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Speaker 1: just a quick update for local slibos. We are currently

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Speaker 1: reading Fiona and Jane by Gene chen Ho, and we

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Speaker 1: meet the last Sunday of every month to discuss You

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Speaker 1: all the smart women talking. It's so much fun, it's

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Speaker 1: so cute. It's a good wholesome way to spend your sunday.

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Speaker 1: Al right, better than Missa in my opinion. So so

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Speaker 1: local Underscore Productions. Okay, let me just say that I

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Speaker 1: love it because it's like the anti Missa with a

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Speaker 1: Bible of a different kind. Yes it is, Yes it is.

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Speaker 1: We are reading text literature, literature UM by more than

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Speaker 1: Love it revolutionary and um also like a very large

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Speaker 1: look at Multiverse News. We had our first local podcast

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Speaker 1: It's also good to cry regularly. It's not a meeting

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Speaker 1: if you're doing it with somebody, it's true words to

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Speaker 1: in the morning, and then the next day I was like,

426
00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:45,640
Speaker 1: I have to leave early because I have a long

427
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 1: run the next day. Like when did that happen? Still hot,

428
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: though always hot, always hot, always hot, Now just more

429
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: tired and sleepy, more sleepy. Yeah, it happens so real,

430
00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:00,199
Speaker 1: so real, And you know, it's just kind of like

431
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: we're working a lot and have a lot going on

432
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: and more and more. I would rather be like working

433
00:27:07,560 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: on my ship than like seeking I don't even seek

434
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: out parties anymore, Like I used to seek out parties

435
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:17,639
Speaker 1: all the time. Yeah, any more, I would rather be

436
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 1: on my little sucking computer at home, or going to

437
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 1: like one of our friends events, are going to an

438
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,520
Speaker 1: open mic or whatever I was going to say. Now

439
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: more and more, like I really enjoy like grabbing a

440
00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: drink with a friend, going to a brewery, getting a cocktail,

441
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: getting dinner, as opposed to like being with a bunch

442
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 1: of people that I don't know at a party, you know,

443
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: at a club. It's just not as a feeling to me. Also,

444
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: I think like the pandemic has a lot to do

445
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: with that. Like, you know, I used to love to

446
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 1: go out dancing, and now I'm like, you want me

447
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: to be in a room with a bunch of people's

448
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 1: sweating and like breathing on each other. No thanks, and

449
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 1: pay like a twenty dollar entrance or stand in the line,

450
00:27:57,920 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: or like have to get on a guest list or

451
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: like thanks, just deal with it. No, it's the whole affair.

452
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: It's just too much. It's too much. Now, Yeah, I

453
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: guess this is what happens when you get older. I mean,

454
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,800
Speaker 1: come to our parties, though that's different. Parties. Parties are

455
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: our daytime parties. They end early, so if you need

456
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: to be in bed by nine, you can get and

457
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: you can be in bed by night. And that's the

458
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: beauty of the day party. I do love day party. Yes,

459
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: day parties are fun. There's such a vibe you get

460
00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: to wear. You don't have to wear a jacket. I

461
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: hate having to wear a jacket exactly, dealing with the

462
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 1: cold and having the pressure of wearing like night where

463
00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: nightwearve club gear, club gear gear. You know, you can

464
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,680
Speaker 1: legitimately wear jeans and a T shirt two day party

465
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:43,840
Speaker 1: and none of our listeners would wear jeans and a

466
00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:47,080
Speaker 1: T shirt. But you can. We could, and it would

467
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: be fine, and it would be fine. You look so

468
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 1: hot and cute. They would be adorable. Um So, Mom,

469
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: how do you define sad girl? Because I know you've

470
00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,080
Speaker 1: been on your sad girl tip for many years. I

471
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: don't know if you're still in your sad girl era,

472
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 1: but I know for a while always. Yeah, I think

473
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 1: it's I think, you know what, it's like one of

474
00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 1: those things where it's like the way that we can

475
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: apply some type of like discursive socio political lean to

476
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: being a bimbo. We could probably do the same thing

477
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 1: with being a sad girl. Absolutely, let's take it there. Absolutely.

478
00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, listen, we're sad about the patriarchy, structural

479
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: institutionalized racism, um, the pandemic death violence, all these things,

480
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: being poor, having no money, like negotiating contract negotiating contracts,

481
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: people trying you, people street harassing you. There's so many

482
00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:54,720
Speaker 1: reasons to finding gray hairs, finding gray hairs, so many

483
00:29:54,760 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: reasons to be sad, to be angry? How sad? Why

484
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:06,320
Speaker 1: be happy? Perpetual statigal of things? You know, it's actually

485
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:11,959
Speaker 1: I think a very sophisticated political like outlook on life.

486
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: Like it's a type of pessimism rooted in anti capitalism,

487
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,560
Speaker 1: which I'm sad ship sugs put that on a T shirt.

488
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: Well that you heard it? Your girls, sad girls are

489
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 1: anti capitalists, which is you heard it here? First, allow

490
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: me my pessimism. It's fine. What is there to look

491
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:38,640
Speaker 1: forward to? We're gonna talk. You know, what what do

492
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:44,640
Speaker 1: they look forward to besides our next episode of this podcast?

493
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: You know, I'm dead. So were you ever called a chiona?

494
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,880
Speaker 1: Growing up? Did you cry a lot? Do you cry

495
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:57,160
Speaker 1: a lot? Now? You know? Crying not so much? I think,

496
00:30:57,240 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: like I actually have a my I have a cousin

497
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:06,000
Speaker 1: in who her nickname is Chona, which is uh, like

498
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: um uh, it's like derived from chiona because that was

499
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 1: her nickname growing up. She was Chiona Chiona chiona, so

500
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 1: then everybody just called her Chona chona the chiona, you know.

501
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: So I didn't have anything like that, but I think

502
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: that what I have always been known for is being

503
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:30,840
Speaker 1: like a little bit impatient and having the tendency to

504
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: disappear and withdraw. So that's my sad girl. Like, um,

505
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: that's how it expresses itself, is like going into hiding

506
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:46,880
Speaker 1: and then crying and then crying private privately. How about you?

507
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: How are you? How does it express itself? Um? Okay,

508
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 1: So I am not a I'm a little bit of

509
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: a chiona chiona light. Um. I cry light is also

510
00:31:57,360 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: cute chion light. Um. I would say I'm more of

511
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: like an in ahona than like a chi on it.

512
00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,120
Speaker 1: And I've been called in an ahuana my whole life,

513
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:08,600
Speaker 1: and I think we both are. Yeah, And I'm just

514
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 1: like I'm very sensitive, Like you know, I'm a sensitive

515
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 1: person and so if you say something that makes me mad,

516
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: or if you say it in a tone I don't like,

517
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get mad. And so I've definitely been called

518
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:23,640
Speaker 1: an anohona my entire life, probably since I was a kid,

519
00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:26,000
Speaker 1: you know, and I used to fight it. And then

520
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: when we were prepping for this episode, I was like,

521
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: you know what, no, I am an inohona. I have

522
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 1: a lot to be mad about, and and when I'm

523
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,280
Speaker 1: sad or anxious, my tendency is to like get very irritated.

524
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:43,440
Speaker 1: I'm very irritable, and so I start to recognize in me, like, okay,

525
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: I'm starting to get irritated and it has nothing to

526
00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: do with other people. It's my anxiety. So I got

527
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 1: to like sort through this separately, um, so that I'm

528
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: not being a bit to everybody else. Very important self

529
00:32:56,280 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 1: realization the other thing that I realized with that, And

530
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 1: I think we should incorporate an ohana as a as

531
00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 1: a word more in our ship. I see merge anyways,

532
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: let's do it merge. Um. It's like, okay, I think

533
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: in our family sometimes it's like a little cluster of

534
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 1: people who are quick to anger and like raise voices

535
00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: and like you know, talk over each other and like fight.

536
00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: But then you go out into the real world and

537
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: you meet other people, and then you realize, oh, not

538
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: everybody responds well to that, and you can't communicate that

539
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: way with people. This is how people get into fights,

540
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:39,400
Speaker 1: you know. In your house it's like okay, we can

541
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: like get mad at each other and know at each

542
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,360
Speaker 1: other and like whatever, it's fine. It's not fine, but

543
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 1: it's fine, you know, And it's not fine because then

544
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: you grow up behaving that way, and then you got

545
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: into the world and then you're like, oh, I can't

546
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,719
Speaker 1: bring this out here. I gotta be cool, you know.

547
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's about like understanding oneself and

548
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: like how I try now to like apply that energy

549
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: in other directions and in other ways, you know, because

550
00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: the energy is there, but where can I put it?

551
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: I'll go on a rant on my podcast instead? Right,

552
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 1: there's like productive ways to deal with it now. I

553
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: think to something that like I was definitely like the

554
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:23,879
Speaker 1: little like like I have Feminista of the family where

555
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 1: it was like everything like I had to like to

556
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: break down everything for everybody, you know, and that's like

557
00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: annoying to be and also annoying to be around. You know.

558
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: We can see this. Yeah, that was definitely early twenties me,

559
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,080
Speaker 1: you know, fresh out of college, like you got you

560
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: got to like teach everybody everything that you learned, and

561
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: now I'm just like you. No, I'm going to meet

562
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:49,680
Speaker 1: people where they're at and like we don't have to

563
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: break everything down for them. Obviously, there's like some things

564
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: like no, like you don't accept like racism, right, we're

565
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: not we're not standing for that. But you know there's

566
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:00,440
Speaker 1: some things where it's like, yeah, you know, I'm going

567
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 1: to let this go because I got to protect my

568
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:06,000
Speaker 1: own energy and my own ship. And also I don't

569
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,160
Speaker 1: have time. You know, we're we're bimbos. We're we're in

570
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: our bimbo era. We're just here divide. We're just here

571
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:13,319
Speaker 1: to vie. If you're if you're if you don't want

572
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: to learn from me, if you don't want to if

573
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: you don't want to learn from others, like, I'm not

574
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: going to teach you anything. So you know, you know,

575
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,719
Speaker 1: we're not trying to fight. We're not trying to We're

576
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: trying to chill. I'm done fighting. I'm very much done

577
00:35:26,760 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: fighting with people that don't want to learn, you know,

578
00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 1: or be better. It's just I'm going to conserve that

579
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,840
Speaker 1: part of myself. Is how I feel. I think about

580
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: this too, when we're in college, when we're in school,

581
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,480
Speaker 1: we spent twenty two years of our lives straight in

582
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: school basically from like kindergarten undergrad that's like twenty two

583
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:52,440
Speaker 1: years of life. And we're used to learning coming in

584
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 1: the format of some of of dialogue and lecture and

585
00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 1: like speaking to people about things and teaching people through language.

586
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: But then you leave school and you realize there's literally

587
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 1: a million other ways to apply your knowledge other than

588
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,919
Speaker 1: talking to people about it or lecturing people like that

589
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: knowledge can be utilized and disseminated in other formats, but

590
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: we're just so used to that from so many years

591
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 1: of conditioning. So for me, it's been about like, Okay,

592
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: I can know something, I literally can do so many

593
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 1: things with that knowledge other than debating someone or teaching someone.

594
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: I could like go do a research project. I can

595
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 1: make a podcast, I can write an article, like I

596
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 1: can you know, there's I could put an exhibition together

597
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:45,839
Speaker 1: and it's still putting the knowledge to use. But when

598
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:50,680
Speaker 1: you're straight out of school, you don't have that experience yet. Yeah,

599
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 1: Like I'm not someone that likes to consume like debates,

600
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: like you know, there are podcasts or like they put

601
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: or even like videos or show those where they like

602
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 1: put to contrasting ideas or viewpoints like together, and it's

603
00:37:04,920 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: like doma fight. I don't like that, you know, and

604
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 1: that's not something I like to consume, which is why

605
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: I think like here for the podcast, like you're going

606
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: to hear people that are in line or are aligned

607
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 1: with what we believe in and what we support and

608
00:37:18,000 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: what we know our listeners like to because that kind

609
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: of like to me like oh my god, like that

610
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 1: must that would make my head hurt, Like do you remember, mama.

611
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,839
Speaker 1: We never shared this publicly, but we were invited to

612
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 1: be on that very conservative talk show, Yes with that

613
00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 1: guy who interviewed that model at SLT walk and he's like,

614
00:37:38,640 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: why are you a slut? Yeah? Yeah, that guy. That

615
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,759
Speaker 1: guy emailed us. They emailed us, and we were like

616
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: gonna do it. We were like sure, yeah, let's do it.

617
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: Why not? And then we did some more digging and

618
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,040
Speaker 1: we were like, oh no, like I'm not I'm not

619
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 1: taking time off of work to go and be rated

620
00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 1: by someone that's going to call me a slut, like

621
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 1: in a negative way. Yeah, And you know, it's it's

622
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: the type of thing where there's a very disingenuous like

623
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:11,879
Speaker 1: call for discourse out there. When you know that a podcast,

624
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: in many ways a show is scripted. He's not going

625
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 1: a podcast host, a TV host, especially if they're conservative,

626
00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 1: a conservative brow, what have you. They go in there

627
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 1: with an outline, with the script, with a plan of

628
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: the way that the show is going to start and

629
00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 1: how it's going to end. They are not going in

630
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: open minded and free balling and let's see what I

631
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:39,759
Speaker 1: learned and find out from this person. There's no dialogue

632
00:38:39,840 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 1: taking place. It's a scripted show and they're gonna say

633
00:38:42,880 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: what they're gonna say, no matter what we say as guests.

634
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,520
Speaker 1: And I think that's really important for us to remember

635
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:55,040
Speaker 1: as media consumers because we make media. And sure there

636
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:59,120
Speaker 1: are chat casts out there, and maybe they're not as

637
00:39:00,280 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: organized and researched and well written as we are, but

638
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: they have a direction, they have a flow, they have

639
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,320
Speaker 1: a format, they know what they're going to be saying

640
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: on the show that day. You know. So I think

641
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: it's just like very disingenuous, this whole like just free

642
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,359
Speaker 1: thought and we're dialogue and we're learning. You're not. You're

643
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: putting together a pre planned and produced show. And that's fine, right,

644
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, so that's why we didn't go on, because

645
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: there's no learning to happen. No, and that person that

646
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 1: that the producer that emailed us, like didn't they knew

647
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 1: what they wanted to get out of us, right, and

648
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: like at first and we're like, sure, cool, this is

649
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: a cool op, Like why not? And then it's like

650
00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: you factor in. I gotta drive there, I gotta take

651
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: time off of work. I gotta get my hair and

652
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 1: makeup done, I gotta pick an outfit. I got all

653
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,360
Speaker 1: the mental energy that also goes into all of that

654
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: pre planning to then go and probably not get paid

655
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:54,359
Speaker 1: and then you know, be verrated by someone. No thanks, yeah,

656
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 1: and to that like that that that theater, it's a theater.

657
00:39:57,640 --> 00:40:00,839
Speaker 1: It's theater. It's a show. It's a show and very

658
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,359
Speaker 1: much a circus and like there's no way for us

659
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,640
Speaker 1: to look good and it's no way for us to

660
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,200
Speaker 1: feel good or enjoy it. And it's not something we

661
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: would even want to share with our audience. Now, you know,

662
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: I know when something is bad for me. I like,

663
00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: I have it. I have an Apple Watch, right, and

664
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,440
Speaker 1: my Apple Watch will tell me when my heart rate

665
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: is going up. And so there was this time that

666
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 1: I got into an argument with my dad and I

667
00:40:28,960 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 1: could see my heart rate was like progressively like getting

668
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:33,920
Speaker 1: higher and higher and higher, and I had to like

669
00:40:34,320 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: exit and like go walk, Like I had to go

670
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,760
Speaker 1: outside and just like take a walk with my dogs

671
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: because I was like, I need to bring my heart

672
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 1: rate down, Like there's no reason that I should be

673
00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: feeling like all this stress and anxiety, you know. But

674
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:49,800
Speaker 1: like some people like really put you at that level,

675
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,439
Speaker 1: you know, and sometimes it's avoidable and sometimes it's not right.

676
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: And so if I can choose to avoid and not

677
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: engage with it, I'm going to choose to not engage

678
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: with it. Truly. Um, that's a real thing. And look,

679
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 1: there's plenty of outreach content and click bait. It's its

680
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:12,880
Speaker 1: own genre, it's its own economy, and there's an ecosystem

681
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:16,440
Speaker 1: when it comes to content, Like people make stuff, people

682
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: consume it, people critique it, people right about it. It

683
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:23,919
Speaker 1: kind of doesn't necessarily matter what the thing is. If

684
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: it's out there, someone's going to consume it, someone's going

685
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: to engage with it. You know. It's just the life

686
00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 1: cycle of content on the Internet. You know, It's just

687
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,879
Speaker 1: it is what it is. So we're just like really

688
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: choosing to opt out. There's so much out there. We

689
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: don't have to do stuff that we don't feel an

690
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: alignment with. You know, there's so many other options. And

691
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: I think that's part of like being more seasoned and

692
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: like mature, is like before there, you we felt a

693
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: lot of pressure to do so many things, and now

694
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 1: it's like, Okay, we're going to do what we want

695
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: to do because we've I think at this point we've

696
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 1: paid our dudes, right, Oh yeah, we're in debt from

697
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:07,200
Speaker 1: our dues or yes, yes, anyway, So moving back to

698
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: the sad Girl, you know, I went thinking about this episode.

699
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:15,360
Speaker 1: I was also thinking about, like, sure a lot of

700
00:42:15,400 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 1: us are sad girls, but like how many of us

701
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:22,520
Speaker 1: were like set up and raised to be sad girls?

702
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:28,280
Speaker 1: The music and the novellas, you know that like probably

703
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,040
Speaker 1: a lot of us grew up listening to. I know

704
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 1: as a kid, one of the first songs I ever

705
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:36,400
Speaker 1: sang there's like videos of me, like home videos of

706
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:44,280
Speaker 1: me was Anna, which is such a dramatic song, so dramatic.

707
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 1: I was like four years old singing it, right, so

708
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 1: like I was singing about heartbreak. You know, I was

709
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: raised to be a sad girl, is what I'm gathering.

710
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: I think that that's very real. I also just think

711
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 1: about like how funny my grandma is, and even growing

712
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 1: up very you know, there's just Senora soon is gonna

713
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:11,799
Speaker 1: be so dramatic, the drama so dramatic, And I think

714
00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: it's one of those things where you know that Debbie

715
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 1: Downer skit on SNL. Sometimes a Senora can have this

716
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: tendency to like, even in the most joyful moments, just

717
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: make a statement and drop a line that's just like,

718
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: why would you say that we were having such a

719
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 1: good time? You know. So I feel like I have

720
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:42,400
Speaker 1: just that's in my personality too, because that's that's my

721
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: genetics and my family and my people. And I think, um,

722
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 1: it's also where a lot of my comedy comes from.

723
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: Is just that kind of dark place, um, and it

724
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: can be really funny, you know. So I think I'm

725
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 1: that type of a sad girl too, that it's like, oh,

726
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:03,280
Speaker 1: most comics like are twisted and sad on the inside.

727
00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: I think I'm that kind of a sad girl. Yeah,

728
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:09,879
Speaker 1: I think like that maccabre morbid humor. I think it's

729
00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: very common in Latin X homes families. I know my

730
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 1: mom is always saying the wildest ship and same like

731
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 1: beautiful moments, fun times, boom sad. You know why I had,

732
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 1: like Lisa, you know, my mom is constantly like you know,

733
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:29,920
Speaker 1: when a song plays, She's like, oh, this is a

734
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: song I want played at my funeral, Like, oh my

735
00:44:32,080 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: fing what we love talking about my mother. I love

736
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 1: talking about their funerals. Your mom talked to me about

737
00:44:40,360 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: her funeral, say, at the party right at our podcast

738
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: party probably, but before then too, when we were going

739
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,800
Speaker 1: to La you were still getting ready, she was telling

740
00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: me about her funeral, and I was like, oh my god,

741
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: this is my mom. Also again on our way to

742
00:44:55,680 --> 00:45:00,160
Speaker 1: like a lovely premier party for a joyous occasion, and

743
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: here she is talking about her her death, her funeral,

744
00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: her will, all these things. Yeah, And I'm like, you know,

745
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 1: and I wasn't even it didn't even take me by

746
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: surprise because I'm like, yeah, my mom and I talked

747
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 1: like this too, so like, yeah, this is just a

748
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: part of being having having a Latina mom. That's what

749
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 1: it is. So that's why we're perpetually chea on us.

750
00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:24,480
Speaker 1: And you know it's again, if we really want to

751
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: do a deep read. It's like we're just we have

752
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 1: a very um, casual, intimate, Cotidian relationship with death. True,

753
00:45:35,480 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: it's true. They bring it up whenever because it's not

754
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: a scary thing. It's just let's like say, oh my

755
00:45:41,040 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 1: king set my funeral. Yeah no, And it's true. And

756
00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: I think, like, um, this has been said before, but

757
00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 1: like Latinos Latino X people have a very different relationship

758
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:56,560
Speaker 1: with death than white people do, or like US Americans do,

759
00:45:57,200 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 1: where it's like a morning period of morning where troll.

760
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 1: For us, it's very joyous. You celebrate, it's vibrant, you know.

761
00:46:05,920 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 1: When my grandfather died, we had it that ghetto like

762
00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:11,880
Speaker 1: and everyone came to my house afterwards was a funeral,

763
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 1: really sad, absolutely, but afterwards it's like most of these

764
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,439
Speaker 1: people hadn't been in the same room for over ten

765
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 1: years and there was a that ghetto and people were

766
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:24,279
Speaker 1: like not happy obviously, but it's like you're in that

767
00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 1: moment of togetherness, you know. And so we very much

768
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:33,760
Speaker 1: celebrate um life and death very differently than other white people.

769
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,839
Speaker 1: I went to a family funeral recently. We went up

770
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 1: north to Silinas, and what I loved this The woman

771
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: who died. Is my the last like matriarch that was

772
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,960
Speaker 1: older than my grandma here in California. So now my

773
00:46:50,000 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: grandma's the oldest she was, she's my grandma. And so

774
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: they had all their dogs there. They were like four

775
00:46:56,239 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: dogs at the burial site. They're carrying their dogs because

776
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: she loved her dogs. I love that. It was so cute. Also,

777
00:47:04,080 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: when you texted me, you were like, oh, I'm going

778
00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,759
Speaker 1: to a funeral that day, and I was like, oh

779
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 1: my god, I'm so sorry, and you were like, it's fine.

780
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:17,479
Speaker 1: She lived a very long life. She really did. Okay, Yeah,

781
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: it's true. It's true. She was like a hundred, she

782
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: was like something. And that was the general. Of course,

783
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 1: there were there were tears, of course, people were sad, yes, um,

784
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: But the general mood and feeling and kind of consensus

785
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 1: was like, she lived a great life and she lived

786
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,879
Speaker 1: a long time, and she had her dogs and all

787
00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: her kids, and it was a very happy you know,

788
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 1: um homegoing send off home. Yes. I love that. Yeah. Yeah.

789
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 1: So well, we've really covered it all here today. We

790
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 1: really have. I don't know, I don't know if we've

791
00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:00,440
Speaker 1: talked about funerals before, but here here, y'all, oh here

792
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: it is. Yeah, yeah, it's true. I mean, you know,

793
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,240
Speaker 1: I think sometimes like things come up in our daily

794
00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:08,400
Speaker 1: lives and we don't even realize like, oh, this is

795
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:11,359
Speaker 1: something we can talk about on the podcast. Totally. I'm

796
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: going to plug something that's really really important that I

797
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:17,279
Speaker 1: promise a lot of people. Don't have your parents, your

798
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 1: loved ones. You probably need a living trust. My mom

799
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,680
Speaker 1: just did that. We just did one recently, and you

800
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:29,439
Speaker 1: need it. It's an important document to have. UM. It's

801
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: basically like a living will and testament, and so you know,

802
00:48:33,040 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: whomever you is making it gets to UM basically distribute

803
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: all their assets the way that they want to and

804
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,959
Speaker 1: you have to do with the lawyer. It's a little pricey,

805
00:48:42,000 --> 00:48:44,840
Speaker 1: but I promise you it's so important, especially if your family,

806
00:48:45,400 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: your parents, your loved ones are homeowners or have assets,

807
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:52,360
Speaker 1: have property, have stocks, you know, have jewelry, have jewelry,

808
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: you know, money in their bank account. Yes, so very important.

809
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 1: Look into it. Get it. I promise you. If you

810
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 1: don't do it, you will regret it. Because when my

811
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:07,720
Speaker 1: parents had COVID, all I could think about was holy

812
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 1: sh it, we didn't do this. Luckily, everyone got recovered

813
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: and was healthy and then we were able to go

814
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:15,360
Speaker 1: and do it. But like I promise you, that's like

815
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,280
Speaker 1: one thing you're going to think about if something happens

816
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:20,800
Speaker 1: to a family member is like, oh, ship, I should

817
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,440
Speaker 1: have done this, I should have done that, so do

818
00:49:22,480 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 1: it important. And you know people are still dropping like flies.

819
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's true. We're still in the pandemic. People.

820
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 1: People are still dying. Um, and you know if you

821
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 1: have siblings laughs. But also it's this too, it's this too.

822
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 1: My mom also loves talking about like in like family friends,

823
00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 1: when um, the matriarch or patriarch dies and then all

824
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,280
Speaker 1: the siblings suddenly don't know how to act and behave

825
00:49:55,320 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: horribly and mismanage all the assets. So you may think

826
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: you're cool with your siblings, but let a relative die

827
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:05,160
Speaker 1: and then watch chaos and sue. So it's true. I've

828
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 1: seen so many terrible things happen in families because the matriarch,

829
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 1: the head of house dies and then the siblings, like

830
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,799
Speaker 1: you said, don't know how to act. Get a will,

831
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,240
Speaker 1: get a truss, get a living trust. You'll regret it.

832
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 1: It's true. It's true. You've heard it here. That would

833
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: also be its own like probably really terrible but really

834
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 1: interesting podcasts where it's like people talk about their like

835
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: living not starting, not let me trust their like probate

836
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:37,759
Speaker 1: horror stories with family because it happens. You're you're all

837
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,879
Speaker 1: love and family until there's money, and like people don't

838
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: know how to act the family home assets whatever. You

839
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: may not think that your family has assets, if your

840
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 1: parents own their house, it's gonna come up. It's going

841
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 1: to be a thing, yeah, you know, and so much

842
00:50:54,080 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 1: money gets lost and time gets lost in probate court,

843
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: you know, and like then you're just letting your government

844
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Speaker 1: tax things and we don't want to give them the

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Speaker 1: government more money, No, the government. Yeah. And also like

846
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes someone dies and like families go and

847
00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: life start taking things, you know, they start taking items.

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Speaker 1: I've like definitely experienced that before, and it's like hold on,

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Speaker 1: like there hasn't even been a funeral yet, and like

850
00:51:21,680 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: you're already over here sorting through things, like have some

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00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 1: more respect, oh yeah, and not only that, like is

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00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: there a caretaker before this person dies. We had a

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00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: situation with a relative who wasn't a blood relative relative

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00:51:41,280 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: um and didn't have any children, and after her husband died,

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00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: she lived alone, but she had a caretaker, and that caretaker,

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00:51:50,480 --> 00:51:56,240
Speaker 1: little by little just kind of took over bank accounts, jewelry,

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00:51:56,600 --> 00:52:01,279
Speaker 1: closed the apartment and it was very like sneaky over

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Speaker 1: the course of years. So by the time this this

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Speaker 1: relative died, it was already she had already entangled herself

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00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: in in all of this senoras affairs. And it was

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00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: crazy because nobody had thought two look and see if

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00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:25,880
Speaker 1: this woman was basically stealing from her. That wasn't crossing

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00:52:25,880 --> 00:52:30,479
Speaker 1: anyone's minds um. And then when the death happened and

864
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,839
Speaker 1: all this people started to ask about the will and

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00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: the stuff, then all these things came out. You know,

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00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 1: the will had been edited while she was still alive,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Um, So just saying, guys,

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Speaker 1: just keep an eye on things. Oh my god, it's

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Speaker 1: a thing that happens. It really is. And that's something

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00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: we don't talk about either. There has there's so many,

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00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:58,719
Speaker 1: so much family drama, like because of things that I think, like,

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00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 1: even if it makes you family members unhappy that there's

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00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,719
Speaker 1: a living trust or a will or what have you, like,

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00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:07,759
Speaker 1: you gotta do it, you know, try to do it

875
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: to outline what you want to happen to yourself and

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00:53:13,239 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: to your stuff and how things are going to work.

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00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:17,879
Speaker 1: You have to give people a plan or people will

878
00:53:18,120 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: just freak out. We'll do what they want. Trust your family.

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00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:32,960
Speaker 1: You heard it here first, like my father does. Trust nobody,

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00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:42,879
Speaker 1: Trust nobody. The call is coming from in the house anyways, Um,

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Speaker 1: what else are we talking about this episode? As if

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Speaker 1: that's not enough, I think we can everything we got.

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Speaker 1: We covered everything we did Girls as a as a

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Speaker 1: socio political stance and capitalist stance. Parties. Parties are dead

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00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:04,400
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Speaker 1: tuning into another cup of local radio. This one was

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