassist and his cousin is running a 758 00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:51,319 Speaker 1: record label. But Jay's still also planning in a band, 759 00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,080 Speaker 1: and Gary's planning solo. I don't know what's up with 760 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,400 Speaker 1: jod On, but yeah, eventually they're gonna go why are 761 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:58,920 Speaker 1: we not playing together? So they're going to at some 762 00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:01,080 Speaker 1: point get back together. And again I haven't been told this. 763 00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,440 Speaker 1: I haven't talked. I talked to her about a week ago. 764 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 1: He asked to get stories car my garage. Okay, but 765 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,960 Speaker 1: not about this, But not about this. Yeah, he's like, 766 00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 1: cut up in my car in your garage for a 767 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 1: little bit. I said, yeah, sure, why not? I said, 768 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,640 Speaker 1: but like three months because we're gonna have some work 769 00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,759 Speaker 1: down in the bronco. And he says, what happens after 770 00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:19,520 Speaker 1: three months? I said, what's on blocks on front of 771 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,279 Speaker 1: the house if you don't come get it? So, but 772 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,040 Speaker 1: maybe I'll ask him next time. Okay, Yeah, I'm Amy. 773 00:36:24,120 --> 00:36:29,799 Speaker 1: That's my pile. That was Amy's pile of stories. It's 774 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:38,680 Speaker 1: time for the good news. Colleen Sands went to UNC Greensboro, 775 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: where she became a nurse. Afterwards, and she started working 776 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:44,320 Speaker 1: at Wake Forest in the cancer department. And after about 777 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 1: ten years, she's like, man, I need to do something 778 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,800 Speaker 1: to celebrate my career in nursing. So she started training 779 00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:51,000 Speaker 1: for an iron Man and she's like, you know what, 780 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,359 Speaker 1: since my ten year anniversary, I'll do an iron Man 781 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,080 Speaker 1: and I'll raise ten thousand dollars for the cancer unit. Well, 782 00:36:57,160 --> 00:36:59,440 Speaker 1: she put up the thing online, raised over twelve thousand 783 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,920 Speaker 1: dollars and ran the iron Man and then she did 784 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 1: the Iron Man. Yeah that's Chris. That's a lot. That's 785 00:37:04,560 --> 00:37:08,799 Speaker 1: the one with the three Yeah, but it's more than 786 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,799 Speaker 1: a triathlon. It's so so I've done trath I'm gonna 787 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:13,560 Speaker 1: talk week first before I get to real man stuff, 788 00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:17,279 Speaker 1: real man, real woman stuff, real woman and stuff. I 789 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,080 Speaker 1: did an triathlon which you start off and you swim 790 00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:22,719 Speaker 1: a mile. So that swim a mile. I had a 791 00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: panic attack, terrible finished it, but I was like, I 792 00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:26,960 Speaker 1: never swim in open water before. I tried to pull 793 00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,960 Speaker 1: only and people will be kicking you in the face. 794 00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,800 Speaker 1: Came mycgoggles off in the face because you're all swimming 795 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: in a big lad. Try to fixt by somebody but 796 00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:35,440 Speaker 1: couldn't see him, so who knew's fighting? Okay? So I 797 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: got out of that, and then I went and I ran. 798 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,160 Speaker 1: I know, I biked twenty five miles. So I got 799 00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:43,640 Speaker 1: on a bike and I road for twenty five miles 800 00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 1: and then I ran six miles. And then you finished, 801 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:47,160 Speaker 1: and you're like, dang, I just did the most crazy 802 00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:50,200 Speaker 1: thing ever. Okay, you think until you're here about the 803 00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:53,359 Speaker 1: Iron Man, which the Iron Man you swim two point 804 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 1: four miles? Oh man, where I did one? Yeah? And 805 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:58,920 Speaker 1: then you bike when where I bike twenty five? They 806 00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:01,440 Speaker 1: bike one hundred and twelve, Oh my goodness. And then 807 00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:03,359 Speaker 1: where I do a six mile run then get ready 808 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 1: to marathon? Crazy? Did know the energy to do that? 809 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,000 Speaker 1: You do? How do you train? That's all of it. 810 00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:10,759 Speaker 1: And that's why they do the running at the end, 811 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: right because I mean, you're all they do the swimming 812 00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,399 Speaker 1: first so you don't drown or die and you you're 813 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,040 Speaker 1: not going to be on a bike when you're exhausted too, 814 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 1: you can wreck that. I'd rather be on a bike. 815 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:20,440 Speaker 1: They gonna be on a bike at the NFL. Really, 816 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:21,880 Speaker 1: I'd rather be on a bike because I just I 817 00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: just coast coast hill. Yeah, that's an awesome story. Good 818 00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: job to her. That's what it's all about. That was 819 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:32,560 Speaker 1: tell me something good.